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| 15 | FR - 2 | ResidentCut | /r/seduction | 08/04/18 10:08 AM | |
| 7 | How would you open and follow-up/transition with the girl on the right? | ResidentCut | /r/seduction | 25/05/18 07:41 AM | |
| 6 | escalating without IOI's? | ResidentCut | /r/seduction | 17/04/19 02:40 PM | |
| 3 | Easter weekend FR | ResidentCut | /r/seduction | 04/04/18 09:24 AM | |
| 1 | What's your routine to hook a girl? | ResidentCut | /r/seduction | 31/07/18 03:56 PM | |
| 0 | Don't worry about getting your life together to get girls! | ResidentCut | /r/seduction | 31/07/18 05:36 PM |
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| 4 | anyone ever been around an extremely attractive dude and see how women react to him?Some guys just have the 'look'. I think it's mainly about the face. My biggest slayer friend who does everything 'wrong' in terms of game but who get's laid like a rockstar just has a really good looking face. He's actually quite short, though. Body is better than average but he's certainly no bodybuilder! (just has a fairly physical job so he's fairly lean with a little muscle) | /r/seduction | 16/12/19 03:03 PM |
| 4 | anyone ever been around an extremely attractive dude and see how women react to him?that's just what happens when you're good looking | /r/seduction | 16/12/19 10:16 AM |
| 2 | PUA rejection video goes viral. Everyone in the comments are roasting him, should he have put this out for everyone to see?lol, wasn't on purpose. He was just trying to turn a set that couldn't be turned. They weren't interested. He tried every 'trick' he knew, and unsurprisingly, they still weren't interested lol. it's a numbers game. If he opened another 30 or so sets that day, i'm sure he eventually stumbled about a 'yes girl' who WAS into him and maybe he got her instead | /r/seduction | 16/12/19 09:39 AM |
| 3 | anyone ever been around an extremely attractive dude and see how women react to him?Girls don't care about looks :) /s | /r/seduction | 16/12/19 08:45 AM |
| – | Do you believe you can get 'no girls'?I'd say because she doesn't find you remotely physically attractive personally. That's the case 99% of the time with hot young girls. They are very superficial. Just like we are. /u/zincSF may have a different reason, though I do like that you think you could go out and bang whichever Victorias secret model you wanted this evening, or whoever else took your fancy, though. It amuses me! | /r/seduction | 23/04/19 05:13 PM |
| – | Do you believe you can get 'no girls'?Anyone who tells you you can "get any girl" is full of crap and is not a gamer. /u/brabg /u/dromance let him have it, boys!! ;) | /r/seduction | 23/04/19 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe you can get 'no girls'?Honestly, as much as I'd love to think one could bang 100% of the girls he opens if he reads enough PUA books, I believe that there is a looks threshold (especially for young,hot girls) and if you don't meet it, you are wasting your time. She can't be 'turned' with your verbals. Almost nobody disagrees with this, tbh. Even most modern PUA coaches!! Have those who think it's all about 'game' wear a super realistic latex ugly mask and hit on hot teenagers and see how they do. See if they can 'turn… | /r/seduction | 23/04/19 05:02 PM |
| 1 | What's your initial conversation starter with girls at night?how do you respond when girls ignore you or insta reject you and walk away in a bar out of interest? What do you say to win her around ? | /r/seduction | 23/04/19 04:08 PM |
| 1 | What's your initial conversation starter with girls at night?Are we both talking about cold approach on very young, very hot girls here out of interest? (I agree looks don't matter much to women over 50 for example) I've gamed with professional PUA's in London (night and day game) and i've seen them get rejected lots and completely unable to 'turn' a girl who instantly rejects him. (A hard 'no girl'.) I've also see them pull lots, but usually it was fairly clear within a few seconds that he had a chance. (She was a maybe or a yes girl). I feel like usuall… | /r/seduction | 23/04/19 02:31 PM |
| 1 | What's your initial conversation starter with girls at night?I think he's talking about the Mark Manson stuff about yes girls, no girls, and maybe girls. Seddit also agree on the whole. Basically, if she's a 'no girl' (maybe she just thinks you aren't good looking/her type and thus she has zero sexual interest in you) then nothing you say or do (game) will change her mind Not many disagree with that theory tbh. It's not as if we can bang any girl we want. Would be nice, though :) | /r/seduction | 23/04/19 02:19 PM |
| 1 | escalating without IOI's?thanks. | /r/seduction | 18/04/19 07:25 AM |
| 3 | The future of the game (how to get 9s and 10s easily)best way in the UK is to be handsome and ripped and then get on 'Love Island'!!!! That is a pussy pass to the hottest teen girls like no other here | /r/seduction | 17/04/19 07:51 PM |
| 1 | how seduction has changed you?they're hot! But you need to be on their level looks wise I think in order to get them | /r/seduction | 01/08/18 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Leading Gets You Laid (link) - With Audio ClipsHow best to open and hook?! I rarely hook (they are engaged and asking me things back) after like 2 years of game (UK - NIGHT GAME). I tend to open, talk too a brick wall and they then it fizzles out as they are clearly not into me, or they ista reject after I open Am I best off using some sort of script/canned cold reads and teases and stuff? Also better openers? I tend to use more 'natural game' (Hi, how's your night going? what's your name?'' kind of thing) IN for tips lol | /r/seduction | 01/08/18 10:01 AM |
| 0 | Don't worry about getting your life together to get girls!I made a stronger move using 'game'. He didn't make a move on her. She made it on him due to his looks lol Successful because she's so hot and girls are at their hottest at that age | /r/seduction | 01/08/18 08:38 AM |
| 5 | What was your most brutal rejection? Have you ever had a girl just flat out roast you for approaching her?Nothing AMAZINGLY brutal but I get 'fairly' painful ones on the regular when girls just do that 'thing' (it's hard to explain) but you open, they give you a look of contempt and then look at you like you are the weirdest dude in the world for trying to talk too a stranger and then they just ignore you and slowly look away, and a few times they've been like '''Noooooo way! Not gonna happen'' and laugh, basically saying 'you're too ugly for me' lol! Also I opened a girl 'direct' once ('hey, I was … | /r/seduction | 01/08/18 07:58 AM |
| 0 | Don't worry about getting your life together to get girls!he gets her in her prime though and the next dude will get her when she's older, not as hot, and less fun and stuff which is a bit of a kicker lol | /r/seduction | 01/08/18 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Don't worry about getting your life together to get girls!I'm just talking about hot girls as opposed to 'high quality' women who are lawyers and stuff. Just hot teenagers and strippers or whatever etc. That's what most guys want if they're honest, at least until they want to settle down and have kids! | /r/seduction | 31/07/18 06:43 PM |
| 1 | What's your routine to hook a girl?what opener do you recommend? (the reason I change it is because people tell me that doing the same thing and expecting different results is madness lol so instead I experiment) Also, a cold read like ''you look like you do something creative?'' is good? If not, suggest anything more likely to hook and build attraction? thanks | /r/seduction | 31/07/18 06:25 PM |
| 1 | What's your routine to hook a girl?I open in a million different ways. I've opened maybe 2000 sets so far and have experimented a fair bit. I don't really have a 'go too' line as nothing has shown itself to be far superior if that makes sense, but I tend to alternate between the sorts of openers advised by RSD and a few other coaches. Nightgame only Maybe just walk up and introduce myself ''Hi, I'm Julien!'' kind of thing. maybe like ''Hey! Who are you?'' maybe classic Eropean open of ''hey, how's your night going??'. Maybe an op… | /r/seduction | 31/07/18 05:46 PM |
| 1 | What is wrong with my body?Can you get pleasure through masterbation? | /r/seduction | 31/07/18 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Sleeping with girls is actually very simple.No 1 in every 1 to 200 lol. You don't have to do that, you could learn some game and get to 1 in every 50 and eventually to 1 in 10. Dont confuse thirsty with what you are willing to put up with. Thirsty is not having anything to drink. I would hope that talking to 1 or 200 girls to quench your thirst would be more appealing then dying of thirst lol. For the record, I know game (I've read mysterymethod and maybe 5 other PUA books and have watched all of Juliens products and Max's 'the natural').… | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Uk) were these girls laughing at me?lol | /r/seduction | 25/05/18 04:41 PM |
| 2 | UPDATE***I GOT SUSPENDED FROM WORK, IT WAS WORTH IT"Either he's handsome as hell or it didn't happen. So either way, not interested. Nothing to see here lol | /r/seduction | 25/05/18 04:29 PM |
| 1 | How would you open and follow-up/transition with the girl on the right?funny. Although I think a neg on the open like that would just get you the classic 'backturn' and a 'WTF' look lol | /r/seduction | 25/05/18 02:59 PM |
| 3 | U.K.) did these girls like me or mocking me?mocking/teasing. You obviously have some pretty big mental issues(autism or whatever) and it sounds like they picked up on this fast and were just being a bit silly/mean like girls can be when they get together | /r/seduction | 25/05/18 10:09 AM |
| 3 | Virgin. I get matches on tinder but irl I’m hideous...is my tinder pics unrealistic?I swear I’ve seen you post these pics before too You can't spend enough time here. Try about 70 times, and that's not an exaggeration. Liiterally posted this thread about 70 times over the last few months lol | /r/seduction | 25/05/18 08:50 AM |
| 9 | Literally 10 minutes ago I bombed my first cold approach in over 6 months (just recently became single a few weeks). No big revelations but I am alive and laughing at how bad it was.did you go direct or indirect? Talk us through it!!? :) I still have these tragic interactions all the damn time, and i'm like 2 years in without a break lol. I think a lot of it is out of your control. If you are not her type, she will make it so very hard for you that it is inevitably very awkward. I've seen RSDTodd have some super cringey rejections when the girls just aren't interested, and he's trying his hardest to engage them, and they just want him to go away lol And sometimes, your nerv… | /r/seduction | 24/05/18 11:03 PM |
| 3 | U.K.) girl on tinder wants to meet me but am I uglier and different than on my tinder pic?She'd have got married and had kids by now. You've been asking this for like a decade lol | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 09:37 AM |
| 1 | Trying to create a social life with girls in it in Australian universities and goddamn is it hard. How can I do it?Yeah, I never give up lol. Just last night I opened maybe 11 stunning teenagers! (all uninterested unfortunately) but I'll open another 10+ on Friday night. Been doing this for years so no stopping now | /r/seduction | 23/05/18 07:42 AM |
| 6 | U.K.) Do I look worse than 3 years ago?LOL | /r/seduction | 22/05/18 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Trying to create a social life with girls in it in Australian universities and goddamn is it hard. How can I do it?I'm the same. In my 30's and mainly hitting on 17-20 year olds. Admittedly none of them are attracted to me, but doesn't stop me trying! haha | /r/seduction | 22/05/18 01:14 PM |
| 2 | Newbies pt.2All good, bro. I like talking about this stuff, too. | /r/seduction | 08/05/18 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Newbies pt.2You can ask me anything about game and I know it. Problem is that i'm sure like 85% of seddit would say that about themselves too, lol And there's also the problem of it depending who your game 'authority' is! For example, I could ask you whether you should make your intentions clear straight away; The 'correct' answer would depend on your teacher. You might say 'Hell no! Don't show intent until they do!' and you'd be right....according ot mystery method Or you could say 'Absolutely!' And you'd … | /r/seduction | 08/05/18 07:33 PM |
| 2 | The Six Best Products Other Than ModelsInteresting how you can recommend both mystery and 60. I mean, don't they disagree on some huge, important principles? (in terms of when/if to show intent for example) as well as many others If you like them both, who did you end up following in the end? Who is 'right'? Mystery with his indirect game, not showing intent at all until she does, acting aloof and disinterested, negs, etc etc Or 60 with his sexual, forward, direct physical style? | /r/seduction | 08/05/18 05:55 PM |
| 2 | Newbies pt.2For reference, i've been out in bars and stuff for the last 20 years, and i've had a girl 'throw themselves at me' (she opened me) once. It sounds like that happens to you all of the time. So you are LOTS better looking than me, and probably lots of other posters. You say you're a 7-8 which is already super high, and you're probably being modest. So yeah, your experience is going to be nothing like lots of ours. Problem is LOTS of people confuse good looks for 'game'. They would have gotten the … | /r/seduction | 08/05/18 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Newbies pt.2yep. I'd LOVE to have banged one of the last 300 stunners i've approached! Keep up the good work. | /r/seduction | 08/05/18 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Newbies pt.2But Im pretty sure you can just go up to girls and say the word sex and pull those kind of numbers. I'm not even joking I'VE pretty much tried this, LOL. Not even CLOSE! lol YOu'd need tot be handsome as hell to get 1 in 300 bangs from just going up to stunning girls and asking for sex. I'd kill for 1 in 300 like the OP to be honest lol. The super hot ones are more like a lottery win in terms of odds! | /r/seduction | 08/05/18 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Newbies pt.2I think he's saying he'll get 1 out of every 300 hot girls he opens. (so 1 in 300 hot girls will think he's hot too, and then he'll get her) Sounds about right I guess for a normal looking dude. Only male models are gonna be getting every girl that they like! | /r/seduction | 08/05/18 03:18 PM |
| 14 | If you’re inexperienced, read this! Something I failed to realize early on that would’ve saved lots of headaches.If a girl wants you, she’s going to make it easy and give obvious signs. To be honest, I think everyone already knows that. The problem is find these girls that want you! Getting the hot girls who AREN'T giving you huge IOI's etc. THAT'S where the game supposedly comes into play. You seem to be talking about banging 'yes girls' which is cool and all, but I don't think many people struggle with that | /r/seduction | 03/05/18 10:25 PM |
| 3 | It's a Numbers Gamelol, it's not easy. Some nights I come home and want to slit my wrists or get MAJOR plastic surgery, and some nights I come home and just giggle about it!! God knows what effects ones moods on a deeper level, but at the moment i'm not too fussed about it all. They either like you or they don't, and its 100% out of your control | /r/seduction | 03/05/18 10:50 AM |
| 4 | 🕵️♀️If Dating Gurus Were Honest🕵️♀️Ok, I understand now I think. I've already learnt the guitar though :) Didn't effect anything with girls, but I imagine getting rich might!! :) cheers | /r/seduction | 02/05/18 11:31 PM |
| 5 | How important is smiling when approaching/hitting on a girl?Some PUA's say to absolutely NOT smile, and to look more serious and cool. Some say to ABSOLUTELY smile and that it's essential. Same as every other PUA rule really. | /r/seduction | 02/05/18 11:05 PM |
| 17 | It's a Numbers Gameit's just what pickup is, lol | /r/seduction | 02/05/18 11:02 PM |
| 6 | 🕵️♀️If Dating Gurus Were Honest🕵️♀️I became more attractive after developing new-found confidence and skills. Such as? Learning the guitar or something? What's the actual advice here? I need to become more valuable? Like get rich? Is that the same as 'giving value'? Would that not be more 'cocky/funny' making someone laugh or whatever? I'm actually not sure what your post is suggesting lol | /r/seduction | 02/05/18 11:01 PM |
| 7 | It's a Numbers Gamelol, this was me on Tuesday night, only I didn't stumble upon any 'yes girls' unfortunately! haha Good vid, though. That's what game is about | /r/seduction | 02/05/18 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Manuel: What women want how to give it to them vs Mystery MethodI suppose if people can be successful despite doing more or less every single thing differently, 'game' really isn't something that holds any weight and is basically insignificant as there aren't actually any rules or anything. No such thing as 'good game' or 'bad game', really | /r/seduction | 02/05/18 05:55 PM |
| 2 | Focus on yourselfMate, I know how you feel. I've read so much game stuff (8 books and 4 RSD programs) that EVERY single concept is disputed in the the various books! It can make you feel like you're going crazy and that you don't know what to do at ALL!! End of the day, self improvement is always good, but I really wouldn't necessarily expect it to suddenly make girls want to jump your bones! I'm not sure they care at all. My friend plays playstation and gets high for like 16 hours per day, and loads of hot girl… | /r/seduction | 02/05/18 11:31 AM |
| 2 | Focus on yourselfDunno, really. I'm not sure that that's how it works, to be honest. My stud friends all seem to be losers in life! (apart from when it comes to getting with girls lol) But last year I took up playing a sport for a team, got a better job, taught myself the piano (i'm not mozart, but people are somewhat impressed) and guitar and went sky-diving a few times. Also started reading some books which is something i've never done. I hate reading! Hasn't changed anything with girls to be honest, but I gue… | /r/seduction | 02/05/18 08:36 AM |
| 2 | Should the women you match with on dating apps predetermine the type of women you should go for out in the real world?I hope not! I never get a match!! lol | /r/seduction | 01/05/18 07:48 PM |
| 1 | What am i doing wrong?when you're drunk, the girls are also drunk, so they are a little more receptive to talking to some random guy. If you're in the UK girls more or less ignoring you seems to be normal so don't worry about it lol | /r/seduction | 01/05/18 08:15 AM |
| 1 | I don’t think pickup is for me...skill to be able to talk to and sleep with all types of girls I'm no convinced it's really a skill to be honest with you. Maybe that's putting too much pressure on you ,too. All you can do is approach, and then it's up to them as to whether they like you or not. It's not in your control | /r/seduction | 01/05/18 07:48 AM |
| 4 | How is anyone getting laid with messages like that?If you read enough game material, literally every single rule will be disputed (from Not volunteering your name until she asks, to when to show intent, and everything in between) so it's almost not worth worrying about it. IN that sense, 'game' really might not exist. I mean, if there are no 'rules' (which there obviously aren't considering everything is contradicted) then there's really no 'game'. I think just concentrate on the universal things, so just try to convey confidence basically! (so … | /r/seduction | 30/04/18 08:28 PM |
| 2 | 15+ rejections last night, heres what i learned.I got rejected about 20 times last night :) Mainly all dancefloor approaches though. Some girls are into you, and some aren't I guess | /r/seduction | 29/04/18 10:57 PM |
| 6 | How to use tinder when you live at home?Yeah so I'm 18. I just downloaded tinder and bumble yesterday, and I got a few girls who are dtf this weekend. This is me dying of jealousy!! lol Good work, handsome! Just bang them in your car or find somewhere secluded in public | /r/seduction | 27/04/18 10:11 AM |
| 1 | If I'm 35, is trial and error the only way forward?I don't really know anyone with 'game' as such. I have friends who get laid loads, but girls usually approach them and do all of the hard work because they are handsome as hell, lol I go out with a few different friends usually , and they don't think i'm doing anything wrong, but then they are no better than me. Like, I know what my sticking points are I think, but don't know how to fix them without having TylerRSD in my ear telling me what to say for each sentence. Like, I know i'm probably bor… | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 08:41 PM |
| 3 | Attraction -> Hostility?I believe this absolutely happens! Had it a number of times where I've tried to game a girl, it's gone OK, but for whatever reason it didn't go anywhere, and then we I've seen them next, they've been as cold as ICE! One girl I opened one night and I was with 2 friends. All she cared about was me. All over me. We flirted, and nearly kissed. I got her number (she was like ''Aren't you going too ask for my number!!?''). We were busy at different times over the course of a few weeks so we didn't mee… | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 08:31 PM |
| 3 | Virgin, no erection at first try, should I go meds?Nerves. 100 per cent. Meds can help although anxiety is such a strong emotion and can kill arousal to the point that even meds don't 'work'. However, I had this loads as a teen, and for me, a few beers to relax, half a Viagra, and lots of foreplay usually done the trick. | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 08:22 PM |
| 2 | If I'm 35, is trial and error the only way forward?haha - Yes, that really WOULD be a bad appraoch! lol I live in the UK and cold approach girls in bars and clubs. Usually girls who are 18-24 or so | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 02:30 PM |
| 1 | If I'm 35, is trial and error the only way forward?what's a terrible method? I didn't mention one? LIke, you mean the seddit advice about getting more hobbies and working on 'inner game' etc? And No, i'm already in good shape. And my neighbour doesn't 'game'. He's just 'dreamy' looking according to girls (looks like the dude who used to play superman in smallville, so every girl that sees him wants to bang him the second they lay eyes on him lol. Nothing he can 'teach' me, unforuntaely) cheers edit: Or maybe you thought that I meant that MY main… | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 12:52 PM |
| 2 | If I'm 35, is trial and error the only way forward?I chose the 2nd option like 2 years ago in my late 20's. No luck yet, although I've took the seddit advice and got more interesting hobbies. Can't say that girls care though tbh. My unemployed benefit cheat neighbour who only plays Xbox all day is banging like Leo Dicraprio! haha (good looking dude in fairness) Just gotta keep trying. Young hot girls are DAMN hard though!! Main tactic is too ignore on the open and just give the occasional one word response whilst looking away lol | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 08:58 AM |
| 2 | FR - 2yeah, you're right in that i'll never know exactly what 'went wrong'. And yes, I certainly am too outcome dependant. I try not to be, but it's tough!! Like trying to not be hungry lol! thanks for the reply | /r/seduction | 08/04/18 04:41 PM |
| 1 | FR - 2Afraid not :( They were just out as a group of 3 girls, and i'm pretty sure she even told me she was single at one point in the night. And plus the way she was all over him also looked more like a girl who was happy that she'd just pulled some handsome dude as opposed to a girl making out with her bf. Just a strange one as usually the IOI's that I was getting result in at least a makeout. I either done something 'wrong' or the aforementioned 'factors' played a role, I guess... I wish I knew for … | /r/seduction | 08/04/18 04:10 PM |
| 1 | PSA: Remember, rejection is okay.thought on my FR, old bean? Probably out again to see if I can change my luck! https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/89ny6t/easter_weekend_fr/ | /r/seduction | 07/04/18 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Acne destroys my confidence and lookssame | /r/seduction | 07/04/18 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Acne destroys my confidence and looksIt was probably the best thing I ever done to be quite honest! I always advise it to people as a result. I was also a little scared of possible sides. My mum was worried about me developing deep depression/suicidal thoughts etc, but it was the opposite; My only side effects were slightly dry lips and a huge improvement in my skin and general happiness due to no longer doing my very best to hide from people and try to avoid people looking at my face. | /r/seduction | 07/04/18 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Does she want me to make a move on her?and how?.I told her I had feelings for her but she said she just got out of a long term relationship So you've done the hard part of actually showing your interest which is supposed to help you stop being 'friend zoned'. She didn't go for it, though? So maybe she's not into you, or maybe she just wants to make sure you understand that it would be a FWB type thing and nothing serious? She's still hanging around with you, so i'd be tempted to assume that it's the 2nd possibility. In that case, I'd basical… | /r/seduction | 06/04/18 07:26 PM |
| 5 | Acne destroys my confidence and looksAccutane was the only thing that saved me. (I tried everything else). I'M assuming your derm didn't prescribe you that. If not, try to Hop on it. Cystic acne destroyed most of my 20's. I just stayed in my room for months at a time. My skin was strange in that it was kind of clear, but i'd always have at least like 4 very large cysts. The fact that the rest of my skin was faily clear made them look even worse lol. Also, some were so bad that they'd literally change the shape of my face! I still h… | /r/seduction | 06/04/18 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Easter weekend FRI guess I need to try to approach a lot more girls on nights out in order to find 'yes girs' | /r/seduction | 05/04/18 08:08 AM |
| 2 | Easter weekend FRGood to know I done nothing wrong I guess. But annoying that my looks were the issue, too! But I guess you're right - It does seem like you need to be good looking (at least in her eyes) in order to have a shot. Mystery was wrong! lol | /r/seduction | 05/04/18 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Easter weekend FRI'd say 4.5/10 or so? I work out and so i'm not super fat or anything, but facially and height wise, i'm not good at all!! | /r/seduction | 04/04/18 09:27 AM |
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