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89

I miss this subreddit and I wish you'd come back!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/23 03:43 PM
13

I really miss fds!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/23 09:57 PM
5

Yeah, I'm just going to wait till it's all done before I decide whether or not to go back to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/22 12:04 AM
36

YouTube honestly annoys me, I can't stand it and I don't know why. As for discord I have no clue what that is same with Instagram and tik tok. I just don't have the patience for all of that! I did recently try Twitter and I wasn't too bad but then Musk bought it out and so I got rid of it. I feel like I'm just too old to learn all this new stuff!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/22 11:45 PM
98

I don't do YouTube or discord. Reddit is the only thing that I do so it is a real bummer that you are no longer here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/22 10:01 PM
48

Thank you, I appreciate that. Probably, it is definitely dehumanizing. The longer I'm away from my ex the more I realize how much I let him control me. I thought I was crazy, he was perfect, everybody loved him so it had to be me, right? Now though he has a new girlfriend and I find myself hoping she is a stone cold bitch so he can't destroy her the way he did me. I find myself worrying about her, I want to message her but I know that she just sees me as the crazy ex. He is so charming and so go…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 05:57 PM
135

I don't know. Maybe? Luckily it doesn't cause much pain during intercourse. It took a little getting used to but I'm very lucky that it didn't make sex horrible for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 06:31 PM
305

Yep, my ex-husband loved telling people that my doctor did that to me and how much he absolutely appreciated it! It was humiliating and awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 05:58 PM
6

I agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 10:37 PM
82

Wow, my ex husband loved strong women. I thought it was a compliment to me but through the years he literally broke me down until I was no longer a strong woman, until I was a crazy woman and then he could easily walk away because I was no longer the strong woman that he wanted. He also didn't like vain women so he would always make me feel uncomfortable if I took too much time to get ready, he would tease me if I wore makeup, even got our children to tell me I look like a clown in it. I could l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 06:35 PM
3

Thank you so much for that link. That was so interesting and I truly appreciate it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 09:23 PM
42

LSD actually does not stay in your spinal fluid. That is completely untrue. I've never seen anything about DMT burning a hole in your brain so if you can link something I would love to read that. There are also a lot of people that smoke weed for their pain and I am one of them. I'm not sloppy and unkempt, I literally would not be able to get anything done in a day without it. I have chronic daily pain that averages an 8 or a 9. Sometimes people need help, crutches are needed to help get through…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 02:01 PM
19

That is completely 100% untrue. I am vegan and I do not have it eating disorder, neither does my ex-husband or anybody else I know for that matter that is vegan. Everybody I know that is vegan is vegan for the animals and the Earth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 01:50 PM
182

Exactly and if you get upset then you just don't have a sense of humor. What's wrong with you? Ugh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 07:24 PM
23

Thank you, I've been trying so hard to forgive myself for the choices I made. I truly appreciate everything that you said. You're right I need to change my thinking! ♥️♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 11:10 PM
65

I wouldn't let my kids see my ex-husband's anger. I would jump in front and take it all on myself, he was a good father, I can't take that away from him but I don't think he would have been as good of a father as he was if I didn't take all of his anger. I made sure that he didn't have any anger to give to our children so they grew up thinking that he was perfect and I was just a crazy lunatic. That was until the end when they saw who he truly was, they were adults but it still traumatized them …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 07:01 PM
6

Thank you, it really was. I don't know that I'll ever be able to trust anybody again after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 05:00 PM
84

I walked in on them, my best friend and my ex-husband during my birthday party while they were shut in the bathroom together making out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 05:46 PM
32

I am getting old I have no clue what the heck a thirst trap is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 10:45 PM
10

I agree, they've helped me as well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 08:02 PM
153

I know she's rich and she has all this money and can go and do whatever she wants but damn the mental manipulation of this is just awful. My ex is doing this to me, he left two and a half years ago and we still are not divorced. We have our final hearing in April and hopefully he doesn't pull any more bullshit because I can't keep going like this. I feel like I'm stuck, I feel like I have absolutely no where to go and I can't move because I'm trapped. Men suck! I guess even if you're rich you ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 09:25 PM
30

Just when you think they can't get any worse they prove us wrong!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 09:30 PM
355

It doesn't bother me, if I am going to be removed from a sub because I found this place then I am perfectly happy never going to that subreddit again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 07:16 PM
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That's the hardest part, she thinks that this is okay. She thinks that this is normal and that she is doing the right thing by standing behind her man and his sick freaking kink. It's disheartening and incredibly gross. I wonder if a lot of it is she just doesn't want to confront the fact that she married a monster so she has to make it okay?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 04:33 PM
43

I did not, how awful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 01:17 AM
20

I agree!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 12:49 AM
48

That is exactly what all the comments are! It was actually very depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 12:48 AM
44

The thing that really bothers me about myself is realizing that I might have gone along with something like this 20 years or so ago. I loved my husband stupidly. I didn't see any of his faults, I thought he was great because he was a wonderful father, sure sometimes he lost his temper and would throw things or back me into a corner or whatever. The longer we were together the worst it got but still he was a good man, I thought. I think I would have allowed it even though I have no attraction to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 12:27 AM
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It's so heartbreaking what some people will allow themselves to be put through. I thought my ex-husband was horrible but man some of these stories just make me weep. I feel sorry for both the wife and the poor girl that's being abused. The wife is I think just as broken. The husband is complete scum and a total monster!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 12:13 AM
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I used to think that poly relationships were okay but the more I learn about them the worse they seem. Especially cases like this where the man is so much older. I absolutely see the wife as a victim as well, she is completely distressed by what her husband is doing and he doesn't care. I can't imagine what her life is and I feel so bad for her and the other young woman that is literally being beaten. I hope they both get out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 11:40 PM
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It is so sad how women have been made to feel like this is normal! The only thing people are saying in the comments are he needs to learn about BDSM so he can get better with the aftercare. There is nobody telling her to run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 11:35 PM
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It's so awful, he found someone young and bent her to his will. It's so sicking. I hope they both get out but unfortunately people in the comments were telling her that he needs to learn more about BDSM and after care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 11:24 PM
79

I just came across this and am so upset for this poor woman. Her husband is sick!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 11:17 PM
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Bras are uncomfortable and I wear one as seldom as I can. Now I'm 47 years old I have to have at least a spots bra on because you start to droop after a while. My daughter who's 24 hasn't won a bra in 4 years and wears whatever she wants and I tell her go for it. She's not looking for attention from anybody, she is literally just being comfortable. Bras are the absolute worst and I wish I had more courage to go out with my nipples showing but like I said the droop!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 10:15 PM
8

Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 07:55 PM
3

Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 07:11 PM
12

I'm very glad we are no longer together, luckily he fell in love with our best friend and left me. It was the best thing he ever did for me!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 07:11 PM
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He will, my ex husband did that to me several times. I thought I would die that way. I also felt like it was part of marriage, I never turned him down for sex except if I was sick then he'd just bug me until I gave in. I loved him, I fell in love with him when I was 13, started dating him when I was 16 and spent 29 years with him. I thought he was a good man, I was wrong. He was an amazing father though, he dropped everything for our children so I thought I had a good one. I'm so glad I found FD…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 07:04 PM
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That happened to me several times, I truly thought that was how I would die. My ex husband was kind of scared the first time it happened but not scared enough to not finish. Every single time it happened we finished having sex. I can't believe I allowed that but I'm much better now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 06:55 PM
12

I found it after somebody was complaining about how toxic it was on another subreddit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 04:44 PM
82

I did that, I would go hungry to make sure that my children and my ex-husband had enough to eat. I sacrificed my teeth by not going to the dentist because my teeth were bad and it would cost so much money to fix them so I sent my ex-husband and my children to the dentist instead and now my teeth are horrible. I sacrificed that and more for them and I regret sacrificing for my ex-husband, not my children, I would do that all again but fuck that guy! There's a part of myself that truly hates that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 06:16 PM
3

That poor woman, I hope she wakes up soon!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 06:10 PM
8

I saw that on Hulu and it made me ill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 08:28 PM
8

Exactly, unfortunately feminism has let men come in and change the discussion or what even feminism is supposed to mean. It's disheartening how many women fall for this kind of crap, myself included. I'm glad I see it for what it is now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 08:00 PM
8

Exactly!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 06:02 PM
18

I got down voted like crazy by saying how gross this was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 02:49 PM
42

The only time my ex ever touched me was during sex. It was absolutely horrible, I beg for him to even just act like he liked me a little bit but he never could be bothered to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 05:04 AM
14

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 12:02 AM
14

Thank you, I will look into.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 10:01 PM
19

No, I have not. I will think about it, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:57 PM
12

I'm waiting to hear back from him. I'm hoping something can be done. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:56 PM
34

Thank you! I'm trying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:05 PM
28

I've been banned from the both of them as well, they I believe, are subreddits where the mods are actually men and they're just trying to change the discussion because men really don't want women to have their own places and spaces!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 06:19 PM
14

There is nothing I wouldn't expect a man to do. My ex-husband went out to party while I was in the hospital for suicide attempt. He couldn't have cared less!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 08:38 PM
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You are so right, situations like that show you who they truly are. My ex best friend who had an affair with my ex-husband, one time we were camping and she threw her daughter in front of the raccoons in complete darkness, we weren't even sure what the animals were but she threw her daughter to them because she was afraid. Her daughter, I should have realized at that time exactly what that woman was! We joked around about how I would not go anywhere near her during a zombie apocalypse because sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 10:01 PM
12

If you burn the bridge good enough, they do not come back!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 04:42 PM
8

I know I shouldn't but I really have fun playing with those people. I get them all angry and then I block them and I know that they're sitting there all impotent and angry and I don't know I find it hilarious. I guess that's wrong, maybe? 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 07:45 PM
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I'm 5'8 150 lbs and wear a size 6. I don't think this dude knows anything about real women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:29 PM
11

This is why I will forever be sad that I'm not a lesbian!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:53 PM
8

What a piece of crap!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 06:07 PM
5

I just found out last night that my son's boyfriend is like 2 inches shorter than me. I didn't even realize that he was shorter than I am. It's all about attitude, unfortunately a lot of men have a bad attitude short or tall!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:55 PM
12

That was hard to read! I truly believed that's how I was going to die. Those poor women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 07:49 PM
3

I carry a knife with me everywhere I go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 07:35 PM
35

The same thing happened to me. They are so good at being innocent and so good at driving you crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 05:28 PM
1

Thank you, I appreciate that!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 11:32 PM
19

My son and I are incredibly close but I don't turn a blind eye. I know who he is, if you don't know who your children are you're not paying attention and if you aren't paying attention you're enabling some horrible behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 01:45 AM
8

My ex-husband pushed me to try to kill myself and nobody can see it. He's such a great guy, everybody loves him, he's perfect. I'm the crazy bitch, I'm the one who couldn't keep it together, he tore me down and turned things around and made everything my fault at every turn. He slowly drove me insane and now almost 2 years later I still have a hard time getting him out of my head but I am doing way better. I'm honestly more content and happy alone 90% of the time then I was when I was with him. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 04:50 PM
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He wants a chance to break up with you, he wants to hurt you because he feels like you won. He doesn't care about your friendship he cares about one upping you in the future. What a disgusting individual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 02:52 PM
7

Wow, what a psychopath! This dude is probably a basement dwelling idiot that still lives in his mommy's house. He's probably in his mommy's basement after his wife finally had enough of his bullshit and kicked his ass out. He probably cheated on her, he probably abused her, he probably treated her like shit and now he's crying like a little bitch because he has to face what he did. My ex is the same way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 05:24 PM
223

That was my exact thought. I would go ice cold and I would start plotting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 11:17 PM
24

I would tell myself to not marry my ex husband!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 05:31 PM
2

I love this!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 05:39 PM
7

Exactly!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 01:08 AM
11

Oh yeah, I get bored and stopped responding. There was no getting through to that broken record
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 01:07 AM
35

Not at all, it's gross!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 10:24 PM
21

Thank you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 10:20 PM
11

Exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 10:19 PM
91

Ohhh, I see now!! What a tool! He talks about having a girlfriend, I truly feel sorry for her. I can only hope that someday she finds her way to FDS and learns that she's been putting up with stuff that she should not be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 09:44 PM
22

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 09:40 PM
38

I had the feeling that he actually is the husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 09:24 PM
35

The whole thing is just so gross. And same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 09:14 PM
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I'm so happy that some scrote complaining about FDS led me to this wonderful subreddit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 09:12 PM
24

Brilliant!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 09:08 PM
47

Love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 09:04 PM
47

No, she is not!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 09:02 PM
35

Right, I'd rather live alone for the rest of eternity then spend a minute with so many of them!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 09:02 PM
50

❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 09:01 PM
22

I'm bored!! Most days I'll just shrug and move on but for some reason today I engaged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 09:01 PM
33

Awesome, I just feel so bad for her. I can't believe what people are saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 08:59 PM
214

Oh yeah, he's still going and I totally called him out on that. It's hilarious!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 08:03 PM
105

Done
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 07:56 PM
101

I'll try!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 07:53 PM
190

Perfect!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 07:48 PM
3

Oops, thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 07:23 PM
77

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 07:59 PM
25

I learned the exact same thing from my ex-husband!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 08:32 PM
4

Thank you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 02:49 PM
52

Thank you, it's going on 2 years and I am finally in a place where I am happy and content. Realizing that I never was happy throughout my entire relationship with my ex husband really eye-opening. I stayed with them because everybody thought he was the perfect man and I should! Now, now I'm healed and life is good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 05:03 PM
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I'm on the other end. I spent 29 years with one person, he's the only person I've ever had sex with. I loved him so much and he cheated on me with my best friend. I truly regret only being with one person who never truly loved me. I regret wasting my life! I thought I had a good one, finding out he was a creep like all the rest nearly destroyed me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 03:37 PM
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Some people can never admit to who and what they are. They honestly did me a favor because I am happier than I have ever been in my life. I only regret wasting 29 years of it with him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 01:46 PM
15

Thank you, it was rough but I'm so much better now!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 01:44 PM
64

I walked in on my ex husband and my ex best friend, they still deny it. It's unreal!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 01:09 PM
43

Yep, took me about a year and a half before I considered dating again after my husband left. The first guys I start dating there were red flags but I ignored them and turns out that his lifestyle is not at all compatible with mine. I need to make sure that I stop ignoring red flags because that is my biggest issue. I always want to get a everybody the benefit of the doubt and it bites me in the ass!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 05:56 PM
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If my children had not been on my side I would be under my ex husbands thumb. I would not have escaped, I'm so lucky!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 09:54 PM
3

Not get married!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 09:32 PM
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I have been catcalled 3 times in the last week!! It's not flattering and it's not cute! It pisses me of especially when one of them stuck his tongue out between his fingers at me. So fucking gross!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 07:27 PM
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That is exactly what they do!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 05:39 PM
8

Thank you!!! Good luck to you, I hope you get everything you can! I really appreciate that reminder and I am sending you strong vibes as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:41 AM
9

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:26 PM
12

Great Idea and thank you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:24 PM
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Absolutely, it's been a year and a half and I am so much better mentally and physically than I had been in all the years I spent with my ex-husband. He drained me in a way that I didn't even see until he was gone! And that friend, yeah turns out she does this to most relationships. She loves breaking people up! I really should send her a thank you note...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:23 PM
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Thank you, I need to be reminded occasionally and I truly appreciate it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:22 PM
18

Absolutely, you are a thousand percent right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:21 PM
36

Thank you!! Yeah, I'm not feeling so guilty anymore. He tried telling the judge he shouldn't have to give me any money and that I kept his coin collection and other stuff which I gave back to him. He's lying and I refuse to feel guilty anymore!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:13 PM
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I understand and I am so sorry. You will heal and you will move on. Like you I patted myself on the back thinking I was one of the lucky ones. They're really good, they are really, really good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 10:10 PM
5

My ex husband in a nutshell!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:51 AM
5

And when they tried to get divorced it was hell for them. My mom was beaten and raped when she left her first husband and the police did nothing because they were still legally married and that was 1968. Her marriage was hell and she is trapped with three kids, she stayed trapped for 15 years and she still couldn't escape him until she met my dad. He kept coming back and even after their divorce no one would help her. My dad protected her from him, my dad protected her from the everything. He wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:40 PM
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I'm so sorry, what you endured is too much. I would truly consider cutting them out of my life if I were you. I would definitely not allow them around any child! I wish I could give you a great big hug!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:49 AM
24

Same, 26 years later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:42 AM
18

Good for her!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 07:53 PM
8

That explains why my ex husbands going bald!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 07:51 PM
7

Me either, he is a disgusting pig!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 07:48 PM
5

Much better, thank you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:04 PM
13

My ex husband would choke me. My safe word was tapping his arm. He was supposed to stop. Most of the time he did, but several times he ignored my taps and I passed out. 3 or 4 times I started seizing. I really thought I would die during sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:14 AM
7

My daughter caught my ex husband and he blamed our son. Men!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:13 PM
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I have, he doesn't want to believe it. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 01:48 PM
4

I am the same and was the same. I'm so happy that you don't have to do anything for him ever again. You described what my everyday was so perfectly. It's really sad how many women experience the same things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 01:06 AM
5

I'm so sorry that your daughter has to go through that. She's very lucky to have a mother who loves her obviously and wants her mental well-being to be more important than anything else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 07:14 PM
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I'm really happy you're doing better. I am so sorry that you had a friend that did that to you. I understand not wanting your daughter to take sides, my children saw everything that happened and what was done to me and I hate that it has affected their relationship with their father. Just know that your daughter sees you for who you are and concentrate on your relationship with her. One thing it's taking me a long time to learn is I can't force my ex to make it up to our children. I have to leav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 06:42 PM
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She is still with her boyfriend so they can't be out in the open but I walked in on them. Even walking in on them they both deny that they did anything together. She absolutely doesn't want her boyfriend to find out and I feel so sorry for him because he is in the same situation I am. He has Crohn's and is very ill. They both just gaslight him. There is something just so horrible about your best friend doing that to you. I am so sorry that you had to go through that! I hope you're doing better n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 06:32 PM
129

The anxiety I used to get when my ex-husband would start to get angry because he couldn't find something. I was sick to my stomach just about daily for the last 2 years of our marriage. It is honestly a blessing that he decided to cheat on me with our best friend and leave me for her because I would still be his servant. I would still be doing every single thing that he wanted me to do because I was sick and couldn't work which made me less than him. He insisted I do 100% of all the housework be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 05:52 PM
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That's what led me here as well. Some guy in a comment thread saying how horrible this was and other people responding saying that it's nothing like incels that it's about females supporting each other. He got quite a few people telling him he was wrong about this subreddit so I came to look.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:05 PM
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My ex-husband hated me wearing makeup. Whenever I would put it on I would ask him how I looked and he would just say, you know I like you better without makeup. He made me feel ugly in it. So eventually I just stopped wearing makeup and I've never had anybody make a comment to me or anything about not wearing makeup. I would like to wear makeup because I think it's fun to play with but I still have it in my head that it makes me ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 05:54 PM
2

I did not agree to it and it took some getting used to. Luckily it's not as painful for me as some women experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:19 PM
131

My ex husband was so happy that the doctor did that to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 02:01 AM
57

I agree with everything except for I'm not looking for a man worthy of me. I don't ever want another man, I plan on spending the rest of my life alone and happy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:09 PM
2

I'm sorry you had to go through that as well. Yes, it took me a long time but I am very glad that he is my ex. It took quite a while to realize all the damage he did to me over the years. How he shaped me to not be that woman, the jealous woman, to be the one that was cool. I regret losing myself to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:05 PM
70

The only time my ex-husband ever touched me was during sex. It was a horrible feeling, he didn't cuddle me after and he's the only person I've ever been with. I have no idea what it's like to be spooned. I have no idea what it's like to be with a partner who randomly touches you because he loves you. I used to beg for that kind of attention but he could never put forth the effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 08:40 PM
38

I really appreciate you saying that because everybody thought I had the best husband in the whole world because he did housework. When it ended and some of the abuse and all of that came out well you know he was a good man though, good father. It's like they need to be praised for the bare minimum and it's so exhausting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 11:53 PM
6

Me too!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 04:53 PM
14

I spent 29 years with that man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 03:58 AM
15

I'm great, I do what, I want when I want, how I want. I have no one that I have to tiptoe around to make sure that everything's quiet and perfect. I have nobody that I have to make sure that the house is perfectly clean for or dinner is ready for. If I had known how freeing it would be I would have walked out of our marriage before it even started. If I had known how nice it was to not have to take care of another capable adult I wouldn't have bothered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 07:57 PM
19

I honestly wish I would have had more sexual experiences in my life than I have. I've been with one person, spent 29 years with him and he threw me away. I truly regret that I don't have any experience outside of him and at this point I'm probably going to spend the rest of my life alone because I can never trust anybody again. Men are untrustworthy, no matter how they play the game underneath it all you cannot trust them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 06:50 PM
35

Yeah, my ex chose our best friend, he fell in love with her, alcohol and drugs. When I attempted suicide and hit complete rock bottom he walked away with her. The party life was more important than the woman that he had spent 29 years with. It almost destroyed me, however a year and a half later it is the best thing that could have ever happened to me. I was his complete servant, I did everything in the home for him because I was disabled and I wasn't working which meant that I had to do 100% of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 06:48 PM
42

Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 10:36 PM
88

I agree, I think women need to show this country exactly how much work we do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:52 PM
335

I can't remember what country it was but in the 1970s every single female in that country did no work for one day. They didn't go to school to teach the children, daycares didn't open, fathers had to feed and dress their children. Fathers couldn't go to work because they had nowhere to take the children and no one to watch them. The whole country stopped, and women were finally paid equally. I would love to see something like that happen in the United States.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:28 PM
8

Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:33 AM
32

My husband used to do that, I actually had completely passed out from it several times and four times I started seizing but he kept doing it. Edit: ex husband
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:48 AM
1

That's the same reason I'm here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 10:07 PM
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