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It was a reference to emotional intelligence, not raw, logical intelligence.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/16 09:21 AM
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Don't rush into anything. In fact, from my experience, women often let their guard down and behave as their "true selves" in certain contexts (around friends, while tipsy/drunk, when they have power over someone). Like the Red Pill says, don't offer all of "yourself" straight up. Be mysterious. Be controlled. This makes it more difficult for women to emulate you.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/16 09:20 AM
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That's the best attitude to have, but you've basically reached above the "target" for this post. Not everyone understands it
/r/TheRedPill01/05/16 09:17 AM
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Yes, this is definitely true. I was thinking about putting it in this but it's enough material for another post. In particular, beta men will often forfeit their own morals/personality in order to fit in. They despise the feeling of being left out and have a totally malleable personality. I have noticed this myself- just little phrases and mannerisms get copied around groups- usually beginning from the leader (alpha). If you notice people doing this around you it's a sign you're projecting a pow…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/16 01:39 PM
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No. Definitely do NOT do this unless you absolutely must. I learnt the hard way. Doing this often will (like other commented suggested) make you look weak and empty and insecure in yourself. But most importantly it will destroy the relationship, even if you succeed in getting her to do what you want. It generates a huge amount of tension and anxiety in her, and in an LTR you need a healthy amount of comfort too. I have done this in the past, and it changed the girls behaviour and made her anxiou…
/r/askTRP24/04/16 05:15 AM
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You need to swallow the pill. One of those most quoted studies in this sub is one which proves that a higher partner count directly correlates with a higher risk of divorce. This isn't rocket science, but it's hard to come to terms with if you've spent your life eating up all the propaganda about promiscuous sex and degenerate behaviour. Any guy who has dealt with different types of women will agree with this post, it's just a fact. Little to no sexual history should be a desirable trait in wome…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 02:26 PM
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Just slowly wean yourself off the drug, like people do with tobacco. Slowly lower the dosage over a longer period and eventually you won't notice the difference. Good luck
/r/askTRP19/03/16 02:55 AM
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that's very good. I was thinking more along the lines of younger red pillers. anyone who has gone through the high school/college days knows that having a car is an instant value boost. where I'm from a car and materialism in general is king, and your SMV is mostly measured from your material worth.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 06:12 PM
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that's interesting what you say about not owning a car. Do you find women are weirded out/unattracted by that? I thought it would lower your SMV. I know in some countries/cities owning a car doesn't mean much like New York but in some areas its a huge deal depending on what car you have.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 05:57 PM
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It's nice of you to say, but unfortunately the LTR is over. I definitely acted more beta towards the end and post-breakup when trying to plate her. The question was more about my beta "friend", I will just drop him and treat him like a woman now. Betas are women.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 02:19 PM
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I've gone no contact. You're wrong about that- it's over. I want to know the best way forward instead of just reminiscing on past mistakes. Should I confront him about it?
/r/askTRP12/01/16 12:26 PM
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Because if an LTR ends things with you it's usually because you become beta- I was assuming this is the case even though it might not be.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 03:07 PM
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I already said the oneitis has mostly worn off- the question was about the photo.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 01:56 PM
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It was specifically sent to me only. It is what it is, an obvious attempt to make me jealous or whatever- I'm trying to work out why, and if it opens the door for plating
/r/askTRP09/01/16 01:49 PM
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Ok. I'm listening, but I still have no idea why she would send that photo. If she was really disgusted and unattracted to me then why bother trying to make me jealous?
/r/askTRP09/01/16 01:43 PM
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I genuinely want to plate her- the oneitis from the relationship has mostly worn off, it's been nearly 2 months since we broke up, and I haven't seen her at all during that time. I was mostly posting for advice about getting sent the photo. Why the fuck would they send that if not to get a reaction?
/r/askTRP09/01/16 01:42 PM
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"Well...if that's all you're offering..."
/r/askTRP29/12/15 03:44 AM
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I didn't say any of that, so its irrelevant. I already gave you advice and you ignored it to cause drama. Like I said, trolling around
/r/askTRP28/12/15 02:19 AM
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It sounds like you didn't actually come here for advice, but instead to troll around. Regardless, fashion is circumstantial- if you start going around dressing like an ultra-fashionable hipster in Romania I assume you'd stick out like a sore thumb. Get a taste for the local clothing styles and improve it to your tastes.
/r/askTRP27/12/15 02:23 PM
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Nowadays almost all women do not feel the need to initiate sex, unless in an LTR type situation. They have their every need catered to, which includes guys initiating sex. Unless you are considerably alpha, with super high SMV, most girls will take your lack of escalation as a sign of fear and insecurity. Honestly though, this is a stupid/pointless question. You should be absolutely comfortable with initiating sex, once you have your shit together it just feels right and you'll do it without thi…
/r/askTRP27/12/15 02:20 PM
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The fact that he openly declared private things you said to him in front of other people is more than enough for you to distrust him. I'm sceptical of the other "good" things he may have done for you- the moment someone abuses your trust you should never confide in them again. It is usually easy to tell what type of guy will be trustworthy- a beta, shy, socially awkward kind of person will definitely thirst for attention through any means necessary, which includes backstabbing you in front of ot…
/r/askTRP27/12/15 02:16 PM
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I assume since you asked the question, you have a pretty basic understanding of socialising and conversational skills; not to worry, 90% of men are the same. A few basic pointers, since you haven't provided many details (feel free to ask for more particular advice if you need)- Good body language is absolutely essential if you're to dominate a social setting; this means keep a straight spine, pull your shoulders back, head upright and keep strong eye contact and an inviting and open pose. This w…
/r/askTRP26/12/15 12:48 PM
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Yes, to put it bluntly- they do. Cities are where the best and the brightest of humanity flock too, and in your case, NYC is possibly the best example of this. The chances are, you will not find any women in major cities that you see as anything more than a potential fuck and plate, if things go well. Your theory about hookup culture is true- the inner city lifestyle is not suitable for anyone after they get married, settle down etc. Cities are chock full of young people, hookup culture, and all…
/r/askTRP26/12/15 12:39 PM
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A big tenet of the "political" red pill, or the red pill at large is isolation. Everything is up to you in this world, no one really cares about you, with minor exceptions. This is very, very frightening for the beta mindset, and anyone who has a predisposition towards helplessness and irresponsibility. However, what it does mean for people who have their head screwed on, is a world where your actions have consequences and you can develop yourself through work. If you are struggling to accept th…
/r/askTRP26/12/15 12:34 PM
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This happens to the best of us. We are all guilty of losing sight of our goals and dreams when a nice girl moves into our lives. Some of the most alpha men in history have been utterly destroyed by a manipulative woman. While entering the best stage of a relationship (the period when you're beginning to fall in love) it becomes very, very easy to fall into the trap of disbelieving in red pill tenets, only for it to ultimately bite you back. It's important to always place your OWN life ahead of a…
/r/askTRP24/12/15 01:07 PM
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Women are only rude because they feel something from you. This means that you are doing something well- it's better to have an emotional person (even if it's negative) than someone who is completely indifferent to you. Some women use insults/mockeries as a shit test- they want to see if you'll react defensively and with aggression, in which case you lose the game. Simply act aloof when this occurs, which may result in the woman getting even more aggressive (she wants your attention). If this occ…
/r/askTRP24/12/15 08:15 AM
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Just relax. You're probably overthinking things and assuming you look awkward/forced. To begin with you always must have good body language: relaxed pose, open frame (don't cross your arms or cave your body inwards). It's all about being playful. Just use any verbal cue to play around physically. If you want to escalate without waiting for cues, just make up a reason to enter her space- "you have something in your hair", "what watch/bracelet do you have on", "did you dye your hair? lemme see". J…
/r/askTRP23/12/15 02:21 PM
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There are 2 scenarios. A) She genuinely misses you/is bitter about the relationship ending (remember you're just assuming she is already on to new guys) B) She is trying to turn you into an orbiter and is shocked that you would be so unemotional following the breakup. Using your knowledge work out which one it is based on what occurred during the breakup. Lots of TRP guys are extremely pessimistic about the breakup period and women, and always assume women will immediately move on even when you …
/r/askTRP23/12/15 02:11 PM
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This is 100% the answer. She would have no other reason to tell you other than to try and create jealousy/tension to see how you'd react. This is extremely common among women. After you begin to realise how many of these stupid little games they'll try and play, it won't affect you and you'll laugh when it happens. Just shrug it off- it shows she cares about you, you're doing something right
/r/askTRP23/12/15 02:00 PM
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