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Feminism also isn't purely for helping women too. For many of them the perpetual self-victimization and paranoia of getting assaulted, that is fed by the false narratives is geniuinely unhealthy. And it can cause narccissism, which is also bad for the individual's wellness. Although I don't completely agree with you. Hypergamy is real. Heterosexual dating dynamics are extremely unequal. Most of the blackpill's and some of redpill's main talking point are simply true. The fact that there are grif…
/r/MensRights27/07/26 06:39 AM
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I wonder what is actually going on in his head. In one post he says height doesn't metter and in another one makes fun of a guy for being short. Surely he has to be at least on some level aware it doesn't make sense.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/07/26 10:21 PM
14

She is a larper, ignore her
/r/EverydayMisandry14/07/26 10:12 PM
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They just use the word "systemic" for any women's issue (they were probably tempted to write about systemic periods too), and any male issue, like boys not getting degrees, is individual failure
/r/MensRights10/07/26 06:48 PM
14

Oh shit, I haven't even noticed those
/r/EverydayMisandry10/07/26 07:10 AM
16

I believe women like this are very rare and they have some form of extreme narcissism
/r/EverydayMisandry10/07/26 07:06 AM
1

Tribes member dead? From a scrape on his head. No way to prevent it!
/r/MensRights08/07/26 11:11 PM
1

If that is true that what we have today is not feminism, but an imposter movement.
/r/MensRights08/07/26 10:56 PM
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I think deviding everything into left and right doesn't always make sense. Those are clusters of ideologies, plus they are constantly changing. Feminism is its own thing and it deffinitely is linked to corporate world. Maybe some of the early feminism was more aware of class inequality, honestly I don't even care, it doesn't change anything about the fact that now it's part of the distraction.
/r/MensRights08/07/26 07:56 PM
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Yeah, it's not just feminism. It's a huge web of mechanisms trying to cover the class conciousness and divide us, while the world is getting exponentially more insane with every year. I wonder if they will be able to keep it up.
/r/MensRights08/07/26 07:51 PM
29

That's also true. Women have majority of purchasing power.
/r/MensRights08/07/26 05:36 PM
6

I also hate all the gaslighting. Unfortunately existance of their movement rellies on average normie believing their lies. Most poeple literally believe it and if it was openly misandrist movement they would stop supporting it.
/r/MensRights08/07/26 07:18 AM
1

I see why the new claude model is so patronizing and lecturing
/r/MensRights07/07/26 06:08 PM
2

I have seen hundreds of vidoes about narcissism. There was moment I was fascinated with them and wanted to understand them. Plus I had to live with my narccist step dad. And had a narccist head teacher on college. So maybe you are just bad judge of character.
/r/MensRights07/07/26 06:05 PM
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To be honest I don't give a fuck about clinical diagnosis. They only classify the most obvious extreme cases. Narcissism is a spectrum and many people are pathologically self centered. And why do you assume I don't understand what it means?
/r/MensRights07/07/26 04:04 PM
8

I thing whoever made this accidently flipped the genders
/r/EverydayMisandry07/07/26 01:38 PM
9

She probably got rejected by a guy out of her league
/r/EverydayMisandry07/07/26 01:36 PM
1

Why can't it be multiple things that we miss?
/r/MensRights05/07/26 08:35 AM
1

🤡
/r/MensRights01/07/26 06:07 AM
1

Love that you are trying SO hard to rage bait me. I would feel sorry if I didn't reply ;)
/r/MensRights21/06/26 08:42 PM
1

Okay, call me a buzzword that has lost all meaning by now
/r/MensRights21/06/26 07:59 PM
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Sorry, but you are brainwashed. I'm not gonna waste my time arguing with you.
/r/MensRights21/06/26 07:56 PM
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That was half a century ago. If somebody's grandpa did something bad to my grandpa, I wouldn't hold a grudge against them. I don't believe in inherited sin.
/r/MensRights21/06/26 07:41 PM
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Dead internet is real
/r/MensRights21/06/26 01:59 PM
14

People like this are the reason why men turn to mysoginy.
/r/EverydayMisandry20/06/26 07:20 PM
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I wonder how much more it will take for men to wake up
/r/MensRights19/06/26 02:24 PM
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No if you read it properly you see that it's about mysandrists, women aren't even mentioned.
/r/MensRights15/06/26 11:05 AM
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I think maybe you have some personal problems you are projecting on all men.
/r/MensRights15/06/26 08:22 AM
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And spend half an hour to serve it to you, a person that probably isn't even willing to doubt their wolrd view and just wants to argue with me. No thanks, if you really want to know just look up main MRA talking points.
/r/MensRights14/06/26 10:41 PM
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Read some other post on this sup. Or just make a post here to ask about it. Other people explain it way better than I can.
/r/MensRights14/06/26 07:51 PM
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You are a woman so you are probably going to care more about what affects you. But I don't think you have the comparison right. Try to think about it. Do you actually notice misandry, or do you just not care enough to notice what men go through. Misandry is both systematic and personal and both affect men negatively.
/r/MensRights14/06/26 06:11 PM
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That's BS and you know it
/r/MensRights14/06/26 04:47 PM
1

But did today's men do it? I was born in 2002 I'm not responsible for anything prio.
/r/MensRights14/06/26 12:06 PM
1

Sometimes you have right to be angry sometimes don't. Hate is just an energy, it can destroy or save the world. But you have to direct it on the real enemy. Which is our collective ego.
/r/MensRights12/06/26 11:13 AM
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"eye for an eye wound leave the whole world blind" is a fallecy. What actually happens is that people would start thinking twice before harming someone. If someone hates you for no justifiable reason, you probably not going to think highly of that person. That's just normal reaction and protecting boundaries.
/r/MensRights12/06/26 10:54 AM
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Yes*
/r/MensRights12/06/26 10:15 AM
8

This guy has no soul
/r/EverydayMisandry08/06/26 01:18 PM
19

He or she is probably mentally disabled if they don't see the problem with their argument
/r/EverydayMisandry06/06/26 05:29 PM
8

Dissociation mechanism too powerful for our own good :(
/r/MensRights05/06/26 12:25 PM
11

I don't understand why I'm still alive. I'm probably just pussy to do it.
/r/MensRights05/06/26 08:41 AM
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Link doesn't work
/r/MensRights05/06/26 05:41 AM
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I understand your point, but I think you give her too much credit by comparing her to Vader.
/r/MensRights27/05/26 11:56 PM
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I think there are multiple psychological tendencies that cause it. Privileged people don't want to believe they are privileged. They want to believe that everything they have was earned by their wonderful moral superiority and what a better way to do it than painting yourself as a disadvantaged victim fighting against the odds. I would say most privileged people do this. The issue is that when it comes to women this behavior is completely tolerated and endorsed.
/r/MensRights27/05/26 07:35 AM
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What the actual fuck?!
/r/MensRights27/05/26 07:09 AM
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Just because some people can't see nuance, that's not a problem of the concept. Not everything needs to be sanitized as if people were mindless drones that can't handle the truth.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/05/26 08:59 PM
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How is it harmful specifically?
/r/EverydayMisandry24/05/26 08:09 PM
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Have you actually looked into it?
/r/EverydayMisandry24/05/26 07:29 PM
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There are many studies that prove it's a real thing. If you think calling out sexually dimorphic behaviors is mysoginy, maybe there is chance you are still a bit brainwashed.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/05/26 04:15 PM
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There is nothing mysoginistic about hypergamy, it's literally just biology and should be tought in schools.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/05/26 07:04 AM
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I don't mind female characters in games. But only when they are likable, I don't want to play as bichy girl boss. We will see how the game actually will be in the end.
/r/MensRights23/05/26 03:39 PM
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There is no point of hating somone, unless they are actively invading your boundaries. Simply ignore them, they aren't worth your attention and deffinitely not your anger.
/r/MensRights21/05/26 05:42 PM
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Too long didn't read. But yeah, there are for sure depending on how you define it.
/r/MensRights18/05/26 12:08 PM
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Sorry I guess this was too moralizing from me. It's just something I'm going through right now. Finding who I can trust and who not. But it's mostly young women that are like this. There was a study that showed young women 25 and below usually are more radicalized against men.
/r/MensRights18/05/26 12:00 PM
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I think you should judge at based on individuals. You woud be surprised how many women aren't misandrist at all, it just might seem most of them are because they are usually the loudest.
/r/MensRights18/05/26 08:18 AM
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I don't understand the debate of who wouldn't handle what pain. We are all humans and experience pain in the same way regardless of gender. It's just so dumb, like preschool level of arguments.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/05/26 09:09 PM
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Smart and desperate aren't antonyms
/r/MensRights15/05/26 06:13 PM
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People are stooopid
/r/EverydayMisandry15/05/26 04:53 AM
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It is strawman, that's it. Doesn't point to anything specific.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/05/26 01:49 PM
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Yeah. There were some time periods when average man had more rights than average woman. But it's extremely overstated and it did come at the cost of bearing all responsibility, being the provider working dangerous jobs and military conscription.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/05/26 01:31 PM
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I'm starting to have my doubts whether patriarchy was ever real outside top one percent of men.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/05/26 05:39 AM
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Best response is to click on not interested until your feed stops giving you that garbage.
/r/MensRights13/05/26 12:49 AM
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The issue is that those two cause each other. Nobody seems to notice how much the cycle itself plays the role. Instead they just rationalize a justification for participating in it, becuase it's emotionally easier for them.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/05/26 09:32 PM
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Autistic men have it much more difficult than autistic women in almost every aspect. Not saying autistic women have it easy. But empathy gap makes a world of difference.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/05/26 10:53 AM
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It's just aging women being insecure about their aging. Best to ignore it completely.
/r/MensRights09/05/26 08:42 PM
1

I don't :(
/r/MensRights08/05/26 09:02 AM
0

Nobody is owned empathy. But I would still preffer to live in a world where empathy is abundant.
/r/MensRights08/05/26 07:21 AM
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I think dehumanization is evil no metter what. Even if we technically might have the right to do so, after how we have been treated. It would just lead to another cycle of hate.
/r/MensRights07/05/26 09:11 PM
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Yeah. I don't like the men need to open up narrative. Becuase it's disingenuous. It's there just to distract from the actual neglect we experience.
/r/MensRights04/05/26 08:22 PM
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It's not like it will happen anyway. But I guess it would take me some time to trust that they won't abandon me and that they actually like me. For most people that would be annoying. But I can't just undo my trauma because it's inconvenient.
/r/MensRights04/05/26 06:46 AM
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The issue is that I already tried to accept it. But it just results in loosing all will to live and all motivation to do anything. You said I wouldn't be functioning just fine if I was in relationship. Thing is you don't know me. And it's not just about being in a relationship. Right now relationships are something fundamentally innaccessible, if I knew how to do it, I wouldn't feel desperate. I assume this is something that was giving me purpose. Otherwise I just fall into addictions, depressio…
/r/MensRights03/05/26 09:02 AM
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They probably would also complain if there was a rule that would allow to wear shorter dresses. They are just looking for things to blame men for.
/r/MensRights30/04/26 09:12 AM
2

You are right. Unfortunately most people are too brainwashed to fight for their interest. They assume that the only alternative to our current capitalism is soviet communism and that it's binary choice.
/r/MensRights30/04/26 08:56 AM
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"The past was erased, the erasure was forgotten, the lie bacame the truth." 1984
/r/MensRights30/04/26 06:16 AM
1

Women aren't worth the trouble. There are better things in life than sex and romance. I was depressed for not having a girlfriend for almost a decade. But trying to find a partner is like addiction the once you achieve it you realize it's not even close as good as you were promised by your brain.
/r/MensRights27/04/26 02:05 PM
1

She was supposed to teach us Spanish, but instead most of the classes were about feminism. We were forced to make and present many projects about feminism and her stupid beliefs.
/r/MensRights27/04/26 08:04 AM
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I see your point. But it's different when you are a child, it's like religious indoctrination, those believes are very deep and going against them means a strong emotional reaction, because it's part of your identity.
/r/MensRights27/04/26 07:59 AM
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I'm 24. I mostly seen a lot of movies that made me feel bad for being a man as a child. But it was worst in high school, where I had radical feminist as homeroom teacher. To be fair she was the one who made me realize I'm not a feminist.
/r/MensRights26/04/26 09:24 PM
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It's insane how deeply can these believes affect a person. It took me years of negative experiences and proofs, before I stopped doubting my current position on feminism.
/r/MensRights26/04/26 09:15 PM
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They are just parroting those few arguments they learned, I doubt they gave it even second of thought.
/r/MensRights26/04/26 07:47 AM
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Indoctrination is strong with them. I hope they don't represent the majority of men in these opinions. There is obviously a lot more women that are misandrist than men that commit rape. Maybe a hundred times more. Not to mention that the 99% statistic is a lie. If you define rape as something only man can do, you should then be surprised only men do it. But if you take into account underreporting and normal deffinition women commit around 20% of sex crimes.
/r/MensRights26/04/26 07:36 AM
1

Of course, the companies like Anthropics and open AI deffinitely want to be as politically correct as humanly or in this case as artificially possible.
/r/MensRights25/04/26 08:04 PM
2

Well that's pretty hilarious. I guess I should check my male toothbrush privilege. But it would be possible to train an AI to flag all the articles infected by this mental illness.
/r/MensRights25/04/26 11:26 AM
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Just throw all the ocean of feminist slop articles out of the training data and it will get much less biased.
/r/MensRights25/04/26 07:47 AM
2

I'd reather tldr. I have adhd, so long reading is not my speciality.
/r/MensRights25/04/26 07:19 AM
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Yeah, they are basically mirrors of societal beliefs.
/r/MensRights25/04/26 07:02 AM
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Ao many trolls on this sub
/r/MensRights24/04/26 06:34 AM
3

This movement is not nearly as confused as you are saying. We are almost all against circumcision and against mandatory draft.
/r/MensRights23/04/26 05:35 AM
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Doesn't help that courts are biased against you
/r/MensRights23/04/26 05:31 AM
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Whatever. I'm not going to argue about something so stupid.
/r/MensRights22/04/26 11:06 AM
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Really, but it's called north korea democratic republic. It's just another example when official definitions don't match their real world counterparts, like feminism.
/r/MensRights22/04/26 10:59 AM
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And North Korea is by definition democratic country
/r/MensRights22/04/26 07:40 AM
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Or maybe I do understand, but the world is a bit more complicated than that. And making quick judgements about people just because don't automatically agree with your specific world view, doesn't make you very likable. First of all there are no pills for autism, you keep talking about it, but it doesn't exist. Some doctor prescribe antidepressants for anxiety, but those don't work well. I guess what you are saying is that you shouldn't build a limiting identity yourself with being autistic. If t…
/r/MensRights20/04/26 12:26 PM
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And why is that?
/r/MensRights20/04/26 07:09 AM
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Autism is real. This guy just wants to believe he isn't autistic. I know it because I was doing similar mental gymnastics to avoid the truth. He is right that men especially autistic men are treated like trash, ten times worse than autistic women. But being autistic doesn't mean there is something wrong with you. In a certain way you are much more sane than neurotipical normies. Those are way too comforming for their own good. Effects like having to put more effort into reading social clues or s…
/r/MensRights19/04/26 08:27 PM
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Oh, my reading comprehension deffinitely got worse since I downloaded this app
/r/MensRights18/04/26 06:29 PM
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These women really have some severe psychological issues.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/04/26 06:15 PM
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Even if that's true, I don't like that tone. You could have just said it normally without all that "grow up" bullshit. That's a weapon of the enemy.
/r/MensRights18/04/26 06:00 PM
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I hate when people like you use the "gender wars" strawman everytime there is some genuine criticism of gender inequality involving men. I bet you wouldn't say anything like that if it was a feminist post too.
/r/MensRights18/04/26 10:23 AM
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Unfortunately those specific people are the ones that won't your post seriously.
/r/MensRights18/04/26 10:17 AM
2

I definitely would reather be born female than deal with misandry
/r/MensRights17/04/26 10:18 AM
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Idk what to even say to shit like this. Except that it's sad if someone takes it seriously.
/r/MensRights08/04/26 07:57 AM
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I was talking about this specific gaslighting, when people try shame you for doing it, by calling it mysoginy. I wanted to encourage people here to do it anyway.
/r/MensRights08/04/26 04:10 AM
4

Wdym?
/r/MensRights07/04/26 08:46 PM
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"believe women"
/r/MensRights07/04/26 12:46 PM
7

Imagine being a judge, comming to this verdict and thinking: "Yeah everything makes sense, this checks out..."
/r/MensRights06/04/26 05:41 AM
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I'm sorry, but it can be very difficult to find someone as autistic. You are basically playing the game on ultra nightmare difficulty. It highly depends how good you are at masking. I had a friend who was very good at it and got a lot of girls (although his relationships rarely lasted more than few weeks). I personally have given up completely, out of my own self respect and focus on healing my truama. And I'm tired of pretending I'm someone else. A lot of NT's "social skills" is nothing all tha…
/r/MensRights05/04/26 08:11 PM
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I'm just mildly autistic and I second it. There are not many things women dislike more. You might get lucky though, there have always been few outliers.
/r/MensRights05/04/26 02:56 PM
2

Mark my word this late stage capitalism is going to get more censored overtime, than authoritarian regimes.
/r/MensRights03/04/26 07:05 AM
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But the idea comes from appealing to women's attraction. If women wanted us to wear dresses and make up, it would be already the norm.
/r/MensRights02/04/26 01:41 PM
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As an autistic guy, I can see from my experience that autistic women have it ten times easier in all aspects. The later diagnosis argument is bullshit, I was diagnosed in my late teens and I'm a guy. ​Autistic women don't necessarily have better social skills, I have met many that didn't, they just have much lower standards for masking. Some autistic guys are very close to neurotipical social skills because we are bullied into it. Dating is much easier for them, there is a lot of men that straig…
/r/EverydayMisandry01/04/26 04:48 PM
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She sounds like someone with high emotional intelligence /s
/r/EverydayMisandry29/03/26 07:53 AM
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Virtue signaling attention wh***
/r/EverydayMisandry29/03/26 07:38 AM
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There is also the issue that we equate obedience and submissiveness in kids as maturity, while individualism and creativity as something to grow up from.
/r/MensRights28/03/26 11:05 AM
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Your dad should be in jail for attempted murder. I'm sorry this corrupted joke of a "justice" system and police has treated you like this.
/r/MensRights26/03/26 06:55 AM
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Modern feminism is a movement created to cover up the death of the middle class. Elites get double amount of workers and they only need to pay them half the wage they need for family. Framing previous prosperity as oppression and working as a privilige. It's good way to massage female ego and maintain status quo.
/r/MensRights25/03/26 11:36 AM
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I sometimes wish I was born girl too. Being a man comes with all sort of heavy baggage. I guess my advice is to stop giving so much fuck, it worked for me.
/r/MensRights24/03/26 09:30 PM
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I agree, they deserve zero special treatment. If they want to treat men like they have no value, they deserve the same exact treatment ​
/r/MensRights20/03/26 03:40 PM
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Thank you <3 It's sometimes very difficult for me to recognize that it's not everyone like this. I guess my brain likes simplifying things too. The more I try to understand the world, the more noise and artificial complexity I find. I guess I just have to accept it.
/r/MensRights15/03/26 12:05 AM
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People like this are hypocritical monsters, there is nothing more to it.
/r/MensRights14/03/26 03:24 PM
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This formatting is so horrible
/r/MensRights09/03/26 02:50 PM
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I'm would say I do care about problems of other people. But deffinitely less than when it involves me.
/r/MensRights03/03/26 06:29 PM
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So you are basically saying that you don't care as long as you personally don't feel affected enough.
/r/MensRights02/03/26 09:40 PM
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For me it deffinitely is big part of it. But you can still feel lonely even if you have gf. It's also about all the demonizing, shaming and complete lack of empathy. I would be able to accept being forever single, but the fact that our culture sees it as intimate failure worthy of ridicule makes it a lot more difficult.
/r/MensRights27/02/26 05:52 PM
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They are basically trying to gaslight you into believing that you are gaslighting them. It's probably the most annoying thing someone can do in conversation.
/r/MensRights27/02/26 05:46 PM
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For your own mental health you should keep away from feminist reddit group. Most of them are just angry mobs only thing they care less about than men is truth.
/r/MensRights27/02/26 03:43 PM
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Is this like sarcasm?
/r/MensRights27/02/26 02:09 PM
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You should deffinitely change therapist.
/r/MensRights28/01/26 07:00 PM
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Imagine if men were hitting on women in lesbian bars and dating apps, it would immediately be very inappropriate, I don't understand why when women do it it's alright.
/r/MensRights19/01/26 07:52 AM
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I think it will eventually comes crushing down on them. Feminism has stepped over the line a long time ago and it will be its death.
/r/MensRights09/01/26 02:04 PM
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This is terrible and it kills individualism among women. I guess there are lot of things we should learn to not to do from feminism.
/r/MensRights06/01/26 10:05 PM
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Real
/r/MensRights06/01/26 05:49 PM
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Really good comment
/r/MensRights06/01/26 04:31 PM
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Let's make a fight club then
/r/MensRights06/01/26 04:26 PM
4

I agree, but why do you think things are moving in right direction?
/r/MensRights06/01/26 04:23 PM
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I think so too. I think calling it toxic masculinity is just a strategic label though. It's mostly women that enforce it. They have an "ick" when men show emotions. I even remember I asked one of my female friends if she finds it disgusting when men cry and she said yes. If women preffer vulnerable men, toxic masculinity would not exist.
/r/MensRights06/01/26 04:21 PM
4

True. But it doesn't have to be perfect, even if we only achieved a noticible improvement in coordination it could make a big difference for our lived reality.
/r/MensRights06/01/26 01:46 PM
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The women (group) are the system. On individual basis they rarely even conciously realize it. We don't need to fight individual women.
/r/MensRights06/01/26 01:43 PM
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This reddit community is probably the only place omline I know about where I can express my opinions without being immediately dissmissed. That's really sad. But it's also true that more and more men are waking up.
/r/MensRights06/01/26 01:41 PM
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Yeah, I agree society should help men and women should be held accountable for their choices. But truth is nobody is going to do it. Nobody will advocate for us, it's all up to us. I'm not talking about some huge reform of manhood (although that would be ideal), I mean increasing solidarity and "brotherhood" within men culture, reather then just trying to appeal to women at any cost. Destroying gynocentrism is not destroying femininity, but just the unfair expectations put on men and unearned pr…
/r/MensRights06/01/26 01:30 PM
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I don't mean to learn from them as individuals, but from their group inteligence and power awareness. But yeah, I see that there are many obstacles, especially from a side of conformist men. But what alternative approach would you propose in order to dismantle gynocentrism?
/r/MensRights06/01/26 01:01 PM
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I think the idea, that everything is a biological programming, might just be defeatism. I think there might be an actual chance.
/r/MensRights06/01/26 12:51 PM
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But biological instincts can be overwriten, I think that's what truely distinguishes humans from animals. It's true that there is some appeal in the platonic stoic male way of life, where you protect women. But reality is that you are just going to be taken advantage of.
/r/MensRights06/01/26 12:34 PM
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I agree that we should uphold at least some moral standards, so we can still look in a mirror. instead of going full on male feminism. But we really should work on empowering men. Not in a traditional sense, but as a full value human beings. We should fight women when it comes to politics and culture because they do fight us, only way how to balance it is to push back with equal force, because they are not going to back down any time soon.
/r/MensRights06/01/26 12:28 PM
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Their values are caveman bullshit. The evolution is running too far behind societal progress, human brain didn't yet fully adapted.
/r/MensRights31/12/25 11:29 PM
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They forgot to include the privilege of whoever is controlling the narrative about privileges.
/r/MensRights31/12/25 11:06 AM
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❤️
/r/MensRights23/12/25 09:44 AM
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Dw. Only the real gangstas can acknoledge their privilege.
/r/MensRights22/12/25 01:16 AM
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If I die now, I will save myself a lot of misery. I'm not gonna keep this up for another fifty or so years. When I say it comes naturally, I mean you have no choice, but to let go of everything. There is no alternative. It sounds nice when I say I will just make a most of it. But the issue is that my dopamine system is fried, and together with depression and CPTSD I'm not able to enjoy anything. And fixing it is fighting against windmills, you improve one thing and another ten problems appear. S…
/r/MensRights21/12/25 05:46 PM
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You are right there are some autistic people that make it work. It's not avaliable to everyone, but I think everyone should at least try once. But at some point letting yourself go is something that happens naturally.
/r/MensRights21/12/25 05:18 PM
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Yeah and it just proves that nobody cares how mature you are on the inside, but about a superficial behavioral patters.
/r/MensRights21/12/25 04:45 PM
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I don't think you know what it's like. There are littlw to no like-minded individuals. There is no motivation to keep going. There is no "mindset" that will fix those issues. Trust me I tried my best. The best that could happen to me is if I got the right to die. So I can move on to whatever comes after this life, because this is nothing more than a sick joke and waste of time.
/r/MensRights21/12/25 04:04 PM
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It's not that easy to stop craving something you are programmed by evolution to want. And it's not just sex, it's connection and basic respected. There is no way to escape feeling tortured, unless you are magician when it comes to coping.
/r/MensRights21/12/25 03:47 PM
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Same here. They give you absolutely no resources to learn social skills, other than bullying. And then you are supposed to feel like it's your fault, that you can't do it. This game is rigged.
/r/MensRights21/12/25 02:02 PM
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Yeah, I'm asperger and I masked through most of my teenage years. It's incredibly exhausting and it makes most social interaction feel disatisfying. I don't now for sure. You are right that not all autistic women can mask. I had few autistic female friends and some of them were and some had no filler, the ones that couldn't mask diffinitely were treated worse by others. For example I can mask very well, but for very short time. I have adhd as well, which makes me often slip, so I have to pay 100…
/r/MensRights21/12/25 02:00 PM
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I apritiate your support. My intention really isn't to diminish the pain autistic women go through. But it's very difficult to talk about this without using comparison. I think the male and female autism is just fundamentally different experience and should be seen as such, not mangled together. As you said. It's not a zero sum game, I don't think acknowledging the specific issues that male autists face, would affect women negatively.
/r/MensRights21/12/25 01:14 PM
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I did use AI to correct typos, but the words entirely are mine. I doubt AI would ever say something so controversial. I'm not content farming. If this topic gets posted often here I think it is good, because there should be more awareness about this.
/r/MensRights21/12/25 12:38 PM
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Honestly suicide prevention was always pretty patronizing and unhelpful. But glad to hear it's getting even worse.
/r/MensRights20/12/25 12:52 PM
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I'm sorry that your situation sucks so bad. I would recommend forum sanctioned suicide for these type of posts. Reddit is not very pro free speach when it comes to this topics.
/r/MensRights07/12/25 08:25 PM
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Whatever is currently mainstream is worse
/r/MensRights29/11/25 10:11 AM
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It's sort of my life goal to finish it. Basically it's a form of therapy for me, I put all my deepest thoughts into it. But I'm still trying to not make it too depressing to be completely unreadable.
/r/MensRights24/11/25 10:36 PM
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I'm writing a book. It's mostly fantasy, but the ideas are there if you look for them. Although I doubt I will ever finish it, I'm kind of too depressed.
/r/MensRights24/11/25 09:14 PM
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I guess you are right then. In that case awareness without empathy is completely useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:45 PM
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Those studies make sense. In a way I understand that their brains are conditioned to like some patterns over the others and the way I talk or move probably is in the latter category. In other words we are uncanny and they deeply dislike it, but it's just really not fair. We spend most of our life trying to learn neurotipical behaviour and are rewarded with nothing more than aversion. When it comes to looks, I would say I'm probably quite attractive. But it is kind of useless for me. There were s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:44 PM
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I would define awareness as understanding the difficulties that autistic people face, about how many of their behaviours are misunderstoodand and ways how they can support them. Just knowing that there is something like autism doesn't count as awareness in my opinion. Not to mention people that hate us are kind of assholes, they are just as bad as racists and sexists. Unfortunately the society doesn't see it that way. I guess bullying someone weaker that can't fight back is probably just part of…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 05:14 PM
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Yes, but realistically the awareness is very low and it will probably stay like that. So it will be purely on theur shoulders if they want to be accepted. One slip up with being akward and people lose most of the respect to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 11:52 AM
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Honestly there is almost nothing you can do as an autistic man. Not masking deffinitely doesn't help, most people won't accept you and even those that do usually just pretend in order to be polite. It's extremely difficult to find friends, let alone a girlfriend. Those autistic men that somehow found a partner are in my opinion a rare exception. Autistic women's akwardness is usually much more tolerated or even might be seen as cute. Idk, I wish I'd never been born. There is no silver lining to …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 11:47 AM
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