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ConversationRedmrbean/r/seduction20/01/22 04:43 AM
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Redmrbean/r/seduction09/04/22 03:49 AM
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To get her back, forget about her and become a better man. And then when she tries to come back, reject her. We got back together and ended again.
/r/seduction16/08/22 11:39 PM
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You reckon?
/r/seduction09/04/22 04:26 AM
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Now that’s real long game lol
/r/seduction30/03/22 08:45 PM
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Yea that’s different I guess. She was fairly receptive from the start, but I enjoy the long game whilst still dating around for fun. Whatever works for you
/r/seduction30/03/22 08:44 PM
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Realistically it was like 2 months … I think it was different because I had never actually met her and she had no idea who I was hahaha
/r/seduction30/03/22 08:42 PM
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Yea don’t even worry bro. I got asked out at work once and I thought it was very nice of her, and took it as a compliment. Fuck it ask her out get some reps in
/r/seduction30/03/22 09:57 AM
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When I was seducing my ex, I’d start of real slow. Replying to maybe one of every 4 instagram stories. At first I would keep it very casual and/or banterous; “gee where’s this” or if she posted the food she cooked “looks posionous”. Nothing crazy! Once she got the memo she would start posting more and I would reply more but escalate it. For example after a few months of doing the above, if she posted one of herself that she looked cute in, I would send an emoji like the eyes “👀” or “okay chicka …
/r/seduction30/03/22 09:24 AM
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Sort of a weird situation but I dumped her (kinda before I knew she was gonna do it to me) then asked to get back but she said no. 3 months later we have sex and now she reaches out saying she misses me and if I wanna do something! Thoughts?
/r/seduction27/03/22 08:47 PM
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Advice on expanding social circle? My advice would be to read Mark Manson’s book “models”. Meet like minded people by doing what you love and enjoy. For me that’s outdoor activities and sports, so I joined up to University clubs and the rest is history! Also if you want to get good at interacting with women, I would treat them as a friend to begin with. Learn to be good mates with women and it will lesson any fears you have around talking to them! I have heaps of female friends who I consider pu…
/r/seduction27/03/22 10:08 AM
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Maybe set a goal! What’s the level of adventurous you’re going for? Pm!
/r/seduction26/03/22 09:54 AM
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Whats monk mode
/r/seduction26/03/22 07:52 AM
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I’d also say don’t worry about women for now. Being an adventurous person is an attractive trait in itself and women are drawn to that! Let me know how you go man!
/r/seduction25/03/22 09:12 PM
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Hey man! Well I’d say first don’t box yourself in! I assume you pointed out that you’re a pianist because you think it correlates with low adventurousness…. it doesn’t! Second, I’ve picked two goals to get me outside my comfort zone. I’m going to south America to travel solo at the end of the year and to say I’m a bit scared is an understatement, but it’s gotta be done! I think being adventurous is doing things outside your comfort zone and embracing the discomfort. If you need some inspiration …
/r/seduction25/03/22 09:11 PM
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You’re right they don’t. Maybe if I have a terrible relationship with him that will make me seem more attractive
/r/seduction25/03/22 09:06 PM
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Say darl or darls
/r/seduction25/03/22 12:13 PM
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🥱
/r/seduction25/03/22 03:40 AM
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Haha bro you’re allowed to be sad for a bit it’s okay man. Who hurt you
/r/seduction25/03/22 01:37 AM
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What are you doing?
/r/seduction25/03/22 12:20 AM
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Yep
/r/seduction25/03/22 12:18 AM
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Cultivating a lifestyle of adventure, filling myself up with the things THAT I like doing. Learning news skills, becoming better mates with my brother, working towards a dream physique and taking piano lessons! Oh and cultivating my own personal style 👍
/r/seduction24/03/22 11:53 PM
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Yea good call man! But is it weak to not say what I want and then feel like Im waiting? Or is it weak to message her with what I want and then if she doesn’t want it to never look back?
/r/seduction23/03/22 11:31 PM
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Say nothin instead ? Let her do the chasin?
/r/seduction23/03/22 10:17 PM
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Hahaha bruh! She said she misses me, thinks about me and wants to hang.. all this shit… so I bedded her. Then I made the suggestion. Next time I ain’t makin no suggestions
/r/seduction23/03/22 10:16 PM
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Get back! Not exactly trying too hard though cos I got backup
/r/seduction23/03/22 10:14 PM
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Just ask them questions about themselves and if they reciprocate, give em an answer! If it starts to get awkward, keep asking. Practice having genuine interest in what they’re saying I’ve found this works well for me
/r/seduction23/03/22 10:14 PM
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My ex flirted heaps with me the other night and I ended up in her bed… she said she wanted to hang out again but two days later I received a message saying she’s confused and doesn’t want me to think we’re all good. I said no worries I don’t really care what she does and that she probably needs to go and date around a bit to clear her mind (I wanted to show her that’s what I’m doing and not look needy too, even though I still have w feelings). How about in this situation? She gives me signs and …
/r/seduction23/03/22 12:47 AM
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Just had a call with her, and she said she was confused and didn’t want to lead me on or for me to think that we were all sweet. As expected! I just said yea that’s all good and I had fun for myself. I feel like I played it well and was cool, calm, collected and light hearted, and then finished off by saying that when she changes her mind, my door is open (I know I know… but I’m never reaching out again, so if she does message me, then I assume she wants to hang if you get me) anyway lol I feel …
/r/seduction20/03/22 09:23 AM
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Thanks mate! She reached out saying she was confused and wants to call later. All I’m going to do is play it cool and say no worries! I like to think of myself as the best she’ll ever find so thats too bad. Thanks a bunch!
/r/seduction20/03/22 05:45 AM
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Update: she’s back
/r/seduction19/03/22 06:50 AM
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Okay so if I’m just being a good bloke and saying hi quickly and making small talk then is that considered simping? Where’s the line?
/r/seduction25/02/22 06:58 AM
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Cheers brother - love the quote btw!
/r/seduction25/02/22 03:43 AM
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Cheers boiz
/r/seduction25/02/22 03:42 AM
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Na just bump into each other at classes etc. Is ignoring really the way? I just feel like it’s not me that’s all! Or should I override that though
/r/seduction25/02/22 01:31 AM
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Idk she told it to one of her gf’s who told me that too. Unless that was a manipulation tactic. But she said it was her first time having someone meet her rents as well. Idk it’s all kinda weird and imma go crazy thinkin bout it
/r/seduction21/01/22 04:34 AM
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If I could go back, I would back tf off and see what happens
/r/seduction21/01/22 04:25 AM
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Hard to come to terms with. Hit the nail on the head man! I thought I could change her in terms of her communication. No avail!
/r/seduction21/01/22 04:23 AM
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Na cbf writing out the whole thing. I’m just salty at myself for finding out how to act after I broke up with her rather than before. Still, I did try and back off heaps and she never budged. The whole relationship was about how SHE was feeling about things. I never once thought about that until I reflected on it last night. I find it weird that she’s so hot but never been in a relo before like ??? Wtf. Maybe cos she’s just so “independent” and doesn’t give a fuck about males. Meh!
/r/seduction21/01/22 04:19 AM
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She also told me from the start how she’l never be dependent on anyone and pushes people away she is close to. As I said to someone else, 26 and I’m her first semi long term relationship? Dafuq
/r/seduction20/01/22 08:46 PM
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I only complimented her once, saw her 1-2x per week cos busy w work, asserted my boundaries and dumped her because she couldn’t communicate. Kinda regretted not giving it ‘my all’ but still prob right thing to do. I definitely said ILY one too many times tho cos that’s what my ex liked. U live and u learn
/r/seduction20/01/22 08:37 PM
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How can you express them totally without coming across as needy? Or is that question in itself a form of neediness? Haha
/r/seduction20/01/22 10:56 AM
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Agreed. Lesson learned. Still a factor for me gotta be attracted to em!
/r/seduction20/01/22 09:50 AM
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She said she casually dated a two boys but got the ‘ick’ too fast and “couldn’t be bothered dealing with that stuff”. I took it as a challenge to seduce her and got it done, but now I see why she hasn’t ever been w other guys - either too scared or too in it for herself. My mates reckon she has BPD but I don’t wanna go around couch diagnosing fuckers haha. I did dodge a bullet
/r/seduction20/01/22 09:50 AM
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As in I should lose control over myself if I feel it because that’s true vulnerability?
/r/seduction20/01/22 09:48 AM
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Agreed
/r/seduction20/01/22 09:47 AM
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You’re a legend man! It’s hard to get over these types, especially when you currently don’t see yourself as a ‘10’ anymore haha. I think time is what I need. Keen to get back into things!
/r/seduction20/01/22 09:46 AM
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How do you then express truely how you feel someone is/make them feel special? Surely it’s okay here and there?
/r/seduction20/01/22 08:40 AM
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In it together my friend. It’s hard to accept they’re the one with the issues, especially when she doesn’t/can’t see it herself. Hope it goes well for you man!
/r/seduction20/01/22 08:38 AM
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Fk man. I needed this 💪 you’re a beast!
/r/seduction20/01/22 07:33 AM
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Cheers bro
/r/seduction20/01/22 07:31 AM
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As in I’m young and should focus on myself more? I think this is a good idea. Had a 4 yr relationship before this. Maybe I need to take stock of myself and become more self reliant - which she highlighted to me that I might need to!
/r/seduction20/01/22 07:18 AM
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Teach me your ways
/r/seduction20/01/22 07:09 AM
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I’m 23 and she’s 26. I found it to be an eye opening experience. She actually made me question myself and my personality, but ultimately I chose myself. Your wisdom inspires me! Thank you
/r/seduction20/01/22 07:09 AM
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Never been in a relo (other than with me) at 26yo Took me ages to tune her Told me she pushes people away and maintains strict independence - will never get attached to someone ever I brought up one thing that annoyed me and she said she wanted a break and felt smothered I told her my feelings and she put a wall up If I ever told her I was feeling a bit shit she made no effort to help Never once told me how she was feeling and often stone walled.
/r/seduction20/01/22 05:52 AM
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Ahh sorry to hear man. I’m only 23 so I think it helps having time on my side. Any good resources for claiming back your manhood
/r/seduction20/01/22 05:14 AM
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Wow. 2 years? How come?
/r/seduction20/01/22 05:08 AM
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Yea ik. I think I felt like she was an upgrade because I lost attraction for my previous ex. There was no way I could lose attraction for her. Except that her personality was meh! Classic avoidant style ffs
/r/seduction20/01/22 05:07 AM
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I dated a 6 with a good personality and it lasted 4 years. Dated a 10 who wasn’t anywhere near as considerate and it lasted 6 months. There ya go
/r/seduction20/01/22 05:06 AM
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Is that from experience or?
/r/seduction20/01/22 05:05 AM
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I think I pursued too hard/went it to it thinking she would be like my ex (who was more into me than I was into her). When I told her I loved her, it definitely stoked a fire and she told me “how can I say that when I hardly know her” (three months in cmon). She kinda started distancing and I pursued a little bit too much. In the end I called it off because of her avoidant tendencies and not respecting my boundaries. Still, I wish my boundaries were less tight and more like “yea you go do whatev…
/r/seduction20/01/22 05:05 AM
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Update* Caught up and just had a bit of a chat to see how she was going, she handed me some of my stuff back which I had left at her house and then I just felt like it was fully over! Went for about half an hour. She didn’t give me a whole heap so I’m moving on! It is what it is.
/r/seduction19/01/22 08:25 AM
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Communication was 3/10
/r/seduction18/01/22 01:15 AM
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As I’ve said, I’m indifferent, either way am happy
/r/seduction17/01/22 07:25 PM
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Stonewalled me for 4 days after I broke her surfboard and made up for it too
/r/seduction17/01/22 07:22 PM
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I was with her for 2 weeks before xmas lol
/r/seduction17/01/22 07:22 PM
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Cheers man!! 🍻
/r/seduction17/01/22 11:14 AM
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Nah haha, I agreed to walk near my place so we’ll see how things go. No expectations from me!
/r/seduction17/01/22 10:08 AM
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Haha lol
/r/seduction17/01/22 09:06 AM
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Yep
/r/seduction17/01/22 07:29 AM
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Unfortunately I’d say she’s a 10/10 hahaha
/r/seduction17/01/22 07:28 AM
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Get her over and see where it goes!
/r/seduction17/01/22 07:28 AM
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We’ll see aye! I guess I could be hurt but I’m just gonna see how it pans out. I feel like I’m pretty strong in the resilience department and know the consequences of something like this. If anything, it would make me realise that she’s a bitch with problems if she were to do that
/r/seduction17/01/22 07:27 AM
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Preach
/r/seduction17/01/22 04:13 AM
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Na it was an ex but I don’t wanna take all this super seriously just gotta go with the flow man
/r/seduction17/01/22 03:00 AM
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Lol hahahha
/r/seduction17/01/22 02:58 AM
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Update. She asked to meet wed night but not at my house since she feels weird about it. So I said sure lets meet up and just chat over things. Will see what she wants to say!
/r/seduction17/01/22 02:57 AM
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Yea nah she’s cool and we’re both chill. I’m just doing what I think is right for me and on my terms. Having her over, sure if she wanted to escalate then I wouldn’t be against it, but I was more just keen for a chat too but no time during the day atm!
/r/seduction17/01/22 01:19 AM
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I was moving on but she reached out 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction17/01/22 01:16 AM
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Yea I’m shaking in my boots pls help
/r/seduction17/01/22 12:12 AM
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Yea fair! I’ll message in a couple weeks can’t go back on my word now ! Ty
/r/seduction16/01/22 11:35 PM
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Amended xx
/r/seduction16/01/22 11:09 PM
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Good call thanks legend! And all the legends here haha
/r/seduction16/01/22 11:06 PM
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Haha I don’t think she will. And I don’t really care but just wanted to test the waters for a bit of fun. If she doesn’t want fun then oh well :)
/r/seduction16/01/22 11:03 PM
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No just thought I’d try my like. Kind of a fun game to me lol
/r/seduction16/01/22 10:56 PM
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Hahaha she’s too frigid for that lol
/r/seduction16/01/22 10:55 PM
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Well I actually dumped her then got regret and asked to come back but she said no. But yea she was travelling with family according to insta
/r/seduction16/01/22 10:54 PM
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