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| – | finding someone better than ex easy?I mean it in a way where there are only a small subset of people who will meet your criteria to begin with whether that is a physical attribute or personality/values etc. Since you're already starting from such a small pool of people you will also need to know if the other person feels equally similar to you and only have eyes for you. That is a hard feat and many people goes years without finding that person and end up settling which I alluded to. There is only so much time in a day/year. Peopl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Men can’t complain that women find them ugly when women spend so much time and money trying to appeal to mennot everyone is i the same path. i live with roommate. because i live in an expensive city. i have a job but not stable because self employed... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Men can’t complain that women find them ugly when women spend so much time and money trying to appeal to menIm a guy fyi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Men can’t complain that women find them ugly when women spend so much time and money trying to appeal to menwhat is considered having his Sht together because im 30 ad i am far from it. is this normal? i feel like I need to own a house, car, super educated, lots of money in bank, great career, big social group, etc and I don't have that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Why do women participate in the hook-up culture if they aren't getting the outcomes they want?women will have sex with a man she truly desires and participate in said hookup culture. women like sex just as much as men, maybe even more given the unlimited options. if she feels horny, barring danger she can just call up a friend she won't necessarily desire just to get off. I thinnk you are underestimating. women aren't these pure angels. They freely give it to the men who they desire and won't feel any remorse or regret from her actions, even though she may claim otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 10:01 PM |
| 1 | what do men get wrong about women have so many optionn and can sleep with a lot of different men?so being good in bed means she will come back to you? but whaat if she found someone more attractive , or just want variety and sleep with as much people and not be emotional bonded with one person which might turn to relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 02:26 PM |
| 2 | what do men get wrong about women have so many optionn and can sleep with a lot of different men?lol. i hear you. this girl and I smash and I thought it was good and wanted more but she completely ignored me because I think she found someone better in that month when I was gone on vacation. but it made me insecure because maybe she thought my sex is bad and she went to find someone better ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 02:32 AM |
| 1 | what do men get wrong about women have so many optionn and can sleep with a lot of different men?what is the backstory? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 08:34 PM |
| 2 | what do men get wrong about women have so many optionn and can sleep with a lot of different men?condom is 99% rate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 07:07 PM |
| -1 | what do men get wrong about women have so many optionn and can sleep with a lot of different men?pills wont stop for doing so. rape and murder doesnt haappen if she feels comfortable with said man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 07:06 PM |
| 3 | what do men get wrong about women have so many optionn and can sleep with a lot of different men?in what sense will it affect you negatively? given you had a good time of course and protected with condom | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 05:43 PM |
| 2 | what do men get wrong about women have so many optionn and can sleep with a lot of different men?so you're telling me she never ignore you and found someone better? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 05:38 PM |
| 4 | what do men get wrong about women have so many optionn and can sleep with a lot of different men?say she ignores you after having sex. if you talk about women having emotional bond before having sex, why would she igore you after? clearly you were just a notch on her pole | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 04:55 PM |
| 1 | what do men get wrong about women have so many optionn and can sleep with a lot of different men?so even if they build emotional bond/friendship with said person before sex, what explains ingoring them after? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 04:32 PM |
| 3 | what do men get wrong about women have so many optionn and can sleep with a lot of different men?out of the majoity of men who are not attractive, there are 1-2 men at the very least she does find attractive and will fk. That is more than a guy will ever get in his lifetime. guys have to literally settle for unattractive /lower their standards. This post isn't meant for comparison, but for women to NOT acknowledge that even 1-2 attractive guy for a ONS is like hitting a gold mine is insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 03:43 PM |
| 15 | what do men get wrong about women have so many optionn and can sleep with a lot of different men?i am not saying they have sex with everyone in their option box. I am simply saying that womenn by and large get their pick of the options and will have sex with 1-2 men out of 100s. rinse and repeat this and she really does have it good. esp if a women is just looking for a ONS/pleasure. also meeting more people will open more doors for her (career or otherwise) eg. if the guy happen to be a chef. the fact she had slept with him and keep contact she can always go to his restaurant and get a v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 03:38 PM |
| – | everyone is scared of turning 30tru | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 05:07 AM |
| – | everyone is scared of turning 30if looks didn't bother, why do women still continue to go to demertologist to get botox,etc? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 04:51 AM |
| – | everyone is scared of turning 30I am 30 lol, but I realise my experience is indicative of others. I am just saying that biologicially women have to figure if they want kids or not, and that puts pressure on finding the right man to be with. For men, if it is marriage he is thinking about as well, he'll need to get his financial /career in order. Most men don't. Hell, I don't. And I already feel the pressure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 04:49 AM |
| 1 | When men complain about dating being hard but fail to understand this .."There aren't more objectively attractive women than men. It's just that women find only the the looks of the top 20% average or above. There is a difference." LOL. You don't understand. You want to find a physically attractive women as well right? Same for women. Except women put in the effort. Women are just valued more in society because men put a lot of value on women. "Men couldn't give two shits about that so I have no idea why you included it." Are we just talking about a one off? some … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 11:57 PM |
| 1 | the forsure way you know they desire you is usually during sexI get what you're saying but in the moment of sex if she is already desiring the guy prior to sex, sex will just bring it out even more even if she is shy or religious. A women who doesnt sexually desire a guy wont suddently be dripping and moaning and scratching or want the guy to do whatever to her because she knows it is just pity sex, transactional, whathave you. body ddoesnt lie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 11:00 PM |
| 0 | the forsure way you know they desire you is usually during sexlike what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 10:53 AM |
| 2 | the forsure way you know they desire you is usually during sexno. obviously sex winds down as years pile up, but usually when you're meeting them for the first time , or known that person for years/comfortable with before you become initimate emotions bottles up, their physically prowess makes you want to rip their clothes off. This happens all the time. pussy do get wet when you are super into the person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 02:50 AM |
| 3 | the forsure way you know they desire you is usually during sexyou'll be surprised what people give sex for. I had people tell me they had sex out of pity (whether its a friend), or someone who own a restrarant they frequent and wanted free meals, as well as just being horny and aanyone would do for the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 01:32 AM |
| 2 | If the theory of 80/20 rule is true (which it seems to show on online dating) what explains the mismatch in attractiveness partnership irl?there are many women doing OF, social media as well as having men PAY just to give them attention. guys will literally cashapp them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 12:18 AM |
| 2 | If the theory of 80/20 rule is true (which it seems to show on online dating) what explains the mismatch in attractiveness partnership irl?possibly because I am heterosexual. But I am also NOT blind. I can ackownledge a gorgeous/hot guy. I would admit if the two pairing are a match in terms of physical attractiveness. Here, I am being honest aand most of the men I see don't measure up to the women in the looks department. (round face, bad grooming, unfit clothing, bad beard, not fit, etc even other women will acknowledge that another women is attractive and would agree that the pairing is a mismatch (why do you think somethings gir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 11:23 PM |
| 12 | If the theory of 80/20 rule is true (which it seems to show on online dating) what explains the mismatch in attractiveness partnership irl?no girl goes around fishing for the guy with the biggest D. In the grand scheme of things I feel if there is geniune attraction btw a man and women, the last thing she cares about is his genitial sizes. men are more fixated about it than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 11:20 PM |
| 1 | If the theory of 80/20 rule is true (which it seems to show on online dating) what explains the mismatch in attractiveness partnership irl?that can work the same if there is one single average guy stuck in a cottage with 20 other people and he's the hottest there , she will totally go for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 11:18 PM |
| 3 | If the theory of 80/20 rule is true (which it seems to show on online dating) what explains the mismatch in attractiveness partnership irl?you are right. But the argument can be made that a men compensating for his appearance is only looking for women who are gold diggers and clout chasers so it is a lose lose anyways. plus women can make their own money nowadays | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 11:16 PM |
| 1 | If the theory of 80/20 rule is true (which it seems to show on online dating) what explains the mismatch in attractiveness partnership irl?but women can make their own money. why would they settle for "stability" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 11:15 PM |
| 2 | If the theory of 80/20 rule is true (which it seems to show on online dating) what explains the mismatch in attractiveness partnership irl?yes, I am aware women dont actuaally look like what they outwardly portray themselves as. however, objectively with the makeup on many would say it is a mismatch. no one goes around and compare a bare face women with a bare faace man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 11:14 PM |
| 2 | If the theory of 80/20 rule is true (which it seems to show on online dating) what explains the mismatch in attractiveness partnership irl?I'm talking about women who are young think 18-28 who are in ltr with these guy who are not CHADs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 11:13 PM |
| 2 | If the theory of 80/20 rule is true (which it seems to show on online dating) what explains the mismatch in attractiveness partnership irl?what explains this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 11:10 PM |
| 2 | the real reason why modern dating/marriage is crapso you slept with 100 men. got it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 03:59 PM |
| 2 | the real reason why modern dating/marriage is crapdifference between sleeping with a few vs opening their legs for 20 guys. seems the latter is you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 01:40 PM |
| 3 | the real reason why modern dating/marriage is crap"my guy" ? are we in the hood? smh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 04:01 AM |
| 3 | the real reason why modern dating/marriage is crapmarriage takes work. Everything gets boring the more you see or do the same thing. So what do you do, always seeking for the next new thing? I rather have a life PARTNER than to participate in a short term meaningless pleasure. Modern man who don't care about a women's body count is false. They don't care if all they want is to be another number on her count. But, commitment ? forget about it. if 19% is true, who's to say that women 30-49 are in deadbeat marriage just for their children? It … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:23 AM |
| 1 | the real reason why modern dating/marriage is crapoh, so you're one of those feminist who believe women can do it all. Right... Have fun growing old lonely. The only fond memories you probably have is being sexually liberated and being used in the process. People who still buy into old ideas actually want a meaningful partnership, they want someone to actually come home to and who will love and accept them. I rather die knowing I have a loving family than to go around seeking short term pleasure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:19 AM |
| 2 | the real reason why modern dating/marriage is crapIncorrect, So sex is meaningless? Is their body just treated like a vacation? How does one actually commit to someone when they are constantly looking for the next best thing. THIS IS THE PROBLEM here. marriage/relationship/dating fail because people go around having "fun" and not treating it as something meaningful. If that is not the definition of some greater internal struggle, then you got some own issues you need to deal with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:14 AM |
| 2 | the real reason why modern dating/marriage is crapLOL. is this anecdotal or you just pull it out of your stinky arse. Here we go with the Inc*l insult. Is that what anyone willing to share the truth get told? Why on earth would ANYONE settle, much less marry a partner who doesn't even respect themselves ? Being with multiple partner in a short time signals that you're "easy", don't respect your body, have commitment issues, or a host of other unmentioned issues that no sane person will bother to take in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:08 AM |
| -1 | the real reason why modern dating/marriage is crapyes but will she ever get him to commit. that is my point. she will be single if she keep chasing this guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 05:52 PM |
| -1 | the real reason why modern dating/marriage is crapThat is not the point. This is a perspective thing. This doesn't just apply to me, it applies to anyone who haven't given this a thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 05:48 PM |
| -2 | the real reason why modern dating/marriage is crapwould you marry this person? and how do you know she has a clear std test. people don't take tests nowadays | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 05:24 PM |
| 5 | the real reason why modern dating/marriage is crapwhat is funny is that when someone shares the truth, immediately they are categorized as an "incel". Having fun doesn't mean sleeping around. You can have fun in a monogamous partnership. It's a sad fact that people need to have casual sex to feel "fulfilled" before setting down. No person wants to hear that their partner been with 50 other people before them. How is that hard to understand? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 05:22 PM |
| -3 | the real reason why modern dating/marriage is crapFirst, Ask the majority of men, do they want to marry a women who suck a lot of other men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 05:18 PM |
| -20 | the real reason why modern dating/marriage is crapOf course you have that choice of never bearing children. But studies have also shown that women who are not mothers end up miserable. Let's be honest here, MOST women want children. If not in her 30s, maybe she will decide in her 40s or 50s , but by then it'd already be late. I'd rather swallow the truth and save time than be offended by the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 05:17 PM |
| -3 | the real reason why modern dating/marriage is crapthat's the exception, not the rule. The ones in "happy" relationship are usually the ones who are invested in long term monogamy relationship. Certainly those exist, but the way modern feminism is heading towards, it seems the VAST majority has the mentality that it is better to abandon ltr for casual , especially if they are young and fertile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Any study that shows that money doesn't affect dating like women claim nowadays?wrong. a 50 year old man is way pass his prime. While his money may attract someone who is still young and naive, it is just that. Using the guy for his money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Any study that shows that money doesn't affect dating like women claim nowadays?So I don't have a study, but from experience women TODAY can make their own money. They are no longer dependent on a man's income. If worst comes to come she can depend on the government. There are other options as well which I won't go into details (eg. prostitution, etc) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 04:15 PM |
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