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You know, you might just be extroverted by nature, which is actually good and comes with its own strengths. However, you may want to avoid thinking in firm terms about what you are, because you are a system that is constantly changing. That is, if possible, do not think in nouns "I am this, that or the other" but rather think in verbs "I am doing this, that or the other". You are doing stuff, you are not a rigid and unchangeable system. In fact, there's not one thing in this universe that is not…
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/26 03:46 PM
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Listen, man, your choices are actually rather solid. Take a look at the horror stories in the r/regretfulparents subreddit and try to ponder on the fact that having children is a lifelong responsibility. A child is IRREVERSIBLE so you have to be 100% convinced you want to go that route, because it is TOUGH and there is no going back. It could WORSEN your problems. It's no time to make kids while you are struggling yourself, that is clear. So you do have a great and analytical line of thinking wh…
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/26 03:05 PM
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I have to tell you that it does sound like you have a chemical imbalance in your nervous system which is causing your to have skewed perception of the world. You diagnosed it yourself - your rational brain sees what is going on, but your nervous system is "doom-predicting" on autopilot. Eventually that becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. I know you think that's just your personality but the actual real you is the independent observer. The nervous system is not really you - it's a system, though …
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/26 12:11 PM
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It sounds like you have low serotonin levels. Yes, I'm aware that it sounds too "out there" but you should consider it as a serious possibility. When serotonin levels are low people start seeing themselves as worthless - it's a chemical imbalance. When dopamine levels are low people start lacking ambition and get depressed - again a chemical imbalance. Now, how do you fix it? Well, you may have to fix it as an actual problem to be solved - get higher levels and you will gain natural confidence. …
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/26 09:22 AM
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Your children need you or did you forget that? They may be separated from you right now but you should always have the long game in mind. What happens when they are 18, 28, 38? Do you know how many crisis THEY will face, and with you nowhere around (if you proceed with your shortsighted plan to selfishly and needlessly off yourself) it will be infinitely more crushing for them. Heck, your wife may not even be alive anymore (old age, disease, freak accident?) but your kids will always need you. D…
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/26 01:22 PM
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Calm down, mate. Logically speaking, her leaving (supposedly negative) is not more of an indication of your worth than her being with you for 11 years (supposedly positive). However, you should not base your self-worth on external things because it's not a solid ground to be. People and their opinions are always shifting and you'd be facing an existential system crash if they don't think well of you. You have to develop inner self-worth and listen only to your internal voice, which should be pos…
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/26 05:58 AM
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"Everything will work out in the end" is what gets me the most because it's the exact OPPOSITE of what will happen in the end. The human mortality rate is 100% so all systems CRASH in the end and it's usually not pretty. I don't get where people find the mental delusion to think that things will work out in the end.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/26 10:26 AM
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So, you're narcissistic for not prioritizing her but she's not narcissistic for not prioritizing you and leaving? You can't have it both ways. It's usually the biggest narcissists who go around and label others as such. She's saving her mental health by dumping all the guilt on you and you are taking it. It's mental war and you are losing with all the self doubt. Whatever you do, do NOT internalize any guilt. In fact, if you were truly a narcissist you wouldn't have an ounce of guilt, which only…
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/26 01:04 PM
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Nice deflection to not answer the question. We are discussing men's rights right now, yes, and that can only be done in comparison to the rights of other groups of people.
/r/MensRights19/06/26 03:33 PM
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So what about the volumes of single women who don't have children and are still not mandated to help. A lot of them leave the country and then get boyfriends/husbands abroad. The majority of these women do not plan to return to help at all, even in the rebuilding effort after.
/r/MensRights19/06/26 03:26 PM
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So how are women contributing to the tribe then? Couldn't they be mandated to stay behind and produce drones? Do they have hands? Women can be useful in a lot of ways but only men are currently forced to contribute.
/r/MensRights19/06/26 03:03 PM
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/r/Divorce_Men17/06/26 07:43 PM
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/r/Divorce_Men17/06/26 07:39 PM
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/r/Divorce_Men17/06/26 07:38 PM
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That does sound quite vengeful indeed, though it's definitely not all that's theoretically possible. I wrote "AS vengeful" not just "vengeful" specifically because vengefulness is to be expected regardless. However, it's projected to be even worse if you're the one initiating the separation. It may be hard to imagine but she'd have been even more vengeful if it was your idea, probably - you're still alive after all.
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/26 01:21 PM
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Red flags all over, painful to read! However, great news for you - you have no kids and you won't have to pay much alimony. Most of the guys here would love to be in your shoes. Recommended course of action - BAIL AND NEVER LOOK BACK. Even better, she thinks it's her idea so she won't be as vengeful. The universe is trying to help you, you just have to recognize it. If you think about it, it all comes down to a binary choice: 1) Do you like problems? Yes - continue to work out something that is …
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/26 08:51 AM
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That's exactly right - there's a guy who used to say "You know what's the common thing between all the people who've screwed me over? THEY COULD!". I still remember it to this day because he was totally on point. Basically, there's no reason for anybody to purposefully place himself in a vulnerable position if it can be avoided. And in the relationship case, you could reap most of the benefits without ever placing yourself in exposed position. No third party should be allowed to have that much i…
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/26 05:07 AM
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I really hate to burst your bubble but you are already observing it crumbling yourself - what you want and the objective REALITY are two different things. You've been living in "delulu-land" for far too long and it may be time to see through the charade. Brace yourself because it's not pretty. Here's one claim to ponder on - women have ALWAYS been in it for themselves ONLY (and their children, possibly). Men are NOWHERE in that equation and NEVER were. It's plain to see, but if you refuse to acc…
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 09:44 AM
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It's just money? I hate that I'd have to push back against that expression because you use it to as a crutch to calm your nervous system, but it has to be done so you'd appreciate what her actions represent fully. Did you inherit that money or did you work for it? If you worked for the money she'd be receiving, it means you traded your time and effort for it. Your time and effort are a limited resource - you can NEVER get your time BACK. By getting your money she is robbing you of the fruits of …
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/26 03:00 PM
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Here we go again, another poor sap gaslit to believe it's his fault for his wife not managing HER OWN mental state. What happened to the "for better or worse" vow? Oh, I guess it's OP's fault again for her breaking her own vow. Guys, stop internalizing 100% of the responsibility for a TWO-WAY RELATIONSHIP. Love doesn't work that way - but let's face it, the relationship was NEVER about TRUE LOVE. The proof is in how it ended. It was a contract and it's now dissolved. Also, she's got the new guy …
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/26 06:09 AM
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Labeling things is a manipulation tactic, usually deployed by women and the state to own the narrative. By labeling you a "real man" if you do this or that, you yourself are brainwashed to follow the narrative. It's the same as the state labeling "honor" as you be willing to sacrifice yourself for it, and "cowardice" you saving your own life. It's basically a way to make you disregard your own self-interests. You could say that women and the government are always showing their true intentions th…
/r/MensRights31/05/26 07:25 AM
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Man, you've been gaslit so much that you even doubt yourself and wonder if you did something, albeit unintentionally. The truth is that what you're currently facing is a very expected lie - it's so common that it's in the manual these days. Children are easy to manipulate and will say anything. The root is your wife who's still trying to destroy you. Better rewrite your "honest belief" where you think something happened because that self-doubt is what will make you exude "guilty energy". It's ex…
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/26 02:56 PM
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Well, Instagram is a curated version of people's lives where they purposefully brag about things. It's the last place you should be looking at because instead of information you get fed with propaganda. Basically, you're crying over things that are not true. Please reconsider crying over delusions - be it your own or other people's projected illusions which you eagerly accept as truth. If you want to truly perceive reality go to the court or to the cemetery. You'd quickly realize you actually ha…
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/26 01:58 PM
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Your marriage is over. In fact, it has been over for a long time but you have been trying to endure the void. Well, is there anything else to be said? You have two clear options. Continue to endure the situation and face a very probable early death due to the stress. Contrary to common belief, enduring disrespect and sacrificing yourself over nothing is not heroic. It's rather short-sighted and plain ineffective. Save yourself. Only then you'd have the mental bandwidth and energy needed to help …
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/26 01:31 PM
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You ask because you do know the truth but refuse to accept it. Of what I've read, it's definitely over and it has been over for a long time. In fact, it may not have even begun. You deserve something better than "I don't ever fantasize about you". Stop chasing a ghost - you're better than this. I say this to help and save you from further humiliation. Take back what you've offered and shake the dust off your feet. Restore your pride and never look back.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/26 06:43 AM
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The lost job and the debt you mentioned just briefly is the way bigger problem you have, yet you spent one sentence on them. One is an objective problem about survival, the other is a chick that showed the very typical lack of loyalty currently plaguing our generation. She probably left because she thought she could do better, meaning she could find a juicier target to squeeze. I know you don't want to hear this and you still have delusions about loyalty but I'd suggest you take a look around. I…
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/26 03:28 AM
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I understand the sentiment but I'll have to argue a bit with that way of thinking because it is not logical. Hopefully you won't mind - note that I don't have a child so I can't really understand the emotions behind, but bear with me. How is risking being killed by the situation (thus walking away permanently and forever) better than a tactical retreat (to regroup) and returning later not better? I don't suggest you abandon him permanently at all. I suggest you make yourself stronger for his sak…
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/26 04:25 AM
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That's tough, man. However, you will likely be utterly destroyed if you continue with your current way of thinking. You have to evolve to survive, as tough as it is. When you're in an emotional situation as this one, you don't think straight, so I'll help you out as an impartial observer. Your naivete made you a victim of a predatory female and you are wholly unprepared to deal with it. Courts are in her favor and it is NOT an unlucky coincidence. The particular predation you've fallen a victim …
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/26 04:05 AM
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I'm sorry to say this, but you are NOT seeing things clearly. You describe the events well, but your reaction to them is concerning, because it is NOT reasonable (that's expected if you are emotionally invested, of course). Your interpretation is really out of sync with the actual reality. Fortunately, I can tell you what I see as an impartial observer. The problem is that you think that your relationship is about LOVE, when it is NOT. If it was about love, she'd be with you regardless of the ho…
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/26 07:14 AM
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I took it to heart and never thought otherwise. Not having a delusion interfere with your thinking made me see things that my brain would "hide" from me in my delusional state. Like how practically ALL the females around me used the MONKEY-BRANCHING technique, and even tried to get with me and tell me how they HATE their BOYFRIENDS while they are WITH their boyfriends. A few of my exes tried to get back with me, and a few even wanted to have a baby from me (proposed directly), WHILE STILL OFFICI…
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/26 05:24 AM
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When I ran 100m at my school I tripped just when I was going through the finish line and got several bloody bruises (I fell on the asphalt at quite the speed) and NOBODY bat an eye - neither the female teacher (who was just a few meters away), nor peers, nobody. No biggie, I was used to it from playing football (soccer) - I genuinely did not expect them to care. The thing that got to me was that right after my run a female classmate fell on her butt cheeks. She was as "fast" as a slug, and her f…
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/26 01:59 PM
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Life is too short to endure dead situations and waste away. About the year 4 mark you mentioned, I've read an official study by a psychologist (it was actually a female) who noticed that the most breakups, or reports that partners "no longer feel it", happen exactly on that year. It was quite the big study but it implied that biologically women seem to be wired to bond for such a period where you can make a child and it is grown up enough to no longer need the extra support (as it becomes autono…
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 07:19 AM
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Ah, I remember that story - I think you've posted a short version here, too. Here's an advice about you being depressed that she parties and seems happy - DON'T BE! In fact, count your lucky stars that you are getting away from that PROBLEM. Do you like problems, man? Just think about how problematic your current situation is and is all caused by HER. You can be certain that she will cause the same chaos eventually, wherever she goes, and so you should be happy to get rid of her, not depressed -…
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/26 04:26 AM
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Remember that she is not your problem anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/26 05:59 AM
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Remember that she is not your problem anymore. Easy!
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/26 05:51 AM
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I'll tell it to you straight - you are being too naive for your own good.
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/26 08:08 AM
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You're obviously correct. Just by how they speak it's obvious that men's lives do not matter to women (and society at large) at all. You better believe it, because when something goes wrong men are gonna be the first to be thrown under the bus, just like on Titanic and any war in history. You wish to strike that phrase from the public lexicon, and rightfully so, but not only is it not going away - it's actually morphing into "women and girls", as you correctly noticed. The coherent explanation i…
/r/MensRights30/01/26 12:35 AM
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The EU, as an institution, is not influenced by the desires of individual men. Moreover, the west has enough women - nobody cares about some Ukrainian chicks, let alone supply massive funds and effort for that. The state acts in its own interest always, but that is not women, rather it is its survival and influence. Russia poses an existential threat to the European order, and so the state will throw any amount of money to survive. It's rather straightforward.
/r/MensRights29/01/26 07:57 AM
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I'd add a gentle correction to the statement "once they're gone, they are no longer the same person anymore". The correct statement should look like "they were never the person you thought they were, but now it became obvious". People don't suddenly change because they've separated - you haven't (except becoming wiser) and she hasn't. You've been naive from the start of your whole relationship, what has changed is your current understanding.
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/26 04:06 AM
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When you answer a question or explain yourself, you are automatically taking a subservient role in the conversation. You are relaying to the other side that they have the authority to question you. In reality, you are primarily obligated to answer to your boss or to a judge (basically to whoever actually has authority over your life in some way). Silence brings the power and the authority back to you, where it belongs. If you absolutely have to fight to take control over a situation, you must av…
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/26 01:31 PM
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It's a sickening world as a whole. Your mistake was trying to believe otherwise, so when reality knocked on the door you were shocked by how ruthless it is. The better way to go forward would be to use hard and cold logic to navigate. You can't shut off emotions but surely you can avoid being their subject. See, evolution is NOT your friend. Sex drive and falling in love are coercive mechanism so you pass your genes, frequently to your detriment. Recognize mechanics that are not in your best int…
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 08:06 AM
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Your analytical mind will save your life, man. You're doing well to trust reason and statistics while not succumbing to basic emotional reasoning like "not all women are like that". Yeah, it may be so, but a simple risk vs benefit analysis reveals asymmetrical risk, which you are definitely right to notice. That's reality.
/r/MensRights31/12/25 08:12 AM
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A solid risk vs benefit analysis. It's hard for people with analytical minds to explain even a simple calculation against "not all people are like this" basic emotionally-driven arguments.
/r/MensRights31/12/25 08:07 AM
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Actually, statistics say that most people are like this with divorce rates being higher than 50%. Also, quite a lot of the remaining 50% are deeply unhappy in their marriages but remain for various reasons.
/r/MensRights31/12/25 08:02 AM
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Don't react at all - fully ignore her from now on. That gets under their skin like nothing else.
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/25 11:29 AM
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It's AI, yes - that's written at the top, though it has nothing to do with the validity of the information itself. Around the mid, after the "Update" part I also explain the context of the chat for better clarity, which is why I left it exactly as it is. The suggestions at the bottom are left because they led to the upper part of the information.
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/25 11:15 AM
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I opened the thread in a separate incognito tab to double-check and definitely do see it. Maybe try to delete your browser's cached files or open the thread with a different browser.
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/25 05:08 PM
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That's a valid warning, too xD
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/25 04:52 PM
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See after "UPDATE:" - you can use [Ctrl + F] to find it. Or just read the whole thing again and you'll stumble on it.
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/25 04:47 PM
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What? That's some flabbergasting information right there! Shocked! Thanks for all the other pointers, too! I've only recently started using ChatGPT and was amazed at how intelligent it sounds, admittedly without any understanding how it works at all. I even asked it if it was self-aware, rofl!
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/25 03:30 PM
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Oh, wow - so many books read and exams taken to become a judge, only to default to "who needs the law when I can do whatever I want". That's rich!
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/25 03:11 PM
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That's rather interesting. It is indeed sucking up to my side hard (rofl!). I have to say that it feels great :)) Though I've never tested it for objectivity.
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/25 02:49 PM
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Check it out, I answered as an update in the main topic since the reply was too long to be posted here.
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/25 02:46 PM
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You really shouldn't be too surprised by what's going on because that's standard female behavior. What is happening is that she doesn't actually like you but really likes your resources, so she will try to use daddy-government to force you into a situation where you'll be obligated to support her from distance. She will alienate your children and paint you as the villain of the story, while simultaneously eating your bread. Priceless, isn't it? Lawyer up, or better yet - leave the country and ne…
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/25 11:38 AM
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It's over. You've put way too much energy into another person instead of putting it into yourself and this is the result. You've been living in the comfortable haze of an illusion and are about to face the harsh reality of truth. Start rebuilding your life with the same passion you had for your wife, but this time do it for yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/25 01:54 PM
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Think from an evolutionary perspective. The females you see today didn't appear out of thin air - it's a long chain of survival of the fittest. To put it simply - the loyal and trustworthy women we all desire have been displaced long ago, that is if they ever existed. Death was so frequent in the past that for women to survive, given their weaker physical nature, they needed to quickly adapt to exploit the stronger gender to their advantage, which certainly doesn't include a true "ride or die" m…
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/25 11:22 AM
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I wonder how did this situation come to be exactly? Were there any signs that she'd become like this prior to your marriage? This information might help guys who read this thread.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/25 05:45 AM
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That's wild. ROFL!
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/25 06:43 PM
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It's rather straightforward, really. It means that she's no longer getting the "tingles" from you (is no longer sexually attracted to you) but wishes to keep the benefits of being in association with you. That's why women friend zone guys in the first place. It's a useful manipulative tactic from our tribal days because it means more resources and favors for her from her ever-growing friend group of people she "loves" but is not "in love with". Now, don't beat yourself over it, because losing on…
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/25 05:14 AM
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If you'd feel better about it - you'd have probably regretted making a child with any of the other females, too, for almost all share a variety of similarly toxic traits. Remember that half of all marriages end in divorce while most of the other half continue as prolonged and miserable experiences. Refusing to play this rigged and twisted game seems to be the only viable option for any person who wishes to keep his sound mind intact.
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/25 07:23 AM
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Shift your perspective with philosophy and wisdom. “If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment.” ― Marcus Aurelius, Meditations
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/25 11:55 AM
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Antidepressants won't help you if your situation is objectively bad because that's just reality. Here's an alternative - instead of unaliving yourself, the $240k you mentioned you currently have are enough for you to retire for life in my home country in the EU - Bulgaria. Go for the seaside resort sites like Nesebar or Sunny Beach and just chill. We have absolutely every convenience of any western country at 1/5 the cost or less. It's also peaceful and the infrastructure is great. That's what I…
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/25 06:53 AM
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You just need a true perspective when you look at them. The thing is - married couples may seem happy in public, but, more often than not, the relationship is full of problems underneath. Their future as a couple is almost certainly grim - infidelity, dead bedrooms (just take a look at the subreddit), financial problems, divorce and so on. The woman will use the man until she finds a different option and will then look happy with the new sap, until somebody's discarded again. So why be jealous o…
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/25 06:08 AM
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An awesome zombie analogy to remember ;)
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/25 11:48 AM
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Let me help you get a perspective on this. If Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp, Tom Brady, Jeff Bezos, and Bill Gates couldn't keep their women satisfied - what chance do you think you've got? Don't be depressed that your attempts failed - it's just how it goes. Count your lucky stars and start rebuilding your life.
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/25 11:26 AM
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It's good that she performs as an excellent teacher, at least. Though her true face is the one she shows you in the evening, making her that much more dangerous because people will believe her lies based on her school persona. Dressing to the nines and all the effort she puts into her persona is nothing more than a survival mechanism, whilst she would jump into enacting her true fantasies if the opportunity arises (as we've seen with some of the cruelty shown when people could actually do it, du…
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/25 06:09 AM
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Oh, wow, what a hellish woman - and working in the educational system at that! Emanuel Swedenborg describes hell as a state where the primary motivation is self-love, leading to a constant desire for control, power, and the manipulation and torment of others to satisfy these desires. This drive for power is unchecked by restraints found on Earth, making hell a place where individuals perpetually seek to dominate each other. The Nature of Hell: Self-Love and Power: Hell is constituted by the love…
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/25 05:37 AM
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You're cooked. They're all mentally unstable and you married the worst. Your best bet is to run for your life and never turn back.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/25 06:01 AM
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Leave her as soon as possible and count your lucky stars that you trusted your gut on the kids subject, which saved you from a lifetime of suffering and financial ruin. She's already showing psychotic traits, such as the tattoos and the anxiety - this is only going to get worse. Stop living in dreamland and realize she is your adversary who hates you. Females showing overt contempt and resentment pretty much signifies the final stages of every relationship, though you are lucky you may get relat…
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/25 03:43 PM
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You have to realize that approximately half of all marriages end in divorce, while most of the other half are ultimately reported as difficult or miserable experiences. Another woman wouldn't have solved your problem, just presented a different one, but possibly just as toxic. Choose a woman seems to be equivalent to "choose your hell" where every choice leads to suffering, while the only reasonable move seems to be to refuse to play that rigged game altogether.
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/25 05:39 AM
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"She is a master of her craft and you'll need all the help you can get. Take heed, for her passion is ten times fiercer than yours and full of madness." -from a speech by Rev. Shannon Ft. Worth, Texas 1982 (Author of "The Predatory Female"). I'd recommend you read the book.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/25 05:36 PM
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You have a gentle soul but you're deeply delusional about the true nature of women. This delusion has caused you much grief because you expect true love and affection from creatures who are absolutely unable to give it to you. The best they can do is pretend and simulate it, which is a thin veil that's easily broken when it's not necessary anymore, particularly after you've been married or otherwise trapped. Even in the Bible women are never instructed to love their men (The quote "men love your…
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/25 11:09 AM
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You've endured long enough. It's time to free yourself and find peace.
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/25 10:21 AM
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Count your lucky stars.
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/25 12:32 PM
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Realize that how she treated you really only reflects her own character. Do you think poorly of Jesus Christ for being mistreated the way he was? Basically, she was (possibly still is) an evil person for treating you the way she did. That's entirely on her. You, on the other hand, are not the same person you once were, which is why you're angry now. If you're to go back into the past would you allow her to mistreat you again - certainly not, which could only mean that the past you is actually a …
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/25 12:20 PM
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She's entering the psychotic stage. Count your lucky stars she's already your ex and block as soon as possible.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/25 06:28 AM
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Divorce before the 10th year or you could be paying alimony for life. You wife is now your adversary. For your own good - stop sharing your thoughts and intentions with your adversary.
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/25 07:31 AM
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Ever heard the phrase "Men are in love, women are in business", better believe it. I would recommend you read both "The Predatory Female" by Rev. Lawrence Shannon and "The Manipulated Man" by Esther Vilar, just so you know what you're dealing with here. After that act according to reality and not wishful thinking. The righteous WILL inherit the Earth, but that is when the Kingdom of God will be ruling over it, which is after this wicked age has passed. For now the Earth's prince is (as stated by…
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/25 05:28 AM
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Realize that these accusations are so common as to be the standard these days. It speaks volumes about the nature of the ones who make them. Rejoice, you have finally met the real creature which was hiding behind the mask of a trustworthy wife. Erase her from your mind and never look back because it is hell that awaits her, lest you get caught in it, too.
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/25 02:38 PM
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You have a very flawed way of thinking where you blame yourself for everything, basically. Fix that before it ruins you. You can't continue to blame yourself for your toxic wife and hellish son. Honestly, if I were you I'd leave them to their own devices. Save your life and sanity before it's too late.
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/25 09:23 PM
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Why bother with those women at all? It seems like a waste of time, also potentially dangerous (STDs + unwanted situations). You could just stack your resources and chill in perfect peace and freedom if you'd choose to.
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/25 10:22 AM
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This is so toxic it's hard to read. Some female playing both sides and screwing around is how people get KILLED (this is no exaggeration at all). If the other guy has any sense left in him whatsoever he'd run for his life after all that drama transpired. And so should you, too, mate - that is if you value your sanity. Get as much distance as you can (both mental and physical) from your unstable ex wife.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/25 07:50 AM
0

It's not a bug - it's a deliberately created system and is, in fact, what the majority of women want and support. Too bad they are too short-sighted to see how this is bad for them, too.
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/25 01:39 PM
8

After marriage is when her true character can finally come out. The man has been trapped so he has no recourse and she knows it. Good luck with changing the laws, they've been intentionally designed that way. It's a feature, not a bug.
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/25 10:07 AM
2

That tough, man. As is the nature of any trap, it's much easier to avoid it than to get out of it. You'd need unwavering determination and all your strength to pull through. Second guesses or giving the benefit of the doubt are to be avoided at all costs.
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/25 01:52 PM
5

It sounds wild but in actuality that's the average woman for you. Too bad you were ill informed about female nature, which is now causing you anguish. I'd suggest you read both "The Predatory Female" by Rev. Lawrence Shannon and "The Manipulated Man" by Esther Vilar. The books will help you grasp the situation and prepare for what's to come in accordance with reality this time around.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/25 05:04 PM
4

You're grasping at straws at this point. Confusing you may be the goal of the exercise since that will get you off balance and make you easier to "beat". "The concept of being "friendly" to one's enemy, as it relates to Sun Tzu's Art of War, doesn't imply genuine affection or camaraderie. Instead, it suggests a strategic approach of deception and calculated observation. Understanding the enemy, knowing their strengths and weaknesses, and using this knowledge to your advantage is paramount. Being…
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/25 07:41 PM
7

Keep making the good money, mate! I'd suggest you read both "The Predatory Female" by Rev. Lawrence Shannon and "The Manipulated Man" by Esther Vilar. The books will help you truly understand the situation and move on.
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/25 05:11 PM
1

Mate, you seem to be really disoriented on all fronts. You don't seem to have any understanding on what you're dealing with (women) whatsoever. I suggest you read both "The Predatory Female" by Rev. Lawrence Shannon and "The Manipulated Man" by Esther Vilar for starters. What you describe happened after your marriage (her becoming fat, piling up cc debt, not communicating well, etc.) is the STANDARD. It's so common as to be almost universally expected, yet you seem somehow surprised. I saw a lot…
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/25 09:30 PM
1

This is wild. For your own good and self-respect - END IT and NEVER look back. Do not listen to what anybody else will tell you (your family, her family, friends, etc.) - they will probably take her side directly or indirectly (by telling you to reconcile). Learn from this mistake and do not allow to EVER again be in the same position. The best bet is to always keep your options open and your power as a man intact. Your power as a man is in your ability to gain resources and to take all for your…
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/25 09:29 AM
5

Don't let her guilt-trip you (a common female tactic to shift the blame). It's her fault for withholding intimacy and not meeting your needs in the first place. She started it and now has the audacity to claim it's your fault. Do not feel guilty for a second and do not accept the blame for the situation. Get that creature (you never knew the real her) out of your heart and life, count your lucky stars, and get as far away as possible.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/25 06:33 AM
3

You seem to have the questionable assumption that your life would be better with a woman in it, which is causing the anguish. I'd recommend to take a deeper look around. Chances are that when a woman is finished with you, you will be living in your car, rather than your house, and still be lonely, thus you'd be in a worse position than your current one. I sympathize with how you feel but finding a loyal woman doesn't seem to be an attainable reality (it's rather a self-projected delusion on thei…
/r/MensRights20/06/25 06:22 AM
1

I understand your reasoning. However, the thing to remember is that your marriage is a contract between you and the state. As with any contract, it's imperative for you to be fully aware of what you're getting yourself into. Let me get to those points: Not necessarily, though you'd have to live together without being married. You'd have to ask yourself why is it hard to find a girl who is willing to live with you without being married? I'd suggest that the answer is not because of high morality …
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 11:17 PM
1

You're rightfully feeling uneasy going forward with this. “Only a fool learns from his own mistakes. The wise man learns from the mistakes of others.” ― Otto von Bismarck Take a look at what's going on around you and learn from the mistakes of others. Your guaranteed best move would be to call the whole thing off.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 07:03 PM
8

Remember the most "romantic" movie of them all - Titanic. https://youtu.be/R0f30fWED8c Who would find the death of someone they love romantic and enjoyable? One who is completely self-centered and devoid of both compassion and any grounded self-image. Females do not seem to have any grounded self-image, thus what others are willing to do for them becomes the measure by which females estimate their own self-worth. And what bigger power play than having someone kill himself or kill others for you?…
/r/MGTOW29/05/21 01:27 PM
1

Jon Lajoie to the rescue: https://youtu.be/ijr4rwb2WbE
/r/MGTOW06/10/20 09:55 AM
1

This is certainly real. Only one thing you need to know - the name of Jesus Christ drives away all demonic entities. Try it out next time, it works. Check this out: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NXR3N2C2k0w Extended version: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JxEzdto-8OI Howard Storm: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FWAhVInPUWs Extended version: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xT0LbPPOqnE&t A psychiatrist with over 35 years of experience talking about the nature of the voices of Schizophrenics, s…
/r/MGTOW16/08/20 07:43 AM
6

Oh man, what a horror story.. I can't believe you endured even half of that before pulling the plug.
/r/MGTOW02/08/20 08:51 AM
1

Hamster wheel overdrive alert! Note that after the overdrive she'd just restart her flawed reasoning once again, as if nothing happened.
/r/MGTOW01/08/20 07:29 AM
2

“If someone can prove me wrong and show me my mistake in any thought or action, I shall gladly change. I seek the truth, which never harmed anyone: the harm is to persist in one's own self-deception and ignorance.” ― Marcus Aurelius, Meditations
/r/MGTOW31/07/20 10:38 PM
12

Sigh, I just couldn't bring myself to lie without any remorse and my consciousness convicting me. I knew for years that lying would be very beneficial in terms of getting what I wanted from women but just couldn't compromise my character.
/r/MGTOW26/07/20 05:57 AM
14

It's amazeballs! One of all time favs.
/r/MGTOW25/07/20 04:53 PM
2

I'd leave the country and never look back.
/r/MGTOW25/07/20 08:24 AM
7

🤣🤣 🤣🤣 🤣
/r/MGTOW22/07/20 12:48 PM
1

Are you sure you are the actual father? Like DNA-test sure. I tell you this because one attempt is statistically very unlikely to produce a child. She may have waited for your one attempt at making a child so she could use that as a cover and make several attempts with another guy. It's a thing that has happened to a lot of guys in the past and is a well documented female behavior.
/r/MGTOW21/07/20 07:28 AM
63

Females will be used as bait by gangs in order to infiltrate and rob preppers and even whole communities in apocalyptic settings (just like a Trojan Horse). It would be advisable to never trust a single female.
/r/MGTOW20/07/20 11:04 AM
1

Hey man, I highly recommend you listen through this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NATTWtsmoUw . It may help out a lot.
/r/MGTOW18/07/20 09:02 AM
1

There is no cow level rofl.
/r/MGTOW07/07/20 04:26 PM
2

kid > woman > man. A little correction here. The pecking order society instills seems to be "woman > kid > man". You can use the Titanic tragedy as an example. When the ship was sinking people were shouting "Women and Children first", in that particular order. As a percentage, more women were saved than children. Also, women are given rights to kill unborn children at will (through abortion).
/r/MGTOW07/07/20 11:47 AM
4

Remember, she's genuine and decent.. until she isn't. A lot of guys thought they had a unicorn for many years (some up to 30+).. before she turned on them. So when some guy appears preaching about how he has found a unicorn and she has been wonderful for 11 years (yadda, yadda) I say give it more time. It ain't over yet.
/r/MGTOW24/06/20 03:07 PM
27

Velvet from Tales of Berseria, Jill Valentine from Resident Evil, Billie Lurk from Dishonored: Death of the Outsider, etc.
/r/MGTOW23/06/20 05:00 AM
9

Don't give her too much credit, Mathiya. You're thinking as a man and applying your values over her actions. The most probable reason for her dumping him is not her being introspective, remorseful, or realizing he deserves better, but her selfish desires. The proof is that she DID want to go back with OP after her affair didn't work out.
/r/MGTOW10/06/20 08:22 AM
9

Not a single word was said on what she's doing FOR him or how SHE plans to benefit HIS life. True love right there!
/r/MGTOW20/05/20 08:31 PM
1

A lot of breakups happen around the 4th year. It's both statistically confirmed and scientifically explained at this point. Check this out: "Biochemical research points to a natural four-year sexual cycle for the human female. This apparently allows enough time after childbirth for the average mother in a state of savagery to regain her ability to survive without male provisioning. In the absence of any system of marriage, a woman’s natural tendency is to “liberate” herself from her mate after t…
/r/MGTOW18/05/20 11:13 PM
2

But "mUh eMoTiOnAL laBoUr"!! Seriously, what does that even mean?
/r/MGTOW18/05/20 10:22 PM
1

He gave her too long of an explanation, which immediately weakens his position (as it implies he cares enough as to lose his time to explain himself to her).
/r/MGTOW02/05/20 09:31 AM
1

None taken ;) It is indeed an extremely lengthy argument that we won't even begin exhausting here. Cheers!
/r/MGTOW30/04/20 09:46 PM
1

I'd have loved for you to explain how is it that it discredits it, but we do get off topic.
/r/MGTOW30/04/20 09:23 PM
2

Science does not discredit God in any way, shape, or form.
/r/MGTOW30/04/20 09:13 PM
1

But God is real. Your senses are so limited you're blind to most of the actual reality even in our own dimension (such as radio waves and the invisible spectrum of light). So what made you the final authority on the existence of God? And if you'd like to argue that atheism is actually "true science", it is far from it. The greatest minds our planet has ever seen, such as Einstein, Newton, and Tesla did believe in God, and for a good reason.
/r/MGTOW30/04/20 09:03 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=48H34ukFe8g
/r/MGTOW22/04/20 10:11 AM
0

Pray to our lord and savior Jesus Christ, who is well and alive today, and is ready to help if you'd humbly ask.
/r/MGTOW14/04/20 03:53 PM
2

And their ONLY strategy seems to be "UP YOUR STANDARDS, QUEEN!". The very opposite they should do given the fact their SMV is plummeting with every passing day.
/r/MGTOW04/04/20 07:10 PM
4

You might be oppressed by the spirit of depression. It's exactly why these thoughts are beyond your control (since their origin is not in you). Take a look: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JK5wx2tQR5M https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UB2bHMYo2Gc
/r/MGTOW25/03/20 03:06 PM
2

Let me get this straight. If the statistics were reversed there would have been cries about oppressive patriarchy and men would have been painted as monsters stopping women from succeeding. Quotas would have been demanded about equal representation. Now that men have the issues (at least on paper) men are laughed at and blamed for their "lack of success". Do you see anywhere ANY suggestion of maybe helping men? The hypocrisy levels are off the charts.
/r/MGTOW08/03/20 05:57 PM
1

Ah, but according to FDS you are a LVM so they'll say they don't even want a guy like you. I've noticed that they don't actually rate guys objectively (based on their wealth, fame, success..) but they rate guys on their willingness to share that success. For the FDS females (and in general) it's ALL about THEM, and how it relates to THEM. Thus, you being objectively successful doesn't make you a HVM in their eyes, not unless they can leech off you. So you refusing to share your money with them w…
/r/MGTOW04/03/20 05:17 PM
22

A lot of breakups happen around the 4th year. It's both statistically confirmed and scientifically explained at this point. Check this out: "Biochemical research points to a natural four-year sexual cycle for the human female. This apparently allows enough time after childbirth for the average mother in a state of savagery to regain her ability to survive without male provisioning. In the absence of any system of marriage, a woman’s natural tendency is to “liberate” herself from her mate after t…
/r/MGTOW01/01/20 06:25 PM
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