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Yeah man, mixed amphetamine salts breaks havoc on the nervous system. Screws up your neurotransmitter production/regulation along with hormones. You'll end up with compulsive habits. Your age group is already hyperactive hormonally, adding in stimulants is crossing wires. Get reading/watching on morse and make some changes. Besides all that, I'd look into stoicism, reading the bible for guidance and truth. Jocko willink podcast to learn about discipline. His famous line is Discipline = Freedom. …
/r/MGTOW29/02/20 04:06 AM
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Coming from alcoholism, 5 years sober. Past drug use too. Went through court system ect. Flipping perception is huge. Going from "I cant", I cant drink to I CHOOSE not too. Is a major step. Your mind has a perception habit when viewing things. If you cant change that into an aversion, you'll struggle. Second, detoxing and healing my body was 2nd. Through research, fasting, changing my diet and understanding what organs in the body effect mindshare, emotions ect...I've effectively reduced craving…
/r/MGTOW29/02/20 03:35 AM
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Just my opinion, try shrooms. I used psychedelics to recover from addictions, emotional trauma, OCD and childhood issues. While I'm not 100%, I am living a better life. It's a therapeutic use, not a party thing. Otherwise I'd suggest therapy. What you resist dealing with, persists. Good luck bro
/r/askTRP25/12/19 03:39 AM
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Thought about going back in? Is that even an option? How about a change of environment, aka moving...shouldn't be too hard considering what you've said you have to your name. You thought about leaving the country? Living abroad...major shift in perception could do you good.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 09:14 AM
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Join the military bro, get a purpose. Suicidal ideation hits hard when you realize you have no plan, no interests and no friends. If you're this aimless and lost, then join the military and see where it takes you. You can always flip the switch so to speak if you dont like it.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 07:53 AM
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http://archive.is/FaeIe This one?
/r/askTRP17/06/19 04:20 AM
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Fear can be a motivator to push or deter when used as a tool. As long as it's something you can utilize, the choice will help. If it's something that rises uncontrollably that you let control your choices then I believe it is not being used as a choice but more an irrational impulse. Overcoming fear is to make use of it, instead of running from it, avoiding it ect. Not sure if that helps but that's howi took your post.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 09:18 AM
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I'd make alternate plans as a backup(like chicks do) I would not confirm. Assume attraction, assume its confirmed. If she does not reach out, go do your other plan and soft next her until she reaches out.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 06:59 AM
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I dont see how bringing it up is helpful. I would just start creating abundance, pull back some and realize her feelz for you are decreasing. Less her, more you from a focus point of view.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 06:56 AM
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Iron Rule of Tomassi #3 Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 07:16 AM
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They call it "pregnant pauses" building social rapport. You dont stand there in silence for 5 minutes but you pause to compose yourself. The difference between reacting and responding. I sometimes just look at a chick in a way that conveys flirtation while smiling, they end up trying to read into my expression and ask a question, then I flip it and engage them. Just things to keep in my mind, blocking anxious reactions. A lot of guys get shocked, blindsided or just become in awe that a cute girl…
/r/askTRP12/04/19 08:38 AM
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Do you feel the need to respond right away? Using pauses, creating silence for a few seconds can help. I'd just smile, pause then respond. It sounds like you get caught off guard, and hamster out anything to dismiss the tension you might feel at that moment? Could be wrong
/r/askTRP12/04/19 08:18 AM
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Video games distract you from your life mission Gaming produces zero value Everything in moderation I personally can't stand them, I get bored after 5 minutes, literally. However I do not shame it or yell at people. The only one I have control over is myself. Do you, just dont complain when your life is not what you want it to be because you choose play over work generally speaking. Dont worry about others opinions, that's an external view. Do you
/r/askTRP12/04/19 04:59 AM
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Enjoy it while it lasts. You're young, not finished with school and do not need an LTR. Shit happens, we have all lost control, lost frame at one time. Focus on you, all these things you mention are from you, not her. Get back to working on your goals, raising smv. Instead of watching her chat up friends, start chatting up girls or people in general. Start building abundance, you are in scarcity which is why you mate guard and get upset with her behavior. You're in her frame. Keep using her for …
/r/askTRP11/04/19 04:36 AM
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Producing value, not consuming it. Accomplishment creates value which validates yourself. I notice when I feel depressed, it's because I'm doing nothing. Try creating a goals list, list simple things and cross them off the list. That's a dopamine hit while also validating value production. Make bed Brush teeth Do the dishes Clean out your car Get that assignment done by xx time Putting goals first will diminish the time you have to binge. The discipline will compound and one day you will wake up…
/r/askTRP10/04/19 06:49 AM
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Here's a few lines I learned in AA/sobriety court Expectations are premeditated resentment If nothing changes, then nothing will change Change your thoughts, change your life Anything that you cannot say no to, owns you Use your pain to change, tell yourself I'll do whatever it takes to never feel the way I feel right now, again. Whenever you feel the craving to use, put something in front of it. "Mop the floor" "do your laundry, then maybe" keep putting obstacles in front of bad desires. Be hon…
/r/askTRP10/04/19 03:27 AM
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Yeah man, I can relate to that. I used to feel everything, as if i wasn't in control of my life, myself and my thoughts. One day as i faced my consequences, I just asked myself wtf am I doing. I started paying attention. You have to ask yourself what you want. I used to drink every day, in the car, at work, when i had my son. It took over my life. I had to drink just to be around people, i hated myself. I get the feeling you are aimless, no real purpose? Lack of focus and intention can cause det…
/r/askTRP10/04/19 03:18 AM
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Why do you feel the need to drink/smoke? What are you running from? Substance use/abuse is escapism. I bet you are stuck in victim mentality. Have poor self talk and low self image. Do you drink because you feel like a failure and alcohol takes away the pain of realizing you have shit? I'm 5.5 years sober. Two o.w.i's. Lost license for 3 years, went through sobriety court. I drank my entire 20's away. You have a broken frame, I will always be an alcoholic but I do not miss drinking. It keeps you…
/r/askTRP10/04/19 02:55 AM
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Trp specifically I wouldn't say is, it's for growth. But dont get caught up in mental masterbation. More so, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, too much YouTube. Following people, living life through them. Video games you spend 5+ hours a day is bad. Ask yourself "is this helping me attain my goals?" If the answer is no, dont do it.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 07:31 PM
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Spinning plates is really the most effective defense against oneitis. Value exchange is necessary for an LTR and any meaningful social bond, otherwise what is the point of a one sided anything? Having multiple disastrous relationships or situationships can leave you scared in such a way that you actively avoid getting close/attached. But it also always forces you to take inventory of yourself and find out why bad shit happens and fix it if it's on your end. Abundance will prevent emotional needi…
/r/askTRP08/04/19 08:35 AM
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Sidebar, red pill handbook Books The rational Male 1, 2, 3 No more Mr. Nice guy Stoic philosophy For starters Remove cheap dopamine hitting activities Porn, junk food, social media, drugs and alcohol if you have not already
/r/askTRP08/04/19 07:29 AM
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Next date you set up, her place...no exceptions. Your place = allergies and guaranteed no sex. A woman who wants to fuck you, will crawl on broken glass so to speak. If she makes up one more reason why she can't, next. You got it bro
/r/askTRP08/04/19 06:43 AM
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Are you seeing any other girls? I'm getting a creeping oneitis vibe here. You rate her at almost a 10 with no explanation about what else is going on. You may or may not be over texting but how fast do you respond during texts? Maybe the way you text is showing weak frame or neediness? Personally, I'd soft next, put her on ice and pursue others. Two years ago she was in your life...now shes back, you're also Mr. Plan B Are you escalating when with her? Does it look like you're vibing "let's fuck…
/r/askTRP08/04/19 06:28 AM
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The only person you can change, is yourself. She will do what she wants and hes a guy, his dick goes where it is wanted. You need to concentrate more on frame control, your friend is not that smart, you shouldn't be rattled by him. Shes had you, she wants a new steak. Plus, if she knows about your last relationship and its traumatic effect, she wont want to be a part of that. You wanting to break thier streak shows a lot about your mindset. Get moving on increasing smv, create a happy life and w…
/r/askTRP08/04/19 05:58 AM
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Is it her specifically? Or is this an ongoing issue. No fap, least in my opinion is to break porn addiction. I quit porn, jerk it once a week. You dont sound like you have oneitis. Is she hot or barely fuckable? In my 20's, I'd take 1 shot of alcohol to chill the jitters. Dull my mind a lil. Does she engage in foreplay? Some chicks I've had do nothing to me, it's all about heating them up. Not enough sexual tension? Too rushed? Build tension, 2 steps forward, one back. Introspection is key, have…
/r/askTRP08/04/19 05:07 AM
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I dont know your exact situation but that was my experience. Just be aware of how you feel and the thoughts you have when around her. Then re frame it to your benefit.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 04:57 AM
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Iron Rule of Tomassi #3 Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait. Next
/r/askTRP08/04/19 04:42 AM
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You have a mental block. You're preoccupied with something, thinking too much in my opinion. Is it that you can't even start? Or you go limp during? I've been there, my reasons were I wasn't attracted, she was barely worth my time but I was horny. She pissed me off earlier and my mind was resentful towards her and had trouble being turned on by her. Worried about performance, performance anxiety. You like this chick and are thinking too much, creating a self fulfilling prophecy. Work on thinking…
/r/askTRP08/04/19 04:37 AM
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If it's your choice, what's the issue. Do it. If shes dropping hints, manipulating and using you, that's different. However do not make it a habit, she will start expecting it and that's not good.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 11:27 PM
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Go fuck a whore wherever you're. That way, wether she cheats or not, you win. Idk, stupid advice, do what's best for you. Dont enter her frame, you are the prize. Own that shit. Dont text her again until you get home.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 08:24 AM
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She was looking for validation. Aka, "you're hot, you could be a model too" that bullshit. Did you reply to that? I'm thinking you ignored it which was correct.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 07:56 AM
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You got it bro, keep improving. Over explanation is a good sign of a weak frame, self awareness is key. Great observation.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 03:42 AM
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Just smile, reacting is weak. Respond with strong frame. Look at your "friends" like why wouldn't I lift? You should be too Lead by example, dont explain yourself. If they dont add value to your life, they dont need to be a part of it Stoic grace my man, anytime I get shit for anything, I chuckle, and pressure flip, calling them out for not doing what I'm doing(assuming that my action is positive, aka lifting)
/r/askTRP05/04/19 03:29 AM
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Sounds like you need to drop a little dread and increase your smv a lil more. Her hypergamic doubt is showing
/r/askTRP05/04/19 03:15 AM
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Sounds like you want a line or phrase that demonstrates high value. Aka something to show, you're in the top 20% where women would rather share an alpha then settle for a beta type thing. This would be a great question to pose to GayLubeOil and or Rollo Tomassi on his Red Pill 101 YouTube show, specifically his "AMA"
/r/askTRP05/04/19 03:11 AM
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Good point bro, I chose a certain perception about his question.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 11:49 AM
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I agree, what I meant was, why agree to a relationship when it is not what one wants. That's the vibe I got anyways I have no issues with cheating, just seems pointless to engage a social contract when building a soft harem looks like the goal.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 11:41 AM
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Be honest with your plates. Why are you in a LTR when you're interested in other girls? Demote ltr to plates status, build a soft harem
/r/askTRP04/04/19 09:22 AM
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Convert to Islam or go join a polygamy group. That's basically what you're looking for
/r/askTRP04/04/19 08:09 AM
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34 here, my drive nor desire fell until I had a vasectomy, 8/3/18....noticable drop. Also swallowing the red pill and understanding female nature did cause a drop in desire during the "rage" phase Now I enjoy fucking because that's all there really is Age/testosterone decline is a slow one but depending on lifestyle can be more affective. I have noticed to, when I'm screwing a chick whose 26+ it's not as hot. My ex was 18 when we met and I could not get enough. I'm doing a 24 yr old single mothe…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:56 AM
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Soft next, stop communicating. You're an option. Better things keep coming up and she texts you for attention, shes stringing you along wasting your time. If she does reach out again, set a date. If she tries to cancel or change it...drop her A girl who is genuinely interested will crawl over broken glass to fuck you. This is NOT a hell yes is it? Stop validating her bullshit, you are the prize, the only thing she brings to the table is a dirty, well used snatch
/r/askTRP04/04/19 06:56 AM
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Information overload, take a break from it for a week. You need time to process it all, so focus on lifting, or an activity that does not clash with your information. You can't go swimming right after eating Dont engage social situations when you can't focus. Take the time to meditate, accept and rebuild your mind and frame. After reading the sidebar, I stopped coming to trp for two weeks so I could digest and interpret everything. Sit back and watch others, cultivate an understanding from IRL i…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 04:30 AM
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Shes done, and looking for someone to invalidate her fears and tell her shes still got it. I laughed so hard reading that. Thanks for the share
/r/MGTOW04/04/19 04:20 AM
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Great post bro, Really simplified, easy to digest. Much appreciated
/r/TheRedPill04/04/19 04:07 AM
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She wants attention and validation after being used by Chad. You can use her need for validation, to get some ass. Dont give it away for free. Otherwise next and find other chicks
/r/askTRP04/04/19 03:55 AM
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Take the lead next time, not pushy...dominating confidence. Sure of yourself moves. You gave off an indifferent vibe towards her to the point of her questioning why she was even there. But I get it, if you dont feel it...its hard to fake a raging hard on and high attraction. We've all been there You ever read Daniel rose - Sex God method? Itll help with emotional engagement, leading and escalation
/r/askTRP04/04/19 03:32 AM
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Not much to go on, but I think you did not escalate enough. Sounds like she did most of the work and you just went with it? I realize she wasn't all that but the vibe I get is you asked to fuck, you didn't lead. She had doubts and probably developed asd and while you had good good outcome independence, idgaf, there wasn't enough interest. Chicks are intuitive and picked up your signals of low interest. I could be wrong, just my opinion
/r/askTRP04/04/19 03:24 AM
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Dude, why do you want to friends with a female? Are you downplaying your attraction? If you want a friend, find a cool bro. Females are for fucking, you came off creepy. You met her, she was so nice, so you decided to stalk her online and add her. Shes not accepting or rejecting because that's an answer. If she does nothing with the request, it keeps you stuck. Revoke the request, go find someone who has mutual interest. The medium is the message here. Shes not engaging you, next.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 03:13 AM
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Read the sidebar tonight, now I've been sober for 5 years, I met my ex 8 months sober. You need to know who you are, what you want and dont want. Then stick to it Have fun, keep it light, serious = boring. Tease, push and pull, i.e. two steps forward, one step back. Seriously, read the sidebar, red pill handbook now
/r/askTRP04/04/19 02:58 AM
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Good way to gauge her interest, have her meet you half way. You driving 2 hours to her? What's in it for you... You may or may not have oneitis, but you are pedestalizing her smv, shes higher value than you are, in your mind. That leads to supplicating, be aware of yourself. We can all see it in your post. I would never drive 2 hours, for anyone, not even for guaranteed sex. Remember if it's not a hell yes, it's a fuck no Gauge her interest level, how is her enthusiasm? What time is the "date"? …
/r/askTRP03/04/19 09:44 AM
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Dont do what you've been doing, simple. Life gives you what you do. You say you wanted to be an engineer your whole life, yet when you had the opportunity....your actions were not enough. When someone has passion for something, they are consumed by the process. You lack passion and drive. Maybe think hard if engineering is your calling or just a way to make money. Develop self awareness, start asking yourself why you want what you say you do. List the steps it will take for you to get back to wh…
/r/askTRP03/04/19 03:46 AM
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Look into understanding Male mother need. Work on diminishing it.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 09:52 AM
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Size does matter Height matters Status matters Just remember, men are switches, women are volume knobs. You have to turn thier mind on, engage the emotions. Push n pull, tension. Cocky yet funny when expressed. Backwards compliments, appearing idgaf. I knew a guy who had a 5 incher, hit lots of girls because of his ripped body and idgaf attitude. He was wild, ate pussy, finger banged, anal whatever. You can't change everything, use what ya got and read the Sex God Method, itll help. A 9 inch dic…
/r/askTRP02/04/19 08:12 AM
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Not enough attraction. Move on, if she reaches out, set up a date. Otherwise find another Personally, after the 7 to 7:30pm change when she hits you with the 8pm my moms running late...I would have said, nah, I'm good...another time. Then dropped it and hit the gym but you accepting that many (3 I think) changes was supplication and making you look needy, plus the suprise me line added thirsty
/r/askTRP02/04/19 07:53 AM
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Change the story you're telling yourself. Your constant reaffirmation about this chick is hardening your emotional attachment and keeping you stuck. I get it, it took 1.5 years to get over my ex of 3 years. Highly invested in her. I kept telling myself, she does not love you. Shes gone. She does not respect me. She DOES NOT WANT ME. Until I started accepting it. I started chatting up everyone, chicks at gas stations, people in grocery stores, receptionists at the dentist. People waiting in line …
/r/askTRP02/04/19 07:43 AM
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Male mother need is out of control in you. YouTube has many videos on this. You dont work, find work asap. You have no desire to make friends, put that on ice while you cultivate yourself. Read stoicism, it will help you gain insight into your emotional issues. Start exercising, create value in yourself. One step at a time. Sounds like you have fears of rejection, fears of abandonment and fears of vulnerability. I'm currently reading "to be a man" with Robert Augustus masters I'm on chapter 3 so…
/r/askTRP02/04/19 07:35 AM
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Start increasing your smv more. Start detaching. The worst thing you can do is make this into a bigger deal. You can only control yourself. You should be your own first priority, always. Does not matter what she is doing or not doing. Women are going to do whatever they want and if you react instead of respond, they will use it as justification. She being goofy? Go lift She being distant? Go out with the guys She being secretive? DHV, dread, self improve Women are a complement to your life, a hi…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 09:44 AM
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If it's not a hell yes, it's a hell no. Next! If she reaches out, cool but you do nothing more on your end.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 03:45 AM
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I'd simply downgrade him. If he adds value in areas you benefit, great. But breach of code shows character. It's not so much about your ex as it is him. Its disrespectful to hide truths regardless of reasons. I'd keep him at arms length, absorb the value you claim to see and drop him once the value is gone. I've had friends who had value, I stuck around long enough to emulate the qualities I saw then I continued to grow thereby surpassing the friend. The issue seems to be about disorderly conduc…
/r/askTRP16/03/19 04:22 AM
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Act in a way that shows him it's okay to take control. Act like a sex slave, dress slutty at home to invite him? We have a saying...demonstrate, dont explicate. I guess just create the environment that fosters your needs and hope he gets it.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 07:56 AM
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The best thing about someone's personal rock bottom is, you can only go up from here. Accept responsibility for your life, for your choices and actions. Let go of the past, regrets and bullshit. Create new goals. Be accountable, start rebuilding your frame and grind. Everything in life is a lesson. As long as you dont repeat the same mistakes, you are growing. Take this as an opportunity to do better. Life is hard, resistance and struggle define a man. Take some time to figure out what you want …
/r/askTRP14/02/19 09:43 AM
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Why do you feel shitty 7 days a week? Regret your decision? Have nothing to fill the space that was once your ex? Mindset is everything, change the story you're telling yourself. Spin your perception of how you feel. It isn't easy, I'm constantly catching my thoughts and changing them. But it works, we've all been there. Dont let your emotional memories take over your frame. Maybe write it out, why you feel bad. Writing can organize streaming thoughts and allow you to see the bigger picture. Hop…
/r/askTRP14/02/19 09:27 AM
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