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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESReception_Queasy/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 03:55 PM
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RANTReception_Queasy/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 12:06 AM
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#HeAin'tTheOne2021Reception_Queasy/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 06:49 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYReception_Queasy/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 01:16 PM
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#HeAin'tTheOne2021Reception_Queasy/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 01:47 PM
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DISCUSSIONReception_Queasy/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 05:45 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYReception_Queasy/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:11 AM
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LVM LOGICReception_Queasy/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 07:10 PM
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LEVEL UPReception_Queasy/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 08:00 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYReception_Queasy/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 06:04 PM
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RANTReception_Queasy/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:21 AM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYReception_Queasy/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 09:00 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESReception_Queasy/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 06:02 PM
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Please don't do this OP. See if the person is interested in you. Anything and everything else needs to be something like an added benefit.
/r/seduction29/09/21 12:43 PM
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25 this year, it's a cultural thing.
/r/seduction19/09/21 09:50 PM
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OP, you need to be happy with yourself first. Anyone you decide to be with will add to your happiness, not complete it. Same goes the other way too. Everyone is on a different path in life and our partners just need to support us through it, not walk on it with us. Work on yourself first, Op. As far as the main question goes, it's not going to be on dating apps. Try joining a few hobby groups, the gym, parks, cafes and stuff like that if you aren't interested with volunteering.
/r/seduction10/09/21 08:59 AM
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She's not looking for anything more than friends, it's going to take her a month or few to move on, that is generally how it is. Also, it seems like she isn't intrested in being more than friends with you, whatever her reasons are.
/r/seduction01/09/21 06:48 AM
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Pregnancy is very unlikely, however getting a STI or a STD is still possible. They also pass from skin to skin contact when it comes to the genitals. Always better to make sure you are safe with a bi yearly test. I know many people who enjoy this kind of a lifestyle and prefer to do them monthly.
/r/seduction28/08/21 09:36 PM
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No point in obsessing over something that you can't change. The heel thing I mentioned will help tho. But I'm not aware what the standards are for ONS anymore, never been a fan of them myself. I've had friend in my uni who easily get hit on whenever we are out. These men are your height or an inch or two taller. So don't lose hope and if you do look as good as you say you do. Approach girls, most will be terrified of getting rejected.
/r/seduction28/08/21 09:13 PM
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Don't be worried. A lot of girls don't care about height, I think it's something a lot of people have internalize. Being tall is fine, but for most of us, we'd break our necks just speaking to someone who's 6'0 or more. Live your life, try cold approach, I'm sure you will find someone who's comfortable with you :)
/r/seduction28/08/21 08:52 PM
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😅there are these heel things that you put in your shoes that work for a lot of people who are very concerned about their height. In the end, all that matters is confidence. With what you say about yourself, I'm not sure why you're having trouble but a lot of girls wouldn't mind dating someone who's 5'7
/r/seduction28/08/21 08:44 PM
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Start a conversation with him, get to know him first and then ask him out for a coffee. I'm not sure what the standard for ONS is but I'm sure the above will work for that as well. And most importantly keep things transparent between you two.
/r/seduction28/08/21 08:36 PM
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Always, always use condoms when you have having sex with multiple girls. Get tested and your blood work done atleast once every six months. If you want to go raw, you get a girlfriend, one that you are sure won't get pregnant to trap you in the relationship. STDs and STIs are very common and while they can be cured, it takes a few months. Some can't be cured but that's another thing altogether. Also, about penetrating without condoms and pulling out, there is a slight chance of pregnancy because…
/r/seduction28/08/21 06:29 PM
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Adam teasing is something they use for men, eve teasing for the women. 'Jaadu ki jhappi' is generally this cringy way of saying she wants to give him a hug. 'Namaste aise door se he' would be the poor boy declining the hug and that he would prefer to maintain distance. India is pretty weird when it comes to such incidents. We've had old women say they were waiting for a 4 year old child to grow up and be of legal age or something similar. Women/girls making advances towards a boy/man is very com…
/r/MensRights22/08/21 02:28 PM
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Don't get me started on this. Saw a video in an Indian subreddit with a woman slapping a man on a game show, he slapped her back. Guess what happened to him?
/r/MensRights22/08/21 02:13 PM
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OP. Get all the necessary legal documentation and get her out of your life I.e get her off your insurance and get off as a beneficiary. Get a good lawyer. A great one. Also, do not cohabitate with her.
/r/MensRights22/08/21 02:07 PM
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Manipulation probably. A lot of men and women will manipulate other women into these relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 12:05 AM
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Most exercises reduce anxiety and gives you a mood boost. Hope this helped :)
/r/seduction05/08/21 11:49 PM
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I mean, here's the thing. Most men who really really care about me and my safety has always said the opposite, 'Yes All Men'. Not sure about the women who say this but the men who say this know it's all men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 11:36 PM
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Cucumbers, hairbrushes and everything else is still better than a Scrote being abusive to a young girl and conning/manipulating her into having sex with him. I don't get the point of his post. Women discovering what pleasures them and not is none of his business. Maybe he's just salty that he can't compete with these inanimate objects women use
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 11:22 PM
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It's in India. Divorce cases are dragged for years. However, the husband is asking to file one so it should be quicker. Good family lawyers are hard to come by in the country and the society is going to blame her past not paying attention to what her husband has done, Spousal support payments are more difficult to get and I'm sure they husband is not going to agree to give her 50% assests which is demanded within the country.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 05:26 PM
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To hold it over her head if a situation like so arose possibly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 04:07 PM
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Psychologically speaking, Porn is very similar to Alcohol or Drugs. You develop a tolerance to it. Then you want to view nastier stuff. It keeps on happening and you do it without realising. Most people who view extremely violent porn tend to think others around them want the same and watch the same. After all, how can you have so much content for that topic if not. With BDSM, if anyone here wants to practice it for whatsoever reason. You NEED to sit down with your partner and discuss your likes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 10:33 AM
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Most women who practice FDS system don't discuss it. Ever. With men, women and any other gender.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 08:00 PM
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✋🏻 I'll be your friend if you want
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 07:59 PM
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Men and Pickmes will always Neg to make themselves feel better. I've gotten so used to it now where I don't pay any attention to them. Strangers will do it through pointing out how you look or your fashion sense and your friends will do it through same stuff and trying to make you feel dumb 😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 07:56 PM
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Men grow up thinking of women as property to be owned. Add in the taboo that is sex. Widespread Sexist and Pickmes. It's very very common. I've shot a man for breaking into my vacation house under the guise to cause harm to me or my sister and he still had the guts to sue me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 07:47 PM
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People turn a blind eye to a man's wrongdoings in the country. My mum's friend got divorced from her husband who was cheating on her and got the other lady pregnant. Family still blames the lady for 'not taking care' of her husband. A friend's mum divorced the most sexist POS I've Ever seen because he and his mum started abusing my friend's mum for bearing a girl child and my Friend's mum still gets shit for getting a divorce over something so petty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 07:43 PM
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🤷🏻‍♀️I hold desi men to no standards and they will continue to keep on disappointing me. Vet your friends too OP. Desi men are some of the most manipulative and dramatic men I've come across
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 07:39 PM
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Exactly. The little numbers she mentioned will screw her husband's life. I was very tempted to tell her to do it fearlessly but that's her decision.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 07:14 PM
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India. I've travelled a lot but the amount of men I've met in this country who will try to screw almost every woman they come across yet expect the woman they marry to have zero experience before him is crazy. The amount of pickmes you'll find is crazier. I adore the culture. Most people I meet are lovely but the country is crazy sexist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 07:05 PM
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So, OP has been in one relationship before where she had sex. Apparently that was enough for her husband (they aren't divorced yet) to leave her and get a girlfriend. She refuses to back down but can't do anything. Also notice the bloody Scrote fighting and trying to Gaslight OP. PS: Most boys in the country behave in a very similar way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 06:07 PM
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I wasn't aware the sub MGTOW got banned. But I've lurked there. It's toxic. I've met some individuals who are the real life embodiment of it and they are toxic. There are some men out there in the movement (about 0.01%) who are in it because of actual trauma. The rest just whine and cry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:53 PM
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🍆📸 are stupid. It's like when my cat brings me a dead mouse or a dead bird. I can see that your proud of it, but I don't want to see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:50 PM
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Forget a room full of men, you see two shady men and I'll pull the trigger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 03:42 PM
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I'm now at an age where I can confidently scream that I'm into younger men, well younger than me ie. If any Scrotes rage, I can give them their own reasons back ^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:20 PM
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Wait. What do you mean 😳😶 There are men who don't, bloody hell. I remember reading an article on BuzzFeed where a man in the comment was talking about how undies were ment to catch crap, and I thought it was a joke because some lady was flirting with him even after he said that. Lol, I'm done with men. There's no going back now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:16 PM
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This is enough internet for me today. Can someone tell this woman these are adult responsibilities that she's 'awarding' him for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:42 PM
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I prefer men in different field than I am. My ex and some of his friends were pretty condescending, we all were in the same field but I'm a girl so what do I know about coding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 04:41 PM
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Most guys I know have more drama than most girls I know. They are two faced and bitchy as much as women are. Also y'all try being friends with a few pick mes. I've been introduced to about 3 different LVM or NVM, while they are trying to be helpful, they don't understand why I don't want to date and work on myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 03:50 PM
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The only big decision you need to take is to walk away. It ain't worth your time and effort
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 03:36 PM
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Ah these people, Anna Bey posted a parody video ( it was lovely) and they took it down because she expressed a few views pick mes and the men didn't agree with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 07:49 AM
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thank you, I'll change it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 06:38 AM
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Let's be friends! ✋🏻✋🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:29 AM
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Not related but to anyone here considering this, you start using Botox in your 50s. Mesotherapy once you enter 30s. Topical Retinol in your mid 20s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:24 AM
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The amount of male lurkers here on the sub is crazy. Like if you don't like what we post, just don't look at it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:15 AM
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Ladies, a lot of people have an issue with women not letting go of their apartments once they are in stable relationships or once they get married. I remember reading this about the millennials in the newspapers when I was a teen. I'm used to privacy when I cook or read or write. So there isn't going to be much moving unless the person I'm with proves to me why it would be more beneficial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 04:43 AM
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Exactly. But I love and adore his mum and we're going to stay in touch (me and his mum that is)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 06:35 PM
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Blocked and Deleted not only my ex but his whole damn friend group after he cheated. Btw, guess who messaged me on LinkedIn begging for a second chance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 06:14 PM
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I'm not white or black so I'm sorry if I don't understand a few things properly. I've seen time and again, how many BM demonize BW. The level of pick me expected is very high like you said OP. I'll never understand why these men feel comfortable demonising the women they are supposed to want to protect when they except her to drop everything for him and protect him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 04:40 PM
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Reasonable? Many cultures? 😳 Please tell me what cultures are those, I'm going to get back in the dating game and I'll happily avoid men from them if their culture thinks it's reasonable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 09:24 PM
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One of my mentors told me that most men from 16-28 aren't worth much thought and to focus on myself. This was when I had just turned 16 and looking at these things I know she was correct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 06:06 PM
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I knew this happened but didn't know this was common.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 05:19 PM
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You just know most of the times, like a gut instinct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 04:22 PM
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if any man brought up the sugar baby thing, I'd look him in the eye and tell him I was looking for a very successful, rich and hot sugar daddy. I get random men Calling me a gold digger now, especially after I posted about my breakup last week. Like sir, you don't even have any gold to dig.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 04:04 PM
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These things always make me question the culture these men grow with or In. My dad, till date will verbally mentions to my mum how thankful he is that she bore him two kids and completed their tiny family. I know for a fact that he's gotten her gifts on my birthdays and given them to her in private because it's not just my birthday but she gave birth to me on that day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 03:53 PM
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A man who is almost 30 and having this thought process is beyond helping, we can try to tell the wife to not put up with his crap but that's mostly not happening either. So we just see stuff like this, cringe and pray for his wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 03:46 PM
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So there's these perfumes they use in the middle East called Attar/ittars. The crazy part is you can get ittars from name brands. I have a few from Chanel and frederic malle. They last forever.
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:30 PM
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The sad thing is, in my country. When a lady gives birth, she stays at her parent's house for four to six months with the husband visiting every now and then or simply on the weekends. Reading stuff like this tells me why it's done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 03:26 PM
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I'm glad you're doing better now. What gets me is I'd likely be in a similar position had I not recieved the same news I got a week ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 03:22 PM
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This is a prime example of what happens when they view you as a personal sex toy or a trophy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 03:21 PM
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Some men just look at women like trophies they have. You lower your standards for a guy and he will neg you all your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 03:20 PM
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I saw this and the first thought that went through my head was wtf. As women, we put our bodies through hell to bear children and he's worried if she's going to get fat. I guess nobody told him about the teeth loss that happens in some women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 03:17 PM
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Thankfully, the people called him out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 03:16 PM
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I always always believe one of the reasons for this is sometimes if the current relationship doesn't work out, they can always get back together. It's like a backup plan. I would never be comfortable being friends with someone I've been intimate with or thought of building a future with and it's definitely the same for a lot of individuals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 11:43 AM
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This! I cannot upvote this enough. Also, if most of your conversations are about how pretty/beautiful/sexy he finds you or the things that he'd want you to do, walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 08:42 PM
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This isn't related to the childfree part, but most HVM and women who engage in regular sex with different partners that I know of also get bi yearly tests to make sure they don't have any STDs or STIs that they could pass onto their partners, more frequent if they do engage in having sex with different and multiple partners. Always demand the documents and stay safe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 08:35 PM
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A general rule I use, if anyone gets in touch with you through social media claiming to provide a professional service, especially stuff like matchmaking. They don't provide one and they definitely are not professionals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 08:31 PM
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What in the hell did I just read? They thought it's okay if he did that? This isn't both sides are wrong conflict, this is a get his behaviour on record kind of a conflict. If he's drugged her before, let me just tell you she won't remember or know what happens when she's drugged. I've ignored a few red flags in a man before but drugging someone. He won't blink twice before drugging other girls either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 08:03 PM
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He's a manchild. A man in his 30s who this lady mentions she buys clothes for because he forgets to buy them, among other things that any human being shouldn't need anyone else to nag them to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 03:24 PM
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I believe I'm pretty high maintenance. But You take a deep breath and jump. That's all that we can do :)
/r/seduction29/07/21 06:18 PM
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What did I just see😶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 04:35 PM
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I remember seeing a reel from a young woman saying how rather than telling anyone she's Dating about the bad things her ex did, she points out how he's treated her like a princess and most men will try to one up that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 04:25 PM
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This happens so often, I just went NC with a friend group filled with such men and a few pickmes. I had gone with them for a few treks this month and the amount of Gaslighting and manipulation was crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 10:32 AM
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Just around. Sadly, this doesn't have a good ending but it worked nevertheless.
/r/seduction29/07/21 03:23 AM
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As someone who is rereading the handbook and relearning things, posts like these help so damn much! I've also discovered to let go of friends ( girls and guys) who have pickme or bad energy around them ^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 02:26 AM
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I met my ex in a library 😅 but we both loved to read so
/r/seduction28/07/21 02:27 PM
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Exactly, there are amazing people out there but you need to find the right person for you.
/r/seduction28/07/21 10:37 AM
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OP, it's going to be a but exhausting. I believe it's easier to meet people the younger you are. I suggest you start hitting the bars, libraries and gyms. Make friends and see if it leads anywhere. I personally don't prefer using any dating apps but that's just me.
/r/seduction28/07/21 10:18 AM
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Yes I know, but maybe just maybe this man is abusive. OP shuts down when someone asks about it. She went NC and isn't and doesn't even want to look at him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 02:35 AM
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I ask most women to not read it at all. It's something that showed a lot of men how you can get away with bad behaviour if they have the money. And while a lot of young kids are into BDSM now thanks to too much porn consumption, it's not done how it's done in this movie anyway. Also opened flood gates for books that show abusive behaviour towards women in the name of BDSM and how it's romantic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 02:33 AM
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That's fifty shades of grey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 02:26 AM
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OP didn't want the baby. Idk if I can post links here but she mentioned she never wanted the baby and then 'couldn't abort when she finally came back to her senses'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 09:23 PM
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The series is good but the main character is extremely violent. The 'whole world be damned but I'll destroy it for my girl' archetype. The female lead is a damsel in distress with two brothers as love interests. Most stereotypical feminine characters are damned. The actors are good looking but I found the whole thing pretty toxic. You'll enjoy dissecting it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 09:20 PM
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Oh, I wasn't aware.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 08:33 PM
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Could be. But the thing is he's not into that, you can tell by his behaviour. While the comment isn't trying to put anyone who makes that amount or less anything else but getting a big head and ego because you make that isn't good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 08:24 PM
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She doesn't, if she did she wouldn't be in this situation. I guess she doesn't have many friends she can turn to either. Even as a friend I refuse to let my girlfriends date anyone if their age difference is very high or if they come off toxic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 08:23 PM
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I believe he gaslighted and manipulated OP to an extent where she didn't realise anything. Someone mentioned they started seeing each other when OP was 17 and him 31
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 08:05 PM
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As disgusting as this is. If this is the case, she can get 50% of his assets and everything, if she proves this. Most documents she signed will be null.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:59 PM
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It should be. She talks about an agreement so idk if it's a legal agreement or not. However, I've seen a few states where if the wife earns even a single dollar she's not eligible for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:58 PM
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As far as I've learnt about men, they need goals in life and most of them want a family, women are social creatures, a Scrote won't destroy anything for her, she will maybe need years of therapy but she will find love again. Men like this will die alone. He will be celebrated in the MGTOW movement because according to them, all women are after their money and she possibly trapped him with her beauty. Everything went well, she approached the charity and an older couple paid for the medical expens…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:55 PM
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I'm glad you were able to raise your baby well :) I hope the lady who posted this also finds the strength and support to do the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:51 PM
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I adore babies but sadly sometimes women need to realise when they should opt for abortions or giving their child for adoptions. This is one such case. I hope this lady and her child make it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:49 PM
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Interesting take on this. But yes, I've have multiple older people tell me to have my money and then marry for love and get married to a good man. I guess in old people term it means what we call a HVM today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:47 PM
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Most young ladies growing up with the 50-50 Feminist slogan are going to be in this place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:45 PM
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You'll get crazy angry knowing how she never wanted the child but her ex husband did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:44 PM
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I don't think they are divorced. I think they are just separated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:43 PM
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This isn't highlighted enough, women let men get away with so much shit. They don't hold them responsible and most of other women suffer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:42 PM
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OP, check the vampire diaries too 😪 and let's not forget FSOG. I haven't watched many series but I see a lot of women loving few behaviors I wouldn't be able to stand myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 06:15 PM
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I'm happy she's separated already, she made an update but I wasn't able to find the post. But age is always a big deal yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 06:03 PM
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She's separated from him (I don't think they are divorced, yet) and living in a shelter. She hasn't updated since the last four months but I hope she and the baby are fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 05:19 PM
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🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 05:16 PM
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😪some men are single for a reason, if he makes it to 38-40 without anyone his age intrested in him. He's the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 05:15 PM
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Yes exactly. Keep vetting no matter what is a good advice. I stopped for a while and it blew up in my face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 05:14 PM
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Yes :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 05:05 PM
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I'm glad to hear. I just recently broke up with mine. Ex seemed like a HVM but turns out he wasn't. His ex girlfriend before mine reached out to me telling me how they broke up because he cheated on her with multiple girls and told her about them. Me and her are meeting for a coffee tomorrow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 05:05 PM
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Society has done that. Men everywhere shame women for demanding child and spousal support. And I'm talking about 90%. Men who have nothing to bring to the table will often cry about money because that's the only thing they believe can get women to be with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 05:02 PM
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I don't think she will. This was extremely abusive. She just mentioned the financial part, I don't want to imagine what was happening otherwise between them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 05:00 PM
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Oh my. I'm glad you were able to get out of that situation.I hope you are doing better now. I adore babies but having one with an abusive partner or ex is bad for both you and the baby. It's just sad to see that her options are now limited when it comes to work and such.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 04:48 PM
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She is now. They're separated, OP didn't say anything about divorcing him but I hope she did and she's not asking for child support and was in a shelter last time she checked in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 04:45 PM
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Pretty sure if the amount he makes is a big deal to him, he didn't grow up with much and if he's comfortable with that amount at his age, he isn't trying to improve. This is a whole different type of LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 04:44 PM
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I generally read further hoping she got out safe. We all know it's doomed to fail. Sadly there are too many of these kind of men available, they believe in 50-50 and are almost my dad's age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 04:41 PM
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She's not with him anymore, but won't ask for child support 😪 I mean get that child and spousal support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 04:39 PM
55

Exactly. Plus, being 40 and earning 50k.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 04:38 PM
129

Yes. She made another post but I wasn't able to find it. The poor girl didn't have much family support, I guess the reason this man was able to manipulate her so. By not asking for CS she's still showing that she'd sacrifice herself for him 😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 04:27 PM
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OP had the baby. She also left the husband but won't ask for child support. Sadly, OP didn't have parents or relatives that could help or guide her about this man. She possibly was a very easy target for the man she talks about. I hope she gets therapy and decides to ask for child support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 04:25 PM
21

That's what confused me. The lady in the post didn't even want the child in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 04:24 PM
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There are way too many of them. Too many old men feel it's fine to date women in their early 20s because they spent their 20-30s building a good life for themselves. Working like that make them then search for the 50-50 women who are dime a dozen thanks to the modern feminist movement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 04:23 PM
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I cannot upvote this enough! I see a lot of people, men and women join gyms to attract the opposite sex. But workout for you, you do it for your future self. I find working out to be a good stress relief and it helps with so many things. However, one of the plus points is that women are attracted to you. But always remember, your beauty/body can get you that first date, everything else is decided through your charisma and charm.
/r/seduction26/07/21 04:21 PM
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Amen ❤️ I'm extremely good with reading charts and patterns so luckily they are already worth more than when I invested in them. He'll maybe come across in my mind for the next month or two but I plan to be extremely busy so that should work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 04:04 PM
1

Yes. I was pretty stunned when he did say it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 04:03 PM
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About 99% men consume porn. It's not something I particularly care about. They can do what they want, all I want is for them to stay away from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 04:00 PM
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Ps: she still does majority of the house work because he pays a bit higher for the rent. Basically financially abusing her. He's 40. Married to a 24 year old. Someone almost half his age. There's an update I couldn't find but the girl left the husband but refuses to sue for child support. She had a couple pay for her hospital bills and is living in a shelter. The funny part is, she didn't even want to have a baby but the ex husband convinced her and now she has a baby that she adores but didn't …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 03:58 PM
4

Exactly that, learnt it a bit late
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 12:41 AM
5

Luckily I've been someone who has some strict views when it comes to sex before marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 12:40 AM
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Not a lot of changes. We were talking four to five times every single week but I did notice he stopped trying to reach out as much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 06:41 AM
61

Yes :) lesson learnt the hard way sadly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 06:16 AM
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🤣yes mam
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:06 AM
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🤷🏻‍♀️he has terrible aging genes. Something I was certain I could fix with money for the kids we'd have but he can now watch from the sidelines as I stay hot till my 60s or 70s and get richer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:04 AM
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The way he looked (I'm a bit stricter about the height and body type I prefer because I gym a lot Myself) but we were friends before and everything else was on point with the HVM thing I had in mind and idk if you saw the post but I intially did ignore one red flag about him pestering me for nudes but it was something he changed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:48 AM
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Blocked and deleted :) Told his mom and brother too :) Me and the girls are going to have a 'Hes shit and ain't your soulmate party' and I just brought a few stocks with the money I was saving up to get him a luxury watch ^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:41 AM
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It's more of a learning experience, I wouldn't want to attract such men in the future. I guess vetting from my part needs to get more stricter and zero compromises no matter what
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:25 AM
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😓✋🏻a huge amount of them are shitty. And these people will lie to hell and back for things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:24 AM
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💁🏻‍♀️ he's on his own now. His older brother adores me, I don't think these questions will even come to me. If they do, I won't keep secrets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:22 AM
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His family was planning for an engagement when he'd be back here, it's a bit different here with these things, but I'm glad it happened, it would've been worse had we actually gotten engaged. I'm not aware about Chump Lady, I'll have a look :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:15 AM
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😶eh he can do his social part now, I'm going to go buy myself some pretty bikinis and have a late hot girl summer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 02:03 AM
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😣I know. But after the conversation he basically changed overnight. He already was someone who was very attentive and everything. Basically fit into the whole, has good relationship with his own family and mine, had great manners and etiquette, was an independent individual with healthy social relationships with others, the only thing was about the nudes part and he stopped after we had a talk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:56 AM
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Yes. We talked it out. Decided it wasn't a big deal. Maybe it was
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:44 AM
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Apparently, 90% of them are not worth it. I'm going to focus on my career and investments, if a keeper comes along it's fine. I've got nothing to lose if I don't find one either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:36 AM
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I couldn't stay. You cheat once, you will cheat again, plus there are no excuses to cheat. We had a very open conversation about this because his ex cheated on him and I've always told him all he had to do was tell me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:35 AM
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It was like a hard punch in the stomach. I did compromise on a few things that I have about how someone should look for him because he seemed perfect in every other aspect. But yea, drop a few standards for them and they think they own the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:33 AM
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🙂 I'm continuing with my education in the uni I'm in, I just needed to rant. A lot of people around me right now don't believe in block and delete and what FDS stands for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:30 AM
2

Wowowowow okay, I'm trying this right now :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 12:54 PM
2

Folic acid is an important supplement regardless of PCOS too. I've been on one from about two years now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 12:51 PM
4

While I love caffeine on my skin, coffee grains will be too harsh on your skin over long term. Please switch to a chemical exfoliator it's safer and better :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 03:09 PM
2

❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 02:27 PM
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Just came here to say this is adorable 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 04:10 AM
78

Ah, this one is a classic. Forget people on dates and such, I've had random strangers comment on my portion sizes when I post a picture of my lunch/dinner to Social Media. And the gym bros who will tell you what you should and shouldn't eat are in plenty. And the non gym bros who will tell you that you eat too much with their belly out are in plenty too. We need none of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 04:07 AM
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Finding this sub was one of the best things that happened to me this year! I don't believe I can express how grateful I am to find you guys :) And losing friends and colleagues is fine, I believe it makes place for the good people who will soon come into our lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 04:02 AM
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There are too many of these men now. One of the most difficult things for me after reading the handbook has been to simply walk away from men who show even the slightest bit of such behaviour because all our lives we've been told how it's a joke and how they don't really mean it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 03:56 AM
4

Loose leaves are the best. Get the water to a light boil, add the leaves and let it rest for 10-15 mins. I get my mum to send me an Organic one from India, but I've used Lipton before and it's good and affordable. 2 cups is more than enough, if you do go higher there are side effects like nausea, vomiting, feeling jittery and dizzy so please be careful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 03:43 AM
5

Methylsulfonylmethane, it's a dietary supplement. It's very popular in the African American community with the ladies for hair and skin. I had a friend recommend it to me and it's really good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 03:39 AM
4

I will. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 09:32 PM
3

I've used hot process. I started trying to make them about four years ago, when I joined the formulation course and stopped after 6 months of trying. I don't want to waste a lot of resources making soaps from scratch if doesn't work again. But then my will to not do it almost breaks every single time I see any Instagram account post beautiful pictures of soaps they've made.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 09:01 PM
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That's awesome! I tried making soaps for a long long time and failed miserably, now I just use the melt and pour ones. I'm not very fond of using Cinnamon anywhere either and use peppermint or spearmint myself. Yes, coconut oil can clog pores but it's good for hair. Those new to the oils can see which works for them and which doesn't. Though, Jojoba is always a safe bet. If you love Coffee Scrubs and can make a fresh one when you want to use them, try adding honey to it. Another tip is to get ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 08:49 PM
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Health is extremely important. HVW or LVW. If you have your health in place most other things will seem like minor discomforts that we can deal with. Also, please do make sure you aren't taking more than the daily limit when it comes to Vitamins.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 08:25 PM
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Yes. If I'm not getting blood work done I prefer to take 'water soluble' Vitamins. I've noticed a lot of ladies have Iron deficiencies and Vitamin D deficiencies even if they have a healthy diet. But it's always good to get blood work done. You'll be surprised to know that low B12 levels are linked to feeling very depressed and demotivated too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 08:19 PM
38

TO is God sent when it comes to Budget Skincare!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 08:13 PM
11

Yes. You see women go on crazy diets. Like bringing a new life into this world is secondary to a man's pleasure. It's disgusting. I've seen women refuse to breastfeed their children because it causes their boobs to sag and what not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 05:45 PM
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It's the entitlement and the lack of respect that people have For it. Also, I guess a lot of women who opt for surrogacy feel like the surrogate will 'steal' their husband/partner. I've noticed a new trend where a lot of women pick surrogacy as an option because 'I don't want to destroy my body by being pregnant' or 'What if my husband isn't attracted to me anymore' Surrogates were always taken in the family historically and that is how it's supposed to be. People today love to treat other peopl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 12:47 PM
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It's crazy how the same thing is perceived between different cultures and I guess between different economic groups. I personally know a few women who opted for surrogacy because of multiple miscarriages and health issues, my little sister was borne through surrogacy because my mum faced some life threatening issues and couldn't make it full term. Me and my sister grew up knowing her and calling her our aunt. She's happily married now and the families visit each other often. I adore her children…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 11:38 AM
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😂I love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:16 AM
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I would honestly just give up on men if this is how it is. This man talks about respect? Every single male relative I have would've strung this dude up by his non existent loins had this occured to anyone we know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:13 AM
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I wanted to assume this was some kind of a troll intially and would have before FDS. Such men exist. The worst part is that they get married and have kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:08 AM
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I'm so happy to hear this! One of the worst thing about a LVM is that he will make you feel like he's doing you a favour by dating you. I'd say it was a blessing he ghosted you. Also, 3k to 100k! It's incredible! I've been invested in Crypto since 6 years now and that's unheard of in this day. Share some strategies and tips if you don't mind OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 03:55 PM
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Oh OP! I cannot unsee this! Also, the women's desirability falls throughout their lifetime is a big lie. Most ladies start looking their best in their mid twenties ( kudos to the internet that helps younger girls feel more beautiful in their skin by discovering their style even earlier than 20) and they only look better and better as they discover and rediscover themselves as they age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 03:41 PM
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Exactly. While we don't care about the kind of relationships people want to be in. Dragging someone throught the mud for nonsense needs to come with consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 12:52 AM
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There are too many pages like these with followers in Millions. Some that come immediately to mind are Kevin Samuels, Fit and Fresh, Coach Greg or Kevin or something. Just head up to Fit and Fresh you'll see that they tag all of them. Notice how none of these men have a display picture. Calling her a number when they wouldn't even make it onto the scale for her. The rest of them? Same. They will cry about not getting sex and they cry about how women are dumb. Why do you a 30 year old man think a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 09:07 PM
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😳 I'm sorry to hear that. The nasty kind of aggressive men exist, but they've mostly existed in movies and newspapers for me. But I guess I've been very lucky to not yet come across any that have targeted me. Location and Cultures play a huge role with these things definitely but the kind of LVM and stuff mentioned is almost everywhere and the behaviour is the same for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 08:01 PM
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Exactly. I put hooking up and FWB in the same boat. You are just being used for sex. Nothing else. It's sad that women think they have to do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 06:54 PM
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Now that you say this. Yes it makes sense. I've luckily not come across violent men, so I tend to disregard that point altogether sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 06:53 PM
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CS is a hard no from me. The men have more issues regarding women and their own self esteem and you will end up raising a child. One of the most toxic conversations I've ever had was from a guy who was working for a big corp. Who had the biggest ego I have ever seen. All he bought to the table Was a bigger pay check that he was stringy AF with. I'm a CS Engineer myself, and I promise you these people ain't worth your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 06:44 PM
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He mentions she gives him money. I'm thinking he doesn't have a job at all and the wife is supporting him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 06:29 PM
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No disrespect but Poly and open relationships are just stupid. Honestly I find the whole FWB thing stupid too. Low Standards. Low Standards. Also, did anyone tell OP to post everything on social media with proof. You don't throw away people no matter what. They have to deal with the consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 06:26 PM
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I never understood why most white men want to fetishize women from other races. The first Scrote I got mad was because I asked him right off the bat how much he made, investments, inheritance and jobs. He played along till the House and Cars questions. Called me a gold digger and lost it when I told him I make more money than he would and he was barking up the wrong tree. Most women have standards. And honestly I've always found that most ladies raised in the US have quite low standards, I'm hap…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 06:20 PM
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Sadly, this is majority of men. I've had friends make rape jokes because one of the guys was actually raped as a child. I could tell he was deeply hurt by the jokes but hey who care. I'm glad both me and him aren't friends with those dungerheads anymore. Rape jokes are very very common amongst boys, most just know to not make them Infront of a girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 06:11 PM
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Honey, I would've said I'd like to pay for what I ate to the damn waitress. I refuse to pay for anyone, you want to be a tosser, go be a tosser to someone else. You even let him walk you back. I'd paid told him I wouldn't be interested in another date, there and then and left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:25 PM
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I've done everything she has done because that's common. Holding eye contact when talking to anyone is necessary. We all generally wave at people we know. I've asked about people because I want to know what kind of a person they are. Pretty sure she must've stalked all your socials too. Most people mistake me checking them out because I maybe looking at them or my dumb self gets lost in thoughts looking at someone. I don't really think she maybe Interested in you but you can approach her in pers…
/r/seduction16/07/21 11:19 AM
2

Aye, regular guys who gym because 'women just want a man to have nice body' I think most men think of women as two dimensional creatures. Before I moved I used to go to a gym that was very popular amongst body builders and competitors. They pay you zero attention, they don't stare at you, you can do your thing and just go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 11:11 AM
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Fingers crossed. Also, don't be worried about people judging you. Because if they do judge you for getting healthy, they're mean human beings. We all start somewhere. For now, you can try simple cardio like walking or running and invite a friend too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:52 AM
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She makes my head hurt. He's never held onto a job and he's a narc and They bought a house together. And mummy is asking stuff like this on the internet and decided to have baby no.3. I feel bad for the kids involved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 07:18 AM
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I'm mostly opening a woman's only gym space in my city. We only have one and I live in a very populated city. I've brought the idea up and the men have been like 'Hey why don't we get such benefits' which has lead to me wanting to do this even more! Also, I don't know if these gym are there where you are, if you attend a gym which has Men who complete in body building completions. Let's just say they won't even look at you or talk to you. It is heaven but there are always creeps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 07:09 AM
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Y'all, I just bit my tongue and bore the expense of getting an at home gym set with almost everything. I've had too many incidents where Scrotes will think it's chill to approach me when I'm working out. They just need attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 01:13 AM
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Men who know they are worth it and think you are worth it too will not look for sex on the first date or even wait until you are ready. This guy I've been with since ages who's got all the characteristics that a HVM has, has started displaying some red flags and I think he may have faked a personality knowing what I like in men ( we've been friends for a long time before we begun dating) let's hope things go well 😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:58 AM
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Oh god. I say this too often even 2-4 years of an age difference for a teen is a big deal. There are too many things happening and you are a different person in a year easily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:28 PM
4

This happened to me once, I now have a private account with just the girls and it's the most positive space ever!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 10:03 AM
15

Oh she won't. She's gonna put up with everything because she's lucky this idiot dating her. misogyny is deep rooted in this country that even the women will defend it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 10:01 PM
6

Amen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 09:59 PM
6

Ikr. But some people are low effort. It's sad really but I guess most people don't understand what dates are about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 09:59 PM
13

😂notes I've collected from the cultural shock I got: •She has to work a job (possibly high earning) and be his bangmaid, caretaker for his parents and children too. •He can be 100 pounds overweight but the society will still expect his wife or girlfriend to be in shape. •Most boys here have a deep rooted Madonna/whore complex. •He lives with his parents and will always put his family before you. •You could be 10x better than him but his family and sometimes you own will cry about how he's doing …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 09:58 PM
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Totally fine. When I was back in Cali I got an advert for 'Hot beauties I could unlock in emperor's throne' it was a beautiful game with amazing graphics but their main focus was naked women you had to collect :/ I've worked part time as a game tester before and most of the guys who design these games are amazing humans but they design them as the needs of the market, if that makes sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 09:52 PM
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So I've been in India from the past year, my parents have retired and decided to move to my dad's home country. I took a break from my uni for a year or so. This showed up, um most companies here are crazy and such internet based jobs are not done well 🤷🏻‍♀️ it's mostly because of people not being paid the amount they should be paid but I didn't like the way it's done, if you check out most Indian adverts they are extremely sexist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 08:03 PM
47

Ah! Something I completely overlooked. Again, I was just mad at the people even advertising something like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 07:35 PM
55

I adore planning dates. But the thing is, my boyfriend plans like 60-80% of them. He knows the food that I like, so he will either text me a day or two in advance asking me if the restaurant he picked is fine, mostly it always is. If he wants to try some new place it's the same, otherwise it's these beautiful dates on rooftops. Anyway, the thing being, you do not have to plan all the dates, pick the restaurant and everything else in between. This is the way they are marketing this bloody app, oh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 07:17 PM
6

Yes, Relax and enjoy the experience. That is what it's about honestly. He was the one who Rescued my older one. So she adores him. And the younger loves him because of the snacks. The pets loving anyone tells me they are a good person, yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 03:26 PM
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Yes! When I started dating again, the easiest way for me to vet out majority boys was telling them I was saving myself for marriage. I actually am doing this because it's something I grew up with and feel strongly about. You can get rid of the 90% rifraw with this. I cannot imagine what will happen to the cats because they are so used to my boyfriend if me and him do break up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 03:13 PM
11

Exactly. I've heard many such stories from the ladies and gents. I'm not going to force him to do anything, it's a realization he needs to come to on his own but that will happen after he decides who he is as a person and who he wants to date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 02:20 PM
5

It's a very woody but refreshing scent. I find it very soothing on its own, a few friends prefer to add Lavender and chamomile to the mix ( if you use Clary Sage, try not to take Anything that makes you feel drowsy along. Eg: wine and such)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 01:58 PM
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I haven't listened to that one yet. But something that I'm sure all of us who follow the handbook or don't have observed how most of these guys are just happy to not do anything and ask their wives/sisters/mums to take care of them giving up our own lives. Then they will still call us lazy and try to prove how he's the man by doing something stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 12:33 PM
11

Before I would've just stayed and been amused at them. But after FDS, don't have the time for LVM behaviour specifically if it's amongst friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 08:22 AM
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Already did. My cousin added me there and I've been speaking with one of the boy's girlfriend, it's a new group of friends he's made since joining Uni, we've been close since we were kids and he wanted to introduce them to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 08:21 AM
25

We all Do. But I just realised how a lot of teen girls will need to go through room full of these idiots before she find a good decent HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:16 AM
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😶I've never in my life been called a h*e so causally before. Also, No clue. He just started Uni, these are the new friends he's made. I'll talk to him about it when we meet in person but there isn't much I can do from here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:03 AM
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I'm glad they aren't your friends anymore. I was there was some 10 hours and I wasn't able to sleep. My boyfriend dotes on me and my cousin happened to mention this which lead to some 10 of these boys calling him a simp. He wasn't there but I've never felt this angry before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 06:55 AM
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Yes! Luckily these weren't my friends but a cousin's friend circle. I connected well with one of the girls there and they added me to the WhatsApp group last night. With the things about younger guys I've been hearing from my sister's friends, reading on social media and this we will need to protect a lot of young girls who are raised to accept them or simply accept LVM behaviour
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 06:52 AM
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You'll want to go celibate looking at these people's comment section OP. I've never seen so many idiots in one place together. They all are women hating aholes. They have a YouTube channel called Fresh and Fit and their content is deluded in a way, oh and the pick mes they bring to the show every night. Delusional little boys who think money and muscles will get them a good woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 03:41 AM
64

The tragedy with most Modern men is that they don't know how to do most things a man should know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 03:37 AM
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🌝 I vet most people looking for sex out with the 'Im saving myself for marriage'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 03:24 AM
8

I love using essential oils in for baths. If you are feeling uneasy and anxious, I suggest you try Clary Sage. It's God sent when I'm stressed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 03:22 AM
10

Look at it like this. The younger you are, the more difference even a year will make. This about 16 year old dating someone who's 18 and at the uni. Not saying it will cause problems but it may cause problems. However a 35 year old dating 30-45 is completely fine emotionally and mentally according to most people. FDS doesn't support age gaps when they shouldn't be supported.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 03:19 AM
26

I'm in my mid twenties and I find this annoying to be honest. I've mentally checked out, the amount of LVM that hit you up knowing you are in a relationship is crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 03:15 AM
30

I was just discussing this with a few female friends over wine last night. It's funny how most women think the only thing they lose here is their independence to have their own space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 10:43 AM
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🤷🏻‍♀️the major problem I have with men who want a traditional wife is that they ain't a traditional husband. You need to be making 3x whatever the cost of everything is. I.e rent, food, the expenses. I hope FDS catches on with a lot of women so they can stop sacrificing themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:07 PM
51

I've noticed men don't care now. They have an excuse for every single thing that they do, or someone else to blame for it. I'm seeing someone who comes from a wealthy family and the topic about finances is very different. My dad is a self made man and even if we've been very comfortable I grew up learning the importance of not taking money for granted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 05:06 PM
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It's a community on Reddit of people trying to lose weight. They are very positive and supportive. I heard from someone there how a lot of guys fetishize women who've gone from obese to thin because they are easier to manipulate and their self confidence is still low.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 05:03 PM
25

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:40 PM
24

Amen sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:21 PM
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😌☝🏻I just had a I don't date broke men in my profile when I was on Tinder. The amount of hate I got. But you'll avoid the trash. Be upfront about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:20 PM
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I don't really care about the whole it's hard to approach women, if it's hard to approach women, approach women who aren't out of your League. The thing is these nice, feminine women are also looking for a HVM. I expect a man to have good conventionally attractive masculine features since I am attractive. I expect a man to be taller than I am. I expect him to be a responsible adult because I am one and I expect him to have a net worth more than mine. These are just a few little things. There's a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:15 PM
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Men freak out over anything that they can't control. They are constantly told how women demand wealth and status and that's all a guy should provide for a model-esh girlfriend/wife. So they freak out when we prefer men who are tall and look handsome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:02 PM
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A gift is a gift. While it's not suggested to sell your gifts. If I wish to sell or regift a gift that was given to me, it's completely fine. We've had some beautiful pieces of art with naked women in them but they weren't ever displayed in the Living Room and they definitely weren't my mum. But the wife tried to tell her husband (for over ten years according to her) and he wouldn't listen at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 10:58 AM
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😶I personally don't like the idea of a life size statue in the first place, get a girl a diamond ring, she'll be happier and would love to show it off I understand that not everyone is at the point financially where they can do this but there are other gemstones that exist too. This statue was not a symbol of his love and commitment, this was a gift from this man to himself that he forced on OP for years. It's similar to a man buying you Lingerie as a gift.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 10:17 AM
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That the French are more passionate about sex and how naked bodies are art. I've heard this one too many times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 10:05 AM
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I hate the word unicorn. I hate it with a burning passion. I have some traditional views regarding sex and if any LVM or Scrote finds out :/ I don't even want to get to the annoying one sided conversations they have with me. Narwales is a community of people who've lost weight or trying to lose weight, as far as I'm aware, it's here on Reddit. A very common thing these men (not from that subreddit) assume about women who've lost weight is that their mindset is of an obese women with low standard…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 10:05 AM
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😪I assume OPs husband used the French card here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:32 AM
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☝🏻☠️Life sized nude body
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:16 AM
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I never understood the competition these LVM have with their SOs. They want 50-50 but they want to be in power. The ex I mention pretty often here as an example had a very competitive streak, toxic to a whole other level. The final flag to me was him bragging that I made more than his older brother's girlfriend and I nope-ed out of the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:15 AM
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I'm a Hindu, we have several stories about women sacrificing themselves for their kids/husbands/lovers. We have women being raped and humiliated in the texts. There are texts saying if you are born a woman, you must've sinned in your past life. Then there are ones that say all women go to hell unless they sacrifice themselves. These are just a few. The Greek and Norse mythology is pretty similar. The woman will give up her life for her husband. Loki and Sigyn. Persephone and Hades. It's like the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:11 AM
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The nude female body is represented in a lot of beautiful paintings. I have a few hanging in my own house and in my parent's house. The French are pretty chill with naked bodies, male or female. But what made this creepy was it was OP's own body and it caused her stress and her husband was being an ass about it, plus it felt like he was using the excuse of being french to be a pervy ahole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:03 AM
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😂if you read these you'll notice a similar pattern everywhere, women sacrificing themselves for others or being murdered and stuff for just existing. Edit: all the religious texts in my country are the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:52 AM
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My favourite right now is if men only want to reduce us to how we are physically, why can't I simply reduce them to the size of their wallets and their physical attributes too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:48 AM
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Ah I wasn't aware about this. I thought it was some movie thing. I personally don't really like these mythological stories, women get raped, beaten, cursed, kidnapped and such for simply existing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:42 AM
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It was a gift from him to himself and not to OP. The first red flag. She shouldn't have gotten married to this guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 02:51 AM
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Same but this is worse in my head. This guy is using art as an excuse and the people went at OP because he put so much effort and made it. I've had guys get me romantic gifts but a life size statue of my naked body is a gift for the guy himself, it's like gifting me Lingerie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 02:50 AM
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This reminded me of that post too. I grew up around artists because it was a serious hobby that my dad had and nobody does this. I've never felt more enraged on behalf of someone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 02:31 AM
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I've experienced this. Reading these things just confirms that a few people I dated before and my ex was a LVM. I've had these 'bros' give me all kinds of excuses. From: 'Im studying' to ' Oh I'm at the gym' to 'Im sleeping' and 'im going to go take a nap'. It's all BS. It simply means he doesn't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 02:30 AM
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😂 love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:11 AM
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Exactly, I intially thought she overreacted but then reading it through you could tell the shit Strom that was brewing in the situation. I hope this lady gets some help because she won't get it through Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:50 AM
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😶this was one of the most messed up things I read today. The amount of women defending Op's husband was crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:27 AM
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😪what threw me off was the support this guy received in the comments. From the women too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:25 AM
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That definitely played a part I believe. I think she had a problem with it after the kids being born
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:20 AM
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I believe the lady has been trying to convince her husband since ten years to get rid of it. Edit: she says they've been together from 12 years and he gave her the sculpture for their first anniversary. Doesn't mention if it's wedding anniversary or for the year they were together. She may have wanted to get rid of it after the kids being born and she mentions she's been asking him to get rid of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:17 AM
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This one hit too close. My dad did painting as a part time hobby and he's very good at it. He's done some nude oil paints of my mum that I found when one of the storage rooms. I asked my dad about it because I didn't know it was my mum, he used to have them in the bedroom but they replaced it a year after I was born because the paintings made my mum uncomfortable. I've had dates with artists and they've been very respectful about these things. I don't want to imagine the amount of stress this la…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:14 AM
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🤔I'm comfortable staying away from such men. I wasn't aware about this tho. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 10:30 PM
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Yes. No matter what most LVM say, they will try to prove ' they are the men' in weird ways. It's important to make sure we only get into relationships with people who will support us and our goals. That's how we can all grow together. I'm glad you were able to get out of that relationship and can now focus on things that mean more to you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 08:40 PM
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Oh OP. I believe you liked the idea of what you guys could have been, you didn't like him. For the longest time, I was crazily, madly in love with the 'idea' of this guy who would love bomb me every three weeks or so. Maintained minimal conversation, just enough to keep me hooked. And would call me with only sex in mind. Would tell me how he wanted me to be his girlfriend when drunk and told me how he wasn't ready for a relationship when sober. I loved the idea of what he could be. I didn't love…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 07:59 PM
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Ah! Don't get me started on this. The amount of men I meet who expect me to be nice or friendly to them because they just know someone I know is crazy. They live in this fantasy that they've built for themselves thinking we all want any form of relationship with them when we are just being 'nice' because of manners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 07:25 PM
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That's what they all do. My ex was similar. My boyfriend right now is someone who's more excited than I am about my education and what I am passionate about and helps me with it all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 07:13 PM
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Most Men don't want to compromise. Their idea of comprising is the girl giving up things for them. We had a lot of people telling her to go to the uni of her choice and that she's better off without him but there were enough Scrotes asking her to talk to him about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 06:36 PM
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Amen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 06:34 PM
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Yes they did :) But there were Scrotes telling her to talk to him about it to curb his insecurities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 06:34 PM
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Was the friend and the scrote reported for trafficking? This is a very serious offence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 02:16 PM
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I've been seeing this a lot on Reddit, men crying about their girlfriends/wives wanting bigger rings because their financial situation has improved. Girls dating men older than them by a decade. Short guys crying about not able to get dates. I've just mentally checked out. I feel bad for these people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 01:56 PM
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It's funny how they assume we are starving that we will use them as a free meal ticket, at McDonald's. Make it make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 01:53 PM
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And what? Is this guy a 6 foot tall, attractive looking, well muscular, well mannered, has his own apartment, doesn't have any toxic friends or family, won't push her BOUNDARIES, makes atleast 80k+ a year, Doesn't do any of the crap he's stated he doesn't like himself. Give me a break. You can have standards that you live upto. Also, application form? He's not worth it. He's going to cry and join the RP movement in a few years, if he hasn't already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 11:18 AM
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Just looking at these things makes my head hurt, who raised these men. But I'm glad he didn't use the mom to get to know the daughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 10:23 AM
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😂 anything you do. Join the gym, wear a red lipstick, switch up your perfume, wear heels. There is some random male who will be like oh are you doing this for me? I feel like a Queen wearing red lipstick I ain't wearing it for anyone but myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 10:16 AM
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I find them to be very toxic. I have a list of names that these guys follow and listen To and I reached a point where I apply these filters to even male friends. These men are quick to blame women and ask what we bring to the relationship when they know they've lied their way into the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 07:58 PM
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The men from the Manosphere don't actually have braincells as far as I can tell. They want a girl who hasn't 'slept around' but expect a girl to have sex with them on the first date. They want someone to take care of them and stay at home but shame the girls when they ask a man now much he makes. They don't want to get off their asses and join the gym but want an attractive 20-25 year old who looks like an IG model. They cry gold diggers when I'm sure most of us have more to our names than they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 07:15 PM
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I always demand that any guy respects his parents ( given that they have a stable enough relationship. Honestly if the guy is at odds with his parents because of a stupid reason. It's a red flag) But I have seen an insane amount of LVM who are mama's boys. I've had a friend accuse me of 'leading on' her older brother after her brother told her I lead him on when I refused to entertain the idea of a date with him the very first time he pinged me. He was 23 at that time and I was 16. That's how I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:59 PM
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Yes! I discovered FDS because I stumbled up on it because of a YT video comment section. And I've noticed even if I did follow some of the handbook subconsciously there are too many LVM who will try to bring a woman down. It's going to be better if we just have a database saying 'yeah not him' rather than going on 2-3 dates, dealing with the guilt tripping and whatever these guys who pretend to be HV do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 05:35 PM
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I'll look into this. This can save a lot of women a lot of time and trauma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 04:12 PM
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🤔 I suppose we can have it based out of another country. As someone who is submitting these things, the ladies shouldn't have trouble because of being Anon over that network.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 04:09 PM
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🤔 someone mentioned suing, they could do it for slander. However, something more low laying could be useful. Plus, if the website opens in a country where these Scrotes can't sue us for sharing our own experiences, we could all use it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 02:46 PM
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Is it considered slander if some girl is just sharing her experience with the said guy and mentions his name. Nothing else🤔 The problem is the girls who will say it's bad. Even when most of guys have zero problems talking about such stuff and showing around pictures of the girls they've been with or are with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 02:33 PM
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I just wish we had an app or something where we could put in details about all these scotes. You meet someone, you check their name and you see if anyone has ever dated him and what they've said. Wishful thinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 01:09 PM
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Exactly. The thing is these men who cry about gold diggers is that they will demand 50-50. And 50-50 for most men is the woman will handle 50% of what he's supposed to take care of and she will handle 100% of what she is supposed to take care of. Doing the laundry, or Washing the utensils once every two weeks isn't 50%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 09:41 AM
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I generally have more gold ( actual Money, Connections and Knowledge) than most of the men who've called me a gold digger. Been happening since I was 16 because I decided I wanted to buy myself a pretty solitaire ring. I've dated men who were rich but cribbed about buying anything, I was out in under a day. Don't entertain such people. Let them moan about it for the next 20 years sis. There are better men out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 11:17 PM
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Always. I'm tired of seeing men whining about gold diggers. Like dude you don't even have any gold. What exactly are you complaining about. I get too many men who will causally tell me how I have expensive tastes and no man can ever provide for me. You don't need to tell me your poor in a roundabout way. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 11:13 PM
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I'm with someone and we both know we want to get married. We both know it's going to be a long engagement because that's the way I want it to be. But I ain't ever going to indulge in this kind of crap. OP if these things are triggering you. Very silently, un-follow these people. I did a social media cleanse a year ago and I've never been happier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 11:10 PM
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Lol. She wants us to congratulate her or something? Also, most guys who cry psycho won't actually tell you why the woman became a psycho in their eyes. Oh you aren't falling for my shit, you are a psycho. Oh you want me to have accountability, she's a psycho who demands too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 11:05 PM
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Yes, we can't generalize these things.
/r/seduction08/07/21 05:38 PM
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Ah. I have an account that doesn't disclose any of that luckily. I've had a few bad experiences with giving out my number. Ah, I generally have the person message me :) wether they want to follow or not is their decision.
/r/seduction08/07/21 05:32 PM
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🌝✋🏻I refuse to answer this question. I am not a provider. The man is a provider. He needs to ask himself this. The funny thing is, most of these men aren't worth dating. Plus I'd ruin his confidence if I told him what I bring to the table.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 03:44 PM
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Exactly. It's safe!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 03:19 PM
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My autocorrect changed it to pickles too🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 03:15 PM
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True. However, I've Had this happen quite a lot. I have a substantial amount of followers on social media. I generally get such messages. They go to the requests tab so I don't check them that often but it's a lot of men I wouldn't waste a minute on, then their wives or girlfriends asking me to block them. I recently had a pickme harass me because I replied to her boyfriend's comment on my picture with a thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 01:25 PM
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Most women like nice muscles and an attractive face along with a healthy bank account 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 11:27 AM
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I personally prefer not to exchange numbers with people I meet randomly and like. If he's going to take me out on a date, then sure but otherwise you get my social media Id and the number later if I feel comfortable enough sharing it.
/r/seduction08/07/21 11:10 AM
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Same! I was like why do you need a gun.
/r/seduction08/07/21 11:08 AM
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I'm someone who will be shallow to anyone if I notice they are being shallow. I usually don't care what someone looks like if they are a decent person and has a good basic hygiene. But if I can get a handsome guy with good genes (heath and appearance wise) and a stable job along with zero mental health issues to date me, why would I want someone who would tell me I'm not a 7 or an 8 but a 4 at best when he himself is at the bottom of the barrell. I'm tired of the mental drama most unattractive m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 11:06 AM
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😌I used this as a vetting technique with men before I found my boyfriend. Most men who are or will do well in life know how to read your body language. I don't need to tell him to get me flowers or gifts or that anything hurts or what I want because he knows and he wants to get them for me or help me without me asking him to. He knew it from the first date. He remembers the little things I've told him since forever and Till date makes sure to keep that info handy. He just knows. Give Zero Change…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 10:54 AM
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50/50 is a lie. No matter how hard most men tried, they wouldn't be able to even do the 50% things that a women does, most don't even want to try. Men can call me a gold digger all they want but that's just a guilt tactic they use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 10:28 AM
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She wanted to make sure the other woman won't text him back. Also the reason I think she mentioned they have a child together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 09:57 AM
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A lot of us don't realise the power we hold today. Most men aren't all that, but the lowest of low will expect you to submit to him and pi k up 50% of his work load and 100% of your responsibilities because of the Feminist movement. Most men don't know how bad the women had it because they simply don't care. My dad has cut family off because one of my cousins in the past year went on a rant about how he should inherit what my dad has made since I'm a girl and I'm just going to get married and ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 09:53 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 08:05 PM
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I'm 25 and I've been with this HVM I've been dating for about 2 years now, officially atleast. But I've dated one LVM and I was the person who fixed almost everything. I was the one driving between cities to see him. I was the one stressing out because he forgot something or sprung up something on me last minute. I'm someone who has decided to not have sex and the LVM I was with intially told me it was fine but then went on trying to push every single deal breaker I had put up. Made me clean up …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 07:35 PM
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It's weird how they think everyone wants their man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 07:17 PM
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It's crazy how women pick LVM. She says he's unemployed which tells me she is picking up the financial responsibility and he still has the b@lls to DM other women. Then she ignores the part where he messaged the girl and asks her to block him. How many girls are you going to ask to block your husband. LVM never change. Don't reproduce with them. Don't get married to them. You can have a beautiful life, don't waste it behind a LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 06:52 PM
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Interestingly, I've seen Muslim households where both partners earn. The men still provide for the women even if she has her own money. I agree no matter the religion it depends how and where a woman grew up as it's what most girls are comfortable with, I.e she will be okay with 'LVM behaviour and tendencies' because she isn't aware about it. One of the reasons we need to visit therapists and counsellors, they help us heal and understand ourselves in a way. I've noticed a lot of men will test th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 04:41 PM
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Yes, where I'm from. It's very common for women to throw away her goals, life's desires and wishes to cater to the men in her family or anyone she gets married To. I stumbled across my boyfriend and the stark difference you see between the way HVM and LVM treats you and your ambitions is crazy. I've reached a point where I now expect a certain behaviour if the man even wants to be friends and it annoys most of them but I'm not going to lower my standards for anyone anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 06:43 AM
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Here's something interesting. A good friend is a Muslim. I love to travel and we've travelled to multiple Middle eastern countries together. Before the pandemic, we did travel to Iran and one thing I noticed was the huge amount of respect men had for women there. It's crazy. I saw men carrying the kids, bags and what not just so their wives could walk freely. I've had more random men open and close doors for me, Pull out my chair, etc. Than anywhere else. I had young girls tell me how their reli…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 05:17 PM
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OP. I'm Indian. We do the whole Arranged Marriages thing too. I understand and feel you. My best friend is currently going through something very similar to what you are experiencing. Here is what you do, honey. •Decide your standards for accepting and rejecting proposals. •Talk to your parents about your preferences/standards and do not even entertain anyone that doesn't meet your standards. •You stand your ground. •You don't take any crap from anyone. •Please accept that it's better to be happ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 03:18 PM
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To the basics intially, there are not too many high value women who would go out of their way to seek out more high value women to be friends with. Ideally, you meet one of them and she will always introduce you to her group of friends, after making sure you are not just there for 'handouts'. I'm 25 now and I've met most of the high value women that I spend time with through my business. I'm someone who ghost writes for people and I'm lucky enough to have met some amazing high value women who he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 03:11 PM
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Thinks he is entitled to your time and body because women aren't people but mere objects to be owned. Frequently uses the phrase ' She's not yours, it's just your turn' when talking about women whose standards he doesn't even fit into.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:52 PM
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Already did. He sent me a message through a new account telling me I was a man hating b-word and how I'd die alone about an hour later. I'll just out him if he continues, we have about 10-20 people in common who follow us both, I think that should be enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:41 PM
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I haven't heard of this yet? Can I find it in the privacy settings?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:35 PM
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I had him blocked for a year or so. And he was constantly commenting and such with new accounts. You could tell because he would make extremely crap comments on my posts about how girls now were all h**s and things like how he wished my cat got into an accident. He wouldn't dare make those with his OG account and they stopped when I unblocked him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:35 PM
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Four months. She needs to consult him about everything before she does it after just four months. I'm sure she's worked hard on all these decisions she made for herself to give her a better life. I've done computer Science and love Creative writing, ended up taking a few courses, it is difficult. You do not breeze through it. I hope the next impulsive decision this girl takes is to stop dating this guy who did bring up how he's waited for her while she lived her life and dated other people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:48 AM
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Ikr! I was with a guy who kept demanding I send Nudes. It reached a point of extremely toxic behaviour from his end. The amount of times I tried to have a conversation about how I wasn't comfortable about it, with him completely ignoring it. Worst 3 months of my life -,-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 03:57 AM
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