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Lizzy isn’t a 10 but she’s a viable dating option. Whoever the Lizzy equivalent is (beta Ben????) would need to work very hard to even be considered
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:10 PM
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“All men” bae we are on a gendered debate sub. A vast amount of men here have negative feelings towards women and a portion of them are even openly misogynistic. I don’t need to give you evidence, it’s literally visible in most of the comments here and most of the sub as a whole
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:39 PM
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Because they often leave the “to have dating/sexual options” part out, which makes it seem as if they believe that men have the most societal pressure overall to be good looking. Which they do not
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 02:01 AM
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They don't let dozens of dudes use them as human fleshlights and say they got something out of it because they enjoyed it too, like nah. So you are saying that women who have had sex with dozens of men did not enjoy the sex? ... I just don't even fucking know what to say to you. People don't willingly have sex unless they want to have sex. People don't purposefully seek out more sex unless they want to have sex. It does not matter if a woman is in a committed relationship or single. Women who th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:02 AM
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A fantastic comparison. The stark difference is that nobody refers to men as a vibrator with legs. I hope you can see the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 04:48 AM
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I see this as the female version of a man who gets exploited financially being called a piggybank, free meal, walking ATM, simp, betabuxxer, or Uber. I don't believe it's offensive to call a man who gets exploited financially a walking ATM It's not offensive because these are terms used by other men. Usually with a shred of sympathy, too. Women do not use these terms besides "simp". Hold on, what does sleeping around with men who use you as a fleshlight have to do with enjoying sex? You are the …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 02:32 AM
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Yeah, no. If a woman is enjoying the sex, it means she is getting gain from. These offensive terms imply that simply having sex with someone you are attracted to is a disgusting and dehumanising act. Which is the context in which most of these are said anyways; it is not good that they are being used. There is already stigma around women enjoying sex, and the continuous use of these words will mainly contribute to that, rather than just the unfortunate emotional manipulation that, I will not den…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 01:47 AM
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Women believing this (likely due to their own experiences relevant to social life and age) still does not justify whatever the fuck OP is going on about. People can be incorrect and still rightfully find terms like “pump & dump”, “fleshlights” and “cum dumpsters” highly offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 01:27 AM
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Why are these even relevant? I don’t even oppose these beliefs, nor do I see women denying them. Not acknowledging ≠ denying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 01:21 AM
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Who said that the ability to get casual sex with hot guys isn’t advantageous? I think it’s super cool that we can do that. People denying that women actually do that at all is iffy, but I don’t regularly see this opinion. It’s usually the opposite; “women should be free to express themselves sexually” and stuff like that. Now, onto gross, derogatory language. You shouldn’t use it because: It’s gross It’s derogatory The arguments stating that women getting casual sex isn’t a flex are actual argum…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:35 PM
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Your experiences with women sound awful and I’m incredibly sorry you’ve had to go through that. I’d assume (correct me if I’m wrong) that the overall feeling you have towards women is hatred/resentment. You are correct that if you talk to anyone in person with the implication of this specific feeling, you will be told you are making generalisations. If you speak on anyone as a whole you will get that response. That is why you need to speak to a professional, unless you already are. You’ve said t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:02 PM
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This is extremely off-putting to hear. No other notes from me. Thank you for your insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:43 PM
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False allegations and careers ruined is extremely intense. Do you know the women who caused these things on quite a personal level, or would you say they are more of acquaintances?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:35 PM
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What the hell <3 is this actually a real thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:30 PM
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Yep… definitely targeted towards other men LMAO. I really appreciate you for breaking down those points, and I certainly agree with everything you said! I would have provided some contrary opinion on all of the negativity, however praising women on this sub tends to stir arguments for whatever reason. So using (nasty) belief reiterations as means to gain insight is unfortunately the only way I can keep shit like this on-topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:26 PM
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I'm asking how you feel towards women's behaviour. Speak up please, or we won't be able to understand how it's affecting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 01:51 PM
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While I agree that truth is a good thing and that the RP (mostly) acknowledges it, you literally cannot deny that people use it for hateful purposes to an honestly overwhelming degree. It is impossible to visit a redpill community without an ounce of hatred, which is the main reason people hate the redpill itself. A common misconception is that those who deny the redpill are completely ignorant to its beliefs; most people actually find them to be true once they dig through the offensive content.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 01:45 PM
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I see. It's stuff like this that makes me wish men's issues were more talked about. Women's issues are very loud, mainly because most women have been effected by them and people don't see a danger in spreading them. However our world has come to assume that speaking on male issues is a direct attack against feminism, when they should simply co-exist. Even if that were resolved, men struggle with self-expression to a far higher degree than women do and even downplay each other for doing so. All-i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 11:02 AM
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Would you say you perceive women as childish? Or maybe unserious?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 10:47 AM
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It's a hypothetical bro. But thank you for the insight. I can see that wasted potential as a person > disappointment is the general idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 10:41 AM
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Oh I certainly would if I were doing a comprehensive study. However, even the slightest amount of introspection from someone currently at this stage in their beliefs is not only interesting to observe, but may (okay, in a very unlikely case) provide a basis for further reflection.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 10:38 AM
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Wow. Do you think women would be more capable of developing those skills (competence, personal responsibility, basic human decency) if horny men would stop putting them on a pedestal? I know that we have reinforcement from women as well, but do you think women as a whole would fail in maintaining their place in society if all men were castrated?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 10:12 AM
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I meant ignorance on the part of women in this context. Like you said, a lot of them are just enjoying theme park rides and have no reason to care about the rest of the world; is that a root of any negative emotions for you? Ignorance is the default state of all humans. This truly resonates with me. While there are varying degrees of awareness and correctness in fixed beliefs, the individual who upholds them is likely going to skimp on the finer details of the other side, even if it is mostly in…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 10:06 AM
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Right. Would you say ignorance might overall be the main cause of any negativity you feel towards women (even if just the BP subset)?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:03 AM
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Very interesting. Are you still interested in dating a woman long term? Or does this idea not appeal to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:58 AM
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Very true. I'm incredibly concerned for the state of men who are on this sub so often; there are certainly people here who've only gotten worse and worse with every "affirming" statement. I can totally see how people might take this post and use it to re-establish why everything is the fault of women, women suck, women smell like poo and shit, etc etc. Even if they continue to hold those misconstrued beliefs, it would be seriously beneficial for them to get some other hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:37 AM
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The world is so silly. You're perceived as hostile for your traits, yet those traits are what cause you to be treated so poorly. Vexation truly is the perfect word to explain your experiences with women, very sorry about how frustrating it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:31 AM
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Going to sound like a shitty therapist right now, but it's very important to identify where feelings come from. Not saying this question is going to blow the balls off of anyone but my intent is for people to self-reflect nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:25 AM
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That's fascinating. Awful, of course, but very interesting; is there a chance your appearance is somewhat "threatening"? Certainly not defending the behaviours of those women, nobody shouldn't judge anyone solely based on appearance. But considering people do it anyways, would you say that is a factor in receiving this sort of treatment?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:17 AM
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The question is based on hatred itself; just attempting to find a root cause for it, for those who do feel resentment
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:11 AM
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It was pretty bad, but you cannot say that this alone was caused by women being picky or assuming they are more attractive than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 06:06 AM
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Genuinely what the hell does this have to do with anything 🩷 If you truly think this issue will cause the rebuilding of the patriarchy: awesome. However I thoroughly doubt I will be alive enough to care by then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 06:00 AM
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I never said it was 100% binary; men might automatically be sorted into "would" or "wouldn't" however attraction, specifically female attraction, is highly capable of shifting depending on values or establishing rapport. Like you said, an exponential curve. This does not dispute my point. Attraction based off of looks alone is considered from a different standing point for men and women, therefore a heterosexual man cannot determine his value since it is being judged by women. Same as the other …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:57 AM
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Men rate both men and women on a scale of 1-10. Women determine attractiveness through "would" or "wouldn't". Men often forget that, in dating, their looks are not decided by each other. They are decided by women. The "average" looks of a man are not considered attractive by a woman, so "average" and any linear description that comes with it becomes an irrelevant factor in choosing a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 02:25 AM
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Ghosting them, blocking them, not replying immediately, saying she has boyfriend when in reality she doesn’t Okay, not replying immediately could be considered a tactic. The rest of these? She is not interested. It is not a test. As for frequency; I'm not too sure. All of my friends are quite confident and some have even made the first move on their current partners. So I have not seen any real-life examples of "playing hard to get". I personally have ghosted a couple people before explaining I …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 11:10 AM
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This is the same type of slop I see everyday so I'll just reiterate this fact: the average man has less dating value than the average woman. Which means, in the context of this post, the average woman IS above the average man. Average men and average women are average, of course. They have average looks, personalities, savings etc; they make up a large proportion of the population, which is how the standardisation is determined. But we are talking about dating. And as we all know, women mainly g…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 06:58 AM
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With BDSM and kinks, inflicting violence is the point. Ding ding ding
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 04:15 AM
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Girl what the hell are you talking about. Most men don't even complain about anything because the gender norms that our society reinforce suck; it's far more common to have a relationship in which, yes, the woman talks about all of her woes, but the man FEELS like he can't say anything himself because he's been brought up not to. Then resentment grows, he shares even less even after being prompted, etc etc, its disturbingly recurrent I know like 10 girls in relationships like this. Anyways, away…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 04:13 AM
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Consent is sexy because consexual sex follows it. Which is sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:57 AM
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Your point might be true but it doesn't take away from the fact that those acts were performed consensually. You may not like that it can result in injury, but it is ultimately not your life. Athletes overperform sometimes and end up in the hospital too; they might not have been aware of the full extent of the risks beforehand but end up getting injured regardless. Outsiders don't blame it on the sport itself and start telling everyone that plays the sport that they should stop, they just think …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:55 AM
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My bad, must just be an influx of people like this here recently - and yes, just like how skydivers don't actually want to fall to their deaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:28 AM
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Silver_Standard_3693 is that you? Are you back from the dead to talk about how much women love rape again?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:23 AM
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Consent is not a turn off, its just common sense. It's talked about in the same tone as helmets or speed limits because it's just a regular everyday rule that people should be following. Consent IS a big deal, but it takes about two seconds to enforce; there is nothing "exciting" about the act of giving/asking for consent itself. Women aren't going to outright say that it enhances sex in any way, physically or mentally, because it is expected. If you were to ask one, she would probably say that …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:13 AM
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Okay this sounds like an incredibly toxic friendship. I'm unsure if this was your or another person's experience but either way, hope you can heal from that. When you notice red flags, dip.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 10:55 AM
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The thing is, women have no problem having sex with people they are sexually attracted to. What point are you trying to make? Women don't get offended about being pursued for a FWB situation. Women do get offended if they have made it glaringly obvious via rejection that they are not interested in having sex with that person, and they still persist. Sex is literally worthless if both parties aren't attracted to each other. This is dummy knowledge and we are obviously not talking about men that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 10:50 AM
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...then they are free to run away. It's not seen as guilting if you talk about why you don't feel comfortable staying friends, and then leave. It is guilting if you talk about that and expect the friendship to turn into something more. And it is cruel to stop being friends with someone without explaining why that friendship is damaging to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 10:42 AM
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Is there not some relevancy to the word though? Sex is normal. A relationship without sex is not typically sought after. A relationship without sex could even be considered a friendship. A man confessing to a woman means he already holds those romantic feelings and assumes the woman has the capability of reciprocating them. We've got romance out of the way, the next step is most likely sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 05:28 AM
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It isn't a contradiction; a lot of men prefer to stop speaking to a woman entirely than be in the friendzone, which women don't like because it means that they actually didn't have any value as a friend to those men. It's usually that afterward part, in which men either leave or keep pursuing, that women complain about, because they are being seen with no worth outside of sexual/romantic interest. The men that stay friends are great, nothing to complain about there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 05:22 AM
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Literally somewhat how I'm perceiving it. Y'all please even if all women see, understand, and empathise with men that they don't find attractive, these issues won't magically resolve.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:34 AM
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You can have that fantasy fulfilled and turn around the next day and claim real rape. Did I not just explain how raping someone does not fulfil their fantasies? I used to fantasise about getting a job, ended up in a supermarket that I hate. I used to fantasise about how I'd look in a new shirt, ended up not liking it and throwing it out. I'm not going to keep working in that supermarket or keep wearing that shirt because I don't fucking want to. I've said it once and I'll say it again: fantasies…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:38 AM
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Well, yeah, you can't actually shoot someone in the head without them dying. Contrarily, you can put your dick in someone's vagina without it being rape. It's called sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:10 AM
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CNC is popular. It often stimulates arousal from both parties. It is something that is explored behind closed doors and with someone who is safe. People are not horny every single second of their lives, that's why sex usually takes place within the bedroom when you are calm instead of, like, literally anywhere else when you're focused on other shit. This is obviously part of why women don't like being raped, if you haven't caught onto anything else yet. It doesn't fucking matter if a woman has a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:52 AM
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A friend is basically just anyone I spend time with. If I'm able to talk to someone for 10 minutes about something that is irrelevant to whatever environment we're in, I will consider them a friend. An acquaintance to me is just what the word implies; someone who I have only been introduced to. The phrase "being a friend" usually implies some sort of exchange, which I guess can either be shallow, common courtesy, or even meaningful depending on the extent to which you know that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:07 AM
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Yes, it is. The truth that women are just the way that they are, and men are overshadowed by them is overall accepted. Basic and condensed info, but very relevant to redpill ideologies. This is one of those conclusions that the community overwhelmingly agrees with. I don't disagree that bluepillers often manipulate the system, it was just irrelevant to bring up given what I was talking about, which was redpilled people. You can be aware of how a society works without having the same core values …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:48 AM
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Men will never be the prize if women dgaf. Women not gafing is like the whole reason all of your issues exist
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 11:05 PM
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LMAOOOOOOO I genuinely thought this was a woman trolling for a second, hello??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 11:04 PM
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And you're the person complaining that they "just get away with it"? Dude. You're part of the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:36 AM
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Dawg did you even read anything she said?? They tend to be some of the most successful relationships because when things get bad, they divorce. Then things aren’t bad anymore. I could name too many straight couples to count that are unhappily married but still refuse to split up. Then things stay bad. I’d say thats a bit more unsuccessful
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:50 AM
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This is crazy because most women don’t even gaf about the job or income they just want the guy himself 😭 looking solely for a rich man with a good job is just such an outdated thing that so many women don’t even bother with unless they’re already rich themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:44 AM
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It’s usually because women put a lot of effort into their appearance regardless. Since men don’t do things like wear short skirts, tight clothing, and have 10 step skin care routines, and wear makeup and maintain/style longer hair (a pain in the ass to have btw), they don’t have the same amount of opportunities to make themselves look “better” without coming off as being homosexual. Women follow a similar format to each other if they are trying to attract men, or even just look approachable to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 10:36 PM
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All of this information yet I still don’t know what point you’re trying to make. Issue 1: Sounds like a dangerous drug. It was used to treat morning sickness and caused a lot of anguish for females. What does this have to do with them being more privileged than men? Issue 2: I didn’t bring up the wage gap. Also, since men and women are getting paid fairly, what does this have to do with women being more privileged than men? Issue 3: That’s the history of voting. It’s literally just the history o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 07:24 AM
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I totally agree, it’s a handicap. But like you said, it’s not women’s fault. I do think that dating and marriage nowadays is centric to women’s needs, mainly because it was the opposite in the past. It’s unfortunate because both genders seem to want different things out of each other and I think it’s unlikely that we’ll come to a conclusion where everyone is satisfied. I understand how you see it as a privilege for women, especially right now
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 03:04 AM
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Exactly all of this. It might not be considered “oppression” to do these things in today’s world, but in my opinion it makes it all even worse because of the very obvious malicious intent. Women are not privileged if they are at risk of harm and hate moreso than men. I hope you are okay and have a good support system, no one should have to go through any of that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:03 AM
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Did you know seatbelts are designed for men? Did you know that menopause studies only really started taking place about a decade ago, and most doctors still don’t even know how to handle it? There are so many health inequalities I could go on about but it’s obviously not just that. Women do have to put in a lot of effort that men don’t. There’s many workplaces that’ll literally turn down women just because they aren’t wearing fucking makeup. More women have started taking up jobs because they us…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 01:06 AM
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Literally and even the becoming attractive thing is usually poor advice too. Women can be 10x more attracted to someone even if they have a flattering haircut, and many men seem to not know what that is. And not many women are that interested in super muscular men; just build your shoulders to have a V body line if you don’t already, maybe lose/gain some weight if needed, and you’re basically the standard. As for everything else, just be authentic, confident in yourself, good at communicating an…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 12:46 AM
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I feel like it’d somewhat solve the “oppositely gendered friend” = “someone I only want to fuck” crisis that seems to be happening
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:33 PM
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Everyone needs to magically turn bisexual right now I’m so sick of this discourse
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:11 PM
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Dude most of those men were introverts. Just happened to be shallow as well, luck of the draw
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:51 PM
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Key terms: - “almost all” - “people who dedicate their lives to it” And I think I’m right in saying that men whose lives revolve around impressing women do most, if not all, of those things. I do not think “Mystery obsessed with going to the gym” cause idfk what that means
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:46 PM
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You made a comparison to “unfortunate freaks of nature”. That sounds pretty fascinating to me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 12:30 PM
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This is kind of making you sound like you think men don’t have interests, or desires to self-express. Also, men don’t show their emotions because the negative results they receive are predominantly from other men. And so the judgement > suppression cycle continues to run. Just more social enforcing, you guys can sort out that issue yourselves if you really want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 12:29 PM
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Right, I dunno how this makes women boring, but I definitely can tell that you don’t take them seriously at all. Which is considerably worse
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 12:04 PM
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Fashion most definitely can relate to conformity. Why do you think men don’t paint their nails, or don’t wear tight pants, etc? It’s because no one else is doing it and they know they’ll be judged. To avoid that, they conform. It’s also important to note that there’s a set criteria for “masculinity” and “femininity” that most people follow daily. Some women are actually afraid to make jokes or comments around other men because it’d be considered “too masculine”, and they feel as if they have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 12:00 PM
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Right. And you’re also saying that women shouldn’t be allowed to vote, not the gender that thinks with their dicks?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:38 AM
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Rural Australia tends to copy and paste their men I fear 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:33 AM
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A lot to unpack here. Are you saying that a woman will be more engaged/try harder to be interesting if they’re trying to get sex out of a man? If so, you’re downright wrong and it’s the complete opposite in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:23 AM
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I know, it sucks ass, but it doesn’t mean you’re not submitting to conformity still
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:20 AM
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Then what were you talking about? I thought your initial point was about conformity. I’m not too sure where all of the self-victimisation and social media exposure stuff fits in when that only really came about 10 years ago, meanwhile people have been conforming to what’s “normal” for quite a long time (making them more or less “boring”).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:18 AM
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Are you saying men 50 years ago didn’t wear high waisted flares and have bowl cuts just because other men did in the 70s? Trends have existed for a longgg time, it’s not like women introduced them or that it has anything to do with masculinity or femininity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:07 AM
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You could say the same about almost all of the red pill men in this sub. The men on here are always trying to morph into something that women will want, but not something that they actually are. Those that dedicate their lives to it end up in jobs they don’t enjoy, obsessed with going to the gym and listening to influential podcasts, and always comparing themselves with other men to see just how much more like them they can get. You can also say this about regular men. I don’t know a single man …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 10:56 AM
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Most of the men I’ve been on dates with have only told me about their exes and trauma. Meanwhile I’ve told them about literally nothing because they talked too much for me to get a word in
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 10:30 AM
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The fact that you are seeing “women here say this exact same thing continuously” and not getting it in your head is kind of astounding. Not saying that physically fit people are less attractive. Just that the boring ones won’t have partners who are actually interested in anything but their looks. Shallow people marry other shallow people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:48 PM
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Yeah probably could’ve worded it better, just wanted to use a very broad example/exaggeration that I see a lot. By “no personality outside of going to the gym” I sort of meant “only good at talking about their own interests, not good at improvising a conversation” which I think makes you pretty uncharismatic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:59 PM
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Exactly. Women are more likely to be enamoured by (or genuinely interested in) an average looking man with a lot of charisma than some six foot guy who mews all day and has no personality outside of going to the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 02:47 PM
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Do you think about women a lot? Are you still quite interested in dating one? Sorry, a lot of questions: what sort of country are you in? Have you tried to get with many women? Do you have any hobbies that other women might share? I just don’t feel like you should give up! There’s so much out there – you won’t be forever alone. I’m glad you’ve realised that “manosphere” content can be incredibly mentally damaging, and it’s good you’ve opted out of that. And I agree with other comments here, sayi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 09:11 AM
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Yeah sounds like it makes enough sense. You agree that 12-15 is definitely too young then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:09 AM
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Yeah I consider myself pretty masculine for a female
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:21 AM
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Last time I checked I got ENTP, I think I might be an INTP now though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:56 AM
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YOU CANNOT READ IT’S KILLING ME 😭 in my first reply I said “men who can manage their emotions and react healthily”, and also said that “if you have a negative mindset” and “don’t understand where people are coming from”, you wouldn’t be considered emotionally intelligent. I didn’t write out: “A generally accepted definition of emotional intelligence is to be capable of managing your emotions and reacting healthily to other people’s own feelings. Having an open mind towards others’ experiences an…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:25 AM
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Oh my god there’s a worm in your brain. I genuinely refuse to repeat anything else because there’s no way you’ll understand it. I hope the nursing home finds you well, however old you are 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 10:45 PM
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Whoops, meant 3 sorry. Anyways, no shit it’s obviously in the post. That’s why I brought it up originally, because it’s hard to discern if you yourself are emotionally intelligent, therefore not filling out all six qualities OP mentioned. And aware of what? Aware of whether you act emotionally intelligent or not when engaging with other people. That’s all I was saying. Anyways, when did I ever say “Women are simply attracted to you because you are positive towards them”? Just pulling shit out of…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:48 PM
1

Six foot or taller is ridiculous that’s a giraffe of a man 😭 I don’t give a shit about their income, but yes, if they have an attractive face then I’m way more into it. But I’d only have a small crush on someone cause of that. I’d fall in love with a guy with good behaviour, looks, and humour
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 12:40 PM
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Of course you’d rather be groped; getting groped doesn’t hurt. How would you like it if I shoved my entire fist up your ass though?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 11:55 AM
12

Oh my god this has to be bait
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 11:53 AM
2

Hey so what the actual fuck is wrong with you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 08:54 AM
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Yeah I don’t think I’ve ever had a discussion with other girls about this lmao. It’s such a juvenile thing to make fun of when there’s usually a lot more defining things to be pointed out. Usually it’s poor smell or just behaving like an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:11 AM
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Read “2. Emotional Intelligence” on OP’s post. Men who aren’t socially aware can’t gauge properly if they are emotionally intelligent themselves. Men who can manage their emotions and react healthily to others’ are less likely to be complaining about why women don’t like them. If you have a negative mindset towards women and don’t understand where they’re coming from, no women will like you at all. It’s a make or break thing in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:35 AM
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Yeah totally – it completely shows the failure in the system. I don’t know why some people think that girls at their youngest are at “childbearing age” when there’s so much evidence against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:03 AM
3

…an inanimate object depicting a real person
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:56 AM
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I don’t run into men like these very often. Usually because most men who behave like this are already taken, or are comfortable being single. Men that describe themselves this way and complain about not getting game are most likely not as emotionally intelligent as they think – that can be a major setback and also glaringly obvious if your life partially revolves around getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:50 AM
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I’ll answer your first one because answering the rest seems redundant to me. Very plausible. The man I want is funny and looks cute. He is respectful of all people unless those people are assholes. That’s about it. His social and economic standings, religion, and how he came to be who he is mean nothing to me. I don’t think this type of man is too rare, so I’d say I’ve got a pretty good chance here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:25 AM
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I know you didn’t specify any, but I’ve read a lot of other redpiller’s definitive descriptions that they think classifies most women (using AWALT), and that tends to be: “most women are only attracted to looks”, “most women are deceitful and shallow”, “most women favour money in a relationship”, “most women dislike a vulnerable man”. I could go on, but these main statements that I see getting thrown around a LOT usually only describe around 30% or less of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:01 AM
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I obviously don’t think that most redpilled men want a child-wife that has absolutely no autonomy. I just think it’s weird that their ideals tend to favour virginity, innocence and younger age in women, and favour ability to commit adultery, have higher social standing, and ability to choose a partner without women’s own preference acknowledged in themselves. It’s just very telling (from what I’ve seen in this sub at least) that a lot of red pill men want something similar to this, which can mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 12:44 AM
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Do you think women shouldn’t get married at all, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:34 PM
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Sure man, both of those go ahead
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:27 PM
0

Tell me your view point then PLEASE
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:19 PM
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How do you know you’re not lying yourself? This is just an assumption, but I’m quite sure I have more female friends and know a lot more women than you do. I observe their behaviours unbiasedly, and, surprise: the terrible descriptions of women that people like you post here are incredibly rare to find in real life!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:57 PM
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Yeah, and we, women, are telling most of you that say degenerate shit that the overwhelming majority of women are NOT like that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:48 PM
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So you admit women have male friends in their circle? That’s what I was arguing for. I’m not talking about the LOOKS, HEIGHT, BODY, DICK part because that wasn’t the point I was making
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:00 AM
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Hello?? Have you raised a girl before? Girls don’t get raised thinking they are a “prized possession” that can do no harm; they get given an example of said thing, like princesses or barbies or people who wear a lot of makeup and are submissive to men. Then they are socialised to develop insecurities because they are told indirectly that if they aren’t pretty enough for boys to like them, then they have no purpose in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:04 AM
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The only time I’ve heard people insulting someone’s dick size was at school when everyone was like 15 and this guy couldn’t fit it in and the girl was disappointed. I didn’t speak up then, mainly because me and my friends were like “woahh people are having sex??!” If it was now, I’d find it pretty ridiculous. Like I’d be mad if someone insulted my genitals, so I’d probably call someone out for being childish if they said a guy’s dick was small.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 07:58 AM
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I’d say that the second group aren’t necessarily older women, but just women who know what they want in general. But yeah you’re like spot on. Most girls I know who date without second thought usually get to know their partner properly after the dating begins, and it either goes downhill or uphill from there. Girls with higher standards tend to be lonelier, and give up on men who don’t fill the image quickly, but they are usually less disappointed in the end for not giving someone they know they…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 07:46 AM
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From what you described, what red pill men seem interested in is very similar to Ancient Greece. In Athens, women would get married from like age 12, rarely older than 15 not to mention, and then stay at home for the rest of their lives. No say in the matter. It’s interesting that some conservatives are comfortable with moralising outdated western culture from up to 3,000 years ago to justify their “ideals”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 07:40 AM
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… usually men who have female friends that have their own female friends. Woman recommends/sets up/introduces her friend to her male friend. Then they hookup. This is almost always how I see it happen. Women don’t often “offer” hookups (especially with a stranger) unless prompted
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 11:36 AM
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Honestly, out of all the options you’ve given, people that get swiped right on dating apps is probably the best bet. Women who have crushes or hook up often don’t always know those people that well, and it can be very temporary and based entirely on looks. When girls go on dating apps they get to see your interests, hobbies, and a bit of your personality as well as how you look, and the accessibility makes it easier for them to find someone that they do truly find desirable. The bestest bet of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:22 AM
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Oh great heavens
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:49 AM
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I dunno man it was pretty expressive like he let his whole heart out with that one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:00 PM
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That was like literally beautiful you should be an author dude. And it’s a very enlightening perspective so thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:08 AM
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SYBAU 😭 First off, give me some examples of some unaware things that women do or say. Next, tell me whether or not you are capable of reading. What I’m trying to say is that self-centred women are a noisy minority that benefit not only from men, but from women too. They benefit from everyone because they only think about themselves, and they’re a noisy minority cause they’re obsessed with themselves and want attention! Most women are quite modest, you just don’t see them going to clubs in modest…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:04 AM
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Counterpoint: when has this ever happened, and has it happened often enough for anyone to give a flying fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 08:59 AM
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What are you even saying dawg 😭 “good, kind-natured man” automatically assumes that he is good and kind-natured in every situation, regardless of whether the significant other is involved or not. If you’re saying that not many men fall under that definition then I highkey agree
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 08:45 AM
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What makes you think women lack self awareness? Why do you think women put so much effort into appearance, posture, tone, etc etc to make themselves seem more acceptable? It’s because they know they won’t be taken seriously if they don’t act that way. Self awareness is engrained into women’s brains the moment their parents gift them a baby doll toy, or a pretty Barbie that’ll give them body and appearance issues. The fact that they know their subservience and beauty is what attracts men, means t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 08:25 AM
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