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Rerichael/r/seduction02/11/13 06:42 PM
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Not only her, but you'll most likely end up alienating some friends from the same circle as well.
/r/seduction24/01/15 06:52 PM
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I think everyone is taking OP's post as "DON'T BUY BOOKS THEIR STUPID AND USELESS" when I believe his point is, you don't need 1000 resources to all tell you the same thing. Anyone who's spent more than an hour or so reading Seddit/AskSeddit knows what the basics are, and to get any use out of that information, you have to put it to use. Knowing what you have to do because someone told you, and knowing what you have to do because you've been there before and know how to respond, are two very dif…
/r/seduction24/07/14 03:53 PM
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Only AFCs get hung up on every girl who won't give him their number. Nothing wrong with a smile, and a polite goodbye in this scenario.
/r/seduction16/07/14 09:25 PM
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That's more or less the point though. In an environment such as seduction, there is no textbook Yes and No. There is no black and white line of "This will work 100% of the time, This won't EVER." If the OP of the other thread was seeing success from his routine, then hey, more power to him. Everything is worth a shot.
/r/seduction15/07/14 05:42 PM
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It's only stupid if it doesn't work.
/r/seduction15/07/14 05:00 PM
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I disagree wholeheartedly. Several of my friend's who are chefs at some nicer restaurants, not high end but better than a regular sitdown place, love getting orders that aren't on the menu. At this middle level between Applebee's and Five-Star restaurant, they often just cook the same items day in and day out. They really like the change of pace. That being said, I'm sure there's some cooks that hate it, just like there's going to be stylists that hate doing hair the way OP described. You have t…
/r/seduction22/05/14 06:06 AM
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I can understand where you're coming from, but I personally don't ever send more than 1 text unresponded to someone who isn't a close friend, unless it's some information I need RIGHT NOW, but at that point I would probably just call the person. I find it works best, especially as someone just starting out, to send texts and forget about them until the person responds. All the fretting and worrying over "if they got it, maybe they saw it and ignored it, maybe it just didn't go through," can real…
/r/seduction17/04/14 07:45 PM
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You'd be surprised
/r/seduction17/04/14 02:27 PM
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Less thinking, more doing.
/r/seduction17/04/14 06:04 AM
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No shame here dude. Everything is a learning experience. Take what you've learned here, and put it into your next set, and you'll grow from there. Nobody starts out perfect. It's literally all trial and error. Just some immediate tips for you, not giving a fuck is a fine mentality, but don't actually not listen. You still want to be engaged. Also, if she begins to talk about something you don't like or don't know much about, ask her to explain it to you. Literally tell her that you don't know mu…
/r/seduction17/04/14 05:36 AM
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Please be kidding.
/r/seduction17/04/14 05:18 AM
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Well in all, the latter portion of my last paragraph still stands. Plus, you'll still end up building false confidence.
/r/seduction17/04/14 05:13 AM
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Agree with everything here, except 4. I would just not text her again Ever. Just chalk it up to a loss and move on. OP has already made himself look fairly needy with the immediate text and no friends comment, anything more is just adding to it all. Edit: word
/r/seduction17/04/14 04:43 AM
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Not a woman here, But I dislike anyone trying to start a conversation with an obviously ulterior motive. I always think why pretend that you want to talk to me for one thing, when I can Obviously tell you want to talk about something else.
/r/seduction17/04/14 04:39 AM
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Of course it's easier to use your phone to communicate. You get to decide what you want to say before you say it, which you don't get in face to face conversation. DO NOT RELY ON YOUR PHONE. Read any of the posts for beginners and they will go on in detail about how your phone should only be used for locking down plans. The gist is that too much texting can lead to lack of actual conversation skills in person. You get used to being able to think things through, and not being witty on the fly. Pl…
/r/seduction17/04/14 04:32 AM
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It's like any other pet name. Baby, sweetie, honey. Infrequent use is alright, but you shouldn't really make it a habit with someone who you aren't romantically linked to. Some people can pull it off, but most can't. Plus, m'lady is often associated with fedoras and neckbeards.
/r/seduction17/04/14 04:24 AM
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Don't know how far you're into college, but I'm sure you know parties are mainly word of mouth. If you're in the dorms, talk to the people on your floor. That's where EVERYONE makes their first college friends. also, look into rushing Greek organizations. some people are really against them, but it's worth checking out. Even if you don't end up rushing a house, you'll most likely still meet people along the way. If you're later on in your college years, and you have an apartment, throw a party y…
/r/seduction17/04/14 04:20 AM
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Superficial means to be focused on what lies on the surface, so not deep, shallow. Sure that can mean the literal surface, meaning appearance, but it could also be the surface of her personality. Astrophysicists are not inherently better or worse people than models. It's about the things you value. If you just look at someone, and pass judgment on only the initial details you know about them, then you're being superficial.
/r/seduction26/03/14 09:40 PM
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Saying it is one thing. Doing it is another. Make sure you're actually backing up your talk on the interwebz. It's the only way you'll improve yourself.
/r/seduction15/03/14 07:49 AM
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I like the general idea behind this, but I don't like all the stuff not directly related to "Seduction" The stuff about Fashion and Fitness in particular. It's not good advice to be doling out to everyone. Like you say "develop a sense of style" but then tell them not to go to MFA. Alright, cool. Where should they go? Most people can't just pluck a style out of thin air. The cologne advice is alright, but there's still a whole lot more than that. And your fitness advice, while it may have worked…
/r/seduction21/02/14 02:12 AM
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I cringed as well. If I heard someone say this, I immediately would think that guy is trying way too hard to do something. I don't know what, but they're definitely trying too hard. Now that I look at it, what does "chillin most, coast to coast" even mean?
/r/seduction21/02/14 02:05 AM
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I think the biggest issue people have with MFA is that there seems to be this culture of a certain "uniform" that seems suggest so often. I believe the issue comes from the fact that majority of the people going there for advice don't really have any sense of "style" so people suggest the basics and stem from there. If you follow the guides to a T obviously you'll end up looking like everyone else that follows that guide, but the cool thing about clothes is you get to make them your own.
/r/seduction21/02/14 02:00 AM
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This is a pretty good idea, but one tip to remember is to no do something JUST to meet girls. Like if you go to a coffeeshop, don't be there JUST to meet girls. Have a coffee, read the paper, surf the web, but don't just sit there eyeing every girl that walks in. Enjoy your time in the coffeeshop. Another example, the salsa club. Sure, there's probably girls there, but also go with a genuine interest to learn salsa dancing. If you go with the SOLE intention of meeting women, they'll quickly pick…
/r/seduction02/02/14 10:44 PM
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Non-Drinker at College here. This is a sort of gray area that often plagues me, and even right now, I'm having a very heated internal debate. Generally, if she is too drunk to hold a conversation, then I steer clear. If she's obviously tipsy, but still holding conversation (actual conversation, not just nodding at me) then I think it'll be alright. Eventually you will hit a point where theres a fuzz between drunk and too drunk. My rule of thumb is that if there's any indication that you think yo…
/r/seduction01/02/14 07:40 AM
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A little harsh, but sadly totally true. My rule of thumb back when I messed around with OKC is that take the current "body type level" and add another level or two. Rarely, is anyone on that site actually "fit/athletic," not to say people are lying, but they just want to make themself more desirable.
/r/seduction28/01/14 07:29 AM
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Just gonna echo what /u/starts_s_ends_lick said, since he hit everything. If you're gonna be on the team, then you have PLENTY of time to spend with these girls. Cheerleaders usually love talking to each other about each other, so as he said, ask them about stuff, Show them you're a listener, and worth talking to. If you have something to add, add it, but try not to outtalk her. You control the convo, but she should do most of the talking. But one thing you can't forget, is to keep things ambigu…
/r/seduction28/01/14 07:22 AM
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College Freshman here. I'm not a pick up artist, I'm not even remotely interested in becoming one. I just joined to help break out of my shell, and the one tip that has given me the most positive effect out of anything is: TALK TO PEOPLE. Guys, girls, cute, ugly, mediocre, barista, classmate, on the street. Just talk about stuff. The weather, the classwork, the big game that happened, Justin Bieber getting arrested. Just talk to them. Once you get comfortable enough in talking to anyone and ever…
/r/seduction28/01/14 06:54 AM
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I think it's important to read the context. If you're trying to be "deep and dark" and she busts out cute or adorable, maybe it's condescending. But on the same token, maybe she didn't know what word to use. What she says isn't nearly as important as what she does. read her Body language, that'll tell you everything you need to know.
/r/seduction28/01/14 04:50 AM
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Just echoing /r/malefashionadvice read their faq and all the posts you can.
/r/seduction19/01/14 06:02 PM
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I didn't say anything about dishonesty. I just said don't bring it up if it's not brought up. If she asks "so how many girls have you slept with" that's bringing it up. Nothing could be a bigger turn off than a guy just spouting off "I'M A VIRGIN BTW" for no reason.
/r/seduction30/12/13 06:15 AM
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I wouldn't mention it. Not that I would avoid the question, but if she doesn't ask, don't tell. If she does ask, don't give a sob story. Be cool, calm and collected. I like /u/jonnysmooth's line best. "Why are you a virgin?" "because I haven't had sex. What else do you think?" Then if they push the issue, just keep being coy. "I haven't gotten around to it." or something.
/r/seduction30/12/13 02:08 AM
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Sometimes people are gonna be dismissive. Maybe your confidence is lacking, so make sure your delivery is in order JIC. Otherwise, if someone doesn't believe you, let them not believe you. If you try to argue how honest you're being, it's gonna make you sound like more of a liar, even if you aren't actually lying.
/r/seduction22/12/13 11:28 PM
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This one is more for a party/bar/club setting, but I'm sure you could tweak it to fit anywhere really. I use something along the lines of "Hey, I don't know you, and I thought I should introduce myself." Then say your name, ideally she'll say hers, and shake her hand. You've opened conversation, and initiated a little kino just on the introduction. Again, this is more for a more social setting, nightgame, stuff like that. But I don't see why you couldn't use something similar in a daytime settin…
/r/seduction22/12/13 10:54 PM
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I'm with you. It seems a bit "attention whore-y" I'm sure OP's heart is in the right place, but I don't know if this is at all a good, or useful, idea.
/r/seduction14/12/13 05:39 AM
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I'm not at all defensive, and I'm not saying I did anything incredible, or extraordinary. If I talked to her and she didn't like me, then nothing would have happened. However, a lot of guys just assume that nothings going to happen so they don't even bother talking to people.
/r/seduction03/11/13 07:49 PM
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She didn't come up to me, ask for my number, and leave. I talked to her, she liked who I was, and she pulled my number. I didn't just happen to me. If you want to just sit around, be pessimistic and wait for something to fall in your lap, you're absolutely welcome to. I'm not gonna stop you, but I personally prefer to do my best to make things happen. But hey, if your method works, then more power to you, brother.
/r/seduction03/11/13 07:40 PM
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I agree that it was a very lucky chance, but if I hadn't initiated conversation, nothing would have came from it. That's what I'm saying. If you don't go talk to people, you won't discover stuff like this.
/r/seduction03/11/13 07:25 PM
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Oh yeah, for sure. I wasn't knocking any sort of gaming techniques or whatever. I was just saying that for any of that to work, you just gotta go talk to people.
/r/seduction03/11/13 07:21 PM
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Not at all. When did I say that? I said that the basis of all seduction is talking to people. I explicitly state in the post that I was not gaming, I was not trying to seduce her, I was simply trying to be social, and something great came out of it.
/r/seduction03/11/13 07:20 PM
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If I didn't talk to her, I would have never known.
/r/seduction03/11/13 04:43 PM
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Thanks, dude. That's exactly it. It all boils down to just being social. Just introducing yourself to people and holding a conversation. That's really the root of all the success you want out of this sub. You can't meet people if you don't talk to them.
/r/seduction02/11/13 09:57 PM
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K-closed but tried to set up plans, but Lamp flaked.
/r/seduction02/11/13 06:44 PM
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Lamp stuck in Penis.
/r/seduction02/11/13 06:43 PM
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Instructions unclear, attempted to seduce lamp.
/r/seduction01/11/13 11:17 AM
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Read this. It helped me a whole bunch.
/r/seduction16/10/13 04:30 AM
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I had this problem all through HS. I was 17, looked closer to 14, and at that age, there's a huge difference. It all boils down to how you carry yourself. Never ask for respect, demand it. Ooze confidence. Get a wardrobe and a haircut that screams adult. /r/malefashionadvice Put on some weight to make you look like a man, instead of a boy. /r/gainit And then take everything you've learned from /r/seduction and put it into use. With EVERYONE. Charming girls takes the same route as charming your b…
/r/seduction16/10/13 04:26 AM
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Don't wanna burst your bubble, but if you weren't actively establishing any sort of relationship during the time you were with her, then it's almost impossible to escalate anything through a phone. That being said, my advice is either abort mission for now, or get her off your phone and in your presence ASAP.
/r/seduction16/10/13 04:11 AM
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This is more or less exactly what he said. Her responding to your questions isn't talking. And if you're texting, that's not talking either. Sounds like you've got oneitis to the point of not being able to realize she's a shitty conversationalist.
/r/seduction16/10/13 04:04 AM
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I think there's a distinct line between making decisions for someone, and being decisive. Like the smoothie example. The girl says she wanted Banana. Boom, order banana. When she starts getting wishy-washy, that's when laying your foot down is good. But if you just walk into a restaurant and just order up whatever you think she wants, it crosses that line.
/r/seduction28/09/13 02:29 AM
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Check out /r/gainit They've helped me out immensely. Check out StrongLifts 5x5, if you're not that experienced in lifting. It's super simple, and can be done pretty quickly if time is a factor. Bench, Squat, Deadlift/Barbell Rows depending on the day. That's it. 3 times a week. They start you off with just a bar, and you add 5 pounds every workout, you'll see gainz pretty much immediately if you eat a lot.
/r/seduction27/09/13 08:22 PM
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I had a question about eye contact. I know it's widely accepted that just making eye contact with everyone you pass is a good way to come off as more confident, but my question is how exactly do you make the eye contact? It seems that everyone I pass is either looking around or at their phone or something, and I don't just want to stare at people until they look at me. I guess it's ultimately a question about how to execute.
/r/seduction27/09/13 08:11 PM
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