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Red Pill TheoryRemyBucksington/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 08:08 PM
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Building PowerRemyBucksington/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 12:54 AM
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Blue Pill ExampleRemyBucksington/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 04:32 AM
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RemyBucksington/r/askTRP08/12/17 02:00 AM
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This is why you never ask. Once you ask, you’ve lost.
/r/askMRP20/05/24 10:20 AM
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Vincent Adultman, you sly son of a bitch, you
/r/PussyPassDenied27/07/19 12:47 PM
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Nothing as dramatic as this, but I took out a cute Ukrainian girl who was very obviously disappointed with my appearance despite my best efforts to make my pictures as honest as possible. I labored hard to keep the conversation going, made her laugh some, but the sheer disappointment on her face was guttural. I was so relieved when it was all over.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 11:45 PM
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I knew someone was going to post this, lmao
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/19 11:25 AM
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Just needed to stop in and say I’m sorry you lost your boy. He would’ve grown up to be a hell of a man under your guidance.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/19 11:57 PM
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Take my upvote for remembering that red-pilled men are still capable of being good men.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 03:13 AM
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Read your title. Leave.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 01:23 AM
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It’s been about two years since I’ve converted, and any time I’m seeing a girl, whether she shows evidence of it or not, I have dreams she’s cheating. I wake up and shrug it off.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 09:16 AM
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Unless you have a new job comfortably lined up, don’t.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 02:51 AM
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The wall of text? Get the fuck out of here.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 03:15 PM
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Really that there are no shortcuts, dude. None. Live well below your means, even if it means moving to a lower cost of living area. Do Financial Peace University.
/r/askMRP14/11/18 03:06 PM
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Dave Ramsey.
/r/askMRP14/11/18 12:58 PM
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Laugh and next pal.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 12:57 AM
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Good shit. Hold your ground and dump her.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 05:21 PM
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Well, you could have messed up worse, for sure. Dude, just breathe in and laugh about it. That’s just the nature of women. And if she’s telling the truth and it’s only four? You’ve got yourself a keeper.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 11:52 PM
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No dude, not that at all. Bro you shouldn’t even ask, let alone care, how many people she’s slept with. All you should have is the calm assurance that you’re the best of them. That’s it.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 11:24 PM
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Bro, I want to add quality to this conversation, but you are a massive pussy for even inquiring about this.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 11:20 PM
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My guy with the two y’s lol
/r/askTRP27/10/18 10:04 PM
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What’s next? If you’re not an idiot, sex is. Or it would have been, if you didn’t play into her frame so quickly.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 12:49 AM
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Since it’s family, I’ll entertain this, but remember: the best mantra for this question is “Not my monkeys, not my circus.” Simple. Email him some of the most iconic readings. The truth will permeate his stubbornness eventually.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 06:59 PM
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This guy gets it.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 04:46 PM
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Bro don’t do that.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 02:20 PM
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Found the Northeasterner.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 06:17 AM
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Abort. Not worth the risk, nor the headache.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 07:25 PM
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Detach. If you’re thinking about it this much, you should intentionally stop thinking about it. She’s either busy or fucking other guys, and neither one is your concern.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 07:12 PM
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That entirely depends on your preference. Scientifically, there is no real concrete evidence that one method is better than the other, but I can tell you that psychologically, it’s “cleaner” for some people to drop first and then gain muscle. That’s my case. I’m 6’5” and started at 308 lbs. I’m now at 277 and plan on bulking once I maintain for about a month at 180lbs.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 07:11 PM
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Remember, TRP is an acceptance philosophy. This is just how women are. And they may not say it, but TRP is how they want us to be. The outrage and shock will subside, and you’ll just feel free.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 11:12 PM
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Brilliant. Direct, to-the-point, a mile above the usual unbalanced rhetoric we see on here.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 09:46 PM
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Let’s not forget how much easier it is to suffer in silence today than it was for the real men of yesteryear. We have instant access to the therapeutic, raw truths of every great man from Marcus Aurelius to Ed Latimore at our fingertips. The frame-reinforcing reading that once would have cost half your day and a trip to the library is now accessible to you while you take a shit. Suffer in silence, boys. Solid post OP.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 02:16 PM
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This is not to detract from OP, but I think we should move to ban these “I’ve seen the light” posts. What does this contribute to sexual strategy? I believe everyone can contribute meaningfully to RP ideology, but most novices don’t know the first thing about this world. To OP: I’m happy you’ve been exposed and am bummed you got burned. It could have been worse. You’ve taken a first step into transitioning into some very discomforting, bitter truths. Hang on for the ride - it will get better.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 01:12 AM
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Shit, that first sentence hits hard. I can tell I’m going to remember it the rest of my life.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 01:08 AM
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I’m going to go on a limb and say that two things fall into the category of “work” for every Unplugged male, even if they are intensely rewarding and enjoyable: Constructive reading Lifting Other than that, normally I just hang out with the guys, slam hoes and bullshit.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 03:09 PM
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Can you take it? Can you keep it? (In this case, ‘keep’ means ‘keep the situation under control, hold frame, avoid oneitis’) If the answers are yes and yes, you should have already been in there.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 02:58 PM
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Let me take another commenter’s idea further. Tyrone mugging you isn’t a question of merit. Can Tyrone take your wallet? Well, assuming he’s armed and you’re rendered incapable of disarming him in a struggle, or you’re unable to get him off of you in self-defense, then yes, he can. Can he keep it? Even Tyrone doesn’t know. There could be police around the corner. For all Tyrone knows, you’re wealthy enough to have him found and killed. The risk he takes on in asking, “Can I keep this wallet and …
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 02:56 PM
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A thoughtful rebuttal, but remember: “If you can take it and you can keep it, it is your right to do so.” Why wasn’t it the Nazis’ right to conquer? Simple: They couldn’t keep it. To expand further, they couldn’t keep it because their ideology and way of life was literally mechanized insanity and foolishness.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 12:53 PM
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Concise and accurate.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 01:46 PM
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Good take on this pal. Like the criminal angle.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 03:13 PM
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The Red Pill is first and foremost a humbling philosophy. As I’m sure you know, it isn’t swallow and instantly become a god - it’s swallow, struggle, succeed and struggle again. The work is never done. Your friend was born into some degree of alpha and will likely never question what you study in depth. It is a proven psychological phenomenon that natural talent is almost always surpassed by hard work and grit when talent doesn’t work hard. You should learn from your friend. You have the skillse…
/r/askTRP27/11/17 11:04 PM
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This. I understand OP’s line of thinking, but the return on investment is too great to ignore a lot of the time if you put in minimal effort. It shouldn’t be a primary venue for pussy, but a side-exercise? Sure. Keep your digital game sharp.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 09:48 PM
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You will not change overnight. You will not change overnight. You will not change overnight. Internalize this: it’s important. Create small, actionable goals. Begin with your weight, because the physical and psychological changes that overflow from results in this area will propel the rest of your self-actualization. Lift heavy, lift often, eat and rest right. Wake up with the sun and fix your sleep schedule. It’ll give you the start you need.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 05:50 PM
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Yeah, but hookers getting paid not for sex, but for straight up attention. So a “man” can say to himself, “This hot girl is paying attention to me.” I literally cringe at this.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 05:37 PM
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Okay, I want to bring up a few points in light of fair objections. 1.) Unplugged men should be excited when they witness women openly act out things like we see on this post. This isn’t cause for nihilism or being upset. It may be depressing on the surface, but it only reinforces the principles we’ve come to live by. It also creates an opening in strategy. What we glean from this is simple: Don’t read a mark’s profiles. They absolutely do not matter. Focus on your appearance, style, etc. And if …
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 04:36 PM
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RM: “Women would rather share a successful man than be saddled to a faithful loser.”
/r/askTRP27/11/17 03:31 PM
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Cut all parties involved, lift, and approach new plates as though this never happened. Remember, though: through indirect communication, your plates should already have an idea that you’re seeing other people. It shouldn’t come as a shock to them.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 03:30 PM
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You’re a young dude, and all of us here root for young blood finding the truth early. But what have you written except a diary entry? My only advice to you is to inhale the sidebar content and let it shape your malleable brain. Don’t be too eager to share just yet; Be eager to experiment. Read the hell out of askTRP and think hard about questions you put together before posting there. Become the alpha of your school, spin your plates, study and get into a good college. One of the by-products of …
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 01:16 PM
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Normally wouldn’t comment, but my post didn’t convey outrage at all. The idea is that women exploiting beta behavior more overtly only more loudly evidences their covert desire for classical masculine traits.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 11:54 AM
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Foreplay and Non-Penetration Skill Learn to eat pussy and work your fingers with unflinching confidence and creativity. Take your time before insertion. Remember that the vagina is designed to accommodate penises large and small. A primed and wet and desperate vagina will contract to take in a smaller penis. Positional Focus Vaginal intercourse is a game of angles. Smaller penises perform better when the man is on top because of the flexibility you have in working angles. Tricks like lifting up …
/r/askTRP27/11/17 05:15 AM
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You did well. The soft next was the move. A hard next (i.e., ghost) could have left her with the impression that you were butthurt. Don’t text her first, do not pursue. The impetus is on her. If she trifles again, hard next.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 04:58 AM
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I disagree. I’ve definitely seen at least 20 in the last week and nearly all of them had a linked Instagram and bio way too creative to be a scammer. Multiple pics too. It’s a rapidly-growing trend for sure.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 04:44 AM
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Honestly, this is going to get mixed reviews, but this is my take: If you are in outstanding shape, get waxed. Not doable if your budget is low. Do not shave body hair. If you’re in okay shape, trim with scissors, but not too short. Just a little off the edges. Be smart about this - if you’re pasty-pale and in shit shape, you’re going to look like a prickly baby if you shave it all off. Better to do a little at a time until you reach a happy medium than take off too much and look like the Michel…
/r/askTRP17/11/17 09:54 PM
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That last sentence is so important. If you’re not competing, you’re losing.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 05:43 PM
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Hit me even harder when I read it again here.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 02:46 AM
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This is all good stuff and a good tempering to the views I shared, but in a small attempt at fairness, I did mention the importance of having beta friends!
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 02:45 AM
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High school is the easiest scene to apply this in. Look at the natural alphas - the jocks, the goons, the overachievers (not the nerds - I mean the straight A quarterback, if any). Ask them questions (without flattery), talk to them and when possible, make them laugh. Dress better, keep quieter and have an “I don’t care” attitude. Hit the weight room and start pulling women. When they see you can, they’ll feel even better about letting you into their circles.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 01:39 AM
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When experience takes the reigns. Solid
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 01:36 AM
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This is fundamental. Alpha looks out for whom? For #1: Himself. Offer Alpha value, Alpha will offer you value in return. My theory: expertise and perspective get you into circles. Commitment to self-improvement - and most importantly, results - keeps you in them.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 12:35 AM
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Thank you for the correction and perspective.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 08:59 PM
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You would know better than I would for sure. What I remember is: In my first read-through of RM, I remember Tomassi saying something about giving a few “consultations”. I’ve also heard of PUA-type paid seminars, and even RedPill -specific therapists from a few “conversion” stories. That and the idea of there being a market for that kinda thing doesn’t really surprise me. Desperate people and disposable income aren’t too hard to find.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 08:47 PM
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If I recall correctly, many of the Manosphere godfathers gave individual consultations as a paid service to men just beginning to transition into TRP. I used to think that was silly until I read the very same FR that OP references above. Men paying for this information were wise in that they weeded out about 80% of the TRP population: Chumps on a soapbox preaching about things they've never done. There's something to be said for proven expertise.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 08:28 PM
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Way to miss the point. Solid work, OP. A brief and powerful reminder of the importance of being about action.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 05:24 AM
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When you’re still fat, don’t wait to get into shape before you practice an abundance mentality. I’ve progressively lost weight since the end of a horrible LTR in May. I have above average looks and height (6’5”), but I was very heavy (300lbs). That said, in my very early TRP days, I would take out girls who would perceive my weight loss and be turned on by it. Part of your “losing weight” frame should be to not call attention to your fat at all. Act and talk like you’re Arnold, but then really p…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 07:11 PM
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I recently had sex with an ex that put on serious weight. It didn’t look like it until after she took her clothes off. I’d been off fapping and resolved to only release when I’m having sex. She had just taken a shower. I go down on her, and have to peel back a hairy fat upper-pussy area to eat her out. It tasted like pure sweat. This woman just showered. How was this even possible? When I’m hitting it from behind after, her cheeks spread open and - you guessed it - I see hair. Got soft 3 times d…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 03:38 AM
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I’m 6’5” and believe that voice and manner of speaking are big parts of frame. If I’m not careful, my voice doesn’t match my stature. For me: different plates, different frames. For the real shit-testers, it’s a glazed look with half-smirk all the time. It’s tough not to look pissy or too serious, so I keep the conversation moving and superficial. Slow, deep voice. I’m careful and say a lot with few words. Lots of “yeah?” and “you think so?” For the more laid-back, laughing types, I let loose a …
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 01:54 AM
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Man was not designed to change overnight. Man should not verbalize his intentions to change to anyone until he’s well on his way to making this change a reality or already achieved his goal. Man is not designed to notice little changes and must document progress to appreciate the full value of what he’s accomplished over the long run. Man has to cultivate grit and expect difficulty.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 12:11 AM
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Early European marriages consisted mainly of a late-30s male married to a young-20s female. I think that’s ideal to this day, but men need to be extremely selective of the woman, particularly the type of man her father is/was and how much of a shit-tester she is when compared to the general population. I’m still for marriage, but a lot of work has to go into searching for the right partner. Even then... AWALT tells us that the marriage has a good chance of failing, but hopefully not before the w…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 12:47 AM
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The unity of the feminine imperative is what makes it so important that more men gain awareness and employ the principles we talk about on here. Women will unflinchingly rush to the defense of the social constructs they’ve used to cement their position in society. Men do not have that same instinct. Collectively as men, we can’t regain primacy without self-awareness and discipline.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 12:59 PM
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I agree. Without that initial oomph, you’re not likely to even be able to swallow TRP. Let’s remember that true men have risen from even lower depths than that, though; near-suicidal men have worked to the height of enlightened alphas. That’s the beauty about this philosophy. To an extent, it’s a meritocracy because no matter what low or high you’re working from, there’s always forward.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 06:40 PM
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