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DebateReasonConfident4541/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 11:07 PM
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Question For WomenReasonConfident4541/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:43 PM
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DebateReasonConfident4541/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:31 PM
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Question For WomenReasonConfident4541/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:13 AM
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Question For WomenReasonConfident4541/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:55 AM
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Question For WomenReasonConfident4541/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 10:23 AM
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19

Agree look at what's happened men are literally smashing their bones with hammer to try and get dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:03 AM

I do For shelter, money etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:00 AM

No one would date women if you couldn't have sex with them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:00 AM
14

I don't get it Tldr?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:18 AM
5

Imagine thinking just because something isn't peer reviewed it doesn't count Lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:01 AM
5

You do realise fat ugly women get matches with Chad's as well See the pig tinder study and grandma tinder study.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:36 AM
9

90% of men have options?? Bahhahahah
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:26 PM
9

Thanks bro I just told my 5ft5 ugly friend to get buffed now he has heaps of women bro! It worked for you so clearly it works for every other male!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:46 AM
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It's true bro I just told my balding autistic short friend to go to the gym and also do social push ups now he ha baddies lined up You've truly cracked the code brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 02:44 AM
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One the most simplistic takes I've ever seen on this sub.. I can't tell if its trolling or rage bait. No..simply going to the gym or gettign better socially or more money for many wont result in attraction Some people are short ugly neurodivergent etc. Literally studies show that even your personality is largely genetic. Even being ambitious is genetic In fact many things that make you attractive to the opposite sex are genetic this goes the same for women as well - face , boobs etc even persona…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 12:02 AM
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“Niceness and Dating Success” (Urbaniak & Kilmann, 2006) Found that more physically attractive men had more dating success regardless of niceness Dominance vs. niceness (Ahmetoglu & Swami, 2012) Women rated men differently based on dominant body language not niceness . Large survey (2025, Journal of Research in Personality) Agreeable (nice) men were slightly less likely to be in a relationship Responsiveness study (Birnbaum et al., 2014) “Niceness” (responsiveness) increased attraction for men t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:52 AM
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No Multiple studies show being nice doesn't lead to attraction That's why red pill exists Having role models who are nice/kind wouldn't make a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:10 AM
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I constantly see posts like this Men just focus on yourself Men you don't need women Men don't care about women validation! Yet in reality it's a very lonely life if you don't have a women. Furthermore testosterone literally drives Men to pro create and be with women..studies show people who don't have physical intimacy experience high rates of depression. Studies show relationships are part of human needs Literally every study goes against this. It's like telling depressed people just don't be …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 10:10 PM
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Men are afraid of commitment to the wrong women imo. If a man isn't committing to a women it means he I'd afraid because something she is doing isn't aligning to his long term values The reason why this is more common these days is many women have traits that don't make then good-long term partners I.e high body count, social media attention etc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:32 AM
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This tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:30 AM

Height?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:39 AM

Yea but seeing fat people = bad aesthetic = cortisol spike = worse day Literally fat people make you feel worse Good looking people make you feel better. Science support this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 12:57 PM

I'm mean to fat women and I hate fat women Firstly I don't like people who don't respect themselves being fat shows you don't respect yourself Secondly being fat as a women is actually hard. Women still look fit even with higher BMI so if you are fat as a women you're literally a complete failure Thirdly like imagine ur life is judged by ur looks and u dotn try and keep fit? It's pathetic Lastly It's disgusting there was a fat women on my train taking up two seats today whilst we had to stand pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 12:44 PM
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Wearing sexually revealing clothing and catching a bus that usually has people of low socio economic background
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:12 AM
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It's quite simple really if you put yourself in dangerous situations, dangerous things may happen to you. What part doesn't make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:03 AM
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Did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:00 AM
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? If I walked down a poor area with wads of cashed and got robbed is it my fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:00 AM
9

Seems like your problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 03:49 AM

The value of women would decline like crazy (in the dating market) It's crazy how women don't know that a large number if men simply but up with them for sexual access.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:07 PM
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There is nothing that inherently draws women to men? What? Did I just read? What? Looks Money Power Knowledge Emotional safety Protection Comedy Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:22 AM
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You're right op just stop having sex and stop pro creating
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:54 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:11 AM

I'm sickened My post was removed because "no posts about looks" It wasn't even about looks it was about modern dating and looksmaxing movement This sub is completely pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 03:06 AM

Reported
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 12:25 AM
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But but but Low body count women don't like sex!! I want a slutty women who likes sex!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 03:49 AM
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Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:15 AM
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This Just because a women is a virgin doesn't mean she's asexual
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:14 AM
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I completely disagree "Slutty" women are usually slutty for a reason and those reasons are not good for a relationship But you do you OP good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:14 AM
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I'd be a millionaire if I got a dollar for every time I read a post about how lonely men should just not care about women It's such a pointless rheoterical post. It's not helpful in most cases it doesn't make someone feel better. It's like telling a poor hungry person just stop caring about food and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 11:08 AM
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This What's wrong with being risk averse? Op just labels risk averse as shaming words
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:10 AM
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Huh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 11:59 PM
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Because men value women sexually and not in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:29 AM
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Lol what? Yes women are privileged and that's why you see some men try to tear them down. Really isn't that complicated
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:05 AM
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Agre Also - It's very complicated it's not as simple as older = more money = prime. There's maturity/looks/status/social skills I suppose "peak" would be when a man reaches his looks/money/status peak (highest sexual market value) But you're right can a man for example 40 have casual relationships easily with girls in their prime (21?) Compared to when he was in high school? Like it doesn't really make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:26 AM

Calm down lil bro
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 09:14 PM

Ok I'll ask chatgpt my lazy lil bro
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 08:54 PM

Huh? Red pill is about self improvement
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 08:46 PM

What you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 08:45 PM
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This. Also OP sounds young The Jerk/play hard to get etc works better with younger women/immature but not older
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:53 AM
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No the reason he failed was because he wasn't good looking / wealthy / status enough
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:52 AM
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Going on dates with women you don't find attractive just for the sake of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:38 AM
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Obvious rage bait lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:20 AM
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Exemptions don't disprove the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 06:47 AM
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?? All the statistics and data show they only work for a small number of men and large portion of women Where's your source OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 05:42 AM
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?? We / I have no choice
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 09:37 AM
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But it's ok for women to demand 6 ft 6 figures 6 inches Rich good looking Social Charismatic Etc... Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 09:09 AM

Reported for rhetorical rage bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:37 AM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:34 AM

A lip injection is hard ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:04 AM

Make up Being fit Already above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:03 AM
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You've drawn a lot of conclusions and made assumptions based on one sentence. I never said any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:51 AM
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Ah the good old you're insecure for not wanting a women who has had lots of partners Rolls eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:44 AM
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Being hedonistic isn't good studies show that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:42 AM
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Studies literally show what people do irl don't correlate with their thoughts A good example is the trump voting Check mate lil bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 02:59 AM
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Any sources to support that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 02:24 AM
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Because women lie about their dating strategy Because it's a horrible feeling not being able to be with someone you're attracted to Etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:08 AM
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I don't get the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:56 AM

Reported OP
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:06 AM
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Picking damaged women. Women who are damaged respond to treating them badly, ignoring them etc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:29 AM
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Skill issue
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:24 AM
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How old are you? If you're young and dealing with 21 year old women for example then generally a push/pull don't care can be successful but older women would see right through that. Maybe you're just going for women who aren't mature /receptive of love /consistent warmth
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 12:41 AM

Yea agreed they should do studies on this i think it's some biological or something different in the female brain
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 08:05 PM
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Because the "same standard" can't be applied to both men and women because men and women are different.. /thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 11:30 PM
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Nah disagree completely You're so limited with sex workers Fingering Kissing Etc. Spanking etc...I mean yes you can pay for that extra experience but it still lacks the genuine spontaneously of a casual sex partner
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:32 AM
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Nope it's biology
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:17 PM
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I'm too ugly to get the girl I really wnt
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:17 PM

Lmao no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:05 PM
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I have a gf I value and respect her but I would also cheat at the chance
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:05 PM
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We are all animals
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:05 PM
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No. You're not thinking outside the square by the time that happens there will be ai girlfriends / ai virtual reality sex etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:03 AM
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Yuck
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:21 AM
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Dating events are dating apps but in real life Extremely picky women only give their numbers / socials to the few chads and they get it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 01:26 AM
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String brag
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:53 PM
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I provided the source you didn't read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:32 AM
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You’re confusing repartnering with moving on. Men remarrying more or being “open to dating” sooner does not prove they emotionally recover faster. It proves they’re more likely to re-enter the dating market. Those are not the same thing. Remarriage rates are heavily influenced by: Older dating pool imbalances (more single older women than men) Men being more likely to actively pursue remarriage Men statistically benefiting more from remarriage (health, income, domestic support) That’s structural…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:20 AM
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But who was context?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:15 AM
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So you dated chads 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:14 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:56 AM
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Sounds like blue pill delusional thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:49 AM
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That's not true a beautiful women who is awesome I know divorced her husband and has a new boyfriend 2 days later the husband was a good man
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:48 AM
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Because it makes relationships surface level Would anyone try at their job if you could easily get a job 1 day later ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:47 AM
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They don't. Maybe the chads you date do
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:43 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:30 AM

Dear diary
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:31 AM

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 11:50 AM

Sadly the results speak for themselves Ted Bundy vs virgin incel Who gets more women? Case closed. Check mate darling.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 11:49 AM

Those studies are outdated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 11:37 AM

No, there is profound studies about the halo affect being good looking is massive and people will perceive your behaviours in different lights pending on how you look. Terrible take
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 11:34 AM
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Disagree woken won't keep seeing a chad if he can't use his penis well
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:58 AM

How's that possible ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:16 AM

Reported for sexism
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:13 AM

Reported
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:13 AM

If that's what you got from my comment you lack the intellectual abilities to comprehend the analogy I made
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:10 AM

Sounds horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:09 AM

That's like saying lions want to eat meat but the urge to catch prey isn't biological.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 09:54 AM

? Wanting sex with them leads to chasing them...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 09:52 AM

What's the alternative? Be a monk It's literally a men's biological urge to chase women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 09:43 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:34 AM
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I am ugly so it's so hard to her a gf
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:20 AM
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She doesn't know but it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:54 PM
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That's ok It sucks I wish I was tall and handsome and date the girls I truly desire
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:36 AM
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Like saying I love you doing Cute things you'd naturally do to your gf like buying a gift flowers etc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:19 AM
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It's real I'm in a relationship long term in this scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:16 AM
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I've settled for my gf because I am red pill + ugly short and neurodivergent So had to just take what I could get Signs 1. She constantly feels insecure because I don't truly love her so I often sometimes forget to do loving things wit her 2..she's rhe one initiating future plans bringing up marriage etc I have to take Viagra/ cialis every time we have sex because I don't find her that attractive I don't really care about her meeting my family friends etc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:15 AM
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Agree it's s good thing though In the future rhe women will be picking up tbr guy and taking him out etc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 10:19 AM
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It's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 08:22 AM
0

? How is what I'm saying survivorship bias..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 08:06 AM
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Lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 07:53 AM
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Just because someone is in a relationship doesn't mean much Most men who are short ugly etc constantly get rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 07:50 AM

Reported posts about looks are not allowed
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 08:35 AM
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It'd over
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 11:56 PM
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Yep so true Most women I meet are not emotionally intelligent at all bt expect the guy to just validate all their emotions and respond in a therapist way Complete Bs
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:44 AM
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How is this allowed? Reported Looks are not allowed to be discussed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 01:14 AM
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Lol at thinking that's a credible source 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 09:17 PM
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Source ??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 09:00 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:53 PM
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Misogynistic men are more sexually active than most men Ramiro-Sánchez, Tamara; Ramiro, María Teresa; Bermúdez, María Paz; Buela-Casal, Gualberto (2018). "Sexism and sexual risk behavior in adolescents: Gender differences". International Journal of Clinical and Health Psychology. 18 (3): 245–253. Casey EA, Masters NT, Beadnell B, Wells EA, Morrison DM, Hoppe MJ. A Latent Class Analysis of Heterosexual Young Men's Masculinities. Arch Sex Behav. 2016 Jul;45(5):1039-50. doi: 10.1007/s10508-015-0616…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:39 PM
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So essentially pick up hobbies not because youre interested In it but to attract women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 06:12 AM
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It's true my 5 ft 5 balding friend is super social he Is involved with chess clubs, e sports gaming and painting He is well known and gets heaps of women That's truly the trick
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 06:10 AM
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Studies literally show that men who are more misogynistic have more success with women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 12:05 AM

Who hurt you op?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 12:53 PM

How come women didn't love me when I'm ugly but now l9ve me when I go gym ans make money Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:56 PM

Those studies are flawed lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:55 PM

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:54 PM

Yes but how come one experience love if they don't have the looks height etx offerings to get to that stage in the first place ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:40 PM

Nope applies to real life as well
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:39 PM

Pretty much unless you have something seriously good to offer
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:27 PM

Reported
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:26 PM

They don't for 80% of them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:26 PM
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Yea agree it's crazy I know so many decent men who get 0 women Then you go on the news ans these all these stories about women being abused murdered killed by their husbands And some gangsta with 3 wives just murdered someone erc Make it make sense!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:01 AM
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Juice ain't worth the squeeze
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 06:03 AM
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Yea it's crazy data literally shows male virgin stats are increasing each year and projected to be 30-40% in 5 years time but women's remain very low And people think the 80/20 rule is not true lmao blue pillers man 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:27 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 10:15 AM
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No gf
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 10:08 AM
4

Sounds like a you problem
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:54 AM
0

Better than beingpmely
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:53 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:32 AM
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I do this all the time I'm ugly and short so have no choice it sucks Feels better than being lonely for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:14 AM
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Sadly I've never met a women or female friend who loved or cared about Me for me Like you see in movies
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 07:52 AM
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Competent disagree most women are having sex regularly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 12:29 PM
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Studies also show that only fans subscriptions have sky-rocketed since early 2000s And so has buying twice steamers farts So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:35 AM
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Trust me as a man most men are desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:05 PM
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I think it's just simply how it's dealt with Like a man opening up about things vs whinging/being the victim etc is a turn off And that goes for women as well
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 07:09 PM
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Agree and said people have the loudest voice on social media I'm red pill myself but not all women are like this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:03 PM
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If sex and testerone was 0 Society would be 0 /thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:38 PM
2

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 06:39 AM
5

Just because there's no "studies" doesn't mean something isn't true because there's no "evidence"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 09:03 PM

True
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 10:28 AM
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Hard to answer some men reach a peak early some later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 11:13 AM
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Strong sample size
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 03:24 AM
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Must be a immature thing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:55 AM
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Lmao what? I have never seen that ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:43 AM

Completely agree In my experience women use emotional intelligence as a way to describe men who will validate and agree with her feelings even when she is completely wrong. Or when a man doesn't ben his boundaries when she's upset or give in to her emotions = "bad emotional intelligence"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 05:14 AM
1

Holy cow
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:10 AM
-3

They do though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 11:37 AM

I wish women would know that if we could be tall and good looking and your type we would. But unfortunately our genetics have cooked us
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:44 AM
1

Pretty spot on imo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 08:51 PM
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Cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 08:48 PM
-4

Reported
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:05 PM
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Lol obvious troll
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:35 AM
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You think if brothels were legal that there would be a brothel where women can go to and get banged by hot guys ?? Bahhahahhahahah Troll confirmed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:23 AM
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Why can't you answer any of my questions then? You're projecting, troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:25 AM

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 10:42 AM
10

Yea its crazy Unfortunately the fundamentals that women find attractive height, face, frame, bone structure etc can not be easily changed
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:27 AM
84

I see overweight women with thin men all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 04:57 AM
-1

No. Studies literally show women get off emotionally more than men Why don't brothels exist for women? Why is 50 shades of grey so popular?. Just lmao at OP denying basic biology I think OP is trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 09:57 PM
-2

Maybe they're spinning plates and not in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 04:37 AM
42

I'm so tired of these posts Just turn off your biology Or become a chad. Lol I feel sorry for men these are literally the only chances in 2025.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 04:36 AM
2

This is why men turn to the red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 10:16 PM

Just cut off your biology bro
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 12:53 AM
8

It's true
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:07 AM
15

Thanks bro gonna work on my evil dark triad game in the hope of getting laid more
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 07:01 AM
6

Tall and handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 04:48 AM
2

Op has had more relationships and sex statistically than the average guy but says he is "average"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 01:05 AM
16

This
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 01:04 AM
1

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 10:18 AM

It's hard to get erection to obese women for me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:16 AM

Yes 100% agree I am in this position and it absolutely blows. I was born with horror genetics short, balding, receded jawline, genetic dark circles and pale skin giving me a sick looking appearance.. Through sheer hard work I have made myself more attractive and can date overweight women, objectively ugly women, deformed women, midgets/dwarfs But I cannot do better , I would legit kill for a 6/10. It is 100% true that physical leagues exist regardless of personality
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:03 AM
2

I thought I remembered this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 10:13 PM
0

That's fine if you believe that go sleep with 100 men and be sure to tell this to potential long term partners and see how they react.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 10:11 PM
3

Tldr It's better than being a lonely kissles incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 10:40 AM
3

My comment was sarcasm
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 09:36 PM
14

100% agree I know ladies who have banged 500+ guys and they are now married all long term
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 10:12 AM
1

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 05:12 AM
-4

Because the person doesn't know what they're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:30 AM
15

Most men deep down just want to bang a lot of beautiful women and would if they had the choice
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:17 AM
-2

Google it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:15 AM
14

Red Pill doesn't teach men to treat women badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 12:42 AM
22

I'm red pill But this ain't it. You shouldn't treat your partner worse off because you dotn see them as equal Lol, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 12:22 AM

Cool story bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 10:16 AM
8

But that's the point why does he need to put so much effort in?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:45 AM
11

Agree op It's like how does drugs that release dopamine any more worse than exercise that releases dopamine Absolutely ground breaking stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 05:39 AM
1

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:08 AM
6

Great post
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:08 AM
25

Imagine you had a friend at work who got promoted over you even though you work 100x harder how would you feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:07 AM
5

Just become a monk bro
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:02 AM
2

Yes it's turned into a war against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:59 AM
1

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:43 AM
0

Short men like tall men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:36 AM
1

Muscles, fat, fit are all different.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:24 AM
1

I don't think you have the intellectual ability to understand what I said. Women will prefer a man with muscles over a man who doesn't have muscles (as per the studies) But in terms of what makes a man attractive to women, muscles is not a top priority. I hope this makes sense to you. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:22 AM
-1

Sample size.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:19 AM
0

That's common sense not red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:16 AM
6

Ah that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:10 AM
0

?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:07 AM
1

Meh side by side of course women will like men with muscles vs not but there's a tonne of other things that are much more important
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:06 AM
4

Just become a millionaire bro
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:57 AM
2

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:56 AM
13

I'll take the data that show women prefer taller man over your one personal subjective opinion. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:56 AM
3

You missed the point The point is what makes a man attractive can't be changed significantly like women can.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:51 AM
1

Most women don't care about muscles 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:50 AM
-3

But the solutions you give aren't realistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:25 AM
-4

What do you mean? Women wear make up, can get boob jobs , just not be fat etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:24 AM
8

Source Walmart.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:19 PM
1

Very true Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:17 AM
2

Why do you think marriage means anything? Furthermore that data is not based on post social media error so it's not relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:29 PM

You're 15 Get away from here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 12:44 PM
3

Have you seen the grandma and pig lady tinder experiment ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 10:12 PM
3

So you think being emphatic will get you more women than Looks money status Bahhahah
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:52 AM
8

Ignorance is bliss ☺
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 04:39 AM
6

What's that got to do with attraction? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 04:38 AM
13

You're very lucky you See growing up you don't need to worry about alpha beta , beta bux and all that you naturally would date and find men Unfortunately a large portion of men are born undesirable so turn to things like this to try and make sense of society women and rejection I hope you get reincarnated as a 5'5 balding ugly guy with a recessed jaw and you'll be posting on those subs you think are "crazy"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 03:27 AM
7

Maybe if they had girls interested in them they wouldn't turn to red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 03:25 AM
1

Yea true they just need to shower more and use soap tactical soap
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 01:23 AM
2

Agree I'm 5'5 ugly and bald but have had so many hook ups and I'm a ladies man what are people talking about alpha and beta!?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:23 PM
1

My experience too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 09:37 AM
-4

Because as a man there's something unsettling about knowing your women got man handled and pounded by another man Women can't do this. /thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 07:12 AM
-6

Lmao at using data from 10 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 12:51 AM
11

Strong lack of understanding attraction just because a couple is married does not mean the female finds the man attractive Reported for offensive title as well
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 12:50 AM
11

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:14 AM
19

Yes but they must first have either looks/money/status.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:07 AM
20

What? Because women lie and say they like "different types of men" in response to men saying they are short etc
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:48 AM
35

I agree I'm so tired if hearing women comment here saying 80/20 rule doesn't exist because women like all types of different men / women have different type Yes this is true but they must meet the minimum looks/status/height/money etc status I.e. a celebrity nerd A tall guy with a beard A short handsome guy with a clean shaven face A dad bod guy who makes 250k a year Yes women have "different types" but only AFTER the minimum attraction is met
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:01 AM
2

Ted Bundy had more hot gfs than the average incel /thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:54 AM
2

Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:13 AM
3

Yes but it's hard for.me to get erection to hideous overweight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:52 PM
4

I workout daily have muscle , abs about 11-12% body fat stronger, better physique V02 Max than 90% of men. I earn over $100k a year I dress well, groom well, skin care haircuts etc cologne Shower I have hobbies sports, pickleball wtc I have friends and get invited out to work parties etc Yet 0 luck with women / only success with obese women or legit very ugly women Now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 10:12 PM
5

That's good it worked for you I am an ugly man who does all those things but don't have success now what? I find people like you so ignorant Just because you've made changes and had success doesn't mean it will work for every guy How can you not see this?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 10:04 PM
2

I really want to know is op a man or women? I frequently see these posts and they are just so out of touch with reality it's really hard to know how to even respond Long story short no , not every man can realistically be top 10-20% without some extreme measures E.g bone length surgery, height surgery, intensive Years of psychology and medication, plastic surgery etc
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 09:49 PM

😂 troll post
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 09:31 PM
1

She doesn't have to settle for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:25 AM
1

? I can't help.who I feel attracted to I'd be so happy with a 6/10 women who wasn't fat that's it. But I can't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:13 PM
0

Completely agree
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 09:57 PM
1

She's fat and a 4/10
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 08:47 PM
1

Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 08:47 PM
0

I have no choice
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 12:52 PM
2

I workout daily I'm ugly and short.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 12:52 PM
-4

How is it my fault I'm ugly and short ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:56 AM
-1

Oh well. It's not my fault women never swipe right on me and it's so hard to get dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:51 AM
-5

No I dnt dating is too hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:11 AM
1

Single and lonely , no
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 10:20 AM
3

Did you not read the part of no other option
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 09:32 AM
1

I'm ugly short and no other options despite self improvement
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 09:28 AM
-9

Yes My gf has gained weight and looks older I constantly flirt with the young girls at work I want one so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 09:17 AM
1

The funny part is you can work super hard for a women Gym daily, self improvement, read books, showers, work on career, go to therapy, improve personality, improve social skills, and do much more And even after all that women may still not like So then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 02:00 AM
4

Yes this is commen sense and essentially a black pill but we can't talk about it on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:44 AM
38

Average women think they are 10/10s and deserve chads because a male model slept with her a few times off tinder. Thus inflation her own value in the dating market
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:25 AM
42

They're not digging their own grave. Women are happy and most women I meet don't seem to even like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:20 AM
1

If you can't do a 5 second of Google search then that's onyou
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:39 AM
2

Google it surper easy Studied show women only swipe on small portion of men etc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:06 AM
8

Theres several
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:29 AM
18

Not according to studies
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:18 AM

But women can be ugly and mean still get sex What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:05 AM
7

Any sources to confirm any of these claims?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:00 AM
0

So at 12 years old did you know women like nice jawline?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:26 AM
2

Really? But all male movie stars are not conventially attractive but portrayed as charming in movies
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:25 AM
0

Yer so tv shows / media magazines women read aren't always the same as men, darling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:18 AM
6

Maybe it depends on the age Growing up I didn't have tik tok, social media etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:15 AM
10

No growing up I was told by teachers, parents, media that women love confidence, kindness and to treat them like a princess Not that women love men who have big genitals, height, great jawline etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:11 AM
6

I don't remember in school / early age that women want a nice jawline. / height etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:08 AM
6

Men aren't told this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:05 AM
16

So why not tell men to be attractive before worrying about being kind?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:50 PM
36

Disagree completely It all comes down to meeting the minimum looks threshold before behaviour and non superficial things really matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 09:54 PM

ROi isn't worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:34 AM
16

Relationship =/= situationship
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:16 AM
11

Its true my 5ft5 ugly balding poor friend changed his attitude from bitter to positive now he has a gf and 4 fwhs it's true bro great post
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 10:00 PM
3

Approaching 100s of girls for a small ROI is not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 06:05 AM
6

It's true my balding ugly friend practiced for 6 months now he slays baddies thanks bro
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 03:30 AM
41

Because red pill is more about women / male dating dynamics You want red pill to fix depression as well,? Maybe it can also fix the economy and solve the wars
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 03:26 AM
8

No man does that or would do that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 03:24 AM
3

Have you tried showering.?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:07 AM
6

Then what am I supposed to do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:56 PM
12

This hasn't worked in my experience The average looks and height level at clubs and bars are way above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:49 PM
1

I can't get erection
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 08:40 AM
0

Completely false
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 05:07 AM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 05:02 AM
19

Women like kind men but they must meet the attraction threshold
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:54 AM
3

Give this man an award great post
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:03 PM
-2

No sources That men are portrayed loyal etc more than evil in media / movies That men monkey branch Etc . Can you provide ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 09:56 AM
1

Source ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 09:49 AM

Yes most men go through the cycle Get a gf after years of being lonely She Cheats or breaks up and new bf 1 day late How can someone act this way? One moment she was my best friend next Monent it's like I don't exist But the movies and media and everything I've read and watched told me women are these innocent creatures how is this possible?? Enter the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 08:48 AM
12

It's over
/r/BlackPillScience24/08/25 02:44 AM
15

I think truly attractive naturally attractive people generally have better personalities in my opinion Women & men who make themselves attractive but grew up ugly / insecure / low self-esteem These people end up the narcissistic ones / bad personalities imo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:02 AM
-1

It does calm down
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:01 AM
23

Preferences can be both valid and shallow It's not mutually exclusive What a strange post.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 08:09 AM
4

Any sources on this? Besides the one saying men more likely to leave if their partner gets sick
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 02:48 AM
1

I mean during sex
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 02:08 AM
3

I can't get erection to obese women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 01:45 AM
4

Disagree sleeping with and attractive women is one of the most pleasurable experiences a man can e experience studies literally show this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 03:43 AM
20

Sure.. I was ugly and short red a lot about red pill Focussed hard as I could to improve my looks Get jacked get a car Swiped and swiped on tinder. Finally got few dates Red Pill taught me to lead, act masculine Eventually able to sleep with a girl who was quite fat and not attractive (but beggers can't be choosers) And became friends with benefits before I got bored The end Was the juice worth the squeeze? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 03:13 AM
2

Why are you asking this? If you're 1% or 10% why?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 11:45 PM

Reported
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:44 PM
2

Why can't people understand that there's outliers to generalisations?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 11:17 AM
3

This. Upvoted
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 11:16 AM
10

Yea but then once you fix that issue they nag about something else
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 11:15 AM

Yikes Now I can see why you have this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 11:14 AM

All of them? Sounds like you have a filtering problem Do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:53 AM
2

Have you tried applying yourself?,
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 07:10 AM
4

It's very true man You just got to apply yourself My 5'5 ugly friend has applied himself Now has a harem of women after him It's really that simple Great post OP fully agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 07:09 AM
4

Luckily I don't reveal this to people in real life :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:12 AM
2

Yea, I've had dark thoughts in the last but I always think might as well stick around could win the lottery one day
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:36 AM
5

I don't really see how this comment provides any knowledge ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:25 AM
5

Just keep trying and hope one day I get lucky but in the meantime date girls I'm not really attracted to so I dotn get too lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:25 AM
8

How do I know? Rejection. How do you know you don't have the skills for a job ? You get rejected. How do you know I have a doom & gloom attitude I've been described as kind and positive in real life. Do you know me personally? Based on reddit comments that I keep to myself and don't share to others in real life. Okay then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:20 AM
9

I can't physically get erection to ugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:44 AM
21

Looks & height I don't know why we can't discuss these things on this sub But unfortunately I don't meet the threshold for the women I desire And before you ask no I don't want a super model My standards are fair A women who is healthy (not overweight) educated, had good morals / good person that's literally it But finding that is incredibly difficult for me because women like that have their pick of guys and I fall short Inb4 just be more confident bro Inb4 but I know a guy who is 5"4 balding a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:42 AM
0

50-60 dates and couldn't find one long term partner That's a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:12 PM
1

The difference is men will not treat the Beta women badly but the women will treat the beta husband badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:10 PM

When you're in love the wall doesn't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:07 PM
2

The problem with your post is that "fat women" won't settle for average guys but a lot of average guys I see actually ok with fat women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:39 AM

Yea agree a lot of women I know irl literally can not go a month being single It really is true women are never "single" Inb4 women respond and say I've been single for years!!! But BRB random hook ups BRB talking stage with multiple guys BRB have feelings for chad at work BRB situationships It's crazy majority of women would legit have a mental breakdown if they lived the life of the average man BRB lucky to get eye contact from a women once a month
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 09:38 AM

Outliers Don't disprove the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 05:21 AM

There’s legit clinical evidence that people deprived of sex or physical intimacy have shorter telomeres, higher inflammation, and increased all-cause mortality. Sexual neglect isn’t just sad, it’s medically dangerous. You can look it up loneliness and sexual deprivation are actually risk factors for death. Not even exaggerating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:52 AM

Disagree babies literally die from touch deprivation and studies show touch deprivation is huge on the human psyche also sex is one of the most high rated human experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:50 AM
1

She's now in the newspaper. For being the famous criminal gf Use your mind .
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 03:16 AM
9

Most girls I know can easily get dates/ sex with good looking men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:33 PM
12

Because they can be. They are exposed through tinder, social media, real life to 1000s and 1000s of men So they all gravitate to the most attractive tall etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:59 PM
2

The criminal Gives her the tingles So the criminal is giving her status, tingles, feelings So that is conditional on being a criminal Check mate, son. Delete the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 08:39 AM
18

I literally don't know any guy who thinks all hot women have shit personalities
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 04:39 AM

But I could believe I'm a 10 but only attract ugly women (on my true level) so then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:59 AM

Disagree I think life slaps you in the face after a while and you come to realise where your league sits Sure there are outliers like delusional old men who think hot young girl are attracted to them But in life you eventually end up where you belong
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:15 AM
0

You could have all the friends in the world but still feel like shit coz no one wants to touch where you wee from
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:07 AM

You contradicted yourself in the first two sentences.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 07:46 AM

most men wish their gf / wife was hotter and if they could get a women like they watch in porn they would 100% every man deep down would love a gf with big botoy / tits etc or their ideal body shape but they just have to settle and then jack off to porn / insta hoes without telling their gf. most men actually don't like hanging out with their gf that much most men deep down find it boring/ annoying Find women too emotional / irrational most men think women are stupid / emotional/ bad drivers etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 07:01 AM
3

But but you just got to watch my YouTube video and buy my course and I'll tell you the secrets to getting girls !!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:00 AM
3

Disagree For some no amount of self improvement will make you attractive to the women you desire
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 11:58 PM

Never said it was
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 01:24 AM
1

Why can't you answer a simple question? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 10:06 AM
1

Do you think men and women are the same biologically?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 10:03 AM
0

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 09:59 AM
0

Ok then if you're so smart answer me this Why are there brothels for men but not women? Check mate, young one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 06:41 AM
0

How can sex be the same physically and emotionally for men and women when men and women are biologically different. Need to think deeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 06:38 AM
1

Do you think men and women have the same biology? They don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 06:38 AM
-6

No because sex for women is different for men. Whatever helps you sleep at night 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 06:10 AM
-4

But men can not be "ran through" 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 05:59 AM
6

Are women also insecure for not wanting men who are short ugly poor etc
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 03:45 AM
8

Insecure for not wanting a girl that's been ran through Okay 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 03:44 AM
11

Fair enough I've seen this play out countless of times in real life. So have all my friends and every I know + seen it reported thousands and thousands of times online + online dating studies support this notion
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 12:26 AM
3

Futher studies say that a large portion of Women between 25-45 will be single and childless
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 11:54 PM
12

What? How can you possibly think this?? Most men will hook up with girls less attractive than them for easy sex Women will try very hard to get the man to stay " so what are we? " . Man doesn't commit Women left jaded Extremely common now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 11:52 PM
4

That burn 🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 04:29 AM
2

Women ageing isn't a myth Women look better when younger. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 04:21 AM

Youre lucky op You're one of the lucky ones . You don't have to think about life as a game. Probably just gone through life making friends, having relationships meeting people, jobs etc I envy people like you For us ugly, neurodivergent etc we get rejected, shunned, shamed so we turn to online, trying to workout how we can Improooooov how we can level up, how can we compete just to be on the same field you are on without even trying. You'll never understand the feeling. It's brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:41 AM

Yes 100% it's so lollzy seeing men way WoooMenn DOnnT Like sex!! Sure women have a harder time orgasm during casual sex etc But women also love attention validation etc so love getting banged by Chad's Validation > orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:01 AM
2

Studies say otherwise women don't orgasm in one night stands etc
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:58 AM
0

Not true latest studies reports average body count is 10+ for men and women now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:58 AM
2

Reported
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:53 AM
3

Few like sex but their emotional craving for validation exceeds the feeling for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 01:51 AM
4

Not in 2025
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:10 AM
14

Yep I've seen this as well And women would let themselves do the most dirtiest things with these men as well Same women then complain saying men don't commit, dating sucks and men just want sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:09 AM
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Said women will then complain saying how men won't "commit" and "dating sucks" because chad standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:59 PM
14

Yes it's brutal I've seen similar things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:58 PM
4

Studies > your personal experience
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:58 PM
12

It does because they then use that same standard going forward ."dating sucks" "Why don't men commit these days" Etc etc Reason. = chad standards. /thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:24 PM
60

Yikes Mega Yikes. I hope you never get the experience of befriending a really attractive "chad" friend because it will absolutely destroy your entire viewpoint and what you said My experience is the complete opposite women love sleeping with and hooking up with attractive men Women will literally be happy going over to a guys house they met online If he is attractive enough and will have unprotected sex etc etc I'll pray for you OP You're in a bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:12 PM
5

Yes this!! 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 01:25 PM
1

Yes but we can't talk about the black pill on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:55 AM
0

These posts are just so exhausting All men just need to do X or be Y to to attact women There is no single formula that works for everyone You can be composed interesting have hobbies and still fail because of other reasons And when you say these things OP and others have 0 ability to emphasise with others and think it's IMPOSSIBLE that such men would still struggle. Just go.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 02:34 AM
1

Nah not at all this is 18 year old mentality tik tok stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 01:09 AM
11

Pedro Pascal A celebrity is average ? Lmao. What? Just delete these thread bro You got no idea, son.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 10:17 AM
-1

How about women? Hypergamous Have back up options Most likely to initiate divorces Period /emotions > all logic Less likely to take accountability Check mate, son.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 10:15 AM
1

Yea agree I think bonnie blue having a long term relationship with 1 person is a greater chance than a vrigin.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 05:19 AM
1

There is evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 03:51 AM
0

I'm older it makes perfect sense to me Especially if you knew the fundamental differences in biology and the female orgasm Sorry you don't possess this deep understanding
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 03:50 AM
-1

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 03:49 AM
-1

Reported n count discussion is not allowed to be it's own topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 03:48 AM
1

Hard agree
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 12:20 PM
3

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:53 PM
-8

So you do admit all women are sex workers in a way because they are exchanging sex for resources *love?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 01:11 PM
-14

Yes but it's an exchange
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 10:59 AM
-11

He has charm
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 10:36 AM
21

You've cracked the secret bro Where do sign up to your course?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:29 AM
57

It's true my friend who is short and bald just doesn't try and all of a sudden he has 100s of Tinder baddies matching with him
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:26 AM
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Yes true bro My 5'5 Janitor friend who is highly ambitious and hopes to have his cleaning business one day and has multiple passions in chess and apple picking he has women absolutely lining up for him bro You're really on to something bro It's that simple bro
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 02:18 AM

It's true There's a strong correlation (inverse) To a man's smv level and the weight of the women he dates
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 02:12 PM
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Posts like these are so cringe Written by someone who is probably 21 and watched their first red pill/self improvement video Sure that helps but is just one of many many components in dating / relationships It's not just one simple thing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 02:10 PM
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Red Pill says to date women who are emotionally available/regulated I don't think you know what red pill is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 09:23 AM

Yes very good point Totally agree Mens lives suck because society doesn't value them Men opening up more, talking feelings etc won't change that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 09:07 AM
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This isn't my experience Most red pill men/men tell each other to chose better and the wrong women can ruin your life I hear this frequently as well as the red flags to look out for.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 09:04 AM
1

Yes as soon as women have an ick they leave but in the old days you'd work through it and know not everyone is perfect Women ☕
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 04:19 AM
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100% agree I know soooo many men who don't like things their gf/wife does but just accept it because it's so hard to get another gf/wife They can't speak up or say anything
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 10:20 PM
6

Yea it's impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 07:29 AM
2

Yes and 1000s of young women will be singing it loud and screaming at her concerts and looking up to her Is this what feminism wanted?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 09:54 AM
1

What?? Are house parties not a thing anymore ? Im in my 30s To 20 year olds not do it anymore ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 09:30 PM
1

Hmm thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 07:23 AM
1

Great post
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 07:19 AM
1

Hey man I'm in the same boat Did it actually turn out? I try and mask my true self I don't think my real self will be liked.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 07:18 AM
2

This will never change unless testosterone stopped existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:54 AM
2

These chatgpt written posts are so funny lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 08:56 AM
-7

Yea this My ex cheated on me but I still have fond memories of her. This is proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 03:27 AM

So true
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 03:26 AM
-8

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 03:24 AM
-1

That doesn't mean you turn Into a sociopath?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:28 AM
1

Women initiate the majority of break ups
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:04 AM
4

Great post
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 01:25 AM
1

I completely disagree Family Media Movies Etc Teach men that being nice, being kind to women is the way to a women's heart. They don't teach you its all about looks, money, status They don't teach you women would rather share a top man They don't teach you women hate ugly short virgin men They don't teach you women are hypergamous Etx etc So yes society DOES lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 01:25 AM

Yes as a high value male
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 01:32 PM

3rd world countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 12:58 PM

Gaslighter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 11:32 AM

Trailer park?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 11:20 AM

Evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 10:31 AM

Really? So you can't understand some people have very bad genetics or neurosivergent , autism, health issues etc None of that makes sense to you? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:46 AM

Yea they watch andrew tate or myron gain and think that is all red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 08:05 AM

Yes it's weird it's like they don't realise some men are neuorodivergent, have bad unfixable genetics etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:27 AM

Yes, just do the : "Work" and any bro can be getting laid with baddies from tinder Ps..sign up to my course
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:26 AM
0

This just recently spoke to a women divorced after 10 year said she never found him attractive brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 06:44 AM
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There seems to be parallel universes happening where Only 20% of men get girls But then people say they see average guys get girls all the time. Source local wall mart or trailer park.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 06:44 AM
2

Ok and?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 01:45 PM

Really? It's realistic to get 100k height surgery Ok bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 01:56 AM

Hahaha Just get surgery bro!! Yea nonworries just spend 100k to get limb lengthening surgery it's that easy bro
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 01:55 AM
0

Because if you used critical thinking skills and deeper thinking you'd realise that the undertone of the post was about how women are mostly only attracted to Chad's. If women are married to beta providers and men they're not attracted to it doesn't oppose the underlying notion. Next time try and think deeply before posting, jumping to goalpost moving conclusions and superficial observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 11:05 PM
-2

Imagine thinking marriage = sex, love and attraction 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 10:58 PM
4

Yea it's so weird agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 03:56 AM
2

Yep very true in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:43 PM
3

I can't take you seriously after I read the restof your post
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:00 AM
1

Sorry bro but you and your friends are not attractive as you think
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:26 AM
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There’s a popular response to the idea that women mainly go for “Chads”: “Just go outside — you’ll see average guys with girlfriends everywhere.” But here’s the problem: Most people don’t actually understand what “average” means in this context. That guy you think is “just a regular dude” — He’s 5'10 Lean or athletic Has clear skin, decent style, some confidence In reality, that’s above average across most metrics women care about. He’s not a supermodel, no — but he’s not what the statistical av…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 02:33 AM
-1

It's true
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 02:33 AM
21

No worries I will take the scientific studies and data over your personal anecdotes Best of luck 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 12:24 AM
23

Have you got any sources about women's tastes are more varied than men? As data suggests the majoriy of women generally find similar traits attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:21 PM
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Lmao completely disagree I know so many dudes just drifting through life no real values identity but do fine with women Why? Tall Handsome Masculine High T
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:06 PM
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Seems like that's a you problem being too picky?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 12:46 AM
8

Whatever helps you sleep at night
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 12:35 AM
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A wise man once told me Watch how a woman acts not what she says These vidoes are kinda pointless A women can say all these things and then she is infront of a 6 ft 2 giga chad or high status rich guy and she acts l Iike a feminine teenage girl giggling and playing with her hair
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:11 PM
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This is very very surface level lol. Men who beat up their gf for cheating Or pull out a gun in a road rage incident have much deeper problems It's not as simple as saying "men need to let go" 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:06 PM

What's the point of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:26 AM
4

Yes sadly in my experience looks and height seem most important for women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:12 AM
2

Will I agree with you buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:32 PM
0

But one you get sex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:15 PM
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Sorry buddy hate to break it to you but hang out with a tall good looking man for a while and it will blow your mind They get hook ups so easily Older women Younger Married etc. Sorry bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:12 PM
1

No way
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 05:33 AM
-10

Very rare
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:11 AM
-10

Not in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:24 AM

Reported
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:16 AM

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:15 AM

You seem to lack critical thinking Women are emotional and that's how they communicate so your example is the dumbest shit I've ever read
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:14 AM

Ok champ white knight
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:14 AM

??? How????? Have you ever had a draining friendship? If anything you're AI
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:40 PM

No real life experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:03 PM
-10

Every man is a tool in a way for women it's biological
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:03 PM

Yea it's weird I swear when I'm out and about these days I see mostly women? Is it just me? When I go to my corporate job When I go to the shops When I go to a nice restaurant It's just women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 09:49 PM
1

What's this got to do with purple pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 09:55 PM
1

Nvm
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 11:52 AM
4

Yea agree if a women's been in a few relationships it's much better than if she's banging a different chad off tinder each night it's just a bit of fun
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 11:40 AM
2

I don't like a women with a high n count not because I'm jealous of her past because it's a reflection of her decision making, impulse control, judgement and ability to form deep connections.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 11:16 AM
4

Ahh the old People who don't like high n count have retrospective jealousy! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 11:07 AM
1

Plain healthy men are not over 6ft and have a good bone structure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 07:00 AM
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Yea sure here's a few Women tend to be attracted to men with Dark Triad traits: narcissism, manipulativeness, and psychopathy. Conclusion: Dark Triad traits increase male sexual attractiveness. Reference: Jonason et al., 2012, Personality and Individual Differences. Men with higher psychopathy scores are rated more attractive by women. Conclusion: Psychopathic traits correlate with perceived male attractiveness. Reference: Jonason et al., 2013, Evolutionary Psychology. On PornHub, women predomin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:34 AM
5

But all women are attracted to toxic attractive men as per studies So they are also women that men want to date
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:12 AM
3

Usually it's the same thing A combination of height A lean looking face (I.e visible jaw bone strucuture) Signs of good health And high T
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:07 AM
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How do you know that they're not? Studies literally show women are actually attracted to toxic men...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:06 AM
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Hate to break this to you That mentally stable nurse who has a respected job, good values a good person Banged by chad from tinder That mentally stable accountant who is shy and friendly and stable ? Hooked up with chad at the club I could go on and on I've seen this over and over again in real life Sorry to tell you this reality
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:28 AM
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So essentially the juice isn't worth the squeeze
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:43 PM
8

Dam spot on /thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:23 AM
5

Have you tried tactical soap?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:21 AM
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I do all these things and more and still struggle for scraps so do many other men Completely disagree There's no playbook or method to just get attraction and relationships it's not some simple 1 2 3 step process Unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:21 AM

This and you don't need internet strangers to confirm this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:34 PM
1

Disagree women in my experience don't really see attraction In real life the same as online Ive experienced this for example Ill meet a woman from a dating app and she'd say im much more attractive than my pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:11 PM
1

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:00 AM
5

I completely agree Maybe its a zoomer thing? They throw the term red flags around loosely .eg. she used an iPhone red flag! Red flags is a specific terms
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:36 AM
-1

Ah...another day another post about red pill beliefs when red pill doesn't claim these things
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:07 AM
1

Interesting read but sorry i can't continue the discussion due to the anecdotal evidence about you fucking plenty of women whilst being ugly, overweight etc..unless of course you provide evidence. It's strange how everyone on the internet seems to know or be someone who is this ugly/short/fat etc but "fucks plenty of women" (even though literally all studies point to this being rare) but can't seem to back it up with evidence, such as pictures Text messages etc Makes me think theyre larping or b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:21 AM
1

Do you have any data or verification to support the claim that the "majority of average men are getting girlfriends"? as it seems the data trends over the last 10 years are pointing to the opposite direction. I don't disagree with your hypothetical but I dont really see the point you're trying to make? I could easily say take two people one a nice guy but a male model the other edgy, confident and a good personaily but deformed who will get more relationships and sex? I'm willing to bet you are.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:39 AM
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Reported for sexism
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:22 AM
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You claim we're talking about "normal people" and not extremes, but then immediately build your argument around extreme personalities like socially unskilled, neurotic, "wet cardboard" types. That’s pure hypocrisy. The idea that being “nice” makes pussy dry up only applies when the guy is already not physically attractive. If a woman finds you unattractive to begin with, then yes being nice won't change anything. But guess what? Being confident, edgy, or "socially skilled" won't change that eith…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:11 AM
1

Do you reckon If brad Pitt was too "nice" it would make the pussy dry up? 😂 delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:07 PM
11

I often see posts in dating subs men being frustrated because women tell they are nice but didnt feel spark or click Translation Not tall enough Not good looking enough not Sexually appealing enough
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:21 AM
0

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:29 AM

Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:05 PM
8

Improve your health by having sex with as many women as you can Ok....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:04 PM
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