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Yes. Consent makes it ok, however, that dynamic is still there. Consent doesn't erase that. Entertainment is still education, still reenforces habits. This cannot be minimized. Action movies don't create killers, but they do enforce assumptions. All entertainment, porn included, does that. At a minimum, porn reenforces that images/believes entertained leading up to and at orgasm, leading to the conditioned response to repeat the act and repeat the image/belief in our minds
/r/ExRedPill30/04/26 05:56 AM
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Thx. Assumed you were male. You asked for sources and I provided them. You answer didn't alude to any knowledge about feminism outside of porn is not bad and provide sources without proving anything yourself.
/r/ExRedPill30/04/26 05:47 AM
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I recommend reading 'What Makes Pornography "Sexy"?' by John Stoltenberg, as well as any book by Audrey Lorde, especially her book on love. Here you'll read how everything institution in the US rooted in patriarchy (domination/control of women)... That includes sex. Sex is often seeing as the active (dominant) person and the passive (dominated) person. Because you most likely see this as natural, it shows that you have accepted misogyny as true. Once you understand that sex doesn't require a dom…
/r/ExRedPill30/04/26 04:54 AM
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If he is not white: show him how RP uses the same fundamental logic as a white supremacists uses. Women/non-whites are inherently evil because of (biology/God made them that way). If he is a non-Christian: show him how RP uses the same fundamental logic as Christian Nationalism uses. Women/non-Christians are inherently evil because of (God made them that way). Prince and repeat for every intersecting identity he has that would be considered undesirable/an oppressed class.
/r/ExRedPill30/04/26 04:45 AM
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I've never felt insecure about my height until watching RedPill content
/r/ExRedPill30/04/26 04:40 AM
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Most porn centers the male gale... this gaze or "frame" is misogynistic by nature. From the way the women look, to the angle, to how the male actors perform/look, to the fantasy story weaved around it. A good way to contrast this is to watch porn produced and made by lesbians/queers. If you want some recommendations to see, let me know.
/r/ExRedPill30/04/26 04:39 AM
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Sounds like me. What's been working for me is 1) acknowledging that I'm not as liberal or progressive as I thought I was. I was " superficially feminist"... Feminist based on what society had told me, not reading any real feminist works. Going through red pill and trying to out showed me how superficial it really was. This could be the case for you. For me it showed up as jealousy over women who could have sex with whoever they wanted, and me struggling, As labeling women as hoes for having sex …
/r/ExRedPill30/04/26 04:29 AM
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Culture. There are other societies where women chance/persue men and propose
/r/seduction21/04/26 10:12 PM
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RedPill is the dating pipeline to accepting authoritarianism. My assumption is that the elites put it everywhere because they manufactured the male loneliness crisis and provided this as a "solution". Before you know it, you are conservative, far right Christian seeking to be a provider husband and a Traditional wife, anti-anything left. You can hear it in their logic that's used. The negative logic they use about women, can be used if you change it to race (white vs black), religion (Christian …
/r/ExRedPill13/02/26 03:55 PM
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I am going through this. +4 years out, 2 yr clean clean. What I'm learning is that the seeds of RedPill (misogyny) has always been with me, planted long ago and RedPill was the water and fertilizer. RedPill became my vaccine... I got sick, was down for a while... and once I fended it off, I'm better and stronger for it... My plan is focus on who I want to be. Trust is also something I'm still working on. I've been looking for the thoughts that come up in relation to trust/fear/my self-worth ("Sh…
/r/ExRedPill19/01/26 05:40 AM
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Got it. It looked like it was aimed at me.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/25 05:04 AM
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The RedPill, on one hand, tells me women are horrible people, string my anger, and on the same hand, tell me my manhood is tied to sleeping with them on my terms.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/25 06:54 PM
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Being harsh here. I'm reading a lot of assumptions you have about me. Reflect and be objective for me to take you comment seriously.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/25 06:53 PM
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The anger / lust dynamic I had for women. It is a hell of a catch 22.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/25 03:21 AM
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This right here. When I listen, he sounds good, credible, and reasonable. But it's the underlying logic he wears in, when unquestioned, is dangerous. It will leave you with some wicked conclusions
/r/ExRedPill03/09/25 06:24 AM
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Thx. I needed this.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/25 08:28 PM
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Tell her "I'm a 'x' type a guy... it allows me to be my favorite version of myself."
/r/seduction04/05/25 02:31 AM
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I have recently bought Getting It: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-Free Sex. Its by a fem person who has been mono, poly, swing. Its a guide on how to have consensual, respectful sex. I only have read a little bit, but its been good so far. We will see. I got it because it seems to offer everything the RedPill offers, but from a healthy source, sex positive, no shaming women, consent, ect. Wanna have casual Sex? Wanna go to a sex party? Wanna throw a sex party? As well as relationship/…
/r/ExRedPill22/04/25 11:06 PM
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It is tho.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/25 11:02 PM
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To help with the content re-enforcement, I've been watching the following YouTubers: Maximino (AntiRedPill content) The Faith Community Virtual (Evangelical Christian Deconstruction) - This helps because I believe alot of RedPill is based on Evangelical "traditional/biblical" marriage. Might want to stay away from the NoFap communities as well. Similar logic over there.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/25 08:12 PM
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Sure. Ask prompts about how to have relationships with longevity and happiness? Ask about what relationship skills are needed to have a loving relationship?!!
/r/ExRedPill30/03/25 04:58 PM
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I've read the Incel forums, studied thier Lit... they need help, and as long as its only the man-o-sphere, we will here misogyny from them.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/25 08:15 AM
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I disagree. Just because sex/intimacy isn't required for immediate survival doesn't mean its absence doesn't impact you in the same way, given how strong this desire usually is, in both sexes, at this age. You can say the same thing about social connections/friendship. You don't need friends, but lacking this WILL impact you negatively. Not meeting the inner need/desire for a partner/intimacy/closeness usually does lead someone to depression... especially since obtaining a mate/sex is seen an an…
/r/ExRedPill05/03/25 08:06 AM
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Have you ever fasted or jobless... If so you know you'll start to obsess over food/money... and when the perceived opportunities are put in front of you, you desire it more. You see others enjoying the thing you seemingly can't get. Carry that over to sex/relationships/not having access to sex, and you will understand.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/25 01:53 AM
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I joined at the recommendation of an aunt (Kevin Samuels) and it fueled by being cheated on. I left the Man-o-sphere/RP because it was turning me into a misogynist. I started to enjoy women being degraded, women in bad situations. I just became more angry and never felt better or in a better position to have healthy relationships. I kept getting pumped full of lies or half truths hard to verify. I also felt like a pipeline to white nationalism. Switch women with a POC and man to white. While the…
/r/ExRedPill08/11/24 08:56 AM
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No. It's about what's important to you
/r/seduction19/09/24 10:07 PM
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I read this "Bend over something stupid" and it broke me 😂
/r/MensRights05/06/24 02:42 PM
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Or die tryin
/r/MensRights05/06/24 02:41 PM
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Why do you suggest this?
/r/MensRights01/05/24 10:47 PM
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Why do you say that?
/r/MensRights01/05/24 10:44 PM
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Why do you say don't get married?
/r/MensRights01/05/24 10:42 PM
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This. She thirst traps way too hard in her vids. That's what turned me off
/r/MensRights04/04/24 02:24 AM
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SpeaksInGay and I love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:30 PM
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I'll throw my hat in. I think the disdain or hate comes from the perceived lack of value (sexual market value). The exposure to many different men conveys a dirtiness associated with the job. Although some of the most hygienic, routinely checks for STD, ect professions, there is this idea she is tainted by the people they had been with. Also, the lack of sexual exclusivity men see in sex workers, mainly women, lowers their perceived sexual value (sexual market value - that standard) because theo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:50 AM
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The question is prompting you to dig in deeper into the why behind the preference. In the same way men seek to know the why behind women's preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:37 AM
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Thanks for separating this out. It gives me more to chew on and deeepens how I can be more respectful in my experiences going forward. I'm a sexy man who has been sexualized. I have had experiences of being sexualized, while not trying to be sexy. I've been sexy while not obviously being sexualized. And I've had sexy and sexualized
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:20 PM
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I think this speaks to the inherent strength women have to process these things. There does need to be a balance... the questions are how to do this in an equable way, especially given the shift in contemporary gender norms. I think men might be open to this if it's equitable for them as well. Men may have had alot of power in the external world, physical world and financial world.. these things have changed. Alot of leway was given to men because of the responsibility men had to carry in the pa…
/r/MensRights01/04/23 09:03 PM
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It’s just good practice.
/r/MensRights08/03/23 03:27 PM
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This
/r/MensRights03/03/23 08:58 PM
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This only applies to sexual partners for women. Women have an abundance of sexual partners. The number of folks who will marry them is significantly smaller. So women can afford to be choosy (have preferences) in sex. Men can afford to be choosy (have preferences) in marriage. Remember: women gatekeep sex. Men gatekeep marriage.
/r/MensRights03/03/23 08:57 PM
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Like what Kevin said “Shame, Insult, Guilt and the need to be Right”
/r/MensRights03/03/23 08:52 PM
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There is are Facebook groups geared towards this. Its crazy
/r/MensRights24/02/23 07:20 PM
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This
/r/MensRights24/02/23 07:16 PM
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Adult-imus Prime
/r/MensRights24/02/23 07:11 PM
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I’m wondering who are are these women dating? If 68% of women between 18 -29 are in some form of relationship, while only 27% of men are dating, they have to at least be sharing a man, telling lies or misunderstood their relationship.
/r/MensRights24/02/23 07:09 PM
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That second picture though is telling
/r/MensRights10/01/23 02:44 AM
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Same. Can I be a nerd with incredibly low standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:28 PM
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I’m all for black women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:50 AM
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There is an inherent bias in sample population. It’s doesn’t include people who don’t use dating apps (like me).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:46 AM
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I like how KS said that men are concerned about a woman’s past, and women are concerned with a man’s future. That stuck with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:15 PM
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Men gotta fight..it's what we are built to do
/r/MensRights07/11/22 08:44 PM
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That a woman’s education/professional skill set doesn’t matter. Women are often the 1st teachers of children. Having an educated woman only elevates your children.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:33 PM
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Man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:51 AM
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Where are .your stats that support your claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:30 AM
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Naw fam. Some us us have risen above that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:43 PM
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I disagree that HVM will naturally cheat/“persue options”. This is a character trait, not something inherently HVM. You should know what you are signing up for. Women should know the man they are with. Talk about it and read the situation. High in demand doesn’t mean high value for you. They need to decide what’s most important for thier own lives and happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:41 PM
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As I am reading this, it makes me think about how there are men that don’t complain about women hitting them. Is this because these men have the external power/influence (wealth/status) to protect themselves from this type of attack? I think of Johnny Depp
/r/MensRights18/09/22 10:50 PM
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Older women tend to see you as a sex option and often try to control you. Unless they become submissive, it’s a rough uphill battle.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 05:58 AM
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This. That alpha wounding is real. Unless you can successfully out-alpha this man in her eyes (you most likely cannot) p, it’s always there.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 05:41 AM
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They’d rather marry the equivalent to themselves once they are well past the wall because “they have learned their lesson”
/r/MensRights13/08/22 05:26 PM
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This. Both seem to be under the guise of empowerment, but I just leave with a diminished view of women. Feminism put them on a pedestal for me. Red pill makes them the worse. Both rooted in half truth. It makes me wonder about the schools of thought that are more balanced.
/r/MensRights13/08/22 05:25 PM
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Multiply this over 20 hrs and we see the problem. 140 women not in relationships or being side pieces
/r/MensRights13/08/22 05:22 PM
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I saw someone post that on FB. Her comment was removed
/r/MensRights13/08/22 05:18 PM
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This changes as women age. Women loose post mitt clarity as the get older
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:39 AM
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I'm the type of dude that values emotional connection relationship depth. For me, sex in these relationships, where there is trust, especially emotional trust, make everything, including sex, much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:01 AM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:34 AM
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Thanks. I had a 6 yr relationship with a women with 3 kids (2 eventually becasue the oldest went to live with his dad). A yr in, we cohabitated. My situation was less sustainable. She didn't make alot of money and she struggled with other things. The biggest shift for me was the level of responsibility I gain with the 2 kids. I worked in education, so I was familiar with them. Semi-parenting was a full time gig I wasn't use to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 03:08 PM
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Could you explain your rational? I just want to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 02:31 AM
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Just a question: What's your experience with dating/marrying older women with kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 02:25 AM
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Good Money: Given where he was, its "good money". Its relative to his social status. He has climbed the ladder at his employer and has obtained middle management. That's significant. ​ Leadership: Again, given his social status. Being a shift manager requires telling people what they don't want to here, being an enforcer, providing visible leadership for employees under them. This is a transferable skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 02:21 AM
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Andy's value was increasing at this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 02:16 AM
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But would you marry her? Most men would date/have sex with her. But would you join houses, finances and responsibilities with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:23 PM
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Are you talking about "The Secret Life of Walter Mitty"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:22 PM
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That's too funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:19 PM
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This. I don't think Andy knew he had options for connection with single women without kids. He really did the typical thirsty thing and jump on the 1st women that he felt that with... being dazzled by her novelty as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:19 PM
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You are right about net-worth. Assuming they are making similar amounts of money, his net-worth is higher because he doesn't have the overhead of 2 kids (16ish and 8ish). Kids are a money/time suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:15 PM
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Good point. It does. While his friends positioned themselves and "experts", they didn't fully understand it either, nor had successful relationships. We don't know much about the Pakistani men and their marriage, but we can assume more thought went into them becasue they are older men and marriages are also seen as the joining of 2 familes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:10 PM
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That's true. Andy seemed to focus on love and connection, instead of having a long-term vision of what a marriage to Trisha would be like.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:06 PM
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Handy Andy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:05 PM
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Dating/sex: yes. Marriage: I hope not. The barrier to entry is easy because the back-end cost gets you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:04 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:03 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:03 PM
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I believe Steve's options were growing as his life was improving. He already had a nice body due to biking, working out and eating healthy (I lived a similar life style). Assuming he was ugly, he was compensating by making career advancements (was a floor supervisor making "good money"), learning to be more social (hanging out with co-workers). by the end of the movie. The money along with the leadership role look good for a potential partner. It shows he has provision, problem-solving skills an…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:02 PM
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Well said. Misspell.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:36 AM
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He sold his collection of action figures due to Trish encouraging him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 01:55 AM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:23 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 12:25 AM
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😂 I love this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:34 PM
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You are not wrong. We have our solution. Go to where the demand is high.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:33 PM
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That women really want men to lead, to control a situation and to hold them accountable. I learned that women do what that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:28 AM
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They women were sexually conservative, have a low sexual body count or are truthful about thier body count. When I learn that women greatly outpace men in terms of number of sex encounters. I use to be team "I don't care about body count". But seeing how thier personality/trauma reinforces thier body count, it makes wonder now. That all women are sexual hygienic, are careful about STDs. It seems to go out the window they know they can't have kids any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:25 AM
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This. Learning now that men control access to marriage helps me feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:10 AM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:08 AM
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This hits home hard because I can relate. Never thought of it like that. I needed this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 02:58 AM
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I don't think hook up culture benefits anyone long term. It just gives people access to sex/relationship-like benefits and doesn't encourage them to better themselves enough to sustain a long term relationship. It also teaches/re-enforces habits that antagonize the success of long term relationships/marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:41 PM
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This is helpful for me. If I implicitly said I want women on the bottom, my appologies. That wasn't my intent. I should have said explicitly that women seeking partners should readjust thier expectations (mostly financial) to increase thier desired partner pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:38 PM
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Well said. Women often associate being able to get sex/male sexual attention with getting married. This further fuels the idea they can get these hugh value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:10 PM
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I'll try. Women are groom to want men that are further along than they are: $, physically stronger, more in shape, etc. Women are increasing thier income and social status. With this in mind, women still want a man further along than them. This reduces thier desired dating pool (DDP) 😏. Additionally, the population of educated women is increasing, increasing competition for the same pool of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:09 PM
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Make sure to get a DNA test if she keeps it. Need to confirm that its yours.
/r/MensRights13/11/21 06:31 PM
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I can see that. All women are perused heavily for sex when they are young. I can see this nurturing their belief that they don't have to do much to get a man... because we peruse and they accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:16 PM
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I'm still a Feminist/Womanist. I'm finally questioning the other side of this, the pro Men's side.
/r/MensRights31/10/21 02:45 PM
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Black men often lack thr legal protections that other races have. Without real legal defence, false convections turn real real quick.
/r/MensRights25/07/21 01:16 AM
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Love KS
/r/MGTOW208/07/21 08:04 AM
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