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Hmm what are ur limitation or what u believe ur limitations are ? would u consider asking a man out ? Are ur standards high? How often are u attracted to men ? ( Like u see 1 attractive man a day or 1 attractive man a year ?) Would u consider casual relationships ( FWB) ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 06:03 AM
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a crazy one: how do female rapist of men exist if it's this easy for women to get laid? They can just exist if they want consensual dick. Why did my female rapist do it? Rape is often about power not sex. So basically she hurt u bc she wanted to and she liked to not bc of actual sex. She could have gotten free sex easily.. hell She could have gotten paid to have sex with someone. That's not what she wanted to do. Very sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 05:52 AM
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Ohh I've heard of that one several times !!! Maybe I'll read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 05:35 AM
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If you want to commit. If a women desire commitment or LTR they'll commit if not they won't. Like all our other desires. We don't need cake but we want it so we spend hard earned money on it. Maybe he's her favorite, maybe she doesn't want to lose him etc. Most of the women I know talk about men like they are specific tools to be used for specific purposes. This guy is good for money, this one is good at sex, this one is romantic, etc. Expound what's wrong with this if she like money, sex, roman…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 05:31 AM
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Plz let me know this books name
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 05:04 AM
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Idk if this counts as a system, Live regular life doing as u please, see man you are attracted to, warm approach( also vet here), date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 04:54 AM
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To understand how much women actually change their behaviors in accordance with their beliefs of men you would need to compare how their behaviors would be if they were free of those beliefs of men. Or see what the outcomes would be if women didn't take precautions. Like if there was a city with good jobs and men vs a city with good jobs and no men how many women would choose the no men city. If there was a all women college with good education vs coed college with good education how much women …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 04:39 AM
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The basis of this is. Lust and love are two different things most ppl like them to work together it's more fun that way. But some ppl develop complexes where they don't want them to touch. It's not false it's been a pattern around for a while, which was how/y Freud came up with it. You can see it still now, how men will view some women as high value or low value depending on if they have sex. It's not like a woman becomes high value by sleeping with him she only really lowers her value by sleepi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:37 PM
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, the mother wants the benefit of raising the child herself, That's a separate task/job, childrearing is a different job than child bearing, so if you were to pay someone for each other those jobs, one would be surrogate 80k other would be nanny 50k. she should not get paid as much, prob only 40k Yes u could argue this but bc she would have to put up her own 40k in case of hiring a independent surrogate between them. Instead she did the work herself as her contribution instead of hiring a indepe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 08:21 PM
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No, if the mother and father paid 40k each to hire a surrogate and then raised the baby, then hiring the surrogate would in fact be an 80k contribution from the parents to the child. So it works. No the surrogate gets paid the 80k and the kid never sees the surrogate after it's born or the surrogates money. I'm assuming there's no point really because the kid is supposed to inherit the 80k either way, . It's 80k it's going to used up long the parents die. It's a little less than average 2 year s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:19 PM
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I have been reading ur post . I used to say 100k way before reading ur post but for poor ppl 80k sounds better. Just that the man owes an 80k contribution to the child, like via a no-withdrawals-until-18 bank account, to justify 50% custody in a divorce in a state like Missouri; he doesn't owe her anything Nope hard disagree. The surrogate gets paid 80k not the kid. 50% custody in a divorce in a state like Missouri; he doesn't owe her anything Sure You say 50/50 financials lovers didn't like thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:56 AM
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Being extroverted is a more attractive trait bc its socializing and makes socializing easier and we are social creatures. Extroversion will help u in nearly every social relationship, friends, boss, coworkers etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:21 AM
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To recap : Op said men may differentiate between different women for Casual relationships vs for LTR material. U basically said this is a reaction caused by women putting men into different categories and both relationship categories are small ( compared to men) for women casual and LTR. I'm saying men do this as a result of paternity uncertainty, they might want to fuck a hoe bc good fun. But are relectant to marry women they consider slutty bc they fear paternity uncertainty and infidelity. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:07 AM
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Yeah, that's ridiculous. If anything, they're probably going to treat you better while they're in the relationship because, to them, you're more valuable. That's a hope and some do but lots don't. If someone has an abundance of options, it's easier for them to take their partner for granted because they know they can replace the relationship without much difficulty. Agreed Meanwhile, someone who doesn't have endle ss options is less likely to throw away a good relationship and is probably going …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:58 AM
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Marriage 1. Is a contract which enforces sharing assets, also giving legal protections to enforce this with financial abuse laws that wouldn't apply to unmarried couples that signed no papers. Marriage would have been useful in the case of a divorce if they had any worthwhile assets. These people sound poor. They likely had barely any or no assets to split anyways. Then add within the marriage it doesn't add financial protection, if a wife winks into her husbands bank and says put $5 in my accou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:32 AM
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I think it's more likely that this is as old as paternity uncertainty.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:48 AM
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But what if we compare it to say hunt down a deer vs pick a apple and eat it. Or Go to the supermarket to buy fish vs go fishing for fish. Many ppl would be prouder of the fish they caught than of the fish they bought at the grocery store even if the grocery store ish was objectively better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:35 AM
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Have you never heard a man insult a woman for being easy or not want to be in a relationship with a women bc she was ' too easy ' ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:31 AM
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What’s wrong with that ? What’s wrong with a man wanting sexual access to women ? Would you rather they be asexual or gay ? The things and levels they do to get sexual access to women can often be harmful. It also is weird bc if u lay it out bc men want sex so much and it shapes a lot of who they are they then think it should shape who women are and what we do and think and live etc . (Theory) It's kind of ranges from simpy to predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:21 AM
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Desperate ppl may be more faithful to u. But that doesn't mean they'll treat u well. They might sabotage you in a effort to keep you bc you are the only chance they have to get what they want. Like if u date about guy don't like him anymore and dump him, he'll be fine and just move on to another woman. If u date someone desperate - don't like him anymore and dump him, he might become problematic to get rid of ( ex : stalking, controlling ). Like I don't mind being alone, I would mind being treat…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:13 AM
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Would it be turn off if u were with a woman and she flirted with every guy she met ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:54 AM
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It's one thing to be low earning but diligent. It's another to be a low earning and lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:33 AM
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Seems like negging? Bc otherwise y would u swipe and match to be able to message if you didn't think he was attractive. Could have just swiped left if she wasn't attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:26 AM
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Plus this scenario would be ten times worse if the guy was a sole provider and left halfway through her pregnancy, no Great point. All she has to do now is get a roommate that pays around 50% of rent and utilities She might have ended up homeless if she was a SAHM. Edit : if he was the sole provider he likely still would not be generous. He might have been the type of guy that doesn't let his wife buy tampons with his money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:18 AM
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Pregnancy should be compensated in any type of relationship. 50/50, traditional, FLR. Edit : also please do not have kids if u are poor. If he's poor dont do it, but REALLY DON'T DO IT if ur poor. Like imagine how different her life would have been if she was financially secure and comfortable before having kids. She could have had some savings to rely on for when she took time to care for the child or she could have affored the expensive childcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:59 AM
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Why do u think marriage would have prevented this ? There are 50/50 marriages, there are husbands who are very tight fisted with their money, there are husbands who are financially abusive. There are husbands who say it's his money and won't give his wife money for anything he doesn't approve of. My grandparents were married and her husband still spent a shit ton of money drinking even though the family was impoverished. He was used to to a certain amount of fun money and wasn’t willing to sacri…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:51 AM
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If a relationship is strictly 50/50. But men are unable to go 50/50* on pregnancy. Have him pay her for his share of the child. Like 80k for each pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:44 AM
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More believably ok. They likely aren't being exploited/human trafficked into this like prostitute often are, the have less risk bc they are anonymous unlike many OF creators. But safe in their home and freedom to choose time and work like most OF creators unlike pornstars. I worry for them way less than sex workers. They are catering to make sexual desires in exchange for money but I don't consider it icky.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:44 AM
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Companionship/friendship, tax benefits,
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:14 AM
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What did you think dating was like for men before you found this sub Harder than for women. Like I've heard more guys complain about being single or a dry spell than women irl. Vs for women irl I don't hear them complain about being single as much. Like women will be unhappy single but keep on going about life upbeat. Some Men will complain and seem really dour about life. Like before this sub, if a guy couldn't get a girlfriend I would think maybe he should get like 2 cats and a hobby and he'll…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:13 AM
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I'm not convinced that most women are that stringent in refusing to date down financially. Especially if some men say ' men are the gate keepers of relationships '.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:59 AM
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But if the government is asking women to have kids for the future, society and all that then the government can incentivize women to do that work by financially compensating them for their work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:36 AM
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Being paid for your work would be great tho. Especially bc the money stays in or goes back into the household or it's members
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:26 AM
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Great idea 💡.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:23 AM
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Good point It would encourage women to be a go getter, confident and aggressive but those are very helpful qualities in life in general. Idk about relationships bc some men keep asking for submissive women, might be mixed signals there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:11 AM
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Agreed at least for warm approaches I recommend it. Anecdotal I've tried it once it went well so I recommended it. The way it is now Many women don't like being approached, many men don't like approaching and when they do approach it doesn't even work the majority of the time. The is so highly inefficient it's silly. Vs at least for warm approaches if a woman sees a man she likes and wants she then ask him out. she is unlikely to be rejected, he is likely to like it and her, or better able to te…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 05:57 AM
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same attitudes that women hold on dating apps. by the same attitude I mean setting a height standard of 6'3", wanting model physical looks, wanting the age of men to be near them sugar dating has always been a place for unattractive men to pay large sums of money in order to compensate for the lack of physical attractiveness but now American dating/relations/etc has become such crap that you see men being expected to pay up and be extremely attractive I wonder how much money these women make if …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 05:43 AM
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Never do favorite hobby again, I'll just get a new hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 05:28 AM
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The wife needs to not use feelings and just do the constant work required of her to keep the family going It becomes outright exploitation in certain situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 04:42 AM
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Sure the kid would likely want that but if the parents don't want that, then the kids wants are negligible. Society will go on. Traditional society also had many crappy tradeoffs that simply weren't worth it especially at the expense of these opportunities. There are plenty of benefits with these opportunities if we would embrace them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 04:39 AM
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I would still argue that partnering is more important Y ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 04:34 AM
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I'm arguing that money is outright more important than partnership. Money is the middle man between food,water,shelter, clothing, safety, security, medical care, want and needs. Money has essentially become a life sustaining resource. While partnership is lots of fun it doesn't sustain life. Plus most things partnership provides can be bought. But partnership doesn't necessarily buy resources. Someone can love you to the moon and back and it will feel great. But that love can't but buy u even a …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 07:30 PM
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There is a post posted within the last 24hrs saying something somewhat similarly. the main point is the sons raised in broken homes whose life outcomes are wrecked by their mothers over their mother's frivolous resentments of their fathers. There are ppl who genuinely believe women should stay in unhappy or bad marriages ' for the kids'. Those ideas are however largely dismissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 07:24 PM
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Y would that even work ? The gay men just wouldn't swipe on her ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:36 PM
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So u (A) never heard of it even though (B) you also likely never looked however you are(c) certain that even if there are men who attempt to baby trap women that the ratio is 1:100 even though you e never heard of it and haven't looked . I just gave u two ways they try to baby trap a woman but I do agree that even when men try to baby trap a woman she has more ways to get out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:31 PM
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If u look at most of history that's how it's been. We were peasant, serfs, slaves and still wanted kids. Poverty and lack of ability to adequately provide for kids hasn't stopped the desire to reproduce before. They would have kids then wanted to put the family in a small shack and could only afford to feed them gruel that became more non-nutritious as the family grew. Anyways Plz don't have kids if ur poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:17 PM
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Sounds great ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:08 PM
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This is pure projection - I've never heard of this being done by a man No men have I ever heard of have even the intention. Did u look ? Bc if u looked u would find it. Ex stealthing or I've heard of men microwaving their wives or girlfriends birth control in hopes it won't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:06 PM
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U can see it in the way they try to use the kids to guilt trip a wife into staying in a unhappy marriage. They'll say like the wife needs to get over her resentments to her husband and not create a broken home for the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 02:53 PM
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Not op but that's literally normal. You do not have to care. The only reason men may care what women think and feel is if it gets them laid. If u stop caring about getting laid then you no longer care about ppl u don't interact with that deeply. Women will just become a sex less blob to u .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 09:06 AM
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Money is way more important than romantic partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:56 AM
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A loyal chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:43 AM
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Y would it be better if a guy was jumping through hoops, jestering, and making money, For sex and for her to be his personal cook, maid, breeder, nanny etc. That's more work and not much more benefits. Being valued for sex as a woman - low effort low reward Being valued for sex, childbearing, childrearing, cooking, cleaning, family relationship as a woman - high effort, low reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:39 AM
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Let's say that's so that being a mom would name you happier than being a corporate drone . How much happier ? What are the benefits? What are the risks ? Is it worth it ? Like if it's 5% happier but 80% more work with significantly less benefits it's simply not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:34 AM
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No. And if men are better now, why wasn't there more complaining before? I always picture those marriages as a job/duty. Women wouldn't have complained to men, the women complained amongst each other. Like you don't complain to your boss about your boss u complain to ur peers or ur coworkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:03 AM
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Tbh if I was a mom I would want that too. Seems easier. I would just outsource all the childrearing if I could also the childbearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 07:55 AM
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Right so the topic is basically some men want a partner to mother them. I added are the men going to be prepared to mother the women in return. . The context of a adult relationship the man would have to nurture the woman to as if he is her mother. Coddle her, listen to her, feed/nourish her, soothe her, hold her like a mother does a kid etc etc like he expects her to do with him. These desires we have to be nurtured don't go away as we grow old they decrease but they don't go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:41 AM
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I’m talking about couples who claim to be deeply in love and thoughtful of one another Women will also complain be relectant to do stuff they simply don't want to do. Doesn't necessarily have to do with patriarchy. She simply doesn't want to get up and make a sandwich. If he is so hungry he can go himself a sandwich. I love my sister but I don't want to make her a sandwich she can go make it herself she'll be ok. Nothing to do with patriarchy just don't want to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:32 AM
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WE as in men and women could have stopped the draft but WE haven't To expound - Men also vote. They could have voted for the party trying to abolish the draft they don't. They want to vote for the ppl that want to draft them. Those studies are cool and all but they're not actual votes. If they(men) wanted a gender neutral draft they would have voted for the party pushing for a gender neutral draft. Not all men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:26 AM
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yo u're assuming separate finances and prenups; I'm assuming combined finances, or the male breadwinner allowing the maid 50% financial control informally because that is the majority, The she would just pay herself the 25k or more in exchange for her labor. He wouldn't even have a chance to fuss. Like if he said u do the majority of the cooking and cleaning for all 3 of us and I do very little in proportion but in exchange you have access to my entire salary and life saving to do whatever you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:19 AM
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If this is the right post I'm thinking of u classified my answer as ' no' even though I said yes ever few years probably like 50 a lifetime. I would be willing to ask out that 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 01:03 PM
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Agreed the decenter men movement would be a lot cooler if they didn't negatively center men while decentering them. Like mention men 1/10 times or something. On the bright side it is involving from decenter men to " Center yourself". bc if the goal was to live a mentally, emotionally well balanced life that was fulfilling of its own . Then even after you decenter men, you still might have to decenter your parents, decenter social media, decenter religion, decenter productivity, decenter the futu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:53 PM
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Joan Kennedy Taylor didn't organize against the draft because she was a feminist; she did it because she was a libertarian That's 1 feminist I said many have written against it. But neat either way. Other than that: feminists granted women the right to vote in every country in 150 years, except one. Coca-Cola is about 150 years old and is sold in every country except three. You guys could've stopped the draft, so you are not the greatest taste around Women and feminist are not the same thing, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:51 PM
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But why would that extra money count to lower earning partner since she isn't going to get it anyways. Like if u got a roommate you made 50k roommate made 100k. Y'all split the rent evenly $500 each, but then roommate 2 also did more chores ? Y ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:44 PM
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"exchange" apples for a pack of cigarettes, there is no money involved What u were talking about in the first scenario the woman is getting nothing in exchange for her labor. She gives extra labor to the household bc he brings more money to the household... but then is not allowed to use the extra money he brings into the household. There is nothing exchanged here. What I said if the woman did extra work in the household bc he contributed more money then she got say 25% of his salary in exchange…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:40 PM
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The average mom in a two parent household puts more effort into childrearing and nurturing that the average Father does. The mom takes care of the kid more, spends more time with it, listens to it more, nourishes/feeds it more, holds it more, talks to it more etc etc Think about what u would do as a mom to kid vs as a dad to a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:16 PM
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Ahh I see
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:12 PM
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She turn her pain into money and it seems really therapeutic for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:11 PM
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They complain about doing stuff they don't want to do. Or doing something they don't see has a reward to it. Ie : date nights, chores, holidays, childcare etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:10 PM
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That's not how algorithms work in modern media.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:07 PM
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It's a comforting kind of funny it's like a feeling of being called a dumbass but in a frenemies way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:20 PM
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No a fair exchange would be dealing with the opposite gender according to their needs Women also want to be nurtured. But I do agree with your point that u satisfy that persons desires the feminist take of everything a woman wants a man should want aswell No one said this. There are some things that are human desires(nurturing). T hen there are things that men desire way more than women do and some things women desire way more than men do. Especially weird when the things men ask for are way mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:14 PM
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Expound bc idk what this means
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:09 PM
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So not never and this behavior is around in many traditional relationships with non feminists women anyways. When we get treated that way so many times we start to emulate that behaviour Sounds like lack of accountability. They don't want to it so they don't it's often that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:07 PM
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. I mean it's kind of a meme at this point about the male best friend to a woman when she calls and he and me we start saying " I told you so" instead of giving console. Yup but I like that. It's one of the funnier parts of having male friends. To be fair I think about 80% of my female friends heart race could have been avoided if they just would listen to me Maybe but if if u asked them if they'd do it again some would say yeah. Like Taylor Swift.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:47 PM
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Then why have I never heard of it? Bc u didn't look u will find all sorts of things if u actually look.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:42 PM
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No, because that money is supposed to go towards the kids; the question is, what does she contribute to "the household" broadly No u used the word exchange. So there should be a exchange of labor for money in that case. If now this 2nd scenario/model where the bar is household contribution for the sake of the kids. And she contributes labour to the household in the form of chores and he contributes money and she cannot at will use the money like it's her wages. Then her labor should go towards t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:34 PM
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When it comes with actual advice some men may give actual advice on how to choose better. For example 1 guy here said select for qualities u like in men first then select form that group then men ur attracted to. So basically filter personality u want first then looks. In ur example this guy is a cheater u should probably choose a different man if u don't want to be cheated on is a good example. Taylor swift doesn't actually seem that torn up about being cheated on. She gets cheated on makes a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:04 PM
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2 example I know of. 1 guy kept showing up to a woman's house and asked her out everyday until she said yes. Another a man kept showing up to a woman's job and asking her out everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:53 PM
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Did u know when men hear babies cry it lowers their testosterone? They evolutionarily evolved to be able to do that Some men, especially when they take on a nurturing caregiver role. It then compounds and makes them better caregivers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:38 PM
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Are they prepared to mother their women ? That would be fair exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:30 PM
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Those are a bunch of conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:20 PM
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I work in a water laboratory. Why ? what is ur job ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:18 PM
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Many feminist have written against the draft.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:09 PM
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Dating a guy that makes more more money than u doesn't guarante that he will give u money or exchange anything with you. Say there was a woman making 50k then she dates a guy making 100k. She does mores of the chores for them both...he doesn't turn around and pay her 25k in exchange. He just has 100k and someone doing his share of the chores. It would be more fair if say he gave her a alot of money and did less chores but he's not giving her the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:06 PM
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Some men absolutely complain if something is unequal, they complain if they just don't even want to do something, doesn't matter if it's equal or unequal . Some men even if they do the stuff a lot of time they do complain about doing stuff to make their girlfriend happy or even just have a easier life. They complain they have to do chores or celebrate holidays or anniversaries etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:01 PM
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Personally I hate nurturing I hated doing it for my siblings and for my friends it sucks. It's a big part of the reason I'm childfree. However I love being nurtured I have also dated men who were more nurturing than most men it was good. They were still not ' nurturing' as a independent verb to describe them they were nurturing compared to other men. The quickest proof I‘d present is the fact women emphatically do not want to ever have to mother you or take care of you whereas men do not at all …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:44 PM
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Not innately but a large risk of there being abuse of power. Think about like is it more likely that in a parent child relationship the parent is abusive to kid vs chances that the kid is abusive to parent ? ( Even to the the point where ppl hit their kids but they wouldn't ever dare hit another adult their own size) Only someone weaker, smaller, dependant on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:18 AM
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Marriage contracts are already insane as is. When u consider you are vowing to be legally joined to someone even if they are in Sickness, Poverty, Hardships and Monogamy etc already this is a crazy list of expectations but then u also add housing, children, chores, independence, sex, chores, opportunities, beauty standards, personal preferences etc it gets to be even more insane a weight. For example a wife could just jump on a plane by herself and move to Alaska for 10 years not see husband and…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:09 AM
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are power imbalances in relationship really that bad ? To me no it's mostly the abuse of power that's bad, also consider risk/reward and cost/benefits. Like with my boss I don't really have a problem with them being more powerful than me in our relationship. But we have a contract that explicitly explains risk, reward, cost and benefits. Romantic relationships don't do that, not even marriages do that super well. Why is it different with relationships ? Increased risks, then compound risk leadin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:51 AM
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Makes more sense when u put numbers to it. Let's say there are 20 men that want to have sex with a woman that she also wants to have sex with them in 1 month. Let's say 5/20 want sex and a relationship. But for men there are 5 women want to have sex with him in 1 months. Let's say 4/5 of those women want a relationship and sex. Women will just have more opportunities for sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:34 AM
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Maybe they find a lot of men with personalities they like . Like for me (avg looking) I predict I will be attracted to 50 men in my life. I have met more than 50 men already who have personalities I like. Maybe liking guys for their personalities opens up more opportunities for them. So it'd be like 50 men for looks, 500 men for personality. Etc. However I do think extremely pretty women care less about personality than avg and below women, but they do care.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:28 AM
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It's not either or, especially with technology ppl adapt . Some women want no man, some women are willing to share a man, some women want 1 man all to themselves, some women want multiple men - visa versa with men. Lots of different opportunities available.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:09 AM
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Also war.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:03 AM
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Closest I think is very sexy and I can imagine sex with him but no I'm not actually turned on enough to have sex with him but I would like to be. And that experience is like a man every few years I predict it will be at most about 50 men in my lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:32 AM
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Growling, grunting, moaning make sounds. I think a man trying to sound like a woman from a porn video ie- squealing really loudly would be a turn off but idk never had that before sounds interesting though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:26 AM
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Plus this Lady just sounds like she has a great life. She eats great food, chills watching TV, goes to concerts and travels. Vs she could be a women who does a bunch of stuff men like instead. She could have gotten married young, had kids, cook and clean etc But for me I know if it was a choice between Eat $90 sushi and $19 coffee or cook for a family. I'd pick sushi. Have kids or travel with pics I'd pick travel with pics etc Watch kids vs watch tv , watch TV .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:33 AM
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All the complaints about not getting likes and immediate sexual interest would be solved for men by going on Grindr. 2nd the motion this would be a great experiment. They don't even have to go on the dates if they don't want to just see how the validation of their desires feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 05:51 AM
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If it wasn't the case I think a lot of the historical examples of enforced female seclusion and purity focus would be far lessened I have absolutely noticed this trend and I agree. Now in the days of DNA testing it's not a huge anxiety. You ever have doubts, get the kids tested in secret, get the results, and now you know. Paternity testing is a great invention. Absolutely the way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:51 PM
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Women by definition of reproduction know without a doubt that the baby growing inside of them is theirs regardless of how many men they're with at any time in the process. Genuinely love this for us. I don't even want kids but even just imagining the security of knowing that if I did have a kid it would be MINE 100% maternal certainty is assuring. Paternal uncertainty sounds like a bitch for y'all to deal with. Really glad there is no maternal uncertainty. Mama's Baby Daddy's maybe. There's no e…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:14 PM
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I didn't watch the video but why would a whore - whore for free. Why would anyone work for free ? That's not what whoring is ? Whoring is a job, the better they are at their job the better they will be paid ! Whores are doing it for money ! do u put as much effort into anything as when u do it for money ? Money is a great motivator ! Do u think grocery store stockers are as organized at home as they are at work ? All the rest of stuff idc, if men don't want to marry then don't. Edit : do u think…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:58 PM
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A guy can see the dishes if it's his turn to do dishes but if it's wife turn to do dishes or he has a SAHW he definitely sees the sink full of dirty dishes and bitches then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:28 PM
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Alot of rapist and abusers don't rape and abuse for sex or abuse sake they rape and abuse for powers sake. They like the feeling of power. Which a lot of dominants seem to have in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 04:51 PM
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This answer seems snarky so plz try again I am genuinely asking u. Bc to me it's like a relationship is worth $20- $50, so doing all the things men want far outweighs the value of the relationship. You know how redpill has sexual market value and relationship market value, I think there should also be a life market value. And pouring so much time, energy, effort into the things men value/desire out of a woman scales back your life market value as a woman. So the you weigh the thing for a relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:44 PM
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1 guy here showed me a video of some woman who was a sahm and her husband made 30k/year.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:28 PM
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Women have always worked. After that the majority of men in history were the "breadwinners" of their families - True. However the majority of people in history were deeply impoverished. Relying on 1 man to provide for a family of 8 led to a deeply impoverished family of 8. Lot of men have had provider mentality but they had very little actual provisions. They could afford barely afford to feed their family gruel. Edit : working a career leads to money, money is the middleman to food,water,shelte…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:27 PM
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Except that a lot of men then call those women "easy" and say it discourages them from being in a relationship with them and some men use sleeping with them early as a shit test.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:17 PM
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do you try to learn/care what men want" Personally my answer was basically I consider it but I don't use it as a compass for life but I would do some things they like . Genuinely I would like you to explain y women would want to do what men want them to do with their life instead of what woman themselves want to do with their life ? What do u think is the draw of doing what men want you to do ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:12 PM
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This was a funny convo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:53 PM
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because real friends and real relationships and development of real social skills are going to be more important That's a great habit to get them in early those are the things that statistically lead to a happier more meaningful life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 10:45 PM
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Aging makes u look worse if u are a man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 10:37 PM
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If he had hair he'd be hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 10:36 PM
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Personally I love male looksmaxxing videos. Experimenting with hair, skin, styling, makeup, jewelry, working out all great to me. Drugs, hammers, eating disorders etc is where it gets unappealing .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:26 PM
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Ohh that's nice that u like that. It makes me sad to watch my dad start greying. I though it would be a similar feeling if I had a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:23 PM
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Define a good person. Define a good partner Define a good man Define a good woman Define all of these separately. Bc if ur definition of good man is a law abiding citizen with a job and doesn't cheat. Vs ur definition of a good woman is a woman who happily cook, clean, has kids, submits, doesn't cheat and maybe works etc That might the reason for the disparity in ur head. If maybe u lowered ur standards for a good woman to that of a good man u that might lower the disparity A good woman that way…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:17 PM
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Men and women with high body counts are statistically more likely to cheat .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:02 PM
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They enjoy huge amounts of wealth and opportunities unlike male sex workers. Male sex workers can earn lots of money as well. Look up Asian male host club workers. I think the top earner from years ago was earning 2 million a year. Or look up male pornstars they can also make a lot of money. We pay for water and food because we get something in exchange. U get porn in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:00 PM
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what were you expecting in the first place? Because disappointment, after all, is the falling short of expectations. Are you comparing men to disney princes, men from books, celebrities, or something else? What were you hoping men would have that they don’t? Personally I realize I was expecting masculine mothers that were very friendly. I didn't get that so it was disappointing. I was hoping for nurturing men who were very good companions. Like my types are effeminate twink like men and even so …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:09 AM
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I understand what ur saying. Their pov is illogical but for a lot of them their libido is like their heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:54 AM
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Its a unrealistic standard to expect everyone to get into relationships and have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:22 AM
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If its not feasible to control men's horny then it's a great move to tax them on it. They can pay to get their 'needs' met just like they they pay for all their other needs, food, water, shelter, clothing. Maybe it'll incentivize men to control their horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:11 AM
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Lots of male porn stars and male only fans creators lots of men who are ' gay for pay ' lots of male prostitutes as well. However the main market there are still men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:02 AM
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I agree with u op. Alot of relationships are engineered from societal pressure ie tradition and culture. They would not naturally form these ways without culture and tradition. There would be relationships though but not like this. We can see it especially when we look at history and compared to now. The deterioration on the draw of these social relationship when they're no longer 'needed'. I think that the purpose of marriage is becoming obsolete and the main draw of it in the future will be tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:05 AM
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Ahh this is what we needed some body to analyze his looks ? Where do u learn to analyze looks like this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:55 AM
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U find 100 men attractive in a day ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:31 AM
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Some interest but I weigh it on a cost benefit analysis. . how much time you spend learning about men? Lots do you change thing you do based on opinion from men? or would you? ever? Yes, especially if the advice isn't too much trouble I'll give it a try. do you or have you ever try find out where men are and go there to try to meet them? Kinda sorta, I socialize in mixed groups (church, school) and got men there. how intentional do you do any of this? Always open not often intentional. But when …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:22 AM
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Sometimes it seems that men/women think that bc they've put effort, desire, hope or pain into something then there must be a good reward at the end. When to me it's like ur just suffering for sufferings sake, like self harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:51 AM
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Start investigating, likely divorce, give him the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:29 AM
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I find more men attractive than sexless men find women attractive for both sex and commitment. What ur range if u were to estimate, a guy here said he was attracted to 40 women a day ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:21 AM
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It is weird it's like bc they want to have sex with us they want to move us to entirely different social category with weird social rules outside of all the normal socializing. Like if u make friends u have preferences for who u want to be friends with and who clicks with u and how u make friendships. Like if u want to be friends with a coworker u exchange numbers , then u ask them to join u for drinks after work, then dinner after work, then u make plans to say go to a movie together, then anot…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:20 AM
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ugly, low status Man "dominate" because he can yap the correct way. Idk about dominate I've seen men like this get in relationships and also cheat while in those relationships bc they flirt well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 02:13 PM
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The Garrison commander Zhang Xun offered up up his concubine to be eaten 1st.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:33 PM
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Not op but I'll try to answer; Why did you feel those emotions, it's kind of a form of empathy/putting urself in FMC shoes/relate to FMC, and projection and the ability to suspend reality and just follow the author she tells u and shows you what to feel and u do ( If they're good) so u get really immersed into the story. While knowing u are safely and comfortably lounging on the couch. ( Kind of y we have elementary school kids read Hatchet, and Anne Frank in middle school and enders game in hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:51 AM
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My dad's agnostic but let my mom raise us very Christian. Now I'm kind of in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:40 AM
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the part of focusing on what one is getting from relationship and whether they are happy right now, rather than obsessing over someone else's internal world is honestly healthy. It protects one from a lot of bullshit and overcomplicating matters because you are in or out based on what's actually going on rather than elaborate theories about what anyone is thinking Highly recommend. It's a big weight off your shoulders to live for yourself and your own self interest primarily. Life is so much mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:26 AM
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I thought older men just didn't care that the younger woman wasn't actually into him. He primarily cares that he's into her and can fuck. Her not being into him is kind of unimportant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:37 PM
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I don't disagree with blackpill going mainstream. I think it has many good points. I mainly disagree with their extreme ' woe is me ' attitude, lack of nuance and I worry they overfocus on beauty. Beauty is social currency which is great but there comes a point with beauty that the benefits are not worth the cost. But I'm glad it encourages men to care about their looks. I think it results in prettier men. For the cons though over focusing on beauty kind of fucks with your head. Edit : workout, …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:21 PM
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Yes but only some women. They look normal to me but very introverted and religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:04 PM
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It is likely if u are a hypergamous sahd u will be awarded Alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:44 PM
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Do you think you'd have a lot of success dating in 2026? I think I would have similar success rate to my current self. But that's heavily influenced be female sexuality. Men have great success rates for female sexuality they have bad success rates for male sexuality. If we're comparing men's body county within heterosexuality vs men's body count with homosexuality. Do you think you'd treat women well according to society's standards? Yes Do you think you'd be more content than the average male t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:12 PM
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How much effort will that take ? And if u compare y spend that effort working on someone else when they could spend that time working on themselves and actually have a guy who did the same himself? If u spend all that time working on a guy and then y'all break up that's a possibly major waste a time and effort for u. Though it could also have a good success rate. If u spend that same time working on yourself it yields results too. Extreme example Jeff Besos, Bill gates. Mark Zuckerberg. Jeff Bes…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:47 PM
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Why would you be surprised it counts? Bc social media connections are kind of irrelevant to irl life to me. But maybe the majority of people have relevant interactions on social media. It seems to me to be something the majority of people just use bc they're bored and something to pass the time. ( Lots of people do and could but not the majority) Like borrow a of sugar from a neighbor vs borrow sugar from a guy on Facebook? Stay at a friend's house u met irl or say at someone u met off Facebooks…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:53 PM
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You mentioned "death grip" which is how I already knew you didn't really know what you were talking about you didn't really know what you were talking about. Nobody is gripping their balls or penis that hard unless they're a masochist. That shit would hurt. The term was coined by a male sex columnist or at least attributed to him. It is a slang term, similar to men ' beating off' or " beating their meat' or ' choking their dicks' or ' choking the chicken' or 'jerking off' etc all of these also s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:40 PM
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Thank you for your research. Very interesting. Shower heads are great, I didn't know that guys were using them to masturbate too. If u used the shower hear to masturbate everyday would u ' lose sensitivity ' ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:14 PM
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If u put the vibrator down after holding it for a while ur hand is back to normal and just as sensitive within the next hour similar to clit ( unless u are sore or physically at the point of exhaustion.) If u hold a vibrator every day for a hour your hand will be back to normal and just as sensitive when u put it down and let it rest for a hour. Vs with dicks and death grip even if they don't masturbate for a day they still have difficulty ejaculating. They can recover from it but it take a much…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:53 PM
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I would actually like to know the argument for this if someone could expound y it would be better to build compatibility than select for it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:07 PM
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Theories and correlations yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:02 PM
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U don't to to experience something or have consequences to learn. ' Experience is the hardest kind of teacher. It gives you the test first and the lesson afterward.'
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:51 PM
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Your right I'll amend my statement. Men masturbating frequently and vigorously can lead to a marked delay in or inability to achieve ejaculation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:38 PM
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😊
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:19 PM
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I don't have a penis but I can read.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:50 PM
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https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5756804/ From article The term delayed ejaculation (DE) (also called retarded ejaculation, inhibited ejaculation (IE), inadequate ejaculation, idiopathic anejaculation (AE), primary impotentia ejaculationis, or psychogenic AE) has been used to describe “a marked delay in or inability to achieve ejaculation Some of the causes being Positive reinforcement associated with self-masturbation, J. Unusual masturbation techniques : High frequency masturbation, Id…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:47 PM
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Kinda just sound like she lost the skills with her fingers like she forgot how to masturbate without a vibrator not necessarily that her pussy lost sensitivity. Or maybe some do and there is more research to done. Or maybe she is masturbating till she is sore or past the point of being physically exhausted ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:36 PM
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There are Facebook pages of are we dating the same girl active for years in many different cities . What your talking about is different than is a public sexual database of different women. Which is differen.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:00 PM
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So when women have problems the problem is the partner Sometimes yes, sometimes it's her. Doesn't the science say women lose sensitivity too No
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:54 PM
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Dicks are different the pussys. Masturbation with regular death grip will make it harder to orgasm in partnered sex. Pussy don't lose sensitivity from vibrators. Regular vibrator use in masturbation does not make it harder to orgasms during partnered sex. There is research on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:53 PM
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Some men would genuinely like this some won't. I think it would feel like mothering, some men like being mothered some don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:41 PM
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whether asset division is 50 50, or based on what people started with, or based on some other system of "fairness" varies by state U could also get a prenup that decides this Why am I asking any part of Reddit outside of TRP for dating advice in the first place Better to talk to a in-state divorce lawyer than a dating forum. This is just a place for people to fight -.- Yeah this is a debate sub
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:39 PM
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Ahh u meant social media. Yeah we do have a greater social reach I can see that but it's such a shallow connection that is mostly negligible. They don't even reach the level of acquaintance. It's someone who saw ur picture on their phone and sent a text and then u ignore it, that's the sum of the social connection. Vs with Grandmas generation even neighbors she doesn't like have a a deeper social connection. At least she knows their real name, their dog's name, where they live, waves at them whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:34 PM
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I don't think women respected their ancient rapist husbands. Or else it wouldn't have needed to be constantly nagged into women to respect men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:29 PM
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50% of marriages end in divorce bro Divorce is something to worry about. Alimony as someone making 0- 40k. - Full-time baker that starts at 40k and can top out at 120 k Maybe if u were earning 120k and her less than 100k maybe. But if she hypogamous and also earning well or more than u there is likely no alimony rewarded. I'm not gonna watch the YouTube video I don't want to mess up my algorithm. Division of assets, house That y'all will likely split 50/50 But 2 income household y'all have both …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:09 PM
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Expound. If I think of Grandma's social network Church, Family, and Community center. In person and easily maintained. She sees her ' friends ' at least twice a week even for a quick chat after church. More likely that they'll come over after church or another day for sweets. ...... If I think of mine work, family and friendships I have to deliberately maintain. I could build a life like my grandmas and when I did it was much more social. .......
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:32 PM
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Thats not what's in in the op. In the OP u are a hypergamous sahd, u wouldn't have a income so she can't claim alimony. For this scenario B it's also very unlikely that she can claim alimony. This man likely has no money to give. She doesn't deserve alimony and u have none to give. She wouldn't look to u for alimony. She will have her high paying career that she built. Alimony is gender neutral and what u are worried about doesn't make mathematical or legal sense to be a worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:23 PM
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Right, Pretty privilege still works for single people. Being single by choice is seen as good. Being single bc no one wants u is seen as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:15 PM
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There are lots of women who find gold diggers respectable even if they aren't gold diggers
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:02 AM
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Also Joey from Friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:29 AM
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Agreed this is a big reason u I think dating is easier for women. I can't really think of any condition a woman could be and have no male company. 600lbs, refugee who do speak the language of, drunks, drug addicts, prostitutes, criminals, disabled, ugly etc I disagree that having male company is necessarily a deal that makes you set for life. But if all you wanted was to not be alone then I guess. You might not necessarily get good male company or male company with long term intentions or they m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:07 AM
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U can't pay her alimony you won't have a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:46 AM
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Congrats 🎉🎉🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:25 AM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:22 AM
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U dont think most ppl are happy ? Most ppl seem chill and contented to me. Not happy /euphoric but happy/content.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:43 PM
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You ain't never seen a relationship where the women is like a serial cheater ? Or a mean bitch ? Or abusive and destructive ? And the guy is kind of just regular or sweet ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:41 AM
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Y ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:22 AM
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They can be a unique pleasure and comfort to women. I'd be sad if they all died. It'd be like never seeing cows or dogs again. Also they are a great work force for society.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:00 PM
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Pretty much the same process. See a red flag or incompatibility move on the next hopefully better man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 08:00 AM
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How ugly are u ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:16 AM
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This is a great analogy. I think of it as as a kind of stats bar like on Sims but this is better
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:13 AM
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Treat partners as disposable and swap them out like you do car parts That's what choose better is . You can't change a man. Either accept him as is or change the man. If u have different values from a man then y'all are incompatible break up that's the best chance y'all have of meeting someone y'all are compatible with, or compromise ur values/ principles or hope he compromises his values and principles or stick your head in the sand until you can't ignore the incompatibility anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:56 AM
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I don't think fwb would count. That's just a friend u fuck sometimes not like a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:12 PM
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Lying is worse. If u pay for it, both ppl genuinely benefit. Guy gets sex, women gets money. The con is renting human beings, possibly participating in the human trafficking industry and all the horrible stats about prostitution. But maybe the prostitute genuinely chose prostitution and doesn't have those cons. If u lie to get sex, it's like (1) well u didn't care about genuine connection so it's really just about physical pleasure which u could have basically gotten the same thing if u masturba…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:07 PM
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Like 90% of my attraction is his face, body, personality and vibes. The other stuff doesn't really increase by attraction it helps sustain attraction/ it keeps it where it is, or it increases my pleasure but not really my attraction. If he doesn't do some of those things my attraction will wane some.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:57 PM
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Politics are important they represent differing values.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:53 PM
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Exactly so the best thing to do when u realize u have the wrong one ( maybe differing values, both liberals but 1 thing they don't agree on) is dump him and move on. Not what op is suggesting which is have a conversation. And accept the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:51 PM
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EUr right on u can see time links if u consider some other things ppl/society says (as well as history) (1) Ppl/men/society saying women have inherent value and or purpose bc they can have kids/ are desired for sex. (2) Ppl/men/society saying women have inherent purpose and or value bc they can have kids/ are desired for sex (3) Ppl/ society saying women are selfish for not wanting kids. (4) Ppl saying women are selfish for not wanting to get married or be in relationships or have sex with whate…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:41 PM
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when women say they're attracted to confidence, what do they mean? Confidence is sexy. When I say confidence I picture happy/assured one way or the other. Like if a guy he ask u out u say yes he's happy, you say no he's happy. Or confidence/grit or like zest for life which is inspiring to be around. Do you think most people are confident? Enough to get stuff done, not enough that that would be their primary adjective . Like most people can engage confidence but they have to try to. It's not thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:49 AM
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I lost my virginity at 26 and feel fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:27 AM
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Im not forcing this tradition on him. If this was forced I think it would be wrong. He wanted a rite of passage this is one that already exists he can possibly adopt and modify if he wants. I'm not gonna break into his home and force him to do it this is just the one that sounds most interesting to me. If he wants to do it he gets a party,rite of passage and a design on his penis of his choice and if he doesn't want to do it he doesn't have to and can just make something else up. saying he isn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 08:03 PM
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Maybe that's y he kept vetoing men ? Maybe he was afraid of fucking a man ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:35 PM
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30% -40%
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:34 PM
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Is this the 3some man ? Had he ever actually been with a man before ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:18 PM
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it's our penis. It's not some cookie to cut into shapes you like I would not be the cutter. There are professionals. Plus he should get to pick the design since it's his penis and he should first and foremost do it for himself He can pick shapes he likes. No one would be interested in it Idk the evidence shows that the Philippines has middle/high marriage rates, high cohabitation rates, high infidelity rates. So maybe the women who c them IRL find them very desirable. There's nothing really to e…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:10 PM
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I would. I think the majority of men's gender roles are performative and impractical. So if they traded some for actual practicality and pleasurable instead of being performative that's great. So maybe add cooking and cleaning on his part as well. How often is a guy really going to same me from a armed robber ? Vs How often would he help me actually eat ? ( cook a delicious meal ) Except for the money part but that's bc I like money. Doesn't have anything to do with the guy in the relationship I…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:46 PM
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Idk if it's really changing personality so much so as just adopting new stuff and adding that on to ur personality. Like I wanted to be nurturing so I made a bunch of nurturing friends and hung out with them and did what they did. Till I could think of it on my own. Watch and learn. Same with kind, studious, athletic etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:37 PM
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You are free to have your partner's penis cut in the shape you desire. I would not be the cutter. There are professionals. Plus he should get to pick the design since it's his penis and he should first and foremost do it for himself. ( Like a tattoo). Leave the rest of us alone I'm trying to help u get the rite of passage u want from already existing rites of passages. I agree with ur op. Plus I said we can do it when men are adults like 20. It's better we don't feel the pain when we are aware a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:29 PM
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U just need 1 sperm cell for a child, spend 5-20 minutes with a guy he gives u millions. Plus if ur a woman and u for us on urself, and ur wealth u can afford to buy sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:18 PM
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Plus we can make a new system social security has been around for about <100 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:14 PM
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I think it will be more good than bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:12 PM
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I obviously am not pro circumcision as a male. I understand why women would like that Even if you could cut in cool designs like a flower or star ? We do get ear piercings before we even get to 2-3 age here. It's a small ritual rather Maybe make the rituals bigger and later so the feel they got a rite of passage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:08 PM
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I live in the south it's normal. I was even called ' miss ma'am ' as kid that was a chid though. I call girls ma'am.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:58 PM
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I've heard that when u get the vaccine they put a chip in u at the same time so ' they' can track u. This person was mentally unwell though so I wouldn't listen to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:54 PM
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Their cheeks get red, their eyes get watery and they cant hold their face for long as compared to regular and can't hold eye contact for long as compared to regular either. They'll be fine though just let them cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:50 PM
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E ven though he would get to fuck the 3rd too ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:34 PM
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Or do both. That would be a cool experiment I would like to c that experiment, a gay man flirting vs a impoverished women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:37 PM
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Ahh did he think the guys were too ugly to fuck ? Or like too big ? Or too hairy ? Or just not his type ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:36 PM
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U have been debating in bad faith the entire time. The only thing u have replied with is derailments of ops debate. I would still like to c the thread ur talking about plz link it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:34 PM
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Why do u like him now?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:24 PM
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Ok we can move it up to late adolescence like 17. 15 u learn to drive, 16 get license, 17 tuli, 18 adult. Or maybe age 20 tuli, I haven't seen them IRL but they say you can make a design like a star or flower.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:53 PM
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Sill irrelevant to the ops topic. Link the thread I want to c sounds interesting. You can scream whataboutism all day long but that's not going to shut men up about this. We're gonna get heard if we have to just keep adding numbers and volume to highlight this moral discrepancy. I'm far from the only one who's been calling this out. That's neat and all but still irrelevant to this topic. Which means OP is right bc u provided no evidence against her claim just a bunch of irrelevant derailments.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:42 PM
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Why do u like this man ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:06 PM
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The wealthy men pay them lots of money to do chores or pay someone else to do chores. ( Maybe they marry wealthy men to escape chores) Y would she go work for a poor man he can't pay her well ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:02 PM
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Look how he washes his car vs how he watches a pot. If he does then to the same quality he's probably just incompetent or hates chores. If he does them to differing qualities then likely weaponized incompetence or just hates chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:00 PM
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Feminine energy - or performative femininity, sweet, flirty, bubbly etc .
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:58 PM
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I agree with ur title. ( Mainly bc I hate chores ) I think a lot of men would take that deal and be happy with it ( especially if they got tons of love, respect, appreciation and of sex in return). ( Maybe that's the deal your great uncle got). So it's a solution for some. Genuinely would consider that deal myself sounds great.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:56 PM
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" men are supposed to be leaders of the home " leaders usually do the majority of the work. Ceo's schedule is ' 7am -11pm ' or realistically average CEO works 60hours a week. Regular employee is 9-5 or 40 hours a week. If they want to be leaders at home the numbers aren't showing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:47 PM
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So whataboutism Which is still not on topic and doesn't answer OP. Plus u could have just stuck to porn then, the majority of women watch porn, if op did watch porn but didn't want a boyfriend who watched porn maybe that'd be relevant/hypocritical. Even though u can have values/standards that you yourself don't meet. Like guys who want a woman who cooks and cleans even though they don't. Porn and erotica are very different. She might be against the porn industry bc strong overlap of actual peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:41 PM
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Was ur ex bi ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:27 PM
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Yes we do read romance novels but that's not the topic. op thinks decent men are men who don't watch porn. U recommended men in the friendzone...which is irrelevant bc those men also watch porn. So they are also indecent men according to OP's values. Then u answered me about women reading romance novels even tho that's also irrelevant to the topic. It would be relevant if the post was about a man whose values were women who don't read romance novels or erotica. But that's not this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:14 PM
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how far can men take looksmaxxing before he starts to look effeminate/non-masculine? Makeup, anything they do to their face besides clear skin starts looking a bit feminine. Is the boost in looks still worth the drop in perceived masculinity ? Imo yes bc they're hotter overall. Like I think gay men are often hotter mainly bc some gay men looks maxx ( makeup) and often still look after their masculinity ( muscles). So muscles vs muscles + eyeliner/kohl + foundation and concealer and gloss. I get …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:41 PM
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That's kind of how it is for me though. I predict i will be attracted to 50 men in my life. I will be able to rank those men after being attracted to them. The rest of men I'm just not attracted towards and they don't cross the attraction threshold therefore I don't care about their league or where these other men rank bc it's not really relevant if I'm not attracted to them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:02 PM
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The most effective emotion against male sexuality is disgust I think it will be effective in getting men to think women are off-putting or it's the best I can think of.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:56 PM
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In general, not a lot of women are marrying men that earn less. In casual dating, sure; but not marriage, where women tend to make deliberate choices - Ok but either way they do the majority of chores. If the marry men who make more or less they still do the majority of the chores. At least if they marry men who make more and they do more chores but they'll give more money to the relationship. N ot of women are marrying men that earn less. In casual dating, sure; but not marriage, where women te…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:39 PM
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Women do more work around the home even if they are the breadwinner statistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:12 PM
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U look like u went from skinny fat to starting to get fit. Looks nice. Y is ur shirt on in the 2nd photo though ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:09 PM
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Hello I actively mask many times. U might need to make a new mask. This one seems like it will burn u out. U can try melding parts of your actual personality to ur mask.until masking feels like it actually helps u instead of harms u. Or just try a different one with different actions and see which one gets u what u want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:05 PM
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I've read that in the Philippines the men have a rite of passage at adolescence (10-14) it's called tuli. They get a circumcision like event and they can cut their foreskin in different designs. So maybe we can spread that practice. Plus then we discourage male circumcision at birth and wait until they get to decide. Tuli, also known as pukpok and pagtatak, [1 ] is a Filipino rite involving cutting or removal of the foreskin ( circumcision). It has a long historical tradition and is considered a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 04:56 PM
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Men themselves say they don't need to be attracted to someone to have sex with them so maybe work with that. Just think of the other men as like slump busters. Plus for a lot of them they don't care about the emotional connection and personality anyway so and if for them sex is just about feeling desired and the physical sensations of sex they can do this with men. The only issue would be body. Really I recommend OP u/Numerous-Month-7688 go on Grindr and they would be the object of lust like he …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 04:02 PM
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Yup heard all this reasoning before but here's my point of contention It was created as a way to ensure that agriculture and food production was sucessful and passed to sucessive generations and to ensure that agricultural production was protected Logically 1 they should have passed land through women since there is almost always maternity certainty then they could have continued not caring who the father was. Then all the group would have continued to raise young together and share in the agric…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:28 AM
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You think men in the friendzone don't watch porn ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:43 AM
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I'm not married so take this with a grain of salt. Do women value past investment into a relationships ? Yes. They're great memories. They have less bearing on what I should do with my future though. If the memories are enough for the guy, it not like leaving him will erase his memories he still has them and can reminisce on them if he likes going forward while he is single. I've never heard of a relationship where the couple lives a simple life and does simple things (like a walk in the park, g…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:11 AM
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I think they probably but additional questions to consider. What's the lowest amount they'd go , like $20 ? Or what would be the amount thresshold offered that at that amount 50% of men say yes ? Like the majority of men say no until u get to $50 then half say yes and at $70 75% say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:36 AM
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Well see the Bible never actually says this god omnipotent, omnipresent and all knowing It describes things close to this but I'm not sure if he is actually everywhere or can choose to be at times or not. Bc even in the garden of Eden story 8 And they heard the voice of Jehovah God walking in the garden in the cool of the day: and the man and his wife hid themselves from the presence of Jehovah God amongst the trees of the garden.9 And Jehovah God called unto the man, and said unto him, Where ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:11 AM
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, with this framing you do frame god as the automatic authority. At the end of the day the whole apple of Eden story amounts to “don’t eat this specific fruit because I said so. Got it?” And what? The only justification is “well god made that rule so I’d better listen Yeah but my reasoning there is more like the fruit was God's and he didn't mean to share ( I think it was 2 trees he didn't want to share) . Which is y I do think of him as the automatic authority it's literally his possessions. He…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 04:43 AM
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What a interesting pov. It's not like she had sex with the snake over her husband. She choose the snake over God.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 04:33 AM
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Maybe they didn't understand disobeying God was wrong they did understand consequences. The consequence of eating the fruit was death God warned them of that they did it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 04:28 AM
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Mainly indifferent to something cute and quirky about them. Same as with every one else. Like friends that has a special interest in kpop, Disney or other niches. Unless it got too weird or too much then it would be a turn off . Like if I wanted to have sex and he wanted to play with legos everytime instead then that'd be a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 04:17 AM
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I think your right specifically here I also think social media post COVID world has made some women afraid of talking to men, not just threats to physical safety but nervousness about being seen, intimacy. a lot of people should have been out of the ' afraid of women/girls' and 'afraid of men/boys ' phase around middle and highschool but instead they're becoming adults still with this fear. ( Not actually afraid like fear of being murdered or scammed or beat but afraid like paralyzed with nervou…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 04:06 AM
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Yes. Ppl commonly give unmet desires as reasons for cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:58 AM
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It's normal if u consider that men are significantly hornier. Like a man lusts after 40 women a day then he might try to get 40 women's attention in a day. If a woman lusts after 50 men in her lifetime she will try to get 50 mens attention in her lifetime. Maxed out. It's unlikely everyone that someone is attracted to they will actually approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:53 AM
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More risks, work, effort for very little reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:46 AM
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Genuinely, I think it would be easier if u just ask men to reroute their sexual desires to other men instead of asking women to raise theirs. It's a lot easier, less risky and more benefits. Easier bc rerouting something that's already there is easier than generating/multiplying something. Less risky bc men cans get pregnant More benefits bc men are more likely to have and have matching sexual desires and drives. Work on getting men to flirt with other men and be affectionate with other men and …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:34 AM
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Good point It's also weird to demonize/shame women for the little sexuality they do have and expect them to be more sexual afterwards. Even if we encouraged women to be as sexual and promiscuous as they wanted to be with no social consequences like animals then still women would still be less sexual than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:27 AM
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Genuinely y ? Like really y ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:24 AM
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The regular cons of pregnancy, stds, and more unwanted male attention. It would at best be a lot of work/ effort for very little reward for her. ( More attention and sex that she didn't want) At worst a lot of work and effort that had negative effects for her. ( Now she's also pregnant)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:22 AM
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That's realistically probably as close as u can get. I've heard strippers can be really good at their job and help you feel really desirable but u do have to pay them well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:18 AM
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That is absolutely normal. There has never been a time or place or species where that isn't the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:11 AM
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what is it you find impossible about lusting after average men 1st women tend to lack the testosterone and therefore the constancy of men's sex drive. So what ur asking is biologically impossible for a women to enmass lust after a bunch of men. If I put number to it I can explain it better. Personally I predict I will be attracted to 50 men in my lifetime. Vs man here said he is attracted to 40 women in a day. Of the men I'm attracted to I think they vere more on the normal/average side none of …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:09 AM
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Great question. It’s because men date up too. But the criteria is different by gender, so we often don’t realize that men are dating up too. Like dating younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:59 AM
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Exactly both these things are already realities. Men not caring is the status quo. Women not caring is the status quo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:43 AM
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Not op plz tell me more. Ops theory Maybe I'm the odd case but I feel like there's so many guys out there that if a woman walked up and demanded him to fit certain molds and she would be there while he works to get there, a lot of men would just… do it? You know Sounds interesting. In y'all's dynamic is he just like a normally submissive man or what's happening here ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:16 AM
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Hmm really that sounds like a interesting concept. I wonder.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:12 AM
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Would u consider giving them 5 dollars and saying leave me alone ? Or just say leave me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:13 AM
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At least you left your mark.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:09 AM
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That's so sad. Have u heard of Dave Ramsey or Caleb hammer ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:08 AM
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I have a pretty good dating streak and I am happy about it but I'm not really certain of y my streak has been so good with dating. the best approach I arrived on is just dipping the second I don’t like how things are starting to go. I do so this so maybe this is a factor but idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:04 AM
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Im sorry I wrote that incorrectly . 60+% of wives say that their husband is not their best friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:05 PM
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It's not positive to be a outlier that y people conform/ try to fit in or be really exceptional.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:43 PM
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I think the exes part would be off-putting so I wouldn't say that part.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:31 PM
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Sorry how is that any different than boys? It's not much different boys are also pressured to ' fit in '. However there seems to be much more men who are outliers than there are woman outliers. I was mainly answering ' what were you told to work on ?' So you are now claiming that socializing is a "self improvement" that only one gender does...? No clearly both genders do so. Make up takes like a couple tries to learn No. Like a couple months to get basics maybe a year to fine tune it for most. D…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:30 PM
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That is not the same. My mom and I are friends now that I’m well into my adult life, but your children are not your friends. You shouldn’t treat them like friends while raising them. They do not provide mutual support or a chance to socialize with adults That's very normal and healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:15 PM
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This is evolutionarily incorrect. In the majority of social creatures, the female creatures heavily socialize with other female peers then their female children kind of graduate to be among female peers. Like in a lion pride is made up of often related females that stay together. Then the males kind of interchange themselves and come and go as they please.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:14 PM
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Humans are social animals as a default. Even the most fucked up ppl of our society still seek to socialize, Pedos, criminals, gang members etc. Statistically your happiness and well-being, more highly correlates to your social connections.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:09 PM
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Statistically 60+% of wives say their husband (edit )is not their best friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:06 PM
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Good question I hope this is the future we are working towards. The point where 'patriarchy' and ' ' feminism' are both null and we're all just neighbors. I would pick career woman. 1 I really like money, 2 if I had to choose between platonic love or romantic love I'd platonic love. Especially since the first one said no friendships were allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:03 PM
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That's a neat question !
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:48 PM
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I would love this question though. It seems like a balance between, sociable and vetting to me. Jesus, a old pastor of mine, my dad, my grandpa, a friends dad, a friends husband, some exes(probably shouldn't say that one on a date). Edit: it's like asking as a teen/kid whose your favorite superhero or Disney princess?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:39 PM
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Ahh I would have thought Kim k was a good answer. She's very rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:35 PM
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Yeah it's great bluepill advice ( though it may need some nuances for some ppl) Bc at the end at least you'll be happy. Vs if it a guy and u follow RP advice and still failplus ur unhappy. Vs with BP advice u could still fail but at least you'll be happy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:21 PM
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Looks , Like on average the majority of girls have started their first diet by middle school. 40-50% by late elementary school. Then add makeup, shaving and fashion also middle school. Being social/ social conformity middle school Really by highschool the majority of girls have been 'self improving'/optimizing for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:54 PM
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Idk how to rank people well but I thought Zendaya and Tom Holland were a very sexy couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:43 PM
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She could but it's casual sex so it doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:44 PM
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The women who voted for President Trump did so for other reasons besides abortion. They weighted the pro and cons and thought there were more pros than cons voting for Republicans so that's how they votes. Losing abortion con ( that can be worked around) Stronger security pro, gun rights pro, tax benefits pro etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:38 PM
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But something will be left after so make a new community with the leftovers. Expound: What do u mean by no trust among peers ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:31 PM
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Even when they made the laws and society and had high marriage rates they rarely vomited in ways that benefited women's interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:24 PM
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No it increased public decency . These men were still abusive and or harmful in private spheres. But since it was private it was considered a private family matter. It's not like historically marriages lacked abuse or domestic violence. Now they are harmful in public spheres bc they don't have private punching bags. If u look at high marriage societies the domestic violence rates are very high there, (also poverty).( Afghanistan, India, some African countries etc) Korea and Japan also traditiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:22 PM
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I agree with your first point. To add some support. I think we as a society are progressing to being single by default. Then that will normalize singleness. Plus with the help of ai companions/ sex bots that will help with loneliness and sex. Copying a previous relevant comment with edits. it was would be more beneficial for us as a society if we shifted priorities. For example on average we spend around 6000/year in relationships vs for charity the average person spends 350/year. We do this wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:41 PM
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But then you can just new communities or integrate into the other one with a bit of difficulties.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:03 PM
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oh no! u have to use ur imagination and ur hands to get off /s nah they just showed u you have the freedom to use ur imagination they can't take that from u. u can decide anything in ur imagination but in the real world u have much less choices and decisions available. IRL 1st they decide then maybe you get to decide.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:57 AM
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I just looked it up, if ur in India it's not a woman who's saying what u cant get off to its Ministry of Information and Broadcasting (MIB) the minister there is a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:53 AM
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Well now u don't have a car so now u have to walk. It'll be good for ur cardio. For the porn u don't need to even do anything. Ur imagination is simpler than porn. U have likely seen thousands of porn vids by now. Just use ur imagination at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:48 AM
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Yes. I grew up religious it was a thing were men would go " sow their wild oats" then come back to church and look for a homely bride. So live it up with sluts/slutty/sultry women then marry a boring simple woman. But then some would turn around and lust and or cheat with the slutty sultry women again. This is actually not uncommon historically, the groom was often not a virgin he was with literally whores for years before marrying a virgin then again cheating with whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:44 AM
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Pro for idiot they could be a himbo. Sweet, simple though annoying and incompetent. Pro for asshole they might be competent but mean, harmful and annoying. Asshole if he is at least useful (Work and labour). Idiot better emotional connection and I'm not depending on them for anything so very little liability.( Associate) Neither are trustworthy enough to be more than aquaintance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:32 AM
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U can masturbate and get off without porn. It'll actually be better for ur mental well-being
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:16 AM
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U can make free porn with ur imagination
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:14 AM
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Why would they bring men into their world ? Can u make a pros and cons list bc it just seems like a liability So far I have Pro Loving relationship Con Messy home/more chores Men's ego Share money Monagomy It's like they'd be jeapradizing a good life for a decent relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:10 PM
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If she wants a friend then she probably just wants a friend. U do not have to be friends with her if u don't want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:55 PM
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I estimate I will be attracted to 50 men in my lifetime. Some women will be attracted to 500+ men in their lifetime. A man in this sub said he was attracted to 40 women a day. That's a very large range.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:38 PM
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I am not a man but to I had some relevant convo in ppd here recently. When I say boring I mean like (A) some guy who would want to talk about Excel, bus routes, statistical analysis and data reconfiguration constantly would be very boring to me. (B)A introverted man who wants to go to the beach, nature walks, watch movies, eat food and talks about history would not be boring to me, that guys sounds fun and likable to me. However I am also a introvert. Some guys think that man B is what women mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:35 PM
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She said she hates dipshits but she seems to be very fond of men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:28 PM
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Genuinely nice to c ur affection for men in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:27 PM
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It's weird that some of y'all know this and then also some of y'all claim that your interest or compliments are a ego boost for women Or maybe this is a treat them you want to be treated thing ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:25 PM
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I can c reasons y it might be positive for dating such as preselection, WAW halo effect extended. But besides dating it's really disingenuous for men to complain that 'society doesn't care about them' and that it's ' leaving them behind' 'and that they feel lonely ' and then also complain about free friendships/the friendzone. Society is right there for y'all to participate in if u want. Maybe u can have sexual/romantic relationship but y'all can have friendships etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:21 PM
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Statistically your incorrect. But some interesting points to add men and women are more likely to cheat if they're economically dependent on their partners. https://www.asanet.org/people-more-likely-cheat-they-become-more-economically-dependent-their-spouses/ I don't c evidence that either are cheating up financially. The majority of affairs happen at work though. They are likely cheating with people they have close proximity to and have similar financial status as them. Maybe better looking may…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:14 PM
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What do the men of that county say about the women there though? Like USA men say that women in Korea are submissive and respectful but then Korean men will say women in Korea are misandrist, golddiggers etc. Similar in China, india etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:52 PM
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Focus. We're talking about emotions. I said anger is a energy boost I'll add that with the energy boost u use it to do stuff. U said anger is a motivator to then take action. What do u think is the difference ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:47 PM
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It is hysteria if u look at it like that. The majority of men have sex before 22, get married, have kids etc. Part of their hysteria is due to male libido being so large and unequal to women's So in ur comparison for heterosexuals then msns complaints looks silly bc they have more relationships and sex on average more than women. But there is a great big divide between what they want and what they do. Like the body count and relationship count of straight women(6-8) and lesbians(8-12) are much c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:43 PM
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So how is that different from women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:30 PM
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What do u think the difference function of anger is in men and women ? I think emotions are signals and that they can direct behavior. Anger signals perceived injustice ( most often) and it's a big energy boost. What does anger signal/function for u or men in general ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:19 PM
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Maybe it's a form of assortative mating? Or mirroring ? Like all lot of the things u guys keep listing are things women think are enjoyable for themselves and on others(guys) or in and of itself Looksmaxxing, confidence, abundance mentality, affectionate. It's like men are becoming more woman like but it's attracting women to men. Maybe women are just doing things that are attractive in and of it self or maybe it's like bc men are being more feminine it's reminding women of women and it's like a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:41 AM
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Men's interest are likely not at the forefront of this woman's decision for her outfit. She got up looked in her closets and pulled out something she thought was pretty. Then got dressed and went about her day. She valued dressing in a way she though was pretty. Eliciting or not eliciting men's sexual interest likely wasn't part of the decision making process.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:33 AM
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Eros doesn't have to (and shouldn't) be the sole element in a romantic relationship though. False dichotomy I didn't mean within romantic relationships. I meant more along the lines that eros should kind of decentered as a society. Still there and encouraged and embraced but we should switch eros and agape/philias place as a society. Like ppl should feel and pursue eros as much as they pursue and put effort into charities. And put the energy, effort and focus we put into eros into agape and phil…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:27 AM
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I think men commonly mistake their desire of women for women’s value/purpose. Like since men valuse sex and kids so highly. they’ll say that a woman’s purpose is sex and kids. u know how TRP says men don’t have a inherent value. I disagree with that. I think it’s more fair to say they don’t have a purpose to women (maybe bc of difference in libido.) . For women, I don’t think think a man have an inherent purpose I also don’t think women have an inherent purpose. So much so opportunities and deci…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:33 PM
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oh, OK. I got it. in your pov u think it’s inhuman to view people as commodities and resources. like objectifying. I understand ur point now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:20 PM
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The people who want love pursue love. The people who want money pursuit money. I would have a problem if this was something people were forced to do but this is something they choose to do. like I would have a problem if fathers were selling their daughters to marry of the old men for money ? But if daughters sell themselves to marry ugly old men for money, I don’t have a problem with that dynamic. _________________ I understand that we can use love to make the world a better place I agree. I di…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:18 PM
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how can a human brain be non human ? I agree it’s not a virtue but gold diggers don’t seem to claiming to be virtuous they seem to be use what they have (themselves) to maximize access to tangible goods. they found a way to turn love, attention, lust into goods. They converted social currency into economic currency.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:50 PM
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Good point. If u knew you could vet out sluts by waiting for sex then how about then ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:13 PM
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You should inform the guys you’re going with that you’ll bring a gun. No. So if you don’t want men to trick you into dangerous situations, please also don’t do this vice versa It will only get dangerous for them if they make it dangerous for me. As long as they are nice and polite they have nothing to worry about. If they behave in a dangerous way then it's fine to hurt them that's how they'll learn not to do that. Otherwise they might not hurt me but they'll go hurt someone else. Or they'll try…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:07 PM
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I think she/sugar babies do consider the cost though. She likely knows the relationship will be unfulfilling for her but the money will make it so even if she has a unfulfilling relationship she has a fulfilling life. Love can be fulfilling but its not purposeful. Money is purposful is a resource that takes care of most needs and wants, food water, shelter, clothing, safety, security, luxuries and experiences. Love and lust don't do that, love and lust are just something fun to engage in. I thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:58 PM
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It's in women's interest to dress in the way there they're literally interested in. Yes it risks men's interest. But it would be silly to sacrifice your own interest for mens interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:03 AM
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I primarily bring my gun out on dates otherwise it's at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:30 AM
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Almost every man in the Bible was a bad husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:11 AM
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I understand that part(sugar baby) why would caring about money but not the guy make her retarded and with a baby brain. ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:00 AM
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Plan A ( paying for it) seems like it would be so much safer emotionally that was a huge pro for it. I wasn't thinking just order him to do me. I was thinking tell him what I like then he'd do that plus more bc of customer service skills. Like activities before sex to set the mood sounds great. Then get exactly what I want + sounds perfect. I'm very particular and I would rather pay to get what I want than whatever someone else just chooses to give me as that will likely be unfulfilling/unsatisf…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:58 AM
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Ur not a slave ur a employee. U are paid for ur labour. U are rewarded with money, currency that society makes up. Why would society pay u with women and children? Society/ government doesn't make women and children. Governments make MONEY.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:36 AM
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the reward for going to work and contributing to society is your paycheck and negotiated benefits such as paid days off, health insurance and a pension/401k. Women and kids are not a reward for going to work. Great point. Money provides for you needs and wants. Food,water, shelter clothing, safety, security. Besides that no one is paying these women to be with these men. These men are being paid to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:34 AM
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Do sluts have to live a responsible life or have good character for a guy to fuck them ? No. Do men want their wives to though ? Yes This is the same case.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:11 AM
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Paying for it was my Plan A then I felt bad so now I've switched to plan B- pursuing causal sex/FWB. I know less pleasure but I felt weird about prospect of renting ppl and participating in that industry. It's like dumpster diving(FWB) vs buying something new(paying a professional).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:03 AM
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Why do you think it would be profitable? Bc normally men give dick away for free. So if they tried to sell it and succeeded then there would be a profit. I don't c it as profitable for many men like how in only fans min are the minority or sex workers. I expect a similar dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:57 AM
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Funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:52 AM
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Expound Why that would make her a retarded sugar baby brain ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:45 AM
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Great points. I remember learning to love your neighbor and that Jesus does for his friends, it was really revered.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:54 AM
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Even when people married early and stayed married these sexiest views developed anyway though but then bc of proximity they were enforced. With decentering movement and singleness becoming the default even if sexist views develop they won't be enforced.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:49 AM
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Yes they are usually the approachers so they selected first. Then a woman selects from her pursuers. It's rare that a women starts off the chase.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:40 AM
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Expound.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:56 PM
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Nor do they even give endless compassion for every miniscule problem women might encounter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:53 PM
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Good point. So many lesbians have a hard time finding other lesbians like literally locating them. If they "knew" women weren't really straight but mostly bi/gay they'd just seduce the straight women into their beds. They'd have no trouble finding sexual partners. Reminds me of a song > I could be a better boyfriend than him I could do the shit that he never did Up all night, I won't quit Thinking I'm gonna steal you from him I could be such a gentleman Plus all my clothes would fit I could be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:08 AM
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Yup. But that's why women like to try to view the man their with as special. So even though he really is just another random man if u view him as special and yours u feel he is special so u stay connected with him. But yes he is just a option but he's the one you choose so he's special to u. Like a dog, dogs are cool but your dog is the coolest most special dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:58 AM
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pretty privilege is something women have a lot of in youth but as they get older, they let themselves go because even though beauty is social currency the benefits of it do not usually outweigh the cost or risks or significantly help with your goals in life. Beauty is social currency, but it’s not generally fulfilling though it can be enjoyabl.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:37 PM
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do you think this would work on gay men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:27 PM
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how will that work if they’ve walked away ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:22 PM
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my grandma dropped out at like 8th grade then went to trade school and then she was poor most of her life just like the majority of dropouts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:09 PM
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men say they feel different differently. maybe bc of orgasm like if men masturbate or have sex they usually orgasm once for both even if sex is a less efficient way to orgasm. dresses for women and lots of women have multiple orgasms while masturbating but not while having sex, so more work less reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:04 PM
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they won’t stop talking they’ll stop talking to whoever doesn’t wanna listen to them. Which they generally don’t do anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:56 PM
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or they might just think you’re too stupid to understand and to not waste their time they walk away ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:52 PM
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I agree with the stats that men or women with a high body count are more likly to cheat. I asked for stats that show women with a high n count leads to a dead bedroom. Humans reason with incentive towards their self interest not just based on self control. Like in your example, choosing not to have a bunch of casual sex was based on personal belief or comfort level. I agree. the women who have incentive to engage in casual based on personal belief and comfort what is the incentive for them not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:33 PM
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So then that tactic would just have some feminist walk away from you instead. FGTOW. What’s the objective here what do u win bc both just result in social exclusion ? Some already view men as a threat and treat them as such, like being loud and aggressive to a bear makes the bear walk away. Behaving as a threat results in just more off putting behavior and reactions. though I do agree that men would have a easier time getting empathy for their issues then resulting in seeking solutions if they u…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:16 PM
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oh he really does have autism, ok he figured out a way to autistically categorize and optimize beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:53 PM
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this seems really autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:51 PM
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it’s very hypocritical especially when u consider based on women’s attraction threshold and libido it’s just unlikely that they would be fucking hordes of men. If I fucked every man I was attracted to in my life I estimate my body count would be like 50. if I was a man and could fuck every woman I was attracted the number would be in the hundreds by the end of the year.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:49 PM
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there isn’t anything morally wrong with it but it does hurt some men’s feelings, increase their risks and triggers their ego so they have a problem with it. ( same for women btw). if afbb/ dual mating strategy was unknowingly being done before I wonder what would be use it as a strategy. I understand why the strategy could be alluring. unfortunately I think a lot of these men needlessly worry about being bb, when they would qualify for that either. Like in the Erica Kirk, Akaash comedian wife ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:43 PM
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what are the statistics about high n count women then turning around to have a deadbedroom. seems much more likely that women disinterested in sex generally /low libido would have a deadbedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:29 PM
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men sowing their wild oats .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:27 PM
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they expressly say the alternative would be that the want to afbb. they want to fuck hordes of hot slutty women in their youth then settle down with a safe reliable virgin women in their 30’s that will be faithful to them but they also want to be able to fuck other women while married.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:24 PM
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Male dual mating strategy bifurcates childbearing, child rearing and labour provisioning/utility( cook and clean). male dual mating strategy also takes into account that women’s utility as someone to build a family with and stay faithful. Same as the woman’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:21 PM
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But you personally have heard and ignored that 1 that approaching doesn’t work the majority of the time. 2 the women generally don’t like when they are cold approached. 3 there is a risk that that guy will be meanly rejected. You ignored all that did it anyways, it is an intentional rude action meant to cross boundaries at that point and is intentionally meanly negativly rejected and reinforced. U seem to categorize men’s sexual interest or the expression of it as something pleasant ( for women)…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:05 PM
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yes bc then it clearly identifies which men are the ones that push boundaries and disregard social cues, consent etc. then you can be rude right back. The majority of men know that cold approaching does not work majority of the time and never has. They also know that the majority of women do not like it. they know there is an extremely large risk of themselves being rejected. They know there is a large risk women being annoyed or offended by their actions. They know a very small risk of them bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:42 PM
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And obviously double standart: "Why noone approaches me" Those women are giving a clear signal they want to be approached. Then men slide into their dms and approach them. That's a good system.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:38 PM
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It would be better for men if they did some of these things with their male friends. They get a deeper level of intimacy within their male friendships, it would genuinely help with ' the male loneliness epidemic '. You would not be so touch starved if u could hug, cuddle, hold hands with and fall asleep with your friends. ( A episode of friends had two of the guys napping together) It's also not gay to do these things, you can do them with parents, siblings, friends, these things are not inheren…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:00 PM
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What would be stopping them from doing so? I think your referencing porn and jerking off. The lack of desire to watch porn and jerk off. They don't want to watch porn or jerk off alone, they want to make out. Making out is really special that way. Sex and masturbating are closer to each other than making out is. Can't make out with yourself can jerk off by urself or with a partner. men are so on the edge 24/7, stone sober wouldn’t you see men forming ways of acting on that if it where a true des…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:39 PM
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Bruh u can live and serve your country/religion. Then just die naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:06 AM
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What if these straight men really wanted to make out though ? And they had no outlet for their arousal other than another mans lips . No porn, no jerking off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:00 AM
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How much money and what is the bare minimum? These was a suggestion before that men pay their wives for her labor. So she cooks, cleans then she gets paid a actual salary. There was also a suggestion before that men pay their wives for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:42 AM
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No it's just that the lesbian women will better know what buttons to press. Statistically lesbians have the highest orgasm rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:36 AM
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For example a lot of men find the idea of a woman cooking for them as appealing, but you see a lot women being very resistant to this Those are chores most ppl hate doing chores also it has no reward for her to do some chores. and many other things that Men find appealing Do they overlap significantly with what's in her self interest. but when it comes to being sexual with another girl, they're all for it suddenly There are potential rewards in her self interest. She is very likely to have multi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:23 AM
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Not op but a guess : she wanted to make out. Her options were men or women. Men high risk high reward. Women - low risk high reward. So she made out with women. If she didn't make out with the women then she wouldn't have gotten to make out at all. Which was the worst option. To add even though she's making out with women. Women and men are not different orally, all the same bits. So a mouth is a mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:16 AM
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Neat for some ppl a Exclusive FWB is the ideal relationship structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:52 AM
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For people who complain about body count why would they want women to be attracted to more men. I estimate I will be attracted bto 50 men in my life time IRL. If I slept with all of them then my n count would be 50. Though I do understand wanting women to cast a wider net. But that's what all the other multifaceted parts are for.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:51 AM
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relationships' the men you are talking about have, be it 'most' men if you will don't constitute as relationships in the full sense of the word Maybe not but some people are aiming for good enough. First and foremost why would any woman settle with someone with preferences this low ? She liked him, wanted him, could meet his standard. These are actually great standards very reasonable. Second of all, why would a relationship built on standards like this function or work? I picture it like a frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:31 AM
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The richer a women is the more more likely she is to get married and less likely to divorce. Porr women are statistically least likely to marry. Thought yes the richer she is the greater proximity to rich men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:15 AM
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But what this election has shown us is that if men are radicalized enough, they will listen. If men can swing elections they will listen. What is your objective though? We can compare the results of this to other countries that have done this. For example in the east, the men there vote more conservatively and sometimes for kookier candidates. So they win the election then rarely does anything change for the men (or women ) there. They don't get more friends, sex, dates or more marriages as a re…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:10 AM
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Though it does statistically contribute to RMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:52 AM
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The op just told you the stats from the dating page Young women prefer men 2-4 years older than them and also marry and are in relationships with men 2-4 years older than them on average. Stated preferences match outcomes in regard to age (David Buss & Conroy-Beam 2019). The old ok Cupid data the went popular in the rp space also reversal on average that a 23 year old put their max age rage 8 years old and was most likely to chat to some one 2-3 years older.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:51 AM
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She might not cheat. She might be very willing to give up every and any other man in exchange for money. Like that's how I picture Melania Trump. Its so weird how you people romanticize taking advantage of unattractive men by using them for their money Or it could be transactional relationship, they both get what they want and neither feel used.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:33 AM
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Thank you for answering however I don't know what any of this means I don't think I have a strong enough shared background to understand. But thanks for answering, expound if u can if not maybe I will understand one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:31 PM
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I agree in the majority of cases but what if money literally turns her on. Or it still functions the same. Plus its unlikely he'll go from Rich to poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:29 PM
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What if he was rich and funny ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:23 PM
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What specifically will you be doing ? What additional things do u want to do ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:19 PM
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Interesting I would rather be loved the way women love than the way men love. It's largely why I value platonic love more than romantic love. The way men love things is fine bc things aren't alive . U can lock it up and it has no needs or wants or desires. But if u do than with something living it's restrictive and constraining. Like if u polish ur car, then put a cover over it then lock it in the garage. Ok you preserve it and safe guard it. If u do that with something living its depressing, gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:00 PM
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You can also build valuable things. You can get a job and pursue money then u have both. Inherent value and acquired resources/value. Even if men dont think it's attractive at all it's till beneficial to u in every other area of life. U can't buy men's attention as easily as men can buy women's attention. But u can still buy a house, safety, security, food, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:36 PM
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I dont tell them about what I like nor would I hide what I like. If they ask I'm open to discussing it. Or I'll mainly keep it to myself If I really want something I'll ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:03 PM
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I read it as AL like short ALLEN
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:46 PM
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I do agree that the gap is wider in some ways the higher up the social ladder you go. It was inequality as a impoverished woman as well though. There was still inequality regarding legal standing such as peasants having legal rights over their children. The father had greater rights over his kids. Or being held to stricter standard by society married men going to brothels/ whorehouses was frowned upon but not heavily reprimanded by society even though it was taking money from the household. Marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:41 PM
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Yes. I think women have a lot of influence on the dating market. Do you think men would start lifting weights more seriously or start to lift at all? If not why? Yes some would, some wouldn't it would . It would matter mainly on how much they value women's attraction. Why shouldn't it be different with other things in dating Good point. What's the scarscity of those other things ? What's the probability of getting those other things. Why do woman say they want X from men but still fuck with them…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:16 AM
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To add to the autogynophilic arousal Why do u think it's weird that women enjoy their own bodies, beauty and sensuality ? Do guys not do this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:07 AM
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To add nuance I estimate I will be attracted to 50 men in my life. It might seem odd compared to men who some(a man in this sub) say they're attracted to 40 women a day. I don't think there are only 50 attractive men in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:04 AM
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Gay porn ? Womens interest in Yaoi porn ? Edit : it would be interesting to compare how men are show cases in gay porn vs how men are showcased in hetero porn .
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:57 AM
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To consider a lot of the men they use in porn are fat old and ugly/ just generally unattractive men. Women dont have an external object of attraction Images of male bodies offer no benefit to them for the aforementioned reasons. To additionally consider So how did the brain scans work with gay porn ? Since a lot of women watch gay porn to get off. They might be attracted to the men in gay porn and get off to those men fucking. Like those men would be external objects of attraction, the women are…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:52 AM
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The divorce rate is highest in the poverty class, they're not even dividing assets they're dividing debts and poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:18 AM
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> women will turn to AI, too For sure. Many already have. There is the r/myboyfriendisai subreddit full of women and their AI companions. Problem is AI isn't smooth and it isn't chaotic enough to keep women happy It's ai you can program it anyway u like. If a woman's type is sweet and encouraging she can program that AI boyfriend. Like these ladies on 60 minutes. Both sweet ai boyfriends. https://youtu.be/_d08BZmdZu8?si=YJ2Wd6VglTHvuuvv Or if their type is smooth chaotic asshole they can also pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:11 AM
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no men even used to use this as a shit test/ it gave some a ick, like if a woman slept with him on the first date, it would turn him off and she would no longer be considered relationship material. Bc some men said that if u have sex with them too early they lose feelings for u or it negatively changes how they feel about u and they won't take u seriously. You can't fuck feelings into a man but for some reason if u fuck them too early u fuck feelings out of them So then some women comprehended t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:11 AM
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This is a cultural shift we’re going through. It used to be the men would really like to chase to the point that dating advice for women was play hard to get because men like to chase so if you really want him to like you make him work for it.Bc men are hunters. Then he’d like you more bc he like earned you, won you over etc. Anyways glad to hear that’s changing it was stupid and annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:43 AM
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it used to be a thing even for some men to have a shit test where say if a woman had sex with him early like on the first date she failed and he would not want her/take her seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:34 AM
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AI would be pretty popular and useful in our future for emotional intimacy since socializing will become less common. Remote jobs and schools are on the rise, third places are down people will not have many opportunities to socialize but will have the same desire for socialization. AI can satisfy that desire for some easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:12 AM
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I don't think life is especially purposeful. Your just alive to live. Then u just do things to make it life better. Meeting basic life needs and better them is just living life. I wouldn't want to live a life where I work all day just for food. That's the reality of many people in less developed countries and it's not a fun life Working just to keep food on the table or a roof over your head is not worthwhile. Agreed money pays for more than just needs it also pays for luxurious and funds advent…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:21 PM
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Optimal family dynamic but it might not be what's optimum for the mom. she would make the decision of what's best for her, not necessarily the child. The biggest problems single moms themselves have is financial. You need to money to build a life. What she actually needs to have a child she desires is 1 sperm cell anything after that is unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:21 AM
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Work comes with real tangible regular rewards money. Money is automatically purposeful. Money is a resource that provides stability, security, food, water, shelter money is needed to pay for most needs and wants in life. Children/men do not do that. At best they are of great sentimental value(meaningful maybe you'll be proud of them in 20 years) at worst they are a extreme detriment( 20 years raising a kid and they're a failure/waste of time would have been better off spending that time, energy …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:47 AM
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I literally ask this question it doesn't make sense in regards to casual sex for guys. If all they want is sex/orgasm. Not a emotional or mutual connection. They could have just stayed home and watch porn and jerked off. Its weird that they're like they got tired of jerking themselves off so then they got up and put themselves through a whole bunch of work and trouble to jerk off less efficiently. Not even just the movement part the whole endeavor doesn't make sense like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:13 AM
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There is also AI.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:53 AM
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Maybe the 50% of single men can give each other emotional intimacy through friendship. Since they're no longer competing anyway there is nothing in their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:44 AM
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Very rarely is a man hotter as he ages vs when he was younger. Even for celebrities the majority of celebrity men look hotter when they were younger. And that's celebrities with a team of people dedicated to making them look good. Young Tom Welling, young Robert dinero, young Brad Pitt, all hot while young. Not hot/less hot while old. Now if we were to compare aging men vs aging women then no it's not a myth. Women do look worse than men of the same age as them when older. But I blame this on ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:09 AM
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Men have a lower in group bias for a reason they know men very intimatly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:56 AM
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This is a pretty good clear example of in group bias in action. Women generally have a higher in group bias so insulting other women as a compliment is not a compliment to those women. Men have a lower in group bias, so as long as it's not specifically about him he's probably fine with it. Also a lot of these sound like negging ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:54 AM
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Its weird all the female creatures in the animal kingdom are alive and well without "walls and infrastructure" and humans lived before walls and infrastructure but supposedly we would all die and go into extinction by next winter. Die earlier probably, work harder probably, produce less probably...go extinct not likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:12 PM
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Probability vs possibility Why would women worry 1st about foreign threats instead of close proximity direct immediate threats ? When u lock your doors at night or ur car in the day are you thinking about Billy Jo or Muhammad?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:08 PM
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The Asian guy was the only guy I was able to grow attraction for but now I'm attracted to Asian twinks. He had a twink body which was great but I had to get used to his small eyes. Normally the guys I like have big expressive eyes like my dad. He had small eyes, but they were pretty and friendly. Didn't notice major forehead, noses, lip differences . Maybe there was and it just wasn't noticeable. Latino guy had noticably different smile/teeth though I think they wouldn't have been noticable if h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:50 AM
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They look like my dad as in they are skinny twinks. Yeah the coloring doesn't really hold me up. For the white guys I've dated blondes and brunets, guys with brown eyes or blue eyes. I don't really care about the colors changing. So much so a specific body type and features. Or like you make mario darker skin or with blond hair he still looks like mario ? Like have u ever made a avatar but switch the colors of it that's how they look to me or like race blind doppelgangers ? Sorry Hispanics.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:35 AM
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Range of color as in race and or hair. I've dated Mexican, white and Asian. They all looked like twinks most had big eyes, friendly smile - like my dad. There are some race/cultures I don't think I would date.But not bc I think the men are unattractive but I think the cultural difference would be problematic/ a waste of time to try to work through.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:53 AM
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Wth ? I'm not going to kill Chad thundercock or anyone else. Edit : yes I know I can lose weight its my goal to lose 20 lbs this year so far I'm 10/20.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 10:23 PM
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Then y do these men say they fear that a womans sex threshold would increase and they would not be able to compare to Chad thundercock if she was on the cock carousel. Like they fear that they will not be her 'best' bc she was on the cock carousel which suggests that the best fuckers (Chad Thundercuck )are in the the cock carousel. ( I'm not sure I agree based on the stats about casual sex and orgasm gap, but maybe they have more info ) But anyways it seems like they're telling me that there is …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 10:17 PM
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It's not really created intentionally it's what I find naturally attracts you. Of the men I dated and been attracted to and even the one man I grew attracted towards the things that all had in common was skinny twink like men. Then afterwards most of them also had big eyes, a nice smile and fluffy hair. When do they develop these types? Puberty, I think. Why did you develop your type? It was not intentionally developed so I will think of this question as why did my type develop. I think bc of my…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 10:04 PM
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They say they fear being compared to these guys who are supposedly great in bed bc of all their experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 08:22 PM
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This is a great thank you. Now I want to know the match rates of the bottom 50% of men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 08:19 PM
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I think they exaggerate how easy it is to get a cock carousel of hot men as a average women. On dating apps they bottom 50% of women share like 10% of the likes and that's not matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 08:15 PM
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Were u interested in casual sex in your early 20's ? Do u feel like u missed out ? I wasn't interested until my late 20's and still haven't gotten it but it's on my bucket list. But now I'm in my 30's.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:44 PM
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Genuine question but are u ugly ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:41 PM
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Grit and resilience great skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 08:32 PM
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Tell me what this feels like bc what I imagine is like a guy feeling like he's been castrated ? Women sometimes say they feel dehumanized it that close ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 08:02 PM
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Do u think good people can't also be fun people? Do u think men want to marry boring women over bubbly women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 08:00 PM
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She seem like she care more about a good time than commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 07:25 PM
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I agree with you but I think B results in less violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 07:17 PM
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I am also curious if it was cats ok cause I can c the link to like cat ladies but maybe dog ladies ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 06:41 PM
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I read it too I thought TRP had a lot of decent dating advice in general for everyone. I don't like TRP movement though. The part I do have a problem with are manipulative tools like dread game.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 06:30 PM
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I was talking about making women understand that a man is not judged and chosen based on whether he is capable of making a woman feel comfortable and giving her emotions. So most social interactions. Give ppl a sense of belonging and making them feel special/seen/heard. Works great in most social interactions. Look, if things continue like this, the day will come when a good number of men will refuse to help you and will turn their backs on you, simply because they were never chosen. I'm cool wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 06:22 PM
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I would think like 4. What is the bottom where it becomes strange? (So a normal men should have at least X dates) Like 0 dates in 5 years and trying to get dates that's strange which level do you think its a fat above average number of dates? 30+ first dates a year is where it gets strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 06:03 PM
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I think there was something like 333 some years ago or maybe 222, ate night every 2-3 weeks, weekend trip every 2-3 months, big week long vacation every 2-3 years, so yeah what your saying still sounds reasonable for building a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:58 PM
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If ½ of society is oppressed and raped vs ½ of society never had sex or reproduce (extreme)? All weighted against each other which one produces a less violent world in ur view ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:48 PM
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Testosterone. Men love and value sex on its own for its own. Women value sex a a lot less bc less testosterone. So they treat men they're fucking much closer to regular social interactions/beings, STR, casual relationships or LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:44 PM
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Do u share the food you make with your mom ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:26 PM
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See that's y I don't like British series. I'm not paying money to look at ugly people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:25 PM
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The average length of the vaginal canal is about 3 to 4 inches (7 to 10 cm) when unaroused. However, it is a highly flexible organ; during sexual arousal, the upper part of the canal expands and the cervix lifts, allowing it to stretch to roughly 5 to 8 inches. https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/body/22469-vagina
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:23 PM
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Great idea high tech sex toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:44 PM
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B. a non-sexual friend. No sex ever (physical or flirtatious). You will have meaningful, deep discussions. They would be empathetic and even tell their own stories. Each day would build on the past and the stories you told one another. They have no sexual relationship with anyone else either. Sound great. I'll just masturbate if I get horny. I value platonic love more than romantic love.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:43 PM
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To add this suggests that when women say they beautify themselves for themselves they are being very literal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:40 PM
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That would be helpful information to know. It would also explain the discrepancy between avg match rate of 5 matches a day vs calculated match rate of 7.36 matches per day. On hinge it said for the free version everyone gets 8 free swipes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:06 PM
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Thanks for the addition. If men swipe right on 33% of profiles they come across that would be 132 of women's profiles. While if women swipe right on 6% of profiles they come across that's would be 32 men per women. Plus 80% of the likes go to the top 25% of profiles Then the match rates women get is at 23%. Leading to 5 matches a day. So 23% of the 32 men would be 7.36 men. . The match rate men get 3% leading to Men average ~0.6 matches per day 52% of men get less than 1 match per day Thanks for…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:48 PM
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Was she promiscuous before getting married?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:24 PM
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When we talk about ' the male loneliness epidemic ' the advice usually given is to make friends not get a girlfriend. You can make friends and stop dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:21 PM
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Agreed great post. Also worth noting where marriages are happening. For the high earners marriage rate have not really declined. The majority of high earners marry, they also marry within their socioeconomic groups and have the lowest rates of divorce. ( Assortative mating) The majority of the decline has been due to the poor and middle class. Highest rates of divorce in the poor class and lowest rates of marriage Middle class is in the middle, declining rates of marriage but most still marry. F…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:14 PM
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That's how it should have always been. Marriage was primarily a economic/ social institute. Why force impoverished people to marry for economic purposes. That's silly they're still poor . Marrying and uniting land, businesses and wealth, that they're children inherent and form their own alliances through, ok makes sense. Marrying so two people can live in slums together and have slum kids. Silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:58 PM
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Very true, if a man is widowed then remarries then dies Wife 2 usually gets his stuff over his kids from Wife 1. The wife is the primary next of kin. You can make wills to change this though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:50 PM
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I tried to put number to this but I'm missing stuff. Women hinge users 40% let's say 400 women. Male hinge users 60% let's say 600 men. Top 25% of men would be 150 men. So if 80% of woman got with those 25% of men it would be 150 men : 320 women. However not every one of those 400 women gets a match . ( The article is missing enough stats for women) Like where are the majority of likes distributing for women ? Like top 30%, top 50% etc. Bc women get a 23% match rate which means not everyone they…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:37 PM
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Most jobs/ things that need to get done are easily done/easily trained. Most disciplines that u take in a 4 year college could have been a 9 month course of u take out the fluff. Then you just need a probationary period on the job. ' forget everything you learned in college, the real learning starts on the job.' People have a harder time learning/ sticking with interpersonal skills .
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:50 PM
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Yup that's what I've seen too. Makes sense to me your managing people. Social skills are harder to learn than job skills. You take 3 months -2 years to learn a job. While people skills take longer, lots of people go to K-12 schools and still get out with shitty people skills. 12+ years to learn and develop people skills and still shitty at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:43 PM
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That's sounds like the ideal man or a woman's ideal dream man not actual standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:33 PM
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Correct. None of the men I've been attracted to have been 6ft+ or rich or has abs. They were all skinny twink looking men that were average to below average earners.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:29 PM
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Yes that exactly right. Although the top 12 % is sexy and I can agree to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:28 PM
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If u ask they will say this. Women say they are only attracted to a small group of men. They say it's not the SAME small group of men. Like I've only been attracted to 8 guys in 17 years. I estimate in my lifetime I will be attracted to 50 men max. Another women might be attracted to another amount of men and likely different men.( I think mine is low compared to other women's ). Vs a man from this sub said he was attracted to 40 women a day.(Avg ?)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:25 PM
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Regarding a small group of men as a straight woman yes. Regard being aroused by or attracted to women like in lesbian porn yes but lusting for and desiring women no.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 11:27 AM
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U I'm not sure what your point is? Obviously if a woman initiates it will be easier for the man. But we're not discussing that, were discussing what men's preferences are Are u sure it's bc men don't care about confidence or that they don't have the option to care. Like if it was the choice between a confident woman vs shy woman, how likely is the guy to pick shy woman over confident. We already agreed on men's preferences so y keep discussing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 11:22 AM
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Understood and agreed. Answer plz Which scenarios would the socially awkward shy woman get you versus the confident woman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 11:05 AM
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Neat. Which scenarios would the socially awkward shy woman get you versus the confident woman ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 10:55 AM
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Anecdotal, Attraction, arousal, desire and lust are different things. The only thing I have ever all four for is men ( small group of specific men). That combination motives me to have sex with them. I am attracted to men, aroused by men, desire men and lust for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 10:53 AM
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Are u sure it's bc men don't care about confidence or that they don't have the option to care. Like if it was the choice between a confident woman vs shy woman, how likely is the guy to pick shy woman over confident. Here are some scenarios: both women are 5s Woman 1(SAS) vs woman 2 (CW) You're at a bar SAS woman smiles at you from across the room and waves CW woman sits beside you smiles and asks if you want to do a shot together. You get two classmates numbers for a group project. SAS text you…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 10:49 AM
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Who gets promoted at corporate jobs though often it's not the guy who does the best job but the most confident one/ sociable one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 10:44 AM
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Yes much less likely to actually be hurt by the opposite sex if u avoid the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:34 AM
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In nature is actually very common especially among ' Apex Predator ' In ecology intraspecific competition touches on it. So basically a apex predator is at the top of its food chain. It has no natural predator... except itself. Like other animals don't really hunt the apex predators - bears, lions, killer whales etc. The primary animals specifically hunting down those animals are other apex predator usually of its own kind. So thing most likely to hunt a bear is a bear, killer whale is killer wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:32 AM
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To answer your question in this specific case they don't start hating on the other gender , i don't know why . Likely bc they can easily avoid those issues. They just don't do anything and then they won't have those issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:02 AM
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This is like the 2nd week you've come in with the same problem with this same woman. Pick a move and do. Set a deadline then move. Meditation is just wasting time at this point. Though u do seem more calm. Imo this woman doesn't actually like u. So she is going to continue to mistreat you bc she doesn't like u. (Evidenced by disrespect, lying) Or maybe she doesn't like u but likes mistreating you ? Or she likes the intensity. U are a source of intensity. If u remove that intensity she will likel…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:23 AM
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If men didn't lie to get sex so much there would be alot less " jumping through hoops" and even lower standards in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:00 AM
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If I was to ever get married I would appreciate that. I hate cleaning. In that case I would buy my MIL so many gifts and treats and we'd go on so many outings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 09:22 AM
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How in ur mind does that beat being permanently single ? Plz write out a pros and cons list for each option for me. Plz also include in ur consideration what the woman will be expected to d. Genuinely want to see how u came up with this .
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 09:14 AM
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<image> He was so handsome when he was young
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 09:05 AM
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Obsessing over yourself like this will make u neurotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 08:57 AM
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I don't think it's funny I literally just think that's what ur experiencing. Which if ur cool with it then cool. If not there is a lot of advice about oneitis.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 08:07 AM
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It is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all I agree. But to have loved and never love a again seems self limiting for no reason. Have u heard of oneitis ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:49 PM
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Have u heard of oneitis ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:47 PM
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I haven't seen that movie. But fulfillment to me is about satisfying desires(of heart, mind, body) since that's where we live secondarily about actual actions. So in a world where u can just directly satisfy desires like in a VR sim. Outside looking in looks unfulfilling. But to experience something like that would be fulfilling. U can just funnel whatever u want and like into ur head that would be extremely satisfying. There are more ppl that have unfulfilling lives than those who have unfillin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:42 PM
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much less risk but not absent of risk. Though I do an agree much easier to share custody with someone you have been in a LTR with than not. especially since you might just lose your casual person. I think that’s a plot in mama Mia she has some summer flings then becomes a single mom. Imagine u get pregnant during a hookup on vacation. Have no clue where in the world the dad is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:22 AM
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Jobs provide money, money is the middle man that gives safety, security, resources to fill wants and needs. Relationships usually give pleasure(fun but not purposeful) or they are the middle man to the middleman of money. though lots of people will date for money, ( gold diggers).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:09 AM
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It’s an extremely risky move to outsource your own ability to provide and protect yourself. though not entirely. if u made more money as a wife than say a accountant risky but sensible. u make less money as a wife than a accountant and u forfeit the ability current and future to provide for yourself. U forfeit being able to sustain ur own life. u can’t even buy y a $0.10 potato. it is a illogical move that fucks over the provided for party if it at all goes unwell. In nature the female is the ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:01 AM
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Reminds me : Abstinence is the only form of birth control that is 100% effective
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:52 AM
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For attraction usually quickly of all the men I’ve been attracted to 7/8 from the first interactions then the attraction increased or decreased based on personality/further interactions. then 1/8 was it a very slow build and even for him I still originally liked his body.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:47 AM
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> it sticks forever i have only loved one guy and i probably will never love someone again Tell me more about this plz, it seems so opposite to me bc I usually feel I will always be able to love again?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:32 AM
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I also find the topic of AI companions so fascinating. > think it's very interesting, and it would be informative to quantify what degree of the lower sexual interaction men are having is already related to higher quality sex toys and free porn, such that solo sex has become more satisfying. that would be informative. like comparing the brain scans/ minds of men who masturbate to porn to men who jerk of to their imagination to men who masturbate to porn with a sex toy to men who jerk of to their…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:29 AM
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Agreed. Ai companions will be great for everyone. Ai will quench peoples desire for socialization, companionship, sex, etc. We’ll have to watch out for drawbacks with ai but I predict that the drawback will be much less harmful and more manageable than regular human drawback. Ex AI psychosis vs Crazy BF/GF
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:56 AM
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It's weird men and OF women are in a mutually beneficial relationship. Men are able to jerk off with just their imagination or all the free porn available. But they want to pay to jerk off to OF vids then complain about playing to jerk off to OF vids. There is free porn even here on reddit tons of free porn. Plus their imagination lots of free porn there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:35 PM
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What were seeing is that there are simply lots of women uninterested at all in being wives and mother. However for the women that are interested in being wives and mothers. These are the things they'll ask for. Like you know how TRP say the men's value is acquired. Bc women like money, power, status etc. So if that's what women were primarily marrying for. They can just cut out the middle man and pursue those things themselves primarily. Since that is their main focus/desire out of life. There a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:55 PM
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Isn't this where the advice " be yourself " was from. It's nice that we have the Internet now. Most things go in cycles but with the Internet we can track the cycles.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:43 PM
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It should have always been considered a luxury it should have been reserved for nobility and rich people. Marriage is social and economic institute. Rich peoples socials and economics are extremely impactful. Like a forcing a rich young woman to marry and her dowry feeds a army and brings peace between two nations ok that makes sense small sacrifice large rewards. Forcing a peasant woman to marry a peasant man ? For the sake of two goats, gruel and one room shack ??? Forcing impoverished people …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:40 PM
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You kind of keep sleeping with him bc ur attracted enough to sleep with him but every time you don't orgasm/get pleasure from him u lose attraction to him. So while ur fucking him u are also losing attraction. Until u don't want to sleep with him at all anymore. But I guess if that point doesn't come you just keep going I guess ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 03:04 AM
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Not self inflicted but it can conquered. You can find like people now but it does take some effort also your mindset. Personally I was lonely as a kid but then I saw something like a peadophile ring/crime ring on TV I figured if they could make friends so could I.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:58 AM
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No unless his mom was dead. I would think he is too close with his mom. But if she's dead can't really do anything about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:54 AM
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I usually think I guess they found someone else they liked better. Ugly won't assume that, all the other ones they might assume but it's probably much more likely it's something else before we get to those. Those are least likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:52 AM
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That sounds cool I think of that as social currency though not a justice system. Most people don't agree on morals they have their own morals, incentives and biases and work in accordance with them it's very subjective. Not necessarily other peoples morals enough to categorize peoples favor as a system. That's why we made actual justice systems, laws, jails etc. less subjective Now under that system where does being beautiful fall in terms of morality/justice ? Bc beauty is also social currency.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:46 AM
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We have a justice system and it worked he committed a crime then went to jail as a result. That's the result of the justice system. Women are not a justice system they are regular people. They want to fuck attractive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:30 AM
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If he was a hot innocent man he would have got great results too. The police department said that was their most popular mugshot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:19 AM
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Part of the "better results " was going to jail for a year where it's likely he was locked up with other male criminals who found him very attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:08 AM
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Idk y he went into a gang with his looks he should have gone into prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:41 AM
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I like that you used picky and superficial. I don't think you can be too picky. Dating is important can heavily impact your life so be picky. Now superficial you can be too superficial. But I think that has to do more with pursuing superficial traits rather than not accepting superficial flaws. Like if u have no interest in your partner but still pursue them that's too superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:27 AM
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Are u ugly ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:00 PM
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Personally yes. I'm very particular with almost everything. What I eat, what I wear, what I buy, what I do etc. I would rather nothing over something I don't like and thats just a running general theme in my life. Food, I would rather not eat than eat something I don't want or like. I'd rather not buy anything than buy something I don't want or like. Dating I would rather not date than date someone I don't want or like. A big part of the reason I decided to build a home is bc I would rather buil…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:36 PM
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The same way u have multiple friends or coworkers or pets but they're all special to u in different ways. Or Sometimes they try to have a specific guy associated with something special and that's his special thing in her life. Like a fun guy, a romantic guy, a money guy, a funny guy, a adventurous guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:28 PM
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No probably not. He hurt u bc he wanted to hurt u and he liked hurting u. He got pleasure from hurting u. Very unlikely that he feels guilty over pleasure. Very sorry that happened to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:07 PM
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Neat ! Thanks for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 02:19 PM
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Tell me more about daydreaming/brainwashing yourself a fake relationship please ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:28 PM
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How old were you when you had your first kiss? Sophomore year so 15/16. First relationships? 15/16 Casual sex? Not yet but it's on my bucket list. How many relationships/partners have you had? 6. What's the longest you've gone single/sexless? 3/4 years Do you find sex and dating to be unimportant? It's important but it's overhyped. Were​ your best experiences in life strictly outside of these things? Yes. Most of the fulfill things/best things of my life came out of friendships or money not rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 03:22 PM
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Probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:32 PM
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You would find more success with introverted women but they're even harder to get with than normal women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:31 PM
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At the very least y'all seem compatible if unhealthy. i’m on the verge of becoming completely ruthless and dark triad and etc she’s the most aggressive/disrespectful/cold hearted woman i ever met told me she doesn’t care about. admitted to lying to me. tells me she’s trying to replace me. goes and parties on the weeknd’s. etc etc etc idc about her being aggressive and independent and disrespectful i just don’t like the lying and taking advantage and not being able to trust her I predict that y'a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:41 PM
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That's true it is also a spectrum some women would want no men, some want a man, some want multiple men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:27 PM
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Great points. Biologically males and females are both promiscuous, though females are less promiscuous than males in most species. I have been unable to find a species where the male is promiscuous and the female is monogamous. I have been able to find the opposite the male- monogamous and the female promiscuous, but that's in insects and it doesn't translate well to humans or mammals at all. Even in animals that are polygynous, like in a pride a lion to multiple lioness within a pride , come ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:22 PM
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Depression game ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 12:17 PM
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It turns them off when you genuinely try and care about them. Are u trying to go from something casual to something serious and genuine ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:47 AM
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Oh no, why are u ruined ? I'm sure u can find another guy that has is great in bed and isn't poor. I feel like that's actually a really achievable standard. Have u considered a FWB ? They come with less expectations. So u avoid the mommy role and a impoverished roommate. U can just get a nonimpoverished roommate?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:39 PM
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I personally think that about 50% of the reason a guy gets into a relationship is regular sex. Is that fair ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:35 PM
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Right the romantics and gallantry are simple fun and helps women get in the mood. Not what I'm arguing that's great. I'm arguing that women should not have men's sex drive/life at the center of their own life, it doesn't work and it doesn't get her what she wants out of life
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:33 PM
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It would hold her interest as much as sex holds her interest. As much as she likes sex would be as much as she values the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:26 PM
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No your more likely to have a good sex life within a relationship. The more your partner knows your body the better they'll be in bed. Rather than a new guy everyweek. That's starting from step 1 every week.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:21 PM
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If it's true it's just a reason for women to decenter romantic relationships/ commitment as the center of their life. Men can have sex as the primary motivator of for themselves. That's based on their sex drive and libido. That's based on their own desires and wants etc. But women (1) don't have men's sex drive so y would they center sexual relationships as the center of their life (2) always have easy access to sex, so they don't need to get into relationships/get commitment for sex. On the oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:09 PM
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She(?) didn't say men bad. She didn't say men are bad for primarily getting into relationships for regular sex. I don't think it's bad necessarily unless, some kind of abuse is taking place, deception etc I assume it's like 50% of the reason men are in a specific relationship. Why do u think it's bad to say men are primarily in relationships for regular sex ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:02 PM
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Or it could be a realistic honest outlook. That romantic relationships are pretty much only as valuable as sex is. All the other parts stability, compatibility, and shared life goals and interests are additions that aren't even inherent to the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:56 PM
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What was the debate about ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 01:29 PM
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However it also proves lots of women don't care to share a man even if he is "high value".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:44 AM
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No if in moderation. It would be bad in extremes. Bc at that point is the money worth it ? Probably not. If the goal is money , and your willing to put in effort for the goal of money then at a. certain point it would be better/easier to rich than marry a rich man. Like if u put that same amount of. Energy into being rich than into appealing to rich men it would be more beneficial towards your goals of money. Like if you go to the gym every day for 2 hours , study game for hours, and work to spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 03:21 AM
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Men are scaling back massively, and women are not scaling forward in the West at all. Yes they are. There are more women initiating in the west than ever. It might not be to the scale men want or like ( partly be bc men version was just too much ) but they are scaling forward. Like if a man asks out a 100 women that's too much he will get like 5 who reciprocate his interests maybe. If a woman ask out 1 man it's very likely for him to reciprocate her interest. Personally in my last relationship I…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 02:57 AM
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Ok . Do u think u want a woman no other men want ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 02:30 AM
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But in ur world view then a super enriched woman gets with a super worthless/disgusting man
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:50 PM
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Bc it's self serving for their egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:48 PM
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In the Philippines I've read they have a rite of passage to symbolize from boy to man where they circumcise the penis.They don't remove the foreskin though the cut it up in stylish ways. They have different designs
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:39 PM
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He sounds horrid congratulations on getting away
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:23 PM
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I think some of them don't realize that some women are afraid of men the same way men are afraid of women. ( Normal coming of age nervous romance stuff not like fear of men that they'll do crimes )
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:16 PM
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Or they think of it as gay. Kinda like indirectly kissing other penises or your own penis
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:12 PM
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Move on
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:05 PM
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Was he redpilled ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:03 PM
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Their mothers might legitimately think they're cute. Mothers can't even c that they have ugly babies. They legitimately think their ugly baby is cute. Also if the kid looks like the Dad and she was attracted to the dad she will think the baby is cute. Like ahh my cute baby looks like his attractive Daddy. To her her son's look like men who are her type. So she legitimately thinks their cute. I do agree though if they c their kid is ugly best to let them know and prepare them for that kind of fut…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:00 PM
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In mainstream porn yes . But in gay porn lots of good looking men. They have stricter beauty standards that how a dick looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:54 PM
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Interesting I have seen that being a bit of a bitch helps in the corporate world for accomplishing things, but you can't be too much of a bitch or it's off-putting. The qualities of a bitch are useful for capitalism, ( Boss bitch). Though when socializing ppl still prefer a sugary charm. It's a difficult balance or the difficulty can come from switching to different masks depending on the need.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:47 PM
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The unrealistic expectation is expecting women to be as selective as men. Like a guy in this sub said he sees 40 women a day he is attracted to. I estimate that I will be attracted to 50 men in my lifetime. That's the unrealistic expectation. This is mainly going off looks. ( not including other factors such as money etc). Edit : to expect women to be attracted to so many men at a time is the unrealistic expectation. However it is also the basis of y men like you I put people in leagues. Like a …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:38 PM
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Most likely a slim Asian woman like 5'4. Someone who looks like your mom but in her youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:34 PM
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It's a bit of circular reasoning and comes with already loaded expectations. They set their own expectations and desires then reality doesn't match their expectations then they get mad at reality not matching their expectations. But they made that shit up from inside their own head, heart, libido or whatever. I dont think they want pity though. I think they're asking for consideration not pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:24 PM
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Agreed they are being a bitch or communicate/socialize like a bitch. Then people treat them like they're a bitch and it surprising to them ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:03 PM
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Those women are seen as and called a bitch. Have u seen bitchy women ? They are generally repelling to men and women. Though they will not be repelled by everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:00 PM
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a bisexual guy is monogamous with you then you wouldn't have to worry about "shit dick in your pussy Agreed. Your analogy might make sense if women's favorite porn category was "fat ugly men" and then said they have a revulsion to them offline. Good point but the majority of men in porn look overweight and ugly to me anyway and most women still watch and masturbate to other forms of porn besides lesbians. Though I think this is partly y gay porn is also popular with women since the porn there sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 01:14 PM
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and the vast majority of women don't, which then forces men to approach, or else both men and women lose If men generally scaled back women would scale forward as they do in Nordic countries. The majority of men approaching women are simply trying to exhibit some kind of control of their dating life. Which is fine. But it's such a inefficient system that it's silly. They mainly hurt themselves, annoy some of women and get very few successes. And when the appeals to empathy don't work they call m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:29 AM
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Nah it’s more like the same thought and the same digust at the thought of a fat ugly man to trying to touch me. The thought of a woman at all trying to touch me is so disgusting. for bi- men is pretty its just the thought of them sticking their dick in a bunch of peoples dirty asshole then wanting to stick it in my pussy. Now ive got shit dick in my pussy. And I don’t even like piv. personally, my type is Twink men thoug I like them a little effeminate. However, I also think that femininity is v…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:47 AM
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Yeah, this like it’s loaded down with a bunch assumptions/ personal grievances that don’t match reality. Women don’t force men to approach them. Men force themselves to approach women because they want to lose their virginity or have sex. They are free not to approach they will not go to jail. If women wanted to approach men they would, as many men and women have confirmed in this very sub. Women don’t feel they’re entitled to empathy they appeal to empathy, and it works. Men can appeal to empat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:38 AM
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Definitely agree that we should pay women for motherhood that would help raise the birth rate as that is something actually tangible that we can set a price for and exchange. 100k per birth, 50k per year of childrearing sounds fair to me. ———————- disagree with you with about the other things of value, they are mainly sentimental value not tangible value and with things of sentimental value the price may fluctuate so much they are difficult to market. for example : if it was something of tangibl…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:06 PM
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if you don’t pay your taxes, you go to jail. So you’re just picking the less shitty option to pay your taxes and not go to jail. Also, if men want empathy, they have to genuinely learn to to appeal empathy because what they do now is not appealing to empathy what they’re doing now is offputting empathy . What are theyre doing now is demanding ? It’s like a beggar on the street telling you “ you have so much money in your bank account. Give me some money.” you cannot demand empathy you appeal to …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 09:29 PM
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It’s not entitlement to ask for flowers if he doesn’t like giving flowers and he knows not to be interested in her either
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 09:15 PM
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please expound on more effective, fair, open minded ways of thinning the herd. because so far we got have men buy you things and wait for sex. And a couple of crappy shit test. I agree with everything you said in the middle. However she’s not asking him to do what the social norms ask him to do she’s asking to do what she asks him to do within social norms. I think the filter would still work if you request that he doodle you a picture and bring it, give five dollars to a homeless man, bring a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 05:47 PM
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> But also the men who do care but who see romantic gestures as something serious that needs to be attached to genuine feelings and therefore don't want to do that before knowing your better (this is not what you want I agree that these men may unfortunately be filtered out. however you would also include the men that are being selected for - agreeable. men who do care and willing to put in a relatively low/easy effort . bc flowers are low and easy effort. But also the men who do care but who se…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 05:13 PM
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these men seem to indicate disagreeable from the first couple of messages. No need to waste your time and go on a date just to find out how their disagreeable in person. I do agree with you that it’s not all that is abusive men also do this and they do also lovebomb.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 04:52 PM
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do you think a man with sincere and genuine interest is more likely or less likely to bring flowers on a first date especially when explicitly requested ? what type of men do you think are being filtered out?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 04:49 PM
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They would be if u have seen catfish men can scam men out of a shit ton of money. They know and understand men's sexuality so well. They know how to say exactly what they want to hear. So with the invention of AI porn, men will do great in that market.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 03:16 PM
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Great idea put money in a pot who ever does the chores gets the money. $20 for dishes, laundry, sweep, mop, dust clean fridge $50 clean the bathroom $50 a meal $50 mow the lawn Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 03:13 PM
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Easy filtering system this way she doesn't waste her time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 03:09 PM
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But u have a study telling you different and in my experience it’s also different. So are you just pulling this out your ass, bc it doesn’t match womens stated experiences nor the studies. Yes men’s firmness can be sexy. They are firm and soft. Plus men can also be visually appealing lots of women watch gay porn. That’s two men that they’re watching and getting off too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 05:35 AM
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If you think about it as different things, lust attraction, desire, and aroused I think it helps make more sense. I have never lusted or desired women, I have been attracted to/aroused by them. I never woman. I just see something pretty sexually. With men get everything. they satisfy all the layers I lust for them. I’m attracted to them. I desire them and I am aroused by them. ( the scale of this will likely be 50 men in my lifetime though, which is different than some men who may say they are a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 05:29 AM
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i’m not sure if we’ll ever see a return back to the market favoring in person experiences as heavily. Socialization is dropping . With homeschooling on the rise, remote schooling on the rise, remote jobs, work from home jobs, food delivery, curbside etc. I do think online dating will increase, but dating apps will get better. People in society will become more isolated just by default. They would have to specifically and purposely create and seek in person experiences. As that won’t be the path …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 04:45 AM
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do u have a job ? or are u really fun but seem irresponsible?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 03:38 AM
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look what they do not listen to what they say. if aliens watched history of the world they would not say that men have loved women. though yes they have wanted to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 03:36 AM
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personally, the majority of the I didn’t like it. Ranges from a feeling of distress to a feeling of waiting for a ad to finish. however we are going through a cultural dating shift and I think cold approaching is part of that shift, especially for young people. I’ve seen this work once IRL. I think part of the reason for the shift online dating dating apps are so not so strange to go on a date with a complete stranger . Versus before if some stranger came to me, stranger danger - distress. if pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:35 AM
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> The body proportion differences are meant to attract the opposite sex. according to who and what ? Not according to what I experience and not according to the study of this guy’s post is made from. > Both are just as nice to look at and men shouldn't feel any less visually attractive and less sexually desired by the opposite sex any more often than women have been Agreed, i think men can be nice to look at too but they not usually jiggly. They can be very sensual in their movements though they…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:17 AM
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> why do women have such contradictory sexuality? I can only explain from my own pov. Lust, attraction, arousal, and desire feel like diffrent but connected things. They be triggered by different senses. For example, someone can look good (visual), but not feel right to touch ( women). Just because one sense or system is activated doesn’t mean the others will be. Some of these experiences are more mental, like attraction and desire they involve your thoughts, level of interest, emotional connect…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:06 AM
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I'm not so sure if the few male survivors of World War III would be particularly enthusiastic about marrying and financially supporting women who stayed home Besides the reality that the majority of married homes are not single income families. They wouldn't have too. Women have shown that they are very willing to support themselves. Society would simply continue on. Even historically/different regions if the majority of men died and and women were the majority of the population they would rebui…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 04:48 PM
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It's soft, jiggly, prettily shaped and sensual. like when u c women in the body positivity movement and they're talking about how the other women is pretty, I think they genuinely mean that. They're so nice to look at. They're really nice to look at move.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:56 PM
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Yeah you can put yourself in the mood to feel what she's feeling. Answer if ur comfortable : when ur watching porn what is going on mentally?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:48 PM
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Just because they're attracted/aroused by women doesn't mean they want to sleep with women. It's just seeing something pretty or sexy or sensual and feeling something it's also a very light easy feeling. But if these women were to actually touch them or even women were to actually think about a woman touching them in a sexually intimate way the feeling of disgust would very quickly and strongly overpower the attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:45 PM
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There is fear and preferences. They will say both. Even with the men they do pick they do still take precautionary measures, like bringing a gun, mace and pepper spray on dates. Texting your friends at check ins, giving your friends your location. With husband making sure to have a separate bank account etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:39 PM
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Optimism, resilience, grit and consistency - u keep going and trying no matter what it's like a zest for life. They like being alive, they are going to make the best out of what they have. Make the best of life. Great skills to have in life. ( Though I agree would be better if they did so less recklessly and with a growth/improvement mindset) It's a skill we try to teach to kids from very little - SpongeBob, Pokemon, Dragon Ball Z, Naruto, Finding Nemo etc. IDK how so many kids grew up to lack t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 08:55 AM
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Are they drunk ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 08:16 AM
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The harm would likely increase with less caution though that's the point. The less precautions you take the greater the chance of harm. Do u think if they took less precautions they'd be safer or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 07:57 AM
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I don't think they considered at all what kind of partner the undesirable guy would be. I don't think they think about what it would be like to be in a relationship with that kind of guy. They just looked at the risks not the reward or the experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 07:39 AM
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The default will be singleness. Way less dating, way less marriage. Rate of Single parenthood to double parent will increase. However less kids being born in general. Individualism will be high. There will be a rise in late adult virginity for men and women. There will also be a rise in extreme promiscuity but for very few people. There will be a decrease in divorce but also a decrease in marriages rates AI companion / lovers will be very popular mainstream dating sites/online dating will domina…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 07:28 AM
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I agree that manipulation is not unique to trp or men or women. Manipulation is very human. People can be manipulated by psychology. Trp highlights forms of manipulation- these forms of manipulation work on men and women. That's just the psychology of how manipulation works Women who try manipulation tactics also succeed with them. Men also fall for negging, gas lightning, dread game, push pull tactics etc. Idk what you blame this on feminist for. Makeup, wigs, dressing in a way that exaggerated…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 06:46 AM
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Prefrontal cortex,Nucleus accumbens Ventral tegmental area and Hypothalamus for love. Here are some fun articles u can look into https://www.apa.org/topics/marriage-relationships/brain-on-love This one contains a few scans. https://www.sciencealert.com/scientists-can-now-tell-if-you-re-in-love-by-scanning-your-brain
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 06:26 AM
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Is this perhaps negging?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 05:59 PM
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So is the foreign wife of the passport bro. They could also divorce or end up in a dead bedroom marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 05:43 PM
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Yes. A lot of the things women do they do because it works. Like if a woman wants empathy she uses pathos. She communicates in a way to appeal to empathy. So if a man wants empathy he should communicate in a way to appeal to empathy Vs what's done often in this sub is they say they want empathy but then communicate in a way that off puts empathy. Or if they want society to care about them then be involved in society and do caring things for society. Like volunteer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 05:32 PM
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If you did the breaking you don’t actually love them Nah I already explained that if scan the brain love is still there so u still love them. But u don't have to be with someone because u love them. That would be a condition. Like how some parents give up their kids to adoption maybe so the kid will have a better chance or better life or whatever other reason. They still likely love the kid even though they will have no relationship with the kid. Why because assuming it was your decision your pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 07:59 AM
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Looks/eye candy/raw sexual attraction - so being desired for "who u are as a person "
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 07:26 AM
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Wouldn't this fall under some kind of unconditional love ? I can love u without the condition of a relationship. Or If u really love me u will just love me no conditions. Lots of ppl still love each other when they break up. They might just be incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:57 AM
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If it to be believed that the reason women got into relationships even though they didn't want to historically was for the purpose of provision/resources. Then provision and resources would be the highest priority for them. So now when women can pursue resources themselves it's still the highest priority for us. Not for the corporation etc but for ourselves. Money guarantees safety, security, ur wants and needs. Children and family doesn't that's more like a hobby/passion project, something very…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:46 AM
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Nah if u scan the brain love is still there but you've just left the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:41 AM
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U don't have to be with someone just because u love them. U can just love them and leave them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:28 AM
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And I said this before and I was actually downloaded like crazy a woman who really cares for you sounds no different from a woman who's trying to deceive you at first. I think that's kind of the crazy part about it. Until the switch happens there's no legitimate way to tell the difference. Think about it this way there are some men out there who pretend to really like you and come off as really good guys and then you have sex with them and you feel like they're distant or ghost It's pretty much …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 03:17 AM
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Have u ever heard the Tina Turner song private dancer ? It's a relevant song, it goes Well, the men come in these places And the men are all the same You don't look at their faces And you don't ask their names You don't think of them as human You don't think of them at all You keep your mind on the money Keeping your eyes on the wall legitimate only fans models that will talk to you and convince you they are interested only to find out they want you to talk to them on their page. Do you know tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:57 AM
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The problem is you have high standards for problematic people What a interesting concept expound. Strippers that dm charm, only fans folks and ...survive off many men giving a few dollars . Yeah its a job it's not a charity. Don't go to strip clubs or onlyfans.com if u don't want to give them it money. I don't view them as bad people bc it's just some women doing their job. They aren't tricking or lying or scamming ppl. They're providing customer service and getting tips for good customer servic…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:30 AM
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How many American women have u helped start a business? The survey, conducted at the earlier this year, shows that men leave slightly larger tips than women (19.07% versus 18.6%, on average). But women tend to tip more frequently at more places, though slightly more women than men say they never tip. Women are significantly more likely to leave a tip for grooming services (think hairdressers or massage therapists), fast-food restaurants, coffee shops and even grocery stores. Men tend to tip more…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:18 AM
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We don't believe a man who pays for dinner that he asked her out on should be calling that woman a golddigger. We tell y'all women who are gold diggers are asking for a lot more money than a $50 dinner or $5 coffee. If she is asking for jewelry, repairs, tuition, rent then yeah she is likely a gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:11 AM
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Did u give them the money ? If so what did they say ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:08 AM
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two-thirds of male messages go to the best-looking third of women. So basically, guys are fighting each other 2-for-1 for the absolute best-rated females, Their rating of womens attriveness is a bell curve but who they message is a balloon. https://gwern.net/doc/psychology/okcupid/yourlooksandyourinbox.html? Here is another analysis. U can c how the massages distribute.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:38 AM
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That's very different situation than hazard pay for firefighters. Hazard pay for firefighters should be a much simpler easier achievement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:23 AM
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To add : Try adding dairy to ur day. Ensure as a daily drink + whatever you normally eat. Milkshakes, ice cream. Anyway I like skinny twink like men but 105 sounds more anorexic than twink like. Aim for twink like.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:48 PM
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The younger one and just bc he's younger. Even if he was 5 inches shorter and 10 years younger it'd still be him. As long as everything else was the same. Younger guys are more fun. Probably mainly date him but maybe marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:42 PM
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What if you are attracted to him, but you will find that other women don't find him attractive ?Are you going to dump him suddenly? No that'll be great for me. My friends and I have different types and it's great. For a small sample. But I know that's unrealistic to expect population wide. I know that he doesn't look like a toe and other ppl have eyes. I know it might be a couple of weeks, months or years before another woman sees him and thinks "that's my type." Then personally my type is skinn…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:35 PM
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No that's like saying anything with teeth is a carnivorous animal. What ur saying is sex workers and regular woman both have have a pussy so it's too hard to separate them. That's like staying any animal that has teeth is carnivorous and will eat you and it's too hard to separate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:24 PM
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I didn’t write that. Ok but u can still answer. Yes or No. I (like many men) can easily desire a socially inept woman if she has a body that really turns me on. I don’t understand why it’s different for you women. Testosterone 2. Already have a wide selection of lustful men nearby so always have easy access to sex. Women don't need to be in a relationship if all u want is sex/lust. U have more access to lust/sex outside of the relationship. It's very similar actually looks get you through the do…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:17 PM
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Neat. Do u want think u want a woman no other men want ? If so find me a picture of this woman, or maybe run a experiment with this woman's picture on a dating app. Use AI if u like.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:37 PM
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Its not that easy U didn't even try. So how would u know ? Don't mention women or men. Say Frontline firefighters u even have my permission to use what I wrote above for ur petition. What I wrote above is not in any way misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:25 PM
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A lot of men mix up lust with love. Or they think that because they love sex they love women. But there is a difference. Lust and love operates in different ( sometimes overlapping) parts of the brain Hypothalamus drisex, and Amygdala for lust. Prefrontal cortex,Nucleus accumbens Ventral tegmental area and Hypothalamus for love. This is the same for men and women. Though the hormones released might be different and different levels of chemicals released. I can find brain scans online.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:17 PM
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We are here to debate. Youre not offering any valuable insights. I'm literally giving u a plan of action, write to your elected official with a petition about getting hazard pay for South Korean fire fighters. How about some empathy? If u wanted to get empathy u should have used pathos in ur op. Personally empathy is not my best skill but I'm working on it. Here is my try : This is a sad and terrible situation, I feel so bad for the firefighters. They are so busy protecting us from fires. We nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:07 PM
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Yeah. So it's a win -win. The women doesn't want to share will leave and be replaced. The women who do want to share will share. Everyone gets what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:50 PM
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Take that up with ur government. In USA they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:44 PM
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Yes. Some women believe men's dating struggles are real.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:41 PM
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Women are not a ideological hive mind/monolith. They have a spectrum of beliefs and behaviors between them. It's very unlikely that there will be a uniformity of consistent beliefs between 4 billion people
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:34 PM
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You can't separate women and sex workers It's actually pretty easy to separate them. Sex workers are propositioning you for you money. Normal women will likely just ignore u. That's like saying you can't tell a saleman from just a guy in a suit. The sales man is the one actively trying to sell you somethin
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:56 PM
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Yes this is generally true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:52 PM
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Those men will learn by consequences. If he isn't loyal she won't stick around. Edit : loyalty is a choice. need men and women to understand women have always shared men for generations, centuries, eons. These women likely had no choice in the matter. It’s actually very normal. When I see a woman leave a multi millionaire over infidelity it’s just funny to me. Those guys have always had multiple women and the women will gladly share him. Now they have a choice. If they value loyalty they'll leav…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:51 PM
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Loyalty is a character trait and behavior. You are only focusing on behavior. If a socially awkward man lacks the trait of loyalty he might still be disloyal in other ways. Like abandon u if ur sick, leave 'to get milk', pay to cheat, cheat if the opportunity comes to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:41 PM
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The social guy is high risk high reward. Relationships are social activities. They require you to socialize with someone else. The social guy has social skills. Within the actual interactions/relationship socializing with him is a pleasant experience. Though he is more at risk of cheating/ he could step outside the relationship. Also if he cheats you can leave. The awkward guy is low risk low reward. He lacks social skills. Socializing with him is not pleasant. Actually interacting with him/bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:39 PM
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Do u think you want a woman no other men want ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:20 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:17 PM
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April 16th is national eggs Benedict day and April is national grilled cheese month so both of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:27 PM
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the future they will probably be able to make genetically modified pets, so people can have pet lions, bears and gorillas who will be domesticated like dogs. but we’ll go too far and make them intelligent as well, and when that happens you better be prepared for the inevitable cross species relationships. How exciting!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:19 PM
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That's part of the reason they'd pick the bear. Lots of bears don't actually want to be near you. They'll most likely just leave you alone, unless you antagonize it or it's really hungry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:14 PM
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They don't need you they want you. Means your very desirable and the like you for who u are as a person, (body and mind) are u perhaps in any of the arts?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:10 PM
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Your absolutely right even if women had the kids there might not be enough work for the kids to sustain themselves by the time they grow up. The job market itself is shrinking. Like china, fewer kids but less work too. So still a relatively high unemployment and overqualification especially when considering the young. We should funnel the few kids we have into maintaining what we have or jobs AI can't/won't do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:03 PM
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We've already been doing that for generations on top of generations. Literally since the agricultural revolution. This is closer to a Ponzi scheme than communism. They said the same thing to our grandma and great grandma and great great great grandma. They'll say the same thing to our daughters then the next set then the next set. The majority of the time they don't even have a goal or purpose they're working towards. The goal is just to keep reproducing. It's a neverending ponzi scheme. .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:56 PM
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I think the default state is becoming being single for both genders. Then dating and marriage will be seen as a privilege few will actually enjoy. Especially when u add in the ease of su companions, remote work and remote school there probably will be a lot of attractive single people by default in the future. But they're happy it should be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:47 PM
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What's the amount to your estimation that would make 50%+ of men have gay sex ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:35 PM
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They both get into relationships for emotional reasons. They will tell you this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:34 PM
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But a million dollar will give you a better life than commitment will. A million dollars gives you safety, security, takes care of you needs and wants. Love is fun and a pleasurable but it's not actually useful it can't actually do anything. Its just a feeling in your head and heart. Vs money that's actually purposeful. We are all going to die some day so it matters how we live. Money guarantees that you will live well. Love doesn't. I said a million dollars not $150 dinners big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:32 PM
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What's the lowest you think you could give to man where about 50% or more accept. Like if you offered 100 men $200 to have gay sex. Would you say you expect 51/100 men to take that deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:24 PM
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For these toxic men the ones I know irl they aren't particularly attractive they look average nor do they really avoid commitment. These were actually very committed men. Toxic husbands, toxic boyfriends - generally so in a committed relationship but extremely toxic behavior within the relationship. ( u can c mug pictures of abusive men online the majority look average to me) A lot of it is the personality/traits/sociability but the dark side. They have no boundaries on themselves and no boundar…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:16 PM
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If they could just find a way to channel that into goodness it would be so helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:05 PM
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True especially the trauma bonds part. That was part of the relatable part. She would tell him fucked up stuff about herself and background then they'd tell her fucker up stuff about himself and themselves and their background. Like she'd say my parents were drunks and druggies, they lost custody of me I lived with my grandma who's a impoverished drunk but loves me. He'd say something like hey my parents are also on drunks and did drugs. They were really neglectful. I went to foster care a coupl…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 06:59 PM
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Protein Breakdown in Semen Total Amount: A typical ejaculation (2–5 ml) contains roughly 0.125g to 0.25g of protein Source : https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/how-many-nutrients-are-in-semen
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 06:17 AM
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You know I didn't used to notice vore stuff but I think it's becoming more popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 06:11 AM
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Now no. But I did grow up in poor. Now I make around average maybe a little less. Why would dating a broke man make you in poverty? That's just how the math works out. For short term relationship probably not much effect but more risk. Risk is poor baby daddy, less comfortable events and more chill activities. But y risk it. For Long term relationships extreme risk. . Like in the face book link you saw. If she made 30k and he made 30k and they pooled their resources + kid. That's 20k per person.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 06:08 AM
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I would value my father's advice over a husbands in the majority of cases I would take my Grandpa's advice over my dad's. My dad interest and my interest naturally line up closer together. So what I'm think he says. Choosing my dad guidance, advice, direction and commands 80% of the time is choosing my own guidance, advice, direction and commands. But then again If I had met a man who aligned with me so well as my dad does I probably would have gotten married. So if that man was my husband, we s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 05:23 AM
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Why do toxic guys always seem to have girlfriends ? They try often. If they lose a girlfriend they'll just try again and again until they get another one. So numbers game. What traits or behaviors give them this edge in dating? Confidence/boldness and resilience. Consistent effort (toxic guy) vs motivation (normal guy). or is there something else that makes them to win? I've only have a few friends that have been in a abusive/toxic relationships so I'll tell u from what I've gathered that not us…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 04:28 AM
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This would make me extremely unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 04:08 AM
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No I don't think I would like being cheated on. I don't think I would respect, love or desire the cheating man. But if the choice is between poverty vs a million dollars. I would choose a million dollars almost every time even with drawbacks attached such as cheater or celibacy or being married to a plant. Money would do more for my life than commitment or commitment from a broke man would. But genuine question : Do u legitimately think commitment to a broke man is better than a million dollars …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 04:07 AM
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Gay for pay How much would u estimate would do it for $20 ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 09:28 PM
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Yes but the 1st time I asked out a man I was 30. It was the only time I felt like I should/had too. Other than than they did the majority of the initiating and I was attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 08:57 PM
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Do you think women should be having more children or not? Not op but no. I think society doesn't actually need more children than what is given. Society is almost to the point of self sustainability with the use of machinery and ai. But if society says it has a vested interest in a new generation or children it should put it's money where it's mouth is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 08:48 PM
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What did I say that was incorrect or at all related to feminism ? Or do u just use feminism as a catchall for anything u don't like ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 08:35 PM
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Do u legitimately think commitment to a broke man is better than a million dollars?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 08:22 PM
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Yes. No one would actually be hurt it would be purely fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 07:54 PM
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Right that's y it's free. Most ppl treat having kids a personal hobby/passion. But if society want to request kids then it should offer payment. That changes childrearing/childbearing from a hobby/charity to a business/service.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 07:49 PM
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If society want to request children then it should offer payment in return. Like it does with all other works that people don't want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 07:28 PM
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Condoms don't 100% protect u from herpes but they do significantly decrease ur chances of contracting herpes. Also u can slow down if want. Before sex u can request STD panels with a guy. Gives u a chance to get to know him more, gives him a chance to get to know u more. Then have sex with a condom if he comes back clean. If he doesn't take the test. Take that as a sign he probably has a bunch of STDs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 11:42 AM
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If ur condom splits all the time it's likely too small. U can get condoms big enough to fit on ur foot like a sock. Maybe get bigger condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 11:27 AM
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This has a lot of how it was explained to me as a teenager as well. If u sleep with him early he'll think it a slut and kind of adopt a " y buy the cow when u can get the milk for free? " Mindset. Edit : men even used to use a women sleeping with them early as a shit test. I think this is the source of creating entirely separate bubbles for Causal vs Relationship guys. They directly incentivized women to create separated bubbles for casual vs relationship, bc it solves their problems. However fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 11:22 AM
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Do u think that the men may be overvaluing their commitment bc even if the choice was relationship commitment from friend guy vs nothing ?( Taking out FWB/situationship guy entirely) A lot of women would likely pick nothing . If they don't even want to commit to a date with friend guy...y would they want to commit to a relationship with friend guy ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 11:15 AM
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It signals to me That maybe they didn't want to do it then either they would have much rather spent their time and energy directly pursuing status and money themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:46 AM
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Noted, thank you. I just took OP’s post and put it in AI. it’s response seems pretty healthy to me. “ Wow… that’s a really intense message. She’s carrying a decade of trauma from both online spaces and her family environment. This isn’t just “bad thoughts”—this is a deeply internalized, toxic worldview that’s affecting her sense of self and safety. She needs a safe, structured outlet and support. AI can help her start reflecting, but it’s not a replacement for professional guidance. That said, y…
/r/ExRedPill09/04/26 04:32 AM
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have you considered using like AI like ChatGPT as a therapist?
/r/ExRedPill09/04/26 03:47 AM
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it is tasteful, I also think it’s attention grabbing that’s because it’s red. However, I do also think it’s ugly mainly bc seems to be a very stiff material and wrinkles easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 03:22 AM
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I don’t know if this is help, but I think it will. Take take her to a G** range and tell her to learn how to s***t. Just get a little Blinky in a cute little purse when you go out on dates. Then she’s more safe and secure. ever if ever in that situation again she is perfectly equipped to handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 03:12 AM
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I definitely agree with you there if they had more integrity and could be trusted to not just “ take what they could get” that would help balance. However I do also think that’s a bit of an exaggeration. I do also think that often they’re just happy in relationships. Even if a relationship just falls into their lap most of the time they’ll be happy enough with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 03:03 AM
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additionally, about fatherhood being more than providing and protecting and still being warm/vulnerable. If you think about a father building a relationship with his kid/loving his kid, you would think about the five love language and them being expressed. Words of Affirmation - I’m proud of you, son, good job kid etc Quality Time - just hanging out maybe watching TV or going for a ride or listening to music, when they teach you how to ride a bike or drive a car. Receiving Gifts this one could c…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 02:14 AM
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hobosexuals ? I get a lot of those on my for you page.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 01:45 AM
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Dating would be more efficient if women were the active choosers/pursuers. You won’t have to deal with men’s shoot everything and see what sticks type of interest. Plus, you would balance women’s pickiness. I would think to add maybe a small video component so you can see a man in motion they look better in motion. Like an introduction video a simple one. Then something like if there is a match for dating and the people talk for a week both their profiles come off. Then you can come back on afte…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 01:30 AM
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because it’s a great idea if you could turn more men bi or nurture bi-ness into men (like the greeks) it would be such a huge solution to a lot of dating problems. There are a lot of men who just wanna hook up and they’re cool hooking up with someone that they’re not attracted to just cause they love sex so much if we could match them to people who have the same standards. I just think that men would be able to better match each others sexual desires, spontaneous sexual desire, quick sex etc. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 01:16 AM
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My grandpa is very traditional so he would say something like “children are your real wealth” and my great grandmother would say things like “children are a blessing.” So while I do think that is a lot of fluffy language to sort of cushion that children objectively are likely to be a massive waste of your time, energy and money or even a huge detriment to you. I think they actually feel that way like my great grandmother lived with my most of her life that was helpful Multigenerational homes are…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 12:58 AM
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But did they actually try to rehabilitate him? Did they get him in any therapy or conversion camps or on drugs or anything or did they just lock him in his room at night and let him out during the day ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 12:51 AM
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You make 200k, your doing great Sir ! I respect money. So as long ur ethically employed (not pimping ppl in the streets, or robbing the elderly, or selling drugs great ).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 08:58 PM
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Regular masculinity is centered around protection and provision The extreme end ' toxic masculinity ' is where u take the same traits and use them in a way that hurts yourself and those around you and even against the people u were supposed to be providing or protecting.( More to this fine basis to start at). Like Clayton in tarzan, he is also strong but he uses him strength to dominate and abuse those around him In the example of Tarzan, he is masculine, a perfectly balanced masculine. He prote…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 08:43 PM
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It seems they have a fetish specifically for forced transwomen. Maybe they want to be apart of the journey but specifically the journey since she gives him away at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 07:53 PM
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Expound.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 07:51 PM
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Or if society paid them to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 03:56 PM
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Thats a very specific fantasy idk how you would go about fulfilling that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 03:39 PM
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what do you think would be left if the so-called toxic aspects of masculinity were to dissappear overnight? Just regular masculinity. So basically a man who is direct, expresses him self and respects others. Tarzan How would masculinity be distinct from femininity in that case? Femininity seems more about creating a sense of belonging and use whatever traits u can to create that. I don't c how masculinity really relates to this in either case. I attribute the extremes of masculinity to toxic mas…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 07:14 AM
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I attribute this dating style to my friend being in a abusive relationship. ( Though she was also romantically inexperienced) She would go on dates basically lay all her cards on the table/trauma dump. The normal men would ghost and only the abusive men stayed. She stopped doing that on the first couple of dates and has has no abusive boyfriends since.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:09 AM
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Person A Person A actually has a lot of money or been around a lot of money. They are used to managing money. Being sensible with money. They've been educated since a kid at Christmas about money management, grandpa gave tips so generational knowledge too on how to use money as a tool. He actually has money and assets and is managing them well so I'd look to him. Person B is good but they're a hustler not someone in a good financial state so not someone I would actually go to for big financial a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:04 AM
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Correct being a pushover often is not respectable for either gender. If a man or women is a pushover/ppl pleaser or someone with weak boundaries they are likely to be taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 04:04 AM
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That's so interesting. I plan to get a FWB and not to date partly bc think it will be easier on my social battery. Is maintaining ur FWB relationships easier on social battery than dating ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 03:07 AM
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It could if the AI socialized like a human. Humans are social creatures. They deeply crave social connection but the brain/emotions can't really tell the difference between fake and real. So just socialize ppl to the AI it satisfies the human craving with little effort/risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:59 AM
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It's a one sided parasocial relationship you would get more out of a ai companion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:56 AM
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I agree with u. remembering someone's breakfast order is a more genuine and meaningful expression of romantic love than this kind of grand sacrifice? ' I'll die for u' or" I'll jump in front of a train for u" or " I'll catch a grenade for u" etc are grand declarations of delusions of grandeur of dying like a martyr. So hero fantasies. They are most often only imaginary. They never or rarely actually come about into fruition. How often is avg wife actually coming in contact with a live grenade th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 05:41 PM
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Cuddling and sex are both good(both release endorphins ) so it'll likely be a positive experience either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 07:02 PM
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invites you over to cuddle and watch movie , does it turn you off if you both actually watch the movie all the way through before he makes a move. I'm going to say no but it's like a 55% no 45% yes. 55% no bc u said cuddle while watching the movie. Maintaining physical contact/affection is good for romance/affection then it's a simple slide into sensual/sex. Also it might be a good movie that she also wants to watch. 45% yes bc If we're cuddling and watching a movie I might fall asleep won't be …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:41 PM
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I've heard for some ppl to fix their bedroom they have a talk the guys says something to the effect of I'll take initiating off table. If I give u affection it's just affection. If u want sex u initiate if we have sex it'll only be bc u initiate it. Basically they put the women in charge of the bedroom and it fixed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:25 PM
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Great advice very balanced
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:06 PM
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The majority of looksmaxxers on my FYP just wear makeup and stylish clothes it's the extreme ones that hit themselves with hammer but they're rare
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 05:55 PM
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Confidence is sexy yes but it can also be intimidating it can draw ppl out, but If she is too unconfident it won't be enough of a response to move the interaction along or even begin a interaction. Like if she is too afraid to talk to boys and she comes across a confident man it can ease her u confidence or it will just make her more unconfident/intimidated. Picture a woman that if boys talk to her all she does is stare at her shoes and doesn't reciprocate the interaction. That interaction is go…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 05:44 PM
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Looks get you through the door, personality or manipulation keeps u there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 05:55 AM
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U also need confident women in that system to progress there are women who are not confident enough to say yes to going on dates or talk to boys. If it's not reciprocated the system doesn't move at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 05:51 AM
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I wouldn't do anything but view her suspiciously. It's either sweet or sinister.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 05:40 AM
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To be fair there are not a lot of guys like u. So for the small market of women who crave this. There is a extremely small market of men who provide it. But overall both are minorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 05:05 AM
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Same way u fear cops that protect you or a dog that protects u. They could turn on u on a dime. If it with a powerful aggressive man there is a chance he can/will use power and aggression against you. U can side with someone bigger than u to protect u but now ur in the hands of someone bigger than u and more dangerous. Like making a protection deal with the Mafia. Now the mafia protects u but now ur at the mercy of the mafia. Or having a aggressive violent dog. Yes it can protect u but it can al…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:25 AM
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Ideally yes. In practice he is also the biggest threat so she still has to protect herself from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:37 PM
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There is a large range between confident enough to go up to strangers and talk to them and being afraid of talking to women. Though being timid can be unattractive u can get confidence without patriarchy even if there was never a Patriarchy there would still be confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:35 PM
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For some yes they might like Patriarchy it can be convenient and has some pros. They can partake of some of the benefits Patriarchy provides. For example in a lot of romance novels women do like patriarchy . But only if it's practiced perfectly like within these novels the women have rights they have choices they have opportunities.They can still get an education still get a job still look after themselves and their families etc. If patriarchy was practiced the way it was practiced in women's no…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:27 PM
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They do that bc they r horny not as a favor to women. If they didn't do it the women would like in the Netherlands. If women already have men that they want coming up to them and asking them out they'll just go with those men. If a woman doesn't have a man coming up to her and she wants him she'll go to him. There must be opportunity and purpose for either of these cases to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:09 PM
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The patriarchal man is the most likely to harm her. Maybe do to exposure but he is the biggest threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 07:59 PM
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That’s fair, but I think it goes deeper than that they are average looking, and while I do think that women can be attracted to average men who is her type Visually for these women I really do think visual and personality but the personality they are attracted to is terrible people. Bc you could easily find men who look pretty much exactly like those men but who don’t beat you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:31 AM
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They can, be that could be a source of autistic women being isolated, they not observed to be being a friend or friendly, They might be missing the social cues. but as someone who is an autistic woman, you can also just learn it and do it. Its often outright taught and easily observed. Basically to have a friend you must be a friend ,spend time together, increasing social interactions, they just keep doing kind things for each other. Whichever ones stick around and reciprocate are the ones who w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:11 AM
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if it upfront and honest and agreed then fair. but I don’t think it’ll be desirable for most people. personally, if it was me, it would work for a short time and I want a lot of real money then I will definitely divorce later. I would personally find it unsustainable in this specific set up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 03:37 AM
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Your right for a lot of women if u look at the mugshots of men that do DV they’re not even hot. These women are getting whooped by men that aren’t even hot. BC of the other possibly toxic traits that are attractive about them to some women. It doesnt work on all women it works on some though and abusers are often very intentional.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 03:17 AM
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Y would women not care about money? That's just irresponsible. Money is the basis of a good life. Money is best resource to have . It gives safety, security takes care of your needs and wants etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 09:37 PM
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It doesn't often come in the form of pushback it comes in the form of advisement/warning/support so it looks different. Also they do still try to respect that women's free will and autonomy. Pushback is useless they'll just stop listening to you and move on. Advisement/warning they may still listen. Some of what u listed as examples are a matter of preference as well, which in that case y yuck someone's yum - Preferring being approached vs not liking cold approaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 09:33 PM
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Bc of the abusive exploitation industry of real women. ( Drugging, trafficking, rape) If u abuse ur own robot who cares. That like being mad someone abused their fridge or phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 09:06 PM
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Kinda sorta. They more bc acquaintance than a friend. Most ppl would prioritize pouring into people that pour into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 09:00 PM
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I agree with u completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:02 PM
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The majority of men lose their virginity by 21 and the majority of men also get married so this is delusional and they do this all without forcing women too. So historically the reason they did enforce monagomy is bc they wanted to it wasn't necessary it wasn't needed, most ppl fuck and marry just fine without threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:54 AM
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They did it bc they wanted to. That not the majority of women's dating life. The men in the back might not be good men either. Just bc a guy is willing to commit to you doesn't mean he's good. There is more to goodness than loyalty. If we look at history yes the men were married to women then rarely treated the women well. Those men don't need women. They want women. They can go date women. The majority of men aren't virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:45 AM
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abstinence is the only 100% method of preventing pregnancy. But yes lots of good birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:41 AM
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Agreed but abstinence is the only 100% method of preventing pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:14 AM
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I think u should shoot ur shot. If it's only casual ongoing sexual relationship and ur not harboring feeling for him. Y do u want to sleep with him in particular after 10+ years
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:11 AM
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Genuine question are u ugly ? How are his looks ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:33 AM
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U misunderstood she basically said that the majority of women vets for men who have a genuine interest/compatibility in her vs men who have solely sexual interest in her. Otherwise the deal is now approach, vet men for herself, vet herself for him, risk pregnancy and children. Vs now the norm is wait for approach, vet men for herself, vet herself for him, risk pregnancy and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:21 AM
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It's not a wonder. Men did it bc they wanted too. The same reason most people do most things everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:03 AM
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GettingBigger A community for science based penis enlargement, men’s sexual health and wellness. Thx for answering.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 06:26 AM
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Loving something can be fun so it's kind of just more fun for me. As long as it's not unrequited that torturous.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 06:23 AM
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How ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 06:00 AM
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Genuine question what is dickmaxxing ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 05:59 AM
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Yes it's very efficient. What do u want us to debate though? That many people don't do that and it's beneficial to them. Why we should still strive to form relationship even though it's unnecessary? What this looks like for the future? U can just live life as a hermit and order everything and socialize with a AI companion the brain probably can't tell the difference. Then ppl might compare ppl to ai IRL and be unsatisfied, bc of lack of ' social skills ' from people compared to social skills fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 05:51 AM
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This doesn't answer my question it actually raises more questions. Is she fucking him and her abusive ex boyfriend is that y he's not a incel otherwise what's the connection?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 05:30 AM
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Y do some men complain about a lack of care and attention from society but also complain about free care and attention from society(friendzone) ? Or is it not the same men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 05:22 AM
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If ur asking y I reason women have it easier in dating/ more privileged. Then the biggest factor would be opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:16 AM
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I agree with your comment but to answer your comment. It's either birds of a feather flock together or opposites attract kind of situation. Why would assertive, risk taking leaders value someone else who's none of those qualities? Passive, weak. This partner might still be cooperative, compliant and supportive. So let's say a risk taking man ask out a women who is weak and passive she might still be supportive. In this dynamic he would do lots of heavy risk taking and assertiveness mainly outsid…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:07 AM
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Will men really accept being a follower with cooperation and without complaint though?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:53 AM
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I think they would like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:47 AM
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Agreed. The way things operate now is really inefficient for both parties. It doesn't work most of the time. The majority of times men approach a woman they are approaching a women that's uninterested/not attracted to them. The women is being interrupted by some guy she's not interested in. There is a guy in this sub who said he's had to endure 1000 rejections. IDK his personal story but let's say these were cold approaches for example, That means he went up to 1000 different women and got rejec…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:45 AM
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I think the point is to get the work done. If the brakes need to be changed idc if hubby does it or he takes it the mechanic and he does it or if he calls his Dad or friend or neighbor and they do it. I just need the work done. As long as it gets done I'd be happy( in a timely manner and a job well done). If hubby agrees to provide his wife with a monthly allowance if she keeps the house clean , laundry done and a hot meal on the table. Then she agrees and does so. What does it matter how she go…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:23 AM
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not charming coffee, but yes, and yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:47 PM
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He can hire help too, or he can do it himself to save the money. if the husband is paying her as in like she is a housewife and he gave her an allowance and she hires a maid out of her monthly allowance. Seems reasonable to me the work got done. If it’s a working wife and she hired a maid out of either her personal budget or the family budget the work still got done. Why is this man complaining? He can also hire help. He can hire a gardener he can hire a handyman he can hire a mechanic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:32 PM
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> You basically have the whole male population at your whim. That doesn't count for anything? can I have $1000 from every man in here please?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:01 PM
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I thought the shit post was really good, very reasonable. Whenever I hear women complain about chores I advise them to hire help. If husband complains well it’s cheaper than divorce so pick a struggle. he won’t do repairs around the house hire a repair man, if he won’t help with housework, get a maid if you won’t have a childcare, get it babysitter and nanny if you won’t help with the yard get a landscaper gardener. I do think you should make friends based on their strengths and then play to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 07:47 PM
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There is a difference if a person has a power they can use it to impose it on other people regardless of the other people’s consent or allowance. Like your boss has power over you so he can fire you are well, and you can’t do anything about it. A country has the power to bomb another country. It doesn’t need the other countries consent /allowance it just does it. If a woman tries to impose her sexual power on men, the only ones it would work on would be the ones who wanted to work on them. - Lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 07:37 PM
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Great list
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 07:23 PM
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High cost low benefit. Nothing much might as well go get a job, that at least comes with guarantees, more safety, more security, more resources. Women would use their sexual power to appeal to men with financial power to get the financial power, which means that financial power is the more important power so cut out the middleman and just pursue financial power.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:19 PM
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you not having power over your lust is not the same as women having power over you. Otherwise, history wouldn’t look like what it does. History looks like men not having power over their lust. It does not look like women having power over men. This is all in your head, your lust is literally all in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:16 PM
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Realistically they don’t do whatever you want so it’s not a power.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:12 PM
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sexual power is not real power. It’s more like leverage and it’s very conditional . Like more like customer service interactions, it has too much interaction from the other person to have power over them, especially because to actually wheel this power the women would have to heavily appeal to the men that they are then wielding power over this is not power. It has a higher cost than most other powers do. for example, if she utilizes her pussy power, it is an inherent loss/waste of time and ener…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:09 PM
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They already got paid/ rewarded for their contribution to society. They got a salary for 401(k) and Social Security pension insurance that was their payment for contributing to society. They were compensated for their work . However, they do also get gratitude, bosses give bonuses, awards, pizza parties, reviews etc. They want some woman to go to Amazon, wait the parking lot and give them a round of applause, even though Jeff Bezos already paid them. Meanwhile Jeff Bezos and friends is not payin…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 07:46 PM
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It’s not projection many men say “they take what they can get.” they do this for casual and long-term relationships. They will ask out women that they’re not even attracted to or like if it means they get something.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 07:34 PM
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Resilience+ new opportunity + heterosexuality/attraction. it’s not all terrible. Most of my relationships have been pleasant. There are parts unpleasant about dating, but I’d say it’s more positive than negative like it’s worth about $20-$50. But that’s a good $20-$50 experience. anyway, it’s not a logical decision. It’s more of an emotional one and if it goes well, then emotionally the highs are very high and very good. if it was a logical decision, they wouldn’t date or they would be gold digg…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 07:16 PM
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I heard something about sex I guess, I asked my mom what is sex She said " sex is when a man puts his penis in a vagina". I don't remember age but young maybe 7ish
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:12 PM
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Well that's another issue tight fisted cheap old men. The only thing they have on a young man is money. If they're not handing it over might as go date a young man. Your not getting money either way but at least the young man is nice to look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 04:57 PM
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I'm saying the work of fucking and catering to some old man is not worth the money for most women that's y it's not common, even though it would be a extremely easy opportunity Marrying a old man has always been a lucrative opportunity. The market of old men looking for younger women is alive and well. Yes we all know old men are richer than younger men that's not the issue. That's pretty much the old plus side to dating old men - the money. The issue is that they're gross , too gross to deal wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 04:55 PM
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It's weird. For some women I see them looking for the best provider as them looking for the man equipped to be the best lover according to the terms that men said they love in. Though some women just love money.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 04:41 PM
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What do u want us to debate ? Do u want us to tell men to have standards? Do u want us to tell men to express love in ways other than providing ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 12:44 PM
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Yes but from the government. I propose 100k per kid, then 50k per year after that. I didn't calculate homemaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 07:57 AM
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Better to have loved and lost than have never loved at all...from 1850's
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 07:50 AM
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Comrade vs confidant
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 07:42 AM
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do women view male friendship as less valuable than friendships with other women? Yes. But generally male friendships are still viewed very well. If it's a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 07:40 AM
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U would face consequences/pain of the decision of childbirth so u would be more cautious when asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 07:07 AM
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Money is a much better source of happiness than sex. Money gives u safety, security, takes care of your needs and your wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:22 AM
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No much like $300 - 500 a week .
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:16 AM
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This is exactly what women will be using ai boyfriends for.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:02 AM
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I largely agree with you. I expect in the future the default will be singleness. But the irl relationships that do for will be better quality. Only now, with AI, are we finally synthesizing emotional labor. Women already give each other free platonic emotional support, the exact same thing they resent giving men and that men aren’t wired to give each other anyway. As a note, it can inversely be said that women can’t extract applicable testosterone from each other Anecdotal but in my case it's bc…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:46 AM
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I love ur articlea but here the way they are listed it's more like marriage/partnering is a contingency plan rather than a ' Good' thing/ advantages thing. Ie : women get very likely to get married/be partnered when they are unattractive and unemployed. Getting married bc ur poor and ugly is not a good situation to be in. Though yes handy back up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:29 AM
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Do u have a source for a connection between sperm bank recipients s and low income women ? Otherwise I don't c y there is a connection between single mom by payment women and Childless men being forced to pay for their own obsolesence is frankly cruel. Also these men can simply hire a surrogate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:17 AM
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Great articles !
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:08 AM
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7/10 chance I wouldn't fuck them and I wouldn't want to either. It would more than likely be a body I wasn't attracted to and I don't want to have sex with some body I'm not attracted to. 3/10 chance I would fuck them, mainly if it was a body I was attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:04 AM
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The cost of fucking and catering to a old man is too high a cost for the money. Most women would rather just work and cut out the middle man (old man). Marrying a old man has always been a lucrative opportunity. The market of old men looking for younger women is alive and well, it's not very often reciprocated bc of disgust. The act/thought of sucking these old men is worse than the money usually. Especially bc it's a relationship instead of a ons. Do something gross once for say a million dolla…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 04:40 AM
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Statistically most people marry within their socioeconomic status. Look up assortative mating. As well as they'll marry men in proximity to themselves. He's educated enough to be in the same room as she is he's educated/ competent enough to marry. Plus there are still lots more rich men than rich women. Lastly women can marry down they don't on average but they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 03:38 AM
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<image> Old information but they are. https://www.brookings.edu/articles/a-valentines-day-card-for-all-of-our-teachers/#:~:text=According%20to%20a%20study%20of%20the%20American,to%20marry%20someone%20in%20their%20same%20occupation**
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 02:43 PM
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Sugar Mama, the sugar is money. sugar, daddy’s and sugar mama’s exchange money for sex, companionship, and intimacy . A cougar sort of just has a fetish for young men and chases them for free. These can overlap significantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:09 AM
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I have an idea for this to share. write a compliment on index car leave your number. ie ur cute 555-555-5555
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:03 AM
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here is some research https://ifstudies.org/blog/high-earning-women-are-more-likely-to-marry-
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:54 AM
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Thx for clarifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 01:25 PM
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Beauty is social currency. Some people don’t need to be beautiful to get what they want. or they can be in a position where practice beauty doesn’t have a worth while return on interest to them so why bother. Like yes, if you worked out three times a week, did your make up 15 - 30 minutes every day you be treated better and you would look better by like 5% some people that 5% is not worth it for all that effort Also being pretty comes with its own disadvantages : you get more attention, positive…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:49 AM
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for some reason when men see that bending over backwards for women isn't a good ROI, men are called selfish and lazy and misogynistic and not trying hard enough. Odd double standard How is that a double standard u didn't call me anything. But there are men who call women names for not wanting to meet their standards. I never said men wanted women to do chores, there are many things women can do to secure commitment that involves neither chores nor being submissive. U didn't but men's standards a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:06 AM
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Men have been telling women, overtly and explicitly, what men want from women in order to commit to them. Women can see this, understand this, and do this, easily and without many issues. They just don't want to because securing commitment from one man means possibly missing out on a better man, and that they feel that any attempt to actually work to secure commitment from a man, lowers their own value and status, and that men ought to simply automatically give her the commitment she deserves sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 05:47 AM
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Either like hot celebrities ( hopefully there will be a feature where I can change out their looks) Ex : Young Tom Welling, young Robert Dinero, younger but still fully silver Anderson cooper Or a man who is exactly my type sweet twink looking men as generated by AI. Tried this before came up with some good looking men. Or a lookalike to one of my exes ( might be unethical) Or even smooth sleek robot looking like in ' I robot' but cuter. Would like the option to try all of these.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 05:35 AM
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Men are the best looking they've ever looked. also have you seen the beauty hierarchy. most people would have great success just focusing on the bottom of the pyramid then on level 2. Above that imo ur efforts after that won't have a good return on interest though still beneficial. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:56 AM
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Great points
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:46 AM
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To me not particularly but I see the pros ( though I don't want to get married or have kids or cohabitate ). But I'm trying to help op. She gets all the pros she wants, less cons and more ethical. If the choice is single women with roster of men vs mistress vs wife to a horrible husband. Single comes out on top most pros, least cons and ethical.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:41 AM
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U could also just be a single woman with a rooster of men. Then u get the pros without the cons. U don't have to be committed or exclusive or live with them, marry them, have kids with them etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:13 AM
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)IT IS BETTER TO DIE FOR THE EMPEROR THAN LIVE FOR YOURSELF Is this a serious statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:09 AM
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Do you have a bf or husband in real life? No Wouldn’t he get jealous of AI-bf? Especially if he’s designed to look like a 10/10 athlete N/A, but it would be weird if he got jealous of a robot. Since it's not real it has no conscience or sentience, it's just a tool. It's a one sided para social relationship, I would be willing turn AI - BF off and put him in the closet during 'us time'. Plus he can have his own AI-GF I wouldn't want to share mine. There is a possibility that a person might get je…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:02 AM
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Exactly it ranges some people would wait a week ( he ain't getting more or less dead and she's still alive so ) To Some would just do without for the rest of their life. ( They've already had their great love and want to close off that chapter of life). Different strokes for different folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 04:47 PM
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U don't have to get married though or be a mistress or be a mother. U can't just have honeymoon casual relationships with non married men as a single woman. U can just be single and get all the pros u want with lesser cons. Then U still get to be non-exclusive, still get gifts, still get fun positive attention and u don't have to deal with housework, porn-addicted husbands, unfaithfulness, low-effort partners forgetting birthdays and anniversaries, etc. You also don't risk as much as a single wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 04:14 PM
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I don't like dark romance or mafia books much so I don't know any by title/recollection but ur probably right. That's right on brand.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 03:56 PM
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No. I'd have one while Single and in a relationship. ( That's like asking do u only watch porn and /or masturbate while single) Having a AI companion would be great to supplement or even improve a relationship. They would help make relationships easier/ ease the burden of relationships. Option A Human is primary partner and AI is secondary partner. You could enjoy all the good things about relationships with our human partner and use the AI to take care of the mundane task that come with buildin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 03:46 PM
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See one ur attracted to flirt & warm approach while vetting him. Then u ask him out. I've only done it once but this was the way I did it and it went well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 06:22 AM
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That's what I've noticed too. Women don't need to cheat to replace a man. They can just break up at 11:45 and get a new man at 12:45. With no overlap or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 06:05 AM
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Yes but early on ? Like you could also pray for/with them, you could tip well, u could give change to a homeless man etc. All would be green flags for generosity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 05:41 AM
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Ehh no I don't think it would feel wrong, empty and soulless yes but I would think of it like masturbating rather than sex. Like with a vibrator. One ad for ai boyfriend called it a vibrator with emotional support .
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 05:37 AM
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Ur correct but it is still a kindness/gift even a small gift can be meaningful/generous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 06:56 PM
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Yes, bare minimum it would have to fix the robot voice and be really good at emotional connection (for me). additional Wants : be in a human looking robot body (negotiable) that did chores so highly advanced ai. My algorithm feeds me ai boyfriend stuff looks good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:56 PM
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I’ve haven’t used a dating app so far mainly bc my women friends don’t recommend it or like it .
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:41 PM
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thank you it takes time to do and practice but if you get around more social people - look what they do and even offer to help them to learn it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:23 PM
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Would I be happy with it no. It would bother me but I also be fine with it. If he does all I want him to do and willingness to do other things I want him to do in the future, (more yeses than nos) I’ll be fine with it. However, this be the case, even if he was a virgin man with no exgirlfriends. Though I would think that he liked her more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:20 PM
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social lubricants are things that make it easier to socialize, reduce tension and awkwardness and build rapport and share experiences which is how ppl socialize, connect and form bonds. You can’t have wanted to divide their mind from putting all their attention into socializing into socializing, and experience. A good hostess or host intentionally creates this You can do this by having activities set up if you have a party or friends, even just 1 friend coming over. Ie : Uno, Mario kart, dance f…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:08 PM
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great article
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:40 PM
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Do u have a dancers body ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:31 PM
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For the people who don’t recommend doing so it might be more of a “ don’t shit where u eat “ sentiment. if things go badly with the relative stranger that you have to be really intentional to set up meet ups with you just delete their number and block. You literally never seen him again. If things go badly with a warm approach/ irl meet up in community or clubs, you’re going to see them again often so it will be more awkward or uncomfortable. especially when you think about things like moving on…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:10 PM
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Yes, that’s what I found as well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:02 PM
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Which demographic files more and what is the stated reason why? Women Why People Are Divorcing In The United States 42. Lack of commitment is the most common reason given by divorcing couples according to a recent national survey. Here are the reasons given and their percentages: Lack of commitment 73% Argue too much 56% Infidelity 55% Married too young 46% Unrealistic expectations 45% Lack of equality in the relationship 44% Lack of preparation for marriage 41% Domestic Violence or Abuse 25% (R…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:34 PM
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Ur vastly overestimating how valuable/useful/pleasurable those things can be. Beauty and attention can be assets/tools but most of the time they're not actually useful themselves or extremely useful in getting what u want either. Like using beauty and attention to marry up - great idea, but you marry up for resources bc resources make ur life easier. If u could instead just get a job that robot to make it like easier that's a great path in some cases a even better more helpful path than beauty o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:16 PM
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Agreed In this debate I am ok with the dating market as is. he made a bunch of points of why we should all be OK with the dating market. Nobody’s is forced to do anything, dating is a privilege not a right, standards filter out people etc
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:52 PM
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Ok best of luck to you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:47 PM
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I’d really like the less lust part.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:45 PM
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OK we should be OK with The dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:43 PM
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I think I just agree with you then if these are your points . You’ve made no points of why wouldn’t it be OK with it? Then yes I am OK with the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:42 PM
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Or they make those videos after they went for men with no options or didn’t meet their standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:39 PM
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I agree with you about attraction but the way to fix that is for men in general to be less attracted to women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:36 PM
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I agree with you there. But what are the possible downsides in ur pov that we are supposed to not be OK with though ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:33 PM
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Yes, your standards do a lot of filtering for you that’s what they’re for. are you trying to say that women should go for men while they have no/low standards or as men improve themselves and get options, they might raise their standards ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:31 PM
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I absolutely agree on this then and I think that is the default that we’re moving to a society, if that is your point. but what are some of the downside in your pov ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:25 PM
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Oh, that’s right I forgot about that tie in “ men’s options improve as they age and they’re only as faithful as their options “ so get a man who is broke and unfit, and then make sure he stays that way if you want commitment /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:23 PM
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I was thinking it could be that or he was trying to say that women should lock in men when they are broke and unfit support them that when they do get hot and fit and rich, she can benefit. or he’s willing to commit to you while he’s broke and unattractive but if he has to improve his money and looks to get attention from you he might end up picking different or better women than you or he’ll pick you maybe, but you’ll also have to work to be hot for him ? or you can get commitment from him and …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:11 PM
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yeah it turns out masculine and feminine traits and behavior are more to do with nurture than nature. so just due to your environment and what’s encouraged and needed, not actually on genitals. I do think nature plays a role. but not as much as we’ve traditionally believed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:01 PM
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what are the downsides of this that we’re supposed to be not OK with ? edit : this was a genuine question to op or anyone ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 08:54 PM
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Were u neglected ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 08:35 PM
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> War is how society eliminates defective men from the gene pool and society to avoid them causing trouble I do agree war can be used to ‘thin the herd‘. However most times they’re taking prime men. Young fit healthy sane, a long time ago when red pill first started showing up mainstream, I remember hearing a theory that the US wants to go to war and the is kind of sort of get men fit for war. This was a talking point off social media, though that I cannot even remember the source of . edited ty…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 08:33 PM
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Well good on equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 08:27 PM
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They can still teach you how to handle responsibilities while doing that though they Weren’t at work 24/7. Also, I asked what happened ? Plus, you’re a big dog now you’re big enough to use the Internet, which means you’re big enough to look anything you want. You can start small and easy if you like one thing at a time. What are your specific issues? like you don’t know how to file your taxes ? you don’t know how to cook ? You don’t know how to clean a toilet ? you don’t know how to drive ? you …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 08:26 PM
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Your parents were supposed to train you to be responsible for yourself gradually. what happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 08:16 PM
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Sex is a skill it can be improved. If you were having sex with one woman, you’ll be able to learn that one woman well it will likely take effort on both of your parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 08:09 PM
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You know you’re kind of right in my experience. I have dated one Asian man that attraction grew towards him but before him I was never attracted to Asian men after him I am attracted to Asian, however this is was like in my early 20‘s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 08:06 PM
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Not blue pill but from this comparison We can c that a lot of women don’t like men with high n counts. Also possible reason a guy with a high N count likely got it with dishonest means vs woman with a high N count could just get it by being around and picking some men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 07:58 PM
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Being religious is really good for socializing and it’s a fun hobby. I would recommend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 07:47 PM
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Nah I looked into it the majority of ppl dying on the job don't earn well. I do agree with u about being paid for pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 07:02 PM
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Good point terrible issue which should be fixed however they also get paid to do that ( not well but they do get paid) .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 06:40 PM
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Yeah she accepts it and leaves him ( or cheats) . She doesn't bully him into going down on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 06:03 PM
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Think New yorkers they are often good people but rude. Or maybe Dwight Schrute from the office ?( Except for his extramarital affair arc)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 05:48 PM
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Beautifully written. Nice basically just means polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 05:37 PM
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It is not a neutral decision. It is an actively conscious decision. Women have men that come up to them and ask them out. I am consciously choosing to be single over being with men I don’t want. > time is part of the equation whether you want to acknowledge it or not. yes, I factored that in and use my time wisely by focusing on making money and enjoying my time in all the other aspects of life besides dating romance. > It for most women, all it takes is a viral TikTok to want those pink heels l…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 08:06 AM
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You seem to think I want pink heels yours after seeing pink heels online. But I just came up in my head that I want pink heels that’s where it started. So that’s what I went out and pursued. I didn’t see what I wanted so I kept my money and went home. > So you walk out thinking “nothing was good enough,” when in reality there were plenty of solid options. I didn’t say anything wasn’t good enough. I said that wasn’t what I wanted. But yes, I have trained myself to only spend money on things I wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 07:48 AM
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I would tell my child that he can do so when he buys his own food so make sure he gets a good job so he can afford lobster and steak all his life and get some vitamins.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 07:16 AM
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Not OP but similar mindset, That’s just generally how I think about things let’s say I want to go and buy pink heels if I go to the store and don’t see pink heels I just leave the store with my money and not spend it on something I don’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 07:14 AM
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u can also change the feeling though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 06:28 AM
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why not look up to your boss since he gives u money ? Elon Musk and Joe Rogan I’ll agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 05:55 AM
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I predict when it comes to it, women will love ai companions more than men do because a lot of what women into relationships for is the emotional connections. The robot offers you that endlessly with little needs of its own. I keep getting AI companion advertisements. I don’t think that will replace ppl though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 05:51 AM
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yes, a lot of the behavior that men ascribe to ‘jumping through hoops ‘ for a woman are tools. Women used to sift out men who generally desire you or who just want sex. I think it’s also a big contributor to why some women have separate categories for hook up material versus relationship material. That way they don’t get stuck in either category they can just pick and choose their category.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 05:39 AM
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U sound like a bitch when u communicate like this and it’s off putting. Learn to ask nicely
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 05:15 AM
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That’s a very mature way of communicating. Very respectable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 05:09 AM
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This is going to be hard. You’re basically gonna have to date like a woman who is a gold digger would. You’re gonna need to be on top of your looks and grooming all the time, playful / charming/ entertaining/ funny - cater to this woman, you’re gonna have to get hot or do something that makes you look special. You might have to marry down looks wise/ up age wise maybe not because those women do tend to be in shape though . Think celebrity women who married down financially, Taylor Swift & Travis…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 04:23 AM
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Widen ur social circles to normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 03:45 AM
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he could probably be a stripper/ giggolo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 08:22 PM
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I know exactly what you mean. Nothing ruins my happiness more than poverty. You can be happy while poor but you kinda have to be really delusional/ intentional. It’s easier to get money then be happy than it is to be happy while poor. When I’m poor, the main thing I can think about being poor. Money does so much for having peace and happiness in your life. It takes care of your needs once safety security is great.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 08:18 PM
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why ? that makes sense to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 08:14 PM
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yes but actual narcissism/Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) > can only be diagnosed by a qualified mental health professional, such as a > psychiatrist, psychologist, or licensed clinical social worker. They conduct thorough evaluations based on DSM-5 criteria, focusing on long-term patterns of behavior not ex-girlfriends, though they may have had a selfish / self-centered boyfriend he would not meet the medical diagnosis of narcissistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 07:46 PM
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One and four women is not rare and it is too high, but that is not all or even the majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 07:42 PM
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no, that’s your FYP, if you were watching videos of a bunch of women getting princess treatment, you would think differently. Most women in IRL have not been in abusive relationships nor do they proclaimed to be. in general sexually assaulted/harassed in someway yes most women have been through that but that range from unwanted groping on the bus to cat calling walking on the sidewalk to actually being pulled in the forest and raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 07:38 PM
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I gave the example of a dark romance being the mummy, but from the mummy’s point of view. The high priest falls in love with the king of Egypt’s concubine, the concubine falls in love with a high priest. They begin an extra marital affair then they are discovered by the king. They killed the king together. Then she kills herself, and the high priest tries to use a dark curse that will ruin the world to resurrect her. Instead, he gets caught and he is executed and cursed. Then he gets resurrected…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 07:35 PM
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> I dunno cos I dont trust anything they say tbh fuck knows with them why from your description of them they sound very blunt and honest and like they follow through with what they say. > My ex wife we continued having sex for a bit even after she started dating her new bf yeah, that’s generally how it goes, when I see a guy I generally assume he’s sleeping with his ex until he ask to be exclusive. that’s kind of just the pattern for a lot of single people they sleep with their ex until they fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 07:07 PM
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I would think the counterpart of dark romances with the action novels.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 06:55 PM
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It matters on the topic and the content and how into it he is. If it was like lady centaur romance, lady werewolf and vampire I could tolerate that Also for men liking dark romance, I think mostly think of it like men liking action movies and I tolerate that fine. If he wants to read a book about being a super spy that turns back time and sleeps with really hot, crazy dangerous women and then joins the darkside. I don’t think I’d care at all. Just good for you, babe. ( or picture ’The Mummy’ but…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 06:48 PM
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Statistically there are not that many abusive men, statistically there are not that many hot men. There really are not that many men who are both hot and abusive men. Though they do exist I'm sure. They are not the majority. The majority of abusive men are average looking men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:36 PM
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Get a job and a car! That's just good advice, tact might be off but the advice was solid Im not in for the longhaul, youre the dick husband, i want a mortgage husband I just want to be with someone who has money! I dont even care if they cheat!” I'm sorry for u but they sound funny and honest. But that still didn't answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:32 PM
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Yeah I think this much better than the viewpoint men generally used to have. Where they own u. It's also similar to how I think of men and it's much more compatible with my own pov.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:29 PM
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Or do they just have a fetish for pregnant women? I don't know much about this topic but it's intrigued me before. Some reasons I've come across Pregnant woman glow. They know they can't get her pregnant ( not absolute) The most feminine a woman can look 4.alot of women get hornier when pregnant Bigger tits and ass Helpless or needy looking women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:26 PM
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What do u look up so u can add this to your fyp.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:21 PM
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Well he's very sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:20 PM
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The cycle of abuse. Basically abuse then lovebomb then abuse then lovebomb.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:18 PM
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The majority of abusive men aren't hot they are avg. U can c mugshots online they're not hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:12 PM
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listen to women, they’ve ALL dated or been married to an abusive, asshole narcissist. So are women exaggerating here or just lying? That's ur FYP, u can add some 'my man gives me princess treatment stuff to ur page'. I have never dated those type of men nor have most of my friends.( Some yes, most no)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:10 PM
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No Im sure everyone that's interested in you is old enough to be your father, and no in between The majority of men that actively/most boldly proclaim their interest in women when younger are older men. The men who asked out the most when I was in my 20's were older men. Like 1x a week a man 10-50 years my senior would ask me out. That's not the same as interested in but, I can reasonably say/judge that the older men were interested in me by their actions I can't say that the younger men were in…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 04:38 PM
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Generally true but there are lots of women who think money is more important in life than love or lust. But love and lust are not dependent on money. Love and lust preceded money. But yes money is less impactful on love and lust but very important for general happiness and well being. Women can love and lust for you without money but a lot simply won't bc the overall affects of love/lust on life vs money is great U don't need love to be happy or live a good life u need money too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 04:01 PM
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I know. Thank God.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:55 PM
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That's how it works for most relationships, small consistent effort builds stronger bonds than rare grand gestures. ( However these can be tedious and annoying to do, the trick is finding small low effort but heavily impactful actions, like blowing kisses, smiling, waving, nice greetings - ppl love when u do that but ur not actually doing anything) Think about a boss who regularly supports the team and praises them . Vs a boss who throws a pizza party every quarter. Edit : consistency is harder …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:50 PM
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Did they leave u for wealthier men or did they leave you then get a wealthier man?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:43 PM
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On my FYP I keep seeing homeless couples or women falling in love with homeless men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:41 PM
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I wrongly assumed that husbands love their wives when they have children with them and therefore feel connection to those children. Sometimes they do sometimes they don't. It can get messy after this point. It could be they never loved their wife and so won't love their kids. Could be they did love their wife but no longer do so no longer love their kids There are some men who do love their kids but not ever their wife or no longer their wife. Could also be they never bothered to bond( through r…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:28 PM
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Yes. For a lot of them. They aren't/weren't pulling their weight as a parent ( Likely partial reason for the divorce) The mother was likely covering for them. Now he has to parent his children on his own and can be judged on his own merit.. 2nd possible reasons they don't like childrearing so won't do it Relevant comment that I'm adding: topic was if it was more important that wife love husband more or husband loves wife more : Actually 1 of the reasons that on the list for y it's important that…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 02:27 PM
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That's also a factor, I think a lot of them are mainly interacting with women online not irl so it clouds their perception. https://realitycalc.com/results/age1=18&age2=30&excludeMarried=true&excludeMothers=true&race=any,asian,black,hispanic,white&height1=59&height2=68&excludeObese=true&excludeOverweight=true&income=0&incomeType=false& Here is a fun link. Women 18-30, not obese/overweight, no kids, not married, 0 income minimum, Between 4'11-5'8 According to statistical data, the probability a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 08:00 PM
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Yes I said that Either answer will likely be higher than womens in comparison. I estimate I will be attracted to 50 men in my life meanwhile there are men that say they see 40 women in a day they're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 07:52 PM
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Or she could have made the post after lowering her standards. Her standards at 1st could be No ex, no kids, degree, votes the same way, and somehow is still dying to go exclusive But she lowers them dates some guy who doesn't meet her standards and is disappointed (even if he did treat her well) and makes her ' no good guys video' . If she stuck to her standards she wouldn't have dated the guy and wouldn't have made the video Bc to her just treating her well is cool but that doesn't necessarily …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 07:50 PM
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I asked specifically how do you know that she did not make those posts after lowering her standards ? Rather than before.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 06:10 PM
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Im not sure entirely. The only similarities between guys in b is that they are INFP (from MBTI) I think for b it’s something about INFP men. For A less similarities of the men So I don’t know the pattern there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 05:43 PM
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This is a screenshot off twitter/x there is nothing in the FBI that says this. This guy off twitter literally just made that up. I would be willing to concede if u bring actual links to a FBI legitimate sources that says anything like this. ( Not cases with not enough evidence but cases that say false accusations). Bc otherwise 97% of rapist are getting away with their malfeasant behavior. Which also means the law is very lax on male rapists and female rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 10:11 AM
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without looking, do you honestly believe that women are held to the same legal standards as men? Same no, already acknowledged that there is a bias. Similar though yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 10:08 AM
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A social contract that is no longer enforced both ways. Dating is usually voluntary marriage as well unless u go back to the 1800's. No more tax subsidies, no more bail outs, or gendered affirmative discrimination. They've already been working on that for the last few years so ur late. ( Unless u mean paying women for children then I think society should instead expand it to all mother should be paid for motherhood. Pay them for their labor that society 'needs to continue 'or that society wants …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 10:06 AM
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Get to your point bc u keep rambling about things that are not at all relevant to my comment.( As u still haven't answered 1st set of questions). We both know and understand that's feminism has changed society in large ways. We also just went over ' societal contract ' u provided and it basically comes down to my point about The only things society has a unwritten contract with u about is that you pay taxes if u work and follow the law. Violate those two things then society exiles u to jail(some…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 09:23 AM
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What are women accountable for? You still haven't answered. The law. What duties do women have that they would go to jail for failure to perform ? The have a duty to be law abiding citizens and pay taxes if the work or they go to jail.( Generally though yes there are biases.); It's illegal for women to murder, steal, assault, dodging taxes. Similar to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 09:13 AM
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The social contract u provided is for government and society, not for women and men and it basically means what I have been saying that the societal contract is follow the law, pay taxes if u work then benefit from the law/taxes and don't go to jail. In the source u provided there is literally nothing in there about relationships expectations, marriage, women, divorce etc Which again ties back to my other point that this societal contract was mostly contracted by men with men. So women have been…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 09:07 AM
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Can you conceive of a man easily getting away with any of these? At least half of these yes. Not gender neutral men can so this too. Hear something you don't like? Block it and report the guy for hate speech. Don't want to keep the kid? Drop it off at a firehouse without telling the father. Get high and murder your boyfriend and your dog? Get probation and community service with no jail time ( Men also use the insanity/ drug induced psychosis defense to get lesser pleas ) Forget birth control pi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:35 AM
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are women accountable for anything in our culture ? Much of it yes . A woman could drop off her baby at the fire house and not go to jail, a man would be charged with a crime for doing the same thing. This is a blatant lie. https://www.childwelfare.gov/resources/infant-safe-haven-laws-florida/#:~:text=Florida's%20safe%20haven%20law%20allows%20a%20newborn,Services%20takes%20physical%20custody%20of%20the%20child The law on this says ' parent ' can do so as long as they are within legal limits, fat…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:07 AM
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Yes money is one of the best resources that give u a ROI. It literally makes every aspect of life better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 06:45 AM
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Why should I adhere to a position predicated upon someone else's feelings? Men are tacitly expected to make personal sacrifices for the common good. Expound Why not women? What are the benefits to these women for making great personal sacrifices for the common good ? At what point does women's collective sacrifice outweigh the common good/higher purpose done. Bc I think it was long ago, at this point the point of returns is so small that there is no good reason to keep such a system, that system…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 06:34 AM
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Apparently some men do a lot to be attractive enough to get in relationships(even at the expense of their happiness)then once they are in relationship they'll put in significantly less effort bc they reached their goal of being chosen.( Sometimes they even lie to get this goal). So they think it's something similar for women. That women are doing a lot to get into relationship and once we have achieved a relationship we'll kind of chill out( on dress and grooming for example) bc we have what wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 05:29 AM
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size 14, in red silk," and sending off my specs to Guangzhou. Also if people don't find clothes that meet their standards while shopping they'd often rather keep their money and go home vs spend their money on something they don't want or like. Y spend hundreds of dollars on something u don't want or like ? Like if I went out looking for a red silk dress size 14 and didn't find it . Then just go home. U don't have to buy the size 8 red silk or size 16 red silk or size 14 black silk. If it's not …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 04:04 AM
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eventually posting about “there are no good men left" How do u know those posts are a result of women not lowering their standards vs by them after lowering their standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:49 AM
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If the choice is consequences of being single vs consequences of being in a committed relationship with men they don't want or like a lot of women would rather choose single. They don't value a committed relationship over desire. They know they could go down to the gas station and pick up a man, if they didn't care about attraction, likability, desire or whatever other standards they have .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:39 AM
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Tolerances ?! Ur point is tolerances/ standards ?! Those things are inanimate. They are not the authority of themselves they lack free will and suffer no consequences and have no choices. Unlike women they can and do freely make their own choices and also suffer their own consequences. So if I am understanding u correctly u want women to date not to their goals/desires but within tolerances ? Even if what they tolerate is undesirable ? Bc it gets them a relationship ? Over being single is that u…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:03 AM
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Below are some dictionary definitions of the word " standards" the woman is the authority of her standards. Let's say there was a woman who said her standards was a 6666 man which of the definitions would she violate by her standards ? . A standard is a level of quality or achievement, especially a level that is thought to be acceptable. 2. A standard is something that you use in order to judge the quality of something else. 3. Standards are moral principles which affect people's attitudes and b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:53 AM
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The actual point you’re sprinting away from is that those “personal standards” keep you single, Yes women know that if they lower their standards ( to maybe pick a guy or not attracted to, or who u don't like as a person or who doesn't offer u a transactional relationship) they can just pick a guy and keep him, they'd rather their "desires " than the actual guy. They know that being picky and sexually selective will likely result in singleness. what's ur point ? If they don't want to suffer the …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:42 AM
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> I just kept seeing her with him in my head until I was conditioned out of caring about her. I call that self brainwashing/heart-washing since the heart cant really tell imaginary from real (emotionally) so u can just keep imagining something to brainwash yourself. It’s a great tool.(it’s part of how anxiety and depression work -repeated imaginary visions) like if u break up with someone and u want to get over them u can imagine them punching u in the face, then ur heart feels the emotions of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 01:41 AM
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what do want us to debate ? Call them standards, wants, desires, preferences, wishlist, demands etc whatever if they would prefer no relationship or casual relationships unless the guy they're with has those attributes then so what if they are unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 01:07 AM
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Interesting, I’ve had that both ways, (A) some guys start off with halos and I don’t really c their imperfections until later vs (B) some develop halos as we fall in love/ longer I’m with them I just don’t care about their imperfections anymore. B. Like the last guy I dated he had a snaggle tooth, even though I really like nice smiles and don’t like bad teeth. I though his were cute after awhile. Though yes I understand that if trust is broken that can be a ick and you lose all respect and attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:41 AM
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expound plz.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:14 AM
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Are u saying any man who is desired at all is a ' a Chad ' ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 11:46 PM
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(1) i said, for a woman her looks is more important when it comes to her success in dating, meaning her looks is the main factor and explains 80% of her success. so even if both are eqaully delt the same hand actually it's not the same - AGREE second point, hair for a woman is a part of what others perceive as feminine, for a man if he is bald nobody thinks he is un- masculine, in fact, quite the opposite, he can be perceived as more masculine with beard, nice build etc. bald isn't automatically…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 11:42 PM
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Nope I always say looks are important and women do choose based on men they're attracted to. It's a prerequisite/ the first threshold/the smallest threshold for men to pass. What I push back on is that the only men women are attracted to are chads or that the cause of most dating problems/complaints are bc of chads(some yes). I estimate I will be attracted to 50 men in my life so that's the pool of men to choose from/those who are mutually attracted to me. Vs man who may for example say they're …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 11:16 PM
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I agree. Higher libido, less consequences etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 11:06 PM
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Women of my generation do not give chances to ugly men. It's not going to be a good relationship if ur not attracted to ur partner. I would consider it a disservice to my partner and a sin against myself. ( Unless u were honest with prospective partner that u think they're ugly and not attracted to them at all then it's fair that y'all can continue the relationship). Y would u put urself in a position where ur forcing ur self to be with/have sex with men ur not attracted to ? What is the point i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 11:02 PM
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Absolutely the right approach. U can't change a man so change the man. Even if u have to be single for a while. Being single is better than being in a bad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:46 PM
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Some guys say they are 'good' bc they are willing to commit/be in committed relationship or ready to fall in love. Which I don't necessarily say those are 'good' or ' attributes '? He may be willing to commit bc he wants to use the woman for something (bangmaid) or desperate but will not actually contribute to the relationship or be interested in building a life together. Also being respected/loved/nurtured is just fun loving/being nurturing/ respectful can suck. So did he go into the relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:32 PM
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Ask them what's your type to get a physical description. That's what I do and I get a physical description.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:54 PM
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Ok I understand and agree .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:18 PM
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They're already doing that to her though so she should either change the man/change her method. Maybe bc she is a pushover? (Speculation ) Pushovers tend to be abused ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:35 PM
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Are u a people pleaser/pushover or have those tendencies?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:35 PM
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I have asked this question to men before. What percentage of women do u actually find desirable ? Vs how much do u actually find good enough/ acceptable Either answer will likely be higher than womens in comparison. Men are more widely attracted to women, even if they don't get the woman they desire/their type they are very willing to get a woman that they find cute but are or aren't attracted to bc ' good enough ' even in a ' any port in any storm way' or ' slump busterway' . I think they value…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:30 PM
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Yes I agree that there are factors that make men more attractive that don't make women more attractive and visa versa. But there are things that make both more attractive or less attractive. Ie weight, fitness, baldness, ugly/hot face. Being bald would decrease the attractivess of both men and women so they are more likely to be a looks match/desirability match.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:59 PM
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Al dating is useful and I think it can even be healthier than real dating but there are precautions that should be taken. As long as I have a firm grip on reality( this isn't real AI is not sentient ) but also balance it with suspended reality then it should be a great experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:16 AM
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I'm agree with you that the majority of the time men do the heavy lifting in early courtship I agree completely there. I am arguing that they're shotgun way of giving attention is ineffective ( 90% of the time they will be rejected ) The majority of women he approaches are not interested and the majority of men that approach a woman she is not interested in them. It's annoying to both parties. Some of that time and energy should be shifted around to vetting/ identifying which women are attracted…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:39 AM
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n the past, casual sex was less common but when it happened, it often turned into a marriage due to an unplanned pregnancy Unlikely that casual turned into a baby. Consistent sex is much more likely to result in a baby than casual. Statistics show that 84% of couples having regular (at least three times per week) sexual intercourse will conceive within one year and 92% of couples within 2 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:30 AM
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Expound.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:23 AM
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I agree with everything you said I've had the exact same thought process many times. I absolutely hate doing chores it's a big part of the reason I'm child free and don't c marriage in the future for me. I also prefer working because that gives me a direct access to money which is likely a bigger reward than waiting for a husband to split his paycheck with me .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:21 AM
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I agree with everything you said
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 08:26 PM
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Women just take this for granted and complain they don't get attention from the top men they want. Most of those guys are wasting both of our time and effort. If I don't want them and am not interested it's a waste of time to give me their attention. The majority of the time it's unwanted attention. Most women date and enter into relationships, How? Ur missing the first step. They were attracted to him and wanted his attention and reciprocated his attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:51 PM
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It is not common. But moreso than it used to be. attitudes about casual sex are more positive now. Yes. Plus more relationships that start off casual becoming serious ie: situationships, FWB to couple etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:31 PM
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The good thing about being a women is that you can choose. You can choose work to support yourself/family as a priority or you choose to stay home and support the family from there instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:23 PM
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That's not even close to statistically true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:14 PM
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These days, it didn't used to. That's the cultural shift that we're going through. It used to be that casual sex almost never turned into relationships. To the point It used to be a shit test from guys that if she slept with u on the first date then the guy doesn't consider her relationship material. ( Now for some it's kind of flipping). Now with a significant amount of casual sex/relationships that become serious women are more are less reluctant to participate in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:07 PM
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I'm glad it worked not for y'all. I'm also very happy she's got out of a homeless shelter
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:58 PM
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Doesn't ur boss literally give u more money than you give to your partner though ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:48 PM
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It's not how much money you get from a a guy that your supposed to judge. It's their actions that ur supposed to judge. $20 from a homeless man is much more meaningful than $200 from a millionaire. That homeless man obviously loves/values u more than the millionaire does. ( However independent of the men $200 is way more valuable than $20)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:21 PM
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Yes that's true you don't actually need to sleep with a guy to get some resources. Though if u do sleep with them they do give u more resources. However their resources are not usually significant enough that u sleep with them for their resources. U would get more resources working a job than whoring.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:16 PM
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What do u want us to debate here ? That women should or shouldn't lie ? The pros and cons of lying ? Are men rewarding honest or dishonesty ? How can these women look in the mirror and say "I'm a good person" or sleep at night when they engage in/support in theory this kind of casually deceptive mindset? How do u know they are looking in the mirror and doing all this introspection and if they did would they even care ? They protected and built up the relationship they're in if they lied, so lyin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:02 AM
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The long con. They tell you themselves. They do so in hopes of sex/relationship. It's not altruism it's a covert contract or underhanded manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:51 AM
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Artist don't hate making art, musicians don't hate making music. If ur " romantic " but u hate being romantic u might just not be romantic. Someone who has a deep appreciation of the arts collects lots of books, art or music they are a enthusiast. Though I do do agree women love romance rather than being romantic. However men could have nicely communicated that years ago and they likely would have gotten it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:19 AM
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That's for rich men. You judge rich men by how much time they give u. U judge poor/poorer men by how much money they give you. Did u ever hear that Bible story or the widow with just a few coins it's like that ? Which ever is your thing that's what you trade. A homeless man giving u time is basically meaningless. ( He's going nowhere and has nothing to do anyway) A homeless man giving u money or a sandwich has so much meaning. ( Do not eat from homeless ppl though). But if he did that would be b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:55 AM
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This is great. I was worried that in the future we would have AI kids (like IPAD kids) who wouldn't be able to function irl bc they grew up dependent on AI or virtual reality. But we can simply put them in a a virtual reality or with AI that helps them practice social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:23 AM
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Money is great. Its fun to save it, spend it, invest it. Not really fun to earn it but the slow climb of earning make the highs of spending and saving so great.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:14 AM
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Do u ever get moments like that. Moments when you realize other people have feelings and exist separately from u Is this sarcasm ? I can't tell. if it's not this should have been a epiphany u got in elementary school. Also - Sonder is the profound, often sudden realization that every random passerby is living a life as vivid, complex, and chaotic as your own, complete with their own ambitions, friends, routines, and worries.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:06 AM
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Sir plz I don't know where ur parents are but I'm going to pass on a tip from mine. "Ur number 1" U should be ur number 1 priority. Then she makes herself her number 1 priority. Then y'all come together and be each others number 2. Y'all should have a healthy happy relationship after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:58 AM
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I think they question it because a lot of them have been taught how to make men happy/treat them well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:27 AM
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Even if these women did not clock in at a 9 to 5 job, they would still be laboring at home. When your mom, your grandma or great grandmother was on her period she still cooked and cleaned. You can even argue working an office 9- 5 job would be easier since it will be less physical activity than cooking and cleaning plus you get paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:28 PM
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men and women should be taught how to treat their partners well. The reason u is may be getting pushback is what you were encouraging them to be taught . For example, if you are teaching the boys open the door for girls, while teaching girls cook for him. You will get push back generals that may be effort or undesirable for many. If you are teaching them both to be loving, kind, respectful, considerate and listen to your partner, give them gifts etc then that would be generally acceptable and en…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:24 PM
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The cycle of abuse is tension builds explosion honeymoon period. The honeymoon period is usually essential to the program
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 09:06 PM
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That's literally the dream come true for so many women. Go do that. I would love to ask a guy why does he like me and he actually answers somethings about my personality and character instead face and body. Plus if we're not compatible then he won't bother trying to be in a relationship with me. Women's main problem in dating is not options its vetting or finding compatibility. If men also vet on their side that helps solve the problem. This is y many women say their dream partner is a best frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 08:39 PM
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Those are both better options than a unhealthy toxic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 08:34 PM
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What's in it for the women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:26 PM
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Ok and what evidence do you have of it? This is very well documented but to start you off Technophysio Evolution and the Measurement of Economic Growth and The Escape from Hunger and Premature Death, 1700–2100. Uses military records and historical height data to show widespread chronic undernutrition before modern economic growth. Angus Deaton – The Great Escape: Health, Wealth, and the Origins of Inequality Explains how most humans lived close to subsistence until the 19th–20th century and how …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:02 PM
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Imo it was the shaping of the beard that mainly increased his looks I'm not sure shaving his head made him look better. Though overall he looks better . But he might have looked best if they kept what hair he had and shaped beard. I would have to do a side by side to determine for sure though. He has a very big head and forehead and the baldness emphasizes that immensely. He went from looking like a blue collar man to a rapper. Maybe that's not her style. Or maybe she'll get used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 04:49 PM
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Yes everyone has insecurities. We really shouldn't but ur gonna need to prove it to yourself that your on top of your shit over and over a couple time before you actually believe it. Encouragement is good and helpful but it's much self confidence/internal validation is much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 01:42 PM
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Ex : princess treatment. Who wouldn't love for someone they love and are attracted to to give them lots of presents, fun experiences/dates, talk with them for hours, lots of affection etc ? If ur someone they're not attracted to and u try that then they're annoyed or they find it creepy. Think Tootie from Fairly odd parents and Timmy, he was very annoyed with her bc he was attracted to her. But if Trixie acted like Tootie he'd be happy. ( Likely)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 01:38 PM
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For most of recorded history. The major turning points would be the industrial revolution (late 1800s and early 1900) then again during the 1950's Green Revolution. Now less than 10% of ppl are poor to the point of malnutrition. Though food insecurity and pay check to paycheck is higher than 10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:07 PM
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Maybe that's y they don't want to rely on men for money. They can just work and spend on what they want when they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:57 PM
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To the "High Value" Men: Your "lifestyle" and "commitment" are just Company Scrip. In game theory, a monthly allowance is called "Cheap Talk" because you can unilaterally revoke it tomorrow. If you expect biological exclusivity and high-competency domestic labor, but refuse to vest your partner into a hard asset, you don't want a cooperative wealth engine. You want an unpaid intern. Yes. Plus as we are born and raised capitalist. We all know that wealth is in ownership not access(lifestyle) . Bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:50 PM
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About 90+% of ppl were poor to the point of malnutrition historically. Their paychecks weren't enough to provide them full nutrition then. For my grandparents they definitely lived pay check to paycheck and were impoverished. Also if not doing the math right on double the work force. Women doubled the work force but also had less children so overall they're less ppl working than what would have been projected to work if birth rates had remain what they were in early 1900's
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:32 PM
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In this scenario Men are the prize because they can afford to delay dating while accumulating resources because they have a larger fertility window than women. Their resources are the prize. He's a middle man to the prize. If he died they would still want the money and resources and consider it good fortune he's dead and left them a fortune. The prize is the prize no matter what. If a man gave me a set of gorgeous diamond earrings great prize. If I saw a set of gorgeous diamond earrings in a mud…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:18 PM
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Maybe she like guys with hair and not baldness. Though beard definitely looks better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:45 PM
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Ohh well that's cool too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 06:39 PM
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Was she in the will ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:15 AM
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I tried a gender swap add before I thought I was attracted to myself in the picture so there's that. But I would not likely be attracted to guy who is the same BMI as me. But close to my weight match yes. Heighs fine just talker than me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:12 AM
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With this specific set of descriptions no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:05 AM
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So is porn Yes If that thing called love is a sufficiently similar stimulus, we're already too far gone Or it'll be something great. Love is motivating/inspiring. If u can just have a constant easy hit of love then what kind of life would u lead ? A good one bc life is just great. Ur in safely in love and happy Or a isolated one bc ur I love with ur phone. Or something else That's just the Last Man I've never heard of that show but it sounds interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:56 AM
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seeing how 2 of them had leaked sex tapes Kim for sure leaked hers. Paris probably not. . You’d think these women would be wise enough to look at these dudes around their 4th or 5th kid and think “maybe getting with him isn’t the smartest I'm pretty sure they're doing it on purpose. Much more money as a rich mans baby mama than a regular job or a regular mans wife with less effort especially if they wanted kids anyway. For example Nick Cannon says he pays > 3M a year in child support for his 12 …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 04:46 AM
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Celebrities are a bad example as Men literally marry porn Mia kalifa, Kim K, Paris Hilton etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 10:34 PM
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It's a endeavor that's high reward and low risk compared to a regular relationship. Much more stimuli with less risk. She gets same love in this AI relationship or at least delusional enough that the brain can't tell the difference with much less work. But yeah that could be seen as delusional if she wasn't aware that this is a AI
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 10:31 PM
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Why that emotions lead a relationship if we know they are not reliable ? Bc logically being in relationships make little sense especially for women. The only pro they have is emotions. Desire and emotional intimacy are the reasons to enter into relationship. So for the relationship they lead the relationship. If women were to think logically about relationships then being a gold digger, prostitution , cheating, monkey branching, never having kids,etc would be logical decisions. For example: ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 09:19 PM
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Do two women trust each other ? Yes that's a big part of in groups bias and why lots of women trust preselection. They trust the other woman vetted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 08:00 PM
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Good point I was thinking baggage but this is also a good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 07:53 PM
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Ok I can c how a husband focussing on his career at the expense of building a relationship can be discouraging. But I still don't think that's a good excuse and cheating definitely doesn't fix the root problem. Cheaters cheat bc they want to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 07:52 PM
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Baggage. I don't want to deal with however the guy is now fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 07:49 PM
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This woman's love for her AI boyfriend seems genuine. If you scanned her brain its likely that when she thinks about her and her AI boyfriend the brain would light up in the same way it does when she loves a real man. Therefore it is real. When in love the brain looks like a reward-driven, highly motivated brain with chemicals boosting pleasure and bonding while reducing critical judgment. That's what she's dosing herself with. The brain doesn't actually really know the difference. It's kind of …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 07:38 PM
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Be rude, be inconsiderate, be boring , be annoying etc I used to listen to a radio show called Brooke and Jubal 2nd Date Update. Lots of women messed up on the first dates and got ghosted after the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 07:56 AM
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I have a deal breaker that I don't date ppl who have cheated or been cheated on. I believe ppl cheat bc they simply want to cheat. So being Alpha won't reallying help against a cheater. They want to cheat they will cheat. It's just a fun activity for them. Rich women have a stereotype of cheating with the pool boy, butler, personal trainer for a reason. Ppl that are willing to cheat will. They will cheat down if they have too. She already showed you who she was already.( A cheater)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 07:46 AM
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In nature the female is the main provider for herself and her young. But also if I could just hand a guy raw chicken like the lioness does that would have so much time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 06:47 AM
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Usually I'm also nervous and anxious. But I still enjoy the date, he looks nice and I like looking at him, usually we touch so breaking the touch barrier is often fun/ electric. Plus it can just be a fun experience what ever the experience, most dinners with a friend is better than by yourself. Then your also sharing a experience with someone ur attracted to on a new level. what kinds of signs should we be looking for from a woman, to know whether she's having a good time Growing signs of connec…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 05:32 AM
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But it'll make it easier for your self respect to come from yourself (according to your comment) if society as a whole says to decenter the other sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 05:13 AM
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There is a woman on my strange addiction whose addiction is a AI boyfriend. She programmed herself a controlling obsessive negging boyfriend very weird. But she's ultimately in control. Plus if that's her type this is the safest way to explore that. ( Else she might end up in a actually abusive relationship) Plus unconditional love.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 05:09 AM
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I had a boyfriend that reminded me of Charlie lookswise but dirty blonde so he's been my favorite.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 05:02 AM
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Ok gotcha. I do believe in the future we will have the default single. This should help each sex decenter the other sex, relationships and sex in general. That's the way I see society is moving.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 04:53 AM
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The majority of ppl that meet societal obligations are paid or compensated in some way. All other duties and obligations that society deems necessary it pays for, cops, firefighter, soldiers etc. The way people have kids now kids are a hobby/passion project. They choose to do it themselves for themselves and bear the cost themselves. Even thought it’s pretty much all a drain on resources with almost no pros except sentimentality - drain on time, money, energy, (like most hobbies) + permanently d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 04:50 AM
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I'm not sure. I cant really do the math. I've heard that men with big penises are very rare. Though the women that want big penises are rare they are likely less abundant than the men with big penises. I am basing this of guestimating. If 20% of women can orgasm from penetrative sex alone. Then I'm gonna say 20 % care about size bc that's really the only time it's useful/beneficial. I can really conceptualize when or why else you would want a large penis. So let's say that's the case. But statis…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 05:36 PM
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We need to figure out how to balance autonomy with a sustainable rate of fertility. Pay them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 05:22 PM
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" I'm seeing is having a great emotional time with me, otherwise she wouldn't want to see me again, but she could have been having a great emotional time with a man committed to her and her children full time. " Expound more here. What would be the great emotional time with a man committed to her and her children ? What would be the cost ? What are the pros ? Would she have to be committed too ? Would she have to do more chores ? Cost/cons - not attracted to her husband? (Con for both ppl btw) S…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:31 PM
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Ohh ur right he would have been born in the 60's dated in the 70/80s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:02 PM
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I don't know what this has to do with my comment but I do agree with a lot of your points. * Some blue pillers
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 03:54 PM
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Why is dating a a normal Men, as a normal Women "tolerating nonsense"? What's the cost/cons/pros of dating that avg guy though ? Or the ' squeeze ' ? In your example of 60+ old head, he plain and avg fine. But he does he cook nd clean or will someone have to cook and clean up after him everyday? ( Con) Is he avg looking but annoying ? ( Con) Will he bitch and whine that he's the ' king of the castle ' etc ? (Con) Though I do feel bad for the struggling young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:44 AM
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Why do women continue to pursue men after bad experiences? Resilience+ new opportunity + heterosexuality. You can't change a man but you can change the man. And why are they attracted to them? Heterosexuality. why do they find men attractive, if it frequently ends up in the same situations. Like at some point the stereotypes overpower the any other reaction, no? If we're talking about women who pair up with 'bad boys ' I've never known a woman who does this that isn't a little fucked up herself.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:24 AM
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The old head man would have been a man dating in the 60's. The 60's was a very different climate than today. Partly bc of the reason that u listed - marriage & family was a life/social milestone. Anyway as more and more social pressure is let up then we can really see the pattern of what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:06 AM
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Andrew Tates mom, Diddys mom etc
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 03:42 PM
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Maybe money ? Like he's out the will if he married someone GMA doesn't like ? Not op just speculation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 03:40 PM
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Their issue with self respect/ validation / competition coming from women's pussies is weird especially bc it seems like it's structured like - their ego, other men's validation, then maybe woman's perception. Self respect comes from yourself so just respect yourself. Then if you want to compete with men just go compete with men directly no need to use pussy as a roundabout way. Join some martial arts, sports, trivia nights, board games etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 03:36 PM
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During mating season females mate with multiple males. As long as they are perceived as having good genes. That's biological and scientifical facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 01:25 AM
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To provide more evidence In nature I have been unable to find evidence of monogamous female but promiscuous male. I have been able to find the opposite but it doesn't translate well to humans bc it's usually bugs. To anyone that wants to bring polygynous animals ( 1 male to multiple female social structures IE : Lions, gorillas etc ) those female when in heat fuck their males the most , but also mate with other males. https://www.discoverwildlife.com/animal-facts/mammals/why-do-lions-take-so-man…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 01:17 AM
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Probably option 1 then 2 then 3. Idk y this sub loves poverty so much but it's genuinely terrible and I hate it. Option 1 & 2, fucks up one area of life, poverty Opt 3 fucks up nearly every area of life. So that's the trade off. A fucked up relationship but stability everywhere else Opt 1 and Opt 2. Vs happy relationship but fucked up life in every other aspect option 3. I hate poverty more than I would hate being with someone I'm not attracted physically or emotionally. Plus you can do damage c…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 12:52 AM
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He used to stay single for a long time in between relationships. However that was when his main source of dating were Dating apps. He'd get matches text for a while but they would ghost or flake if he set up irl meeting. He didn't do well irl either. But he also didn't work around a lot of women and the women that were there were much older like 50s. After improving his dress, grooming and body still not a lot of success with apps but more success irl. Now he has mainly dated women he's worked w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 12:24 AM
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y are straight women cheating more than lesbians ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 03:29 AM
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I haven’t had a ONS yet but it’s on my bucket list here’s my plan hot this problem > should we educate women that they shouldn’t partake in it if they don’t cum? get oral first and if I don’t orgasm from oral go home without PIV, so maybe something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 03:15 AM
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Yeah guys seem to like it .
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:29 AM
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> If you actually want to meet like-minded people, vet properly and get to know them before approaching them romantically (warm approach I second this. Anecdotal but most of my relationships have gone well but they were all Warm approaches that you vet before you date them. + you can ask them out after you vet them, I‘ve only tried that part once, but it went well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 12:06 AM
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it’s like y’all forgot about the Bear vs Man arguments ? Not all men are predators but there is a significant chance that a man is a predator. Get a blinky learn how to use it and keep it close.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 11:31 PM
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Neat !
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 11:06 PM
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but like if she pulls 10 in casual dating is it divide by 2 so then she knows she’s a 5or is it -3 so she’s a 7 or what ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 11:04 PM
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I find that it works great or at least it’s always well received. They say thank you and eat it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 11:02 PM
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I like it but I also like to wear collared shirts they feel structured.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:12 PM
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Same 20 lbs is the difference between A/B cups and DD
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:57 PM
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Take him to urgent care just in case he has a concussion. Or probably stay with him just in case so he doesn't die in the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:55 PM
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Yes great idea actually. There are lots of career women who would prefer someone like you. As long as ur actually good at those things or as good as/ better than paid help.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:35 PM
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At least he got a free meal out of it. IDK the story ur talking about but did she show his face ? Or was it anonymous?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:34 PM
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Yes it would. Can't squeeze blood from a stone. If a guy isn't giving them money they move on to someone who will.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:19 PM
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To support your idea : bringing the guy a small gift on a date is a nice idea. Like rotisserie chicken, a snack, a drink, a keychain toy etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:17 PM
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Women get all of these though I’ve seen all of these from a teenager at least, Develop more emotional restraint - don’t nag don’t get angry don’t cry smile Tolerate male-style conflict processing- don’t badger him Reduce demand for constant verbal reassurance - not this one I haven’t seen this one. I can’t think of anything I’ve seen that would relate to this one. Adapt to male-typical communication patterns - let him think about it tell him early so he can think about it be patient, Since men o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 02:08 PM
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also, your theory holds lots of problems. Why would American women compare American men to men Third World countries? They live in America. They were too get with a man in America that only made $1.50, though avg worldwide that is about 30000 % of the poverty line in America standards. what house can they rent? What house can we buy? They can barely buy food on $1.50 a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 02:00 PM
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Especially since the most popular sex toys women use are vibrators. Those are always the #1 best seller, Rose, wand, bullet, rabbit etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:13 PM
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2/7 deadly sins
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:06 PM
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so to balance it they should bring down their own attractiveness to be a looks match to the guy in their league ? > If women were actually dating men in their league the 300 millionth most attractive woman was dating the 300 millionth most attractive man, it would look something like an 40 year old bald fat American man who doesn't abuse women dating a beautiful 30 year old woman who makes more than him, but that never happens Like in this example. To be a true match within the relationship, she…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 06:07 PM
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and if she doesn’t value marriage ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 06:02 PM
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so should women become worse so they’re more in league with men according to your op ? they should talk their own desirability to be as desirable as their ‘match’ ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:55 PM
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Marriage is a legal contract . Nowadays and historically. It doesn’t really have to do with love. The majority of the people who have gotten married historically did not love each other at the time of ‘I do’ though they may have fallen in love later within the marriage. Personally I think that marriage is an insane choice to make bc of the vows. I don’t think most people are truly suitable to keeping these vows. However I see the pros of it. It’s not something to pursue unless you were pursuing …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:25 PM
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In the case of abuse they used to say ” it’s a private family matter” and look the other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 04:41 PM
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what about women who are attracted to homosexuals or homeless men or men they want to fix like baby bird ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 05:59 PM
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less than 15% of people live in poverty nowadays, vs 80% of population historically. Patriarchy has a large correlation to poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 05:40 PM
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no one ever talks about the dangerous, dirty job of extracting resources from men Male privilege That's a big part of the reason most women don't become prostitutes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 06:47 PM
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Expound.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 06:33 PM
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Since it doesnt make much sense to have a platonic friend, that actually wants the relationship to be romantic But they can just get over their romantic hopes and interests. If men can get over their feelings and interest in women that they are actively fucking. They can for sure do so for women they've never and will never fuck. Getting over their imagination seems like it'd be easier to do than getting over a actual experience. But I guess that's another case of some will some won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 07:00 AM
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It’s weird they don’t wanna be friends with women /in the friend zone. When doing so might solve this issue of compliments And gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:16 PM
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no, this just sounds fine to me. This is how the majority of my relationships have gone. I’ve never used a dating app and said I just met men while living my life. They started with warm approaches just some guy I kept seeing at work, school church, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:10 PM
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It’s because of the assholery way they talk about single moms. The way they talk about why they don’t wanna date, single moms or rejecting single moms or being uninterested in single moms. It seems like a reaction to single mums trying to walk him down a wedding aisle at gun point. I don’t think the majority of single moms are that harshly or actively pursuing men that men’s vitriol fueled reaction is warranted.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:09 PM
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this was a lot. But most people do vent and ask questions of people they’re seeing or intending on seeing. This woman just sounds like a nice woman the way you describe her. > she might be able figure that out when she sees him again next week. But she also hasn't seen her friend who lives across town in a while, or she's tired from work and just needs to relax and watch the new season of Love is Blind, or she needs to visit her mom, or she just doesn't want to put on makeup, or she's on her per…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:40 PM
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this is so cute. Green flag. i’ll believe he beat raditz, yes keep dating him
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:57 AM
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i explain romantic love feels like a river fast, exciting, very fiery and inspiring. or I say the value is around $20-50 daily. maybe try that type of explanation I will c if I can understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:47 AM
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hard drugs/ drunkard racism mean/rude/harsh violent unemployed liars ppl who cheat or have been cheated on
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:40 AM
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u know you might be my type is Twink like very skinny men, my dad is very skinny twink like very lean like most of my boyfriends. But they are different behavior wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:21 AM
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it just sounds like a mindset to me. You’re happy single and you won’t change it unless you’ll be happier in a relationship. > The decision for whether or not to date someone is almost never made with a careful weighing of pros vs cons. They just are around the person for a long enough period of time and if they like them enough... 🤷‍♂️ they date and then form a relationship in the time they’re just around each other they are often actively vetting each other see if a relationship with this pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:46 AM
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the 1st half sounds great and should be the standard for both men and women. Thats how ppl should baseline feel about being single. > Oh, I'm not against being in a relationship with a man/woman I'm just 100% emotionally fulfilled with my friends, family, and hobbies, and I'm just too occupied with those + work to really go out and make an effort to meet anyone. Also I don't want any man/woman ruining my peace because the default con of all relationships is annoyance and will cost my time, energ…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 09:14 PM
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just bc u decenter men or women doesn’t mean u are homosexual
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 09:08 PM
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if it was just a self improvement club and men friendship club it wouldn’t get hate. It gets hate bc of loud assholery vitriole it espouses. if these men wanted to make a place out of society and be hippies, or self improv and make friends that’s great. but if they keep bitching and moaning about women than women are going to hate on them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 09:06 PM
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I agred with him that in good relationships. the pros far outweigh the cons for men and women. Personally I think romantic relationships are worth about $20-$50 , but a free $20-$50 a day is great/ its not free but it may cost -$10 in annoyance but +$20-50 in peace and pleasure then is more pros than cons. if it cost - $70 but +$20 more cons than pros, more cost than reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:55 PM
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or widowed or dead
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:47 PM
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I think that’s a big part of the issue of how some women made entirely separate categories for hook up and relationship material. if they make separate categories it helps solve their problem of being stuck as hook up material or relationship materia. The simply pick which they want to do when. some guys just to hook up with, some guys only to have relationships with. Then just pick the best they can get of either group.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:38 PM
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not wife, Girlfriend. girlfriends have sex with their boyfriend for cheaper/free than wives or prostitutes. if GF charged a BF each time they had sex since he’s cool paying for it before that’s fair. Plus she’s better of financially. 1x a week for 300, 300 * 52 =15,600. Vs girlfriends cost around 7k normally, they’d make 2x as much if they charged Just for sex 1x a week. Plus in the same vein the BF material guy is getting much more sex than a ONS guy would.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:13 PM
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a women compelled to accept a man that book a prostitute every week or two for several years and now wants a LTR with a woman? How is it any different than a woman with a pattern of hooking up with rando's? On this premise wouldn't it be ' unfair' for a guy to get into a relationship and expect free sex more frequently when he used to pay for it once a week ? Why is he treating his GF worse than he did a prostitute? He should give his GF as much money as he gave the prostitute everytine they hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:55 PM
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Hmm studies show women are twice as likely to orgasm in relationships than in ONS. So maybe your cherry picking or maybe your algorithm is rage baiting. The biggest con I've heard from women about ons is that the sex is worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:51 PM
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Scenario 1 is no pay. Which is the current system. But I've thought about scenarios 2 ( this might not be very 'good') Here's what I have if she's such a bad mom that the kid causes damages then the kid is a negative, the state would take the kid funnel them into some kids of foster care to military pipeline. Either foster care/orphanage / military school or foster care with someone else filling the role of parent and directing the kids. Strongly directing/brainwashing the kids into the military…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:39 PM
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This is great advice. If I had a son this is how I would raise him. Same if I had a daughter. Ur validation and self worth should be deeply anchored into yourself like a feedback loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:27 PM
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A service could be done in such a disastrous way that it is not fullfilling the contract. Then not only there is no pay, there are damages to compensate for. So the current system.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:16 PM
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y no first borns ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 05:45 AM
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