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RedPillington/r/askTRP17/08/14 02:41 PM
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1

no sense not trying that along with another more traditional ad.
/r/askTRP20/09/14 02:11 PM
2

don't talk about your intentions. keep isolating and escalating and letting her stop you. if it stops being fun, go do something else.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 12:56 AM
1

everybody likes apologies so long as they are earnest and are followed by a corresponding change in behavior. why go through the trouble of being with that bitch? she will fuck someone else if she hasn't already.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 12:34 AM
1

Red pill is synonymous with real. Blue, with fake. as far as sexual strategy. a disproven scientific theory isn't a blue pill theory. But the sexually unsuccessful will be looked down upon by the majority as per human nature. Going to bat for them is pointless. i thought we approved of people who approached their lives pragmatically? my point is a lot of blue pill folks have chosen to live their lives as best they can given their acceptance of blue pill sexual truths. in fact, i know some pretty…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 04:32 PM
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why do i have to comb the thread to come to the same conclusion as you? It is very sad to see, but ultimately we are only accountable to ourselves. in fact, the full text of one comment you reference (comments/2g7o43/the_women_of_isis/ckghaba) is pretty fucking RP: Their on social media, they love the attention their getting, the love being treated with respect not as kids but as leaders. Their "husbands" are cooler than any boy they had at home. your first quoted comment is at 9 right now. the …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 03:14 AM
1

i was 80lbs overweight when i was 15, and hot as fuck when i was 18. you are in a great place. just do it. i read it on a shoe once.
/r/askTRP14/09/14 02:52 AM
1

she might actually have poor self-control and not actually want to fuck you because she knows she'll feel bad afterwards.
/r/askTRP14/09/14 02:50 AM
9

"doing well" depends on your metric. many people are not trying to do well by red pill standards because they believe that the culture of female primacy is correct. these people are not measuring themselves by the yardstick you are positing, and yet we would still call them blue pill. what you are describing is one byproduct of buying into blue pill consensus reality. also, not to be an asshole or go against the grain here, but there are plenty of blue pillers who are worth a dozen red pill moth…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 02:49 AM
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going with the Matrix analogy, blue pill is the standard state of affairs. existing with the wool still over your eyes, believing what you're told by mainstream society. as the ladies might say, it's tacit submission to, and approval of, entrenched cultural hegemonic cis social constructs, shitlord.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 09:57 PM
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other posts: link one - link two i don't know that i will ever get married, because it's simply a legal liability for me. if settling down means total monogamy, i may not do that either. however, settling down in monogamy or near-monogamous conditions: moderate to low partner count likes children is as gratified by pleasing me sexually as i am gratified by pleasing her takes criticism well knows how to take criticism is generally submissive, though I would also expect her to have strong boundari…
/r/askTRP13/09/14 09:47 PM
2

what denomination are you? in what denomination was your wife raised? i ask because the strongest way to effect change in someone is to work with underlying beliefs they have, and knowing the particulars of your wife's beliefs might help some of us understand better. are you active in the church community? what is the community like? i find a church community can range from very doughy maternalistic bake sale shit all the way to men congregating to build houses for people who need them. these ar…
/r/askTRP13/09/14 07:47 PM
3

i disagree with the blanket advice against counseling, but if the problem is that your wife doesn't pull her weight, i can't see it doing any good. you can't talk a lazy person into working, you have to game them into doing it. and admittedly, a lot of therapists are terrible or very blue pill and believe men are at fault.
/r/askTRP13/09/14 07:02 PM
1

if she's a cunt over text, don't text. i disagree with the advice to get pissed. (EDIT: specifically, you should remain calm and amused) you're acting beta as fuck. your text is unimportant. did you get a promotion? a raise? maybe that's more salient, but still, why tell her via text or at all. and if you do tell her, you say, over dinner "got a raise today." and leave it at that. if there's more information "i will be spending late nights the next couple weeks," then say that. it seems like you…
/r/askTRP13/09/14 06:10 PM
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clearly. just ignore.
/r/askTRP13/09/14 06:09 PM
3

find better women. or demand blow jobs. "but i'm a MAN"
/r/askTRP13/09/14 06:06 PM
1

you find a decent girl by recruiting the subpar ones mercilessly and without regret. also by demanding decent treatment.
/r/askTRP13/09/14 03:25 AM
1

explore the situation so that you can build a workable map of reality for yourself
/r/askTRP13/09/14 03:24 AM
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agree that it's weird but I think I can relate. in my case, it's that I'm doing a ton of work and the stupid bitch is doing nothing... but what is the RP truth on the matter? she wants to do what you want her to. so grab her face and fuck it hard until she can't take it anymore. then bring her to orgasm. no need to rinse. repeat. she will not give you what you do not take.
/r/askTRP13/09/14 03:19 AM
2

dip your testicles in warm salty water 3 times a day, then go to a bar and ask an old sad looking man hear his greatest regret is. or make a ledger of what your girlfriend has done for you and vice versa, and let the rage consume your spleen until you have to do something.
/r/askTRP13/09/14 03:15 AM
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"oh I agree. not enough chemistry. I had a good evening though, thanks." and seriously, a bitch getting her MBA and you're supposed to buy her drinks? just fucking shoot me already. EDIT: i would also say you played it wrong, but i hear that the more towards manhattan you go, the more women are like this. in any case, she is competing with literally a million sluts who are younger than her. she has no power that you don't give her. if she gets power from some other dude, she is now the proud own…
/r/askTRP13/09/14 03:12 AM
1

I usually give people shit for the wall of text, but you done good son. (I'm not actually your dad)
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 12:33 AM
5

their eyes were watching God is an incredible book written by a woman. it's about a black woman living post slavery and is actually very compassionate towards men.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 02:09 PM
2

say you're working at an ice cream shop and a pretty girl comes into the shop and you treat her exactly the same as if it were a dude.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 04:54 AM
2

you're asking how to deal with the smashing success of a neg. allow the satisfaction well up in your belly and radiate out throughout the rest of your being, and smile like a fat powerful king baby at a woman who will humiliate herself for you.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 04:46 AM
1

only in jest. or at least if you ask them what exactly the fuck they're talking about they know the jig is up.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 04:44 AM
1

so if somebody poked you in the ass, you would cover it with your hands and tense hour ass. don't thrust with those muscles. you want to use the muscles on the front side of your body to thrust, just like you would use the muscles on the front of your body if you were hitting a wall with a sledgehammer. while you're sledgehammering away, you use the antagonist muscles to put out, so you are basically rolling your back into an arched position. thus puts the muscular pumping in your abdominal cavi…
/r/askTRP11/09/14 03:21 AM
1

brush it off however is the most naturally playful for you. I've told girls NO YOU'RE SO AGGRESSIVE. I've just snorted "hah" under my breath. if you're being rude in any way, I find the best thing to do is amplify to the point of absurdity and continue on my course.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 01:19 AM
1

if she doesn't like it, it means she did it with someone else. and I agree with the other commenter. I have reintroduced several women to a pleasurable experience with anal. edit: though sure, of she's super enthusiastic about other stuff. but I have met very few women who put in a comparable amount of effort.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 11:16 PM
1

yeah, i think that's good enough. though you could always get some poppers and give it another shot. they are barely dangerous or bad for you (unless you're on vasodilators like viagra) and they relax smooth muscle. and if you're going to take advice on buttsex from anyone, it should be the gays.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 12:45 PM
1

But there's a problem with that proposition, and that problem is that your woman's mother, grandmother, sisters, friends, hell, everyone down to her hairdresser will shame the shit out of you to her. if a woman isn't willing to stand up to her family and friends to be with you, she doesn't want it enough.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 04:26 AM
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that's the hardest fucking part to really talk about though. what do you say? "yo just like figure shit out i guess"
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 04:24 AM
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that's why if a woman wants to date me, she has to put in a serious effort. i know i am loyal and trustworthy and going to put in a real effort. i need someone who really wants the opportunity to be with me.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 04:20 AM
1

it's striking the right balance. you might push or pull a couple extra times after they switch for whatever reason. you don't want it to be predictable. it's just a kid's game, really.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 04:18 AM
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"yeah i just got my hair did" "u liek?????????" "it's all part of my plan" most people say 2/3 ratio rule, but i just say each text has to be short. you can send a bunch in a row if it's funny. it works for me, i think it makes me look like it's all off the top of my head whether i plan it or not. i am witty and very very strong verbally so i don't know how this works for others.
/r/askTRP10/09/14 04:09 AM
2

glad you found a foothold in this shit. now go outside, it's important
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 03:49 AM
5

this is why she should be taking it up the ass. if things are off limits to you, she doesn't love you enough. edit: that being said, you should be fucking her like mad too.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 03:35 AM
2

I would take the advice of the risk averse people, bro. there is no good advice for high risk investment because it's either something you recognize or something you don't. you see something with promise, and finance it. otherwise, if you're playing the market, it's a machine run by people who are smarter than you who have more experience than you and have more relevant friends than you. quit being a fucking idiot.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 03:01 AM
5

not a feminist or political activist wants to do stuff in bed to please me happy to alter her appearance to increase my attraction to her doesn't argue with me if I'm agitated recognizes behavior of female privilege but isn't shitty and superior about women likes children probably more but BRB, train
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 01:13 PM
1

Rape isn't a sexual strategy then what do you mean by sexual strategy is amoral? how is it not a sexual strategy if it's so successful among animals?
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 12:42 PM
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these are sort of male shit tests. the only thing you can do is not let it bother you. agree and amplify ("yeah dude I was showing my grandma your pictures the other day she says you're really hot.") and later tell them to stop being dicks. there's an eliot Hulse video on dealing with amogs that someone might be able to share a link to. you're young? you have nothing to be ashamed of.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 12:29 AM
0

these are sort of male shit tests. the only thing you can do is not let it bother you. agree and amplify ("yeah dude I was showing my grandma your pictures the other day she says you're really hot.") and later tell them to stop being dicks. there's an eliot Hulse video on dealing with amogs that someone might be able to share a link to. you're young? you have nothing to be ashamed of.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 12:27 AM
2

often you have established patterns of behavior, and one or both end up using the other as a crutch. there's a sense of obligation. i don't know. lots of small insidious stuff. it's not the case 100% of the time, and you have to evaluate that for yourself. however, folk wisdom is that it's a bad idea because it's a common situation with a common outcome.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 06:53 PM
1

yeah. i just mean that whatever stress you're feeling is normal. you just have to do your best to get through it. balancing your life is hard. i'm 30 and i'm bad at it. i will go somewhat on the manic side and eventually crash. it's more sustainable when you're younger, but it's not a good thing to get into the habit of. you have a mind that would work 24/7 if physically possible, but your body gets tired. you gotta take care of the machinery, which includes securing nurturing and relaxation. th…
/r/askTRP07/09/14 06:49 PM
2

considering that you go to an all boys school, i think it would be beneficial for your future to start trying to socialize with girls now. families suck. pretend they're bitches and laugh at their silly opinions.
/r/askTRP07/09/14 04:17 PM
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true facts. however, you should be less sincere. you just should do it for your agenda, not hers.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 04:10 PM
2

some girls are good conversationalists, but yeah. you just have to have solid self-control.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 03:36 PM
2

i think it's good for getting into abundance mentality, and it helps expose you to the sheer blank and boring predictability of women. the high volume is good for learning the signs when you should next a girl, and for getting a lot of experience with lukewarm cockteases. played right, i've also had some great times. i had a 20 year old preppy pre-law student come to my house so i could eat her pussy. she was saving the V for marriage, but she wanted me to fuck her ass. i acquiesced. good times.…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 03:35 PM
1

just be chill and keep in mind that it's your friend's birthday. you have an obligation to not be an asshole to him, and no control over what she does. this is basically divorce with training wheels.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 03:26 PM
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i have seen the sources for most of this stuff. it would be a much stronger site with less information, maybe some tabs, and citations.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 03:21 PM
1

the YOURE FUCKED table ruins it for me.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 03:21 PM
2

if she's several exes back, probably not a big deal. i do think it's hard to see this shit clearly from the inside though.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 03:08 PM
1

well that's still only 100 numbers, dawg. /r/TheRedPill: back to the grind
/r/askTRP07/09/14 03:05 PM
1

can you easily replace the job with another such job? are you a manager?
/r/askTRP07/09/14 03:04 PM
8

rape is sexual strategy. sexual strategy is only amoral in the sense that the rules are not bound by morals. someone abusing the people around them to benefit their sexual strategy is still an asshole.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 03:01 PM
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women objectify me all the time. they just don't know what objectification is because they learned about it from feminists.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 02:57 PM
2

Everyone seemed to say over and over how she had "social issues". "yeah, me too" you probably said it too forcefully. if you're calm and smiling, you can usually say that shit. or a more circumspect "not if you value your feet." but you could've said "you're at that dog's housewarming party. if you have a problem with him, you are welcome to leave at any time."
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 02:35 PM
1

you're in a shitty stressful point in life. feeling the way you do is totally normal. the only thing you could be doing better really is not thinking about her as much. my brother was in school and working in a kitchen and his room smelled like kitchen and he was tired and dirty and depressed all the time, and he was complaining that he thought something was wrong with him. i told him that depressed is how you're supposed to feel when you're overworking yourself and you smell like shit all the t…
/r/askTRP07/09/14 02:10 PM
1

she didn't want to be with him. shit happens. that guy needs to figure out life for himself. too bad, so sad.
/r/askTRP07/09/14 02:02 PM
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all the advice here is good. i would just say that if you ask her to confirm plans and she doesn't get back to you, make other plans. this is what a high value person does.
/r/askTRP07/09/14 02:00 PM
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because some people are able to joke successfully.
/r/askTRP07/09/14 01:59 PM
1

indeed, but it's side-stepping a well-established social convention for brushing things under the rug. what should he say instead of "haha, sorry for being weird last night. i was fucking hammered, huh? geez."
/r/askTRP07/09/14 01:53 PM
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just apologize for being so drunk and annoying, and resume your plan.
/r/askTRP07/09/14 01:14 AM
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why fill your brain up with garbage? ignore. How am I supposed to watch this circlejerk of a status close your eyes, my child. It'll only further the decline of society. you need to find people who will cooperate with you to uplift society, not fight the decline. Otherwise they just make me look bad by association. (This girl is a colleague). and everyone who doesn't believe this horseshit claptrap knows you can't talk about it, so they will judge you favorably by your silence.
/r/askTRP07/09/14 01:10 AM
1

i think you should record audio with your phone. it's not strong evidence unless she outright fabricates something. however, the more alpha and the more association with you confers social benefits, the less likely she is to accuse you of rape. the less she regrets it. so: be alpha don't allow her to establish frame audio or video record do a good job in the sack don't make her feel bad after send her a "hey i had a great time tonight (or last night)" text to her, because if she responds positiv…
/r/askTRP06/09/14 10:06 PM
2

if you're going to condescend, use proper grammar.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 05:35 PM
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verbally is the worst way to assert something. the best way would probably be to respond with incredulity and amusement or annoyance when she gets jealous.
/r/askTRP06/09/14 04:16 PM
2

Im physcotic because I believe everyone you're psychotic because you argue almost solely with straw men.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 04:03 PM
1

"very serious. she's only got 3 weeks left"
/r/askTRP06/09/14 04:01 PM
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this is a good law. it seems i am never going to date again.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 03:52 PM
2

you don't answer his questions, then you drop this shit-bomb: Because you weren't specific lets say its 1938 and the Jews were not yet being sent to extermination camps. And before Jews legally weren't allowed to own bisnesses, if a Nazi walked in obviously the jewish owner would have to serve the Nazi for number of reasons. you're clearly psychotic and not worth talking to because this is clearly not what he meant based on context.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 03:48 PM
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by brushing it off as a joke, they're treating it as a shit test, and passing it. you need to hold frame better. maybe allow them to brush it off at first, but reassert it.
/r/askTRP06/09/14 03:36 PM
1

next her. she is drawing you into her emotional drama. she is at best worthy of plate status. partnering with her will only lead to your ruin.
/r/askTRP06/09/14 02:12 PM
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i keep forgetting that talking to women is like trying to have a conversation in a dream. good reminder, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 01:17 PM
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breathe into your belly and don't hold your breath. thrust with your abs instead of your glutes, and withdraw with your lower back. kegels drive you towards orgasm; do reverse kegels. if she's on top (which i avoid because most girls have no concept of your pleasure, but this might help you), i draw my feet up towards my glutes and drop my knees out. this puts the hips in position where the compression that makes you come doesn't work as well, especially if you rotate your legs outward by pushin…
/r/askTRP06/09/14 12:08 PM
1

i buy crown condoms. they're thin and durable and 100 cost $14 shipped to your house. do you watch porn? you should stop completely since this is an issue.
/r/askTRP06/09/14 12:05 PM
5

move on. beating up on a dude in someone else's dorm is a really fucking dick move, and i wouldn't want to hang out with you either after that shit.
/r/askTRP06/09/14 12:24 AM
1

well it's not a cut and dried issue, so a definition is either going to overstate and be only situationally useful, or understate and be too vague to do much work with.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 11:29 PM
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following up with what AFP3 says, when you run into her, just treat her like you would if you saw her any other day. you told her to let her know when she's not on her period, and it's advisable to let that ride out a while before you try to isolate her again. let her initiate text conversations. if she doesn't follow up after a few weeks or a month, you could try again. only text if it's your only option, in my opinion. if you can isolate in person, that's a better place to invite her again. if…
/r/askTRP05/09/14 09:00 PM
1

i think a slut is a woman who abuses her sexual power.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 08:37 PM
1

she is ensnaring you. it is a sick impulse on her part, and engaging her only involves you as a function of her sickness. EDIT: although "who is this?" followed up with "look i wish you the best, i just think we're better off not communicating. please take care of yourself." followed by unwavering radio silence is solid, i think. though you already broke the seal on this shit. it's hard. sorry.
/r/trpGAME05/09/14 08:17 PM
1

holds up spork EDIT: but really any answer (besides mine, of course) in here is good. "thank you" is particularly RP in that it is uncalculated but gracious enough.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 08:14 PM
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you maintained frame. you probably should've invited her over to feed your goldfish or something instead of outright propositioning her. if a girl is making out with her, and she agrees to a private meeting, then she is at least expecting you to try some shit. no reason to make her have to put it in writing.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 08:13 PM
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how old are you? what would you rate yourself 1-10 in terms of attraction? are you a virgin? i would probably monk mode, but read something like Day Bang and use it to start conversations with men and women where you don't even get a phone number. like you decide the goal is to talk for 5 minutes, then take off. do that until it's easy and you are receiving superficial validation and nurturing from strangers without much effort. that will make you feel better, and is a big stepping stone to expa…
/r/askTRP05/09/14 07:57 PM
1

you're a guy on the internet. i know what behavior to expect from you based on your previous behavior. i am putting in an appropriate amount of effort for my life. explain how that's like a plate?
/r/askTRP05/09/14 07:08 PM
1

too many... without...
/r/askTRP04/09/14 08:06 PM
1

so Buddhism and animism aren't religions I guess. or wicca. or satanism, really. I'll let them know, thanks.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 04:02 PM
1

I don't think you're even aware of what the sentence I quoted means.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 04:00 PM
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there are too many religious people affecting the lives of people by social, physical, and legislative means without anyone fighting back. can you back this up in any way?
/r/askTRP03/09/14 10:12 PM
1

you don't know much about religion if that's your definition
/r/askTRP03/09/14 10:10 PM
1

you are on the hook for a fat girl. fuck hotter women, bro.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 10:01 PM
9

even pinterest has the gays
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 09:55 PM
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don't get bitch ass butterflies and instead follow through with it I'm working on this as well. my self esteem is improving due to spinning multiple 7-8 plates and hard nexting otherwise quality women who don't respect my boundaries.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 06:27 PM
1

just figured it out a couple months ago as in a therapist didn't? you very likely are diagnosing yourself wrong. stop giving a fuck about extraneous social goals for now beyond having pleasant shallow interactions with people, and get in shape.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 03:21 AM
1

i think at your stage of the game, anger is a potent tool. if you can't just say something to a person without them being an asshole to you to control you, what kind of person are they?
/r/askTRP02/09/14 01:20 PM
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again, not a good thing for when you're gaming a chick.
/r/trpGAME02/09/14 01:05 PM
1

if i wanted to stop communication, i would reply every 5 messages or so with "stop texting me, i want to move on with my life" for a little bit, then block her and stop responding completely. then just block her friend's number too.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 01:01 PM
1

Is lingerie for the women or for their men? i don't care about lingerie, but i think the answer depends. i would say mostly women. that being said, if she asks you about lingerie, tell her you're not into it and she should wax her pussy instead. or something like it. tell her what you like and give her clear instruction. any girl who won't wax her pussy for a dude she has recently started seeing (barring actual skin issues) is probably a jerk.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 12:53 PM
4

that's not actually true. you can learn a lot with acid. just don't invite a girl to game her and hook up if you're on acid because it's inappropriate.
/r/trpGAME02/09/14 12:49 PM
1

just make other plans if someone doesn't get back to you. don't hit her up until at least next week. consider that the frame for the relationship is being set now, and she's feeling you out.
/r/trpGAME02/09/14 12:44 PM
1

"slut shaming" is social regulation of certain behaviors that are bad for society to accept, just in the same way "fat shaming" is. it's ultimately a good, if brutal thing. if people hadn't made fun of me for being fat, i might still be fat. and i wouldn't mind at all if i could find a reasonable woman who wouldn't fuck another guy at the drop of a hat. fucking multiple women is a lot of work.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 12:42 PM
2

She was next to me and tells me to stop. I tell her to fuck off. "look, i'm studying. this is important. don't take this the wrong way, but you don't have to be here." "oh, i'm sorry am i distracting you from tinder?" "this is how i study. stop distracting me." pause, look up "wait, what?!" then R shows up and complains to other girl that I'm rude. "haha, yeah." if you absolutely must say more "i get that way when someone's distracting me while i study. sorry about that." all said in an upbeat a…
/r/askTRP31/08/14 07:20 PM
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I am ashamed to say I am too busy holding back the urge to punch them than creating a clever reply. you lost the shit test when you told her to fuck off from a place of anger.
/r/askTRP31/08/14 04:23 PM
2

if a girl resorted to finding a boyfriend on tinder she is either very good at the game or fucking crazy. i'm not disagreeing, but do you say the same thing about bars? also, do you mean if her intention for being on tinder is to find a boyfriend? but don't have expectations and never overestimate how much she values you. this sounds like good general advice.
/r/askTRP31/08/14 02:59 PM
1

"you need to stop acting like an asshole." or a new spin on "don't let your mouth write checks your ass can't cash." heh. To which she will likely respond, “But you’ve put up with [insert antisocial behavior] for eighteen years. "i'm telling you where i'm at" "a man can't step in the same river twice. it's not the same river, not the same man."
/r/askTRP31/08/14 02:51 PM
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Ok, tinder is for fucking, why are you building rapport with these girls. eh, i've done a range of things with girls on tinder. but i agree that his investment in this is too damn high.
/r/askTRP31/08/14 02:43 PM
6

fyi "Jesus doesn't like it when you cancel dates" is a sort of pissy jab at what is apparently an important part of her life. it's not funny, and it's you bitching. i would've gone with "VOLUNTEERING AT A CHURCH?! wow, you ARE the worst." and left it at that. also she's either blowing you off because ya dun goofed, or she's volunteering at church, in which case she'd be blowing off a commitment she made to her community. which would be a red flag.
/r/askTRP31/08/14 02:42 PM
1

Nothing wrong with sluts you're missing the point. i said to this chick that my school was "nothing but bros and sluts", to which she replied "there's nothing wrong with being a slut!" stupid bitch thought there was something wrong with bros though, obviously. which, let's face it, there's something deviating from unassailability with being a bro. "there's nothing wrong with" + human characteristic is at best a nonsensical statement, and at worst a false statement.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 02:32 PM
1

Nothing wrong with us DT types that's like saying there's nothing wrong with sluts. there's plenty wrong with anything you choose to do.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 09:16 PM
4

ahahaha, no that's crazy. no dread game. this situation is so cut and dried that if she doesn't just straight up do what you say, she should be dead to you.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 12:10 AM
6

why aren't you going to the party? Bc she will be drinking she will be spending the night like everyone else. She says she sleeps in the sisters room... the probability she will fuck someone is sky high. it's not okay. if she cares about you, why would she put you through a situation in which there is a high probability she fucks someone, and you will never know?
/r/askTRP30/08/14 12:00 AM
9

"she's an introvert" lolololololololol
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 05:13 PM
1

here is what you are saying seems like LTR material: doesn't fuck a guy she's sexually attracted to after 5 dates. keeps taking money from a guy she doesn't feel a connection to. bumps you to the next day so she can bone a guy who she perceives as more valuable than you. let's pretend she actually has a headache and isn't getting railed. even better for a headache than ibuprofen, tylenol, aspirin, or aleve is having a good time and getting railed. you need to plate her, move her to mid-week, and…
/r/askTRP29/08/14 04:54 PM
1

Me: What can I say, the creepy old dudes have a thing for you. this reeks of beta to me. it appears you are sexually disqualifying these guys because you felt threatened that they were paying attention to her. it's like a girl saying "yeah she probably has saggy tits" about some girl she's seen one picture of. it's not attractive. i would say something like "good girl getting your money's worth out of this ass," as i grab said ass and pull her hair.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 04:49 PM
1

i have her blocked in hangouts, and every couple weeks i tell her to show the texts to her therapist.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 04:33 PM
1

it depends on your work. i sometimes work installations in offices i will never return to. in that case, i can flirt with the girl very lightly. when i'm nearing completion of the job, i ask for her number because i won't see her anymore. you should work on having enough going on in other areas that this isn't an area of concern.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 04:32 PM
2

Girl points at me "CATFIGHT!!" throws water in her face
/r/askTRP29/08/14 04:30 PM
4

i would've asked for foot rubs, but otherwise solid. if a girl wants to date you, she will shut the fuck up and try to be convincing. if she accuses you of being into her for the pussy, she is projecting an alpha fux fantasy onto you, and the worst thing you can do is deny it.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 04:15 PM
5

you did okay other than getting too fucked up to be in control. she probably just wasn't into being fucked by a sloppy dude.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 04:13 PM
1

i agree that you should've texted back after the first text. "i'm not ignoring you, i'm drinking beer. how's packing?"
/r/askTRP29/08/14 04:11 PM
1

tell him after he leaves then, lol.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 03:25 AM
2

girls use the threat of their devastation to trap you in the relationship. she knows you're beta bux. she doesn't love you either. get the fuck out.
/r/askTRP25/08/14 01:22 PM
4

i would understand if the relationship is ongoing, but if your landlord-tenant relationship is dissolving, what do you have to lose? maybe i'm missing something obviously.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 01:06 PM
3

did you tell him the kid might not be his?
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 05:44 AM
33

maybe this is just the weekend talking, but i really think it's actually critically important to fuck any ltr in the ass at least once.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 05:43 AM
-1

"lucky I never let feelings get in the way of anything" really, you were aggressive and she was aggressive. take it in stride.
/r/askTRP24/08/14 09:53 PM
2

then it sounds like pushing outside of this group of people is good for you. aleister crowley's take on family and other familial groups is not very favorable, and it sounds like these people will only hold you back. you have good instincts in this regard. As in just sit there in a corner by myself? I guess. I have no problem going to a restaurant by myself and reading a book, but with out one, I'll probably just sit there feeling awkward. i would advise just going out and being comfortable. i t…
/r/trpGAME23/08/14 01:04 PM
1

to me the limo fedora looks like a group thing where everyone is dressed up similarly, mitigating the terrible effect of the fedora, but still having the positive effect of making him look like a douchebag.
/r/trpGAME23/08/14 01:00 PM
1

throw a terrible movie party with beers or something. organize group events that are fun but within what they will do. can you go to bars and not talk to anyone?
/r/trpGAME22/08/14 10:35 PM
1

3rd and 4th are best. i have had great success with concisely trying to communicate boisterousness, intelligence, and humor. i say stuff that is somewhat sexually aggressive but is clearly somewhat of a joke, and girls who find it humorous are probably up my alley and those who are offended are not.
/r/trpGAME22/08/14 10:33 PM
1

instead of wishing you luck, i'll advise you not do it. read the rational male.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 06:10 PM
1

she doesn't have any friends, much less people that are willing to hang out with her.. i'm going to take a wild fucking shot in the dark and assume people generally don't hang out with her for a very good reason. you and M are hanging out with her because beta. unless she's lying about M and he's hanging out with her because she lets him pound her in the ass.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 05:40 PM
5

more advice: ignore the need to express the butthurt, and your social value will climb.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 05:37 PM
1

girl in red is good. comfortable, dominant physical contact. drunk with buddy on dance floor might be good. you look maybe too drunk, but you appear to be having rowdy fun. fedora in a limo is rock solid
/r/trpGAME22/08/14 05:35 PM
2

I was drinking with a friend and two girls we'd just met, and one had to go handle the other, so she asked me to hold her cigarette. there I was in cutoffs and a band shirt, sweaty and drunk and so I said "man I look like an asshole this a great picture" and handed my phone to my friend. stuck the cigarette in my mouth, squinted, boom, I have a photo that makes me look like a bit of an asshole who doesn't take himself too seriously. as for the other, tease women and then hand your phone to someo…
/r/trpGAME22/08/14 05:12 PM
1

why are you in the relationship?
/r/askTRP22/08/14 05:05 PM
6

if laughing at something funny makes me an asshole in your world, your world must suck. anyway, you're welcome.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 05:05 PM
3

I'm just saying that regardless of his decision on the matter, don't do it second.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 05:04 PM
12

haha. go fuck yourself. you want advice? the pain you feel when someone laughs is self-inflicted. if you have a problem with the pain, either curl up in your hole and die or fix the fucking problem.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 04:17 PM
5

http://imgur.com/a/XPc5a#3 is good because she can ask about the watermark i would avoid the fedora because of the social connotation, but i could be wrong. no shirt would be a good way to polarize and get rid of women who aren't open to fucking and who don't like your type, but why are you holding food? otherwise, i think you look betabuxxy. all the pics are too static and forced. do you have a picture with a girl who is clearly into you? a girl on tinder wants a guy who will push her boundarie…
/r/trpGAME22/08/14 04:15 PM
1

is this tinder? or what? EDIT: o i c the imgur title. holdon, brb.
/r/trpGAME22/08/14 04:10 PM
3

future you would like to advise you that you must do the FFM threesome first. for the love of god.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 04:09 PM
8

one does not laugh out of need. it's just a hilarious thing to say. anybody who says "i would never lie, i hate liars" is a big fucking liar. do you lie? of course you do. do women lie? of course they do. someone who says they don't is lying about the nature of lying, and you need to be on the lookout.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 04:08 PM
7

he means you can sign the contract and it's optional. either party can opt out of the contract, but once it's signed, the woman can still opt out of performing her duties.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 04:05 PM
2

it's shit testing, don't let it upset you. that being said, i would just be way more handsy with her and play with her ass and tits whenever i'm near her and if she shit tests me on that tell her i'm being affectionate and keep doing it. if you aren't attracted enough to her to play with her ass and tits when you're sitting around, it seems like there might be a problem.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 03:59 PM
3

i don't see why you would string a girl along if she doesn't want a relationship. obviously, you could present the not wanting a relationship in a better light and you might get some women who are on the fence to keep fucking you. but here are some brutal truths: you don't fuck her well enough to trump her hypergamy you don't confer enough social status to trump her hypergamy you don't excite her enough to trump her hypergamy you don't do all of the above any better than a guy who lives closer t…
/r/askTRP22/08/14 03:52 PM
2

your problem is that you fucked her and then continued acting like a beta. she consented to your sexual frame, gave you value. instead of leading her, which would validate her decision, you are acting low value, which makes it seem like she sold herself short. you started playing a different game with her, and but you're still trying to play by the old rules. go hang out with other people and fuck other women.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 03:50 PM
1

How can I get rid of that part of me? ignore the part of you that is trying to get you to lay on your couch eating nutella with a spoon. it might be there your entire life, but practice not heeding its advice.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 03:46 PM
10

I still like giving people the benefit of the doubt. the benefit of the doubt is given from a neutral position. see a douchebag walk in the room. you don't think he deserves your time. you give him the benefit of the doubt. a girl walks in the room, you automatically think she is worth your time. you have already given her more than the benefit of the doubt. (keep in mind that she apparently would never lie to me, as she says that she hates liars and would never do that to me) hahahahaha
/r/askTRP22/08/14 03:45 PM
0

this is an unverifiable anecdote, so i wouldn't get too excited about it.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 03:33 PM
1

being playful, seeking validation, teasing you.
/r/askTRP19/08/14 01:50 PM
8

with the 48 laws of power, i keep having to ask people "so you're saying it's immoral for me to learn how power works?"
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 12:59 PM
3

the point here is you're supposed to be in control. you are clearly out of control. calm yourself and reassess, my nigger.
/r/TRPOffTopic19/08/14 05:36 AM
2

based solely on WALL OF TEXT, yes. this method of divination is over 90% accurate.
/r/askTRP19/08/14 02:16 AM
5

"what? should I be afraid they're going to brainwash me?" "I'm fully capable of evaluating the validity of information for myself" "it's called making a concerted effort at self improvement, sweetie. if you ever decide to try it, remind me to come distract you with tales of all the sand in my pussy." "know your enemy" "you're right, I should be reading more high minded stuff. what's your tumblr?" "what have you read in the past week?" "I'm just reading this to figure out how to get the blow job.…
/r/askTRP18/08/14 07:34 PM
4

he's saying don't fuck her.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 07:23 PM
1

TRP specifically advises against long distance because your situation is unsalvageable.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 07:23 PM
1

I don't think you understand the reality of most of these people's lives. they have no fucking clue how to deal with him, and it's kind of funny actually.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 01:40 PM
1

me no see content but day bang good book
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 01:34 PM
3

You're not exactly giving contrary advice here. also, there's signal and there's noise here. the noise is the whiners, of whom you are one. cut out the whining (dare I say concern trolling?) and you have a perfectly worthwhile comment.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 01:33 PM
3

theres actually an older guy (70s?) in /r/wicked_edge who lives down the street from his long term lady and has for many years. it seems like a pretty great arrangement.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 01:29 PM
1

which is generally being kind and funny and trying to have a great conversation and show what a nice guy I am you can be kind, just don't be overly concerned with whether or not you're well-received. be kind (like a king is kind) and let her do the other half of the fucking work. be funny, but don't make sure you only make references she will get. just have a great conversation because fuck it, that's a more fun time than having a shitty conversation. don't focus so much on tempering your impuls…
/r/askTRP18/08/14 02:59 AM
1

♂ this is solid advice i hadn't considered. thanks! hell, i would straight up use the peench and pahnch on dudes.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 02:39 AM
11

she wanted to fuck you and she interpreted you looking away when she made the joke and generally being distant as you thinking you were better than her and looking down on her. and to be honest, you were not into her, so she wasn't far off the mark. i would wager you're attractive? you stumbled into an alpha clearing. as a matter of fact, "look, you have no idea how little I care about this" is a brutal cuntpunt in this scenario. had you exhibited amused mastery, she probably would've calmed dow…
/r/askTRP17/08/14 11:07 PM
1

i understand this, but touching her is a problem too. why would it be worse if a woman is striking you with objects to spray her with something to incapacitate her until someone authorized to touch her arrives?
/r/askTRP17/08/14 10:56 PM
10

a) why take your ex's money? b) why air out your dirty laundry in public? they're both entertainment professionals, that would just make him look bad.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 10:36 PM
1

i agree with previous commenters, but you could invite them to an event that is happening in your area that you are excited about. let them know they can obvi crash so they're not driving tons that same day.
/r/askTRP17/08/14 10:21 PM
2

asking a cop how he would recommend i handle a situation with a violent hysterical woman or spraying a woman with pepper spray?
/r/askTRP17/08/14 09:55 PM
1

some of the things he said do not line up with what i have observed. it seems as though asd1100 and i figured out what we were each going on about though.
/r/askTRP17/08/14 08:55 PM
1

good and thorough response. that's pretty much where i'm at. i still wonder if spraying a woman with pepper spray is better than bruising her wrists. i'm thinking of asking a cop what they recommend.
/r/askTRP17/08/14 08:54 PM
6

i am currently having sex with a very sane dancer, and crazy girls are at best in second place.
/r/trpGAME17/08/14 08:37 PM
2

Well shit, so excuse me for not having all the answers. lol. excused.
/r/askTRP17/08/14 08:36 PM
9

ignore. also waste your time on better women. the fact that you will put up with her despite the red flags implies you won't be able to maintain the proper distance.
/r/trpGAME17/08/14 06:58 PM
1

"OK GLASS, WHAT THE FUCK"
/r/askTRP17/08/14 06:54 PM
2

he's also a minor, so i'm sure that helped a bit. but that's a good point. i know the pussy pass is strong. but i've gotten a fair amount of feedback on it from different perspectives anyway, which was the point of this thread. thanks for the discourse. EDIT: that video is positively insane. whaaat the fuuuuuck. this is pretty much what i'm worried about, lol.
/r/askTRP17/08/14 06:46 PM
1

i appreciate that you're actually giving advice here, but you keep saying things that aren't true. i have witness numerous counterexamples to your statements. it makes it hard to take you seriously. you really must have no fucking clue what i'm talking about. that is the only thing that seems to explain this conversation adequately.
/r/askTRP17/08/14 06:34 PM
6

Day Bang is indeed a good book. simple, practical knowledge. i would also recommend Tinder. done right, it will get you tons of abundance: photo that makes you look fun and shallow. profile that doesn't say much about you but seems like you're fun and shallow. bonus points for smart and dtf if you can pull it off covertly. if you have the right image, overt works too. set your match settings to 18-55+ (this is for abundance, and i think girls do the wrong age on facebook when they're applying fo…
/r/trpGAME17/08/14 06:08 PM
1

don't misrepresent yourself on tinder. you want to polarize people, so someone who wants to fuck you can find you. if you're skinny and make yourself look big in pictures, you will attract women who like people who are bigger than you are, and you're less likely to attract women who like skinny guys. it's like if a girl is chubby and she shows her whole body, only guys who are okay with it will waste her time. she mentioned I needed to be more aggressive/assertive and powerful in bed. getting bi…
/r/askTRP17/08/14 05:38 PM
1

you and i are talking about different scenarios.
/r/askTRP17/08/14 05:18 PM
1

First of all, be a man dude, did you ever get your ass kicked? can you not understand that you and i are talking about different things? the question is about self-defense when you need it. you can say "most of the time, you don't need it" and that's not very helpful, because my question is about when you need it. biting or scratching WTF!?!?! is this a english? if you've never experienced a situation in which a woman could hurt you or damage things that are irreplaceable or the like, congratula…
/r/askTRP17/08/14 05:17 PM
3

If you can't restrain a woman, I think you need to hit the gym. so i guess you've never seen a 250lb police officer restraining a 120lb girl before. they rarely do it without incurring some injuries. the difference between a police office and me is: they have lots of actual training and real world experience. i could get more martial arts training. they are allowed to handcuff women they are required by their job to do it, so a woman getting scraped up isn't a crime for them A woman isn't going …
/r/askTRP17/08/14 04:41 PM
2

if your schedule is tight, and she changes shit on you, you just tell her when you're available. if she changes, tell her "i can't, sorry. next time." and fucking hit on someone else. i agree that you got too involved in the why. never ask a girl why she did something. never ask yourself why she did it. observe her behavior and act accordingly.
/r/askTRP17/08/14 04:34 PM
1

If you are alone or she is a big girl, run forrest, RUN! say we're alone in my house and she is threatening me and my things, or if i have been entrusted with someone else's property which i cannot abandon. other people say video record, which i think is a good idea. but then what? you can't really get a good video recording and hold a woman down, and she could bite or scratch you in any case.
/r/askTRP17/08/14 04:26 PM
1

if she is inflicting actual damage (bruising, cutting, but no life-threatening attacks) on you or on your property, would you hit her with pepper spray and call the police? or how would you escalate?
/r/askTRP17/08/14 04:23 PM
2

i already addressed the point, brofessor.
/r/trpGAME17/08/14 04:20 PM
2

you're a troll. i ignored your hitler comment because they're literally worse than hitler.
/r/trpGAME17/08/14 03:28 PM
1

i think you're talking about /r/TheRedPill anyway, there are plenty of people around here who recommend not fucking other guys' girlfriends, but they do it instead of complaining that someone else isn't doing it. do you see how full of shit you are?
/r/trpGAME17/08/14 03:13 PM
1

one way to do it is calmly agree before you know how you're going to amplify. that's better than most responses most of the time anyway, and it will give you tons of practice coming up with something and remaining chill.
/r/askTRP17/08/14 03:07 PM
1

I try to chat with people and ask people to join us for the night. just chat them up. don't invite them to do stuff unless you are planning to do something awesome or unless you're actually friends with them. it's worth mastering easy shallow interactions with strangers with no commitment or follow-through. just have fun and let them go. why do you want people you don't know to join you anyway? on any reasonably active night, there will be fresh people you don't know to talk to whenever you deci…
/r/askTRP17/08/14 02:59 PM
1

maybe she just had to go drop a bomb
/r/askTRP17/08/14 02:53 PM
2

you can drive a ford focus and want to drive a lexus, but still be content with the car and enjoy it for what it is. some people are so caught up in things that they would feel ashamed until they get the lexus. which state of mind is more likely to bring you happiness and success? just because you have not attained your most complete and final form doesn't mean that there is something wrong with you. someone can always point out a flaw, and if you allow that to make you experience negative emoti…
/r/askTRP17/08/14 02:20 PM
8

/r/trpgame is a mechanics subreddit. people ask questions about mechanics, and we answer them. it's like popping up in /r/philosophy and complaining that a question being discussed isn't ethical. just go somewhere else.
/r/trpGAME17/08/14 02:09 PM
4

you are likely an orbiter, and she is just getting moist knowing you want to spend time with her. do cool things with other women and tell her about it.
/r/trpGAME17/08/14 02:07 PM
0

like Average_Black_Man, i tend to go with some other dismissive affirmative, because k is something bitches say to me when they're mad. ok, aight, sure, "k, lmk"
/r/askTRP17/08/14 02:06 PM
1

Better acknowledge reading it but don't give up that it is a valid point of view. in ultimatum situations, i prefer to tell them they're right. imho, it's basically agree and amplify, since agreement with an ultimatum is automatically amplification. they don't want their ultimatum validated, they want it invalidated. by putting "I" statements in it, i display comfort with the idea and ownership of the idea. there is literally nowhere for her to go. now, if it's a real ultimatum that has been rea…
/r/askTRP17/08/14 01:59 PM
1

i would say step 1 is get really solid frame and stop failing shit tests. once you've got that, you have a solid base to start pushing change.
/r/askTRP17/08/14 01:54 PM
1

i disagree. men give each other shit, but it's not the same sort of test. even if it's a test, it's more a playful rattling of frame, and you can respond with a simple "haha, fuck you"
/r/askTRP17/08/14 05:20 AM
4

i would just say "i can see how you feel that way. i think it's probably better we don't continue this." first, because if she feels like you're not into the relationship, it doesn't matter if you are, and second, because you will learn the immeasuable power of strolling off cheerily when a bitch pulls this bullshit.
/r/askTRP17/08/14 05:14 AM
1

what i meant by she is setting frame is that you are living in her context. like if you go to someone's house, they have rules like take your shoes off and put the toilet seat down, and you follow them because it's their house. the context with homes is so strong that someone can complain about you doing something that is perfectly acceptable anywhere else (leave the toilet seat up) and people will agree with them, because their frame is the accepted frame in their home. in relationships, it's m…
/r/askTRP17/08/14 05:09 AM
3

this isn't bad advice, but i would advise only bailing on her if you find something else to do. i mean, for me, i've got more potential plates than i do time, and if i meet a girl and there's decent chemistry, she's not gunning for commitment, and we have sex, she will want to see me again. if i blow a night on a girl who has me back burnered, i rule her out for the future. also, if i meet a girl at a bar and she's boring, i can text other plates and ask them what they're up to because i was han…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 11:33 AM
2

you are engaging in some deep deep fantasies, breh. she is setting frame, and you're buying it. you can waste your 20s doing this shit, or not. go spin plates. not only that, but get some plates that are terrifying because you think you're not good enough, instead of challenging because they're mediocre cunts. What do you do with the mediocre girls you like? i would only deal with a mediocre girl if she were very easy to deal with, made my life easier, were nurturing without negotiating.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 11:14 AM
1

My score ended up around -5. Not "overwhelming" I guess but idk how many people saw it. For all I know it was only seen by six people. if this is part of your experience, you're paying far too much attention to fake internet points. you are right that -5 isn't overwhelming. and if you were only seen by 6 people, that's still only 6 people's votes. that being said, you can get downvoted because people think it's irrelevant to the topic at hand, or if you're giving someone advice people think they…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 10:58 AM
1

what did it for me was realizing what a bunch of horrible people they were. then i would be standing talking to friends and girls would walk by and i'd say shit like "let's ask what purple pants here has to say about that. HEY PURPLE PANTS HOW DO YOU LIKE THIS GUYS FUCKING HAT" and it goes over well pretty much every time. still have some approach anxiety though. it's really state dependent. if you get happy and fit and just have a good time and realize that there is literally nothing they will …
/r/askTRP13/08/14 12:44 AM
1

in addition to whatever workout regimen you take up, stop drinking anything but water, clean up your diet, take the stairs.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 12:40 AM
9

I now know I can't count on women friends like I do male friends. yeah, but male friends are significantly worse cuddle buddies. fucking stubble ruins it every time.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 12:37 AM
2

be busy for 2+ weeks and when you forget about her long enough to remember her, hit her up.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 12:34 AM
2

who were you talking to? gf, or gf's mom? no advice on how to reinitiate contact, etc, but you should apologize for losing your cool and saying the things you did. "i don't know what happened. i've been having a rough couple of weeks, and i just let things get to me."
/r/askTRP13/08/14 12:32 AM
8

you really are too invested. this is like coming into /r/Fitness saying you're doing some silly bullshit, and despite people advising you to do something better with your time, you tell them that you enjoy what you're doing. no advice to help you turn her into a plate is going to be good advice, because you do not appear to be in a state in which you can execute it given your history with her.
/r/trpGAME13/08/14 12:29 AM
3

yes. you are simply putting a different type of pussy on a pedestal.
/r/TRPOffTopic13/08/14 12:26 AM
1

this was the hardest thing for me at college, because i was socially uninitiated, and invested if people seemed open. but if you invest your identity or overextend yourself for someone who hasn't proven themselves, then you're gonna have a bad time. maybe this is common knowledge for most people, i dunno. it just occurred to me that it's sort of a pessimistic and procedural gestalt prayer i think what people say about putting the schoolwork first is good advice. college students and the college …
/r/askTRP10/08/14 06:46 PM
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copypasta: This is a theory I developed because I noticed I was giving out respect to people who had not earned it, particularly women. This has always resulted in me putting myself out for people who don’t deserve it and who would not reciprocate, and feeling bad when people who don’t see me as a person treat me poorly. I was reading Cormac McCarthy’s Blood Meridian at the time, and it has strong Gnostic undertones. In the particular branch of Gnosticism represented in the book, people are divi…
/r/askTRP10/08/14 04:45 AM
1

i like janice's face in the split screen shots. "i'm talking to psychos"
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 01:35 PM
1

If anything, such protests let them know that their supporters are a handful of people in top level government, and not much more. and all the people who attended the speech. i think it might give the impression that everyone who opposes him is a subverbal violent loon.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 01:29 PM
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They don't have any concern trolls that raise their hand tentatively and say "hey.. aren't we getting a bit crazy and extreme with this? I mean, really, do we really need to blow vuvuzelas, fight people, spit on people, pull alarms, and so on?" try concern trolling. they will descend on you like locusts.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 01:26 PM
2

dude, people laugh at funny shit. if i do something stupid that's funny, i laugh at it too.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 04:36 AM
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i don't think he's a sophisticated thinker, but i actually liked his podcast with neil degrasse tyson because he was willing to ask a brilliant man any question regardless of how dumb it was.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 08:25 PM
2

Your ties should be rolled and placed in a sectioned tie drawer. goddammit, i knew there was a way.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 08:20 PM
1

They cannot SEE what it is they are doing wrong. Reflection is completely foreign to them. i think it's that they're taught to abuse any power they have on the premise that collectively, men have and abuse power, so any abuse of power helps reset the cosmic balance. it's a silly religion, feminism. EDIT: 48 laws of power gives pretty solid advice concerning a wide variety of power stuggles, including this sort of covert stuff.
/r/askTRP07/08/14 07:41 PM
1

yep. i would say though that you can play the game without being unduly sullied by it. if someone asks you the magic word and you in good humor guess rhinoceros, then the onus is on them to break frame from that of friendly witty banter to a weird test. that's not to say they can't do it, but you can play along perfectly and they can still find something to be upset about. i was just recently in a situation where a psychotic spoiled girl was able to make my life and the lives of several other pe…
/r/askTRP07/08/14 06:07 PM
14

If you're male with a positive net worth, marriage is not for you. i'm marriage material?! SCORE!!
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 04:33 PM
8

patriarchal institutions disgust me. they're literally rape!
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 04:26 PM
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But the dissonance in these feminist positions on the issues reveal that they are probably just determined to be angry and butthurt about something. no need to weasel word this point, my bruddah
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 04:25 PM
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you can each have domains in which you are the boss, but you need some sort of structure with final say. all successful institutions have a person with final say.
/r/askTRP07/08/14 03:38 PM
2

dude, every time you fuck a girl, it'll be like you're triple teaming her with ghost cocks.
/r/askTRP07/08/14 03:34 PM
10

probably your mood shifted downward when you said that. if you exhibited amused mastery and said something like "haha, i'm sorry, i don't know magic!" while grinning, she has no socially expedient way to pressure you into dancing through her hoops. that being said, you could just let the troll that operates the door squeeze what little joy she can from her relationships with men. imagine it was a little girl on the other side of the intercom, what would you do? you'd either play along ("well, mi…
/r/askTRP07/08/14 03:30 PM
1

literally the best comment i have ever read: I wouldn't say that for sure. About 2-3 years ago I was heavily drinking the MRA koolaid and would have come to this guy's defense - on my own, I came out of it and these days consider myself a feminist. A little bit of introspection and objective critical thinking can go a long way if he's capable of it. someone gift this man gold.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 12:17 AM
2

right you are. though you could work in things about child custody and the like. to me, the point is mainly if she is unwilling to grant you extra protections against a system that tends to favor women, why would you marry her? in this case, it sounds like she'll ask for the prenup herself at the behest of her family.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 11:45 PM
9

if someone is defensive, you're getting at them. otherwise, they'd be relaxed.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 11:25 PM
4

it's actually there below the big bold PLEASE NOTE, it's just weird formatting.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 10:27 PM
1

as long as the person isn't just unloading on me because they can, i've always found hearing about someone's trials to be intimate and nice.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 10:18 PM
2

people respond differently to hearing about abuse. i was abused, and so i have processed all my emotions about most run of the mill abuse. if someone says they were sexually abused, i have very little reaction. i would imagine a guy who doesn't know much about abuse would be more shocked AND try to play up what people tell him he's supposed to do. i tell people my mom died (i'm 30, so it's a little unexpected for people), and people's reactions to it are so over the top and hilarious. i don't ho…
/r/askTRP06/08/14 10:00 PM
1

oh yeah she works 80hours to survive as shes n illegal immigrant haha thought, comments, concerns fuck dude, you are treating this woman like an equal, and her life situation is fucked. you are way to goddamn hard on her, and you should probably not waste her time. EDIT: and to quote the dude, "you're not wrong walter, you're just an asshole". except you are wrong in this case.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 09:00 PM
2

that may be true, but unwillingness to sign a prenup is a red flag, imho.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 08:55 PM
3

the two main oft-quoted downsides: the power balance is shifted heavily in her favor. she is your sole supplier of intimacy, and society allows her to restrict it if she feels so inclined. the divorce will probably come down in her favor, so she has less incentive to not walk away, which feeds into point number 1. how long have you been together? how much pressure has she given you over advancing the relationship? will she sign a prenup? EDIT: and finally, marriage isn't revered the way it used …
/r/askTRP06/08/14 08:38 PM
1

haha, yeah, that is indeed a good comment. i guess it does make it harder for me to come, too. hmmm...
/r/askTRP06/08/14 08:19 PM
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be willing to cut ties with her when you get out. that shit is abusive and it took until my mom died for me to figure it out. if she's not insane, she would want the best for you. if she doesn't want you to make the choices that are best for you, she's either misguided or not worth your time.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 07:09 PM
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The thing about a single mother is that the child always comes first. or she uses the child to get what she wants, which i have seen tons of times first-hand.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 07:05 PM
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at least she was smart enough not to have a kid. Kinda impressive with how much time she spends around semen. actually, it's kind of hard to get pregnant. makes you wonder about all these accidents.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 07:01 PM
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If you need medication, keep in mind that SSRIs (Prozac, Zoloft ...) have really shitty side effects wrt sex. i'm on prozac, and the reduction in my sex drive has been good for stability. i will eventually go off it if i am able to manage what i'm actually medicating myself for. if he wants to finish college or do something else and get his life on track, not obsessing about pussy all the time isn't the worst thing in the world. this is not to take away from your point, just an alternate way of …
/r/askTRP06/08/14 05:40 PM
3

take your financial questions to /r/personalfinance, the place is full of brilliant people.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 05:38 PM
3

i'm sure there are more comprehensive books, but the westside toastmasters book of body language is a good primer and is freely available online. i might put a few hours into regexing this into a suitable epub, actually.
/r/TRPOffTopic06/08/14 05:00 PM
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you have to measure intelligence somehow. IQ is not intelligence, it's IQ. however, IQ measures important general things that correlate with intelligence. the problems people have with IQ is that it's mistaken for a measure of intelligence, and that when a group uniformly tests worse than another group, it's taken to mean that the test itself is racist.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 04:39 PM
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the average intelligence is the same. male intelligence is more widely distributed, more at the extreme high end and more at the extreme low end.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 04:36 PM
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the point is that joke would upset people because people aren't certain it's false.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 04:35 PM
2

amused mastery is your friend. smile and say "ah, you're right. what was I thinking?"
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 01:41 PM
2

agreed with the others. I've never slept with a virgin, but if they've seemed attached I've told them straight up that I am having a great time with them and us having sex does not mean we're dating. if she wants to move forward knowing there is no possibility, then go for it if you're willing to gamble on her being clingy and you having to stop talking to her in a slightly brutal way.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 01:22 PM
1

if you have mutual friends with her and none of them believe you, they're not your friends. girls who take other girls at face value are still stuck in the high school phase, and some of them never progress past that. those are also the ones likely to accuse you of rape because they feel icky, so who needs em? as for your word vs theirs, yours is more valuable to any reasonable person, but you must remain calm and exhibit amused mastery. remember, everyone she's talking to has ample evidence of …
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 01:15 PM
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her place is a suitable alternative to your place for sure. i just mean rather than figuring out what kind of sex you'll be having over text, do it in person. It sounds like she'll be down for blowies
/r/askTRP06/08/14 01:04 PM
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I'm admittedly taking too long between the anger and acceptance phase. eh. nah. my mom died and i couldn't be pissed anyone all year. then christmas happened, and it was christmas devoid of drama and trauma and terror and i just fucking snapped and was pissed off at women for a year and a half. you have been forbidden from feeling things and thinking things lest you be evil. all the while, women are allowed to openly talk about the same feelings and thoughts they have about you. how fucking sick…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 11:19 PM
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yeah the genitals and hormones and brain structure and bone structure and fat distribution are different, but literally nothing else, shitlord!
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 11:16 PM
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that's presuming feminists can code
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 11:13 PM
6

the blow jobs line works depending on the frame you've set, and her personality. it's not particularly bad, but i agree that getting her over to your house is better.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 11:11 PM
4

i just started reading day bang, and i would wager you will learn what you need from it. also, sidebar.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 11:09 PM
1

i agree with dump her. tell her you're open to discussing a relationship when she gets back and is more stable. likely, you won't because you will have had good experiences with other women.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 11:04 PM
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When the truth is out she obviously "got raped". i hate it when i'm talking to a dude on skype and he just rapes me with a cucumber.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 10:50 PM
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you're so pragmatic, i dig it.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 10:41 PM
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the point is often made that the world runs on blue pill behavior. it's not bad, it's just a profession that believes in a moral imperative to take care of people based on injustice. i think bill gates is an example of a humanitarian that few people here would criticize. but the lifelong profession of humanitarian is likely to attract people who are blue pill.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 10:40 PM
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The "he's just a kid" attitude is exactly how men have gone from out of the house and on their own at 18 to living in their parents basement at 30. actually, a lot of that has been student loans, a tanking economy where men have fewer jobs available to them than women do, and a higher ratio of cost of living to income these days. also, given that it was the standard to live with parents until marriage up until pretty fucking recently, i would be more inclined to interpret the byproduct of living…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 08:24 PM
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Your statement is unhelpful and in my mind very blue pill. explain the blue pill part, breh. So when exactly does a male have to own himself? 18? 19? 20? 21? 25? presuming he is genuine, he's starting at an appropriate time. much earlier than most people here have, if they have at all. In what sense is telling him he is a kid constructive or helpful? at 17, you have been at the mercy of psychos their entire lives. he is on the cusp of adulthood, and he is coming to these realizations at an appro…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 07:38 PM
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i think if you calmly leave, that's fine. you just went somewhere else because you weren't enjoying what was going on where you were. if you get huffy and leave, that's bad.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 04:36 PM
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it seems like all that shit will make you feel better about yourself, so yes. be aware that even if she wants the best for you, when you start to change, she might resist and try to rag on you and break your spirit. your friends might do it too. interpret that as a sign that it's working and don't be dissuaded.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 01:57 PM
1

I'm a 17 year old carless virgin intending to pursue a comp engineering degree. I am the beta, if there ever was one. you're a kid, actually. you're a beta if you're the same guy when you're 25 or 30. losing weight and getting in shape can be easy. slow and steady gains.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 01:45 PM
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i wonder if 94% of men pass the test because they look up the fucking requirements before they apply and make sure they can pass. lol. also, not a huge fan of tosh.0, but this is hilarious and relevant
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 04:04 AM
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also, in case you have not been apprised of this, women who make the same decisions as men make the same amount of money. if there were a group of people who did the same work for 77 cents on the dollar, what would a capitalist do? and why hasn't a single fucking capitalist hired all women and put their competitors out of business? PUZZLES, MAN, I FUCKING LOVE EM
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 11:55 PM
1

Yeah, lucky they sell shirts that say "bitch" on them now.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 11:36 PM
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a slut is a woman who abuses her sexual power in a specific way. women can sleep around and not be sluts, as I see it.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 11:31 PM
4

stop wasting your life in misery.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 10:22 PM
2

they can provide you with companionship. you might have a friend you only go bowling with, but now that you understand that he can't make you feel loved, you don't even want to bowl with him.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 10:12 PM
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your description of yourself matches clinical depression, and you should pursue a psychiatric evaluation. if you're having trouble, ask a friend or family member to force you to make the appointment and drive you there.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 09:11 PM
1

So imo it kind of goes back to how people are hypocritical and all that. the word "blue" can never mean the same thing to me as to you, because of differences in our perceptive apparatuses as well as neural connections built from years of associative experiences. color patterns and smells can trigger post-traumatic stress. drawings of cats can trigger cat allergies. there are no words for a great deal of feeling states. i have thoughts that are non-verbal; how would you propose i transmit them t…
/r/askTRP04/08/14 09:09 PM
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you definitely didn't amplify, you just agreed. better responses, some with elements of A&A: "but if i don't get my green card soon i have to go back to africa" "yes but then how will i send you tasteful nudes." "that's okay grandma only lets me use her iphone once a week anyway" "oh here let me jump through more hoops for you jump jump jump" "i don't know if you can tell i'm a murderer or if you're just lucky" "why buy the cow when the cow gives you its number, huh?" "how about your address i h…
/r/trpGAME04/08/14 01:08 PM
2

browsing tinder on road trips is hilarious and awesome, btw. you get weird little snapshots of weird little places.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 12:39 PM
1

get is better, but there have been circumstances where i didn't feel like pushing it and it was more expedient to give. women are pretty unlikely to reach out to a dude unless there's a strong reason, though i've had it work out sometimes. but really, i have had a girl say "let me get your number" and i handed her my phone and said "here" and she put her number in.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 12:34 PM
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except fox news would be on the guy's side, probably, to be quite honest.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 12:31 PM
1

depends on where you live and what you want from it.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 12:14 PM
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pushing is pushing towards comfort, pull is pulling back. or the conversation is like a cart you're both pushing. so you evaluate what you're saying and what they're saying based on whether it's constructive (push) or disruptive (pull). if you're talking to a girl, the occasional pull makes the conversation tingly for her and can be used to punish her for pulling too much. you can't pull all the time through, because she'll get alienated or bored. I've found it to be particularly helpful in text…
/r/trpGAME04/08/14 11:36 AM
1

it sounds like you're maybe doing a lot better than you think you are. and i second the advice to talk to folks in rpw, since I have read some of the more frequent commenters say they deviate somewhat from the "ideal" red pill relationship. also, if you really have a good relationship with this guy and you both care enough to try, you will get better. also, like any ideology, I am afraid to say that when it comes down to it, red pill is made up bullshit, and so it can't possible accurately descr…
/r/askTRP04/08/14 11:20 AM
1

Sure. the difference between your comment and the comment I replied to is you are not giving medical advice. people should approach medication with caution. some people need medication.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 11:14 AM
2

in any collaborative relationship (sexual, business, band, etc), you need to have some sort of hierarchy of control. if you want to be in charge, good. find a guy who will relinquish control. if not, then relinquish control. i dated a girl who had a lot of anxiety over stuff, but she wouldn't ever defer to me on things when things were out of control. then i was supposed to clean up the mess. it was hell. she is presently blocked on facebook and my phone because when she's freaking out and i tel…
/r/askTRP04/08/14 05:31 AM
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don't text her back. if she threatens to hurt you in writing, take it to the police and get a restraining order. otherwise, live your life. EDIT: and if she confronts you directly, you can tell her that if she doesn't walk away, you will give all your evidence to her husband so he can walk away with no alimony. keep all conversations short and pointed, but also don't talk to her. also don't talk. also, don't.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 05:03 AM
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We all know what a real friend is vs a fake friend you do not have strong linguistic understanding. my perception of "friend" is colored by the fact that i speak spanish. "amigo" comes from the latin root for "love," and spanish makes far more use of words such as conocido/acquantance, compañero/companion, compadre/compatriot, and so on. people say the word friend all the time and they don't mean what i mean. this is not hypocrisy. nobody knows what love is. nobody knows what happiness is. these…
/r/askTRP04/08/14 05:01 AM
4

i wouldn't rule it out, haha.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 11:15 PM
2

in addition to what everyone says. you could try meetup.com groups. also, amp up tinder game, and invite like 20 women to do anything you're interested in, and flake on all but your favorite.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 11:15 PM
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it is my understanding that aikido was initially for people who had already studied another hard martial art, which is why it is the way it is. i studied hapkido for a while, which is similar in theory, but includes more hard elements. i don't know how well known it is, but i started training and loved it, then the guy moved away.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 11:13 PM
1

Just because we use symbols that doesn't mean we can't express things with immense exactitude. we can express things with immense exactitude, but the words of primary humanistic concern barely have usable definitions. love, friendship, truth are all amorphous blobs that mean something different to every person. I also don't think we are all mad our ability to perceive reality is cripplingly bad, and our brains are oppressively superstitious. at best, most people are functional. some people are w…
/r/askTRP03/08/14 11:07 PM
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i also had some clinical depression, and the prozac helps, but there were other environmental factors that were the big problem for me. it's easy to say don't get meds when you haven't experienced clinical depression. i've had to pull over and stop my car because i couldn't bring myself to care about steering.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 10:59 PM
5

1) i'm calm 2) i answered your question 3) read the fucking sidebar
/r/askTRP03/08/14 10:58 PM
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A doctor would have simply prescribed some shitty medication. did you talk to a fucking doctor? i talked to a psychiatrist, and she told me i needed to quit drinking and smoking weed and get my life in order, lol. i ended up doing talk therapy for a while, and after a year and a half we figured out i have some pretty intense OCD traits, and i'm taking prozac now and don't injure myself while sleeping anymore.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 06:48 PM
2

I think it's good practice to her. how much is it worth to never have to talk to her again?
/r/askTRP03/08/14 05:59 PM
1

I agree with you. women have changed a lot in 10 years. pick your school wisely.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 05:57 PM
2

Fair enough. the advice should be to go to a responsible doctor. lots of doctors give out painkillers like candy, but some people need painkillers.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 05:49 PM
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don't give medical advice. blanket statements about antidepressants are irresponsible and stupid. I take prozac and have since stopped injuring myself while sleeping. you are uneducated at best, and willfully ignorant at worst.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 05:39 PM
2

Don't do anti depressants! don't give medical advice.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 05:36 PM
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read the fucking sidebar. /r/TheRedPill most women are turned off by emotional availability, though they seek to be validated. they probably mean you don't validate their feels. most people require a little validation, but if you validate them as much as they want, they get full, fat, happy, and bored with you.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 05:35 PM
1

so you only do things that you are naturally good at, and you avoid things that do not bring you base pleasure? sounds like you're a worm, bro.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 05:32 PM
2

i don't really care one way or the other. some arabic cultures, their names are ancestry lists so i would be RedPillington Steven David Mark Paul, for example. if a girl didn't want to take my name because she was a white girl who wanted to keep her name, i would consider it based on the whole picture. maybe it's personal, maybe it's professional. i wouldn't even make it to that conversation if the feminist indoctrination were that strong.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 05:14 PM
1

that's not the point we were talking about. we were talking about the concept of being true to yourself.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 05:02 PM
1

not at all.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 04:58 PM
1

Even the capacity to temper genetic tendencies is genetic. which means that if you define your self as a result of genetic determinism, then your ability to do everything is the result of the same thing that defines your self.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 04:56 PM
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they're miserable because being actually happy requires effort, and they haven't done any of that yet.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 04:04 PM
1

indeed. what i'm saying is that what you think are your personal values are not your personal values. you inherited almost the entire foundation when you were a child subject to the whims of others. most of your "decisions" were made as a result of trauma or to avoid trauma in a stressful situation. this is the framework of a child, which you must discard. the only way to develop actual personal values is to hit rock bottom (which you appear to be doing), and make a conscious choice as an adult …
/r/askTRP03/08/14 04:00 PM
1

genetics wants you to procreate, so tempering your genetic tendencies to become more successful is perfectly in line with the genetic imperative, and as such, is a perfect expression of your self.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 03:58 PM
2

you have a delusional belief about reality. reality is impossible to understand on an absolute level. direct communication is impossible. transmission of true intent is impossible. we learn a symbolic system of expression (language), and we identify with our use of those symbols in our thoughts. we also have animal impulses that can fill our mind, and sometimes we identify with these, and other times we feel controlled by them. for example, does hunger feel like you? in any case, any communicati…
/r/askTRP03/08/14 03:55 PM
1

perhaps "alters the brain" is not the best way to say it. when someone meditates for a long time, they develop neural pathways. if you play piano for a long time, you develop neural pathways. so it is with computers. the neural pathways developed with extensive computer time are not positive for social engagement, because they are rigid (social situations are fluid), completely logical (social interaction is intuitive), and passive (social situations are active). if you spend a lot of time with …
/r/askTRP03/08/14 03:28 PM
1

how do you know it's not? our childhood environments caused us to have certain behaviors as children. any behavior you have, you call it part of yourself. when you look at another person, you're able to recognize that their behaviors are not an intrinsic part of them.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 03:22 PM
1

a personal value is not something you wake up with, it's something you develop over time. if you just woke up one morning with it, it probably comes from programming you received or from your animal self.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 03:20 PM
1

fuck other women.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 12:31 AM
1

spending too much time on a computer alters the way your brain functions in a way that makes interacting with reality more difficult. stop using the computer unless you absolutely have to. exert self-control. look at all the people here who give a shit about you. wake the fuck up.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 12:22 AM
1

ought to be that is an illogical concept. you have an illogical view of reality.
/r/askTRP02/08/14 11:38 PM
4

but if you're saying honesty is stating your intentions up front, and you're unwilling to be dishonest, you would be non-functional in society.
/r/askTRP02/08/14 11:35 PM
2

Eh, I won an award for most talkative when I was kindergarten. I think it's who I am. i used to throw shit and scream at people all throughout my childhood into adulthood. i don't now, because i'm obviously a big fat liar.
/r/askTRP02/08/14 11:34 PM
6

It's just the way I'm wired. are you autistic, or just pigheadedly dedicated to arbitrary principles?
/r/askTRP02/08/14 11:33 PM
2

is it lying though? you seem to think any conscious choice is dishonest, and frankly, you should probably take that somewhere else. What is it then? too fucking complicated to discuss with someone who hasn't nailed down will as a component of self.
/r/askTRP02/08/14 11:30 PM
4

what if you are naturally someone who was born without pants? are pants lying?
/r/askTRP02/08/14 09:25 PM
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It is lying if you would have validated them save for something you read on the internet that said you shouldn't imo. if you have an impulse to do something, like eat a bunch of peanut butter, jerk off all over yourself, and cry yourself to sleep, but instead you go to the gym, is that lying? Unless you don't. so to answer your question "is it possible?" the answer is "yes" Assuming you have none so to answer your question "is it possible?" the answer is "yes" Unless you are lying when you use t…
/r/askTRP02/08/14 09:23 PM
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i think this is a great idea, but i would suggest trying on different frames for yourself and seeing how they work for you, such as: i'm bruce wayne. i am a misogynist. i only want women for sex. power is the only thing i want. all actions and personal relationship serve power. i am a king. to protect my personal relationships and ability to act, i must amass power ruthlessly. and so on. observe the implications of these frames, and see how they affect your behavior and state of mind. use this t…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 05:36 PM
8

The girls have goals, the boys not so much. If I ask the girls what they want to do after school, they can tell me exactly what their plans are. The boys... "don't know, maybe army" how old are these kids? classically, boys have wanted to be police and firefighters. manly jobs. Many of my boys are "mentally slow" with a "don't care" attitude. Skipping classes, doing drugs and dropping out is where they end up. we tend to believe that the absolute destruction of positive masculinity in the west, …
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 05:12 PM
3

whether you agree with the execution or reasoning, one thing the religious right is fucking spot on about is removing their kids from public school.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 05:08 PM
1

gotta love the muzak. wasn't sure about pouring the water until i read the context ITT: Boxer Wladmir Klitschco (spelling) is the guy that poured the water, he's a professional boxer and one of the best in the world. The idiot is his stalker.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 05:05 PM
4

agreed with jtz2 about "lapping it up". if anything, it belongs after "Stop being a dick!x" because in that position, it would be an agree and amplify. things: i used to be fat, and after getting fit (six pack abs fit), for 5-10 years, i would feel fat unless i was looking in a mirror. she has low self esteem. the lapping it up thing is a brutal thing to say to a girl with low self esteem. if you're in text and a girl is being compliant but not getting your jokes, avoid them. otherwise, you did …
/r/trpGAME02/08/14 05:01 PM
3

/r/TheRedPill sidebar. or find a pdf of the rational male and read it. lurk, motherfucker. do you speak it?
/r/trpGAME02/08/14 04:55 PM
3

i've asked that after a girl's first time doing anal, but the context is different.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 04:44 PM
1

agree with cut ties and pursue other women. you had a good time with her, gained valuable experience, and she let you down pretty quickly. this is a pretty good outcome, all things considered. you should let the girl ask for exclusivity. i would expect she liked you as a person and she was willing to give it a shot, but it didn't turn out to be what she wanted, and she met someone she is more excited about. you would've been better off in a non-exclusive situation with her, and pursuing other wo…
/r/askTRP02/08/14 04:09 PM
2

i love the "extremist feminists aren't real feminists" argument. indeed, sweetie, they just run the political organizations, head the gender studies departments, write the majority of literature on the subject, and comprise the bulk of the activists. so who defines feminism?
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 03:41 PM
4

pretty sure that's an animal farm reference. and yes, some women are indeed more slave to their impulses than others.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 03:36 PM
2

Hey guys, I just wanted to stop in to let y'all know I've accepted the term "feminine imperative" now. We're cool. Cheers, RedPillington
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 03:34 PM
2

i think he overstates his point, but women are 50% of the population, not 10%.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 03:31 PM
2

cishetmale is cisgender heterosexual male
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 03:14 PM
0

he's saying you're not high priority, which is worth consideration. to answer your OP, spend the week coming up with a better plan, and at least have a backup. if you're confirmed 100% on something better or roughly equal, cancel on her when she confirms. "sorry, made plans with friend. she said she might be turning in early, so i will let you know if my night frees up later. if not, next time!" i admit this is going pretty nuclear, but that's where i'm at right now.
/r/trpGAME02/08/14 02:00 PM
4

this comes up every once in a while. there is never an overwhelmingly negative response to someone talking about something of substance.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 08:19 AM
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you seem to have good frame. you don't want to blow yourself out by being an asshole for no reason. i would just text her when you have a time you want to hang out.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 11:08 PM
4

you're asking how to respond to the answer to a question that's bullshit. the answer to your question is to not ask the bullshit question.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 09:07 PM
0

i actually think that's a pretty solid lesson for children (EDIT: obviously haven't seen the visual presentation of it, so i could be missing something). read fairy tales and see how this wisdom is passed on to kids. the content of the story is not the lesson taught. kudos to your kid, though. EDIT: and as pointed out not dr. seuss
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 06:12 PM
1

this should be absolute back burner shit. i don't think you should throw the baby out with the bathwater, but don't email her every day. i talked to this chick on tinder, and she's out of town for two more weeks. i'm trying to pace it out and not get back to her every time she texts and not talk to her every day. i would say you should be in touch with her less than once a week.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 05:30 PM
9

this is policing tone, too. go fuck yourself.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 02:21 PM
1

she is on the hook as she will ever be, so you should let it rest. at most, hit her up every few days to a week if you have something to say. as for dread game, are you spinning plates? go spin plates. make yourself someone who when she comes to town, she wants to fuck you.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 02:15 PM
2

What's in question isn't the value of the parasite or predator's ecological role, but whether intelligent moral agents can perform that role better. let me save you some time, bro: no, they can't.
/r/AlreadyRed31/07/14 02:07 PM
2

"we need to take it slow" can just be she wants a little space right then. in my mind, i know that if we're not fucking soon or she's not providing me with fun, nurturing, and caring, then i stop hanging out with her. so what's the rush for me? "we need to take it slow" > "ha, yeah, i understand. this shit can be rough." i have communicated verbally that i am willing to respect her boundaries. after that conversation (EDIT: in a given evening), i would only escalate any further than i have in th…
/r/askTRP31/07/14 02:02 PM
1

are you taking her out of late? i would say an alpha shift without other added benefits of excitement and involvement wouldn't necessarily go over well.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 01:54 PM
4

We were sitting across from each other in the froyo place and I didn't feel as though I had an opening to go in for a kiss. i avoid sitting across from a girl if possible. sit next to them in a booth or whatever. if they object while you're doing it, say "pfffft" and push them. you need to escalate before you kiss them. google the kino escalation ladder or touch escalation ladder.
/r/trpGAME31/07/14 01:41 PM
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because it's a weapyn, not a weapeen EDIT: i feel like an asshole
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 12:10 AM
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they didn't accuse him of sexual misconduct. they classified his behavior and the infraction under sexual misconduct, because the behavior fits the criteria according to the guidelines. it's not a legal infraction, it's a school infraction. while i think this is bullshit, the information is being presented in a very skewed way. EDIT: i do think he should have it expunged from his record.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 12:00 AM
1

i was 80lbs overweight at 15, and i have a normal metabolism now. it's not a peppy metabolism, and i have to sleep enough and eat right. but it took 4 years to fix. EDIT: but i get your points a little better now. i think MGTOW is a good tool at least for time periods, and some people are genuinely happier that way. otherwise, agreed.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 11:46 PM
0

For the most part people today eat diets largely composed of highly processed foods chalk full of oestrogens and xenoestrogens. so what you're saying is that it's diet and perfectly within one's control? your point #2 isn't relevant to the conversation really. take the fucking steps you can take, and then complain that they don't work. or bitch that you can't be a 10, and remain a 5 instead of topping out at a 7 or 8. i agree with your point #3. you seem to be espousing MGTOW stuff and then pret…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 10:58 PM
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i agree that cutting contact with her is the way to go. i don't see why you need to reassure her that you don't hate her. let her feel uneasy. tell her you're focusing on your life and if she's not interested in a relationship, you need to make yourself marketable to some honeys.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 10:55 PM
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you have not read the material. you are approaching this completely bluepill. we think she wants you around as future beta bux. stop talking to her and go fuck other women. buy the rational male and read it. or download the pdf. whatevsies.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 10:34 PM
15

"Really? How many men have you had sex with?" brootal
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 10:26 PM
0

Lumbering landwhales are generally women with pituitary conditions in their own right. so you're saying we evolved a tenfold increase in pituitary conditions within 50 years? just cant get the girls PUA etc says they can with "game". TRP isn't PUA. That is beyond most of the pussy redpill males of reddit. are you trolling right now?
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 10:08 PM
2

i haven't spent a ton of time in manhattan (i'm in brooklyn), but i've gotten a similar vibe. what i will say though is that women aren't so violently classist here, or at least acknowledge that your choice to not dress like the one type of guy doesn't necessarily make you a piece of shit. also, miami may have less entitlement (despite that not being my experience), but the women there are in my experience completely identical and bring literally nothing to the table. it has seemed to me that th…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 07:31 PM
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"OP" said: If you not an 8 plus on the looks scale then you are like a fat chick to all attractive women. How can one not be bitter about that? being reasonably well put together physically and having your shit together gives you the opportunity to have respect that is not available to a lumbering land whale. fat like drew barrymore
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 03:27 PM
1

i am providing constructive criticism: not relevant to TRP. misunderstands the basic principles. blue pill question begone, troll
/r/trpGAME30/07/14 02:41 PM
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how to get chumps to send you $100 online, an easy online course on sale now for only $100!
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 02:33 PM
1

if you've been consistently driving yourself of late, maybe you need a break. go to something neurologically calming like the park or the lake or a farmers market or a low key comedy show. most people have trouble giving themselves breaks, and if you're one of those people, it's best to let yourself come off the grind for a couple days. and schedule in your downtime better for the future. if you're going to skip lifting, go for a bike ride or go for a walk. go swimming. something that doesn't ti…
/r/askTRP30/07/14 02:27 PM
1

you are down voted to zero. I am indeed helping, should you choose to receive it.
/r/trpGAME30/07/14 02:21 PM
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remain silent if you are not calm. if you feel that drive to talk that you felt, don't talk, that's anxiety. also, when you speak, speak more slowly and when you pause, don't say filler words, just pause. work on these issues in less critical environments. also, read 48 laws of power if you haven't.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 02:03 PM
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all you talk about is lifting. /r/fitness is a great resource for that. do not focus on only one thing. make sure you're doing worthwhile work (could be work you hate that is paying you what you need to do what you want, even) and make sure you're reading and expanding your mind. make sure you're forging relationships with other men. your mom being dead is probably ultimately freeing and positive. read Iron John by Robert Bly. it's interesting shit and I think relevant.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 01:59 PM
1

not relevant to TRP. misunderstands the basic principles. blue pill question
/r/trpGAME30/07/14 01:51 PM
6

you never play party games?
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 01:45 PM
7

depends on where in the south. I'm in New York right now, and love it. admittedly, I only got here at the beginning of Summer, but there's enough of them that if any one woman is a bummer, you just move on to the next one. you should spend some time in Miami if you want to appreciate New York.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 01:43 PM
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wall of text much? you have better options than the fat girl. getting in shape is hard work. I used to be 80 lbs overweight. what is the secret? work harder than anyone else. the stability I refer to is psychological and emotional. being supportive of those around you makes you a leader. this is before you add women into the equation. read: be a happy benevolent alpha. and of course your passion can't be jerking off. I should've said constructive passion, but the trick is again mentality.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 01:33 PM
2

bewm EDIT: i wonder if it was just created by SRS trolls. EDIT2: guess not
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 05:11 AM
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silence is golden, my bro. there are plenty of upsides. just enjoy whatchu git.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 04:20 AM
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clearly, dawkins should go away and learn to stop being a rapey shitlord
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 04:14 AM
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this question is not relevant to TRP.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 03:58 AM
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the no chemistry girl, hung out with her a second time, made it to her doorstep and played with her ass pretty aggressively and pulled her hair while making out. every relationship ultimatum has proven to be bullshit. you have no option anyway.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 03:00 AM
0

scarcity mentality. in any case, temper it for your situation, but complete incredulity is the right answer IMHO.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 02:59 AM
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it cares about the experience I provide her which is heavily influenced by whether I am stable and pursue my passions.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 02:56 AM
3

self defense for dudes in a post feminist world. thanks, this is genuinely helpful.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 02:54 AM
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i moved to a new city, am subletting from three women right now, and they are a shining example of this. they are "afraid" of me, yet they have yelled at me, hit me, thrown my shit. i wash their dishes, they call me a disgusting pig. 2 more days, lol.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 04:25 PM
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except unlike a fat chick, you've got options: get in good shape become stable and supportive of those around you follow your passions you are now an 8+, butterface or no
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 04:23 PM
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it's because there are 64k subscribers. the chill people are busy chilling. the people who are upset are the ones more motivated to talk.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 04:17 PM
1

i think giving yourself time limits is that same sort of qualifying bullshit men are required to do by everyone else. i encourage people to just be unrepentantly pissed off for a bit, and when it starts to get tedious, figure it out.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 04:16 PM
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we should start calling it "woman blaming" haha, or referring to all women as "victims". yo I met this mad hot victim at the bar last night
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 03:59 PM
1

everyone builds their lives. we are affected by those around us. if someone's room is dirty, you draw conclusions about them. if they eat a strange diet, you draw conclusions about them. if their friends and family are terrible. if their relationships are terrible.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 03:39 PM
1

yes, but punching an MMA fighter is downright stupid. he shouldn't pound you to a pulp, but people wouldn't feel very sorry for you if he did.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 03:38 PM
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men learn they shouldn't hit people who are stronger than them. why is it so hard for women to learn the same thing?
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 03:37 PM
7

also, man, how do we reach these keeeds? we've got either an influx of trolls or people who are not lurking moar enough. the community seems to be moderating it well enough, but i hope it abates soon. what do you think about bestowing LURK MOAR flair on people who fail to lurk effectively? hell, he might be a straight up troll. other than downvoting bullshit and telling the kids to lurk and read instead of submitting terrible posts, lmk if there's anything that can be done.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 03:21 PM
3

get a white noise machine. this one is baller. then tell them you're sleep deprived and could they put on some music or try to be quieter in the middle of the night. be congenial. this is not some sort of bullshit alpha magic situation. it's common courtesy. i would try to talk to the guy instead. EDIT: stop posting in TRP right now. lurk moar. lerk moore. lrk. read/lrk more. read some books. books. read them. lurk more. no posting. you seem like a troll because you have not grasped the concepts…
/r/askTRP29/07/14 03:09 PM
2

yeah, just come up with a pretense for her to come to your house. dinner or watching a movie on your couch are clear indicators you plan on fucking her. you could softball it if you want. and i don't know. she says she doesn't want to ruin her marriage, i would just generally look for prospects that would make me feel better about myself. but on the other hand, i do feel bad about missing out on fucking some hotter milfs when i was younger. not sure.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 03:05 PM
1

To me, that is pretty darn idiotic and will cause everyone to cram and get even more stressed out. it's idiotic to call your teammates idiots in your head. protip: they can tell. I freaking hate feminism for co-opting red lipstick and vintage stuff ugh your image is comprised of symbolic associations. if you want to look professional, you wear a suit. it's communication. them's the breaks. Well, I wear if cause it looks good on me. then keep doing it
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/14 02:06 PM
1

practice. and in the meantime, if you throw a tantrum, acknowledge it and apologize. one thing that's worked for me in the past is asking a person to tell me when i'm doing a specific negative behavior, and remind me that i asked them to do it. you could tell your SO to say "you asked me to remind you about the tantrums."
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/14 01:55 PM
2

if you are a manager, you need to learn to manage people better. critiques should always be delivered as a shit sandwich: praise, shit, praise. "awesome! this is good, but it needs to be worded more formally. for example, this right here sounds conversational. cool, thanks for getting this to me so quickly!" "What's wrong with you? I gave you a simple task and you blew it in so many ways." this is how you ruin relationships. it will never get you what you want. you need to appeal to the person r…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/14 01:49 PM
1

First off, I'm really shy so I don't talk to people outside my circle of friends much. as a male who's dealt with anxiety, being "really shy" tends to create body language that people will avoid. also, feeling unsafe tends to make us act more aggressively. I'm also very frank with people. When I don't like something, I say it, and when someone acts idiotic, I point it out. I don't insult people though, I just critique their work and performance. do you have defensive reactions to the things you …
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/14 01:46 PM
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What am I doing wrong? low standards. look for someone else. you check out /r/RedPillWomen?
/r/askTRP29/07/14 01:31 PM
2

"jesus, shut up"
/r/askTRP29/07/14 01:29 PM
2

a shit test is also known as a fitness test. it is usually when you are having a conversation with a woman, and she throws out a shitty combo breaker. i'm not sure these are strictly shit tests as much as her trying to get your attention back. for one, she is trying to maintain you in orbit, so just ignore the bitch. there is nothing in it for you. she's trying to draw you out, and as such, keeping quiet is a perfectly acceptable course of action. in any case, you work with her, so "winning" thi…
/r/askTRP29/07/14 01:27 PM
6

she's just intimidated by all the glistening beefcakes on horseback that show up at MRA rallies.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 01:18 PM
3

come up with a pretense to invite her to your house. do you cook? bring it up, and when she expresses interest, invite her over. do you have a bonsai tree? offer to show it to her. or meet at a bar, and express displeasure with being out and say you've got beverages back at your place where it's less noisy.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 01:10 PM
1

with words: modest mouse, alt-j, black keys, white stripes, radiohead, the flaming lips, the pixies, tom waits, sigur ros, bjork, the dead kennedys, alice donut, the counting crows (to an extent), the fratellis, franz ferdinand, queens of the stone age instrumental: explosions in the sky, tortoise, mogwai, deadmau5 beethoven's op. 132 is fucking sick, if you like that sort of shit. there's a version of the borodin quartet recording on youtube that is well worth the listen. 3rd movement is insane…
/r/askTRP29/07/14 01:06 PM
2

this just seems generally off-topic and strange, and i am replying to your only comment. i dunno.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 04:29 AM
1

might i direct your attention to /r/TheRedPill sidebar
/r/askTRP29/07/14 04:24 AM
1

might i direct your attention to /r/TheRedPill sidebar
/r/askTRP29/07/14 04:23 AM
1

several
/r/TRPOffTopic29/07/14 04:16 AM
3

don't. you have exceeded a sensible amount of texting by a fair amount, and you are emotionally involved. wait until you cool off. go out to a dive bar and talk to strangers with cool beards.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 02:37 AM
3

call and text less. when she calls and hangs up, don't call her back. definitely don't do it a bunch of times. look closely, you're pissed at yourself for acting in a way that lowered your self-estimation and self-esteem. any anger that you feel for her is misplaced. put it in its right place, then resolve it. shit, maybe her phone is fucked up, bro. if she's a plate, where are your other plates? why didn't you call another plate when she became unresponsive? what would a guy do if he had other …
/r/askTRP29/07/14 02:30 AM
1

not college girls necessarily. there is a stupid OMG MY BESTIE HAVE TO DO WHAT SHE WANT NOW mentality that runs rampant among the kids.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 02:23 AM
1

she is a whore fucking for money. if she's not actively disturbing the peace, just keep yourself together. your friend is pulling sort of a dick move, but also is king of the coop in several ways.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 02:19 AM
6

i think christopher hitchens typifies a lot of alpha behavior without being stereotypical TRPALPHACOCK. he says what he wants, and lets people deal with their own feelings about it.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 02:09 AM
3

i think being built like a brick shithouse counts as looks.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 02:05 AM
2

people say "your SO is a great person/beautiful/etc. you're so lucky!" all the fucking time, and it's a compliment. like, someone goes in for a job interview, you say "good luck" and the person says FUCK YOU I DONT NEED LUCK THINK MORE HIGHLY OF ME I"M A MAN GODDAMMIT
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 12:43 AM
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She is actually quite right in her reasoning. no. people say: "you're so lucky to have found a good man" and she thinks: "no, he's not great, he's simply decent. I'm the catch. my son is the catch." what a fucking cunt. just accept the compliment that people are paying you. since when did "you're lucky to have found someone great" stop being a positive comment? she thinks she deserves anything he brings to the table because she is such a fucking catch. there is no luck involved, because she is s…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 12:40 AM
2

watch the lion king and get back to me. RP 101
/r/askTRP28/07/14 11:45 PM
3

you might consider the type of chode she's used to talking to on tinder. or have some self respect. maybe you are worth hanging out with.
/r/trpGAME28/07/14 11:44 PM
3

clarify: this is tinder? I think people are missing that part. there are a multitude of ways to approach it: "this always happens when I let grandma use my phone" "sorry sorry. let me think of something better" (wait 10 minutes) "heeeeeeeeeeeyyyyyyyyyyp?" "brevity is the soul of wit" "also the heart of go fuck yourself" "my mom always told me I'm a bad conversationalist." "yes! OK now you"
/r/trpGAME28/07/14 11:40 PM
2

shit testing people on tinder makes a woman a bitch? edit: ok if this is actual texting someone you know, I agree.
/r/trpGAME28/07/14 11:23 PM
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it's creepy, but insofar as it is a calculated action to play on someone's nature instead of appeal to logic, it's not particularly BP.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 10:28 PM
18

i would posit that it's not as negative as you think. you allowed your frame to get fucked up, and she said she couldn't live there. you should've said it, not her. what she wanted was for you to reestablish frame and guidance without incurring any loss of comfort and benefits. however, everybody here knows that's close to impossible and probably not worth your effort. what you did is reestablish frame and guidance. she cried about her lost comfort and benefits. there are no unicorns. whenever a…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 10:26 PM
2

i don't know. i read about some research. i don't actually care much. it implies women are hypergamous, if that helps you believe it any easier.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 08:10 PM
2

it's the kind of bro science done by people with degrees
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 05:49 PM
1

it's evidence of polyandry. follow the conversation, bro.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 05:49 PM
1

Maybe you should take a gander at /r/raisedbynarcissists
/r/askTRP28/07/14 11:14 AM
1

she sounds like a total tool. if you are happy with how you came off looking to the important people in the interaction (everyone but her), you did fine. there's always room to improve, but it seems like other than being a little shaken by her, you did pretty well.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 11:06 AM
0

having larger penises than other primates and penis shape implies that penises are partially optimized to drag out other mens' semen so you can replace it with your own.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 10:59 AM
8

yeah, i remember the vomiting over the influx of alternate opinions when it first happened. i guess it did them good. who would've thought?
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 09:58 PM
1

you mean a grown man fights teenagers in a private establishment, and the guy isn't going to jail? lol.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 09:55 PM
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What the fuck did you just fucking say about me, you little bitch? I’ll have you know I graduated top of my class in the Navy Seals, and I’ve been involved in numerous secret raids on Al-Quaeda, and I have over 300 confirmed kills. I am trained in gorilla warfare and I’m the top sniper in the entire US armed forces. You are nothing to me but just another target. I will wipe you the fuck out with precision the likes of which has never been seen before on this Earth, mark my fucking words. You thi…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 02:30 PM
1

if it goes well, you go to jail, and have to explain to your ex wife why she has to handle custody for the next few weeks or post bail. lol.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 02:28 PM
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that would be a breeze in my family. mom: so, no blow jobs for 14 years? me: yeah mom: no wonder you've seemed tense. how was this other lady? you think she wants a relationship?
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 02:26 PM
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contributing to their marriage doesn't do anything for her. check your privilege, shitlord!
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 02:23 PM
15

Maybe the guy is just happy again so he's back to being self expressed. maybe he's like "oh shit maybe if I give this bitch poems, she will get it through her thick fucking skull I want her to suck my dick instead of some sloppy party ho." I write poetry and songs and shit, and sometimes I accidentally wrote something for a woman. so fucking kill me.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 02:22 PM
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I also like that she says they talked about it early on "but i guess he figured out it wasn't going to happen" and there are still retards in there suggesting he should have communicated? hey ladies: maybe this dude is better acquainted with his marriage than you are. fair amount of non-RP but decent advice in there though.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 02:18 PM
7

you usually shouldn't mention the mechanics of chess while playing chess.
/r/trpGAME27/07/14 02:06 PM
2

agree with Rojo, but given that women are used to being led, I would offer an "okay, lmk when you're free" if she says she can't. or if you want to be more aggressive, since she's certainly trying to control frame "okay, when?" tell her you don't let random beach people on your Facebook because what if they're psychos. that forces her to qualify herself, and best of all, it's true.
/r/trpGAME27/07/14 02:04 PM
5

she sounds sheltered. you failed to read her properly, and instead of reassuring her, you dismissed a legitimate concern, so she no longer felt safe. her friend is giving you information that she is genuinely interested, in your friends opinion. her friend is giving this advice to help her friend, not to help you
/r/askTRP27/07/14 06:13 AM
1

it would be alright if you are pursuing an impulse that is positive for yourself. it seems like it would be unappreciated, and your concern over it implies you're too invested.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 06:10 AM
2

do you have friends that you cut loose with and act stupid and don't think about what you're saying with? or do you remember a time when you would act that way? that's the sense of abandon you want. you can worry about executing strategy skillfully after you train yourself to let go and have fun in these environments.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 03:17 AM
6

SRS has a ton of trolls though. i used to mod a sub with a guy who had previously spent time trolling as an SRS dykezilla.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 03:07 AM
1

internet, radio and TV about rape and murder and its never going to convince me to even consider doing it. unfortunately, i'm only immune to radio...
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 03:04 AM
2

I.e the place where you thought that convo happened. "oh that's right! thanks for clarifying that, or this story wouldn't make sense. [smile at person you were talking to before] you'll see why later. anyway..." or invite her to tell the story. this is an overarching frame problem with these women, though. laugh in their face enough times, they will figure out it doesn't get them anywhere.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 03:01 AM
3

like frank sinatra. what a fucking beta. EDIT: you said wrote. fuck
/r/TRPOffTopic27/07/14 02:52 AM
3

what is even the point of your post
/r/askTRP27/07/14 02:50 AM
2

go to dance places and watch people. there will be a fat balding king of queens motherfucker throwing down power stance disco moves, and he has women all around him. he may not be fucking them, but he gets their attention, has a good time with them. just go out there, be goofy, and enjoy moving your body. jump up and down like an idiot. it helps other people have a good time. you're good looking, and i know good looking women who would be into a relaxed and happy version of you. what you want is…
/r/askTRP27/07/14 02:48 AM
1

at least you kept calm. agree with jcob-ross, though you should be fucking other women and not telling her about it but letting her just know it. I dont have any plates or other girls i text, i could go out and do that but it would then seem like a childish game i would be playing . this bitch is not worth your time. you are currently playing her childish game. all games are childish. pick one you enjoy that brings you benefits, and play it, and invite women along.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 02:38 AM
1

no: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex Organisms of many species are specialized into male and female varieties, each known as a sex. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender Gender is the range of characteristics pertaining to, and differentiating between, masculinity and femininity. Depending on the context, these characteristics may include biological sex (i.e. the state of being male, female or intersex), sex-based social structures (including gender roles and other social roles), or gender identit…
/r/askTRP27/07/14 02:30 AM
1

i think most fat people awaken into adulthood with a ruined body. there is equally little reason to empathize with a 40 year old guy who got swindled by women his entire life. i don't think you know what empathy means. like the definition.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 02:16 AM
2

this is useful since you keep ending up in the friendzone (read: with jack shit), err on the side of being too aggressive. worst case scenario, you end up with jack shit. EDIT: and really, if you're nervous about touching, you should touch people you talk to more. figure out what neutral touch for other guys is, and use that on women as your starting point.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 12:00 AM
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i'm not giving them a free pass, i just empathize. i empathize with people who are alcoholics too.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 11:58 PM
2

you can't fight a war in her frame. cut off communication with her. document everything. nothing she can do in a short period of time is worse than what she can do over a long period of time. edit: and if she comes after you, tell her boss what you know, tell him she is engaging in warfare, and you don't want to see him caught in the crossfire. do not do this in writing. no shame can ruin you. experiencing any shame she leverages to control you will set you free.
/r/askTRP26/07/14 10:59 PM
1

it is dangerous to continue associating with her. don't talk to her, don't try to be understood, don't try to understand her, don't try to end things correctly. cut off contact. block Facebook, block number.
/r/askTRP26/07/14 10:57 PM
3

Years of sports and all the lifting I do (because gotta look good for others) has paid off but I feel old. luckily that shit is just a feeling. fix your heart brain and you will be in a great space. i can't tell you how to do it. I knew years ago she was awesome but deep down I think I saw in her something I wanted in me. robert bly posits that is very common. when we experience a lack, we find someone who can fill that role for us, so we feel complete. I have no idea how to get over this. The m…
/r/askTRP26/07/14 10:47 PM
21

"this is the only body i get" i mean, i empathize to an extent, but jeez.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 10:38 PM
11

you could also make a joke about almost anything at all, and not lose your job.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 10:34 PM
11

Probably should be posted to /r/trpofftopic
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 08:49 PM
1

you have to a have a strong image and frame for people to accept RP truths from you. even then, they have to like you despite your Kramer-level bullshit. that being said, if you are the man being deferred to, and you're a dick about it, people won't like you. you may steamroll people for no reason, which would explain why betas (or people you categorize as betas) dislike you, and alphas like you.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 04:25 PM
3

just assume that she knows that you want to fuck her, and flirt and isolate. if she allows you to isolate, kiss her.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 04:21 PM
1

this is a good note, but there's a lot more than just the words that make up the communication.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 04:20 PM
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I got this as a tribal barbed wire tattoo, and now I am alpha as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 03:46 PM
6

just because everyone says it doesn't mean it's true. just because it offends people doesn't mean it's false men are entitled to approach their lives and relationships with women with the intent to benefit themselves, just as women are entitled to do. don't believe the mythology about men and women, observe the behavior and come to your own functional understanding TRP is pragmatic, amoral, and un-idealistic. it discusses how to treat the world in pragmatic terms, and rejects idealistic prescrip…
/r/askTRP26/07/14 03:42 PM
2

stop berating yourself. traditionally, there was mentorship available in male culture. now, men are mostly on their own. you have to be your own mentor. encourage yourself, be understanding when you fail, and keep positive frame. look into what makes a good mentor, and treat yourself and others that way. confidence will be the result of you taking care of yourself. positive masculinity takes time to grow (like a flower, lol), and when you're in a situation like yours where the flower has been ne…
/r/askTRP26/07/14 02:54 PM
1

on facebook? delete comment. if necessary unfriend them, and if you're not friends with them, block them. or he's 'gay' when approaching a group of girls and one is intent on cock blocking. "what can i say, your friend right here [point to girl you want to bone] is a sexy dude and i want to sit on his face." they're acting like 8-year olds. this should give you a hint about the amount of self-awareness and self-control they have. just smile at them and agree while doing whatever it is you have s…
/r/askTRP26/07/14 02:49 PM
16

i think you're talking LTR and he's talking sex.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 06:57 AM
2

if you are gaming, listen to the people giving you game advice. otherwise, make your own decision based on your personal ethical system and how you feel about this situation. don't get dragged too far in, though.
/r/askTRP26/07/14 06:53 AM
1

thanks for the tip on the golden bough, i will check it out. and campbell has been on my list to read for a while, so this is a good reminder. i am all about things that are out of fashion at colleges.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 06:14 AM
2

thanks! is there any particular volume you would suggest? i've found a lot of available ebooks online, and i will try to determine that for myself, but if you have any recommendations, i would be grateful. to give you a background of where i am at right now, i've read the works of gurdjieff one time, listened to several robert bly talks, and subsequently got into crowley through robert anton wilson. i've been studying the thoth tarot as a starting place, and specifically have read the book of th…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 07:25 PM
9

i'm talking about human courtesy
/r/askTRP25/07/14 04:38 PM
1

just be a little more conscious of what you're doing. if you're being aggressive for an extended interaction, make sure you're making it fun for her and make sure she's in on the joke. read about push/pull and other text game models, and analyze successful and unsuccessful interactions either of your own or of other people. generally, you want to direct the conversation. you stayed too long in the tense initial teasing phase, and didn't move onto a more comfortable banter. another pitfall would'…
/r/trpGAME25/07/14 02:52 PM
1

i mean, it's find to keep her around, but just holding that frame of keeping her around until you have more options is not good for your mental state.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 02:48 PM
3

it seems like a poor bet for a long term choice, but an excellent short-term choice.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 02:26 PM
1

eh. maybe. i would be nexting her at this point, and the intention is to communicate covertly that i am aware she's dicking me over. it also doesn't exactly tell her that dinner is off, so she would have to either make an assumption and be uncomfortable until she's sure, or she would have to ask me.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 02:18 PM
3

going by push/pull text game you only push, and she switches it up. Me: I bet you like it rough, huh? Do you cry during sex? (push) Her: I never cry (pull, conceding your frame) very aggressive opener, and she throws you a bone despite you asking about fucking immediately. Me: You're just sad and frown all the time (except in your pictures apparently)? (push) Her: Wait scratch that I cried a little when I saw your face (pull masquerading as a push) aggressive again, so she goes playful aggressiv…
/r/trpGAME25/07/14 02:13 PM
30

She has signed a six month lease and she can't afford the place by herself. Should I be that much of a dick? yes. she would. if you're in a position of power, give her 30 days notice. if she can jeopardize your life, move out with no warning. do not jeopardize your life for a proven traitor. She seriously makes me hate the way women are. She sees my value and so now is offering any fucking thing she can so that I become the beta provider. Fuck. knowledge is power. you are incredibly powerful rig…
/r/askTRP25/07/14 02:00 PM
2

This post was disapproved of by the people who replied to it. I find this concerning. it's because the way that she phrased it sounds very much like an abusive emotional tampon relationship. nobody has the context for your relationship but you, so people are bound to misunderstand a text meant for you. the fact that you failed to foresee this possible response to what she wrote seems to imply to me that you're not thinking about what is being said as much as you think you are. Anyway, if you’re …
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 01:51 PM
1

I want to keep her around until I have more options. this is blue pill as fuck. you will not have more options until you stop giving a woman control because you underestimate your value.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 01:45 PM
1

it would've been better to say "ah cool, i made better plans too. let me know when you're free, have fun!" and just next her, or at least wait a couple weeks before trying to hang out with her again, and having it be 1 or 2 steps closer to fucking than dinner would be.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 01:39 PM
1

stop beating off, start going to the gym. reading books and playing guitar are good. i would advise maybe going to counseling, at least so that when you talk to people in the school administration, you can demonstrate that you're taking positive steps to turn your life around, so they are more likely to grant you leniency. do not be completely socially isolated. try to forge positive healthy social relationships. they don't have to be close friendships, and in fact, it might be ideal to focus on…
/r/askTRP25/07/14 01:37 PM
1

She's pretty cool, and is working in the same field in which I hope to start my career. fun, good for your career. this sounds good to me. if she were looking for a provider, she would definitely be looking elsewhere. the fact that she is established in a field you're entering into puts her in a dominant cougarish position. i would still wear a condom, though i doubt she's trying to get pregnant by you. your sister is giving you advice so you're cautious. it's not accurate advice, imho.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 01:33 PM
3

i agree that at 5'10", if you get muscular, it will completely obviate women's orientalist bullshit. "You're cute for an Asian" "you're cute for a middle of the road white chick." girls are secretly terrible at talking to people in any situation they're not extremely familiar with, because anything they say gets validated. don't take what they say seriously, and if they say something offensive, playfully make fun of them for it.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 01:26 PM
1

/r/malegrooming /r/malefashionadvice it sounds like you're working through trying shit, so other than asking those dudes, i don't know what to tell you.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 01:22 PM
1

"ok, i agree" or "understood" agreed that she wants to bang you or keep you in her orbit, but doesn't want to date you. agreed that the fact that you're worried about a girl who lives 4 hours away instead of focusing on more immediate prospects implies you've got oneitis to some degree. plate her at most. stop talking about her feelings or your feelings.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 01:05 PM
1

In whatever vague, postmodern sense you mean by "knit", sure. if there are causal relationships, every structure in any medium subject to causality and interference would exhibit the same sort of interference as vibrations in a pool of water It sounds like you're getting it for a second here... What do you even mean with this question? You're not pointing at anything in particular, you're just waving your arms about and saying, "It's all connected, maan!" ...
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 05:19 AM
1

i definitely went through this stuff. just allow yourself to feel how you feel with no justifications. the only thing i would've done differently is exercised more discretion about what i shared and with whom. my drive to be understood and validated was (is) a weakness, and aside from my proven close friends with whom i have a mutual open dialog, i got very little positive out of talking about my process with people, and it occasionally compromised my position. what does anyone care why you're h…
/r/askTRP25/07/14 04:21 AM
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whether LTR or fling, don't put up with mediocre bitches pay attention to red flags, and always ALWAYS trust your gut over her words go talk to a counselor instead of TRP to determine whether or not your anxiety level is appropriate for you chances of getting STDs are incredibly low with proper condom use. use this std calculator to check infection rates in sex you want to engage in. then check your infection probability if a man who has all diseases fucks you in the ass without a condom. you pr…
/r/askTRP25/07/14 03:57 AM
3

meaning that a woman is validated for treating a man as though he is a statistical probability. if a man approaches, she can treat him poorly because she assumes based on her own fuzzy statistical analysis that he is going to be problematic. she can justify her behavior because a man represents the statistical possibility of rape. a woman can say "men just want to get in your pants," and it is understood as a generalization that does not have bearing on how they feel about individual men. in oth…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 03:49 AM
7

when i go to the pound and i'm having a good time with one puppy and he starts to ignore me, i go pet another puppy.
/r/trpGAME25/07/14 03:39 AM
15

teenage women love horses because it's a safe way to have a beast between their legs. adult women love horses because it's a safe way to have a beast between their legs.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 03:36 AM
5

it means never date a man who wears a fedora :P
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 03:35 AM
1

i thought twice about "single point" and should've thought three times. still, you ignore "deterministically" and i thought that was a key point in the discussion. if the universe is mechanical, how is it not deterministic? perhaps the scope and strength of physical entanglements (gravity and atoms bouncing off each other and other forces) diminishes greatly when it's contingent upon a photon being fired from the sun, but it's hard to argue that given a mechanical reality, we are knit quite tigh…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 02:47 AM
4

women have strategies to deal statistically with men. society does not forbid these strategies on the assumption that women of value will still be able to deal with individual men as individuals. trp discusses strategies to deal statistically with women. people don't seem to like this, based on the assumption that no men will be able to deal with individual women as individuals. smfh
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 02:33 AM
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i think this might be what they're talking about when they say "policing tone" just give it a fucking rest. if you don't like it, don't read it. let's not talk about something being said in the wrong way. i am still involved in such a conversation every time i accidentally talk to my ex again.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 02:16 AM
1

But how to argue against feminim in an intelligent manner? pretend feminism is a pair of pants that your wife has emotional connection to, but you hate them. she wears the pants once a month, and it gets on your nerves. what would you do?
/r/askTRP25/07/14 02:08 AM
2

I asked if any of the guys even know she has a boyfriend. She assured me everything is platonic did she answer your question? you should definitely get a handle on your emotions before you try to work on hers. EDIT: and i don't think that you're wrong to be angry. it's just not helpful to follow it around or display it so rashly.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 02:00 AM
2

It takes years, decades, of contemplation of some of them, and much research, before some of the meaning begins to be understood. can you suggest any study materials?
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 01:58 AM
3

Sure, it's just communication, and of course communication influences people, their mindsets, and their actions. communication is exclusively symbolic representation of something else. Nonetheless, as an empiricist and materialist, I believe the brain is instantiated in physical reality and relies entirely on physical laws to function: no dualistic metaphysical ephemery required. if we are deterministically linked to a single initiating point at the beginning of time, then the interconnections b…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 01:57 AM
1

i definitely had trouble parsing it on the first read-through. in the either/or statement, the either clause (change my behavior patterns and support our household dynamics) is straightforward and stated directly. however, the or clause (provide an educational and illustrious example to our children of what a happy, healthy, loving relationship between two healthy adults looked like) is sarcastic, meaning the other option is to provide a bad example to her kids. i think she was conceding that th…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 01:36 AM
2

How do I win this argument with a female "Ah, okay." heh. works on dudes too.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 01:28 AM
1

my experience in NYC (the city itself, no knowledge of college life here) is that being masculine and intelligent is attractive to women. i get a lot of IOI's just riding the train even though i am what i would consider to 10lbs over good average weight, and 20lbs over ideal athletic. it's easy to talk to a girl and get her number, pretty easy to meet up (though of course you have to just accept the existence of flakes), and even though i'm subletting from insane people (and am therefore in a sh…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 12:58 AM
1

she decided to stop replying to people because of all the people insulting her. she didn't say you were being a dick. she said she was walking away from the discussion because it's getting out of hand. it's what we would recommend an adult do here in TRP. i don't give a fuck about their marriage, and neither should you. elsewhere, she says he likes sluts, and she's a slut. i have had a girlfriend that got off on me fucking other girls. i didn't like her fucking other guys, so she couldn't. we ha…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 12:49 AM
1

i upvoted your stuff as well. thanks for sharing. don't abandon the sub just because of the twats that can't tell their alpha from a hole in the ground.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 12:46 AM
1

Polyamory means you both get to do whatever you want with whoever you want. eh. polyamory means you have some sort of open relationship. it might be a MFF household. it might be a disabled husband whose wife is allowed to take a boyfriend. not necessarily defending it, but you could be polyamorous with very clear boundaries, and i think that's probably what tends to be more successful.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 12:31 AM
7

you suck at talking about yourself. if you have passion for something, you should be able to communicate that passion about the thing without having to rely on the particulars of the thing. if your first conversation snippet is real, here's how you fix it: girl: What do you do? Me: i'm a physics grad student. i study explosions and shit. you ever see armageddon transformers? like that. what do you do? BAM. no bullshit back and forth, you get to the point and present yourself well. EDIT: better m…
/r/askTRP23/07/14 04:57 PM
7

Anyway, stop caring about your height and everyone else will to. that's not exactly true, but you should definitely let other people figure out why they don't want to date/fuck you instead of offering up suggestions.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 04:14 PM
3

i knew a short guy who wasn't anything special, but was happy, fun, and danced well. he could pull down serious tail because he was non-threatening and he didn't give a shit and was always fun. i would incorporate strong, controlled, masculine body language and vocal tonality, but be careful that it always comes across positively. a large dog barking is perceived differently from a small dog barking.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 04:13 PM
1

One note, I'm an immigrant so my language skills aren't great, I wonder if this is playing into my SMV and general results. you can have shitty language skills and it will up your SMV if you play it right. however, i've noticed some arabic and hispanic people, when translating into english end up sounding soft and emotional because the context for the language is different. maybe there's a similar contextual thing with you? also, go to /r/malegrooming and fix all the problems. maybe you have boo…
/r/askTRP23/07/14 03:55 PM
0

if your ex was trying to fuck you under the guise of hanging out with you, do you expect her to be okay with it? tell her that shit is unacceptable. be calm, don't pull any emotional bullshit, just be clear about your boundaries. i understand maybe wanting to talk to an ex under certain circumstances (under some sort of time constraint or supervision), but if she needs to hang out with an ex beyond that, she's not worth it. if she asks you why, ask her if she really needs you to explain it.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 03:48 PM
1

it sounds like she's trying to strong arm you into a commitment with cultural shame. do not go bluepill on the demand of a plate, because it suggests she's more than a plate. she is not experiencing dread, or she wouldn't be trying to subjugate you. if she's doubting your commitment, tell her it's because you're not committed.
/r/trpGAME23/07/14 12:47 PM
1

it feels good to hug a bitch. ergo, hug a bitch. if you're afraid of crazy shit tests: "OMG WHAT ARE YOU DOING?!!!" >> "hugging you" "OOOMGG WHYYYYY!!" >> "feels good"
/r/trpGAME23/07/14 12:34 PM
1

Also, how late is too late to reply to a text? You obviously don't want her to think you've been sitting around formulating the perfect response, right? it doesn't matter. if it's late at night, i will wait until the next day during breakfast or whenever i remember. use your organic forgetfulness to simulate aloofness.
/r/trpGAME23/07/14 12:30 PM
1

well i just moved to a new city, so i just say yes.
/r/trpGAME23/07/14 12:29 PM
2

the rational male (the book) was great for this. it made me sick to my stomach so many times.
/r/trpGAME23/07/14 12:20 PM
1

you're young and living at home? i would suggest paying your parents something for rent and saving money and biding your time. maybe pay all the utilities. or pay a set amount maybe 1/4 to 1/2 of what you would be paying somewhere else, and put the remainder into savings for yourself. if there are things that need to be fixed around the house or if they need a new refrigerator or stove, suggest creating an account that your payments will go into so they can get those things they need. i think st…
/r/askTRP23/07/14 12:11 PM
1

i don't view this as conclusively unfavorable as everyone else. she might not want to meet you halfway because she wants to fuck and that makes logistics difficult. i agree that you shouldn't go there unless she gives you a good reason. i think the best thing to do would be to tell her to come over to your place and you'll make dinner and you guys can watch a movie after. that way, you're offering her a reason for her to come that also has clear subtext of intent to fuck but provides her with pl…
/r/askTRP23/07/14 11:57 AM
1

She says she wants marriage and babies. seems like a strange thing to tell someone you've just met. did you tell her you want a deck and a grill? To be fair, I sent her a couple of cock photos and have provided positive feedback on her sexting advances. do you mean you did it to be fair, or are you justifying her behavior? haha. Should I be worried? Are there mental issues at play here? yes and probably. why on earth would a good looking woman do this with a guy on OKC? a sane and attractive wom…
/r/askTRP23/07/14 11:53 AM
1

if you've got 3 years of sharing information about yourself on this account, you should really create another one to post to red pill subs. you don't want some psycho doxxing you and trying to invade your life. really, read the sidebar at /r/TheRedPill. you have a misconception about what we're about, and your description of your situation is not something most of us would interpret favorably. if you want extended reading, i would suggest: * models by mark manson * way of the superior man by dav…
/r/askTRP23/07/14 11:46 AM
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i think TRP focuses on pleasure because pleasure is a tool used by people to control other people. in western culture, women are trained to revoke pleasure for power. for a man to be maximally autonomous, he needs to be either free from desire or aware of the transactional interplay of power and pleasure so that he can best conduct transactions. TRP simply deals with the latter. if you want the former, look into a spiritual movement.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 11:37 AM
1

Not at all exaggerating when I say the guy is probably a 3/10 by American standards but he is still getting laid all the time. It probably helps he's funny and very charismatic though. you are failing to consider the value of his meal ticket in the third world. When I went to Vermont and hopped on Tinder I was matching with fucking 10/10's and the girls were cool as fuck. Back in NY I can barely match with a 6 and their personalities are repulsive at best. dude, i gotta go to vermont, because i'…
/r/askTRP23/07/14 11:30 AM
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my understanding of AWALT in this same thread
/r/askTRP23/07/14 11:26 AM
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my understanding of AWALT is that all women are subject to the same biological drives and desires. we acknowledge socially that all (healthy) men are subject to the same biological drives and desires. all healthy humans experience hunger. not all people will eat their roommate's food at 4am if they wake up hungry and don't have food in the house, but all humans see the food and want it provided it meets their criteria for food. if you wake up and your food is gone, it wouldn't be offensive to co…
/r/askTRP23/07/14 11:25 AM
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i would advise giving her the LJBF talk: "i really like you, but i think that ultimately the spark i'm looking for isn't there. i think you're a wonderful person, and you deserve better than a relationship where the guy is half invested," or as suggested by another commenter, "i'm getting back together with my ex." something where you use the generic girl script to reject a dude is good, because they say that because that's what they want to hear. and it also feeds into the societal script so th…
/r/askTRP23/07/14 10:59 AM
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do you speak from experience?
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 10:49 AM
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i think a man should use any tool he wishes from those available to him to set his life on the right path. i spent some time trapped in an environment with a remarkably high percentage of viciously hypergamous, low-quality women. i paid for whores on three occasions, and it did three things: reminded me that it's possible to have a beneficial and nurturing interaction with women drove home to me that i never for the rest of my life have to put up with manipulation or abuse to receive nurturing f…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 10:47 AM
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well, it used to be that being a good mother in a stable situation was what was respected.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 10:36 AM
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fwiw, this is most certainly not something i picked up from the red pill: i disagree that matriarchy started with the romans. i think most red pill folks would not be overly interested in it, since it's not exactly provable or necessarily relevant to issues at hand. matriarchy seems to be more primitive than patriarchy. mother and earth worship cultures are cultures that simply derive nourishment from the earth as though it were a mother. father worship (abrahamic religions) is sky-oriented and …
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 12:22 AM
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Most people here are really wise but some people get lost in thinking cock-waving behaviour is so important. you are just afraid that we're better at waving our cocks than you are, admit it.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 12:09 AM
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