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So then your entire post was misleading. It isn't weird at all that the people (parents) funding her apartment want you to pay since you live there also. Pay the rent like a fair person or stop living there.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 09:05 PM
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Her parents pay her rent ?? That's even more bad news for you brother. She would have no reason to ask for money from you if that was the case (unless the parents told her you need to pay half ??) Regardless, sounds like you need to implement dread game. From what it sounds like, you are always at your chicks place. You should definitely A) do your own stuff for a bit and B) walk away from this LTR if dread game isn't working and your so far down the beta hole. I might be misreading your comment…
/r/askTRP08/04/16 04:27 PM
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How are you assuming her money situation changed more then HE has changed / gotten lazy? It's so common for males in LTR to get comfortable and lazy and start showing beta traits. I mean yes ok she is invested in him, but she is still paying for his living essentially. That in of itself is going to hint, along with other beta traits, that "oh shit I'm providing for this beta" Which no girl ever wants to think^ Maybe at first, during honeymoon phase + a little longer OP showed alpha as fuck trait…
/r/askTRP08/04/16 04:20 PM
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Right but she just told him pay up or leave. Aka she's fed up paying for a beta who still lives with his parents
/r/askTRP08/04/16 03:20 PM
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Dude your being provided for by her. How is that NOT beta ? Some people might argue that "let him! She would do the same!" Or "I'm selfish I wouldn't mind someone paying rent for me" But it's still beta as it gets. You should stride to have your own place and pay your own expenses, then LTR and game.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 03:19 PM
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I'm sorry, I should have been more clear. it should be the other way IF anything. But we all know NOT to be beta bux providers. Basically your more of a beta if your being a mooch as opposed to be a beta bux (both are beta)
/r/askTRP08/04/16 12:50 AM
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He has already lost all power what the fuck. If he was alpha enough, she wouldn't mind him staying over. But I doubt he's alpha enough AND she's providing for him essentially. Even if OP Pays rent he's stilled fuck imo. Game over No man should be in an LTR if you still live with your parents.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 10:51 PM
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Crazy how people are talking about "ultimatums" and "power plays" this is a fucking girl who is, at this time, essentially the man in this relationship. Free loader OP is mooching off his girl when it should be the other way around. advice such as "ok bye" and splitting off is the best advice. OP already showed this girl he is as beta as it gets. She's fed up with him.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 10:49 PM
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Right but don't get lazy and spend every waking moment with her or be prepared for a mega break up. Still talk to other girls. Don't develop oneitis even in a LTR. always protect yourself, don't be blindsided...etc. I coulda made that bullet points but eh fuck it
/r/askTRP06/04/16 06:18 AM
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You will eventually run outa stories huh. Itgscv is still on point. But yeah that type of conversation can mitigate shit testing so it's important to always have your own things in life. It will improve your LTR indirectly.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 06:16 AM
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Hookah bar my man(outdoor or indoor). Night shifts. 6pm-12am close. groups of girls are always smoking hookah and its only getting more popular. You set up their hookah. Bring it to them and start it yourself, take a few puffs and chat with the girls. Simple stuff but in that moment you are in control. IMO smv is boosted instantly in this context for the whole night, compared to the other guy groups smoking. But I would only do this if you have another job lined up during the day. I've been want…
/r/askTRP23/03/16 07:21 AM
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Strange how you hitting her up to make plans warrants that "you seem disinterested" I think that's an excuse for another reason she is done with you. But maybe not I don't have enough details
/r/askTRP23/03/16 07:13 AM
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Fantastic content. Thank you
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 06:57 AM
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"I can tell someone's jealous, I gotta go hun busy" in a cocky playful voice But IMO I think he woulda passed the shit test if he didn't get her an ice cream treat at the minimum.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 03:25 AM
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I just used meetup for a pickup soccer game. 11 on 11, 2 Very cute girls (along with other not cute girls) were part of the game. Everything you type is just a lame rationalization / excuse. Just stop
/r/askTRP05/03/16 10:18 PM
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I think you can just call her out on it. "If you keep this up i'm cancelling our date babe" "Ok fine ill invite "other girls name* over" or something along those lines. More in a funny tone though. don't want to sound butthurt about her being a child at all. (which you are not anyways I think, just want her to quit acting like a child. EDIT: You could call her and do an over the phone invite. I think you'll have an easier time deflecting that shit test over the phone / can convey AA in a humorou…
/r/askTRP29/02/16 07:10 AM
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Wow thanks for the feedback man. Actually in a transition from residential to commercial atm. Joining some experienced broker (family) who is starting a new firm.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 03:53 AM
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Squeeze
/r/askTRP16/02/16 07:43 AM
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Where are you based? I got into real estate as a "part time" thing before I graduated college. Going full time into commercial real estate as soon as I graduate this may. Been doing residential for a year and a half. Closed approx 10 deals. I knew the broker of the firm I got hired at before I got my license and that's how I picked my firm. Do you know anyone in the field? I can help out more if you have specific questions. I like the job but doing it part time is just so bad in my opinion. This…
/r/askTRP09/02/16 12:09 AM
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You new here? Lol
/r/askTRP08/02/16 07:54 AM
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Wont_tell is right, except for med school / that track. Your done for in that track unless you know someone (seems like you dont like "school" and what not and your parents forced you to attend. So med school wouldn't be your cup of tea anyways. The degree itself is a piece of paper. Meh. What do you like to do? Do you like sales? Are you good at speaking with people? Maybe a real estate license or insurance license could benefit you! Btw, I am in the exact same boat as you. Hated every second o…
/r/askTRP07/02/16 11:59 PM
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No matter how you look at it, jerking off IS the lazy way to get off. Those who are "addicted" to jerking off are choosing the easy route, they get comfortable. Shy away from girls and rationalize it "meh she won't like me anyways" * jerks off that night* Nothing wrong with a few wanks here and there, but don't get comfortable with it IMO
/r/askTRP07/02/16 07:52 PM
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Looool welcome.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 07:26 PM
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Probably wasn't getting attention from her other "targets" and you were the only option?? It's been 3 years and nothing has happened between you 2. Seems dead to me. Maybe would have been fine if you were more firm once she started showing initial interest. That "text me and ask me out" is her putting you in her frame and you allowed it. So ya 2 weeks of being "friendly" now ya? That just means she's fiending for some other guy now. Branch swinging like crazy Go no contact
/r/askTRP05/02/16 06:16 PM
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I don't know why this is not the top comment. Everyone is saying you need to show her that her behavior is not acceptable. In a sense yes of course, this goes without saying. But also, for the OP, drop this LTR and go extreme dread. No contact for a month +. (Or forever) let her contact you and plate her MAX. No LTR, she's forever banned from LTR from a red pill mans perspective IMO. You were not alpha enough (or beta enough in a sense, LTR's require a balance of the two. 80/20. Pass comfort tes…
/r/askTRP29/01/16 12:58 PM
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eh there is some value. Keep up to date on your wardrobe, shoes, hair style, etc. keep lifting. Yada Yada. People like to read these things. (Including myself) Helps with the process.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 07:08 AM
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Your missing the whole point. RP doctor posted a good comment about how porn is just another way for men to get instant gratification. You should read it
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 06:10 AM
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If you think you can do well in sales, (lots of TRP ideology is great for sales) then get your real estate license. Pros A) many brokerages hire agents on the spot, won't care if you have max HS diploma B) more aggression in the job = more money. It's linear, if not almost exponential. (Do you see yourself as a salesperson? Can you negotiate? Are you willing to learn this stuff? Etc) C) relatively short time to get the license. For me it took 3 months and I was slow. I could have gotten it in 6 …
/r/askTRP15/01/16 07:06 AM
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HAH. "I am passionate about being skinny fat"
/r/askTRP10/12/15 05:41 PM
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I like this. Make sure to adapt to your individual style
/r/askTRP18/11/15 10:25 PM
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Great post
/r/askTRP17/11/15 07:51 AM
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Yeah exactly.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 08:14 PM
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I expected some response like this. Stuff like this won't most of the time work if he has not established himself as a desireable male already.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 10:25 AM
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What's bathmate?
/r/askTRP09/11/15 07:46 AM
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"It's not like she is a total saint she has supposedly "Made Out" with around 10-15 other guys. I really don't think that's bad comparing most other girls here in the North East US." I like how you rationalized that fact with how its not that bad compared to US. "We met on Tinder while she was on the U.S, why is a Unicorn using Tinder you ask?" Uhh for her daily crave of validation. One year on tinder? That is a lot compared to how long tinder has been around.(Relatively speaking) She's addicted…
/r/askTRP06/11/15 06:17 PM
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So basically one of the two possible choices. Hah
/r/askTRP22/10/15 02:32 AM
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Pre-TRP I did this after my ex (gf at the time) said "I'll hit you up in a few hours babe" it was 9'pm and she had a pool party with some chads. Woops. Anyways it's like 2 am and no response from her and I'm paranoid so I text her and she's like "jeez I don't need u checking up on me like this.." BAM we break up (she breaks up) with me 5 minutes after. One minute she calls me babe, hours later she probably fucked some chad. Crazy how fast things move Obviously we were having problems before due …
/r/askTRP22/10/15 02:22 AM
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Did you read the post? Weed obviously amplifies this persons awful behavior when she is sober.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/15 05:39 PM
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nice, I really man that. However you sound like a delusioned douche. Just based on your post / replies.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 05:51 AM
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Unless she explicitly says "I'm close go faster" or "in close slow down" <-- rare case I think though.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 05:52 AM
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I like this
/r/askTRP08/10/15 07:31 AM
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"For example, at lunch or dinner say "I'm so stoked I lost all this weight from eating better and exercising, you know? And my energy is, like, through the roof."" This seems very non TRP to say.
/r/askTRP02/10/15 06:23 AM
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First of all, never see this chick again hah I think you know that. That screaming rape thing is a huge red flag. No other way to put it, but you know that. Even if it was just a ploy to get you to leave, that's some CRAZY manipulation. (Even you told us she's manipulative) But yeah, good post. Take away remains the same
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 07:53 AM
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Hmm a lot of people are saying you failed a few shit tests, which I think to an extent they are right. So the "please" thing, whatever it worked, you got the date. Maybe scenarios like this strictly work for tinder only ? I wouldn't recommend it still but let's move on. So your making out and try to escalate. To me I think maybe you over-escalated, it lead to her saying "I'm not sucking your dick," which lead to you cutting the date. IMO if escalation was tuned a bit more that chain of events wo…
/r/askTRP30/09/15 06:34 AM
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Hey man, tell us why you think she is your best friend / important to you. Just so we can compare what I think a "best friend" is and what you think a "best friend" is. Srsly, not trying to be offensive, really just trying to help. I've been in your position and I had to learn the hard way. I think many of us have, it's (it was) a common thing.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 06:17 AM
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99.99% a troll post. In the event that it's the .01% off chance it's not, Seriously exploit all means to stop sucking your thumb. And, if not, Tell her and accept the consequences, (if any. Likely though)
/r/askTRP30/09/15 06:05 AM
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I will surely use those lines as my A&A once I am old enough to experience it hah thanks
/r/askTRP30/09/15 05:58 AM
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Hey bud, Tell her straight out what you want from her. Just tell her something a long the lines of "I'm not looking for anything other than a sexual relationship, I'm not saying it cant escalate but that's not on my mind right now, I am to busy with my career" etc etc etc If she hangs out with you again after you say that, and the same thing happens, kick her ass out and hard next. Easy. I mean say what you think is the right thing to say, but just convey that you aren't gonna let her waste your…
/r/askTRP30/09/15 05:49 AM
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Dam man hah solid post
/r/askTRP30/09/15 05:43 AM
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it will have been his fault though, he is a BP. He has a lot to learn. Fuck the chick of course, but she's just doing what many girls would do in her position. He has to man up
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 04:10 AM
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Agreed that there is no rationale to it. Its crazy. When was the last time you told someone not to text you as a way of starting a conversation? (that was her first text to him after getting his #) Anyways, yep no response
/r/askTRP28/09/15 06:47 PM
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yeah his advice does not explain the thought process behind her text, but it's still the right advice. It just seems so annoying that she sent you that. Like she is used to being texted all the time and expected the same from you so she warned you beforehand that she won't respond quick ? Well if this is the case, luckily trp says only text to set up dates / meetings etc.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 03:24 PM
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To start, take abdada's advice. But I wanna open up discussion about that text, why did she have the need to text you that she won't be responding to your texts fast? If a girl wants you she will make time for you no matter what
/r/askTRP28/09/15 02:45 PM
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It's all relative. I think based on what he has said in his post / comments makes this situation out to be a red flag, while for you it is normal/ok. Maybe?
/r/askTRP28/09/15 02:34 PM
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Not constructive at all ?
/r/askTRP27/09/15 06:21 AM
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hah. "My friend" Jesus. Pay super close attention from now on to how she refers of you to other people. Give it a time frame also. 2-4 weeks what ever. The way she sees it, you could be HER plate, but your not allowed to talk to anyone else etc. Maybe others have some insight about that comment "my friend." Maybe I'm overreacting relatively to other people's experiences, but I dealt with this exact thing, no joke. Albeit I was inexperienced and it came back to bite me in the ass, but I learned. …
/r/askTRP27/09/15 12:23 AM
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I don't think it's a bot if "it" responded about your profile. I could be wrong and tinder bots have advanced heavily since my Last usage of tinder. fuck tinder bots
/r/askTRP27/09/15 12:16 AM
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That text was a cake from her to you in her opinion. All the little details were cake decorations and whatnot. To make the cake look more good. This thread has showed you what's under all those decorations. Under all the decoration is a nasty tres leche cake.
/r/askTRP26/09/15 11:46 PM
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do you think there is a way he can respond that gives her zero validation or closure, and displays abundance / trp principles? I'm not suggesting he try to lead that to fucking her. More of a one liner text and that's that. To be honest I can't think of anything he could say that would achieve his goal of not giving closure / validation, so yeah maybe best not to respond, so of course good advice on your part. But maybe you can think of something ?
/r/askTRP26/09/15 11:34 PM
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That guy she broke up with you for, he dumped her ass. Now she's crawilng back to you. Don't give her closure or your giving her the perception that you are a good fall back guy.
/r/askTRP26/09/15 11:31 PM
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Few examples. We don't NEED to be fit anymore to survive. We don't NEED to go out anymore and make connections, we have our internet..etc
/r/askTRP25/09/15 04:20 AM
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Meh it's besides the point of the FR tho..or at the least its not the most important take away of the FR
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 05:18 AM
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So basically no carb during non bulking days?
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 04:46 PM
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yeah this would probably be less time
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 01:09 AM
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It's also important that you are attractive, I think that's half of what made you successful off tinder. (Unless your not attractive and I'm completely wrong)
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 01:00 AM
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I like this, thanks man. How would you recommend mitigating muscle loss during a cut phase?
/r/askTRP25/08/15 03:41 PM
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Interested as well mate.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 03:43 AM
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Thanks for the reply!
/r/askTRP15/08/15 07:31 PM
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Any story's to share about shooting down the "I have a BF" shit test? Or any advice etc
/r/askTRP15/08/15 08:14 AM
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I truly believe a lot of guys failed with their "oneitis" due to beta mindsets (scarcity / neediness / always being available / not being the leader) I know I did, I was a pitiful man in my last LTR (Pre-TRP) and of course she left me the second she met Chad (All of the "love" didnt matter once Alpha Chad came into the picture). That is what TRP says right? Beta will always lose out to alpha. (or, what girl wants to be with a beta when she has other options? Alpha, or less beta options.) With th…
/r/askTRP09/08/15 04:55 AM
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What are the dynamics of your company? If I may ask.
/r/askTRP02/08/15 01:58 AM
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Oh come on, I doubt he is strict on the 1-3, and if he is, who cares? LTR's are not even half of what TRP strives for. I concur with the 1-3 partner count, but if not, the other factors can replace this factor. "1-3" is a perfectly fine rough guideline
/r/askTRP26/07/15 09:12 AM
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Update op?
/r/askTRP26/07/15 09:09 AM
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Yeah yeah that seems most likey. I think I'm doing a good job of letting her know I'm not gonna give her attention like everyone else does. Might be time to hard next this. Thanks for the reply
/r/askTRP05/07/15 10:03 AM
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Nothing more
/r/askTRP03/07/15 09:43 PM
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