Most guys don’t go to as much effort as people in these subs yet still maintain relationships? And they’re not naturals, and I see them making many ‘mistakes’, certainly once in the ltr stage...

What is happening here? How is it that society manages to be fine without all the constant game playing and mental gymnastics..? Do you think this happens more at the beginning and then settles down once the relationship is more serious?

I’ll be honest, I can use these techniques to get girls but it’s honestly quite draining.. I do wonder if it’s necassery to be exerting so much mental energy when most people I know don’t bother at all with game.. though I am a bit too wary to abandon what I know has worked in the past..