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Reality porn doesn't count buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:49 PM
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Just come to terms with your cuck fetish and leave the rest of us out of it OP Nobody wants to hear you LARP about how Chad Jawline with a 10" cock took all your girlfriends away
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:41 PM
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What in the LinkedIn AI post is this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:40 AM
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I've now watched the movie twice and this take is completely out to lunch. I can explain why every single one of your points makes zero sense. As Eiichiro Oda would say, this is a matter of reading comprehension. A story about a bad person does not mean that a bad person needs to fit an archetype. In fact, that usually makes it more predictable. Examples include Walter White, Nurse Ratched, D-Fens. The fact that Bear is not a stereotypical rapist is irrelevant to whether he committed rape, or wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:28 AM
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There is no way you don't realize how hard you're projecting right now, right? you are describing yourself to a tee. you keep posting responses that have nothing to do with the comment you're responding to. you play dumb all the time to try and save face. you don't pay attention to the points people make against you. it is embarrassing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:17 PM
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lol you ever wonder why you never convince anyone here of anything? it fascinates me the way you never adjust anything about what you're doing, despite total ineffectiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:14 PM
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https://www.nytimes.com/books/best-sellers/ Jill Biden ain't writing pornography...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:12 PM
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Guys understand that. They do not get the room to do the first one and that's what they're talking about. You're strawmanning.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:06 PM
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tfw Lilith thinks men can't handle their emotions, because she cannot handle other people's emotions another day, another Lilith projection post
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:06 PM
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Did you think he was trying to turn you on?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:03 PM
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There’s a difference between crying over your dog of 17 years dying and “ITS NOT FAIR I DONT GET THE PUSSY I WANT!” I agree with your title, but I think that in many situations, guys are not afforded room to be the first example either. And that is a shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:02 PM
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efficient market hypothesis this is a hypothesis and there are real criticisms of this assumption about markets. you should also read about why a lot of investors do not agree with it, instead of accepting it at face value. The biggest thing that comes to my mind is that information is known to different people at different times.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:34 PM
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I don't think that it's a more or less intense feeling than humiliation, it's more about the specific kind of humiliation. And reading your example, I don't think many people are up to try out humiliating things again either. I think that people use the word in two different ways: I think that society expects men to behave in very specific ways to avoid social outcast status and emasculation is when you feel like what you are doing is going to push outside of those specific and accepted ways of …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:32 PM
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isn't Thailand in particular famous for all the sex tourism and ladyboys? or is that exaggerated in media?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:14 AM
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lol why would i have hinge? point is, you have no idea what he weighs or if he's healthy or not and you should consider that reality against your kneejerk reaction to his photos
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:36 AM
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what does he weigh?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:31 AM
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did he impersonate people? it's been a while since I saw that show
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:30 AM
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bro wyd coming here complaining about a ban from somewhere else, this is lame
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:29 AM
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you're telling on yourself rn
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:28 AM
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at least from a glance at the wikipedia page, it's a pretty narrow definition. The law is typically used in the US for cases where the person has impersonated someone else entirely (i.e. acting as their existing partner in the dark or while they're drunk or something), or if someone has disguised sex as a professional service like a physical exam. Though in the UK, it seems like trans status can also be considered under this law if not disclosed, which seems excessive to me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:18 AM
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imo lying is worse. Deceiving others for personal gain is almost always going to be the wrong move, compared to an alternative that involves not doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:13 AM
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I didn't claim that it removed the biological reality of my life. The term ego death does not mean a literal biological death
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:32 AM
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No, and no. I don't think that it's a magical cure to any and all hedonist tendencies, but I think it has strengthened my resolve to avoid them for sure. I do not agree with the idea that people are fully responsible for the situations they find themselves in, if you mean in the sense that they could have controlled how they got to where they are. If you mean that everyone is responsible for their next move, I can agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:30 AM
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one example: stripped from my conscious desire to just have fun, it becomes obvious that it's important to stay healthy for the sake of those around me and those that depend on me. Another example: it feels much more obvious that I do not understand the perspective of others and cannot assume theirs to be similar to my own. making presumptions about other people says more about my own experience than theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:20 AM
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are you trying to argue that reality is literally what we perceive? to me that seems FAR more radical than that quote
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:15 AM
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I'm not sure I claimed that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:11 AM
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After many tiptoes, I have finally taken enough acid to temporarily experience ego death. It was pretty scary ngl, but I feel glad for having done it. It is a stark reminder that my world is heavily based on my perception of it, and that reality can be very different from the way I'm perceiving it. I feel invigorated to live a good life and take care of myself
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:46 AM
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yeah, unless neurodivergence is involved
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:43 AM
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I would go downstairs, but I also understand why the buyer wouldn't. The person ordering is paying for a service, it's not his fault that the dasher brought a baby along. OTOH I understand that people need to make ends meet and if you're dashing with a baby on board, you probably considered a lot of other ways to handle your shit, and I admire the dasher for doing what needs to be done for the sake of that kid. To me, this is a NAH
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:18 AM
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https://www.webmd.com/sex/features/sex-drive-how-do-men-women-compare it just isn't supported by the evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:02 AM
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My wife and I have pretty much been having daily sex for the last 12-13 years. We have had sex ~200 times this year, if I was estimating. Sex is special for us. It's a way we express love for each other, it's a way we show our commitment, a way we demonstrate our understanding and respect for each other. It would hurt a whole lot if one of us started holding it over the other's head. I think you're right, it's about the feelings it conveys. But that doesn't make it any less important or special …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:51 AM
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I mean, what is traditional gender dynamics? They've changed constantly over time. I don't think that what you're imagining as "traditional" is even really all that traditional. When people think of 1950s housewife stuff, that wasn't traditional, it was an artifact of the postwar boom. I'm sure that did not look very traditional to someone from the 1800s, or the 1500s. But that's besides the point anyway. You're fully entitled to seek it, and I think that just about every feminist I know IRL sup…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:46 AM
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Vegas hockey fans are too entitled. They didn't have any period where they weren't contenders so now they get all pissy every time they don't win the cup
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 07:01 PM
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you claim to know a lot of things that you do not actually know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:48 PM
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you should probably figure that part out instead of try and sleep your way to happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:44 PM
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this is just a recipe for unhappiness and disappointment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:42 PM
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who exactly is forcing you to do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:50 AM
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this is 100% on the money and I think it's the biggest thing that drives AWALT fallacies pick up new pickup strategies that do not appeal to most women, but works for specific types of women congrats, you made a natural filter. failing any success here, watch online models literally transact their sex appeal online and normalize it these women have similar traits when it comes to relationships AWALT since you see it among all the women you know transactional relationships are a great example of …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:43 AM
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bro it's not my fault that you can't read tone
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:36 PM
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"I've never read A Modest Proposal before"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:33 PM
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It would be, except the video does not actually advocate that, and they explicitly label it as satire to highlight laws against women's autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:31 PM
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Okay, misandrists exist - what makes this "virulent"? Also, it feels relevant that only the very last person on this list was born later than the 1940s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:25 PM
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which is pretty different from "they don't care about anything else" It's a dealbreaker if my date can't speak English, but that doesn't mean I don't care about anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:23 PM
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> wildly popular > 28k views on a 4-month-old video ???
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:21 PM
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this is pretty different from the comment I replied to. "tall gets you laid" is not "women don't care for anything but pretty"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:15 PM
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You don't conclude that, given that the info is bad. Instagram won't help you determine if that behavior is normal or not, because it won't help you see if that's common or not overall. It only helps you see what is hitting your feed on instagram. Asking "how else would I conclude that" is presuming the conclusion is the right one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:13 PM
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I have yet to see any evidence that she has xy chromosomes. The only place that attempted to test that won't reveal the results and had reasons to lie about it. Based on what she has said, she seems to have SRY on an X chromosome as a recombination event
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:34 PM
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Shania Twain in shambles rn
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:30 PM
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This is nonsense. You're no doubt concluding this from scrolling Instagram, which is just a form of circular reasoning
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:29 PM
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Yeah, for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:06 PM
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the difference is that you're the one trying to approach, so you only need to do it when it's something you want
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:57 AM
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hahaha no they don't bud
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:55 AM
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before you approach, though?? wouldn't that mean women basically have to look pissed off at everyone they see, all day long?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:51 AM
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what would such a signal even look like, in your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:42 AM
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my folks, my friends, coworkers, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:23 PM
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I'd feel weird being "showered" with lavish gifts just because, by someone I didn't know all that well. Would feel like someone is trying to purchase my affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:40 PM
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it's mostly female validation these men seek, believe me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:38 PM
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"Did your relatives after Sunday service walk up and approach during the after service mingling hours?" do you think that people usually ask people they don't know on dates right after Mass? Because no, that's not a thing. At least in my family's church that would be incredibly disrespectful to the church. They *met* there, they did not go up to someone in church to ask them out without knowing them. IIRC my parents first met as classmates, in class. My folks went to a small university in Atlant…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:31 PM
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childhood friends is perhaps the least cold approach possible...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:29 PM
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As far as I can remember, if I asked a couple how they met, cold approach was never a common answer. My mom and dad met in university. My dad and stepmom met at work. My grandparents met in the military. My in-laws were childhood friends. My aunt and uncle were neighbors growing up. Many of my relatives met in church. Surveys of how spouses meet back this up. I just don't think it was as commonplace as you're thinking it was. Do you know a bunch of older folk who met by cold approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:57 PM
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You title it bluepill but you never mention BP anywhere in the post except to use it as a synonym for feminists I'm here, I exist and I think that this problem is real and that RP is largely grifting off it to make the problem worse
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:54 PM
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Dopamine is a hell of a drug
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:43 PM
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dawg you cannot be serious rn i can't help brainrot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:26 AM
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no fucking kidding, turns out when you don't do anything about it as a society, people stop reporting it. Marital rape isn't even illegal. But i guess to you, that's the same thing as solving the problem entirely. Lay off the modi juice https://ballardbrief.byu.edu/issue-briefs/sexual-assault-against-women-in-india "The most reliable source, the NFHS, states that 8.5% of women report being victims of sexual violence at least once in their lifetime.22 Worldwide, there is a wide gap between report…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:18 AM
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now this is indiaposting ffs man, you think maybe your backwards ass might have it wrong, given the incredibly high rate of sexual violence against women in your country?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:10 AM
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yeah who can forget that time Clinton deployed ICE to cities and started killing US citizens
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:08 AM
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this is the same for male bosses. i've had both sexes as bosses multiple times now. office politics is so fucking dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:09 PM
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"Just go to university and be one of the best" its a women Her achievement or passions. you sure you went to university?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:08 PM
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Is being smart a choice? I'm not so sure it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:05 PM
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"They dont care who a women is." I'm sorry but why the fuck is everyone using the plural word for women in the singular?? it maddens me. it's a recent trend. it doesn't happen with the word "men" either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:03 PM
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sophie's first hit is less than 3 years younger than skrillex's! time is weird
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:52 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:46 PM
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this is how i felt about ninajirachi and the genres she's pulling from. artists today talking about how they were inspired by skrillex and deadmau5 have me feeling old
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:43 PM
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i've worked as a scientist, what RP science are you referring to? evo psych? because that is questionable science
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:40 PM
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"You can ask Red Pillers something, and for the most part you get the same answers. You ask follow-up questions and still get similar answers. You ask one question and get two similar answers in three different flavors." this coherence literally has no value if the answers are wrong. If you ask a conspiracy convention about Hillary and you get four variations of "she's a lizard shapeshifter"... it's consistent but useless for discovering truth
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:38 PM
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every time i read "OLD" on here, i can't help but think they're just shouting the word "old". I may never get used to that acronym
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 10:12 PM
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okay haha, yeah 2 days is pretty reasonable in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 10:11 PM
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ok, it's sounding like maybe you're on a dating app? different story in that case. i'm thinking like people who met organically
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 10:09 PM
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i've seen guys wait weeks or even months but you could just ask him out if you want to, you don't need to wait
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 10:04 PM
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that's wildly short tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:58 PM
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yeah but he screamed at a donkey for wanting to hang out with him red flags much??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:03 PM
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start to finish, without a doubt. I took music theory classes in school and I like really listening closely to it a few times to see what I can gather about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:02 PM
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I don't want my wife to work because I want her to enjoy her life and I know she hates working lol She has worked for almost our entire relationship because of financial reasons, but we spent about a year on one income by choice and she was a housewife. It was a lot of fun. I take pride in providing and she liked being able to just do stuff she likes. We aren't traditional at all, though, so maybe we aren't who you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:59 PM
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we do. i've shared women with my wife, women I picked up. but if i'm not doing that, i'm rejecting any hints out of mind
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:51 PM
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I'm sure it has. Being 6'3" has certainly made things easier for me. But I find it fascinating that you see it as a requirement and not complementary to the rest of you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:44 PM
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this is the dumbest shit i've heard in a while, these kids are fuckin cooked
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:42 PM
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they don't have options because they're not keeping those options open. you don't have options when you never entertain any flirting or advances
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:41 PM
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A, and have a relationship with someone else who doesn't mind the arrangement
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:36 AM
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it's not different in the sense that people won't react the same way to it to different people. if a stranger says hi you are naturally more guarded than if your family or friend says hi to you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:33 PM
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and both are so, so wrong lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:30 PM
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6-year-old female?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:29 PM
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it's no different. you don't respond the same way when a friend calls you by a nickname compared to someone who's never met you. when someone laughs at an inside joke who doesn't understand it, it feels weird. people respond differently to the same things said by different people and this is normal and common
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:28 PM
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the level of vulnerability doesn't matter. people are receptive to different things based on how they see the other person. that's not new or unsual, but somehow an entire group of people are trying to delude themselves into thinking it is a lie. "Do I know you?" in response to someone is not a new phrase
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:23 PM
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mfw there is no universal butt grab move that will work for everyone because of woke
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:18 PM
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Doing my part to correct the orgasm gap 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:18 PM
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$676 for a pair of pants is crackpipe territory to me, personally I'm not even poor, I could afford it, I'm just baffled that pants might ever be worth that to someone
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:58 PM
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even the TV reacted positively
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 12:08 AM
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I fuckin love house music Might be the gayest thing about me. Can't stand the club even, but house music got me vibin
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 11:48 PM
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I've never heard of blue pillers trying to explain that most women are into pegging... This sounds like some fucking 4chan brainrot stereotypes of blue pillers, not actual blue pill thought processes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 11:38 PM
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i think yugioh abridged was the first project of one of the DBZA creators
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:15 PM
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tradwife psyop no doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:14 PM
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being into someone is part of how you feel about them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:17 PM
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no i got that part, i'm struggling to make sense of the rest of your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:14 PM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:13 PM
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i read it almost the exact opposite way
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:44 PM
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do people really believe that 80% of men do not get any sex at all from someone they love?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:21 PM
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Contentious doesn't mean the same thing as discrete or objective Hate and love are not easily boiled down to a number
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:31 PM
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read the usernames my man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:10 AM
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do you think red pill, in a nutshell, is that women like tall men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:05 AM
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Issues they face in bad ones, not just any relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 08:51 PM
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my wife and I shared one once
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 07:24 PM
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I don't mean to seem like I care about material things, like a social status I just want four walls and adobe slats for my girls
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 07:24 PM
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my parents are divorced, i was raised by mom until she lost custody, after which i was raised by dad and my stepmom
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:44 PM
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you have psychotic in your name bro
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:58 PM
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obviously not. psychopaths that exist here should not be used as a guide for the rest of our gender PPD does not accurately reflect real-life gender dynamics in the slightest and that's the main reason i'm here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:12 PM
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it's literally the comment you replied to. bad trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:04 PM
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"red pill has not matched my reality. therefore, i will now attempt to make it reality"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:01 PM
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what are you even talking about rn
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:59 PM
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the guy got lazy for... wanting companionship and a marriage and things besides sex? what is lazy about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:56 PM
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do you come out losing more than you gain by loving someone?? this line of thinking baffles me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:54 PM
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no, you're more mature than OP
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:53 PM
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what do you mean by "if the roles were switched"? I don't think I stated any role
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:44 PM
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You're throwing stones in a glass house, brother
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:02 PM
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Wouldn't treating you equally to an ex mean breaking up with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:01 PM
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I think you meant "shouldn't" when you wrote "should"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:00 PM
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Fully agree with that! Wouldn't want to be doing kink with someone who's not 100% into it anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:59 PM
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Of course not, but don't project your own feelings toward it as generally applicable to women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:56 PM
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"Not to mention sex has an important function in serious relationships of bonding and intimacy and "kinky sex" doesn't really fullfill that role ngl." Spesk for yourself. My wife and I find a ton of bonding and intimacy through kink. It is one of the ways we show each other love and care. Kink is not just treating someone roughly in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:52 PM
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Depends on if she's a bad mom. If, like you say, she's not unfit to be a mom, 50/50 makes sense to me. Only exception being if she lived very far away, to minimize disruption, in which case I'd want primary
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:19 PM
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nobody forced you to have that kid. there's a reason i'm not paying child support, it's because i have no children
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:32 PM
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For height shaming, I have literally only ever seen men do that to each other and I do call that shit out because it's fucked up. you've never heard a woman insult a man for being short? not even once? i don't believe that for a second.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:27 PM
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water in my building has been off for like 4 hours now, they broke something downstairs while replacing a water heater
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:27 PM
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was that Marty Hart by chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:25 PM
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you're responding in the negative with very vague statements. i was looking for specifics
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 05:19 PM
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just what are you doing that is causing you to get hated on by all women eternally??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 05:17 PM
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Men don't want women to be themselves either, and being yourself means you need to no longer care about the opinions of those people when deciding what you do
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 05:13 PM
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left-wing man here, I don't hate men at all. right wingers have no rhetoric except to boogeyman the left
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 04:10 PM
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Fun, but nothing special
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:29 AM
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Not really, the best sex I've ever had was with my wife and it comes from knowing each other well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:17 PM
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ONS was definitely more fun
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:14 PM
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I have done that too, and I'd say mostly it is not similar. You tell an escort what you're trying to do, which leads to a pretty different feeling. You also judge it against the money you spent, which leads to a higher bar for "that went well"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:50 PM
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I've used an escort before, while in a relationship with my wife (I had permission) Not really worth it imo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:31 PM
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At what degree of separation do you no longer get referred to as Charlie Kirk-adjacent
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:17 PM
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Gay people use Grindr more than women use tinder, but gay clubs keep going strong. Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:09 PM
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Man, you completely missed the point of my comment. Try reading it again, maybe a little less ragey this time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:53 PM
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So your main point of evidence that feminism has hurt women is that with the freedoms, some women have done bad things? Yeah I'm not very convinced of that argument, sorry. How come you don't see voting rights as a downside for men, if they vote a psychopath murderer into office, like you describe? Is that poor choice a reason to curb men's rights to vote? That seems to be the way you treat feminism, and I just want to know why you aren't being consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:39 PM
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that's a femdom subreddit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 07:20 PM
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Red pill isn't based in reality so there's that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 03:41 PM
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Because there are a ton of people who just go on dates to get free meals lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:45 PM
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"Men want beauty, so women spend hours getting ready." That's not what makes someone beautiful. A beautiful woman does not need to get ready to look beautiful to us. You spend time getting ready because you want to look appealing and feel good about yourself on the date
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:43 PM
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good morning PPD, I strongly recommend sex on LSD. i swear to god, 30-minute long orgasm cascades barely even doing anything to each other. shit was wild
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 04:56 PM
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bro will do anything but just talk to a woman he's trying to have sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 04:55 PM
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Get your shit together, this is not admirable this is embarrassing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 02:30 PM
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lying to yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 06:41 PM
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i'm not gonna click that link, i'm good
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 06:21 PM
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wtf? who would do something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 06:18 PM
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even if that's true, no reason to bullshit and pretend it's actually better to have no experience
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 06:08 PM
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you're over-romanticizing it tbh you learn to dance before you take your date out dancing, so that things aren't awkward while you try and learn together. What happens when they don't actually like sex, after trying it? What happens when you have opposite preferences in bed? Being experienced allows you to communicate these needs in advance
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:15 PM
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then it's not something you think is true, it's something that is true. It wouldn't be controversial. The reality is that it's not so cut and dry, though. Virgins don't have the highest rate of marriage success. It's better than high n-count, but not better than low n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:58 PM
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you think there is proven correlation this is nonsense. By definition, a correlation is not proof of something being true. And by definition, a correlation has a specific value, it isn't a matter of your opinion. You may believe this to be true, but you don't know it to be true, and you shouldn't delude yourself otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:53 PM
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off by a factor of ten there
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:43 PM
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I don't think that's bad, either - I think OP just doesn't want to be shamed for that by other people. Like if you are not physically strong, but your preference was muscular types, I don't think that's hypocritical just because you're not putting in the work at the gym yourself. A strong person might reject you because they also want a gym rat, but it isn't something worth shaming as a society and it's fine to want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:31 PM
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what if it's not immoral, it's just not something you want in a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:06 PM
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why is it hypocritical to want something that you are not? and before you start raging at me too, i was a virgin and my wife was not when we got together, I don't share OP's preferences here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 03:53 PM
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But we do sign that contract. I had to sign that even before I was an American, just to get student loans. They would have fast tracked me to citizenship in that case. If Trump decides we need it, young men will be forced into war for no reason. Pretending there's no risk of that while trump actively attacks other countries is a pretty privileged take. It's easy to handwave away that risk when you aren't the one who will suffer from the outcome of that risk
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:32 PM
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You cannot choose not to have children? I sure can. Vasectomy is one way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:30 PM
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Ten percent luck, twenty percent skill, fifteen percent concentrated power of will
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:28 PM
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You say that like IQ is something you can easily control. EQ isn't much different. If you grow up not being taught signs, you're not going to be well-prepared to spot those signs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:26 PM
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Please re-read my comment, that isn't what I said. Nutrition info is available on foods where I live too, don't worry. I'm saying that is the case, and it's where the analogy starts to fail. There's no "nutrition"label on a guy that says "I'm going to drop you as soon as I get the chance", or on a gal that says "I am possessive to an unhealthy degree", etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:24 PM
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I think the difference is that nobody is going to tell you upfront that they're loaded with sugar and trans fats. You'd probably find it a lot harder to eat healthily without any nutritional information on packaging. It would require trial and error on your part. There are parts you can fairly reasonably intuit, but you'll occasionally be surprised by that nutrition
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 02:55 PM
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People name you these things every single day, not having reading comprehension is just a skill issue at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 02:19 AM
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Yes, believe it or not! It has led to some very fun and cold nights out. We knew it was likely before we left so we came prepared. The snow that just started has also been very pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 02:14 AM
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Dual income, no kids
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 02:03 AM
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I've been on vacation in Montreal with my wife all week and it's been superb. DINK life is a hell of a lot of fun. I'll miss it when we decide to have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 02:01 AM
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I'm very impressed. I sleep in a big bed with my wife
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 01:56 AM
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This isn't a debate post, this is just redpill circlejerking. You're posting a made-up story that can't be disproven. You even admit you have never once tried this. Why are you even doing this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 01:51 AM
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If people don't like DEI hires because it's not merit-based, why would it be any different for a nepo hire?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:18 PM
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is she married to someone with a job? housewife very different from a NEET
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 08:24 PM
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itching to go on vacation tomorrow
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 08:22 PM
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hurr durr woman bad therapist bad you've never heard of dialectics before? skill issue if you can't parse their argument
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 08:17 PM
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Trump has called himself a genius lol https://edition.cnn.com/2018/01/06/politics/donald-trump-white-house-fitness-very-stable-genius
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 08:10 PM
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yes, hence the term "wage slave" there are a lot of people who believe that you are not free as long as you must maintain a job subservient to someone else to survive. I'm not fully on board with that argument myself, but at least it's consistent
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 08:09 PM
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> hockey it literally completely non sexual someone hasn't seen heated rivalry and it shows
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 02:15 AM
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yup, after I finished it I switched majors so I wouldn't need so much math afterward
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:58 PM
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you can get over it, and therapy helps. sometimes it can pop back up in your mind, but over time it will be easier to ignore when it does
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:04 PM
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are you trying to argue for why these aren't gendered terms, or why one is OK to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:35 PM
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we're not talking about sociology, are we? in any case, i'm not trying to get hung up on it. What's the big issue with not calling people names?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:34 PM
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i know, and you're very, very wrong about this. not a clue why you're being so insistent on this in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 07:05 PM
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https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/slur no, I meant what I said. A slur does not require discrimination or oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 07:01 PM
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I've never received or viewed revenge porn of women either. That doesn't mean I can pretend it doesn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:59 PM
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green flag to me too, as a fellow non-IG enjoyer
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:56 PM
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It wouldn't ever get that far in the first place, but if it did, I'd support my wife
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:56 PM
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well i'm glad you've gone ahead and proven that this doesn't happen. really makes us feel better knowing it was in our heads
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:54 PM
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or... just don't call people slurs? I'm not sure what the big hangup is around that idea
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:51 PM
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yeah, or "karen" or similar. I'm not saying that we (as a society) don't insult women who act similarly to "LDE". but to suggest that they are not gendered terms at all is kinda wild to me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:49 PM
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I didn't claim it happens to men as often as it happens to women. But "there is no way to know what his dick looks like unless he's talking about it" is 100% wrong and is essentially victim-blaming
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:39 PM
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Sure, I can brush off that kind of thing too. But do you think it was valid for them to call you that? I don't think it's good behavior to do that, just because it doesn't always affect me deeply. It's very rude to call someone's race ugly, and there isn't any justification for that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:36 PM
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revenge porn exists for men too. doesn't need to be the workplace to spread and affect your life. this happened occasionally while i was in school, even for boys
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:28 PM
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you don't think the phrase "little dick energy" is a gendered insult? come on now. be real. have you ever once heard a woman described as having little dick energy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:24 PM
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it's not normal, but if all exes were normal, there would probably be fewer of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:23 PM
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This is part of the reason “Napeleon complex” and “Little Dick Energy” became insults. Because people noticed men who constantly needed validation because of a flaw they had, even when its something people arent caring about. Ironically, making them even less attractive because of their bad attitudes and obsession with themselves. Also, for all the complaints about feminists hating men, this actually proves feminists right about the FRAGILE MALE EGO. "Here's why making fun of men is actually fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 03:25 PM
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We try and balance it out when we can, but yeah, sometimes depression is a real fucker
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:09 AM
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if you're trying to fuck, you probably could have just suggested that to the guy instead
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 10:05 PM
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nope
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 09:51 PM
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q4PPD: what's the most money you have spent on a vacation?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 09:47 PM
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it's a filter - if you can't walk through the freezing snow with me, you aren't the one. My wife and I also sleep in a 45-50F room at night, though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 09:43 PM
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Oh, I can tell the difference. I'm not sure you can, though. One clue: you are describing the people you're supposedly conversing with as "hilarious", "ridiculous", and "bitch[ing]"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 09:20 PM
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this is some weird shit, if someone went through with the whole naming and posting part instead of just donating I would probably respect them a bit less.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 09:16 PM
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I'm sure they told you not to lie to them, but you don't want to register that as an alternative option because it will make it harder for you to get your dick wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 09:13 PM
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skill issue tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 09:10 PM
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it doesn't change that you made a post whining about it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 09:08 PM
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You provided an explanation that only explains to me that you don't interact with many men. I've never met a man who will only listen to his partner if they withhold sex or give ultimatums. I have never met a man who has considered withholding sex as the only manipulation tactic a woman could perform. You're out to lunch as usual
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 09:05 PM
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I'm not really sure what you mean to imply with that statement. Insufficient for what, or whom? Is the quote meant to mean that it's insufficient for a man's needs? For a relationship to work out in the long term? I'm baffled you would think either of those things are a lie, so I'm guessing it's something else. I know that sex is certainly not sufficient to keep a relationship going for me. There's a reason I am married and not just having a FWB arrangement. I appreciate the care my wife has for…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 06:24 PM
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Ghosting is nuanced? Or are you referring to something else they wrote? IMO it's unreasonable to ghost someone who was not abusive to you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:39 AM
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Have you been rejected 1000 times? Brother wtf are you doing out there
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:36 AM
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Dawg this is so far from reality for a huge chunk of women out there. Do you have any idea how many single mothers had to grow up real fuckin quickly to handle their shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:32 AM
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Sure it is, what?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 10:48 PM
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My progressive wife has no issues with my bisexuality and is bisexual herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:12 PM
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why did I read her name as Chechnya lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:00 PM
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They are not liberal. Liberalism is fundamentally an ideology concerned with the rights of the individual. ICE is routinely violating the 4th amendment and has been killing people for protesting against them. Tariffs as a concept are fundamentally anti-free trade. The GOP has discussed banning weapons for various different groups. They have already effectively banned abortion and porn throughout a number of states. They clearly do not believe that the rule of law should preside, as they repeated…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:47 PM
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who did you ask for $5000?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:40 PM
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how early? i'm thinking that even if i started 4 hours earlier at 9am, i would not get to bed until 1am
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:39 PM
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broad =/= vague
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:37 PM
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Are you aware that this slop is so vague that you could just replace "blue pill" with "red pill" and have it make just as much sense? Be more specific and stop relying on GPT to think for you, ESPECIALLY if you're going to throw a fit about ideological conformity and approved thought lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:32 PM
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An acid trip is a lot of fun, but it really fucks up your sleep schedule. I tried to devote a whole Saturday to it and took it at 1pm and still didn't get to sleep until 5am or so. Only getting things back to normal around now. I still recommend it generally
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:28 PM
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also: * unemployed * does not help out around the house * will not cook for you or himself * constantly nude * sometimes digs holes in the yard * will sometimes pee on the floor * cannot be left alone long at all
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:25 PM
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the GOP is not liberal - they are not interested in allowing people to behave as they wish to, without consequence. Talk to them about trans people and you'll find that out real quickly. Or the talk about denaturalization of citizens. That's not liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:22 PM
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"blue pill influencer" isn't "influencer who isn't red pill", it's someone who espouses blue pill as an ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 08:08 PM
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Didn't he go in the other direction? From media to independent streaming? I also thought he focused much more on international politics than blue pill/red pill stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:39 PM
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who are some blue pill influencers who you think have transitioned into mainstream media?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:02 PM
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It's not a perfect science. But you're unlikely to go wrong 4 times in a row with the same group of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:46 AM
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Poe's law is relevant here. At some point, it no longer matters how serious they are, if nobody can tell that it's shock value stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:23 AM
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Jan 6 begs to differ. >80% men in attendance, all there to try to hold onto a lie because they believed Trump couldn't have lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:34 PM
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That's mostly what I was trying to get at with my last sentence. I know a lot more females who are comfortable as androgynous lesbians/queer without identifying as a trans man, than the inverse. There is much more stigma in the inverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:29 PM
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Not what I meant. I mean like asking your mutual friend if she's into you or not. I mean light flirting and giving room to reciprocate without feeling pressure. Taking advantage of the fact that you don't need to convince them in 60 seconds. The truly bad advice is that if someone isn't falling for you after 60 seconds of game, then they don't really want you and won't be a good match for you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:25 PM
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Do you think that porn is the only issue that men act irrationally around?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:18 PM
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How many men have killed their marriages by paying for OF subscriptions? Tens of thousands? Hundreds of thousands? How much money has been lost to that, even while free porn exists and is everywhere? Hot girls make guy brains break too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:11 PM
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Doesn't this start from the assumption that trans people chose to transition because they did not like how society treats their gender? That doesn't really describe the trans people I know very well. I don't think that trans women are under any illusions that society will treat them the same way they treat cis women. Isn't it just as plausible that male brains are just more biologically likely to have gender dysphoria? Or that males are more likely to have the money to afford to transition? Or t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:43 PM
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"the government pushes certain artists and protects their image" is a whole different tier of conspiracy, compared to "there exist entities that can morph shapes at will and pretend to be human" It's like "The US intentionally didn't do anything to prevent 9/11, and by the way, they're all lizards as well"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:37 PM
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When you find a date through your friends, you generally throw out feelers first to see if the feeling is mutual. If you are rejected by 3 members of the same friend group, you didn't do that enough. You would have known not to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:34 PM
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<image> it's not 90% either. it's bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:18 PM
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https://www.nationalacademies.org/read/10420/chapter/10 <image> if you keep reading, the conclusion is that fundamentally, the signals are not unique to deception
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:12 PM
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my man using polygraphs as hard evidence in 2026
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:07 PM
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Then surely at least some women like to have lots of sex with different people. Like, what do you make of all the women I've seen in swinger's groups or sex clubs, or polycules?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:09 PM
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So you think women who get slut-shamed are not even promiscuous, it's just slander?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:04 PM
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I certainly try to tell them that. I mostly post/comment here specifically because of how insane some of these posts sound. It's like an entirely different bubble than whatever bubble I'm living in.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:34 PM
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If you believe this, why do you think that slut shaming happens? Are women being shamed for things they aren't even interested in doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:24 PM
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That may be true, but this subreddit's men are definitely not representative of the average man
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:19 PM
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I don't know this, never claimed I did. It's just that your characterization of men is a world away from any man I know. I've told you this before and you don't seem to care, so I'm not going to argue with you further about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:09 PM
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The more posts of yours I read, the more convinced I am that you just don't interact with very many men at all in real life. Yes, I care about consistent interest in me. Yes, I care about reliability. Yes, I care about sex, but not at the cost of everything else. Relationships are not a cost to get sex. I have been with my wife for 14 years this March. We would not have lasted this long if I thought that relationships were a cost to get sex. She's my best friend in the world. We have a lot of se…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:00 PM
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What women have you been seeing? lol this is wild, to think that women do not want their romances to include sex. In fact, it seems to me the opposite: they enjoy casual sex less because it did not include romance
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:42 PM
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That's not a shit test IMO, unless you said that thing just to see their reaction to it and for no other reason There's no such thing as a test that isn't observed. If nobody looks at the outcome of the SAT including the student and nobody is aware why they're taking it, it's no longer the SAT, it is just a series of math and writing problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:35 PM
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Of course I want that in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:40 PM
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No, I'm not. I'm asking how you can shit test somebody without realizing it. isn't that just acting normally?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:55 PM
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what percentage do you think it would need to be, for "few" to be accurate? It's a vague term, but it seems like by a wide majority, neither sex cheats, though men cheat more than women as they age
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:48 PM
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It seems to me like shit tests are behavior intended to see how someone else behaves, right? How could you possibly shit test unconsciously, in that case? Isn't it a prerequisite that you know what you're doing or what behavior you are trying to see?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:47 PM
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I don't think that everyone shit tests. I don't think that I do, at the very least. I don't think it has value
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:29 PM
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Looks to me like most married men don't cheat. Your graph doesn't contradict the person you're replying to
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:24 PM
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Barely related: I saw a woman yesterday at a grocery store who was wearing a sweater that that said "DON'T BE A 🐓🍭" on it No comment to make about the dating viability of such a shirt, and I doubt she was wearing it to appeal to a potential date, but holy moly, bad sweaters are an epidemic out here
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 03:14 PM
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That's just a scammer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 08:32 PM
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I definitely feel that pressure sometimes, as the main earner. I think it really can only work when income is really good and you can build up some savings, in case things go sideways. That relieves a lot of pressure and day-to-day worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 02:11 AM
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I think that different sites attract different kinds of people. Reddit is a bit of an echo chamber, and so would most forums. Guys on the relationship section of a bodybuilding site won't be the same attitudes as one on reddit, or 4chan, etc. Same idea. That's my initial guess, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 02:08 AM
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It really isn't that hard to make a woman cum, guys. Come on now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 12:00 AM
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I get it now. You provide neither a good personality nor genetic fitness, and so you cannot fathom someone with both.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:34 PM
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it's his idea of a stupid question
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:21 PM
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op you have zero clue what you're talking about. you are embarrassing yourself. quit while you're ahead
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:19 PM
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that is like the only requirement for having a cuck fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:18 PM
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bruh what in the black pill is this shit just admit you have a cuck fetish and move on with your life
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:02 PM
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No, I think men here value other men this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 04:22 PM
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your value to these women is determined by your job title, income bracket, social proof, height, what car you drive, where you live, what watch you wear. to be frank, i see this behavior from men here more than any woman I know
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 01:01 AM
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These all seem like obvious ways to ruin a date, yeah. All of these sound like pretty dumb guys
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 03:31 AM
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I didn't realize you need to train for a visa
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 02:49 AM
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he's not open to long though, and that's the rub
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 01:31 AM
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saying you're open to an LTR means it's not an assumption anymore, that's his stated goal on his profile
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 01:21 AM
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nah, math degree and apparently been in software/data science for a decade or so def not living with parents. though it's wild how willing you guys are to underestimate her
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 06:49 PM
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I tend to agree with you for a different reason than what you've said - "greatest" is not the same as "most skilled". I think of greatness as the ability to stand at the top of your game. I am from Canada, and I consider Christine Sinclair to be our greatest soccer player of all time, by far. None of her teams would beat the Canadian men's national team from the same year, but she is one of the most dominant players I've ever seen when it comes to the players she played against. No other Canadia…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:48 PM
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the only way it "benefits" her is that she feels attracted to him because of it. it's circular reasoning. What tangible benefit is she getting out of it exactly? In what way would it improve her life if her bf was learning an instrument?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:28 PM
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yes, a hobby women find attractive will end up in the top of a list of attractive hobbies...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:26 PM
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someone's never been hit with French in the middle of sex before
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:19 PM
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playing an instrument is in the top 5, which doesn't seem like a very productive activity to me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:13 PM
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that was in the top 5 - reading, learning a language, cooking, playing an instrument, and woodworking
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:09 PM
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glance over, she's gone, i realize i actually made her up the whole time to cope
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:04 PM
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She loved both! I think the sequel was her personal GOTY this year. IIRC she was playing it on Early Access but eventually stopped to wait for the full release, and she didn't regret it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:03 PM
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It's possible to travel to have sex legally. it literally isn't, that's what I'm telling you. The US has laws for this and will prosecute you for traveling to solicit sex from a prostitute. Many other countries do this as well. If you're saying you won't advocate for anything illegal, that means you're telling people to abandon their home for good
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:56 PM
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It wasn't always healthy, and it did hurt our relationship at times. We had to put some better boundaries in place to prevent that. On the other hand, we've definitely strengthened our relationship through video games as well. I wrote elsewhere that in 3 years she put in about 4500 hrs into one video game. That wore on the relationship and that's why she stopped. We also just finished playing Lies of P together and that was a lot of fun, just passing controller back and forth and thinking throug…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:54 PM
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It was actually reading, but you were very close
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:52 PM
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<image> page 2!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:45 PM
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<image> this is her steam lol, facts don't care about your feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:43 PM
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my wife has around 4000 hours in Ark, all between 2015 and 2018, can we finally be rid of this idea
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:40 PM
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tfw my wife taught me to play League of Legends to be honest, I don't know that many people who would automatically reject a gamer. But there are definitely people for whom it goes too far into their lives, and eats up enough time that you'd feel like a lower priority than video games. And that's a shitty feeling. That isn't something that can only happen with video games, but people who play them tend to do that more than people into other hobbies. A few days ago, a couple of friends came over …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:38 PM
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I'm not appealing to the extreme at all. There's no extreme in saying "this is a felony". It's just something you have glossed over, clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:24 PM
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So your advice is to just go be a permanent sex tourist? It's generally illegal in the US to travel with the purpose of hiring sex workers And no, I would not say that to an individual woman who decides to be a sex worker. I would say that to someone who says that women should just be sex workers to make more money, as a societal solution to pay inequity, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:21 PM
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Advising men to commit felonies as a way to solve their problems is not really the game changing idea you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:18 PM
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Sex isn't gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:06 PM
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Hard disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 02:46 PM
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I've been married for 5 years. I am pretty confident that almost all RP ideology is intended by its creators to work poorly, and instead create restless and desperate men who are more easily manipulated into doing what they want. I certainly didn't apply any RP ideology when I got together with my wife
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 02:45 PM
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declaring that men need to drink to pick up women casually, because women won't loosen up enough to go for it? kind of showing your ass, OP
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:35 AM
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Y'all are really convinced she's just after a provider, huh It doesn't occur to you that she might just not want a complete dumbass? Recursion and quadratics are high school difficulty topics. When startups fail, their founders don't just leave the industry entirely, they get a nice job somewhere else, or start something new
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:27 AM
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Imagine a hobo trying to get a trophy wife. Pete Davidson was so goddamn close to a generational, glass ceiling-shattering run for hobos
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:02 PM
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that y'all are livid because a woman dared to try the same game you attempt
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:53 PM
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lol you think the guys around here are any more successful?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:50 PM
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a fuckboy will do anything to fuck, including lie about wanting something more, but that doesn't mean they're successful in fucking an unsuccessful fuckboy is a type of incel, but if they're still trying to act like that without success, they didn't stop being a fuckboy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:36 PM
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well, that's twitter, not a dating site, but regardless: they bring personality
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:26 PM
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I think that I fit all of these things? Obviously not going to do everything she (or my wife) wants, but that one almost seems like a joke anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:20 PM
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I doubt that money is all that she brings to the table
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:17 PM
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Can’t be a “fuckboy” if you’re not letting me fuck ohhh yes you can
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:54 PM
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you understand that she's essentially playing the role of "high value man" right? she's a CEO of a funded startup, looking for a trophy husband. Notice the complete lack of "has a job" in that list. This is exactly how men all over this sub behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:49 PM
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These are not opposites. I see both in myself and I've done pretty well for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:41 PM
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If you are educated then you should understand why it's semantics.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 08:10 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 08:08 PM
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do you think that this is good debate, what you're doing here?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:31 PM
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Do you really believe that is what he thinks?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:30 PM
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yeesh. there's a lot to unpack there as far as why that sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:25 PM
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only my wife knows the subreddits i mod
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:15 PM
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you can learn to cum for that long as a male, and it's an absolute game-changer
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:13 PM
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The what now?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:10 PM
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You're a boss babe with a kid and you take shitty bathroom selfies? Sorry but the AI is unimpressed. No more 1000 matches from simps and orbiters and known perverts flagged by the AI. You get 2 a month now. Thomas works at Walmart and doesn't own car. Ralph is 31 and attends alcoholics anonymous and has 2000 USD in assets. AI thinks you will be a great match! Equality LOL! why would a company make an AI to do this? this is not providing a good service to people. this isn't a good match and AI ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 07:38 AM
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and that would be fine - statements like that won't affect your life in the slightest, you shouldn't decide your actions based on those kinds of people
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 07:05 PM
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sure - doesn't apply here though, building a social circle is good advice for almost anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 07:04 PM
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The first video you linked seems to directly push against the idea, even though it's a woman you describe as a misandrist. Am i missing something?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:11 PM
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In his youth he couldn't walk through bar with my mother in his arm without being hit on by both men and women. This is a very funny visual. "Women want him, men want to be him"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 06:16 PM
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incredible gif usage
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:19 PM
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Deciding half the population is violent is not a matter of common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:04 PM
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I think you realize that your evidence has gotten shaky, real fast. These are all indirect reports that are subject to the discretion of an authority
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:02 PM
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Women are not convicted of those crimes as often as men, that's easy to demonstrate. But how do you show that they actually commit them at a lower rate?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:59 PM
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I certainly did not miss that part. If a woman is more likely to avoid conviction for a violent crime, than we can expect that her priors will look less violent in the future. You're just doing circular reasoning and calling it an argument. Men have prison time because men have priors because men have prison time because men have priors. Bring some data to support this if you think it's true that the priors weren't sentenced disparately.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:55 PM
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"np" is a reddit thing. It stands for "no participation" and means you can't comment on that post. Other sites don't use it, there is no reason to put np at the front of a non-reddit link.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:47 PM
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Why rely on specific examples, when this has been studied at large scale? Studies have found over and over that for the same crimes and circumstances, women are less likely to go to jail, and when they do, they get shorter sentences
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:44 PM
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This usually happens because the man either has more priors or his priors are more violent (assault, armed robbery, DV charges, illegal gun possession, etc.). It’s common in sentencing that judges take into account your criminal history. If there was bias, wouldn't you expect this to be the case? It makes sense to me that women would be less likely to have priors, if we find that they are less likely to be convicted of a crime. I don't think this point does anything to explain the disparity
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:44 PM
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no, it isn't. i was way more gross at 20 than i am now at 35. If I'm less attractive at 50 than I was then, I went wrong somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:40 PM
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There's also something to be said for not enabling that jealousy. When you do that kind of thing, it can just lead to more and more suspicion if the person is not mentally well. Instead of seeing you have nothing to hide, they just think you've done a better job hiding it than they could solve.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:36 PM
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my wife
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:20 PM
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I'd rather both be legal than neither
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:19 PM
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Dawg quit being a baby and learn some math
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 04:23 PM
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Now that's canadaposting
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:15 AM
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so learn how to do the math. don't wallow in ignorance while the entire sum of the world's knowledge is right in front of you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:13 PM
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I'd be pretty much completely uninterested in someone who thinks that way about me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:13 PM
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by both men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:34 PM
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not "potentially shitty", just less shitty. it's a tradeoff between less attractive and still kinda shitty, or more shitty but more attractive. it's not a straight upgrade unless that's the only thing you're looking at
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:11 PM
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you have no idea what i look like, though. you're just doing confirmation bias as masochism now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:55 PM
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oh I'm well aware of that, and so are the people you're replying to. they're trying to tell you that women aren't the only ones doing this, you have too. you're not the sacrificial hero warrior fighting for your home, and she's not the waif who makes babies on command for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:52 PM
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You've completely shirked your gender role's responsibilities, and you don't even realize that's what they're telling you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:48 PM
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"free" toy? if it's "free", YOU'RE the product, sheep!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:44 PM
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do you think that the statistics are in your favor here? https://www.elitesingles.com/mag/relationship-advice/who-should-pay-for-date more men than women think men should pay for the first date. less than half of women believe that (and certainly fewer believe that a man should pay for all dates). what does that say about OP's argument? this mindset applies to a minority of women. you don't need to date those women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:38 PM
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Do you have any idea how expensive McDonalds has gotten!? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:35 PM
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sounds like a skill issue then
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:26 PM
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probably not that many, I feel pretty fortunate for that. I don't think that the rest of my point is reliant on that, though. My sister didn't meet her spouse at 18 and still acts the same way - she expects to split all dates/expenses
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:21 PM
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my wife also asked me out first and had a job while I did not at the time, for whatever that's worth. not everything exists as the internet thinks it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:20 PM
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I'm only saying that to preempt any "well she must have gotten her fun with chad and settled for betabucks!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:17 PM
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The woman you're describing matches nobody I know. My wife and I started dating at 18, and split our date costs 50/50 until we married and combined our finances. My sister has always done the same. The reality is that both people work, both people spend money on each other, and both people take care of the home. Nobody's shirked anything. My wife has also had an IUD the whole time we've been together. Either I'm a super low quality guy, or it didn't stop her from picking well and staying with me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:14 PM
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Wdym the female orgasm doesn't look like a garden hose at full blast?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:21 PM
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R/ niceguys
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:16 AM
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That's the rub - they're not decent men just because they aren't that guy. They're often shitty, just in their own ways. Maybe less unsafe or severe ways, but it's not like they're this beacon of kindness and fortitude that women are just glossing past
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:11 AM
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they dont need to work on themselves as human beings, and they just need to work on being physically attractive. This results in many women putting most of their attention on their looks, instead of working on other parts of themselves like personality and self awareness. This sure sounds like most modern manosphere content to me, except they've convinced men of this, not women. Looksmaxxing, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:45 AM
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It's literally princess behavior, except she isn't giving you influence over a foreign nation in exchange
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:43 AM
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Zero chance, that's an obvious red flag. Keep in mind that she's not even expressing this as a personal preference, just how she thinks all men need to operate to serve women. I'm good thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:41 AM
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Wait, Riley Reid made bad choices? She's worth 8 figures in her 30s lol. People kill themselves trying to make less. She's laughing her way to the bank thinking about your moral outrage
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 07:18 AM
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i won't fall for your siren tricks, ms hello kitty
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 11:30 PM
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8 partners by age 40? that's like one partner every couple years starting at age 20. that's a very realistic set of monogamous partners
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 11:08 PM
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i've listened to friends describe this ideal, you just look foolish pretending it doesn't exist because a woman said it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:39 PM
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if I got an invite to Raya I'd assume they made a mistake somewhere so yes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:38 PM
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It killed the guy, so "it works" is a bit moot
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 07:00 AM
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He is a sex trafficker. He makes more money when fewer straight men have girlfriends. He stands to gain financially by denormalizing relationships. Would you trust a Pepsi exec who tells you that drinking water is gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 11:02 PM
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You don't have a partner in this case. They're not showing you anything at all, you're just stereotyping based on other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 10:55 PM
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Pimp suggests it's a good idea to buy sex, more at 11
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 10:03 PM
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Not a single one so far
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 10:00 PM
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Yeah buddy that's what he's saying
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 10:00 PM
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Don't think anyone is suggesting you do either of those things
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:59 PM
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Sometimes high risk is the right move in life, it depends on the reward and the consequence of the risk, if it comes to pass. Pro football has a near-100% injury rate and a high risk of serious injury, but people accept that risk for the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:11 PM
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No, but then again, she never called me a forklift
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 12:09 AM
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You? Sure, I don't know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 12:08 AM
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women will rightly complain about objectification, and then turn around and compare men to workplace tools
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 12:07 AM
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my wife asked me out, and when I turned her down, she got through the friend zone. she was also the one to put a label on it first. we've been together for almost 14 years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:39 PM
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crickets
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:51 PM
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I think most men who feel this way have never been creeped on by a female boss they're just not attracted to. I have, and it fucking sucks. She very smartly ran right on the line, careful not to go so far over it as to get fired, but far enough to keep me uncomfortable. It's not hot. Wouldn't be hot even if I were single at the time. I ended up quitting the job over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:46 PM
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do you expect to just rant at people, and not get similar in return?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:40 PM
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are you familiar with dopamine stacking? sounds kind of similar to what you're doing, but without needing to feel sad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:36 PM
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man, people really won't stop lying about his platform even after he's won. he's got you guys shook
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:33 PM
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what do you mean when you say that it's helpful to feel sad for your studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:28 PM
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fair point
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:27 PM
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so... only weird christians get to call your habits perverse? you got a religious kink or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 12:54 AM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 12:52 AM
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you ever see someone get screamed at on the first date? the abuser fucks with your emotions and reason over time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 12:48 AM
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they definitely said this shit lol, i recall it well
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 12:44 AM
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apparently the cure to social awkwardness is not therapy, it's steroid abuse!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 12:10 AM
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Yes, absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 12:09 AM
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Assumes that men are the older party Attempting to identify a root cause of a problem is actually a good thing, not a bad thing. Anti abortion people are not wrong because they identified the state laws as a cause of abortions We don't treat young women as children. One is not legal and you know full well the social consequences are not similar to dating a child
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 03:58 PM
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https://prisonreformtrust.org.uk/project/parole/ https://prisonreformtrust.org.uk/project/imprisonment-for-public-protection-ipp/ https://prisonreformtrust.org.uk/project/active-citizens/ Wouldn't this type of thing support men who are in prison or have recently been freed? Why wouldn't these things be in support of their mission?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:16 AM
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Sounds like your entire point rests on Schopenhauer (who?) representing men as a group. I don't think many men would agree with much of this, I think polling supports that. edit: oh my god he's been dead for over a hundred years
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 09:32 PM
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I'm late to reply, but I get what you mean. The difference is this: even when you're the one making all the decisions, you have to keep the other person's needs and wants in mind. But you have this imperfect translation layer there - you can be certain of what you want, but only reasonably confident that you know what they want. It takes more thought and consideration than making decisions for only yourself. At the end of the day, a submissive woman can still leave, if they don't think their nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:22 PM
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Making decisions for yourself is different than making decisions for yourself and also someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:32 PM
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Are you under the impression that ugly people can't make friends or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:06 PM
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which brings me to the question: why would you ever want to cut that wire? it's undoubtedly one of the biggest reasons humans thrive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 06:44 PM
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the fact that you have the brainpower and the language to even sort people into groups like "sigma" and "omega" based on their behaviors should be a sign that we are a social species.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 06:44 PM
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In this post, you have done nothing to indicate why you think self-reliance is a good thing, or something to aspire to. In my opinion, humans are fundamentally a very social species. We're not flies that buzz around until it's time to mate. We thrive when reliant upon others. We are reliant on others whether we realize it or not. We have some of the longest time spent to reach maturity and self-sufficiency of any animal, because we learn to rely on our parents until we can form new relationships…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 06:36 PM
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you cannot be serious right now. We demand restrictions on how ICE can act, and the right's response is to ask why we support slavery. We want to protest the government and it gets equated to hatred for the country. We're called baby killers because we don't want abortion banned. We're called degenerates because we support gay marriage or think trans people should be respected. We're accused of indoctrination because we want to teach science instead of religion in public schools. Kid Rock shot h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 06:08 PM
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doesn't base life on conspiracy theories this must mean that he doesn't think there's any reason at all for anything I think you can think about why you got rejected without ending up in a rabbit hole about how all women act
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 08:09 AM
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Do you exclusively focus on putting your shoes on, when preparing for a marathon?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 09:55 AM
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I am not an average man, and my wife treats me very well. My wife approached me, she was ready to have sex with me on the first date, she lets me use her freely even 14 years into our relationship. I'm very tall, I'm strong, I make 200k per year, I have a big dick, and I have a deep voice. That doesn't mean I don't put any work in - I worked for the life I have, I work to make her happy, I work to strengthen our relationship and depeen our bonds, and I work on my own health, mental and physical.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:42 AM
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So you're the guy fucking everyone over AMA when
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:10 AM
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I proposed on the beach around sunset, with a picnic and a ring
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:41 PM
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mango gelato, if that counts. if not, strawberry
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 08:20 PM
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good lord lmao writers are not being drugged by their editors so they finish books faster, the way porn stars get fed drugs to make them put up with the scenes they're doing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 08:03 PM
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Today is my fifth anniversary with my wife, AMA
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 07:59 PM
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lmao someone bought into the AI hype a little too hard
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:32 PM
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Men are told from an early age not to call a woman in his life fat, unless they're trying to get broken up with. It's a media trope and a societal meme at this point Your bf is unlikely to ever call you fat, even if you call yourself fat. He's trying to be nice to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:42 PM
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It's not about that, life is more than that and it's about priorities. You can't put in 100% into your work, your school, your love life, your hobbies, your health, your friends, your family, your self-improvement, etc. Maybe you can, but you're better than me in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:40 PM
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When in doubt, claim gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:09 AM
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I've never seen someone use body positivity as a way to tell men to have sex with women they're not attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:08 AM
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Yeah, but that has nothing to do with this thread, except you conflating attraction to treatment with basic respect
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 04:53 AM
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i must have missed the "come on guys, fuck ugly women" ad campaigns
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 04:45 AM
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Brother your anxiety is the reason you've made these rules for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:07 PM
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Do you think that the sexism of a philosopher hundreds of years ago has any bearing upon my own feelings and sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 02:46 PM
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But you don't only date somebody for how hot they are, you also date them for who they are as a person. Like for me, Rashida Jones is a 10/10, and was my celebrity crush growing up. But if I found out she was batshit insane all day long, I wouldn't be dating her even if I had the opportunity. Sometimes the hottest person you know has a good head on their shoulders, sometimes they do not. Picking a hookup partner is different from picking a life partner because the two roles require different thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 07:02 PM
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I'm not sure you quite understand the difference between natural and sexual selection. How did you end up at the definitions you're using?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:20 AM
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I'm here mostly in awe of this group of people deeply divorced from reality
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:18 AM
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I am confident that my parents love me unconditionally
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 05:02 AM
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If you're getting it from anywhere else, I'm blown away. Completely different crowd from the men I know, I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:48 AM
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I don't think that you understand men, their emotions or their sexuality very well at all. And if you're primarily getting that from PPD it's clear why you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:56 PM
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this sub is a very poor representation of the average person
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 08:35 PM
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Men are not simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 06:11 PM
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What do you mean when you write that men claim men can't have preferences? Who's saying this and what are they trying to say with that statement? I don't really understand it. Generally though, I don't think women understand men very well and I think your examples given demonstrate how surface-level you consider men's emotions. Do you think that these conflicting statements are usually said at the same time, to the same people?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 05:58 PM
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maybe this argument is too online for me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:04 AM
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My wife and I were dating a second woman together, until it started taking up so much time and energy that it was hurting my performance at work. It's more mental energy than we realized going into it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 07:31 AM
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It seems like the obvious answer here is to be with someone who matches your own sex drive. That's why I don't get people who insist upon marriage before having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 07:30 AM
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There's an old blog post is related to this idea, but in a different field (computer science). There's a phenomenon where it seems like most of the programmers who apply to your job can't actually write code at all. Everyone thinks they’re hiring the top 1%. Let’s simplify for the moment and assume that all software developers in the world could be ranked in absolute order of skill, and that you had a magical screening process that found the “best” person from any field. Now, when you get those …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 07:25 AM
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"Growing up, I thought you'd either be pretty or have a great personality. So I didn't mind not being as symmetrical, because I had this great, awesome personality that would surely be coming any day now. It's coming with my period and my hogwarts letter, I can feel it! And then in sixth grade, I met my best friend Krista, and she was pretty and funny and smart and nice. And that's when I stopped believing in God." -Taylor Tomlinson
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 07:13 AM
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I've never heard anybody claim that Norah Vincent committed suicide because her time spent as a man was too harsh. You're fighting a strawman. She killed herself some 20 years after she stopped posing as a man. The argument you're arguing against is nonsense and unpopular. All of that distracts from your total lack of explanation for the second part: trans struggle. She was not trans (you wrote trans woman but you mean trans man). Trans people often do not struggle with having multiple gender id…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 06:57 AM
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If he's a gym rat or athlete now, he likely ties self-worth to his fitness and dedication to it. If you love him and he's fat, you're tolerant of his personal failure. He may not want that for some reason. Some people feel partners need to hold each other to high standards and push each other hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:35 AM
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Move past that - why is a full time job at McDonald's not enough to have a place on your own, or have a kid, or pay for school, or shop without food stamps? Why has it gotten worse, and how do we fix that? That's really what matters, not the specific definition of a living wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:27 AM
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Oh yeah I'm not saying these are female dominated. I don't think that has to be true for people to be less receptive when their friends do these things. Everyone should discourage their friends from these things
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:53 AM
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The thing is, I'm 32 now. I feel I no longer have anything in common with a 20 year old woman. They seem like children to my eyes. I get the sex appeal, but I have no idea how you'd be in a real relationship with someone that much less mature than you. I'm not sure why someone would even be open to a 20 year old if they're significantly older than 25. You're in different places in life, with different mindsets and priorities
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:50 AM
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Over half of American men are in relationships lol Your views are somewhat divorced from reality
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:47 AM
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Sharing private information about a man without his consent, emotionally manipulative actions like gaslighting, messing around with a guy's hopes just for fun. Just a few examples, all have happened to me over the years. Lots of bad behavior has nothing to do with money
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:43 AM
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I've yet to meet any man who has disregarded their own toxic behavior as men being men, tbh. I'm not even sure I've met a man who has done this to excuse someone else's behavior. For me at least, this exists only on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:39 AM
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Approaching a woman is pretty much universally agreed to be violating a boundary, simply because you don't know if they will like it or not? That's an absolutely flaming hot take. In your mind, does this apply to other situations where you don't know if someone will like something you do? Honking your horn, or asking for directions, or singing in public?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:37 AM
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Get him off of that shit, prager made that site to radicalize children
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:33 AM
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Man, the kids today suck
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:32 AM
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Boobs, left
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:39 AM
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this isn't intellectually honest. you don't know the lives of the very sexually prolific, yet non-famous people. You only know about these people because they are so famous that you know their sex lives. You can't use that as evidence that fame and power causes this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:34 PM
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keep your fetishes off this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:31 PM
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IMO the root of this is theology that teaches that it's your job to save others from sinful behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 05:45 PM
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My wife is 5'10", can knock someone out with one punch, never wears makeup, and has more sports jerseys than I do. Am I gay too? If you want a man who is sensitive and very emotionally aware, is that a little lesbian of you? Like what are we even talking about here? Being gay means wanting a man, not just wanting a woman who doesn't act in conventionally gendered ways
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:51 PM
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I don't think you need to "throw yourself into their lap" to approach someone. That's what flirting and courting is all about - determining mutual interest
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:35 PM
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Why shouldn't women approach and initiate? Can you gvve any reason beyond "women are different"? The other three are all things you are feeling, which is valid. But this point sticks out to me because it's not like the other points, it's an action. It's what you're expected to do, not feel. And I'm not sure there's any reason a woman shouldn't be expected to approach too. My wife approached me and it turned out just fine
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:34 PM
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You already lost by treating women as enemies in war
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 06:54 AM
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I think your problem is that you think you understand how most men think, but you've never stopped to verify that with any of them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 06:38 AM
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That's not cheating, that's sexual assault. That's not any kind of "exception", it's just a crime that happened to your gf
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 06:36 AM
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The woman I love the most, who is so hot, and does whatever I want in bed is my wife, and she is faithful to me. No cheater could be the woman I love the most
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 06:32 AM
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Have you ever talked to any left winger in person about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 06:25 AM
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Buddy just admit you got frothed up over outrage that doesn't actually exist in any real spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 06:20 AM
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Yes, I think that a lot, perhaps most, of the anger is bots and fake accounts. I'm sure there are a few idiots, yes. But I think most of this was done to rile up conservatives, not liberals. Nobody I know is even talking about this. I live in Portland, Oregon
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 06:11 AM
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Sometimes you have sex and then get up, get dressed, and go on a date! Breakfast for dinner type behavior, it's fun in its own way
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 06:03 AM
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I dare you to go look up who is actually receiving government handouts lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 05:56 AM
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I've literally only seen people online get mad about Sydney Sweeney. I have yet to see anyone in the real world be angry in any way about it. Not convinced it's even any real, significant group of people at this point. Just feels like someone is manufacturing outrage to sell jeans to conservatives and get their name in mouths
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 05:54 AM
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A woman doesn't just randomly fall into a casual relationship through no actions of her own. They're a direct result of the way someone chooses to date. In some places, it's less common to have sex before being in a relationship or even before marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 02:26 AM
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I'm part of the 6-6-6 club. I'm also on the autism spectrum lol, it's not that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 02:15 AM
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You don't just fall into that. It only happens when you allow that to happen. In some parts of the world, casual relationships aren't common at all, because the whole culture is sexually conservative compared to the west. So yeah, some places will have women who are relatively immune to that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 02:13 AM
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I don’t feel that I need to take accountability for other women who rape, especially when I’m part of the gender that actually advocates for holding rapists culpable. Care to reconcile the two parts of the sentence? You don't seem to care much about a large group of rapists...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 06:15 PM
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No, it didn't. The numbers in the second link are for different statistics. From the second link: For example, the CDC’s nationally representative data revealed that over one year, men and women were equally likely to experience nonconsensual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 06:05 PM
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The survey found that men and women had a similar prevalence of nonconsensual sex in the previous 12 months (1.270 million women and 1.267 million men) from the first link
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 06:00 PM
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It was called isanyoneup, it was the original version of this type of site
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 03:16 AM
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Do you think that everything Shannon Sharpe does is a common societal thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 03:15 AM
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statistically the odds are pretty good. he's had a lot of partners
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 07:11 PM
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when you say "purpose", does that include emotional purpose? like sex as a way of expressing your love and care for your partner? I'd also say porn is a poor representation of sex with a loving partner. regardless, i'm glad that you are honest about that. i think there are probably a good chunk of guys who don't really like sex, but feel they are supposed to, and suppress that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 05:19 PM
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I'm sure this happens, but I doubt it happens so often that it's any kind of major theme in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 05:15 PM
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how are you planning to build a family without sex? like adoption or something? or just having sex you dislike? sorry if it seems like i'm roasting you or something, i am just curious about this because it's like the opposite of my personality. my wife and I both love sex and have a lot of it, it's an important part of our relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 05:13 PM
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why do you want an asexual gf? are you also asexual? or do you mean somebody who wants more than just sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 05:08 PM
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homeley ltr do you mean 'homely' meaning ugly or plain, or 'homeless' meaning taking this to the streets?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 05:03 PM
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Is your argument that doxxing is morally unclear or something? Doxxing seems pretty generally bad to me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:25 AM
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Thousands of children are married to adults every year in the US. What are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:35 AM
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I don't want to have sex with everyone...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:35 AM
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Counterpoint: my wife and I have sex about once a day on average, which becomes impossible under your scheme for the average wage. You can't survive making 8 hours of wages and spending 7 hours of that on sex. That's crackhead logic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 06:12 AM
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Yes, some men only view women for their sexual desire. Those men tend to spend a lot of time in strip clubs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:28 PM
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How long will it take before a fake text chat makes it up there though?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:36 AM
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You gotta stop thinking like that Sometimes companies break the law. Sometimes they even get founded on the idea of breaking the law. This company probably isn't long for this world. They'll cash out and pay less in fines than they made. Or they will get lucky and trump's doj won't prosecute any of it. It's a calculated move.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:30 AM
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Where are you guys getting milk for free
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:28 AM
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tfw social anxiety makes you wish you weren't human been there OP, but there's only one way out of social anxiety. fantasizing about this ain't it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 02:42 AM
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It doesn't become important just because you can't handle adult concepts
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:23 AM
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Date people you like If someone you don't like says you should like them, that's okay, it doesn't matter, and you don't need to date them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:21 PM
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I am mostly playing devil's advocate here, because I don't think it's very easy to spot red flags. But if it were, wouldn't it be harder for straight men, who do not have relationships with men? People don't treat friends and partners in the same way, red flag behaviors included. I think that a lot of abusers' friends don't realize they're abusing their partner at all. Most abusers hide it well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:20 PM
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You're a strange dude
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:17 PM
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I don't know anyone who romanticizes lazy genius women, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:38 PM
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Romanticizing a type of man is feminine? Well yeah... Are you saying that romanticizing other kinds of men is more masculine or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:52 PM
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This won't change after you get married
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:51 PM
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Is this article's Sex and the City vibe intentional or accidental?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:48 PM
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Man, what's with all these live action remakes? Little Mermaid, Lion King, and now Kiki's Delivery Service?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:46 PM
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That's a huge paint brush you've got there
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:43 PM
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this isn't how debate works you show your evidence. you don't omit it and then say "you not seeing it proves me right"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 09:16 PM
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How does this differ from some nerd saying he has a 2D waifu and is *off the market, sorry ladies"? Nobody takes them seriously and I don't think anyone will be taking these women seriously either
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 02:35 PM
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I've never failed to get a second date by not paying for the first one
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 02:34 PM
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This is really what it comes down to. False beliefs have been reinforced here by people who do not have dating experience. This allows the grifters to continue to take in eyeballs and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 02:33 PM
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My wife and I split dates until we started sharing all our bank accounts. If I got the last date, she got the next one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 02:32 PM
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The restriction of certain genes or traits from being passed on was not the intent of the sexual revolution, though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 12:58 AM
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Now apply the same line of thinking to red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 12:57 AM
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Neither women nor animals are picking partners with the intention to influence the overall genetics of the entire population. That's the distinction between eugenics and being selective sexually. Forced sterilization aims to affect a whole population's gene pool in a deliberate way. That's very clearly eugenics. Removing a gene from every member of a population is the same - affecting the genetics of the entire population. This is also called eugenics but the ethical questions are different from…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 12:41 AM
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Oh, thank you. That makes more sense, it's a visibility setting. I thought it was a social statement, as in "when I post, I'm doing it for them and not XYZ other people who see it"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 05:14 PM
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I don't do that, and I am all three of those. As humans we have a tendency to assume what other people think. Social media amplifies this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:01 PM
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OP, are you a man or a woman? I think that men and women have very different experiences with the community around them and falling into it. There's a lot of reasons for that, but I understand why men don't feel it's there for them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:00 PM
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I accidentally swallowed a moth in my sleep Didn't even get superpowers or anything, just got sick
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 03:56 PM
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Like what's the point in telling somebody that you only post to ig for friends and family? I'd probably assume this by default. I don't use ig so maybe I'm missing something obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 03:54 PM
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I'm confused why someone would come out and declare this though. If it's universal, what's the need to state it? Is it just to differentiate from an OF/influencer account? Or something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 03:14 PM
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Why can't you study history?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:11 AM
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You wamt a beautiful partner for life but you don't want to fall in love with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 01:44 AM
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Man thinks being in love is mental impairment; seems to seek it out regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 01:36 AM
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Them bpd egirls can be dangerous though. Every guy gotta learn one way or another that a girl can be bad news for you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 01:22 AM
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r/lewronggeneration
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 01:21 AM
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"do you use Ubuntu?" "sorry I'm not really into Pokémon"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 01:20 AM
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The thing is, when you are fully and completely in love with someone, you don't mind how they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 01:18 AM
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Yeah, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 09:38 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 09:36 PM
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Literally just being a low bmi makes someone above average in terms of physical beauty. bruh moment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:23 AM
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Between this post and your last one, it is clear you have no idea about what men think about or how they talk to each other. I'm not sure where you are getting these ideas, but it's nowhere near reality for me or the men I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:23 AM
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crime statistics also reflect the fact that women are less likely to be arrested or convicted for the same behaviors. the criminal justice system is biased against men and especially black men. but I also don't think that women are more conformist than men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:18 AM
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Yeah, I think we would probably be having more sex. IDK about you, but I had it drilled into me to be terrified of STDs as a kid. It was used as a convenient excuse not to talk about sex as an enjoyable thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:17 AM
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I know zero polygamous men. If they only exist within the billionaires and kings (and I'm doubtful of even that), why would the people here care about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:49 PM
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I was thinking of the strip clubs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:46 PM
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Ja Morant managed to let that lust fuck the money up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 03:28 PM
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I read and understood what you wrote and still agree with him Average men don't do the things you're describing any more than 'celebrities' do. The average guy doesn't talk about his sexual exploits with friends. When they do, it rarely improves their standing with friends. IMO when guys share this, it typically isn't done to improve their social standing - it is typically done because of oversharing tendencies or just disrespect for women. Both of these exist in celebrities too. You've based th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:36 AM
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Farquaad is the classic "short guy who assumes it's because he's short"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:32 AM
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That was a sample of 86 college students at one university. That's too narrow to generalize the results. Also, they didn't provide information about which questions and responses they used to determine rape intent
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:26 AM
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And the women who watch hentai?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:21 AM
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Smut reflects real life now? Since when? Someone should let the hentai watchers know
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 06:26 AM
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I base my life on the morals I was taught as a child, morals that are not necessarily masculine or very different than what my sister was taught. I was raised to do things because they're right to do, not because they're masculine and I'm a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 11:54 PM
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Not actually answering that question says everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 11:21 PM
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Do you think that a guy should similarly be compensated if you go on a date he didn't want to go on? Or do you think he just shouldn't have taken you on the date?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 11:09 PM
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Doing something you both enjoy is not a transaction. A transaction fundamentally involves a trade or exchange. When you're both there for the same goal, it's just called doing something together.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:57 PM
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I don't agree with your characterization of that as "transactional".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:53 PM
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I'm gonna be real with you: I've never heard anyone broadly describe all/most women as conformist before
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:46 PM
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Back in my day (fuck i feel old), each one had the equivalent of about 5 shots of vodka and 4 cups of coffee. The classic blunder was to let it hit you, have the caffeine mask some of the drunkenness, have more, then the caffeine wears off and you're left incredibly hammered
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:40 PM
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Real cowboy boots are shockingly expensive! It is common for a nice pair to exceed $500
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:33 PM
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They don't make them the way they used to. They were forced to get rid of the caffeine, now it's just a strong malt liquor
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:26 PM
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Tbh I'm impressed - maybe this is just my autistic interests talking, but lambos are known for being ostentatious and impossible to ignore lol. People buy them for that reason specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:07 PM
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My wife started dating me when I had literally zero income and had just been kicked out of university. She made more money than me for the first 4 years we were together. I got back into uni, finished, and make good money now. But she had no way to be assured of that outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:05 PM
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No, your take is the dumb one. Your statement assumes that anxiety is always rooted in reality. We know that is false, and it's false in this circumstance too. You can't reverse the direction of an anxiety to prove that the cause is valid. Anxiety about wealth and height is in fact based on forums like these reinforcing fears. I doubt most guys here who worry about it have ever been told by a partner that they are being rejected over height or income. They get rejected without a given reason, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:56 PM
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It's not an opportunity that needs to be presented for you, it is a choice you make, a life style.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:52 PM
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Missing the point entirely
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:14 PM
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This is faulty logic Roseanne Barr is an example for you, I've never heard anybody express anything but straight repulsion for her This line of thinking becomes obviously nonsense if you change the topic. If people are not a monolith, how come nobody likes to gnaw on rawhide bones as a snack? If filmmakers aren't a monolith, how come none of them liked movie 43? If fishermen aren't a monolith, how come none of them prefer trying to lure the fish in with songs?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 03:39 PM
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Another thing is that men often expect their wives to work for free over years or even decades. They want the wife to raise the kids, do the cooking, cleaning, and housework. And while she’s doing this, they don’t care that these years are making her increasingly vulnerable in the case of divorce - due to having limited work history and no career progression. Then they want her to leave the marriage with nothing. She worked at home all those years and supported you with everything she did to kee…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 03:23 PM
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Nope, and continuing to intentionally misinterpret my comment won't get you closer to truth either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 03:11 PM
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You really want this to make sense and you're being intellectually lazy to get there. But it doesn't, and you know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:07 AM
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What is your basis for understanding 250-300kya gender dynamics? How did you come to fool yourself into thinking that you knew them? What lapses did you make intellectually to get there?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:53 AM
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Read my comment closely because it has nothing to do with relative truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:49 AM
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That's a pretty poor understanding of history.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:54 AM
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Okay, why do you consider these things to be fundamentally masculine?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:38 AM
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This is just abusing language to say "the way I understand it is the only way it can be understood" without seeming as ignorant as that statement is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:06 AM
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What are you trying to debate here? Give me your position in one sentence, without saying 'leftists say X' as a crutch to construct your own opposing viewpoint. this is a meandering rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:57 PM
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Either to get laid or to get brownie points and social credit (actual social credit, not China memes). It's kind of like walking around saying you're a good person. You know feminism is a popular and good philosophy so you declare it as yours even if you don't understand it or apply it consistently
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 05:38 PM
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No, it's more akin to becoming a zookeeper primarily because you wanted to see animals get euthanized. It doesn't make zookeeping extreme, it just makes you an asshole getting into it for the wrong reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 04:04 PM
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I don't even know what you're trying to debate here. How can you debate someone in what you find annoying? Do you think people think positively of the kind of person you are describing?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:48 PM
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Of course I will be pushing back against any of that. There's zero reason to play along
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:30 AM
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Maybe the better word is that love/sex should never be coerced or forced
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:17 AM
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Why are you confident that your idea of what a man should be is the right idea in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:10 AM
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This shit is all over this sub if you take the time to look at redpill comments here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:08 AM
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I am able to live my life fully accepting of my trans friends and family, and the powers that be have nothing to do with that. I'm not going to "play their game" just because they want me to disrespect the people I love.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:04 AM
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Lol no you don't, fuck that noise Facts don't depend on who is in power
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:51 PM
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Yeah red pill is stupid, more at 11
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:47 PM
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None of that is wrong, it just has nothing to do with the original statement you made. Experience in bed is not a bad thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:41 PM
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Weird dodge. It does go much higher than "you gave your partner an orgasm". I gave my first partner an orgasm. I've also undoubtedly gotten much better at sex with experience
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:16 PM
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OP how many sexual partners have you had?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:34 PM
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If you can't find the person you are truly 100% compatible with, don't get married to someone else and hope it will be almost as good. Marriage should be taken very seriously that way. I think a lot of divorce comes from people overlooking incompatibility during dating, either due to optimism that it will change, or sunk cost fallacy. As an analogy, if you are allergic to shellfish, and that's the only thing on the menu, you can't settle for the shellfish restaurant. It will harm you. Wait to se…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:15 PM
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I also think that people should spend a lot longer before marrying, and should live together for years first. It makes it harder to maintain that kind of lie
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:00 PM
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Why do you think that working should prevent someone from receiving child support? Isn't that just strong incentive for the custodial parent not to bother trying to make an income?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:19 AM
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Pretty easy solution here: don't marry a shit head You're marrying one person, not their gender as a whole. My wife doesn't struggle with what you described because she married me, not men as a concept
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:17 AM
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That's apples and oranges. DNA degradation is not a trisomy event
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:58 PM
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Buddy I am a biologist. I am fully aware that the X chromosome is larger. You're aware that men give the X chromosome as well, right? Jesus Christ. Show me something that actually supports what you wrote earlier: sperm quality has a lower effect on child health than egg quality. The X chromosome is not evidence of that alone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:33 PM
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Why should I care about this so much that I should advocate that my tax money should go to this, over literally anything else? Why is this more important than universal health care, food banks, or even street maintenance? You already have access to AI chat bots. Many are free. Why is it now my job to ensure that you find a relationship? Would you pay me to help me pay for my dates with my wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:35 PM
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Your claim is that sperm quality has much less to do with overall child health than egg quality. Your other claim was that these studies have found a very small effect from sperm quality. Cite your sources for those
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:22 PM
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No, you have made a claim. I did not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:57 PM
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https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6993171/ Males above the age of 50 were significantly more likely to present anomalies in semen volume, sperm concentration, and sperm DNA fragmentation; males aged 41+ years were more likely to have lower sperm concentration levels; males aged 31+ years were more likely to have decreased sperm motility; when concentration was constant, more volume and motility anomalies were seen as age increased; when volume was kept constant, more motility and concentr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:06 PM
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Cite your sources
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:03 PM
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I was sitting with my wife tonight in front of the hotel we're staying at, just smoking weed together. One other guy on a nearby bench was smoking too. I was just chatting with my wife, enjoying the night. Eventually he walks up to us, shakes both of our hands, congratulates us on our love, and says he never thinks much of marriage and doesn't think people are usually happy after 20 years, but he can tell we will be happy and he's excited for us. He also said he was a bit inebriated and apologiz…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:44 AM
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Dude respond to the comment. You aren't debating, you're just on a soap box telling me new points. This is just lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:49 AM
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Where do you draw the line though? I have relatives in medicine who have been bitten by medical patients out of the blue. I've nearly died on a few different job sites for reasons out of my control, risks that weren't explained to me. Obviously these jobs carry a lot of physical and emotional damage too. But I think they're still labor. I don't really disagree with you though, I'm just not sure that it's the violence so much as the coercion/force that makes it different
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:46 AM
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You know what we call it when Qatar imports foreign workers, steals their passports and works them to the bone for scraps? We call that modern slavery. You can quit your job and they cannot. You consented to your treatment and they didn't. It's no different when you are a full-service sex worker. Almost all of them are forced into it and do not have any safe avenues out of it. They get beaten, blackmailed, forced into drug addiction, psychologically manipulated and traumatized. They have zero wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:35 AM
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Did you even read the comment? They just laid out why they think society should care. Don't repeat yourself, engage with the counterpoint
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:30 AM
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the partner with the outside interest is going to develop the resentment that the relationship doesn’t look like their ideal. IMO this is just a sign of immaturity, not neurotypical thinking. Developing resentment because a relationship doesn't look ideal to you is just...not dealing with real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 04:46 PM
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They say that it's possible for people to appreciate each other for differing hobbies, but I find it hard to believe them. Why? Because people like the women in this thread from a few months ago exist I want to focus on this in particular, because the logic just ain't logickin' here. A counterexample can exist without disproving the possibility of something. If someone said "it's possible for men and women to like each other romantically", would you point out a gay guy or a guy who hates his wif…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 04:05 PM
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Yes, this sub constantly laments women having more choice of partners, "body counts", women marrying later, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:12 PM
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so no?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 04:48 AM
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No video games before work is done Never skip your meds Work in 30-minute chunks and write your work progress down every 30 minutes, in a book
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 04:48 AM
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do you have any idea how off the mark this is?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 04:44 AM
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This guy is 100% socially awkward. He may not realize it, but he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 04:37 AM
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I'm not suggesting that it has never happened, just that I've never heard it argued as a smart idea or a good idea
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:02 AM
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Where did you see this posted as a good solution? I've never heard something this ridiculous before
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 11:26 PM
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yeah, that is true. I wish I spoke German and didn't need the translations. I'm sure they lose some of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 09:26 PM
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did he write poetry?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 09:19 PM
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This makes no sense. Your competition is not just those in your height range.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 09:13 PM
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wild takes lol wilder still to call these truths
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 08:55 PM
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My wife doesn't behave like "all women". What is there to be insecure about?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 11:25 PM
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that's the thing, I do not think I'm the exception in the slightest. I think this sub is off the rails insane
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:46 PM
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I've posted here about it before, but IMO, Red Pill/PUA tends to lead you to a small subset of women who find those things appealing. This becomes the primary type of woman that a PUA/RPer interacts with. This leads to poor generalizations of women as a whole, based on those personality types.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 07:25 PM
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I'm here specifically because I have found my marriage is very different from what relationships here are portrayed as. It's not to gloat. I am here to convince people that this ideology does not understand how most relationships work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:07 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:03 PM
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You are in a information bubble
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:55 PM
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"what do you mean all women don't spend like 75% of their mental energy on trying to trick me personally"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:53 PM
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I will be forever?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:41 PM
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You haven't demonstrated that fact in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 06:21 AM
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I went to public school and it came up once that I can recall. A girl brought it up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 06:20 AM
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100% I can't tell if OP doesn't realize he's calling his girl dumb, or if he is trying to convince us all that it's fine to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 05:17 AM
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They want a bigger dating pool of trad wives and want other types of women to be shunned. This isn't about personal preference, this is about enforcing conservatism through social pressure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 04:27 AM
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INTP gang
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:21 AM
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that's exactly what astrology nerds say too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:21 AM
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I am married - I'll be married for five years this fall. We were together for a long time before marrying. What I get out of marriage is knowing I will be with my wife forever. It allows you to tackle problems and reach your goals in fundamentally different ways. It makes you feel secure in your relationship. All the other stuff was being filled by having an LTR. I already had a best friend, great sex, love.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 10:05 PM
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My wife did not do this. We have been together 13 years now. I don't really care if people do this or not, I'm just not sure it's particularly successful. I have no skin in the game so I'm not lying to you, I just haven't seen many men who are really interested in women who withhold sex intentionally to try and retain a man. In conclusion, just fuck people if you feel like fucking them. It's so much simpler than everything you're laying out
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:21 AM
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The option is there, though. Nothing says they can't have kids together after this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:38 AM
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The kid isn't born yet. Why would that be traumatic for the kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:37 AM
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rent free lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:52 PM
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They're admonishing women for quickly jumping from one man to another
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:39 PM
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'I'm not misogynist, I'm just a general piece of shit! Take that!'
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:21 PM
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Not everyone hates the idea of being a step-dad
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:19 PM
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If you think that's your only job in life, you are the affront to God
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 08:18 AM
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every single sentence you just said tried to prescribe to me what I think. do you think that was convincing too? do you think I don't understand what I think?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 08:16 AM
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Do you think you're making a convincing argument here? Lmao "the oligarchs own everything so you might as well give it to me, a guy with a terrible idea that will make everything worse" Yeah lemme get right on that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:33 AM
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Do you truly expect that your newborns will still be granted us citizenship? They will be stuck there. It's not a voluntary society for them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:49 AM
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What is the last real debate you watched?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:46 AM
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Are you asking me if I oppose a state that refuses to admit people based on characteristics they cannot change about themselves, has conditional citizenship based on behavior, and endorses labor camps? Why the fuck wouldn't I oppose that? And you want this godforsaken hellhole to just be given our natural resources at an 85% discount? Absolutely not. You think that doesn't affect everybody else or what? I'd treat this no less seriously than any other secession. I'd make sure to vote out whicheve…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:43 AM
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You realize that you'd get laughed out of any actual debate saying stuff like that, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:14 AM
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dawg are you being serious? perhaps it's the forced labor camps for not being manly enough
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:13 AM
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Yes, I would. Without question.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:12 AM
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You mark this as a debate but you've done nothing to demonstrate why this is the case. You declare women think in certain ways for certain reasons but haven't demonstrated that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 11:48 PM
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Absolutely not. Sounds like fascism but dumber. Everything you just described goes against every fiber of my moral being. If this existed, I doubt it would last very long before becoming a failed state
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 11:46 PM
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No, not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 11:05 PM
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Why are any of those seven things exclusive to women? Do you think guys do not dream of their future as well or something? How poorly do you think of us?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:56 PM
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I'm not sure that she will be able to attract people for long after they know that. She will probably rely on people not putting together that was her. Back in my day this was just called psychological abuse, and intimate partner violence
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 06:44 AM
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What if I can't handle her at her best lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 06:43 AM
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Thinking about that time my dad told me that he scheduled a phone call with India and Ireland at the same time, and it meant he had to be working at midnight, as if he was proud of it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:27 AM
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You never told me your bmi
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:14 AM
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No. If you think you can you're wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:29 AM
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Why would you ask AI that question? Do you think it has any knowledge of the answer to that question?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:27 AM
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I have no idea who liver king is, and I'm just gonna pretend you said tiger king
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:26 AM
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Do you think your bad experiences were related to the education?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:28 AM
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Literally none of this describes my wife lol. She cooks and cleans less than I do, she taught me how to smoke weed, she has varied in weight a lot while we have been together and it has never bothered me (I have too), she has an IUD in place because she doesn't like condoms, and we have shared girlfriends in the past. I'm not sure you understand relationships beyond what you see on TV. You sound upset that people treat you like that, but you also sound like a self-fulfilling prophecy where you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:24 AM
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Buddy I married my wife in the states, I liked dating her lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:19 AM
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Lol get out more. Lots of people enjoy dating in the states.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:08 AM
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People in your home town are dating each other every single day. Passport bro lifestyle is an elaborate distraction from your own flaws
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:00 AM
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Speak for yourself. I spent my adolescent years lusting after women, found a really good one, and have loved it ever since. It is all it's cracked up to be, for me. It has nothing to do with novelty lol Date people you actually like. It's not that hard to avoid a relationship with someone you can't stand
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:59 AM
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my wife and I are not anything close to Christians, I can't imagine why it would be immoral to have sex before marriage. We had sex many times before marriage, and it was very important in bringing us closer together.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:34 AM
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my wife has a nose ring and is tatted up and has a somewhat wild past, I would not have her any other way. she is not remorseful, why would she be?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:21 AM
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control over what though? I don't seek to control anybody else
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:11 AM
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Your impression is that is the best he could get?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:21 AM
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My wife has an IUD
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:49 AM
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Am I the only one whose friend group just doesn't participate in that kind of talk at all? I had not heard of it until the 2016 elections
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 02:55 AM
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Good luck taking breaks at work when half your paycheck is going to daycare. You're probably working two jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 03:56 AM
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Being a single mom who works is much much harder
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 03:53 AM
1

the last mainstream pop artist to appeal to male gaze Ice Spice?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 11:15 PM
2

Here I'm thinking you were talking about the film Juno. That would be an interesting comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 11:14 PM
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Fat yes, old no, ugly no. The way I see it, we're all gonna look ugly as shit in 40 years anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 05:27 AM
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This is not my experience either and I'm a man
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:55 PM
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Did you try and hit on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:03 PM
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Tbh until recently, I've had better support from my woman friends than man friends. I think my best/closest friend has been a woman for 80-90% of my adult life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:00 PM
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your discord group doesn't count as stand-up comedians
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:10 PM
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Why do you think it's retribution tho? That didn't come from nowhere
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:14 PM
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Retribution for what, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 05:54 PM
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I'm more and more convinced you are a RP man every day
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 05:53 PM
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I feel you, my friend has experienced this as the male victim of female DV and manipulation. I have made sure to help him vent and talk about it, and how he's getting through it. It's not easy to talk about to begin with and pushback makes it much harder. I think that you can flip the sexes in my post and nothing would change.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 05:30 PM
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An Instagram of AI at that... Did everyone take crazy pills and forget that AI isn't real or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:37 AM
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I'm married. My wife is the only person I could imagine myself being with. I'm weird, she's weird, and we are on the same wavelength. She understands me and the way I think better than anybody I know. We will have the same thoughts randomly pop into our heads at the same time and it feels like we're psychic. We have the same goals. We still do the little nice things for each other. We are best friends, confidants, vulnerable with each other, honest and safe around each other. She's willing to wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:31 AM
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Nobody said you can't vet your partners if you want to
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:23 PM
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there was plenty of stigma at the time when it comes to girls asking guys out
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 10:02 PM
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When all you’ve known your entire life is an emotional rollercoaster, emotional stability feels unfamiliar and scary. damn if this ain't the truth. even outside the context of abuse, it's easy to backslide into bad relationship habits when it's all you saw growing up. IMO this is a big reason that couples therapy can be useful: just having a third party saying "damn girl you live like this?" that has seen it all and knows how normal or abnormal your habits are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:56 PM
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I met my wife in 2007 and we began dating in 2012
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:50 PM
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Dating does work though. It works just fine for most people. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/social-instincts/201912/what-percentage-people-struggle-find-romance About 75% of those surveyed do not have trouble maintaining a relationship. https://mazeoflove.com/relationships/ Over 50% of millennials live with a partner. Most people did not meet their partners online.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 08:52 PM
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I think the manosphere by FAR is more radicalizing. IMHO 90% of the shit men talk about here is not direct experience, it's their experience watching someone else talk about their experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 08:50 PM
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poisoning the well I don't think this means what you think it means. My wife made the first move, and I wasn't "high status" or "extremely attractive" when she did so. I even turned her down and she broke through that friendzone. But regardless, nothing you've indicated about the warm approach is actually a problem that would preclude you from dating people that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 08:48 PM
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I realize women need to vet and I get it, but it took me a while to realize why, so I can hopefully give that perspective. Guys who abuse women don't act that way toward their friends, usually. I've known men that were kind and cool around all of us, and we didn't even realize he was abusing his gf until much later. And there are guys who are "obvious" because they act abusively to everyone in their life. We don't become friends with those people for obvious reasons, we're friends with the non-d…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 08:44 PM
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I'm looking forward to getting old and ripe with her. Before we started dating I never even pictured myself as an old man, I was too depressed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:58 PM
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the same is true of men. your middle-aged ass missed the boat
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:36 PM
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Nah, we just have different ideas of what confidence looks like. Confidence can be founded in reality, and confidence can be delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:16 PM
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PIP PIP PIPPIP PIP PIP PIPPIP PINGU PINGU
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:14 PM
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Elon and Mark's Epic Quest to Make Friends
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:03 PM
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you gotta remember that like 80% of these guys have never lived with a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 05:07 PM
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Macklemore's first album and most of his work before that is really good, and I'll stand by that. He fell off hard after that. I saw him 5 times between 2011 and 2013 and he killed it every time. I've written here that my wife once immediately dropped a guy and knocked him out after he punched me in the face...that was at a Macklemore show at my college lol My hated 2010-era rapper is B.O.B.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 05:01 PM
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I went for 20% of the men I met death by snu-snu, bold but i respect it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:53 PM
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35%, from the men I've met
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:51 PM
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don't get married if you don't want to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:22 PM
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lul you're so full of shit "show me where women have fewer rights in the US" "here's a right women don't have anymore" "uhh umm it will probably come back at some point, checkmate atheist"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:22 PM
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Because the dude wanted someone younger, of course. It's just weird that you wouldn't break up/divorce if that's what you want. I'm not saying that doesn't happen, just that it doesn't justify infidelity
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:27 PM
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Yeah because it shifts blame These middle aged cheaters suck lol, you don't get to be like "yeah I cheated because you got ugly"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:05 PM
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Oh I'm sure she'll have lots of fun with it. But if you need $300 not to lose my number, I don't need you. I make enough money that I could do this 1-2x a week without breaking a sweat. It's just such a massive turn off to me that the relationship is that transactional in her eyes. It ruins the whole notion of dating someone to get to know who they are as a person. I spend this much on my wife pretty regularly. But that's because she deserves all of it and more, not because I'm attempting to imp…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:01 AM
4

no, but 5 of those things are completely changeable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 05:56 AM
18

Certainly nothing near that. What a waste of money
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 05:53 AM
3

proof lul come on now
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 05:51 AM
9

be all of those things, problem solved
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 05:50 AM
2

No it isn't. Not being able to access credit is a completely different, and much worse, issue than car insurance. Car insurance is only relevant because you are able to access credit. It's downstream of credit. It's the difference between having to pay more for the same thing, and not being able to live independently in our society. That's not comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:06 AM
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It's not simply an innocuous generic complaint, though, is it? You're using a generic sentence to express a stereotype you have of women. I'm using my wife as one example - there are many, many women who do not fit these stereotypes. This is the fundamental issue I have with red pill ideology - it reinforces the notion that men act one way and women act another way. In reality, the overlap is greater than the separation. It's not that difficult to find a partner who shares your values.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 09:58 PM
2

https://www.whitehouse.gov/presidential-actions/2025/04/restoring-equality-of-opportunity-and-meritocracy/ eliminating disparate-impact liability is very likely to lead to women being unable to access credit independently, among other things. Banks will not be required to treat applicants equally based on sex like they are now. The statute provides that its purpose is to require financial institutions and other firms engaged in the extension of credit to “make credit equally available to all cre…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 09:33 PM
9

Notice that the first example does not generalize a behavior onto women. "women are too picky" does, but "my ex used me" does not. Men aren't a monolith, neither are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 09:22 PM
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I think you're being called misogynistic because you are assigning negative traits to women as a whole when large swaths of women do not fit your stereotypes. My wife fits none of what you just wrote, and she isn't a magic unicorn. I would consider it similarly misandrist to call all men dangerous, or say that men must fight in wars, or that men are liars or abusers. Saying "if you don't think this is you, i wasn't talking about you sweaty" does nothing to change that. Stereotyping a group with …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 09:20 PM
13

I appreciate the comment, but I didn't really ask you to expound on the main point. I understood it already. I want to know what you're actually talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:55 PM
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The only example you gave was a woman making a complaint. What complaints are you talking about, specifically, that you don't think are misogyny? I ask because perhaps they're misogynistic for reasons you haven't considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:30 PM
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Yes, I'd be perfectly fine with that. I would probably ask some questions to make sure it wasn't the women's version of Andrew Tate teaching the course, though. If "how to talk to men" means "men are stupid and fall for these easy tricks", we wouldn't last long. find out he had to pay money to learn it. There was talk about being authentic, genuine, and being able to tell who is coming off as rehearsed, practiced, women's intuition, vibes, etc. Sounds like your friends are not interested in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:16 PM
7

Yeesh. I didn't realize I'd have to convince someone of the virtues of telling the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:29 PM
8

So you just lie when it means you can get what you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 02:39 PM
5

why would he tell the truth if it would change his outcome Idk man maybe because I was raised right, but this is an absolutely insane statement that sounds psychopathic. You only tell the truth when it benefits you to do so? What kind of character do you have? Do you have any integrity at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 02:10 PM
8

He already was the 35-year-old Chad. He got the woman he wanted and got out of the game. That's exactly what I did. Do you think anyone hates on Gretzky because he can't keep up with the league these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:20 AM
6

Compete for who? He's been married for 30 years. He has the woman he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:05 AM
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They are both economists. They met playing hockey together at Oxford lol She probably makes about as much as he does. She's part of think tanks, she has adviser roles for private firms, etc. You have no idea what you're talking about here. Not everyone will fit into your idea of how couples work
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:43 AM
5

Do you believe in body positivity otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:40 AM
1

Do you realize that your line of thinking leaves zero possibility you could be wrong about this? If a woman tells you you're wrong, it's because she has an inflated opinion of herself. If a man tells you you're wrong, it's because he's a simp. It's intellectually dishonest and deceiving yourself to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:35 AM
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Not if his date asks him what he's looking for. 90% of straight guys who are just looking for a one night stand will not admit that upfront
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:32 AM
14

Brother you're not fooling anybody with that maneuver Disregarding poorly-designed studies is the opposite of anti-science
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 12:53 AM
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You know, putting your best foot forward does not mean the same thing as pretending to be flawless. For example, making minor mistakes but quickly admitting that and fixing them? That's a green flag. Being vulnerable even when it means you are exposing your flaws? That's also a green flag. I'm old enough now that if someone is pretending to be perfect, I just want to know what they've hidden from me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 07:15 PM
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It's not about me assigning you value, it's about you having the experience to speak on something like this I don't think someone is less valuable or successful if they have a business degree instead of a chemistry degree, but it will make me less like likely to listen to them when they tell me that certain chemicals are dangerous
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 02:50 PM
5

Rough guess here is fine: how many hours have you spent talking to women since January 1? You sound like you do not actually interact with women, you just gather your opinion from online echo chambers
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:53 AM
2

Bro you sound like Dwight Schrute
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:50 AM
9

This is something that women are deliberately doing to show that women should not be ashamed of initiating divorce. For a very long time, and today in some societies, women are shamed or banned from initiating divorce. Societal pressure magnifies when you think you're the only person doing something.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:42 PM
6

they really love calling anything they agree with "rational"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:37 AM
-1

sure, and women can then destroy that egg cell if they so choose. they're responsible for it, it doesn't mean they need to see it through to birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:25 PM
1

your sperm cells no longer exist, they crash-landed into the egg and joined it. there's only an egg cell after fertilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:19 PM
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I have seen this, but never in a marriage. Men usually know to leave before putting a ring on somebody like that. edit: I just remembered one marriage, but it's on the rocks, so there you go. It's not very sustainable when either partner isn't pulling a reasonable amount of weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:18 PM
1

you have that choice earlier and they have it later. that's biology for you. you can't choose not to have the baby after you have nutted in her and she can't make you have the baby before then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:16 PM
3

He screwed up* He didn't fall into this situation lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:46 PM
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/thread
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:46 PM
1

You go ahead and let me know once you find a case of a mom giving birth and then being able to give up parental rights. You both do, or neither of you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:46 PM
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I have a lot of relationship experience. I'm talking specifically about relationships. Why isn't it considered a flaw if women aren't assertive? There's nothing preventing them from being assertive in their relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:09 PM
4

It feels weird to me to do something like that. I shouldn't want to be on that kind of app and I try and follow the golden rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 05:47 PM
1

Why is it a flaw for a man not to be an assertive person?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 05:45 PM
1

crickets
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 02:37 AM
10

Why are followers a good thing, except for being able to make you money?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 09:08 PM
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I'm going to play a bit of devil's advocate here. What possible shaming could work on Adam? Shaming outside the boundaries of his relationship. If people find his behavior abhorrent (note: I would not), then they might stop associating with him at all. I'm talking about friends and family, not prospective lovers. What happens when your mom draws a line in the sand and says you can't come home for dinner while you are 'dating' this AI? Okay, that's the end of the devil's advocate. I don't think t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:59 PM
1

Yes, and my wife is 31. We've shared girlfriends, so it's not like I'm totally unfamiliar with what the dating scene entails
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:57 AM
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No, that certainly doesn't. I think that if OP actually spent time interacting with a lot of women he would realize the wide range of personality types that exist among them, and it wouldn't seem like all women act that way. I don't think he talked to women to form this opinion because women are nowhere near this homogenous. He might as well add "eat hot chip and lie" to the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 09:00 PM
3

There's yer problem /s
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:42 PM
2

Why would I do a silly thing like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:30 PM
1

I'm not gaslighting anyone. I didn't deny that these women exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:30 PM
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She watches TikTok but doesn't ever post to it. She's 31
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 04:30 PM
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I don't think OP meets women at all, I think they watch videos of men reacting to videos of women and decided that's normal behavior for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:43 PM
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I'm doing perfectly fine with my wife. None of what you've just mentioned describes her very well at all: She doesn't have an IG she rarely wears makeup and definitely never wears fake lashes or draw on eyebrows She is mostly unconcerned with her looks She certainly doesn't feel like the world revolves around her or act like it. If she wants something she works for it both of us have spent a lot of time on self improvement and working on our negative traits We have been together since we were te…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 04:54 AM
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I've been laid off three times in my life, and all three were immediate. HR would send an email to my personal email with any further instructions, i.e. final paycheck stuff, returning equipment, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:35 PM
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Okay, so your profound post is that women like men of varying levels of kindness? Congrats on that epiphany man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:28 PM
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Note: only do this with an actual job in hand
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:15 PM
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Ben Shapiro: "wait so it's not supposed to make a grinding noise?"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:14 PM
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I don't spend much of my time with career criminals or self-absorbed people and I never have. I'm not sure why you would choose to spend any time with that kind of person. I met my wife at age 15, and it wasn't because I was a turbo-asshole or something. Assholes get women, nice people get women, different women are attracted to each group. That's been my experience, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:10 PM
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That's a claim you need to defend. That's what I'm trying to tell you. That's not self-evident. Reality TV is not support for that claim. "Homer Simpson always wears white T-shirts. Many boys know this: their dad also wore white T-shirts. Therefore, people saying most dads don't are gaslighting me". That's the crux of your argument here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 08:49 PM
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It doesn't matter if you think this happens IRL, this post doesn't support that. It's just as stupid as me saying that the Simpsons reflects reality. If you think something happens in the real world, demonstrate that with real-world science, not reality fucking television
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 08:47 PM
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You gotta put up a selfie for comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 08:44 PM
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WinCo is the GOAT. No frills, worker-owned, lowest prices around, 24/7. No credit cards, and they pass the savings on to you. Fun fact: It stands for Washington/Idaho/Nevada/California/Oregon
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 08:41 PM
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How did you manage to go through this whole post without acknowledging that this is reality TV, and therefore not a depiction of what actually happened on that show
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 08:39 PM
3

Calling someone demonic or evil is not slander, as it's not a claim of fact. That's exactly why I picked those words, because that's not an illegal thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 08:31 PM
2

No, I just want to live in a place that doesn't consider immutable traits as more important than mutable ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:56 PM
5

I'm sure your bias as a Russian has nothing to do with wanting Ukrainian men to not get drafted...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 05:38 AM
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In which country are men deprived of all rights? Surely you don't mean all men and all rights
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 05:30 AM
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I'm gonna make up an extreme hypothetical that might make you understand the point. Try not to directly compare it to feminism, I'm just doing it to draw the distinction between civil rights and equality. Imagine you, as someone with green eyes, was screamed at by every person you passed, and they accused you of being demonic and evil and that you deserved to die. Day in, day out. No exceptions besides other green-eyed people. Your legal rights haven't been deprived. But you undoubtedly do not l…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 05:28 AM
1

link them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:14 PM
1

yeah, that's what I thought. now you need to tell me what I'd hypothetically say, instead of backing up what you actually said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:29 AM
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Give a listen to Alligator Bites Never Heal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:10 AM
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i found this funny
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:37 AM
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Have you listened to Doechii
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:35 AM
2

It sounds so metal when you put it that way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:34 AM
8

Are you saying that being tarred is anything besides your feelings? Are you suggesting men were literally tarred or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:38 AM
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I don't feel tarred by such remarka, my life is completely unchanged by random people saying that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:12 AM
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lol lmao even
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:36 AM
15

I don't see this content posted online much. I do see a lot of the reverse here - a PPD man told me to kill myself if I dated an overweight woman, for example. I've never seen the equivalent to that on my internet spaces at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:33 AM
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The income gap is not as high as the difference in donations, though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 09:14 PM
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No, by income percentage they don't give more. That's what is shown in the link I just posted. If you have data that the middle class women donate more than middle class men, I'd be interested in it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 09:07 PM
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https://www.charitableimpact.com/blog/do-women-or-men-give-more-charitably/ Canadian men donate almost twice as much as Canadian women do, and they do not make nearly double what women make
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 08:51 PM
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Listen to TPAB
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:55 AM
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Nah. Hate is learned and unlearned. It's not a basic, instinctive emotion like anger is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:48 AM
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i spent a long time in the bay area you can make it in the bay, but 80k isn't enough to make it in SF unless you like roommates a whole lot. I recommend Caltrain from somewhere cheaper in the peninsula. Don't even bother driving, even if the parking was free it's not worth the traffic headache
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 06:18 AM
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I think it plays an enormous role. You cannot escape that we are an incredibly social species. For the vast majority of people, from the earliest memories, we want to make sure we are liked, noticed and supported by others.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 06:15 AM
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i am not jewish and i don't speak hebrew, so i just got more and more lost as i read this one
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 05:12 AM
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sure they do. women get raised in such fucked up ways sometimes. if your crazy-ass mom tells you every day you are worthless, you're not gonna have great self esteem as an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 05:08 AM
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Don't admit this, even on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 01:57 AM
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You like hot men? That's so crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 01:55 AM
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You can't just focus on the boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 01:54 AM
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Yep!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 01:53 AM
1

I do, in fact, review my boss quarterly. He takes it in stride as it's expected where I work. All of us review him, as he reviews us.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:12 AM
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You aren't putting a gun to your head, though. In this analogy, you would have the chance to inspect the gun and determine if it's loaded (dating and engagement). Marriage isn't Russian roulette unless you don't know your partner very well. Skill issue tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 12:44 AM
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Men, according to your own quote
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:00 PM
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Whose Car Crashes Are Deadlier? Men. The IIHS reports that crashes with male drivers are more “severe.” Another study, done by Scottish researchers in 2004, stated that male drivers caused 94% of accidents that caused death or bodily harm. From your link lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:29 PM
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https://www.consumeraffairs.com/insurance/male-vs-female-driving-statistics.html Not even close
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:02 PM
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Yes, it holds true when you normalize by miles driven.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:55 PM
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By miles, women get into fewer crashes than men too. If men were just as risk-averse in their driving as women are, women would get into more crashes on average. Yeah no shit... That's why men get into more crashes than women. Men drive in riskier ways. If this were false, insurance wouldn't charge men more
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:54 PM
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Men get into more crashes than women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:38 PM
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NIH's NCBI site is broken and now I can't do my job properly. Making America great again one website at a time 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:18 PM
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It's math. If you are attractive to 50% of people, and 50% of people will say yes if you approach them, and at the same time, more people are approaching the other person because they're also attractive to 50% of people, then it makes sense that attractive people would pair up at high frequencies. If only 10% of people find you attractive, then it's also just less likely that there will be mutual attraction between you and anyone, not just attractive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:17 PM
3

Only on red pill dumbass logic. In reality women like sex too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:25 AM
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No, you are connecting two separate concepts without any good reason to. Not everyone cheats because they're unsatisfied with their sex life and their partner isn't getting them off
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:21 AM
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That's not what you said, though, was it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:06 AM
11

Imagine thinking ethics and morals are bad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:56 AM
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If you've been at your job for that long you've almost certainly lost a ton of money compared to your worth You also didn't mention marriage, did you marry this partner at any point?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:55 AM
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Cope harder
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:17 AM
0

Based on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:03 AM
2

Are you trying to sell me on the idea that Melania Trump is a good catch? She seems... vile to me. I dunno man, I would not trade my wife for any of the women you've mentioned
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:30 AM
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He influences me in the sense that I'll get fired if I call him out on his coke-fueled fantasies, but not in any philosophical sense No CEO outside my own company's CEO influences me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:19 AM
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Think of like a 32 year old, 6’5 CEO whose father owns a sports team. He’s not an average man You're right, he's probably a sociopath
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:16 AM
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Bwahahahaha Women's weakness is crypto????? Brother this might be the most delusional take I've seen here yet. Women are actively repulsed by crypto bros
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:15 AM
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It's all fuckin nonsense, they just don't let that get in the way of a good rage
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:09 AM
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I mean, Lilith is insane. But she and other women are like 10% of the insanity here if we are being real
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:08 AM
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There were 62 million married couples in the US in 2023, or 124m people There are 255m adults in the US So just under half of all adult men are currently married (not even considering dating) So no, the average guy is not having significant problems finding a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:13 AM
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Nobody says that every man behaves that way though. Who's told you all men wish for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:06 AM
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You expect me to take that seriously? It's not a legitimate grievance in the slightest
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:00 AM
10

Your recent grievances include that women you think should fuck you don't
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:55 AM
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no they're not lol, those grievances are dismissed on their face because they tend to be stupid grievances. I've never had anyone dismiss any of my grievances because some guy thought that way about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:13 AM
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i've been told here that i should hang if i date a fat woman, as a traitor to my sex. i don't think the problem is women overreacting to the crazy people here, i think the problem is the crazy people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:31 PM
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This doesn't really explain anything. How are they dating, proposing, and planning weddings inside of a few months? Are these arranged marriages or something? I could not imagine deciding on a wife that quickly, but then to arrange everything seems impossible on that timeline.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:07 PM
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So they dated, proposed and set up a wedding all inside of a year? That seems logistically damn near impossible to me. Were they all getting married in the courthouse or something? What's the timeline for these people?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:01 PM
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Man heard "warm me up first or don't bother" and he just caught the last part
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:52 PM
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This happened to seven of your friends? They went from maidenless to married to a hot girl inside of a year? Doubt.png
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:46 PM
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I'm not a bear, I don't maul people. My rights are not threatened by feminism. Take your bullshit elsewhere man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:04 AM
1

I think I phrased it poorly - I mean that the reason it's illegal has nothing to do with libel. I didn't mean to imply that it's legal
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 02:00 AM
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oh man, you are delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 01:55 AM
2

No, I disagree. Do you ask to see the cut of meat at a restaurant before buying a steak dinner?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:35 PM
4

It is both. I will see individual flowers and decide which ones I think she will like best, and make a bouquet. Knowing the species is not enough to make sure it will be just right. Sometimes I go and pick them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:28 PM
3

Maybe it's just my experience but I have had a bad experience trying to order flowers for delivery. They are often poorly-kept
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:23 PM
2

I gave my sister a year of moviepass back for Christmas one year, when it was like $10/mo for unlimited movies Sadly, they folded before she could even fully use it, but she said she loved it. It's a gift that can't otherwise be practically purchased, because I'm not gonna buy her 3-4 movies a week all year like this gave her access to
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:22 PM
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Yes, like that. I think the difference is that steak tends to be a lot less personal - most people agree on what a good steak looks like, it is much easier to find a steak subscription that would always nail it. Flowers are really something you should look at before buying IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:19 PM
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No, I would not be upset at receiving a subscription for something I like, but I get why she's annoyed at the flower thing. If my wife got me a subscription to flowers I'd be a little annoyed. Flowers are a very personal gift, typically reflecting what you think they would like and that you thought of her in that moment, and a monthly subscription to it indicates that you did not select these flowers for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:13 PM
1

This is not illegal because of the information being false, you're completely missing the point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:03 PM
1

I know women that I'd consider a lot uglier than her
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:58 PM
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Not really, you're just locked into the idea that people are all attracted to the same types.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:49 PM
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That woman is not very ugly to my eyes. She's not a model, or making my heart beat faster or anything, but I'd say she looks okay. She's hardly mw2 shirt guy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:45 PM
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Oh yeah? What, you're just putting hidden mics in the middle of their social circles and leaving them be? What the hell are you talking about rn? How do you have any sense of what women talk about in the absence of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:43 PM
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Oh so this isn't ever going to happen, thank god
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:39 PM
3

When your life's goals include being a reincarnated Hunter Moore, you know you've fucked up bad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:38 PM
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Not only would I not pay for any such report, I would also tell my prospective partner that this info is being sold about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:37 PM
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do you have reading comprehension issues or something
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:28 PM
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do you have reading comprehension issues or something
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:28 PM
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they already did profit off of them, you're too late for that now. Or are these companies gonna return the profits they made off these workers to them along with that flight home?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:22 PM
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Dear fucking lord, why would "immigrant who just came here" mean "illegal" to you? The ignorance is astounding
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:21 PM
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No, but you're sure happy to make all sorts of profits off them, and that seems fucked to me if you're not going to treat them right. Pick both or neither
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:20 PM
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Nobody is talking about illegal immigrants. Don't weasel out of your bullshit now
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:19 PM
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We're not talking about people who immigrated illegally, read the comments again buddy They're saying that the descendants of George Washington and shit should get better treatment than the guy who came here legally and became a citizen
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:17 PM
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What a crock of shit. You don't get to accept these immigrants, profit off their labor for years, then refuse to give them equal status under the law because their daddy wasn't here 300 years ago. They're not the ones ignoring hard work of others, you are. Immigrants made this country what it is today just as much as the founding fathers. Who do you think made the Internet, the hot dog, the convenience store, the electric guitar, cell phones? Who do you think made New York City and Los Angeles t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:00 PM
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Getting sushi with my friend, later I need to do some work because I was not very productive on Friday
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:58 PM
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Keep going. How would this help someone on either end of the tail, versus just paying attention to the other person and seeing what kind of venter/decompressor they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:57 PM
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These generalizations aren't helping anybody Like let's assume you live your life based on this generalization. Who is helped by knowing this "knowledge"?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:26 PM
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Albert you fool
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:24 PM
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I dunno - my parents both divorced and neither of them liked my wife very much, and didn't think we would last. We have been together almost 13 years now. Never really talked about my relationship with parents, though they did teach me how to be an adult and I think my dad and stepmom were good role models of a relationship that works practically. Maybe in general it would be a good idea, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:10 AM
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They overturned Roe, the term tradwife has taken off in conservative circles, the last Republican vice president called his wife Mother, rolling back insurance requirements to cover hormonal birth control, Title X funding issues leading to worse access to women's health (not even just abortion, all kinds of reproductive health)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:24 AM
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have you experienced this? did you feel fulfilled after hookups when you felt lonely before? doesn't seem to track with any of my experience or that of people I know
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:16 AM
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It isn't that - I've spent time training Gemini and it's trained to handle a lot of subjective questions in this way - refuse to take a side and explain pros and cons, before posing the question back to the user
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:28 AM
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Did you write this with AI?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:53 AM
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The R party is not more socially liberal than it was 20 years ago when it comes to women and their role in society, or even 30. I'm less sure about it before then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:19 AM
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This is a false dichotomy, nothing more. You're assuming the black pill as true
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:17 AM
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We tease each other on occasion but I'd say it's quite rare and never very serious. We know other men who act like that, we just don't really enjoy spending time with people who act that way, so they don't make it into the friend group very easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:01 AM
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My boys have never attempted to establish a hierarchy like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 11:15 PM
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I've never noticed this in my friend group, and there are a couple virgins in that group. Nobody teases or makes fun of them for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:34 PM
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is that what you think that in-group bias means? Nobody will ever suffer hardships?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:38 AM
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huh? I'm responding to your example
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 10:00 PM
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most men don't talk the way you describe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:57 PM
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do you think that RP is the normal male mindset? because it's not
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:33 PM
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dohohoho men definitely have in-group bias what are you talking about? how can you look at our society and deduce that men only recently developed in-group bias?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 07:56 PM
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I read my comment again just to be sure, and I have no idea how you concluded that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:28 AM
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where did I say we need to fix men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 12:59 AM
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This is it right here. I feel incredibly lucky to have a wife who allows me to be vulnerable, and even she didn't fully understand the extent to which we are raised not to be. It's so deeply systemic, there's nothing that one woman is gonna be able to do to fix that fully. We've gotta raise boys better as a society if we're gonna fix that - give them the room to be vulnerable without backlash early so they learn to expect that, instead of the opposite. I have a stepmom and I love her to death, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:01 AM
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There's still time to delete this post and come back when you have a sense of what you're talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:25 AM
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Of course they should stand trial. Imagine a world where somebody could only be convicted of a crime once. You could kill a guy, do your time, and then become a hitman and kill all you want. Every pimp or gang member or fraudster would spend a little time in jail as a way of breaking into the business.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:22 AM
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bruh you did not just write all of that while solely relying on movie tropes as evidence is this post supposed to be a joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:27 PM
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Again, an epidemic doesn't mean there is no other cause or that it can't be solved. The obesity epidemic exists regardless of cause. The COVID epidemic existed regardless of cause. There's no point in splitting the hair you're splitting. Many men are finding it difficult to make and keep close connections
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:06 PM
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I'd rather do acid and gain some humility
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:04 PM
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If enough people are struggling with loneliness, it's still an epidemic, even if you think it can be solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:55 PM
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Okay DARE it's time to go to bed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:53 PM
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this is what AWALT does to your brain. You become blind to the clear fact that people of the same sex are still very different people
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:02 PM
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No, what you're describing would not be considered love bombing under any reasonable definition. Love bombing is when that's being done specifically to manipulate a person. The abuser will cycle between giving ridiculous amounts of insincere affection and attention and gifts (like every single interaction for weeks) to going ice-cold as soon as the victim does anything the abuser doesn't like. This is done with the intention of changing the victim's behavior. "You fall out of line at all, you do…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:23 PM
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I'm not disagreeing with you, I'm saying that I see people using these terms with other people too, whether it's talking about family, or women talking about men they're currently in a relationship with (i.e. not rejected), or themselves in the case of terms like ADHD/autism self-diagnoses
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:17 PM
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Tbh with you, very few men use the term "wall" or consider women to hit one at a certain age. This is RP ideology, not mainstream, and most people would disagree with the notion of one existing. As I get older, I find I remain attracted to people around my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:58 PM
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Frankly I'm starting to think windmill is a troll from the RP side, that's how bad she's presenting these arguments This whole post is set up as a perfect ragebait, right down to 'women vs males' as a response to 'men vs females'
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:55 PM
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this man thinks that since he'd fuck any woman, your statement can't be true
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 08:17 PM
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in this moment, i am euphoric. Not because of any phony chad's blessing, but because I am enlightened by my own profile
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:59 PM
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don't be obtuse and pretend this could have happened just as easily without these tech companies, you're not fooling anybody
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:46 PM
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Tech companies run the algorithms that show these to people. It's not like tiktok users subscribed to a psych newsletter from a quack
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:16 PM
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I see people of all types using these terms wrong in many situations - family life, friendships, romantic relationships, work life. I don't think it's just for dealing with rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:17 PM
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More broadly, it seems like people have been incorrectly using therapy/psychology/sociology terms. Perhaps because of social media spreading these terms in a feedback loop, but I can't say for sure why. I've noticed this with lovebombing, gaslighting, narcissism, ADHD, autism, boundaries as terms. I'm not so sure it's deliberately being done to protect egos, but it does definitely seem to be a trend
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:04 PM
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I'm just saying that you can't give a single shit about being labeled an incel by people you do not care about. Have fun with your life
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 05:33 PM
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My wife has used my pocket pussy on me during sex lmao Life's too short to give a shit about society and the faster you figure that out, the more fun you'll have
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 03:46 PM
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You think that the single mother epidemic stems from the demonization of masculinity?? Citation needed. What stops a divorced man from taking care of his kid the way my father did after he and my mother divorced?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 03:42 PM
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Joke's on you, pegging is fun for me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:36 AM
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Your example is a TV show with a female protagonist? Seriously? Get real dude. I've never seen that series and lo and behold, it isn't preventing me from being masculine in any sense of the word. Frankly I have no idea why a fictional television series would prevent you from being masculine. If it does, you might just be bitch made. Notice I asked you which aspects of masculinity are under attack and you didn't answer that at all. Would you care to?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 05:44 AM
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I meant you!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 05:14 AM
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In what ways do you feel masculinity is demonized by society at large? What aspects of masculinity do you think are under attack which do not deserve to be? I consider myself quite masculine and I've never felt pressure to be less masculine, only more masculine by the other men around me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 04:23 AM
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I find it interesting how many people here seem to think that I'm subservient to my wife just because I'm blue pill
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:03 AM
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Bullshit. You're idolizing the past when you say something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:49 PM
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That's not vague! Attraction is too complex to boil down to a few sentences, as much as you want to pretend it's just hitting check boxes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:47 PM
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even in the US, i was unable to get student loans without registering with Selective Service at 18, just in case the US starts drafting soldiers again. I wasn't even a citizen at the time. It's hardly limited to authoritarian regimes. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Selective_Service_System
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:44 AM
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you're not attempting to answer my question. bye
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:35 AM
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Russia
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:35 AM
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the patriarchy hurts most men too, just not the ones in power. ask an 18-yo drafted soldier how well the patriarchy is going for him
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:26 AM
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I want you to answer my question. You're not getting to the core of my issue, you are attempting to reframe it so that you can argue against it more effectively in the abstract.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:16 AM
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bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:13 AM
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I agree, but I did not write safety anywhere in my comment. You're already trying to generalize my argument somewhere else. What's wrong with men being taken seriously in DV situations?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:07 AM
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There's no inherent reason that societies must be hierarchical and I do not believe we are better off with them. You're treating right-wing ideals as a natural phenomenon. Which of the specific things I listed do you take issue with?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:54 PM
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we got engaged in 2016, but we aren't very good at planning weddings
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 09:48 PM
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we married after 8.5 years of dating
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 09:07 PM
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one of those situations where you can't be the change you wish to see in the world lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 08:48 PM
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FWIW I don't want a society that prioritizes men over women, I just want one that treats us all equally based on sex/gender. I think there are aspects of our society that favor men and others that favor women. Both sides of that can be fixed. I think that a society that prioritizes men would not put so many men in jail, give men legitimate paths to a career so that they do not get sucked into lives of petty crime, it would be more cautious about wars and drafting young men to fight in them, it w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 08:46 PM
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Rape is an action. If I sell illegal drugs and didn't get caught, I still sold them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 07:47 PM
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Yeah you're assuming the argument you're trying to make and nothing more at this point. Incredibly weak argument that should be disregarded
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:14 PM
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Okay so quote those interesting things
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:13 PM
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So what did he write that conferred to you that feminists pressured him into conspiring with the DA? Please quote the relevant parts of his decision if that is your basis for your thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:54 PM
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You can't name a single one of these feminists, can you? If not, how can you declare their ideology to be feminism in the first place? This entire premise is tenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:47 PM
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But you're willing to declare that without evidence. Why does a different standard apply for you accusing the judges of something, compared to me accusing Cosby of doing something he admitted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:40 PM
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Lol do you think this is a movie or something? You're so fast and loose accusing the judges of being in cahoots with DAs, but you're so strict when it comes to accusing the man who has literally admitted to the actions he is accused of
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:36 PM
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Yep there it is, you aren't good in bed (nice dick owner here so don't come at me with that)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:26 PM
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The fuck? Helllll no. Foreplay is crazy important for both me and her. Absolutely insane notion to me that someone would attempt to skip it on a regular basis
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:23 PM
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You're ignoring the rather large elephant in the room: Cosby, Weinstein, trump and spacey are all rapists and the outcome of the court case doesn't change that. The DAs fucked their cases up, and justice was not served, but the evidence against Cosby and Weinstein especially is compelling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:22 PM
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Good Lord man, address the meat of the comment. Most households are dual income. That means most households aren't single provider. Reality doesn't line up with your assertion. Evidence or fuck off
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 06:42 PM
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stats What is with this sub and supplying YouTube videos of people yapping in place of actual stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 08:24 AM
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Show me stats for that if you believe that's true, because nothing I've seen supports that this is a dominant opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:51 AM
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We do change, but less fundamentally. Someone can become a totally different person from 18 to 24 but a 25 year old who is happy with their life will probably just be an even better version of themselves by 45
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:49 AM
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Incels are black pill once they stop trying. They're often using RP techniques and failing with them, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:46 AM
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I'm not replying on her behalf, I'm replying because calling this a false accusation makes things harder for men trying to get false accusations taken more seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:35 AM
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I forgot which Chief was dating Taylor Swift, I thought it was Mahomes and you were implying infidelity lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:31 AM
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Good luck comrade
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:31 AM
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This isn't a line of argument I've seen here much. Note that what you're saying is different than arguing that the people you're describing are "low value". I don't think they are worth any less than anyone else and shouldn't be treated as such, but I also strongly believe you should marry people who you are attracted to and who share your values
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:29 AM
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Are they cute to each other or are they that old grumpy couple? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:28 AM
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No, I would not end things, but I would be devastated for a long time. It wouldn't be okay
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:23 AM
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I married my wife in part because I cannot imagine a life without her. She had a recent health scare and it was perhaps the worst I've ever felt in my life. We are well past any pretense of "it'll be okay if we split up" and that's why we are comfortable being married for life
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:56 AM
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"deep cultural expectations" just means "shit I made up" when it doesn't describe how most of our culture operates. Most households are dual income.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:42 AM
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I have no struggles dating, I have been married for years. But there it is again: you get to decide what makes a good man
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:14 AM
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And every incel spits this nonsense as a copiate. RP/manosphere people have been telling me this for the entire time we've been together. It's brainwashing designed to pit the sexes against each other. We built everything we have together. Also, please let me know where you're getting a pension in 2025 because I need to apply there
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:27 AM
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Nice try, Big Duck lobbyist
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:12 AM
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The divorce rate is nowhere near 60% of people who get married. It's jacked up by a relatively small group of people who are marrying and divorcing many times. 43% of first marriages fail
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:07 AM
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r/niceguys
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:01 AM
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Did you stick around just so that they'd see you leave? Because that's odd
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 11:57 PM
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It's a political term for a powerless position, usually due to being replaced already in an election. Biden is currently a lame duck
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 11:55 PM
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Women tell you this on dates or what? How do they bring this up?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 11:42 PM
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I've known my wife for about 16 years now, dating for almost 13, married for 4. We have lived with each other 11 years now. I know her better than anyone else. She's not going to drastically change as a person at this point. Unless she has a hit to the head that completely flips her personality overnight, I'm not going to fall out of love with her. I feel more strongly about my love for her than ever. My advice is to wait a little longer to get married to that you are more confident you actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 11:28 PM
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What's an ioi? I'm pronouncing it "yaoi" in my head but I'm pretty sure you don't mean that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 11:26 PM
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I do not care what you think a "good man" is and I'm so, so tired of women who seem content to decide what that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 11:13 PM
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My wife and I share all of our money. But who's out here saying they need a provider from date 1? You're thinking of sugar babies
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:16 PM
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The only reason that my wife is doing it, and not me, is because her job makes about 15% of the salary of my job. We cannot survive on one income with a baby if that salary is hers. It has nothing to do with gender roles, which we generally do not like or stick to in our house. It's just practical. If she made a lot more than me, I would be a stay at home dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:00 PM
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Everyone who disagrees with me is white knighting I'm married bud, I have no interest in white knighting
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:27 PM
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You're looking for the word assertion or assumption. That's not an accusation lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:49 PM
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False accusations wut? Who said anything about an accusation?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:17 PM
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Nah we're not going any further down this bullshit road. It's a fucked up sentiment and I'm not going to debate you further on it. It's obvious that you feel you get to decide somebody's identity for them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:51 PM
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It makes sense for stay-at-home mom situations - the extra income from a second job is often completely eaten up by daycare anyway, so why not have your kid grow up with his parents instead of daycare all the time? Children need providers, not women, that's the part you're missing. I work at home and my wife works in an office. When we have kids she is going to stop working and transition into a full time SAHM, and i'm going to continue working from home, because I make more money. Our kid will …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:49 PM
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You aren't the arbiter of what makes a Real Man(TM). All men are real men. You don't get to remove somebody's personal identity because you don't like some of their actions. Your opinion on this is worthless
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:47 PM
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But it doesn't mean you taste less than them. In the analogy, liking a smaller percentage of pics doesn't mean you are less visual
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 01:44 AM
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for the same crimes The reality is that while men do commit more crimes, they're also the victims of court and police bias and it makes that kind of stat useless for your claim
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 07:01 PM
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Not a chance. If they were a friend I'd help them realign so that they are focused on what's actually important. Saying goodbyes, getting affairs in order, making sure your emotional needs are under control, making sure you feel comfortable as you decline
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:58 PM
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Using jail stats to prove sex differences would be ignoring bias in the courts - men (especially black and Latino men) are proven to be arrested and convicted at higher rates for the same crimes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:43 PM
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Huh? Why does that prove it is true? If I like 20% of ice cream flavors it doesn't mean that I don't have working taste buds or don't like ice cream
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:42 PM
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I'm the exception here but not in reality. Most of the couples I know are like me - similar incomes, or variable incomes and the wife was not getting into the relationship while there was a big income gap. My mom and dad, my sister and BIL, my dad and my stepmom later, my brother and SIL, my FIL and his wife, my MIL and her bf, they all follow this pattern. Most of my cousins too. My best friend. My oldest friend. They all got into relationships like mine The red pill does not reflect the realit…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:29 PM
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I'm leftist, not poly, and I have sex literally every single day Keep up with the stereotypes if you're gonna use em
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:17 PM
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But are you progressing into any kind of relationship with them? Are you doing what you actually want to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:26 AM
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and how is that method working out for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:23 AM
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You know, saying that something is reality or required doesn't actually make it so. This is a debate sub, do better than this nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:20 AM
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and how is that method working out for you? it sounds like you're having a lot of first dates that scare you and then not much else. not sure what point there is in pretending that women need sex on the first date to respect you or some dumb shit like that. you're just giving yourself STI scares because you're horny, be honest with yourself about it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:16 AM
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We really need to do a better job teaching kids how to do research
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:55 AM
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Maybe you keep getting STIs because you keep trying to fuck women as soon as possible. Never had a woman turn me down because I asked them if they had a recent test they could show me. Lo and behold, I've never caught an STI. Crazy how that works
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:51 AM
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where do you live? come to the west coast my man, we will welcome you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:28 AM
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either woke leftists are poly sex dorks or we don't have any sex at all, you've gotta pick a consistent stereotype to stick to
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:27 AM
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That might not be what they meant to say, that might not be how you understood it, but that doesn't change the fact that us exactly what they said. You realize this is how idioms, metaphor, slang, inside jokes, etc all work right? If everybody understands what is meant then that's just how language works
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:46 AM
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You completely lost me around the part where you start talking about how women are attracted to stereotypically masculine behavior. I have found the opposite to be true - women are not so attracted to masculinity that they will ignore looks, and women often do not feel safe at all around men doing stereotypically masculine things. I also don't think half the things you listed are even masculine necessarily. Athleticism and ambition are not masculine, just ask Biles or Ledecky or Merkel that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 10:39 PM
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The post reads like you do not have experience with women and you're basing your impression of them off of media
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 10:32 PM
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But that's not what you wrote is it? Nobody ever told me the actions of rapists were my fault or that I'm guilty as well, or that it's my job to stop women from being raped
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 10:32 PM
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Because men are told that we individually are guilty of the crimes of all men, that it is our fault there is a patriarchy, that we have to stop the changing room comments, that we have to stop the rapists, that we have to stop the violent men from attacking women. I've never been told any of these things even once
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 10:21 PM
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What is your body count? Because yes, this seems completely off the mark to me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 10:19 PM
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Outkast
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 09:54 PM
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Sounds like you suck at persuasion and you don't want to get better at it, so you just want a "I'm the Man" button instead If I can't agree on something with my wife I try and show her what I'm seeing, and vice versa. Have you ever taken a class on public speaking or debate, where you had to lay out your arguments with your audience in mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 09:48 PM
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I mean, if someone told me that men did some bad thing, and that statement was true, that doesn't necessarily mean they're accusing me of thinking or acting in the same way as those men. There's a huge difference between "men denied women the right to vote" and following it up with "because of that, I suspect you will try to keep me from voting". One is a statement of fact, and the other is sexism
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 09:47 PM
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This is delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 03:55 PM
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When I started dating my wife she made more than I did. I make more now but we both make good money these days. It's almost like it's not useful to paint with these broad strokes about every gender issue
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 03:54 PM
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What, did the condoms stop getting sold at your local store or something? Did your doc stop offering vasectomies? How are you possibly having a kid you didn't intend to have?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 09:16 AM
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are these alphas in the room with us right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 03:47 AM
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the argument is that most women do not have wildly unpredictable emotions and you shouldn't marry those that do. I find my wife to be pretty predictable and I don't have to do anything like you've described, even though I love her dearly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 03:37 AM
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He doesn't do it because he's worried about false allegations lol, he does it because he believes it's a sin. Otherwise he'd just record the conversations. Most WH conversations are recorded anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:07 PM
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Well yes then, I'm fine with a video like what you described. The line I drew is in my first comment
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:14 PM
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I read just the title to my wife and she burst out laughing Maybe don't marry a crazy person who is unpredictable and causes you constant stress
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:44 PM
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I'm not sure what you mean by this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:18 PM
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You shouldn't be in the business of representing people if you won't talk to them. Find another line of work in that case. You wouldn't be a vegan and then go work in a slaughterhouse and refuse to work with any of the meats there. Talking to women is fundamentally part of a governor's job. It's worth mentioning Pence is not doing this for his own protection, he's doing it because he's a religious nutter and believes it to be sinful
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:54 PM
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Pence does not meet with women in any capacity unless another man is present. Not just his colleagues, his constituents and personal relationships. How is a woman, or group of women, meant to talk to him about the issues they face? You're asking the wrong question. Why the fuck was that not a disqualifying event for Mike Pence? For all that bullshit about Obama implementing Sharia law...this feels awfully close
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:05 AM
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https://www.walkfree.org/global-slavery-index/map/#mode=data:dimension=p there are absolutely slaves all over the developed world lol, why are you bothering to make this shit up? some of the highest rates are also some of the wealthiest nations per capita, such as the UAE
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:35 AM
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you gotta get your shit together man, you won't make it through life like this. seek therapy. i'm serious. you cannot let something like that rattle you that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:29 AM
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we have more slaves now than back then, so I'd argue that we shouldn't be talking about slavery as if it's over, but that's besides the point. As I stated, I'm not saying slavery had no point, it very clearly had an economic point for the slave owners. I'm saying that slavery did nothing to help our survival and instead resulted in countless preventable and early deaths because we decided some people were less than human
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:28 AM
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lmao grow some skin. what is this, the first time you ever got called a bad name or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:24 AM
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ahh you're a troll carry on
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:20 AM
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That's absolutely not being stoic, that is a display of affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:17 AM
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i guarantee you that years lost to smoking vaaaasstly outweigh whatever quality of life is coming from that smoking executive's paychecks. that guy would have survived without issue in another industry
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:13 AM
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Thats basically the same as getting a false allegation in terms of life ruining events. Is it tho
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:12 AM
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We have been together 12 years, and we share a car. Our old one died in 2018, but we didn't replace it until we needed to in 2020, when we picked out a lightly-used car together that met both our requirements. Both of us wanted a sedan, I wanted a manual and she didn't, neither of us wanted a very fancy car but I wanted Carplay, I wanted a fast car and she wanted a slow one. I cared about warranty, she cared about low miles in general more than warranty. So we got a slow manual sedan that was 10…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:45 AM
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I agree with everything you've written, but I think you've missed my point. I'm not saying that none of these things serve a function, I'm saying that their purpose is antithetical to survival. Smoking or watching porn or drinking makes you feel like you did something productive... but you didn't. We do it because it makes us feel good, not because it helps with survival or having kids. We had slaves because we thought it made economic sense, not because it helped us survive as a species or indi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:10 AM
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okay then just say that, instead of this fucking orbit nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:56 AM
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I don't like that Mike Pence used a sky deity to decide not to interact with half the population he purports to represent That's not the same thing as someone doing that in their private life. Mike Pence is literally meant to represent people he will not communicate with. I don't care if you want to talk to women less, though i think it's mostly unfounded because the consequences are not the same for us as men. You do you. But Mike Pence is not you or me. If Kamala said she'd be refusing to talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:53 AM
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Ukraine could stop, but they'd lose their country. Russia could stop without losing their country at all, and they'd be fine, which is why everyone hates Russia in this conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:50 AM
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As sea ice melts the Arctic Ocean will become navigable soon. Not within Trump or Putin's lifetime, though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:48 AM
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you ever try to attract women as a bald man before?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:46 AM
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Are men unable to do any of these things?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:30 AM
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Strange that you interpreted my advice as homoerotic but you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:27 PM
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Child abandonment is a felony, at least in my state. Adoption agencies vet the adoptees to ensure the child is cared for. Fucking off and letting the other parent do everything does not ensure the child is cared for. And you can't put a child up for adoption if the other parent disagrees and wishes to take custody of the kid. Are you asking why you are responsible for a child that is yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:20 PM
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You act like you're arguing in good faith in the first place. I'm mocking your bad faith argument. Margaret Thatcher existing is not a trump card against any societal push back women get as authority figures
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:00 PM
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That's super cool, I had no idea. It reads they saw a parent do it to two offspring, and one other adult helping "another community member". I'm assuming that's an adult but not a mate in that case, though it wouldn't surprise me if we just haven't seen it happen between mates yet
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:58 PM
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Oh, you say it's hard for men? What about Elon Musk? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:49 PM
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I think only porn made with exes. At that point it's like you're being nostalgic about the ex. Otherwise anything involving kids or animals or illegal shit I guess Edit: tbh anybody else we know in life, not just exes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:33 PM
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Are there any animals who do this for their mate? Or animals that yearn for a mate who can do this for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:32 PM
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What's my plan for what? For dating? I'm done with dating as I am happily married. My general advice is to treat women no differently than you treat men. Of course there will be little exceptions to such a rule but it's served me well. Don't lie about who you are, don't do dumb PUA shit, get to know a girl and decide if she's good for you or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:31 PM
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Hard disagree. Many of our cultural/historical/social learnings have been actively worse for our own survival (either individually, or as a society). There are countless examples of this: suicide cults, ritual castration in the middle ages, slavery, torture, our modern food consumption habits, cigarettes and alcohol, esports, porn, the TV show Jackass. Many of our cultural and social learnings still just come from what feels good or what makes a bit of sense to us, not necessarily with survival …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:23 PM
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I have found that typically, when my friends have indicated this, they match with women who are immediately trying to get pregnant, not women who would like kids with a future husband
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:16 PM
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What are you talking about? Desire for medicine when sick is not a trait we share with other animals. Other animals are unaware of the concept of medicine
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:12 PM
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Why would this law only apply to American citizens? Kind of a strange specification. I'm an immigrant so that stood out to me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:04 PM
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I am a biologist and I see no biology in this post. Maybe evo psych but that's a much shakier foundation
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:57 PM
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These are the 3-month relationships? Or your longer ones? Or the ones your friends tell you they're dealing with? That's a wild list if it's 3 months. I'm usually the one itching for a newer car but I stop myself because I'm in charge of the money and I know that's not responsible of me. My wife has never asked for a new car before. She has asked if we can look at a bigger apartment, but gave good reasons for it and stressed that it's not a non-negotiable thing, and she can make things work if i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:53 PM
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Do you realize that even if that was true, that's a blip when it comes to the amount of sex all women have? You might as well be asking why we are getting fatter when the 100m dash WR keeps coming down
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:47 PM
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I'm talking about actually taking care of, and parenting, your children, not paying child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:46 PM
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Of course you don't get to ten just from that, but it's foundational. You're probably not getting there without a good understanding of how to eat pussy well
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:41 PM
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TIL the extremely poor and imprisoned are incapable of parenting and all prison sentences are for life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:38 PM
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idk what you want me to say, this is a debate sub and we agree, so why are we arguing somebody else's strawman?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 01:51 AM
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no, your topic has been jerked to death here. I want to know why people hold this conflicting mindset of "deadbeat is a horrible label and i shouldn't be called that because i asked for an abortion" versus "it's not so horrible to me that i'd start being in my kid's life over it"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 01:49 AM
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