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You want something from someone. How is not a negotiation?
/r/askMRP07/10/24 11:06 PM
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I dont agree. You shouldnt be trying to humiliate her for an issue thats just between you both. Its sounds a bit pathetic. Also, starting an argument with "i dont want to break up with you" is like starting a negotiation with "i dont want to lose this deal".
/r/askMRP07/10/24 08:13 PM
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Thanks. I will start today.
/r/askMRP31/08/24 06:02 PM
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Yes and no. I always had the drive and ambition to do things for myself, she would follow me everywhere. Then after the pandemic I was burned out and got fired, my friends moved abroad and I had meltdown. During this period I developed a lot of covert contracts. In my mind she was the only thing I had left. I had to start my life from scratch 1y ago.
/r/askMRP31/08/24 06:01 PM
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Yup, thats me. Trying to fit in, be nice, sometimes pretending to be something I am not to make others feel better. I let my friends push me, I dont think they respect me (i know this is my fault for being such a doormat). I want to add I was never like this before. I was very controversial and confrontational like my father. But a few years back I lost my job, divorced, I just lost too much and I think Im afraid to lose people now. I think it changed me. Im not using this as excuse. I do want t…
/r/askMRP31/08/24 02:09 PM
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Good, Im going to start to OYS every week. Yes, thats true. Im going to step down on drinking and monitor my finances. But I also need to increase my income as well.
/r/askMRP31/08/24 01:44 PM
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I understand for this purpose 1 and 3 are useless, but It matters to me because they were huge milestones. Im losing everytime I walk away from a conflict. Im going to cut the distractions right away, this is the easiest one. But Im struggling with being authentic and unapologetical. I get in situations where I make a fool of myself just to fit in... its so pathetic. Ive been struggling to break this behavior. I do not need to apologize no one for being myself lol.
/r/askMRP31/08/24 01:42 PM
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Thats was actually one of my objectives as part of my MAP for this year. I will do so. One pain point I did not mention about this heavy drinking is that Ive made some friends which turn out to be kind of losers. Their daily activities include a lot of drinking, smoking and complaining. Im just way too passive, sometimes they talk to me aggressively and assertive, I get upset but I freeze. I just dont know how to handle the situations.
/r/askMRP31/08/24 01:28 PM
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I think these kinds of requests are deceiving. Its not a request per se. She isnt asking for permission, she is just being polite. She has thought about it hundreds of times, she has at least a couple of guys lined up, she has been cooking it for months if not more. You cant change her mind now, its too late. Do not waste your energy and moves trying to make her rethink her desire. Say No and set yourself financially free. Then reassess
/r/askMRP29/08/24 08:10 PM
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Great wisdom here. I feel like borders these days are pretty meaningless. A lot of people have boundaries but no one enforces them. And I do struggle with this myself. Thanks.
/r/askMRP27/07/24 02:36 PM
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Is she being selfish or does she not want kids (with you)?
/r/askMRP18/04/24 12:01 AM
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I think you are overthinking this. She just wants your attention/is bored at work. I think you are doing great. Send her a meme once in awhile too. I would personally take some time to respond (but make sure you always do) because it pisses me off when people text me for no reason other than being bored 😅 That being said, i dont think this is the best place to get advice from in such meaningless things. Dating would be better. Unless someone prove me wrong.
/r/askMRP06/03/24 01:32 PM
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What do you reply though?
/r/askMRP06/03/24 12:52 PM
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Thats not complaining. Sounds like she is bored and wants your attention.
/r/askMRP06/03/24 12:36 PM
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Hypergamy exists for thousands of years. Its def not something new. What is new imo is that there were social and cultural barriers to it. Women were not independant and needed a man to provide, women culturally had to get married young and have few sexual partners. For the sake of you, leave girls to do their things and do your own. A lot of guys are too worried about how unfair is that girls get a lot of attention and they get none. It only matters if you make your whole personality about how …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:29 AM
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Yes, its weak. The same way you have to be scrolling on your phone, getting every shot of dopamine rush you can to avoid being bored. Being bored is a great way to start overthink your problems and stress out. I feel like the same is true for relationships, being with someone takes a lot of time you woulve spent on yourself. So, if you have issues or you dont like your life, its the easiest way out. You are not focusing on your problems so much anymore. For instance, when I dated I felt like bot…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:17 AM
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Women have such a plethora of choice they can cut you off by the slightest meaningful thing. Whats that you dont understand about that? You have a business with 100 potential customers, but you only need 2 or 3. Bro, you can have insane requisites as long as the market favours you. Us man play the weak side. The average guy goes onto 100 women just to get a shot at 2 or 3. Thats pure market dynamics. I dont usually use this as an example because its not right to consider sex a market or a commod…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:25 AM
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Lol being bullied is not constructive at all. I was a bully as a teen and I regret it now. I didnt have the moral compass to understand what other people were going through in their lives. That being said, now I find myself in a heavily hierarchized society and work and I must said I adults bully the shit out of you constantly to make sure you know whos in charge. However, while as a kid things were blatently evident, nowadays people are kings and queens of gaslighting and passive aggressive/non…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:37 AM
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Maybe be explicit the next time? Thats a way to avoid these issues for sure and If she suddenly is not interested you get your cue. Careful how you approach this subject tho. Other than that I would do the same. I would pay and leave. Someone who doesnt have the money for a meal, unless they got a pretty good excuse, Id pass.
/r/askMRP05/01/24 12:34 PM
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Lmfao this guy is comparing a date to anal. Very unexpected and funny. But yeah somewhat agree
/r/askMRP05/01/24 12:30 PM
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You dont owe her anything. Shes gone. I fell into the same rabbit hole and blamed myself while she moved on with her life. The fact you think you do is going to set you back in your life. You made mistakes. I made mistakes. But ultimately it was her decision, for better or for worse. Embrace it and work on yourself. Be a better man for you and for your kid. Nothing else matters. Like other users said, if she aint your girl dont treat her as such. This is common sense.
/r/askMRP05/01/24 12:24 PM
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Understood
/r/askMRP01/01/24 05:40 AM
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Why do I feel that I need validation from other peopel namely my boss (getting a good wage for example), from women and from assets? I do not have a mission thats my most crucial issue. Its hard to change any aspect of my life when I dont know where I want to go. Im a bit lost here. I dont think you understand how hard it is to start even when we have all these resources in hand
/r/askMRP01/01/24 05:32 AM
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Thanks for the feedback. Im not here trying to get your validarion or empathy. Im here because Im struggling with implementing these ideas into action. Ive know rp for almost a year now, mrp for a couple of months yet all I do is mental masturbation. The only thing ive been doing consistently is lifting. Moreover stfu. I only talk about my issues here. You know why am all hung up on my ex? Because she is already banging another dude and Im sitting here lonely with no options. Simple as that.
/r/askMRP01/01/24 05:17 AM
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Thats exactly my point. I would never go into games thinking I was going to lose, even if the odds werent in my favour. I had that mentality in life, and I feel thats something that captivated my wife. I had a huge drive and no fears. But after a couple of years I stopped sports I became very fragile. I was super afraid of losing my job and her, she knew that. Excelling at a sport gave me huge confidence. I think it was the fact of pushing throw hardships and coming on top is just an amazing fee…
/r/askMRP31/12/23 01:49 PM
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Pahahahah thats so true. But I feel like men dont give you advice either, they just call you on your shit and let you figure
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:23 PM
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Absolutely. Theres a lot of things outside of our control but the key takeaway here is that now I know how to deal with situations like these. I was simping my own gf out of fear of getting dumped, can you believe that? I put her in a pedestal while she spat on my face. I made mistake after mistake and I own them. I know I might sound like the typical teenager but we were together 5 years and she would always look up to my. She would come to me everytime. She was an adorer. I blew it in like 9-6…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/23 01:03 PM
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Yes! When I felt I was losing the hold of my life due to missing my friends and realizing as adults we follow different paths and that my old college life was over I got very vulnerable. Idk that realization hit me hard. The fact that I was now under pressure at work, I was working long hours and I felt deprived of my old life. I just gave it my all to my relationship. I started getting really needy and made her my priority. All in all I made some really bad decisions over and over again. After …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/23 12:48 PM
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No need to generalize. My exs were much more of a parent to me than I was to them in terms of nurturing. My way of acting as parent was more like supporting their goals and in serious issues (few and far between). Not saying I was the best partner, but I did care for them like family.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:40 PM
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I can agree on that, men dont need women unless its for sex but i feel the way society is built, women need a man to be valuable (womens value comes from having a good husband and children/being a good mom)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:25 PM
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Bro 1) you dont know how to interpret the article you just mentioned 2) you dont know stats lmao Percentages dont depend on the population. Perhaps if men were more scarce women would swipe more but you dont know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:36 PM
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I think it should be shamed for both actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 09:14 AM
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He did not shame women for that. But fully agree with you. "Exploring" options is something really shitty to do in an healthy relationship. Be it at 20 or 30, women or men. If you think being with someone hotter/richer will make you happy forever, you are set for a rough disappointment
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 09:04 AM
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