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I'm gonna be deleting my account now. Goodbye 👋
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:26 AM
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This conversation has gone on so long idk what your original objection even was lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:48 PM
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The posts are whatever it's just creative writing and I assume all are fake. But it's the thousands of comments and upvotes that excuse the behaviour which blackpill me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:33 PM
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I try so hard to not be a misogynist but AITA always proves me wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:27 PM
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Whores are gonna whore
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:26 PM
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Def not. The only correct take is that the dad chose to be moral at the cost of his familial ties. But of course when a woman is involved there's suddenly room for nuance
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:13 PM
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Yeah I don't plan on talking to girls anyway. Just gonna enjoy some drinks and conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:08 PM
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Why are women like this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:59 PM
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Holy shit the comments are just fuelling my misogyny today. There's suddenly so much nuance and room for interpretation when women cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:45 PM
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What else would I base it on? Random statistics from people that I've never met or real life individuals who I know? I don't think it's wrong to form a world view based on your experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:51 PM
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But you should respect everyone that you love
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:39 PM
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Ugly girls don't want me either lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:39 PM
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I'm not hot enough for that lmao plus hookups don't appeal to me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:32 PM
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21 is ok, right on the border before becoming a virgin turns into a red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:31 PM
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Love and respect go hand in hand
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:28 PM
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Why would you make children with a woman that does not live you and you don't love her. To have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:50 PM
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Doing my part 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:20 PM
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Agree but there's another option which is just to not choose. It's hard though fs
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:17 PM
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If children are your priority then yeah. But spending the years with a woman who doesn't actually love you is not a win. Plus when the kids leave the nest all you'll have is each other
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:07 PM
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Gonna go on a bar crawl tomorrow just to be told I'm a loser who doesn't touch grass by you lot
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:00 PM
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There's no winning for late bloomer men. Only settling
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:54 PM
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My friend said the same thing once. "I don't think you've ever talked about a girl to us before" And I was just like yeah that's true
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:37 PM
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Doesn't happen for everyone. Not ever man's voice gets super deep
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 02:33 PM
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Cut and Jubilee videos are awful and the gen z equivalent of buzzfeed brainrot
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 02:33 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 02:32 PM
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Cats are a feminine pet so it's an ick
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 02:32 PM
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But I do lmaooo I love yapping
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:48 PM
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Lenny the shark is a sex symbol don't hate
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:44 PM
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I'm such a house plant lol people tell me everything and idk why. Is it because I'm "emotionally available" or am I just so neutral that people want to bounce stuff off of me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:43 PM
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They're both mid wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:41 PM
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I've liked plenty of women on a personal level but I've only had a serious crush like once or twice in my life. Is that what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:38 PM
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Blackpilled again
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:08 PM
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I get really grossed out when girls call me bestie. It always comes across as condescending or patronizing. Like you can just call me ur friend y'know
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:56 AM
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I would have loved to have met my person at 19 and grown with them. Instead I'll probably only get a meager chance when I'm in my 30s and a girl is looking to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:54 AM
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How old are you, and when did you meet your husband
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:06 AM
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Have I been terminally online enough on this sub to create any type of persona yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:51 AM
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My favourite show ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:51 AM
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Dutch football is full of goals. Ligue un is a bit boring and the same team wins every year
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:49 AM
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Industrialization and women in the workplace
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:45 PM
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"Nooooo we can't have kids because it's too expensive and there's no support for parents!!!!" meanwhile and one of the most liberal child friendly countries in the world People will blame the government, the economy, their jobs and men as a gender before they confront the real reason that people don't have kids anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:40 PM
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Imagine if a white guy talked about Asian girls like that. It's so gross
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:38 PM
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I'm not mad more like amused that someone can have cheat codes to the game and still lose
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:31 PM
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Netherlands seems more fun. Better football and weed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:31 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/dzp3o6wikelc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fd6f6bf894425fb8166e689110ecf970af5ec6a6 Bruh wth is this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:30 PM
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They all 3 wanna go see it I'm screwed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:49 PM
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But I'm the one who suggested we hang out 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:44 PM
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Ughhh my friends wanna go see Madame web. Wtf dude I'm not spending $15 to go see a bad movie
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:32 PM
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Here's the thing. It was nice to be rich and beautiful at any time in history. There's nothing wrong with wishing you had the life of rich noble in those videos
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 06:16 PM
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Project mgmt
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 05:06 PM
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I'm getting a promotion at work guys!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:15 PM
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She's only 17. I'm 24. Considering how most women my age seem to be I don't really want a partner anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:31 PM
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Incels are taken from almodt every race. They're also more nerdy and not aesthetic at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:27 PM
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I love my little sister more than anyone in the world. She's the only thing that keeps me going sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:22 PM
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Wayyy off. These are just sad white boys
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:21 PM
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I meet someone, we have things in common. We hang out. I can have as many friends as I want. Can only have 1 gf
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:07 PM
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Get what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:02 PM
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I have friends
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:58 PM
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Yeah fs. It's not a female only thing. But at least you have enough options to back away from the scene and still find someone. If a male wanted to say "I don't want to deal with that" then he'd find no one would want to date him at all, and he'd just be called insecure or something
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:58 PM
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I love social interaction, when I'm not being appraised. I love making new friends for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:50 PM
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So do mine . Well I guess one does lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:50 PM
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Yeah you could be actually having a good time. You think that the vibes are good and stuff but the girl has sooo many options of course she's gonna be comparing you to the other dates she went on this week or if you're hotter than whoever is peeking around your DMs. It doesn't matter how you (the guy) feel, it's a constant competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:49 PM
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I don't want an IG model. But even my most average looking female friends have 4-8 guys in their DMs at any given time plus their app options.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:45 PM
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It's not a woman thing though. This is just expectations and modern dating
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:43 PM
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Being proactive, funny, charming, and confident is all stuff that the man HAS to do if he wants a shot. The woman is well within her rights to fuck around with other men if she wants. That's how dating works now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:30 PM
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I'm just not gonna play then
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:28 PM
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I mean you're exaggerating it alot. It's more like 20%, by the age of 30 a woman can easily have had a good amount of experience under her belt. There are a lot of hot guys y'know? And women are ok to share community dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:26 PM
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Just world fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:19 PM
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I just really really hate the whole dating process. First you beg and flirt just for the chance to go on a date, then you pay for everything, have to keep her entertained and essentially be a dancing monkey for the next hour. The whole time she's probably got another date lined up or a dick appointment and you're just option #32 in a long line of potential suitors. I just hate the idea of being a dancing monkey and begging for scraps of attention from someone who only sees me as an option. Why d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:15 PM
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White boy fever 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:13 PM
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Oh good. If you're working hard to improve your looks you deserve better than some fat slut
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:06 PM
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Can't tell if you're joking or not but please don't settle for that dude
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:59 PM
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All pills have some truth to them imo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 05:21 AM
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Now here's the thing (I made this point in another post). Very few woman are actually the RP stereotype. Very few women are hypersexual, gold digging OF girls who are craftily fucking alphas and cucking betas. BUT. Most women display similar behaviour, just scaled way down. So they're not gold diggers, but they would never want a man who makes less. They're not hypersexual, but they are Chad chasers. They're not actively fucking alphas while formulating plans to trap a beta. But they happily eng…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:46 AM
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Yeah. But not a big family, unless they start young
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:31 AM
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They're just exaggerations of present trends. Most women don't want (or get) a ripped 6'4 millionaire. But that doesn't mean they'd be happy with a 5'8 chubby guy who makes the same as they do. Those podcasts exaggerate truths heavily for rage bait engagement
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:30 AM
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It's not gold digging to want a man who makes at least a little more than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:26 AM
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Most of my LTRs were with guys under 5'5 (I'm 5'3), and I in no way was settling for any of them. I actively prefer men who are closer to my height. My current partner is 5'6 and is the hottest guy in the world to me. That's interesting, but you must be an outlier. I believe most women want a man who's at least 6-8 inches taller iirc the guy going to a prostitute out of desperation probably had nothing to do with his height Probably. He's 5'6 iirc but racist and kind of a dick last I spoke to hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:24 AM
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Kind of have to sense the vibe but that comes with experience. Most of my experiences have started with small talk about pop culture or similar hobbies, then led to compliments Never got this point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:16 AM
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Women are wired to secure the best possible mate they can. Men are wired to spread their genes as much as possible. We keep these urges in check with religion and societal norms but naturally women are only attracted to the top 20% of men. The rest are settled for or not really seen as viable options
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:45 AM
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I'm always open to making new friends but it's hard
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:44 AM
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Good for him. He'll have a great time in college
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:43 AM
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It's always too funny to see a woman tweet about how she dated a guy who wiped his ass with his hand or something and then turn around and tell you that personality is what matters lmao They want to act like martyrs just for dating someone awful just cuz he gave them tingles
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:34 AM
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6.7
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:56 PM
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Isn't that a good thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:54 PM
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The most romantic thing I've ever seen took place during one of my many night time walks. I'm walking by the lake, it's late about 11:30 on a Friday night. I walk through a park that has these old times golden yellow street lamps, arranged perfectly symmetrically. As I walk, I sit on a bench and notice a couple leaning on the railing by the lamp. We're the only people in the vicinity and they don't notice me. They're talking about something I can't make out but the boy leans in and initiates a k…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:21 PM
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The capitalist ideal of unlimited immortal growth requires unlimited population growth. When a country industrializes and women get educated and enter the workplace birth rates drop. To keep going with eternal growth Europe will then just destroy their culture to keep money number up
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:37 PM
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Ngl it doesn't really sound like a good deal to end up as a settle down option when everyone's gotten older and uglier. It sounds pretty awful actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:00 PM
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Most women like taller guys. At least 8 inches taller than them iirc. I'm not short thankfully, I'm 6'0 (just made the cut haha) but it's broadly accepted that dating is harder for short men because they are seen as less masculine. It really sucks. Height is also NEVER the only thing that gets factored into attraction. Thankfully not. Short dudes can make up for it, but it's an uphill battle fs. You have experience dating other children. I don't even have that actually. But I'm a keen observer a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:25 PM
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Cool, like I keep saying our experiences form our realities. One guy I know sees escorts because he's 5'6. Good for your brother though. And I wonder how your dad would fare in today's dating scene. I really don't see why we keep getting offended when I state my opinion based on my experiences. I never said women are shallow or stupid. They're exercising the great freedom that they have and why shouldn't they? More power to em
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:59 PM
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Your SO doesn't have to be all 3 of those things simultaneously, or at the apex of all men in the world. Just your personal best. But yeah I don't believe that average men can ever be loved by a woman. It's just not biologically possible imo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:53 PM
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Statistics also say that women broadly find a short man unattractive and they have to make much higher salaries to match up in attractiveness to a taller man. Our experiences inform our realities. It might be unfair but oh well And I know I'm young but I'm not that young. I'm well past the age that people start dating and developing interest in the opposite sex. Many have been actively dating for at least 7-8 years in my circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:51 PM
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I only hear about this mystical 5'2 man online from women on forums like this. In real life I don't know anyone shorter than 5'8 who's had sex and one resorted to a prostitute cuz he was so desperate. I'm 23 so I'm sure in the future they will eventually get settled for but rn they're not doing so well
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:48 PM
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So? People can say alot of things. But I can only believe what I see
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:33 PM
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I can only observe things based on my surroundings. Only guy I know shorter than 5'8 who lost his virginity did so to a prostitute at a massage parlour. I'm 23
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:27 PM
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Don't want to be mean but I think it's kind of stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:21 PM
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Getting a nose job at 17 though... Why
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:16 PM
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you're not ugly you're poor Respect the honesty though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:11 PM
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Meh. They wanna talk to hot guys and flirt but if an uggo sneaks in it's easy to block and ignore no harm done
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:00 PM
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8 times out of 10 I'm sure they would be. The wife, not so much. Like that guy who recorded every time his wife turned him down lol. That's what happens when women settle for men they don't find attractive. Dead bedrooms. But people like to deflect and say it's because of chores or some other crap
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:59 PM
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Yeah I don't know if therapy really works for men to be honest. I prefer journaling or writing down my thoughts. I'm trying to channel my energy into hobbies maybe piano or woodworking
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:53 PM
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Do they let strangers follow them? Depends on how cute the guy is. They might entertain it for a short while if he is and accept the follow but if the conversation turns sour then block him. One of my friends actually met his girlfriend by sliding into her DM's so it can work
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:52 PM
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You do know that consent is a thing right? That all men aren't down for sex 24/7 for their entire lives? That stress, life, etc get in the way for both genders Don't really know what your point is here but women can get sex whenever they want very little effort I don't see how this is a debate. FWBs, hookups, LTRs whatever. Men are hornier and will say yes much quicker than women. Where did you get this idea? Observation mostly. None of my short friends have ever had sex. The ones who are in rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:51 PM
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He's being truthful, I just think that telling you to be a VA to get laid is kind of silly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:48 PM
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That women all have sex on tap and that makes their whole lives a breeze, They do, but that doesn't make their whole life a breeze. That's silly. all women want only the hottest, tallest, richest men, I agree with this. Naturally women can only be attracted to these men. That doesn't mean that all women are gold diggers though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:42 PM
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You'd be surprised. Both have private accounts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:19 PM
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Why are you sugarcoating it dude
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:05 PM
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Some of the most average, mid women I know have at 4-5 guys in their DMs at any given time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:59 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:55 PM
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Women aren't wired for that. It's biology dude
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:08 AM
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It's quite poor so far yeah. I wish they would just leave the original alone. It's such a perfect show
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:07 AM
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I teach math so I feel like it fits haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:04 AM
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Yeah that sounds accurate. I'd really like a relationship with a woman like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:04 AM
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I don't know how people watch that crap. It's not even the misogyny it's just plain boring. Whatever podcast is even worse
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:29 AM
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My dreamgirl when I was a preteen or so was Katara from last Airbender. As I grow older those attributes in a woman still really appeal to me. I wonder what that says about me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:28 AM
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I'm starting to build a cozy aesthetic. Sweatshirts, hoodies and sweaters with tapered loose pants and chuck 70s, adidas gazelles or Reebok club C's. I layer alot less now but this feels more comfortable to me and I think suits me a bit better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:07 AM
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It's damn near impossible to know if the girl ur talking to is a hoe. Most people I know aren't huge club goers but this one girl ik is legit a smart cookie who's also politically active yet she's a massive hoe. Other girls make fun of her for it, that's how much of a reputation she has lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:46 AM
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Have only seen 2 types of actually impressive transformations Fat to ripped, revealing bone structure and frame Gone through puberty Everything else is just minor boosts like going from 4 to a 5.5 or something
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:07 PM
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I hate some men and some women. Not all
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:43 PM
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I really shouldn't. I'm just jealous to see a girl from the same town as me get to do all this cool shit just because she's got a rich dad and makeup skills. She's also kind of a hoe lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:21 PM
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You're insecure if you don't accept her past sweaty
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:14 PM
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I went to high school with this girl whos an influencer now. She's so mediocre looking but models and stuff for some reason. Anyways sometimes I hate watch her Instagram to see what a better life she has than me. She seems to be quite well off because she's got a downtown apartment despite working a pretty low salaried job. Her attitude and voice on her reels is so annoying too like typical whitewashed ethnic girl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 08:57 PM
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Same thing here but in reverse. I pretty much never feel empathy for women anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:59 PM
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Nah sounds insufferable
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:38 PM
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In regards to your first point, this only applies to women who participate in casual sex. Most men will not be mad that you slept with him on the first date if you did the same with other men. The same way they will not be upset if you made them wait until you were exclusive as long as you did the same with other men. It's the consistency. If at any point she had a one night stand but decided that you would only kiss me after we were official then she's a hypocrite and I want nothing to do with …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:21 PM
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Behaviour that puts your family in danger is irresponsible and should not be approved. She has agency. She chose to date a dangerous man, and her brother paid for it with his life. Evil exists in the world but it's up to you to steer clear of it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:18 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:12 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:02 PM
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Men's lives don't matter dude it's whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:54 PM
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You can't be a white knight for protecting your sister. That's just looking out for your family
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:53 PM
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One of my favourite pastimes I inherited from my dad is people watching. Whenever we would be stuck in the mall while mom shopped, my dad would keep me entertained by making funny observations about people walking around the mall. I carried that with me. I still love observing behaviours and people around me. Sometimes I go to my cities club district and sit on a bench to see funny drunk guys and girls interact. How often the guys strike out, how bouncers operate etc. I watched a guy successfull…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:03 PM
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I should really get off Reddit and this sub but it also functions as a way for me to get things off my chest
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:54 PM
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Blackpilled again In b4 "it's a joke" but stem-cels are so fucked it's crazy. Poor guys don't know what it's like to be played so they'll settle down with a slut like that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:51 PM
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I love hoe math
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:49 PM
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Sometimes there's nothing to figure out. Human relationships are nebulous and it's impossible to quantify why we like the people we do. I'm sorry that you're finding it hard to connect with others. It must really suck
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:09 PM
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Obviously she still has time and UCSC is a good school but I'm just saying is it the best she can do? If it is, then go for it. But always aim for the best quality education. That's the #1 goal, not having the "college experience"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:01 PM
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Times have changed. Looking at older relationships that were forced together by circumstance and societal pressures isn't a good marker. My mother for one, has confided in me that she didn't really love my dad. My female friends are constantly getting played by hot dudes. My attractive male friends have a steady stream of hookups at their beck and call. Hookup culture, multi person dating and non exclusivity dating is the norm. I'm too young for marriage but this is largely what I see amoung my …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:59 PM
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I'm an engineer. Freshly graduated. I apply for jobs that I have a shot with. I could apply to be a senior manager, but what are the odds of that. The answer is no. We put effort into things that we have a shot at succeeding in. MJ being an genetically athletic freak who also worked his ass off means he can take those tough shots, even though he normally makes smart, efficient ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:54 PM
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I don't have a step dad but if I did I would think he's a cuck for marrying my mom (unless he already had his own kids with a previous woman) also don't get the preference for a less ran around woman as if the girl only has her coochie to offer There's nothing to get, I just find promiscuous women disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:47 PM
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When given the choice women would rather share an attractive guy then settle with an average one. 4/10 women want 6/10 guys. 5s want 7s and 8s etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:40 PM
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Quality and cost of education should be #1 priority. Wanting to go to a school for a rave scene is just bad. I would have a sit-down with her about her priorities. I'm doing a similar thing right now with my little sister who has offers from good schools but is being swayed by friends who want her to go to a party college with them. Kids are impressionable but we're not gonna send her to a worse college further away just because they have Greek life
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:38 PM
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I love when people use this tired office reference. Do you play any sports? You know what top athletes like Gretzky and Jordan did? They took good, efficient shots. Midrange, layups, tap-ins. They didn't just heave it from half court. This is the equivalent of what guys like you keep suggesting about asking girls out. I would shoot my shot if it was a good shot. If I had reason to think it would succeed. If she had given me signals or something to suggest she thought I was cute. But I have never…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:35 PM
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Oh yay! I get to be "picked" by a woman after she's been ran through by hotter dudes and grudgingly settles for me. What an honour
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:29 PM
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They just want a guy that doesn't cheat on them, doesn't abuse them and is not toxic. All with the caveat of the guy being attractive in the first place. In order of preference: 1. Get with an attractive guy who treats you well exclusively Get with an attractive guy who treats you OK non exclusively Get with an attractive guy who treats you like shit Get with an average guy who treats you well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:27 PM
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"how do you know she doesn't like you bro girls are shy they don't approach" A lifetime of observation mostly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:25 PM
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I'd be worried that she's thinking about colleges for their party culture and not the quality of education or major.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:15 PM
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BB. They get women who are willing to settle for his resources
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:12 PM
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comment mildly making fun of women makes Redditors seethe
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:39 AM
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One of the worst copies I hear from normies is "women should approach men more". These idiots assume that it's just shyness from girls that's preventing them from getting laid and that plenty of girls have crushes on them but are just too shy to say anything. Women now: only approach Chad Women if they approached: only approach chad , but even more now
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:05 AM
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She's been driving him crazy for a while. Extremely insecure girl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 01:53 AM
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My friend who I had spoken about earlier did end up breaking up with his gf. I took him out for drinks, we smoked some weed and ate nachos. Then he struck out with the bartender. He's gonna be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 01:47 AM
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No I'm an engineer. I just like thought exercises like this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:23 PM
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What about a kiss or oral
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:00 PM
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Also, is it 5 failed first dates or 5 interactions in general. Like if you got to 3rd base with girl #4 does it reset the counter?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:48 PM
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God knows how long it will take him to get 30 dates. I'd be pretty liable to quit too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:41 PM
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God I wish I could have a mixed gender group of friends to go on adventures with. Or 1 ride or die brother who would do that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:40 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:10 PM
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What happens after 5
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:07 PM
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Doesn't feel too awkward for me personally but ik what you mean. Even if I can't really understand what they're talking about I appreciate they value my opinion enough to tell me these things
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:26 PM
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I love hearing Chad stories cuz it shows me a side of the world I'm not privy to. Has your friend ever offered to wingman you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:16 PM
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I sound like I went through puberty 80% of the way lol it's one of my insecurities
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:39 PM
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You'll be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:37 PM
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Missing social cues, not being able to understand non verbal communication
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:30 PM
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The fridge is where you keep the snaccs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:29 PM
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Yeah it's just kind of funny how blunt they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:39 PM
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All my Chad friends are so rude about women's bodies it's crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:29 PM
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Answers seem quite unanimous
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:27 PM
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Q4A would you rather have a child who's constantly outside you don't know where they are and may or may not be getting up to wild stuff Or Have a very introverted quiet child who spends most of their time with you at home
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:39 PM
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By most definitions yeah they are single. But compared to their male counterparts they're definitely not single so I can see where the discrepancy comes from
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:33 PM
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Don't be mad it's just biology dude
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:57 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/ju1igj8gulkc1.jpeg?width=456&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=def5fd9dd2a1fb70dac9ad3b69a0fce09eb8c933
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:54 PM
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Wdym? He's an objectively handsome man. Very Chad like
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:51 PM
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pick me man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:27 PM
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Don't think so. Women don't generally care about their partners hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:24 PM
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City is gonna thanos the whole thing anyway why does it matter
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:17 PM
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If this dude is hitting homeruns on every aspect but his looks, then that's why she loves him So she only loves him for what he can do for her. Not for who he is. Do you think you can be in true genuine passionate love with an "ugly" woman? Men can genuinely love women in a way I don't think women can unless he's of exceptionally high caliber imo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:06 PM
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Yes they can. Men are only loved after they provide
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:23 PM
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Yeah because women can actually be loved for who they are
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:58 PM
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Why are women like this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:44 PM
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thoughts? personally I believe no it's not possible
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:42 PM
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We're 23 and she's made him go to couples therapy twice. No relationship in ur 20s is worth this smh .
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:59 PM
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? I know enough short dudes to know that it can be tough with girls. Like I said they're all virgins. Its just empathy man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:47 PM
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Yeah well when you have been rejected for height over and over or condescendingly told "short king" one too many times I think it's fair to be fed up. Tbf I'm 6'0 and a virgin but I'm also from a really unattractive race and other factors working against me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:43 PM
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I texted my friend asking him what he wanted me to say. He said just be honest he's done with the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:41 PM
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Anecdotally I don't any guys shorter than 5'8 who aren't virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:38 PM
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It doesn't but acting like this is an advice sub or a place where people can learn things to improve their dating life is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:36 PM
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Friends gf texted me at 2 AM last night asking if I was with him. I wasn't. She doesn't trust him at all even though he doesn't cheat and constantly needs his attention idk why.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:33 PM
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I don't want to sleep with married women bro I was just curious if it's as prevalent as it sounds 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:26 PM
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Personal trainers
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:06 PM
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Is it true PTs fuck their clients a lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:06 PM
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I was hoping someone would ask me this haha Arranged marriage isn't the dominant way that people get together anymore in India. It's an option if you can't find anyone on your own but still want to get married. But many people these days actually find partners on their own or even have a few boyfriends/girlfriends before getting married to someone else entirely. Much more like the west. The chances of me getting an arranged marriage with a girl who actually likes me is very low. Like I said in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:38 PM
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I really don't know. He doesn't really talk about his dating life before my mom (this is in 1980s India mind you). He used to tell me that I should put myself out there more but then I told him I better kill myself rather than go on a date and he hasn't bothered to give me dating advice since lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:25 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:18 PM
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Lmao literally my dad still thinks being funny is how you get girls
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:17 PM
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You can tell there's no jaw line underneath the fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:15 PM
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God wtf. I just saw his profile, he's not a good looking guy but those comments are such blue pilled garbage. Acting like he's being picky when he swipes right so much and 1 geeky photo is why he's not getting matches. So stupid man. People will find 1 reason to disqualify someone but it'll never be the obvious reason
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:14 PM
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Most women can't tell the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:25 AM
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I have 0 empathy for lonely women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:21 AM
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That must be draining but you can still take them at your own pace right
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:16 AM
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Cringe but he's conventionally attractive. Strong jawline
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:37 AM
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I actually have a pretty high social battery. I'd like to be someone people can go to for help. Or even something as simple as "let's grab a coffee". It can be disheartening sometimes, especially on weekends
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:36 AM
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22-24
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:35 AM
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Nice you just made the cut. 5'9 is tall to most chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:22 AM
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Does anyone else feel like an imposter extrovert? I want to hang out and connect with people but I can't. My friendships are shallow and I've outgrown them in many ways. I don't want to live the monk lifestyle but it seems more appealing than trying to maintain relationships that don't fulfill anything for me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:21 AM
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Spending my Friday night by myself at the gym. Kind of feel like a loser but it's nice to get outside and work on something.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:20 AM
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Anecdotally I don't know a guy shorter than 5'8 who's not a virgin. But I'm 6'0 and a virgin so 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:11 AM
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Yeah fair enough but this does not sound normal Because all I want from her IS SEX. And whether they like me or not, they’re gonna want to fuck me on some level. “Hi. [just have to ask you a question, because I have this theory about women, do you have a boyfriend?” “Yes.” “Then what are you doing here, because the way you smoke, you should be good in bed.” C'mon bro there's no way
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:10 AM
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Agree except for surfing and snowboarding. The rest def scream beta but I know a few Chad's who rock climbing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:04 AM
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Leftist slogans are garbage and alienating. Black lives matter, defund police etc. So easy to lose support
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:02 AM
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I'm looking 5 pages in and this sounds ridiculous lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:02 AM
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You're texting a boy ? Congrats 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:23 AM
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Hit a new PR on chest today 💪 Fuck those board game playing losers
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:21 AM
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Fuck having shit friends man I'm just gonna go to the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:49 AM
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I just talk to them like I talk to men. It's not hard. I'm going to die a virgin but I've never been shy around girls
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:39 AM
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Haha everyone keeps telling me that today on here. I'm really good at trivia. But I'd feel like a loser going by myself
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:03 AM
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Maybe someday. Right now I just feel alone
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:01 AM
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That's awesome dude. I meet some friendly people at my gym sometimes. But the people I'm actually friends with actually are book smart and fun to talk to. They're just totally risk averse and unwilling to go out of their comfort zone. Combine that with me being the only one who even suggests hanging out at all, it makes me feel pretty shitty and unwanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:34 PM
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People are generally nicer to women. But I can't tell you how much I wish I had better friends and more female friends. I'm really sick of almost all my friends
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:26 PM
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God I wish I had mixed gender group of 5-7 friends who I could go on adventures with. I'm so sick of my small individualized friend groups of home bodies who never leave our shit town and only want to play board games. Such losers
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:22 PM
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It's extremely hard to break into established social circles or form new ones. Also, bringing new people into your regular hangouts hardly ever happens in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:22 PM
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By myself? That's even more sad than staying in. I'm really good at trivia tho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:11 PM
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Wish I had bad better friends man. I'm wasting my 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:54 PM
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Another Friday where my friends flop on hanging out and I just sit and rot inside. I'm so sick of this man
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:19 PM
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"Just cold approach bro" What a freak
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:12 PM
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Porta potties
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:45 PM
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Bros just flexing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:29 PM
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Man it's so over
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:50 PM
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Aaron Gordon was robbed twice
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:34 PM
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It's rough out here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:09 PM
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Why don't fit, stable, attractive men get snatched off as quickly?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:05 PM
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He says he's not looking for models just someone who's also fit. I guess that's too much to ask for in today's day and age
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:56 PM
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Np. I feel really bad for the guy, maybe it's because he's 5'7
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:44 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/s/AqzKBloWLp
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:34 PM
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Who knows. All the comments are baffled too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:16 PM
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There's this guy I've seen on r/dating who's literally been posting "I'm so single" posts for the last 4 years or more. He's even posted his hinge profile and stuff. He's not a bad looking guy but it's kind of crazy how long he's been at it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:10 PM
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She's crazier than Lilith
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:00 PM
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I'd need a bit of time. I wouldn't want to say meet a girl tomorrow and have my first time with her the same day. Maybe we meet and 5/6 weeks later I'm ready. What is preventing you from losing it? I'm ugly and don't meet alot of women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:27 PM
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If it's not looks then money I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:24 PM
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In poor countries
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:24 PM
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It can make you more fun to be around but it's not the magic bullet to getting female attention
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:10 PM
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No idea. Maybe laugh at peasants and throw peanuts at them from the gate walls?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:40 PM
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Birth rates are falling. Middle class people don't have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:37 PM
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I guess we're just helpful
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:37 PM
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Yeah but I've never even held hands let alone been on a date. So why am I helping these guys and telling them where to go and stuff lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:20 PM
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I'd be pretty grossed out. I'm from Toronto, drake is a known horndog and I'd think she's a slut for doing something like that + on stage in front of thousands
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:11 PM
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I've literally planned dates for some of my other friends who went on their first dates and stuff recently. Am I weird for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:03 PM
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40 y.o
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:00 PM
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Another reason why RP is off the mark. Most girls don't want a roided out freak. In order it goes Face Height Body Kpop guys are handsome, much taller than the average Korean man too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:20 PM
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I used to have some white knight tendencies but not it only extends to helping a woman who explicitly asks for it. I agree though, I think men are coded to be protective of women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:16 PM
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Huh? That was more like 11-12 years old not teenagers
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:56 PM
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Do you play piano ? You have piano fingers
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:14 AM
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Sure but it hasn't gotten me anywhere. I'm still a virgin and while some other guys may have gone through their akward phase and come out the other side with some experience, I feel like I'm a kid who got held back while all his peers graduated to the next class.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:13 AM
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That's sweet around the right guy. Cast majority of girls wouldn't think the same. But calmness hasn't gotten me anywhere with girls either. I'm still a non entity
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:12 AM
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Sometimes. I don't think with my penis and I've never embarrassed myself over a girl. Never simped or sacrificed my dignity for anyone. Never gave up test answers to a girl just because I wanted her to like me. But in some ways that's a natural part of the process. Learning how to set boundaries and more importantly learning what works with women in regards to making your interest known.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:11 AM
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Yk what makes me sad sometimes? Not being a virgin but feeling socially stunted. Like we all went through the The phase of not seeing the opposite sex as anything different Noticing a cute guy or girl and being shy or coy around them. Maybe denying you feel anything and that "boys/girls have cooties" Expressing attraction overtly and following through physically But I never even got past the first phase. Like I find women attractive, I know I do. But I've never been shy around my crushes or felt…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:40 AM
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Q4A: Which common phrases/advice from the opposing side do you hate/disagree with the most? As a no piller' Just be a decent guy that's all any girl wants Any one can be a 10 Women are less logical than men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:00 AM
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Take the Mowgli pill
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:57 AM
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I can handle a lot of the silly stuff women say but by god nothing pisses me off quite as much as hearing "the bare minimum"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:02 AM
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Yeah but you're not doing it to bait engagement online.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:43 AM
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Black pill for women I think. Men are sex crazed monsters and you have to be a perfect embodiment of femininity to have a man you really want. Also learn how to manipulate guys to get what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:39 AM
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Women will fuck any man who presses their buttons personality is almost irrelevant. I just think it's funny and sad at how nihilistic so many guys have become about dating. Previously positive enforcement content would have gotten replies of "W woman" or "thanks I really needed this you're one of the rare ones" People are wising up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:38 AM
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The way things are trending is not nice fs. Red pill is very dark and less and less about actually getting with women. MGTOW is gonna pick up alot I think
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:36 AM
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Talking to pink pillers they genuinely sound more unhinged than black pill ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:34 AM
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Only people who truly want kids have them nowadays. Once women enter the workplace the birthrate will never come back up, no matter how much governments try to incentivize it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:33 AM
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Must have met the devil at a crossroads or something cuz I'm stumped. Is he really funny or something? You're sure he's not really good looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:27 AM
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I like how nearly blackpilled so many people have become. Every time I see someone trying to be positive like "you're gonna find love someday" or "men deserve to be loved for more than what they provide" I see comments with thousands of likes that are like "shut the fuck up no I'm not" or "stop lying for clout" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:24 AM
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That's a nice stick it looks like a gun
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:58 PM
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Sometimes I try and watch trash tv with my sister and I just cringe and feel embarrassed the whole time. What's the point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:52 PM
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You look like you played bass clarinet in high school band. Ur cute tho fr
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:30 PM
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Didn't say either was untrue. The comment I was replying to was about blue pill advice not being a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:48 AM
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It kinda does though. It proclaims that any man can become sexually successful by playing the game right. But you have to put the effort in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 10:33 PM
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Sure but one believes that you can attract any woman you want if you put in the necessary effort into the gym, career, and fashion while the other believes that your genetic traits determine your success with women from birth. Ironically black pill is much more respecting of women's sexual preferences and choices and doesn't see them as mechanisms that are supposed to be hacked like red pill does Red pill and blue pill both agree that confidence is important. Does that mean they're both the same…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:44 PM
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Partly disagree. I watched a great video on how red pill is like you say normal advice explained for autists. With the use of video game terms like experience and levels etc. But blue pill would never tell you to use dread game or negging, or be dominant etc. That misses the origins of red pill which is in the pickup artist community of the mid-2000s.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:42 PM
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Not really. I've been told many blue pill phrases like "looks are what gets you in the door but personality keeps them in" or "girls would rather have an emotionally available average looking guy over a rich guy" etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:37 PM
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Nope. Black pill hate red pillers more than blue. There is a looksmaxxing component to it but most black pillers are actually doomer nihilists. Red pill is much more optimistic and believes that anything is possible with right effort
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:33 PM
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The NBA is trashy reality tv for men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:24 PM
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To change my environment would mean to move out from home which is completely untenable in the Canadian housing market currently. I would like to improve my social life, and make more outgoing adventurous friends. The ones I have now I'm starting to outgrow. But who knows how to do that really.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:30 PM
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The whole brain development factoid is why I hate pop science so much. Such a stupid thing that people actually use to both justify their bad decisions as well as absolve others
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:15 PM
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Yeah I have no real hope of ever dating at this point. Not attractive enough for dating apps and my social life is pretty dry. I touch grass and all but I rarely encounter women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:05 PM
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My dad has suggested to me multiple times to "get out there" and that "girls like funny guys" but nothing more. He knows there's no practical way he can help me with these things
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:55 PM
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Yeah it's definitely more inspiring to see a guy lose a bunch of weight to reveal the bone structure underneath or a girl revealing her natural figure with healthier hair and stuff. But I hate hate hate seeing some actual model sharing a picture of a teenager with an awkward haircut and acting like they've made some huge improvement 🙄. Some of their "transformations" are so vain they can't even find an award photo from their youth to use for the before
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:18 PM
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Hot
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:12 PM
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For some. But it really annoys me to see some obviously hot guy/girl act like they put in insane work to become that way when they really just naturally filled out their body
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:00 PM
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Dude. I know what flirting looks like. I've seen it. It's never happened to me. My interactions with women are cordial and warm at best nothing more. I'm not the type of guy that gets female attention
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:40 PM
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I hate glow up posts so much. 90% of them are just people going through puberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:26 PM
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I've never been flirted with in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:25 PM
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For girls it can definitely take you from being a sweeper to a keeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:24 PM
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Not really, I've known that I was ugly and not capable of relationships from a young age. Lonely posting never had an effect on me and just made me cringe. On the other hand I've helped plan out dates for my friends so I help out where I can
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:35 PM
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Probably one of the most brutal pills. I find that women lie about it alot as well. You've addressed the misdirections they use quite a bit already like the "just get good at oral" or "women can't cum from penetration alone" like duh foreplay is important but the vast vast vast majority of girls want good dick. Just another reason why I could never be in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:33 PM
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I didn't get asked out as a joke but I did get asked out as practice when I was 16. I hope the experience helped her out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:53 AM
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They're not wired to, and now they have lot access to the top men they they ever had before
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:51 AM
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Yeah why not
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:49 AM
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I just want to tank my health so I can die faster never really cared about getting girls
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:48 PM
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One of my favorite little things on the Internet is when I see a comment hating on a niche internet celebrity that I also hate
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:16 PM
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Idk my parents are telling me not to worry and you can't tell anythings wrong but the dermatologist looked at my hair with a microscope camera and said there's some thinning going on. Maybe it'll get worse maybe it won't. He suggested a $1300 laser cap and monthly scalp cleaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:11 PM
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I don't have any baldness in my family and my hairline is fine but I'm 23 and the dermatologist just said that I have AGA. It's so over
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:00 PM
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Wikihow is so funny bro they just posted a "how to accept being single for the rest of your life" video
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:27 PM
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I guess it's just that type in general. Always good idea to maximize your niche. Skinny with a good jawline can take you places if you tune things correctly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:21 PM
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True but some ethnicities have more Chads than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:04 PM
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Yeah as someone with a foot in both worlds I find it really interesting how the same debates start being exported because of the internet but with a localized twist. For example dating as a concept doesn't really exist for most young Indians but there's a growing subset who do partake as well as enjoy a small casual sex scene. Nightlife is also growing. So you have guys start saying things like "no seal no deal" or spamming the letter R (which is slang for the word Randi meaning whore) it's also…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:57 PM
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There's no way that's true
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:47 PM
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True I was over generalizing for sure. There's a much smaller culture war going on in that country. But it's definitely interesting how much of the country has seemingly skipped the industrializing phase and gone straight to being 1st world American wannabes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:47 PM
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I've never met anyone who actually has Indian guys as a type that's interesting. So like Dev Patel?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:40 PM
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Modern urban India is not too different from the west lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:34 PM
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Flacko looks good in everything tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:18 PM
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If you're Indian one thing interesting that is of note is that the country has seen to have skipped the entire second world phase and gone straight to being a capitalist misandrist hellscape skipping the entire intermediate level
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:18 PM
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I'm an ugly man but I've never hated Chad. Been friends with quite a few actually
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:14 PM
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Top men have a more active role and can exercise their agency more than top women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:14 PM
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Why is the fact that women find most men unattractive such a hot take? Or one that results in accusations of misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:00 PM
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Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:57 PM
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Same. Probably because it was the last time I was actually a socially active member of a community with people my own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:48 PM
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Same. I'm gonna cancel my gym membership and start smoking cigarettes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:47 PM
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I don't know if I can
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:10 AM
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Thanks bro. You can't tell anythings going on rn but as soon as I start showing signs I'm going to get MAID
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:43 PM
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Have only tried once but the result was a 1
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:29 PM
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Yup same here. Lonely would be inaccurate, but I wish I had a better social life
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:59 AM
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Womp womp
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:50 AM
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Nah I'm done man. I can't afford a lifetime of expensive hormonal medicine. It's over, I lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:53 AM
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Like I said I've known I was ugly since I was 9. This is just more proof that whatever I do to try and improve will be for nothing. I've always tried to work and compensate for my shortcomings but I'm just a genetic failure. And I don't even have to be pretty, just average or at least the best I can be. I just didn't know that the best I could be was just a bald Indian loser
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:16 PM
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Thanks man. It's probably the universe punishing me for daring to hope I could better myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:59 PM
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I was and now I don't see the point anymore. It's all for nothing I'll always be an ugly pathetic sack of waste
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:44 PM
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Yeah. Also known as male pattern baldness. No one in my family is bald and my hair doesn't even look thin but the diagnosis was clear on a microscopic examination. I'm done
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:43 PM
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Gym, tried 3 different dermatologists to alleviate acne scarring, expensive haircuts, improving my clothing. Even got LASIK surgery. And I didn't do a single bit of it for women. Like you I've never received a single IOI and I don't care but I was just diagnosed with AGA even though no one in my family has hairloss and it's devastating. God hates me. It's one thing to be born into an unattractive race, but yet more genetic misfortune hit me. I don't care anymore. I'll probably cancel my gym memb…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:42 PM
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I just learned I have AGA at 23 years old. It's out of my control though. The solutions to my problems are a lifetime of expensive hormone alternating medications that I don't want to subject myself to. I don't care what some reddit femcel says
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:34 PM
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I've known I was ugly since I was 9 years old
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:30 PM
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I don't think my mental health has been this low in a while. All the good habits I've made recently are unravelling I can't take it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:28 PM
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I'm potentially going bald in my early 20s man tf are you talking about Yeah it's not cancer but it's still devastating
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:00 PM
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Just got diagnosed with AGA at 23 even though no one in my immediate family has hairloss. What a cruel joke, I'm this ugly and I'll somehow go even lower
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:42 PM
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So true. Women have pretty much zero consequences for any behaviour they want to engage in so have fun and do whatever you want. Bitter RP men can rage all they want but even the most degenerate pornstars eventually get married and have families
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:33 PM
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It's a massive cope. That average man has almost zero power in his relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:39 AM
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I mean I have hair rn and I'm still a virgin so it's not gonna be a difference either way but to be as ugly as I am and somehow go lower is just heartbreaking. I'm not showing any obvious signs of balding but the derm says there's a bit of minituraztion going on
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:30 AM
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I was just told I have AGA at 23 years old even though my hairline hasn't receded. No one in my family is bald so I'm hoping I won't lose it all but if I actually start to go bald I am genuinely considering suicide. I don't want to take a lifetime of hormonal medicine like minoxidl or finasteride
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:46 AM
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Hair is life. It's a sign of virility and youth. Bald men are either a fetish for a few women or just overall disgusting to most
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:41 AM
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How bad did it get before you got on fin since you're only 24
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:40 AM
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First option. I was just told I have AGA at 23 years old. No one in my family is bald so I'm hoping I won't lose it all but if I actually start to go bald I am genuinely considering suicide. I don't want to take a lifetime of hormonal medicine like minoxidl or finasteride
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:39 AM
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You wanna know something funny? I don't know any man shorter than 5'8 who's not a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:16 PM
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I thought you did that for yourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:15 PM
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That's why I said soft harem 😁 No forcing involved, but top men will be shared by most women as a resource for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:31 PM
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It's pretty real. Girls like guys that are liked by other girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:35 PM
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That's why I said soft harem in the title 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:00 PM
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But the guy does have a harem in essence. Because a small amount of guys have sex with most women. They might only sleep together once but the result is the same. Girl A,B,C,D and E sleep with Guys A and B. Guys C,D and E don't sleep with anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:41 PM
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The curve of normal socio sexual development Being open minded is a matter of personal philosophy. If I don't want a girlfriend who was a whore, that doesn't make me a bad person. That's just me sticking to my morals
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:38 PM
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How quickly you sleep with someone isn't a good metric of attraction. I dunno how you reached that conclusion. Uhhhh... because I had to "grow" on her while another guy banged her in the bathroom before they even exchanged names? He's obviously more attractive than me. You're going to have to get past that mate. I can't. Absolutely not. That's why I advocate getting the fuck out from behind your phone and meeting people. There's no point in sitting around moping because Tinder isn't Uber for pus…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:33 PM
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It's pretty much the same thing as a harem though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:26 PM
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It's not that hard. Just from the guys perspective I can tell you it's pretty easy to set up. Feeling horny? Ask girl A if she's free. She's busy? Ask girl B? She wants to go out for dinner first? Ah nvm, I'll just stay home and jerk off. Actual conversation I had with my Chad friend ^
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:18 PM
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Nailed it. I maybe shouldn't have said polygamy in my OP. It kind of derailed the conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:09 PM
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You definitely can't. You'll always be behind the curve
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:02 PM
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That's not true c'mon
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:01 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:00 PM
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I'm just a silly little guy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:53 AM
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thinking that if a chick isn’t obviously thirsty for you, it’s game over. Y'know what? In a previous era, one without free casual sex, maybe this would make sense. But it doesn't anymore. If it took me 2 months to get to second base with my wife, but she had a one night stand from the bar previously, then I am not as attractive to her as that guy. Straight up. Not to mention, multi-dating is the norm now. If you're seeing a girl, chances are she's seeing if not fucking other guy(s) concurrently.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:05 AM
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THANK YOU. You explained it alot better than I can. Again, bringing up my parents. It's not that we were hopelessly poor, but we weren't stable either. But having kids is just something you do if you grew up with their values. My childhood wasn't perfect, but I had food in my belly and a roof over my head and a new toy when we had saved enough. That's the key here, the west believes that children are a luxury and comfort is a necessity. But the east believes the opposite. Why is it so hard to fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:48 AM
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Children definitely present an issue. However less and less people in the west are having kids to begin with. Of those who are left however I think that more women will be single mothers and there will be more support for them through the government, especially because more men will be NEETs and the top guys that father these children will have trouble paying for all of their offspring
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:50 PM
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Or do you want a partner in life who gives as much as you do? My wants are irrelevant. Most average men and women want a happy and healthy relationship with someone they’re compatible with. What people want and what people actually get and end up doing are worlds apart Your idea of women is so far off base, that there is nothing to engage with Oh c'mon , there must be something that you can engage with. I'm happy to talk 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:48 PM
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What I'm arguing for is the opposite though. I can see a future where women will have the ultimate freedom to only be with men that they actually want. It won't be a polygamy of men forcing a bunch of women to submit to him but instead, it will be women choosing to actually share the top guys who can actually satisfy them. And it might be multiple guys too. Maybe one guy is the best in bed and another is the most fun to hang out with. I will give women the best of both worlds instead of being en…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:42 PM
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You explained it alot better than I did in my OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:43 PM
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It's not binary. Millennials seem to want to have their cake and eat it too when it comes to children. I'm not saying people in adjective poverty should have 15 children but if you make decent enough money to support yourselves and want children then maybe cut back on some of the vacations or takeout yk? "I can't afford rent and having a kid" Ok then move to somewhere more affordable. Millennial white people in the west seem to want to have everything to be absolutely perfect and unwilling to ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:38 PM
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Yeah right? I don't see why women on here are getting offended by this. The future is female, and guys are dropping out of the rat race pretty fast. Why should women have to settle for being monogamous with a beta when they can share an alpha while also making their own money. It's a perfect fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:58 PM
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Not really, no. I am a man too but I recognize that the whole "promising a woman to every man" thing that monogamy promised was only feasible because we forced women into subservient positions and made it impossible for them to leave. Biologically, most mammals practice a winner takes all mating strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:28 PM
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Kids are unfortunately already an afterthought for most people in the west these days. When given the choice between having children or advancing their career most women will understandably choose the latter. Of course birth rates will continue to plummet. But I do believe that of the women who do want to have children (and can't find a man that they want to actually partner with to raise the child) there will be social programs and more support for single mothers as more and more women will cho…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:59 PM
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Isn't it though? And yeah it does exist already. But it's still something that's looked down upon as trashy. What I'm saying is that there's going to be an expansion and acceptance of this over the next few generations if the current trends continue as they are because men can no longer meet standards. Ideally of course she would want to be that man's primary focus.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:57 PM
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I don't think so. What I'm saying is the opposite of Handmaid's tale. Women are outperforming men in the workplace and in school, they're just not going to be able to find men that matchup to their standards anymore. In this future, we'll see more and more women taking the Lion's share of leadership roles and high-paying jobs. And instead of having to settle for low quality men, they're free to be with a few remaining high quality guys that stand out, without societal pressure to be monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:46 PM
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Average chicks are the vast majority, most all are not addicted to dating apps, and barely have a concept of soft harems. They would not do that because they lack the same social opportunities as a 7+/10 young single girl. That is the thing though, I barely know a single girl who's not on dating apps. Some are more focused on school or careers but even some of the most average and below average girls I know are part of a roster and are quite promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:39 PM
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Like I already said I'm sorry that I did the math wrong and said 40 years. I guess I haven't caught up to the fact that we're in 2024 and the 80s were 40 years ago lol. I think my point is still valid though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:37 PM
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But how prevalent was it really? Not so much. The majority of boomers weren't free love hippies banging in Volkswagen vans.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:30 PM
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Why would the man want to help take care of the kids of multiple women? If he's a decent guy he hopefully would but yeah who knows really. Do you think that being abandoned by a high value man once she has a kid appeals to women? Of course not but having a kid by a high value man cool will abandon you is probably better than a kid from a low value man who will stick with you. And of course AF/BB provides women with the option to pair up with a lower quality guy in the event that the alpha relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:28 PM
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What does silver prism mean? But regarding dating apps I really believe they're only going to get more dominant. Our social cohesion is declining, people are becoming more polarized and traditional community institutions are falling away. In such a social climate dating apps are only going to become more and more prevalent for people looking for partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:26 PM
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The percentage of people having one night stands is a lot higher today than it would have been in the 60s or 50s I don't see how this is debatable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:15 PM
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When did I say women are bad? Or even insinuate it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:12 PM
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Why won’t they just choose to either be on their own without having to share a man? They definitely could. But if they really really wanted to have kids or were just horny, chances are they're going to a guy who's already got a few women attached. Most women seem to consistently express distaste with the idea of sharing a man. It's not ideal of course, but it beats having to settle for an unattractive male
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:45 PM
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Maybe you're one of those outliers I mentioned then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:11 PM
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Hmm I've not heard about the 4B movement but I am aware of the poor state of Korean gender relations. I think to some level men and women do need each other for physical desire if nothing else. So I can see even the most perpetually single woman hitting up one of the top guys in her social circles for a night but who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:07 PM
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Well I didn't say anything about forcing anyone to do anything. My point is this. Women are only actually attracted to a very small percentage of men Therefore, these men have a big advantage and can get around However women are shamed for being led on like that, and not finding a man that commits to them, even though they don't actually want the man who is going to commit to them. In addition, being a single mom is looked down on. So what I'm predicting is the dropping of these social barriers …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:00 PM
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Woman A, B,C,D and E are all dating man A, B and C. Man D and E are left out. See what I'm getting at?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:54 PM
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To The vast majority of people at the time yeah. Of course there were deviant communities and individuals but do you think that the majority of people would have been okay with their daughter running off to a new guy's house every week? Now it's normal. Most of our grandparents and great-grandparents were much more sexual repressed than the present day
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:40 PM
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I just find this logic really hard to believe because I'm from an immigrant background. Many of us came to a new country with barely anything. We didn't have a nice five bedroom detached house with a white picket fence by the time I was born. In fact we lived in a somewhat cramped apartment. We didn't live in abject poverty but my parents had to keep a very close eye on the bills every month. My point is that I believe it's a cultural thing. Caucasian parents seem to think that they can only hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:38 PM
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Ask the vast majority of men if they wanted to harem of beautiful women to take care of them I'm sure they say yes. However this is a fantasy the vast majority of men will never have. However men have higher sex drives and fewer and fewer of them meet women standards as the years go on for a variety of reasons. Now women would surely prefer monogamy with one man that they truly desire but if they don't get him they're willing to share. It doesn't have to be official marriage to multiple women bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:34 PM
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I don't want to turn this into a personal discussion. But I'm not an unfuckable freak, I'm just unfuckable lol This doesn't even remotely reflect the real world - where women, on the whole, are just looking for a normal dude who's kind, reliable and fun to hang out with. C'mon man let's not be silly. These are nice qualities but useless without physical attraction. Anecdotally I don't know any guys shorter than 5'8 who aren't virgins. Y'all spend so much time rage-watching dipshits on Insta/Yout…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:32 PM
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please see this comment Tldr; they won't be able to find men that match their standards anymore due to the trajectories that men and women in the workplace are taking. If it's between settling for a guy they deem lesser, vs being with a more attractive man temporarily, most women will choose the latter. Staying single is an option too of course
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:09 PM
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My parents probably couldn't have afforded me but yet here I am. It takes sacrificing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:05 PM
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It's not really an end of the world scenario. I already don't talk to women as anything other than colleagues or friends so nothing in my life changes in this scenario lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:04 AM
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I don't want to play the anecdote game but one of the most slutty girls I know is also one of the most accomplished. Nothing much to look at but she's shook the hands of federal ministers and we're only in our early 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:02 AM
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That's an interesting point. I can definitely see a future where a significant portion of women will either find proper commitment from a guy they actually desire, or stick with singledom in perpetuity (in the latter though I still believe that many would readily enjoy FWBs or dick appointments when the urge strikes them) the people who are polyamorous are always disgusting, not exactly a great advertisement for the lifestyle. This is true. But what I'm suggesting isn't necessarily polyamory (or…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:28 AM
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Please tell me some of the words, I'm curious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:50 AM
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Not really sure if humans are built for monogamy tbh. We're mammals right? Most species have a winner takes the females dialogue. I think we've just been brainwashing women with all these societal pressures like keeping them inside, not letting them work etc
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:47 AM
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1) Don't men also want "high-value" women who are good-looking and make lots of money? Does anyone, anywhere, say "I hope my partner is poor and ugly"? Yeah sure but men have lower standards and settle far easier than women do. They also don't have the ability to ever even touch the standard of women they actually want whereas women can easily get with a man even if it's just for a night that's way above their own level. 2) How do you know this "high-value man"--who I'm gonna go ahead and assume…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:46 AM
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I did not say anything about an apocalypse
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:14 AM
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You really are stuck on me saying 40 years ago. I'm sorry that I did the math wrong but I should have specified pre-sexual revolution. But even since the 80s, people are more sexually open now
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:14 AM
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You don't have to rush to insults. I'm only making observations
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:09 AM
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please see this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:50 AM
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Yeah I see now that I should have been a little clearer. Actual marriage happening is unlikely for sure. However greater societal acceptance and widespread practice of the situation you're describing is imminent. That was my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:49 AM
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This is true. I don't believe in the millennial cope of "it's too expensive" when poor people have even more kids. I just brought that up as a retort against people who say that women's biological clock will force them to settle for unattractive men. Of course when faced with the option of pursuing a career or having children, most women will choose the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:45 AM
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Dating apps becoming the primary method of forming relationships. We know that women only find a small percentage of men on these apps attractive. Increasing their gains. Also, women prefer their man to make more money and be higher status then them. Men are dropping out of post secondary education and there is a significant gap between men and women in colleges. Also, more women than men own homes in the US now. All these factors mean that women are going to struggle to find a guy that they act…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:34 AM
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Unfortunately when you think with the tingly part of your brain thinks like this happen. Also, many times the women are not aware, which is why it's called a soft harem. But even when they are, many stick around for the sex anyways. I'm suggesting that this against their idea of self worth. will be less of a problem in coming years when the stigma around sharing a guy dies down.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:29 AM
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Ideally they want to have 1 top guy to themselves, but we now know that when given the freedom, women would rather share a top guy then settle with a guy they perceive as lower. Of course rn it's embarrassing and a bit shameful to be lead on by a guy because you can't seem to cut yourself loose (which takes many forms) but I predict that will change
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:03 AM
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It's the same effect really. And I just used one night stands as an example. What's more likely is FWBs and near permanent situationships. Both are things that were probably unthinkable to most people in previous generations, now is the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:51 AM
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What do women get from hooking up with a stranger in a hotel room? 40 years ago it was probably similarly embarrassing. Taboo, dirty even. Now it's just a fun experience, an experiment in hedonism. Morals and values change over generations
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:36 AM
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Yup exactly. A expansion of current trends
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:28 AM
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What can I edit to make it acceptable? Is debate more accurate?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:48 AM
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Thank you for being honest. Big dick is preferred by the vast vast majority of girls and they're not ashamed to tell you if the situation is right. All this "just get good at oral" is such a cope by small dick losers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:47 AM
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But hypergamy isn't real right lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:41 AM
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Fair enough but the "paid my short dues" was telling
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:36 AM
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Then I think he should try his best to pick himself up because his past experience proves that he is attractive and can be loved
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:35 AM
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Guys who try to play revenge fantasy with "oh yeah? Well now no guys are gonna approach you at all" are really funny because it's not like that reduces women's options meaningfully at all. Women are in fact very open to approaches from attractive Men who don't care about sentiments like "being creepy" because they've had so much positive feedback that they have plenty of confidence and actually recognize/receive IOIs So no, women aren't gonna die alone because some angry beta doesn't approach th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:32 AM
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Another comment that shows how women really feel about short guys lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:26 AM
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Depends. Still a virgin at 25? Best to give up. Never been in a relationship by 30? Give up Never been married at 40? Give up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:18 AM
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Isn't that what I just said? Men who don't buy the "reformed" act and still don't want to date that girl? Do you want men who have been chaste to forgive women who haven't and date them anyways? Unchaste men should date unchaste women vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:00 AM
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Below 5'8 or 5'7 is tough
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:11 PM
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Unless he's short or balding, agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 09:58 PM
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Tried to buy PlayStation gift cards online when I was 12
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 09:58 PM
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I would be honest about my thoughts regarding his fiancee but ultimately the decision is his and I would support him through the wedding
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 09:57 PM
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Aren't you married?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 09:56 PM
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I think it's aimed at men not wanting to date women with high body counts even if they are "reformed" and now want monogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 09:54 PM
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Disagree, standards will just rise accordingly. Average height for example has only risen in the last 100 years. A tall guy from the 40s is average height today. It's gonna take a lot more. Maybe a war or something that decimates male populations
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:43 PM
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I thought you were linking musical gifts or physical gifts (sports) to one's success in the dating market since you were talking about hypergamy. Oh I see. I was speaking in regards to how some things come very easily to certain people whether that's music, sports or sex with women. I don't believe this to be true. But decent commitment minded people get taken early and are not let go. I wish
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:39 PM
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Yeah fair enough. I'm speaking more in generalizations. 50 years ago it wouldn't have been normal to have sex with strangers, you'd be a deviant and I imagine most women would have stayed away from something like that. now it's not a big deal, and even if some women still wouldn't have sex with a random from a club, a much greater percentage will than would have 50 years ago. Do you see my point? I'm not speaking about you personally
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:36 PM
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There are millions of them Yeah exactly there's plenty of hot guys for women to share. Isn't women not settling down a good thing... Like why would you want to be with someone, who doesn't even want you That's exactly my point did you even read my comment? I think in the future women won't have to settle for dusty average men anymore and instead can share hot men like they're biologically supposed to. It's a win.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:34 PM
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Music isn't a zero sum game though. It's not a competitive market. Morricone being a incredible prodigy didn't mean that Bernstein couldn't accomplish great feats of his own even if he was less gifted. However when it comes to dating which in its current form especially is an extremely competitive arena (especially for men) it is winter take all. One hot guy at a gym or an office can run through the entire female population easily. He wins
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:32 PM
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Yeah but imagine it's permanent. Instead of being shamed for being in a "situationship" you can freely hook up with Chad in perpetuity without being shamed for not settling down. We know that women don't actually like average men, but are forced to settle with them because of their biological clock and societal pressures, I'm saying that both of these conditions will disappear and women will be able to be with the men they actually want
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:26 PM
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Maybe because you're still raised with our current societal norms. I imagine if this was the 50s and I was telling you that you would be free to have NSA sex with whoever you wanted without people calling you a slut you'd have a similar reaction. But society and moral values change and new generations are raised with new values.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:24 PM
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Are we still taking about music?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:22 PM
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1 man, partnered up with multiple women. Isn't that polygamy? Think of how guys have rosters these days, but instead of being embarrassed about it, women will be more than satisfied with the arrangement because it won't be societally shamed anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:19 PM
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How is that unfair? I'm a piano player myself, but it never came easy to me. Prodigies exist for a reason. Remember Mozart was writing operas as a child. I believe the saying is that hard work beats talent when talent doesn't work hard. But when talent works hard it's unstoppable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:17 PM
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I genuinely believe that in the next 20 to 50 years we'll see a societal shift which will make polygamy more socially acceptable.The same way that the sexual revolution saw premarital sex become less taboo for both genders. Do you think you're a grandmother or grandfather would have believed that you had sex with 15 other guys / girls before you met your wife / husband? Or that you didn't go to church anymore? Societies and values change It's the only way that women can satisfy their hypergamous…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:51 PM
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I envy how easy some things come to some people whether it's sports or music or charisma or whatever. Hypergamy is so real and so natural I don't know how people can doubt it. Pretty much all mammal species do it. The natural urge for females to congregate around the highest value male. I know people are going to come at me with "you surprised that hot guys get laid more lol incel" but it's like they're proving my point lmao a small percentage of guys fuck a large percentage of the women and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:43 PM
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Yeah if you're not hot enough for apps this is pretty much the only way
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:35 PM
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I'm 23 so anything above 5. Plus any one night stands. I have 0. Is my flair not showing?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:04 PM
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Hey I'm from Canada too!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:55 PM
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The thought of wifing up a slut makes me want to throw up. It's like a visceral disgust
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:46 PM
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I'm jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:44 PM
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Damn we had nothing. There's an engineering prom every year but no girls there. Our college was very anti social in general. Very few events or activities happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:26 PM
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Second
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:01 PM
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Didn't you admit you're obese?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:09 PM
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Damn must be nice. I barely met any women at all in engineering
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:05 PM
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👏 congrats fr muscle mommy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:06 AM
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You are strong! I don't know any girls who can db press 40 lbs. I can only do 50 myself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:59 AM
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when a woman shows interest in a man it's more likely to be an actual relationship and she actually likes you, LOL Say that to the hordes of men in loveless marriages with dead bedrooms. Women can and are just as deceitful as men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:12 AM
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I think that's part of the analogy actually that women have so many options but it's a terrible set of options that could hurt them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:48 AM
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The problem I have with the whole " men are dying of thirst in a desert and women are dying of thirst in an ocean" analogy is that it makes the assumption that men may not get many options but the ones that they do get are good options. Just because someone has less options doesn't mean that the ones that they have are good
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:26 AM
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Sometimes I think I'm not actually attracted to women and then I see Alison Brie in community and I Fall in Love again
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:03 AM
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Look at how people treat you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:59 AM
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Damn it's really over for Stem guys eh. I just hear anecdotally a lot of people find their wife in postgrad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:59 AM
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Unabomber in development
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 12:40 AM
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He claims there were other issues with the relationship but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't hoping that this relationship would fail. He's been acting overly cocky ever since he got with her
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:35 PM
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I hear post grad is where alot of STEM nerds finally get laid. Probably has to do with less competition and lowering standards
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:33 PM
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I mean I don't pull anything so you're talking to the wrong guy lol Nothing wrong if pulling online works for you though. Girls like attention in general, and double so if it's from a handsome guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:32 PM
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Knew that lol. I got approached as a joke for practice once when I was a teenager
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:18 PM
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I'm really having trouble understanding your comment. Is English your first language? Don't mean to be rude really but I don't know what you're trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:17 PM
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My friend's such a fucking moron he dropped $600 on Christmas presents for a girl he'd been dating for 5 months and then she broke up with him because he was homophobic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:16 PM
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Gatsby is a good book
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:02 PM
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Maybe we have different definitions of the word entertain. “Sliding up into DMs” isn’t quality. It's not because most guys aren't quality but if she finds the guy attractive why not? A friend of mine got his gf the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:32 PM
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I like her videos lol my favourite niche YouTuber
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:24 PM
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Kidology?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:14 PM
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My friend literally has 4 guys in her DMs right now bro she's ignoring 3 of them but she said 1 was cute so she's gonna entertain it. She's not an influencer
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:20 PM
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Love that movie but I find it really hard to watch the scene where James Gandolfini beats the crap out of Patricia Arquette
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:15 PM
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Yeah none of my friends got anything from the girls on Valentine's Day. Lads have to shell out for a dinner and gift though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:14 PM
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Please recognize women are human beings with complex emotions like men, and that whether a woman wants to sleep with has more to do with HER than you . Ok cool I'm free to disqualify her on those decisions too. all my male friends who were virgins I got them set up very well but maybe because they weren't misogynistic?) One of the most successful dudes I know is extremely misogynistic yet he hooks up with strangers on the regular lol. You don't need to be nice to women to have sex with them lol …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:13 PM
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I really doubt that dude. Every girl I know has a few guys on IG and another few on Tinder to decide over. Maybe in previous generations there was less competition but it's different now
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:34 PM
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We are? Why are you being so obtuse dude? Casual sex is part of the world of dating
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:29 PM
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What I mean by "women like you" is knowing that the only option for unattractive guys like me is to end up as a beta for a woman who doesn't love me or find me attractive. Your comments about fucking a guy just because he's hot while making another guy wait is the cherry on top. You're confirming stuff I already knew. You probably were too busy ignoring women like me if were being honest You don't know me. I don't like party girls or clubbing or anime lmao. I like plain girls alot more actually.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:28 PM
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Men have sex with women they don't like all the time?? Why is this shocking to you?? You know how many men say they can fuck a girl they have no romantic interest in? You've never heard of breadcrumbing? Of men pretending to like women for sex? Difference is that men are consistent. They'll fuck a girl they don't like on the first date and the same with a girl they do like. Also: not liking someone romantically doesn't mean there's no attraction. Maybe said guy is super duper hot, maybe the grou…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:22 PM
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The whole non-exclusive multi-dating thing is the norm these days and you're a gross sex regressive bigot if you don't agree. Guys do it too, banging one girl while dating another.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:58 PM
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Again you're taking everything verbatim here. Normal women absolutely require incredible effort and attention from average guys while hooking up with FWBs or having one night stands with other dudes. It's called non-exclusive dating and it is absolutely the norm in the present day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:57 PM
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How doesn't this make sense. It just doesn't. You're having sex with someone you don't like and making someone else wait. Do you wear a dirty shirt and joggers to the girl who your on a first date with? No. I don't date or talk to women at all because of women like you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:55 PM
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"women in my own life" are you being purposefully obtuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:20 PM
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Not really. I don't subscribe to red pill or any manosphere people. On the other hand I have seen women in my own life and read countless posts that display this behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:10 PM
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Did you finish reading the sentence?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:06 PM
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I'm glad that the whole "men have to earn woman" is dying out. It makes me sick to think I have to be kind to a girl and buy her gifts and shit for her to give me a chance when she's more than likely banging another guy NSA the whole time anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:42 PM
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I can't wait to die alone
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:30 PM
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And yet they don't, and let hot dudes fuck on the first date anyways. Funny how that works
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:28 PM
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That's your issue lol. Be a bit less self-conscious and give it a shot. As long as ur not approaching like an idiot, worst you'll get is the girl walking away. Tried a handful of times. Felt like a fool and it was so obvious that they weren't interested. I've never received any indication that a girl wanted me to go up to her. But I know what that looks like because I've been to parties and surrounded by guys who do get those signals. You don't get to my age without a girl ever being interested …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:09 PM
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A different world fr
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:03 PM
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I was 9 when I saw myself in the mirror and was struck by how ungainly my features were
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:03 PM
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👋👋
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:01 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 08:59 PM
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I don't compliment women but if I did I think beautiful would be the best one
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 08:56 PM
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No you sound insane
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 08:54 PM
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Bad skin can get fixed lol with retinols Think I haven't tried? 3 dermatologists and no improvement. Still scarred like a smallpox patient lol As for the race thing, i'm not gonna deny that's a problem, maybe go for black girls instead? I don't have a race preference, but I don't go for women at all. I know I'm not welcome making those types of advances. Do these ppl fall on the more introverted or extroverted side in general? Both sides. One keeps trying, he's had a fat girlfriend before althou…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 07:14 PM
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Cool thanks for the anecdotes dude. I don't know anyone shorter than 5'8 who's not a virgin. My Chad friend is a bit dull yet gets flirted with by every waitress we ever see. He's jacked and not really charming but butt fucked a rich New York heiress on the first date. Personally I don't get play because I'm in the introverted side with bad skin, bad hair and an unattractive race. We can do this all day
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 06:47 PM
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I believe physical attraction is the most important marker of romantic success and the current social trends enforce that even more. I believe these are mostly genetic markers too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 06:28 PM
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The latter
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 06:23 PM
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I'm pretty blackpilled ama
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 06:08 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 06:07 PM
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YTA. She was discovering herself sexually and you have no right to place these restrictions on her? Did you discuss boundaries and exclusivity? Sounds like you're a sex regressive incel tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 04:49 PM
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I understand that treating people like their objects or products is not nice. But let's be real if you don't know someone, if they're strangers to you they're pretty much just a product. So when people in this sub say stuff like "it's not economics" or "she's a human not a car" or whatever it misses the mark. Markers exist anywhere there is supply and demand, same as dating, even if it is gross to think of romance as a market
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 04:48 PM
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Why is that a contradiction? What you're saying seems like a very black and white view of things. Just because I have some good qualities doesn't mean people want me. I think everyone has good qualities, no one is completely good or bad. I have bad qualities too, like introversion, bad skin etc. But the value of the bad outweighs the value of the good
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 04:29 PM
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No. They see it as doing the guy a favour
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 04:14 PM
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Like think about it if women given a chance are mostly turning into hoes, doesn't that mean they are getting most benefits when they are a hoe? Yeah it's true. Culture encourages it and there's alot of benefits to it. Imagine telling me young women that they shouldn't enjoy sex with attractive Men who will pay for their meals and give them gifts and generally simp for them. Most hoes end up fine in the future anyways and settle down with a beta loser who doesn't know or doesn't care about their …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 04:11 PM
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But I do. I genuinely believe I have good qualities. They're just not enough to overcome my weaknesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 04:07 PM
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You miss every shot you don’t take. A good athlete takes high percentage shots (IOIs) It’s not an L they likely didn’t even see in that situation. It’s social anxiety and reading into things too far. He expressed interest, she didn't reciprocate and probably thinks he's a creep for a bit before forgetting about him. That's an L
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 07:37 AM
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A hot dude with low self-esteem is still hot. I'm not. Women date and fuck losers all the time they just tend to be attractive. I've seen it with my own eyes I have Chad friends
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 07:33 AM
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Best of luck
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 07:31 AM
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I had a really good weekend hanging out 1 on 1 with a friend , ate tons of food from various cuisines and explored my city. Some might call it touching grass even. Still not gonna talk to women though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 07:30 AM
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He’s been waiting for a woman to show him “ios” first What's wrong with that? An unreturned smile? Not a L That's an L by definition
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 07:28 AM
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I'm not "just go the gym" guy. I know how many guys are still ugly and don't meet women's standards after working out, but especially if you're fat, you're holding back your potential. Skinny guys can't have such a huge surge in attractiveness by working out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 04:09 AM
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I've had friends despite having low self esteem my whole life. It's just that the same thing doesn't apply to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 04:01 AM
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Yeah I agree. No point in dating past 25, it's just like a job interview
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:59 AM
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Fat guys are volcels. Lose weight and reveal the bone structure underneath to see what you can do
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:57 AM
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I thought you were a 3/10
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:56 AM
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I would love to meet a girl at a bookshop.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:57 AM
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A hot woman won't steal your average man but a hot man will steal your average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:58 PM
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Where tf are you getting any of this from I was just sharing a funny story from my childhood ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:57 PM
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Apparently it's to include people of colour who are somehow excluded from the whole gay rights movement idk
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:22 PM
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Offense? She made it about gender, a concept that I did not understand
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:15 PM
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For you... Anything♥️♥️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:14 PM
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If you're a hot dude women fold pretty easily
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:06 PM
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I don't want him to think I'm a slut, so I won't sleep with him. But I like him, and I see a future with him. I don't care about him, so I'll sleep with him. ????
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:06 PM
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Bored, horny, the dominant feeling of taking another man's woman
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:50 PM
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Safety
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:49 PM
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Here's another story from the elementary school days. We had a very strict no snowball policy where anyone who got caught throwing snow would get in trouble and get detention. I got hit with a snowball out of nowhere and with a teacher watching it in plain view she just says "that means she likes you" I had gotten 2 detentions for getting in snowball fights at that point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:38 PM
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Luckily those younger women will never want him and he'll never have a chance with them but if Chad's feeling a little frisky he can take that old dudes wife for a night 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:31 PM
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I wonder if I was doomed to be a virgin because when I was an 8 years old I refused to give a toy to a girl and my teacher told me to give it to her because I wasn't being a gentleman lmao Still remember what I said "I'm not a gentleman I'm a kid!"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:30 PM
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Nah I'm good. There's not going to be any violent overthrow society because most of these sad men will eventually find a girl who settled down with them past her own prime and they'll be fine. I don't want that. I'll die alone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:27 PM
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The billionaire. He'll take care of his family
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:26 PM
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I think you got too much “Internet talk” from a bunch of dudes that aren’t getting any stuck in your head. Idk man it all seems pretty real. And not even in a "woman suck and men are awesome" way but in general the whole dating scene is a quagmire of hurt feelings and treating people poorly and I don't want to be a part of that. I know from my own qualities that I am just not the type of guy that is going to end up in a loving relationship. I'm a beta. A low quality dude who's ended up sweeping …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:24 PM
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Isn't a pick me man a simp?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:22 PM
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It's so over lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:16 PM
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Thank you for the in-depth explanation. It makes even less sense now and just makes you look mentally ill lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:07 PM
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Women treat hot men better than ugly men. People like pretty people
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:03 PM
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Everything that happens to men is their own fault. Women on the other hand are passive instruments of fate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:28 PM
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Men end up on the fringes of society much easier than women do. Women are also more socially accessible
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:11 PM
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I know there must be something wrong with me. I feel like an alien or a freak
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:06 PM
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Hmmm I don't know if I do. It really seems like a lot of work, and I don't think I'd really succeed at it. I'm more likely to end up as a betabux instead of an equal partnership knowing my personality. But I've never felt lonely, I'm very much content with my own company. I just get the feeling my life should have more going on and I'm wasting it somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:48 PM
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Sometimes people tell me that having such a nonchalant attitude towards sex and dating is attractive but it's obviously not working for me lol otherwise I wouldn't be a 23 year old virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:31 PM
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It's not even pedestalizing but I don't even have that kind of "I just want to get my dick sucked" mentality that is so common. I know guys who treat women so poorly but have some hole on speed dial that they ring up whenever they're bored and want sex. I can't even imagine that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:30 PM
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It is I think I didn't frame my comment properly, I was it referring to dating stuff. People on the sub love talking about how women do this and men do that, but I think that both genders do the activities that they blame the other for
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:26 PM
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Sometimes I think I'm enlightened for not really valuing women that highly or pedestalizing them but then sometimes I think I'm missing a wire or something lol What kind of guy in his early 20s isn't hounding for tail lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:25 PM
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Damn hairspray lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:17 PM
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Your boyfriend must have been a very in-demand guy lol Most men don't really have the options that he did so when they do land on a girl, it is a lot about unknowingly competing with other guys she's talking to
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:16 PM
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There's no immortal behavior discussed by the subreddit that isn't committed by both behaviors it's simply a matter of perspective. So the only real debate imo is, who does more of which immoral behaviors
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:08 PM
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Yeah but women hide that shit and get mad when the man finds out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:40 PM
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You should send one
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:13 PM
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College might have been the only time you could have gotten laid mate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:13 PM
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They might not know they're competing for you. But you go on dates with multiple dudes and deciding which one seems like the best prospect
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:13 PM
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Things are topsy turvy now. You're apparently supposed to juggle a few people simultaneously and maybe fuck 1 or 2 of them before learning their names
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:17 PM
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C'mon take responsibility for your actions don't be a woman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 02:41 PM
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That's kind of scummy man. Like obviously she's a cheating whore but if you knew she was married that's pretty scummy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 02:35 PM
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Q4A: what do you interpret "winning over" is romantically
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 02:20 PM
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Q4W do you believe men are competing for you? How do you feel about it? Q4M; do you like chasing and competing for women? Is it thrilling?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 02:14 PM
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Bruh 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 02:12 PM
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Isn't it funny how blue people will say the most blackpilling things with a straight face
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 02:10 PM
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because a girl would rather laugh than cry. Wow so profound sensei
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 02:01 PM
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It's rare but it's nice. The last time this happened was when I delivered pizzas and a customer told me she liked me shoes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:31 AM
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Women be like "I dated a guy who didn't wash his ass" and think that's anything but an L on them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:13 AM
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A girl at my office complemented my hair today I had no idea. She looked at me and smiled and said "hair?" I was like "oh what happened" "oh you got your haircut it looks nice" That's the first time in 4 years that I've gotten a compliment from a girl. It felt nice. I'm not into her and she has a boyfriend, but she's a very kind girl and always nice to everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 02:34 AM
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People trying to coin the term "retroactive jealousy" as if it's a mental condition to not want your partner to have slept with 50 people lmao this world is cooked
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 02:15 AM
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I'm sorry dude, it's not your fault
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:36 AM
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Try really really really hard not to be upset over lost years. Keep a front facing attitude and try not to think about the power differential that exists between you and a potential gf Or if you're me, give up
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:30 AM
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Cratering birth rates and in Korea's case, a population that hates the opposite gender
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:16 AM
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I wish lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:13 AM
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I think I see why women don't understand men's fear of being settled for. Man thinks he's being settled for because his wife had a ton of hookups, or chased bad boys, but the women only ever sees herself as the prize. That's why women say stuff like "why does it matter she's with you now" or "you won in the long run". The woman is the prize, so the man shouldn't complain about how he got her, he's just lucky to have her and keep his mouth shut.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:05 AM
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Before: Chad gets approached After: Chad gets approached even more
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:59 AM
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Around 6 in. Or 15 cm
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 10:49 PM
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It's stories like this that make me want to stay away from women forever. Wtf man what a slut
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:49 PM
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80% of men are fated to live like this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:38 PM
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So 80% of men are doomed to this fate
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:04 PM
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Sorry wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:04 PM
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And I'm supposed to believe that's not a better deal than dealing with her your whole life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:50 PM
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I'm not trying to be hostile, I'm agreeing with you. I'm not cut out for it. It's alot of games and manipulations that I'm not capable of.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:49 PM
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Industrialization and women in the workplace flattens birth rates. People love to talk about how if we just had better working conditions and better salaries people would be more open to having kids but even in the most socially progressive countries in the world which have so many incentives for people to start families things are actually even worse. Really as soon as you give women the choice between family and career they choose career every single time and why wouldn't they? But you can't b…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:46 PM
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Thankfully not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:40 PM
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Yeah definitely not. Unless you're a high caliber kind of guy all this looks to be pretty much mandatory
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:40 PM
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Well maybe if I was rich or beautiful as Angelina Jolie I wouldn't care so much
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:04 PM
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It's their biological purpose tbf
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:03 PM
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I don't want those things, doesn't mean they're not gonna happen
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:02 PM
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So let me get this straight, I have to take her on dates, pay for it, be funny and entertaining the whole time, take all the risk of escalation, once commitment is agreed, this arrangement continues forever. She is never obligated to do anything for me, but will divorce me or cheat on me if I mess up at all, and will be celebrated for doing so. I have to trust her completely, and can't question anything she does or it's insecurity but she can in fact treat me a potential abuser and have an escap…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:39 PM
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someone even did a statistical breakdown
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:24 PM
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What do you want him to do take a census of the subreddit lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:21 PM
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You fuck a Chad once you'll always compare every BF after to him. Or go on a date with a really wealthy man and cheap coffee dates won't hit the same. The bar has been set and as soon as you mess up it'll get thrown in your face
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:04 PM
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I don't think I even register. I'm a non entity
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:26 AM
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I haven't even mentioned my baby wrists
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:57 AM
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Hmm cancer or pussy 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:57 AM
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New insecurity unlocked, my voice. Sounds like I went through puberty 80% of the way smh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:52 AM
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Sure they're kids but it's valuable experience regardless. As important as making your first friends in kindergarten. An important step in your social development
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:51 AM
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They're valuable experience that builds character and sets up better things to come if executed correctly and learned from.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:13 AM
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Wow that's really mean of him. A father should always want to see his son be better than him
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:12 AM
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Most women have some history with a Chad at some point though. Whether it was a date or a hookup. Sad that you'll never be good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:16 AM
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Ok...and? Its not like you are interviewed,you can just lie You can't fake experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:17 AM
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I'm less than 2 years away. Almost there then I can officially give up
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:16 AM
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Are you alright
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:54 PM
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It might be aimed at women but it's a message sent by a certain type of man who I imagine is quite unsuccessful with women to begin with. same energy as this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:46 PM
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this always makes me laugh because it assumes that the only thing stopping you from getting asked out is the girl being too shy. No mf, she's not secretly pining for you, she just doesn't think you're attractive or probably even know you exist lmao. Fkn dorks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:16 PM
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Yeah but you can't do that if you're not actually Chad, and especially if she's already been with Chad, then you definitely can't compete. Ergo, no love and settling. You just spend your entire life trying to make yourself live up to some other guy, sounds awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:08 PM
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Yeah I like having a drink and talking. But I'm 23, I don't want to sit inside all the time. Plus, no one else ever sets things up other than me. When I set up a plan it's to go somewhere interesting, a cool activity, or a get together with food and drinks at my place. But with all these other people, they never invite anyone, and when they do their only idea is to sit at home and play board games. I'm sick of it really
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:50 PM
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Have some drinks, play games, cards, ping pong. It's not a rager house party. Just talking with friends and some refreshments
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:34 PM
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It's okay for my age I think. We're still in the pizza and drinks era, not really dinner party. But in general I'm getting sick of putting in more effort than I receive, I know most are on the introverted side but many of them seem more and more like takers who give nothing back
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 05:11 PM
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Tried on NYE and most people flopped. I'm getting quite frustrated with the current state of my friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 05:07 PM
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Bruh it's that easy huh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 05:06 PM
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How did you find your boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:53 PM
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A few decades ago people with good morals and values didn't approve of premarital sex now you're a bigot if you don't want a woman who slept with more than three people. Morals and values change
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:53 PM
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Does anyone else have friends but not a social circle? Like I feel that having 10+ people that I can call friends and see semi-regularly is okay socially. Yep they're all different groups or individuals that don't really gel together so I feel like I can't really call it a social circle. Also I pretty much never meet new people through them. So in some ways I doing okay socially but in other ways I'm failing miserably. In b4 "just join a club bro"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:51 PM
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Man, it's impossible to be really loved by a woman huh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:41 PM
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Mass acceptance of harems and polygamy. You'll be considered a sex negative bigot if you disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:50 AM
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How
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:32 AM
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I fkn hate barstool lmao. What do you mean by taker?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:06 AM
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thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:56 PM
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hmm i feel like most women do it to some degree but not in a malicious or super intentional way Really? Damn that's heartbreaking
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 10:54 PM
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Cuz it proves that they're not actually attracted to the second guy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 10:50 PM
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That go bag thread was so blzckpilling
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 10:40 PM
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I talk to women fine irl. As long as it's friendly and platonic. I just feel like a complete fraud even attempting to flirt cuz it's so obviously not reciprocated and never has been
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:50 PM
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It's not a big deal I know it was a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:32 PM
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I might as well be Chris Chan how would else would it feel if a random guy started flirting with you on Instagram out of the blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:31 PM
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Yeah she probably did forget but I didn't. Wtf was I thinking smh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:42 PM
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Like how fucking gross is that something you haven't spoken to in like 5 years messages you to awkwardly flirt with you and ask you out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:47 PM
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No, we actually talked for a week before it fizzled out. I just feel ashamed cuz I probably made her so uncomfortable and disgusted when I asked her out at the end of the convo. Like how fucking gross is that something you haven't spoken to in like 5 years messages you to awkwardly flirt with you and ask you out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:31 PM
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Yeah but I haven't
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:13 PM
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It's been 2 years since the first and only time I ever DMd a girl. It still makes me feel ashamed and dirty to think I even did such a thing. My friends had been pressuring me to do it for months and I still feel like POS for doing it. I should just stick to porn
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:01 PM
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Are you implying that men are attracted to passiveness but don't want to deal with the consequences? I think that what people see as passiveness is actually an attraction to an easy-going, go with the flow nature. Okay I'd like Mexican food today but I'm also down for Chinese yk?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:59 PM
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I think assertive is a bit more about standing your ground. For example, I think everyone would like if their partner was confident about their likes and dislikes. But being very rigid or wanting your will done is hard to deal with. For example I think women like it when their man decides where they want to go eat for dinner but men don't like being told where to go for dinner if that makes sense. Difference between let's get Mexican food today versus I don't want anything other than Mexican foo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:39 PM
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I think everyone likes confidence. But women like assertive men, and not vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:29 PM
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Always good to invest in your body. It'll repay you when you're older
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:36 PM
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Thanks for that dude. I appreciate you taking the time to write that up. I just wish I got to be young sometimes, I'm 23, life feels over, and sometimes I think if I just gone to a different college my life would have been more fulfilling. I don't have the friends I wish I had, who are down to go on adventures and try new things. Social media is such a big part of it, I see people I know exploring new countries, living abroad or in a cool downtown apartment with friends. Going to new restaurants…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:34 AM
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Yeah that's what I just said haha I'm well aware I'm a socially stunted sexual reject
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:14 AM
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One of my friends once said unprompted that he can't ever see me being in a relationship or with a woman in general. And even though I believe he's right, it's pretty funny coming from considering what a massive simp he can be. He's had 2 girlfriends and both ended acrimoniously. With the latest one he dropped $600 on Christmas gifts for her and her family and spent countless hours commuting to her town which is 2 hours away. Btw, he only dated her for 6 months or so. I'd definitely rather be al…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:06 AM
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What's a nobody? If he has a decent enough job to take care of her and treats her well that's enough
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:57 AM
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Not really, I'm 23, it's time to get to work lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:31 AM
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Anything more than 1 hookup would put me off. As a whole I think 3+ count is not for me but I understand that me being a developmentally stunted loser isn't their fault and a guy my age should have some experience to speak of.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:30 AM
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Yeah but to miss out on something that is propped up as so fundamental in contemporary western culture..it really sucks. I wish I didn't care so much but I do and every now and again it prays on my mind and ruins my evening
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:28 AM
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Yeah for sure. Whores deserve each other. I just don't want to be unknowingly saddled with one
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:24 AM
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I just feel developmentally stunted as a result. It really sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:23 AM
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Best of luck, I hope you make the most of it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:23 AM
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FOMO about getting to make friends and live on my own and stuff. Dorm life, living in a college town where a significant chunk of the population would be my age, even have a girlfriend maybe. I don't think I would have really liked frat life or non stop partying. I had a really demanding degree as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:22 AM
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is it really rare for a woman to not have these crazy experiences in college? I really don't know, I'm sure it depends on the crowd but I've also known some obstensibly quiet girls who were total freaks on the low.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:16 AM
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I'm not a degenerate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:00 AM
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That's admirable. What's special about going out of state though?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:38 AM
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What's your goal for college?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:32 AM
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One of my biggest insecurities is the fact that I didn't get to go away for college. And then when I read/hear all these stories from others or on Reddit about all the crazy times they had that makes me feel some pretty bad FOMO Worst of all is reading stories about guys who didn't know that their SOs were complete whores in college and successfully hid that behaviour for years. I don't know if it's an exaggeration or not but it definitely poisons my mind so now I just assume that every girl who…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:31 AM
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Always has been 🔫🌎
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:22 AM
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When I was 16 I got used as a training session for how easy it is to get a guys number. I was sitting in the mall food court and some girls sitting just behind me were arguing about guys. I could hear almost everything they said. "Hey just look at this guy go ask him" So she walked up to and without any preamble just asked for my number. I gave it to her and she texted me hello an hour later, we had a short but friendly conversation I hope I gave her the confidence to approach men in the future …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:15 AM
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Like they say in mean girls, it's the one time of year where you can wear whatever you want and no one can call you a slut
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:12 AM
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Mogs me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:48 PM
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I used to go to parties semi regularly but unfortunately the one party I never got to go to was a Halloween party. It seems like it would have been a lot of fun and I feel like a loser for not getting to go to one
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:47 PM
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I'm not even tall tall I'm just barely 6'0
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:11 PM
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4/10. Bad skin (skincare hasn't worked despite my best efforts), unattractive race, skinny fat (but gym had been somewhat helpful in improving that). Possibly balding. Being sorta tall is my only positive trait but have never received any female attention in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 10:39 PM
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Not good. There's also a big population gap between young men and young women due to sex selective abortions so many young men will never have a wife at all. Arranged marriages are declining quite rapidly among the middle and upper classes. Women have more upward social mobility than ever before. Why that obviously still exists as an institution it's now more an option for people who didn't find a partner on their own
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 10:36 PM
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YOU'RE TOO CLOSE WOMAN PEPPER SPRAY!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 06:04 PM
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Let me introduce you to the Indian subcontinent lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:41 PM
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What I find really interesting about this is that looks maxxxing the way that it's been brought up in recent months is almost entirely male-dominated with autistic obsessions about facial ratios and stuff like that but the subreddit is seemingly dominated by women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:25 PM
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I hope you guys don't just see me as a deranged schizo yelling into the void, but also, a friend ♥️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:23 PM
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Yeah you just picked one sentence from all three of my replies and stuck to it like glue while ignoring all the context I provided around it. Get your blinders off mule
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:07 PM
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I make friends with everyone, I'm very easy to gel with and have a wide variety of interests. I feel like you're being purposely obtuse here and you ignored my first reply too. I did not "sing their praises" they of course have admirable qualities outside of their looks. a guy YOU LITERALLY like as a friend and person?! I know guys who I also like as friends and people who have never had luck with women. Me liking someone is not a prerequisite for their success with the opposite sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:59 PM
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What I was trying to relay was that there was nothing especially attractive about their personalities. In fact we could argue that we had similar personalities in some cases and similar interests. For example one of them is a master student in the field of genetics. I enjoy learning about this stuff so I talk to him about it. But I doubt he talked about his studies to the waitress he banged a week after we went to the restaurant. Another guy could generally be described as quite aloof, if you do…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:50 PM
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I have a pretty chameleon-like personality that's allowed me to become friends with a lot of different types of people throughout my life. Some long-term and some not. The one commonality that I've noticed is that all the Chads that I've been friends with (tall white athletic who were all very successful with women) were also just kind of dull? Like I've seen them interact with women, I'd hardly say that they've had game or charismatic or anything. Girls would just laugh at their jokes anyways. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:41 PM
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No women were ever attracted to me in the first place so porn was the only thing I had. Probably a bad habit, but it didn't stop opportunities for me because they were never there to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:02 PM
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Nah not really
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 01:57 PM
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I had a frog dissection
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 01:57 PM
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Women only hate on casual sex when it fails to net them the guy they wanted. It's the same sort of sour grapes as guys who don't get casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:32 AM
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I believe if we lived in a society that just let women be, and have sex with whom they'd like, there'd be more men benefitting from the same thing they are currently complaining about This is the society we already live in. The sexual revolution had already happened and as biologically ordained, women choose the top males. Making the market more free led to resources accumulating at the top
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:30 AM
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That's the biological urge overtaking the logical part of your brain
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:24 AM
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People are allowed to do alot of things. A homeless dude could walk into a 5 star restaurant but don't be surprised when people see he doesn't belong there and he gets kicked out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:33 AM
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Q4M; how do you feel about competing for women? Obviously it's natural but with the apps and dating multiple at once becoming more common, how do you deal with it? Personally I don't like competing at stuff I'm not already good at cuz losing makes me feel bad so I don't bother
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:32 AM
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You're not living up to your flair here lol As a less attractive male he needs to stay in his lane. Being this type of extroverted centre of attention does not do well for guys like that. Hopefully he learned his lesson
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:16 AM
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You've gotta be kidding me dude 😭 Laughs and literally pretends to have a disgusted reaction to your existence and you're response is "she probably likes you bro" 😂😂😂 For what it's worth he awkwardly waved hi at the end of the video
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 12:22 AM
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He should be shamed for going to a club at all tbh that's not a place for him to be
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 12:20 AM
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Yeah cuz going "outside" to get laughed at like that guy is better right I go outside plenty, I just stay away from women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 12:16 AM
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Lol wtf his friends an asshole for posting it but it's still a brutal reaction from the girls
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 12:13 AM
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Thanks Dr Reddit I'm sure that will change absolutely nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 12:09 AM
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He needs to find different ways to have fun then. Someone of his status doesn't belong in a club dancing like that. He can have fun some other way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 12:06 AM
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They're just doing their job enforcing social hierarchy. Ugly dudes shouldn't have been acting like he was. He needs to know his place
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 12:05 AM
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Jude didn't score today ur husband is shit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 12:00 AM
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Nah he deserves it. Stupid move for him to attract attention to himself in an environment like that. If he had been more aware of his status and stayed in the background he would have saved himself the embarrassment
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:59 PM
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Posting the video on snapchat with a caption that says trauma was the cherry on top
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:55 PM
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Just watched a story an acquaintance posted on his story. His friend was dancing at a club (kinda silly dance) a girl right behind him is staring at him and points him out to her friends and they all laugh. He notices and stops dancing and one girl mimes throwing up. Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:52 PM
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Mens lib is hilarious. They try so fkn hard to be feminist and not step on any toes and feminist subs STILL complain that they're incel adjacent and have a misogyny problem
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:32 PM
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The replies to My last comment are sad but not unexpected. I feel so bad for autistic dudes man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:17 PM
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He's not very comfortable living without his parents and is aloof around strangers. He's lovable to those who know him well but he'll probably live with you for longer than you'd like
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 09:53 PM
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NEET
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 09:52 PM
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Autistic son or OF daughter?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 09:26 PM
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Yup and immediately got swarmed by 9 supermodels who all wanted my number
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 09:08 PM
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We're still in the title race but just opened the door for Arsenal. It's gonna be an exciting 15 games but they deserved the win today
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 06:35 PM
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Ffs Alisson and VVD
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 06:01 PM
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I would be really interested to hear from any Koreans on gender relations. Recently elected a president who campaigned on anti-feminism Apparently men see women as unfair competitors for jobs in a society that still has mandatory conscription, taking away years from their ability to compete in the job market. But there's also a lot of women who feel like they're being discriminated against because of their sex. Definitely has to be one of the reasons for their birth rates being in the toilet. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:26 PM
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Not random guys, but at least a few ultra hot guys a year
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:04 PM
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And how does everyone know a 5'4 chubby dude who gets laid like crazy because he's so charismatic?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:43 PM
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It's not that bad
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:52 AM
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I don't know why women say stuff like this as a gotcha. So you met a Chad who you had every intention of sleeping with zero investment, but he bungled it for himself by being socially inept. There's not "more to it". If he was even mildly friendly things would have been smooth sailing. Most guys aren't struggling because they behave like the guy in your story, it's because they don't look like the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:48 AM
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I think the whole idea of going on a date doesn't appeal to me. Especially as a man, knowing I have to lead the conversation, keep her entertained, market myself and pay for it all at the end just seems like such a drag. I simply am not cut out for the world of dating, especially not in this era
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:53 AM
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What's warped about this? It's the normal behaviour for guys and girls in today's fast paced age of dating apps and casual sex. I personally know 2 or 3 girls who do this for example
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:44 AM
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That's an option. Maybe make them run on a hamster wheel for 15 minutes for every DM they wanna send
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 11:37 PM
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telling your family your opinions on what strangers sex lives are like. Yeah it's kind of crass which is why I don't want to have a conversation with my mom about it You could just say “I just haven’t met anyone I have really connected with yet” Not really an option when my mom keeps asking if she can set me up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 11:31 PM
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What's stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 11:19 PM
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tastes aren’t universal. They pretty much are close to universal. Especially for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 11:19 PM
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Ah I see something new for me to be insecure about lol Only worth a $1 tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 10:58 PM
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Not what I said, that's has nothing to do with my post (But either way, I don't know a guy shorter than 5'8 who's not still a virgin, one needed a hooker )
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 10:34 PM
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I'm not sure what that means lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 10:33 PM
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Life is so easy for you guys man I'm jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 10:19 PM
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Nah if we could use male thirst as an energy source we'd solve climate change in a week
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 10:18 PM
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Falling behind something is wrong with you. If a 12 year old couldn't read he'd be severely limited compared to his peers
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 10:18 PM
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It's true
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 10:17 PM
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Women will say the like medium ugly men and it'll just be a 6'2 white dude with a funny nose or something Men will say they like unique women and they'll just be talking about a hot woman with a blue streak in her hair
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 10:15 PM
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Maybe, I'd need a sherlock hat though lol . I'd like to think asking for a healthy weight woman who doesn't sleep with strangers isn't too much but who knows What does $1 belly button mean
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 10:10 PM
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Brazil will not win the world Cup and you will never find a virgin gf cry harder
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 09:28 PM
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You gotta relax dude Id like a virgin too but it's over
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 09:22 PM
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It's socially unacceptable to ask or even care about body count
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 09:21 PM
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Ah but you forget how easy it is to hide that behaviour and how unacceptable it is to even ask. By the time we got to that point, I'd be in too deep, and breaking up would make sure I'd be excluded from the pool in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 09:21 PM
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Lol that's a good point actually. The Asian parent network is crazy but these second gen girls are even crazier with how they lead double lives. I feel like my mom would definitely be more pickier than me, I'm pretty open to all women who aren't obese or have a penis
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 09:08 PM
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she would probably pick a non-slut for you. I don't think she's equipped to filter for that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:29 PM
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You having to explain things to your mom may be why have you problems dating in the first place. Huh? She wants me to start dating and I'm trying ways to dodge the topic. You can show respect without being whiny I have alot of respect for my mom, which is why I need a way to explain the dating market in a way that would make sense to her because she's from a different culture and generation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:41 PM
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I'm not complaining I'm rationalizing. I don't really want a girl for many reasons, I just don't know how to explain it to my mom yk
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:40 PM
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what makes you think even a former slut would want you? They probably won't what will magically change once you're established with a nice job. In my community we have arranged marriage, while less people do it these days, there's still a significant amount of marriages that start this way. That's why my mom wants for me. However in the modern day, it's simply another way to meet people. So you can have a history of past GFs/BFs but still ask your parents to set you up yk?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:39 PM
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I'm still in my early 20s. Obviously it would have been ideal to bag a girl sometime in the past few years but if I only get a GF at like 28, it'll probably be some former slut looking for a BB
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:18 PM
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That's a good line I'ma use it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:16 PM
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How do I explain to my mom that I don't want to date because the girl would probably be sleeping with other dudes while we go out? Like how do I even explain that as a concept to a middle-aged Asian woman
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:11 PM
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Of course but they hate men and blackpillers hate women so it's a good match that way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:42 PM
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The red pill has become darker to the point of being diet black pill, like only a few steps away from saying "give up and hate women" I wonder if this is a symptom of it not working in the face of such a stacked dating market or something else
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:35 PM
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Most common advice I see online is "most women just want a good guy who'll treat her well and make her laugh 😁"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:23 PM
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Nah my gym is also less busy on Friday-Sunday
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:21 PM
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Just go to the gym bro
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:19 PM
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They're needed. Once we have an equal amount of pink and black pillers we'll host a grand wedding and get them all married
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:16 PM
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And what if he has a really really bad personality
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:33 AM
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Women will tell you all you need to get a gf is shower and be nice and then date a jobless guy who doesn't wash his ass just because he gave her the tingles
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:33 AM
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Women of Reddit: How many times a day would you have sexy sex with a fat jobless loser?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:29 AM
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Another weekend where none of my plans with other people worked out so I'll stay at home and rot
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:40 AM
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There is none
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 01:11 AM
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Pretty he said "that's rubbish" and PR took over the rest
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 01:08 AM
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You won bro. Thanks for blsckpilling me again
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 01:07 AM
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Get used to it bro the more of your friends pair off the less time they'll have for you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 01:06 AM
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What's more extreme than letting men die to save women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:42 PM
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Do you guys have any internalized misogyny/misandry towards your own gender? For me, I do believe that women and children should be evacuated first, even if that is probably implying that men's lives mean less. But even that makes sense on a societal level, I can see why it's nessecary
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:19 PM
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On their birthday or something but I don't recall seeing any of my friends get a Valentine day gift no
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:45 PM
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Long time degenerates of this sub,when did you notice that it went from red pill to black pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:34 AM
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Maybe for women, dudes need alot more
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:28 AM
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Lol. Gym doesn't fix your face, and it doesn't fix bad social skills either. Even the hottest guys need to be at last average socially. I know of tonnes of ugly gym goers who bench 225 and yet are bitch less
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:51 AM
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Put yourself in their shoes bro. Socially awkward, shy, maybe autistic. Only gravitate towards solitary hobbies like gym. Want a gf but don't have many friends if any, and don't meet girls. But at the gym they see tonnes of pretty girls walking around in tight clothes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:49 AM
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Do guys even get anything out of Valentine's Day? My friends drop hundreds in dinner and gifts but they never seem to get anything in return
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:28 AM
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Yo that's so accurate. They're never consistent with their words
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:58 AM
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I promise you dude, a smile alone from someone like me would probably unnerve them. Female strangers don't really want to talk to someone who looks like I do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:23 AM
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It's so sad lmao. There's always a new post about it on r/dating or something with some lonely dude begging if it's ok to ask out a girl that he's never talked to at the gym and all the comments telling him it's not a good idea. Pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:18 AM
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Many are blackpillers in disguise
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:15 AM
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I don't talk to women who I'm not already familiar with unless I have to. My gym is actually really chill, no influencer wannabes and everyone just works on their own so I don't exactly want to be the guy who starts making girls uncomfortable. Plus the gym seems to be a very high competition place with all the handsome jacked dudes running around
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:14 AM
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I think I got why autistic RPers and other lonely Reddit guys are so obsessed with cold approaching at the gym. Because it's the only place that they regularly go that has a lot of women walking around. They don't have friends so this is the only option for them Also the girls wear tight leggings and sport bras lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:05 AM
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What did you mean by "corrupted" then
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:16 AM
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European women are even sluttier than Americans lol wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 11:18 PM
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My sister. I get it ok, I'm a man so I was born with the original sin and women deserve to stomp on my head for being alive. I accept it. I just wish they could be honest about it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 10:05 PM
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Ok I'll be specific. By the school of thought that most women in the western world who are younger than 25 or so subscribe to, Women are inherently more valuable than men and any man who does get into a relationship with a woman should thank his lucky stars that she gave him the time of day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:48 PM
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Unrelated but you have an interesting flair, could you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:44 PM
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Throw yourself into the arena and go places where people hang out and talk to them. Play frisbee or volleyball in the parks of your city. Hang out at the lakes and chat with groups of people that are around. Go to clubs, concerts, bars, and the chillest cafés and hangout spots in your city. The third place is dead. If you have friends that aren't total assholes hold on to them for dear life because in a social atmosphere like this you're not making new ones. There is no point throwing myself int…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:40 PM
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an average man is only worth a woman at her worst This is what the modern woman believes. It's a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:33 PM
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Live his life and pray he meets someone IRL or on an app will settle for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:52 PM
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Never seen it no. Mostly just half defences of it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:57 PM
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Whatever lady, I explained things as honestly as I could, I don't know what I said to make you think I'm lying
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:54 AM
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like these women they’re just unattainable so you settle for plain Jane’s? I can't say I like them, they're nice to look at like a painting or something but nothing else. I feel alot stronger about plain Jane women. There's a girl I work with who isn't classically beautiful but she carries herself so well I have a little crush on her now. I’m just pointing out how interesting it is that women men claim to want get no comments about them. Get no attention. Get no good treatment. Get no kind of ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:42 AM
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I mean I don't talk a shit ton about instagram thots if that's what you mean, of course they're hot but they're unattainable and way beyond anything I could handle. I guess I find gender dynamics interesting. I don't mess with women irl. I have another account for science and nature talk. I also like birdwatching.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:15 AM
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give them the attention they deserve instead of spending so much time and energy on women you dislike. I don't really talk to women other than platonically. Have never done otherwise and I never will attraction to these “unattractive women”. An allure or draw because if they rly don’t matter to you, you wouldn’t be constantly obsessed with talking about them. Right I don't know what you mean here. I use this sub to say opinions that I can't say irl. Opinions about some of the female behaviours t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:04 AM
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Plain Jane women deserve Chad boyfriends not losers like me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:53 AM
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Female Icks are feminine behavior from men like being passive or being affected by a situation (crying) . Also extends to feminine adjacent physical qualities like being short. Whereas male Icks follow masculine behavior from females like being assertive, physical qualities like short hair It's that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:20 AM
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Definitely lol plain Jane women are my type
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:16 AM
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Def the new tramp stamp
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:06 AM
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Lol just messing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:55 AM
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Sternum tattoo gotta be one of the most apparent red flags for a chick. Guaranteed you're dealing with a club thot/ IG girl who gets alot of male attention
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:48 AM
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Hey wsp
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:45 AM
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I don't know enough to have an opinion and there are too many factors to consider. But, I don't think it's always just "healthcare"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:13 AM
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I definitely would. You could say unconventionally attractive or something, no need to attach ugly to it. I find it useless anyway, most of the time it's used to describe tall white dudes who have 1 off feature . Same energy as men who think they have eclectic taste in women cuz they think Ramona Flowers is hot. No such thing as medium ugly. It's also an ego protection thing, which is they only become ugly after they get the heartbroken
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:09 AM
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Sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:06 AM
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Why are you stealing my autobiography???
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:44 AM
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Huh? The guy who gets to fuck her on the first date just has to pamper her for a night. The other dude has to desperately beg for a blowjob 1 year into the marriage because she never actually found him as attractive as the first guy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:43 AM
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Difference between being smooth and charming on the day to get you in bed versus having to pamper you and take care of you for a lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 10:51 PM
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If you've had casual sex at all I don't want to hear how doing acts of service or some other crap to improve my relationship. If all some other guy had to do was be hot and lucky to rawdog you in a car, don't ask me for expensive dinners
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:27 PM
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Then that would be the least of my problems 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 08:53 PM
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You're a lucky guy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 08:52 PM
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Any standard is fine as long as you meet that standard. A man-whore refusing to marry a non-virgin is ridiculous. A fat woman wanting a Mr. Olympia is insane
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 08:49 PM
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Even if I met a girl I'd sabotage it cuz there's no way to know she's not settling for me. Definitely rather die alone
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 08:48 PM
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You're being pedantic
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 07:43 PM
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If women are biologically predisposed to being hypergamous then men are biologically predisposed to being simps. This is why their revolution (lol) will never happen
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:52 PM
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It's nice to see a debate about this topic that isn't just "wah you're insecure"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:00 PM
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I feel like conservative discourse is dead because of how many of them are just grifters. In the RP space people like Pearl and you can literally find a new vaguely attractive blonde chick every few months talking about being high value and how women don't appreciate men blah blah blah. And even if I agree with what she's saying the fact that I know she's just trying to make a media career out of it. What's funny is that her audience hates simps and yet they are simping for her
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:59 PM
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Ridley Scott is either incredible or awful. Kudos for still cranking out movies the way he does at his age though. Still one of the greatest living directors
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:54 PM
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Making women upset in any way is tantamount to violence for some people lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:28 PM
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There's gotta be a better way to get the point across because people just shut the ears and go "you just hate women dodged a bullet lalalala"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:23 PM
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It's true
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:10 PM
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An insane work culture + gender war that is much worse than what's happening in US
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:44 PM
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"stop being insecure sweaty it's just a job"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:39 PM
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Fax
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:16 AM
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I don't even like thinking about going on a date it gives me shivers
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:01 AM
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Wow til I've never really felt an urge to talk to women. I know I find them attractive but never gone past "she's pretty". Never been in love, or anything. Not really. I wonder if I'm asexual or aromantic
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:13 AM
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What about masturbation? Still asexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:58 AM
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If it wasn't for porn I would definitely be asexual. Or at least I wouldn't know I was straight cuz of how little interest I've taken in women throughout my life
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:17 AM
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because its complaining about being friends with someone Unrequited love is complaining now?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:55 AM
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"it's not a thing. That's just called having a friend. Learn to not see women as sex objects"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:54 AM
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mean i think the term "friend zone" is kinda antagonistic bc it implies friendship is less valuable than romantic love, so its putting down the woman who isn't interested This is what I'm looking for. This makes no sense. I like you romantically but you don't. How is that antagonistic at all. friendship is less valuable than romantic love, It kind of is though. What friendship comes close to a true, strong romantic bond
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:33 AM
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its just a rejection from someone who happens to be your friend. Yeah that's called being in the friendzone lol Bit different from being rejected by a stranger or acquaintance
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:31 AM
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He let the class get away with more and more as the year went on to the point where he was hardly teaching by the time summer came around. Big mistake, because the girls especially started getting very invasive demanding to see his texts to his GF and asking when he was going to propose. He should have done more to stop things but by June he was running arm wrestling competitions with the boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:11 AM
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It's actually crazy what a demonized term it's becoming. Like something as normal as unrequited love being turned into an offensive act.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:07 AM
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Yeah exactly it seems like a great way for a relationship to begin, romantic even. As long as the interested party takes things well and doesn't act poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:05 AM
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Stuff like this makes me think how many of those Tinder screenshots girl post are the same stuff but just from men they're not attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:43 PM
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Piggy backing off a comment I made about nice guys a few days ago. The demonization of the friend zone is also something I'm puzzled by. It seems like the most natural thing in the world to have feelings for someone develop into something stronger over time, and not even something that's exclusive to men. Yet, I straight up see women arguing that it A. Doesn't exist B. Is a perversion of friendship and akin to manipulation C. If the man chooses to leave the friendship, he's an asshole D. Finding…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:42 PM
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When I was in 8th grade I had a insanely handsome teacher. Tall, jacked white dude. Really cool guy, very good at math and had a big brother vibe to things. The girls were of course enamoured with him and the class regularly invaded his boundaries which became more successful as time went on. One time they got him to call his girlfriend while we were in class. Luckily she was in a meeting and quickly hung up. I hope he's doing well, I didn't know him long but he left an impression on me, he also…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:09 PM
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I'll get banned
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:06 PM
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It's a very stressful place I would know
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:05 PM
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Can't say because I'm not a student there
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:50 PM
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He? Nothing I don't wanna get banned
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:42 PM
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I would hate to be an East asian guy at university of Toronto
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:40 PM
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Doesn't have to be that malicious. It's just easier to meet people this way for women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:30 PM
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Dude I literally said "I can see" in the op. It's a prediction not a statement of fact
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:18 PM
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Not yet. I'm just making a prediction. Right now it's still working on making standards on body count unacceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:12 PM
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Nah more like "wtf is wrong with you! Sex work is real work and you're being a prejudiced asshole for not dating someone because of the work they do"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:04 PM
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The same way that social boundaries have shifted to make not wanting to date promiscuous women unacceptable I can definitely see the next boundary being not wanting to date active sex workers as a bigoted opinion. Call it an insecurity or social construct or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:01 PM
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Average women have it pretty good and they can easily level up into attractive territory
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:45 PM
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Same here. Most hobby groups are filled with people much older than me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:36 PM
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23-25. People are at their hottest and horniest from 18-23, if you've gotten no play in that time somethings wrong with you (I'm talking about myself)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:26 PM
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Haha it is I know. I was just relaying what female friends have told me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:09 PM
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Apps are the present and the future. Adapt or die
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:47 AM
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Well I actually quite like to drink provided the situation is apt and I'm around friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:16 AM
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Where do you think I got the idea for this comment 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:14 AM
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Is what it is. Its fine if women aren't attracted to me, but it calls into question the whole motivation of even trying to get a girlfriend if she's not gonna be attracted to me as much as she is some random Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:14 AM
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Alot of the big clubs at my highschool like band, student government etc. had people who dated each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:09 AM
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Take care of family. Take care of my mom and dad when they get old and take care of my sister until she gets married
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:08 AM
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Yeah pretty much. Plus the odds of ending up with a much more promiscuous woman who's settling for me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:06 AM
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Yeah once you see how Chad's get treated it's pretty hard to keep going. One of my friends gets flirted by the waitress at nearly every restaurant we go to
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:04 AM
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I know I've already missed social milestones expected at my age, which makes me kind of a red flag freak but does not being a party guy or dull add to that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 09:28 PM
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🖐️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:08 PM
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Yeah fairs. I guess in this modern world of hedonism and fucking on the first date it's likely that someone like me would end up as a partner, not a lover
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:50 PM
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you can go on a date being unsure whether there's any chemistry or not, but you don't marry without attraction. Definitely seems like my mom did. Like if she had to be convinced over 25 years to love the father of her children somethings off lol It just feeds into more insecurities for me. Like I'm supposed to believe that in a world where men and women will fuck without even knowing each other's names, purely because of raw attraction and lust, that a girl could "grow" to like me. Sounds like b…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:32 PM
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Yeah great point. I know I'm being a stupid kid by saying something like that. But it's hard to shake as a feeling based on my observations. I love them both so much. They don't mistreat each other but sometimes I feel like my dad puts up with my mom's pessimism so much, and she never supports his quirks or interests. As I explained in another comment, I've hardly ever seen her be affectionate to him or be cutesy. I know 24 years of marriage isn't easy, but I wish she she would show something th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:23 PM
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Yeah it does play out you'd expect. They weren't forced together but they would not have met otherwise. I'm not sure why it's red or black-pilling. I was thinking from the blue pill lens of "you have to grow on a woman for her to find you attractive" . It's pretty obvious to me that my mom never did, and never will find my dad attractive. She's his life partner but not his wife, if that makes sense. 20+ years together and I've barely ever seen her give any affection to the man even tho he hugs a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:08 PM
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No I don't think he's unhappy. He's a man, his emotions have never been very important to my mom. They've had a few fights over nearly 25 years of marriage, the only time she's made him cry is when she insulted his brother and sister-in-law. He's an incredibly jovial and social person whereas my mom is a homebody. It's impossible and foolish of me to suggest that their relationship is a failure because they've been through a lot together and built a life. My mom has a significant hold over the f…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:06 PM
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Harems and polyamory will be way more common. The middle class will be extinct and rich people will have test tube babies enhanced by CRISPR. Gigolos will become more common. Full on hedonism for the well off
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:02 PM
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Posted this on the wrong thread so reposting here I think one of the more red / black pilling moments of my life was when I was 14 or so and my mom told me that she had to "learn" how to love my dad. Now I suppose this is par for the course for Asian arranged marriages but it definitely changed the way I saw my parents relationship. I see how little my mom cares for my dad's interests but how much she always tries to cater to her. I'm under no illusions that if they lived in contemporary India o…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:57 PM
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Yeah it does play out you'd expect. They weren't forced together but they would not have met otherwise. You dont need to be red or black pilled to think to random individuals forced together may not be compatible. I was thinking from the blue pill lens of "you have to grow on a woman for her to find you attractive" . It's pretty obvious to me that my mom never did, and never will find my dad attractive. She's his life partner but not his wife, if that makes sense. 20+ years together and I've bar…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:48 PM
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I think one of the more red / black pilling moments of my life was when I was 14 or so and my mom told me that she had to "learn" how to love my dad. Now I suppose this is par for the course for Asian arranged marriages but it definitely changed the way I saw my parents relationship. I see how little my mom cares for my dad's interests but how much she always tries to cater to her. I'm under no illusions that if they lived in contemporary India or the West my mom would not have given my dad a se…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:35 PM
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Hmm haven't seen those. I'm sure she's not thrilled with people mentioning her porn career but surely all the stuff she's gained from it keeps her occupied
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:17 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:15 PM
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Why are red pillers so insistent that short, ugly, or small dick men deserve a woman of their own value? You're not gonna be loved, and it feels like getting awfully close to black pill government mandated GF territory
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 04:40 PM
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Sounds like my type of woman
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 04:03 PM
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Not AFBB, unless they get married after being yanked around for so long. More like oneitis or simping which happens to both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 04:02 PM
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I'm not a manosphere red pill guy but I believe their advice could work for some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:02 PM
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Is she though
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:09 PM
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I'm sure some do, but most of them are fine. Male thirst makes all things possible
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:37 PM
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Why not? By the same logic neither is this conversation. And I've had conversations with women irl about this topic, most do not share your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:27 PM
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By punishing I mean the revenge fantasy. Mia Khalifa is a rich and famous celebrity who gets to farm outrage as a professional troll. She's been married and has a dating life. And that's a famous pornstar who did pretty vanilla stuff on camera. There are girls much less famous who did actually depraved stuff who are long gone and retired, most likely living quiet lives with husbands who don't know or don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:04 PM
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Hope you can hope they receive some kind of social stigma, like transsexuals, but deserved, however with more and more people becoming ideological radical about "moral judgement"... I fear for the young generations. It does seem like western society is running out of tools to check sexually transgressive women (and men) This is the key here. Shame as a social tactic is vanishing. Rewind 30 years ago, your friends would shame you for taking the town bike seriously. Now it's wrong to judge someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:00 PM
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Interesting. There's definitely consequences. But there's a generational gap there too. And I doubt it will be permanent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:52 PM
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It's a revenge fantasy. As red pill overlaps more and more with blackpill, it's focus turns from fucking women to punishing them The hot young thing posting nude pics getting flown out to Dubai will end up sad and alone because no man will want them. She'll be fine lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:46 PM
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Riley reed have to fight tears every time she talks about her family makes me think it’s not all sunshine and rainbows. Clip? Despite all the memes she has a husband and a child while making millions... I don’t think they deserve punishment, but definitely not sympathy when it doesn’t work out I have no sympathy either. What I meant is that there not gonna get the comeuppance that red pillers think
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:37 PM
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RPs obsession with "punishing" sex workers or promiscuous women is hilarious. Seriously, the vast majority of pornstars are completely fine with not dating you lol they've got an army of simps and sugar daddies and get to enjoy a life of hedonism and fun for a few years before eventually settling down. Most of your favourite pornstars from the 2000s are married, some have kids and have normal lives with husbands who don't know or don't care that their wife was getting pissed on for money before …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:24 PM
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I think I know why red pill hates single moms, fat women and sex workers so much, despite these 3 groups mostly just minding their own business. It's because despite all the RP hate porn out there, these women still have a higher SMV then your average RP nerd and will get sex, relationships and companionship much easier than the RP dude who's breaking his back learning "game" or gym maxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:22 PM
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I'm pretty blackpilled. AMA
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:18 PM
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Wholesome but ultimately useless advice
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:17 PM
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Some are definitely cuck porn fanfics. Horrifying stuff to read from my perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:14 PM
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Manosphere content is still about seducing women and getting with them at the end of the day though. I'm not
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:06 PM
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So it's most probably real this time
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:01 PM
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No, whoever she CAN, and this limits her to people of her attractiveness level. Whoever she can is almost anyone. Sure not every guy will gel with her for a relationship but until she finds one that does she'll have a steady stream of suitors and hookups to pass the time Afraid of being rejected. Afraid of being broken up with. Correct actually, I am more afraid of succeeding than getting rejected. I am not capable of being responsible for a woman and dealing with all the things that come with b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:57 PM
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I just told you that physical attractiveness matters less if it's not the only impression to go by. Couples are also mostly equal in attractiveness, so ugly women have only ugly men to go for. Ugly goes with ugly. Maybe in years gone by but I hardly know any couples where they're both ugly. And you choose to not be selected by giving up and/or using the wrong arena to fight in. How is not fighting for being picked as a sexual partner YOUR biological role? It is you're right. And I failed at my b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:08 PM
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Sure you should be good with oral but the PIV sex will still be bad for the woman if you have a small dick. That's what I'm getting at, it is absolutely emasculating if you cannot please a woman with your penis. It makes you less of a man and "just be good at fingering" is a hilarious cope that I've only ever heard of on Reddit. Women I know irl are pretty open about wanting larger than average dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:59 PM
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In real life, you have all of your personality, your behavior, your voice, your wit, your social skills, etc. to be attractive to a woman. None of which matter if she doesn't actually find you physically attractive. In fact this is the perfect way to get settled for. "Well my ex was taller, more muscular but he's kind of funny and has a good job" You don't convince women to give you a chance. You are attractive to women and make them WANT you. I don't see a difference. Women are sexual selectors…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:44 PM
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You've got a messed up family lady
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:59 PM
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https://youtu.be/c9ckB-i9A8I?si=94SXIZQ_EBwXJDkr
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:26 PM
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An ugly man on a dating app is an ugly man irl. He can talk to women all he wants by the time he's convinced 1 to give him a chance she's already had like 10 much better looking boyfriends off of Tinder. Women use dating apps too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:23 PM
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You make a good point here. The past wasn't a utopia. Even if your specific examples of ur grandparents is an outlier, these things did happen in their time. I think the main difference now is the lack of shame. Historically women were more affected by this since their place in society was more dependent on their acceptance within the community. Although men are affected by shame too but for other things (not joining the military during times of war) I do feel that some amount of shame is necess…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:17 PM
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A new word for turn-off
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:07 PM
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Dude do you think the majority of people in this sub are saying half the stuff they actually believe irl??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:05 PM
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"it's just a joke" is a pretty crappy defence
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:03 PM
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Yeah same. If it was gonna happen it would have happened by now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:59 PM
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My first childhood crush just posted her biodata (which is like a dating profile for arranged marriage) on her Instagram page. Kind of crazy to see this girl I've known since I was 6 do something like that. We're still in our early 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:52 PM
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Most women can orgasm with PIV sex if the clitoris is getting stimulated. Idk why people keep acting like PIV sex is useless for women. I'm not saying that oral is unnecessary but C'mon
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:58 PM
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Yeah everyone missed the point of his post.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:53 PM
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It's a cultural thing, you might as well ask men to not like big boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:49 PM
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You're right the whole "just use your fingers" thing is a cope that I've only heard on the internet. Most women require good PIV sex as part of the package
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:48 PM
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Only if you smoke it with me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:41 PM
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Are you trying get me to kill myself lady
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:36 PM
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Yeah but I don't like getting high by myself...like how you gonna cancel on me after I dropped like $30 on weed cuz you asked
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:34 PM
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How am I not supposed to think it's over when I read stuff like this lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:24 PM
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Bruh I bought some weed to go to a friend's house after he explicitly told me he wanted to smoke now he's saying he just wants to hang out 😐 Am I wrong for being annoyed by this?? I went out of my way to buy it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:22 PM
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She's still a pretty girl but it's not her face that drags people in lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:20 PM
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It's been interesting to watch Sydney Sweeney become a sex symbol in real time. No matter what generation you're from there's always 1 curvy blonde who becomes famous for being nude in her movies
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:09 PM
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No, but their advice is pretty much blue pill "improve yourself" shlock about personality and making women comfortable around you blah blah
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:41 PM
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Anomalies exist
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:31 PM
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I don't really talk to women so I don't know for sure but my thin wrists are definitely an insecurity of mine. I can't wear watches or bracelets without getting them adjusted
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:30 PM
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Wtf??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:58 PM
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Wrist pilled again 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:20 PM
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r/Incel exit takes the cake for most blue pilled sub on this site. Most of the guys don't even have any Incel beliefs to cure they're just sad virgins with low self-esteem. Things that are not gonna be corrected by listening to women on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:15 PM
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Just gotta take the L dude. Stop expecting people to cater to short, ugly or small dick men. They're low quality and women will never love them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:23 AM
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I can cook a decent pasta , stir-fry, noodles or chicken curry. Simple stuff but hearty and tasty 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 09:22 PM
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Black pill is the closest thing that matches my lives reality and experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 09:20 PM
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My grandma called me a coward lol I love the old bird but still haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 09:06 PM
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It would be nice to have an extremely average girl who likes me as much as I like her. If she can cook that's a huge plus
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 08:44 PM
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Man that sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 08:19 PM
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Huh? He was comparing his clients not himself. He compared a abusive deadbeat who has had 5 wives to a hardworking but down on his luck virgin and asked why is one so much more successful than the other
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 08:04 PM
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I have a feeling most of you have probably already read it this article is really worth a minute
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:41 PM
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You put into words alot better than I did this article here is also worth a read when you have a minute
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:40 PM
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We don't get to have our own GC now cuz my friend made a new one just to include her... The trip is just camping, cool and stuff but i have a limit when it comes to hanging out with couples
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:53 PM
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One of the most odd things I've seen from the Internet is the genuine demonization of nice guy as a term to the point where people don't even really talk about genuinely bad men who mistreat and abuse women as much as they rage at a passive aggressive dude getting mad over text. yeah it's corny to think that women should sleep with you just because you're friendly and pleasant but they're not the super villain that women on Reddit will have you believe lol. I think it's a major deflection becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:48 PM
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My friend started dating this new girl about 2 months ago and I invited her to my New year's Eve party she seemed nice and they were happy together (honeymoon phase). But now she's getting kind of weird and how much she wants to be integrated into the rest of the friend group she made a new group chat and added us all to it and when people weren't super active she got upset and removed herself Then my friend DMs all and asked us to be more active with her because she just wants to be friends or …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:47 PM
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I'm distraught. Was the first thing I saw when I opened my phone
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:45 PM
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I did, got dry responses or "I'm busy I'll lyk" or none at all. I guess it's gonna be a quiet weekend 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:25 AM
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Listen as long as she doesn't come to me for relationship advice it's cool. It's getting kinda odd how people kept coming to me ask for date ideas and restaurants and shit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:00 AM
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Nah she's a whore I don't want her anyway (I had planned out the names of our children)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:59 AM
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I'm sorry dude, would you care to tell us your story? Do you feel bad about the way things have gone?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:58 AM
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Sitting at the gym listening to a guy talk about how he fucked 6 waitresses on account of good his dick is. Dude sounds like typical frat bro red pill dude it's hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:38 AM
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My friends have been ignoring me for the past week and I don't really know why. It sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:37 AM
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The pretty girl I work with who I never spoke to started seeing someone smh it's so over Chad wins again fml !!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:36 AM
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There's nothing to tell me, just wanted to relay my thoughts (:
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 09:25 PM
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Same ethnic background as you. Just because women don't pay attention to me doesn't mean I wouldn't fight to protect my home if push came to shove. My family and friends and love of the nation that raised me is more motivating than white women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:16 PM
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I like him. He's very dark red pilled, bordering on black
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:15 PM
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Felt that, especially the self esteem part
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:14 PM
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Increased competition, confusing gender norms, dissolution of community, higher standards etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:09 PM
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I hope so man..I've actually DMd the OP of this post just to talk to him, he seems genuine
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:53 PM
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Unfortunately that is extremely rare and unlikely to happen to someone like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:53 PM
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I agree but this one is detailed enough to be true imo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:09 PM
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How do you even vet for this though. Many women are excellent at covering up their past and if they had never gone on this trip with her friends chances are the guy never would have found out
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:10 AM
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Everytime I feel lonely and feel like going out of my comfort zone to talk to a girl I read this post and retreat back into my shell. I cannot tell you how much this scenario terrifies me and my heart aches for this man. This is truly one of my greatest nightmares and if I'm ever feeling lonely I go back and read this post to remind me that this potentially my fate if I ever were to venture into the world of dating
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:48 AM
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Going to the gym or getting plastic surgery would be way more effective
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:43 AM
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Why's that surprising? I promise you a good chunk are cheating lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:35 AM
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Sexual liberation is akin to free trade agreements. It's sold as let's make things free and open for everyone but in reality most people lose cuz they're not built to take on so much competition and rich just get richer
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:34 AM
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What do you guys think of hoe math? He's quite entertaining even if he leans into red pill thought too much. I especially like the video where he explained Icks. It was very eye opening
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:13 AM
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What this translates to me is "if you're as man then negative feelings that result from your partners behaviour or actions are your own fault and are insecurity"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:28 AM
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Because her happiness isn't the only thing that matters? His thoughts and emotions matter too?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 11:10 PM
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But I don't want to be the guy who had to grow on her while she fucked other dudes instantly. That just means I'm unattractive to her straight up
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:58 PM
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True I know average looking dudes my age in relationships but unfortunately I'm actually ugly lol . I'd rate myself a 4/10, unfortunately I don't know anyone at or below this level who is currently in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:35 PM
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To me it doesn't make sense to fuck 1 guy while dating another but we'll have to agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:47 AM
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Way to distract from the actual issue that the post was about
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:10 AM
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No I still would care. I'm not that cold hearted
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:07 AM
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Gonna start posting random epiphanies here as a form of journalling I'm too afraid of being hurt by women due to a lack of self esteem so I assume the worst possible characteristics about them as a group to give myself a reason to opt out of engaging romantically
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:59 AM
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Unfortunately not. Go into a dating or relationship advice sub, these are pretty common posts on there. Most women are of the opinion that she didn't technically do anything wrong and the guy should break up with her if he can't stop being "insecure"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:53 AM
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Lmao exactly you can never really tell. Women lie about this stuff all the time and are extremely good at compartmentalizing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:46 AM
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One of the big reasons I'm too afraid to date is because of stories like this. I've seen this behaviour second hand already from 2 female friends/acquaintances and 1 male. Worst nightmare is actually investing in a relationship, and finding out a while in that she was fucking another guy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:39 AM
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Difference in staying in a shitty job because you need to keep a roof over your head vs staying with a shitty dude cuz you're addicted to drama
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:54 PM
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I don't bother. I improve at stuff I want to improve at, not for women. I know I don't have what it takes, so instead I play piano, buy sneakers and teach math to kids because I like to
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:52 PM
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this post is a great example as how Reddit (in the case of a woman) will always Minimize her wrongdoing Redirect the debate to another party Psychoanalyse the OP as if they have any qualifications to do so Find the closest man to blame
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:47 PM
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I see what you're saying, but improving their chances from 1-2% hardly seems like it would change much
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:30 PM
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I don't mind, it's his first relationship and I'm happy to help. I know my city very well in terms of restaurants and POIs so I'm always pointing out things they could do together. They're under no obligation to help me. I gave up on finding my own person a couple of years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:26 PM
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Great question. My sex Ed experience was informing. My teachers told us that condoms were an option but could break or tear and were not always effective. They told us about contraceptives which were described as almost perfect but have been known to fail, and can have side effects. My teacher very clearly told us that sex resulted in pregnancy if appropriate steps were not taken, but even if these steps were taken, pregnancy was a possibility. The only 100% effective way to avoid pregnancy is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:23 PM
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Has arms like a tree trunk but otherwise doesn't look like a body builder lol Happy for him, but now barely spends any time with me haha. I'm the one who comes up with date ideas for him and girl too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:05 PM
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If they still do it, knowing all the risks involved, that's on them. I have no sympathy for people who engage in risky behaviour and face the consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:04 PM
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Is that not what I said, just in less words?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:02 PM
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Afraid of getting pregnant? Don't have sex, problem solved!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:38 PM
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Absolutely not lol. He's tan skinned, bulky and not a pretty boy whatsoever. The total opposite of Kpop
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:37 PM
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I've got a funny story about that. A close friend of mine, Asian dude who never had any success with women, lucked into a relationship with a girl at his workplace because she liked Kpop. There was no self improvement or mountain to climb. He met a girl who herself was lonely and in need of companionship even though he has 0 relationship skills or "game" Now they spend all their time together and we never hang out /:
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:26 PM
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Hey I've got 0 experience at all and most likely never will, just speaking off of the people I know in my life. There's 3 groups and I have friends in all 3. I know Chad's who get "fuck me" eyes from the waitress whenever we go out. I know average dorks who lucked into a similarly dorky chick at work or class I know hopelessly ugly guys too (like myself) enough said. Most dudes aren't Chad and will never get that feeling of raw sexual attraction so the next bet is to grow close enough by proximi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:20 PM
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Sure, maybe in their 30s or 40s. I don't see many ugly guys or fat guys in relationships in my 20s right now though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:16 PM
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I've honestly never seen an ugly guy who got laid. Straight up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:00 PM
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Can only speak on my reality. I'm sure there's short guys who aren't virgins, but in my friend group and extended social circle, it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:46 PM
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Misogynist dudes get laid all the time. Being a good person has never been a pre req for sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:45 PM
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Most guys fall into a relationship through circumstance and dumb luck. The hotter you are the less luck you need. But blue pillers turn the cult of self improvement by acting like you have to earn a woman by building yourself into some paragon of virtue. Thats my problem with blue pill and red pill. Most people in relationships just happened to meet each other and vibe. The woman (usually) opened herself up to the moves the man was putting down and things developed. There's not a need to be a sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:53 PM
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ignorance that results from a poor sex education. What kind of idiot doesn't know that sex results in pregnancy. it's less about intelligence and more about high libido overcoming already low impulse control, Be an adult. Control your impulses and don't expect the world to come rescue you I don't think people deserve to have their entire lives upended for a stupid mistake they make when they're teenagers, People make stupid mistakes all the time, but for some reason we're super lenient and act l…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:19 PM
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If you tell someone the #1 way to avoid something and they still ignore you and go down that path it's on them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:10 PM
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Oh please An 8/10 guy would have lucked into a kiss by the time he's 30. I've never even met a guy shorter than 5'7 who wasn't a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:25 AM
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I think I've got my psycho sexual development down to a sort of timeline now. I'm extremely self aware to the point of paralysis sometimes and I think writing about it would help me illustrate why I think the way I do
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:24 AM
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Confidence🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:18 AM
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For sure I believe in an educated and aware population. I don't think telling everyone to wear a chastity belt and pray is a solution. I just think it's ridiculous to expect the government and society at large to offer you solutions and hold your hand when you fuck up of your own volition cuz you couldn't control yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:17 AM
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I'm all for educating people on the dangers and risks involved in certain activities. Maybe it's because I never had a rebellious phase or a super hormonally driven desire to fuck every woman I saw but I genuinely cannot fathom having unprotected sex just because I was horny and "didn't know better". Sure teenagers are dumb but they're not THAT dumb. And if they are, they deserve what's coming to them. Life's not fair. In my case, I was satisfied with the sex Ed I received. My teachers told me t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:15 AM
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Teenagers (and their parents) shouldn't complain that school system didn't teach them that sex results in pregnancy. That's my point. Everyone knows sex results in children. If you're old enough to have sex you're old enough to know the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:11 AM
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Abstinence cannot be that hard bro. Know the consequences of your actions, show self restraint and control and don't beg the system to take care of you when fate comes to collect. I have very little sympathy for teen parents
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:52 AM
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I don't know why people act like abstinence education is so oppressive or wrong. Do they want teachers to demonstrate how to put a condom on? The first time I went through sex Ed I was 13 and the teacher clearly explained that condoms, BC and IUDd exist, but none of them are 100% effective in stopping pregnancy, only abstinence is. Why are people so surprised when they take a risk engaging in pregnancy-creation, and actually results in pregnancy?? Funny anecdote, I was so innocent at the time of…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:17 AM
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Life is stable, just ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:07 AM
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Look man, I'm doing fine for my age. I'm 23 and I work 2 jobs, I have a good degree and a solid amount of friends that I see regularly. I'm a healthy weight and by all accounts a decent person to be around. People alot worse than me have had more success and to be honest, you don't get to this age without female attention unless there's something wrong with you. That's just the truth of it. If something were gonna happen, it would have happened by now. the fact is that whatever women want, I ain…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 12:20 AM
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They do well in spite of their misogyny not because of it. Otherwise incels wouldn't be a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:13 PM
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It's a massive cope. Women can very easily hide their body counts. If they do end up with a guy who does care, just lie. It's not difficult to keep former lays in the past. Thinking that formerly promiscuous women are damned for life is really silly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:41 PM
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Went out for dinner with a Chad friend (dude literally looks like Hitler's ubermensch. Also has a master's degree) Man, the stories he tells are insane, the very concepts are so foreign to me. He had a rich upstate NY heiress asking him for anal after 2 dates. When he tells me about how women come onto him or make their interest apparent, it's very obvious that no woman has ever been interested in me because I've never seen those signs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:16 PM
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Guys also have to be charismatic, confident, good looking, intelligent and tons of other stuff just for a woman to give them a chance. Social skills are just the cherry on top
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:57 PM
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Thanks for the red pill spiel but I'm not interested in building myself up for women to tear down. I hate flirting, I don't have the ingredients you're talking about here and I'm not really interested in obtaining them. Women aren't attracted to me and that's fine, it's an immutable trait. I start conversations and meet people when the occasion is appropriate, that doesn't go anywhere. I hate "game" I hate flirting. It's not meant for guys like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:55 PM
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I didn't say that all women are in happy romantic relationships. I said with accountability and good social skills healthy romantic relationships (or even NSA relationships) are easily available to every woman. The fact that so many struggle and is a damning indictment on their ability to choose
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:10 PM
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I have never had a friendship where I wasn't the one investing time and effort into the relationship. All of my friendships involve me putting more effort in, since I was a kid. It's fine, I've made my peace with it. I know if I didn't reach out to any of them again I probably would never leave the house so it's a price in willing to pay. But I simply cannot bring that same mentality to women and romantic relationships. The power dynamic is so lopsided and the consequences are far greater
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:07 PM
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It's a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:56 PM
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But have you considered how it affects your facial proportions and your xyz eye to forehead ratio hmm?? I can already tell it's over for you smh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:14 AM
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😳 It's all so acoustic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:03 AM
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I'm quite with good with younger and older kids on account of being a high school math tutor and mentor in elementary school as a side job. Maybe one day I'll find a mean single mom with 4 kids who'll settle for me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:58 AM
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The contrast of women daintily putting in makeup and fixing their hair to look more attractive vs guys breaking their legs and analyzing canthal tilt or whatever else will never not make me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:56 AM
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If you've never had the opposite gender show interest in you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:52 AM
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I am very good at map reading
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:51 AM
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Stop gaslighting me with your toxic speech. You're taking up important emotional real estate and it's not my job to regulate your impulses. Doing that is unwanted emotional labour and proxy to abuse. Do. Not. Invade. My. Boundaries .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:02 AM
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Does anyone else hate how there's a new therapy speak word out every few months? It's such a manipulative and condescending way of talking
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:51 PM
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What does this have to do with what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:44 PM
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Right so as usual, it's men's responsibility to rise to the challenge of being worthy of a woman. Because women are such great prizes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:41 PM
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You're winning if you have a happy relationship or a romantic life that you're fulfilled by. Considering these are both easily available to the vast majority of women with just a bit of accountability and good social skills, it's hard to feel bad when they mess up. I feel bad for the small business owner who's restaurant didn't take off, not the millionaire heiress who ended up in debt because she made poor decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:41 PM
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I'm unsympathetic because it feels like someone losing at a game who has cheat codes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:23 PM
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Women do ask men out. Or at least make it extremely obvious that they're interested, but only for really attractive guys
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:07 PM
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Yeah that's mine as well
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:01 PM
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There's a lot of talk about settling rn. But what is your definition of settling in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:30 PM
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Idk man personally it kinda sounds desperate. Apparently women don't really like it when unattractive dudes approach them. But if you're hot then go for it. Apparently getting numbers is pretty easy but making something with it afterwards is tricky
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 10:15 PM
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Appreciate the honesty but don't be so harsh on yourself. You're not catfishing by showing your best features. There's girls who are obese and hide that with camera tricks or straight up use filters. That's not very fair. But putting your best step forward and looking your honest best is attractive straight up
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 10:09 PM
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I'm actually learning some photography theory rn! The main thing is angles. Cliches aside knowing your "good side" is super important. If you have some friends who are active in social media and like to take pics then ask for their help. I find women are great at knowing what looks good on film. Don't want things to look fake, so be natural, have fun. Good lighting is important too. Photos with a natural smile are always the best. Also, even if the dating apps don't work, having good photos of y…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 09:41 PM
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Majority of dating advice from women is "smell nice". I wager they can give good relationship advice but not good dating advice nope
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 09:21 PM
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Just hop on an app, look pretty and swipe on guys who are your type. Vet for good qualities and you're good 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 09:18 PM
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Could make money selling drugs too but that doesn't mean it's a good thing to do
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 09:17 PM
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65% ugly 35% lack of large social circle meeting new people
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 09:08 PM
1

Nike monarchs 🤮🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 08:27 PM
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Death
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 08:27 PM
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I don't want to think of anyone as replaceable. But if we're being honest, male attention and thirst is so easy to get that I'm the one who's replaceable
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:45 PM
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My friend broke up with his gf cuz he posted transphobic stuff on his Facebook lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:46 PM
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I never knew much about my grandfather, he died before I was born. He only married my grandma after his first wife died, and apparently never fully got over it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:45 PM
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Knowing that even if I were to land a partner, I'd be so replaceable that she could hold so much power over me is terrifying. Like I mess up at any point and I'm out
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:57 AM
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Some crazy family lore for you, my grandmother was my grandad's second wife. His first wife developed a deep depression after marriage and had a mental breakdown for reasons im not aware. This being a rural country in the 50s, they stuck her in an asylum where she was visited by family, and where eventually died. My grandfather eventually married my grandma (nearly 20 years younger) and they had 6 kids
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 05:45 AM
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Went from a human looking Chad lite to a fake ass mannequin. Idk if it's the lighting that's throwing me off but looks so inhuman
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:34 PM
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That does not sound like a good idea bro
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:32 PM
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I mean theres always >0 chance I guess, but I wouldn't hold my breath. Most people's social circles shrink considerably after college
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 03:40 PM
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If you haven't had any success by 22. Literally the peak years of attraction and horniness, the only ages where you will consistently be surrounded by people of the same age, there is a very good chance you will not see much success
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 04:40 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 03:17 AM
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I explained my thought process over here I don't think I'm the kind of guy that girls like hearing jokes from anymore. It explains alot
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 02:25 AM
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Ooh yk I may have signed a contract about that now that I think about it...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 02:16 AM
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Because it explained alot. I'll lay it out. Be me, a self aware unattractive male Try to make conversation with strangers male and female Learn that unattractive males approaching women makes them uncomfortable Ergo, as an unattractive male I've unknowingly been making women uncomfortable for years. Everytime I got a bored glance or a look of disgust, it's because I was invading their space and making them feel like I was hitting on them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 02:16 AM
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From what I've seen, even though most women are not posting this content, the fact that it has millions and millions of views and likes proves that there is a sizeable population of women that are least sympathizes with, if not endorsing that behaviour. It's like Andrew Tate, not every teenage boy is posting his content or copies of it, but unfortunately we know that a large chunk of them are admirers of his views
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:54 AM
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I used to like making small talk with guys and girls at random places. Like cracking a joke at the bus stop or in line at the grocery store. Then I started reading Reddit and stories about women being bothered by men who were trying to flirt with them bothering them in random places. I was horrified. Suddenly all the times that I got a disinterested glance or ignored was because those poor girls thought I was a sex pest or a creep. I swear I'm not, just an unattractive guy who thinks he's funnie…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:45 AM
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But I could do such a better job then they do 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:04 AM
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All the YouTube ads I get are for hinge and bumble lol I've never used a dating app but I guess I'm in the Targeted age group for these ads lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:02 AM
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Is it unethical to poach clients from the place I work
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:57 PM
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Apps, introductions from mutuals
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:55 PM
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25 with no experience is a good bet. 35 if you've had sex rarely but no actual relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:11 PM
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Not true at all for me. When I see a slutty IG model I think "damn she's hot" and move on with my day. When I see a plain Jane I'm curious about her interests and want to know her as a person
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:09 PM
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Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 11:00 PM
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For sure, but are any of the men you know in real life like the guys in true crime? Do they sympathize with the motives and actions of the killers even if they aren't one themselves? Because the women around me do. Even if they don't act like the women online explicitly, they endorse their actions and sympathise with them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:49 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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