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Have a conversation with her first before asking for her number. She'll likely reject you if you don't build rapport. It also shows that you are genuinely interested in her if you talk to her first as opposed to just getting her number.
/r/seduction13/09/18 12:50 AM
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It's true, when you tell stories to girls and when you're humorous, they will want to keep listening to you. It's also important to note that some girls will ONLY date a good looking guy, a white guy (particularly with asian and mexican girls), a rich guy(lots of girls from Miami South Beach) and I used to think that I could attract every single girl. There are some girls who just straight up reject you no matter what because they just don't like you. It's wasn't good to have an expectation like…
/r/seduction09/09/18 03:46 AM
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Dance with them for a little bit and move them out of the dance floor to grab a drink. You could tell them, "You seem pretty cool, come grab a drink with me". Then, put your hand out, make eye contact, grab their hand, and lead them. All girls love a guy who takes the lead, so they will comply.
/r/seduction09/09/18 02:49 AM
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I would first look into places like your local college or library. They often don't go to bars and nightclubs because the energy is too overwhelming for them. Those are the two places I've met them. It's a bit tough finding those types of girls because they often stay in their house, but the majority of them do go to college.
/r/seduction08/09/18 01:31 PM
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I would recommend going to community colleges for cold approaches. You will get more results in the short term than Universities. That's because many people don't have social circles already set. If they do have a social circle, it's usually open as opposed to some universities around the US. Universities such as SDSU, ASU, and other universities with a vibrant greek life have very tight social circles and I wouldn't recommend going to them if you're not a student there.
/r/seduction08/09/18 04:20 AM
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Dude, the guy was obviously envious. You did absolutely nothing wrong. Just because a guy is good looking does not mean he can talk to a girl, attract her, and ask her out. Most good looking guys get initial attraction, but they can't move it forward. What you should have done was stood up for yourself. The reason why the female worker agreed is because you reacted to him. He's only acting like an alpha because he has the title of a Manager, which doesn't mean shit. Don't let these f**ktards pus…
/r/seduction08/09/18 04:13 AM
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Of course they matter. It's a matter of how much do they matter.
/r/seduction08/09/18 04:05 AM
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Own it. You don't have to be a professional dancer. Just learn some simple moves and go with it. What matters most is how comfortable you are.
/r/seduction08/09/18 04:04 AM
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The best way to get rid of the fear with girls is to go out a lot and talk to many girls. Over time, you realize that it's just not a big deal. Me saying that won't have as much of an impact as you experiencing it. I don't believe there is any way around that. When any guy starts out talking to girls, there's going to be more fear and more failure because they're not good at flirting, holding a conversation, and taking. As you practice more, you'll get better and better if you keep learning from…
/r/seduction27/08/18 02:46 AM
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Thank you all for watching. Glad you enjoyed it. 👍
/r/seduction21/08/18 05:28 AM
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Don't worry about it so much. Go out there, try new things. You'll learn more about yourself over time. And don't get into the loop of negativity. Go out there, improve your social skills, no matter what. You will get rejected by some people and you will be accepted by some people. That's just how things are in life. I used to be in the same situation as you until I decided to accept reality, accept who I am and continue to improve my social skills and not try to get people's approval. If you do…
/r/seduction22/04/18 11:17 AM
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It really depends on the girl and the kind of environment you're in. At night, if there are many guys approaching a hot girl on a particular night, she will start to get weirded out by approaching head on because that's what 99% of guys do. At that night, if a guy is starting a conversation over the shoulder and he's talking with authority and a booming voice, he will automatically stand out. Other factors come into play though after the initial approach, such as your vibe. That's more important…
/r/seduction28/03/18 11:18 PM
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It means they're not interested in you. There is some missing information like how long your interactions are and you may be teasing too much, not building enough comfort, not physically escalating. Here are a few tips: Aim for a longer interaction - A 5 minute interaction will not make for a solid number, unless you meet a party girl who just down. I would say aim for at least 15 minutes. You need to build a connection with a girl. Don't overtease - I used to do this often when I started. Try t…
/r/seduction20/03/18 07:08 AM
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Don't overthink it. Have fun chatting and just make the moves. The key is really to not doubt yourself when doing anything.
/r/seduction18/03/18 07:12 AM
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I've dealt with very loud places for a long time while going to Hakkasan in Las Vegas. It's probably the loudest club in the world (not even joking) and I went there often because it had the best looking girls in Las Vegas and you're probably experiencing the same thing. I refused not to get used to it. Here are a few tips: Get close from the get go - If you're in a loud environment, it's going to be very hard for the girl to hear you and if she doesn't, she will just leave. They can't stand. So…
/r/seduction17/03/18 06:05 AM
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You can use push pull by saying things like "You're cool, kinda" or "I like you, a little bit". Or you could say things "You seem cool, but I'm not sure about you yet". Girls use these all the time. Add words like "kinda" or "a little bit" and they will not feel like they completely got you, which is the purpose of it all. You stay challenging, which girls love.
/r/seduction14/03/18 07:40 AM
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Don't aim for the number. If you're out at night, people are out to have fun, drink, and socialize. Aim to have a good conversation with the girls you speak to. Also, you must be physical with the girls. Physicality is very important. Without it, girls will often say they don't feel "it". Every single guy who gets girls to go out with him, is physical and is not afraid to show his sexual side. So, increase the time you talk with the girls you're speaking to and move things forward. The number is…
/r/seduction13/03/18 10:51 PM
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Approach any girl you're attracted to and vibe with her. You'll never know who you'll hit it off with. You will get rejected more, but some girls who I hit it off with in the past didn't even glance at me. A lot of girls are very self conscious while they're outside so looking for body language signs is often misleading.
/r/seduction13/03/18 09:31 PM
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On tinder, just start with a "Hi" and see if they respond. They will usually answer back with a "Hey, how's it going?". Even profile observations do work also, but it's best to test the waters to get the girls to invest. Try to have good images. No selfies. Put images of yourself having fun and doing some activities. If you're not getting responses from tinder and you have great images, don't use tinder. It will be a waste of time. Girls on tinder tend to be more superficial than girls you meet …
/r/seduction13/03/18 01:00 AM
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Taking action towards what you want in life will raise your self esteem like no other things. Also, push yourself when you are in social situations. You are already aware that you're not assertive, which is really good. Now, you just need to push yourself and be assertive whenever you are in social situations. Don't be afraid to fail. If you're not naturally assertive, it will be uncomfortable the first few times. Keep repeating and it will become a habit and you will forget that you were ever n…
/r/seduction12/03/18 02:42 AM
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I think it's probably too late. Girls usually give a small window of opportunity before they are completely disinterested. Then they pull back and become aloof. If she's aloof, then she's not interested anymore. It's probably best to move on and learn from this girl and make sure not to make the same mistake on the next girl. Even though it's likely that it will not come of anything, you probably should try anyways. Just meet more girls and see where it goes. Learn not to overthink stuff. That's…
/r/seduction10/03/18 07:58 AM
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That's normal. Girls are always flattered when they get approached, but that doesn't mean they're interested. Here are some signs to look for to see if girls are interested: She tries to hold the conversation with you She calls you funny or laughs at your jokes even if they're not funny She plays with her hair She asks you questions about you
/r/seduction07/03/18 04:02 AM
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It's best not to draw confidence from a girl's approval or them liking you. Your opinion of yourself should be more important the girl's opinion of you. My suggestion would be to keep working on your social skills and realize that opinion of girls doesn't matter. You will find girls that like you as long as you maintain a positive attitude and continue to improve your style and social skills. And don't use tinder. I get almost no matches on tinder and when I do, they're usually fake, with the ex…
/r/seduction07/03/18 01:49 AM
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You're probably not used to them. Just start talking to people from the get go. Don't analyze how many hot girls there are or think about how loud the music is. The best way to get into the social mood is to just start talking to people there. After you do this for a couple of days, you will become comfortable in the clubs. One thing to keep in mind that's very crucial is not to let the rejection of girls affect you at all. There's going to be lots of rejections and that's part of approaching gi…
/r/seduction06/03/18 10:36 AM
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Generally, you have to get the group to like you by interacting with them a little bit. After you interact with the girl you like and you've made friends with the group, there usually isn't a problem with asking the girl out, but the best way to increase your chances of seeing the girl again is if you invite the whole group to do something fun that same day. You will have to isolate the girl at one point if you choose this route, but it will be much easier now since you invited the whole group f…
/r/seduction06/03/18 12:45 AM
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I agree and it's good to push yourself into uncomfortable situations, even though it's difficult to put yourself in those situations because it saves time by learning from them. Every time I've put myself in uncomfortable situations, I've always had moments of pain and bounced back. Over time, you just feel numb to them and you look back and think why it was such a big deal.
/r/seduction05/03/18 12:48 AM
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That's true. It doesn't always work because every girl is different and they all have a blueprint that they usually follow. Some girls date only guys of a certain race, a certain look, or a guy who makes a certain amount of money (especially in NYC and Miami), but generally if the girl is somewhat warm to a guy and that guy offers her drinks immediately or calls her beautiful, he runs the risk of disqualifying himself. It's especially true for a guy who offers girls drinks. The girls know that w…
/r/seduction03/03/18 08:45 PM
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Needy guys make it so much easier to stand out when you're doing your approach. When you have many guys offering drinks and calling them beautiful, you stand out just by doing the opposite. This is especially true for the really hot girls because every guy that walks up to them is calling them beautiful or buys them drinks. That automatically disqualifies them because the girl categorizes them as "just another guy".
/r/seduction03/03/18 07:08 PM
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Usually when a girl complements a guy, it means she likes him. She may complement you on your appearance, your style, or your humor. The most common complement girls use to show interest is "You're funny". If she's really bold, she may say even "you're good looking" or "you're cute", but I've only gotten that once. A complement from a girl does usually mean she's interested, but also look at other cues such as her getting close to you, playing with her hair obsessively (very common), or licking …
/r/seduction03/03/18 07:31 AM
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If you are dealing with that, then approaching and interacting with more women will definitely eliminate your thoughts of one girl because you WILL find another girl that you will like. In fact, you will find MANY girls that you will like. I used to be in your shoes. It could also be your location. If your location does not have a consistent stream of attractive girls you see around shopping, eating, walking around, etc., then you should consider moving to a big city. It makes meeting beautiful …
/r/seduction02/03/18 09:05 AM
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If a girl were to sit on my lap, I would immediately take it as a sign of her interest. This is how girls try to turn on a guy they like. A girl will never take it as far as to kiss you, but will show subtle signs of interest, based on how long you've known her for. If she's showing these signs in you recently and you've known her for 4 years, I'd guess that she's either not into her boyfriend anymore and wants to change or she's broken up with her boyfriend and she'd like to date you now. If yo…
/r/seduction02/03/18 04:39 AM
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It doesn't get more obvious than a complement that she likes you. Move things forward. That's the man's role.
/r/seduction02/03/18 04:27 AM
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Here are some tip to make any conversation interesting: Talk about your passions - When you talk about yourself and your passions, you can become very interesting and you will draw her in. Ask her questions about her too to keep her engaged. Be playful - Make jokes that YOU find funny. As long it's not making fun of her. You could make fun of yourself sometimes, just don't overdo it. Be physical - No matter how funny you are or how passionate you are, you're going to have to be touching her. Jus…
/r/seduction02/03/18 03:23 AM
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You're on your way to become much better because you seem very optimistic. Keep it up.
/r/seduction02/03/18 03:10 AM
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