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Didn't know girls are allowed to post here as guys.. T-shirt+jeans. If you look and talk like a man, that's enough. All the rest is men who heard too much dating advice from women. Which is the best kind of advice, as we all know. Your not your moms baby anymore, so stop acting like one.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/24 07:28 PM
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Girls only care about the looks of one person: themselves. Perhaps also other women, to compare themselves to. Your a fool to think looks are gonna make your life better with women or otherwise. I see many young dandy-wannabes pumping up their muscles and other shit, they are just girls in the body of men. Men are actors, not objects. Sure, lift to look like a man by all means, just don't focus on it.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/24 07:14 PM
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here's my 3 cents, although a bit late to the party: not giving up, you are basically on the right track. social skills are exactly that, and skills are acquired by definition it will get better with time, and age. I used to make very embarrassing blunders in public and private. Today I am better, but it's always a journey don't try too hard with women. they notice it. never chase them. e.g. instead of approaching them in public, just sit still and do your shit on the mobile, wait for them to si…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/24 04:50 PM
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I know what OP is talking about but the answered you offered cannot help him: - learn new stuff and you got knowledge- try new things and you got experiences- go to gym evety day and you got a great body- start a family and you have... a family, which may bring happiness but depends a lot on luck and may not last- You actually hit it closer to home when mentioning volunteering and mentoring. So what? there's very little meaning, happiness or fullfilment in those things. Do you imagine Elon Musk …
/r/TheRedPill04/12/23 07:51 PM
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Should I just look for places where people are shorter and relocate? Yes. There are more reasons to do that besides height, but in Asia you'll feel much more at home in that respect too.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/23 11:43 AM
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your name is pretty much spot on. she did reply and a long one too, right? nuances are not the strong side of you guys, are they?
/r/TheRedPill07/10/22 07:20 AM
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shows very little understanding of the female psyche, like most spergs here. she: how much do you really want me? you: a lot. let's meet. all girls, esp. the hoes, need to feel loved. all. this is what shittests are all about.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/22 07:18 AM
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just a thought here: shit test? I mean, what ever happened to "don't listen to a girl's words, look at her actions"? and "always keep your cool/frame"? sure, you could next her, but if we nexted girls for every fucked-up behavior, we'd be left with precious few girls to spin. I would just pretent I didn't read that message, and go on and try to meet her, albeit without showing any special interest, as if life is beautiful, you have many options for sex, but still would like to hang out with her.…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/22 07:14 PM
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Women can cry over you when you die or not, in the end it's just another emotion they have. They can "love" you, but still do what they need to do, when they need to. It really should mean almost nothing to us as men. My GF of 2 years loves me very much, had dread, I was half-god to her etc.... bottom line, she when and got pregnant from another guy. And still claim to love me so much. So... don't pay too much attention to what they say or even how they act. It doesn't mean what you think it mea…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/22 07:05 AM
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it's very simple. your father is just a man. we've forgot what a man should look and sound like, the fact that even you need to re-learn it now only shows the influence we are all under.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/22 03:37 PM
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another strategy for dealing with people is: just listen. if they have a valid point, that's the subject matter and is worth listening to. if they talk crazy shit (which sooo many of them do) - THEY are the subject matter. in any case, I very rarely offer my own opinion to random people.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/22 07:54 PM
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I almost never reply, but got to say man, I am your age and used to be totally invisible in Europe. I used to hope some car would run me over. But then 2 things happened: I moved to Asia and found TRP. Age here is most irrelevant to girls and even revered. And I mean, girls. I am dating a 25 yr old now. TRP tells you, you need to take chances in life to get what you want, even if that means moving to another place. I will never go back to living in the West again, unless I cannot find remote job…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/22 02:00 PM
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leave you box of a westren world and go to Asia, or some other developing place. Stay there. meet locals, meet expats. it could save your life. they will be grateful for the interaction with you.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/22 06:08 PM
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naive. "Just got a new coffee machine - wanna come over to see?" If it's no, she's not into you. Move on.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/22 12:35 PM
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If the fish is hungry it will rise to the bait. All you can do is throw in the line. Also, don't make it your life's mission. Approach when you feel like, but don't make an obsession of it. This is not RP, quite blue actually.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/22 12:32 PM
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I only saw the first 3 seconds and her laughing and got the picture (and also nausea). She looks like a female but behaves like a horse racing bookie. So sad, what can I say, I am just glad I never married, certainly not before 40. Young men just don't have the mental capacity to handle women these days, unless lucky enough to have a strong dad that teaches us, something that also is rare as a unicorn today.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/22 02:03 PM
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in Thai they say: kon suai tuk samer - the pretty one is never wrong. A fact of life well known all over the world.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/22 01:52 PM
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damn... same here. even girls don't help to cheer me up, they're just the cherry on top, but you need a cake first.. eating only cherries is disgusting. I am trying tho... e.g. to find a better job which will give me a real challenge. it's possible, but you need lots of patience. you need to know what makes you happy, first. what's the challenge that gives you the kick?
/r/TheRedPill25/11/21 07:27 PM
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I'd say attention is the currency that keeps the woman psyche going. Think about it, men collect assets - women collect attention. Both can be obsessed about it for the same reason - that's what they are programmed to do, both are aroused by it. For men, it's a validation to their prowess and talent. For women, a validation to their looks and attraction power.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/21 06:19 PM
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I have a solution for you - Asian? go back to Asia. I am not joking or being racist. I live in Asia can tell you. why the f** would you want western gals when Asians are so much cuter, slimmer, feminine and abundant? in US you are just "Chinese" but in Asia you are American, that's a lot going for you in the market. what meager game you have will take you here a long way, the gals are so naive and non masculine. ummm... just read again 1.2.3
/r/TheRedPill15/10/21 12:30 PM
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I agree with almost all of the above - I have been in Thailand for a while now and can confirm all if it. Almost. Except that you ARE living in a third world country. The West will crash to look like how these places already are - huge corruption, lack of rule of law, violence in some places (not here), instability, tirany, and more. Just a point to remember. And yes, I am not going back to the West. Womenwise or otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/21 11:43 AM
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her: with how many gals did you have sex? me: you mean today? (smirk)
/r/TheRedPill06/08/21 08:20 AM
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texted a girl I knew for a couple of weeks. it really seemed like she was into me, funny chats, but no date. I thought it's just a matter of more time. then one day she said, you know, there used to be a guy who texted me like you, but I never dated him. after a year he suddenly disappeared. only then I got it. deleted her right away.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/21 05:13 PM
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"There are three kinds of men. The one that learns by reading. The few who learn by observation. The rest of them have to pee on the electric fence for themselves." I think OP was looking for this quote.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/21 06:26 PM
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Nothing new here - I mean it's literally an old theme. Read the story Nevsky Prospekt by Gogol and you'll see what I mean. This is why classic lit is beneficial. It's also f**ing good.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/21 03:35 PM
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the way you handle their departure is also an important factor to whether they'll be back or not. since girls are inherently crazy, I find it expedient to let them go once in a while, without knowing if they'll actually come back. It's part of the cycle of relationship and you need to accept it, rather then resent. btw - nice that you've turned the lemons into lemonade but... finding a job that you actually like is your next task ;-)
/r/TheRedPill11/05/21 06:49 PM
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I almost never comment here, but: Too many guys look in the mirror and judge themselves, for good or bad. There's only one problem: you are looking thru man's eyes. And man's eyes are trained to judge female attraction, not male's. This is not what girls are seeing when they look at you as a man. They are not looking at a picture, they judge you on so many other levels, and external beauty is only small part of it. Forget it man. Girls don't really care what you look like anyway, they care about…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/21 07:02 PM
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A friend of mine said - I am tired of chasing these girls who never respond, play hard to get, etc. My answer is: girls are like cabs. You hail them, some may stop for you, most may not. But in any case you don't run after a cab that didn't stop, do you? and raising your hand higher wont make a difference, either. Same with girls. Do the required minimum to signal you are interested. After that, just let them pass and move on to next one. Lose minimum amount of energy.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/21 04:51 PM
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I have a shorter recipe: see a girl you like, get close enough to allow conversation, say something. about her, about the people, about whatever. That's that. If she likes you and the situation is right, it will go on from there. If not, you didn't lose anything, move on. For sure, you need to be many things in order to have good results (esp. fun to be around and outcome independent, see side bar) but as far as the "technique", it's really that simple.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/21 03:33 PM
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Being an alpha is a social position, while having an abundance mentality is a state of mind. You can have this mentality whether you're a criminal, a mail-room employee or a company CEO. And men who know what they are and how the world works are attractive. It's quite obvious why: they know the way, and the female would feel secure around them.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/21 02:33 PM
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hey! it's dude's right to respond in any lang he chooses! who said English is betta than Protugeese?? just saying...
/r/TheRedPill01/03/21 07:03 PM
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so sad that you young people need to learn on Reddit how to listen. but then again, not many people can do that, young or old. a dying art?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/21 05:30 PM
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while by no means young anymore, I find plating to be essential to keeping frame and dealing with the question: wtf do you do when she loses it - and all of them do once in a while. before, the answer was - try to "understand her" - a ridiculous endeavor in hindsight, of course, which results in tons of frustration and evetually is ruinous to the relationship. Now, it's just "bye and see you when you're sane again". Paradoxically, having several women makes for healthier relationships with each …
/r/TheRedPill14/02/21 06:16 PM
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let me give you a hint as to how to understand this and most posts: statements are never entirely TRUE or FALSE, instead they should be interperted to have a degree of relevance, like 0 to 100. this post is not 100% truth, but I would grant it quite a lot of relevance to real life and to many girls I know. and mind you, many women seem pretty strong out there, as CEOs or what have you, but at home... it's a diff ball park, literally.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/21 12:15 PM
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dear fellow RPs... all I can say after reading all this is, as a friend of mine once quipped: If the fish is hungry, it'll take the bait. and that means any bait. you can ask, tell, send an emoji, whatever. you cannot control her response to you, online or otherwise. stop improving your techniques... find the hungry fish.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/21 11:53 AM
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yes, most people are intellectually lazy (if not literraly so) and that's a fact, and even more so for women. this is why I am grateful to RTP for helping me to understand - girls are for sex, for emotional kicks, for whatever - but don't expect them to improve themselves or even get the concept. if you do that, you're in for frustration and disappointment. I still harbor a hope that they will, and would help them in doing so, but I expect no such thing. thus, I am happy.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/21 12:03 PM
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Why would you wanna do that? it serves no purpose really, and actually goes against TRP basics; saying to yourself, wow she's a hot 9 is like saying, wow she's so special... oneitis. Sure, I like to see a beautiful face in my bed. I'm only repeating the TRP sidebar: "ignore her beauty". You can rate girls if you really want to, but remember they are only girls, all of them.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/21 09:16 PM
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I'd start by stopping the stupid 1-10 rating of women. Why? it's causing damage to your frame, it's not helpful in any way, and it's plain stupid since each has his own preferences. I, for one, wouldn't touch a tall blonde with an 8 yard pole. Why? coz I am crazy about small Asians, can't stand anything else right now. all you need to know about a girl is, that she is cute and fuckable (in your eyes). and there are plenty of girls answering that description out there, so who cares if one of them…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/21 07:40 PM
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your goodbye sentence to her says it all. you had no frame. simplest answer to your question: spin more plates. never care about that one hot girl. there are many hot girls. they can turn out to be pretty cold once you know them, so take it easy. no exceptions.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/21 12:59 PM
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who F**ing cares? just don't get married.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/20 08:52 AM
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you need an English language course, emphasis on maxims and their correct application.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/20 01:55 PM
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yeah, sure. Alcohol can easily add 2-3 SMV points.... to the girls you are looking at.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/20 12:52 PM
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this. I cannot subscribe to some of the ideas in OP (e.g. vote Trump hahaha). this stuff only serves to alienate men who don't believe in such ideas, and is quite redundant. I am taking from TRP what I like, and leave the rest. I don't want to be a master of some girl. only of my life. this is not being independant. the master depends on the slave just as much. be free, give what you can because you like to, don't take anything - receive. make yourself so great, people will want to give you.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/20 07:49 AM
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man I appreciate your experience. I love Koreans, but from what I've seen Korean values are quite harsh and not very open-minded, which makes for very aberrant and neurotic behavior in younger poeple. Lots of alcohol. seems like you have your frame in place viz. your old folks. it's a never-ending struggle. they will not change.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 03:11 PM
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girls don't wanna hear the word sex, just as men don't wanna hear the word commitment. but it's there in the hindbrain.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/20 02:18 PM
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so... let's take the infamous subject of women. you see a good-looking girl, or maybe you have a date with one. you feel cold feet, cannot think straight, afraid you will botch the whole thing. now, that's expectation at work right there. you know the stakes are high. you are no longer outcome independent. my solution? imagine she's an old single mother and you actually do her a favor by going out with her or talking to her. at once I feel much more relaxed and nonchalant. or just remember she's…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/20 11:46 AM
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I'll answer you seriously, tho I am not sure why do you even post here. Here we go again with "smoking is great for you! my grandpa is 99 and still smoking 2 packs a day" argument. RTP knowledge is not based on one guy's experience but on countless people stories over long periods of time. You great experience (so far) doen't invalidate all this knowledge. So you are saying we can influence and create our reality? that's just what TRP is saying! You improve yourself, and your life becomes better…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/20 08:09 PM
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In "The Kreutzer Sonata" Tolstoy actually exposed women for what they are and what happens to a women-controlled society. So much so, that it " was promptly censored by the Russian authorities " - Wikipedia. Oh, and a great story.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/20 11:53 AM
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I was told I was not aggressive enough. WTF??? I thought... took me many years to understand.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/20 05:34 PM
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this advice is totally irrelevant BS, I might recommend OP to practice ping-pong just as well. raise your dopamine-whatever and feel good too. OP's problem is approaching, so let's discuss it. OP, you cannot walk around and expect girls to drop handkerchiefs, or fall from the sky into your arms. I almost never approach out of no-where, and certainly don't reproach myself for that. And I don't have a problem talking to girls nowadays. What you need is context. What is context? anything that puts …
/r/seduction04/10/20 05:13 PM
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seems like you see in them (women) an image of your mother, an all mighty goddess of love and affection, only these mother figures don't seem to give shit about you, a very painful experience coming from a goddess. there's no instant solution, you need to find the father figure inside you, that strong and independent agent that can cut through the emotions and BS and move forward and get twhat it needs.
/r/seduction04/10/20 04:44 PM
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the fact that you are troubled enough by it to post, shows you are taking it the wrong way. there are no reasons in this game, only feelings, so stop trying to figure it out and move on. or better yet, talk to more than one girl and accept the fact that some if not most will flake on you. and as a hint to what happened, you can take your own behavior during the date, but then again, sometimes you do everything right and she will still ghost.
/r/seduction01/10/20 04:44 PM
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always be spinning several plates. by talking to several girls at once you avoid the pitfall of "omg she's so special" coz she is really not, she is one of several. it's easy to do, and the right way to go.
/r/seduction01/10/20 08:54 AM
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this. remember always to have fun doing what you have to do, or you will not keep it. personally I like the punching bag, martial arts, etc. Weights alone bore me to death. and you can gain nice musculature from other types of sport, as well as weights. main thing is, find what you like.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/20 12:23 PM
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I humbly disagree - you can care about someone and still not give her all of you, thus leaving a gap of uncertainty and mystery. is it easy and natural to the common man today? no, this is what TRP is all about. but it used to be VERY natural for men not to be fully available to one woman. for example, by having relationships with more that one woman. remember the Bible? that's how they did it back then, and even today in it's legal in some countries. the biblical Hebrew word for another woman w…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/20 08:18 PM
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are you guys even aware that latest researches found that 50% of the population have a below average IQ? I am talking - half the people around you have a below average IQ (that includes you actually). Can you even grasp it? And for women it's even more. [yes it's a joke. but not really.]
/r/TheRedPill19/09/20 01:07 PM
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"adj. amoral: not involving questions of right or wrong." TRP theory is amoral. Like a knife, it has no moral aspect to it in itself. but i don't see how cheating prostitutes, for that matter, is ok. not to mention, I don't even see how OP is relevant to TRP at all. "be the best version of yourself" - is that how you do it these days?
/r/TheRedPill17/09/20 05:23 PM
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OP cannot make the distinction between AMORAL and IMMORAL. OMG am i moralizing? Slap me with a ban assholes, see if i care...
/r/TheRedPill16/09/20 07:28 PM
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went to the park today, to breathe in some fresh air. what do I see around me? people, nearly all of them holding a rectangle piece of plastic and absorbed looking and touching it. for a moment I had a sick feeling like I was in a dystopian Black Mirror episode. no-one talks to anyone, only using these black plastics. it was eerie. it was reality.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/20 04:36 PM
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I suggest the following: once in a while pass a day (24 hrs) without any contact with her. no texting, no replies, only u and what you have to do. cannot do it? u have a problem. also, such incommunicado period is healthy redpill-wise. it reinforce the idea that she is not ur life support system. Both in ur mind and hers.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/20 09:16 AM
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u lost me at: immediately do a 360. don't u people in America learn geometry anymore?
/r/TheRedPill15/09/20 12:53 PM
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555 yeah, I guess this sub is filled with young guys who saw too many movies and lived too little. in real life there's no pecking order like in high school. you don't get sent to the principal for hitting someone , but to jail.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/20 04:07 PM
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You need to grow some balls man. Your problem is not physical but mental. As you mentioned, whatever you do to them, they can come later and kill your parents, right? So don't start. Be confident enough so that they don't even think about starting with you. And note, these kinda people like weak victims, not strong ones. Read some psychology if you dont' believe me (the authoritarian type). So what to do? develop confidence. How? exactly: go to gym, learn MuaiThai (my fav) and other shit that wi…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/20 12:14 PM
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it will take time, long time, but u'll get there, as long as you don't give up and settle for the first fat bitch who agrees to bind you down. don't blame your folks for everything, in fact for anything. I was raised by a loving mother and still fell for being a nice guy. find like-minded people, go to MMA classes and bond with people there. or cooking classes for all i care. think out-of-the-box. leave your town, your country (albeit a bit hard right now), your old habits. find a new goal, cult…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/20 05:02 PM
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funny that you mention that. I live in Thailand and do exactly what you suggested. and still... western food and sugar are here to stay, and girls are not slim anymore. but you are absolutely right, in the West I wouldn't even stand a chance. with all my bitching, I still have lots of options here.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/20 06:14 PM
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on the flip side of it, many girls got fatter during the corona, their tinder pics are no longer true to form. so what are we doing here? fighting for what? entitled fatass girls who forgot they are not even attractive anymore? I am starting to get used to being alone. At least, I don't really care anymore. Sure, I lift, approach and all, but.. I have 0 expectations on the female front. or... maybe this is true RP epiphany at last? lol
/r/TheRedPill04/09/20 02:21 PM
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I m with you man. OP tries too hard, talks too much, and trying to make money off of it. Not much of a charmer in the clip, more like a talker who would exahust his opponents with words until they say - ok, let's fuck, just stop talking for god's sake.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/20 12:58 PM
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Was your idea of having fun one that includes her too? eg did you talk endlessly about stocks? not good. Did you stop to let her talk? did you look into her eyes without talking? Having fun is great, but not specific enough.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/20 05:34 PM
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Guys, you really have the wrong idea wrt what a man is and should act like. You really believe hugging a crying girl to your muscular chest is gonna make you a Nice Guy? I guess you do. In fact, there's nothing more manly than that. It shows you are not scared of female emotions, one of the scariest things on earth for men. But you were too scared to lose face, even thou you know it's the right thing. And what makes you so sure she didn't say the famous sentence in the title BECAUSE you just sto…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/20 08:41 PM
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Agree. You should train to get to feel like a man, not to become a caricature of one. Don't assume huge muscles means more girls. Plus, wrt nutrition, not all calories were created equal. There was here a great post 1 mo ago.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/20 01:07 PM
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probably no accident that your father was not born in the West. the rest of us, not so lucky.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/20 12:22 PM
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That's not charm. that's your tongue deep in another person's ass. There's a reason it's called CHARM; we cannot explain what happened and why we like this or that person so much.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/20 09:27 PM
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You don't get it. The kiss created a new reality, never mind what she wanted before. You need to create the reality you want, not just navigate what other people want.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/20 02:55 PM
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Let me encourage you a bit more. When I was 30 I was sure the world is about to come to an end, who would ever want me now? Now I am over 50. I live in SEA. Lift/Do Muai Thai regularly, no smoke/drink/meat, got one plate of 22, another 30, they don't want my money, they actually love me. It's true. And I wouldn't touch a Western girl with a 5 mile drilling pipe now. But that's another story.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 08:28 AM
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Agree. The word selfishness has bad smell. Maybe self-focused? I would describe the correct attitude thus: if the world's a stage, imagine the main spot of light is focused on you, not on other people around you. Not on you partner, boss, wife, or whatever. You. Everyone else can say what they want, you may cooperate with them or you may not, but the main role in this play is yours. It's all down to you now. What are you going to do? the entire crowd is waiting for your decision. You can help ot…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/20 07:11 PM
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Gentlemen, please let's keep it civil. We're all men here, right? As a guy living in the East i can say: the line here between "real" relationship and money-based one can be much more blurred than in the West. You're expected to fork over dough in any case - to her, to her parents, to the entire fucking village. I am talking SEA, China, etc. So yes, game (as in PUA) could be dispensed with in many cases. Saying directly what you what is much more common here. HOWEVER. I discovered TRP here and b…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/20 07:18 PM
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safety razor sadly, inventor of which was : King C. Gillette
/r/TheRedPill07/08/20 12:37 PM
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thanks for the post. But... while tips and tricks might work for a while, the human brain is much smarter then that to be fooled like that. The true motivation must come from inside, from the desire and pain that drives you forward and cannot be stopped. And this motivation can only come after deep suffering and pain, experiencing the life you DON"T wanna have, and realizing that. My therapist once told me when I complained about my life, you are in shit knee-deep but still not willing to move a…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/20 06:11 AM
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how the hell are we suppose do grow up as men, when all around us the women are the dominant ones? home, school, everywhere are only women. I always liked the following thought experiment: I imagine I am living in a village 300 years ago or more. What's life's like back then? Well, this is a topic for a book, never mind a post. But for one thing, the society seems to be build much more around MEN. You cannot sit and order food on your mobile, you have to use your fucking muscles to get food and …
/r/TheRedPill06/08/20 01:07 PM
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The disconnection between man's labor and its products is one of the evils of our time. Marx had some insights there (alienation). Add to that the fact that men (esp. in the West) are not needed today as before, and you have the perfect storm for masculinity. The problem is not with software writing, it's the context of the job, being a cog in a huge and soulless machine.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/20 05:29 PM
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You should aim to be the best version of the man you are, this means of course, sexual success, but you are not doing it for that reason. Being a man has many aspects. the last thing girls want, is a man who has only one aspect to him - sex. Don't be a cardboard cutout man, with nothing behind it.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/20 02:11 PM
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Only my post was downvoted; I m alive and well thank you :-) The problem is, people on this sub have gone from pedasteilizing women to trashing them; both approaches are wrong and not true red pill. This is why we are quarentined now.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/20 10:45 AM
5

never underestimate girls need for ATTENTION. I'd say it's as strong a motive as sex if not more so. why else would many girls spend time texting but will not meet? flirt but not follow thru? show skin at all times? etc don't fall for that trap. not with a stranger nor an ex.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/20 08:05 AM
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Beauty and the Beast legend. Many men try to "look good" for women. By what standard? well, the beauty standard is feminine - tender and flawless skin, full head of hair, perfect teeth. This is how men screen women, but why should the opposite be correct? men are looking for signs of youth and fertility. not so women. I'd even go so far as to say there's no paradox here; what you consider good looking men may not be that attractive to women. We were somehow led to believe men should look like wo…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 05:56 PM
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i think we can talk about 2 types of possessiveness : Feminine possessiveness : where have you been? why didn't you answer my called? I don't like when you look at girls, who was that girl? Basically passive/aggressive behavior. Masculine possessiveness : you are mine, I don't allow you to meet with you ex, I want your body now, etc. Basically aggressive behavior. Of course, both types can be found in both genders.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 12:35 PM
0

why some people believe if they say a lot of fuck and shit, their posting would sound more real and cool? what's wrong with the same minus the cussing? I guess like pimples it goes away when you grow up.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/20 05:25 PM
1

I didn't say don't show ANY emotions. But there's a difference between shedding a tear, and sobbing like a girl. What woman do you suppose would like her man to sob, under any circumstances?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 08:34 AM
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She sounds like a normal woman. Didn't you guys learn anything from TRP? sorry to say, but OP sounds like a thoroughly feminized man. his choice of language and metaphors wrt the child is not something you find in life but in Disney films (angel, spend my first sleepless night with her crying, etc). and then he cried with his wife when she needed him to be strong. the female equivalent would be, his wife becoming an ugly hag just when they are about to have sex the first time.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 04:36 PM
1

lol man, wish I could. When in a long dry spell, I get depressed and want to die. So I reckon shittest is better than death.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/20 06:02 AM
4

agree. You cannot say AWALT and then blame political conviction of only some women. TRP goes much deeper than culture. We're talking psycho-biology.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/20 03:00 AM
12

a unicorn? why didn't you catch it??
/r/TheRedPill12/07/20 02:43 AM
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it is simple. If u cannot protect urself (or at least get a handle on that shit later) how can you protect her? weakness in a man is like ugliness in a woman. We check'em out. they do too.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 09:13 AM
7

wow. another spot-on comment from this guy.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 09:07 AM
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spot on man. I am still wrapping my head around this fact, and it's not easy. They are never alone. Nature abhors a vacuum. You always have a competition, if you realize that or not. unless she's unattractive or a fucking hermit. And sometimes it's fucking in you face. So what do you do? Here's a little story for you guys. The following happened few months ago, I did smthing that I would've never done before TRP. I was talking to some girl while queuing at a BurgerKing shop, she was cute and fun…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 06:29 PM
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what's interesting about that thread, is even when the comments give OP the right answer, don't mirror her emotions, they still cannot make the distinction between a man's role and a woman's. everyone is equal, right? so OP is left with either acting like a woman, or like a sociopath. No one suggests, just be a fucking man.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 07:41 PM
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coz they think caring for some girl is so blue. omg actually having feeling for someone else? it might make me a beta... I discovered OP's emptiness on first time sex, and since then I try not to fuck anyone that i don't care for. Never been to a hooker for that reason. In fact, I treat my women like princesses. Yeah... I just wrote it and no lightning hit me. And they love it. Of course. So why am I not a BP guy? coz they know, the minute they leave, I'll be treating ANOTHER girl like a princes…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 01:55 PM
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there are many things u could have done, but in the end we're talking about ONE girl, one statistical point which TRP advises to refreain from analyzing. We all know cases of a perfrct match and amazing time together that ended up in ghosting. Why? who knows. There may be nothing to learn from that experience, other than, not everyone is going to have sex w u. She may not have been that much into you as you might think. Girls know what they want, talking in terms of "success/failure" is kinda mi…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 11:18 PM
1

that one was already written long time ago. called Samson and Delilah. red pill knowladge is nothing new.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 03:53 PM
0

beg to differ. I don't think there's a girl in the world who fucks without an eye for commitment of some form. Unless she gets money for that. In fact, the idea contrdicts a basic tenet of RP: men are gatekeepers of commitment, women of sex. Tinder is no exception. ALL the girls I met on Tinder wanted relationship of some sort. Can a relationship start with sex? sure, it's even recommended. But no girl would turn down an attractive guy coz he didn't fuck her right there and then. The idea is abs…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 05:20 PM
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I am not the least concerned about people misunderstanding RP ideas. anyway u cannot accept RP until u almost got there urself. And by then, u can realize irself what's truth and what's not, u don't mind the occasional teenager shit that gets posted here. AFAIC let there be as many beta males out there as can be. Makes my life easier.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 03:54 PM
1

u r not a skeptic. a skeptic takes what's true and leaves the rest, coz he can think for himself.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/20 03:45 PM
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guess what? ur daughter will probably not care much about who u think she should be attracted to. ur post can be summed-up by: life is hard; let's shut our eyes.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/20 03:36 PM
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r u stupid? RP is not something u say, it's smth u do. nah...y m i even bothring.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/20 03:27 PM
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who cares about what some red pill guys think? apparently, you do. Q is, y. I don't read TRP for the shit that's there, but for the bits of truth. It's ur responsibility to tell right from wrong, everywhere, and esp on the Internet. This is BTW one of the RP basics. U r responsible for ur world, no-one else is. But I guess u prefer complaining. It's easier.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/20 03:16 PM
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exactly. fuck everything else - it's only what YOU DO NOW with what you have on your hands that matters, not who she fucked before you or even what she still thinks about him. And that is called frame. The only problem OP has is lousy frame. Instead of keeping his big terrible secret inside, he should have laughed about it straight to her face, find some gay name for that Chad and make fun of him. It was an inadvertent shit test and he failed it.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/20 02:33 PM
2

thanks for the post. It's indeed a bothering question: when to pursue a new contact (or and old one for that matter) and when to cut your losses. for me, the magic number is 2. 2 messages to a new girl. no response? bye. 2 offers to meet a never ending text friend. Not available? bye. And so on. The second one is just for good measure, to make sure I am not missing anything. You can replace 2 with another number. Just make sure it can be counted on one hand lol.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 01:36 PM
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just came back from the park, was doing some exercise and looking for someone to talk with, preferably a nice gal of course. But found myself in a long talk with an older guy, very funny and probably more beneficial that a lame conversation with a young clueless gal. the thing is - when you talk to everyone, inc gals, then gals become just another person to talk to, nothing special about them, just people with nice long hair. No need for approach anxiety, coz I am talking to everyone anyway. And…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 01:14 PM
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One of the advises on the sidebar goes "get into the habit of talking to everyone". I think it's a better approach to the approach problem cold vs. warm. She is sitting/standing/walking not far from you? say something. Anything. Funny is ur best option of course. "Those tomatoes look like they had a rough night". "I think that old woman just tried to kick me". Just comment on smoething around you in a funny and non-formal way. Und voila - It's not cold anymore. From here, anything can happen. Or…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 03:43 PM
2

Life's not a Karate lesson. A small difference there.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/20 04:06 PM
15

never hit first. Let him do the first move. and when you have confidence in what you can do, he probably never will. my approach is Amused Mastery. yes, same one you use on women. for the same reason.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/20 07:59 PM
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u got me at the "nice watch". Really? but whatever makes you feel secure man.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/20 09:57 AM
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this. And more: a man needs abundance mentality with everything: jobs, friends, gals, hell don't even get attached to the doctor you visit, the bank you go to, the money you have to invest, the house you live in. All can and probably will go, but if you are not phased by this prospect of letting stuff go, you'll be better of.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 05:37 PM
3

Try martial arts. My fave is Thai Boxing. Changed my life, from an P/A beta to a man. I think most people just prefer to get the dopamine shot first and to suffer later when it's gone. It's better to "suffer" first and get the dopamine rush after that. Oh, and as opposed to smoking, drugging, and other shit, it actually gets you somewhere, in many aspects.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 12:56 PM
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I'd say they were even - he's a schmuck for not showing up at the bar as was agreed on, she's a bitch for getting back at him. Oh, wait. She actually commited a felony and is proud of it... so women can break the law coz a guy flaked on them. I wonder, could a girl punch a guy in the face and get away with it, coz she's a girl you know?? no need to wonder, happened to me. nothing you can do to her.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/20 05:27 PM
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The OP is just the flip side of scarcity mentality: "look, I m fucking!! OMG I cannot believe it..." etc. OP turned kiss & tell into a cottage industry. plus, it's just bad taste.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/20 11:07 AM
1

No, I don't see any irony here. She always wants attention and free care from others, no matter at who's expense. Seems a pretty consistent b*** to me ... oh sorry man, it's ur sis lol.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/20 12:23 PM
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I say, give 'em the pill if they are ALMOST there by themselves. When I found the pill, I was almost there, just needed to hear it from other people. Only when the student is ready...
/r/TheRedPill17/06/20 10:47 AM
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it's not what you tell her, but how you tell her man i think you nailed it. with opening up, as with everything else in life, you can talk form a position of power and strength, or just whine helplessly. your past is not the issue here. your present is.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/20 06:09 PM
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Hi man, Ever since I found TRP, 'bout 4 months ago, I've been regretting a lifetime of blue pill. I am talking 30 years now. Every day I wake up remembering some other girl I fucked up with. My answer is of course spinning plates. I understand that you'd rather have an LTR, same here. But under TRP you cannot look for LTR. LTR may happen when a good plate stays with you longer. Or it may not, in which case you are not alone and have options. I just don't have time to regret. Life is full of thin…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/20 05:15 PM
3

Don’t use any non-face to face socializing platform. Imagine that.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/20 03:50 PM
0

The girl I am dating right now is head-over-heels in wanting to fuck me. She's a mother to a child and seems not to give him a damn thought. Thing is, she's seems perfectly normal person. Nothing's the matter with her. She is just a woman.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 12:46 PM
1

I think you missed the point. Your starting to improve and reading whatever you've read was the result of those wasted years, the outcome of your frustration, not a magical discovery that will upend all our lives now. As you've said correctly, there are no magic bulllets or pills or books. That book/philosophy/whatever was just in the right place at the right time, following a mentor who was the same. When the student's ready, the teacher appears. Or as my once-shrink told me many years ago: som…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/20 06:16 AM
2

Damn. So true I wanna cry. I am from a middle-eastern democracy (guess which one) and we are required to do military service. Do you think we grow up to become men? Think again. The culture has become so weak in my country, that the army has only a minor influence on young guys. When they get to conscription age, it's already too late. The previous generations that built this country weren't afraid of malaria, hunger, armed enemies and all the other shit that surrounded them. This gen? soldiers …
/r/TheRedPill24/05/20 09:32 AM
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I think u also missed this one: Does anyone want to talk about maybe how they overcame situations like this? Did you finally find the one? The problem of Oneitis is much more prevalent and insidious than you think. It always lurking there in the male mind. We are built like that.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/20 12:33 PM
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What women want? "how cares." [a sip from the whiskey] YOU care, you miserable bunch of fucks. Otherwise, why do you discuss it so much? do you see anywhere the question "what kangaroos want" posted or discussed? So stop pretending. And let me tell you the answer. It's very simple - just look at women, observe them, read their Tinder profiles (yes I know...but it's very instructive) and even ask them. They like to eat, sleep, have fun dissipating their time in talking, watch silly programs and s…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/20 06:30 AM
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here's some more thoughts wrt what you should and shouldn't do Blue pill Guy Buys into every news and narrative about the virus and its effects. Relies on others for information and opinion; never checks facts, addicted to TV and the shit their selling. Is already locked in his appt since January coz he "saw it coming". Wears a mask to go to the toilet. Sold all his stocks at the first sign of trouble, coz you know "this time it's really different" and "the world's about to collapse"; will only …
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 08:31 AM
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I dunno... to all you guys who seem not to be sure if this post is useful or not, to put it mildly, I'd say: if you haven't got anything positive to contribute, why bother us with your meditations. And wear your keyboard.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 04:26 PM
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