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| 3 | Getting her back in shape.I've inducted her on my gym membership and given her a timeslot on Saturday mornings when I take the kids swimming. That's probably not enough motivation for her. In a way, she and I are not unalike. I have a hard time training without something to train for. I've been this way all my life. So, what did I do? Well, I'm glad you asked. I sign myself up for events: fights, races, obstacles courses etc. This provides me with all the motivation I need. I don't want to lose an amateur fight because I… | /r/askMRP | 16/03/17 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Combative Children, Social Isolation and a Failure in LeadershipI don't think she's depressed, thank God. She has mentioned bullying, which is what prompted me to meet with her teacher. The trouble is that her definition of bullying is anything someone else does that annoys her. I have tried to get her to develop thicker skin. It seems that she is a tad sensitive to me. | /r/askMRP | 10/02/17 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Combative Children, Social Isolation and a Failure in LeadershipThank you. Along with Dale Carnegie's book, How to Make Friends and Influence People I will order a Rosemond book as well. Would you recommend Parenting by the Book or The Well Behaved Child? | /r/askMRP | 10/02/17 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Combative Children, Social Isolation and a Failure in LeadershipAre you suggesting that I encourage my daughter to practice stoicism in the face of bullying? If so, I honestly hadn't thought of that. It reminds me of V. Putin's expression when former Canadian Prime Minister Stephen Harper "bravely" told Putin, "get out of Ukraine." The expression on Putin's face was classic stoic. Ice cold... This would work well in a school environment. No one would know what to do about it. | /r/askMRP | 09/02/17 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Combative Children, Social Isolation and a Failure in LeadershipThank you for telling me this. I have also noticed more animosity from my first mate towards my daughter than I thought warranted. Mrs. RelapsedBeta is way harder on my daughter than she is on my son. She laments it though, wishing she had the relationship with our daughter that she did with her mother. Oh well, none of my business, until it is. Thats why it is your job, as the leader, to provide stability in this. Show them both that their behavior won't be tolerated through example. How do you… | /r/askMRP | 09/02/17 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Combative Children, Social Isolation and a Failure in LeadershipAmused Mastery has been my motherfucking salvation with Mrs. RelapsedBeta. I'll try to Amused Mastery my daughter. Fogging as well. Thanks for taking the time to respond to my question. | /r/askMRP | 09/02/17 09:43 PM |
| 3 | Combative Children, Social Isolation and a Failure in LeadershipNope No value. Fuck off. | /r/askMRP | 09/02/17 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Combative Children, Social Isolation and a Failure in LeadershipMan the fuck up! LOL'd at that one. Thanks for messaging me and taking the time to respond to my question. I appreciate that you have daughters, and indeed, we live in times that are very challenging for women of value to retain that value. I am trying to raise a woman of value. I feel that motherfucker of a weight of responsibility daily, and I do take it seriously. I did everything that I could think of doing. I just did it wrong. The advice given here so far has been excellent. I will not DEE… | /r/askMRP | 09/02/17 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Combative Children, Social Isolation and a Failure in LeadershipA diagnosis will become a point of self identity for your daughter. This right here. I am afraid that her typically female behaviour will be pathologized. My protective instincts are kicking in just reading your message. | /r/askMRP | 09/02/17 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Combative Children, Social Isolation and a Failure in LeadershipAll of the behaviors you are describing are normal behaviors for kids. I cannot tell you what a relief it is to read this. I have been worrying about this a great deal over the past few months. She is a model student, athletic and even occasionally charming.Your advice about her room becoming a "no go" zone resonates with me. I have perhaps given her too much slack in this regard and in the amount of time she spends on electronic devices. I will correct these shortcomings of mine. The rest, the … | /r/askMRP | 09/02/17 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Combative Children, Social Isolation and a Failure in LeadershipLike others have mentioned, discipline. I barely have to raise my voice to my son and he is on task. He is engaged, energized, and plays often. I also have a son. He is no problem to deal with. I will take your advice. I have been letting both children have way too much time with electronics. Hopefully fatigue will lessen her pugnaciousness. Another problem she has is sleep. She does not get enough sleep, that could be part of the issue as well. Thank you for taking the time to respond to me. | /r/askMRP | 09/02/17 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Combative Children, Social Isolation and a Failure in LeadershipOf course talking is stoopid! Thank you for the advice. You are, of course, absolutely correct that my leadership has been non-existent. First lesson, I do not DEER with my daughter. Second, I do not haggle, or deal, I set boundaries and I enforce them likea leader. I do not tolerate arguing. Thank you for taking the time to respond to my query. It was from men like you, fathers, that I was hoping to hear. | /r/askMRP | 09/02/17 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Combative Children, Social Isolation and a Failure in LeadershipRead her How to Win Friends and Influence People. Thanks for this piece of advice. I will draw the book from the local library and read it to her, ASAP. I suspect that my daughter exhibits behaviours in imitation of both of her parents, however, she is more like her mother than me, particularly with regard to the sloppiness. My wife has improved greatly though, so I have hope that my daughter can as well. I strongly favour the advice you have given with regards to avoiding therapy, except as a l… | /r/askMRP | 09/02/17 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Combative Children, Social Isolation and a Failure in LeadershipA good catch on your part. Yes, I completely neglected to mention discipline and it is the most important principle to apply consistently. I do discipline my children. As part of our family mission and vision, I have clearly outlined my expectations for the children and the fact the corrective measures wil be applied when necessary, in order to correct shortcomings. In my son's case, there is no issue. Either he is exceptional, or he is responding better to my leadership. | /r/askMRP | 09/02/17 07:18 PM |
| 3 | Alpha Valentine's Day Gift?Give your wife the Ibrahimovic. | /r/askMRP | 02/02/17 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Wife kills boner help...There are no natural alphas here. Alphas don't ask the internet for advice on their marriages, they just rock them, as they do most things. Feelings of repugnance over one's wife's slutty past is rooted in evolutionary biology, as an anti-cucking mechanism. If you are not bothered by your wife's slutty past then I refer you to the sub-reddit "hot wives." Mods on this sub-reddit have depreciated in quality over the past few months. OP finds his wife's revelations a turn-off. He should be trying t… | /r/askMRP | 23/08/16 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Wife kills boner help...I could be dead wrong about who is farting in whose face. What makes you think that she thinks of her husband as an "alpha?" He doesn't seem like an alpha to me. If we are lurking on askmrp, chances are that we are not natural alphas, we need help with that shit. OP doesn't sound like a man with his shit together, he does sound like a man who is trying. My understanding is that the more he improves himself the better he will be at delineating boundaries and setting out his expectations (overt co… | /r/askMRP | 22/08/16 06:08 PM |
| 0 | Wife kills boner help...Ah. True. My insecurities are mine to deal with. My insecurities are not my wife's problem. Making my insecurities the problem of others is an unattractive thing to do. | /r/askMRP | 22/08/16 03:29 PM |
| 0 | Wife kills boner help...For all the advice given to OP, not one dude mentioned contracts: covert or otherwise. This is OP's marriage. If he doesn't want to hear about what a slut his wife is, he should simply tell her that. Feeling insecure about your wife's sexual past is completely normal. However, it is critical that he at least appear to be secure with her past. | /r/askMRP | 22/08/16 02:55 PM |
| 7 | I'm a fat assReddit has a great page on the "Keto" diet. I would try that. | /r/askMRP | 22/08/16 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Wife kills boner help...It's naive to think that new memories overwrite old ones. OP's wife sounds like an "alpha widow." He is not taking the place of her former Chad. Former Chad was soooooo hott, that she fucked him in a moving car, endangering both their lives and the lives of other drivers. OP has a problem with covert contracts. She killed his boner. He has no chance of erasing the other memory with his limp noodle. OP needs to specify boundaries. If he finds his wife's slutty past a boner-killer, he should tell … | /r/askMRP | 22/08/16 02:10 PM |
| 0 | Wife kills boner help...OP's wife just committed the verbal equivalent of farting in his face; naturally, he lost his boner. Attraction cannot be negotiated; she did something unattractive and he lost interest. I'm the same way. The difference between OP and I is that I have made it clear to my wife that I don't want to know about her sexual history. Period. I don't care if that makes me look insecure. Overt contract: "Discussing your slutty past with me makes you ugly in my eyes, don't do it." OP should not force hims… | /r/askMRP | 22/08/16 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Married Red Pill Men, do you regret it?Kids in my case. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/15 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Married Red Pill Men, do you regret it?Don't forget student loans, a propensity to run up their credit cards and the expectation of imminent salvation in the form of a Beta Bucks male with White Knight syndrome. If I could go back in time, I would do one thing...guess what it is. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/15 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Married Red Pill Men, do you regret it?Married at 23, been married for 9 years, two kids. Worst decision I have ever made. I'm pretty sure she's killing me slowly but surely through bratty bitchiness. For the love of all that is sacred, do not marry. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/15 11:15 PM |
| 2 | My Wise is a bitch on my birthday...again. Advice?Heh, mostly cold bitch mode in my case. Yes, she's a tough little filly. I'm uncertain whether or not she's worth the effort. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/12/15 11:13 PM |
| 2 | My Wise is a bitch on my birthday...again. Advice?Unlike you, I do not have a proper, solid, consistent expectation from my wife. Building this will take time, but I'm willing to commit to the effort although at times I sincerely wonder if it's worth it. Thanks for taking the time to respond to my questions. I appreciate your efforts on my behalf. Will work immediately on being happy, and doing what I want to do. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/12/15 11:11 PM |
| 3 | My Wise is a bitch on my birthday...again. Advice?That's certainly true. However, I can't think of a time, recently I mean, when I have acted like a bitch. Well, there is this obvious victim puke. Asides from that, nada. Is there ever a time when something is so obvious that it doesn't need to be stated overtly? For example, adultery, addiction or abuse are examples of things which I consider so obvious as to not require an overt contract. If she cheats, the marriage is over. If she becomes addicted to something: gambling, alcohol, meth, whatev… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/12/15 09:11 PM |
| 1 | My Wise is a bitch on my birthday...again. Advice?On second thought, is it really a "covert contract" to expect decent treatment on my birthday? Do I really have to make it overt: "honey, as you know, today is my birthday; could you, pretty please, treat me with decency today, perhaps even affection?" Is any marriage worth having to spell out very basic expectations, such as the expectation that I ought to be treated with decency everyday, especially on my birthday? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/12/15 03:15 PM |
| 2 | My Wise is a bitch on my birthday...again. Advice?It could well be that she's just a brat, yes. Perhaps she can't stand it not being her "special day." | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/12/15 03:12 PM |
| 3 | My Wise is a bitch on my birthday...again. Advice?That was my initial instinct as well. What sort of person treats their lover with bitchiness, sullenness and unpleasantness on his birthday? I suspected that her behaviour was an indicator of the utter contempt she holds me in. I really did handle it poorly though, you're right. I wish I had handled it better. Perhaps I should have walked out the door the minute it became apparent that she wasn't in any sort of festive mood. Instead, I just focused on the kids and their antics. They were having … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/12/15 03:10 PM |
| 4 | My Wise is a bitch on my birthday...again. Advice?Roger that on the victim-puke. I don't think it's asking too much to be expecting decent treatment on one's birthday though. Do you? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/12/15 03:07 PM |
| -1 | My Wise is a bitch on my birthday...again. Advice?Is expecting decent treatment on any day, never mind one's birthday, a covert contract? I don't believe that it is. I don't think that I'm expecting anything extraordinary when I wish to be treated with respect. No relationship is worth it if I have to spell out every damn thing to her, such as "hey, it's my birthday, could you be pleasant today, pretty please?" | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/12/15 03:06 PM |
| 2 | My Wise is a bitch on my birthday...again. Advice?Any advice for handling massive shit tests? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/12/15 02:13 PM |
| 1 | My Wise is a bitch on my birthday...again. Advice?You're absolutely right, on the subject of covert contracts. I did think that because it was my birthday that she ought to be nice to me, oh well. Once again, I appreciate you taking the time to answer my question. Thank you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/12/15 02:11 PM |
| 1 | My Wise is a bitch on my birthday...again. Advice?Thanks for taking the time to respond to my query. I absolutely should do what I want to do, not just on my birthday, but year-round. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/12/15 01:58 PM |
| 3 | My Wise is a bitch on my birthday...again. Advice?Any advice for handling massive shit tests? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/12/15 01:54 PM |
| 3 | My Wife is a bitch on my birthday...again. Advice?There's no question that she's a brat. I don't think I'll take her anywhere tomorrow. It's time for the "me time" I didn't get on my birthday. | /r/askMRP | 19/12/15 05:50 AM |
| 1 | My Wife is a bitch on my birthday...again. Advice?I suppose that's an option, although not an ideal one. It did occur to me that there was a significant chance that she would shit test me extra hard today. I just wish she would pick a different day. Perhaps future birthdays would be better spent in the company friends. | /r/askMRP | 19/12/15 05:11 AM |
| 1 | my wife disclosed her sexual past to friends and I feel humiliatedYOU entered into a drinking game where you knew that crazy shit would be disclosed... and allowed your wife to do so as well. This is exactly right, my bad. I hate drinking games anyway, and hangovers. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/06/15 09:06 PM |
| 1 | my wife disclosed her sexual past to friends and I feel humiliatedQuite frankly I think you failed in advance by not making your standards and expectations know about this sort of stuff. Yes, this was my mistake on the night. It won't happen again. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/06/15 09:06 PM |
| 3 | my wife disclosed her sexual past to friends and I feel humiliatedYour wife tarnished your houses brand I won't even bring it up. I want the "immersion" portion of "The Sex God Method" to continue to give me even better sex with her. If I bring it up she will experience shame which will kill my "immersion" traction that I've managed to build up over the months, therefore she will never know of my anger. Plus, it's bench press day, my anger will be gone by lunch. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/06/15 10:39 AM |
| 2 | my wife disclosed her sexual past to friends and I feel humiliatedDollars to donuts she "confessed" as an IOI to another guy in the drinking game.... That could well be, although the other woman there disclosed some raunchy shit. Could that be an IOI in me? My anger over the whole issue is her "trickle truthing" her past over the years. I assume there are much worse skeletons in her closet, I just don't care to know about them. Ignorance is bliss, isn't it? Either way, I've decided not to bring it up. After the party I fucked her good, then tucked her in. (Alp… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/06/15 10:37 AM |
| 1 | my wife disclosed her sexual past to friends and I feel humiliatedI didn't act all butt hurt. I laughed out loud along with everyone else. I guess what bothered me isn't that she's a slut, I figured that one out on my own. It's the way that information reflects on me that bothers me. I want her to feel "immersed" as per the "Sex God Method," it will lead to more and greater sexual escapades: threesomes etc. I just don't want her to "trickle truth" her, no doubt sluttier, sexual history. I don't like it brought up to me. Does that make me a beta bitch, I don't … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/06/15 10:31 AM |
| 1 | my wife disclosed her sexual past to friends and I feel humiliatedIt wasn't a humiliation if you had just joked it away, eg "hope you don't start disclosing our sexual escapades otherwise we might not be welcome here anymore". Ha! I wish I had thought of that! I didn't act all butt hurt. I laughed out loud along with everyone else. I guess what bothered me isn't that she's a slut, I figured that one out on my own. It's the way that information reflects on me that bothers me. I want her to feel "immersed" as per the "Sex God Method," it will lead to more and gr… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/06/15 10:26 AM |
| 2 | my wife disclosed her sexual past to friends and I feel humiliatedGlad I went for it. She's pretty happy about it too. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/06/15 10:21 AM |
| 1 | my wife disclosed her sexual past to friends and I feel humiliatedWait. So your wife is finally looking at you as someone with an alpha mentality and your first response is to retreat to your beta hole? I haven't demonstrated any anger what so ever. In fact, once we got home I fucked her good and hard. I'm pleased that she is starting to view me as an IDGAF alpha. I have got to keep demonstrating that is indeed what I am. Fake it 'till you make it and all that. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/06/15 10:19 AM |
| 3 | my wife disclosed her sexual past to friends and I feel humiliatedAnd as for that anger about her confession? Don't speak of it to her. Go use it at the gym. Mentioning it will make you look like the biggest pussy in pussyville and it will accomplish nothing. I have not mentioned it. In fact, once we got home I booked her a trip to pound town. The right response would have been to laugh and tell her that her stories are "cute". I didn't have a witty response and so was unable to perform any "amused mastery" or "agree and amplify," I simply laughed along with t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/06/15 10:13 AM |
| 5 | my wife disclosed her sexual past to friends and I feel humiliatedYes, your wife is now comfortable around you because she sees you as the IDGAF Alpha- or at least enough to let her guard down and reveal this. I wouldn't hold it against her. Women can't help how they behave around an Alpha. I definitely see the potential here in terms of an even more interesting sex life, now that she views me in this way. I'll see how far I can push it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/06/15 10:07 AM |
| 2 | my wife disclosed her sexual past to friends and I feel humiliatedI think I'll wake her up and do just that. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/06/15 03:01 AM |
| 7 | my wife disclosed her sexual past to friends and I feel humiliatedLay it on me. Don't be gentle. There it is. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/06/15 03:01 AM |
| 1 | [FR] A few weeks ago I went to level 10 dread: updateHoly! That's a friggin' betrayal and a half there. No, make that three major betrayals. The more Red Pill I ingest the more and more I have come to see modern Christianity for what it is: It is bluepill men (pastors) creating a blanket of comfort for women out of the pockets of hard working men. I'm pulling back from church going. It is a different story all on its own but I think it needs to happen. I can't afford to expose my son to all the blue pill conditioning he is in for. Five days a week… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/04/15 05:52 PM |
| 1 | [FR] A few weeks ago I went to level 10 dread: updateYou have a poisonous snake in the house. Don't I fucking know it... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/04/15 11:27 AM |
| 2 | [FR] A few weeks ago I went to level 10 dread: updateMan if you're like me you genuinely want to stay married. I wanted this desperately when my journey started but my new found life of flirting with other women, lifting, dressing well and doing things for myself is intoxicating. Now, even though things are waaaay better I'm no longer desperate to save the marriage. Outcome independence grows in a man with options. Give yourself some options. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/04/15 11:26 AM |
| 1 | [FR] A few weeks ago I went to level 10 dread: updateYeah, it took me three years to get here man but it didn't have to. The reason my journey took so long was because of our Christian marriage. Yes, I'm blaming my faith for her not feeling the dread sooner. She knows I take my vows seriously and so was just fucking blown away when I told her I was seriously considering divorce. She took in all my improvements: improved physique, new wardrobe, expanding circle of friends (even in the "arts" community) and never once felt threatened!The hampster is… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/04/15 11:23 AM |
| 3 | [FR] A few weeks ago I went to level 10 dread: updateThat's why I always tell folks to lift lurk and read. Starting with the sidebar. MMSLP and NNMNG completely re-set my psyche. I owe so much to Kay and Glover. MMSLP is the most comprehensive marriage guide I have ever seen. It will endure for some time to come. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/04/15 11:22 AM |
| 2 | [FR] A few weeks ago I went to level 10 dread: updateDon't bullshit a bullshitter. Oh man, this is critical. I get the impression that a lot of commenters here have not read the sidebar. MMSLP stresses the importance of raising SMV in order for this stuff to work. Doing this takes time but it's worthwhile. Even should my marriage fail my efforts will have been worth it because I will be back out on the meat market with a new physique, a new wardrobe, a large and ever expanding circle of friends and a cocky, sexy, new attitude. Life is going well n… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/04/15 11:20 AM |
| 3 | [FR] A few weeks ago I went to level 10 dread: updateDread is a powerful attraction trigger in women if you do it right. This is so important! In fact, it has been working so well for me I would even consider advising all TRP men to employ it steadily. It works so fucking well. The reason my journey took so long was because of our Christian marriage. Yes, I'm blaming my faith for her not feeling the dread sooner. She knows I take my vows seriously and so was just fucking blown away when I told her I was seriously considering divorce. She took in a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/04/15 11:16 AM |
| 2 | [FR] A few weeks ago I went to level 10 dread: updateGood job, but remember her behaviour follows your lead. If you get comfortable and ease up on your game, she'll slip back into her old self. Of this I have no doubt. At the moment we are definitely in some sort of honeymoon phase after she got over her initial shock of realizing that she might possibly lose me. My intent is to keep on gaming. I will keep on initiating sex and using DEVI. I must remain an oak when shit tests inevitably return but, I will enforce Athol Kay's "2nd date rule." | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/04/15 11:10 AM |
| 2 | Just Lift the Damn Weights!Starting training, eating better and dressing well but it's not enough. For me a big thing about taking care of myself has been actually going to see a doctor and a dentist, both of which I had neglected for years. After I read, "No More Mr. Nice Guy" I booked an appointment with a dentist that led to several more and a tooth repair. Damn it felt good to see my teeth cleaner and to know that my oral health was being looked after. In addition I have a doctor's appointment for a full physical comi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/03/15 08:28 PM |
| 1 | On Saturday morning I went to level 10 dread.I love the idea! I just won't do it. I won't cheat and she knows it. She knows I want sex with her, not just sex. I've been clear in my demands and still getting the shit end of the stick. This is the perfect time for me to issue this ultimatum. Contrary to the conclusions leapt to by some other commenters I am not in a state of anger. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/03/15 11:00 AM |
| 1 | On Saturday morning I went to level 10 dread.She's been sweet as pie! I think she's horrified at losing her Beta Bucks...time to meet the lawyer me thinks. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/03/15 10:58 AM |
| 1 | On Saturday morning I went to level 10 dread.I failed to mention this in my original post. She received her warning order concerning steak and BJ day weeks ago with several reminders. I have been very straightforward about my sexual needs and desires. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/03/15 10:57 AM |
| 1 | On Saturday morning I went to level 10 dread.Since then she has been sweet as pie. I think she's a little terrified actually. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/03/15 10:56 AM |
| 2 | On Saturday morning I went to level 10 dread.Loving the new more muscular me. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/03/15 10:55 AM |
| 0 | On Saturday morning I went to level 10 dread.I've addressed this further up. I have implemented all the stages of dread, over a two year period and in chronological order. I won't go to steps 11 and 12. I will not commit adultery. I came to this thread for advice. Where I find value I'll take it. Where there's none I move on. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/03/15 10:54 AM |
| -3 | On Saturday morning I went to level 10 dread.Not wanting to live a life where I am constantly shit tested is the dumbest thing you have ever heard? I'm here for advice, yours is no value added. Frankly, if I have to live a life of steady shit tests until I die I want a divorce, the sooner the better. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/03/15 10:52 AM |
| 3 | On Saturday morning I went to level 10 dread.No, I had been talking about this for weeks with her and my expectations for regular sex are quite clear. This was little more than a cock-tease from her. She bought steaks on steak and BJ day after I had said I wanted to "mark" the day. She's flirty all night, then shit tests me, when I swat it away she stalks off to bed. I have been quite direct with her about my expectations so I don't see how this can be covert in any way. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/03/15 10:50 AM |
| 3 | On Saturday morning I went to level 10 dread.If none of that worked, and you have spent a year or more improving THEN it is time for the final ultimatum- put out or I get out. Option A or B. This is where I'm at. I've been implementing dread steadily and chronologically for two years. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/03/15 10:48 AM |
| 2 | On Saturday morning I went to level 10 dread.I've been implementing the dread steadily for two years, incrementally working my way up. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/03/15 10:47 AM |
| -6 | On Saturday morning I went to level 10 dread."There's nothing cheaper than big talk." Says the keyboard warrior. LOLZ | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/03/15 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Update, I'm not a "nice guy" any more!On it! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/03/15 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Update, I'm not a "nice guy" any more!Exactly! It's sad that I thought those ridiculous things about myself. It's great now working on myself, doing things that make me happy even if they are considered "selfish." Especially if they are considered "selfish!" | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/03/15 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Riding the waveBingo! I was doing them for her. Lately, I've been getting myself into the "selfish" mindset where everything is for me. My needs come first. The surprising thing is that my wife is supportive of me getting out with buddies, new hobbies etc. Perhaps I was being a smothering little bitch! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/03/15 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Riding the waveI wish I could just count on support from women when I need it. But I cant. I know this now and have learned the right thing to do is bootstrapping and ignoring them while I sort my own issues.< This is still the hardest part for me. I find myself getting discouraged when all my lifting, improved appearance, snappier style and better frame are knocked out from under me. At times it does feel exhausting, that's where I'm at, wondering if it's all worth the effort. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/03/15 03:19 PM |
| 1 | If You Could Do It Over, Would You Still Get Married?Not a snowball's chance in hell. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/02/15 03:04 PM |
| 5 | The Jagged PillThe stages of grief are pertinent to the taking of the "Red Pill." For married men, taking the pill and seeing yourself, your wife and your marriage for the way they truly are is not unlike experiencing a death. The death of one's disney dreams is exactly what occurs when the pill is taken and ingested. I believe the analogy is a good one. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/02/15 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Seeking advice for a successful Alpha in unintentional Monk ModeI'm a bit of a MRP new guy but I can't help but wonder if you're biting off more than you can chew? You claim, "I'm running at 110%." Do you intend to do this in the long-term or just until you achieve some personal or professional goal? If it's long term I wonder if you're missing out of the simpler aspects of life that include enjoying the hard won fruits of your labour. If it's short-term and you are taking a step back from sex because you have this goal you must achieve then I see no problem… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/02/15 01:49 PM |
| 3 | Desperate for adviceThank you for this long response to my request for advice! I will attempt to address/respond to your points in chronological order. First, your advice about frame maintenance was dead on. My mistake - and this made things way worse- was to attempt to defend myself, to point out all that I do for her and our children and basically appease her like Neville Chamberlain on Adolf Hitler. It didn't work for poor old Neville it didn't work for poor old RelapsedBeta. Second, I do use her only for sex, s… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/02/15 12:02 PM |
| 2 | Desperate for adviceThat has crossed my mind. I have no other evidence to suggest this though. She has been a faithful wife- to my knowledge- until now. She just sucks at everything else. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/02/15 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Desperate for adviceUnfortunately, as my handle suggests, I relapsed into beta. I attempted to appease. I pointed out all of the things I do for her and our children. My original post doesn't tell the half of it. Due to our pay cut I sold my car and now ride my bike to work, 5 km each way, winter included. I have cut my expenses down to zilch. I don't even buy a cup of coffee any more. Anyhow, all frame is lost and it's going to take awhile until it is re-established. Taking the red pill has been a bitter medicine.… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/02/15 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Desperate for adviceThanks man, I guess I still have plenty of residual blue pill conditioning remaining from a life time of large dose taking. My foolish expectations were of an equal partner/ soul mate. I see now that that wasn't a realistic expectation. Damn this is hard to take. Is it worth the effort of knowing I can never have an off-day again? I can never let my guard down, especially in my own home? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/02/15 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Desperate for adviceNext on the list! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/02/15 11:41 AM |
| 2 | Desperate for adviceCould this be the "main event?" http://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2m72x0/mrp_theory_the_main_event/ | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/02/15 07:37 PM |
| 8 | Desperate for adviceThanks for the tough love. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/02/15 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Desperate for adviceRational Male, Heartiste, also Esther Villar, Aaron Clarey and I am a daily reader of Heartiste, ROK, etc. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/02/15 06:58 PM |
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