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I have mastered baiting. Sometimes twice a day.
/r/seduction29/12/18 01:45 PM
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Read book of Pook as well
/r/askTRP07/12/18 08:16 PM
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The place where you joined the game.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 09:51 PM
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If they complain about the gym attire then give them a hard next.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 09:03 PM
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Seriously. One day the look will be gone and then the switch is off and the well is dry.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 09:26 PM
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Take pictures of artsy things or nature or even just a background then use the avatar of you instead.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 09:41 PM
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Do you have new clothes to show off your new look?
/r/askTRP06/10/18 10:21 PM
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Set it to desktop view and try again
/r/askTRP27/09/18 09:19 PM
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Engaging them as “post wall bitches” seems to piss them off...
/r/askTRP27/09/18 05:34 AM
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Could it be that you are flirty with all the younger women but give off a vibe that you are repulsed by her?
/r/askTRP26/09/18 10:07 PM
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Loads of helpful advice here. Thanks guys.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 09:00 PM
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Oh am I not supposed to do that??? 🤷‍♂️
/r/askTRP18/09/18 10:19 PM
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I should have been clearer. I agree with the rest days, but right now I can’t get to the gym as often as I need so I want to do exercises that are not using weights on those days instead (I know it is not optimal to gain size and that I need to get to the gym) Also when I am at the gym want to do more than just bench presses. Why avoid flat bench?
/r/askTRP18/09/18 10:14 PM
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We are victims of our own philosophy. We say the man should be the alpha leader. Then the women expect us to do all the driving. I remember kissing a girl one time and she literally just sat there with her mouth open.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 09:59 PM
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People talk a lot about AWALT but everyone is different. TRP focuses on the female desire for a stud- alpha male that has the aspects of a lover. This is definitely true for ONS but some girls have a strong desire for a provider (the other selection criteria, usually more for LTR). Perhaps you have unlocked the combination of provider and comfort with good looks and rugged body
/r/askTRP17/09/18 06:56 PM
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Read Book of Pook. He talks about how you should get off the computer and onto the babes. You know the theory, now you have to try it out. https://bookofpook.neocities.org/
/r/askTRP16/09/18 05:53 AM
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The problem with weed is that it cuts anxiety but also the desire to self improve. Your not studying and not working out. Maybe you need to cut back on the weed?
/r/askTRP15/09/18 07:07 AM
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Not total ghost (you don’t have to hard next) but she should have the feeling that she is chasing you. So waiting her out sometimes is good. Otherwise you initiate activity dates. Also beware that you are developing oneitis.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 04:49 AM
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16 year olds are completely unpredictable.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 09:47 PM
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Don’t give up. You are almost there. Read this. https://bookofpook.neocities.org
/r/askTRP09/09/18 11:36 AM
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The plane should not leave with the wrong people on board. Next time book the whole plane. You can’t always de -escalate thugs. Also did the big guy look like Bane?
/r/askTRP09/09/18 11:11 AM
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Have you thought of getting your hair done like Chadwick Boseman in Black Panther? It makes a statement but is conservative at the same time
/r/askTRP08/09/18 12:54 PM
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That’s the beard to have.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 08:16 AM
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TRP sidebar would say she would branch swing if a better alpha prospect came along. So that would be a possible solution- introduce her to a better alpha that might be interested
/r/askTRP07/09/18 10:17 PM
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I can’t give medical advice but I would want to kill any dormant diseases if it were possible. There are any number of diseases that go dormant for a long time then reappear (usually viruses but still). My point though is that if that’s what is irritating her throat then treat it.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/18 09:47 PM
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I don’t think you can stop her. But you could let her know that you are there if she needs you. That you are willing to come pick her up anywhere or anytime if she (when she) gets in trouble. Maybe say that you don’t recommend what she’s doing but that you won’t try to stop her, but you want her to know that you care.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 09:35 PM
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You should get tested. If not you could make her sick again. Both partners need to be treated.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/18 09:23 PM
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Ok that’s probably where I’m fucking up. Need more work on approach.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 09:55 PM
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I’m getting those IOIs you list, but when I ignore her she doesn’t come running but just flirts with the next guy. So I’m missing a step there. I agree on the work on myself though as I’ve noticed a lot more attention from women in general now that I’ve started working on myself.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 09:43 PM
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As you think so shall you become. Why have you decided not to be a prize
/r/askTRP05/09/18 09:38 PM
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Please read this immediately! https://bookofpook.neocities.org/ Read the lessons first then the part called aim high. You are the prize.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 09:16 PM
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No. I mean that you are the one that has decided that you are lower value.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 08:57 PM
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It’s the look on your face. There is a hot woman at work that sometimes says something sexy and she always notices that I daydream about it. She can’t read my thoughts but it’s obvious from my face. I do think that you should msg the guy above and consider counseling.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 09:18 PM
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I feel better about my own failures to read code just reading this.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 09:05 PM
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I have not read the books but it seems like he is perceiving himself as lower value? Could this be the case?
/r/askTRP04/09/18 08:59 PM
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I’ve only read a summary but it’s applicable for women as well yes.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 09:05 PM
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Yeah u/reformsociety is totally right.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 08:58 PM
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Fidelo has an infinite room full of women. He has abundance and outcome independence. +/- one woman means nothing to him. Also the friend did do the performance without expecting a reward. You seem very obsessed with ‘extraction of value’. While I understand the problem with being a ‘nice guy’ there is nothing wrong with helping a friend.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/18 09:43 PM
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I know what you mean. It’s always after they quit being interested that suddenly you can see the difference in attention from before.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 05:55 PM
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She is just nervous about dating.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 09:11 PM
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Read this book of Pook. It is a life changer and will help motivate you to push even further. https://bookofpook.neocities.org
/r/seduction26/08/18 09:09 PM
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she is expecting me to do it [kino]and if I don’t do it fast enough she will be disappointed about me and lose interest. This is the gold nugget in the comments. Kino isn’t just a good idea to eventually try out. It is expected. (Starting light and check response)
/r/seduction26/08/18 09:02 PM
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Read this https://bookofpook.neocities.org
/r/askTRP26/08/18 06:23 PM
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Combination of confidence, not losing your cool and being in charge of the situation at hand. But the smoking example is also frame. Like when a hottie says can you shut that window for me, I’m cold and I go over like a beta and shut it. I have not maintained frame then but entered hers.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 06:17 PM
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Read this https://bookofpook.neocities.org/ He addresses your issues
/r/seduction22/08/18 09:06 PM
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When girls are away on a trip especially to another country they sometimes decide that social rules no longer apply so they are suddenly allowed to be more slutty and have fun without consequences. Same applies to men if you think about it.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 07:49 PM
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Yeah I think that is better than refusing to answer.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 04:55 PM
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Also don’t eat curry before you go out. Also don’t shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 04:11 PM
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Read book of pook. https://bookofpook.neocities.org/
/r/askTRP22/08/18 04:07 PM
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Seriously the IDGAF is the wrong choice with studies. I fucked up and paid for it years later when applying for other things. Work hard and study hard and play hard.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 04:06 PM
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Wait it out. If you keep messaging now she will hamster some reason to be done with you. If you wait then you will be fresh and interesting.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 04:04 PM
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In high school I was a bit nerdy and not exactly strong. I certainly didn’t know what frame was, but this huge football player bumped into me rather hard accidentally on purpose at a party. I understood that if I didn’t stop it, it would continue. I told him to apologize. He says he won’t because he is bigger than me (by a factor of 3) and could kick my ass. I said that he was probably right that he could kick my ass but that I still demanded an apology. I was rather brazen but the point is that…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 03:57 PM
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Yeah that might be a better way of putting it. Either way OP should read it.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 04:44 AM
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I don’t approach 1000 women. I interact with 1000 women and approach the 10 I might match with plus a few that are just hot but really not what I want. But you are correct that I can’t find 1000 women in my home. Hence my point- to answer your question- the more people that you interact with- the more women you meet and the more that you can approach.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 08:58 PM
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She did you a favor. Because it led you here. Now you must start your journey. It begins now. After you read the sidebar go to r/theredpill and read more. Then read the book of pook. https://bookofpook.neocities.org/ Understand that you are lucky- I waited twenty years to read the sidebar. You have been given a gift. Use it wisely and become great not for her but for you
/r/askTRP21/08/18 08:50 PM
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You don’t have to be out clubbing all the time but it’s a numbers game. Let’s say you match with 1/100 girls. If you only interact with ten girls then you have 10 percent chance that you are a match. But if you interact with 1000 you should find 10 girls you match with. You can improve the match percentage by lowering your standards or increase your SMV but the number of girls approached will still be a significant factor. Read book of pook. https://bookofpook.neocities.org/
/r/askTRP21/08/18 08:42 PM
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https://bookofpook.neocities.org/
/r/askTRP21/08/18 08:31 PM
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Book of Pook is useless for game because he explains why you don’t need game. The book has changed my life (albeit way too late) and is a must read. But if you just want game you want something else.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 08:30 PM
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Fuck you too. Really, that you have no pain doesn’t lessen the others. I will assume that you are honestly asking and not trolling- imagine wandering around for twenty years (after puberty) being a nice guy. Buying flowers, holding doors, being the perfect gentleman and responsible. You work hard but everyone shits on you anyway and you don’t know why. You are a nice guy- girls should be able to see that. But at the party the other night she drops me like a fucking rock the second a better alpha…
/r/askTRP21/08/18 08:26 PM
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Yeah I’ve seen it happen. Usually moving from me (lol) but didn’t realize how instinctively/ reflexively it was. I thought that they thought it through logically.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 08:07 PM
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I’ve been lurking for a few months now but this incident made it very clear. It’s one thing to read somebody that got dumped screaming AWALT, it’s another to actually see the events unfold and be able witness first hand
/r/askTRP21/08/18 04:29 PM
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I definitely see what you mean about the advice part. She literally said I was fine and didn’t need to change but her actions were the opposite.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 04:57 AM
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Yes that was the point of my observation. How she seemed to honestly not have thought through her behavior. I sit around analyzing how people are thinking and maybe they aren’t thinking at all- just reacting. This red pill is hard for me to swallow but it was an eye opener to see and understand her through the red lens and get confirmation from her using a blue lens.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 04:45 AM
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Yes I wanted feedback. The chad is more ripped but also better with the IDGAF attitude. I think she also was used to his kino from previous parties and knew she would be touched ergo his thigh touch outranks my touching her arm.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 09:50 PM
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IDGAF about her. I’m just experimenting. My point was that I thought women analyzed the situation and made a decision. But I believe her that in her world it just happened. Spontaneously without a conscious decision. That’s the part I find interesting. My own beta bitch tendencies are a separate question;)
/r/askTRP20/08/18 09:45 PM
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Go with your hike. Activity dates are better anyway and you won’t get cockblocked if it goes well. I vote for the hike.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 09:33 PM
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If the making out went well, why didn’t you close?
/r/askTRP20/08/18 09:31 PM
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You have a good question here. I just don’t know the answer. I would tell anyone who asked personally that I wasn’t invited but I would be careful to sound neutral.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 11:16 PM
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It’s rude as fuck. At least now you know that you cannot trust him
/r/askTRP12/08/18 11:02 PM
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She is interested in you and was trying to be playful with you. She sensed you were nervous and either backed of because of it or she interpreted the message that you didn’t like her. Either can be fixed if you ask her out. ‘Hey let’s skip work and catch a movie some time ?». Just kidding with that line but I would ask her out
/r/seduction12/08/18 11:00 PM
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Good tips. Thanks.
/r/seduction12/08/18 10:55 PM
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I think it says more about him that you were not invited. I would actually say casually to friends “I wasn’t invited” but keep it neutral like you don’t give s fuck either way so they see he is a douche.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 10:49 PM
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Really depends on what schools are near you and the instructor. Also do you want self improvement or just fighting skills? At the end of the day forget what we say and take the one that you feel nd interesting
/r/askTRP12/08/18 10:38 PM
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Not saying that you are wrong. Maybe the guy is a jerk but how can you be sure that you just weren’t on the mailing list as an oversight?
/r/askTRP12/08/18 10:31 PM
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Yeah I wish I could get “mixed signals” like that- “I don’t want to cook just go out” -
/r/askTRP12/08/18 08:20 AM
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https://bookofpook.neocities.org/
/r/askTRP11/08/18 11:50 PM
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Sometimes tossing shit back to the wife is a valid response. And it has to be preemptive to work.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 01:56 PM
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I don’t know about the natural order but definitely today due to the large numbers of thirsty men, women do not have to approach. Instead they have to weed out people using shit tests
/r/askTRP11/08/18 06:06 AM
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Where in the sidebar are they advising you to act desperate and butthurt? That’s all this would achieve.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 06:01 AM
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Girls are choosing but they are lazy like us. They choose from the 100 men that approach them. I went out with some sexy women from work and they were able to choose from a large swath of men that came over to them. Why would they bother choosing the guy hiding in the corner? 99 times out of 100 the girls are not going to make an approach. That means that if you are not approaching then you can only hope for the 1%.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 05:51 AM
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The FB route is a wimpy choice (so probably what I would do) so it’s better to be manly and direct. Quit processing and just do it. I’m sure she walks around so you can find her alone. Figure out her schedule and then give a concrete ‘date’. “Hey do you want to get drinks after work Thursday or Friday? “ she will say no if she is not interested.
/r/seduction10/08/18 11:30 PM
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Read book of Pook. This is explained there better than I can
/r/askTRP09/08/18 05:50 PM
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https://bookofpook.neocities.org
/r/askTRP09/08/18 07:49 AM
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Try “Lets go to my place and find out? “ I had a friend that got this all the time. He always let the male clerks pick out his clothes and was overly well groomed. Maybe it’s the belt?
/r/askTRP25/07/18 12:37 PM
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Sorry I’m neither cute nor hot so can’t help. I’d say though that you can start with frame. You seem to see your “cute” as a negative. But girls can like cute. Be a charmer. Try to get them to call you charming, even as you follow the IDGAF and not giving them too much attention/ just when you do give attention give charming / it’s like a higher version of cute.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 10:02 PM
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That should be on a T-shirt
/r/askTRP23/07/18 07:24 AM
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Totally spot on post. We can learn from AWALT to not be mad at our Unicorn when she does exactly what would be expected of her in a given situation. Then we learn from it - how can we change so the situation doesn’t occur. Example, getting complacent in LTR and forgetting to follow up. Allowing SMV to fall and losing focus on your dreams.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 04:48 PM
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Find out who has a great reputation as an orator and take time to go watch them perform. Keep your questions in mind while you hear them speak and learn to emulate them.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 06:52 AM
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RP advice- put her on backburner and wait it out til she pops back up. Meantime find abundance. BP strategy- go play paintball again next week.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 11:07 PM
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You are one of her plates
/r/askTRP19/07/18 06:51 AM
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People like to be part of a group or tribe. This the tribalism. It makes them feel better to put down everyone else. Yes it is negative not just because of the negativity and hatred, but the divisiveness can caused people to not see good ideas just cause they are “bluepill”. Rollo recently had a post in r/theredpill about the term alpha. Everyone wants to be alpha cause clearly alpha means it’s the best. Thus any beta strategies must be inferior. He contends that this nomenclature is counter pro…
/r/askTRP18/07/18 09:14 AM
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I will disagree slightly. If you are in a gym with other people and practice safe lifting you can get away with no spotter, but then you miss that last lift. But if you are alone in a garage or basement you are really risking it with no spot.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 07:26 AM
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Some people have status or wealth that makes it easy. Some are model like. Some are just lying or sleeping with hoes but saying HB9 here. But others are using the skills of TRP and gaining an advantage that makes it less hard to get women.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 10:13 PM
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There is no easy fix.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 09:35 PM
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Agree. This is frame.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 07:22 AM
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A string of failures is a string of experiences. Take the IDGAF pill, learn from your failure, get out there again
/r/askTRP15/07/18 07:19 AM
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This needs to be in the side bar
/r/askTRP15/07/18 07:18 AM
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Also, I realized that I started pulling when I stopped giving a fuck about women and started focusing on my hobbies and studies. Boom. There is the answer. OP you are coming off as needy. Work on the IDGAF.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 07:15 AM
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First don’t focus on what other people tell you she said. In fact don’t focus on what she said at all. Girls are obligated by social norms to say “ yeah sex is a bad idea Jane, thanks for the rescue. But look at her actions. She sought you out and tried to get you back to the pool room (to make out, most likely more). You said no. Then she hugs you to apologize. Yes set something up. Read up on how to do this- you don’t ask her if she wants to meet up. You ask her if Friday at 7 works with her. …
/r/askTRP15/07/18 07:07 AM
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Listen up dude- “Girls want to fuck me, should I do it “ is just bragging. Of course you should do it. Even if they find out you get abundance mentality. Maybe you should have a 3some?
/r/askTRP15/07/18 06:51 AM
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I read the headline and came here just to find the problem. Can’t find it.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 06:49 AM
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I agree with Mamba about the crab bucket. But it also can be jolting for people that have assigned you an SMV value, and suddenly you have more potential than they realized. Imagine in the old days with pool sharks (as in billiards). They pretended to suck, then when the bet was high they suddenly were skilled. What made it work was that people already assigned a value to them and couldn’t believe that suddenly they were better. It is jarring for them. But yes, definitely also the crab bucket.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 06:47 AM
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He is saying she took aim at him with her weapon (HR) and it was effective (hit the target) cause now he is not a threat.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 06:06 AM
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A lot of people mistake TRP for being an asshole/chad. Doesn’t have to be. Is lifting a violation? (Of gold rule) no. Holding frame? No. Ignoring shot tests or otherwise shutting them down ? No. Push Pull does not mean you have to be an asshole- they just have advantage on the push. Also you can have Abundance mentality and IDGAF without being an ass (though again they have the advantage. Focus on your Frame.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 10:26 PM
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Then tell her you are not interested or keep ignoring her and don’t worry about wether she introduces you to her bf.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 08:55 PM
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Learn a few lines of French. Women love it if you can say voulez vous...
/r/askTRP13/07/18 08:54 PM
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And now you know why. That’s a good sign if you want a go with her.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 08:51 PM
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Read up on Kino. Focus on her but don’t be needy- dance near her not up in her grill. Read up on how to “ping” a woman.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 01:28 PM
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Why not ask the TA if it’s all right to put moves on her? Like ask him straight up if he is still interested in her or not?
/r/askTRP13/07/18 01:23 PM
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Easiest examples are where you would normally say thank you. “Thank you for dancing with me” sounds like she did you a favor. Instead after you dance “You are a good dancer”. - reward. “Thanks for the massage “. —> “you have magic hands”. Or where you like what they have done. “I like that you “—are punctual.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 12:34 PM
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You are viewing the pull as negative. It is only negative to compliment when you are not complimenting good behavior. Think of giving a dog a treat when he shits on the floor. Not good. Same with pull. Random compliments can make you look needy, but well timed rewards are effective.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 10:33 AM
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This is a gold nugget here. I’m only beginning to understand (let alone implement) because I have been blue pill for so long. It’s these nuances that are critical to understand. Thanks for clarifying. (Note that I’m complimenting Blackhawk not to get something from him, but because I actually liked what he said, - ergo where the compliment comes from matters)
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 09:52 AM
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The TRP method works best if you have no oneitis- trying to get back some girl you lost is similar to oneitis and this more likely that you will fail. However there is no harm in trying, but don’t focus on the past. Start over.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 05:27 PM
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But if it’s just Vuittons , then no
/r/askTRP08/07/18 05:09 PM
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Girls expect you to do all the escalation. If you don’t the. They get mad even if they never gave you any clear signals. Then they auto-reject you and blame you. (Source- blue pill experience)
/r/askTRP08/07/18 05:06 PM
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Is there a pickup subreddit? I need some of that to balance
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 11:07 AM
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It’s two thoughts. Why can she leave you so easily is because they adapted to change to a new man quickly. The return/ staying with an abuser is because they developed an emotional armour due to the process of the war winners often being abusive. Thus women tolerate more abuse. (Not saying I agree, just explaining the logic of your quotes
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 09:19 PM
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It’s not too late to approach if you see her again soon. However, you missed the chance that you had. You have to go through the door while it’s open, because it will close. Plus that Gretzky quote everyone here loves- You miss every shot you don’t take
/r/askTRP01/07/18 09:26 AM
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This should be in the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 09:11 AM
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Know the feeling. I think I chose nightmare mode at the beginning of the game and have never been given the option to choose even hard mode.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 09:08 AM
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It is not only that. But I notice that you haven’t attempted to answer ops questions either.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 12:58 PM
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Why are you asking for advice on a sex/dating strategy site?
/r/askTRP18/06/18 08:54 PM
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