Background: This girl I messed up with 2 years ago before being red pilled hit me back up again after her relationship fizzled.

 

We hung out, I took her back to my place but apparently she had cat allergies and had to leave. We were both bummed. I set up a 2nd date, we got hot and heavy at a club and I gave her some allergy med, thing is she didn't take it when I gave it to her and when we got back to the room she again had an allergic reaction because the med hadn't kicked in yet though not as severe as the first time. It didn't seem right to try and push for sex as she was using her shirt as a breathing filter so I didn't...which in hindsight I think was a huge mistake.

 

After that we talked on and off for 2-3 weeks while she moved apartments and secured a 3rd date at her place...when I get there she informs me she's on her period so I didn't push for sex.

 

Another week or so passes with her always initiating texts, on a Monday I ask her to hang out this weekend and she gives me a pretty lame excuse that her allergies are getting bad and she's "worried" to hang out. Come Saturday I see her post on instagram shooting pool with one of her female friends. She now hasn't messaged me for about a week and I have been keeping cool and not texting first. Not sure what move to make next....do I just wait it out until she messages me or do I try to ask her out again for this coming week and see if she gives me another excuse?

 

I'm trying to pinpoint why she's losing interest but I'm pretty sure it's the fact I haven't closed with sex yet even though there have been some barriers that were out of my control....maybe she wanted me to just go for it anyway. That or I've simply been overtexting with her or said something that lowered her interest.

 

I wouldn't really be putting so much thought into this if she wasn't so close to a 10/10 in my book, I really want to get this plate spinning or at least the notch.