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RedDeadWolverine/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 06:01 PM
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You just made me point in your protest. Guys in America like bisexual women so they are bisexual more. Guys in more old school society like traditionalism so women are more traditional. Weird. Sounds like adaptation to me. Men often rule, so usually women need them. Have fun trying to circumvent reality in the name of "equality".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 04:20 PM
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http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/10825779 https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/handy-psychology-answers/201102/does-sexuality-differ-men-and-women I'm not just pulling shit out of thin air. Debunk the claim if you really don't believe it. Women have better erotic and social plasticity. Its likely from generations of conquest, where if one group kills off the men of the other side and absorbs their women that the women that survive are going to be the more adaptive (plasticity) ones. Its their …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 03:19 AM
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Female arrogance is so amusing. Apparently she, NOT CHRIST is the judge of "how much of a Christian" you are.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/15 08:49 PM
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Because women have more plasticity to their personality/sexuality and emulate the man they are with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 02:22 PM
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Jesus mean and wild.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/15 04:42 PM
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Ok. So obviously over in your femosphere there's different definitions of what rape is. Some people think if someone looks at them wrong and they don't like it it's rape. But it's all rooted in shame. It's emotional and sociological manipulation of men by women. And in my opinion that's much worse then someone gaming their wife to get more sex.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/15 03:23 PM
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Paul was an evil Christian killing monster and changed his name when Jesus smacked the sight out of him. The very story of his conversion is the story of a straight up hit man who spent the of his life preaching to the very people he was trying to murder. He was definitely a hypocrite. And I'm a saint. I've accepted the gospel. I'm as much of a Saint as Paul. And the Holy Spirit guides me too. I still mess up sometimes because the heart is wicked and deceitful. Only Jesus made it through life wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/15 10:41 PM
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I tell people all the time that Jesus was never "nice" but He was always GOOD. He was quick to dispense the hard truths, but also genuine in His love and affection those close to Him. He was able to do this naturally without over thinking things because He never compromised His identity for anyone else.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/15 07:01 PM
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I find that a lot of the bible makes me feel convicted. I think those who bully guilt and shame others by twisting scripture are much worse then annoying.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/15 06:46 PM
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One time our teaching pastor did a sermon on theft, and then admitted to embezzling money when he was younger and talked about his remorse, how he made it right, and the safeguards that are in place to make sure he has no access to donation funds. How do you know that Paul didn't fornicate? You don't. And even if he did, it doesn't negate the message. When you preach on subjects you've struggled with yourself, you bring a degree of empathy and accessibility that would otherwise be unobtainable.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/15 05:26 PM
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I enjoyed my thanksgiving. My wife had no idea what to do with herself after I made friends with her cranky super alpha uncle by busting his balls and then talked guns and deer hunting with him for a while. (when you bust another guys balls in the right spirit, you actually honor him) Two years back I would've avoided everyone and found a quiet spot to read books.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/15 04:52 PM
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I find it amusing for a humble Catholic girl that you are dismissive and condescending at the beginning of your replies and then arrogant and insulting at the end. If a man on here did that you would run back to your echo chamber and talk about how insecure we are and that we are using "your" religion wrong. Funny, I thought the religion belonged to Jesus. Funny how all the gold and silver adorns your pretty buildings and religious figureheads in true Pharisee fashion.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/15 04:11 PM
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And if you think your boyfriend hasn't pictured in his minds eye bending you over and pounding you hard then you're naive. And you would likely make excuses for his sins of the heart because they flatter you. That makes him worse then us because at least we will say it outright. And bitter old divorced men? Most of them are tired of putting in all the work for nothing. But the median age here is likely low 30 something and more often or not they come here trying to fix their marriage. And RP may…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/15 01:55 PM
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Uh easy. TBP nonstop says we all rape our wives with no evidence to support it beyond, "At first she didn't want to and then she got into it." or some similar description. That is shaming. Or the fact that half your posts are making fun of guys who are struggling with their relationships and coming to us asking for advice. And basically they are idiots because they can't figure out how to "be nice" and still get what they want. It's shame. And shaming people without giving them way out of it is …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/15 12:46 PM
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I'm of the mindset that some people are just sheep. Psychological bias or not. But if you're not sheep then you're the wolf or the sheepdog.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/15 12:36 PM
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Paul Coughlins no more Christian nice guy is good too.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/15 02:02 AM
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Well when you realize that the core of MRP isn't about subjugation but just learning the most effective rules of engagement in relationships, Embracing your own value, personal responsibility, and self advocacy, and generally learning how to not be at the whim of everyone else. Jesus didn't dominate and mind control people, he was just THAT legit.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/15 05:17 PM
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Yes I am. I don't really want to debate the faith itself though as I feel it would be to the detriment of the ongoing discussion.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/15 03:12 PM
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Exactly. The preconceived notion that a man must cut off his balls to put in the offering plate to be a "good" Christian. Its ridiculous.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/15 03:02 PM
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I think you're wrong. Being redpill to me is not being subject to attempts of shame in order to gain compliance. Over on thebluepill that's all you guys use. Shame. We train ourselves to ignore shame and manipulation. You should probably stick to your own subreddit and echo chamber.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/15 02:39 PM
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Yeah my church applauds Abraham for putting his full faith in God's plans.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/15 02:16 PM
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If you read the other replies and BPPs reply you'll see why I didn't get into it with him. People who believe things are up to "interpretation" are just going to hamster their way around whatever you tell them. Yes the truth is important but if some one is laying traps in a conversation instead of talking straight with you, they probably won't hear the truth when you say it. The truth is that some theologies and sects completely distort biblical Christianity, and in the spirit of an inclusive di…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/15 01:47 PM
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That's basically my view on it, but I didn't want the discussion to devolve into semantics.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/15 03:01 AM
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This right here. You get it.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/15 01:31 AM
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I think you missed the point. I know God is ok with it.It's pussified uber fem society that tries to shame bold men of God for not being "nice".
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 11:37 PM
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Yeah you just described my wife. But there's a flip side. She's hard to emotionally manipulate. So I literally just have to focus on myself and step up and take charge and by doing that I gain her admiration. But having dated way more damaged women in the past who are neurotic has shown me that some can be easily manipulated into sex on demand. That was fun in its own way. But for a life long marriage my wife is what I want in a partner. Plus she's hot and doesn't even seem to know it at all.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 10:41 PM
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Jesus willingly endured an excruciating death on the cross as sacrifice to His friends. BUT He only submitted to God the Father. And Jesus was God in the flesh so He in essence submitted to himself. He didn't even submit to death as he rose from the grave. So a theme of submission doesn't fit His narrative. Dying and coming back is probably also the best example of outcome independence ever.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 10:32 PM
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I just printed out that C.S. Lewis quote and stuck it to the edge of my monitor. Thanks for the reply.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 09:29 PM
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Understandable. But if you're seeking being in leadership for self validation reasons, then you're likely to mess it up. If you're motivation is to spread the gospel and talk to people, then you might end up the pastor of a church. BUT if your goal is to just be a pastor without having a love for the work it entails then you should find something else.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 09:26 PM
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My opinion if you want to lead you're probably not the person for the job. If you snake your way up into a leadership position to validate yourself you're probably doing it at the expense of others.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 08:55 PM
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I don't know what that has to do with your original question. He is going to be held to the standard of whatever particular theology he practices within.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 08:19 PM
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He still has to live in reality. He can't start going against what Scripture actually says because of his own interpretation or vision. Otherwise he's not being legitimate. Also if he doesn't seek the counsel of other well respected deacons in any capacity then he's all ego and no wisdom. And if that's true he's going to suck at leading and people will stop following him and find another church.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 07:36 PM
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This is seriously excellent advise.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 07:16 PM
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She'll run out of steam and appologize eventually. Just hold your frame and don't over think it. That's the kind of stuff my 4 year old daughter does when I correct her about being a brat. Once the hamster starts to spin that wheel just let it run until it falls over. She's using more mental resources then you are.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 02:46 PM
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Nah I don't really care about downvotes. If I cared about my score I'd post kitten pictures to aww. Yeah it is more so feel good and somewhat personal. I have a post in the works but there's so much to it that it's going to take a while.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 03:01 AM
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Enjoy. Thanks for downvoting.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 02:51 AM
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I'm not trying to counterpoint anything. I'm just saying that the ego and resentment about the past will keep you from self actualizing. And embracing your true self is going to enable you to more easily let go of those things.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 01:14 AM
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Whatever that means. Edit: what I mean is there's no good or bad in MRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 01:10 AM
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I catch a whiff of ego when I see him commenting to other people. I've seen a couple decent replies from him, but then he tries to troll me in a way that makes it seem like I must have really hurt his feels at some point. I hope he sorts out whatever his issue is and puts up a good post one of these days instead of being a constant critic.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 01:08 AM
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I'm in. But it'd likely be an unfair fight for him. Let him keep sniping at me on here where he's safe from any sudden concussions.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 11:50 PM
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The criticism is actually helpful. I just need to write my posts over the course of a week instead of last minute on a lunch break. I feel like I'm writing much better posts than when I first started.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 10:36 PM
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Thanks. I'll have to revisit it this weekend. Maybe rewrite the thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 10:27 PM
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Kind of reminds me of the Art of Manliness Article http://www.artofmanliness.com/2013/01/31/relationship-red-flags/
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 09:51 PM
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I would have to give a fuck about that guy for it to be a feud. He clearly doesn't like me but I have better things to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 08:51 PM
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He's just butthurt because he shit all over one of my posts and everyone shit on him for it and upvoted the thread to the top. Search his history and see if he ever contributed anything meaningful besides the general RP common sense canned answers.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 08:43 PM
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Give me a little bit to revise some stuff and add in some practical tips in relation to it. I'll have an edit in by 5pm.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 07:19 PM
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This particular introspection was one of my biggest breakthroughs while unplugging. I imagine it could be helpful to someone at least. Solid introspection from an RP approach is ego suppression in my opinion. Is being critically introspective a problem in this sub?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 06:25 PM
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No I don't. The point of the post is to do away with blaming your problems on your childhood. Which I see a lot of newbies do. Its not a message of validation seeking its the opposite.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 06:14 PM
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I can live with that.
/r/askMRP24/11/15 02:34 AM
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The rat park thing gave me a lot of perspective when Joe Rogan talked on it. It basically breaks down into self investment. You can only invest so much into things. So it makes sense that relationships helps get away from addiction cycles.
/r/askMRP23/11/15 06:36 PM
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I've found that cutting my wife off and saying, "Why's that matter? I'M the one handling this." squashes that crap most of the time.
/r/askMRP23/11/15 06:18 PM
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He's read all the pre req
/r/askMRP23/11/15 05:53 PM
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You'll continue to be ineffective if you're not willing to walk. I was surprised at the change of simply being WILLING. Doesn't mean you actually do it, but she will pick up on a willingness to leave. I check out women in front of my wife and make my choices separate from her opinions. When she tries to bark orders at me I just laugh at her. I'm not weighed down by her and the kids because they are lucky to have me and I can walk whenever I want. And I know it.
/r/askMRP23/11/15 02:31 PM
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Jesus used strong language that shocked the buttoned up fake spiritualist types of his time. In scripture it says to not use bad words to refer to holy things. It is acceptable to use strong words to describe unholy things. You're talking about legalism. Legalism and actual faith are separate thingsm
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/15 01:40 AM
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Eh. There was more to it then that. My wife had some bad medical issues. We've worked through some of that though. I did make the point that we didn't get happier as a couple until I focused on my own happiness independent of her. But the important point was that the state of my household is ultimately MY responsibility. Therefore it is my fault when things are fucked up. My wife at one point carried our household on her income, took care of a baby, all while I sat at home feeling sorry for myse…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/15 07:05 PM
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She's one of two women I know of across 5 campuses who wears a covering. Her family thinks she's growing dreads or something. Anyone at service who says anything to her about it is going to regret asking pretty quick though. She's gonna cite the proper scripture and reasoning and they'll feel pretty dumb. We're a homebirth family too. Her family are the stiffest critics but they don't get on her because I then confront them. I'm well respected amongst the church and I've been around forever. But…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/15 01:32 AM
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Step 1.) Shut the fuck up and stop giving her so much credit. Step 2.) own and focus on your own shit. Step 3.) let time pass as you improve and you build your frame. Step 4.) once some time passes, inventory what's in your life. Dispose of what doesn't fit into your plans even if it's her. Continue to persue the things that bring you joy. Step 5.) experience the personal fulfillment and joy that comes from complete control and ownership of your own life.
/r/askMRP20/11/15 06:04 PM
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Good piece. And avoiding their philosophical traps makes them hamster too. If a woman goes on and on about "loyalty" and you act amused and dismissive at the notion. They will freak out worrying about what it means that you didn't supplicate to the ideal.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 04:41 PM
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That's a big aspect to your frame too.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 04:20 PM
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"She's a planner as most women are." This is a point most dudes miss. We can thrive in chaos in a way they just can't. They need complete civilty and compliance to exact any kind of power over anyone. They need a lack of danger. That's why I'm America we have SJWs and self entitled bullshit, there's no fires to weed out the weak. But us men here. We are firemen. We come alive in the fire and we put in work. We control the flames. Check out this teddy atlas speech. You'll feel inspired. http://m.…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 04:08 PM
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Ignore and withdraw when she does stuff you hate. Don't seek it out. Youre teaching her that doing that thing gets her more attention.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 03:36 PM
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Don't fall victim to paralysis by analysis. You obviously put in a lot of thought into things. Use that energy and regain your previous momentum.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 03:01 PM
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Not that I'm interested in cheating as it doesn't fit in my general framework. How do you deal with not getting caught? I don't really put much thought into cheating but the thought of girls cyber stalking me and finding my wife on Facebook seems pretty inevitable.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 02:51 PM
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My wife is naturally intolerant of bullshit. And very logic driven. Also I'm a fundalmentalist Christian and all she has to really do with others is cite scripture on gender roles and they shut up pretty quick. My wife goes to the extreme of wearing a head covering and dressing very conservative even though she's got a rocking little body.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 02:21 PM
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When they came to me I kind of smacked them around psychologically for bothering me because I could tell they weren't ready. Told them to come back when it got worse and fed them little bits at a time. It would get better but then worse and theyd come back again. Until they came to me with a clear picture of what's wrong I wouldn't give them much. The problem with BP guys they think they want to unplug but then you start to help them unplug and they freak out. But when you see him fumbling at th…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 02:16 PM
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The slowing down the drinking AND not spending his sexual energy and money on the unworthy problem gave him a lot of drive back.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 12:19 PM
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This was one of the most important lessons for me. To stop running from the truth and just face it down like a man.
/r/askMRP20/11/15 03:43 AM
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Nice. Thanks. I love seeing the guys I keep around me prosper.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 03:24 AM
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My wife's on here all the time. I give no fucks. It all works regardless.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/15 08:52 PM
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What the hell are you blabbering about? I give no fucks about whatever personal gripes you have with an organized faith or it's hierarchy. The same shit can be said for government, but at least giving at my church is voluntary.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/15 02:40 AM
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A mixture of boxing, BJJ, and verbally sparing with my more quick witted friends. Be willing to let people pressure you hard and practice being in control of your emotions in the moment. It just takes practice... it's not magic. It's not a mist, it's you breaking your own frame. Introspection on the root issues you have might also be helpful. But beware of putting blame on your past. You live in the here and now. Exploring historically why you react to certain things is fine, but if it doesn't h…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/15 02:14 AM
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If moral actions are agreed upon within a community and each person is accountable to the next equally then no one is really in power. Everyone just shares a common "frame". In my community what makes an action "right" is that it is for the good of all people in that community. What makes an action "bad" is one that is detrimental to those in that same community.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/15 02:10 AM
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Slow it down bro. Keep learning. Keep a low profile. Revisit divorce in the correct order. That's after the 12 stages of dread.
/r/askMRP16/11/15 06:15 PM
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Already wrecked her twice.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/15 04:50 PM
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If my wife said some shit like that I'd probably shut her down by laughing at her and calling her jealous. Her only way of reacting without getting clowned is to move as close to me as she can and hope the other woman gets the point.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/15 04:40 PM
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Eh. That costs money. I'm more so a tribal type. I've lived in groups for a while. Not just roommates, but almost a tribe of people.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/15 04:08 PM
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There's no fantasy. My own wife has expressed that it would logistically be easier with more adults in the household. I have to wonder if your negative experience was more heavily effected by society putting pressure on your family.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/15 03:19 PM
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You can cheat and have that fidelity framework. But you'll feel guilty as hell. It depends on personal parameters. I'm Christian, and I wouldn't have sex outside my marriage, but if it was societally acceptable to have multiple wives I would do that. To most people who can't accept my frame would accuse me of cheating on my first wife with an additional wife. But honestly I would care. I guess if I wanted to fly in the face of tradition I could just create some ceremony that I believe in and hav…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/15 02:52 PM
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Maybe he should stop going to the gym too because otherwise he's an absent father?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/15 02:23 PM
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Please read the 12 levels of dread. Particularly 11 and 12.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/15 02:22 PM
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I have a heavy sense of morality. And it influences everything for me. But it's mine. The finger waggers here need to focus on themselves because the red pill is morally ambiguous and therefore morality doesn't apply to the equation. Morals actually become something that you have to work around. And by throwing your own morals at a man who doesn't already possess a heavy moral framework, you are just attempting to drag him down. Like crabs in a bucket. Focus on yourself. Cad, I speak as a guy th…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/15 02:00 PM
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Yep.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/15 03:31 AM
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Yeah I could see that. She's just a person I enjoy so I stepped up to bat.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/15 02:13 AM
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It's true. Iron sharpens iron.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/15 02:11 AM
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My frame comes from who I am and my belief in that. I could pretty easily fuck up some old grouchy cunt or an average male with my hands as I spend most afternoons boxing and grappling, the "gat" has nothing to do with it. As for your touchy thing. Escalating because someone touched you is pretty insecure. I've had people outright shove me and just laughed it off and squashed it with them. I don't have to prove anything to anyone. If someone non violently touching you would make you escalate wit…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/15 02:09 AM
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Wasn't really white knighting. For that to be true I'd be seeking the cashiers approval or being completely over protective of her. When I got to the counter I made fun of her for being speechless and told her if she didn't close her mouth that flies would get in. Then she commented that my shirt was a little tight and I told her I wore it to give her something to think about later.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/15 01:58 AM
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Ah. I've got a group of friends. We go to war with each other for fun. We bust each others balls and attack each other's weaknesses. Kind of like the better posters here do. It's like sparring in a boxing gym. We keep each other sharp. Verbal is an active practice. You can't improve it by just reading books about it, but reading the posts here should give you enough concepts to work on your verbal game. But practice is king.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/15 09:25 PM
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Ha. OK so I'm not Dirty Harry buddy. I would only draw my weapon if my life or the lives of my family were actually in danger. Or if there was an active shooter killing people and there were no police officers or security on the scene to stop the shooter. AND I happened to be in the same vicinity of that person. Anything else is stupid. Now for the other things you said. You think people shouldn't step in to help other people. And you should let some other authority handle things you don't like.…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/15 09:18 PM
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Unless the woman's parents are so dedicated to the faith that the whole family would side with the husband if she tried to threaten divorce.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/15 07:58 PM
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Tomahawk hunting ground hogs, air rifles, sport shooting, hunting, archery, BJJ, boxing, sewing machine to alter tactical gear and add on pieces, survival skills, camping, obstacle mud racing. My new one is predator hunting. Building a far shooting heavy barreled rifle and teaching my dog to draw in coyote.
/r/askMRP02/11/15 06:37 PM
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Yes I agree. But it's in captain obvious territory. Here's the clarification: I've been hitting it out of the park as the captain of the ship, but when I'm sick my wife is trying to step up and help out more then usual. How does the captain let his first mate step up in this manner without losing respect?
/r/askMRP02/11/15 06:03 PM
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Agreed. The fact that OP even thinks he HAS to go is a problem.
/r/askMRP01/11/15 11:04 PM
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Just continue to work on yourself. You'll actually learn to appreciate that harder kind of humor as you become a harder kind of man.
/r/askMRP01/11/15 10:49 PM
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Ah don't be a whiny baby. Never heard that here before. Thanks for the great advice.
/r/askMRP01/11/15 04:55 PM
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I eat a Keto diet generally. But I started feeling better when I ate some rice. So you're probably right. Also you're correct. No vomiting.
/r/askMRP01/11/15 04:53 PM
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There's a guy that tends to hurt people in my class. People tend to end up just grinding their forearms against his face from the top the whole time, because he's always looking for the leg. So we just don't get into scrambles with him. He also takes a second to let go at the tap. Which is scary.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/15 09:33 PM
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It's better to explain to people what they did wrong and build them up so you have a higher quality person to train with later. People quit over injuries all the time. Keep it playful.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/15 01:58 PM
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Our instructor ragdolls people all the time but in 5+ years of being a young blackbelt has never injured anyone. He's also impossibly strong and always moving. Even in competition he rarely actually hurts ANYONE. If you're hurting training partners you're doing something wrong. Don't let your ego prevent you from seeing that. You're not going to improve if people don't want to roll with you.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/15 01:54 PM
6

The other day I unthinkingly apologized at Starbucks for spilling some coffee on the counter. The girl behind the counter went, "aww, you don't have to apologize." and I looked her in the eye with a smile and said, "you're right. I'm not sorry. In fact I did that on purpose." She immediately started to blush. And then gave me a very shy laugh while playing with her hair.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/15 10:17 PM
1

What? You insult and talk down to anyone who disagrees with YOU. And everyone is disagreeing with YOU. But I'm a little kid that nobody likes? Are you sure you're not a woman? Look I think you're a fucking idiot too. But I don't have to state it every time I say something to you because all you have to do is keep writing to prove THAT point.
/r/askMRP29/10/15 05:31 PM
1

I'm getting a little bit of an aspergers vibe.
/r/askMRP29/10/15 05:21 PM
1

Do you just flippantly hurl insults at everyone who disagrees with you? Because if it becomes a regular pattern you're going to end up getting your teeth rearranged.
/r/askMRP29/10/15 05:20 PM
1

When I saw your thread, y'all must of forgot by Roy Jones Jr started playing in my head. It was comical. Thanks for your thoughtful and topical contributions BPP.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/15 05:08 PM
2

Mind breaking up the wall of text professor?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/15 04:52 PM
2

You sure do get butthurt about being questioned on your bullshit. But I'm sure you only get butthurt by strangers on the internet and this is no indication of the rage building up inside of you due to your nice guy tactics. Yep OP is just nuking his relationship by letting his girl know his time is valuable and he's not going to drop everything to bail her out when she fails to think ahead. Better just give into her whims or dump her if that's not what he wants to do because there are no other o…
/r/askMRP29/10/15 04:14 PM
2

It sounds like your perspective is completely fucked. I already knew the question you wanted to ask, ("How do I have a more concrete vision of my own identity?") but you launched into this whole story about some woman that doesn't sound like she knows what the fuck she wants and how that is distressing to you. But deep down none of them know what they want until they see it. And even when they get what they want, then they want more. They need a calm man that doesn't give a fuck to understand th…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/15 03:58 PM
16

You know you did good, you don't need our validation on top of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/15 02:55 PM
1

I'm thankful for deep thinkers like yourself. I'm a spiritualist that tries to simplify the more complicated stuff down to a more pragmatic idea. Sometimes joy comes from stripping down to the essentials. I view the ego differently. Sometimes the ego forces experienced social conditioning back into our thought patterns. Because thinking differently hurts. Or maybe it's the id. Maybe our response to social conditioning is a self preservation mechanism that is supposed to work against us but in th…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/15 02:37 PM
1

Rephrase that as a specific question and I'll give you an answer if I have one.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/15 02:22 PM
2

Yes. Good point. But that one is covered by the others. The reason people believe other's bullshit is usually a result of self-doubt. It's important to put yourself before everyone else.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/15 01:58 PM
3

Good call. Remember the beige phillip rule, "anything you do more than three times is no longer a favor it's an obligation." You're nipping that in the bud early. You're wiser then most noobs here.
/r/askMRP29/10/15 11:49 AM
1

You sure had to spin your hamster into warp speed to continue rationalizing your anti-IDGAF rhetoric. It doesn't matter if OP fucks the whole relationship up, approval seeking will lead to less attraction and respect for OP. Like Dante Nero says, "always be ready to take the L(oss)." You're giving a lot of newbies advice to validation seek in the name of being rational or careful. Equating an LTR to the cops you don't speed in front of? Your girl can't put you in handcuffs and toss you in a cage…
/r/askMRP29/10/15 11:13 AM
1

You'll not find any feel good bullshit about Prince Charming in any of the sidebar material. You watch your "image"? Be the real fucking deal and your "image" will simply be you and not a projection of what you think people will like.
/r/askMRP29/10/15 02:54 AM
1

I'm starting to think you don't understand redpill at all. Tit for tat for a footrub? Worrying over what your girls sister thinks of you? Prince charming? Fucking gag me. Next you're going to start calling RP tactics "emotional manipulation" like those TBP fags.
/r/askMRP29/10/15 01:20 AM
1

I kind of reordered them to be that way. One spills into another. Sometimes separate perspectives on a singular subject can be helpful for overthinkers like my friend.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/15 09:12 PM
1

Glad I can always rely on you for a concise reply. Just wrote that in my notes.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/15 09:10 PM
1

I'm just giving him the information he asked for. He in a roundabout way brought up the concept of frame without me even talking about it. He'll work his way through the material as I give it to him.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/15 09:10 PM
1

Your mentality is pretty weak if you think ignoring your wife's hamstering is "running away". The fact that you think a man should even care that anyone thinks he's being "mean" tells me you're not yanking hard enough on the cord while you're unplugging.
/r/askMRP28/10/15 05:21 PM
2

Yeah same guy.
/r/askMRP27/10/15 06:03 PM
1

Yeah I know. I can't tell him to do what I'd do in that situation. I'd disappear for 24 hours, but because of the nature of my work I can go off grid in a snap. Its convenient dread. But this guy asks permission to work out for an hour on an eliptical in his basement from a SAHM.
/r/askMRP27/10/15 04:09 PM
3

He's a good dude. He just doesn't understand how this stuff works yet. What's in it for me is I build up a member of my tribe of people.
/r/askMRP27/10/15 02:36 PM
2

Yeah these are the exact things I was thinking. I was hesitant to give him any advice at all because I was worried he would just hamster it into something else. I've got a copy of NMMNG for him. I'll get it to him todau and not answer any questions until he's done
/r/askMRP27/10/15 01:39 PM
2

He's scrawny and runs. But no lifting. He's usually the type to fawn over texts like that but he agreed not to write back. I advised to him to be at peace with it. His worry is that texting her back is saying that rejecting him is ok.
/r/askMRP27/10/15 01:06 PM
1

I don't know. I've learned to enjoy the challenge. Its not as fun if she can't say no. (bet that gets quoted seriously on TBP)
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/15 10:33 PM
2

Holy shit. I literally laughed out loud.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/15 09:40 PM
1

He got me a week or so back for responding to a troll (maybe not troll, but a generally hyper critical dude who never posts his own opinions outside of shitting on people) and then deleting my response. I consider those that challenge me and push me to be better to be true friends.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/15 07:11 PM
2

He's right. It needs to be 100% all you for you. If she's holding you back from working on yourself in a 100% capacity, then she's not helpful, because you're allowing her to be an anchor tied round your neck while you're trying not to drown. Its pointless to keep relationships that offer you no positive benefits.
/r/askMRP26/10/15 06:44 PM
3

We all have our own story. Don't compare yours to anyone else's. Its pointless. I've lost 60 pounds of fat and put on about 12 of muscle running my MAP. Went from fearing Alphas to seeking them out as valuable allies. Found that my mindset was weak so I forced myself into hard high pressure situations in real life and put my ideas in front of a forum of strong willed men who slapped down every little lie my ego put out there. I still have a long ways to go. My work will never be finished or be e…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/15 06:18 PM
2

I appreciate you writing this. And I also appreciate that the mods here have helped contributed to my journey for perspective without criticizing my choice of faith in how I approach the red pill way. I've always kept an open mind towards others here and I don't blame another man for cheating on his frigid wife even though I'd probably never do it myself, because that wouldn't embody my core value of encouraging or criticizing other men to see the value in themselves and that they can be a great…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/15 05:31 PM
1

Reading that was so satisfying.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/15 05:21 PM
1

Copy paste genius.
/r/askMRP26/10/15 03:17 AM
1

Come on man. Edit your post and break up into paragraphs. Shit like this is why I hate reading other people's stuff. Also sex promises? Ever heard the line, you can't negotiate desire?
/r/askMRP26/10/15 03:09 AM
1

It's a bad use of resources. Clearly illustrated by 25 paragraph AskMRP posts too. It actually takes a lot more mental effort to do all the rationalization you see from blue pill types. So while they may be intelligent, they are using a lot of mental resources to basically sabotage themselves. But what do I know?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/15 04:53 PM
1

It is effective. And I've gotten to the point where people who aren't honest and straightforward are wasting my valuable time. And that people who just say what they think I want to hear are mentally challenged.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/15 04:27 PM
16

I must be an asshole because I wouldn't care. If she can't set an alarm on her clock she can use her phone. It's not my responsibility to get my wife up on time. And if she's late to something it's not my problem. If her lateness effects my timeline I leave her behind and she can drive herself. Sounds like you have a non problem.
/r/askMRP25/10/15 02:54 PM
3

Ok so if you agree with me. Then don't do what you're doing for her. (i have a feeling you are.) But do it for yourself. Lift because you enjoy it and it centers you and you enjoy putting a little more on that bar and pushing through. Also the username thing, if you find your genuine true alpha inside you that you hide under a betafeels costume and bring it out to play. And then return here to help other people get through what you went through, is jakewantsmygf representative of that? Your user…
/r/askMRP25/10/15 02:15 PM
5

You want to marry a chick that repeatedly disrespects you to impress a fat douchebag? Are you lifting? Are you reading the sidebar material? If you're not then it's obvious. Also your username is jakewantsmygirl that is so weak. You were given a choice about how to represent your identity here and you chose to put some chubby beta you're threatened by as the representation of you?
/r/askMRP25/10/15 01:31 PM
2

Keep it up. Also get out of the house more. Walk around with that baby at the mall or something. Enjoy getting the hell away from her. If you've ever wanted to learn to build stuff, do it. Confuse the shit out of her further by being the version of you that you've always wanted to be.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/15 01:01 PM
2

Also just fuck OP how are you gonna call your chick a unicorn when you've been with her forever and not experienced other women. Unicorn? Give me a break.
/r/askMRP24/10/15 04:35 PM
2

Actual paragraphs please, this drivel is hard enough to read through as it is.
/r/askMRP24/10/15 04:19 PM
6

It really is projection. Hypergamy is real. And the idea she loves you for your own little snowflake self is a lie. If that was true ugly dudes could catfish hot babes for a couple months then reveal themselves and still be loved. Women can turn off that love they feel in a second. It's possible but you have to be equal or greater then the story you spun. Same or more attractive then the pictures you used. But a woman barters for best possible mate, and when she knows she can get better she will…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/15 04:02 PM
1

That in itself is true. But all men don't speak so clearly and bluntly.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/15 03:53 PM
4

I wouldn't go as far as to divorce or have an affair either. But I'm not going to judge others for doing so. If it weren't for my faith I'd be sleeping with other women. As far as my daughter, if she was being a cold controlling cunt and he left or cheated on her. It's her own fault and she's an adult who makes her own choices. Right now she's four, so I'll deal with that part of her life when it comes up. I'd rather a dude that cheats on her then a puss that does nothing when action is called f…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/15 03:26 PM
1

Yeah, I hated you before. But I see that non-stop victim puking needs to be shot down or we would have 10 threads or more a day in MRP of feels, validation begging, and wife blaming. You really do have a gift for slapping sense into those in denial. Even if they flee and don't come back at least they learned they can't win every battle to protect the ego.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/15 12:42 PM
2

I honestly want to thank you and /u/Whinemoreplease because if it weren't for UC hammering me on my blue pill thinking when I first came here I wouldn't have stepped away from the place and really started to internalize MRP and reading the material. WMP and a handful of others held me accountable for my validation seeking behaviour later on and my progress has flourished where it could have become stagnant. I've almost come to see wmp as a cranky ass yoda. I'm surprised at how much his straight …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/15 12:30 PM
1

I'm not surprised and I'm already seeing more eye contact and smiles from women much faster. I used to run lines on women right off the bat and it would take me a minute to get to that click where they get charmed. I feel like since I started this my frame has gotten WAY stronger. I pull people into my frame by my presence, which can be intimidating, but with the right eye contact and a confident smile most people will relax into a more slowed down less guarded conversation. I get my points acro…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/15 12:15 PM
2

There's something in this. You're seeking validation from us that somehow you sort of being similar to her dad means something. You are your own person with your own identity. A dad as a model for what a dude should be to a daughter. Yes she get some of her preferences from him due to familiarity. She unlikely wants to fuck her dad. And also don't see yourself as a replacement for her dad you have your own role with her. Also if you think the t-shirts are stupid then don't wear them. Doing other…
/r/askMRP23/10/15 04:59 PM
1

That's an excellent book with a lot of practical stuff in it. It helped me out a lot.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/15 04:40 PM
-2

Yeah you're right. What's life worth living without a little raping? Hell my wife asks me to rape her at least 5 times a week lately. I'm so thankful that when I act rapey her pussy gets so ridiculously that it makes raping her a lot easier. And now that I'm lifting all the time it's way easier to grab her, tie her up and gag her so the neighbors don't call the police.
/r/askMRP23/10/15 04:28 PM
1

Your mind can focus on other things without music. I used to think I needed music or podcasts just to wash the dishes or drive around at work. Now I spend a lot of time in thought and working on my thinking and internal dialogue. Maybe when you run your internal dialogue says you're going to fail you're going to fail you're going to fail and if that's true you need to run without music so you know what your internal dialogue is saying to you in regards to what you're doing. Then you need to take…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/15 04:23 PM
2

Just remember to do it to amplify your other skill sets, physical presence etc. and not to avoid speaking if that's a struggle for you. Really fight the urge to explain or justify. Be comfortable with others thinking whatever they want.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/15 04:02 PM
-3

Oh yes. That's completely true. We even have a service that anonymously ships roofies to your house if all the "emotional manipulation" we use fails. Check the sidebar for more info on that. And we have a secret annual conference where we share rape tips and take to the streets like a pack of wolves raping everyone in sight.
/r/askMRP23/10/15 03:59 PM
-8

Yes. Totally rape her until buckets of blood fall out of her pussy and asshole. Then spackle her vagina shut and slit her throat.
/r/askMRP23/10/15 03:37 PM
0

What? To protect your ego from the fact that you have a weak mind? If you need a bunch of noise to distract yourself from what's going on inside you then you have a lot to work on in that area. I know I did I needed to face that fear of my body failing. I need to look that fear right in the eyes and deal with it. But as far as the internal work goes I'm kind of extreme and I don't expect anyone to follow my example.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/15 03:28 PM
1

I could write a trilogy of books based just on how I fucked up good prospects by not being red pill enough. I take this as seriously as I do hamplanets that cry on Twitter about "concern trolling" and "ableism".
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/15 03:16 PM
2

Your faith is an important part of your frame. I've found this true for me. But I don't pray for specific things but acknowledge aloud that God is in control of the situation and we should honor God and also each other with our personal conduct.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/15 12:45 PM
3

My wife knows when shes in full super cunt mode that I won't even answer the phone again that day. I usually turn it off at that point. If she threatened to not make dinner I'd likely eat out somewhere, then go see a movie. She's threatening to divorce you because you display low value by continuing to pick up the phone to listen to her nonsense. If you didn't put up with that shit, she would worry that you might actually have her served with divorce papers if she keeps it up.
/r/askMRP23/10/15 11:56 AM
1

I think doing so much non-stop hunting has helped too. I've been getting rid of racoons, coyote, possum, ground hog, chipmunks, rats for a local farmer, and just sitting still for hours every day and searching with my eyes has changed how my mind works somehow.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/15 11:43 AM
1

Jeez. Its the wellbutrin. I was on it to stop smoking. Killed my dick. And I'm normally insatiable. I actually ended up replacing it with a stack of 5htp, l-tryptophan, and ZMA at night. And L-tyrosine in the morning.
/r/askMRP22/10/15 06:25 PM
-6

Hold her down and fuck the crazy out of her.
/r/askMRP22/10/15 06:19 PM
1

Where are you at physically? Your SMV vs hers? If she doesn't see you as sexually viable and she has no other options she's going to be disconnected. No shit tests, just comfort to make sure she still has a roof over her head. Is your low libido just with her? Are you jerking off to porn? If so fucking stop it.
/r/askMRP22/10/15 01:31 PM
1

And also I've heard that working just one side can make the other side heal up faster, if that's not true I'm sure the increased blood flow helps.
/r/askMRP21/10/15 02:37 PM
2

You are over thinking it.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/15 07:23 PM
5

Then don't get married. I fail to understand the problem here.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/15 04:48 PM
2

If you don't want to be with her, her finainces are not your problem.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/15 04:35 PM
2

The funny part has been it's lingering. Because the other day Starbucks girl was texting me and my wife could see it. And I could care less about texting back or making excuses. My wife picked up my phone and texted, "fuck off. This is his wife." and I joked with my wife That now the girls gonna want me more. I've never seen my wife get so bent out of shape like that.
/r/askMRP20/10/15 02:16 PM
1

I want to thank you for making such complete posts. I've gleaned a lot of good information and book titles from your replies.
/r/askMRP20/10/15 12:25 PM
1

My solution has been to gather a group of men together and plant seeds in their minds subtly. It's slowly gaining momentum. But feels like guerilla warfare in a weird way.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 07:28 PM
1

As long as you display low value and victim behavior, you will stay stuck where you are. You should stay in your game with your rules, and not play their game where they determine the outcome because you were dumb enough to leave your frame. You're fucking whining. And even with this post you're playing their game. Forego all other entertainment for two weeks, keep to yourself, lift, read NMMNG and WISNIFG. Take a vow of silence. Don't even respond to her. And do it from a place of power. You're…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 06:30 PM
3

Dante Nero refers to passing shit tests as navigating the mine field that is a woman's mind. Both are good analogies because what they share in common is that you need to pay attention and be in the moment instead of carelessly stumbling through.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 06:09 PM
5

I like that analogy a lot.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 04:13 PM
1

Eh, I don't hide much. If I needed to take on a mysterious persona instead of just being my blunt over the top self, I wouldn't want to be married.
/r/askMRP19/10/15 01:15 AM
5

All good words and advice. The stopping porn makes a bigger difference then it seems it should.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/15 01:07 PM
1

Abundance mentality is awesome. I just get to be myself. If people cant deal with me, there's more people, people tell me to dial my intensity down, I click it up a couple notches if that's what I want. Just giving zero fucks. The same random shit I did before that made people feel awkward now gets them to engage me.
/r/askMRP18/10/15 02:25 AM
2

Yeah he resists basic truths. I try to be gentle but he might need to have a nice guy rage fit before he's ready.
/r/askMRP17/10/15 03:48 AM
2

Nope. I'm subtle with friends. I'd prefer to just drop hints and take advantage of teachable moments over anything else.
/r/askMRP16/10/15 06:19 PM
2

I think my wife makes it hard for me to understand how other women think. She's quiet and reserved and doesn't talk about feelings, nag me, etc. She likes it when I go work out and doesn't gripe if I suddenly want to go on an adventure without her and the kids. I have my wife the way I like her generally. As long as I know when to STFU I'm good. Other women seem like they are from another planet to me.
/r/askMRP16/10/15 03:25 PM
2

Yeah. She just walked over to talk to me while I was warming my truck up this morning. I led her husband and two of his friends in a lesson last night through no more Christian nice guy. She told me that she feels like her family is safer with me nearby. Her dad saw me as I was leaving last night and told her, "That's the kind of neighbor you want in your neighborhood. They call that a sheepdog." I laughed, walked over to shake his hand and told him I just try to do the right thing when I can bu…
/r/askMRP16/10/15 11:35 AM
1

If she just doesn't like me then strong words like scary, dangerous, and intense seem out of place now that I give it thought.
/r/askMRP16/10/15 03:04 AM
2

She's not dissed him ever in front of me. But she does always seem to appear nearby, often I'll back up and bump into her when I didn't know she was there standing behind me somewhere. I thought maybe a coincidence but if you're right, I'm creating extra pressure for my friend who's transitioning to RP pretty slowly but surely. How can I help my friend?
/r/askMRP16/10/15 01:35 AM
0

Could you at least try to troll in a more creative less obvious way?
/r/askMRP16/10/15 12:48 AM
1

Dude that is weird. I never thought I'd effect relationships by proximity.
/r/askMRP16/10/15 12:46 AM
4

Except that I'm slowly helping him turn redpill. And our wives are friends. But she stops talking to my wife after she sees me too. You're probably right.
/r/askMRP16/10/15 12:31 AM
1

Eh.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/15 11:34 PM
0

After reading your cynical and shitty comment history I could care less about anything you say. You only get good at doing something by doing it. Not twiddling your thumbs planning to do something. I find it amusing that my biggest critics are overly critical in general and never actually climb down from their high horse to take a risk and contribute something. For butthurt cynics like you I'm probably not your style. Good thing IDGAF RIGHT?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/15 09:48 PM
2

The cattle around you are inconsequential dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/15 02:09 AM
2

I thank you for giving me grace if was wrong in my assumptions in the edit. I am used to most other well worded believers knocking the blessings from the mouths of those with a simple less complicated faith in the name of "you got this technical detail wrong". Do you understand? It is good to deepen ones understanding of the gospel. But carry it in your heart, not just your head. Plus I had to go earn an experience on the retreat, I forced myself into one of the most difficult processes I've eve…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 10:24 PM
1

You're really grasping. Shame is not good at all. Personal conviction is good. If you want to equate conviction as being "good" shame... Fine. Semantics, but fine. But shame that makes you constantly second guess yourself and despise your own personhood and identity. That shit is oppressive. But feel free to think how you want. I'm a former addict with busted teeth, a limp, stretch marks and loose skin on my body from being morbidly obese, and I can now walk into a room and put everyone in a gre…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 09:03 PM
0

I'll enjoy my next post while I'm working on it. Enjoying what's already done is for those who live in the past.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 07:36 PM
3

Good words. I also find it amusing that you're saying something "encouraging" and all the butthurt people who's balls you busted are downvoting you because you likely spoke some truth at them that they couldn't deal with. I'd like to tell those people this, if you can't learn to embrace comments from a poster like WMP as the real tools they can be, then you will NEVER learn to strip away the mindset that brought you here for help in the first place. If you feel offended by the truth and respond …
/r/askMRP14/10/15 07:12 PM
1

I never said innocent. I said when they are young they are their true selves without much effort. Whether you are being your true self likely differs from moment to moment. But children don't really start feeling shame until they start getting older. They don't start believing lies about themselves until something happens to cause it. And a great parent is aware of this stuff and does their best to tell them what's true and what's not. I don't believe children are innocent. But they are more the…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 05:59 PM
2

You are right. I'm still processing a lot. What I thought would be a long arduous process accelerated to light speed for me. I'd already done most of the internal work beforehand unknowingly. As soon as I learned to stop second guessing myself and asking questions I already knew the answer to I changed so quick. I need to be thankful that I was already mostly prepared for this change by obsessing over biblical masculinity for almost ten years and it was a matter of stepping out of my own way. So…
/r/askMRP14/10/15 05:20 PM
1

All that stuff is likely crap we model for them without knowing. Possessive especially, but lieing might be a survival mechanism against your expectations of them if they feel overwhelmed by that. Most hitting only hangs around if the parents hit them. Teaching them how to effectively communicate cuts way down on most of that stuff if there isn't a systemic impatience problem that results in parents hitting the kids for everything because they are too dumb to communicate effectively.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 04:31 PM
3

I have a job I can do without even thinking about it. My mind is pointed towards greater things ahead and coming here is speeding up the process. That's my mission. I do stronglifts 3 times a week for an hour and run the other days. Why are you concerned?
/r/askMRP14/10/15 04:21 PM
1

It's good it meant something to you. I have a theory that we have a natural rhythm we have internally, it might come from the earth itself or be some internal individual thing unique to each person. And maybe our phones, social media, tvs, etc kind of short circuit that rhythm. I know that I have to go for a walk and not watch tv or stare at screens for at least an hour to get into that flow state for a work out, martial arts, or writing. I write everything important to me with pen and paper the…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 02:31 PM
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Never mind. I reread everything away from distractions. Disregard the original comment. Thank you. A note though: the degradation of self in most Christian communities is pandemic. A lot of them focus on their brokenness and sorrow. But they spit in the face of God when they do not rejoice in their redemption. And by doing that they steal the credit from Jesus by engaging in a contest of who can feel worse about themselves. They ignore the gift they've been given in favor of false humility. A tr…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 02:18 PM
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I laughed out loud when I saw this for real. Just ask me to go camping with you instead of dropping hints.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 02:00 PM
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I've got a post I'm working on of mixed stuff. A lot of technique plus some personal revelations. I covered a lot in the original post about the retreat. Even though it got trolled and partially derailed. I was just using this as an opportunity to boast in how my hard work has paid off. No bragging just a lot of good news. Sometimes owning your shit is just putting away false humility and owning that you're awesome and saying it out loud.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 01:40 PM
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Why would you take that personally? Why are you even using weak language like "personal attack"? Edit: before you think I'm attacking you. Know I've general goodwill towards most where wmp could give a fuck less. I'm pointing out what might be a hole in your game. You can not take ANYTHING personal. That is straight up weakness and not outcome independent or IDGAF. Please say IDGAF and then ask, why am I being personally attacked and tell me that adds up.
/r/askMRP14/10/15 01:19 PM
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I love that book.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 11:02 AM
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Eh. You could have put any word in that original nonstatement and it would have fit. Its like you copy pasted something else and wrote EGO. It could have said. The penis, like all things , is a tool. wield it wisely . Water can give life and destroy it. It can be peaceful looking or angry looking. it is still water. Wield your tools and let the results speak for themselves. Or A Leatherclad Gay Bar, like all things , is a tool. wield it wisely . Water can give life and destroy it. It can be peac…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 01:42 AM
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One of my greatest fears is to be fake person. A nice guy who no one will ever actually know because his likeable demeanor is porcelain veneer over rotting teeth. So I try my best to be as genuine and honest as I can. I'm glad you got something out of it. I enjoy helping others especially in the areas of teaching and encouragement.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 01:35 AM
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I believe that it's a natural state of myself. Created by God. That as children we are our true selves. Truly IDGAF and generally outcome independent before people start burdening you with their ego driven idiocy. And giving you shame, self doubt, and anxiety. Real little kids don't have much of that stuff. My four year old is her true self right now. But she'll pick up stuff along the way, hormones and hamstering will kick in. Most of the crap that we think is wrong with them is usually somethi…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 10:19 PM
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So you think it's impossible to get to a point where you don't covet? I'm sure if someone actively practiced any pattern of controlling specific thoughts they could eventually be successful in causing an automatic response. I used to have severe intrusive thoughts that told me to kill myself and that I was useless, but through dedication I haven't had one of those in three years. But I repeat. No person is evil. They may do evil things but the acts are evil not the person. If a person does nothi…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 10:14 PM
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What the hell are you talking about? You just said a bunch of words that meant nothing at all. The ego is bad and not a tool. The only time it has any use is if it shields you from something that you literally could not emotionally or mentally handle. And you would go catatonic, and even then it would be because you're a weak minded little bitch. The ego usually shields you from learning important stuff about yourself. Can you please explain how the ego is a tool besides showing you how gullible…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 09:45 PM
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You need to be mentally prepared to take the loss of you want any hope of you two staying together. Also there's no emotionally attracted. That's hamster speak for, "I'm insecure so I'm going to drag you into therapy and tag team you into submission." Stay your course.
/r/askMRP13/10/15 08:31 PM
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I stopped worrying about coming off as "scary" because of my general intensity. Or whether I'm too much. I speak directly about people's bullshit and laugh at weak replies. I developed a new move I call "the closer" where she'll be in a doorway and I'll gently push her back and slowly close the door in her face while smiling and almost laughing at her. Sometimes I take my wedding ring off and when she asks why I tell her that it randomly falls off when she hasn't blown me in 48 hours, she'll lau…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 08:20 PM
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Tell her you'll fuck her real good as a thanks for that. Act like her even saying that is so cute dawwwwww. Be condescending in a really fun way. If she refuses to do it. Get a buddy to do it and pay him back somehow, because dudes actually can handle the "you owe me one" concept without it emasculating anyone.
/r/askMRP13/10/15 07:08 PM
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She doesn't want beta you back. She wants a real man who takes responsibility for his own problems, doesn't seek validation from her, and is present in the moment. She's on Facebook because youre boring. Be interesting. If you were the hero in your own movie do whatever that guy would do. He wouldn't try to smooth things over and whine and cry all the time. He'd take action, take responsibility for his life and stop asking other people to live his life for him.
/r/askMRP13/10/15 06:54 PM
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Yuck. At you. I generally hope a football team runs a train on her after this post which is this. Lame brag indicative of ego but you will say you were joking. Qualifying why you got to leave the house. Try to validate yourself through your wife's attention More validation seeking asking us how you should feel because you don't know Dreading getting your feels hurt again Edit: more validation seeking Tit for tat bullshit. Trying to understand female logic but pretending you're not. Your identity…
/r/askMRP13/10/15 06:46 PM
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That false humble was a huge problem for me. And it's something I'm actively working out. Humility is paradoxical, and discounting the truth is arrogance either way. Humility is simply embracing the truth and getting comfortable with it.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 06:07 PM
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No. Take action charge up the hill. Sitting there wondering about anything means you're a puss that fears hill sprints.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 06:00 PM
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This is a great comment. But it's also false. Shame is not a pre-req or something foundational to the message besides learning to unpack it and let it go. The natural state is sinful, not evil. Sin is an action, not a state of existence. You can't say a person is evil because people are made in God's image, and God is good. The problem lies in that we are NOT God but we try to pretend we are, like children wearing an "adult" costume. We try to be our own Gods and we end up living under the ego. …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 05:51 PM
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I'm gonna make that change because you're right. Thanks for the input.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 04:55 PM
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Very well worded. Great points.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 04:46 PM
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Good job realizing this truth. Now you have momentum. Charge up the hill at the next lie and fuck it up too.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 03:35 PM
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I've only seen him insult people, derail discussions, and get into debates with the moderators that go no where. If I were a mod I'd ban him because he contributes nothing to the discussion besides causing general dissonance and occasionally hurling an amusing insult at a newbie. But I can't be objective, because apparently I got butthurt about something he said at some point even though I have no memory of it. Let the mods who haven't engaged him in asinine debates make that decision.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 03:20 PM
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If the guy really has a wife that is repulsed by him. Then he is believing some kind of lie about who he is and needs to bring it out into the light. Shame is usually the dead weight that holds a Christian man down, not his altruistic and idealistic outlook. The shame is the unnatractive part.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 02:10 PM
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BPP I seriously don't know why you're debating or trying to qualify anything with that guy.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 01:26 AM
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I was wondering that myself. I actually put time and thought into this post and the most insightful posters here are too busy arguing with a fucktard that never actually contributes anything to critique or comment on my material.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 01:21 AM
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Um. Just PM me.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 01:13 AM
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It was not.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 01:12 AM
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Are you really bringing the Jews into this so you can feel more comfortable shitting on people people because they're Christians? So by your logic, can I beat the shit out of a homeless guy if there's a way more unfortunate homeless guy? And then I can say that Its Ok because I didn't curbstomp the more oppressed one?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/15 06:18 PM
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I've decided to stop spending mental energy on worrying about if something is "lame" or "cool", if it feels right I'm doing it.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/15 05:10 PM
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You read correctly.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/15 04:50 PM
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It is a Christian retreat. But I never heard the words "to better serve your wife."
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/15 04:48 PM
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No no. If judging comes from a place of trying to use it to validate yourself that is the problem. Acknowledging that people are wrong and voicing it is different than fixating on others as a way to avoid working on yourself. My personal problem of avoiding responsibility was to look at all the wrong that everyone else did to avoid looking at myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/15 03:55 PM
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But we shouldn't make petty judgements on others to build up our ego.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/15 03:08 PM
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I agree. One of the things I liked is no one validated another. Men just trying to perform for attention were met with crossed arms. Men in deep thought were left alone to do so. Procrastinators got verbally kicked in the ass. Liars were called out. There was a strong sense of justice, but also a sense of general acceptance. It gave a lot of them space to let down barriers and just be real with each other. My group got tight knit fast and generally followed me. But not like puppies with no purpo…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/15 02:29 PM
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There's too much text. You likely spend too much time bargaining. Stop worrying about technical bullshit and focus on what aspect of your ego you are feeding. Don't worry about her. You can only fix you.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/15 11:00 AM
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The guy probably wasn't that genuine... Women actually like genuine men who are their true selves. Most salt of the earth types are actually people pleaser nice guys wearing a GOOD guy costume.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/15 10:22 PM
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It's not through my church. It's a non-profit. I just got out, it was intense, but I'm gonna need a week to process.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/15 09:38 PM
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I've been through the speech debate plenty of times. It says in the bible that you can use harsh words to talk about bad things, but should never use harsh words for good things. Some of the things Jesus said to the Pharisees were as harsh as saying, "You're all fucking pieces of shit." Paul was the same way using pretty harsh language for the times. If your personal convictions and interpretation don't allow you to say fuck in the proper context that's fine but for me it's not an issue. Its pro…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 08:26 PM
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http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0141FSVDC?ie=UTF8&redirectFromSS=1&pc_redir=T1&noEncodingTag=1&fp=1
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 06:34 PM
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Well written and thought out, great points. I really enjoy replies like these. I believe that there is middle ground as far as merging the two. I in a sense believe that my true inner self is like a reflector that points to God. And ego is the scum that covers it and obscures that light. So embracing that genuine inner self and pursuing self improvement as a way to shed the ego is not selfish or sinful. I also don't ascribe to all aspects of the red pill. Threatening divorce isn't really needed …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 06:33 PM
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I don't really remember or care. But you apparently remember a time I got butthurt on my old account. So you win. Have a cookie.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 05:26 PM
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This is not a one or the other thing issue. You're missing out on the mechanics of what I'm saying. If Joe has already preemptively forgiven the weak willed and lazy for being weak willed and lazy, he's not surprised or effected by them doing what already expects them to do. Outcome Indendence right? What other people say or do is inconsequential because they are kids trying to come sit at the adult table, put on their adult costumes, and say things they think sound adult. But you can see they a…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 04:52 PM
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Yep. I've read through it. I've meant to buy it though. To support the writer.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 02:56 PM
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This post just made me remember to buy book of pook. Quality post. Keep it up.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 02:53 PM
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It's clearly powered by ego. I just kind of feel sorry for people like that. Because they think they are unplugged, but they are really just in denial. So they are acting like what they think already being unplugged looks like. It's pathetic like a fat slob going out and buying affliction shirts thinking he'll get the mojo of the douchey ripped alphas he's seen wearing them. He's wearing the costume and thinking that gives him a pass on working on his true internal self. It's sad, and pathetic. …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 02:21 PM
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Meanwhile Joe is continuing to kick life in the face and then mouth fuck it, while you continue to get buttfucked by life more and more. But sure. Additional note: I choose to forgive more so for me more than them. I forgive because with my conditioning to my faith it allows me to let shitty stuff go and write it off. I can let them know how they messed up. But I don't invest myself into it any further then that. It's not my job to live their life for them.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 12:50 PM
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Exactly. This is why fixating on others is pointless. You can only change you, don't worry about others.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 12:43 PM
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I wouldn't worry too much about him. I've seen him say a couple amusing things but generally he seems to be validation hunting versus actually contributing anything here.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 12:35 PM
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I've lived all over. Even with my regional culture I give no fucks. Edit: Here in KY I most often hear bless their heart in relation to loose women who always seem to be in some messed up situation or relationship.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 11:55 AM
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Being disappointed is more me acknowledging, "oh. You suck at this. And now I know." and moving on. I even apply it to my boss. Instead of getting bent out of shape over unfair treatment because they didn't prepare and shit rolling downhill. I just think, "oh, you suck at this." I don't worry about how I could do better or feel sorry for myself. I give no fucks.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 11:54 AM
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Haha. I had to laugh when I read this.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 11:38 AM
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No. There's actually material in there on different techniques I've been using. By your logic all FR that aren't "used this technique, drowned in puss" should be journal entries?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 10:44 AM
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What a little bitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/15 06:15 PM
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Dude you're a bitch. If my wife legit zings me like that I have to laugh about it and pat her on the head. Because it's like one of my kids zinging me. It's funny and I know the statement is ridiculous. She revealed an insecurity about your fragile sense of masculinity and instead of working through it you came here to cry about it and get validation. Mediocre.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/15 05:06 PM
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If I have time today I'll make this happen for you. I'm going on an intensive men's retreat this weekend. I was planning on writing about my experience there too. From what I've heard the entire experience is centered around stripping away the ego. There's three volunteers to every one participant. And they are hard on you. For 48 hours I won't be able to talk unless asked a question. And my answers will be scrutinized by these men. We can't talk about service level stuff either. It sounds diffi…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/15 11:16 AM
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Have you thought of just trying what you know? We are not holding your fucking hand here. You've got deeper issues then some wiring if you can't do some research and just implement what you learn.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 10:30 PM
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Oh. There's a big switch somewhere that turns off all the electricity. Then you use a flashlight and do what you see in the videos.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 10:10 PM
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Just do it? Swoosh. Edit: but seriously what do you expect us to do? Send you back to your childhood and magic you a dad that wasn't useless around the house?
/r/askMRP06/10/15 10:07 PM
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My greatest strength is my ability to be vulnerable, but it takes a lot out of me. I can really open up and show my genuine self and speak truth. But the anxiety I feel about it is difficult. I feel like I'm being led towards public speaking and it's scary. But I know this is my path. I need to learn to find comfort in it instead of being uncomfortable doing it.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 07:56 PM
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Wmp isn't the type to care about your compliments or other attempts to wank him off. I know from experience. Calm it down.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 03:39 PM
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Are you sure you're not indulging your ego by posting about there here? AskMRP is for that very reason. For newbies. They are likely still in the process of understanding that the process itself is for them and not their wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 03:38 PM
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I'm already aware. Not a single mom. Had a stepdad. He was a narcissist. But whatever I'm already aware of my personal shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 02:23 PM
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If you think your experience doesn't matter why even post here? You're obviously not as hard as you act if you give one shit about me or correcting my flawed logic as you perceive it. It's not touchy feely to be constantly introspective with the goal of it to be a better man. Here's my real question. How can I be like him? Because he never sat around worrying about her feelings. He stuck to his word, if he says something he does it. He found his wife to be mostly an inconvenience yet he watched …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 01:35 PM
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Have someone hide in the closet.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 02:18 AM
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Get a third party present if thats the case. To refute any claims like that and confirm she is in fact threatening self harm.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 01:06 AM
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If she's unstable then you need to be an OAK more then anything. Being that constant will calm her down some if you're consistent. But if she makes threats like that then it's a win-win, if she's bluffing to control you she'll stop, and if she's serious then she needs professional help.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 12:20 AM
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Just stick to the basics. When she threatens self harm again ask if she wants to be admitted for psychiatric evaluation.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 12:05 AM
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It is?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 11:43 PM
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You are an idiot. Get over it. Dump her and improve. She'll likely leave you the second she gets a better offer on the table.
/r/askMRP05/10/15 10:38 PM
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He loved his kids and all his grandkids. And invested a lot of time in us.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 10:31 PM
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I think you're correct
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 10:02 PM
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Yeah. He said he stopped loving her after he returned from Germany after WW2. And went on to have 8 children with her. He got her pregnant before he left and married her so no one would judge her. He said when he makes a commitment he keeps it. He was a super happy guy and did whatever he wanted. But he looked at her as a dependent. And that was it.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 09:28 PM
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No. My grandfather.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 09:13 PM
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There's nothing to gain here but perspective. And even that is take it or leave it. If you're always on the lookout for disingenuous actions, then that's often going to be your perception of things.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 08:28 PM
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The weird thing is he's super red pill. Charming, playful, 10 steps ahead of women, hardworking, respected and loved by many, open, honest. People still talk about him after being dead for years. He just took that vow seriously. He saw her as his responsibility that he signed up for and he kept his word. Even though she was a nightmare to be married to.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 08:25 PM
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Not trying to gain anything. Except maybe getting perspective of a man who does not love his wife but stays with her anyway. And learning how this works. My mom's father stayed married to his wife for 80 years even though he said he didn't really love her yet she was crazy about him and they had 8 kids together. I'm just simply curious what motivates a man to stay married to a woman he doesn't love. Not that that's a problem for me. I just find it fascinating.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 07:09 PM
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Don't forget to take time and inventory yourself so you have something to compare to.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 06:16 PM
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I read a really interesting book called, "The Way of Men" by Jack Donovan. And ever since I've been obsessed with the idea of writing a book about having a tribal group within our modern culture. About the small groups in a church to be more tight knit then gangs or tribal war parties.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 04:21 PM
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It's basically a similar analogy to captain of the ship. But in this one if you swerve you're handing over control to a terrified crew that will in haste steer your ship into the rocks just so they can get to dry land. Playing chicken with a squirrel is going to either end up with you wrapped around a tree or a dead squirrel that thought it could intimidate you into swerving off the road. You run them over? You'll feel sort of bad for a second. But its not going to ruin your day like a branch th…
/r/askMRP05/10/15 04:08 PM
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http://fatherstie.com/2010/07/30/from-to-own-a-dragon/ Don Miller's work is the original thing that started me down the masculine road
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 03:42 PM
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Jesus Mean and Wild - Mark Galli, No More Christian Nice Guy - Paul Coughlin, Why Men Hate Going to Church - Davis Murrow, The Map - Davis Murrow, Tender Warrior - Stu Weber. These are a few biblical masculinity books worth reading. But remember to balance what you learn from them with common sense and be open to being challenged by men here even if they aren't Christians etc. The main theme through most of these types of books is that we deny our true nature and families in the modern era are m…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 01:10 PM
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He's not only happy. He's joyous. Pure joy is to happy as unbridled rage is to angry. The shitty sad mask you wore falls off and your face shines like the sun. You get rejected by your wife and go out and you do whatever you want. Turn off the cell and go randomly enter a local poker tournament. Go camping overnight in your car and then go fishing all day. Flirt with women aggressively in target because you give no fucks. What's gonna happen? Are they going to approach you and flirt again one da…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 11:26 AM
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No. We podcast our sermons. But this was like a special event. Plus I wouldn't mention the churches name for fear of getting doxxed by Blue pill shitheels
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 01:14 AM
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I feel like Matt Damon's character in the Martian was kind of RP in the way he didn't fucking whine in an impossible situation. He just got to work and solved whatever problems he had in the most practical ways he could think up. Wasn't concerned about other people's "feelings" and even talked to his crew mates in a snarky way that was genuine but never mushy.
/r/askMRP04/10/15 10:53 PM
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The scariest motherfucker in a fight is the one who never stops smiling.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/15 01:28 AM
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I wouldn't say cocky. But knowing I can speak truth from the heart about a difficult subject and get such a positive response shows me I'm headed in the right direction. But I'm not going to get cocky about it. Because letting others give you validation is a swinging door and you can get smashed by it when it swings back. I enjoyed seeing my work come to light, and realising the impact I can make on those around me is big event for me. A close mentor of mine told me I should speak more, because …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/15 09:47 PM
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This is the first outside sex that wasn't in a tent. In the woods somewhere.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/15 09:27 PM
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It's a bunch of mad scientist scribbles on a legal pad. The gist was about being willing to put my ego out of it and just doing the right thing by leading by example. I talked about how no amount of nagging or manipulation is going to change a guy and he can only change himself. The overall theme was on disappointments in marriage. I talked about covert contracts by saying not to have "secret expectations" of your wife that are actually tit for tat in nature because it only leads to disappointme…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/15 09:24 PM
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A lot of those were read aloud during the conference.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/15 05:53 PM
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I must just be a mean asshole after all because I say speed up and run their asses over. I think it depends on your mindset. If you say fuck them, they are just trying to see if they can trick your ass right into a tree.
/r/askMRP03/10/15 05:30 PM
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It's a first time for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/15 04:12 PM
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Remember though that ketogenic diets are really a good muscle sparing diet while being effective at cutting down fat tissue. And it's not just your physical composition, it's also the way you carry it, your posture etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/15 03:32 PM
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2-3 years? If you're sticking to any program worth a shit a year and you'll see some results. Watch that you don't limit yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/15 03:08 PM
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Then take the bunghole off the pedalstool and get to work being awesome. Remember, whether she does or doesn't isn't the objective. Being the best version of yourself is.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/15 02:06 PM
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Dante Nero harps on that. That if a woman gets cheated on she'll blame her self.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/15 11:59 AM
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It's totally predicated on your SMV and how you approach it. Your SMV is too low. Don't get butthurt about it. Hit the gym.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/15 11:53 AM
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Aww what a cute little beta that thinks his mere words matter in a forum full of men of action.
/r/askMRP02/10/15 10:26 PM
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Ladies you're both pretty. Stop fighting.
/r/askMRP01/10/15 11:53 PM
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If she starfishes just caveman the shit outta her. You must be new, because you're too fixated on her. Just do whatever you would've done if you weren't butthurt and trying to pretend you're ok. And I don't understand how dudes see a woman not talking as anything short of a mental vacation.
/r/askMRP01/10/15 04:29 PM
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That's not a bad idea with the phone thing. What app do you use?
/r/askMRP01/10/15 04:19 PM
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Then work on your SMV and get yourself a bad ass bitch that will watch your kid. You can't have the mindset that she has anything over you. Or you're fucking doomed. If you have family members that will watch your kids. Or even a SAHM in your neighborhood that wants a little extra spending money might be a lot cheaper and convenient. You'll figure it out dude. Just get out of victim mode.
/r/askMRP01/10/15 03:22 PM
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The fact that she sucks my dick later after telling me, "I'm impossible." or she's "mad at me" is also amusing.
/r/askMRP01/10/15 02:47 PM
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Just don't get drawn into her frame. As far as setting boundaries with her. Like Dante Nero says, "Be reasonable, fair, and firm." Ask yourself is it reasonable to expect her to not blow your money on Amazon? Is it fair to implement rules and boundaries to meet that expectation? Then be firm in your choice. She doesn't like the rules, so she's trying to change them now. All the emotional garbage she's throwing at you is manipulation. You're not playing that game anymore. She's obviously immature…
/r/askMRP01/10/15 02:32 PM
1

Prepare to just take the loss. Serve her with papers ASAP and don't do anything for her. Don't leave the house. Tell her to leave, don't pay for anything. If she wants out let her support herself.
/r/askMRP01/10/15 01:59 PM
2

How would you treat a teenage daughter that's acting this way? You would ignore it. She's just pushing to see what she can get. This is a really dumb argument over a trivial logistics thing. She's trying to make a non-issue an issue because she's likely used to being a brat and getting what she wants. Be an OAK. Unaffected by the hamstering. Don't entertain her horseshit. You're allowing yourself to be affected by this? She thinks you're a bitch and that you'll cave to her little kid tactics. An…
/r/askMRP01/10/15 01:55 PM
10

Don't be there? Go do awesome shit?
/r/askMRP01/10/15 02:47 AM
1

You gotta be subtle about it. I came here because of deadbedrooms. But the person that brought me here was so completely subtle about it not even referring to the name directly but referring to the "dark arts". I came here a year back. Got slapped around for being very blue pill. Got really butt hurt, then started studying mental toughness. When I first checked it out, I wasn't ready. I thought everyone here was scum. But my breakthrough was actually an audiobook called, "love yourself like your…
/r/askMRP01/10/15 01:42 AM
1

Good Lord. Here's a tip. Go troll elsewhere.
/r/askMRP01/10/15 01:10 AM
0

You suck. You let yourself go and you're only going to step up and do what you should've because you're scared of losing her? If she leaves you've likely earned that outcome for yourself.
/r/askMRP30/09/15 04:53 PM
1

Their wives are likely not even noticing if they are not responding. Which means these guys are overevaluating their work instead of having a sober view of things. Edit: they likely learned some techniques and physically improved but are still the same whiney cunts they started out as.
/r/askMRP30/09/15 04:35 PM
3

Especially if it's a gentle and playful way to correct some bullshit.
/r/askMRP30/09/15 04:29 PM
1

I read on my phone, if she asks I tell her I'm looking at porn and sex toys. And ask what sized buttplug she prefers.
/r/askMRP30/09/15 04:09 PM
2

Also you said would you be willing. Most RP men are perfectly willing given the right parameters. They choose not to or to do so. But a special breed of spineless betas think so lowly of themselves that the answer is a definite no because if wifey says no sex then you must not deserve to have sex. Right?
/r/askMRP30/09/15 03:59 PM
1

Not if it can be achieved, but if you choose it. There is no try, only do.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/15 03:40 PM
2

As far as being hyper tuned in. That's part of a mindset. You shouldn't have to be OCD but more like in the book "the practicing mind" you just enjoy the process of what you're doing. In doing so time seems to slow down and you get more done in less time by doing away with distractions. The same can be true in conversation, you do away with anxiety and ego and it becomes more breezy. You achieve that flow state. I'm always tuned in... Sometimes to a point where I can't turn it off. Sometimes I h…
/r/askMRP30/09/15 03:38 PM
3

It's a genuine reaction that arises from a chosen perspective. Suppressing it would feel fake. I'm currently trying to internalize the IDGAF perspective coupled with knowledge about how women think and react. These two things together make me laugh like I do at my kids when they are trying to manipulate me in the most weaksauce way possible.
/r/askMRP30/09/15 02:23 PM
3

In order: yes/ Wouldn't care/ Irrelevant/ Eh. I don't find myself crushing on anyone anymore. Its do or don't./ Irrelevant/ I wouldn't put pussy before achievements or my kids.
/r/askMRP30/09/15 01:24 PM
1

You need to practice more IDGAF. Because you're a little too easily swayed by the pursuit of validation. You didn't fail a shit test, you failed yourself. Do for yourself and STFU.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/15 02:13 AM
1

Is she still butthurt that you had let yourself go even though you corrected it now?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/15 12:20 AM
1

Regarding your wife not getting hit on, yeah that's what I mean. I meet miserable divorced women all the time at my job. They all hit the wall post divorce. You overestimate her SMV because you're too nice and you probably think she's the only woman you should even be looking at.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/15 12:19 AM
2

You're looking at it wrong. She doesn't think like you do. You cannot expect the same from her as you do from yourself. A woman is like a goldfish in a bowl that thinks it's in the ocean. She already forgot about saying that shit a month after she said it. If my wife said some dumb shit yesterday but is sucking my dick like a champ this morning, why the fuck would I care about yesterday? It's likely your own fucking fault she said get a girlfriend. She probably wasn't attracted to your leadershi…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/15 12:08 AM
1

Only piece of real estate? How's it feel to have your own bitterness be the only thing you lay claim to? Your perspective is the difference between her being "the bitch that stole what could have been" and "a wife That's done some stupid shit at some point". Get over yourself and your what ifs and embrace what you have or move on.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 07:52 PM
3

You might be overestimating your wife's SMV. You still care too much about what she thinks. You're still butthurt that she told you to get a GF a long time ago when it's now a non-issue. You're the man, you control your frame, don't enter her frame. Who cares if she wants to talk. You're "sort of alpha" at work. But try to qualify here with us. You have a lot of work to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 07:08 PM
-1

Write us a fucking book next time.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 04:03 PM
1

OP is such a little bitch. If my wife outright said she needed some space, I'd tell her she can go stay with her parents and stop taking her calls.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 02:25 PM
3

Just remember that a woman looks at anger the same way as a little kid would. When you lose your cool and yell, they are not hearing the content, instead they just perceive the anger. It's an ineffective approach to problem solving. If my five year old does something and I fly off the handle about it. I'm now the one in the wrong. It's the same with your wife, she cares fuck all about your "feels", to her you're just being an asshole. Be above reproach, don't give her the satisfaction of losing …
/r/askMRP29/09/15 02:01 AM
1

Seriously just STFU look at her like you would a child that said some stupid shit, and walk off.
/r/askMRP28/09/15 12:02 PM
2

I understand the concept of Self ownership. I just believe camradery is very important.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 06:17 PM
0

I guess I'm probably overly idealistic. I've felt bonded with other groups online before. But I don't feel like I can be myself with them since unplugging. Maybe I should just join an MC.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 06:15 PM
3

But there's something to be said about the tribalism and bond that guys can share through cooperation. Military units, native hunting parties, or even outlaw motorcycle gangs. I'll never be the lone lumberjack hermit in the woods. I will always seek the wisdom of others. But I need to stop asking others for answers I already know. Because it's dishonest. It's definitely a hunger for connection. I crave the betterment that comes from criticism. And the more I put myself out there the more refined…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 05:52 PM
3

Best thing I've read all week. Feels like you wrote it for me. I crave a lot of connection and I tend to ask for advice when I already sort of know the answer. Edit: This needs to be at the top. I'd upvote twice if I could.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 05:28 PM
1

I don't know why but it's more hilarious now.
/r/askMRP25/09/15 01:43 PM
2

I was mostly going off the fact that people who take herbal test boosters say that they want to fuck or kill everything they see in reviews. Read chaos and pain reviews for a good laugh.
/r/askMRP25/09/15 01:09 PM
3

That's a mixture between manipulation and not knowing what she's talking about. Just go to MRP read the material and work on yourself. Are you lifting? Getting your diet locked down? Taking time to hang out with other guys you respect? Stop trying to fuck her for now, and use the energy you're wasting on that and improve yourself instead.
/r/askMRP25/09/15 11:39 AM
1

I have to laugh when people get on me about posting too much. I know I do. But I'd rather post here and get smacked upside the head then say shit in front of people who will enable me to be needy.
/r/askMRP25/09/15 11:28 AM
2

Don't be a bitch. I know guys who lift in the snow on a concrete pad behind their shed. Figure something out. Stop talking about plans and start getting shit done. And she keeps your balls in her purse? Really what kind of man are you?
/r/askMRP25/09/15 12:51 AM
0

Eh. I do internal shit daily. Don't expect me to be a hardcore red overnight. As far as deleting old posts I just figured they weren't relevant enough and were written out of boredom, so they removed so others could move up.
/r/askMRP24/09/15 05:13 PM
2

On the positive side. She believes in you enough that she thinks you can move into more lucrative positions fairly quickly. Though I may be unrealistic expectations. Its just that you should work where you want to and not have to consult with her.
/r/askMRP24/09/15 11:29 AM
1

Nah. I have no intentions of even slowing down. I was just wondering if I needed to be ready for changes.
/r/askMRP24/09/15 11:02 AM
1

Eh. I can see how you'd think that.
/r/askMRP24/09/15 02:05 AM
1

I know it changes nothing. I'm not looking for validation, just analyzing a new pattern I noticed.
/r/askMRP23/09/15 02:26 PM
2

Yeah, being taller with decent muscle definition is going to put you up there easily.
/r/askMRP23/09/15 01:20 AM
1

My SMV was lower, but she had just been in a super fucked up relationship with a superbeta fiance that screamed and cried because she wouldn't talk about her feelings. Dragged her into marriage counselling when they were just engaged, and ultimately dumped her for a chick that wasn't even interested in him and friendzoned him after that. I came along and she just kind of fell into my frame and fell for me. I was passionate and not judgemental about her terrible communication skills. I just kind …
/r/askMRP22/09/15 08:27 PM
2

It also depends on your wife. If your wife is trying to grind you down to nothing so she can feel justified leaving you then don't tell her shit. If she's giving you shit sometimes but wants to see you do better (ride or die) then work on it some and when you improve she's encouraging you to keep going then give it some time then bring her on board. But she's flipping out because you're at the gym too much or you're tightening your diet up. Then she's not supporting you and until she supportive …
/r/askMRP22/09/15 07:37 PM
2

They are so used to their touch being creepy and unwanted when their SMV was danger low. When she starts consistently shit testing you again or you pass the main event and your SMV is steady rising then it's time to use Kino. My wife shit test me today, snatching my hat off my head because she doesn't think men should wear hats indoors. I calmly grabbed the back of her neck looked her in the eyes and slowly pulled the hat from her hands and put it back on while keeping eye contact the whole time…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/15 07:18 PM
1

My wife couldn't even give up carbs for a week. I went Keto and lost a bunch of bodyfat and now I warrior diet and fast on sundays. And can't even run a block without quitting. She's naturally small so she'll always be skinnyfat. Whereas I was out doing C25K at 325lbs and going to BJJ classes. So I hope she steps it up because then I get a hotter wife, but I know I'll always out work her in the long run. And I'm a handsome dude with dark dark features, that'll only get better as I lift and train…
/r/askMRP22/09/15 06:03 PM
1

Ignore her.
/r/askMRP22/09/15 05:23 PM
2

I look forward to confrontation. It makes me feel alive. But it also can get me in trouble at work when I make co-workers angry with blunt assessments of things. Sometimes I'm as subtle as a sledgehammer. I need to acknowledge that some of this is insecurity and also ego. And work on effective concise forms of communication that don't smash the fragile egos of my co-workers.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/15 03:15 PM
1

Delete your post. Read the material. Lift. Keep lurking.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/15 05:01 PM
-5

Troll. Probably one of those blue pill parasites.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/15 04:58 PM
1

This is a good response. This dude obviously can't fathom the difference between leadership and straight up intimidation and has a lot of internal work to do before any kind of "techniques" will even work for him.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/15 04:56 PM
2

Check your fucking ego. Focus on yourself. Get rid of all the useless heavy shit draped all over you that lets you think putting your hands on your wife for a temper tantrum is ok. Don't even joke about "graduate level" reading at this point. Being a dickhead don't make you red pill to the point where you don't need to lay the foundation. Read the pre req material. My biggest piece of advice for you. Join a BJJ gym and roll with higher level and bigger dudes. So you can see what it's like to die…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/15 04:44 PM
5

It doesn't just work for women. It works at work too. I've started to look at my job as a chance to have fun practice all my interpersonal skills instead of just "work". I actually feel refreshed after my shift instead of exhausted.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/15 04:25 PM
1

Please break up the endless wall of text.
/r/askMRP20/09/15 12:37 PM
1

Don't put your insecurities off on anyone but yourself. They are yours. Own them.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/15 02:13 AM
1

That's the reason I'd do it. Because I would get a huge laugh out of it. She wouldn't even be able to find it and would text me non-stop freaking out.
/r/askMRP18/09/15 06:59 PM
0

I'm kind of an asshole. So I'd probably leave the room shut off the main breaker to the house, get in my car and drive off.
/r/askMRP18/09/15 06:40 PM
3

In gorilla mindset, dude says to say your negative self talk aloud while looking into your own eyes in a mirror to realize it's bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 05:31 PM
2

Sometimes I think a flip phone would improve quality of life by forcing me to not write as much when I do.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 03:31 PM
0

TLDR? OPs a whiney bitch who needs to dump the sand from his vagina, and realize the problem isn't that she now earns more than him, but that this actually bothers him. My wife earns twice what I do. I don't cry about it. I still pay the bills at the end of the day.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 03:27 PM
1

It does make sense. I am aware that I need to be less reactive and put more planning into my posts. One of my strengths here is I'm willing to be wrong if it means I get to be better then I was. So I appreciate your perspective.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 02:29 PM
1

I'm pretty aware of the weak mental patterns I need to correct. It takes time and active practice to do so. Whether I "come back" here in a day or three months (an arbitrary amount of time) has no bearing on me choosing to work through my internal workings and outlook. You just think I'm posting too much.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 01:50 PM
2

Does she seem cold and disinterested when she rejects you for sex? Trust me dude she's often worse then you'll ever be. That's just the nature of a woman.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 12:02 PM
2

Don't listen to this blue pill troll.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 11:59 AM
2

This times a thousand.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 11:20 AM
1

Good point.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 11:11 AM
1

Well the post is the original part someone asked so a listed some stuff. Asked and answered. But there is a difference between own your shit and original thread. Because self ownership is different in that it is simply the concept of realizing your personal responsibility to yourself. Which as you're reading the material should be step one. I am a newbie. I mean semi new, in that. I haven't been holding shit down for years. But I'm introspective and I wanna help the others. I hope if I'm ever wr…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 11:08 AM
1

Dude, your mother likely conditioned you to be that way. And your dad was either not around, or had the same problem you do. It's not easy to reverse years of a certain pattern. But the warrior spirit within you will help. She doesn't need a little boy who needs her. She needs a man who is true to himself regardless of what she thinks. That aggressive survival instinct you have, deep in your chest, tap into it. You're a warrior, not a child. You don't need approval from anyone. You do what needs…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 11:30 PM
2

That's easy for men who come home everyday, but what about truck drivers, armed forces, etc?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 10:20 PM
3

So you read my post... It's good that you were able to spot a shit test using text. But you failed it and prompted it too. Your words with her say, "I'm needy, I want your approval" this is why most RPs say only text for logistics. It's good you didn't vomit all that guilt stuff at her. The part where you told her about making a workout schedule is dumb. Have you ever been impressed by someone who said they were planning to do something? Where do you usually wait to see that they've achieved som…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 09:39 PM
2

Come again? Link?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 08:17 PM
6

Honestly a stand up guy shouldn't say anything to anybody that he wouldn't say clearly while looking them right in the eyes. That's respectable that you came out and said this though. One of the things I'm working on is not to complain aloud to myself about stuff when I'm in my truck. Its both Crazy and doesn't help. Doesn't change anything and in a sense increases anxiety about whatever you're complaining about
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 07:46 PM
2

I'm sticking to working out six times a week. Doing 5x5 and C25K. Plus 2x a week of BJJ. I cut my 2 hours of gaming down to 30 minutes a day. I phased out negative friends and made new ones to replace them. I log my food. Shut down all social media besides posting here. I'm being introspective and looking at how I think and working on negative patterns. Taking time to be stoic and imagining not having the things I enjoy so I enjoy them more. Leaving myself open to criticism from males I respect …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 05:43 PM
2

Seems like you never agree with anything I say. Good to have a consistent differing perspective to keep me humble. But come on man.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 04:39 PM
1

It should really be "your happiness shouldn't come from her reaction to you, but that a self sustained man's happiness comes from himself, and is illustrated by a lack of reaction to her." But I type all my articles from my phone during breaks. And the first thing was shorter.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 03:41 PM
2

Lol. If you're ever in louisville pm me. I'd like to meet a good dude like you.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 03:31 PM
9

Don't be short sighted. Text game is like training wheels for RP newbies. You can actually ask for advice on the midst of a text exchange. You can't very well pause a shit test when it's going down in person and do the same.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 03:16 PM
6

Regardless it was a great starting point for me. Learning to internalize my worth alone with my phone helped me get the confidence to approach these situations in person.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 03:05 PM
-3

Yeah women are incapable of Orwellian methods of control and conditioning you to do what they want even if it's not in your own best interests.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 03:00 PM
2

You then ignore that. And the next one. And dont answer the calls. And if she's still acting crazy later when you get home, you go out and do fun shit. Without her.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 10:55 AM
-6

Everything they said to me was that RP is just emotional abuse. They really went into a frenzy when I basically told them I put myself first in the relationship. So does she. If we weren't married with kids, she would be gone. When a woman isn't feeling you, she'll dump you with extreme prejudice. Or stick around to enjoy marital benefits while fucking you as little as possible.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 10:48 AM
8

You'd be surprised how much you can bond with beta types as an RP man. Half of them will jump at any excuse to get away from their harpy... Erm wife. Use man time as an opportunity to subtlety inject some RP into their psyche. You'll find they ask you for advice if you're actually being a credible dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 08:33 PM
0

Probably the same scum as SRS.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 07:40 PM
0

Lol they tagged me and I replied. I wish I hadn't. It was like trying to talk to a pack of retarded gremlins. Apparently TRP is "emotional abuse". That's about all I got out of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 07:09 PM
2

Good on you bro. Keep chugging along.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 06:18 PM
1

Because I'm afraid that I'll learn this for years and never master it. That the some of the MRP practice will be a front and it won't internalize. And if I can't genuinely be something, then I don't want to be it at all.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 04:59 PM
1

It's hard for me. Because I realized the wild animal I've locked up in a cage that's growling at me right now should've never been locked up in the first place. To me it's not a cheat code at all. Its a terrifying ordeal.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 03:18 PM
-1

I am that guy. But a lot of binary thinking in there. Changed names because TBP idiots would have easily doxxed me if I didn't. I've been working on this for about a year now. Yeah she doesn't seek validation from me. But if you don't see it's possible to be overly alpha yet be insecure and overweight then that's likely binary thinking. Shit tests aren't a problem for me. I smash them. I laugh in her face for doing it at times. I suck at comfort tests though. In some sense I'm not beta enough in…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 02:17 PM
1

I like that poem. It was in a post on my old username.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 01:21 PM
6

You did fine. You also could have just stopped texting at "but why?"
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 12:07 PM
1

It's really not a cheat code though. You have to improve your SMV and come to terms with the fact that that value is a thing. You have to patch up all the holes in your thinking and approach. A cheat code is easy. It's not a cheat code.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 11:18 AM
1

Apparently someone posted this in blue pill sub.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 11:13 AM
1

I play a lot of open world stuff. I set a timer and play for a half hour a day. Usually after a work out. Doing mad max at the moment.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 03:39 AM
2

Sorry friend. Sometimes I forget that replies aren't only directed at me. My ego likely still needs a lot of work. No disrespect intended or taken. (as always thanks for the clarification.)
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 03:14 AM
1

Well my current plans involve staying with the mother of my kids at the moment. So I don't see the point in pursuing relationships with others. Practice talking and light flirting? Sure. But I generally don't pursue much beyond that. I don't Kino anyone but my wife. That's not because I can't. But that doing so would not be me being genuine.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 01:15 AM
1

It sounds like you need to calm the fuck down and just be patient while you work on yourself. You're doing NoFap yet trying to "spin plates"? You sound like the dude in NMMNG who has emotional affairs but as long as there's no P in V you're ok. Like you make covert contracts to yourself in classic "nice guy" fashion.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 12:30 AM
2

I'd just go.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 12:24 AM
2

I see what you did there.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 12:23 AM
1

Read the post I just put up.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 12:20 AM
2

Pua? Plates? You can have an abundance mindset by just studying stoicism. Its within yourself, and it doesn't matter how many plates you spin. Your happiness doesn't come from validation from women but from validating yourself. I feel sorry for you dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 12:06 AM
4

You're seriously a fucking dumbass. Oneitis in marriage? How about you look within yourself and find out why you're such an idiot and fix that instead of worrying about "Oneitis"? I hope you don't have any kids because they'll probably grow up and be retarded too.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 10:26 PM
1

My wife has never felt nauseous once. And would know enough to not talk to a shitty friend like that.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 09:55 PM
1

I know you're used to binary thinkers... But I'm pretty aware that almost everything has some kind of paradoxical nature to it. You just called me a stone cold motherfucker, then a clueless punk. So which is it? I do watch what she does. She's been withdrawn, cold, avoidant, just because she came out and told me why doesn't make it not true.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 08:30 PM
1

I agree, but that's only true if you have the SMV for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 07:02 PM
3

It's like you're wearing armor.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 05:18 PM
1

I'm not living in accordance? Can you clarify?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 04:30 PM
2

Yeah. And it's really just snapshots and self centered crap. If there was a room full of photo albums and people's diarys. I'd walk the other way. So why should I wanna look at it on my phone when I could post here and become more awesome?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 01:54 PM
1

First, go back and format that wall of text. Second, just don't give a fuck. Tell her to go ahead. But shes paying for her own place, and the kids are staying with you. Don't give her any support, and go radio silent. If you can't handle taking care of your own kids without her, then you kinda deserved her leaving in the first place.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 01:14 PM
3

I finally through 5x5 figured out how to fit lifting into my schedule. I realized I'm a harsh alpha at times and I need to work on providing comfort and understand that alpha and beta can be paradoxical in nature. Beta isn't a negative if applied correctly with a balance approach and if you've got a decent woman who really isn't nagging you at all. My biggest move this month is going to be validating myself instead of seeking validation in others. I've set up an alternate username that I will be…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 12:53 PM
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