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I did porn in "moderation" for years. Once or twice a week, not too much right? Still killed my motivation to fuck real women. Still made my dicking game lacklustre. You don't notice until you quit how much it's truly fucked with you. Making excuses about quitting porn is the exact same shit as some lard ass eating cookies "in moderation." It's a useless dopamine hit that tricks your caveman brain into thinking it's getting something good when it's instead just impeding you. I went from fucking …
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 07:29 PM
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Asking the important questions here. Where do you find your tinder match rate? Not much I can see on their site.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/19 04:02 PM
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I think the simple problem is, and why we don't see more blatant honesty, because the full 100% blood red machismo posts are the ones that get upvoted. Start upvoting based on honesty and lessons learned and I think we'll see much better quality and learning overall. I would be happy to post about all the beta shit I do and feel despite being fully aware of everything red pill for 5 years now. However if it doesn't get read, why waste my time.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/19 03:09 PM
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Literally anywhere in Europe in my experience. And Asia. OP just needs to learn to swipe left on the ones without a single full body shot.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 03:00 PM
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Dubious, even historically. Historically we didn't artificial intelligence nor the ability to automate everything from driving a taxi to performing surgery. Let me give a few examples (this is the US alone): Cashiers: easy to automate, when the breathing ones start demanding $15 an hour, there goes 3.4 million jobs Data Entry: 2.8 million jobs, start automating their tasks, you can easily cut that number in half if not eliminate the need completely Fast food: 2.7 million, same as cashiers Truck …
/r/askTRP02/08/19 11:44 PM
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Just wait until automation kills another million jobs and climate change starts making food harder to come by. Hard times are indeed coming.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 09:25 PM
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One of my plates is a doc. Depending on the type of doctor you can be working 11 hour days for your entire life. Some of the organizations she's involved in result in some days waking up at 7 and not getting done with work related activities til 10-11 pm. Med school costs money and not all of them are paid like we think they are. It's a stressful job and if you don't love it, I could easily see how it could become really dark considering the basically lifelong commitment of the profession.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 06:04 PM
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Another factor is having to rationalize why they're partnered with a slob who can't expend 3 hours of effort a week to take care of his body. It's definitely not because I'm not pretty enough or for some reason unable to get a better guy! It's because I PREFER that body.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 06:31 PM
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The 4 Hour Work Week by Tim Ferris and One Simple Idea by Stephen Key
/r/TheRedPill25/01/19 05:34 PM
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Lol 'The Enemy.' They're just acting how their instincts tell them to act, how society has conditioned them to act, and taking advantage of what society allows them to do. I don't blame you for being angry, but let's be rational here, women are just doing the best they can for themselves with what they've been given. And yes, I agree they have been given a lot. But I can't help but feel like overly dramatic comments like these promote the exact kind of hysteria that we condemn so heavily in extr…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/19 01:02 AM
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Sit back and relax A great way to lead a career of mediocrity. Start a new project like you said or study/improve your craft. Not only are you getting paid to improve yourself, but employers WILL notice the difference between the guy who relaxes and the guy who uses that time to improve, and your career will reflect this.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 10:14 PM
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Sidebar, and nobody cares at what age you started. Use it to your own advantage.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 12:39 AM
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Deadlift requires no real warmup. I personally do 1 warmup set at about 80% weight. Also you say you feel ready to pass out? This sounds like a more serious issue, and I'd recommend consulting a doctor. Could be some extremely low blood pressure as deadlift, assuming you're doing a proper 3-5 reps per set, should not be affecting you in this way.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 12:37 AM
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His takeaway is just another rendition of don't put the pussy on a pedestal and naivete can be and will be feigned. But I have to agree on one point, what the fuck is this: Mom, the new bride to be, aunties and bridesmaids all looked at me with big eyes and wet panties. When people say TRP is just a bunch of neckbeards salivating over fantasies this is exactly the kind of fantastical bullshit they point to.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 10:37 PM
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Are you happy? If not, who are you trying to fool? Sex once or twice a month is idiotic unless you have a really low libido.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 01:42 AM
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Definitely not a fear /discomfort thing. In fact I probably have less nervousness around women than I did when I was plating. I'm assuming it's going to be like you said, eventually something will just click and I'll be back as before. Sex is definitely nice, just gotta find a good looking woman that's low effort probably to kick me back off and interested again.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 02:52 AM
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Just be cordial. Being cordial with people you dislike or would rather avoid is an important life skill. Consider it self improvement if you must.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 03:19 AM
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No you are the only one who has ever felt that. Everyone loves seeing Lucy's 5th selfie of the day.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 03:17 AM
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Neither. In my experience I've seen guys who are inexperienced fail at both. When unnatural the first appears not mysterious but instead creepy as fuck. The second appears instead of "the life of the party" as "that annoying guy I don't know who won't leave us alone." I know it sucks to hear but my game didn't get good until I got comfortable and natural with it, and that's the way it is with most guys. The best advice I can give is keep trying and working on it like you've been doing. Find your…
/r/askTRP15/01/16 03:14 AM
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Just because you have a credit doesn't mean you have to spend it. Most books are available for free, while some you might want to buy from Amazon. I'd personally recommend buying protein as this can help with hitting macros, aside from that I can't think of much else. One of the perks of monk mode is low upkeep. Also you can get textbooks on Amazon.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 05:37 AM
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I have to play devil's advocate here. Never underestimate her ability to think in terms of how something will affect her. More likely she perceives it will result in a loss of her own social proof among her friends/fellow feminists that she dared to date an older man.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 08:32 AM
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I have actually once had a girl invite me over to dinner and have no fucking clue as to what she was doing. It was her first month out of mama's house and I guess her dear mother didn't decide to teach her a thing. I had to help this girl cook the complicated combination of: Linguine Ground beef Some cheese pasta sauce (store bought) Like this is the kind of shit you could learn from watching a cooking show... once. YA STICK THE STUFF IN A PAN ON THE STOVE DARLING. What the fuck would she have d…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 07:11 AM
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Yes. The fact is she calls it a vacation, however she just so happens to be spending all of said vacation in my city which is not much of a tourist destination. The posts you likely refer to are from BB's LTR going on a trip and inevitably fucking a local Chad. Perhaps I should have clarified she is not currently my LTR partner, as I do not believe in LDR, however as I do get along quite well with her I don't mind her visiting me at all. If she falls on another dick before or after well AWALT. (…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 03:51 AM
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A recent LTR of mine is going to be flying halfway around the world to see me and bring me things I miss from her country in a month or so all on her own dime. She could easily fly somewhere far more interesting for the money she's paying, but there are no limits for Chad. I can see her motivation 1000 miles away, but the point is women can really be quite loving and giving... for their chosen Alpha. The points Bill brings to the table really brings questions to my mind. How many of the women in…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 02:47 AM
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This isn't just some sadistic parody? This was accepted by sober adults? I hope he successfully sues the shit out of all of them.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 12:02 AM
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Regardless of what was intended, this is the truth of the matter.
/r/askTRP30/07/15 06:33 AM
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Minimum sentence for involuntary manslaughter is 10 months and more of it's a result of extremely reckless conduct. She should get at least 10 months, I can't see how it could not be charged as manslaughter.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 01:28 AM
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0-4 IMO. Basically a plausible number of serious boyfriends number. It's plausible for a girl to have had 3 or maybe 4 serious LTRs where sex is naturally implicit. 10+? She's having casual sex which is a no-no for LTR.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 01:38 AM
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That is ridiculous but if you're only 14 I really am not surprised. Adolescents are gossipy as fuck but also have short memories. To be straight with you, girls may seem like the only thing that matters right now, but they really don't especially these sluts who are sexually active at 14. Cease giving a fuck and eventually they will too. One thing to consider, are you just starting secondary education guessing from your age? If so you're getting a fresh batch of women every year... it goes witho…
/r/askTRP17/07/15 07:26 AM
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And it's good to be cautious, but too much caution will only come off as insecurity.
/r/askTRP16/07/15 07:11 AM
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Honestly we only know the very little that OP told us. For all we know the women just hugely overreacted because that's what feminism told then they should do. Or on the other hand OP may have been a complete creep and/or harassing them. Point of the post was the cop thing though which he did flesh out well.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 12:40 AM
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It's been said time and again that the greatest generation gave birth to the worst, and the worst generation gave birth to the degeneracy of present day.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 12:35 AM
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Care to go into more detail why? I know next to nothing about it and I'm sure I'm not alone.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 12:08 AM
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I don't mean to sound like a dick either but that sounds like a rather blue POV. No I do not care who my girl talks to because I trust her not to fuck other men. It would be incredibly insecure and hypocritical otherwise. I cannot stop her from flirting with other men, so why worry? If she starts getting too friendly with a guy well so be it we're done, but me hounding her about the potential of it will only do harm. She knows she's mine, like /u/MHOOD01 said I don't have to inform her not to sl…
/r/askTRP14/07/15 07:22 AM
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I do not physically cheat. My recommendation is to passively game girls. For example this past weekend I went to a party where I met several girls who asked for my contact info which I obliged. The following texts give blatant interest perhaps even amplified by the fact that I'm in a relationship (which I do state.) To put it simply theres a subconscious abundance mentality that you build by simply having women at your beck and call (aside from Ms. LTR obviously.) Perhaps theres a passive once a…
/r/askTRP14/07/15 02:32 AM
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Also worth noting, in LTRs you are drastically less likely to contract an STD or really any illness. Swapping spit with 3 different non-monogamous people on the regular is naturally going to result in a few more colds/etc. than usual.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 12:29 AM
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Protip: For the love of God avoid Arginine when you have an outbreak. Instead target foods with high lysine content. Trust me you'll thank me. I was taking an arginine supplement and (I eventually found out) was eating a rather high arginine diet. I had an outbreak (hsv1) and it was the worst. Lasted for weeks before i figured out the damn arginine was the problem. Arginine is basically herpes candy, Lysine on the other hand supposedly helps kill them off. (Have not yet tested Lysine but will ne…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 07:41 AM
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It's all good man TRP is a great place to vent, and obviously I had almost the exact same experience. Basically the mental state you put yourself into put you into survival mode which is basically telling mr. Penis now is not the time for sex. As soon as you get comfortable with it you'll have no trouble at all trust me. Any more questions or just want to vent, go right ahead.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 02:16 AM
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No idea what the other guy is talking about. Really the cure put simply is good sex which I know is like saying to fix a sprained ankle go run a mile. Admittedly my mental block was mostly condom related, could get hard via oral/hand but condom on was a no go. Some more tips: Have the condom within reach or otherwise very easy access Have her perform oral on you, especially when prepping the condom will help a lot Meditation, keep focused on her and how you want to fuck her brains out Cut back o…
/r/askTRP08/07/15 12:12 AM
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Well you've already fucked up thoroughly but you may still get laid. I'd just respond with a what's up? She'll either A) Apologize, to which you just say OK B) Ask to hang out, to which you (if you actually care to salvage this) say "sure, I'll give you another shot" which puts the duty to please loosely on her while not sounding butthurt. She may follow up A with B or vice versa but if there's no B she gets no D. (Lol) This is just what I would do in your situation although admittedly it's hard…
/r/askTRP07/07/15 07:53 AM
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Was pretty confused there myself. I had this problem my "first time" as well as a result of alcohol, and then the second time and third time it was nerves about failing the first time. I would penetrate just barely but be so limp neither of us had fun. Definitely hit my ego. You are not alone in this. The trick I found to really have a good first proper fuck is to find a girl you're comfortable with, after the first proper time, one night stands have been no problem. This girl sounds very easy g…
/r/askTRP07/07/15 07:34 AM
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Stay in a dorm your first year, make friends with everyone you can (especially on your dorm floor), attend parties frequently, don't get into an LTR, drink responsibly, don’t smoke cigarettes, take advantage of the likely free gym and lift, get good grades (try for a 3.0 or better) and befriend a professor in your discipline. Fridays and Saturdays are for partying. I'd recommend saving the other days for your studies. Party, but don't be the guy getting wasted 3+ times every week. In general it'…
/r/askTRP03/07/15 08:03 AM
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I'm a bit late to the party here but an example would be walking away and finding another girl/group when she starts doing something you don't like such as flirting with another guy. Maybe she'll come back to you but you dgaf, idgaf is the most basic definition you can get of outcome independence.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 02:25 AM
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True, however if you consider it from less of a 'mythical force' concept and instead more of a cause and effect concept it often does work. She spent her life mooching and overspending while improving nothing of herself and creating a way of life lacking any ounce of forbearance. Karma doesn't magically punish her because she was bad, it punishes her as a result of her own stupidity and lack of self-control. Karma is just a quicker way of saying "they did stupid/evil shit, and that stupid/evil s…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 02:48 AM
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Do you mind going into detail on how you came to own clubs? Just curious as from the outside that seems like a pretty fun/exciting deal.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 01:25 AM
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What I think most people may not see is that this is not just the decline of the American Empire or pick your country, this is the decline of the industrial era, and this decline has been going on for some time now. These things were all set into place at the height of the Victorian era/industrial revolution. The transition from village/farm/etc. life -> city/factory life has brought us to this state from a social point of view. I'm sure most of you reading this understand why and I need not go …
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 02:07 AM
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You're just about to start college? No need to rush things buddy plenty of fun is on the horizon. My best advice is really to gain experience. Monk mode will only get you so far. Work on making yourself think in a manly frame of mind regardless of women. Become a man in mind, body, and spirit and success will find you. Care to explain what about you makes you feel or act beta? What leads up to those thoughts and actions? Figure out what those beta warning signs are and learn to recognize and kil…
/r/askTRP26/06/15 07:27 AM
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As someone who has slight experience in Korea ane a significant amount of experience in Japan, the loser types are just as unsuccessful. In both countries there are popular foreigner areas that the girls interested in foreigners typically go to on weekends. It's hilarious watching them (the loser I'll go to Asia to get laid types) awkwardly stand there sipping on a drink while myself and the one other alpha minded foreigner get the only attractive women. Local guys go to these areas too and they…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 01:31 AM
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Just be careful unloading those Soviet missiles in South America or you might have a crisis on your hands
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 08:41 AM
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I'm more of a man than you because I do what I want and don't impose limits on myself or others. Go cry to your transvestite wife or get naked and run backwards in a maze where all the walls have dicks jutting out of them you fucking fairy. A literary work of art for the ages.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 01:44 AM
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Pretty much. Focus on fun and well... you'll have fun.
/r/askTRP19/06/15 12:20 PM
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Don't just make a to do list SET A SCHEDULE. This has helped me tremendously. When I know every sunday for example consists of doing X from 4-5, warmup and workout from 5-630, read from 8-9, etc. It makes life much simpler and less potential for complications. That's just the time you do those things. Respect yourself and be on time for appointments with yourself. If you have a doctor's appointment and something important comes up, you reschedule. If you have a doctor's appointment and you want …
/r/askTRP19/06/15 07:43 AM
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I'm going to quote some things in your post and comment on it since it's a rather big post. Hitting the gym 4 days a week (will up to 5-6 once I get on campus and start eating healthier to drop in body fat from like 15% to <9% Just a personal opinion here, but 4 should be plenty. Reading seddit for tips (don't think this is really helping) Not surprising considering seddit is filled with wannabe PUAs, even more than TRP. Planning on re reading models I'd recommend something new instead, try 48 L…
/r/askTRP19/06/15 07:29 AM
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Do you mind sharing the path you took from employee -> self-employment? This is something I look forward to trying myself.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 02:41 AM
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I'll check those out, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 02:27 AM
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Not sure if you're serious but yes it's hyperbole. In most if not all states that recognize common law marriage and divorce both parties have to agree to it, cohabitate, and publicly refer to themselves as married and/or be known as being married by the community. Also, there's only 13 states that do this and New Hampshire is only for inheritance. Be careful if you live in one (don't do something idiotic like file a joint tax return), but don't stress over it at all.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 01:50 AM
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I've had experiences with Taiwanese, Japanese, and Korean women and so far I would have to say the Japanese are really not all that bad. Definitely less materialistic than Americans and Koreans. My experiences with Taiwanese were too limited to make any assumptions but they also seemed more frugal than Americans and Koreans. Really it's going to depend on the upbringing of the girl though. Chances are if she was raised with daddy buying her everything her heart has ever desired she's going to be…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 01:31 AM
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I would really love to see a TRP post on investing for the future.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 12:57 AM
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Hey man just thought I'd comment back and say I've had decent success over the past couple weeks with 'Beclomethasone Dipropionate' specifically the brand Nazal AR. Libido is definitely inproved over antihistamines as well as general mood, and drowsiness is gone.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 08:18 AM
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This is the truth. What a lot of LTR guys seem to not realize here is that one can still have abundance and be loyal to 1 girl. Personally I have perhaps 3 or 4 girls other than my main squeeze who I talk to on a semi-regular basis. There's something subconsciously liberating about knowing you have several other beautiful, single, interested women waiting in the wings for Ms. Main to fuck up. Also just going out to bars/etc. with guy friends letting women hit on you. There's few better ways to b…
/r/askTRP16/06/15 08:06 AM
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Just to throw in an anecdote from my own life a few years back; the solution was to start exercising, eating healthy, dressing well, sleeping ~7.5hrs, and getting heavily social outside of the internet. The first three parts build confidence and self-image. The final bit finished it off. Are you missing any of these? This would probably get attacked elsewhere on reddit but it's safe to say here that I feel that depression is often a result of day to day choices and routines you get into and less…
/r/askTRP16/06/15 07:52 AM
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Any opinions on edging? Multiple male orgasms, lasting longer, and a higher libido all sound too good to be true. Experimented with this or done any research?
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 02:25 AM
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I believe you're confused with an article not long ago about feminists I believe in France trying to make it illegal (rape equivalent of all things) to deceive someone (read women) into sex by means of lying about status, fame, name, money, you name it. I'm hoping that was unsuccessful. I can't entirely remember.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 01:32 AM
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Yes and yes and yeah at my company the 'office ladies' don't really seem to have much responsibility although there are a few women who share my STEM profession. Unfortunately the workplace is probably where the treat women as children philosophy matters least. Although a few of my coworkers do seem to have a rather positive red pill relationship/marriage, (from what I can tell of course) it's rather rare.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 12:54 AM
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Yeah I live there and aside from the getting smashed every night it's really not like that at all. I imagine naked prostitute cafes would be a tad more common knowledge if they were actually available to anyone. Also smegma is wrong in my opinion about the men treating women like children, they treat their wives like their mothers, many even getting a daily allowance (a fucking grown man getting an allowance of money he earned) from their wives. It is a fascinating country but don't let anyone c…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 12:28 AM
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A very curious question no doubt. One would expect the former Soviet Union to be a feminist hellhole due to the loss of almost an entire generation of men by that logic, however I guess the situations within the USSR naturally saw to that not happening. Alternatively we see Germany and Japan having the two lowest birthrates in the world. Perhaps you're onto something.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 08:43 AM
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First, stop feeling sorry for yourself. Second, why are you waiting to do Jiu Jitsu? Why not start now? Thirdly, something a lot of guys don't consider is the value of learning and practicing a new language especially one that a large number of people near you speak. For example Mandarin if you live in San Francisco, or Spanish if you live in Florida, etc. Not only will this make you a more well rounded person it will also expand your horizons and potential in terms of social interactions down t…
/r/askTRP15/06/15 06:27 AM
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Also true in Korea. Japan and Taiwan they don't seem to care quite as much in my experience... but it's always a factor to some extent.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 06:41 AM
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There's a definite disconnect between porn fetish and real life fetish. I'd only worry about it if it affects your performance or enjoyment of the real thing. Dominance coming from the male end is an important component of sexual excitement for your girl. Don't neglect it and don't be afraid to let those instincts run wild during sex.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 06:36 AM
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Not sure why this is in asktrp but good post nonetheless. Don't give in to the "why is sex so necessary" bs fellas. That's a one way ticket to high investment and low results. You don't need to explain yourself to her on this one. In fact I'd recommend not even trying.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 06:28 AM
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And not only that but they liked that cage! Why did the zookeeper take away my cage? "You were being too much of a lion, now that you're not in the lion cage you're a sheep ok?" I think the zookeeper is getting a reality check.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 05:33 AM
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Escalate dumbass she's obviously into you. If she becomes super put off by your escalation she may see mr. $100k contract as a beta bux. She also asked you out late at night, I'd bet on the former. Fuck er right in the pussy.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 08:19 AM
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No one gives a fuck about what you say if they don't care about who you are. Show them pictures of you doing cool shit and going to cool places ideally with women and friends at your side. Personally I don't see the value of twitter. I'd say stick to Facebook and instagram, easier to gauge reactions as people are more likely to provide feedback unlike twitter. Also I'm skeptical of the value of "building SMV" via social media.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 08:10 AM
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I'm not sure why visiting would hurt you it's not North Korea. Yeah it might get hit hard by an economic depression a bit down the line but so long as your assets aren't hit I can't see why that'd matter. Just keep an eye out for countries with shit hitting the fan and you'll be fine.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 07:59 AM
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Why would Germany abandon their fourth reich? But in all seriousness it would take some major economic upheaval (for example when the currently most populous generation all retires at once in about 20-30 years) to get that to happen.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 07:41 AM
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True, but the real problem isn't lack of a bottom heavy setup, it's the existence of a top heavy one. Just look at Japan to see where these countries are headed. Massive amounts of elderly people being paid to simply exist by the youth and middle aged of the country. Pension taxes are going to hit like a brick to the face in conjunction with ever increasing automation of jobs. In Japan at least, when looking at population, the ages under 40 population dives off rapidly. They think it's bad now b…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 07:33 AM
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Your wording sounded a bit too harsh. Just say you want to have fun and leave it at that.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 08:24 AM
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Like /u/AlphaAsFAQ said it's hard to describe to be honest. (FAQ id be curious to hear further input from you.) Here's a few hints from me. Is it about you specifically? Likely a fitness (shit) test. (It's often easier to distinguish when you think of shit tests as fitness tests.) Is it about how she fits into your life? Likely a comfort test. Is it post-intercourse, especially post orgasm for her? Likely a comfort test. Are you with a group of people in a social non romantic setting? Likely a s…
/r/askTRP08/06/15 08:08 AM
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Talking to everyone really isn't a problem, in fact I'd encourage introducing yourself to people (mostly guys and anyone you expect you might see often.) The problem is doing a hit on a girl... leave... hit on a girl... leave... hit on a girl... routine. Not saying you're doing this exactly but it doesn't give the impression of social butterfly to the onlooker, it gives the impression of rejection which is obviously not good. Unless your SMV is well above hers people are going to assume she did …
/r/askTRP05/06/15 02:34 PM
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Last I checked top 10% wasn't an average person ;) Aim high and work hard buddy.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 11:06 AM
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Mistakes you made: 1) Arguing anything. No one wins an argument like that. EVER. It has jack shit to do with your frame. In the future respectfully disagree and move on. 2) Not escalating with girls showing IOIs. Why were you bouncing from chick to chick? You went from mysterious new guy to PUA creep. Especially in a small town. 3) Unless you're an ex alcoholic have a drink in your hand. Picking up drunker than you girls is once again a good way to get labeled a creep. 4) Don't ask me how I can …
/r/askTRP05/06/15 06:50 AM
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48 laws of power for me is such an interesting book. The stories in it are both real and phenomenal examples of how power operates in our lives. Can't recommend this book enough both for usefulness and entertainment. Also take a look at the booklists the other commenters posted. Good shit there. In regard to motivation, make a schedule for yourself. For me everyday from 8-8:45 I am reading. It's not a lot but it's a good base that should be easy for me to complete on any standard day. If I go ov…
/r/askTRP05/06/15 06:33 AM
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I'd recommend trying to make a few friends regardless of interest in college culture. Pussy or none that's a long time spent alone. As I progressed in my years at university I continued to make more friends, and when going to parties with friends you'll find they're not quite such a drag. This is speaking from experience. The most fun I've had in 'college culture' has been at house parties thrown by friends and filled with friends. Not to mention at these kind of parties you get automatic social…
/r/askTRP05/06/15 06:25 AM
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Sure the analysis of it may be complicated but in what way were the actual actions taken difficult or overly involved? The texting will be taking maybe 10 minutes of his time maximum. OP never stated directly how long they were going at billiards but I doubt it was much more than 2 hours and like he said fun regardless. Playing her a song? Easy. Seems pretty efficient to me. Maybe /u/BetaMaleFeminist can weigh in himself.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 01:01 AM
2

Easiest solution is to occasionally fuck a different woman. Like /u/windowstapedshut said don't ignore redflags. Keep reading TRP, if you've really swallowed the pill oneitis shouldn't even be a problem for you. AWALher, she is replaceable. If you're morally against fucking other women, get numbers from new women and/or flirt with attractive women. Build abundance in any way you can. IMO the two main causes of oneitis are Disney blue bill bullshit mentality and a lack of options. The first one a…
/r/askTRP04/06/15 07:57 AM
8

The only lasting downsides are language and being a foreigner. Other than that I can't recommend relocation enough. It builds character, unlocks a whole new world of women, forces adaptability, really I could go on and on. To those guys reading this considering moving, you'll probably hear expats bitching about discrimination. Ignore them, the discrimination is part of the fun once you learn to laugh at it. It's easy to get beyond that especially when you consider it's either that or living in s…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 01:19 AM
5

Basically just an extended period of nofap or at least no porn normally for a period of >2 months. It's different for everyone but it took me maybe 50 days to stop thinking about porn. The nofap sub recommends 90 days, which is honestly really easy once you hit the "I don't really care about porn anymore" phase. That not caring about porn attitude is the sign of a successful reboot in my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 01:40 AM
10

The irony of this is of course that it only encourages racism. Now if you're a man or woman of color people wonder if you earned that position or earned that university acceptance, or if instead you just rode the PC train into success. If, as a black man I wanted to for example become a doctor, it's likely people will question my quality of knowledge when comparing me to the Asian doc who statistically had to work much harder to get the same title/degree/job regardless of any difference in quali…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 12:33 AM
1

To each their own I guess but I personally work solely to buy the things I want to buy/live the way I want to live. I have had no trouble in the past with women despite having a rather low prestige/income job. Sure it might be a goal for plugged in men as a tool to get pussy but for the unplugged it should be only a nice perk. Status is of course important when it comes to attraction but I'd rather build status in ways that don't paint me as a meal ticket. The money is for me. The pussy is alrea…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 08:13 AM
1

IMO you got the wrong attitude there. Work should not be about your SMV, it should simply be a means to live the life you want to live. If you want to work a demanding/competitive/high pay high effort job do it for you not for women.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 12:15 AM
15

Getting physical comes with the chance of assault charges and validation of the guys claims. Instead simply chip away at his credibility and reputation. This should be rather easy if he is a known shit talker. Once your friends and girl are on the same page he should no longer be an issue. At the same time make sure you don't give off any vibe that you care. When asked about the guys claims just say 'it's false, just (jackass) stirring up shit as usual.' Openly reacting to his bs/getting angry w…
/r/askTRP01/06/15 07:41 AM
2

Experience is all I can recommend. Work on your posture, and also speak more slowly. If your issue is in keeping conversation interesting, I recommend looking up conversation threading. Also work on becoming a genuinely interesting person.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 04:24 AM
3

People may blow this post off, but this is pretty big. It means that boys at home using their parent's computer will not be able to view this reddit. No actually they'll still be fine for now. This is Symantec web filtering blocking it, not Symantec anti virus. All this means for now is guys who for some reason browse TRP at work will be blocked if they use the work supplied internet connection. However I definitely do see this as the potential precursor to the inevitable banning of this subredd…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 01:25 AM
2

This site has some additional information on common law marriage including a list of states that have it.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 01:20 AM
1

That's so incredibly stupid but I still laughed
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 12:44 AM
1

What you say is absolutely true. It's definitely possible to have positive relationships here as an alpha personality. Of my two most alpha coworkers they, as far as I can tell, have solid relationships with their wives. The other guys... never want to talk about it. Also AWALT doesn't just cease here because the women are more aware on average. I've had no trouble garnering short term relationships/ONS.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 12:23 AM
1

Then rise above it and him. Leave him nothing to complain about. This may be wrong but he may be quite aware of his betaness and see the potential in you to not become him. He may be doing all he can think of to push you to greater heights and he's just not so good at it, he's only human. A big part of growing up is realizing your parents (excepting extreme circumstances) aren't super human nor super assholes, they're flawed people just like you and I. Clearly you've already hit that realization…
/r/askTRP20/05/15 08:01 AM
1

Examples of these "shit tests" he's giving you?
/r/askTRP20/05/15 07:35 AM
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STOP BEING ATTRACTED ONLY TO ATTRACTIVE WOMEN SHITLORD! At least they do note that it is essentially hardwired into us. Also But by the time people reach working-age and beyond, Fuentes said, levels of indirect aggression between the sexes even out. Sure.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 07:06 AM
1

Actually I've heard flonase and other 24hr nasal sprays are really becoming the best option. Triamcinolone acetonide is supposedly even more effective than antihistamines although I have yet to try it as it's a pain to get where I live.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 03:53 AM
1

Recently started taking Zyrtec again due to allergies roaring up again. This past weekend I was able to go twice successfully with a condom however... it was more difficult than usual to get started so I guess that could coincide with the recently restarted antihistamines. Any suggestion for alternative allergy relief? The damn things just suck the life out of me regardless of libido loss.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 02:22 AM
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Care to expand on the antihistamines?
/r/askTRP19/05/15 01:43 AM
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At this point he needs any kind of progress. Once he can afford a gym he can think about proper weight training
/r/askTRP18/05/15 07:44 AM
1

Set a schedule for yourself and adhere to it. Try adding fish oil, vitamins D and B as supplements. Also tea and whey (not together obviously) I find help my energy levels whilst not having the negative effects most caffeine drinks have.
/r/askTRP18/05/15 02:58 AM
1

She said she would come over late on a Saturday night and you turned her down? Am I missing something here or why did you say no to that?
/r/askTRP17/05/15 11:50 PM
8

I would have to say the greatest deception the US government has succeeded in is convincing the American public that by swapping out the talking head every 4-8 years everything will suddenly be ok. The president is just one part of the monster and it's only getting bigger.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 04:55 AM
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Yeah as great as this could be, I'm inclined to disbelief due to the whole recently bedridden college kid acquiring model looks and body all the while traveling to 22 different countries all the while working on a compsci degree.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 04:38 AM
1

Never heard of people complaining about that. I wouldn't worry about the hassle. Chances are new people will instantly accept it, although I'm sure your friends might give you some shit.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 02:31 PM
2

Nothing wrong with being loud and cracking jokes so long as you're not the joke
/r/askTRP15/05/15 12:26 PM
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Trp is just one of hundreds of other things I could identify with, it in no way imprisons me in some group thinking. Humans love throwing things and people into groups to make life easier to understand, but as an individual you get to decide. Do you define yourself by 1 group or do you define yourself as you, a unique individual with unique sets of ideas, circumstances, and ways of life. I have in no way cut emotion from my life, although I better control it. I still love just as much if not mor…
/r/askTRP15/05/15 08:21 AM
2

Better nutrition is about as natural as it gets. Try supplements for: Vitamin D, B complex, fish oil, zinc, and this is non essential but Maca. Make sure to take the stuff with meals to better facilitate absorbing then. Also, cut back on sugar and check if any medication you're already taking has side effects for depression, libido loss, or fatigue. If you're taking allergy meds maybe consider switching to a nasal spray. Oh and eat lots of meat and nuts for bonus points. Don't avoid fats.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 08:07 AM
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Also everyones numbers are subjective. Your post for example 7 sounds like a barely fuckable number whereas for me it's good quality. For me: 5: Take it or leave it 6: Good body, average face and vice versa 7. Good body, pretty face 8. Good body, beautiful face and vice versa 9. Beautiful face and body 10. 5'9" d-cup virgin half-asian woman who works out consistently has good family values has the face of an angel and whose sole profession is giving me blowjobs and food; AKA doesn't exist I thin…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 07:01 AM
2

You can't possibly call her LTR material so soon. Make her work for that shit don't just hand it out. What's the point of monk mode if you're going to jump into oneitis with the first girl you come across. I strongly recommend expanding your options, even if you never have sex with anyone but hb7.5 just to build at least SOME semblance of abundance mentality. Don't stop seeing the girl of course, but at the same time cast a wider net! Best of luck this weekend. Read up on kino escalation if you …
/r/askTRP15/05/15 06:32 AM
2

Examples of how you're acting and how people respond? It's hard to say but it sounds like you're misinterpreting stoicism with being cold and unfun.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 06:21 AM
1

Solid response, thanks for sharing your experience.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 06:10 AM
8

Is it necessary to legally change it? I have plenty of Chinese friends and they almost all have an English style name that they introduce themselves as to anyone other than fellow Chinese. If you want to be Chadwick Thunderknob maybe just start introducing yourself as such and ask your non-family people to start calling you by that name. Having a different legal first name than what people know you as is really not that uncommon.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 01:42 AM
2

If she comes up with an excuse and doesn't offer a reschedule just say something like "Ok let me know if you want to hang out at a later date." and stop messaging her. The last thing you want to do is beg her for a date or worse become some orbiter. No reason to frame it as romantic either, just ask her if she wants to go hang out and get food/coffee. Better yet, since she's foreign and you (hopefully) know some decent local restaurants, take her to try some food shes maybe never tried before. S…
/r/askTRP14/05/15 11:54 AM
4

You're over thinking it. Ask one out for coffee, go from there.
/r/askTRP14/05/15 08:25 AM
4

There's no real rules per se to TRP despite what some people may think. To each their own. TRP of course strongly discourages things like marriage and general beta behaviors, but I think LTR vs. Plates is up to personal preference. Best way of doing it in my opinion is have a main plate/"girlfriend" the one who gets priority days such as Saturday night and maybe your family knows about, and then have side plates. I think this strategy allows for a greater stability over the standard plate merry-…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 02:02 AM
4

Best advice I can give is be genuinely interested in these people. I don't mean kissass but ask about what brought them to this point, mistakes, triumphs, etc. People like to talk about themselves. If you make a solid connection have a way of keeping in contact. I would recommend having at minimum a LinkedIn account and ideally a business card. Also, don't ignore your fellow younger guys, they're headed the same direction you are more than likely.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 07:59 AM
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While in some cases this may be true I think that for some women it is upbringing. Perhaps it's true of the outwardly nerdy girls (aka attention seeking) however the others are likely into it from nerdy fathers and brothers influence in their early lives. My sister for example has been into scifi and fantasy long before boys were a concern, and has retained her nerdy interests into adulthood. That said just looking at her you wouldn't be able to tell this, and would just assume she's your typica…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 07:36 AM
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Good good let the hate flow through you... come to the red side... In all seriousness though, welcome. Don't worry about the anger too much. Use it as fuel to start improving yourself and start lifting if you don't already. Now is the time to cut the crap (people included) from your life and start becoming the man that is your full potential. As many others have suggested read up on monk mode if you haven't already. Also semi unrelated; I recommend checking out /r/leangains (for gaining muscle w…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 07:17 AM
1

Some people do 'hardmode' over on /r/nofap however I think that's just male hamster for "I can't get laid so I'll feign virtue." Completely unnecessary to abstain in my opinion, in fact I would encourage sex.
/r/askTRP12/05/15 11:28 AM
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A girl not long ago asked me over on a Friday night to help her eat strawberries which her mother conveniently bought her far too many of. It was only to help with the food! Nothing else! "Ok." "It's kind of late and you live far (both true) so if you want you can stay over tonight. But just sleep nothing else!" "Ok." She certainly had some strange ways of only sleeping needless to say. If they're talking about it there's no doubt they're thinking about it.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 06:20 AM
1

Situational. Though I won't bother arguing you on it
/r/askTRP11/05/15 08:51 AM
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Nofap and healthy sex was my cure for this. Even if you don't quit completely cut it down to once or twice a week.
/r/askTRP11/05/15 08:25 AM
2

Honka honka, tongue in the ear, ponytail yank, piledriver, the possibilities are endless. Not sure how to take this question seriously.
/r/askTRP11/05/15 08:21 AM
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However, if they are, shouldn't you convey some level of interest or excitement in spending time with a girl? If you don't, won't it seem like you don't care at all about seeing her, so you're not interested in her? Never had problems with this. Just an "OK see you there :)" Should be all you need to convey interest without sounding beta. Also, I personally am excited to see a girl I'm interested in. Which is obvious of course, because if I actually want to spend time with a girl, then I'm looki…
/r/askTRP11/05/15 08:14 AM
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The girl should be pushing for the LTR not you, just saying. That aside, if you want to push her in that direction go on good dates with her and not just coffee/apartment movie >>> sex 'dates', ex. Boat, arcade, bowling, day trip, etc. Actual fun shit that will make her want to keep you around. Also don't be afraid to get a little (emphasis on little) emotional during and after sex. Read SGM if you haven't already.
/r/askTRP11/05/15 08:04 AM
1

It really could not come sooner, that will be like an adult Christmas for me. Like many other guys I likely will want to have kids... but not for at least another 10 years.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 03:23 PM
6

My ego is fully erect. I notice sometimes people say that people already high on SMV would have no need for TRP, but that misses a rather large point and that is the availability of a free and open uncensored male space. I would definitely categorize myself as top 20% (maybe even top 1% if I can get my financial act together) but I still visit TRP. In the past several months I have not once gone to a bar without being hit on/asked if they can touch my face (wtf?) by women and the occasional gay …
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 12:46 AM
1

It's different for everyone, expecting comfort to happen the same as any other guy is silly. I have 2 active plates and several sideliners and while I don't get anxiety per se I still get hit with adrenaline when it comes to new romantic interests. The key is to not take it too seriously, and take that adrenaline as a sign of the man you have the potential to be clawing his way out of you when you say whatever to that girl.
/r/askTRP23/04/15 05:12 AM
1

Would you care to expand upon the leasing bit? In my research there's a lot of debate on whether to buy or lease.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 07:58 AM
2

Yeah I'd rather spend an extra $50 a month and eat a more protein centric diet.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 01:35 AM
2

Sounds like a solid first date. It's rare to have a woman of any scrutiny give it up on the first date so a kiss is a good sign. Rule of thumb for me is sexual by end of date 3 or she's gone (even if not intercourse, you getting each other off is acceptable.) You may have a small battle of logistics from the sounds of it due to dorms being difficult. Do you also live in a dorm OP? If not it'll probably just be a matter of getting her comfortable enough to stay the night (not worrying about roomm…
/r/askTRP16/04/15 07:31 AM
2

You hit the nail on the head but honestly I would go straight for the ultimatum. Druggie ex bf who she "checks in on"? Fuck that, not worth your time and frustration OP.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 04:14 AM
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Of course it's possible. The issue that TRP brings to light is that a woman's love is NOT unconditional like yours will likely become over time. In other words for an LTR or marriage to work out you have to hold frame and maintain or improve your SMV consistently. Women get 'unhappy' when they think they can upgrade. Therefore it's key to be the best man available to her if you expect to hold onto her.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 02:31 AM
2

If they force you to apply to religious colleges make a disaster of those applications. Do your 100% best to go to a large public university at least 2 hours from home to justify living on campus. Once you graduate uni who gives a fuck if you're disowned. Make your own way and make sure your parents know they can either accept you or live without you in their lives. You might not even have to make that ultimatum if you live far enough away. When choosing your uni show your parents a nearby churc…
/r/askTRP08/04/15 07:57 AM
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Bonus points if it's true. I have 3 women and 2 groups of friends inadvertently fighting over my weekends. A cancellation is often a blessing in disguise.
/r/askTRP07/04/15 07:08 AM
1

Thats exactly the problem. Ive seen plenty of women throw away great friendships over one petty issue despite having been BFFs for years. It doesn't matter how much fun they had together in the past or how much they got along just 24 hours prior. All they can or care to see is what is happening or happened most recently. The funny thing is most women I've talked to about it know that women are terrible friends and then in the same breath will wonder why guys only want them for sex.
/r/askTRP07/04/15 06:58 AM
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You're going to her place to shower before the date? I personally would just forget the date and hook up with her right there.
/r/askTRP06/04/15 05:15 AM
1

Slightly unrelated but it's interesting how your interests can change too. For the majority of my life it was blue eyed white women, until the past year or two where I have done a flip and am primarily interested in Asian and Latina women. The majority of women I've had sex with recently have been of these groups so perhaps my brain is reprogramming to go with the perceived circumstances? Its funny how attraction and our brain works.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 04:33 AM
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Doesnt sound worth the trouble to me. Id either tell her to get her shit together and show some respect or gtfo, or alternately just drop her. The shits this bad now I think it's unlikely to get better unless she changes to be more respectful asap.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 02:11 AM
1

Thats a hard question to answer honestly. I don't very often say stupid shit but I guess try to play it off in a humorous manner somehow. Its completely gonna depend on the situation. If you gave me an example I could try.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 11:47 PM
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Before sending: 'How will this translate to womanese' And practice really. Dont text so much and instead focus on setting up a date if you're truly bad at it. In person take it more slowly.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 08:18 AM
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Just say "come over at XX:XX" If she gives you shit go radio silent or in general don't give any ground unless it's to change the day or time. If she's fishing for a date don't give in this time, but consider it in the future as a reward for good behaviour.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 08:14 AM
2

I wouldn't be so hardcore on the only text for logistics thing. I don't mind chatting about harmless things and sharing funny stories/videos etc. Also language help is a common thing as I live in a foreign country. So long as it's not personal/emotional bs I don't mind. I'm not just going to go radio silent on a girl for asking how my day was. I'm still getting laid with these women so clearly it isn't the worst thing in the world.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 08:07 AM
1

Amused mastery is the outward result of good inner game. With experience shit tests no longer upset and only 'amuse' you. There is no decent alternate mindset for an alpha man that I know of that involves arguing with women. That is a beta behaviour. If it stops becoming amusing and starts become annoying and disrespectful the master says goodbye. If you're looking for ways to improve yourself in this regard I recommend meditating and spinning plates before jumping into an LTR. You are the mount…
/r/askTRP02/04/15 07:39 AM
1

Around 15 is probably recommended minimum you heard not max. 45 is a good rule of thumb for maximum from what I've read.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 08:08 AM
2

And nature would agree with them. If shes the mother of your child naturally nature demands investment for the wellbeing of your shared offspring, but this is probably not your case. Hence why so many here preach plate theory and the importance of abundance. That said there's nothing wrong with some investment. We're not wild animals, as animalistic as our nature is and will always be. If you're in an LTR it's up to your judgement to take and give in regards to that theoretical line of investmen…
/r/askTRP31/03/15 08:35 AM
1

For me it's tough to say as in college I was BP and now RP however I've no doubt had an easy time with women. Biggest complaint is flexibility in time. At Uni it's easy to put off homework for an hour or two but you can't just postpone work. My tip would be to live in a decently large city after you graduate and if you can, find a job with flex hours. Currently I have the city but not the hours to manage any more than two plates comfortably.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 08:06 AM
1

Its called the red pill for a reason. We have the choice to take the blue pill and take the easy way out or take the hard path of reality. I for one am glad to live in reality. The fabricated 'the one' philosophy may hurt to let go of (it still digs at me no doubt) but I have no doubt there is still the reality of a quality woman out there that I can have a happy life with. Until then I am quite happy to spin plates. Far far happier than my preRP days of being the nice guy. No doubt I was origin…
/r/askTRP31/03/15 07:40 AM
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I know you're excited right now but be extra careful of STDs with the pierced nipple orgy type... if that wasn't obvious enough.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 07:27 AM
1

Did not know about fornix, that would explain some things... and I assume when you made her pass out it was fingers and tongue assuming you're not some freak of nature
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 09:28 AM
3

Competitive team games, whether football, paintball, battlefield, or hockey these can all build what I feel is an incredibly valuable trait/skill: LEADERSHIP I feel it is perhaps one of the, if not THE most important alpha trait and can be applied in too many facets of life to count.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 02:58 AM
1

Right. Just saying something like "Want to go back to my place?" is unlikely to provide results. In my travels I've learned how to make tea the traditional Japanese way (It really does taste better) and this is often the perfect thing to both give the woman her "It just happened" excuse and also further intrigue her since naturally shes curious/interested in what I'm offering. Of course there's many things that can fill in here it just should ideally be something unique. For example "I have (obs…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 02:43 AM
1

Too bad they're so damn expensive. $60-80 a 'session' adds up
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 01:16 AM
3

Do you have any recommendations for where the side girl is unable to host? In the city I live (Tokyo) many many girls live with their parents for quite a while making my place effectively the only place.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 01:40 AM
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SHE HAS PUNY ARMS. But in all seriousness closer to gender neutral than "strong female"
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 11:56 PM
1

As you're making out steadily work your hands around to progressively more sexual places. If she doesn't want it she'll stop your hands or move them somewhere less sexual. Or obviously if she says something. If she responds well to vaginal stimulation get the panties off and the rest is up to you... Just dont get so worked up about legal shit. Don't forget the condom and you're golden once the clothes come off. If she wants you to stop she will do or say something.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 08:02 AM
2

FWB I'd imagine would be a comfortable term for her unless she's looking for commitment... in which case be prepared to explain you're not looking for anything serious/long term.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 07:08 AM
2

I would recommend physical activity groups for example a basketball league or whatever you find interesting. Although to be honest you'll find both betas and alphas everywhere. Most of the more alpha friends I've made have just been completely random circumstances. Its often recommended in the manosphere for people new to day game to just practice striking up conversation with complete strangers whenever the opportunity presents itself, whether male or female. Regardless of my skill in daygame I…
/r/askTRP23/03/15 07:04 AM
3

Cant say I've experienced that with J girls. In fact not too long ago one girl helped me move a new table to my apartment, strangest thing. I mean I think the main reason is she wanted to bang afterwards, but still they're not all that selfish. Maybe I just haven't been here long enough.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 07:36 AM
7

OP said in a comment she did pay him rent for this past month. Its best for him to just be patient like he's been, sounds like he doesn't have to wait too long.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 08:06 AM
4

I wouldn't group all cities like that, also it depends from person to person I'm sure. Tokyo, for example, I love living in. However I have yet to try any major American cities long term such as LA or NYC.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 12:12 AM
2

Right, what I'm trying to get across is any man with wits would choose a young woman over an old one, even if the old one used to be attractive. Sure that Benz may have been some hot shit 20 years ago but it sure isn't today.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 12:04 AM
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Its really like a used car salesman trying to sell you the 20 year old Benz with 200K miles on it over the year old (or better yet new) honda sedan next door for the same price point. He can try to argue the age and brand and style it has as advantages, but unless you don't give a damn about your money and life expectancy of your purchase you're going to get that Honda. What man wouldn't choose the lower maintenance pretty thing with the majority of her life still ahead of her?
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 07:31 AM
1

Exactly. Who the hell can or wants to spend all of their time gaming/dating/whatever it is you do? A lot of these essays written in the manospehere likely take no more than 20 minutes to write. Not to mention most guys have a large amount of downtime at work. I would not be surprised in the slightest if most of these posts are written on some company's dime. That said of course theories without practice will just remain theories. Guys who think reading manosphere will solve all of their problems…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 12:31 AM
6

The way that sentence is worded makes it sound like some sort of jihadist circus bear attack. "Release the tumbling hambeasts Abdullah" "allahu akbar"
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 07:29 AM
1

Good question but what exactly do you mean? Like FWB that decide they actually like each other on a personal level or...?
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 02:30 AM
1

Curious, what did you buy and how have they affected you?
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 02:27 AM
6

I feel like the majority of mothers are like our mothers. Its just somewhat unclear because the ones you hear about most are the bad ones. While the "love" a woman feels for her SO might be in fact a state of need, I feel like the value of ones offspring cannot be underestimated. The love in my grandmothers eyes when she saw her grandchildren is unmistakeable. Of course this is all anecdotal but I feel that sisters can truly love their siblings as well. From an evolutionary standpoint it only ma…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 12:39 AM
1

Glad to help
/r/askTRP11/03/15 10:55 AM
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Why do you fear disappointing girls? The only way you can do that is if she doesn't orgasm. The only way that won't happen is if you're lazy or she is somehow incapable. Even if you come in 30 seconds or can't get hard the job can still be done。Time should not be a factor in most sexual situations so take your time and get the job done. More than once ideally.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 09:57 AM
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Are you spinning plates or a LTR only guy? If you're just looking for sex and comfort spin more plates. A lasting relationship will be tough with her although age should be a non factor. Unless you're looking to propose or something I think it's unlikely she'll follow you around from base to base.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 08:17 AM
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You will find a mixed response here. Typically I personally avoid plating women who seem to be the more helpless/innocent type (although sometimes this is DEFINITELY a ruse haha.) Theres plenty of slutty women out there if all you're looking for is sex. That said it's pretty easy to soft next. Enter a "relationship" and as soon as you start building confidence and are ready for better start acting the opposite of what she finds attractive. She will break up with you shortly no hearts broken. If …
/r/askTRP11/03/15 08:06 AM
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Why bother getting involved in a family dispute, especially between two women. Let her vent if she wants to (which she seemingly didn't want to) and stay chill. Youre her rock not her tampon. Dont be a child and fight her pouting by pouting. Wake her up and say "I'm going skiing. Lets go." If she joins you she joins you. If not go enjoy skiing alone.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 07:54 AM
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Play to your strengths then. Call and only use texting for meetup purposes. Otherwise treat texting no different from a conversation if she insists on text. Even if she insists on text you can play it the hard way and basically make it clear that if she wants to talk, its going to be by phone. Can you give an example of a weak conversation to critique?
/r/askTRP09/03/15 08:44 AM
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An awesome country to visit maybe.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 02:15 AM
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Generic ones: Where are you from, Student or worker what job which school which major etc. Evolve into more personal questions like aspirations etc. Dont be afraid to get a number at any time once comfortable with her. Even if ONS it can be good for comfort building, future plate status, or future meetup in case that night doesn't work out as planned. If you're going to try to get somewhere that night progress in kino and mention where you and she lives, that you have this cool (____) collection…
/r/askTRP06/03/15 07:15 AM
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As someone with many foreign friends I can definitely say that I've noticed much more emotional openness among the non westernized men. I have a couple of Saudi friends who have no qualms with opening up and telling me their emotional issues, troubles, etc. and while it's strange to me as a 'stoic emotionless western man' I certainly welcome it. Its important to have someone to open up to and it's important to get advice, especially as there is a chance that friend has gone through the same shit…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 12:32 AM
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Thats it! Thanks for the find.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 12:13 AM
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I can avoid number 2 and 4 no problem but how the hell do I avoid water bottles and tap water? Usually I use a plastic water bottle and refill it with tap water... Guess I can switch to glass or ceramics at least?
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 07:07 AM
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I forget how long ago I read it but someone made a comment or post a while back on a men vs. women survivor type tv show. To make a long story short despite some differences the men worked together to create a stable society on their island with plenty of food shelter etc., while the women bickered and sunbathed. It got so bad that the show had to send a few of the men over to the other island and vice versa. The men that moved thought they were getting a good deal but couldn't have been more wr…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 01:39 AM
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Good question and in my opinion when you hit that wall so to speak it's because you've had the wrong goals in mind. I'm of the opinion that physical things are rather silly goals to have. A big house and a nice car and a big bank account appeal to me sure, but if I could trade that for a year of experiences in a foreign land? No doubt I'd take that trade. Once money stops being a means to an end and instead becomes your goal you've lost sight of what matters. Earning too much? Cut back on your h…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 01:08 AM
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Self-control. Also for newer guys it may be beneficial in forcing oneself to seek stimulation outside of porn/masturbation, increasing their chances of getting out there and doing something real. In my opinion excessive pornography makes most people lazy when it comes to picking up women.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 01:54 AM
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In Japan for example you'll find that there's been a huge "pussification" of guys that are teens to the late 20's. Older Asian men have always seemed to be super red pill to me. Currently living in Japan working for a Japanese company. The difference between young and old Japanese guys is like night and day in terms of masculinity. As far as I can tell it's only getting worse too. More for me I guess...
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 02:08 AM
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Its almost like nature is telling men to back off in the case of those women. Kind of like how we can smell when food is bad or hear a predator sneaking up. Whats more dangerous to a modern man's genetic line than a shitty wife?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 03:52 AM
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This isn't particularly new to be honest.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 03:47 AM
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Can't answer for the other guy but ALL of it. You can't be a fatass who dresses nice and expect to draw women. Just like you can't expect to be fit yet dress like a homeless person. Attitude is IMO the largest part of it however. Beta guys do visibly look beta via actions, attitude, and posture. Over time this will become painfully obvious to you or at least it has for me.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 01:53 AM
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I think no matter how long I've been rp women buying me things will never get old. It boggles my mind to be honest. All I've done for you is not be an idiot and be a man and you're insisting on paying for my dinner? I know how hot girls feel now and it feels good.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 03:05 AM
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Would you mind explaining why this is? I've never thought of prior orbiter acceptance as an issue before. Just assumed it's something women did if they could.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 12:55 AM
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I feel like this sub over generalizes and really doesn't understand feminism. It absolutely is understood. Everyone here understands the definition of feminism but that is no longer what feminism is. It's one thing to consider oneself egalitarian, however modern feminism is simply not that. How much effort have you seen the feminist movement put into diminishing the massive penalties of divorce on men and only men? How much effort have you seen the feminist movement put into the abolishment of s…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 08:31 AM
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"luck" Have you ever considered just maybe that these guys actually put in effort? Stop feeling sorry for yourself and change yourself for the better. Or at the very least realize that bitching on the internet will help nothing.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 10:19 AM
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Hmm interesting so rather than mention any other women at all, just give a legitimate yet different reason.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 02:26 PM
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Out of curiosity how do you all go about informing your plates that you do not intend to be exclusive without directly saying so? Sure I can allude to it by saying "I was hanging out with Woman A on Friday" but sometimes people can be willfully ignorant. I'm new to plating. To answer the question: For me, mostly a kind of FWB kind of situation. We occasionally get food/coffee/do stuff other than sex. I enjoy spending time well enough with all of them and I'm a foreigner where I'm at so having a …
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 09:38 AM
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50 people is a lot, I wouldn't worry about the fact that you're living with them. Just don't be overly zealous in your pursuits, like I said earlier only pursue the ones that you're truly interested in unless easy sex presents itself. Regarding social groups I'm not entirely sure what you mean. Be careful with getting yourself in a social group with you as the sole man. Even if it's just one other guy (ideally who you have more SMV than) it could help prevent you from become the de facto mediato…
/r/askTRP18/01/15 11:49 AM
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Use pre-selection to your advantage. Make friends with medium quality women that you're less interested in -> strike at the women who you're truly interested in. Don't be a dick but at the same time don't appear committed to any one person. The rest is just applying standard TRP gaming techniques. Don't worry about getting a reputation for sleeping with a lot of women, that's a good thing. Only BP worry about that kind of shit. RP men use it to their advantage.
/r/askTRP18/01/15 11:24 AM
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