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To put it short, positive masculinity IMHO equals being a confident, nonviolent natural leader. Either in business, politics, sports, music/movies/media or anywhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:59 PM
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Nelson Mandela. His entire life revolved around how to fight and overcome a brutal regime in a confident, but nonviolent manner. Initially he made his own mistakes, responded to govt brutality with terrorist attacks and had to spend more than 20 yrs in prison to learn that violence leads nowhere. Mental strength and resilience always trumps physical strength. He learned it the hard way, and was a humble, seasoned leader when he finally came to power during the 1990s.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:53 PM
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Never bring a non-western woman to a western country. This is a recipe for disaster. She will eventually gets westernized and divorce your ass quicker than you can imagine. If you want a life with a quality woman, move out of the US. You have to keep her in her own culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:11 AM
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Online dating is the greatest thing happened to introverts. Is there any better option if you are self-confident, have decent looks & fitness but you prefer to be alone in your free time?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:05 AM
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An ugly man can be still (somewhat) attractive if he has either status, money, confidence or preselection. Male attractiveness is partly decoupled from looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:58 AM
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I'd say that hookup culture in developed western countries is NOT a myth at all. Its existence is hardly debatable. However, only a small minority of the population (both female and male) get involved in it. The vast majority of young women do not frequent clubs, bars or music festivals. Similarly, most of them stay off mainstream dating apps like Tinder or Bumble. If you are a dude who likes to get himself involved in urban nightlife or online dating, you are going to (mostly) meet women who ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:05 PM
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Your statement that the redpill movement gets some (or many) things wrong about male-female interactions - is definitely true. However, the redpill concludes correctly that SOME young women (I mean, gals under age 30) are attracted to SOME older guys who exhibit at least a few traits which are well-known attraction switches. Think about an established older guy who has decent style, full head of hair, physically fit, he radiates confidence, personal charisma and in the meantime, he has a high-pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:01 PM
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Let me tell you one thing: I always find the traditional family background highly valuable if it functions in a healthy way. My parents are married for more than 35 years for example and my mom gave birth to 4 children. Mom was quite an average looking girl in her youth, grown up in the countryside, very caring, nurturing and family oriented. However, the parents of this girl were remarkably restrictive and opressive, even abusive from an aspect. While they consider themselves christians and the…
/r/askTRP25/06/21 09:03 PM
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I absolutely agree with this, my friend. Next time I will do something like that. There is always room to improve. Yeah, I will need some time to sort everything out. I actually started with a 75% drop in monthly expenses after ghosting and moving back to Hungary. Now I can concentrate exclusively on self-development.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 09:21 PM
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Not at all. While my wife was jobless for last year I started a new proptech company (providing tech background for real estate agents) in southern Spain. I also have many connections in Hungary. Two properties with no mortgage on them. Dont worry about me. I know what to do.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 09:06 PM
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No, I just dumped the girl after her first infidelity. Before that, I enjoyed the results besides working on my own life.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 05:49 PM
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As I mentioned before my personality is strongly introverted. So I don't really care what is your opinion about me, however I do care about your thoughts. Even if I disagree. I prefer spending quality time alone which ALWAYS equals self-improvement for me. Thinking. Learning new things. Taking care of my body. Growing my own food summertime. Making important decisions. Now I want to understand what I did during the last 10 years. I bought two properties out of nothing, invested some money in a S…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 05:20 PM
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This is one of my strongest fears now. I want to prevent her from coming back to my life after what she did. However, I think she will just drain some clueless guys' bank accounts and in the meantime will ride some hot dicks from the beach if she is horny during the next few years.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 04:53 PM
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Lol a span of almost 10 years is long. Must have been around 3,500 days together. Especially if it is a passionate relationship. Now as it is already late June and I ghosted 2+ weeks ago, I am starting to feel myself good alone. I mean, free and alone.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 04:49 PM
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Why not if you are actually into these type of girls? Ok , I got it that getting married was not the best deal. It makes ending the relationship and separating finances a LOT more difficult.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 04:31 PM
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As you may know, we are all selfish. I am not an exception.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 04:24 PM
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I spent most of my earnings on buying two properties without any mortgage, moving out of Hungary (this was proven to be a bad idea) and lastly on starting a new proptech business in southern Spain. As I've made some friends there, we are going to continue our venture even if I am not living there. Maybe, I will travel there every year to dodge EE winters.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 04:05 PM
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Well done, nice move from you. According to friends, my ex-wife was at least a solid 9. Some of them said "she is a 10", of course this happens all the time at the upper end of the hotness scale. I think we both did the right thing. If there is a prime piece of pussy out there, the winner takes it all. Competition is fierce and the guy coming after you is always getting a second hand product with considerable mileage in it. A really bad deal compared to what you've got.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 03:57 PM
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I am seriously thinking about not settling down for one girl for a longer timespan from now on, just using preselection to my own advantage and keeping some young hotties in rotation.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 03:33 PM
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Do you think if I actually never cold approached her 10 years ago, her life would had been different? I disagree. She was a rebel in her heart right from the beginning. And she had many options even as a 22 y.o. virgin. She already started to discover her bargaining powers on the sexual market. Often had 2 or 3 dates with some hot guys, then she flaked them before we met.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 02:59 PM
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In addition, they will be always demanding towards their beta husbands (if they have one) to take more part in household chores and childcare. In the meantime, they are going to spend their time with shopping around, improving their looks and screwing around.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:30 PM
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They have the very same software. AWALT, dual mating strategy (I mean alpha lay beta pay) and monkey branching applies for them too. Some of them are getting knocked up by some random attractive guys, later they marry to someone else and expect their husbands to cover all the bills.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:20 PM
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I actually did this. I had access to her account all the time. It is better than trying to ban her from social media, it would have demonstrated weakness, neediness and insecurity on my side. At the end, she gave her prime years exclusively to me. It is an achievement in itself.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 12:36 PM
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She had a carreer. Although a typical low paying one (teaching) , hence her intent to monkey branch and harvest other men's resources.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 12:31 PM
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After our assets are separated (now selling the only property we CO-OWNED) that would be my first thing. Meanwhile I already started to restrict her on FB and IG so I can do what I want. Definitely going for some young hotties.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 12:15 PM
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Very true, she is becoming a true 'femme fatale'. I expect several consumed males until she turns 40.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 12:08 PM
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Lol read my post. However, now I know it was a wrong decision.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 11:55 AM
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What can you do when covid is wiping out about 80% of your previous income stream? Also destroyed hers, as she was teaching international students at a private university in Southern Spain. They all went back home. Lack of revenues on the employer's side means instant job loss. With big daddy government out there, why should I become a provider? I got this girl in my mid 20s without spending any significant amount on her. No expensive dates, no expensive engagement ring, just having a good time …
/r/askTRP21/06/21 11:53 AM
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Just selling my apartment in Budapest now, no mortgage on it, 50% of the price goes to my account the another 50% goes to hers. Simple as f*ck. The 'prenup' and 'postnup' type of agreements are two different things. You can sign a 'postnup' during the marriage to deal with unequal contributions to the accumulation of assets, for example.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 11:43 AM
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I actually managed her account. The funniest thing is that I still have access to it (who cares now, btw). I have to disagree with you that taking your LTR or any random plate to a photography session is a beta thing. It depends on what you are doing and how you are dealing with the dynamics between you and the girl. In a normal case, you are the one in control, so you project a healthy dosis of dominance. Why? You decide where you are going to take pics You decide (or at least suggest) how she …
/r/askTRP21/06/21 11:23 AM
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Thanks for the good words. I am trying to view my last decade as positively as I can. Then time to make my next moves and have some fun as a single guy in his 30s.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 11:06 AM
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Haha it kept her motivated to look hotter than ever, and I enjoyed it during countless nights.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 11:03 AM
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If you are aware of how the divorce industry works, and how the situation is stacked against you as a man in family courts, then there is only one rational decision: keep the lawyers out of the deal all the time. I only had lawyers related to my marriage when we prepared our post-nuptial agreement. Now we are splitting all our assets and our 2 properties in accordance to it.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 10:59 AM
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Now I have to concentrate on managing the divorce process. Thankfully, I dont have to pay alimony as this is practically nonexistent in Eastern Europe. I persuaded her already to fill for divorce together, so we can split assets w.r.t our post-nuptial agreement and avoid going to court.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 10:55 AM
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Yes, this is the most likely outcome. Her new suitor is a boring simp.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 10:51 AM
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Most likely scenario: she will just drain his bank accounts empty in a few years while she is going to look for sexual satisfaction outside of her new relationship. Then, she will dump the new guy or he will become fed up with funding her.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 10:49 AM
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We earned the money together for the travels and fun. Meanwhile I wanted to live child-free. Knocking her up would have only guaranteed the obligation to pay child support for her. Nothing else.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 10:44 AM
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Thankfully I was born as a man to this world so I can live without the rationalization hamster spinning in female minds. It is not delusional. If you think it is, then you have to understand the law of sexual attraction better. This random Canadian dude is shorter than myself, less fit than myself, not a dominant character, and totally clueless about true nature of women. He only did one thing: started to shovel endless amount of money towards my wife. Now wants to buy a car for her, I never did…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 09:53 AM
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Lol, I did this already. Before I ghosted, I just screwed her brains out multiple times. When she comes back to Hungary for a visit, I will do the same. But I decided to dump her after her betrayal.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 09:19 AM
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Mistakes 1 and 2 and 3. In my mid 20s, I thought this was the only way to get this girl for the long run. Now I think differently, after amassing more experience with life and women. Mistakes 4 and 5 I had the very same feeling. This chick was super submissive at once. She was happily cooking at home and fulfilled practically all my sexual fantasies. She even made considerable money out of her teaching career and modeling. I thought similarly to you at that point. But by time, I was proven wrong…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 08:51 AM
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When I decided to end our relationship, she just said that now she is looking for a guy whom she can control and she can take the leadership. Typical stuff... And that she needs a man, a 'good guy' who can provide for her. I was probably a good lover, but failed to provide enough in her eyes. Lol, I never wanted to take the latter role, so getting married was a mistake.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 08:23 AM
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Yeah. Modern technology gives immense opportunities to attractive females. They can acquire practically unlimited male attention and external validation. If my wife would have lived in the 19th century, then instead of 20,000 digital 'fans' she would only had amassed 100 or 200 in real life.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 08:13 AM
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Totally agree. In today's world there is simply no way to prevent all of these.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 08:09 AM
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Even if she has relatively good genes and maintains herself well, she cannot escape the reality of declining SMV during her 30s. She was at peak hotness around 27-28, which is already unusually late. From there, it is downhill.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 08:06 AM
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Do you realize how many Ukrainian/Russian hot chicks are out there on IG with at least one child? This strategy is certainly useless when dealing with such women. I wanted to live child-free and without the associated responsibilities.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 08:03 AM
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I am not blaming myself, thankfully my mood is becoming better already. As an INTJ, I just want to learn the lessons from my last decade.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 07:59 AM
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Lol, I still have a part of my stuff in Spain, boxed and stacked at her place as I just ghosted and took the plane back to Hungary. I have to get these things back to my country easily. Besides, my most important goal is to divorce the cheapest way possible and get the most out of it. She is still attracted to me as a lover (not as a provider, where she has found a better option) and I can just use this situation to my advantage.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 07:56 AM
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As I see it now, moving her to Spain (originally my suggestion) was the biggest mistake. It was somewhere in the comments that women behave like water, their personality is changing in accordance with the societal background around them. Never ever take an EE girl to any western country! Leave them in their own culture. Regarding her IG, I had access to her account all the time and we managed it together. Can you ban your girl from social media? I think it is impossible nowadays and a very weak …
/r/askTRP21/06/21 07:51 AM
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A textbook case of AWALT and unconstrained hypergamy in my eyes. Nothing else. She actually gave me the best/hottest 10 years of her life. Now it is time to move on..
/r/askTRP21/06/21 07:46 AM
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