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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 36 | Got evicted in my own house | Living Situations | Reasonable_Issue5341 | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/24 06:26 AM |
| 20 | Got paparazzi’ed at a restaurant | Custody | Reasonable_Issue5341 | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/08/24 11:23 AM |
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| 2 | Got evicted in my own houseyep, it's a playbook/script for sure. local electronics store opens at 10... will go get some cameras, whateever subscriptions they require, get those going. I'm very conscientious about social media, nothing but re-sharing old posts of selfies of daughter and I enjoying walks and such. Her's too is pretty benign. thank you brother and to the rest here. Wealth of knowledge all around. thank you | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/24 01:21 PM |
| 6 | Got evicted in my own houseDid this like in 2021. She move directly to the family room and slept on the couch for 3 years. This is a long time in the making. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/24 10:00 AM |
| 2 | Got evicted in my own houseGood on all… except: 2. LOTS of parental alienation happing. 3. Found a pair of Ring cameras locally, on it! 4. Want out so badly but staying strong. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/24 09:54 AM |
| 3 | Got evicted in my own housePrecisely. ZERO emotional reaction from me, just from her, all recorded — and all in front of our kid. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/24 09:16 AM |
| 3 | Got evicted in my own houseDef speaking to my lawyer first thing this morning. I can get a rental secured pretty fast, movers, vacate pretty easily (I don’t have much). Fearful of leaving too early, trying to stick it out but this is insanity. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/24 09:12 AM |
| 3 | Got evicted in my own houseRecord and save all comms… def in that mindset. A couple locks to “my areas” isn’t a bad idea. DVPO would be insane, I do nothing but leave them alone, steer clear. Email into my lawyer to call me immediately in the AM (obviously can’t sleep tonight) | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/24 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Rebuilding trust with my teenage daughterOP… SAME!!! Same thing is happening to me. 14yo daughter here who wrote me a nasty gram of a handwritten letter calling me a liar and a cheater. She is being fed all the poison, never speaks to me, just jumps to all the wrong conclusions. I absolutely have female friends, appreciate their opinions from their perspective, I grew up with sisters so this is kinda easy for me. But noooooo. Daddy is speaking to a woman that isn’t Mommy. Those are the optics. She is in therapy starting today during a … | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/24 10:25 AM |
| 2 | Pack it up and sneak out todayCannot comment directly on your decision to move out, though I am likely a month or two away from this myself. Everyone I have spoken to in the ”divorce club” has told me their mental wellbeing improved dramatically after leaving and I hope yours does as well. But what you describe, the “age FOMO”, let’s call it, has hit me hard as well. I felt like a prisoner in my own home, for like 10 years, never doing anything, just WFH, sign off, sit here, day in and day out. I could never get STBXW to do … | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/08/24 11:48 AM |
| 1 | So Many QuestionsIANAL. It depends is likely the answer to all of this. Because you do not have children you might be in a place where this is more cut-n-dry than others. Marital property is considered things / wealth accumulated during the marriage. If her debt is pre-marriage it could be her’s alone to deal with, maybe? Lawyer up, that’s the best advice, pay a few-hundred-bucks, have a consultation, send them an outline of all the finances, assets, situations. If you like the lawyer, pay for the retainer, get … | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/08/24 11:12 AM |
| 2 | Depression or BrokenExercise is a wonderful outlet. Those brain chemicals and endorphins will help level set your mood — it takes time and consistency though. Habits take 30 days to cultivate right? Reach out to friends of old, especially divorced friends, because if they are in this club they can offer advice/support. Without fail each of mine has told me it gets better, light at the end of the tunnel, etc. Some days I believe them, others I do not. Years from now, pay that forward to the person who reaches out to… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/08/24 11:06 AM |
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