Renaissance2020 Archive

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1	Do you tell a woman how much you like her?	Fundamentals	Renaissance2020	/r/seduction	24/01/20 07:31 PM

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2	Just got rejected and I feel like my heart was broken before I even went on a date In the summer I had a 3-month extremely intense relationship. I loved her more than I've ever loved anything or anyone, but it had a dark side too and I ended up really hating her at the same time. When we finally broke up, she wanted to remain friends (she had this frightening ability to reprogram her mind about who I was to her) but I said no. If I'd stayed friends with her I would now know all the details about her new man and maybe men in plural. It would drive me insane and I might do somet…	/r/seduction	26/01/20 11:38 AM
1	Do you tell a woman how much you like her? Good advice, thank you. I need to do that in person and on dating apps/WhatsApp too. I think I'm a little too good at building comfort and overfo it. Still trying to be Mr Nice Guy, I guess...	/r/seduction	24/01/20 07:54 PM
3	Do you tell a woman how much you like her? Yeah I guess I keep trying to be authentic and tell him how I really feel. But it's not really works out for me... The the sad fact is, it tends to be the case in actual relationships too; an intense 3-month relationship this summer and even a 5-year relationship a decade ago. I make them feel too secure and pretty until they think they can do better than me.... I think I'm going to be a lot more sparing with compliments in the future and to treat it as more of a game that I should win. Fucking …	/r/seduction	24/01/20 07:49 PM
6	Express yourself Unfortunately I think you do have to have a filter. The part where you write " you can't tell a woman you newly date how much you like/love her" resonated with me. I've just done that recently, as she seemed so insecure. I told her not to worry, that she was really attractive and I really liked her. I think my problem is that I was too convincing and she thought " yes, I am very attractive and I think I can do better than you..." I've done this so many times to my detriment in short term and lon…	/r/seduction	24/01/20 05:44 PM
4	Can’t get over first love/relationship that happened years ago In addition to my other answer, this might help: A counselling technique that worked for me was doing an intense focus for 20 minutes a day, split into 2 x 10 mins; talking to myself out loud about 1. What I missed about her & 2. What I didn't miss about her. Do this every day where you will not be heard or disturbed. Change the question after a while to 1. Why my life is worse without her & 2. Why my life is better without her. Then 1. Why I want her back & 2. Why I don't want her back At first…	/r/seduction	08/01/20 10:43 AM
7	Can’t get over first love/relationship that happened years ago It does sound like you simply haven't met the right person yet. I understand how an ex can linger within you, but I honestly think it can be superseded by a new special person, you just have to meet them. I am 45 years old, just to give you some perspective on where I'm coming from. I met the love of my life when I was 29 and we were together for 5 years. When we split up I felt lost for years and although I dated a few people, no one even touched the sides of my heart in the way she did. Due to…	/r/seduction	08/01/20 09:45 AM
2	Tinder help My Tinder in the last week has exploded. I rejoined after a period of mourning the loss have an intense relationship. I have been trying to think what it is I've done differently this time, as there has been such a big difference. Before I had like 2 or 3 matches in a week. This time over 30... My thoughts: It is important to come across as authentic. Women want to be able to trust you. If you can take take a picture of yourself in your work uniform or institution, this engenders trust. At first…	/r/seduction	07/01/20 12:29 PM