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I know I committed every rp sin, but I stayed with her. Maybe it's my mental gymnastics but I felt I made a mistake. I seriously don't think she wanted to take a break, and I think it might have been more of a test. We have been dating for almost 4 months. She has been good, the only thing I'm worried about is my frame. I don't feel that I always have the weaker frame but sometimes I do. This was our first big fight. I'm sure i did not appear strong after backing out of what I said and showing m…
/r/askTRP18/09/15 12:12 PM
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Easier said than done man, she is driving 2.5 hours with traffic. Just so she can "save the relationship". This is hard man.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 09:52 PM
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I just tried to break up with her and now she is on her way to myou place crying, I said it's over now she is on her way
/r/askTRP17/09/15 08:32 PM
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Really I didn't think I should take anything a women says seriously especially when they are emotional so I didn't take the take a break thing serious. She lives an hour away at the moment and is still coming to see me today. Should I break up with her?
/r/askTRP17/09/15 03:05 PM
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Dam this might be the answer. I agree I think I should break up based on other responses. But this will be hard. I do like her. But at the moment she seems to really like me. How do I do this in the best possible way. Maybe I'm not psychopathic enough haha but it is hard for me to just dump her especially when I do not believe she has wronged me. If I walked away from this relationship now I would not be hurt at all. I wish I would catch her red handed cheating. Then it would be easy.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 11:00 PM
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See my response to Freddy_Fedora.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 11:36 AM
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I should be more clear. She won't pick out random guys when I'm with her and say they are so douchy. If her friends ask, she will say too douchy, blah blah. Or he is a nice boy blah blah. But she will comment on the general population of a town, saying a lot of douches here. I should also note, she works the front desk at the university athletes gym. Like she is the receptionist, so I'm sure she sees her fair share of Alphas daily.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 11:35 AM
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My only suspicion is her past. Right now, I honestly do not think she has cheated on me. And if she has, she has done an excellent job not showing any signs at all. But that is fair, I'm not trying to "wife" her though.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 11:32 AM
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Yes, I read this. But in some cases you must react. A&A I'd reacting. When is reacting okay?
/r/askTRP28/08/15 12:42 PM
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Hmm, should I make a list of my values? And how do you hold frame when you are wrong, what if I have a value and someone persuades me against that value? Is it hard to be a skeptic and have frame, since you doubt everything? And is it possible to take frame too far? For example, I don't believe in marriage but my coworker just informed me he is engaged, I'm obviously not going to be a dick and tell him I think he made a mistake. Do I congratulate him even though I don't believe in it? If yes is …
/r/askTRP24/08/15 05:04 PM
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Okay, that's fair I suppose I have to get better at recognizing comfort tests. Is there ever a time to submit? As in admit that I was wrong? Maybe a better question is how do you maintain frame while admitting your wrong?
/r/askTRP13/08/15 10:39 AM
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Ah okay, so both apply in the right situation. Great advice.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 10:56 AM
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I don't necessarily think being a good person is bad. My goal is to maintain attraction. I believe that by hitting certain buttons, girls will fall under your spell and be immensely attracted to you. I'm simply trying to learn here, and wanted your guys opinions on this matter and what you guys have learned from situations like this. But as you said and I agree on, being a complete asshole will not get you far in attraction. I'd be pressing the wrong button if I forced her to blow me every time …
/r/askTRP20/04/15 04:35 PM
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Okay great suggestion.
/r/askTRP20/04/15 03:38 PM
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Okay fair enough. Yea I suppose I'm just being insecure or hypersensitive about submitting.
/r/askTRP20/04/15 01:19 PM
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I read this. Just wanted to hear a few personal stories that worked great for you guys.
/r/askTRP11/04/15 02:52 PM
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I hang out with this girl an average of 2-3 times a week. When we're hooking up she will insist on me slowing the escalation a little. She will not stop physical escalation, she just tries to slow down how fast I get her pants off. Her eyes look more playful, so I play along. I feel that if I did not play along it would take her out of the mood. The escalation would not be happening too long, maybe a few minutes. I don't know man, it's hard for me to judge what to do in the bedroom since I don't…
/r/askTRP10/04/15 04:45 PM
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Also one more question. How do I handle if I attempt to take off something and she says something like: "Stop you have to work for that." Or really any resistance to anything in bed when I tell her to do something. When is a good time to override this resistance and when should I give in to her resistance?
/r/askTRP10/04/15 01:17 AM
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Ah great response. I 100 percent agree and this is definitely where I faltered. But to be honest I never explicitly said I am awesome at fucking. I alluded that I have been with many chicks (never said exactly how many.) When I hyped myself up. I was really just trying to create sexual tension. Which I did a great job at because eventually there was a release of that. I think my faltering occurred after she threw this shit at me. Because I am not experienced in bed I took this shit test wrong, a…
/r/askTRP09/04/15 01:26 PM
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Well I figure if she keeps coming back(pun intended). She likes it. And yea but she only cums PIV if she is on top and "in control" which I don't particularly enjoy as much. Maybe her saying that was just a shit test and that's it. Maybe she actually enjoys it. But regardless I handled it wrong, although I told her if she doesn't like it she can always walk away. But yea I figure that I will continue banging this chick until she doesn't want to anymore, more so for the practice. But yea if anyth…
/r/askTRP08/04/15 10:28 PM
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Ah okay I got you now. Good line. Thanks, but since I cannot control what she does, but only influence it. I think what your getting at is I have to be better at creating sexual tension and setting the right mindset for both of us beforehand. But thanks for the tips bro.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 08:42 PM
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Thanks man. And same question that I asked dreckmal. What would you have said to the shit test that I described above?
/r/askTRP08/04/15 08:04 PM
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Unfortunately not young just inexperienced. But you gotta start sometime I suppose.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 08:00 PM
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All the tips I'm getting in this thread are great. But just curious /u/dreckmal how would you have responded to the shit test I described earlier?
/r/askTRP08/04/15 07:59 PM
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Yea her being on top is the only way she cums when we bang. But not a position I enjoy that much, but next I will take note about what she is doing to get herself off.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 07:03 PM
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Hmm I will try this, thanks for the tip man.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 06:56 PM
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I have made her cum (clit gasm) from both eating her out and banging her. I have no shame going down on a girl, and plan on continuing to do it.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 06:47 PM
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Early 20s, yea I last longer the second time. But nothing to write home about.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 04:28 PM
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/r/askTRP29/03/15 11:59 PM
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I definitely agree. But my main concern was if I should bite the bullet and go for her, even though I know she is going to try to see how far I will bend for her to get laid. Or tell her to fuck off. After reading some of the comments above, I think I will escalate quickly, and go for the kill. If she denies, I move on.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 05:15 AM
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Nice quote, but yea I agree I will escalate on the spot and make her choose, and then if she turns me down then I move on. And I don't care who my first is. I don't believe it has to be special at all. I want to learn from it and then not think about it after that. I don't like her, and that makes her all the more better of a candidate for my first.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 06:27 PM
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Okay she did almost outright say she is DTF per our conversation. You think she would still not even after saying this? I think depending how she sees me next time, she will make her decision.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 05:32 PM
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