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RedpillViking/r/seduction14/02/19 02:29 PM
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Sure there are cultural differences, and certain specific thigs may or may not be socially acceptable in you environment. But at their core, women are the same everywhere. Women are attracted to a certain type of behaviour, behave in that way and you will attract women.
/r/seduction11/10/19 11:39 PM
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The fundamentals of game are solid. I've seen them work first hand. I dont think theres some magic routine that will convert any girl if you just say the right stuff. But the core concpets are solid. But the thing is, you dont have to take anyones word for it. Try it yourself. I do think its more about key fundemetal concepts and less about pre scripted lines. Also a lot of it is about what you dont do, like acting super needy or showering her with complements like the 10 other betas before you …
/r/seduction11/10/19 05:37 AM
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It's a shittest, in fact it's one of the most basic. This is just the "You're such a player" in modern lingo. It's a great sign. She's basicly saying 'You seem like the type of guy who fucks a lot of girls" and women tend to follow the herd. The way to pass almost any shitest via text is just "Lol" or "Lol, you're cute". You could also go with the agree and exaggerate. But you do t want to come across as butthurt, or trying to deny it or defend yourself.
/r/seduction12/07/19 02:23 AM
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This is a 3rd date and you've already fucked her. At this point she's either going to show up for thay date and you guys are going to start building a relationship, or she's going to ghost you and never talk to you again. A week in advance is fine for someone you've been dating.
/r/seduction07/03/19 05:11 PM
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I've tried pure attraction, and thats how you should always start. But some girls need comfort. Just make sure you are teasing her a bit here and there and making the convo man to woman. Flirt with the idea of you two being together. This is what keeps you out of the firendzone. What puts most dudes in the firendzone is they go straight for comfort and are super avaliable, theres no winning them over, they just go straight for her. So they never build attraction. And then the inyeraction never h…
/r/seduction07/03/19 03:24 PM
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The first step is the mindset. A big way though is quaifaction. You dont quailfy yourself, sometimes you actively work to disquailfy yourself. Instead of boasting about your job and nice car, tell her you live in your moms basement and offer to share your chicken tenders with her, but only if she promises to be nice. That's just one example, but hopefully it will give you the idea. Watch infeild on youtube, and there's plenty of info about this stuff, it's the core of game.
/r/seduction25/02/19 02:58 AM
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Retain an abundance mentality. Treat her like she aint shit. Treat her like you're the prize and she should be working to impress you. This will make you stand out and make her chase you.
/r/seduction24/02/19 10:22 PM
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Don't. The key to text game is to keep it light. Less is really more. Your goal with texting is to spike her emotions a cosistent basis. You want to be that guy who's not needy and not textong her everyday, but when uou do text, uou provide value and make her laugh. You want to provide a contrast of what life is like with you and without you texting her. Every other guy is texting her boring mundane shit everyday until she eventually gets bored and ghosts him. Then he sends her 3 texts in a row,…
/r/seduction22/02/19 03:17 PM
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A kiss is expected not mandatory. And the reason you greet with a hug is to break the touch barrier and set the tone that this is a man to woman date. Esclation is about slowly buiding up a touch relationship through the night, so the first time you touch is not an awkard end of date kiss. She has to be ok with every stage to move to the next. If she reacts well to the hug, try to hold her hand at some point. If that goes well, maybe cuddle a bit. That's what escalation is.
/r/seduction21/02/19 09:58 PM
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Why would we attack you for not approaching unattractive women? It's not your duty as a man to fuck fat bitches. That being said, attraction is different for everyone. A girl that really does it for me, may not be your type. Approach what you're attracted to. It's ok to have standards. Like others have said, if you've approached that many women with 0 success, something is up with your game, figure out what it is and fix it.
/r/seduction19/02/19 03:37 PM
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Women know if you are a success with women or not based on what you are sub comucating with your behavior. A guy who's not successful with women will be super acomdating and available, most of the time super needy. You can fix this by doing things like not texting her every fucking day. Or not texting back right away as soon as she texts you. Don't double text her if she dosent reply. You can usually recover a ghost if you wait a few days and pretend like nothing happened by starting a new convo…
/r/seduction19/02/19 03:06 AM
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It's not a shit test but you can still fail it like one. You could freak out and try to defend how not nice you are, which would make you fail. If she's telling you this, you're likely acting beta. A shit test would be when you tell her no and she says something like, "I thought you were a nice guy". If your ever unsure, you can pass any shit test by remaining unreactive.
/r/seduction18/02/19 10:41 PM
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I think you need to explore yourself a bit. You're problem is not game or your skillset to pull women. And it's only a problem uf you frame it that way. Obviously you're not ready for a relationship at this point in your life, and that's perfectly ok. You don't have tolive yhe way society tells you too either. You can have an open relationship with several girls at one time, you can have your fun. It's ok. Just don't lie about it, you don't have to. Find out what you really wabt at this point in…
/r/seduction18/02/19 05:27 PM
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Yes! And that girl beat me to it and asked me out first. So not ony did she agree to a date, she eagerly requested it. I'm telling you, this shit is like black magic. The key is to not try to impress her or quailfy yourself to her. Act like you give zero fucks. Imagine your a homeless guy who fucks a new 10/10 model every day of your life. Always self amuse, say shit you think would be humorous if you actually said it to a girl. Don't try to make her laugh, make yourself laugh.
/r/seduction16/02/19 09:46 PM
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That's about what I got this month. 20 matches, messaged about 10 girls, got one to the social hook point and a date with her set next week. If it gets me one date a month then it's worth the little time I spend on it. Draw water from all sources right?
/r/seduction16/02/19 08:59 PM
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Wit and humor is pretty important, but it's not a soul factor. You're game should have a strong element of humor, an element of quaifaction of her, an element of disqualification for yourself, and an element of sexuailty making the interaction man to woman.
/r/seduction16/02/19 08:50 PM
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Its not really about how early or late in the conv it is, it's about how invested to girl is. Start smaller. Quailfy her and gjve her your number, then see if she complies and texts you. Get off the app as soon as you can for sure. Is she asking you questns, or are you doing all the leg work? A lot of guys complain about flaking, I think it happens because they go for a date too early, before the girl is even socially hooked sometimes. If you can do that in 6 texts great, if it takes u 30 thats …
/r/seduction16/02/19 08:43 PM
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Wow, that was a dick move.
/r/seduction16/02/19 03:26 PM
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Don't do chode game, make it interesting and funny to keep interest. If you do ask her getting to know you questions, make statements and do cold reads. "You're 21, I bet you're a college girl." Is better than "So what do you do? Do you go to school?" Quailfy her. This is vital. I told a girl last week I live in my moms basement and I would share my chicken tenders with her if she promised to be nice. We have a date next week. Get her to the social hook point, and get her number. I like to give …
/r/seduction16/02/19 03:57 AM
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Alright i'm gonna start this off by saying, i'm not attractive. According to photofeeler i'm a 4.5, 5 on a good day. Looks matter for about the first 10 seconds of the interaction, that's it. Of course you should go for girls that show intrest in you, but you're missing out on girls you could get with if you just spent a little time with them. Girls above all are attracted to behavior. But the thing is, you dont have to take my word for it, try some of it for yourself. Game will amaze you. You t…
/r/seduction16/02/19 03:25 AM
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If you have a good insta, this could be good for you. Sure the reason she is on tinder is to get followers from thristy betas, that dose'nt mean she's not a girl that is gameable. The good news is, you dont even have to worry about matching her to get in contact. You HAVE to have solid text game though.
/r/seduction15/02/19 03:12 AM
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I've never been to any of e seminars or paid money for any if the products. They have produced plenty of free content, and the advice in ghise videos is solid and works. They may be total assholes IRL to students, there products may not be worth the high prices. Idk i've never met these guys, so i'm not going to judge them. But none of that has any bearing o. The free stuff they post.
/r/seduction14/02/19 03:41 PM
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I mostly favor video content. Todd Valentine, Valentino Kohen, and the RSD guys are my go to.
/r/seduction14/02/19 02:46 PM
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You don't. Because that looks desperate and beta as fuck. It makes you seem like you have no other prospects and your so far in scarcity that you have to text her to get a date. You're better off letting her spend it alone, wonder what you're up to, if your with another girl, just let her imagination run wild. Let her get sad because she's alone on V-Day. Then over the next couple of days, start gaming her, and ask her out on a normal day.
/r/seduction14/02/19 02:39 PM
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Someone is telling them something terrible about you, and it's you. You're likely sending oncoucious signals of neediness. Are they agreeing to a date then flaking? Or are they flaking after you ask them out?
/r/seduction14/02/19 02:16 PM
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You need to pull back now. She's useing you for attention only, you're just a playtoy to her, and she's gonna crawl back to bed wih him tonight. Don't be the type of guy who takes that shit. There's an endless supply of hot young women out there, you don't have to take that shit.
/r/seduction14/02/19 02:10 PM
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Yeah that's what we call chode game, and it's extremely boring for her and ineffective. Don't worry though, we all started put doing that. If you're new, learn some rotunies, they help. They give you a roadmap for the convo and something to fall back on. Watch people do game, theres plenty of footage online, steal their best lines, yry them put for yourself. You're endgoal should not be to take her home, it should getting better at game. View this as a time to experiment, a time to practice. The…
/r/seduction13/02/19 05:22 PM
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Modern social conditioning turns a lot of would be alphas into emasculated messes. So you grow up in a society that teaches you all the wrong lessons to be successful with women. Most of what game works is just developing a strong masculine core and not doing needy/ beta shit. There's also yhe Social skillset of keeping the convo going and interesting. If you dont she will just ghost you and move on. Interacting with modern women will force you to devlop some sort of game naturally, or you truel…
/r/seduction13/02/19 02:43 PM
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Yeah you never want to explicitly state it. Let her imgination fill in the blanks. The best way to subtly hint ay abdunace is to do it with your behavior. When you do text her, provide value. Spike her emotions, make her laugh. And don't be needy, don't act like you're trying to "get her". Quailfy her, tease her, just subtly let her know you dont give a fuck and you're not trying to impress her. So you text her, spike her emotions, then pull back for a couple days. Then she starts to wonder well…
/r/seduction12/02/19 10:09 PM
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Sliding into DMs is only creepy if you're bad at game. That's what she's conveying when she calls it creepy, you're lack of understanding of social dynamics is off putting. Usually it's just some dude throwing her on a pedastool exaggerating how beautiful she is, which is super needy bevaior, which means he's using beta behavior, therefore he's a creep in her eyes.
/r/seduction11/02/19 02:42 PM
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Yeah. Anal dosent count right? Or does that loophole only work for girls?
/r/seduction08/02/19 06:59 PM
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Pics are fine for the most part. I think 1 is a bad pic though, remove that one. 5 is a better #1. You can test them all on photofeeler through and have actual girls vote and see what your best ones are. Pics will only get you matches though, they won't get you dates and they won't get you laid. You got to work on your verbal, or in the case text game. That should be your focus. If you're getting consistent matches, your pics are doing their job.
/r/seduction06/02/19 05:21 PM
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If you're on antidepressants or something, those can kill your boner. So it was probably related to that. That's out of your control and you cant really be blamed for that. So if she asks about it be honest and own it.
/r/seduction25/01/19 12:45 AM
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I wouldn't call that a negative, you made enough of an impact on her with that line that you were in her head later, and she felt the need to post about it online to get validation. It worked. Dudes will now flood her with attention, saying things like " Wow what a jerk, you should date a nice guy like me instead." She won't. You have her number, none of those guys do. It's their job to validate her, it's your job to fuck her. As far as asking her out, throw a qualifier at her. Something like "H…
/r/seduction28/12/18 03:47 PM
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I'm the same height and weight, and I've never had an issue because of that. I have had girls tell me " Wow, you're so big and strong." And I've never lifted a day in my life.
/r/seduction17/12/18 05:41 PM
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Don't be any nicer to a girl than you would any other person. Don't change your behavior for her. If your naturally nice, be that level of nice, if you're naturally a dick, be a dick. It's all about not hiding behind a persona, and not trying to impress her.
/r/seduction14/12/18 03:46 PM
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A direct opener and complement is recommended because it shows intent and it gets you out of your comfort zone. But you're right you are showing your hand a bit fast and giving away some of your power right at the start, it's not the perfect opener, but it does work. You can build off it though and offset the drawbacks a few different ways. One way is to qualify her. Something like "Hey you're really cute, I had to come over here and find out if your interesting to talk to" Another is to disqual…
/r/seduction12/12/18 01:59 AM
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It's awful. Popular dating apps like tinder take away all of your power. You don't even get to have a conversation with a girl unless she approves of you first. From the start you're forced to self qualify and compete for her attention with the hundreds of other dudes who also matched her. Of course with good game, you can turn this around, but it's an awful start. You're much better off cold approaching, then you can actually see the girl in real life, she can't hide behind camera angles or pho…
/r/seduction12/12/18 01:09 AM
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Well you've answered your own question, you know exactly what you're doing wrong and why this is happening to you. You ex was cool enough to explain it all to you outright, most girls will just ghost you for that shit. You need to get over your neediness, you need to make yourself complete without women. You're going to have to do some soul searching, but things are probably not going to improve for you until you conquer this. Once you do though, things will all start clicking together for you.
/r/seduction10/12/18 10:17 PM
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You can ask a girl out over text, it's not a big deal. If you think it is, you're approaching this from the mindset of trying to impress her or "do things right". You need to get out of that mindset if you want success, it's her job to impress you. If you wanted to hang out with one of you guy friends, would you freak out about if it was in person or text? She's just a girl, you're just looking to hang out and see where things go. Don't make it a big deal. The best way to ask a girl out is to ma…
/r/seduction10/12/18 09:21 PM
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