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| 10 | I don't know what to say other than...tragedy | PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAME | Renrenchi | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Endorsing this won't make men love you more | PICKME CULTURE | Renrenchi | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 05:32 PM |
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| 1 | Men Who are Still Friends With their ExesWhen I was dating my ex, he would always forget my birthday and excuse it with "sorry, i dont care about my own birthday so i forget others' birthdays too" even though I was clear that birthday would mean a lot to me. Fast forward after breakup, he is blocked on all social media, messaging apps etc. On my birthday I receive a message from an unknown number "Happy birthday! Hey it's me , [dumbass] :)))))". Fuck you and instant block. (He was also friends with his exes, "female friends" etc. Told … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 08:55 AM |
| 26 | Happy Halloween!It's Halloween and our NVM/LVM exes popping up out of nowhere, think about it... Halloween begins the observance of Allhallowtide,the time in the liturgical year dedicated to remembering the dead and all the departed. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Watching Sweet Home Alabama after FDSWhen I watch romantic comedies like that, I think of them being set in an alternate universe where NVM's actually possess a soul and ability to introspect and atone for their mistakes lmao. But seriously, I feel like Sweet Home Alabama was made based on a fantasy that your abusive shitty ex is just a bit misguided and is gonna miss you and become a golden man once he realizes he lost you. It never works that way in real life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 12:10 PM |
| 286 | Pewdiepie is a scrote to the world and to his wife. Look at their couple quiz and see how deeply imbalanced with their relationship and how normalized it is. 🤡 Raise your standards, ladies.He seems like a perpetual manchild who got lucky in life that his low effort gaming videos made him rich. Took a look at his channel, he is still doing same type of videos where he just sits in front of camera and comments on newest internet memes and reddit posts. His commentary is not even funny unless you are 10 (and even then it's questionable). He is in his 30s and not even trying to do anything else, like a project of his own, it's just memes and video games all the time. Marzia, his wife,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 03:00 AM |
| 10 | If, according to MRAs, women are useless after 25 🙄. Then why would any woman ever sign up for the 18+ year commitment of raising children with them?Anyone notice how with these men the age limit is getting lower? It used to be After 35, then 30. Now it's 25 and I bet soon they will lower it to 21. Then what? They will claim women are useless after 18? 15? MRA to pedophile pipeline. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 01:39 PM |
| 18 | I’m glad that pick me’s are getting called out on just how crazy they soundWhat's with LVM and NVM loving Alfredo 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 05:05 PM |
| 6 | The dangers of the Slow Fade and circling back to small talk/Good morning textsI think natural reduction in texting would happen when other communication channels have been established. For example, you are seeing yourself more often than before and during those meetings you two talk it out. Or if distance is a factor, then often having video calls etc. Basically both of you communicate everything you want though other means of communication and there is no need to repeat it in text messages so naturally you send them less. If it's him communicating less and less and you h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 02:00 PM |
| 9 | The dangers of the Slow Fade and circling back to small talk/Good morning textsAn ex spent 8 hours straight in a hoarding panic before we went on vacation This made be go WTF but then when I think about it, my ex and so many of my female friends' bfs had this weird panic mode when they had to go on a vacation or anywhere that meant spending few days with their SOs alone. Their act made no sense to me because it wasn't just laziness, nor it was some kind of social anxiety(most of them were outgoing) - it actually was full blown panic. Now I realize it could have been their … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 01:48 PM |
| 352 | I can't even.They are just a bunch of incels with guns, are they? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 03:11 PM |
| 123 | It feels like a huge amount of people operate this way, men and women, and I despise it so much, extremely LV behavior imoThis is what all of my male ex-friends did. It's like they follow a recipe: 1) Get a girlfriend, doesn't matter if you don't have anything in common or if you don't actually like her as a person, it's important to have a "girlfriend" 2) Get frustrated few months in because of above mentioned reasons and also because you think you deserve a Heidi Klum for just existing as a male. 3) Don't break up though because being single is a no-no. You must continue acting like a parasite and demand sex and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 08:10 AM |
| 41 | What did I just read 🤦🏻♀️Scrote has sociopathic tendencies and also wants to tell her what to do with her money, ew next | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 07:53 AM |
| 5 | Incels convinced society they just need sex and that’s the biggest con ever: The Rage of the IncelsIf that happens I'm gonna go full Rambo on the government. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 06:30 AM |
| 86 | Holy shit. I finally did it.This is an emotionally abusive tactic. Had this thing happen to me and trust me, break up with him right this moment because it's 100% going to get worse. He will use your own humanity against you just so he can accommodate his ego and insecurities. Just ask yourself: "Would I do this to the person I love?" The longer you are with him, the longer is going to take to build yourself up after breakup. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 06:07 AM |
| 26 | Can men who engage in hook up culture/casual sex, turn around and happily commit to long term monogamous relationships without cheating/hall passes/porn addiction etc.I don't believe it. Maybe on the surface everyone believes in a "former" fuckboy who decided to settle down, found his "true love" and they lived happily ever after. The truth is more like that the fuckboy decides to have a wife and make her give him children because it's what society expects (status). He is getting older and younger fuckboys have taken his place so now he feels he has to secure himself a bangmaid. He still keeps his old habits like watching porn, looking to cheat and generally … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 05:34 AM |
| 5 | OLD profiles of attractive men be likeWould swipe left in a millisecond. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 09:34 PM |
| 76 | Pickmes are brain dead 😑It's like a fucking cult. "You support sex work right? Right? You aren't a bigot right? You are open minded but you must support sex work. Have you objectified yourself today?" All these women are in for an ugly wake up call few years from now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 09:32 PM |
| 45 | “Build a man” 🤡🤡🤡True. Hopefully she finds a good threapist and blocks his ass when he tries to crawl back (we all know he will) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 09:25 PM |
| 153 | “Build a man” 🤡🤡🤡Honestly as much as I make fun of pickme culture, this made me really sad. She is still very young and met him when she was only around 18-19. What she gave him was pure love only for him to use it like a parasite. I hope she gets the energy to find her purpose in life (that isn't scrote related) and becomes successful and happy on her own. Meanwhile I hope her parasite of an ex-scrote fails in everything he does because he is a disgusting piece of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 09:17 PM |
| 23 | Happy to see this posted on another subI'm not going to take an advice to someone who reduces women to walking "breasts, ovaries and womb" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 02:54 PM |
| 8 | Pickmes will blame other women even when it has nothing to do with them. Classy.Okay Ms. Pickme, sure, please do it. Many women will then realize they are married to trash and free themselves from scrotery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 11:50 PM |
| 9 | Living large and proud to show the world his mad skills as a home decoratorI don't get it, is it so hard to buy a bed frame from Ikea? Put sheets on? Maybe my aunt was onto something when she said our country should bring back military conscription for men (20 years ago it was still mandatory) because back then men were at least forced to learn how to put sheets on and properly make bed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 11:47 PM |
| 6 | I don’t even know where to start."My husband of 10 years started dating this 24 year old" I 've read that sentence and immediately started looking for the word "divorce" but I can't find it. What the fuck?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 07:09 AM |
| 21 | The incel movement is a form of extremism and it cannot be ignored any longer | Laura BatesWhen you isolate the incel problem to "white male nerds", it makes the problem seem smaller and easier to deal with it. But if you start looking for a pattern then you realize it's not just nerds...or just whites. The problem spans across ethnicities, cultures, race and history. At the end you realize that the one common denominator is....men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 09:01 PM |
| 5 | Please stop “gifting” threesomes. Also, your friends aren’t “gifts”.I don't know who is more of a mess here. Pickme wife - Is willing to prostitute her friend for her husband's sexual gratification, plans that crap 3 months in advance only to tell her husband in the last moment. Disgusting sexual objectification of other women for her scrote - fitting the "criteria", showing her friend's pic in a "sexy nurse outfit" etc. Pickme friend - Not only a pickme but also a sociopath. Not only gets willingly prostituted for free to her pickme "friend" husband, but goes f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 08:35 AM |
| 16 | He’s dumb af if he thinks we won’t be able to pick him outWtf is this, some kind of incel sub? So it's fine for him to be emotionally abusive because some women dare to reject mcdongles shit meals and demand to be taken for a proper dinner. He is having a mental breakdown over that? LMAOO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 09:43 AM |
| 13 | Imagine needing pixels to get in the mood..Not sure these men are even attracted to women, although they're ostensibly straight.They don't have any curiosity about women's bodies, pleasure, the mental and emotional aspects of sex. Great observation! Maybe they would be happier playing the "choo choo train" with their "best bros" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 09:41 PM |
| 7 | Don't send nudes to friend-turned hookups!!Scrotes collect nudes like pokemon cards and trade them with others. Saw it happen with my own eyes, they brag about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 09:30 PM |
| 18 | I can't believe he really said that to her yet if it wasn't because of she is on her period, he might wanted more than a innocent holding hands.AITA?....AITA????? This must be some kind of irony or a troll, or at least I really hope it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 09:24 PM |
| 6 | Man leaves girl for someone else but tells her she still owes him her virginityAll the men-serving bullshit under the guise of "female empowerment" that is being pushed from early 00s until now is hurting new generatios of women and girls. Gen Z teenage girls grew up being told fwb and situationships are the new norm, being a pickme coolgirl is the way to go (and having standards makes you a bitch), open relationships meaning open minded etc....and now we see the results. These teenage girls and young women are lost. They think they are doing the right thing because societ… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 09:20 PM |
| 13 | Make it stop. 💀It seems cool, open-minded and special to be in a situationship, but then they see their scrote with another girl (while their messages are left on read) and get a mental breakdown. Stop glamourizing this shit to young girls and teach them to have boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 03:07 PM |
| 87 | the comments on this video i can’t😭 how do boys think a date in kfc is “making an effort”He also looks like shit compared to her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Yet another LV take: “Ryan Reynolds Revealed He ‘Begged’ Blake Lively To Sleep With Him When They First Started Dating And Admitted She’s A ‘Much Better’ Parent Than He Is”What happens in these dubai trips? Prostitution. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 08:02 AM |
| 19 | “Why did he marry her and not me?”No he didn't meet the "love of this life that changed him" in a short time after you left him. He just went into panic mode after stringing you along for so long. He is now alone, with a shitty personality and possibly balding - and he is aware of that. He quickly had to reel in some poor woman and trap her with marriage, to secure a victim that will take his bullshit longterm. Be happy, because you have freed yourself from life of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 06:33 AM |
| 17 | Why I Stayed Single in College and Why You Should TooI wish I read this few years ago. Me not knowing how to deal with scrotery and their emotional abuse along with being love sick lead me to not focus in college as I should have. My study abroad experience got semi-ruined too. Thankfully it's in the past now, I've done some leveling up, am working a full time job for a good company while working on a new degree (part time) as I am going through a career change. No dealing with NVM/LVMs in my life and suddenly everything is going well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 06:22 AM |
| 23 | Glorifying toxic codependent pick-me relationships under the disguise of "Twin Flames"I swear I'm just gonna reply to all of these comments with "He doesn't deserve you. You are worth more than that." because this is just infuriating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 08:31 AM |
| 43 | A very serious warning: keep your eyes wide open with men that seem to work too much.Happened to me. My ex, a seemingly HVM as he was fit, smart and also always very hard working at his job/career. I thought it was great as I really like when people are diligent and try their best. But he started communicating less, always busy woth work, working for a new certification. He started helping giving lessons for certain certifications (works in IT) and at first I thought it was great but it was happening on the weekends so spending time with me was minimal. Meanwhile he started gasl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 08:06 AM |
| 45 | Male friends are a scamI was friends with mostly men throughout high school and early college years. I grew up being a tomboy and into what's considered "male" hobbies along with experiencing some bullying from a group of girls in middle school- I just gravitated into hanging out with guys more than with girls during those years. (And my mom telling me "guys are better friends than girls" didn't help at all). But I did make some female friends too. Now in my late 20s, none of these friendships with men persisted. It a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 07:51 AM |
| 23 | my ex in a nutshellI like some of Joji songs but man, they are also a great NVM/LVM detector. It went from "Oh you listen to this too? Cool." to "Oh, you listen to Joji....hmmm..." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 07:12 AM |
| 12 | Women don't have it better at any ageI'm 27 now but it's the same shit, only difference being that while I was under 25 FDS didn't exist and I wasted time and my nerves on a relationship with a LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 04:59 PM |
| 110 | Targeting👏Young👏Girls👏Is👏Wrong👏Olivia you are so talented and full of potential, why are you dating this ugly old incel??!?! 😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 01:39 PM |
| 20 | Female friendships and bonding is underrated. I hate that our society is wired in a way which discourages women from maintaining relationships with their female friends.The Golden Girls <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 07:40 AM |
| 116 | Gets particularly spicy when you have screenshots or other material to prove what he did✨This so much. I wish I saw this post 4 years ago when I was being gaslighted exactly like this by my LVM ex. It would save me 3 years of losing my mind by dealing with that clown. If anyone in the future ever tries to pull that shit on me again it's gonna be a "oh no you won't, you piece of shit" and an instant block from me with no further explanations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 11:29 AM |
| 88 | I briefly dated an Italian guy and I would like to hear from you if what he shared is true or he was being subjective.As someone who comes from a similar culture, I'd say a HVM would be someone who actively helps and contributes to the household they are living in. For example I know a decent guy who lives with his parents, but he helps around the house, contributes his earnings, builds stuff etc. A guy who just expects his mommy to wash his ass and feed him and does nothing to help the household is basically same as American stereotype of a basement dweller. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 08:03 PM |
| 9 | For those of you looking for signs of him being "Just Not That Into You": this is it!Almost all of these. And then when I grew cold because I was sick of it, he suddenly wanted to get married. Of course no proper propsal, no ring and he wasn't planning to meet my family (or me his) beforehand. Fuck right off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 08:32 PM |
| 5 | What's your cringiest moment with an ex LVM ?I called Terminator "termy" and he got angry and hurt because I was "belittling a character that was big part of his childhood". I thought he was joking but he didn't want to talk to me for 3 days after that. He was 28 at the time. Unbelievable, I know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 08:50 PM |
| 8 | Seriously?"Women don't give nice guys* a chance." Lmao look what happens when they do. *neckbeards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 01:53 PM |
| 118 | In case you're still wondering if men view us as actual humans. They do not.But you have pickmes trying to simulate that and they still cheat on them, chase other women etc. A perfect robot wife would only be entertaining to them for 3 months max. When you have inflated ego, no empathy and are just a big spoiled manchild, nothing is good enough for you and everything and everyone is just a new toy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 08:25 AM |
| 44 | Don't drink the NVM kool-aid; it's poison. They love to move goal posts and queens shouldn't even be on the field.Insecure scrotes know that their model girlfriend is way beyond them in looks and personality, so they cheat while thinking it makes them appear "above" her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 11:28 PM |
| 173 | FDS women don't have high standardsI find it sad how most of these "high standards" can be boiled down to: 1) Showers every day 2) Has ability to care and feel empathy 3) Is responsible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 05:41 AM |
| 42 | Why are men so disrespectful when it comes to women that don’t “meet their standards”?It makes them feel more important, powerful or whatever pathetic shit their ego strives for Yeah he is a pornsick idiot who lives in a pigsty and can't hold a job but insert race, age, body type, hair color, job women are totally beneath the great him who is just ~misunderstood~. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 03:17 PM |
| 9 | Cosmopolitan Magazine argues that cannibalism is acceptable nowCosmo was always shit. I remember when I was around 8 years old (I'm in my late 20s now), my mom angrily commented how cosmo has awful advice on how to be the other woman, sleep with a married man as a way to "spice up your love life". Just all around toxic crap disguised as a "women's lifestyle magazine" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 02:16 PM |
| 39 | This is horrible. If dating is hard in my mid-20s what is it going to be like when I’m 30?Anyone noticed how they are lowering age requirements? "35 is too old...wait no 30 is. Actually 25 is the upper limit....Though you should date younger than 23." And it's always about control and treating a human being like an object, like a newer phone model. Except when it comes to themselves, then they see themselves aging like fine wine even though they are way more broken and fucked up compared to their teens. Conclusion: These type of men are mentally sick and should be avoided at all cost… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 08:34 AM |
| 6 | No questions. Blocked 🙅🏻♀️🚫I wish I saw this video few years back. I cringe when I think of all of the times I tried explaining to my lvm ex that his breadcrumbing was hurting me. That piece of shit was doing that knowingly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 10:24 PM |
| 20 | Fetishized for my nationalityI'm also Eastern European. I don't know where the whole "meek submissive slavic woman" myth comes from, so many women in my family (and country) are strong and badass, far away from being "meek". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 06:04 PM |
| 7 | Ouch, this stung. Being the needy one in a relationship really sucked and was always a direct result of me having low self-esteem. I'm still trying to grow into better relationships and value myself more.Definitely reminded me of my relationship that became long distance (although it was supposed to be just for few months). It was hard getting him to make time to video chat with me (oh it's the timezone's "fault", even on weekends) and I felt so empty after it yet I'd crave more. (If you are curious how it ended, asshole just randomly demoted me to "just a friend" even though he was swearing I was love of his life and wanted to marry me. Then he had guts to contact me and tell me he wants me bac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 01:59 PM |
| 3 | What in Fresh PickMe Hell is This?"Oh it's fine he is going to cheat, monogamy is not realistic." But why is it outdated only when it comes to him? She probably won't cheat and will stay loyal, but will somehow delude herself that "monogamy isn't natural for humans." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 02:09 PM |
| 3 | The forever-GFs are excited about getting ring pops now, fuck me sideways...Well unless they are both 15...But if they are over 20 then uhhh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 03:26 PM |
| 3 | This is why we shouldn’t meet a LVM who puts less effort than how much this guy does to his real doll.While it seems "nice" that he puts so much effort in it, I think it's important to understand he sees that doll as an OBJECT. It's an object without autonomy, whatever he does to it, it's his decision. He picks clothes, wigs, activities, time to have sex (ugh barf). Doll has no personality, he projects his ego onto her. It's an extension of himself, basically. Yes it's good he isn't hurting anyone with it, but it's still twisted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 07:53 AM |
| 9 | Why do these questions rub me the wrong way?These questions feel like job interview and not like a natural conversation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 07:30 AM |
| 2 | Promise ring = future faking unless y’all are literal teenagersIt makes sense for teenagers to have a promise ring. Two 15 year olds are too young to marry and promise ring is sweet (though it might not work out because young love etc etc) But being an adult and getting promise ring just makes no sense. It screams "I am searching for something better" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 12:57 PM |
| 4 | Looking for dev women to build a women's only social mediaAre junior devs accepted? Ive been teaching myself programming and would like to help if possible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 04:14 PM |
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