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Sorry, this is not related to your post, but may I ask what the facebook group is called? I understand if you don't wan't to share it here. :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/17 03:56 PM
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This comment made me laugh way too much! :D
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 08:58 AM
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Could I ask you what the cream/medication is called? After I put in my IUD (mirena) my skin have had a really bad time... :(
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/17 11:05 AM
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Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/17 05:14 PM
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Thank you, you gave me a lot to think about :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/17 05:13 PM
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You are right! Thank you! It could and should wait. :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/17 01:25 PM
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I do have my own life, but I am sick at the moment, and almost haven't been out of my house in two weeks :p I don't feel I can ask for real dates right now, I mean, he is really exhausted. He comes to me after work the days he don't have overtime or training. I can't really ask him to do something active. The future plans concerns me too... He have joked about me moving in with him, I'm just really confused right now. I am 23 and he is 28, all his friends are getting married and he wants to have…
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/17 12:55 PM
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Thank you! Been sick for two weeks, waay to much time to think :p I try to tell myself what you are saying here, but it seems so long. I think my head just overflowed today, I feel a little bit better about everything after writing about it here. At least I didn't pour it out on him. Still feel the need to talk to him about it though (him going away), but it doesn't really make any change if it is today or in one month.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/17 09:53 AM
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To be honest, I don't know anything about what the trip is, only that it is related to his job. He is not afraid for his life, I am. I really don't hope there is any chance in him returning in plastic, and I try not to think about that before I know more about what all of this is. Because, as I said, right now I don't know anything at all! And trust me, I am doing everything I can to this time easier for him. I have made a lot of food for him, stocked his freezer with homemade dinners that only …
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/17 09:27 AM
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Yeah, it probbaly doesn't help that I am quite sick at the moment, stuck in my bed all day and feeling terrible. Too much time to think, and to overthink... :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/17 09:14 AM
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Oh, I don't know how to edit the title. IT sound of cours be "Need" :p
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/17 07:24 AM
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Well, my thoughts? Don't.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/17 01:58 PM
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I think I would leave it be as things are now. If he get sucked more into it and talks a lot about it you could say that you have been reading on a forum that is a bit similar, but for women instead. You could try, as I am sure you already are doing, to be the best "rpw-you" that you could be. Then he will see that he has one of the "unicorns" if he reads stuff about how women should be. (I don't visit trp, so I don't know whats on there). But as I said, as long as he only talks about it with hi…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/17 03:33 PM
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Thank you! That is probably the right thing to do, I can get a bit stressed when I feel like things are not going forward. I have never been a fan of the unsure, but two months will go by fast. I don't know, I am from Europe, but I have never heard anyone talk about tarot before. I have seen it in movies I think though, but never knew what it was. May I ask how it works? Does each card have a meaning, or does the meaning change in relation to the context/pairing with other cards etc.?
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/17 11:45 AM
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I don't think I will grow any more, sadly. Since I was a little girl I have always dreamt of big boobs. hehe :p I think my man actually think I dress too descent sometimes! Maybe I should try to show a bit more cleavage around him, every time I have some cleavage I catch him looking at it and then giving me a smirk (when we are alone). I think I have a hard time knowing what would be showing skin in a slutty way and showing skin in an elegant way, so instead, I don't. I dress in formfitting clot…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/17 11:17 AM
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Oh I have never heard of tarot before, actually! Or never knew what it was at least. I don't know if this is how to ask a question? I met a man 2 months ago, I really like him and things are going great, but still pretty fresh. Until October he will have a very busy work schedule and a work related training course in the weekends, there will not be much time to see each other. What can I do to make sure our relationship survives and builds stronger? Sorry for the long question, but I thought som…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/17 11:10 AM
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Thank you! Love your picture :D I do have some tops similar to the one you are wearing, but I have pretty small breasts so I don't get the same effect. They actually do look bigger when I wear a higher neckline, than a "cleavage neckline", though. Maybe if I try someone with a thinner fabric. I don't think there is a Gap store in my country.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/17 07:31 PM
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Could you post an example of what you are meaning? It sounds very nice. I would like to try to find something like that for myself, I use a lot of skirts with tops, but don't like to show too much cleavage.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/17 04:22 PM
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Me too, if it's ok. :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 10:16 AM
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You sound like an obvious troll :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/17 08:22 AM
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You phrased it a lot better than me, hehe!☺️ You should of course lay out some bait on the tracks too, but it shouldn't be too obvious.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/17 05:23 AM
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That's my experience with going out with my friends too. They are all in relationships and never cheated on their SOs, but they go out to get attention from other guys and acts overly sexual and rather pathetic to be honest... I find it disrespectful to both their men and the guys they are leading on at the bar.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/17 09:11 AM
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I was in a LTR for almost 5 years with a man. He was great in the beginning, but started doing drugs and his whole persona changed to a terrible version of him. I wanted my old man back and stayed by his side for a way too long time, he didn't treat me very well, and I sadly lost all respect for him when he started using (in hindsight I should have ended it at that time). Even though we had a bad relationship I never once thought about cheating or even talked to other guys. It was my choice to s…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/17 09:08 AM
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Maybe you should try to be a bit more aloof? To me it sounds that it is you hunting down these guys, maybe you should try to be responsive and put yourself in situations where you show you are open for contact, but not initiating the contact yourself. I feel like early on there should't be a way for a guy to turn you down, simply because there are nothing to turn down. You are just happy living your own way, talk to people, have fun, flirt, but don't get attached to someone at all. Make them com…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/17 07:33 AM
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I don't really believe in all those silly term, no offense. I do of course get aroused, a lot even, too much sometimes, but I can't even think about having sex with someone that I am not in love with. I find sex very intimate and that is not something I want to share with a random man, but I still get aroused, just not urges to have sex with anyone, if that makes sense?
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/17 07:58 PM
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Yeah, I know I am an bit weird here. I actually have a very high sexdrive and I think about sex way too much, but I have to have feelings for someone to get those kind of feelings. I could get turned on in the moment though, if I smell someone who smells really good or seeing hot men, but those feelings disappear the same second mye focus shift.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/17 02:27 AM
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I know, I used to have pet rats before, haha! One of them jumped one meter horizontally when he was a youngster. After that he got to big and cosy. I am six stories up though, and the walls are concrete with not much gripping points.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/17 02:20 AM
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I don't know what a bird table or a bird box is? You mean my feeder? I am way above the ground for rats etc. the only animals than can reach my balcony are the ones with wings :p They were only in my kitchen one time, that I know of at least. I cleaned throughoutly after that of course, but other than that I really only wanted them gone because I was afraid that they would get hurt. But the problem has luckily resolved itself anyway. :) Haha it would be fun if we were neighbors though, I would h…
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/17 08:54 PM
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I think I am a bit weird in this sense. Everything in that department shuts down when I am not seeing someone :p That won't help you though, don't know how I do it... But I know that I only feel turned on when it comes to sex when it is someone I have strong feelings for, and I know that I don't want to have sex with anyone else, maybe you should try to think like that?
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/17 07:43 PM
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That would make it very hard to go out on the balcony, but it could work at nighttime at least... Yes, of course, I disinfected all surfaces they landed on after taking care of the one that was hurt. But they have actually not been back since I started this tread. For some reason all my problems tend to fix themselves whenever I "complain" about them :P Maybe I should be more patient!
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/17 07:39 PM
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I love crows, they are cool! But I'll guess that feeding crows will count as a Disney Villain ;)
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/17 07:36 PM
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Thank you :) :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/17 11:41 AM
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Oh ok! Thank you :) :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/17 11:41 AM
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Sorry for asking, but what are those cake things? I see them pop up in peoples names sometimes, but never understood what it means. :p
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/17 07:37 AM
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That's true, haha! I actually don't mind them being here, as long as they don't poop around, but they are afraid of me, so when I move they panic and can't find the way out again... Don't want them to hurt themselves :( It may seem like the problem has already resolved itself, as you said. They haven't come back today either. I think I will put the feeder back up, but maybe hang it further from the door. I only get tits and blue tits (seriously, that is some terrible bird names) here, not much a…
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/17 08:23 AM
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Haha I actually remember watching that movie when I was younger and wishing that I could live with all the animals :p
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/17 08:17 AM
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Haha I will be careful, a nice lady was at my door this morning with some really freash and juicy red apples though, that was nice. :)
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/17 08:16 AM
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They have actually not been here today, we'll see tomorrow if they come back. They have been here mostly in the mornings and the evenings. Hopefully you are right! And hopefully they make a nest nearby so I can watch :D :D
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/17 06:02 PM
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That could work, but I live in a very small apartment, so I think it would drive me crazy too :p
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/17 04:57 PM
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I get anaphylaxis if I am stung by a wasp, so I always carry an epipen on me. But it would be nice not to worry about them when I am inside. :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/17 04:56 PM
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Oh ok! Thank you :) That sounds smart either way, I am really allergic to wasps, would be nice not to have them in my apartment at least.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/17 04:24 PM
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Thank you! I will definitely look into that, do they help against insects too?
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/17 04:16 PM
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I even asked if I could pay more to be allowed to have pets her, but no :( Where I live it's nearly impossible to find a place where pets are allowed, and the places that allow it charges 300-400 dollar a month more than similar apartments.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/17 02:59 PM
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I think I would try the bird thingy first, hopefully they would stop breaking in to my house soon. :p hehe I think there might be a nest on top of my roof though, there's a lot of birdy talk coming from there at least. Maybe when I removed the bird feeder they are going inside to look for more food? It might be that the first couple of times were accidents (the bird feeder moves with the door, so changes place when I have the door open) and now they are going in on purpose since i removed the fo…
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/17 02:21 PM
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I would LOVE too, but I am not allowed :( No pets...
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/17 02:18 PM
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Screen doors is not common in my country, never seen anyone have it. And the sliding thing on the floor and roof that the door is connected to only has one track. But I will talk to my landlord about it, I don't know how thoes screen doors work, maybe it's possible. :) I think I will try to hang up one of those bird of prey thingy. Sad though, I liked having them on my balcony :(
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/17 01:16 PM
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I don't think that is a good idea, one time I tried to scare them when they were inside, but they ended up panicking and not finding their way out... That's when one of them hit the wall. :( I would feel terrible if I had killed it :(
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/17 01:14 PM
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Thank you :) It's a sliding door, I don't know if that's what it's called, and 2 meter long, so I don't think a scren door would be possible? I have som blinds, tried to have them down, but adjust them so the air would get in, but they stop 20 cm above the floor, and the birds went under. I don't understand why they want to go inside all the time. I could try with som beads for a while, but I think the blinds should have worked the same way? Maybe I should hang a big hawk/eagle in the window or …
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/17 12:30 PM
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I don't use social media much, I am on facebook, but have never posted anything there, only a new profile picture once a year or something. I have an Instagram account too, I don't have any selfies there, only pictures of cakes/desserts I make, animals, nature and some of my drawings. I think I have like 50 followers or something... I don't think my account either helps me or spoils my changes with a man. But I think a man would rather be with someone who doesn't need online validation or valida…
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/17 08:55 AM
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Haha yes 😄
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 06:28 AM
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I might be in :) Maybe not with "red pill" in the name of the group though. You can still see members in closed groups on Facebook.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 08:23 PM
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I don't know how to describe it in English, I don't like the pretty boy pretty type? I think Sylvester Stallone is very handsome for example, but most people wouldn't call him pretty. When I think of pretty men I think of feminine features. Does it make more sense now?
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 08:23 PM
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Thank you for your answer. I do not wholehearted agree with you, even though I se your point. This man is very alpha, I would not describe him as a beta. Both of them is of course a mix of both A and B traits, otherwise I wouldn't have met them, but both of them are mostly on the A side. Maybe I just don't find him attractive? I don't like pretty men, most men I have fallen for are actually more "ugly" kind of, but they have big square jaws and defined features. He is very rugged and masculine, …
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 07:31 PM
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Weird... My measurements are 36-23-36, almost the same as you, I don't have a problem with guys seeing me as a sex object. I dress mostly in skirts and dresses, and almost always something that shows of my waist (high waist skirt etc.). I think you are coming of too sexually because you want too, you are proud of your hourglass and wants men to notice. Or you think that men always notice this about you and that it turns them on. I think you should stop worrying about if men gives you attention o…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 10:14 PM
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That was not what I meant by that! I meant that it felt too much like he was ticking of boxes to see if he would like to continue seeing me. Like he had this list of what he saw after in a girl and wanted to see if I could be this girl. Vetting is of course good, but not when it becomes so obvious and especially not on the first date. So what if you tick off every box when you haven't spent time making any connections. Now I at least know how it feels for they guy when a girl is picturing their …
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 05:44 AM
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I'm sorry, I don't think there's any point in that. I was just stupid and naive and a bit too optimistic. :) I think the emotions got too intense and strong too fast and with me not having any experience I ended up following his lead without listening to my own "voice" (sorry I don't know how to say this in English).
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 06:48 PM
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Oh of course he did! He had a lot of traits I am looking for in a man and I really liked him. But everything was extremely intense between us, I have never felt such tension with anyone before. The reason I had to end things with him, we were actually exclusive, he wanted us to be, but so it happened to be that he were seeing another girl exclusively too...So yeah... I have seen that video already, and I am not new to vetting or RPW, neither have I any intentions on bulking up my n-count. I wait…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 06:19 PM
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Haha Your post made me laugh, or your language, even though I don't understand half of what you are trying to say! :p I am not new to RPW and I have always been very traditional, I don't believe I am some princess worthy of everything I demand without even giving anything back. But after reading some of the first answers here, I think my problem with this date might be that it was a bit too serious, even though we were having fun. I really felt like I was being vetted by him, that he saw me as a…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 05:52 PM
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We have talked for three weeks, he have been in another country, so we didn't have time to meet before now. I felt more tingles while chatting with him actually than I did on the date. It was more playful banter when we chatted, maybe it was a bit too serious on the date, I am very playful. I know I shouldn't feel attached to someone after one date, but I kind of feel that I should feel something for him because he is perfect on paper, but I really just feel "meeh...". Maybe I had too much expec…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 04:18 PM
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To be fair, I did not want to kiss the other guy on the first date either, even though I was full of butterflies. Kissing is very intimate to me. I think I will meet him again if he asks me. We only went for a walk, so it might not be the easiest way to make more tension and touching happen. I think that might be some of the problem too.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 04:11 PM
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Thank you for your answer :) I tried to keep it light and fun, I don't think you should talk too much about the serious stuff on a first date, but he was very serious and wanted to talk mostly about what I like, what my thoughts were on that and that etc. It might be as you are saying that I got it all handed to me so he lacks mystery. But he is also very cheeky and teasing me, and I like that. I don't know about the physically attractive part. I can think someone is handsome, but still not bein…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 03:08 PM
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I will not argue about a child needing both parents, I think it's very important for a child to grow up with both his mother and his father, especially in today society. BUT, through history, a lot of children have been raised mostly by their mothers, this was even the norm many places. The men could be away for many years at time, so even though the child had a father, they didn't spend much time with them. I actually think the society has more to do with this than being a single mother, when t…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/17 12:55 PM
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Thank you to both! Sounds smart to have some smaller goals on the way. I still have to meet him on Friday. He doesn't want things to end, and I don't either, so it kind of sucks... :( So my first part-goal should be not to cave in when I meet him on Friday. I will think of more part-goals to help me stop thinking about him so much! It's really hard for me, because I think he is perfect in every way... but then there's the "except from", so not really perfect then :p hehe
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/17 09:35 AM
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My goal for this month may be a bit stupid, I'm sorry if it's not okay. I've been dating this fantastic man, but some major read flags have come to my attention. I need to stop seeing him and get over him, but it's hard for me, I have really fallen for him... So my May goal would be to focus on my self and get over him. :) And to get out of bed right away in the morning instead of looking on my phone for 30 minutes like a zombie :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 06:43 PM
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I'm in too :D
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/17 09:20 AM
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Same here! Almost the exact same story, only my ex boyfriend was my first. We only waited for a month, but saw each other almost every day. After that I was so madly in love that I even stood by his side trough everything, he did not deserve that. He also cheated on my, became very aggressive and much more...
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 10:02 AM
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You can pluck your eyebrows, have them done professionally. But you don't have to be picture perfect to be attractive. I think it has a lot to do with how you present yourself and how you talk to others. If you always comes of as closed and always closing of the conversations (not on purpose, but with giving short monotonous answers without any real value or personality in), people will listen to what you are portraying and won't try to converse further. When it comes to the resting face. I make…
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/17 07:11 PM
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I live in a country where people usually don't talk to strangers, but when it happens I usually say: "No thank you" while I smile to them (edit: polite smile, not a warm, happy smile), then look away. I don't like being bitchy or putting on a face, but of course, if they continue to bother me I'll have to be more firm. I also always wear my favorite ring, a small gold band with a gold hearth with diamonds in, on my ring finger. I actually notices a big difference from when I am not wearing it, e…
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/17 11:08 AM
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Oh haha! That's nice to know :D At another forum I am posting in you get banned if you post somethime off topic
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/17 06:23 AM
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I often asked him if it was ok for me to talk if he were doing anything, if he said he was busy I didn't bother him. Most often he answered that I did not have to ask and that I of course could talk. And then he would turn his back to me. I know I could have done things differently, but he was not a very nice man in general. He started abusing drugs (I didn't know about this), changed his personality and became very abusive and aggressive. But this has nothing to do with the original post. :)
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 03:00 PM
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This!! I agree 100%. With my ex, everytime I tried to talk to him (about anything), he sighed and said: "what is it...?", and then turned his back to me looking at his phone. This was one of the worst feelings...I actually stopped talking to him all togheter. Only talked about him (because he liked that), and always had to stop myself and keep things inside my head. And that's very very hard for me, because I get really enthusiastic about stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 08:08 AM
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Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/17 08:58 AM
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Thank you! I'm not a native speaker either, and have some problems with the wording to make my point come across. Of course I don't mean you can't learn anything when you have reached a certain age. But I just feel that he has so more experience and knowledge in every field than me, but that is maybe me just being naive, and you are right, I think very highly of him. With masculine I don't mean just being manly, everything you have listed, and typical masculine traits and energy. I don't know ho…
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/17 11:58 AM
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Would you elaborate? :) He's in his 30s, I don't feel like I could learn him anything!
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/17 09:26 AM
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Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/17 09:23 AM
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It's just, his last relationship were with a typical feminist woman. She was feminine and had girly hobbies (baking, knitting, animals, photography...), but still a "everything should be equal" kind of girl. If I did the dishes yesterday, you have to do it today. She also cheated on him while he was in the army... He have told me that I confuse him and no one have treated him the way I do (that actually made me sad). But the confusion might be good in a way?
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/17 07:58 AM
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Yes, you are right! The "don't move, a bird" thing might have been a bit over the top...haha! I'm not full blown crazy yet though, but I should maybe try to not get there either. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/17 07:48 AM
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I'm usually pretty good at reading other people, but his reactions sometimes puzzles me. But I'm not very experienced with men. Oh, I would never have said anything like that if we weren't alone! I know it was quite silly anyway, I'm not always too good at thinking before action, that was 100% on impuls. That's something I can start to practice though.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/17 07:45 AM
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To be honest, when it comes to spiders...I'm so terrified of them, but I can't smash them when they are to big, so I have this terrible way of killing them. :(
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/17 07:40 AM
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Can I ask you something? How do you change between the RP thinking and your workplace? I have a hard time with this, because my persona comes very natural to me. I have always been very submissive and caring. And I have a very submissive demure, especially around men that are older and wiser than me. I am a "secretary" (kind of), so in some way I am in my right. I have noticed that the the women, especially the older ones, aren't taking me seriously, they are not mean, but they treat me as a chi…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/17 11:28 AM
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Long time lurker, I just wanted to say that I love all your posts! It always makes me happy when I see that you have posted a new topic. RPW poster of the decade :D
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/17 11:08 AM
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I thought this was quite cute actually! haha I have noticed that some kine of hair smells more than others. My dog has a spot on her neck that always smells of whatever I have had for dinner, even though she hasn't been close to the food. Maybe your man has "smell absorbent fur" on his face, hehe.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 10:42 AM
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