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Well, bitcoin isn't really used for spending, but rather turned into trading. Dash would be the best approach to spend and transfer money. Check this out. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u1tYAt1e9j4&t=26s
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 03:22 PM
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I don’t think it’s got widespread enough adoption to be viable, given the critical mass you need to reach with “normies” to be successful. The issue is that we are not normalizing it. We can get paid in crypto.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 12:09 AM
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interested
/r/RedPillBooks02/07/20 01:19 AM
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/r/RedPillBooks10/06/20 10:50 PM
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Don't feel weak, but find benefits for yourself and help other men.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/20 01:38 PM
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Stress is about overcoming a challenge. Endurance is apart of stress. I think your idea is creative, but it seems like what you are suggesting isn't very practical and thus makes it a waste fo time. I think you are proposing to find methods that keep our emotions in check. Try meditation. If that is too easy, then try meditating on a bus, or try meditating when people are arguing (not you involved). It is essential to understand that you need to dominate yourself instead of trying to have a situ…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 05:38 PM
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I feel it is best to fallow neither party. They are both emotional wrecks.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/18 03:46 PM
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Chaddeus_Rex That is a bit of naive thing to do and your response to TheGillos was naive as well. There are more natural ways of dealing with stress. You don't have to put yourself in a stress situation, but maybe stressful environments. Cold shower during winter, 190-degree sauna like salinorum mentioned (I've done this before and it is not easy.) Martial arts, high elevation hiking. Backpacking with 50-pound. In order to master relaxation, you need to constantly put yourself in stress. Which i…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/18 03:32 PM
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I have a cheap and easy solution that can help fight and prevent acne, but you have to do it regularly. Wash your face with cold water whenever you use the bathroom. When I was in high school, I tried everything to get rid of my acne. It was really bad. It wasn't until one summer I went swimming (I usually don't go swimming much) is when I realized my face settled down after my swim. Ever since then I started washing my face with cold water and It has helped tremendously. However, this is not a …
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 02:37 AM
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I follow a bodybuilder dude, he recommends using a mouthpiece (the one you use for boxing) while working out. it has worked for me.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 04:35 AM
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Great video. Btw whats the song of the first one?
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 01:24 AM
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You hit a somewhat small niche within the community. SOTN is great game tho.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 06:22 AM
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great video and post man. Maybe make a video on how you get physical during the interaction.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 06:54 AM
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I've called a girl a dork before (I like when girls are dorky) and she fucking blew up. Honestly, it depends on the girl. If a girl has a brother(s) you can say almost anything.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 05:04 AM
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Some dude made notes of what Charles Bukowski said about women. All of Bukowski poems, qoutes, and stories about women are all compiled on this website. Check out these crazy notes. Source: http://www.naturalthinker.net/trl/texts/Bukowski,Charles/pleasdamned.html Woman's lies: Her sexual enticements and teasing seem to mean she is personally interested in him, him as a unique individual; furthermore, when she starts to look after his bodily concerns in trivial, mundane ways (what Bukowski calls …
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 04:35 AM
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I Remember listening to This American Life, which is a storytelling radio show. One of the Episodes was about a woman who recently had a baby that died for an unknown reason. Of course, the Police got involved and did an investigation. The mother answered simple question The police did an Autopsy report Few days past and the Police called and asked the women to come down to the station. They said they found chip of cracked skull on the baby's head and wanted to question her some more. The women …
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 06:43 AM
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Charm works and women love it. Recently told a girl (who I was interested in) that she was honest and real person, I needed an opinion on something about myself. Ever since then she cant really take her eyes off of me.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 04:34 AM
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Thank you for this post, I'm a young adult and I haven't gone through much turmoil yet but I expect it to happen (thanks to this community). I'll pray for your recovery. Remember turn shit into sugar. turn anything bad to something good.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 05:15 AM
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I had a girl tell me "are you man enough" one time, she was complaining that men were wimps and why couldn't they take action. Then she said to me "well what about you?", "what about me?" "Are you man enough". There was a pause... (intentionally) to create sexual tention. I said "Look, give me your hand" she complied and I took to other room, and I pull her into a kiss and she was fucking loving it.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 05:53 PM
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Iron John, recently read it, amazing book.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 04:12 PM
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Thank man, a video would be nice too.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 03:54 PM
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You guys should try making your own beer, its more fun and delicious.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 06:33 PM
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what did she teach you about having proper sex?
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 08:05 PM
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Anyone have a pdf of attraction code?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 03:43 PM
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Great video man.
/r/seduction29/11/15 08:44 PM
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What would you recommend for a guy who burns calories pretty quickly?
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 05:08 PM
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Thanks for the info man, I'm gonna go eat a plate right now.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 05:28 AM
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some gay men are actually redpill. (there were few threads here long time ago written by gay RPers who said all the shit were saying here is true.) Remember gay men are close friends with women, they get to see everything that they do.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 01:10 AM
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Sheep will be sheep. Nothing surprising here.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 02:55 PM
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I remenber reading a study while back that said 'What your father eats will predict what you eat.' I think it is foolish that people do not consider their dieting or what they consume to affect their children. We're very highly influential species, one way shape or form we will pick up our parents (this includes mothers) eating habbits. I dont understand how people can shame a women who 8 months pregnant but dont like hearing the truth about our children health.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 06:06 PM
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I remember reading a study a while ago that talked about how our hearts effects our Testosterone, so doing cario is good for Testosterone. It recommended jump rope because that is the best exercise for your heart.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 11:52 PM
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After reading some of the comments and have been lurker here on reddit for 4 years, i can confidently say that people who give advise on reddit to other people dont know what they are talking about. For example back in my gamer youth days the PC game /r/Dayz (zombie game) had the creator of dayz on there, people would give him back and suggest ideas. at first it was harmless "just fix this please cause its buggy", then they became more demanding and demanding, they were happy with the product bu…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 01:59 AM
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He was a catholic man and Hispanic, being a catholic Hispanic has a tradition of being pleasing to your wife (which sometimes bring out beta qualities) but it is ALSO expect that the women does her job as a women (cook, clean, take care of kids, sex, fitness) I believe his wife wasn't like that. So pretty much he held Catholic values on marriage and on his wife, but not his dogs.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 08:27 PM
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They want to feel. They want to move. But they aren't allowed to and all of that energy gets bottled up. When women are given the opportunity to hit and kick boxing mitts they release that built up aggression and feel a lot better. My master (martial arts) who i am pretty close with and have a lot of redpill ideologies says women love to move and feel their bodies, they love to feel their butt jiggle and boobies move. They especially love to feel those body parts when they dance. Men, learn to d…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 08:17 PM
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I think i was reading redpill 3 years ago on this sub, got invited via seddit , anyways i was reading the side bar material and constantly reading post on here, at that time i was talking to a girl who had a boyfriend, she clearly was attracted to me because social proof and how i could pass shit test with flying colors. Anyways she kept insisnting that we should "hang out" i agreed but everytime i tried to set up a "hang out" she'd be like "oh sorry busy" or kinda flake, so i stop paying much a…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 02:12 AM
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you should read Malcolm X's biography and also native son, it talks about alot of things you just said about race, and women.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 09:26 PM
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Different answer from a different alan watts, but i'll check out this guy too. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=emHAoQGoQic
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 03:27 AM
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Thanks man need this, because been having problems seducing girls and inviting them out via text. Pretty much had the same problem as you, flirted a little here and there, set up a date quickly and bam. However I noticed a trend of girls ghosting even if their attraction for me was high, i still get that ghosting problem, but without really noticing i stopped texting and saw them in person (college) and flirted with them through there and obvious their response was much better. Thanks for the in…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 07:27 PM
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Why cant women emulate sam walton (Walmart)?
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 12:11 AM
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As someone who is still in college and has been active, i can say joining clubs and knowing people in the student government really helps. My advise to anyone reading this, if you're a freshmen join one club because you might be busy with too much school work, my recommendation is to either join a Drama club or Dance club (girls in both of them) Later when you're taking less classes, join as many clubs as possible. Currently i am involved in like 6 clubs, i know almost everyone in the student go…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 05:44 PM
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I'm glad you brought this up because i was thinking about this for a while. In the book A lesson in history by Will durant in his chapter about religion he talks about how Religion was for the weaker minded class (poor people who rationalize their faith vs money) and that Religion often saw themselves as higher than power, because god was on their side. "Though church served the state, it claimed to stand above all states, as morality should stand above power." (pg44). Feminist are trying to be …
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 05:38 PM
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http://www.tailopez.com/index.php pick a field you like, find a mentor, find another mentor, find more mentors slowly build your empire from the help of your mentors.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 03:35 AM
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Recommend any books on how to heal the body from working out
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 11:52 PM
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Another one that is thrown around in drama classes is " less is more"
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 06:23 AM
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I remember reading a while back on here that women think by acting like a man or doing things that they find attractive like a man does for them, they think that it works. for example, when a girl tries to get you jealous, she is expecting you to get jealous how she gets jealous. Jealousy is good for a women but it is not the same for a man, a man becomes possessive, needy, controlling, most women unless she is a crazy bitch will just do passive aggressive things and constantly ask you question …
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 06:08 PM
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The requires hard works and creativity, that would take forever (it would be worth it) BUT WE WANT EQUALITY NOW!!! GRRR
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 03:27 PM
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I'm 24, jobless, and dont know where i am going with my life, had friends in the military, they liked and hated it, they tell me not to join because it will change me into thats not me, happen to a friend of mine who was cool laid back in high school, turned into a dick when he got in the air force, then left the air force then became laid back again. My question, how does One join the Ranger school, do i need already need to be in the military? Or can i just join?
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 02:53 AM
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best way to stand out?
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 05:03 PM
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Question: What is the difference between flatter and praising? like the way of the superior man, i often tell girls i like that their feminine, or how they dress, or i like it when their hair is long or when they have it down or look girl, I even tell them that their pretty, where does the line get cross from praise to flatter?
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 06:28 AM
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also dont you think their option are more beta than alphas? Quantity over Quality? Could be the case for some. Roosh has some good ideas however article sounded too whiny instead bring inspirational to find our own way, or it could be Roosh V finally hit that psychological break down all great PUA hit.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 03:59 PM
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Law 38: Think as you like, but behave like others
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 04:36 AM
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Probably protecting her image and reputation so she can still be a big star. Becoming or being high status really changes people into the worse human beings, but thats the way it is.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 06:58 PM
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lead the emotions and conversations, be bold and be persistent. I'm pretty sure you want some magic words or some magic techniques, honestly you have figure out how to change her mood and get her excited, lots of kino, which means you touching her alot and you guiding/leading your her hands on your body.
/r/trpGAME24/06/14 11:24 PM
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you have to escalate hard on her, she's not hamstering she is worried you might be using her for sex, only sex. What you need to know is change her mood not her mind, when you are making moves on you, when she tries to stop you, instead of changing her mind, change her mood. Depends what mood she is in, a week ago was dealing with the same situation, Girl was unsure about having sex with me, so i changed her mood and told her to be present with me, to feel my body ect ect.
/r/trpGAME24/06/14 08:05 PM
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A lot of these people have become close to me once they understood where I stood on the issue, and that I was more than willing to live my life without them. This is true, I recently told a friend "dont be apart of my life anymore." because he was such value taker and wasn't a good friend at all, cockblocking, always bring me down and not trying to have fun, always trying to dominate the social situation when i was dominating it (I just had a IDGF attitude and wanted to have fun), never really d…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/14 03:25 AM
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A father who gives up on guiding his children will make them directionless. you're right! what is going to happen to those moments when you meet your girlfriend father for the first time and he is sizing with sarcasm too see if you're tough. Over protective father who are much likeable than this lame dad (BP will ask why; because having a over protective confrontational father has real character, it will make me respect him so much more and make me want to look up to him too.)
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 06:33 AM
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This is probably the most important comment in this thread, because it is true. Something i wanna add is that beta men think they've got their "unicorn" in reality, they dont. Its funny what kind of fantasies we play on ourselves just to think that it will make our lives easier.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 03:55 AM
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If she is wearing something slutty, and betas are looking at her like crazy, spank her ass in a playful way to let the guys know, she is yours and that these betas staring at your gf is not effecting you. being a good dominate alpha bf is about being playful and fun.
/r/askTRP19/06/14 07:50 PM
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coulda been what seen as alpha behavior is masked with true beta behavior, this happens all the time actually. False marketing, you buy a product, thinking it is good but finding out it is shit. How would you feel?
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 09:05 PM
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Yeah this is good talk, seen it a few times, why this video is important because it talks about what is truly desirable for both sexes, and how many relationship fail because of that lack of desire (neediness, no fun or adventure, being too alpha). For those RP who are upset with women or who are MGTOW, this video will be useless to you, for those who already past that stage, this will be very useful because REMIND you to be desirable (remember we had a thread a few days back talking about how b…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 08:30 PM
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Sounded almost like a shit test, honestly holding onto your dignity will get you laid more, or more opopprrunites for seduction, instead up giving totally into her and handing your power away.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 04:50 PM
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Thanks for the reading recommendation, already reading some Ovid material, also sounds like you did a good on pulling that girl, just keep sharpening your skills.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 03:03 AM
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http://www.southparkstudios.com/full-episodes/s10e07-tsst
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 02:01 AM
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you wont know for sure until she see's a specialist, i dont wanna be people on reddit who think who knows something and give out information when i dont know jack shit. I fucking hate that about reddit. Best advise i can give if she is bipolar, expect some crazy emotional roller coasters, and crazy hypergamy because if you're not on top of your shit, she wont think twice about looking some where else for someone better
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 04:57 PM
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She was diagnosed long before i met her, honestly my ex was pretty decent at hiding it, until she told me she was bipolar it became super clear to me, if she is distant for a week with no contact, and good red flag that she MIGHT be, however it could also be she might listening to her female friends to play hard to get n shit. You cant really tell until she tells you or you see her taking medication or she goes sees a doctor.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 04:44 PM
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1: They switch a lot, they'll go from reasonable to unreasonable from depressed to happy really fast, you'll think she's cool for like 45 minutes and then all of a sudden she becomes fucking annoying or unlikeable. They get really clingy and then really detached. I noticed this shit from the first night I spent with her "something's off about this one." I've dated a bipolar girl also with other mental disorders as well, and this is correct. Pretty much their were times she would be clingy and ch…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 03:40 AM
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Watch the blue print from him, its really amazing!
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 06:59 AM
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Any advise you can give a 23 year old like myself? Life advise, sex advise, ect. Also what do you mean by giving her more pleasures than she ever experienced?
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 04:44 PM
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One of our tenants is to ignore a woman's words and pay attention to her actions Kinda funny that mother day is comming up, Weeks before mother's day, my mom usually tells me and my brother that we dont have to get anything, all she wants is us to good, healthy, and not cause her so much stress. When mothers day rolls around, we typically get "WHERE IS MY CARD, WHERE IS MY GIFT?", wait a minute she just said that she didn't want anything, just for us to behave. Anyways long story short, ever sin…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 11:26 PM
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"According to the experts, who decided to analyze subdued alterations in females' behavior while they are ovulating, women often chose the stable guy (beta bux) over the sexy one, however, after the fact, they worry unconsciously about whether they have made the right decision (alpha fux)." could this explain why women try to turn alphas into pussies? to create security?
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 05:42 PM
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read a book someone about how romantic novels trigger these adventures for women, mainly, the bad boy, he is dangerous, he is exciting, ect ect. Also the constant conflict the female main character has with the male alpha. Mainly the book talked about why these books are sooo successful and give a very good incite on what women want.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 06:08 AM
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Women hate poor or/and boring guys, so true
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 08:25 PM
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"It’s defined as the absence of problems." ^ its kinda dumb for anyone to think this way, life is problems, and life is messy, NO MATTER WHAT! I Dont care how much feminist try to fix this "gender issue", life will always have problems, no matter what. And this ok, if we didnt have problems, how would we grow? anyways, i can go on about this.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 04:16 AM
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He also said trying to get power or trying to be in power IS NOT EVIL. I always hate hearing my hippie friend saying that power is evil, that something is wrong with people who seek power, ect ect. Seeking power is not evil, its what you do with it is what makes it evil or not.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 06:24 PM
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him and gf have an open relationship, i think. he has abundance up the ass.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 06:13 PM
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Great post, as a masculine man you are here to heal a women's emotional weakness (heals means to relieve off, not fix or cure) while a feminine women is here to heal physical wounds (lifting,being sore, back pains, ect ect), so many on this forum get so pissed off when they confess their insecurities to their SO, we'll duh, she is here to fix your physical wounds you dummie, you're playing the wrong role, it's your own fault, not the girl who you dumped you because you went soft, you communicate…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 05:18 PM
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i'll tell you if you, but let me finish the race first.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 02:02 AM
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Oh fun question. Explaining this in full detail can be very complicated. The easiest way to understand this is looking at Yin and Yang. you cannot have similarities without opposite. Let me explain, the girls i've dated who were into sports were very opposite of me. I like to see myself very present, in the moment, nothing could bring me down (strong frame) while the three others girl who were drama orientated or had serious problems. Yin and Yang It is like two sides of the coin, you cannot hav…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 03:46 AM
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Like attracts like. I agree with this post, even if it isn't 100% true, their is still some truth to it. Lately more attractive women have been giving me attention, because i'm preparing my body for extremely difficult race in 3 months so preparing my body for tip top shape. like attracts like. Guess who's attention who's focused on me now? girls who are athletes, been attracting some soft ball players mainly. Even before this race that I've been training, I've always did martial arts and was in…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 03:22 AM
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Saving this thread f
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 05:08 PM
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kinda reminds me where they did that study that women are attracted to men with pride or displaying pride, just imagine if you did get what you wanted (the fellowship), how much pride would you be expressing? your gf would probably be extremely attracted to you, and happy for you aswell.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 12:22 AM
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Don't chase women, chase your dream.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 03:42 AM
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cool FR. Was wondering if you have any tips for setting up a hook up Couchsurfing profile. I'm planning on traveling, was wondering if you have any tips for young man, who wants to travel, hook up and have fun
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 04:51 AM
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its a business, gotta make money some how. I actually like rsd because they do offer some real good redpill advise, and some guidance especially for newbies like myself that want to get good at the game.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 08:59 PM
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thanks needed that, was dating a girl who wasn't right for me.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 04:58 PM
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honestly what people post on reddit is just bunch of BS some time. "oh i'm gonna do this if this ever happens to me!" or "i'm gonna do that, to hurt this person." < from what i read from alt30313 post, the comments that he posted, i can guarantee most of these people will NOT do what they say. This post made me realize that most of what reddit is says it crap, so stop reading that crap. What say are gonna do is different than what they are actually gonna do. Sp stop reading this crap, and go out…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 12:35 AM
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thank you, i'm actually going through this stage of putting up my walls too much, slowly breaking them down. For a while i was closed off, and the girls that i see would ask me why i am soo closed off, but it was that fear of being manipulated again, but you know what, i probadly will be manipulated again, and again, and again, but that doesn't mean i shouldn't trust people or block everyone from my life, no, it means i need to be a proper leader and CHOOSE the right friends and see the right wo…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 05:09 AM
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thx for the video.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 04:21 AM
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todd is probably one of my favorite RSD instructors, very underrated, i think he bring alot of new things to RSD and to pick up.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/13 09:58 PM
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kinda makes me think of the girl i am talking too now, its my ego that doesn't want to let it go. Any advise?
/r/TheRedPill25/09/13 04:05 AM
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Good game + high (perceived) value (and with that, comes fame) ---> pussy galore. true, but it is good to have a balance of approaching women and making yourself a high value guy.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/13 04:15 PM
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would recommend the audio book instead, also agree that it does drag on. Still good none the less.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/13 02:58 PM
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can we get your lute music playlist plz?
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 07:12 AM
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absolutely, luckily for me, I've been dating vegans girls who usually into sports or yoga. It is best to find a woman who is informed about eating healthy, because she will most likely take care of her health and be very active.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 09:40 PM
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Always date a girl who works out already and takes care of herself. Still pretty good advice. edit: grammar
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 04:30 PM
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D.T. Suzuki thanks just looked him up, anything you would recommend from him?
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 03:52 PM
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Well i don't want to solely blame the social/mainstream media because everyone often blames it, but most times purposes are exploited by the social media wrongly influence a individual, by get rich, become famous, powerful, ect ect, because it seems to make sense, right? if you can sell these false purposes to individuals you can make money off of it (ex having material items as a symbol for social status, cars, clothes, ect, it makes money.). These kinds of purposes are failure, because they're…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 12:10 AM
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well you gotta try new things, find hobbies that are similar to yours, you said you like playing video games, why not learn programming, it is a hobby and you can turn it into a career. 1) nothing is really wasted, not taking action is the only time you will waste in your life. you may do some hobbies you may not enjoy, than move to another one, you just try things and give it a shot. 2) it isn't really finding the right hobby for you, it is like saying the right job for you, right now i dont kn…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/13 02:46 PM
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would suggesting reading or trying new things to find your purpose.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/13 04:38 AM
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i dont know why this doesn't have more response and more up votes, this is the type of red pill material i think this community craves, about human nature, how to be aware of who we are as a species.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/13 07:10 AM
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ha, its funny. It wasn't until i read the redpill and applying it to my life, that is when i got the most results.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/13 04:09 AM
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yes men hamster it is called rationalizing, but it isn't the same level as crazy women, but their some men out there who hamster as much, just like some women don't hamster as much as others.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 05:07 PM
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anyone have that 4chan screen shot about attraction women?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/13 03:57 PM
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this is true, my cousin (lesbian) who recently moved in with me can relate to me a lot when it comes to my women troubles. She actually gives really good red pill advise, but often catch her hamster rationalizing cheating on her ex-gf. i say more straight men who are learning game should hang out with lesbian who get a lot of action.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 05:33 AM
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think you handled it nicely, didn't effect you emotionally, you didn't complain about it to the girl, you kept your frame, you were cool and calm and it worked. thats all that matters that you kept your frame.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 05:16 PM
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TofuTofu, have to congratulate you and hope this launches a new career for you, for whatever field you choose, (writing, seduction, teaching, art, ect.). I'll let this be an inspiration for a young but experienced PUA who is trying to his purpose besides women.
/r/seduction30/05/13 12:23 AM
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just recently, when i first started reading the redpill, that is why i keep coming back because the golden nuggets i get from here improved my game ten times than anything. Recently started being assertive and feeling entitled to things that i want. Being a aloof leader who does alot of kino works so much wonders. If you can do all three of those things, its pretty easy.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/13 06:15 AM
2

i recommend reading the mastery of love, it book mainly focusing on loving yourself, but this isn't one of those self help books, its about being aware of that you are only person who can fulfill yourself, and avoid "emotional poison" (ex: i need a girlfriend, everyone is getting laid, i am lonely) all that is just poison and getting a girlfriend will not fulfill that at all. http://www.amazon.com/Mastery-Love-Practical-Relationship-Toltec/dp/1878424424
/r/seduction23/05/13 06:11 AM
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had this happen to me, but didn't recover, youre right though, sometimes our old beta selfs do come out.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/13 10:33 PM
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enjoy yourself! thats it
/r/seduction14/05/13 04:47 PM
1

cool theory you have there, thinking about it now.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/13 04:09 AM
2

thank you for this
/r/TheRedPill05/05/13 09:41 PM
2

that is the main thesis for the blueprint from RSD, loved it, completely changed my life, started on focusing on myself and loving myself more. At the end of high school, i use to think i was really ugly, and i was obsessive with it, i had bad acne, had zero social skills, i was the worse. Now i am doing things i would never believe i could do, it is amazing, i have new and fun hobbies that i hated but enjoy now, like cooking, playing music, and reading (i really really hated reading, now i cant…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/13 08:09 PM
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begining to realize this too, after reading some zen stuff, and hearing alan watts, all these pursuits are not the means to the end, they are just the means, but never the end. got this from one of my Zenhabbits news letters. «I watch people in the world Throw away their lives lusting after things, Never able to satisfy their desires, Falling into deeper despair And torturing themselves. Even if they get what they want How long will they be able to enjoy it? For one heavenly pleasure They suffer…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/13 03:03 PM
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sounds like your making your women your purpose, don't, never make your women your purpose, ever, you gotta find your calling, and stick with it.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 04:04 AM
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for the life seems hard and unhappy, thanks, need that as well, been going through the hard reality of red pill.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 04:58 AM
1

would agree with this, have a friend who is HB9, all natural beauty, no make-up ever, fucking hot body, but i would never date her, she's cool, but not my type, anyways, i took her to a party and everyone was staring, because she was the hottest girl there, and she also helped me open a few sets too, pretty fucking awesome.
/r/seduction30/04/13 08:46 PM
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this was exactly what i need, been feeling down, lacking inspiration, and trying to find a bigger purpose in life, thank you.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/13 08:08 PM
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it not treating them as dogs, it is taking the discipline techniques you learned from dog training, and applying similarly to men or women, doesn't mean you'll make him/her submit to you by saying "tssss", it just means that you'll stand by your word, never back down from bad situations, telling her or him that you do not tolerate bad behavior, you are just practicing the discipline of asserting yourself over intolerable situations. you don't validate negative or positive response to bad behavio…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/13 06:47 AM
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also read about reading or watching dog discipline books, honestly, if you can discipline a dog, you can discipline a child, because a lot of dogs are spoiled in America, and they are treated as children, when they should be treated as dogs, so they get away with a lot of things that a pack leader would never ever in his or her life let them get away with, i would recommend watching the dog whisperer.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/13 02:19 AM
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would recommend it, great author, easy to read and digest his ideas.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/13 02:49 AM
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great post, amazing, kinda reminds of a post on /r/rsd talking about the secret society, not seeking validation, but seeking a higher purpose, that will ultimately attract women, i think its true. lately I've gave up the validation trip for attraction women, doesn't mean i don't have those episodes where i crave it, but what i noticed was that when i gave up seeking validation from my friends and from women, women become more attractive to me, without much effort. As a man, it is your job to dea…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/13 01:35 AM
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Another thing to consider, with the knowledge of the red pill comes alot of power, you'll know how women will respond to certain situation, you know how to portray confident, masculine traits, you can definetly influence power in a women or even in a weak mans head, with great power comes great responsibility. Red pill is NOT about "oh look at all this power and knowledge that i have or know." no, if you ever seen martial arts master, they are very powerful, but they dont go around showing their…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/13 05:09 AM
1

Can we get a real discussion about that traits instead of the same old crap about looks?
/r/seduction18/04/13 06:44 PM
0

hm,. gonna try this out.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/13 05:49 AM
2

submissive and dominance are ying and yang, you gotta have both in order to have the other. Their both powerful and both weak, that's ok.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/13 06:26 PM
1

well it is the process of the red pill, according to rationalmale, you'll go through different stages of emotions until you hit acceptance, i accept it, just it hurts sometimes when you see it in real life.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/13 02:01 AM
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agree with this, but you gotta understand, when you shallow the red pill, like how i have and how many of these guys saying he was beta ect ect, it kinda makes you very bitter, because we think about all the times we screwed up or how we thought women screwed us over, or when they did screw us over, this build major insecurities because we don't want to hear that we have problem getting and keeping women. yes, i am insecure because of the knowledge that we know now, but this insecurity is ruinin…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/13 05:22 AM
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i suggest getting a dog and learning some stuff from the dog whisperer, as a hobby. because it is healthy, strengths your leadership skills and is also attractive.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/13 01:12 AM
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if its really entertaining yeah. I think Adam, the main characters boyfriend is close to being alpha, he's very present, does what he wants, says what he wants, makes her jealous, she is more invested, just he doesn't set the rules. I'm talking about season 1 of course, i haven't seen season 2
/r/TheRedPill02/04/13 03:17 PM
1

the tv show girls
/r/TheRedPill02/04/13 05:59 AM
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i remember reading a while back where a guy had similar situation as yours, but took another course of action, what he did was got him and wife to take fitness classes, he was around very attractive, young fit women, while is wife wasn't like that anymore, so pretty much his wife started taking care of her body too compete with the younger girls. I suggest you do the same, sign you and her up for classes like yoga, and lightly flirt with the other women, and everything should work out for its se…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/13 02:50 AM
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read it a while back, i guess its time for a reread, thanks
/r/TheRedPill29/03/13 04:09 PM
1

could it be that people are just lazy and dont want to spice up the relationship? idk maybe i'm still plugged in
/r/TheRedPill29/03/13 03:45 PM
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uhhh no, i've done this too some girls and they respond well, this is of course the girl is into you, but it still fun to be bold. No girl is gonna call the cops on you, the worst they're going to do is be passive aggressive tords you, after that, dont bug em anymore.
/r/seduction26/03/13 02:35 AM
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wow this sorta makes you feel like james bond! something i noticed this week, all the hard work we do, we want to be recognized by others, which is bad because generally people dont care what you do, they're just glad you did it. It feel like we all want to be recognized by people for nothing (expect the hard work we put in), ultimately, it is about recognizing yourself because you're living the life that you want, you're making the choices that best suit you. A example of a guy who wants to be …
/r/TheRedPill25/03/13 06:27 AM
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i love this answer, thank you!
/r/TheRedPill24/03/13 12:58 AM
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she can definitely change as well (dump him and date a provider), but she might have beta men who provide for her while she is dating a alpha male. the first one happened to me, but my fault because i went beta on her, she was dating a beta, she cheated on him with me, i got attached, so she called it off with me, why does a girl need two beta if one is providing for her and the other has nothing to offer? (me)
/r/TheRedPill20/03/13 05:07 PM
1

been reading the fountain head, sorta similiar, and i got to say, it is amazing when someone sticks to their values, not to impress but because it what they feel inside works for them.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/13 05:42 PM
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even though he has a massive cult, he still is spot on about certain things, but it feel redundant to make a 40 min video of him making weird noises, where he coulda summed up all the good material in a quick 5 mins
/r/TheRedPill02/03/13 05:40 PM
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more confident, and self assured aswell, but of course with a touch of being cynical, honest i am beginning to see how women act, and i am begining to act in a way where what i do will attract them because i'm not putting up with their BS
/r/TheRedPill02/03/13 05:38 PM
1

damn, he hit it on the spot!
/r/TheRedPill20/02/13 12:24 AM
1

ask her to call you at a certain time? it is working for me for a girl who text me alot, i tell her to call me because i feel texting is a terrible form of communication.
/r/seduction14/02/13 06:20 AM
1

half into and i love it, completely changed my view, and helped my understand how i failed with my past relationships. Either acted too beta or way too alpha!
/r/TheRedPill08/02/13 04:23 AM
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Have a mix of being alpha and beta!
/r/seduction08/02/13 04:14 AM
2

What are some ways for a young man like aswell to increase his SMV?
/r/TheRedPill06/02/13 11:46 PM
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Maybe this can help! http://rocksmith.ubi.com/rocksmith/en-us/home/index.aspx
/r/TheRedPill05/02/13 02:42 AM
1

Is 'You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation" a good book to buy? you suggested that in the comments
/r/TheRedPill02/02/13 01:28 AM
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girlie men
/r/TheRedPill01/02/13 07:21 PM
1

get the audio book 'out of your mind'
/r/seduction31/01/13 06:29 PM
1

would recommended Alan watts for some tips helping becoming presents, also power of now aswell.
/r/seduction31/01/13 04:31 AM
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Its all about creating an attractive look on the inside and the outside, just like how you suggested. it all depends on the person, i notice some people have very strong mind, all they have to do is improve their looks and themselves to get girls, other that I've seen and known guys who dress well, but have sometimes crappy mindset. Don't get me wrong, doing what you listed above will get an individual into a better mindset, thus attracting women.
/r/seduction29/01/13 12:34 AM
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having masculine energy is about being nonreactive, calm, self accepting, dominate, self leader (you lead yourself), good with a touch of bad boy, stubborn, does his own thing, responsible, inspirational, driven and motivated, the list can go on, but when you can think and imagine that, you project masculine energy without trying so much.
/r/seduction28/01/13 06:28 PM
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^ this man is 100% right!! As a guy who looks like harry potter (me) when i got rid of the thought "looks matter" my game improved, i noticed women react VERY POSITIVE to your masculine energy, and confidence, AND congruence. This itself takes alot of work, and alot of time if you're very self hating person, or have limiting beliefs (i know, that was me in high school). Just like Skymanj, when i went to work today, i stoped by at 99 cent store because its really cheap and great place to get chea…
/r/seduction28/01/13 07:15 AM
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Be beta some of the time and then be alpha some of the time, but to break it down, that makes you formless, and this isn't some trick or isn't some way to control something. Being formless (both alpha and beta) is attractive because you show signs of being comfortable and than being adventurous. Beta thing would be to consider her feelings and care for her (this is NOT BAD, being beta isnt bad, only over beta is bad) and be abit alpha and grab her and say "Sweetie, we're going dancing tonight, w…
/r/seduction19/01/13 07:48 PM
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I dont know if this fits, but after reading Robert Green books, being beta is relaying on someone for something, for example, relaying on a girl for love, affection, attention, and validation, instead of relaying on yourself. I read an article a few days back talking about how if you're going to be a red pill man, you're always going to be by yourself, no matter what, even if you're relationship, you still be a lone, so you must relay on yourself for happiness, survival, and love.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/13 08:29 AM
2

What straight razor did you buy? and any suggestion for a beginners kit?
/r/TheRedPill07/01/13 08:13 AM
1

sounds like you just need to get rid of some negative beliefs, like judging and doubting yourself, i understand because i use to do this alot, until right NOW i started changing my attitude, women have give me much more attention than before. First of all, give up the idea "i need to get into state" when you didn't know about the seduction community, you never thought about state, it was either, "I'm on or i'm not, whatever". And fizzling out you're going through is a growth period, you're growi…
/r/seduction06/01/13 07:50 AM
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was caught in the heat of the moment!
/r/seduction05/01/13 07:38 AM
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Sometimes, what i beleive it is ok to rest and be little burnt out and relax for abit and enjoy my favorite hobbies (Draw, guitar, read, ect). I understand and also imagine how you feel when you said you feel guilty about not going out, sometimes i feel guilty too, you should not judge yourself or feel guilty not going out, unless you want to madly improve yourself and want to constantly get results than whatever, it all depends what you want, for example with me, i began my seduction journey in…
/r/seduction05/01/13 07:01 AM
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for someone is barely taking the redpill, what advise, mindset or perception can you give a young man like me, raised by a mother who HB8 Mother who rationalized everything she did, not be honest.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/13 08:47 AM
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Same, trying to look for some good books. All i can offer is that the Attachment theory, Children will choose warmth and comfort over food and shelter. Kinda funny i did this before, i remenber one time i was hanging out with my friends, one of my female friend invite one her friends, me and her got flirty, it was cold that night, so shared a blanket, she was pretty drunk, when i left i pretend i was tucking her in, i was putting blanket covering her feet, her body, ect and before i left i kisse…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/13 06:17 PM
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agreed, the hidden gems are the reason why i come back to this subreddit.
/r/seduction19/12/12 06:25 PM
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http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/ its funny because i actually want to buy his product (once i get money) instead of dl it, i usually downlaod most sed material.
/r/seduction12/12/12 01:39 AM
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Seduction to me, is about balance, you differently need to know about how certain types of women who aren't very healthy to date or to be with, i beleive roosh, maybe RSD, and others ect. THe other side of the spectrum, somebody i never hear at all in this forum is Scot Mckay, in the past had a very bitter attitude about women, start reading scot Mykays new letter, he slow but surely began to change my views and beliefs about women, he made me realize what kind of women i should be dating and sh…
/r/seduction11/12/12 04:28 PM
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I disagree, he does offer a lot of valuable information, and a lot of this is true too. When he use the example of being present, and focus on other parts of your life besides seduction, and most important "find out what else you are." of course the stuff he uses may not help average guys at first, but when they practice and practice and understands he gets results. Think of seduction as game, an actual video game, but more specifically a first person shooter, to get good at a FPS it takes pract…
/r/seduction28/11/12 03:26 AM
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man i though i did some crazy things, but this was whole new level of self amusement, of course some of the things they did were offensive to some people, just know they had balls, a lot of men would never think or ever do this because they feel like they will be frowned upon by other people. These guys are entertaining.
/r/seduction12/11/12 05:13 AM
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this post was eye opening for a 22 year old who fresh in the world this kinda what i read right now from Roosh. http://www.rooshv.com/the-manipulated-man
/r/TheRedPill09/11/12 06:20 PM
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I think it's cuz I have such an energetic personality I give off a childish vibe, so they like having fun with me, just don't see me as the guy that can satisfy them sexually. wow you're really putting yourself down, if you believe it then women will believe it, Maybe you give off the vide of sexual frustration and that repeals women? Sounds like you have some insecurities that you need to accept and grow out off, because you wont only find the cure to your insecurities from women, you can only …
/r/seduction04/11/12 04:23 PM
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Hey david love your stuff, i always do my best to have deep and meaningful conversation with women, do my best to be present, and i always come from a place of honesty. I have no problem approaching women. I'm 22 years old. 1) What traits, or skills should i focus on to become a real man? 2) what are some things that i should avoid in my 20s?
/r/seduction31/10/12 03:13 AM
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After reading that, it hit me kinda hard, i have been slacking off with approaching, because i felt like i should get rid of my neediness and work on myself before i start actually seducing women, their are time i get phone numbers but my neediness kills it hard. Anyways I wanted to ask, I go to a community college, it isn't the same as college, what habits should i work on that will help me seduce women?
/r/seduction17/10/12 05:45 AM
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i watched your video about the frame between boyfriend vs the lover (player), i was wondering if you could talk about that a little bit more. how do i become the "player/lover" guy? what things should i do to help my image, and not be seen as a boyfriend type.
/r/seduction10/10/12 05:07 AM
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I agree with you, it is intermediate stuff, but alot of it focuses on women psychology, what women go through, what women do. It made me notice when women who test vs invest.
/r/seduction15/09/12 08:11 PM
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game is all about having reality checks, whenever you are going through oneitis, neediness, or scarcity mindset, whatever challenge you face, you will over come and they will be reality checks, Most whos dont study this stuff usually just stay in the same rut chasing the same girl over and over. that is why you should constantly check yourself and ask "am i reading too much martial than i am practicing?" "are my decision mine or a by product of someone else?" ect ect...
/r/seduction11/09/12 06:25 AM
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it is totally worth it, right now i taking two dance classes because i really suck, over the course of two weeks i have improved, i'm pretty sure if you ever have the time and money they will greatly benefit you. 2:1 is an understatement, i'm taking modern dance and their is only 6 guys in the class, including me, the rest are women, and that class is 40 people in total.
/r/seduction06/09/12 10:18 AM
3

make it a goal, better get started.
/r/seduction02/09/12 08:21 PM
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how about you go out and approach and practice this stuff for two years, than come back to this thread and see if you will say the same thing.
/r/seduction02/09/12 08:13 PM
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^ that attitude wont get you women! even though seduction is about trying to seduce women, it isn't all about the women! WHOA SHOCKING. besides no women would want a guy who doesn't think highly of himself, or doesn't have a personality. Even if a girl just go after a guy for his look, do you really think you'd want to be with a girl who is like that?
/r/seduction02/09/12 07:57 PM
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http://www.mediafire.com/?aperi484rb1f56b http://www.mediafire.com/?qju9iwmqkawc6cr you wont find these on torrent sites because their audio files recorded from events, they're not a product.
/r/seduction20/07/12 09:54 PM
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i have two audio files, tell me how to upload them to a site.
/r/seduction19/07/12 09:42 PM
2

i use to feel this way too, whenever i didn't get a social high, i would feel lonely, i would loose almost all of my confidence, i'm on summer break right now, it's been a LONG time since i've approached, it's been long time since i've talked to my friends, majority of the time i'm in my house. I started doing meditation (the point of meditation is to bring love, understanding, and acceptance into your body.) also the power of now really helped, it says not to play this victim, "OH I'M SO LONELY…
/r/seduction18/07/12 05:16 PM
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I would say i'm a story teller, i go to a coffee shop that has an open mic and usually tell my life stories. your story has to be driven and paced so the audience can be invovled, you cant ramble on. It has paced. Talk slowly, when you talk slowly and pause, people really listen. Another thing is to get passionate and emotional, if you're telling a story about your favorite toy, you better express with your body and tonality how much you love this toy! Another good thing is too assume people wil…
/r/seduction16/07/12 05:00 AM
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why not just tell the girl you're sometimes not comfortable in that kinda of setting because you're not use to it. Usually telling a girl how you feel at the present moment can make you more comfortable, i remember telling a girl once i was very nervous and wanted to kiss her, and we made out. Just tell the girl "i'm having a hard time being comfortable with this because i dont do this alot, but i'm sure alot of guys get this way."
/r/seduction14/07/12 05:42 AM
2

instead of ignoring her, just do the OPPOSITE of what male friends do, if they obsess about her, than dont obsess about her. For example in my social circle, 3 guys that are pretty close friends started liking this girl in our group, all of them chased her, talked to her all the time and just act dumb, kept amusing her, i'd just talk to her like she was just another girl, i didn't see her as this AWESOME CHICK that my friends played her out to be, i saw her as a girl who was pretty cool and had …
/r/seduction13/07/12 05:39 PM
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i've lost friends (not good or close ones, just recent ones) I've lsot plenty of women, other than that i haven't really lost much, i did loose a girlfriend because of it, but she was kinda not for me, she accused off things and over reacted to everything, i guess i dodge a bullet.
/r/seduction08/07/12 06:46 AM
1

he may not get the big picture but i do, You can't convince a woman that you're dominant or assertive through your words. It has to show through your actions and emotions. It's not as simple as kissing to prove it either, it has to be you. this whole quote right here sent me into a reality shock, you cannot believe how confidence you made me this very moment.
/r/seduction27/06/12 05:22 AM
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some tips, i'm all day game, and i rarely night game (clubs or bars) ever. What hit me the most was getting comfortable with rejection, sometimes i felt kinda bad getting rejected, but lately, i just dont care.
/r/seduction24/06/12 07:38 AM
1

Its ok to be nice to girls, just have the girl invest in you, have her do things for you. Have her give you rides, take you places, buy you food, hold things for you, assign little jobs for her. you can be nice and say nice things to her, just DON'T INVEST IN HER SO MUCH, have her invest in you. We all want something that we put time and effort into.
/r/seduction13/06/12 07:40 PM
1

i should out and meet people.
/r/seduction08/06/12 11:13 PM
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I know what you're going through man, i have the same problem. especially because i'm on summer break and board at home most of the time.
/r/seduction08/06/12 05:33 PM
1

I wanted to ask, how do you change your line of work every 5 years, I remember my history teacher told me that was a good idea (first he was a lawyer, then a computer programer, then a history teacher.) I'm 22, i dont work at all, i'm going to school majoring in biology. how do you do it? change careers every 5 years
/r/seduction07/06/12 07:52 PM
1

I actually bought the book a while back, i think it very good for beginners and novice (such as myself). What i got from the book itself was some very interesting techniques. Learning to smile with your eyes, whenever you're talking to a girl, pretend she can read your mind, and keep repeating to yourself "i accept you." it is definitely good for beginners.
/r/seduction05/06/12 04:34 AM
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if you need help with vocal power, try this. http://thepiratebay.se/torrent/4278255/Roger_Love_s_Vocal_Power its helped me out alot.
/r/seduction22/04/12 04:30 PM
1

cool, i like this. I'm gonna try this out and see what happens.
/r/seduction18/04/12 05:02 AM
1

My acting teacher once told (i believe this is true too) Body language equals actual emotions. So a girl could say one thing but her body can a whole other story. I usually know when a girl is interested or at least curious about you when they preening themselves or opening their neck.
/r/seduction13/04/12 10:45 AM
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autopilot dialogue is usually because of lack of mental stimulation, which means no one is having that much of a real and interesting conversation. For example, women get hit on alot, most men ask the same questions to women. "where do you work?" "how did you get into that field?" "what are you passionate about?" and most women give autopilot response. THe problem isn't that you're interesting, you're probadly not challenging yourself to new and dangerous things.
/r/seduction12/04/12 06:39 AM
2

maybe you haven't given yourself permission to act your best self around your friends, but be careful, i'm actually the opposite, i say everything that comes to mind (no filters) and my friends hate it. When i am out of state i get a similar issue like you, i cant seem to be my best self around my friends and i seem distant and off. I'm still in the middle of this, maybe like you are so i really cant say what to do, just really hang in there.
/r/seduction12/04/12 05:59 AM
2

i actually agree with CharlesDarwinning. This is a phase, because i am going through it aswell. The mind set that kinda change my perception about this phase "you are your own universe." i got this from a Ekhart Tolle news letter. It pretty much means to me that you are in your own happy place. and everyone in a universe and you know your universe, nothing is wrong about being to yourself, along you're insecure about. Have you tried talking about how you feel about this to your friends?
/r/seduction12/04/12 05:20 AM
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dont know, cant really say. Because you cant really plan this, nor can you really wait for it. you have to pick the appropriate time, you can tell "hey lets go explore this area, just me and you." and say it like it isn't a big deal. while you're walking, give her light punches to the arm (nothing hurtful.) Most importantly, dont concern yourself too much, because when you start to get in your head thats when you loose her. Just have fun, i know it sounds like terrible advise, but you gotta have…
/r/seduction25/03/12 03:25 PM
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just tease her, touch her, have with her, and then when you two are by yourself, start making a move. And if it doesn't go well, who cares. plenty of fish in the sea.
/r/seduction25/03/12 03:14 PM
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uh just make a move. It isn't so hard, even if you fail, at least you learn. Also dont see her rejecting your escalation as "she doesn't like me." see it was "she doesn't want to loose herself in me."
/r/seduction25/03/12 03:05 PM
2

is it like a whole outfit for 69 dollars? like pants and a shirt?
/r/seduction23/03/12 02:12 AM
2

thank you. you're story is an eye opener for me, especially because I'm in my early 20's.
/r/seduction17/03/12 02:49 AM
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that was really good thank you. I kinda know how you feel, i crashed into a ex a while back, kinda the same situation.
/r/seduction14/03/12 06:12 AM
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I think in transformation, Tyler talks about becoming a robot. Almost emotionless, everyone crys unless its some serious medical condition or something else, but most people cry. Its ok to cry when you're happy, thats happen to me too. Dont put so much meaning into emotions, they're fluid, one minute you can be happy and then next you can be sad, best thing to do is not put so much meaning into them or not look into them. It does make you into a robot though.
/r/seduction09/03/12 12:29 AM
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I cry too, its ok. accept it. this is something about you gotta accept. Right now, i've been rejected, used, lead on by women, chased them, had them treat me like shit, and i can say i cannot cry anymore because i cant feel, i feel bitterness, but sometimes men do need bitterness to make them more stronger minded, just dont let it consume you. Also reading the power of now will help you control your emotions, aswell. Get the audio version though.
/r/seduction08/03/12 11:33 PM
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thank you for this post, i am going through actually the same thing.. its feels pretty shitty, but after reading the comments, they're all right, just gotta keep on pushing, i understand how you feel that you never get invited to parties, or how you use to be the life of the party, then things are kinda of different and you seek attention, i am going through that myself. I've texted a bunch of girls, all of them dont respond, which feels like shit.
/r/seduction08/03/12 03:40 AM
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I remember the advise on here a few months back, that said you should never try to get back with your ex, and just move on. A girl i was seeing for 3 months broke up with me last tuesday. It was funny because after that i just didn't want to talk to her, i get a text from her saying she wanted to be friends and be study buddies for our classes, i agreed (but i really just wanted to stop talking to her.) didn't talk to her a for a few days, later i called that week to tell her that i didn't reall…
/r/seduction06/03/12 07:28 AM
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dont try DHV than him, just enjoy the ride, sometimes its ok not to be in charge most of the time, you should just relax and enjoy his friendship, the only time you should be in charge is when you are around a bunch a women or just one girl. (only you, not your friend.), whenever you are with you're friend, just enjoy the ride, suggest a few things to do and act normal like any good friend.
/r/seduction05/03/12 01:54 AM
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yeah i usually do stop playing, i see it, if she isn't having fun, then i wont have fun, its all about me having fun and enjoying myself.
/r/seduction29/02/12 05:12 AM
1

i've actually start playing tic tac toe with people. i haven't gotten rejected, but their were a few girls who weren't exciting playing it.
/r/seduction29/02/12 05:00 AM
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kinda similar question, I go to a small community college, how would i be able to do rejection therapy in a small community college?
/r/seduction29/02/12 03:45 AM
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their was an another audio too, but it was pretty much the same thing.
/r/seduction28/02/12 04:06 PM
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actually adjectives. sorry i was pretty tired when i posted that.
/r/seduction28/02/12 03:19 AM
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I remenber someone once gave me the advise. "learn alot of fucking adjectives". Edit TYPO
/r/seduction27/02/12 11:40 PM
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http://www.fileserve.com/file/d5M9bgk/david wygant - dyd man transformation excerpt.mp3
/r/seduction03/02/12 06:51 AM
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I do. Dunno where i can upload it though.
/r/seduction03/02/12 05:49 AM
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thanks, also was wondering, how can i have the maximum fun out of a conversation? And if a girl isn't having fun with my conversation, should i just bale and find another girl?
/r/seduction02/02/12 04:30 AM
2

What are some good spots/areas for a college student like me that doesn't go to bars or clubs often, that would be good to pick up chicks?
/r/seduction02/02/12 04:20 AM
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I remember Daivd wygant said never go after a girl who isn't giving you her 50% then she is not worth it. For example, the girl i am with now, starting making me snacks, borrowing money (of course i paid her back) and did alot for me. I knew she was awesome that is why i asked her out. She is investing 50% of the relationship, of course i must put the same amount.
/r/seduction24/01/12 01:52 AM
2

i go there aswell. very fun place to hang and chill talk about PU.
/r/seduction20/01/12 05:37 AM
2

Stillness speaks
/r/seduction17/12/11 09:13 PM
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thank you thank you thank you thank you. I really needed. I can say with all this seduction stuff, reading so much, taking so much action, and not taking too much risk. I have gotten myself into a deep shit with women, idk if my mind set was treating women like pieces of meet, the choices that I've made I'm not really happy about, I've played games with women, lead women on, just completely ignored women that i really liked but reject me, gave mixed messages to women, pissed them off, ect. I can…
/r/seduction15/12/11 06:02 AM
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actually giving yourself a man orgasm is about giving yourself a full body orgasm. Your body is shaking, it feels weird to have an orgasm. It isn't the same feeling when you masturbate.
/r/seduction06/12/11 03:22 PM
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i know this may sound weird but it has helped me being better at naturally touching people. Recently i've been messing around giving myself a man orgasm, try to experience what it feels like; read the book The Multi-Orgasmic Man. From what i've learn,(touching myself, all over my body.) When you touch someone, you gotta have the mind set like that you are regularly touching your body and very comfortable with it. Now i touch everyone no big deal. So touch a girl like you would touch your own sel…
/r/seduction06/12/11 04:00 AM
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Now that i think about it, seduction is about building a stronger mindset, but of course the most simplest answers are over looked. (respect yourself) Seduction is different for everyone, i will admit that i am not very proud to be doing what i do, it's very dangerous and can hurt women, but if i didn't fail then i wouldn't really be discovering who i am, most importantly who i am not.
/r/seduction04/12/11 05:36 AM
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This is a really good food for thought. I cant really say much about this, it did resonate with me a lot and you're right. I think pick up is just a guideline, and to me doing pick up is fun, trying new things and adding new personality to myself make me feel like i am growing. Idk maybe its my ego that likes that. Their are bad sides to pick up and their are good side to pick up.
/r/seduction04/12/11 05:20 AM
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this is very true. Just freaking ask.
/r/seduction28/11/11 02:51 AM
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Yeah i know i am an asshole, but she said she needed her space (i'm guessing like a week or something.) She was going through a lot, and now i am kinda going through a lot, i'm actually closed off from most of my friend (cept my really close ones.) But yeah i am indeed a big asshole, that is why this post made me realize i am childish immature asshole.
/r/seduction15/11/11 03:46 PM
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actually it is very solid on inner game, i think it has an impact on everyone's game one way or another. Download it on Pirate bay and give it a chance. Its alot of mental masturbation though.
/r/seduction15/11/11 05:33 AM
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Well not a relationship, just a girl i am flirting with.
/r/seduction15/11/11 05:12 AM
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thank you for this, i am actually going through this whole "mind game" with the girl i am interested in, i'm in college, and i haven't talked/text this girl for like 3 weeks, today i over heard her tell her friend "he hasn't said hi to me in a while." I actually feeling pretty moopy. I did play Mind games with her on purpose, also i am focused on my math class (i'm failing), but you helped me realized that i am a immature little boy, either i should do is talk to her and communicate OR just plai…
/r/seduction15/11/11 04:27 AM
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I was wondering if you could explain the myth a little bit more?
/r/seduction06/11/11 05:00 PM
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its all about your belief, seddit has recently talking about assume attraction/rapport, ect, you create this belief system that the girl is already attracted, well you do the same for oneitis, you gotta believe strongly that you're not into that girl so much, you're not attached, and that you like being single, and you gotta say this everyday to yourself. Just like Pick up, their is no magic pill to cure oneitis, i believe it is something everyone goes through, and should accept. Also keep yours…
/r/seduction04/11/11 08:02 PM
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Well if you believe that will fix your oneitis then go for it, i personally wouldn't think it would fix it if you had sex with another women it wont fill the void, because you're still attached but just supplicating it for something else. Losing attachment from women is whole another level of seduction, i'm facing it right now and it is pretty hard. Losing attachment may be hard, because your thoughts are going to fight with each other, but remember your thoughts are not who you are as a person,…
/r/seduction04/11/11 05:46 PM
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I'm actually going through the same thing right now, i have an abundance mentality (trusting my skills to pick up more women.) but their is a certain girl i like that isn't giving me the attention that i want, so i obsess about her. I actually made it my goal to lose attachment to her, not completely, i still like her and i would still date her, but i'm not so outcome dependent if she goes out with some one else, or doesn't date me. Going through this is normal, my advise is lose attachment to t…
/r/seduction04/11/11 03:29 PM
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I think i might be going through this stage, i've always been a nice guy before, maybe too nice, but now that i've become more high status, i feel like a dick. I'll ignore some women, sometimes say really sarcastic things to them, i sometimes close myself off from other guys who i think are "chumps" because they cant pick up chicks. How do you think i can get around this?
/r/seduction01/11/11 05:55 AM
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Sounds like you have a very healthy and strong mindset. I would recommend anyone who has trouble with state or frame, confidence or whatever to check out Brent smith. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WJTP9_iJalQ He talks about "telling your story" every morning and every night so you can create this amazing life style for yourself. I have to say, i've done it and it works, because you create a crazy belief system. For example, i put in my story that women are always checking me out, and women are …
/r/seduction31/10/11 12:13 AM
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To clarify abundance of women, It doesn't mean you have bunch of women fallowing you, chasing you, or worshiping you. True abundance of women is trusting your skills with women, if the girl you are interested in is a completely waste of your time, you can trust in your skill to find a better quality women than her.
/r/seduction30/10/11 06:23 AM
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totally agree with this, make a move or back down. I say make a move so at least you get the experience of asking women out, even if it goes bad, still women will respect so much more.
/r/seduction25/10/11 03:20 AM
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yeah this guy is trying to hard. If i ever did any of those things listed above, it would most likely 100% be because i am amusing/entertaining myself, but never to the point where i am annoying people trying to get validation. Dont get men wrong, some of them do stupid shit, really they do. They sometimes think it works, it doesn't. That guy was just being in congruent the whole night. let him be a chode.
/r/seduction24/10/11 03:00 AM
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Nice job mate, glad you handled that LMR like a boss.
/r/seduction19/10/11 05:49 PM
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I second this comment. This was great.
/r/seduction19/10/11 02:07 AM
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I use video games to keep myself busy, because whenever i get text from a girl, i always say I'll text that girl.... after this 30 min match or something. Someone also suggested when you're having women troubles, and you need your space, video games is a good way to relax and kill steam. Pretty sure its good for break ups too.
/r/seduction19/10/11 01:54 AM
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you're probadly right. I think i will give seddit a break, and stop reading/watching/listening to pick up material for a long time. I notice sometimes it ruins my inner game because i think i'm doing successful then i read something that says "you did this wrong." then i pretty much loose confidence from there.
/r/seduction11/10/11 03:32 AM
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Thank you for sharing this. I wouldn't say my approaches are very forward or aggressive, but now i know abit of down side if i do become more forward with my approaches.
/r/seduction09/10/11 04:12 AM
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I made my goal that i will NOT MASTURBATE UNTIL I GET A K-CLOSE. Which is pretty extreme but it motivates you.
/r/seduction02/10/11 02:56 AM
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yeah her flipping her hair is an IOI. Pretty much means "see my pretty face." you'll notice too that girls will flip their hair even when they have it in a phony tail. That always makes me laugh.
/r/seduction01/10/11 05:04 AM
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should bring it back alive. But i think everyone is too busy "sarging".
/r/seduction26/09/11 02:45 AM
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Yeah i understand what you are saying, if i put high value on something i might scared and paranoid and think i might loose it because it is so valuable. But how i see it, if you have abundance mentality, you really dont worry if something is valuable or not, because I feel if loose a high status girl, it will be ok because I believe more will come, and of course, some will go. So i'm not scared of loosing anything valuable because i know the world is filled more valuable things.
/r/seduction25/09/11 07:07 PM
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I've never finish reading the game, i was half way through with it. It would seem that tyler was a huge asshole and probably was a poser, because most of his products teach how to feel good from one self. Instead of thinking he was a poser, i think he just had identity issues, but everyone who starts doing PU usually have that. (i do too. ex: nice guy than acting like a bad boy.) But i do say i respect Neil a lot more than Tyler sometimes.
/r/seduction25/09/11 03:52 PM
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Jealous that you met tyler, pro badly one of my fav PUA.
/r/seduction25/09/11 03:05 PM
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true, but i am still focused on something.
/r/seduction25/09/11 12:30 PM
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I always use "awh you're such a good friend."
/r/seduction21/09/11 11:01 PM
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haha! i'm actually doing the same stuff as you. Recently i've been telling girls perverted things like Spit or shallow in a joking way. So pretty much a bunch of girls are mad at me, but i did it so i push boundaries, to see how far they'll let me get away with things. So yeah a few of them are mad, some girls don't take it very seriously, and just like say "BOTH!"
/r/seduction16/09/11 03:49 AM
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Thank you for this, i usually get put in the boyfriend-zone/husband zone which isn't bad. i am looking for a relationship, but i did get into seduction to get SNL. This pretty much opened my eyes.
/r/seduction12/09/11 04:46 AM
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you think getting a boner is a problem?! NO ITS NOT! Embrace it, it's your body sending blood to your penis, WHICH MEANS YOUR TURNED ON. It is natural to have a boner, girls are quite flattered by it because she can turn you on. If you think something stupid, then you're wrong. Be proud of your boner! IT IS THE SHIT. You pretty much created this idea in your head that you deserve a lot better, NEWS FLASH! Even if you get the girl of your dreams, you wont be happy. I'm actually in the same situat…
/r/seduction08/09/11 01:12 AM
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Its just wayyyyy too much. I've seen all of it too, best way to summarize everything, be self assumed, you're already a great person who doesn't need to be fixed but you should fix at most 10% of yourself, with tweaks. in this video tyler talks a lot about it more in detailed. But the blue print discusses how society has condition us to act and think a certain way.
/r/seduction03/09/11 07:49 PM
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glad you enjoyed it too. I've recently ive finished the blue print, and i am download the rest of the RSD stuff to get more of it. I know what you're talking about, my new attitude has been attracting girls left and right, and it is super crazy. I haven't been getting K-closed or f-closed but it has truely change the way i think and see things.
/r/seduction03/09/11 03:30 PM
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DO NOT BLAME WOMEN EVER. Accept that you're the annoying guy, dont try to fight it, if you fight then it will come out the worse way.
/r/seduction30/08/11 05:09 AM
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you're right. Keep it simple. I shouldn't have crazy idea's in my head.
/r/seduction29/08/11 04:13 AM
1

thanks for this tofutofu. I always have a problem escalating it physically sexually, I do kino very well, but i never go in for the kiss or anything. Any advise?
/r/seduction29/08/11 03:37 AM
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^ agreed. Make your focus on getting good at game, not getting girls. OP should watch Real Social Dynamics - The Blueprint Decoded.
/r/seduction28/08/11 04:58 PM
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Dont worry trust me, I pretty much when through the same thing with you, but this girl wasn't my girlfriend. Pretty much me and this girl been flirting for quite some time now, everything was going good, until i started having family problems, my grandamother died and this had a huge impact on my emotions, i didn't know how to control them. So i started talking to the girl more for emotional relief and comfort (a lot of times men like to think that a girl can fix our problems. NO this is wrong, …
/r/seduction27/08/11 11:20 PM
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I actually bought the tao of badass. It was a lot better than i expected. IT is very very useful for noobies, some intermediate might get some useful information out of it. For pros, they wont need it. I am still a noobie so it was really useful.
/r/seduction25/08/11 04:14 PM
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holy crap. thank so much. this will help mold and perfect my art of text game. (which i totally suck at.)
/r/seduction24/08/11 05:48 AM
2

What are some do's and dont in text game?
/r/seduction24/08/11 05:05 AM
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you're right. It usually takes a while for me to get transition from attraction to rapport. I barely just got the handle on that. Thanks you opened my eyes.
/r/seduction24/08/11 02:29 AM
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I have a problem with flakes. Majority of the women i talk to flake on me. i dont know how to get a girl invested. I also have trouble closing aswell, i open and flirt pretty well, but when its time to close, i dont make any moves. I fail shit test alot, especially compliance shit test, or the shit test "youre a nice guy." i usually validate myself, which is stupid.
/r/seduction24/08/11 01:45 AM
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Question 1. You could reply with "oh you know you love it." Never react negative to a girls comment, the minute you feel distress from whatever she might say, you'll drop the ball. I've done before where girls will tell me to stop (jokingly) and i stop and the attraction goes down. You stop teasing her WHEN YOU WANT TO STOP TEASING HER. It's your choice, your lead, whatever. you make the moves. But dont stay on teasing too much, try making fun of yourself a little too, turn serious situation int…
/r/seduction17/08/11 11:08 PM
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oh i see, i understand. Well, It's usually us (the men) who create awkwardiness. Women tend to react to whatever emotion you are feeling, you're job is to lead that emotion. So instead feeling awkward, feel great about yourself that you grew, have a big kool-aid smile on your face. THe reason why you're stuck to this girl because you put in a lot of emotional energy into this girl. I believe you should take a small brake from her, maybe a few months, so you get yourself together and just focus o…
/r/seduction16/08/11 08:27 PM
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whoa slow down. you're in your head too much, first of all, if you want her to be a bit interested in you, use kino. start touching her more, but in the appropriate way, second. Flirt with other women (move on). you're stuck in your head too much, you said you dont want to ask her out because "what will my friends think?" or you'll be afraid to get rejected. It's better to make a move than to thinking about making a move or regret making a move. I'd say ask her out anyways, just so you can build…
/r/seduction16/08/11 08:03 PM
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Haven't you ever been touched by someone and get surge of energy in your body? Kino is important because it shows that you aren't afraid to touch someone, and when you touch someone. they like you more. Talking is fine, but most of the things you say wont subconsciously go through a person mind, Most of the time, a women is checking if your body language to see what you are saying matches.
/r/seduction16/08/11 05:59 AM
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Maybe because she has this Alpha Female reality that needs validation all the time Tofu tofu, And you aren't validating it because you are a fucking man. She wants to see if you're beta or not. From WHAT I'VE SEEN! Not experienced, most alpha female women want beta men, they want to them to take care of them, validate their reality, to chase her, anything beta. Because it will make them feel good about themselves. Answer this, did she try to lead her friends? because i remember i delt with a Alp…
/r/seduction16/08/11 12:59 AM
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I second the BluePrint aswell, i started watching it, half through with it. holy crap, i totally see everything different now. It has made huge impact on my game and on my life. Once im finish watching it, i'm gonna to watch more, like 4 times because what Owen covers is some crazy deep shit.
/r/seduction14/08/11 03:01 AM
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awesome! sounded you learned a lot on the boot camp. Whenever i start making some serious dosh i'm hoping to take a boot camp with david wygant or/and Owen Cook from RSD. We should see more reviews in this subreddit. Reviews on products, bootcamps, instructors, ect. Thank you for contributing.
/r/seduction10/08/11 06:45 AM
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Nice work Tofutofu, hopefully if you come around LA someday, i would love if you show me how the heck you do this all. amazing work, keep it up.
/r/seduction06/08/11 05:47 PM
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awesome advise right there.
/r/seduction04/08/11 12:25 AM
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thats a great book. A lot of useful tools to make friends and make encounters super easier for you. Also, I get what shotnshots is saying, instead of making your story so negative, make it positive. "Women love when i do this, women love when i do that." "women love that i'm a virgin because they know i'll be stiff as a rock. women want to teach me about sex, kino, escalating, and teasing." turn your story around so you can feel so much better about yourself. because the minute you put yourself …
/r/seduction03/08/11 04:02 PM
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Also have strong eye contact. eye contact is universal for "i'm interested in you."
/r/seduction02/08/11 04:40 PM
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dont let your penis control you. It can make a crap load of mistakes, i've been down that path before.
/r/seduction31/07/11 08:40 PM
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Are you dealing with this baby face issues because YOU want to get rid of it? or are you trying to get rid of it because of people keep telling you have a baby face?
/r/seduction31/07/11 05:43 PM
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If she broke up with this guy and is cool with it, i'm pretty sure she's fine. I actually think she might have been the one who broke with the guy. She MIGHT be interested because she wanted to hang out with you a lot, i'm pretty sure aswell that she's been deciding to break up with this guy for some time now. What you need to do is get her a little more attracted to you, build some small rapport (what you two have in common) and then ask her out. this should not take that long. Also before you …
/r/seduction30/07/11 03:59 PM
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Dont over think it. Just ask her out, if she says no then oh well, what doesn't kill make you stronger. You dont want to go around regretting asking her out. She might not be showing IOI, but it doesn't mean she is not interested in you. Most of the time when you're cool with women and not a needy clingy orbiter, they'll sometimes think "hey this guy would be pretty cool to date.". Go ahead and ask her out. DO NOT COME TO THIS SUBREDDIT DEBATING TO ASK A GIRL OUT OR NOT, JUST BECAUSE SHE DOESN'T…
/r/seduction30/07/11 06:56 AM
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Pain body kinda reminds of Self Sabotage. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zZKs1uOc964
/r/seduction27/07/11 04:12 PM
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I'd say i have some decent body langauge but i still have a lot to perfect. I'd say body language is my stronger skill in Pick up, next to speaking! But my most weakest skill is texting, i can get girl attracted but once i text her, i loose it because i'm terrible at it. :( anyways To help keep my body straight, i would lay two not so wide books on the floor, lay my head on the books with my back straight and my legs making a V (only your feet should be touching the ground). Do this for 15 minut…
/r/seduction18/07/11 03:10 AM
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try to stay in the stage of attraction as long as you like too. Attraction is the most funnest stage! you can do anything there, if you screw up who cares? Attraction is about being light, funny, fun, child like, mysterious , then rapport/connecting is about being a little bit heavier, and connecting. Unless you know 100% what you are doing and where you are going, never jump to rapport right away. I've made this mistake plenty of times.
/r/seduction17/07/11 10:24 PM
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you have to learn when to be serious and when to be funny. Its always best to be funny during the attraction stage, you're teasing her, you're using cocky humor, ect. But during the rapport stage, dont tell any jokes just get serious and tell stories or connect. you can throw in a few chuckles into your stories.
/r/seduction17/07/11 08:10 PM
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Congrats man! you got this! :D
/r/seduction13/07/11 02:40 AM
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you're better off telling her you're thinking about how many twix bars you could eat before you die, than trying to play it cool. Goofy is OK and very beneficial in moderation. Humor loosens people up. true to this. I just got off the phone with a girl i've been lightly flirting with. we had moment of silence, instead of trying to think of anything witty, clever, or something amazing to say. I talked about how i cant think of anything to talk about. "man i have nothing to talk about, my mind is …
/r/seduction11/07/11 05:57 AM
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Thanks. How long did it take you to get excellent with Japanese women?
/r/seduction08/07/11 10:10 PM
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can you make a step by step guide on how to get japanese women? :p
/r/seduction08/07/11 09:16 PM
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haha i do the quite opposite. I usually the first to introduce myself, and I try to find some common ground with the guy who is hitting on my friend. Like if he's wearing a pink floyd t-shirt, i'll ask him whats his favorite song, album, and so on. then move on, create a funny nick name for him. Also this works perfectly with girls who have boyfriends. Always introduce yourself first to the Boyfriend, ask for his name, and say 'how are you doing blank?" ask if he's enjoying himself, come off as …
/r/seduction07/07/11 06:58 PM
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As i saw it, he told it as a story. He Involved the Audience (you, me and everyone else watching) in his story. So we can understand how he feels. Sometimes telling a compelling story, argument, or speech is very manipulative, but in a different way.
/r/seduction07/07/11 04:37 PM
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Its pretty great. i had a girl once text me in the middle of the night to play it. And it's always fun that you can text her much later when you're not "busy" and she'll reply back very quick.
/r/seduction07/07/11 04:00 PM
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it isn't anything fancy just mindless fun texting a girl. So pretty much you text a girl declaring a text war "I declare a text war on you, i will text you something and you gotta come back with something that will beat it. you cannot use the same word twice." For example, i like to use one word text. So you text her "fox", now she has to beat that, she can reply with "bear" and then you have to beat that, "shotgun", ect. so you two text back and forth answer that you gotta beat. I haven't reall…
/r/seduction07/07/11 05:12 AM
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I do a text war, but picture war is better.
/r/seduction07/07/11 12:30 AM
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KNOW the meaning/ending of our story. if you dont know the meaning of the stroy. the whole story will become useless if you dont know what it means.
/r/seduction05/07/11 08:19 AM
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remember to breathe two in (through your nose) and two out (through your mouth), your nose is the quickest and best way to full up your stomach with air. Breathe slowly.
/r/seduction04/07/11 07:33 PM
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thank you. I appreciate your input to this community.
/r/seduction02/07/11 05:25 AM
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What i meant was making it your own was taking in the information however you like, if its garbage or not. Making it your own is having your own opinion and thoughts on it and building a philosophy around it.
/r/seduction02/07/11 05:23 AM
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I know they dont pick up women. What I'm trying to say is that women should be having discussion picking up with women with us and the seduction community. Even if they don't pick up women, its still good to hear their perspective on how men pick them up. you're free to take in whatever information you'd like.
/r/seduction02/07/11 05:09 AM
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you're quick to reply, but not quick enough to listen. :(
/r/seduction02/07/11 02:31 AM
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Not true. some women like to be match makes. for example the wing girl method. http://www.winggirlmethod.com/ And /r/seddit isn't just about Being seccessful picking up women. Its a life style. It so much more.
/r/seduction02/07/11 02:28 AM
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That is not true. Men aswell give bad advise, feedback, ect. It really doesn't matter on the sex. It matter with the person, and experience.
/r/seduction02/07/11 02:16 AM
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Any information is useful as long if can make it your own. A very useless feedback is "be nice" and not explain anything.
/r/seduction02/07/11 01:07 AM
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cant wait for this! :D
/r/seduction27/06/11 06:40 PM
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Less is more is an acting technique. Most acting teachers will tell you that they would like you to over react less than to over react more. for example..
/r/seduction24/06/11 05:45 AM
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What about "Less is more."
/r/seduction24/06/11 02:21 AM
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Nice work! :D I liked how you handle the cutting in line test.
/r/seduction21/06/11 05:44 AM
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I remember watching a Video of you from the 21 Convention http://www.the21convention.com/2011/04/17/rob-judge-t21c-2010/ and i thought you spoke some solid truth. Also i thought it was funny and true when you said when men go to clubs in group, they go all middle evil and just bust in all pumped up and testosterone out. I just shake my head in disappointment.
/r/seduction15/06/11 02:19 AM
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haha i do something similiar but what you speak is the truth. Sometimes my mistakes bug me a little. Like 20 minutes ago i just got off the phone with a girl. She's been giving me some cold responses lately so i talked to her to see what is up. During the conversation i told her to give me negative feed back, and she told me that she likes the way i hit on her but she see's me as easy to take advantage off (this might be true, i am very nice to everyone but i am not that nice. I have not given a…
/r/seduction07/06/11 04:38 AM
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I think i might do that bottle thing. Digging it up and realizing everything is all in the past. Sometimes i let my past bug me..
/r/seduction06/06/11 04:57 AM
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if you cant remember her name. create a nick name for her. that might work. Try inviting her out for drinks. something like "hey (insert nickname) I think we should get our DRANK ON TONIGHT! :-)" something like that, you can get a little creative yourself.
/r/seduction05/06/11 04:50 PM
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If you dont like you're smile so much you can either * Pratice to till you like you're smile * instead of smiling, you could approach with a happy but very confident smirk on your face. Like you just blow up the whole world and you're ready to do it again. * or do the david wygant technique where you imagine in your head that the girl you approached is masturbating to you. you give out a sexual vide which people will take you more serious. A good smile are all in the eyes. Really it is, try movi…
/r/seduction03/06/11 04:06 PM
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Thanks. I always pay close attention to my speech class or acting class. Here's what i gather from my speech class, when you're talking or listening to someone talk (listen to a girl.) dont touch your body, shift your weight, or swing your body around that is also leaking energy and it also means you're engery is all over the place and gives off nervious signal. What you should do is either have your hands by your side or you can cross your hands together like this but palm to plam. One back of …
/r/seduction02/06/11 09:17 PM
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I'm going to repost this again, but i took an acting class two semisters ago and I learn so much from teacher. Here's what i've collected. If you wont believe, they wont believe (so if you dont believe in your performance. then the audience wont believe) Take up space (the space you aren't taking up is negative energy.) We once had to act our a small scene cramped up together. Why must you take up space? because the audience has to see you as a whole. If everyone was scatter all over the place, …
/r/seduction02/06/11 02:57 PM
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they say high school friends dont matter after you graduate which i beleive is true. One of my friend, he was my second best friend and me and him would do a lot more things than my first best friend, after high school he join the air force, and he became an asshole for no reason we dont talk at all, and a similar situation is happening RIGHT now with a group of friends. My other group of friends are in a band together, they're cool and chill but they never invite me to event unless to their con…
/r/seduction02/06/11 05:28 AM
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Mayson I love reading your submission on here. The ideas are very basic, but EXTREMELY HELPFUL. I listen to your first podcast, i thought it was pretty amazing.
/r/seduction30/05/11 04:54 PM
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I wanted to go to his free lecture in L.A but couldn't because i didn't have ride there... :( Him, david wygant, and other PU coaches speak solid truth. What i like the most about tyler is that he comes up with some creative and fun ways to teach pick up. He similar to mes (but he is much more successful.) how he has fun with pick up, doesn't take serious and personality is chill. I hope he does an AMA on seddit. :D
/r/seduction30/05/11 05:14 AM
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Dont worry so much about keeping a conversation a live, be comfortable with silence. (not too comfortable) Number 1 thing i use to break a shy girl to becoming a little social with you, by telling how much fun you're having with them. It wont work so well with a conversation. I was dancing with this shy girl at a party and i told her "i'm having a lot of fun right now" and i gave her a warm smile. after that she opened up a lot more. Another thing is too be playful, laugh a lot, laugh at yoursel…
/r/seduction30/05/11 12:19 AM
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haha thanks i could had used that. Maybe next time. :D
/r/seduction27/05/11 03:50 PM
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If you do go out in big groups with other women, be friendly. Control the situation. If men or single man approaches the group, you gotta be the one to set the mood to be friendly, fun and exciting. Because today i approached a group of four women (i wasn't trying to pick them up.) I really wanted to know what the heck they were doing. they were all over the place taking pictures and moving around. When i opened them up, the Alpha female of the group took control and tried putting me down, sayin…
/r/seduction27/05/11 05:53 AM
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Another good tip is to put lotion on your arms after a shower. It will make your hands very soft and sensual. This is very useful when you wanna touch people. another tip if you have acne. Try washing your face with cold water ever 3 hours or so. If your skin gets very dry, try putting on non-comedogenic sunblock so it wont clog up your pours.
/r/seduction26/05/11 05:10 AM
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Another useful tip. Always clean your razor when you're done. with hot water, to clean and remove bacteria.
/r/seduction26/05/11 04:47 AM
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ok
/r/seduction26/05/11 04:16 AM
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you'd be surpised. A LOT of men stair at womens feet. Actually stairing at the feet tell you a lot about a person. If a women takes care of her feet then she probably takes good care of HERSELF. remember no one likes ugly feet.
/r/seduction26/05/11 01:11 AM
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It's alpha because you're taking care of yourself. Especailly because feet aren't taken very care of, specially women. some women dont care of their feet, which is very unattractive.
/r/seduction26/05/11 12:36 AM
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Useful tip for feet. your toe nails have to be straight. The best time to clip your toe nails and finger nails is AFTER a shower. you need to cut straight and dont clip the egdes of your nails. instead file them them down with a nail filer.
/r/seduction26/05/11 12:34 AM
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Haha I actually use thos on girls. "awh you're such a good friend!" Every time i tell this to a girl, their faces turn from a smile :D to a :| bland face. I wasn't sure it worked but it is a good tease.
/r/seduction25/05/11 11:45 PM
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Thanks Tofu Tofu. Really excited about DJ Fuji. Seen him on 21 convention. AMAZING SPEECH!
/r/seduction24/05/11 02:47 PM
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TofuTofu y u no show face. grrr Another great post :D I really liked the Bro Disqualifier. I live in LA with majority of hispanics so i might use "You're so awesome. You're a real homie."
/r/seduction13/05/11 04:42 PM
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Thanks Tofu Tofu, recently it's been hard identifying myself in those categories. But what i discovered was all women are attracted to CONFIDENT MEN! Of course you're personalities has to add to it aswell. Theirs times i'm just too nice guy or i'm too much of a leader and it kinda ruins my game. So i decided to change my behavior alot. By recording how i talk, how i deliver my words, and how to improve. thank you for this post
/r/seduction08/05/11 06:36 AM
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Thanks! definitely what i was looking for. Podcast are great.
/r/seduction25/04/11 11:11 PM
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Most people just use AFC to describe most men in general. I even do it too. AFC isn't just some guy who cant get chicks, or is the nice guy. AFC are also guys who try to hard to impress, they think too much, or anything bad that they're doing trying to seduce the opposite sex. Like being to sleezy, having a mean look on his face, ect Sounds to me you really don't like the mystery side of seduction. (you don't want your family too see apart of the seduction community, you don't using the word sar…
/r/seduction23/04/11 11:01 PM
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what is a lair?
/r/seduction23/04/11 09:14 PM
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What got you here in the first place? /r/sex introduce me to this subreddit At first when i started reading /r/seduction I didn't agree with it, I was almost PUA hating (never post comments though). I was AFC/nice guy and a push over, i need some help. I wasn't in a bad situation but I couldn't attract women, and I was very needed and I was an orbitor to my best friends sister. It got pretty bad because i would like text everyday and text her like 3 times a day. Until I saw the thread with david…
/r/seduction20/04/11 11:30 PM
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oh i'd like free coaching, but my story isn't very interesting. :( haha i wouldn't mind hearing your voice. LOL
/r/seduction20/04/11 06:04 AM
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usually its best to watch women compliment other women. The energy they have is so amazing they have this moment for like 3 seconds. Energy is the best thing to compliment on, or saying why you like about that person. I remember a long time ago before i knew about PUA i remember telling a girl that i could tell she was a fun person and that she had great positive energy. She ate that up.
/r/seduction17/04/11 07:16 AM
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I think their are appropriate times to laugh. I didn't explain this on my previous comment about how laughing makes you more attractive. I tried doing poker faces to women (usually because i forget to smile.) they don't really give me IOIs. maybe not laughing when HB is trying to be funny you should go poker face on her. (I'm going to test this) Usually i laugh at my own jokes, I've notice women stair me down like they want a piece of me. If you check my comments from a previous thread, i talked…
/r/seduction15/04/11 01:43 AM
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well it worked for me most of the times. you really got think of it as entertaining yourself. What i think really kills a joke is reacting way too much. I remember watching a PUA video (cant remember) it was called cocky humor, he explained that laughing is unconscious and we don't really know when we do it. that's why we cant force a laugh. Also if you study people, when someone laughs out loud, other people will laugh out loud with them. It could make you look lame if you do it lame. Instead i…
/r/seduction12/04/11 11:28 PM
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these teasing technique really work well in a college area or in day game. I haven't yet tested them in bars. (not a bar person) But another helpful tip is to really crack up on your joke, like if its the most funniest thing ever. Women faces start glow with joy. :D Learn to change your mood. be happy then the next second be serious. Sometimes its ok to say things like an ass then finish it in a humorous way. you're playing with your own emotions, which means you're more alive than most people a…
/r/seduction12/04/11 09:26 PM
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I believe it good to show interest in a women, but you should have uncertainty in the back of your mind. From what i learn a cool chick could easily turn into not so cool chick in seconds. Its good to be interested in a chick but always have the mentality that they can turn into bad fruits. you should always remind chicks by "wow you're a pretty cool chick, but i haven't seen the bad side of you yet... we'll see what happens to you." you gotta seem like you'll loose interest in the girl just as …
/r/seduction10/04/11 08:47 AM
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http://www.amazon.com/How-Talk-Anyone-Success-Relationships/dp/007141858X this book is good. It also have some good tips to learn.
/r/seduction09/04/11 09:45 PM
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thanks for the link. this is gonna be helpful. Now i have something to practice over spring break.
/r/seduction31/03/11 04:41 AM
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If anything I use it as a joke on myself "AWH SHIT I'M ACTING AFC AGAIN." it can be a confident killer but not so much.
/r/seduction31/03/11 04:30 AM
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thess are pretty good. I gonna try these out. :D
/r/seduction29/03/11 01:17 AM
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Shit test's are when women ask you very tricky questions. I remember i was hanging out with this girl, and we both kinda liked each other. She pulls out her phone and says "would you ever date this girl?" it was someone she hated. pretty much I acted quick and pulled out my phone. I had a picture of a honey badger (to remind myself to be fearless like him and NOT GIVE A FUCK) and showed her the picture and said "would you ever date this?" She replys "EW WHATS THAT?!?!" Me: "ITS MY DOG! you're ma…
/r/seduction28/03/11 04:45 AM
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Oh i understand. they must be noobies. I remember when i first started doing PU i would do only Push and that got me into a lot of trouble. I remember a girl yelling at her because i called her mean. I was trying to hard to neg her. What would you have done instead if you were in that situation?
/r/seduction25/03/11 01:55 AM
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You'd be surprise how many men cant read body language. Mostly because they're too stuck in their heads think of the right thing to say.
/r/seduction25/03/11 01:40 AM
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Could give you us an example of what they were doing?
/r/seduction24/03/11 11:33 PM
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Great video. WORTH THE WATCH!
/r/seduction21/03/11 01:53 PM
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agreed. now that this subreddit is getting popular fast. people are gonna post anything for easy karma.
/r/seduction20/03/11 02:52 AM
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I'm about to turn 21 in 3 months. I've notice i've made a lot of these mistakes already, of course fixing them. I think i'm going to save a lot of money, energy and tears now.
/r/seduction18/03/11 03:41 AM
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dont make it too obvious that you're picking them up. Dont try so hard. you gotta come off as calm, save, and relaxed.
/r/seduction17/03/11 04:17 AM
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Read a book for 15 minutes before you go out and sarge. Read it out loud and Loud as you can! or soft can you if you wanna practicing whispering loud. remember to take pauses and breathe at every period so you wont have the habit of talking to fast.
/r/seduction07/03/11 05:33 AM
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I've been meaning to do this, once i got the free time and money to spend. Also take the time walk around new places you haven't been too, and remember the street you never know when a beautiful women might need directions. I was thinking we should make another seddit locator but with great places to eat, take dates, clubs, AWESOME BARS, grocery stores, ect any place hidden, I got few amazing restaurants i know that are amazing.
/r/seduction01/03/11 06:14 AM
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Learning PU is a slow but productive process. Once you learn abit more theory and go out on the field and you fail. you slowly begin to understand your own insecurities and mistakes. Remember it's slow learning. Their are times you wish you hadn't made those mistakes with the girl you want to hit it off but PU isn't about getting that one girl. Just try your best to go out every day and take baby steps. I liked "The game" alot but i would agree that it's a novel. But a good read non the less.
/r/seduction12/02/11 05:58 AM
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Great this is awesome! I've been wanting to get David wygant to do an IAMA in this subreddit.
/r/seduction24/01/11 12:16 AM
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