| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 7 | What I don’t understand is.. | Responsible-Evidence | /r/seduction | 29/01/20 06:09 PM | |
| 1 | Have I messed this one up already? | Responsible-Evidence | /r/seduction | 18/01/20 02:00 PM | |
| 1 | Negative thoughts patterns and how to overcome them | Responsible-Evidence | /r/seduction | 22/01/20 10:38 PM | |
| 1 | Seeing a new girl early on | Responsible-Evidence | /r/seduction | 22/01/20 10:53 PM | |
| 0 | How often to text/see new girls | Responsible-Evidence | /r/seduction | 20/01/20 06:41 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | How Much Should I Care?You don’t get to decide whether you care, unfortunately. | /r/seduction | 19/08/20 10:37 PM |
| 1 | I haven’t had a date in three years. I really need advice because I have no idea what I’m doing wrong.Where and how you trying to meet girls? Seems like a good place to start | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 10:14 PM |
| 21 | It doesn’t matter what you text them. They know if they like you or not.You probably can’t change their mind if they don’t like you but you can definitely fuck it up if they do | /r/seduction | 13/03/20 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Initiative, texting and co – balance betweenTrying to genuinely be busy with other stuff be it friends hobbies family or other women is the best you can get. I’m starting to think that as soon as you get the to stage you consider things like this you’re already too invested, and more invested than you’d like to admit. I say this as someone that has been there. The only way I’ve found to be able to be generally indifferent is to have multiple girls on the go, but this is difficult to maintain when you meet one that you actually like | /r/seduction | 10/03/20 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Advice on a dateHaha ‘do whatever you wanna do’. ‘Omg what a bitch’... This is funny cos I would react like you have if it was me but as an outsider I can see how ridiculous it is. | /r/seduction | 07/03/20 08:38 PM |
| 2 | What might be some good questions to ask yourself if you cannot tell if a text you will send or sentence you say is too needy/too pushy/weak? So some good mental tests to check whether your sentence is needy? Might sound like a silly question but guys say needy things by accident ALL the timeI am an overthinker that will put off asking for the date if I think the texting isn’t going great. To get around this I’ve decided I will only use text to set up the date. This way I get my answer right away and don’t work myself up into an anxious mess and then not even get a definitive answer. In terms of a check, I think about if this was my best mate, what would I advise him to do, or if this was a rival, what would I want them to do, and then do the opposite. | /r/seduction | 04/03/20 11:53 AM |
| 5 | I fucked up by saying “i love you” on the 3rd date after the 1st kiss. Albeit it wasnt meant serious and was delivered in a playful tone. It most likely still was perceived seriously. Would like to know if its still salvageable and why just saying these words is enough to completely ruin attractionThink your text is decent and your best play. Acknowledge it was cringey but also don’t seem to upset by it.. that you don’t care about embarrassing yourself. Don’t say it again tho. Joking or not | /r/seduction | 23/01/20 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Never initiates but is invested in conversationMy view is they only start to chase you after sex a few times | /r/seduction | 22/01/20 11:33 PM |
| 2 | I asked several girls why they rejected me and this is what they said...All boils down to not being their best option across a range of metrics namely, looks, money, status | /r/seduction | 22/01/20 11:15 PM |
| 2 | [LR] UK field (lay) reportAlmost like the more alcohol in someone’s system the more likely they are to hook up | /r/seduction | 22/01/20 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Less is moreKinda fucked how the less you put in the more you get out. Can be very hard to hold back when you actually like someone, whereas when you dgaf it’s easy. Hence why you either end up with someone that you’re genuinely above or you show great restraint early on | /r/seduction | 22/01/20 10:14 AM |
| 2 | Hookup adviceJust look her in the eye with a wry smile , at her lips, eyes again and kiss her. She’s given you the go ahead you’re golden | /r/seduction | 21/01/20 12:01 AM |
| 1 | How often to text/see new girlsAgree totally. Better to be busy than fake busy. Cos when I’m fake busy my brain tries to tell me why I should contact her even tho I know better to meet in person and leave texts for arranging dates. It’s just a bit differnt as this is from an app so naturally we text more before meeting | /r/seduction | 20/01/20 10:18 PM |
| 1 | How often to text/see new girlsOkay thanks | /r/seduction | 20/01/20 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Relationship: Girl wants to see other peopleIt’s not easy and probably not possible if you actually like her. It doesn’t sound promising for your long term future so I’d come to terms with that myself first and then decide if I was alright to still see her. | /r/seduction | 20/01/20 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Relationship: Girl wants to see other peopleDoesn’t sound great tbh. I’d either end it or switch off emotionally and try to have sex with other girls whilst keeping her around. That’s what she’s doing to you.. | /r/seduction | 20/01/20 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Have I messed this one up already?Cheers man it worked | /r/seduction | 19/01/20 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Have I messed this one up already?Yeah I see your point. I did reply saying yeah but I maybe wasn’t as clear as I could’ve been as I made a jokey comment. I would’ve thought she would’ve mentioned it when she text me last night although I was fairly short in my nexts too | /r/seduction | 18/01/20 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Have I messed this one up already?I could always wait until we are both out and drunk to hit her with a Hail Mary type message but in my experience girls make it clear when they’re dtf | /r/seduction | 18/01/20 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Have I messed this one up already?Hmm see I’m torn between that and playing it cool for now | /r/seduction | 18/01/20 02:22 PM |
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