RedMoonFlower Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	true Very good observation.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/07/20 08:52 AM
9	true If I didn't lie down, I would faint to - it blackened more and more in front of my eyes. Very uncomfortable sensation. After giving birth everything got much better. No fainting and lesser pain during cramps, though much more blood in the first days.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/07/20 08:49 AM
28	true They know about the pain. But they don't know the pain. So many are ignorant and some of them even hurtful and or foolish like the one above.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/07/20 08:42 AM
13	true The pain often gets much better after having a child / giving birth. And my bleeding has changed too, it has gotten very heavy during the first days. But at least the huge pain subsided greatly and is now much more tolerable, so I don't need drugs against cramps anymore.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/07/20 08:36 AM
4	She's a marriage therapist...has several other posts like this as well. Mostly men salivating over her posts as expected. Of course she IS (not just feels) in charge since he refuses to be in charge of daily, unpaid, bothersome work that has to be done by both!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/07/20 08:23 AM
5	Ladies, line up for your chance to give this man head in his car! This self proclaimed disease-free, kink-friendly cheater could be all yours (for an afternoon) for the small price of your dignity! [BARF] Lol Op, you are funny :-)). PS: That guy is horrific though... What a repulsive one on such multitude levels. One can only pity the clueless girlfriend.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/07/20 12:36 PM
41	Finding FDS has really made me realise my worth and that I don’t have to put up substandard behaviour and crumbs from men These were my thoughts too. He manipulated her (and God knows how many women more in the past and future) for a short while and then showed her his true colours in hopes she would be attached enough to him in order to stay for sex. PS: Sadly some of those guys hide their intentions even when women tell them they seek a relationship and nothing else. Their behaviour is even worse with younger women whom they think they can exploit even more easily.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/07/20 12:25 PM
5	Finding FDS has really made me realise my worth and that I don’t have to put up substandard behaviour and crumbs from men You did yourself a huge favour. Glad that you managed to ditch him when he finally showed you his true colours.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/07/20 12:18 PM
6	From a Facebook group I recently joined called "kink shaming isn't oppression". I'm in a fair few groups on FB that vilify "vanillas" and openly excuse any and all behaviour so long as it's a "kink" 🤮 Very true.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/07/20 12:13 PM
8	From a Facebook group I recently joined called "kink shaming isn't oppression". I'm in a fair few groups on FB that vilify "vanillas" and openly excuse any and all behaviour so long as it's a "kink" 🤮 We have to teach already girls (and boys) about this and other form of violences (of course with age-appropriate words and examples given). Make them see and stop it by withdrawing themselves, immediately going away from such men, abuse and violent behaviour.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/07/20 12:02 PM
4	We matched and he messaged me within 10 seconds. He really thought he ✨did something✨ here Exactly. A mother or a dad can help only that much if their offspring grow up in a hostile society and or environment.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/07/20 11:49 AM
-1	We matched and he messaged me within 10 seconds. He really thought he ✨did something✨ here Come on, you don't know that... We have to tell people their mistakes made. It's the only way and chance to understanding and improvement.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/07/20 11:42 AM
4	Can someone reassure me that I did the right thing by walking away? "Splitting everything", he and many other guys are delusional and ignorant. Next time tell someone like him that even to this day women do up to four times more work in relationships, especially when living together with the guy (household, kids, missed carrier opportunities etc). Men better pamper ladies and throw all their money at the women, relationship and family - or else men will become quite obsolete and "relationshipless" in future.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/07/20 09:17 PM
-3	We matched and he messaged me within 10 seconds. He really thought he ✨did something✨ here Good that you did. He might have learnt something important about women and his faulty treatment of women.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/07/20 09:02 PM
23	We matched and he messaged me within 10 seconds. He really thought he ✨did something✨ here I read an article once about studies that revealed that most guys cannot envision / comprehend / understand / fathom the fear and caution women have to experience and exercise on a daily basis in order to stay safe. Most of the guys are completely clueless...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/07/20 08:59 PM
50	We matched and he messaged me within 10 seconds. He really thought he ✨did something✨ here I think he is very insecure in reality, hence the arrogant, demanding tone. Poor socialisation, huge insecurity, all mixed with anxiety.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/07/20 08:47 PM
47	Pre-FDS me would have been chasing this loser LOL “ur really weird” I'm German, and he's clearly an idiot...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/07/20 08:30 PM
16	This grandpa created an incredible cradle for his grandson So beautiful, gorgeous design! Love it very much :).	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/07/20 07:12 AM
26	FDS While Being Married to an LVM What if your declined health is a consequence / result of your poor marriage and hurt feelings. Our body, mind, psyche and soul are strongly connected. They depend on each other. When one is being treated badly (either by yourself or others), the rest suffers as well.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/07/20 08:26 AM
2	Seeing more and more tweets like this, gives me hope! Isn't that the truth!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/06/20 04:23 AM
22	The "cool girl" monologue from Gone Girl has stuck with me long after I watched the movie. Even though Amy Dunne is crazy, her madness touches on the trope I know we've all heard praised or even tried to aspire to. Same here.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/06/20 11:48 PM
1	I have decided to swear off love and stay permanently single, and I have never felt happier or more relieved in my life. This sub has helped me a lot getting there. So, thank you ❤️ "Men are men, their nature and attitudes towards me won’t change when I get “hot”." You have no idea... Bye then and take care.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/05/20 09:36 PM
3	This is what happens when you compromise and date a pornsick man. This guy chose porn over his girlfriend and told her to fuck off and thinks he’s not the asshole. An ex was also porn addicted (just one among other issues of his - like alcohol and cigarettes). That had its many negative side-effects. Although very heartbroken back then about how things ended (he pretty much ghosted me, no closure, no explanation), I'm glad now that that relationship didn't last more than one year... I shudder every time I think back.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/04/20 10:06 PM
1	Reminder: Focus on your dreams, not men. Right?! But I guess Bradley Cooper was her temporary dream, till it vanished into thin air because of his fears of ending like Brad Pitt and the (bad) press.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/20 09:23 PM
5	Reminder: Focus on your dreams, not men. Exactly!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/20 09:17 PM
3	A Simple Rule to Live By... Exactly!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/03/20 02:45 AM
10	Dumped my HVM that turned into a LVM via email today. And blocked him. His response....predictably LVM. hahaha. So all the times you two emailed privately, there was "no problem" with his boss... Just suddenly tough he "remembers" that his boss might read your texts. He is pathetic and ridiculous.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/01/20 11:36 PM
1	Don't tell men how horrible other men are. Preach girl, preach!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/11/19 04:59 AM
2	To all the single moms out there, you’re not done being high quality women Lol, exactly. I don't have a ring on my finger, so people could easily assume I'm a single mom - and oh boy do I turn all kinds of heads when e.g. running with my baby through the park. My advice is be yourself, stay in shape, keep your health up, then many opportunities and chances will come up.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/11/19 10:32 PM
9	Someone wanted this comment to be a post so I did it. Very true. Good post that needs to be read by many.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/10/19 04:44 AM