Riding the wave

BluepillProfessor · 2015-03-01T04:54:31+00:00

This is the most fundamental finding of The Red Pill that women literally abandon their men when they most need the emotional and psychological support. Women become immediately unpleasant and unsupportive when a refuge and some support is most needed. They will cut of sex IMMEDIATELY with a man who most needs the touch and support of his woman. Death in the family, lose your job, get depressed- count on it. This is not a bug, it IS the programming.

marxistbacon · 2015-02-28T20:54:45+00:00

Today I begin a two week clean eating diet. Gym every day. No excuses. Ignoring plate. Mostly ignoring wife.

Awesome! Sounds like a great plan.

I wish I could just count on support from women when I need it. But I cant.

I hear you. But you'll find there's 10x the strength of support you need inside your own self compared to what anyone else can give. And it sounds like you're ready to tap into it.

RelapsedBeta · 2015-03-01T15:19:52+00:00

I wish I could just count on support from women when I need it. But I cant. I know this now and have learned the right thing to do is bootstrapping and ignoring them while I sort my own issues.<

This is still the hardest part for me. I find myself getting discouraged when all my lifting, improved appearance, snappier style and better frame are knocked out from under me. At times it does feel exhausting, that's where I'm at, wondering if it's all worth the effort.

strategos_autokrator · 2015-03-01T20:50:47+00:00

We choose to be men. We choose to go to be men and do the other things, not because they are easy, but because they are hard, because that goal will serve to organize and measure the best of our energies and skills, because that challenge is one that we are willing to accept, one we are unwilling to postpone, and one which we intend to win, and the others, too.

(yup, i just lifted that from JFK and edited it a bit)

Professional setbacks are the hardest to recover because they threaten a lot in the ship. Good job at focusing on the other stuff while things fall into place. Captains captain through the storm.

Redneck001 · 2015-03-01T21:05:21+00:00

I have surfed my entire life. Good surfing, IMO, is best defined as "grace under pressure."

Be graceful under pressure. Great surfers are relaxed as chaos ensures around them. They look like they've been there before.

And if you eat shit on the takeoff and take a beating, just count to 10 in your head to prevent a panic attack. By the time you get to 10, your head is up again and you can take a deep breath of air.

Title	Riding the wave
Author	theultmatecad
Upvotes	6
Comments	12
Date	February 28, 2015 8:37 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MarriedRedPill
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