Tinder help

SaltySam4 · 2020-01-07T10:40:36+00:00

Better pictures, from better angles. Make sure your happy/smiling in your pictures, girls really don't like the stoic pose unless your a model. You bio seems fine tbh, gives them something to jump in with if they message first.

Renaissance2020 · 2020-01-07T12:29:19+00:00

My Tinder in the last week has exploded. I rejoined after a period of mourning the loss have an intense relationship.

I have been trying to think what it is I've done differently this time, as there has been such a big difference. Before I had like 2 or 3 matches in a week. This time over 30...

My thoughts:

It is important to come across as authentic. Women want to be able to trust you. If you can take take a picture of yourself in your work uniform or institution, this engenders trust. At first I was worried that it might be information for a stalker type, but these are the risks you take. The more you can show that you are a real person, the more likely she is to trust you.

This is in your photos and your bio. Take good but not overly flattering pictures with no silly angles. If you want to use a filter, make it minimal and almost unnoticeable.

Be polite but make no apology for who you are. I am bald and used to try and hide it or play it down (I even tried a hair system for a while!). Now I never try to hide it, I have pictures of light bouncing off my head and everything! It might alienate some of my audience, but actually strengthens my true audience.

Your bio is fine but too short. Mine is two small paragraphs. In it you may wish to state that you are after a relationship, but you understand it takes time to get to know someone and you are in no hurry etc. This shows that you are not a player, but you are also not too needy.

Depending on your age, you may wish to show a few pictures with young relatives to show that you're a family kind of guy. But don't overdo the group pictures as it is confusing.

If you have artistic or intellectual interests, state them as a passion and a way of life. It is important to show a positive version of your true self and not try and be someone else. I used to try and be a hard man, Jack the lad type - I was terrible at it!

Best of luck.

SackOfFlesh · 2020-01-07T10:53:16+00:00

Is that my dog or did i see 98% of girls mention loving dogs in their bio and find a cute one on google

grrinchas · 2020-01-07T11:44:45+00:00

Your photos and bio should be tailored to target specific type of girls.

So if you want to someone who likes partying, clubbing you mention those things which girl would find attractive. Like drumming, drinking etc.

If you target those girls who are looking for just to hookup, you put shirtless photo with visible 6 pack as your main photo, and be honest about that.

If you are looking for a nerdy, gamer girls. Put weird photos of yourself with crazy haircut, and write that you like gaming.

If you are targeting book worms. Then put sexy photo where you are reading a book.

If you target someone who is looking for a long term relationship. Then put photos with travelling, friends, dogs. And write that you are not into hookups.

Most Important rule:

Your photos and your bio must be congruent. That is, if in a photo you present yourself as some party guy. Then don’t write that you like reading.

quinnmcd · 2020-01-07T12:22:04+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/ei2m96/profile_review_week_of_december_31_2019/ ask tinder related questions about your profile here.

Title	Tinder help
Author	bfhjbvjkb
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	January 7, 2020 10:20 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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