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Confidence is the complete lack of thoughts, ideas and concepts of confidence.
/r/seduction15/07/18 02:40 AM
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Oh, you're the author! My apologies. I did a quick scan of your table of content, prologue, intro and whatever else amazon let me preview and I really like how you put most of the focus on improving yourself through intraspection means. I think that is very cool and the application extends beyond just seduction. Ill buy it in my kindle after I finished reading the books that Im reading because I have a bad habit of downloading too many books without finishing the ones I have first lol Couple que…
/r/seduction02/07/18 08:51 PM
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Damn this is probably one of if not the most interesting article I've read on this sub. Thanks for sharing, this goes much deeper than any concept of modern dating and seduction. I've always believed in the importance of going back to understand the bigger picture. How everything was conceptualized and evolved to where it is today. Wish there was a section for sources and suggested further reading that's not focused too much around picking up chicks. Have you read the book?
/r/seduction02/07/18 04:53 PM
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Im sure having some drugs help Nvm, youre still in your mid teens. Dont do drugs.
/r/seduction02/07/18 04:35 PM
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To me that means you're too outcome dependent with interaction with others.
/r/seduction02/07/18 03:39 PM
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Physical contact can vary from person to person. If you're not a very touchy person, it's ok. It's better to have the girl touch you much more than the other way around. Im not a very touchy person. My family isn't either. The most physical contact I get from my family is a pat in the back whenever I come home for the holidays. Like /u/KanemBornu said, visual training can be quite helpful. Be observant of how you are feeling when you are visualizing a situation where touch is involved. If you're…
/r/seduction02/07/18 03:36 PM
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Actually that worked one time oddly enough. Swear to god I was reading this article about how to escalate the sexual tension and whoever wrote the article said try outright saying you want to hook up, so I took the advice. Ironically enough, after re-reading the article the second time, my idiot self didn't realize that the author actually meant that in a sarcastic way, as in that's the last thing you want to say to escalate the tension. facepalm city but I ended up getting some that night So wh…
/r/seduction02/07/18 03:10 PM
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Talk to everyone. Including guys. Even the girl you’re not completely attracted to. Socialize. Bullshit. Shoot the shit. Say something that isn’t exactly “alpha”. Share. VIBE! Get along with the group! DONT WORRY ABOUT LOOKING TOO COOL. A freakin men! Imo this whole alpha thing is primitive, like pissing on things to mark your territory and people trying to be "alpha" just end up looking like douches. I never liked people advising others to think in terms of being alpha and whatnot. Alpha kills …
/r/seduction02/07/18 09:02 AM
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What women want? Imo you have to go much further back to it's original intent and conceptualization. There's a reason why things are the way they are. What you wrote isn't wrong but I think you've only hit the nail on the tip of the ice berg. I believe, if you really want to understand, you have to go much deeper.
/r/seduction02/07/18 08:33 AM
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If I were you I would keep that opinion to myself irl
/r/seduction01/07/18 05:27 AM
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This is the base of any complaint I have. whats the point. do I just hope it gets better. are do I just keep doing things that make life better. That's what I did and the only thing that made any real difference. It sucks. I went through many embarrassing and humiliating moments. I was called a creep, weirdo and even psycho. Then I reached a point where I kind of stopped caring and started to take risks, I dunno probably out of spite. Like I said, it sucks. It's not fun. Really, it kind of made …
/r/seduction01/07/18 02:44 AM
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Eye contact is interesting. The appliances and importance of eye contact extends far beyond seduction. It can be intimate or hostile. Have you seen two boxers/fighters doing a stare down? There's a huge reason why they do that. Eye contact is a vital social skill, knowing how and when to look at someone at certain social settings can put you in a advantages situation. Eye contact gets more important as you get older. Like when you cheers with someone, you always make eye contact with a hint of s…
/r/seduction01/07/18 02:07 AM
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I don't. I take comfort in getting to the bottom of a problem. I am a problem solver that's my job. You say that but your other response tells me otherwise. You're complaining about a problem but seems like you're not interested in finding the solution, just responding with complaints after complaints. That's what I'm told. I'm yet to see it myself. It's an extremely slow process. I'm sure you know that, being at your age. It's almost like you have a defeatist mindset. You are 29 years old. I wo…
/r/seduction01/07/18 01:48 AM
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Well if that's how you interpreted it, then that's how you interpreted. Thanks for showing me dating and relationships aren't for me. I can't take credit for what you did to yourself or did you really give me that much control? Everything that has happened to you in your life, only you can take responsibility for that, or do you take comfort being a victim? Do what you like but in the end, it's your life. If you want to change something about your life, you can, but it takes hard work and effort…
/r/seduction01/07/18 12:13 AM
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I edited more to my comment. Let me know after you've read it so I can respond accordingly
/r/seduction30/06/18 09:12 PM
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Ah yes, paying for ass. The second virginity. I don't recommend it. Have you ever been to a strip club and when youre talking to the girls you can almost smell their intention of trying to get your money? The interaction is totally different from just talking to girls. So different in fact that talking with strippers feels soulless and feels more like a business transaction and I dont think anyone in here will recommend talking to strippers is going to help you talk with girls. Ive never had pai…
/r/seduction30/06/18 08:50 PM
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\m/
/r/seduction29/06/18 12:30 AM
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Oh most definitely! If anything, I think your post helped me clear up what I wanted to say, so thank you for that :) Also I think your post was important because it highlighted that the concept of niceness is not so black and white but have many different elements and dynamics and no one should be discouraged from becoming a genuinely a nice person for some irrational fear of the weird "stigmas" (Not sure if that's the right word to use but I hope you know what I meant to say) associated with be…
/r/seduction29/06/18 12:28 AM
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Ah maybe I should have written my response better but I don't want you to look at this situation like you're facing a fear, it's just a part of one of many life experiences you go through. If you make an honest effort to better yourself, I can guarantee you that looking back you'll be amazed at where you used to be and where you are now. Hard work and effort never lie. You get to have a chance to become a completely new person in college. When I reflect on myself after graduating from HS vs myse…
/r/seduction29/06/18 12:19 AM
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I don't disagree with anything you've said, I actually agree with everything you've said in your post. That being said, I feel it's important to put it out there for OP that my intention for my statement was more aimed toward intrapersonal aspects, rather than interpersonal. Not saying your post wasn't meaningful or somehow less practical or relevant than my post. Everything you've said is true and I couldn't agree more with what you said. I just felt like it was important to note for OP that I …
/r/seduction28/06/18 11:37 PM
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My method was the same as the author. I looked at many of the follow up studies...I concluded that the studies claiming a 42% or even 30% rate were poorly done. I concluded the studies claiming a 20%ish rate were well done. That statement doesn't seem to be consistent of your 20% estimate because if I understood you correctly, you came up with the 20% from those over inflated figures of the study that you brought up from the non-fictional book you originally talked about. I am in question about …
/r/seduction28/06/18 10:54 PM
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In there he quoted a study from the 70s that 30% of babies born in a hospitol are not genetically reated to their illeged fathers. This was a middle ground number, because other studies ranged from 1% for the richest neighborhood hospitols, to 42%. I don't have the book so can you give me the citation of the study? Who were the subjects conducted in the research? Demographics? Age? What area? How many hospitals? What did the 30% actually represent? Mean, median, average, etc? So 1% for the riche…
/r/seduction28/06/18 01:11 PM
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Crash and burn, brotha. Crash and burn. Your lady skill isn't going to change overnight and imho you have to be willing to go through the shitty and embarrassing times and keep going through it regardless of result. That's what I did when I went to college. I had like zero skill in talking with girls but I tried because I liked chicks. Made bunch of mistakes and even had a girl text me I straight up suck lol To me the AA never go away but the more you think about it, the worse it gets. It's like…
/r/seduction28/06/18 08:28 AM
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You don't have to answer this to me but honestly ask yourself why you are nice to people. If you can be honest with yourself about this then you might be onto something.
/r/seduction28/06/18 07:51 AM
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Ah, I have a different view on it. I had pretty much the exact opposite experience. Long story short, this chick was flirting with me and making suggestions. I was excited at first but then I found out she had a bf that shes been dating for like 5 years and they were on a LDR when I met her and I was just so taken back because she was such a sweet girl. I know some guys would be okay with going forward with this situation but these kind of situations are kind of a buzz killer for me. It just tak…
/r/seduction28/06/18 06:37 AM
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I'm pretty sure I'd win that battle lol. I believe the battles already won my dude haha
/r/seduction28/06/18 02:57 AM
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when she's done with this guy she's coming back, and she admitted it's very likely in that event. This always confused me. I had chicks saying they were seeing someone but we ended up doing it anyway. I could never tell if they were actually serious or just saying it. Like I would press up on a girl and she'll tell me shes seeing someone and I don't like drama so I was always like "That's fine. Want to watch a movie? I can drop off at your place afterwards." and while watching the movie I press …
/r/seduction28/06/18 02:17 AM
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Another solid write up! Question: Do you usually press on with a girl if she tells you that she has a bf? That's like the first thing I try to find out because if she says yes, doesn't matter if she actually does or not, I just tell her bf is a very lucky man and excuse myself to not waste anymore time. Also big props on approaching chick #2. If I saw her walking with a purpose, I would not have interacted with her but you did. I think you should give a bit more credit to yourself for approachin…
/r/seduction28/06/18 01:35 AM
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but if you do, you can make them come back for more. Sooo true lol I don't know why but yeah I think every chick I've eaten out wanted a second serving. I had no idea that guys going down on a chick was a rather rare occurrence. I still don't know why to be honest with you but hey I'll just take it lmao
/r/seduction28/06/18 01:16 AM
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Word up. That write up has some good advice and thanks for sharing but I don't see it being too helpful for people who don't like eating out or ate only few pussies before. I feel like all of the advice makes sense only if you like eating a chick out and ate out all sorts of flavors and shapes. Im also kind of surprised she didn't include fingering and eating out in sync. Or tongue fucking, along with other things. But I think she is spot on about reading her reaction adjusting accordingly. Some…
/r/seduction28/06/18 12:41 AM
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If you're sleeping with a girl you've just met, it would be pretty difficult to give her the best sexual experience. Good sexual experience? Sure. The best? Maybe someone else knows but I don't. I have to know more about her and see what she's into to give her the best sexual experience. I think it's important to build from knowing your sexuality, desires and what gets you off the most. Do you get off from your five senses? Is getting turned on mentally important to you? What kind of situation e…
/r/seduction28/06/18 12:12 AM
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Good friends are hard to come by. Good friends who are also driven are even harder to come by. Good friends who are willing to do whatever it takes to reach their goal is a gift from God. People who has that 'fire' burning inside and are just driven, the person that makes you think, "This person will make a difference in the world." No, you don't think they will, you know they will. This makes you think about yourself , a lot. You thought you knew some aspects of yourself, only to realize you we…
/r/seduction27/06/18 04:57 PM
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SNES and I’m pretty awesome at Mario, StreetFighter MY MAN!!! SNES was the golden age and I will never forget all the legendary games I've had the privilege of playing. So many great games. Mega Man X. Donkey Country 2. Chrono Trigger. Mario RPG. Street Fighter II. and bunch more Good memories with that console and I think it aged so well
/r/seduction27/06/18 10:46 AM
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This is going to make me look like an asshole but your comment made me laugh. Not laughing out loud but holding in the laughter and making that laughing sound you make when you're holding in a burst of laughter at the most inappropriate setting like at an funeral. I guess what Im trying to say is: Thank you for the laugh. Not laughing at you but more from how you structured your response. It was like reading something that was going to change something for the good in your life but then you real…
/r/seduction27/06/18 06:52 AM
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Confidence is a big deal in men, but the way you're making it sound is as if its the only thing that matters. I think way too many people try to be confident for confidence sake. Confidence should be secondary and a by product from achieving something great in your life. I's like a medal you've earned from doing something great but to make a medal just to wear one, no one is going to respect that.
/r/seduction27/06/18 06:47 AM
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Biggie had the flow and the beat, pac had the words of a prophet. Both are beyond beautiful. They are fucking LEGENDS. Beauty never lasts but legends last forever. Both gone too soon but never will they be forgotten. Never.
/r/seduction27/06/18 06:40 AM
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Is your goal to just sleep with her? If she's just playing games, I would see it as a waste of time. Imagine this scenario: There's a girl who has oneitis towards you and wants to sleep with you. You know she has oneitis towards you and wants to sleep with you. Would you go straight to sex even knowing that sex is going to eventually happen? Or knowing that sex is going to happened no matter what, would you do something else before actually having sex, knowing that this person is crazy about you…
/r/seduction27/06/18 06:11 AM
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Remind yourself of your strong points Great point because I think most people put more focus on their weak points and what they are anxious about instead of what comes naturally to them and their natural strength and talent, even if they believe that they dont have any natural talent. I believe if you are brought to this world, you do have to have some kind of natural talent because just being able to exist is a miracle and while you were in your mother's womb, you were already fighting to be br…
/r/seduction27/06/18 06:02 AM
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I never said anything about hitting on girls. I don't know the perks in other places but the once I worked at was an independently owned small business, not a chain. The only perk I got was getting experience in working in condition that seemed impossible with the amount of staff we had and how to interact with customer. Not on a friend to friend kind of interaction but talking as a representative of the place you work for and as a person who can provide the service that the customer came for. P…
/r/seduction27/06/18 05:44 AM
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Dependents on the company and what you're "selling". I'm like you in a way I don't feel comfortable outright BSing people to make a profit then I met an actual professional sales person and he told me that sales is about being able to relate with people and being able to make beneficial relationships. Of course you have to keep your objective and be able to close the deal but BSing will only get you so far and your clients, especially higher up clients, will know whether you're trying to screw t…
/r/seduction26/06/18 07:25 AM
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My best guess is he doesn't want to risk getting intimate with a fellow co-worker. From a guy's perspective, that's a pretty risky thing to do and may be even a career killer. I think he likes you, but working at the same place, you have to understand the risk it carries for him. Of course this is all speculation but if I was in his position, that's honestly how I would feel.
/r/seduction26/06/18 07:09 AM
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I respect you tremendously for finishing the challenge. I do agree on being more direct, I like it because of the rush more than anything but I have to ask you what exactly makes you the shit and a gift and a type of person that people should feel privileged to be around around you? Not trying to sound condescending, just sincerely curious. One of my major success I had with women had nothing to do with seduction. Instead, it was where I learned something about myself and facing certain things i…
/r/seduction26/06/18 07:05 AM
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Confess your sins and you may be forgiven
/r/seduction26/06/18 06:36 AM
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What exactly were they complaining about? Did they feel bad that they did all the talking and wants to know more about you? I dunno, most people preferred to be heard and understood more so than hearing me talk. I rather listen than talk so I don't mind hanging out with girls who likes to talk because I would rather listen. If you're literally not saying anything then I understand. In that case just paraphrase what the other person said because being heard and understood is such vital need for m…
/r/seduction26/06/18 06:27 AM
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and avoids me at work. Wait, is this guy your co-worker?
/r/seduction26/06/18 06:21 AM
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I think there's different kind of niceness. Some people are nice because they know what they're capable of, while for others, not so much.
/r/seduction26/06/18 06:18 AM
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You can PM me in due time. I'm sure social scientists would sponsor your life choices because I honestly think it's an very interesting concept. If you actually manage to pull this off, people will be interested because it's not an everyday thing and I think the attraction and curiosity it'll bring will attract the general public and maybe you can make some good money in the process. I've never personally heard of this kind of relational dynamic and I'm curious to know your experiences.
/r/seduction26/06/18 06:07 AM
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You just have to accept that dudes are always going to be hitting on good looking chicks. imo dont try to fend off, trust your girl or be okay with the fact that faithfulness is a privilege and something lucky to have. If some dudes are outright disrespecting you and some may even go far as to try you, you have to make it clear that you're not the person to be fucked with. Otherwise this shit will never end. I would say you can't control about how other feels and the actions they might take but …
/r/seduction26/06/18 06:00 AM
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Im not gonna go into details because Im tired but a quick scan of the article and the sources is clustered at best. There's even people making statements about a study they themselves weren't even involved in. Even just looking at the abstract of the sources and how it relates to whatever the point of the writer was trying to establish just made everything more unnecessarily complicated. Just because "one study says" doesn't really mean anything and you shouldn't take that at face value because …
/r/seduction26/06/18 05:42 AM
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Depends on the place. I had a short stint as a bartender but when it's busy, you really have no time to connect with your customers. It's pretty hectic and you see the worst out of some people. I honestly liked the slower days where I actually can converse with the regulars but those days I wasn't making much in tip. I also learned the mark ups on alcohol are insane. Like wells you're at least making 400% profit on it. Mixed drinks doesn't cost that much to make either. Honestly, the garnishes c…
/r/seduction26/06/18 05:27 AM
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Taking it back to old school! well kind of That would be an interesting family dynamics though if you do reach your goal and have kids with those three women. Good luck and I hope you achieve your goal and write a book about it one day! I would read it ;)
/r/seduction25/06/18 10:40 PM
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Ah, well best of luck to you going forward!
/r/seduction25/06/18 10:36 PM
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I think you need more experience at nightclubs. There's more dynamics than the ones you've listed. For example, you can attract girls by dancing like you don't even know what giving a fuck means. Yes, this actually works. It's just a bit tricky to get into that mindset. Or you can buy yourself a table and invite girls over. And cigarettes outside the venue. Something about cigs man, such a good ice breaker. and other things Just have fun man
/r/seduction25/06/18 01:09 PM
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Personal preference but I only clean the gun after game time. For me, when it's cocked and loaded, I feel more adrenaline in my veins, which helps me focus and make things a bit more exciting. I just feel like I have more energy that way but that's just me.
/r/seduction25/06/18 12:52 PM
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More of a warm up but... Go to a mall. Go to the make-up department. Look for the best looking chick and ask her where is the nearest bathroom is located. Repeat at different department. It's so stupid but it works for me lmao
/r/seduction25/06/18 12:47 PM
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How many sets and which song(s) or album? That's the important question we all need to know
/r/seduction25/06/18 12:41 PM
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Damn man Im sorry to hear that. That's rough. Like others said, just give it some time and go back to dating when you're ready. The time part sucks, though, at least for me. I want to say keep yourself busy but I couldn't really do that without having intruding thoughts every now and then. How could you not, you know? Also the feeling of I don't really want to do anything doesn't exactly help either. One thing I did was write down all of my rumination on paper. For me, writing things down on pap…
/r/seduction25/06/18 12:39 PM
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Personally, I keep it real casual like getting coffee and taking a walk in the park or going to certain places just so we're constantly in a new environment and that helps me keep the conversation going. However, if the plane seems to be on a course of imminent crash, aka this is going nowhere and we both know it, I can casually excuse myself. Bit off topic but do people mostly say let's go on a date? I just say let's hang out mostly because it creates a more laid back feeling for me and if it l…
/r/seduction25/06/18 12:24 PM
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Dude chill lol When you like a chick and you get that 'goggle' it can get difficult for you to make an accurate judgment on the situation so it's perfectly normal to ask for outside opinion.
/r/seduction25/06/18 12:12 PM
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I dont see why not. I've met with family members of girls I was interested in but never did anything intimate with. I was just in town, she had to stop by her grandparent's place to give them medicine or something and I had a nice talk with them. Very lovely people with very interesting stories. That alone was worth it. Obviously it depends on the activity you're invited to participate in but if you're not expecting anything and just willing to meet and interact with people, you might find somet…
/r/seduction25/06/18 11:58 AM
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I have 3 girlfriends Ok im more interested in how you manage, like time wise, to do this because just having one is hard enough for me lol
/r/seduction25/06/18 11:49 AM
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I've been told many times I have this "dont talk to me or Ill kill you" look as my resting face when I was actually not thinking about a damn thing lol. It's just my neutral face. I don't know what people want me to do about it. I'm sure as hell not going to be flashing smiles all the time because that's just kind of creepy to me. I honestly don't think there's any hostility, unless it was made clear, not simply interpreted. People can look cheerful and happy and still have horrible intentions h…
/r/seduction25/06/18 10:58 AM
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You seem to have everything and all you need is someone to push you so you can take that first step. Just go out and try to meet girls and do things and see what happens. You kind of remind me of when I enrolled in college. Basically, I went out and made bunch of mistakes. I even had a girl text me that I straight up sucked lol but I kept on going because I liked girls and wanted to at least have some clue to hang out with them. Yeah, even hanging out with a chick was a big deal to me. Long stor…
/r/seduction25/06/18 10:03 AM
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I don't think it's that complicated to be honest. It's more commercialized with different methods and approach that can often contradict each other, so from that point of view it seems to be complicated. You don't have to nor should abide by someone else's rules. You make your own choices, you make your own mistakes, you learn from those mistakes and you come up with your own style that works for you the best. I just go direct. I don't like to beat around the bushes. I just have to be okay with …
/r/seduction25/06/18 09:19 AM
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I am missing things, that's why I asked those questions lol None of my questions got answered. I want some specifics! If I'm just given vague and generalized info, this whole idea seems to go in no specific direction and seems like another one of those emotionally motivated social movements with no set clear goals and why it was conceptualized in the first place. I'll just say I know the type of women you're talking about but there are also women out there, maybe not so much in the us, who do no…
/r/seduction25/06/18 09:01 AM
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I still don't really understand what toxic masculinity is tbh. Who are these 'people' that rather have no masculinity to not risk getting it toxic and if they rather have no masculinity at all to not risk toxicity, what do they rather have instead? What is their end goal? What are they trying to achieve? Are they even worth anyone's time and do they even know what they are talking about? Are they confusing it with just simply toxic human behavior? What about toxic femininity? None of this is rea…
/r/seduction24/06/18 05:49 PM
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I'm glad you found a method of meditation that has immensely helped you with your life but lest not forget just how deep meditation is and the countless methods and techniques used to achieve different sets of goals and how meditation can lead people to different paths. Which discipline of meditation are you practicing? What are your techniques and methodology? Are you self taught or did you have a master/teacher? Are you observing, strengthening your sheer will or just letting everything flow? …
/r/seduction24/06/18 08:34 AM
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This is what I believe. To know love, you must know hate. To have the capability of becoming a person full of love, you have to have the capability of becoming a person full of hate. Otherwise you risk of having a false sense of love and vice versa and both are very unhealthy. To know how to inflict, you have to know how it feels to be inflicted. Kind of like you can only truly help someone going through a certain kind of pain that you have experienced in the past. I think having a healthy relat…
/r/seduction24/06/18 07:12 AM
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Imho toxic masculinity is an overwhelming neglect of the importance of masculinity and how it plays a major role in maintaining a healthy society. Masculinity to me is being able to stand your ground and willing to die for what you truly believe in and what is most important to you. I've only heard the term toxic masculinity on TV and on the internet but never in real life so I don't know if this is actually a nation wide thing or just some overblown hysteria. Whatever the case, don't be a wuss …
/r/seduction24/06/18 07:01 AM
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I'm not sure if I'll survive the next steps, which include texting/calling her and setting a date, etc etc... And maybe even losing my virginity, and dealing with the hesitation of telling her that. But even if I fail at all of that, at least I know I can approach women now. I'm capable. And women are interested. That's the mentality! If it works out, cool. If not, cool. Nobody likes the idea of rejection or things not working out but I think you should take comfort in knowing that the feeling o…
/r/seduction24/06/18 06:38 AM
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High Five! You should be proud of the fact that despite your SA, you were determined enough to go to a social event alone and had the courage to take some risks and it payed off, big time! I can't say whether Jesus is real or not but I can tell you what is real is what happened to you tonight, actually happened! Not because of some miracle but because YOU decided that you wanted to change and YOU took the action to make that change happen. All the credit goes to you, my man! YOU have the power t…
/r/seduction24/06/18 05:59 AM
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To all of these opinions on shit like how to change your voice(???) to get a girl, MEEEEHHHHH. Yeah man and the tone you use in your communication isn't so black and white. You have to be careful of people who purposely change their tones to make you think a certain way. There's a tactic that you purposely use submissive tone for exploitation purposes. There's also reading between the lines, underlying messages, designing a script to provoke certain emotions, etc. Some people have really sharp s…
/r/seduction21/06/18 05:49 AM
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SAY IT WITH YOUR CHEST, LITTLE ASS NIGGA
/r/seduction21/06/18 05:35 AM
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Morgan Freeman would like to have a word with you
/r/seduction21/06/18 05:28 AM
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If we're talking strictly on tone and categorizing it in only two ways (dominant or submissive) then you have to begin working from the most basic of human communication. A tone that is universal. A tone without words but people will sense that you are someone who will retaliate if provoked and will not hesitate to do things to you with bad intentions. You are "dominant" when other guys respect you, not when girls are attracted to you. I put the quotation because just practicing to sound like yo…
/r/seduction21/06/18 05:26 AM
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You're welcome. I wish I can offer you a more positive advice but that's what I did so I can only speak on what I have done and what worked for me. I work as an ESL teacher. Most people who come out here only do it for a year or so. Therefore, any relationship you start out here with another expat has an expiration date. That's true. It's just my preference to keep my professional life strictly professional because my professional self is too different from my non-professional self. Especially i…
/r/seduction20/06/18 07:33 AM
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Wasn't that always the case? lol
/r/seduction20/06/18 06:46 AM
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Doesnt matter because you would look like a god from a perspective from a 10th grade me because when I was in your age I couldn't even talk to girls, let alone take them out to eat! I would have been like "Holy shit, hes taking her out to dinner?!" ahaha
/r/seduction20/06/18 06:13 AM
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I dont know which industry you work in but I would stick to your rule because you never know who she knows and it's best to keep professional life and romantic life in their own separate lanes. I sucked at pulling the trigger. Actually, Im still not that great. The only thing you can do is just go for it and see what happens. Just go for it. Even if it doesn't work out, at least you'll have a better sense of when to go for it. The bad part is you have to do this over and over again. The first st…
/r/seduction20/06/18 06:06 AM
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Edit: i had a good chance but then my friends came and fucked it up. Fucking asshole!! Although it didnt work out this time, the fact that you were going to take a girl out on a dinner date was something I would have never been able to do at your age. On to the next one, my man. On to the next one!
/r/seduction20/06/18 05:42 AM
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which has made me the target of racism at least once or twice, once in the form of "why are you hanging around white people?" Don't think like that. Doesn't matter if other say that to you. The more you think about it, the more it becomes real to you. Racism doesn't exist. If you really go beyond the surface of the skin and REALLY think about it, the concept of racism starts to fall apart and its not black and white but more like different shades of greyness in a giant scope of other factors tha…
/r/seduction19/06/18 11:52 PM
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This felt really good Hell yeah! Seeking enjoyment and having fun of feeling your progress, instead of constantly worrying and hesitating from fear and anxiety, will take you to the skies. Never forget this feeling man. Never forget it. Im really happy for you dude and I mean that.
/r/seduction19/06/18 11:06 PM
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Great video. Short, informative, straight to the point and good animation. I wasn't aware this was news though, especially as you get older and have more experience. It's a grown up version of Santa Claus isn't real but the image sells, so does "true love". It's a trick your brain plays on you to keep our species going. Think of the phrase "madly in love", which is a mental state relating to insanity. A mental process that detach you from the surrounding world and obscures all the objective natu…
/r/seduction19/06/18 10:50 PM
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it's important to understand what a woman really is to begin with I think it's important to make things as simple as possible but not over complicating things during the process. I see it like this. Women, as a whole, are wired to do the things that their mothers did, what their mothers did, what their mothers did and so on for hundreds of thousands of years. Which is to find a mate who can provide and protect her and also have good genes to procreate and raise their offspring to become a strong…
/r/seduction15/06/18 11:32 PM
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Imagine if you had a crush on someone then realize they're not the person you thought they'd be. They never are, man. Im starting to think that attraction just comes from the image of that person you've created in your head. It's like your brain is tricking you to fuck and procreate. Have you ever witness a friend of yours being on the shitty end of the relationship and everyone and their mothers can tell it EXCEPT for the person in the relationship? "Why are you still with that bitch/douchebag?…
/r/seduction15/06/18 10:31 AM
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Lmao oh gosh this reminds me of this time in high school when I was sure this one girl liked me and during my way to my next class, she was walking towards me to get to her class. I could hear her usual cheerful voice approaching me. She usually say hi first in the most cheerful manner so the gentlemen I thought I was thought, "Hey, maybe I should say hello first this time!" When the distant was right, I did a nice bright hello with a smile and what did I get? Nothing. Not even a look in my dire…
/r/seduction15/06/18 08:14 AM
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Great advice but I would personally never friend a random broad that I met on the street on FB. It's okay if you're still in school but otherwise I don't feel comfortable sharing my fb info to randos.
/r/seduction28/07/15 07:56 AM
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Imo TRP gets lot of hate because, like you said, of the radicals. Some of the redpillers honestly doesn't sound too different from femi-nazis. As you mentioned, TRP is about focusing on yourself and becoming a better person by seeing through the BS a lot of us are exposed by in a daily basis. You're mostly supposed to focus on yourself and not worry about what others are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/15 10:35 AM
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I do this too and I think this is perfectly normal for anyone that's dating. It's kind of fun to entertain yourself with your own imaginations, but that's just what it is, imagination. Made up, not real. Imo, I think it's fine as long as you know that what you're portraying in your head is just all made up to make you feel a certain way.
/r/seduction16/09/14 10:17 AM
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Lock her down and put a ring on her? This is 2014, that shit won't fly no more.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 08:51 AM
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This is truly horrific. I know things like this happen all the time but when will the madness stop? I want to have kids someday but I feel like raising a family in the states is going to be an absolute nightmare. Definitely considering marrying a foreign woman and moving to other country. I mean, how many places in the world can be as twisted as the US? I have no faith in the 'system' in my country to improve anytime soon. That being said, I just want to send my deepest condolence to Mr. Christo…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 06:58 AM
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Yep. True confidence is really nothing to brag about and best kept to yourself. Never really liked the idea of "looking confident" or "fake it til you make it" approach.
/r/seduction13/06/14 03:16 AM
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Some decent replies. My favorite was this one Look, lets cut the shit, ok. Cheating is so traumatic the event gives people a post-traumatic disorder, of sorts. Except exposure therapy doesn't work for this sort of trauma. It works in reverse. You keep exposing yourself and you'll become desensitized to your own emotions and life itself. You don't keep exposing yourself to someone who maliciously harmed you and then expect the world to be right. It doesn't work like that. When you give love to a …
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 03:47 AM
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That's actually a pretty good idea.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 01:47 AM
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In the right context, I think it's great advice. If you take it in the context of continuing to do what you've always done, then it's horrible advice. Agreed. It's not a bad advice but imo not a great one either. "Just be yourself" is kind of a lazy answer to give to people. Way too many possible interpretations; gotta specify, especially if you're giving this advice to your kids.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 06:22 AM
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Nothing like a video with a nice mix of propaganda. I would say this video would be more accurate lol
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 10:39 AM
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For me it was time, meeting other people and getting new perspectives on my life. I also cut all contacts with my ex's which I do believe sped up the process of getting over them. Good luck.
/r/seduction25/01/14 07:49 PM
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I had a similar thought when I backpacked around Eastern Europe and met some of the women there. Holy smokes, I felt like I was seeing what a real women look and act like for the first time in my life. This made me realize how masculated a lot of the American females have become. Femininity is a beautiful thing and it's a shame that it's being forgotten in my country.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 05:17 PM
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I'm going to have to disagree with you. In my experience, Eastern European women were actually some of the greatest bunch of ladies I've had the pleasure of being around. Northern European girls were incredible as well. Western European girls were most like American girls, but not as bad. I fucking can't stand most American girls nowdays though. I almost despise them after experience with other women from other parts of the world.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 01:10 AM
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Finally someone who understands what I'm talking about! And yeah, you're right,the huge downgrade was EXTREMELY depressing. At least for me. Now days most of the American girls I meet are pretty sub par and really not that interesting at all. I don't understand why this is the case. Imo, American women have all the potential to become as great as European women. Perhaps the American culture of entitlement may be holding them back. Also, it could just be me but a lot of American women seem to be …
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 12:23 AM
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Your uncle will be in my prayer tonight..
/r/seduction29/11/13 08:57 AM
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Personally, I see it as: "If you want it, cool, lets dance. If not, cool, doesn't change a damn thing in the world."
/r/seduction29/11/13 08:03 AM
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I thought Swedish women were amazing because they were respectable. Girls in the US were more or less felt entitled to have respect from everyone, even though they didn't necessarily accomplish anything. The girls I've met held up on their own, were level-headed and did not expect anything from anyone. They were also no traits of superficiality or materialism from anyone of the Swedes I've met. Everyone there were more mature, genuine, sincere and humble than the people I'm used to here in the U…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 06:36 AM
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Yes, I was there for school and you're right, I did feel extremely lucky and blessed! You're also right that Swedish women do not really open up like American girls. Small talks out in public were pretty much non-existent over in Sweden, whereas it's very common in the US. The Swedes generally did not like superficial interactions, but it didn't bother me at all since I'm also not a big fan of it either.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 06:17 AM
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Those motherfuckers!
/r/seduction25/11/13 12:47 PM
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Lived in Stockholm for a year. The feminism over there wasn't nearly as filled with BS with the ones we have in the US. I would say it was more focused on realistic egalitarianism. I met some of the most amazing women of my life there. Holy shit, the quality of women there just ripped apart what I knew about women before. Then I came back to the US and realized why a lot of people in Europe think we have some of the worst women in the world....FUCK.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 07:34 AM
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Hey man, I think if you can talk to few girls and k-close then you are in good shape, even if it was just happened only once out of those 2 parties. What made you act like such a stud that night?
/r/seduction12/10/13 07:41 AM
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Good for her for acknowledging the fact that she won the "genetic lottery" and lucky enough to be born at the right place and time in history where being a good looking white woman is highly beneficial. As for implementing this TED talk for seduction, I'm not sure if there is much to implement anything new.
/r/seduction10/10/13 05:01 AM
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I agree with the metal part but not so much with the reckless driving. Please keep that to a minimum.
/r/seduction08/10/13 11:35 PM
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You are in the perfect place to get better at picking up girls! Imo, being surrounded by guys who knows how to pick up girls is one of the best ways to learn about seduction. Bunch of my friends don't even TRY to pick up girls, which is very annoying when I'm eager to talk to girls at a bar. I love going out with friends who enjoys the picking up girls because it motivates me to up my game. Anyways, I think you'll learn a lot from just hanging out with your roommates. Just my 2cents.
/r/seduction07/10/13 10:48 PM
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I need a second opinion on this but, from my experience, American girls seem to love it way more when I'm being an asshole than European girls. I was lucky enough to study in Sweden for a year and I've noticed that being sincere, straight forward, and genuinely kind was more appreciated over there. Don't get me wrong, European girls loved being teased but they weren't very amused when I turned on my asshole switch, wherelese American girls loved it. My theory is that it probably has something to…
/r/seduction07/10/13 08:05 PM
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I've done this only a few times and surprisingly it worked way better than I expected. The first time I asked I seriously thought I was going to get bitch slapped but the girl was just a bit shocked I asked such blunt question. We were just hanging out and out of the blue I asked, "Hey, let's have sex." She said, "What? Um well..I'm kind of seeing this guy right now.." I responded, "Well, it was just a question :). Anyway, I have The Royal Tenenbaums on DVD. Let's watch it." We started watching …
/r/seduction24/07/13 07:07 AM
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