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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Paternity You should look at those results with a therapist to help you deal with whatever feelings you experience	/r/Divorce_Men	14/10/24 07:54 PM
6	Paternity You can have a paternity test done thru your kids doctor...and regardless of what your lawyer or court says plz do so before you're ordered to pay child support on a child that potentially isn't yours. It's extremely difficult to get that child support removed once you gotta start paying it All that the courts want is that the kids are taken care of financially til they're 18 years of age. They don't care if the kid is actually related to both parents or not until it's proven otherwise	/r/Divorce_Men	14/10/24 07:52 PM
1	How to deal with been physically terrified of marrying my girlfriend Yeah and have a prenup and pre martial counseling...and get a financial planner. Know them better than they know themselves financially. Cause you are planning on spending years and years with them...it's an investment in a future and they're supposed be your rock when times are tough. I've gotten burned a few times before. Didn't marry them...but I DID find the secrets they tried to hide...like the drug use to try to handle major depression from the loss of loved ones for example...and they ref…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/06/24 11:28 PM
4	How to deal with been physically terrified of marrying my girlfriend Moving forward with someone can definitely be stressful and especially so if you already have some form of anxiety. Take a few deep breaths...it will be okay. Here's some tips: Have a separate lease (doing this will allow for an easier time of breaking the lease if things get crazy or y'all just break up) and live together for at least a year before deciding to finalize a marriage. If y'all can afford it...get a 2 bedroom. This way should you decide to break the lease or not renew, it will be ea…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/06/24 11:19 PM
6	There's nothing I can do. Don't let the divorce affect your personal growth and allow yourself time to grieve without becoming bitter (therapy really helps with this). Regardless of who you are with or not with...pursue the highest form of yourself. And since you know where and how you messed up in your relationship try not to repeat the same with the next. You're doing good. And definitely better than before the divorce.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/05/24 03:25 AM
1	Gross Income. Exactly. And don't have kids	/r/Divorce_Men	16/05/24 04:46 PM
7	Gross Income. This is why pre nups and post nups are super important	/r/Divorce_Men	14/05/24 03:20 AM

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