Can somebody explain Neediness?

WIA20XX · 2018-07-02T15:07:29+00:00

You always text first.

You always respond quickly.

She writes one line, you write a paragraph.

She says she likes salsa music, so you send her salsa YouTube videos.

You hate mayonnaise, she likes it. You tell her that you like mayonnaise.

You never want to offend, you always want to please.

You spend your time thinking about her.
You spend your money on her.

She doesn't care.

You care way too much.

For guys in relationships, they can't be without the girl.

guimafelipe · 2018-07-02T14:15:28+00:00

Neediness is when you NEED her. Wanting her is different of needing her, did you get? ;)

justadudedudethrow · 2018-07-02T14:48:13+00:00

Neediness is when you look to someone else for validation.

The_Reddit_Jester · 2018-07-02T17:35:13+00:00

So I was watching a Todd video and this put it all into perspective:

Persistence is asking her out, neediness is the quality of the approach

So basically, it's fine to text if you have something relevant, but it turns needy if it's always you texting in a desperate way.

John-lovestosposh · 2018-07-02T15:05:25+00:00

Making a move and even if you get rejected, you genuinely don’t care bc your not outcome depend and just having fun .

ReighIB · 2018-07-02T15:39:32+00:00

To me that means you're too outcome dependent with interaction with others.

frankduxing · 2018-07-02T20:13:12+00:00

Neediness related to women is a state of requiring her to be or feel complete mentally. It means you are not capable of being fulfilled or happy without a woman taking up the gap you have in your mental state. Ask yourself, would you be able to find as much joy and pleasure in life without a women? If the answer is no, you are at least somewhat needy. It might be impossible to be completely free from neediness but the closer you get, the more attractive you will be seen as to the opposite sex and others.

It does not refer to a physical need such as that of having to drink water or have a woman to mate with to create a child.

Title	Can somebody explain Neediness?
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Date	July 2, 2018 2:08 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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