Reasonable_Aspect989 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
67	Getting back into the game at 45...and married	Fundamentals	Reasonable_Aspect989	/r/seduction	04/01/26 07:43 AM
4	First date with an ENM woman. Not sure how I did.	Field Report	Reasonable_Aspect989	/r/seduction	07/01/26 06:49 AM

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1	First date with an ENM woman. Not sure how I did. That all makes sense. Thank you for giving me some perspective!	/r/seduction	07/01/26 05:05 PM
1	First date with an ENM woman. Not sure how I did. Other context: we did meet up late. We met at 8:30 and stayed at the bar until 10. And we both have jobs and families.	/r/seduction	07/01/26 06:56 AM
14	Men, how the hell do I know when to make a move while on a date with a woman? It takes some experience but, if you pay attention, you will get good at reading her signals. If she touches your arm or starts leaning in closer, you're doing great! It took me a long time to figure this stuff out, btw. Years ago, I was at a party with a girl I really liked. She was really flirting with me. At one point, she even put her head on my shoulder. Signals won't get much clearer than that! Yet, I was clueless. Not making a move remains one of my biggest regrets to this day.	/r/seduction	05/01/26 07:52 AM
3	How do I ask this question? Agree with this 100%. Seducing her is step 1. Telling someone you only want them for sex is definitely not the way to seduce someone. Make her laugh, make her feel comfortable and safe around you. Then, if you are successful, just be clear about setting boundaries. Don't give her false hope of a more intimate relationship. She will make the decision about whether to continue.	/r/seduction	05/01/26 07:36 AM
2	Getting back into the game at 45...and married That sounds amazing. Yes, I will consider that. Do you have kids though?	/r/seduction	05/01/26 03:42 AM
0	Getting back into the game at 45...and married I think you get my situation better than anyone else who has replied. My wife is very attractive, but she doesn't date, doesn't flirt, would never hook up with anyone without commitment. You're probably right, she would initiate a divorce if she found someone else. But, basically zero chance of that. And, if it were to happen, I just have to accept that it's something I have no control over.	/r/seduction	04/01/26 04:06 PM
3	Getting back into the game at 45...and married I have actually chatted with some pretty young women. You're right, they're ok with my situation, but they tend to flake. I do think getting really really fit could help me occasionally pull some of the younger ones. Working on that.	/r/seduction	04/01/26 10:02 AM
2	Getting back into the game at 45...and married Two issues with that. One is time. The other is that I'm married. If I'm going to social/networking events, I'm often going with my wife. Even if she's not there, the women there generally understand me to be a married man. Hard to work my situation into casual conversation. But not impossible. I will work on that.	/r/seduction	04/01/26 09:59 AM
1	Getting back into the game at 45...and married Maybe not, but nobody who ever accomplished anything bold started out by thinking it couldn't be done!	/r/seduction	04/01/26 09:50 AM
3	Getting back into the game at 45...and married I met my wife in college. Mutual friends. Apps can work. It has worked for me already.	/r/seduction	04/01/26 09:48 AM
12	Getting back into the game at 45...and married Good questions. Yes, staying together for the kids. That's my decision. If you asked my wife, she'd say we're getting divorced. She's been saying that for 5 years without doing anything to make it happen. So, apparently, whether or not we get divorced is 100% my decision. And I've chosen to stay in a sexless marriage. It really is good for our kids. Believe it or not, my wife and I still like each other, and we coparent effectively. Both our kids are really bonded to both of us. As for the other…	/r/seduction	04/01/26 09:24 AM