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RedPillWays/r/RPChristians22/08/19 05:11 AM
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RedPillWays/r/RPChristians11/06/18 07:38 AM
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No one is controlling her champ. She can do what she pleases. I'm just telling OP to look at her actions verses what he wanted. I'd bet money OP would've loved it if she wanted to hang out with him instead of being with her girls. What guy doesn't want his girl next to him?
/r/RPChristians15/05/22 08:05 AM
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It's not a insecurity issue. It's a genuine desire issue. She's calling the shots. Come or don't, but I'm doing my thing over here with the girls. She's in control of that frame. She has no desire to be with her man over hanging out with the girls.
/r/RPChristians15/05/22 06:43 AM
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Get out of here with that. OP doesn't know better. Should have dropped the girl. (Ruth 1:16-17) This needed to be the chicks attitude towards OP. Ride or die girl, anything less is a waste.
/r/RPChristians15/05/22 06:35 AM
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Nah, OP didn't want to go. Hold frame, do what you want, you get to read her genuine desire that way.
/r/RPChristians15/05/22 04:13 AM
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Why is everyone ignoring the red flags that she wants to go out with her girls instead of being with her man. Why is OP not taking this as not having genuine desire for him.
/r/RPChristians15/05/22 04:10 AM
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Ever heard of trolls? If the government covers the majority of your schooling then out the gate you should be doing better then Americans saddled with debt. Long term you'll lose out to taxes, but from the start you should be in a better position. You having degrees should be netting you a nice salary. It would only take a year of you staying home with the parents for you to get your finances in order. You must have been blowing your money on stupid stuff.
/r/RPChristians06/05/22 03:10 AM
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This whole thing is sus. He claims to have no stable job and lacks money, but yet has two degrees, one being a graduate in finance from a reputable university. Bro has supposed dedication in fitness based on his body but can't get other avenues of his life in order? What prompted him to even take control of his body but yet not his finances?
/r/RPChristians05/05/22 09:03 AM
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Calling cap on the photos. They look photoshopped. The beard in the first photo has a white line around the beard on the left side. The tricep on your the left arm is doing a weird dip near the top of elbow. Your second picture just looks fake when you look at the background and then "your body". Edit: "I turned down many opportunities to have intimacy. I was either waiting for marriage or at least worst case scenario in a serious relationship that could lead to marriage." "no dating experience"…
/r/RPChristians05/05/22 05:06 AM
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I completely agree with with this. I'd also add that if you find yourself leaning towards the lust side. Re-evaluate your situation with your wife. I'd bet anything she isn't as submissive as you'd like. Hence you're possibly looking elsewhere for that submission. A submissive woman will trump a "badiee" any day of the week in my book.
/r/RPChristians05/05/22 03:30 AM
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We're also attracted to women genetically different from us. Boaz was attracted to Ruth and they were ancestors of Jesus. That's reading too much into it. It could be a slew of different things. I'd bet money it was more on Ruth's submissive demeanor more than anything. Ruth 2:11-13
/r/RPChristians05/05/22 03:17 AM
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High value in terms of what the sexual marketplace values for each sex. Height is a indicator for protection. When you are tall you can pick someone off the ground. Not having a firm foundation when fighting puts you are a huge disadvantage.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/22 07:56 AM
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Guys are problem solvers, so when we get a issue like "me mentioning I'm having a bad day mental health wise" we want to solve it. Him saying "what would you like me to do to make you feel better" is him not knowing how to fix it and regulating himself to the support role. Really what should have been asked was what do you think is the cause for you're bad day. Remove the issue and you can go back to fulfilling your supportive role.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/22 06:19 AM
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You just need more experiences with talking to people. Be observant to your surroundings and what the person is wearing / body language. If you are into shoes and you see they have a new model of racing flats just talk about that. You can always reach out to me on Skype at RedPillWays.
/r/RPChristians31/08/19 07:21 AM
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The guy isn't being true to himself. He is compromising. He doesn't want his meat that way. He is paying good money for a service and expects a certain level to be met. This isn't a unreasonable request. Eating out is just a bad idea in my mind. Puts you in a submissive role. It would be far better to have the wife/chick cook at home. She develops cooking skills and you are always in charge.
/r/RPChristians28/08/19 01:26 PM
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I also wonder: do you think she would have reacted the same way if you had said assertively, "An adult eats what is served even if the cook doesn't do it perfectly right"? No. She can see straight through that. Heck I can see that's bull.
/r/RPChristians28/08/19 11:57 AM
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I didn’t come to her and ask “what should I do - should I teach this time?” I summarized the opportunity and gave her my decision all in one shot Curious as to why you even brought it up. Comes across as you giving her a report as if you're beholden to her. I don't know the background, just comes across that way as it's typed out here.
/r/RPChristians28/08/19 11:52 AM
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She would "play box" in the elevator. nothing really hard hitting, just jabs. I'd ask her to stop but she would keep going after I try to restrain her. She would then complain in hurting her wrists. Well don't keep hitting me and I'll have no reason to grab your wrists. She would also pinch my fat on the side of my body whenever I didn't want to do what she wanted me to do. Kneeing the balls or attempting to was a issue. She would also sleep deprive me by waking me up and want to talk. I could n…
/r/RPChristians27/08/19 09:58 AM
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I can tell you first hand that it was the opposite for me. My wife was physically abusive to me. She challenged my frame constantly. I was unaware of what was really going going on, being that I was in blue pill state of mind. I'm a big dude and her antics didn't do really any damage outside of just bruises. I'd suggest you look at first hand experiences in your life. You'll mostly find that women are "verbally abusive" (belittling etc.) more than likely. I'd say it's probable that physical abus…
/r/RPChristians26/08/19 11:42 AM
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Do you think women now a days can do this? Seems most if not all would pitch a fit if they couldn't be in contact with family. Social media etc.
/r/RPChristians23/08/19 12:29 PM
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Background: 6'7 195LBS. 32x36 Divorced for 3 years now, married for 7. Age 33 here soon Physical: feeling really good about my progress getting in shape. Skinny fat is coming off. Looking to get a rack for my place. I'm not weak, but not strong like I want to be. I lift 60lbs over my head full extension regularly if that gives any indication. I run 2miles + every other day. Sprints are fast. I race cars when I see them going about 15-20mph in the shopping centers. Mentally: I'm on top of the wor…
/r/RPChristians22/08/19 02:14 AM
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Feeling it or not, the person wanted to change. This isn't faking. They are making a genuine change in their actions. The issue would be a fat chubby guy saying yeah I'm a marathon runner. New balance signed me a week ago. Then he starts running and slowly his story becomes plausible after a couple of months.
/r/RPChristians22/08/19 01:46 AM
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Is this faking or making attempts to change?
/r/RPChristians21/08/19 02:02 PM
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I'd argue he fakes being a superhero because he wants to be in that superheroes frame. Fighting the bad guys and joining the superheros cause/frame. This really isn't a trickery example though. The ones where people fake in adult life come off differently. Take the person who fakes being a Christian for acceptance of a lady or whatever have you. He doesn't care what the people outside of the church thinks. He just wants to be in the ladies life. He knows being a Christian is a step towards her a…
/r/RPChristians21/08/19 07:24 AM
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I don't believe anyone should fake anything. Either you are or you aren't. The moment you fake you lose frame. You're giving into what you think they will allow in their frame.
/r/RPChristians21/08/19 04:00 AM
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Contextual alpha. There can only be one alpha.
/r/RPChristians21/08/19 03:54 AM
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A. You guys are still talking about something. I bet she has told you about some drama in her life. B. Woo her? In what sense. This prospect is as cold as all can be. You have hung out a bunch of times and yet no moves have been made. I'm not saying you should with your convictions. I'm just trying to get you to draw the line in the sand. No pun intended. What is making you different than being her girlfriend right now.
/r/RPChristians15/08/19 03:03 AM
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My advice it to focus on your goals in life. Watch Red Pill 101, Before The Train Wreck and Rule Zero. You need to consume more red pill content. This girl you are working out with, I bet anything you are her emotional tampon. I doubt you guys are lifting the same dang weight. Guys and girls aren't friends. Since you tell me she isn't sexually active with you. You just are her girlfriend. Ask yourself would I be doing all this stuff on my own accord without her. If yes, is it still as time effic…
/r/RPChristians15/08/19 02:45 AM
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Drop the LDR. You are acting in her frame. The chick you are working out with I don't see the issues. Ideally you and her go move out to no man's land and start a family or whatever you desire. I believe in the Lord's eyes you are already "married". Mark 10:8 The two shall become one. Seems you guys are both into each other. I'm not a advocate of marriage now a days. If you want to render yourself defenseless go and let the state in. All that said does she submit to your frame 100%? If not. NEXT…
/r/RPChristians15/08/19 02:04 AM
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Do you have to be baptized in order to get into heaven? Thief on the cross. Case closed.
/r/RPChristians15/08/19 01:45 AM
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A LDR is not a relationship bud! I'm confused you workout regularly with her but she is 1,000 miles away? Who the @$&# cares what her/your parents think. This tells me you're still too young. You chart your own course no one else. Yes you still have oneitis. A LDR is oneitis to the max. You said she already jumps your bones when she is around you. How much more of a nymph do you want?
/r/RPChristians15/08/19 01:41 AM
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She will bring up the commitment if she wants it badly enough. No better sign of genuine desire than for her to want to come into your frame.
/r/RPChristians13/08/19 02:14 PM
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Women know what they want most of the time. When two choices of equal benefit are on the table they have a harder time to choose. She knows pretty darn fast if you're not in the realm of 😉. I'm almost certain this is a social convention to buy more time.
/r/RPChristians12/08/19 06:55 PM
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I hold this view when I look at relationships of any sort. More for the frame & desire components. Where I think things go south is the binds that the marriage contract and government limit you in enforcement of boundaries. The other area is God can truly tell how someone takes something to heart. We humans can get lip service and thus we have to watch behavior and subcommunication. For most things the comparison you mentioned works, others not so much.
/r/RPChristians12/08/19 12:14 AM
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Most people don't know that P&G owns Gillette. They boycott Gillette and don't think about all the P&G brands. I have boycotted P&G brands and let me tell you, you have to consciously look for the P&G label, otherwise you'll most likely being buying a P&G brand. The amount of P&G house products is crazy.
/r/RPChristians08/08/19 06:48 PM
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Accomplishing your goals will make you happy. You can't accomplish the autonomy of someone else (own them). So yes she shouldn't be the person/thing that brings you enjoyment/happiness.
/r/RPChristians30/09/18 04:21 AM
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Man I have been through this and worse. Try getting oral sex from a co-worker and having to see them at work. Not a highlight of my life for sure. I still see her on and off and she still tries to talk to me even though it's clear I want nothing to do with her. Yes I'm butt hurt, after all she rejected me. I still respond to her in the work setting, but no talk otherwise. Man her actions are speaking. Go your own way and start afresh. Hope things get better for you. Busy work is the best remedy.
/r/RPChristians30/09/18 03:31 AM
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Red Man Group is the one I primarily listen to.
/r/RPChristians25/09/18 05:36 PM
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Naomi never lured Ruth into following her. It had to be Ruth's choice from the start. It stinks but this is best man. Focus on your grind and enjoy the ride.
/r/RPChristians22/09/18 04:38 AM
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That's the problem though, you'll be forcing it. She has to want it organically, you know it's genuine then. 9/10 unless she is chameleon'n you for a alternative purpose. Chances are slim though.
/r/RPChristians22/09/18 04:33 AM
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That's a frame issue. If she was nuts for you, you are the only thing that matters. She should be saying where you go I go. Ruth and Naomi response. Ruth 1:16–17 (NASB95): But Ruth said, “Do not urge me to leave you or turn back from following you; for where you go, I will go, and where you lodge, I will lodge. Your people shall be my people, and your God, my God. 17 “Where you die, I will die, and there I will be buried. Thus may the Lord do to me, and worse, if anything but death parts you and…
/r/RPChristians22/09/18 04:27 AM
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When opportunity comes knocking you don't make it wait. A cost/risk analysis is always being done. If it's not a H E double L yeah, you bounce.
/r/RPChristians22/09/18 04:15 AM
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I never liked you = I'm the bad guy Let's just be friends = you'll be around and think you have a shot (ball and chain) I have issues I need to deal with = you won't be around and I'm not the bad guy because "I to liked you."
/r/RPChristians22/09/18 04:02 AM
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Although she likes me, she says that she isn't ready for another relationship because she wanted to work on herself. Not buying it for one moment. You don't turn down a million dollars if your life is trash or you are made in the shade.
/r/RPChristians22/09/18 03:26 AM
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This is a common misconception. I can think of countless jobs that AI has taken from people. While yes new jobs are created; they aren't at the rate of old ones are being lost. Anyone who has been replaced by a automation line knows this well. I work in a microbiology lab at a major hospital. The amount of techs hired in the future has been cut substantially in order to pay for the new line. These are jobs that will never be replaced. While yes you need a repairman to fix it. That repairman will…
/r/RPChristians20/08/18 05:05 AM
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It's not so much A.I.'s autonomy I worry about first. It's the amount of jobs AI is taking from humans,
/r/RPChristians19/08/18 11:57 PM
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she's going off to school and she's really not doing well mentally. Medium is the message. Walk away
/r/RPChristians19/08/18 10:33 PM
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I think the acknowledgement is what differentiates the two. Sure you can do those things without God being the purpose. The end product will differ I feel. I'd argue the person doing it because of their love for God will go farther. This goes back to the conversation we had about when the wife does something we don't like or vice versa. Will we still continue to love in the flesh? I'd argue the flesh will give up if it's not backed by a deeper purpose (God).
/r/RPChristians15/08/18 06:48 AM
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You know I side with the single pie pan view. I'd argue that anything from the multi view could be traced back to the single view being it's motivation. Ex. Exodus 14:15 (NASB95): Then the Lord said to Moses, “Why are you crying out to Me? Tell the sons of Israel to go forward. Why is Moses leading Israel in the first place? God is why. The love and care for wife and child come from God. Yeah I can emotional love in my flesh. Can I do that 24/7 without God though? There will be times when my gea…
/r/RPChristians15/08/18 06:36 AM
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It's one thing to do something that might be easy to her (cook, clean etc.) It's another to give up one's total freewill. She can clean and then go do a girls night out afterwards. She can justify that she is a good wife by doing outward chores. It's another thing to say she has to be submissive no matter the cost to her freewill.
/r/RPChristians14/08/18 05:41 PM
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I agree with Deep. Tell the woman to submit in that sub and watch the uproar. Most women can't swallow that pill. Frame is key. If you are going to say you're a red pill woman/Christian woman, acknowledging submission to God then your man is paramount in that relationship.
/r/RPChristians14/08/18 07:34 AM
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Saying that something is to stringent and uptight is basically saying they were controlling. Ex. Would be "I don't date Baptist, but I sure love me some Methodist." Why because the one is more liberal than the other. It allows for her to exercise her frame instead of being in God's, yet alone the man's. Frame is huge, who will I subject myself to.
/r/RPChristians12/08/18 04:09 PM
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Denomination B was less stringent, less uptight, etc. Frame. This is the biggest issue.
/r/RPChristians12/08/18 06:31 AM
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It seems the chatroom doesn't load for me on the app. I'm using the latest update. Is it slow loading?
/r/RPChristians10/08/18 02:44 PM
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The church is highly invested in marriages. Let's ignore the big elephant in the room. 1 Corinthians 7:2 (NASB95): But because of immoralities, each man is to have his own wife, and each woman is to have her own husband. 1 Corinthians 7:5 (NASB95): Stop depriving one another, except by agreement for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer, and come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. I wonder how many young men would want to hear this…
/r/RPChristians10/08/18 02:37 PM
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I have been to a bunch of churches. I live in a very liberal city, maybe it's time for a move. The verse you quote isn't comparable to those who choose to do their own thing and be closed off. That verse implies that both parties have open communication and are open to change, not a closed off (Don't interrupt my life) stance.
/r/RPChristians05/08/18 02:01 PM
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While I agree with be the change. I don't however agree with staying somewhere that doesn't want to make a change, as if staying somewhere x amount of time is equal to changing people's opinions. I'm curious to know of a verse telling someone to stick out a unprofitable situation outside of marriage. Matthew 10:13–14 (NASB95): “If the house is worthy, give it your blessing of peace. But if it is not worthy, take back your blessing of peace. 14 “Whoever does not receive you, nor heed your words, …
/r/RPChristians04/08/18 04:14 PM
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1 Corinthians 7:1–2 (NASB95): Now concerning the things about which you wrote, it is good for a man not to touch a woman. 2 But because of immoralities, each man is to have his own wife, and each woman is to have her own husband. 1 Corinthians 7:32–35 (NASB95): But I want you to be free from concern. One who is unmarried is concerned about the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord; 33 but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how he may please his wife, 34 and h…
/r/RPChristians04/08/18 07:24 AM
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So we agree that God has a mission assigned to all believers and not individually. My mind jumped to individually because people want to make themselves out to be a special snowflake. Wanted to clear it up. 👍🏼
/r/RPChristians03/08/18 05:27 PM
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I agree with everything said but this He has assigned to you, I'm under the impression that the Bible says to go forth and preach the gospel. Countless verses back this up. I'd also add these verses in there also Hosea 6:6 (NASB95): For I delight in loyalty rather than sacrifice, And in the knowledge of God rather than burnt offerings. Matthew 22:37–39 (NASB95): And He said to him, “ ‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ 38 “This …
/r/RPChristians03/08/18 04:30 PM
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John 2:23–25 (NASB95): Now when He was in Jerusalem at the Passover, during the feast, many believed in His name, observing His signs which He was doing. 24 But Jesus, on His part, was not entrusting Himself to them, for He knew all men, 25 and because He did not need anyone to testify concerning man, for He Himself knew what was in man. Swooping in to rescue the day isn't always what is best for someone. Sometimes they have to struggle and grow. That growth is what is best a lot of the time. I …
/r/RPChristians03/08/18 03:40 AM
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.5 for ethics. Ouch. Not doubting the validity, just that it should be a wake up call I feel. To me ethics are a huge part.
/r/RPChristians01/08/18 06:27 AM
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Is pursuing Christ with this girl a good idea or should I leave and find him on my own? Will she be more of a distraction than a help in my pursuit with God? 1 Corinthians 7:32–35 (NASB95): 32 But I want you to be free from concern. One who is unmarried is concerned about the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord; 33 but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how he may please his wife, 34 and his interests are divided. The woman who is unmarried, and the virgin,…
/r/RPChristians29/07/18 11:51 PM
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Seems you are too masculine. Whose frame are you operating in? Nothing is more attractive than a submissive woman IMO, appeals to a man's idealism. Your lack of conviction is a red flag (sexual acts outside marriage). You do the motions (sunday school) but God and me stop at church. I get it, I have been there before. Sit down and really focus on what does my relationship with God mean. I'd suggest you read 1 Corinthians 7 multiple times. If you want you can contact me and I can give you more in…
/r/RPChristians29/07/18 08:39 PM
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I wasn't white knighting for you. Proving my point originally.
/r/RPChristians27/07/18 06:01 PM
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I completely agree with you. Have the kids get a firm foundation from you. You have a invested interest in their well being. To many people rely on study books, conferences etc. Bible, Bible, is what I would teach. Not what someone else thinks. Get a nice hermeneutics book and go from there. Grasping God's Word: A Hands-On Approach to Reading, Interpreting, and Applying the Bible https://www.amazon.com/dp/0310492572/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_kX1wBb74976B4
/r/RPChristians27/07/18 05:56 PM
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You put a woman in the right situation and watch hypergamy work. Biology>Conviction, when the two have equal draw, biology wins. Now I'll grant you conviction can out weigh biology in the end. What I see though is women not allowing this to be the case. I'd say most women facilitate hypergamy. Look at social media/makeup/gf dates/gf night outs/clothing. In some form or another hypergamy is being exercised. When you try and take that away she won't stand for that. You'll have the best intentions,…
/r/RPChristians27/07/18 01:00 PM
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Wife and child can't compare to each other in this realm. Go ahead and spank your wife like a child, or better yet make her stand in the corner. Let's make her eat soap while we are at it. She won't stand for it because she has the freedom to leave at any moment. Next the law will bring you to court so fast for physical abuse and a myriad of other charges.
/r/RPChristians27/07/18 12:37 PM
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What do you think her spending habits are going to? Hair and nails. Fancy car or nice revealing clothing. Social media or girl lunch dates. Cut up the credit cards. Cancel the internet. This is mate guarding. You restricting options she would otherwise have to use.
/r/RPChristians25/07/18 05:42 AM
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No. Setting down firm boundaries, removing temptations, and not letting her wreck the family is not powerlessness. Mate guarding is powerlessness. If you had the power you would just make her do it or prevent it from happening. The outcome you wanted would just be done. You don't try to demonstrate to a spoiled child the correct way of action. It doesn't work. Allowing her to run roughshod over the family while you try to demonstrate not explicate is a great way to go bankrupt and implicitly ena…
/r/RPChristians25/07/18 05:23 AM
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I get where both sides are coming from. Ultimately she has freewill and will do what she wants. You taking away things like Deep said is a sign of powerlessness. Let's be real though, she won't stand for that because your restricting freewill. She has to want it. This all comes down to demonstrate, do not explicate. This isn't effective in terms of communication. You're stuck hoping she finally gets it. You also have to deal with the yes, yes, I agree, and then the covert contract comes in at af…
/r/RPChristians24/07/18 06:19 PM
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Demonstrate, do not explicate You're doing overt communication(male talk). This will just become a obligation on her part(lacking genuine desire). You are basically 'mansplaning' in her mind. She didn't ask you and thus it flies in the face of the independent meme. She becomes bitter because you think you know so much more than her. Blah blah blah yada yada. She has to come to it organically. The best way is by her reading her bible(3rd party (God) she has submitted to). You show this by example…
/r/RPChristians24/07/18 03:58 PM
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Neither one of them is redpill. They both have the attitude that "I have no control over how my wife treats me." They don't realize a game is going on. Do they want things to change? If so, have them buy a copy of the rational male. Tell them to read it over and later discuss it. I'd leave it at that. Let them show you their desire for change. This is more of a awaking of a blue pill question. They have to want it. You can't make them.
/r/RPChristians22/07/18 10:08 PM
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Third, there's a trichotomy at play here: the bad choice, the "not the bad choice" choice, and the choice God wanted you to make. When you say you wish you hadn't said anything at all, you're saying, "I made the bad choice, but I should have made the 'not the bad choice' choice." But as a technical matter, neither of those options are the choice God would have wanted you to make. So, then: What did God want you to do in this situation? I have no idea. I don't think you do either. Can you expand …
/r/RPChristians19/07/18 07:54 AM
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As you gain Independence and a trust in the Lord, you'll be brazin in situations like that. You're young and have a lot of life lessons to still learn. Whenever a guy makes a comment like that, you'll take the chance of losing your job. You'll evaluate what is more important. You start to live life a little more on the edge. I've noticed the Red Pill has helped in this area. In my life, I literally have only me to worry about. I take chances and want to see where things go. Complacency is a kill…
/r/RPChristians19/07/18 05:44 AM
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You did your job and you were cordial. That guys attitude at the end shows he probably wouldn't have been receptive. A open mind would see your tats and ask you how you would deal with it. Inviting/spurring you into dialogue, giving you the ok. Just curious if you have kids and wife?
/r/RPChristians19/07/18 05:19 AM
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Ah, the anger phase of the Red Pill. Comes in waves because it was never fully dealt with. With full knowledge of a situation comes understanding. You're still working through it. Trying to fit everything together to make sense of it all. The key to this is to know God's plan. Once you figure out how He could use hypergamy to His benefit things will become clear. Feel free to Skype me if you want to talk further about this. Too much to type out.
/r/RPChristians17/07/18 02:59 PM
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Is it possible, sure. Is it rare, you betcha ya. Why the sudden change? Are both of you on the same page? Who brought up the idea? If she didn't follow God's frame what makes you think she will with yours. Things to think about.
/r/RPChristians16/07/18 03:35 AM
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Wording wasn't the best on my part. Chances are though if she goes to her parents it won't be for long. She will want to get out of that situation as quick as possible. More than likely she will want to know what she can do to fix it, because that's usually the easiest route. The problem is the cycle, in most cases repeats itself. Fortunately for him he is red pill aware so he can re establish frame.
/r/RPChristians15/07/18 03:25 PM
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She says I constantly challenge her. That I push her and push her. That I don't respect or empathize with her. The medium is in the message. That's why you need to call me man. I have been in your shoes. I can help. Just it's too much to type out on here.
/r/RPChristians14/07/18 03:52 PM
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Bud this is a frame issue. If she wants to walk, then let her. It's her choice not yours. You can't make someone stay with you. Either she wants to submit to your authority or not. It's a test. This your shot to reclaim the man card. She might go to her parents but eventually she will ask what can I do to fix it. That is her entering your frame, a reset so to say. I'll message you my number and we can talk if you like.
/r/RPChristians14/07/18 06:52 AM
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Doesn't seem that way. Working a lot of overtime with the new lab we have opening. Work and sleep for the most part. Found out a different site is doing a 2 for 1 trade for me. Sadly I'd have to leave the company in order to get a wage increase. Things are so backwards. At least I have job security x100.
/r/RPChristians14/07/18 06:37 AM
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Man I literally could write pages on how I became a Christian and how I came to red pill. I think the depth of it has prevented me from doing it. I don't know if I could do it justice putting it into text without emotions. If someone wants to type it out for me and I tell them over the phone I'd PayPal them money for their time. Message me if you are interested.
/r/RPChristians11/07/18 05:21 AM
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You put a Amish girl in our culture and she will turn out the same. Bud I think you want a woman over God and it shouldn't be that way. John 8:31 (NASB95): So Jesus was saying to those Jews who had believed Him, “If you continue in My word, then you are truly disciples of Mine; How much are you in the word man? Are you on fire for Him or for poon. I really feel this is the question men need to ask themselves.
/r/RPChristians11/07/18 05:08 AM
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I think having a rule stating that in order to post. The post must have biblical teaching backing it(scripture), along with red pill principals. Both must be present. The reasoning is that it weeds out non christians and gets to the heart of what I feel this community is about. I view this dilemma much like the church today. To many people not taking things seriously. Show up to church for regular spoon feeding and leave til next time. That's basically what we have here. To many people want a qu…
/r/RPChristians10/07/18 03:52 PM
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Where are her feminine traits? I see looks hot and wants to make money. To me that's a recipe for disaster. The fact that she has so many followers on Instagram is a red flag. Is she pushing a product? if not then run away. What's your criteria for screening women? Why do you even want a woman in today's society? I think you're just chasing tail bud. Priorities. Priorities.
/r/RPChristians10/07/18 02:42 PM
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mate guarding principals You can accept or not. The choice is yours. You have that freewill. Now if the person is a believer there isn't really any 'guarding' that takes place. They are sealed with the Spirit. jealousy He made you. Bought you with a price. Come and take stuff from my house and see me guard it. The believer is purchased. If He wasn't jealous then I would doubt the sincerity. John 10:12–15 (NASB95): “He who is a hired hand, and not a shepherd, who is not the owner of the sheep, se…
/r/RPChristians09/07/18 06:07 AM
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Sure, base desires toward temptation and sin are there, but they get easier and easier to deny as you become more Christ-like. I agree Galatians 5:16 (NASB95): But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not carry out the desire of the flesh. The point is that if you have a wife who is actively resisting temptation and continually getting better at it then there's nothing to worry about. The moment you quit worrying is when your guard is down. Society and family will clash against what God says.…
/r/RPChristians09/07/18 04:48 AM
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It's just not the one word though. I think a man has to be cautious on everything he says. Proverbs 10:19 (NASB95): When there are many words, transgression is unavoidable, But he who restrains his lips is wise. I think this is hard for a man trying to think on the fly and not err. Over time this will get easy with experience. On the flipside it could get repetitive(boring) without a expansive vocab. She isn't wanting to practice this with you though. Talk about a mood killer. Time delivery is c…
/r/RPChristians09/07/18 04:22 AM
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I see where you are coming from with that. Question is does she see it that way. Society has heavy slut shaming and it's usually implied to mean she gets around.
/r/RPChristians09/07/18 03:27 AM
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I think something got lost in the interpretation. My issue was with the vocab used and how the definition of a slut is one who has/had many partners. Neither of which is good to bring up.
/r/RPChristians09/07/18 02:47 AM
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You thinking about scripture throughout your day is huge. Showcasing that it's important to you and that you're applying it as a filter.
/r/RPChristians09/07/18 01:00 AM
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What's your passion right now? Bible(God) | School(Money) | Women(Game) Don't give me a B.S. answer.
/r/RPChristians09/07/18 12:38 AM
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Can she resist temptation.. sure she can. That doesn't change her base nature though. I can resist porn, but that doesn't mean I don't want sex or younger and tighter. I can live a life for God without sex, but that doesn't mean I'm turned off to it. So yeah she can be happy with the competition a dominant male gives her, but she is still a woman who would love to live the romance novel life.
/r/RPChristians08/07/18 09:42 PM
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I'm sure the equity you built in your relationship is enough to keep it going. After all you built more than what was there at the start. Let off the gas man you deserve a break. She is immersed in gratitude for the sacrifices you have made on her behalf.
/r/RPChristians08/07/18 09:13 PM
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"You're MY slut" I can't back that. Saying that she has or had multiple sex partners and is of low cleanliness. That's the definition. I'm not doubting the effectiveness of saying such words (Dark Triade). You saying "You're MY slut" is triggering the most guys don't like sluts thought. Him viewing me this way means I'm at risk for being disposed of. "The only way to garner true appreciation, true valuation, truly inspired displays of affection, from women is to covertly imply the risk of losing…
/r/RPChristians08/07/18 08:27 PM
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Think about this from another perspective. What is the "pornography" that women enjoy the most? That's pretty easy to answer: romance novels. What is the general topic of romance novels? The handsome, powerful, rich, leader of men or companies conquers the young unassuming girl. In other words, usually one of the ultimate fantasies of women is to be possessed fully by a 'worthy' man. She wants the worthy man and for him to take charge. The problem is that's not the ultimate goal. It ends with hi…
/r/RPChristians08/07/18 08:18 PM
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👍🏻 anytime brother.
/r/RPChristians08/07/18 06:24 AM
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Let me preface this first. It's a woman's nature to tame you. Think tests. They inform her of your desire level. The desire of a man is for the woman, but the desire of the woman is for the desire of the man. Proverbs 31:3 (NASB95): Do not give your strength to women, Or your ways to that which destroys kings. You putting her down by saying derogatory words will let her know she needs to try harder with you. You're 'showing' to her you're not that thirsty. After all the blue pill mindset only pl…
/r/RPChristians08/07/18 05:50 AM
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Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was. Bud don't copy and paste people's game strategies. You have to change how you think. You're so thirsty for a wom…
/r/RPChristians07/07/18 08:28 PM
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"Hey Amy, It's that handsome Italian delivery driver guy here. Bud if she doesn't know your name then you weren't that important. You can't say you're handsome. Others need to say that about you while she is in the vicinity. Leave the the delivery driver out of it. You're telling her provisional side that this isn't a good option. Just being real. I can't go to the party because something important came up. Her imagination is running a million miles per hour on this one. While you being a man do…
/r/RPChristians07/07/18 05:57 PM
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I mean, isn't that what you're all here for? Because you'd like more/better intimacy with your wives? God>Red Pill. A sexual identity is not bad when viewed from what God says about it. It however is bad when she wants to test the waters (experiment) on top of what society says. The red pill goes far beyond sexual dynamics. Frame/Manipulation tactics/Worldview studies etc. These showcase game outside of game. This would be the game a MGTOW monk runs. We are here talking because one can't not pla…
/r/RPChristians05/07/18 01:55 PM
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But it goes beyond looks, I think, and has to do with a woman's self-image, and whether or not she perceives herself as a sexy thang! I was drumming up ways to approach this. What you speak of Willow-girl is true for the Secular woman. It however should not be true ideally for the christian woman. Unfortunately this ends up being the case sadly a lot of times, being that both put a huge emphasis on their identity being found in the sexual arena. Time stamp 1:10:10 - 1:16:02 https://youtu.be/wDcs…
/r/RPChristians05/07/18 07:21 AM
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I have found that Red Pill Theory doesn’t seem to translate well when trying to understand my wife and how she is supposed to be AWALT. Bud, quit hitting the gym and lose your job. You'll quickly see how AWALT. I can speak from past experience. If you aren't striving, she is denying. I was married to my wife for 7 years who I met at a missionary bible college. Very staunch conservative school. I had doubts about my faith and at times struggled to find work without a college education. Bottom lin…
/r/RPChristians05/07/18 12:27 AM
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This is too much mystic nonsense man. This is the type of stuff that steers people away from God. Read your bible and then you'll know God's plan which then becomes mine. Obviously I can't do things only God can do, but I strive to live in his moral will and proclaim the good news to those who will lend a ear. While reading His word. John 8:31–32 (NASB95): So Jesus was saying to those Jews who had believed Him, “If you continue in My word, then you are truly disciples of Mine; 32 and you will kn…
/r/RPChristians04/07/18 07:55 AM
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is there a way to tranquilize romantic and sexual desire? Yeah it's called taking the Red Pill and seeing women for what they really are. Knowing that she can't offer you the love you're truly looking for. That love ultimately comes from God. I know it sounds cheesy, but it's true. See 27:00-33:00 (F.Y.I language is strong at certain points) https://youtu.be/8i3Z9_jFesY Answer is Monogamy by the way when you watch the video. Why does God love to imprison me. This follows up with that video. It's…
/r/RPChristians04/07/18 06:34 AM
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The latter which explains the age demographic.
/r/RPChristians03/07/18 05:01 PM
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I fully agree with your beginning paragraph. The book of James highlights this with faith and works. I have not given up or walked away from church. To me a setting of 2 or more engaged in fellowship can constitute church. The body coming together no matter how big or small. Unfortunately most church's have a agenda and produce churchians as a by product. I'd much rather engage with likeminded men and sharpen each other. If my path crosses a brother who could use help I'll be more than glad to l…
/r/RPChristians03/07/18 03:47 PM
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Dating advice is 1st Corinthians chapter 7 brother. If you would like to discuss it in more detail feel free to DM me. Usually someone who is Red Pill under goes a divorce or something traumatic. These things usually happen later in life 30 or something. That being said what specifically are looking for outside the self improvement topics. I second the read your bible like a mad man. Too many people aren't doing this and thus easily succumb to the feminine imperative along with other detrimental…
/r/RPChristians03/07/18 03:02 PM
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It wasn't just the 'Sunday Christians'. The people in my small groups were this way also. I agree I'd like to have the community. Unfortunately the community is no longer there. It's pseudo community. https://youtu.be/O02lCv8lKhA
/r/RPChristians01/07/18 06:47 AM
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I'm not so sure I agree with this. The church today is not the church of the past. The past year I moved back to a college town and wanted to get back into the church scene heavily. I was attending service and and group activities along with small groups. I wanted the family church embrace ideally. I quickly found that people just wanted to punch their Church time card and go back to their gf/wife while engaging in secular culture. I examined what I wanted and saw that I was replacing God with c…
/r/RPChristians01/07/18 03:29 AM
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Phil I'm going to be blunt bro. Nothing in all of this led me to believe you have a strong relationship with God. You talked about fitness, girls and job. I'm not reading much of a difference between you and average Joe, I'd strongly encourage you to focus on God and red pill teaching. How those two tie in and go from there. You seem a little back and forth without direction. Just my perception. I don't know a whole lot about you but that's just my take. After all that's why you posted.
/r/RPChristians30/06/18 03:38 AM
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You want to play nice with the Pharisees? Sometimes you have to draw that line in the sand. Heaven or Hell.
/r/RPChristians29/06/18 06:22 PM
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Sex in the marriage bed can be a good thing. The problem arises when it becomes mans choice of drug. The addiction is the hardest part. Ask yourself why you want a wife and kids. Chances are you are in a desired state. That's not a good place to be. I'd encourage you to read 1 Corinthians 7 and Galatians 5:16-17.
/r/RPChristians26/06/18 06:48 AM
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One just has to look at 7th Heaven and see what the Christian home is sadly. I think the outliers are falling prey to the feminist imperative.
/r/RPChristians19/06/18 05:02 AM
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Our love as humans is very conditional. That being said, it's only good when the conditions are good. She keeps supplying (idealism) and showing improvements. He keeps supplying the money/looks/mannerisms that her SMV can net. Once the man slacks, or she works harder, things go array. Likewise once she starts testing him that idealism breaks down. His ideal would never test him. The saying it's just your turn is so true. The conditions are right everyone is happy and then bam. Who knows how long…
/r/RPChristians16/06/18 07:19 PM
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I like how NASB words it blameless Ezekiel 28:15 (NASB95): “You were blameless in your ways From the day you were created Until unrighteousness was found in you. To me perfection is just that. No room for improvement. It's the ideal. Yes I think God created Eve with a hypergamous nature from day one. This explains how the serpent was able to persuade Eve to eat it. You'll be like God. When you have God in your life I guess you want to be Him. Being the queen isn't good enough apparently. This wa…
/r/RPChristians16/06/18 07:03 PM
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You have a case of idealism. Not oneitis. You're looking for her to fill that God void. You want someone you can trust/talk about issues with them. Basically a ride or die chick. This doesn't exist. This want can only be met by God. Why because a lot of these things project weakness. That's because it is. It's a want. When you are going to her to fill a want, expect exploitation. This happens with so many men and sex. Bud I know you want it badly but it's not there. Once she picks up on this you…
/r/RPChristians16/06/18 05:26 PM
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This girl makes you feel some type of why. God lays out marriage for sex. If it's not sex then what is it. You're looking for her to fill a want of some sort. I'm telling you now that will come across as needy when you ask/beg her to fill that need. A relationship doesn't take place where both sides don't gain something. If it's not sex what is it.
/r/RPChristians16/06/18 04:11 PM
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I'm confused, is normal the Oneitis feeling? You want the poon and that's the bottom line. She isn't this idealistic woman you have built in your head. One of the side effects of taking the Red Pill is you don't find women attractive on that idealistic side of things. You'll find them attractive, but you'll know they can't be what you want them to be. I recommend reading more red pill info one oneitis and idealism. You'll narrow it down to just looks then. You'll go ok I know from the past this …
/r/RPChristians16/06/18 03:51 PM
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This might work for a woman that's not smoking hot. The chicks I know that are hot don't have morals. They do snow, have or are down for have a train ran on them. Constantly hit up bars and use men as resources. If her SMV allows for it she will take full agency to use it. Dudes that don't do these things are going to have a hard time competing. She wants those feels. It's going to be BB vs. AF I guarantee you. The AF makes her feel some type of while the BB is predictable. Now if you are a 8 an…
/r/RPChristians14/06/18 12:25 PM
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She's a compliment to you. Think of it as potential a cherry on top of a sundae. She should be looking for ways to help. If she is free loading then that needs to be called out. I find it hard she can't find a way to help your mission in some aspect.
/r/RPChristians13/06/18 04:52 AM
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I think you're spot on in your thought process. She can sympathize, but she can't empathize. She won't truly see it from your point of view as a man. If you want to connect, let her tell you about issues and you help her in that regard. She wants you to be a rock that is stable. Not someone who has a tough day at work and now she is fearful that you are going to lose your job. Remember she feels. How's that talk going to make her feel. Nothing positive is happening in that conversation, so no go…
/r/RPChristians13/06/18 03:37 AM
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God didn't create Adams or Eve "perfect". If they were perfect they could not sin. I hold to the neutral line of thought. That Adams and Eve had no sin at that moment of creation. They however didn't have a incline to be "godly" nor of one to be in "Satan's family". This state made them more susceptible to Satans advances.
/r/RPChristians12/06/18 04:00 PM
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The methods in which one empolyes certain things can be sinful. Ex. A man's sex drive. When he acts in a certain way then it becomes sin. I'll agree she should be content when finally married. That doesn't change the fact that hypergamy is still there. This raises a question of contentment. When should I just be content. Is that when I'm still single? Should I not try to find a spouse? I think of the parable of the talents in this case. Matt 25:14-30. I think of relationships also when consideri…
/r/RPChristians12/06/18 03:50 PM
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I'm not denying the role she has. I'll give a example maybe this will help more. She work a job who the employer is meh. She'd rather work for the employer who is awesome. Doesn't negate her role in whichever company she works for. Just that one is preferred over the other. She'd rather work for God and not another man is all I'm saying. Hypergamy
/r/RPChristians11/06/18 09:54 PM
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I'm not saying she isn't attracted to those characteristics in a man. I'm stating they are maxed in God. Hypergamy keeps her looking for God.
/r/RPChristians11/06/18 06:37 PM
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Mankind's purpose is to live for God. We all see how well that is going. Purpose and desire are two different things.
/r/RPChristians11/06/18 06:15 PM
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Nothing in Genesis 2 states a need for a man in her life. I referenced 1 Corinthians 11:9 to state she is for man, not man for her sake. She has no need outside of physical protection down the line as society progresses.
/r/RPChristians11/06/18 12:56 PM
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Can you provide scripture for this before the fall? 1 Corinthians 11:9 (NASB95): for indeed man was not created for the woman’s sake, but woman for the man’s sake.
/r/RPChristians11/06/18 12:44 PM
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It's settling when it's not 100%. He can't fulfil AFBB like God could. Not saying a sexual component would happen, but that same dopamine hit could.
/r/RPChristians11/06/18 12:21 PM
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Will the husband provide tangible goods and physical body? of course. She is just settling though. Likewise the guy is just settling for the highest "quality" woman his idealistic thoughts can craft. Neither will ultimately be happy once the true colors show.
/r/RPChristians11/06/18 12:05 PM
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To me lust has a stronger connotation. I think God wants women to see that ultimately she is complete with Him. Just like how God fits the Idealistic side a guy has. A guy is perfectly fine just chilling with buds. Now imagine you have a friend that never uses you and is someone you can unequivocally trust/depend on. Nothing beats that in my mind.
/r/RPChristians11/06/18 11:12 AM
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I wouldn't say lust, but desire. She wants to be provided for and secure among other things. Hypergamy essentially stops at the top. Can't go any higher than God. When you "have" God I guess you want to be God. (Satan/Eve).
/r/RPChristians11/06/18 10:33 AM
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