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But you should respect everyone that you love
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:39 PM
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21 is ok, right on the border before becoming a virgin turns into a red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:31 PM
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Love and respect go hand in hand
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:28 PM
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Why would you make children with a woman that does not live you and you don't love her. To have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:50 PM
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Doing my part 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:20 PM
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Agree but there's another option which is just to not choose. It's hard though fs
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:17 PM
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If children are your priority then yeah. But spending the years with a woman who doesn't actually love you is not a win. Plus when the kids leave the nest all you'll have is each other
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 04:07 PM
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There's no winning for late bloomer men. Only settling
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:54 PM
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I would have loved to have met my person at 19 and grown with them. Instead I'll probably only get a meager chance when I'm in my 30s and a girl is looking to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:54 AM
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How old are you, and when did you meet your husband
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:06 AM
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I'm getting a promotion at work guys!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:15 PM
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She's only 17. I'm 24. Considering how most women my age seem to be I don't really want a partner anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:31 PM
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Incels are taken from almodt every race. They're also more nerdy and not aesthetic at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:27 PM
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I love my little sister more than anyone in the world. She's the only thing that keeps me going sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:22 PM
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Wayyy off. These are just sad white boys
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:21 PM
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I meet someone, we have things in common. We hang out. I can have as many friends as I want. Can only have 1 gf
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:07 PM
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Get what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:02 PM
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I have friends
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:58 PM
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Yeah fs. It's not a female only thing. But at least you have enough options to back away from the scene and still find someone. If a male wanted to say "I don't want to deal with that" then he'd find no one would want to date him at all, and he'd just be called insecure or something
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:58 PM
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I love social interaction, when I'm not being appraised. I love making new friends for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:50 PM
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So do mine . Well I guess one does lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:50 PM
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Yeah you could be actually having a good time. You think that the vibes are good and stuff but the girl has sooo many options of course she's gonna be comparing you to the other dates she went on this week or if you're hotter than whoever is peeking around your DMs. It doesn't matter how you (the guy) feel, it's a constant competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:49 PM
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I don't want an IG model. But even my most average looking female friends have 4-8 guys in their DMs at any given time plus their app options.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:45 PM
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It's not a woman thing though. This is just expectations and modern dating
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:43 PM
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Being proactive, funny, charming, and confident is all stuff that the man HAS to do if he wants a shot. The woman is well within her rights to fuck around with other men if she wants. That's how dating works now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:30 PM
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I'm just not gonna play then
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:28 PM
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I mean you're exaggerating it alot. It's more like 20%, by the age of 30 a woman can easily have had a good amount of experience under her belt. There are a lot of hot guys y'know? And women are ok to share community dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:26 PM
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Just world fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:19 PM
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I just really really hate the whole dating process. First you beg and flirt just for the chance to go on a date, then you pay for everything, have to keep her entertained and essentially be a dancing monkey for the next hour. The whole time she's probably got another date lined up or a dick appointment and you're just option #32 in a long line of potential suitors. I just hate the idea of being a dancing monkey and begging for scraps of attention from someone who only sees me as an option. Why d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:15 PM
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White boy fever 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:13 PM
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Oh good. If you're working hard to improve your looks you deserve better than some fat slut
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:06 PM
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Can't tell if you're joking or not but please don't settle for that dude
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:59 PM
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Most of my LTRs were with guys under 5'5 (I'm 5'3), and I in no way was settling for any of them. I actively prefer men who are closer to my height. My current partner is 5'6 and is the hottest guy in the world to me. That's interesting, but you must be an outlier. I believe most women want a man who's at least 6-8 inches taller iirc the guy going to a prostitute out of desperation probably had nothing to do with his height Probably. He's 5'6 iirc but racist and kind of a dick last I spoke to hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:24 AM
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Women are wired to secure the best possible mate they can. Men are wired to spread their genes as much as possible. We keep these urges in check with religion and societal norms but naturally women are only attracted to the top 20% of men. The rest are settled for or not really seen as viable options
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:45 AM
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I'm always open to making new friends but it's hard
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:44 AM
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Ngl it doesn't really sound like a good deal to end up as a settle down option when everyone's gotten older and uglier. It sounds pretty awful actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:00 PM
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Most women like taller guys. At least 8 inches taller than them iirc. I'm not short thankfully, I'm 6'0 (just made the cut haha) but it's broadly accepted that dating is harder for short men because they are seen as less masculine. It really sucks. Height is also NEVER the only thing that gets factored into attraction. Thankfully not. Short dudes can make up for it, but it's an uphill battle fs. You have experience dating other children. I don't even have that actually. But I'm a keen observer a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:25 PM
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Cool, like I keep saying our experiences form our realities. One guy I know sees escorts because he's 5'6. Good for your brother though. And I wonder how your dad would fare in today's dating scene. I really don't see why we keep getting offended when I state my opinion based on my experiences. I never said women are shallow or stupid. They're exercising the great freedom that they have and why shouldn't they? More power to em
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:59 PM
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Your SO doesn't have to be all 3 of those things simultaneously, or at the apex of all men in the world. Just your personal best. But yeah I don't believe that average men can ever be loved by a woman. It's just not biologically possible imo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:53 PM
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Statistics also say that women broadly find a short man unattractive and they have to make much higher salaries to match up in attractiveness to a taller man. Our experiences inform our realities. It might be unfair but oh well And I know I'm young but I'm not that young. I'm well past the age that people start dating and developing interest in the opposite sex. Many have been actively dating for at least 7-8 years in my circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:51 PM
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I only hear about this mystical 5'2 man online from women on forums like this. In real life I don't know anyone shorter than 5'8 who's had sex and one resorted to a prostitute cuz he was so desperate. I'm 23 so I'm sure in the future they will eventually get settled for but rn they're not doing so well
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:48 PM
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So? People can say alot of things. But I can only believe what I see
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:33 PM
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I can only observe things based on my surroundings. Only guy I know shorter than 5'8 who lost his virginity did so to a prostitute at a massage parlour. I'm 23
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:27 PM
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Don't want to be mean but I think it's kind of stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:21 PM
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Getting a nose job at 17 though... Why
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:16 PM
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you're not ugly you're poor Respect the honesty though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:11 PM
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Meh. They wanna talk to hot guys and flirt but if an uggo sneaks in it's easy to block and ignore no harm done
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:00 PM
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8 times out of 10 I'm sure they would be. The wife, not so much. Like that guy who recorded every time his wife turned him down lol. That's what happens when women settle for men they don't find attractive. Dead bedrooms. But people like to deflect and say it's because of chores or some other crap
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:59 PM
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Yeah I don't know if therapy really works for men to be honest. I prefer journaling or writing down my thoughts. I'm trying to channel my energy into hobbies maybe piano or woodworking
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:53 PM
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Do they let strangers follow them? Depends on how cute the guy is. They might entertain it for a short while if he is and accept the follow but if the conversation turns sour then block him. One of my friends actually met his girlfriend by sliding into her DM's so it can work
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:52 PM
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You do know that consent is a thing right? That all men aren't down for sex 24/7 for their entire lives? That stress, life, etc get in the way for both genders Don't really know what your point is here but women can get sex whenever they want very little effort I don't see how this is a debate. FWBs, hookups, LTRs whatever. Men are hornier and will say yes much quicker than women. Where did you get this idea? Observation mostly. None of my short friends have ever had sex. The ones who are in rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:51 PM
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He's being truthful, I just think that telling you to be a VA to get laid is kind of silly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:48 PM
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That women all have sex on tap and that makes their whole lives a breeze, They do, but that doesn't make their whole life a breeze. That's silly. all women want only the hottest, tallest, richest men, I agree with this. Naturally women can only be attracted to these men. That doesn't mean that all women are gold diggers though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:42 PM
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You'd be surprised. Both have private accounts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:19 PM
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Why are you sugarcoating it dude
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:05 PM
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Some of the most average, mid women I know have at 4-5 guys in their DMs at any given time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:59 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:55 PM
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Women aren't wired for that. It's biology dude
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:08 AM
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It's quite poor so far yeah. I wish they would just leave the original alone. It's such a perfect show
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:07 AM
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Yeah that sounds accurate. I'd really like a relationship with a woman like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:04 AM
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My dreamgirl when I was a preteen or so was Katara from last Airbender. As I grow older those attributes in a woman still really appeal to me. I wonder what that says about me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:28 AM
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In regards to your first point, this only applies to women who participate in casual sex. Most men will not be mad that you slept with him on the first date if you did the same with other men. The same way they will not be upset if you made them wait until you were exclusive as long as you did the same with other men. It's the consistency. If at any point she had a one night stand but decided that you would only kiss me after we were official then she's a hypocrite and I want nothing to do with …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:21 PM
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One of my favourite pastimes I inherited from my dad is people watching. Whenever we would be stuck in the mall while mom shopped, my dad would keep me entertained by making funny observations about people walking around the mall. I carried that with me. I still love observing behaviours and people around me. Sometimes I go to my cities club district and sit on a bench to see funny drunk guys and girls interact. How often the guys strike out, how bouncers operate etc. I watched a guy successfull…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:03 PM
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I should really get off Reddit and this sub but it also functions as a way for me to get things off my chest
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:54 PM
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Blackpilled again In b4 "it's a joke" but stem-cels are so fucked it's crazy. Poor guys don't know what it's like to be played so they'll settle down with a slut like that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:51 PM
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I love hoe math
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:49 PM
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Sometimes there's nothing to figure out. Human relationships are nebulous and it's impossible to quantify why we like the people we do. I'm sorry that you're finding it hard to connect with others. It must really suck
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:09 PM
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Obviously she still has time and UCSC is a good school but I'm just saying is it the best she can do? If it is, then go for it. But always aim for the best quality education. That's the #1 goal, not having the "college experience"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:01 PM
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Times have changed. Looking at older relationships that were forced together by circumstance and societal pressures isn't a good marker. My mother for one, has confided in me that she didn't really love my dad. My female friends are constantly getting played by hot dudes. My attractive male friends have a steady stream of hookups at their beck and call. Hookup culture, multi person dating and non exclusivity dating is the norm. I'm too young for marriage but this is largely what I see amoung my …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:59 PM
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I'm an engineer. Freshly graduated. I apply for jobs that I have a shot with. I could apply to be a senior manager, but what are the odds of that. The answer is no. We put effort into things that we have a shot at succeeding in. MJ being an genetically athletic freak who also worked his ass off means he can take those tough shots, even though he normally makes smart, efficient ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:54 PM
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I don't have a step dad but if I did I would think he's a cuck for marrying my mom (unless he already had his own kids with a previous woman) also don't get the preference for a less ran around woman as if the girl only has her coochie to offer There's nothing to get, I just find promiscuous women disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:47 PM
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When given the choice women would rather share an attractive guy then settle with an average one. 4/10 women want 6/10 guys. 5s want 7s and 8s etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:40 PM
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Quality and cost of education should be #1 priority. Wanting to go to a school for a rave scene is just bad. I would have a sit-down with her about her priorities. I'm doing a similar thing right now with my little sister who has offers from good schools but is being swayed by friends who want her to go to a party college with them. Kids are impressionable but we're not gonna send her to a worse college further away just because they have Greek life
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:38 PM
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I love when people use this tired office reference. Do you play any sports? You know what top athletes like Gretzky and Jordan did? They took good, efficient shots. Midrange, layups, tap-ins. They didn't just heave it from half court. This is the equivalent of what guys like you keep suggesting about asking girls out. I would shoot my shot if it was a good shot. If I had reason to think it would succeed. If she had given me signals or something to suggest she thought I was cute. But I have never…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:35 PM
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Oh yay! I get to be "picked" by a woman after she's been ran through by hotter dudes and grudgingly settles for me. What an honour
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:29 PM
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They just want a guy that doesn't cheat on them, doesn't abuse them and is not toxic. All with the caveat of the guy being attractive in the first place. In order of preference: 1. Get with an attractive guy who treats you well exclusively Get with an attractive guy who treats you OK non exclusively Get with an attractive guy who treats you like shit Get with an average guy who treats you well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:27 PM
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"how do you know she doesn't like you bro girls are shy they don't approach" A lifetime of observation mostly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:25 PM
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I'd be worried that she's thinking about colleges for their party culture and not the quality of education or major.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:15 PM
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BB. They get women who are willing to settle for his resources
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:12 PM
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No I'm an engineer. I just like thought exercises like this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:23 PM
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What about a kiss or oral
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:00 PM
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Also, is it 5 failed first dates or 5 interactions in general. Like if you got to 3rd base with girl #4 does it reset the counter?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:48 PM
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God knows how long it will take him to get 30 dates. I'd be pretty liable to quit too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:41 PM
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God I wish I could have a mixed gender group of friends to go on adventures with. Or 1 ride or die brother who would do that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:40 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:10 PM
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What happens after 5
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:07 PM
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Yes they can. Men are only loved after they provide
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:23 PM
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Yeah because women can actually be loved for who they are
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:58 PM
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Why are women like this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:44 PM
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thoughts? personally I believe no it's not possible
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:42 PM
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We're 23 and she's made him go to couples therapy twice. No relationship in ur 20s is worth this smh .
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:59 PM
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I texted my friend asking him what he wanted me to say. He said just be honest he's done with the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:41 PM
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Friends gf texted me at 2 AM last night asking if I was with him. I wasn't. She doesn't trust him at all even though he doesn't cheat and constantly needs his attention idk why.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:33 PM
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Np. I feel really bad for the guy, maybe it's because he's 5'7
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:44 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/s/AqzKBloWLp
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:34 PM
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Who knows. All the comments are baffled too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:16 PM
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There's this guy I've seen on r/dating who's literally been posting "I'm so single" posts for the last 4 years or more. He's even posted his hinge profile and stuff. He's not a bad looking guy but it's kind of crazy how long he's been at it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:10 PM
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She's crazier than Lilith
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:00 PM
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I'd need a bit of time. I wouldn't want to say meet a girl tomorrow and have my first time with her the same day. Maybe we meet and 5/6 weeks later I'm ready. What is preventing you from losing it? I'm ugly and don't meet alot of women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:27 PM
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If it's not looks then money I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:24 PM
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It can make you more fun to be around but it's not the magic bullet to getting female attention
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:10 PM
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No idea. Maybe laugh at peasants and throw peanuts at them from the gate walls?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:40 PM
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I guess we're just helpful
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:37 PM
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Yeah but I've never even held hands let alone been on a date. So why am I helping these guys and telling them where to go and stuff lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:20 PM
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I'd be pretty grossed out. I'm from Toronto, drake is a known horndog and I'd think she's a slut for doing something like that + on stage in front of thousands
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:11 PM
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I've literally planned dates for some of my other friends who went on their first dates and stuff recently. Am I weird for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:03 PM
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40 y.o
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:00 PM
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Only people who truly want kids have them nowadays. Once women enter the workplace the birthrate will never come back up, no matter how much governments try to incentivize it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:33 AM
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Didn't say either was untrue. The comment I was replying to was about blue pill advice not being a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:48 AM
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It kinda does though. It proclaims that any man can become sexually successful by playing the game right. But you have to put the effort in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 10:33 PM
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Sure but one believes that you can attract any woman you want if you put in the necessary effort into the gym, career, and fashion while the other believes that your genetic traits determine your success with women from birth. Ironically black pill is much more respecting of women's sexual preferences and choices and doesn't see them as mechanisms that are supposed to be hacked like red pill does Red pill and blue pill both agree that confidence is important. Does that mean they're both the same…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:44 PM
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Partly disagree. I watched a great video on how red pill is like you say normal advice explained for autists. With the use of video game terms like experience and levels etc. But blue pill would never tell you to use dread game or negging, or be dominant etc. That misses the origins of red pill which is in the pickup artist community of the mid-2000s.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:42 PM
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Not really. I've been told many blue pill phrases like "looks are what gets you in the door but personality keeps them in" or "girls would rather have an emotionally available average looking guy over a rich guy" etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:37 PM
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Nope. Black pill hate red pillers more than blue. There is a looksmaxxing component to it but most black pillers are actually doomer nihilists. Red pill is much more optimistic and believes that anything is possible with right effort
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:33 PM
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The NBA is trashy reality tv for men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:24 PM
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To change my environment would mean to move out from home which is completely untenable in the Canadian housing market currently. I would like to improve my social life, and make more outgoing adventurous friends. The ones I have now I'm starting to outgrow. But who knows how to do that really.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:30 PM
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The whole brain development factoid is why I hate pop science so much. Such a stupid thing that people actually use to both justify their bad decisions as well as absolve others
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:15 PM
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Yeah I have no real hope of ever dating at this point. Not attractive enough for dating apps and my social life is pretty dry. I touch grass and all but I rarely encounter women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:05 PM
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My dad has suggested to me multiple times to "get out there" and that "girls like funny guys" but nothing more. He knows there's no practical way he can help me with these things
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:55 PM
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Idk my parents are telling me not to worry and you can't tell anythings wrong but the dermatologist looked at my hair with a microscope camera and said there's some thinning going on. Maybe it'll get worse maybe it won't. He suggested a $1300 laser cap and monthly scalp cleaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:11 PM
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I don't have any baldness in my family and my hairline is fine but I'm 23 and the dermatologist just said that I have AGA. It's so over
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:00 PM
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Wikihow is so funny bro they just posted a "how to accept being single for the rest of your life" video
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:27 PM
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I guess it's just that type in general. Always good idea to maximize your niche. Skinny with a good jawline can take you places if you tune things correctly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:21 PM
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True but some ethnicities have more Chads than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:04 PM
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Yeah as someone with a foot in both worlds I find it really interesting how the same debates start being exported because of the internet but with a localized twist. For example dating as a concept doesn't really exist for most young Indians but there's a growing subset who do partake as well as enjoy a small casual sex scene. Nightlife is also growing. So you have guys start saying things like "no seal no deal" or spamming the letter R (which is slang for the word Randi meaning whore) it's also…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:57 PM
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There's no way that's true
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:47 PM
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True I was over generalizing for sure. There's a much smaller culture war going on in that country. But it's definitely interesting how much of the country has seemingly skipped the industrializing phase and gone straight to being 1st world American wannabes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:47 PM
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I've never met anyone who actually has Indian guys as a type that's interesting. So like Dev Patel?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:40 PM
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Modern urban India is not too different from the west lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:34 PM
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Flacko looks good in everything tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:18 PM
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If you're Indian one thing interesting that is of note is that the country has seen to have skipped the entire second world phase and gone straight to being a capitalist misandrist hellscape skipping the entire intermediate level
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:18 PM
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I'm an ugly man but I've never hated Chad. Been friends with quite a few actually
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:14 PM
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Top men have a more active role and can exercise their agency more than top women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:14 PM
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Why is the fact that women find most men unattractive such a hot take? Or one that results in accusations of misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:00 PM
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Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:57 PM
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Same. Probably because it was the last time I was actually a socially active member of a community with people my own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:48 PM
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Same. I'm gonna cancel my gym membership and start smoking cigarettes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:47 PM
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Like I said I've known I was ugly since I was 9. This is just more proof that whatever I do to try and improve will be for nothing. I've always tried to work and compensate for my shortcomings but I'm just a genetic failure. And I don't even have to be pretty, just average or at least the best I can be. I just didn't know that the best I could be was just a bald Indian loser
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:16 PM
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Thanks man. It's probably the universe punishing me for daring to hope I could better myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:59 PM
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I was and now I don't see the point anymore. It's all for nothing I'll always be an ugly pathetic sack of waste
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:44 PM
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Yeah. Also known as male pattern baldness. No one in my family is bald and my hair doesn't even look thin but the diagnosis was clear on a microscopic examination. I'm done
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:43 PM
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Gym, tried 3 different dermatologists to alleviate acne scarring, expensive haircuts, improving my clothing. Even got LASIK surgery. And I didn't do a single bit of it for women. Like you I've never received a single IOI and I don't care but I was just diagnosed with AGA even though no one in my family has hairloss and it's devastating. God hates me. It's one thing to be born into an unattractive race, but yet more genetic misfortune hit me. I don't care anymore. I'll probably cancel my gym memb…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:42 PM
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I just learned I have AGA at 23 years old. It's out of my control though. The solutions to my problems are a lifetime of expensive hormone alternating medications that I don't want to subject myself to. I don't care what some reddit femcel says
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:34 PM
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I've known I was ugly since I was 9 years old
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:30 PM
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I don't think my mental health has been this low in a while. All the good habits I've made recently are unravelling I can't take it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:28 PM
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It's a massive cope. That average man has almost zero power in his relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:39 AM
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I mean I have hair rn and I'm still a virgin so it's not gonna be a difference either way but to be as ugly as I am and somehow go lower is just heartbreaking. I'm not showing any obvious signs of balding but the derm says there's a bit of minituraztion going on
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:30 AM
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I was just told I have AGA at 23 years old even though my hairline hasn't receded. No one in my family is bald so I'm hoping I won't lose it all but if I actually start to go bald I am genuinely considering suicide. I don't want to take a lifetime of hormonal medicine like minoxidl or finasteride
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:46 AM
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Hair is life. It's a sign of virility and youth. Bald men are either a fetish for a few women or just overall disgusting to most
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:41 AM
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How bad did it get before you got on fin since you're only 24
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:40 AM
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First option. I was just told I have AGA at 23 years old. No one in my family is bald so I'm hoping I won't lose it all but if I actually start to go bald I am genuinely considering suicide. I don't want to take a lifetime of hormonal medicine like minoxidl or finasteride
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:39 AM
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I thought you did that for yourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:15 PM
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That's why I said soft harem 😁 No forcing involved, but top men will be shared by most women as a resource for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:31 PM
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That's why I said soft harem in the title 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:00 PM
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But the guy does have a harem in essence. Because a small amount of guys have sex with most women. They might only sleep together once but the result is the same. Girl A,B,C,D and E sleep with Guys A and B. Guys C,D and E don't sleep with anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:41 PM
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How quickly you sleep with someone isn't a good metric of attraction. I dunno how you reached that conclusion. Uhhhh... because I had to "grow" on her while another guy banged her in the bathroom before they even exchanged names? He's obviously more attractive than me. You're going to have to get past that mate. I can't. Absolutely not. That's why I advocate getting the fuck out from behind your phone and meeting people. There's no point in sitting around moping because Tinder isn't Uber for pus…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:33 PM
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It's pretty much the same thing as a harem though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:26 PM
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It's not that hard. Just from the guys perspective I can tell you it's pretty easy to set up. Feeling horny? Ask girl A if she's free. She's busy? Ask girl B? She wants to go out for dinner first? Ah nvm, I'll just stay home and jerk off. Actual conversation I had with my Chad friend ^
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:18 PM
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Nailed it. I maybe shouldn't have said polygamy in my OP. It kind of derailed the conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:09 PM
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I'm just a silly little guy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:53 AM
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thinking that if a chick isn’t obviously thirsty for you, it’s game over. Y'know what? In a previous era, one without free casual sex, maybe this would make sense. But it doesn't anymore. If it took me 2 months to get to second base with my wife, but she had a one night stand from the bar previously, then I am not as attractive to her as that guy. Straight up. Not to mention, multi-dating is the norm now. If you're seeing a girl, chances are she's seeing if not fucking other guy(s) concurrently.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:05 AM
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THANK YOU. You explained it alot better than I can. Again, bringing up my parents. It's not that we were hopelessly poor, but we weren't stable either. But having kids is just something you do if you grew up with their values. My childhood wasn't perfect, but I had food in my belly and a roof over my head and a new toy when we had saved enough. That's the key here, the west believes that children are a luxury and comfort is a necessity. But the east believes the opposite. Why is it so hard to fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:48 AM
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Children definitely present an issue. However less and less people in the west are having kids to begin with. Of those who are left however I think that more women will be single mothers and there will be more support for them through the government, especially because more men will be NEETs and the top guys that father these children will have trouble paying for all of their offspring
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:50 PM
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Or do you want a partner in life who gives as much as you do? My wants are irrelevant. Most average men and women want a happy and healthy relationship with someone they’re compatible with. What people want and what people actually get and end up doing are worlds apart Your idea of women is so far off base, that there is nothing to engage with Oh c'mon , there must be something that you can engage with. I'm happy to talk 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:48 PM
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What I'm arguing for is the opposite though. I can see a future where women will have the ultimate freedom to only be with men that they actually want. It won't be a polygamy of men forcing a bunch of women to submit to him but instead, it will be women choosing to actually share the top guys who can actually satisfy them. And it might be multiple guys too. Maybe one guy is the best in bed and another is the most fun to hang out with. I will give women the best of both worlds instead of being en…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:42 PM
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You explained it alot better than I did in my OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:43 PM
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It's not binary. Millennials seem to want to have their cake and eat it too when it comes to children. I'm not saying people in adjective poverty should have 15 children but if you make decent enough money to support yourselves and want children then maybe cut back on some of the vacations or takeout yk? "I can't afford rent and having a kid" Ok then move to somewhere more affordable. Millennial white people in the west seem to want to have everything to be absolutely perfect and unwilling to ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:38 PM
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Yeah right? I don't see why women on here are getting offended by this. The future is female, and guys are dropping out of the rat race pretty fast. Why should women have to settle for being monogamous with a beta when they can share an alpha while also making their own money. It's a perfect fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:58 PM
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Not really, no. I am a man too but I recognize that the whole "promising a woman to every man" thing that monogamy promised was only feasible because we forced women into subservient positions and made it impossible for them to leave. Biologically, most mammals practice a winner takes all mating strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:28 PM
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Isn't it though? And yeah it does exist already. But it's still something that's looked down upon as trashy. What I'm saying is that there's going to be an expansion and acceptance of this over the next few generations if the current trends continue as they are because men can no longer meet standards. Ideally of course she would want to be that man's primary focus.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:57 PM
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Average chicks are the vast majority, most all are not addicted to dating apps, and barely have a concept of soft harems. They would not do that because they lack the same social opportunities as a 7+/10 young single girl. That is the thing though, I barely know a single girl who's not on dating apps. Some are more focused on school or careers but even some of the most average and below average girls I know are part of a roster and are quite promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:39 PM
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But how prevalent was it really? Not so much. The majority of boomers weren't free love hippies banging in Volkswagen vans.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:30 PM
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Why would the man want to help take care of the kids of multiple women? If he's a decent guy he hopefully would but yeah who knows really. Do you think that being abandoned by a high value man once she has a kid appeals to women? Of course not but having a kid by a high value man cool will abandon you is probably better than a kid from a low value man who will stick with you. And of course AF/BB provides women with the option to pair up with a lower quality guy in the event that the alpha relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:28 PM
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What does silver prism mean? But regarding dating apps I really believe they're only going to get more dominant. Our social cohesion is declining, people are becoming more polarized and traditional community institutions are falling away. In such a social climate dating apps are only going to become more and more prevalent for people looking for partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:26 PM
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The percentage of people having one night stands is a lot higher today than it would have been in the 60s or 50s I don't see how this is debatable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:15 PM
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When did I say women are bad? Or even insinuate it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:12 PM
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Why won’t they just choose to either be on their own without having to share a man? They definitely could. But if they really really wanted to have kids or were just horny, chances are they're going to a guy who's already got a few women attached. Most women seem to consistently express distaste with the idea of sharing a man. It's not ideal of course, but it beats having to settle for an unattractive male
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:45 PM
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Maybe you're one of those outliers I mentioned then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:11 PM
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Hmm I've not heard about the 4B movement but I am aware of the poor state of Korean gender relations. I think to some level men and women do need each other for physical desire if nothing else. So I can see even the most perpetually single woman hitting up one of the top guys in her social circles for a night but who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:07 PM
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Well I didn't say anything about forcing anyone to do anything. My point is this. Women are only actually attracted to a very small percentage of men Therefore, these men have a big advantage and can get around However women are shamed for being led on like that, and not finding a man that commits to them, even though they don't actually want the man who is going to commit to them. In addition, being a single mom is looked down on. So what I'm predicting is the dropping of these social barriers …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:00 PM
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Woman A, B,C,D and E are all dating man A, B and C. Man D and E are left out. See what I'm getting at?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:54 PM
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To The vast majority of people at the time yeah. Of course there were deviant communities and individuals but do you think that the majority of people would have been okay with their daughter running off to a new guy's house every week? Now it's normal. Most of our grandparents and great-grandparents were much more sexual repressed than the present day
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:40 PM
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I just find this logic really hard to believe because I'm from an immigrant background. Many of us came to a new country with barely anything. We didn't have a nice five bedroom detached house with a white picket fence by the time I was born. In fact we lived in a somewhat cramped apartment. We didn't live in abject poverty but my parents had to keep a very close eye on the bills every month. My point is that I believe it's a cultural thing. Caucasian parents seem to think that they can only hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:38 PM
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Ask the vast majority of men if they wanted to harem of beautiful women to take care of them I'm sure they say yes. However this is a fantasy the vast majority of men will never have. However men have higher sex drives and fewer and fewer of them meet women standards as the years go on for a variety of reasons. Now women would surely prefer monogamy with one man that they truly desire but if they don't get him they're willing to share. It doesn't have to be official marriage to multiple women bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:34 PM
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I don't want to turn this into a personal discussion. But I'm not an unfuckable freak, I'm just unfuckable lol This doesn't even remotely reflect the real world - where women, on the whole, are just looking for a normal dude who's kind, reliable and fun to hang out with. C'mon man let's not be silly. These are nice qualities but useless without physical attraction. Anecdotally I don't know any guys shorter than 5'8 who aren't virgins. Y'all spend so much time rage-watching dipshits on Insta/Yout…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:32 PM
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please see this comment Tldr; they won't be able to find men that match their standards anymore due to the trajectories that men and women in the workplace are taking. If it's between settling for a guy they deem lesser, vs being with a more attractive man temporarily, most women will choose the latter. Staying single is an option too of course
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:09 PM
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My parents probably couldn't have afforded me but yet here I am. It takes sacrificing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:05 PM
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It's not really an end of the world scenario. I already don't talk to women as anything other than colleagues or friends so nothing in my life changes in this scenario lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:04 AM
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I don't want to play the anecdote game but one of the most slutty girls I know is also one of the most accomplished. Nothing much to look at but she's shook the hands of federal ministers and we're only in our early 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:02 AM
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That's an interesting point. I can definitely see a future where a significant portion of women will either find proper commitment from a guy they actually desire, or stick with singledom in perpetuity (in the latter though I still believe that many would readily enjoy FWBs or dick appointments when the urge strikes them) the people who are polyamorous are always disgusting, not exactly a great advertisement for the lifestyle. This is true. But what I'm suggesting isn't necessarily polyamory (or…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:28 AM
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Please tell me some of the words, I'm curious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:50 AM
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Not really sure if humans are built for monogamy tbh. We're mammals right? Most species have a winner takes the females dialogue. I think we've just been brainwashing women with all these societal pressures like keeping them inside, not letting them work etc
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:47 AM
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1) Don't men also want "high-value" women who are good-looking and make lots of money? Does anyone, anywhere, say "I hope my partner is poor and ugly"? Yeah sure but men have lower standards and settle far easier than women do. They also don't have the ability to ever even touch the standard of women they actually want whereas women can easily get with a man even if it's just for a night that's way above their own level. 2) How do you know this "high-value man"--who I'm gonna go ahead and assume…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:46 AM
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I did not say anything about an apocalypse
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:14 AM
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You really are stuck on me saying 40 years ago. I'm sorry that I did the math wrong but I should have specified pre-sexual revolution. But even since the 80s, people are more sexually open now
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:14 AM
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You don't have to rush to insults. I'm only making observations
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:09 AM
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please see this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:50 AM
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Yeah I see now that I should have been a little clearer. Actual marriage happening is unlikely for sure. However greater societal acceptance and widespread practice of the situation you're describing is imminent. That was my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:49 AM
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This is true. I don't believe in the millennial cope of "it's too expensive" when poor people have even more kids. I just brought that up as a retort against people who say that women's biological clock will force them to settle for unattractive men. Of course when faced with the option of pursuing a career or having children, most women will choose the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:45 AM
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Dating apps becoming the primary method of forming relationships. We know that women only find a small percentage of men on these apps attractive. Increasing their gains. Also, women prefer their man to make more money and be higher status then them. Men are dropping out of post secondary education and there is a significant gap between men and women in colleges. Also, more women than men own homes in the US now. All these factors mean that women are going to struggle to find a guy that they act…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:34 AM
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Unfortunately when you think with the tingly part of your brain thinks like this happen. Also, many times the women are not aware, which is why it's called a soft harem. But even when they are, many stick around for the sex anyways. I'm suggesting that this against their idea of self worth. will be less of a problem in coming years when the stigma around sharing a guy dies down.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:29 AM
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Ideally they want to have 1 top guy to themselves, but we now know that when given the freedom, women would rather share a top guy then settle with a guy they perceive as lower. Of course rn it's embarrassing and a bit shameful to be lead on by a guy because you can't seem to cut yourself loose (which takes many forms) but I predict that will change
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:03 AM
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It's the same effect really. And I just used one night stands as an example. What's more likely is FWBs and near permanent situationships. Both are things that were probably unthinkable to most people in previous generations, now is the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:51 AM
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What do women get from hooking up with a stranger in a hotel room? 40 years ago it was probably similarly embarrassing. Taboo, dirty even. Now it's just a fun experience, an experiment in hedonism. Morals and values change over generations
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:36 AM
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Yup exactly. A expansion of current trends
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:28 AM
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What can I edit to make it acceptable? Is debate more accurate?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:48 AM
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Thank you for being honest. Big dick is preferred by the vast vast majority of girls and they're not ashamed to tell you if the situation is right. All this "just get good at oral" is such a cope by small dick losers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:47 AM
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But hypergamy isn't real right lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:41 AM
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1 man, partnered up with multiple women. Isn't that polygamy? Think of how guys have rosters these days, but instead of being embarrassed about it, women will be more than satisfied with the arrangement because it won't be societally shamed anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:19 PM
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How is that unfair? I'm a piano player myself, but it never came easy to me. Prodigies exist for a reason. Remember Mozart was writing operas as a child. I believe the saying is that hard work beats talent when talent doesn't work hard. But when talent works hard it's unstoppable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:17 PM
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I genuinely believe that in the next 20 to 50 years we'll see a societal shift which will make polygamy more socially acceptable.The same way that the sexual revolution saw premarital sex become less taboo for both genders. Do you think you're a grandmother or grandfather would have believed that you had sex with 15 other guys / girls before you met your wife / husband? Or that you didn't go to church anymore? Societies and values change It's the only way that women can satisfy their hypergamous…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:51 PM
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I envy how easy some things come to some people whether it's sports or music or charisma or whatever. Hypergamy is so real and so natural I don't know how people can doubt it. Pretty much all mammal species do it. The natural urge for females to congregate around the highest value male. I know people are going to come at me with "you surprised that hot guys get laid more lol incel" but it's like they're proving my point lmao a small percentage of guys fuck a large percentage of the women and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:43 PM
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Yeah if you're not hot enough for apps this is pretty much the only way
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:35 PM
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I'm 23 so anything above 5. Plus any one night stands. I have 0. Is my flair not showing?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:04 PM
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The thought of wifing up a slut makes me want to throw up. It's like a visceral disgust
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:46 PM
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Second
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:01 PM
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Gatsby is a good book
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:02 PM
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I like her videos lol my favourite niche YouTuber
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:24 PM
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Kidology?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:14 PM
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Love that movie but I find it really hard to watch the scene where James Gandolfini beats the crap out of Patricia Arquette
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:15 PM
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Yeah none of my friends got anything from the girls on Valentine's Day. Lads have to shell out for a dinner and gift though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:14 PM
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A different world fr
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:03 PM
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I was 9 when I saw myself in the mirror and was struck by how ungainly my features were
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:03 PM
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👋👋
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:01 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 08:59 PM
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I don't compliment women but if I did I think beautiful would be the best one
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 08:56 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 06:07 PM
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Where tf are you getting any of this from I was just sharing a funny story from my childhood ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:57 PM
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Apparently it's to include people of colour who are somehow excluded from the whole gay rights movement idk
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:22 PM
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Offense? She made it about gender, a concept that I did not understand
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:15 PM
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For you... Anything♥️♥️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:14 PM
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Safety
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:49 PM
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Here's another story from the elementary school days. We had a very strict no snowball policy where anyone who got caught throwing snow would get in trouble and get detention. I got hit with a snowball out of nowhere and with a teacher watching it in plain view she just says "that means she likes you" I had gotten 2 detentions for getting in snowball fights at that point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:38 PM
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I wonder if I was doomed to be a virgin because when I was an 8 years old I refused to give a toy to a girl and my teacher told me to give it to her because I wasn't being a gentleman lmao Still remember what I said "I'm not a gentleman I'm a kid!"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:30 PM
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Nah I'm good. There's not going to be any violent overthrow society because most of these sad men will eventually find a girl who settled down with them past her own prime and they'll be fine. I don't want that. I'll die alone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:27 PM
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The billionaire. He'll take care of his family
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:26 PM
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Women treat hot men better than ugly men. People like pretty people
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:03 PM
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Everything that happens to men is their own fault. Women on the other hand are passive instruments of fate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:28 PM
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Men end up on the fringes of society much easier than women do. Women are also more socially accessible
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:11 PM
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Yeah but women hide that shit and get mad when the man finds out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:40 PM
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because a girl would rather laugh than cry. Wow so profound sensei
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 02:01 PM
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Cratering birth rates and in Korea's case, a population that hates the opposite gender
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:16 AM
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I wish lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:13 AM
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Before: Chad gets approached After: Chad gets approached even more
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:59 AM
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Industrialization and women in the workplace flattens birth rates. People love to talk about how if we just had better working conditions and better salaries people would be more open to having kids but even in the most socially progressive countries in the world which have so many incentives for people to start families things are actually even worse. Really as soon as you give women the choice between family and career they choose career every single time and why wouldn't they? But you can't b…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:46 PM
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someone even did a statistical breakdown
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:24 PM
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Ok...and? Its not like you are interviewed,you can just lie You can't fake experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:17 AM
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I'm less than 2 years away. Almost there then I can officially give up
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:16 AM
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Are you alright
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:54 PM
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It might be aimed at women but it's a message sent by a certain type of man who I imagine is quite unsuccessful with women to begin with. same energy as this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:46 PM
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this always makes me laugh because it assumes that the only thing stopping you from getting asked out is the girl being too shy. No mf, she's not secretly pining for you, she just doesn't think you're attractive or probably even know you exist lmao. Fkn dorks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:16 PM
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A few decades ago people with good morals and values didn't approve of premarital sex now you're a bigot if you don't want a woman who slept with more than three people. Morals and values change
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:53 PM
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Mass acceptance of harems and polygamy. You'll be considered a sex negative bigot if you disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:50 AM
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Like how fucking gross is that something you haven't spoken to in like 5 years messages you to awkwardly flirt with you and ask you out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:47 PM
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No, we actually talked for a week before it fizzled out. I just feel ashamed cuz I probably made her so uncomfortable and disgusted when I asked her out at the end of the convo. Like how fucking gross is that something you haven't spoken to in like 5 years messages you to awkwardly flirt with you and ask you out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:31 PM
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Yeah but I haven't
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:13 PM
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It's been 2 years since the first and only time I ever DMd a girl. It still makes me feel ashamed and dirty to think I even did such a thing. My friends had been pressuring me to do it for months and I still feel like POS for doing it. I should just stick to porn
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:01 PM
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Are you implying that men are attracted to passiveness but don't want to deal with the consequences? I think that what people see as passiveness is actually an attraction to an easy-going, go with the flow nature. Okay I'd like Mexican food today but I'm also down for Chinese yk?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:59 PM
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I think assertive is a bit more about standing your ground. For example, I think everyone would like if their partner was confident about their likes and dislikes. But being very rigid or wanting your will done is hard to deal with. For example I think women like it when their man decides where they want to go eat for dinner but men don't like being told where to go for dinner if that makes sense. Difference between let's get Mexican food today versus I don't want anything other than Mexican foo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:39 PM
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I think everyone likes confidence. But women like assertive men, and not vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:29 PM
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Always good to invest in your body. It'll repay you when you're older
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:36 PM
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One of my friends once said unprompted that he can't ever see me being in a relationship or with a woman in general. And even though I believe he's right, it's pretty funny coming from considering what a massive simp he can be. He's had 2 girlfriends and both ended acrimoniously. With the latest one he dropped $600 on Christmas gifts for her and her family and spent countless hours commuting to her town which is 2 hours away. Btw, he only dated her for 6 months or so. I'd definitely rather be al…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:06 AM
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What's a nobody? If he has a decent enough job to take care of her and treats her well that's enough
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:57 AM
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Not really, I'm 23, it's time to get to work lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:31 AM
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Anything more than 1 hookup would put me off. As a whole I think 3+ count is not for me but I understand that me being a developmentally stunted loser isn't their fault and a guy my age should have some experience to speak of.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:30 AM
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Yeah but to miss out on something that is propped up as so fundamental in contemporary western culture..it really sucks. I wish I didn't care so much but I do and every now and again it prays on my mind and ruins my evening
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:28 AM
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Yeah for sure. Whores deserve each other. I just don't want to be unknowingly saddled with one
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:24 AM
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I just feel developmentally stunted as a result. It really sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:23 AM
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Best of luck, I hope you make the most of it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:23 AM
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FOMO about getting to make friends and live on my own and stuff. Dorm life, living in a college town where a significant chunk of the population would be my age, even have a girlfriend maybe. I don't think I would have really liked frat life or non stop partying. I had a really demanding degree as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:22 AM
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is it really rare for a woman to not have these crazy experiences in college? I really don't know, I'm sure it depends on the crowd but I've also known some obstensibly quiet girls who were total freaks on the low.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:16 AM
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I'm not a degenerate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:00 AM
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That's admirable. What's special about going out of state though?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:38 AM
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What's your goal for college?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:32 AM
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One of my biggest insecurities is the fact that I didn't get to go away for college. And then when I read/hear all these stories from others or on Reddit about all the crazy times they had that makes me feel some pretty bad FOMO Worst of all is reading stories about guys who didn't know that their SOs were complete whores in college and successfully hid that behaviour for years. I don't know if it's an exaggeration or not but it definitely poisons my mind so now I just assume that every girl who…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:31 AM
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Always has been 🔫🌎
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:22 AM
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When I was 16 I got used as a training session for how easy it is to get a guys number. I was sitting in the mall food court and some girls sitting just behind me were arguing about guys. I could hear almost everything they said. "Hey just look at this guy go ask him" So she walked up to and without any preamble just asked for my number. I gave it to her and she texted me hello an hour later, we had a short but friendly conversation I hope I gave her the confidence to approach men in the future …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:15 AM
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Like they say in mean girls, it's the one time of year where you can wear whatever you want and no one can call you a slut
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:12 AM
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Mogs me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:48 PM
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I used to go to parties semi regularly but unfortunately the one party I never got to go to was a Halloween party. It seems like it would have been a lot of fun and I feel like a loser for not getting to go to one
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:47 PM
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I'm not even tall tall I'm just barely 6'0
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:11 PM
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4/10. Bad skin (skincare hasn't worked despite my best efforts), unattractive race, skinny fat (but gym had been somewhat helpful in improving that). Possibly balding. Being sorta tall is my only positive trait but have never received any female attention in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 10:39 PM
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Not good. There's also a big population gap between young men and young women due to sex selective abortions so many young men will never have a wife at all. Arranged marriages are declining quite rapidly among the middle and upper classes. Women have more upward social mobility than ever before. Why that obviously still exists as an institution it's now more an option for people who didn't find a partner on their own
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 10:36 PM
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Let me introduce you to the Indian subcontinent lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:41 PM
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Women only hate on casual sex when it fails to net them the guy they wanted. It's the same sort of sour grapes as guys who don't get casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:32 AM
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I believe if we lived in a society that just let women be, and have sex with whom they'd like, there'd be more men benefitting from the same thing they are currently complaining about This is the society we already live in. The sexual revolution had already happened and as biologically ordained, women choose the top males. Making the market more free led to resources accumulating at the top
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:30 AM
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Autistic son or OF daughter?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 09:26 PM
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Yup and immediately got swarmed by 9 supermodels who all wanted my number
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 09:08 PM
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We're still in the title race but just opened the door for Arsenal. It's gonna be an exciting 15 games but they deserved the win today
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 06:35 PM
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Ffs Alisson and VVD
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 06:01 PM
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I would be really interested to hear from any Koreans on gender relations. Recently elected a president who campaigned on anti-feminism Apparently men see women as unfair competitors for jobs in a society that still has mandatory conscription, taking away years from their ability to compete in the job market. But there's also a lot of women who feel like they're being discriminated against because of their sex. Definitely has to be one of the reasons for their birth rates being in the toilet. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:26 PM
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Not random guys, but at least a few ultra hot guys a year
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:04 PM
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It's not that bad
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:52 AM
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I don't know why women say stuff like this as a gotcha. So you met a Chad who you had every intention of sleeping with zero investment, but he bungled it for himself by being socially inept. There's not "more to it". If he was even mildly friendly things would have been smooth sailing. Most guys aren't struggling because they behave like the guy in your story, it's because they don't look like the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:48 AM
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she would probably pick a non-slut for you. I don't think she's equipped to filter for that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:29 PM
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You having to explain things to your mom may be why have you problems dating in the first place. Huh? She wants me to start dating and I'm trying ways to dodge the topic. You can show respect without being whiny I have alot of respect for my mom, which is why I need a way to explain the dating market in a way that would make sense to her because she's from a different culture and generation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:41 PM
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I'm not complaining I'm rationalizing. I don't really want a girl for many reasons, I just don't know how to explain it to my mom yk
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:40 PM
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what makes you think even a former slut would want you? They probably won't what will magically change once you're established with a nice job. In my community we have arranged marriage, while less people do it these days, there's still a significant amount of marriages that start this way. That's why my mom wants for me. However in the modern day, it's simply another way to meet people. So you can have a history of past GFs/BFs but still ask your parents to set you up yk?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:39 PM
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I'm still in my early 20s. Obviously it would have been ideal to bag a girl sometime in the past few years but if I only get a GF at like 28, it'll probably be some former slut looking for a BB
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:18 PM
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That's a good line I'ma use it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:16 PM
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How do I explain to my mom that I don't want to date because the girl would probably be sleeping with other dudes while we go out? Like how do I even explain that as a concept to a middle-aged Asian woman
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:11 PM
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Of course but they hate men and blackpillers hate women so it's a good match that way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:42 PM
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The red pill has become darker to the point of being diet black pill, like only a few steps away from saying "give up and hate women" I wonder if this is a symptom of it not working in the face of such a stacked dating market or something else
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:35 PM
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They're needed. Once we have an equal amount of pink and black pillers we'll host a grand wedding and get them all married
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:16 PM
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My sister. I get it ok, I'm a man so I was born with the original sin and women deserve to stomp on my head for being alive. I accept it. I just wish they could be honest about it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 10:05 PM
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Ok I'll be specific. By the school of thought that most women in the western world who are younger than 25 or so subscribe to, Women are inherently more valuable than men and any man who does get into a relationship with a woman should thank his lucky stars that she gave him the time of day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:48 PM
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Throw yourself into the arena and go places where people hang out and talk to them. Play frisbee or volleyball in the parks of your city. Hang out at the lakes and chat with groups of people that are around. Go to clubs, concerts, bars, and the chillest cafés and hangout spots in your city. The third place is dead. If you have friends that aren't total assholes hold on to them for dear life because in a social atmosphere like this you're not making new ones. There is no point throwing myself int…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:40 PM
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an average man is only worth a woman at her worst This is what the modern woman believes. It's a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:33 PM
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Never seen it no. Mostly just half defences of it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:57 PM
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I mean I don't talk a shit ton about instagram thots if that's what you mean, of course they're hot but they're unattainable and way beyond anything I could handle. I guess I find gender dynamics interesting. I don't mess with women irl. I have another account for science and nature talk. I also like birdwatching.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:15 AM
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give them the attention they deserve instead of spending so much time and energy on women you dislike. I don't really talk to women other than platonically. Have never done otherwise and I never will attraction to these “unattractive women”. An allure or draw because if they rly don’t matter to you, you wouldn’t be constantly obsessed with talking about them. Right I don't know what you mean here. I use this sub to say opinions that I can't say irl. Opinions about some of the female behaviours t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:04 AM
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Plain Jane women deserve Chad boyfriends not losers like me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:53 AM
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Female Icks are feminine behavior from men like being passive or being affected by a situation (crying) . Also extends to feminine adjacent physical qualities like being short. Whereas male Icks follow masculine behavior from females like being assertive, physical qualities like short hair It's that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:20 AM
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Definitely lol plain Jane women are my type
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:16 AM
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Def the new tramp stamp
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:06 AM
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Lol just messing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:55 AM
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Sternum tattoo gotta be one of the most apparent red flags for a chick. Guaranteed you're dealing with a club thot/ IG girl who gets alot of male attention
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:48 AM
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Hey wsp
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:45 AM
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It's nice to see a debate about this topic that isn't just "wah you're insecure"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:00 PM
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There's gotta be a better way to get the point across because people just shut the ears and go "you just hate women dodged a bullet lalalala"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:23 PM
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It's true
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:10 PM
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An insane work culture + gender war that is much worse than what's happening in US
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:44 PM
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When I was in 8th grade I had a insanely handsome teacher. Tall, jacked white dude. Really cool guy, very good at math and had a big brother vibe to things. The girls were of course enamoured with him and the class regularly invaded his boundaries which became more successful as time went on. One time they got him to call his girlfriend while we were in class. Luckily she was in a meeting and quickly hung up. I hope he's doing well, I didn't know him long but he left an impression on me, he also…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:09 PM
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I'll get banned
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:06 PM
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It's a very stressful place I would know
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:05 PM
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Can't say because I'm not a student there
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:50 PM
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He? Nothing I don't wanna get banned
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:42 PM
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Doesn't have to be that malicious. It's just easier to meet people this way for women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:30 PM
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Dude I literally said "I can see" in the op. It's a prediction not a statement of fact
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:18 PM
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Not yet. I'm just making a prediction. Right now it's still working on making standards on body count unacceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:12 PM
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Nah more like "wtf is wrong with you! Sex work is real work and you're being a prejudiced asshole for not dating someone because of the work they do"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:04 PM
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The same way that social boundaries have shifted to make not wanting to date promiscuous women unacceptable I can definitely see the next boundary being not wanting to date active sex workers as a bigoted opinion. Call it an insecurity or social construct or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:01 PM
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Average women have it pretty good and they can easily level up into attractive territory
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:45 PM
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Same here. Most hobby groups are filled with people much older than me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:36 PM
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23-25. People are at their hottest and horniest from 18-23, if you've gotten no play in that time somethings wrong with you (I'm talking about myself)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:26 PM
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Haha it is I know. I was just relaying what female friends have told me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:09 PM
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Where do you think I got the idea for this comment 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:14 AM
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Harems and polyamory will be way more common. The middle class will be extinct and rich people will have test tube babies enhanced by CRISPR. Gigolos will become more common. Full on hedonism for the well off
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:02 PM
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Sounds like my type of woman
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 04:03 PM
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Not AFBB, unless they get married after being yanked around for so long. More like oneitis or simping which happens to both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 04:02 PM
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Is she though
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:09 PM
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I'm sure some do, but most of them are fine. Male thirst makes all things possible
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:37 PM
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Why not? By the same logic neither is this conversation. And I've had conversations with women irl about this topic, most do not share your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:27 PM
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By punishing I mean the revenge fantasy. Mia Khalifa is a rich and famous celebrity who gets to farm outrage as a professional troll. She's been married and has a dating life. And that's a famous pornstar who did pretty vanilla stuff on camera. There are girls much less famous who did actually depraved stuff who are long gone and retired, most likely living quiet lives with husbands who don't know or don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:04 PM
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Hope you can hope they receive some kind of social stigma, like transsexuals, but deserved, however with more and more people becoming ideological radical about "moral judgement"... I fear for the young generations. It does seem like western society is running out of tools to check sexually transgressive women (and men) This is the key here. Shame as a social tactic is vanishing. Rewind 30 years ago, your friends would shame you for taking the town bike seriously. Now it's wrong to judge someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:00 PM
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Interesting. There's definitely consequences. But there's a generational gap there too. And I doubt it will be permanent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:52 PM
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It's a revenge fantasy. As red pill overlaps more and more with blackpill, it's focus turns from fucking women to punishing them The hot young thing posting nude pics getting flown out to Dubai will end up sad and alone because no man will want them. She'll be fine lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:46 PM
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Riley reed have to fight tears every time she talks about her family makes me think it’s not all sunshine and rainbows. Clip? Despite all the memes she has a husband and a child while making millions... I don’t think they deserve punishment, but definitely not sympathy when it doesn’t work out I have no sympathy either. What I meant is that there not gonna get the comeuppance that red pillers think
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:37 PM
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RPs obsession with "punishing" sex workers or promiscuous women is hilarious. Seriously, the vast majority of pornstars are completely fine with not dating you lol they've got an army of simps and sugar daddies and get to enjoy a life of hedonism and fun for a few years before eventually settling down. Most of your favourite pornstars from the 2000s are married, some have kids and have normal lives with husbands who don't know or don't care that their wife was getting pissed on for money before …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:24 PM
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I think I know why red pill hates single moms, fat women and sex workers so much, despite these 3 groups mostly just minding their own business. It's because despite all the RP hate porn out there, these women still have a higher SMV then your average RP nerd and will get sex, relationships and companionship much easier than the RP dude who's breaking his back learning "game" or gym maxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:22 PM
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I'm pretty blackpilled. AMA
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:18 PM
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Wholesome but ultimately useless advice
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:17 PM
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Sure you should be good with oral but the PIV sex will still be bad for the woman if you have a small dick. That's what I'm getting at, it is absolutely emasculating if you cannot please a woman with your penis. It makes you less of a man and "just be good at fingering" is a hilarious cope that I've only ever heard of on Reddit. Women I know irl are pretty open about wanting larger than average dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:59 PM
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https://youtu.be/c9ckB-i9A8I?si=94SXIZQ_EBwXJDkr
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:26 PM
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An ugly man on a dating app is an ugly man irl. He can talk to women all he wants by the time he's convinced 1 to give him a chance she's already had like 10 much better looking boyfriends off of Tinder. Women use dating apps too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:23 PM
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You make a good point here. The past wasn't a utopia. Even if your specific examples of ur grandparents is an outlier, these things did happen in their time. I think the main difference now is the lack of shame. Historically women were more affected by this since their place in society was more dependent on their acceptance within the community. Although men are affected by shame too but for other things (not joining the military during times of war) I do feel that some amount of shame is necess…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:17 PM
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A new word for turn-off
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:07 PM
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Dude do you think the majority of people in this sub are saying half the stuff they actually believe irl??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:05 PM
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"it's just a joke" is a pretty crappy defence
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:03 PM
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Most women can orgasm with PIV sex if the clitoris is getting stimulated. Idk why people keep acting like PIV sex is useless for women. I'm not saying that oral is unnecessary but C'mon
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:58 PM
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Yeah everyone missed the point of his post.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:53 PM
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It's a cultural thing, you might as well ask men to not like big boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:49 PM
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You're right the whole "just use your fingers" thing is a cope that I've only heard on the internet. Most women require good PIV sex as part of the package
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:48 PM
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Anomalies exist
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:31 PM
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Just gotta take the L dude. Stop expecting people to cater to short, ugly or small dick men. They're low quality and women will never love them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:23 AM
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You put into words alot better than I did this article here is also worth a read when you have a minute
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:40 PM
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One of the most odd things I've seen from the Internet is the genuine demonization of nice guy as a term to the point where people don't even really talk about genuinely bad men who mistreat and abuse women as much as they rage at a passive aggressive dude getting mad over text. yeah it's corny to think that women should sleep with you just because you're friendly and pleasant but they're not the super villain that women on Reddit will have you believe lol. I think it's a major deflection becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:48 PM
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My friend started dating this new girl about 2 months ago and I invited her to my New year's Eve party she seemed nice and they were happy together (honeymoon phase). But now she's getting kind of weird and how much she wants to be integrated into the rest of the friend group she made a new group chat and added us all to it and when people weren't super active she got upset and removed herself Then my friend DMs all and asked us to be more active with her because she just wants to be friends or …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:47 PM
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I'm distraught. Was the first thing I saw when I opened my phone
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:45 PM
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I did, got dry responses or "I'm busy I'll lyk" or none at all. I guess it's gonna be a quiet weekend 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:25 AM
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Listen as long as she doesn't come to me for relationship advice it's cool. It's getting kinda odd how people kept coming to me ask for date ideas and restaurants and shit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:00 AM
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Nah she's a whore I don't want her anyway (I had planned out the names of our children)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:59 AM
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I'm sorry dude, would you care to tell us your story? Do you feel bad about the way things have gone?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:58 AM
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Sitting at the gym listening to a guy talk about how he fucked 6 waitresses on account of good his dick is. Dude sounds like typical frat bro red pill dude it's hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:38 AM
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My friends have been ignoring me for the past week and I don't really know why. It sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:37 AM
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The pretty girl I work with who I never spoke to started seeing someone smh it's so over Chad wins again fml !!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:36 AM
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There's nothing to tell me, just wanted to relay my thoughts (:
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 09:25 PM
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Unfortunately that is extremely rare and unlikely to happen to someone like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:53 PM
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How do you even vet for this though. Many women are excellent at covering up their past and if they had never gone on this trip with her friends chances are the guy never would have found out
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:10 AM
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Everytime I feel lonely and feel like going out of my comfort zone to talk to a girl I read this post and retreat back into my shell. I cannot tell you how much this scenario terrifies me and my heart aches for this man. This is truly one of my greatest nightmares and if I'm ever feeling lonely I go back and read this post to remind me that this potentially my fate if I ever were to venture into the world of dating
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:48 AM
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Going to the gym or getting plastic surgery would be way more effective
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:43 AM
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Why's that surprising? I promise you a good chunk are cheating lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:35 AM
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Sexual liberation is akin to free trade agreements. It's sold as let's make things free and open for everyone but in reality most people lose cuz they're not built to take on so much competition and rich just get richer
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:34 AM
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What do you guys think of hoe math? He's quite entertaining even if he leans into red pill thought too much. I especially like the video where he explained Icks. It was very eye opening
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:13 AM
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What this translates to me is "if you're as man then negative feelings that result from your partners behaviour or actions are your own fault and are insecurity"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:28 AM
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Because her happiness isn't the only thing that matters? His thoughts and emotions matter too?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 11:10 PM
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But I don't want to be the guy who had to grow on her while she fucked other dudes instantly. That just means I'm unattractive to her straight up
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:58 PM
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True I know average looking dudes my age in relationships but unfortunately I'm actually ugly lol . I'd rate myself a 4/10, unfortunately I don't know anyone at or below this level who is currently in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:35 PM
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To me it doesn't make sense to fuck 1 guy while dating another but we'll have to agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:47 AM
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Unfortunately not. Go into a dating or relationship advice sub, these are pretty common posts on there. Most women are of the opinion that she didn't technically do anything wrong and the guy should break up with her if he can't stop being "insecure"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:53 AM
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Lmao exactly you can never really tell. Women lie about this stuff all the time and are extremely good at compartmentalizing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:46 AM
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One of the big reasons I'm too afraid to date is because of stories like this. I've seen this behaviour second hand already from 2 female friends/acquaintances and 1 male. Worst nightmare is actually investing in a relationship, and finding out a while in that she was fucking another guy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:39 AM
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I see what you're saying, but improving their chances from 1-2% hardly seems like it would change much
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:30 PM
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I don't mind, it's his first relationship and I'm happy to help. I know my city very well in terms of restaurants and POIs so I'm always pointing out things they could do together. They're under no obligation to help me. I gave up on finding my own person a couple of years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:26 PM
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Has arms like a tree trunk but otherwise doesn't look like a body builder lol Happy for him, but now barely spends any time with me haha. I'm the one who comes up with date ideas for him and girl too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:05 PM
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Is that not what I said, just in less words?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:02 PM
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Absolutely not lol. He's tan skinned, bulky and not a pretty boy whatsoever. The total opposite of Kpop
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:37 PM
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I've got a funny story about that. A close friend of mine, Asian dude who never had any success with women, lucked into a relationship with a girl at his workplace because she liked Kpop. There was no self improvement or mountain to climb. He met a girl who herself was lonely and in need of companionship even though he has 0 relationship skills or "game" Now they spend all their time together and we never hang out /:
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:26 PM
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Hey I've got 0 experience at all and most likely never will, just speaking off of the people I know in my life. There's 3 groups and I have friends in all 3. I know Chad's who get "fuck me" eyes from the waitress whenever we go out. I know average dorks who lucked into a similarly dorky chick at work or class I know hopelessly ugly guys too (like myself) enough said. Most dudes aren't Chad and will never get that feeling of raw sexual attraction so the next bet is to grow close enough by proximi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:20 PM
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Sure, maybe in their 30s or 40s. I don't see many ugly guys or fat guys in relationships in my 20s right now though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:16 PM
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I've honestly never seen an ugly guy who got laid. Straight up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:00 PM
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Misogynist dudes get laid all the time. Being a good person has never been a pre req for sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:45 PM
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Most guys fall into a relationship through circumstance and dumb luck. The hotter you are the less luck you need. But blue pillers turn the cult of self improvement by acting like you have to earn a woman by building yourself into some paragon of virtue. Thats my problem with blue pill and red pill. Most people in relationships just happened to meet each other and vibe. The woman (usually) opened herself up to the moves the man was putting down and things developed. There's not a need to be a sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:53 PM
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It's a massive cope. Women can very easily hide their body counts. If they do end up with a guy who does care, just lie. It's not difficult to keep former lays in the past. Thinking that formerly promiscuous women are damned for life is really silly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:41 PM
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Went out for dinner with a Chad friend (dude literally looks like Hitler's ubermensch. Also has a master's degree) Man, the stories he tells are insane, the very concepts are so foreign to me. He had a rich upstate NY heiress asking him for anal after 2 dates. When he tells me about how women come onto him or make their interest apparent, it's very obvious that no woman has ever been interested in me because I've never seen those signs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:16 PM
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Guys also have to be charismatic, confident, good looking, intelligent and tons of other stuff just for a woman to give them a chance. Social skills are just the cherry on top
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:57 PM
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I didn't say that all women are in happy romantic relationships. I said with accountability and good social skills healthy romantic relationships (or even NSA relationships) are easily available to every woman. The fact that so many struggle and is a damning indictment on their ability to choose
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:10 PM
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But have you considered how it affects your facial proportions and your xyz eye to forehead ratio hmm?? I can already tell it's over for you smh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:14 AM
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😳 It's all so acoustic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:03 AM
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I'm quite with good with younger and older kids on account of being a high school math tutor and mentor in elementary school as a side job. Maybe one day I'll find a mean single mom with 4 kids who'll settle for me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:58 AM
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The contrast of women daintily putting in makeup and fixing their hair to look more attractive vs guys breaking their legs and analyzing canthal tilt or whatever else will never not make me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:56 AM
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If you've never had the opposite gender show interest in you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:52 AM
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I am very good at map reading
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:51 AM
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Stop gaslighting me with your toxic speech. You're taking up important emotional real estate and it's not my job to regulate your impulses. Doing that is unwanted emotional labour and proxy to abuse. Do. Not. Invade. My. Boundaries .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:02 AM
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Does anyone else hate how there's a new therapy speak word out every few months? It's such a manipulative and condescending way of talking
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:51 PM
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What does this have to do with what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:44 PM
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Right so as usual, it's men's responsibility to rise to the challenge of being worthy of a woman. Because women are such great prizes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:41 PM
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You're winning if you have a happy relationship or a romantic life that you're fulfilled by. Considering these are both easily available to the vast majority of women with just a bit of accountability and good social skills, it's hard to feel bad when they mess up. I feel bad for the small business owner who's restaurant didn't take off, not the millionaire heiress who ended up in debt because she made poor decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:41 PM
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I'm unsympathetic because it feels like someone losing at a game who has cheat codes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:23 PM
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Women do ask men out. Or at least make it extremely obvious that they're interested, but only for really attractive guys
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:07 PM
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Went from a human looking Chad lite to a fake ass mannequin. Idk if it's the lighting that's throwing me off but looks so inhuman
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:34 PM
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That does not sound like a good idea bro
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:32 PM
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If you haven't had any success by 22. Literally the peak years of attraction and horniness, the only ages where you will consistently be surrounded by people of the same age, there is a very good chance you will not see much success
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 04:40 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 03:17 AM
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I explained my thought process over here I don't think I'm the kind of guy that girls like hearing jokes from anymore. It explains alot
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 02:25 AM
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Ooh yk I may have signed a contract about that now that I think about it...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 02:16 AM
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Because it explained alot. I'll lay it out. Be me, a self aware unattractive male Try to make conversation with strangers male and female Learn that unattractive males approaching women makes them uncomfortable Ergo, as an unattractive male I've unknowingly been making women uncomfortable for years. Everytime I got a bored glance or a look of disgust, it's because I was invading their space and making them feel like I was hitting on them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 02:16 AM
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I used to like making small talk with guys and girls at random places. Like cracking a joke at the bus stop or in line at the grocery store. Then I started reading Reddit and stories about women being bothered by men who were trying to flirt with them bothering them in random places. I was horrified. Suddenly all the times that I got a disinterested glance or ignored was because those poor girls thought I was a sex pest or a creep. I swear I'm not, just an unattractive guy who thinks he's funnie…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:45 AM
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But I could do such a better job then they do 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:04 AM
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All the YouTube ads I get are for hinge and bumble lol I've never used a dating app but I guess I'm in the Targeted age group for these ads lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:02 AM
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Is it unethical to poach clients from the place I work
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:57 PM
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Apps, introductions from mutuals
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:55 PM
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25 with no experience is a good bet. 35 if you've had sex rarely but no actual relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:11 PM
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I cannot overstate how much social media has destroyed my perception of women. And it's not even from those stupid podcast clips but actual women just posting about their failed hookups, making fun of their husbands and boyfriends, talking about princess treatment and how ugly most men are. It's completely poisoned my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:40 PM
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All of this seems and is very real to me in my own lives experiences. The majority of women I know are Chad chasing sluts. I've been told I'm like a houseplant, calm and non sexual so men and women tell me things they probably shouldn't. I've seen women go out on dates for free meals. I've seen them fuck one dude then go home to their boyfriend. It's hard not to think that this is the norm amoung women in my age group.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:52 AM
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I've never met a dude under 5'8 who wasn't a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:43 AM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:31 AM
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Men love boobs in general. Women don't love penis in general
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:30 AM
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Yeah I highly doubt it. Most girls at that age have had 2-3 boyfriends and a few hookups under their belt. I know I have good qualities, but being attractive is not one of them. It's definitely not normal to get to this age without any female attention, so there has to be something wrong with me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:19 PM
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That seems a bit fanciful. Life's not a Disney movie
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:48 PM
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You can upgrade people from a 2 to a 5 all you want, women don't want 5's. I LMAO exactly. I go on r/glowups and it's just people going through puberty or getting a new haircut or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:05 PM
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What is honestly driving this fear of being settled for? I don't want to be with someone who doesn't actually like me. I don't think that's an unreasonable expectation Are you honestly afraid you may have to settle for a woman who isn't hot for you? Yes. I am not an especially attractive person, most girls I know are hooking up with guys way hotter than me and I do not want to be second choice after they've had their fun. I refuse to be a settle down option for someone's slut daughter. You know …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:56 PM
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It's one of the defining marks of gen z women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:39 PM
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Most girls I know are just on an endless cycle of hinge dates and hookups lol idk anyone who's hooked up at a bar but I'm sure it happens
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:28 AM
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Well then it's then a wrap for me. I'm 23 and 0 experience, so I'm obviously not cut out for this stuff. Peace out dating market ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:44 PM
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Anything above 3 or if they've had more than 1 night stand
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:49 PM
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To preface this I want to say I'm not some RP guy who thinks that men should sleep around and women shouldn't. Man whores who think they deserve a virgin are morons. Why? But I'm not a fuckboy or something, I'm just a normal albeit inexperienced dude. Subconsciously I think it's the idea of being a party girls "last choice" but honestly it's a visceral disgust that I can't even explain. Like all attraction would just evaporate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:26 PM
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It's an exaggeration but even the most mid girl I know has at least 8-10 DMs at any given time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:58 AM
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It’s like you guys can’t fathom that women have loyalty, that when you love someone, you don’t throw them away. It’s easier to just say that women have sooo many options so they’ll cheat on you. Yes, like bro I genuinely can't fathom it. I actually don't believe that women can love their partners. I've seen too much fucked up shit from the women around me to believe otherwise. It's terrifying to think that if I mess up just once, she'll go and replace me. All this is doing is blatantly showing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:55 AM
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I know some cheating, but I know more messing around in "situationships" or going on a date with 1 guy and fucking another the same night.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:50 AM
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My worst nightmare is marrying a girl with a high count. Like it actually sickens me to my core to even think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:48 AM
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It's insecure to not want a girl who's a whore?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:46 AM
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Like I said, hot people are still hot as long as they're not actively unsettling others (which can itself be hard depending on how hot they are). But they don't have to be funny, charming, charismatic cuz of the halo effect
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:40 PM
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It's just a meme. Getting a girls number is seen as the prize in these viral videos but it's mostly just the girl giving her number so she doesn't look bad on camera.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:18 AM
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Being social helps you present as confident without even really trying. Being the kind of guy who can and will strike up a conversation with anyone about anything and have them laughing or flattered? That's attractive. How is that attractive? It's something I do all the time. I can make people have a chuckle, I'm not charisma king but I think I do Ok. It's never been something that got me noticed by a man or woman, platonically or romantically. All my friendships formed out of proximity not beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:14 AM
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Disagree, if you're hot, only being actually dangerous or unsettling can get you pushed back out of the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:11 AM
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Def an exaggeration but the most mid girl I know has at least 10 unopened DMs at any given time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:23 AM
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Yeah this whole "most women don't even like penetration just get good at eating pussy if you have a small dick" is something I've only seen online. Irl most girls I've seen are ruthless when it comes to dick size. Like sure you should be attentive to the clit and have good foreplay and all that but as far as I've seen girls are brutal. We know most women fake orgasms, and it's hard to think it's not because most guys aren't well endowed enough to please them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:54 AM
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Blue pill is absolutely still around in the thoughts of women and those who got lucky with their genetics. Everytime I hear the words personality I wanna blow my brains out at this point lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:42 PM
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It is...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:11 PM
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I kinda agree though. If she has sex on the first date but makes an exception for you, i doubt she's actually into you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 01:20 AM
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Incredibly dull and boring stuff I don't know how people watch it. Same with F&F. Just the same damn show over and over again. How many times can you that boring cunt dunk on some 19 year old OF slut and act like hes got the wit of Mark Twain. Even if you're a misogynist how do you not find it insanely boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:48 AM
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Atomization is real but yeah no one seems to make new friends these days even when the chance presents itself
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:09 AM
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Not the guy you're replying to but if I could add my 2 cents. Yes for me it is the competition. Knowing that I am just 1 of hundreds of options she has and any wrong move I make will get me replaced gives me pause to think for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:56 PM
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What behavior of women do you think is being encouraged and by who? Man hating in general, wanting a man who's better than you in some ways, demonizing any insecurity or weakness a man has. "Your money is our money but my money is mine" (this is actually how the funds in my house work actually lol) Biggest one is that almost every bad thing that happens to a woman is a man's fault (see any AITA post) If you know there’re women who don’t follow the RP stereotype why don’t you look for them? Now h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:59 PM
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Women may outwardly support their friends while condemning that behavior internally so don’t take it at face value That seems awfully charitable. Have you ever had a relationship to see for yourself? Look I'm self aware enough to know that this is at least partly a sour grapes situation. But I've seen both sides. I've had Chad friends who use girls like fleshlights and they still come back for more. I've also had friends who are completely pussy whipped and I barely see them anymore cuz their Gf…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:27 PM
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You don't know me dude how do you know I'm fronting?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:45 PM
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No, not really. I know in my heart that all women aren't like that, but I know too many who display the same kind of behaviour, and even those who don't are sympathetic. I love my sister more than anyone in the world, but the way she describes guys and absolves her girlfriends of wrongdoing no matter what they do is genuinely sickening. I don't want to come off as a women hater, I have female relatives and friends that I really love and appreciate, but certain parts of even their behaviour just …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:44 PM
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I don't think so, can you define "scared of pussy" then
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:14 PM
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No not really. Can't speak for everyone but I'm not scared of interacting with women. But I just don't want to deal with all the stuff that accompanies one. It's messy and gross. I know how most girls my age are, and it disgusts me. So I guess the more apt word would be disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:05 PM
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Scared is a weird term to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:54 PM
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I wish this was true. But in my experience even if most women irl are not exactly like those trashy podcast chicks they at least sympathize with them (unless they're actively religious).The thing about those podcast chicks is that their opinions are not actually fringe, but they are so bad at explaining that they embarrass themselves which is exactly what the hosts want. Not to mention there's also plenty of podcasts directly advocating for the same things but presented by much smarter women who…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:25 PM
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Women won't be able to understand because they only see themselves as the prize so any man who does end up with her is lucky and should count his blessings that he ever landed her in the first place. The feelings and thoughts of the man don't matter at any point in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:12 PM
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I find it hard to believe that women hate hookups when they do them over and over
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:43 PM
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I don't want to be a fuckboy, and if I can't find a decent woman then I'm more than happy to die alone. Settling for a used up hoe is a fate worse than death
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:12 PM
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No one. I'm just stating my opinion loll
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:01 AM
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If we're talking about those RP tiktok and stuff Imo it's not even the posts, it's the thousands of comments with tens of thousands of likes from supposedly normal women on those posts agreeing and supporting the awful women which makes me think it's just accepted behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:36 AM
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My parents have encouraged me to put myself out there but I've tried my best to explain that the whole dating world is too complex and hazardous for me. Arranged marriage is an option in our community but that still doesn't appeal to me. I'm quite fine with staying alone, and I've never really felt that the lack of romantic attention has had a negative impact on my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:45 PM
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Thanks for the detailed response. A few follow-up questions. So it sounds like you guys got along well at first, when were your first doubts? If you guys still have fun and sex together that sounds better than alot of couples, what is it exactly that you feel he can't offer? Do you feel like it was a mistake from the get go? Find a women who is not that attractive and is not willing to hurt your feelings by telling you the truth. That is the best you can do. I've been thinking this as well but I…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:42 AM
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I Really respect your honesty. Ending up like your husband is my worst nightmare, would you have any advice for a younger dude on how not to end up like that? Not all women have your honesty so it's very tricky to avoid settling into a relationship like the one you describe if thats not what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:02 PM
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Damn that's a good point, I don't know if you can tell. One of the most promiscuous girls I know is studying for a master's in political policy and even shook the hand of the leader of our country. You'd think she is a smart career woman (which she is) but she's also a ho. She's not even much to look at really so pretty shocking. As a guy, ending up with a girl like that is one of the big reasons why I don't even bother dating
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:16 PM
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Maybe the definition has changed but I've always considered FWBs to be another form of casual sex. Isn't the whole point that it's NSA and low-key? And if that's the case then I really shouldn't bother with dating
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:57 PM
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Damn that was a hostile reply to a pretty fair and politely phrased question
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:51 AM
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Well women can make their own money now so why settle for unattractive guys? And why should guys be ok with being settled for
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:29 AM
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I meant the part where he says most women aren't interested in casual sex. It definitely seems like most are and take full use of the opportunity when the mood strikes them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:41 AM
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Sounds like a comforting lie tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:15 AM
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Dude you are wild lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 06:12 AM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 06:10 AM
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