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These goobers are paying them money and on top of that they're freely donating 8 plus hours moderating their chat. How low can a guy sink? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:28 AM
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I feel sorry for the guys who actually buy into this shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:49 AM
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For women - How good they are with children. How empathetic they are. How they seem to get so much more out of random chit chat than the average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:51 PM
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Exactly. Why would a man shoot himself in the foot like that? It's borderline autistic and repulsive to a lot of women to state such a thing. You get to know a girl and through your actions and words she knows that you aren't looking for a serious relationship with her. That doesn't mean you're only after her for sex. I've had a few fwb relationships where we go out and do things and enjoy each others company and then have sex afterwards. You value her not only for sex but for her company as wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:37 PM
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The average women is sooooo far ahead in emotional intelligence to the average man that it's unfair lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:18 PM
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Couldn't get hard. Another time I was in a young lady without any protection and she says I wants 9 babies please give me a baby. That wasn't the dirty talk I wanted lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:12 PM
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No women has ever made me wear a condom regardless if they were on the pill or not. They love the thought that it might go off inside them I reckon lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:02 PM
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They do everything they can to be close to him. Looking at him for extended periods of time, making sure they get physically close to him, bump into him 'accidently', generally have that silly face when he meets their gaze, laughing flirtatiously and submissively when he says anything, among many more things. Anything chad does will be seen in a positive light by women. Women flirting 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:44 PM
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I've been in this situation before. Guy lightly insulted me and had a brief but entertaining conversation with my girl where she was laughing and been playful with him. Never been more insulted in all my life. Inside I was seething and tried to play it off cool but my demeanour said it all. My girl said 'you're too sensitive'. What a fucking L for me. Still got to take her home and fuck her though but it made me very wary about women. Girls act all innocent but they deep down know the score.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:32 PM
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The height pill is taken out of proportion by a lot of people, at least from my viewpoint. Sure height can make a different and taller guys generally have an easier time of it but average, short guys with emotionally intelligence slay way more than a tall guy who doesn't have that. The real pill is the emotional intelligence pill lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:26 PM
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Where I'm from women love an age gap of about 2-10 years. It's just the norm and no big deal is made out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:20 PM
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The men are actually doing her a good turn here and she doesn't realise it. The good men are seeing a 31 year old women and thinking 'she's gonna want to have a baby soon so i'm out' and they're not even bothering to pursue for a relationship. Good guys not wasting her time as she steps ever nearer to that position where she won't be able to have babies at all
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:13 PM
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This life is meant to be suffering, I'm sure most of us if we're honest can agree to that notion lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:41 PM
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A good dose of molly in the right setting will blow your mind. Amphetamine is great and all that but MDMA will turn you into a social, dancing god.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:39 PM
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Drugs are wonderful. MDMA and amphetamine are my favourites. I finally got the meaning on MDMA that girls just wanna have fun lol Best experience on MDMA was being at a club playing techno music. Totally feeling the music, living life to the full, no anxiety, having a nice horn on and getting so many girls attention by just being me. Finally seeing how girls are not so subtle when it comes to flirting but being so wrapped up in the music and dancing and vibing that I just generally wanted my own…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:37 PM
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It's a good skill to have I agree. Can't put up that act living with a women for 2plus years though. Eventually you're gonna get drained.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:28 PM
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I've been on sexing websites. There are literally women who are 50 year old fat fucks getting fucked by tall muscular men ripped out of their skin on a very regular basis. It's not an achievement lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:26 PM
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Agreed. How does one even go through high school without having kissed a girl? lol We'd go out to teenage discos and literally get our mates to ask girls 'do you wanna go with him' and more than half the times the answer was yes and you'd end up kissing 1-5 girls a night easily. The sluttier girls used to rack up hugggge numbers lol. It was all so easy. No doubt about it, if you weren't getting any kissing, fingering and sexing action in high school you were a stunted weirdo and were totally not…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:23 PM
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They're just like men. They think with their pussy more than their brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:14 PM
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No doubt about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:11 PM
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I wish my brain was as easily satisfied by such things lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:59 PM
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Hussies everywhere. No amount of feminism is going to change how they act lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:58 PM
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mmmmm make sure to have a good sniff
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:57 PM
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Women of all ages can get easy sex. Even fat, 60 year old wildebeest women with no social skills, 6 kids and no job can get easy sex. Noone wants to lock that shit down though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:56 PM
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No doubt about it. I, along with most men I reckon, have sank really low at times and had sex with women way below what I'd consider my level. I'd never consider getting in a relationship with these women. When it comes to getting in a relationship you gotta be on my level, it's not much to ask for but it's difficult to find lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:50 PM
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Women lust just as much as men OP. You ever been around a group of women? Half the shit they come out with is in relation to sex... they're thinking about it quite a lot of the time the same way men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:47 PM
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Just lol at having extra marital sex outside of your marriage when you've got kids. 'Mommy what's daddy doing tonight?'... 'oh he's just off fucking one of his sidepieces son'
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:40 PM
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They really don't. Most men want a relationship with a women who truly loves them for who they are. They want regular sex, for her to be non-nagging and a couple of kids. The same thing I imagine the average women wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:38 PM
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Jesus! Why are you doing this to yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:58 AM
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So confidence? Confidence isn't easy to cultivate. In fact IMO it's almost completely genetic. Sure you can try to fake it to you make it and put yourself out there and get a little bit more confident but you'll still be nowhere near the level of a naturally low inhibited, confident, emotionally intelligent guy that all women are drawn to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:48 AM
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lol preach brother
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:03 AM
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i.e. some guy over 6 ft who regularly lifts but isn't afraid to have a nice meal either. Something only a tiny percent of men could actually achieve lol Meh she likes what she likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:01 AM
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Both sexes are shallow and have preferences. No need to justify it. And what's wrong with being shallow anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:05 AM
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And men don't want to wife the village bike. It just screams desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:03 AM
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It's just a new name for things that have always been.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:56 AM
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Men do get shat on for having preferences but so do women. There's fightback from both sides. There's endless comments on here, the whole of reddit and in general life from people who fight back against womens preferences. I've come to the realisation that nearly anything can be rationalised. Doesn't make it right.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:48 AM
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Why do personality traits get a free pass anyway as if that somehow makes us all more virtuous? lol. Pretending to be more virtuous is more like it lol. We're a slimy bunch us humans. You know the reason why people on here will fight back at you for having that preference. The same reason short guys, unattractive guys etc fight back when they see womens preferences... it's simple, the don't fit the bill and haven't come to acceptance. I hear you though. You got to see through the shit tests, whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:38 AM
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A tale as old as time;) You make some good points OP. In general, men have always treasured a women with a low n count and women have always treasured the warrior type trope. You know the score just like we all do. I think it's both sides as usual being hypocritical. The guys who aren't tall and masculine enough are bitter at the girls who don't want them and the women who are sluts are bitter at men who don't want them for a relationship. I'd argue we're all fucked up though. Like monkeys pissi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:16 AM
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Why does personality get a free pass? As if personality is somehow above us all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:08 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 09:27 PM
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Men aren't looking for virgins but we sure a shell aren't looking for the village bike either, for a relationship. Men are looking for a women who has had a few sexual partners, say 10ish(number can increase/decrease depending on her age), a women who doesn't have kids and a women who isn't fat. It's simple really.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 09:15 PM
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Studies are a bunch of bullshit and cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 09:06 PM
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You forgot most of these below average guys are terribly socially. They always will be terrible socially no matter how hard they try. It's laughable of me to even think of them trying to be social because they're that bad at it. No niceties or good advice is ever going to get them them on par with the average social guy, never mind the socially gifted among us. They'll come across as try hard if they even attempt to and they'll soon simmer down once they realise no one is buying their shit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 09:04 PM
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Just imagine the kind of dude who would buy that shit. Imagine all the weirdo guys in school and you might get close. The guys who are literally kissless in their 20s and have never gotten attention from any girl. Like it's hard enough for the average guy out there with average social skills, attractivity and charisma. These guys, the low of the low, think they're going to turn into social gods by reading a damn book and by practising a few times lol. That's not how it works. You either have it …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:56 PM
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It gives them hope and it's mostly just a fantasy. If you have to learn how to be charismatic, emotionally intelligent and attractive then you're never going to get there. I think of the quiet guys in school who weren't attractive and who didn't get any girls. The thoughts of them coming across TRP and TRYING to implement what they say is laughable to me. That may be cruel but it is what it is. Like we all can't tell within seconds whether someone has it or not. This stuff can't be learnt. Sure …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:50 PM
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Like how people have always met each other. Through social circles. You go out with your mates (big red flag if you don't have any) and they basically set you up with a friend of a friend. The people having trouble with this, and the people back in the day who had trouble with this, are the ones who aren't social enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:34 PM
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Small towns are much easier. Their social circles tend to be larger. It much easier to go out to the local pub with your mates and everyone knows everyone since primary school. Then you meet friends of friends for potential hookups/dates. The vetting is a long process. Creeps and unsocial guys won't get a look in and there name will be badly tarred basically for how they've acted their whole lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:31 PM
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Has there really been a decline? In my country there have always been men who are simply bachelors who get little to no attention from women. They aren't overly social, they do their work and keep themselves to themselves. They accept that that is life for them. What I see on here is a lot of men not accepting that they've drawn the same hand in life. They simply aren't attractive to most women. And there's nothing wrong with that. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:25 PM
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No doubt about it in real life more people are agreeable. Thank God. I'm not bloody autistic enough to spout ppd theories to anybody in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:27 PM
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Why assholes? That just reeks of bitterness. The guys getting women weren't assholes they were normal social-savvy, good looking guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:14 AM
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lol the way I see it it's usually no breakup at all. No attention from women from a young age. Virginity in tact. Kissless in their 20s. Basically guys that are fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:33 AM
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Look game ain't fooling no one. You can't game being an emotionally intelligent, confident, attractive dude. You may think you can but there are so many tell signs that give it away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:11 AM
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Well duh. Women love a power imbalance, in other news...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:07 AM
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Well said. On average I actually think it's the opposite. Men fear women a lot more than women fear men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:03 AM
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Most women see through the bullshit and aren't autists though. Some women just willingly and blindingly choose to be deceived.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:55 AM
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Science is always changing. Science is basically full of shit 99 percent of the time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:51 AM
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Fucking gross. I don't want to live in this world anymore where an overweight lady looking like a pig can earn 19k from sad, lonely men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:49 AM
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Low value women? I seriously don't get this. I'm assuming you're from the USA as I've often heard online dudes saying this. As if a women going to a bar, club or rave makes them low value. In my country it's just normal for most types of women to go to these places from the ages of 16 upwards. It's basically how we meet people lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:29 AM
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I've found the opposite to be true. Back when I was a teen everything was basically handed to me on a plate, social circle, cute and nice body without even trying etc. As you get older it becomes easier but a lot more complicated and more work i.e have a good job, good body from years in the gym, good diet, keeping up your social circle, keeping good health/looks, not going bald, keep up good mental health among many other things. These things aren't all that easy to achieve, especially all toge…
/r/seduction14/10/22 01:10 AM
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But disney and my mummy told me that all women want is a 'nice' guy.... they lied to me and that's the reason why I will never get any girls! It's like gezz did these guys pay no attention to who was getting all the girls when they were 14? It wasn't the 'nice' guys, it was the confident, athletic, emotionally intelligent, good looking guys. They seem to ignore that part of growing up though lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:31 PM
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Yup. OP go out and build your social circle. Social circle has and always will be the best way to meet women.
/r/seduction13/10/22 05:34 PM
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You can't be too driven because you're a virgin at 22. I suggest you go on Tinder and try to ride the first thing that lets you.
/r/seduction13/10/22 05:27 PM
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Emotional intelligence dude. Don't tell them they're hot. Show them they're hot by striping them off and giving them the white juice they so badly want. Afterwards if you GENUINELY mean it say something like I've never seen a body like that before.
/r/seduction13/10/22 05:23 PM
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By being FUN, emotionally intelligent and good looking. By being low in anxiety and by having a low neurosis level.
/r/seduction13/10/22 05:15 PM
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Because these women are playing the same game. They are trying to get a guy out of their league to commit when he only wants to pump them. They're the ones being disingenuous and putting on a mask as well. They choose to wilfully, both consciously and unconsciously, misread the signs a guy out of their league is putting out because they would rather get pumped and dumped by a 'better' guy than have to settle with someone on their own level. I'd argue that these women aren't getting played bro. T…
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:35 PM
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untz untz untz untz!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:04 AM
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15-20
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:53 AM
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I urge all guys to go out to a good small/medium size club/rave that plays techno and take some MDMA. It was like a cheat code for me to see how women truly act for fun. It's hard to explain but no amount of reading will get you there. To be free of all anxiety, to be at one with the music, to see women truly being attracted to me without me even trying a little bit was eye-opening. It all just made sense. Boring old regular nightclubs playing top 40 music with just drinking and guys posturing? …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:10 PM
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When I was about 15. I had just the right amount of cuteness with rampant teenage hormones. Good times.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:34 PM
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Not fat (just fucking gross, all you need to do is not eat too much you fat pig, I'm not asking for a 10 out of 10 gym body, just stop over eating al the pies) Not too promiscuous (10 pervious partners is fine, 30 plus is definitely red flag, I don't want the village cum dump) That's only two... I can't think of any more of the top of my head. Is that too much to ask for? lol And yes, I'm not fat nor am I overly promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:24 PM
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Making lots of money is out of the control for most men who simply aren't smart and don't have nor will ever have the ability to demand such high wages. Working on a six pack is extremely hard for men who are over the age of 18 and that's why you don't see it very often. I'm not saying they're impossible to get but they require serious training and serious dieting to sustain. Now should the average guy be slim/average/ slightly muscled? Sure of course. Be able to hold a conversation? A real poss…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 04:23 PM
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Keep living in denial then lol. If you wanna slut, slut but don't be surprised when a good man doesn't want to date you because of your slutty past.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:47 AM
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The prize is you can get a decent man on your level or a few points above who'll genuinely love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:46 AM
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What? Normal guys do care. Normal guys don't want to marry a slut/ the village bike. We feel sorry for the guy who does such a thing. It's not about value. It's just bloody disgusting. You can tell yourself otherwise but it'll never change that fact that no good man wants the village bike.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:33 AM
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Anyone who gives money to these retards are on the same level as the cucks who give money to girls on onlyfans/chaturbate. It's truly sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:29 PM
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Trying to be alpha is just lol. You either have or you don't. That's what makes the whole thing so funny and sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:27 PM
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The truth hurts. Most red pill guys I see on here are below average guys who are just bitter as fuck. Most of the stuff they say about women I think 'no shit I knew all that stuff when I 8 years of age, did you really need some retard conman to give you that insight?' There is some truth to what they say but 99 percent of these losers never in a million years be able to practice what is preached. They are the opposite of emotionally intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:23 PM
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The connection is chads sheer attraction. He treats them well by giving them his white juice lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:13 PM
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Well said. Ladies all you have to do is not be fat and not be a slut. Can you manage them two little things? If you can then the world is your oyster.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:37 PM
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Don't be silly lying to yourself. 10 is fine by me. 30 is well into slut territory and I wouldn't want to date a women who thinks so little of herself. No normal guy seriously wants to date the village bike.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:28 PM
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But they do care. No sane man wants to date the village bike. They never have and never will
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:25 PM
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lol too true
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:13 PM
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Well duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:58 AM
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Because that's a turn off for them. Women want you to be able to see the signs. It's their way of playing. Can you do the dance with them? Attraction is mostly done non-verbally for both men and women. Having them spell things out for you is like the ultimate panty dryer - 'ew he just doesn't get it'.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:55 AM
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Reddit is full of simps and so is real life. I like to call it mild simping. It's not overtly done but as you said in a group of friends a lot of men are slightly more interested in what girls have to say, no matter how boring the topic is. The women are given the benefit of the doubt, they're not called out as much. As you say when an argument happens a lot of these types of men will tend to agree with the women. Most men try that little bit harder with women whereas with their guy friends they…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:46 AM
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It's all BS and I'm glad you see it for what it is. Reddit is a place with such bullshit platitudes on a number of topics. It all comes down to attractiveness. Autistic people are the opposite of what most women want. Most women want a man who instinctively gets it. One who can read social clues/ a room by feeling and instinctively knowing. Autism is basically the opposite of that and it's a panty dryer for most women. Autism acceptance is the same as disability acceptance, fat acceptance etc. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 11:28 PM
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Dating/mating will remain the same way it always has been. Women choose men they find most attractive that they can get and men choose women they find most attractive that they can get. All this science says this and that and all these studies about the way modern dating is cope. ​ Simps just lol. They've always existed. They were pathetic back in the day and they are pathetic now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 11:15 PM
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As a man you need to go to a club/rave where you'll enjoy yourself without getting any attention from women. For me that's a techno club where drug taking is pretty open. I love dancing. Women love a guy having fun and one whose not in their own head. The clubs you're talking about I find utterly boring. Meat markets where very few men do well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:21 PM
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Yup. Creepy is being blind to non verbal signals. You can be ugly/normal looking and not be creepy but you got to be able to read the signs. Some people say women aren't image sensitive. I'd argue the opposite. They're so image/vibe sensitive that within milliseconds they can see whether a guy has what it takes to be able to subtle dance/play with them while reading all their subtle signals. Most men are blind to a certain extent and err on the side of caution. Alpha guys just get it and are abl…
/r/seduction09/10/22 07:56 PM
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But you see there is lots of logic only most men are blind to it. Women will make themselves available to the guys they're interested in. They'll get in their line of sight, bump into them, dance close to them etc. It's up to the guy to be able to read the signals. What is creepy is a guy who can't read these signals or even worse ignores them and goes hail mary hoping for the best. The creepy guy cannot read a room or womens signals IMO.
/r/seduction09/10/22 07:46 PM
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But you see what he was doing was creepy. It's creepy to try and hit on women who give no/negative signals, even in a bar. Most of this is done with non verbals. If a girl wants to chat to a guy in a bar she'll set the whole situation up for the guy to play ball. She'll stare over at guys she likes, she'll get her and her pals to get close physically, she'll even bump into you. Most guys seem to be blind to this. The guys who aren't slay.
/r/seduction09/10/22 07:42 PM
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No the alpha male would read the room and instinctively know which women are subtly dancing/playing/flirting with him. The alpha male isn't pushy to the girl, he just knows when's she's teasing and when to escalate. He is the opposite of the guy who hail marys and hopes for the best.
/r/seduction09/10/22 07:25 PM
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Preying on the weak/vulnerable to make an easy buck. That's all there is to it.
/r/seduction09/10/22 07:11 PM
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How was that a cold reply? She was just making small chat, the same way you were. She walked away because the situation changed i.e your focus was now on the bartender. She wasn't going to stand around the bar like a wally unless she was really into you. ​ By clicking yes to going on this meeting these 40 strangers were explicitly stating 'yes, I'm into this likeminded hobby same as y'all and I'm up for chatting to strangers tonight.' It sounds like you get it. Context is key. Not everyone wants…
/r/seduction09/10/22 06:48 PM
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Most women want a guy who just gets it. They want a guy who knows how to read a room. Inviting this guy from the pub into her room was her way of saying 'let's have sex'. No women wants to babysit a guy and have to make ALL the moves.
/r/seduction09/10/22 06:33 PM
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Don't say that OP. This might work if you're in a relationship with a girl but you brought this girl back from the pub. She'll more than likely be turned off that you're virgin, especially if you tell her. She's a women, she wants you to make the moves. She already made her moves by inviting you into her bed ffs lol.
/r/seduction09/10/22 06:31 PM
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Yes you missed an opportunity. If you're in her bed and you're watching netflix, 9 times out of 10 she wants to bang. In bed cuddle her during the movie, kiss and progress to doing handsy stuff until you have full blown sex. ​ Context matters. In this context it was as close to a layup as you're ever going to get. As a virgin man you're going to need balls to go to the next step. Get this lady in the exact same situation and make your move. But hurry up now because she's not going to keep lettin…
/r/seduction09/10/22 06:27 PM
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If you truly just wanna have sex with her don't ask her out on a date. Get into a situation like this again where you're both drinking. Do the usual playful talk. Go for the kiss/don't ask her. She's teasing the fuck out of you. Do you have the balls to just go for it.... that's what she's asking for and wants. ​ As long as you're ok with fucking up her relationship with her BF that is. She's out of line even talking to you like that tbh. Would hate being her BF.
/r/seduction09/10/22 06:21 PM
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Creepy is the opposite of good emotional intelligence. Basically a guy who doesn't know how to read a room or women's signals. A guy who in his blindness and desperation goes for the hail mary approach and more often than not fails.
/r/seduction09/10/22 05:50 PM
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This isn't a last 8 years thing. In the 70s and 80s there used to be big dances in my home country. Women would dance on one side and the men would dance on the other side mostly until a few of the more confident men would gather up the courage to ask the women to dance. The less attractive guys would ask eventually mostly to be turned down. The women would do the same 'yucky' faces to their girl friends as they do now when an unattractive man would ask them to dance. ​ This isn't a society thin…
/r/seduction09/10/22 05:48 PM
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Emotionally intelligent, confident, alpha males. They radiate confidence and are FUN to be around. People follow them NATURALLY. They are aware of their environment and they know it. They know how to read a room without trying, especially women's non-verbals. Their body language shows exactly how they're feeling and women pick up on it immediately. There is no trying with them it's just the way they are. It can't be faked and I don't care what anyone says. Women instinctively know when a man jus…
/r/seduction09/10/22 05:18 PM
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Women want a guy who just gets it. These science nutjobs are the opposite of that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:28 AM
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This endless sperging and finding science studies (lol) to justify preferences just shows you want kind of people they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:14 PM
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I've heard of Tate because of this and similar subs but I've never being inclined to watch any of that cringe nonsense. Never heard of that other guy. I'm being 100 percent honest with you. Believe it or not buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:59 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:53 PM
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I really haven't but whatever lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:44 PM
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That's been my experience as well. The ones who aren't slaying have a repellent personality. That's something no wants no one wants to say though because it can't be fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:41 PM
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They know what they're doing man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:33 PM
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Never watched any of that garbage ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:30 PM
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He doesn't give her fanny flutters. He repels women and to a large degree other guys. He just doesn't get it. Weak personality is not something that can be worked on. It's not social skills or any of that other BS. He literally can't attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:28 PM
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Short, confident, emotionally-intelligent cute guys can score lots of women. Height is a factor that is really overrated I agree. Maybe you're emotionally intelligent... them sort of guys are fewer in supply than just being tall and they sure as hell are more attractive to women than just being tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:25 PM
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No women don't like assholes. Women like confident men who can easily pick up on their subtle signals. These men look like assholes to weaker men because they are naturally dominant. These 'assholes' naturally scare weaker men and raise their anxiety levels and that's why they get called assholes by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 05:52 PM
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It's all to do with looks and body language. In a nightclub women will scout out men and have a coy chat/show positive body language with/to their mates and they'll literally run across the dancefloor with their friends to get close to you. They'll bump into you and dance and get real close to you if they're into you. I used to be so blind to this. Once you know you know though and it's becomes real obvious. Having said that I reckon there are still a lot of men who don't actually see how women …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 05:32 PM
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Women always do the choosing. Going for the Hail Mary approach rarely works for a man. You know the score.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 05:25 PM
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Well said. All these bloody studies are cancer. It doesn't take a genius to figure out why men have a harder time moving on. Men find it harder to get a looks match in the first place so finding another one who is suitable for dating is hard to come by. Sure if they're average or better they can fuck a lady whose beneath them looks wise but that's not going to make them feel whole lot better because their previous relationship was one with a better looking girl. It's not rocket science like how …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 05:04 PM
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Women can accept weakness in a man as long as the man knows how to actually fix the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:56 PM
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Most women don't want some man in therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:52 PM
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lol. Just look at that shit show of a thread. ANY women could make any point and these degenerate low-value males would back them up in the hope of one day getting to sniff her puss puss. It's like their best mating tactic is to always mirror what the women says. Simping in such a mild way that it's hard to call them out for it. Imagine being friends with such goobers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:04 PM
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I know when I'm wanted. The dancefloor is it for me when I'm listening to good music and under the influence of drugs. Be sceptical all you want lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:08 PM
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Have you seen how fast women move in order to secure a truly confident man who displays genuine confident, sexual traits? They are anything but slow or subtle about it. If you see it you see it. They can tell in an instant if you're receptive to this, Most guys (including me most of the times) aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:56 AM
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I agree with out especially on the second part. When I'm in my element on a dancefloor women do everything in their power to 'seduce' me because I radiate strong, confident sexual vibes. It's all in my energy and boy can they tell. It's like women basically have a cheat code for the vibes a man is putting off. They are ultra visual IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:49 AM
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I'm not sure I agree. I think women are very visual. In fact they are so visual they can spot a man with pure, genuine, sexual confidence in milliseconds. A guy who displays these traits are highly sought after. Women vibe to them and do everything in their power to get close to a guy like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:38 AM
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lol. IMO they are the more emotionally intelligent gender yet they 'fall' for this stuff. C'mon ladies give us some credit. If we can see through the BS then it should be beyond easy for y'all to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 10:50 AM
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Keep giving them that BBC dude. What kind of clubs you going to and what drugs you taking? I love the rave scene.
/r/seduction05/10/22 04:18 AM
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What do I need to edit? Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:27 AM
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There are levels to it lol. Some men get the ick completely. Others will still bang but never commit to a relationship with such a lady. Like if a friend was telling the lads he wanted a steady relationship with such a girl it would promote a lot of 'ick' faces from the lads.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:29 AM
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Repulsive is probably the right word yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:23 AM
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Women hate a man who is about effort. They love a man who just instinctively gets it i.e a man high in emotional intelligence. Trouble is there is so few men high in this trait that women actually settle for guys who don't get it. ​ Go dancing and truly enjoy yourself. Women will flock to you and give you all types of signals they want to be approached. If you don't get these signals and are oblivious to them, congratulations you in the 90 percent of men who simply don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:27 PM
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They're fucked. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:16 PM
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Women instinctively know how to socialise. A lot of men don't, at a level higher or equal to women. Women are ALWAYS giving off non verbal cues to men. Problem is most men can't see them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:10 PM
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That's the harsh truth. Most men have terrible emotional intelligence and there is nothing they can do about it. It's the most bitter pill one can swallow lol. It's just the way most men are. They can't read a room, subtle facial expressions and they don't know how to react to their environment appropriately. Their baseline anxiety/neuroticism is high. To use a crude term I honestly believe it's what separates alphas from betas. They simply perceive the world differently to most women. They can …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:59 PM
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I agree looks are VERY important. We all know it deep down. But what separates the men who regularly gets girls is emotional intelligence. These are the guys every girl wants deep down. Here's the thing. It can't be taught. It is VERY rare as well. It's so rare most normal guys are totally oblivious to it. It's how a guy does things instinctively. Like how he carries himself WITHOUT trying. It's in his thoughts. It's how he sees women and how they do their little dances/routine to get close to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:40 PM
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Look at their eyes and body language. Know how to read it. It doesn't matter what questions you ask and they don't get bored if they're into you. You don't need to be a jester or think of interesting things. If she's into you she'll play. Women love a man who can understand that play is mostly non verbal.
/r/seduction03/10/22 06:02 PM
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Women like a man who knows how to play appropriately. Most of this is done via body language. They love a man who just gets it.
/r/seduction03/10/22 02:43 PM
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There is no paradox. Women LOVE guys that just get it. That means showing an interest to their signals. Most guys don't know how to appropriately react to these signals or more often than not don't even see the signals.
/r/seduction03/10/22 02:11 PM
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lol well said. Reddit is a cesspool for betas.
/r/seduction03/10/22 01:57 PM
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Confidence is your baseline anxiety level being low. When you're confident you know how to walk properly and you know how to have fun. There are a lot of people faking confidence and lying to themselves but trust me girls see right through it. You don't have to think about your posture when you're confident and you don't overthink things. It all happens naturally. Women love confident men as they are VERY rare. I don't think true confidence can be taught. An alpha has true confidence, betas try …
/r/seduction03/10/22 01:55 PM
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She's already kissed you, it's game on. Wait until you're both drinking again and plant the lips on her. Find a way to get her back to yours and fuck her. No need for all this talking with her. If she's not into it you'll soon know. Don't ask her out.
/r/seduction03/10/22 12:51 PM
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You seriously don't believe them reddit lies? Not every women is going to call the police on you for simply showing an interest in them lol.
/r/seduction03/10/22 12:48 PM
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Dude this is a layup. If you're in bed with her you'll be going straight to cuddling. She already wants to do stuff. Now the ball is totally in your corner. You're young so the main thing for you is having the balls to make a move. If you don't make the move it's highly unlikely she will. You gotta get that kiss and it's all down to you to escalate it to full blown sex. If you don't make any moves in this situation you're probably going to repel her to be honest and you might not get to try agai…
/r/seduction03/10/22 12:44 PM
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I'd drop the dominant trait as well.
/r/seduction03/10/22 12:34 PM
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Drugs are the answer... seriously. A nice low dose of amphetamine will allow you to live in the moment.
/r/seduction03/10/22 12:28 PM
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Nootropics are for people who are afraid of real drugs. 99percent of them don't do shit. A few of them work for like one-five days at best. Just do real drugs if you want a nice buzz instead of wasting your money on these bogus supplements.
/r/seduction03/10/22 12:27 PM
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Yes. Approaching girls not giving you signals is a sign of poor emotional intelligence. Women wanting approached always give clear signals. Most men don't or can't read them though.
/r/seduction02/10/22 09:22 PM
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Have a good time. Girls will radiate towards you. Is she looking at you and smiling? Look back at her and let things evolve naturally. No girls looking at you, bumping into you or moving in your direction? Better luck next time. Don't try and fling yourself at women without her giving you approach signals. Good luck and have fun buddy.
/r/seduction02/10/22 09:15 PM
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There is no faking it buddy. Give me some MDMA and I'll dance with pretty girls admiring my moves all night. I'll see them see me dancing and them parking right beside me making sure their BF is on the other side so he doesn't get too jealous and so they can get closer to me lol. ​ I sort of agree with your non-reactive theory but not really. It's how you react to all their subtle gestures that matter. There's not much thinking in the whole thing to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:14 AM
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You can't that's the hard lesson in life. Well I've had these experiences but only on certain drugs lol. It's like I can just 'get it'. 'Ohh that's why women like him... he just doesn't say stuff and women laugh and fawn over him because he's *insert any amount of positive traits here*, it's how he carries himself and intuitively knows how to react to his environment. He's gives off the opposite of the 'ick' factor. He just gets women on their level'.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:22 PM
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He doesn't have to hit on women because he can see all the subtle signs than women are into him. The women naturally come to him because he's so good at reading the signs. Basically the opposite of an autistic person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:18 PM
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The truth. And it can't be taught... don't know why they call them social skills lol. It's how they view their entire world around them that make them attractive aka how their brain works. I've only been in this mode when I've taken certain drugs. Everything just made sense. All the little looks, how women react to the subtlest of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:12 PM
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Being truly social is effortless to proper socialite. If one isn't social naturally they simply don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:07 PM
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True social skills can't be faked. Women know what's up. And their not even skills, you're either born with them or take the right drugs and you'll find out lol. Being truly social means reacting to your environment in the way you're meant to. All that social status nonsense goes out the windows when you just 'get it'.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:04 PM
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aka the polar opposite of an autist personality-wise, admit it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:01 PM
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You're missing all the subtle shit that makes charismatic guys what they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:57 PM
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Men with bad social skills (I'll admit that's me included) are so far behind socially they don't even realise all the subtle shit charismatic guys are doing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:55 PM
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Well said. On the personality side of things women like a man who just gets it. Women are more clued in socially than men. Using certain drugs it's very easy for me to tell all the subtle tell tale signs of all of this. When I'm not on certain drugs I'm practically blind to a lot of this. Maybe I'm autistic lol. I don't think so though because it seems a lot of guys simply don't get it either. They're slow to subtle facial expressions and body movements and aren't 'quick' enough. The guys really…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:47 PM
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