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I think most of you carry the wrong frame in your short term relationships, if you're afraid of the girl fucking your life over. In ideal terms, she should be afraid of obviously fucking you over, because she knows that you're dangerous and what you are capable of. Seriously though, this post only should matter in terms of marriage. For casual flings, plates, girls you like to fuck and cuddle with, I much rather have a FWB that I can actually talk to after fucking than a dumb bimbo. It's my usua…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 02:06 PM
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I'll tell you a worse one. The hottest girl in my year, a girl I crushed on for a while (in highschool), walked up to me a few weeks before prom, and asked "hey, I'm going to be wearing really high heals for prom, you would be taller than me regardless if we had our picture taken together in prom, right?". Stupid question, I'm very tall and she's average height for a girl. Was an obvious move to get me to invite her to prom. What did I do? I say "yea, I'd be taller" and left it there. I knew wha…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 03:14 AM
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I used to have trouble getting it up just like you, super anxiety. Exactly like you. After a couple of times, I stopped masturbating for good. Like 4-5 months of not cumming, I got with a girl, and my dick demanded to cum, and it did. After that, absolutely no trouble with anxiety at all. I still almost never masturbate to this day (last time I masturbated was over a year ago).
/r/askTRP19/10/15 03:36 AM
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Yea, but creatine water weight shouldn't be more than like 5 pounds, from my experience with it at least.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/15 01:23 PM
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Easy to do when underweight and noob gains.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/15 01:11 PM
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The advice you got here is silly. If you had soemthing better to do, then good on you for telling her you're busy. Just alpha it up, message her saying "I had fun yesterday ;) Let's grab lunch Saturday(whenever)." And wait on her response.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 07:14 PM
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You fucked up. By showing an emotional response, you basically labeled yourself as needy. The correct response: Say ok, bend her over, fuck her hard and fast (just a quick 5 minute fuck), cum, and then just start putting your clothes on and leave. She'll hamster in her mind that she fucked up for not blowing you, and if your SMV is high enough, she'll come back, and next time, will give you the best BJ she's ever given anyone in her life.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 07:10 PM
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It entirely depends on the male's body language and facial expressions. Women are better than men on picking up on these things. The important thing is to i her mind tell her "he's interested in fucking me", and not tell her "he's desperate for me". Given that she finds you attractive and is on certain scenarios willing to fuck you, you need to make it obvious that you are both very confident in what you're trying to do (you do it all the time with success, so if she plays too many games, you'll…
/r/askTRP17/10/15 07:06 PM
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I wouldn't bring a chubby girl to my apartment because of the doorman... A Fucking homeless person that stinks? Complete made up garbage. As you said, only if it was her house.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 08:12 PM
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I call bullshit. No sane person gives so few fucks as to drag a smelly homeless person through a hotel lobby for everyone to see you are taking them to your room.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 05:12 PM
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Kinda off topic, but the last girl I had sex with I put on a playlist that I call "Valhalla". I cummed to this song and it was epic: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q1UAjpQVeFc Also to add, she got off really well to the music as well.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 05:44 AM
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It handles strikers like any grappling martial art. Get in clinch range and striking is severely limited. In all honesty, it's always good to do a bit of striking also.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 07:33 AM
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Im a bjj black belt, it is my proudest achievement.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 03:42 AM
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at 5'9 and 172lb, you're nowhere near his physique.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 10:43 PM
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This is partly correct. Though speaking from experience, nofap alone gives me more motivation to talk to girls and I feel less anxiety around women in general than I used to when fapping.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 03:49 PM
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I disagree with that. I find that completely stopping makes life better, after you get over the initial "omg... i can't take it anymore" and the "omg, my dick won't get hard", two stepping stones for most people that stop jerking off. After that, it's really amazing smooth sailing where you get crazy hard ons when you fuck, and on the other hand, no longer have an urge to masterbtae when you're horny. Automatically, after a few months, your thoughts turn to "who should I call over", or "I should…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 03:48 PM
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No. First 4 months was not ejaculating. It made sex better for me to never cum unless I'm fucking someone. My brain has rewired to expect orgasm only from sex, so sex becomes better automatically. After the first 4 months, I've been having regular sex, yes.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 03:45 PM
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I went 4 months without sex/masterbation/porn/ejaculation to start the nofap off on (deliberately decided against sex for 100 days, turned to 120 though). You do at one point hit a wall where your libido dies, but it's only temporary. Mine was from days 30ish to 90, I had no libido. After that, sex has never been better, Ever. I get the hardest hard ons for girls it's not even funny, becaues it's all the sexual stimulus I'm cumming to, real women, so dick responds immediately.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 03:43 PM
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Felt fantastic about 20 days into it, once the worst cravings were gone. More outgoing, Less anxiety, more aggressive to what I wanted. Also, just generally, small things caused mE joy and life feels more colorful and less grey.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 04:11 AM
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i not only beat porn for good, i haven't masturbated for over 1 year. It's just deciding never to do it again. Going 99% is very difficult. Going 100% clean is easy, since you no longer have a chance to go back, it's over.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 03:48 AM
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This is possibly true. Maybe one day i'll try a high end one. The one I tried was mid range.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 03:35 PM
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You play dota by any chance? I have 500 games as invoker just on my main account xD
/r/askTRP28/09/15 06:29 PM
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Interesting. The reason why I called her, then asked her to call me, is because she requested to see each other before she left. I wasn't even planning on seeing her. So then I put the effort into contacting her via phone call, she didn't respond, then didn't bother to call me. Does that make more sense?
/r/askTRP28/09/15 06:23 PM
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Here's a simple guide to scoring a high quality guy: Step 1: Become gorgeous a. Hit up the gym. Do real weight lifting. Get a good squat/deadlift and get those killer legs/ass. b. Have a very clean diet, not only will your body look great, so will your skin, hair and everything else look healthy and young, which turns on men. c. Learn how to dress in a way that turns men on without yelling "I'm a slut". You seem to have this down. 2. Learn skills high quality men appreciate a. Learn to cook. All…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 07:24 PM
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I don't like to pay for sex because I get turned on immensely on when the girl is dying for my cock. The one time I tried a hooker, it was robotic sex, didn't turn me on much.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 07:11 PM
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From my vast experience online, especially online webcam chatrooms, what the hot chicks always respond to is something "different". If the norm is everyone is a passive wussy giving compliments you be the dick. This though is not the norm on tinder text game. There is a huge multitude of guys asking directly if the chick wants to fuck. You don't come off alpha at all from this, she just throws you into the same bucket and nexts you most of the time, even if she is down to fuck. Though I highly s…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 07:09 PM
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I think it's fine, but not by text. Because these days, the majority of betas are quite upfront on text since they can hide behind a screen, so it's not seen as very alpha anymore. You will get a TON of "no" from chicks that would have fucked. But in person, it's completely fine to be up front once you've established a strong frame.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 04:18 PM
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Almost identical to how I pulled my first ever kiss (that I initiated, I was so BP, that all the girls I ever slept with, they all initiated the kiss on me). She went out to smoke a cigarette. When she was about to light it, I said "wait, before you do that...", took a hold of her chin and kissed. I pulled that kiss right after joining TRP. I've had a decent amount of sex before that because i have a high SMV, but im finally breaking all BP barriers that I had built over the years and my sex lif…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 08:39 PM
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This is one spot where I can never really relate. I've usually always gotten people, including women, to agree with me when it comes to things of logic. Maybe it has to do that the women I bother to talk to stuff like this with (the uglier ones) want to sleep with me so their shields are down and they nod to anything I'll say What I'm getting at though is, the only time you should talk the way you did is in a group that highly values your opinion and sees you as someone intelligent. Otherwise, t…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 09:31 PM
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Fantastic interview, never saw the full thing.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 07:57 PM
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I think very intelligent people are more likely to be lazy than stupider people due to the fact that they always had to put less effort into solving problems.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 04:57 PM
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I understand your concern, but other than the first two points, almost any man on earth can do the others. It's just work ethic.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 03:52 PM
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That's true. Although I was more referring to people smart enough to make it to this subreddit. I give them the benefit of the doubt and assume that to have made it this far, they have to have a little something going on in their heads.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 02:56 AM
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Any man can get into the top percentages if they are not stupid or disfigured. Just takes really hard work for the shorter less attractive ones. Very hard work can always make you money, given enough sacrifice. Add years of weight lifting and you have a recipe for a guy that can pull decent women.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 09:41 PM
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To be fair, I've yet to see someone TRP endorsed here do this, only random posters.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 09:26 PM
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Well said, at least one person with common sense.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 03:43 AM
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You have issues buddy. What she says should not hold in court. Regardless, if we're analyzing her story, you can't cherrypick which parts you think are true or not, either take it all at face value, or don't bother analyzing it.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 10:52 PM
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OP cherrypicked parts to make him sound like he did nothing. Here's a better copy paste: "He hit me on the butt, putting his hand in between my crack too much, and I said "quit it!" He did it two more times anyway. He held my hands and wouldn't let me go, even though I tried to pull away. When I wouldn't go home with him, he said "You bitch! You little shit!" I went to my car and he didn't follow." Guy was a dick.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 10:08 PM
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"He hit me on the butt, putting his hand in between my crack too much, and I said "quit it!" He did it two more times anyway. He held my hands and wouldn't let me go, even though I tried to pull away. When I wouldn't go home with him, he said "You bitch! You little shit!" I went to my car and he didn't follow." He also wouldn't let go of her and was violent verbally. OP cherrypicked parts of the thread.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 10:08 PM
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You're taking shit out of context. How about: "He hit me on the butt, putting his hand in between my crack too much, and I said "quit it!" He did it two more times anyway. He held my hands and wouldn't let me go, even though I tried to pull away. When I wouldn't go home with him, he said "You bitch! You little shit!" I went to my car and he didn't follow." If her story is as follows, the guy is the asshole here.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 08:59 PM
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No, it implies that you are comfortable to talk about sexual things, and that her comment didn't phase you. She said it as a playful joke most likely, to get insulted is beta. An alpha sees her like a little child (albeit, one he wants to fuck), so what she says is all cute and nonsense, and his only goal is to direct the interactions towards sex. So yea, this response is pretty decent.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 09:22 PM
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I think it's really not O.K. for you to just leave us here on such short notice. You're one selfish fucking human being.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 12:09 AM
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https://www.teezily.com/awalt-trp http://teespring.com/awalt-trp-breaking Done sir. Whichever of the two you may prefer.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 06:57 PM
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The way the brain works is that it looks for "things", it sets goals for itself. No matter how much you have, you will always think "when I get that NEXT thing, I'll be happy". Kings who used to rule the lands would think "if only I could conquer that other country, THEN I'd be happy". Rich men think "if only I could double my net worth and buy that 200 foot megayacht... then I'd sail the seas and be happy". Normal men think "if only I could win the lottery or make some money and pay off my morg…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 03:50 PM
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Do what makes you feel good about yourself. And regardless of your choice, hold frame if your decision is confronted.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 07:50 PM
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I follow a pretty specific script I saw on TRP. I'd just default to it myself. I'd wait a day or two, send a message "What kinda guys do you like?". Whatever her reply, say "I can manage that much" followed by "what's ur number". Works pretty well for me. If she doesn't reply to "what kinda guys do you like", I'd just next her and not fuck up again with new girls xD
/r/askTRP02/09/15 06:49 PM
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Nothing wrong per say, although feels a bit "tryhard", as if you're trying hard to entertain her. A Chad would never put effort into entertaining a girl, because he knows she wants his dick. When you throw multiple jokes in a row, you run the risk of appearing like a clown. 1 joke is good, but try and follow it up with lines that show you have value, and that tell her what you want. If she was looking for a one night stand, you blew it, since she'll see you're too nervous to show what you want. …
/r/askTRP02/09/15 06:36 PM
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My dad is in his late 50s (6'4 215 pounds) and has a visible 6 pack with a hint of an 8 pack. He was an athlete in his youth. When he gains a few % of bodyfat, he looks younger in the face. At a low bodyfat percentage, when you're that age, the lack of fat in your face makes your face look a bit older, it's true.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 06:32 PM
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I was never needy/boring. I was very shy, and I was very very afraid of escalating or letting women know I had any sexual thoughts whatsoever. So basically I pretended I was asexual. If a girl ever got a hint that I was thinking something sexual, that felt like a nightmare, and I'd try to find an excuse to make her think otherwise. No longer the case, but it was really bad. With guys, or with girls who I didn't find sexually attractive, I've always been quite alpha. I just got really bad conditi…
/r/askTRP02/09/15 06:29 PM
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You Fucked up. It's not a question of bragging, it's a question of showing that you gossip and can't keep your mouth closed. Girls reputations matter to them, and you basically told her that you might insult her behind her back after you've fucked. Only right action in my mind is to hold frame, ignore what she said and treat it like a shit test. But you dug a hole here. It's one thing to say "I've had some bad lays", it's another to say "x/y person is a bad lay". One is humble bragging (insinuat…
/r/askTRP02/09/15 05:28 PM
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I can speak from experience that with a super beta attitude I was getting laid with 8s about 3 times a year. 9s and 10s never paid attention to me after the first twenty seconds of interaction. All the girls that pulled me to bed did it with the intent of a LTR due to money and looks. I could tell they would get more and more turned off and disappointed as time went on.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 05:10 PM
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I haven't masturbated in over one year and I don't watch porn, made sex better for me, i have no regrets.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 02:56 PM
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Ok, how do you start with the hand holding?
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 02:17 AM
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Fantastic. I'm 6'3 and girls are usually much shorter, and I've always tried never to bend down when interacting, so kissing is hard to make appear natural.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 11:12 PM
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I don't know if it's just me, but the "don't talk to her right away, win her friends over" ALWAYS fucked me over because I'm very good looking. Usually what always happens is they assume I like one of her friends (the friends I'm winning over), and they in turn usually like me, so the real target makes space for her ugly friend to have a chance with me, and then when I do decide to talk to target, she feels weird because her friend also likes me. I also never found the whole "her friends pull he…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 09:17 PM
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Point 1. I don't live in the US (thank fucking god). Point 2. Even if I did, I can always travel to a country where it's approved Kappa
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 08:30 PM
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Vasalgel supposedly lasts easily 10 years, and is a quick injection. That's a long time. I'd have no problem getting a quick injection every 8 years to be safe.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 05:59 PM
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Because of upbringing. And personal values. Believe it or not, there are women that will stick around with a guy just because they think it's the right thing to do. There are women that will go against their biological programming. Which is why when looking for a LTR, it's good to find a girl who was brought up in a traditional household, because if things do go bad, there's a chance she actually sticks around.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 09:48 PM
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That's not true at all. It just comes harder for them. It doesn't come naturally to them like it does to men. But the conscious is a powerful thing, and can defeat evolutionary programming. Sometimes this sub talks in absolutes. AWALT is correct, all women are "like that". It does not mean though, that all women "do x/y" 100% of the time. A woman can go against her biology just like a man can go against his and marry a fat ugly whale and then refuse to hook up with a HB10 out of moral reasons wh…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 02:25 PM
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Does that bother you? I'm pretty new to trp, have lots of blue pill tendencies, but I'm from a rich family, a pro athlete and very good looking.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 01:45 PM
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Wrong. I'm a very good looking guy and can sleep with most girls that I want to. White girls are the hottest and the ones that make my dick the hardest. Dark skin turns me off.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 04:52 AM
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Or just realize that women are fucking different from men. Men don't dislike vulnerabilities in general, we are protective of those we love. It makes us feel closer when they open up to us. Women on the other hand see vulnerability as a weakness, and it makes their pussies dry.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 10:13 PM
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Nice read, thanks, confirms all I've thought about the matter.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 01:25 AM
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If it hasn't been done, a post should be on the topic of 'the less she knows'. She knows her boyfriend, hense has a list of all the shit she dislikes about him. The less she knows about you, the more blanks she fills in with her imagination, a.k.a. wishful thinking. Stay mysterious, keep the talk to getting her horny and emotional, don't talk about your life story and your personality. If she's wet for you, she will fill in all the things she doesn't know about you positively. DO NOT give her ne…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 01:10 AM
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I used to pick on weak people that were scared of conflict in highschool. I'd never beat them, but emotionally bully them. There was a new kid, very small anti social japanese guy. Just got into my year from another school. I decided to pick on him. I gave him just a little bit of crap. And let me tell you, I was 15, maybe 6'1, and he was tiny, 75 pounds maybe. Tiny tiny kid. Think a year or two younger than me, skipped a grade or two. What did he do? He went nuts and bit my arm. I didnt' even t…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 12:50 AM
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I'll tell you one thing. The fear of being suspended is Fucking you over. The kids give you sit because they KNOW you don't react. Think of two presidents. One would never ever use a nuke cause he's smart and knows it's not beneficial. The other is trigger happy and can't wait to press the red button. One is smart, one is an idiot. Regardless, nobody would EVER pick on the idiot. His stops attitude is what keeps him safe. It's the same reason nobody would disrespect a crazy mobster. Is it smart …
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 11:37 PM
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Always frame. Always. AL-WAYS. A...L...W...A...Y...S...
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 03:52 AM
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Wrecked him! I had a real giggle imagining his face too xD
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 07:05 PM
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I'd love to see an update to this thread, once you get things sorted out.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 04:21 PM
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This is such a bad idea.... Read what the top TRP people are telling you and have faith in their words. Drop the bitch.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 03:06 AM
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Casual sex relationships are easy once you learn how to set them up with other girls. But that takes practice. Just date. And try and turn the first date into sex. Eventually, you'll learn how to do it, and any girl then becomes a one night stand.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 03:05 AM
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After all the replies you got, this is what you take from it? Do not take her back and try and turn her into a FWB because you're not good enough to pull that off. You're honestly not. You need to drop her like a bad habit, and focus on working on yourself. When you learn to be really disconnected from emotions, then you can do this kind of stuff. For the time being, drop her, read the side panel, and work on being the alpha guy you have the potential to be. Then, when you have 5+ plates that yo…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 03:02 AM
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Nah, international standards that's a 6. She's white, and acceptable for the majority of guy's "I'd fuck" scale. Here's a picture diagram for future references to numbers: http://i.scm.im/fit/girl_chart.jpg Clearly a 6.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 02:24 AM
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I really should look into going on dates with past wall women for 500 a pop... Great deal. This chick is a 6/10 at best... WTF?
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 12:20 AM
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Because the guy is a young buck who probably grew up blue pill and doesn't do much approaching, so while he may know consciously that he can get most girls, subconsciously, when a hot girl approaches him, he feels "lucky". She got to him before he had time to turn RP from the abundance.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 04:12 PM
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So sick... But yea, I'd never spend a dollar to travel to the girl, make her come to you, her hamster will spin that into "if I'm going to see him that must mean I really like him"
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 11:40 PM
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I don't know why so much hate on her looks. In some pictures she looks like a 9 easily. Other pictures less. Can't make a call without seeing her in real life, but there is no denying that she is quite good looking.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 11:33 PM
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I wouldn't mind a world where desperate average looking pussy shows up to my door with food and sex, all because they are desperate.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 02:25 PM
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I can agree with this. When I was 6 years old I fell off a slide on my head, and I remember telling myself "boys don't cry, do not cry", and it took tremendous effort not to cry (and my eyes still watered up). So it really is a physical reaction. From that day I never cried audibly (had teared up though).
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 09:17 PM
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I decided to do first 100 days hard mode. But didn't get laid until 2 weeks after hard mode ended, so closer to 4 months.
/r/askTRP11/08/15 06:18 PM
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I like this one. I did send afterwards a "you'll make it up to me" to which she said she will.
/r/askTRP11/08/15 12:52 AM
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I can't put her reason, because it would make my username slightly less anonymous, as well as this thread. But yea. So you personally wouldn't bring it up again? Was me just typing "K" a good answer to it all? She sent like 3 texts apolagising, and I just answered "K".
/r/askTRP10/08/15 07:14 PM
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I'm over 1 year not jerking off or watching porn. The first 4 months, I didn't have sex either. HUGE benefits. The biggest benefit was, that since I was not allowed to have sex, and since I didn't jerk off to porn, my brain realized that women are fucking boring and suck, and the only thing they are good for is sexual activities, whether jerking off to them or fucking them. Being around a feminine woman is also a nice break from the competitive male environment, but if you'r enot fucking her, it…
/r/askTRP10/08/15 07:10 PM
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She only canceled this once. Other 3 dates she was on time.
/r/askTRP10/08/15 07:07 PM
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I'm pretty sure she values the chance to see me. But she only told me like 3 hours before we were supposed to meet. So in essence, a guy with lots of other women might be upset because she didn't tell him earlier so he could make other plans? that's what I'm getting at. You still disagree?
/r/askTRP10/08/15 07:07 PM
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Up until very recently, i never went in for the kiss. I never took a girl home, up till the age of 22 I never approached a girl. I still got laid every so often with good looking women because I'm an athlete and good looking. You'd be surprised how much looks help. If I was short and ugly with that same attitude I'd be a virgin.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 06:24 AM
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Hey Vengefully_yours. Maybe I should write this in a PM instead of on here, but would you be willing to lay out a thread with theory on how to be this kind of "dominant" in bed, how to make it seem natural and not forced, a part of your frame? I'm sure a lot of red pill readers who are just swallowing the pill would greatly appreciate it. And I think it's a large part about being a real man, dominance in bed. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 09:06 PM
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Isn't this a bit blue pill though? Would Chad bother to tell her the next day he had a good time? Also, why is it a bad thing if her hamster runs wild?
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 02:32 AM
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hm... woulda appreciated a NSFW tag xD I've been on NoFap for a bit over a year, no need to get horny while alone at home because there's nothing I can do about it.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 10:15 PM
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Did I read it? I am the op... I don't think you're reading...
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 05:06 PM
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Troll? or just didn't read a single thing?
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 04:53 AM
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I think what app you use is country dependant. Due to the app I'm using only being for my country and wanting to maintain this reddit username anonymous, can't name it, sorry. I'm sure if you google "motel app" and your country, you'll find lots of free ones though.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 03:44 AM
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I like her for the sex honestly. Why not?
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 12:54 AM
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No I can't be sure of this. Interesting point. It's entirely possible.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 11:52 PM
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Quick question I have though. So had sex, haven't seen each other the next day. Who should text who first? Should i just not bother texting unless I want sex from her again? What's the best way to deal with this?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 09:04 PM
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I have an app exclusively for motels that shows me all nearby motels. I don't live in the US btw. Thanks for the offer though.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 09:02 PM
1

Day 1: 8 hours 30 minutes, went to sleep at 5:30am woke up at 2:00pm.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 05:59 PM
1

RedPillMat will take part in this challenge!
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 07:05 PM
3

So true. But until that day,i always thought that's what they'd think of me if I showed any sexual interest. I thought to get sex I'd need a miracle situation to happen,i jump in to save her day, am her hero, we kiss, etc etc.... FUCK YOU HOLLYWOOD!
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 06:56 PM
4

I completely understand. It's the concept of holding frame at all costs that I've most tried to internalize since I started reading TRP. Even if it sometimes means blowing a chance at sex, she'll respect you for it and might come crawling back.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 04:29 PM
4

I guess it would make for a field report, but it was a great experience. We were on the 2nd date (failed to even try kiss her on the first), and came a point where she went outside for a cigarette and I told myself "fuck it, you've been reading RP for over a week, just do it you pussy", so I told her something like "before you smoke that, come here", grabbed her by the collar of her jacket and puller her in for a kiss very affirmatively. Quite an ego boosting moment that I feel now has given me …
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 04:11 PM
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How about this. Look at how many hollywood male actors who made it big stayed with their girlfriends from before, and then compare to female actresses. Would pain a clearer picture.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 08:47 PM
1

Thanks man. Last night went on another date with her, she went outside to smoke a cigarette, I accompanied her. While she was about to light it, I told her "stop", and pulled it from her mouth. I tried to frame my most confident body language and tone of voice, and while looking straight at her told her "I want to taste your lips before you smoke the cigarette" and went in for the kiss. Turned out to be a great night.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 03:32 PM
1

Thanks man. Made out with her second date. I kept repeating to myself "act, don't react", to get it into my mind. It's exactly what I did.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 03:30 PM
1

Thanks, I went into the kiss on the second date. I'm 100% sure this girl would not have initiated the kiss at any point and have given up, she's very submissive and wants a guy to take action.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 03:29 PM
2

I'm close to 1 year nofap. Best thing I ever did for myself other than reading on human psychology (PUA, RP, etc etc).
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 02:48 PM
1

That's exactly what I did with all my conversations. Thanks for the reply though. I'm gonna ask a followup question, that's not entirely about the online game, but dating game itself. Yesterday I went on a tinder date and she was very into me (most girls are into me due to looks and build), but I have a real beta issue of not being able to escalate sexually. I can't remember a single girl I've slept with that didn't go in for the kiss (her initiating). I'm good at learning, and only really need …
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 03:36 PM
1

Is she at least giving you oral sex, handjob,etc? I think you need to make it clear that you're a sexual guy and sex is an important part of your life. She can stay a virgin a bit longer, that's no excuse not to get you off. You're in a relationship. If she's not giving you sex, what's the point of being in a relationship with her? EDIT: Responded to wrong person.... lol
/r/askTRP20/07/15 03:24 PM
2

I agree with shititsthecops.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 03:23 PM
1

Think of it this way. Would an old school gangster pour his soul into this sad friend of yours and desperately try and teach him the ways? No. He might give him some advice, but if you used the proper tone and frame when explaining TRP, he would take it with respect and understanding, instead of trying to find fault in it and lashing back at you.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 03:16 PM
1

This is so pathetic. I have trouble with women and being alpha with them, but around guys it's not the case. And I can tell you one thing for sure, if your friend jumps you and stuffs all this "you're a sexist" shit down your throat, he sees you as a beta. Work on your game around male friends and colleagues. A true alpha never gets shut down like this, at worst people just tell him they disagree. When talking to other men, I always try to keep the frame that an old school Vegas gangster would k…
/r/askTRP20/07/15 03:15 PM
1

I know you're right... It's just hard to do in the moment. First world problems :(
/r/askTRP20/07/15 03:10 PM
1

Thanks, this helps. I guess I just need a step by step blueprint to follow the first couple of times, until subconsciously I learn that she wants that random kiss. I keep waiting for a "perfect" moment to go for a kiss, and by perfect, I mean her closing her eyes and going in for the kiss! So yea, it's kinda pathetic.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 03:09 PM
1

I'm much better after a bit of alcohol in terms of nervousness, but don't you feel like this is a crutch in long term self improvement? I haven't felt it carry over to when I'm sober. I have read The Game, and much much PUA material, I just guess I have to practice it more.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 03:09 PM
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By showing them that you view them as girls, and that you are not intimidated by them. I had a friend in highschool, ultra alpha guy. A girl 2 years his senior was giving him shit about how he was short, so he insulted her. She slapped him, and he just grabbed her pussy, a hand full of it. They had sex not too long after that incident.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 08:18 PM
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I was identical. IDENTICAL. Well, like 7 years ago I sold all my runescape items (phats, masks, etc.) for a bit over 10k USD to a chinese gold selling site (could sold for more if I sold to individuals, but too much work to find that many buyers). So I guess it wasn't entirely time wasted... but still.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 07:43 PM
1

I disagree that this is what red pill is about. Someone can be red pill and rarely have sex because they don't want sex.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 05:37 PM
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I don't even think the top 5% are red pill man. I don't know where you live, but not anywhere I've lived. Don't get me wrong, the top 20% are getting laid, but their mind set is nowhere close to red pill.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 04:23 PM
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I'd like to point out that whatever the average number of guys a woman has Fucked, for that number to exist, there are guys getting the same numbers. Statistically speaking. Just become one of those guys.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 03:48 PM
2

Mind giving some details on what you talk about during the texting part? From step 2? giving her a taste.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 01:31 AM
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