RevealingPanda Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	Women do prefer nice guys... but only if they're mature and self-respecting enough to value stability and character over all else Every time I see someone talk about the "nice guys" archetype it kinda makes me cringe. People like to simply things into less complex structures so they can more easily understand the problem they are trying to solve. With the "nice guy" thing specifically, what happens is that you lose the purpose of trying to understand attraction and desirsbility out of sight in favor of mentally being able to "put things into boxes". Women aren't lying when they say they want a guy that's generally nice. I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/24 10:56 AM
1	Men. In the following either or scenarios, which man would you advise a woman to choose? My issue with hypothetical like these is that they severely limit the decision making to absolute rules that are stippel away of the nuance that daily life brings. For instance.. Assuming the cheating isn't premeditated, is the guy struggling with having to restrain his desires in a life where he's never had to do that? Is he overcome by weakness or deliberately disregarding his partnership in favor of physical desires? Real life is never an organized array of absolutes. The properties a person …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/24 10:42 AM
1	Why should a man focus on building up his personality(as long as he has basic social skills) when there are 4 or 5 other factors that are more important to attracting a woman? Because attracting women doesn't provide happiness. Trying to find happiness in partnership is a fools errand. Only partnerships where both parties have learned to create their own happiness to share with another are viable and worth having.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/24 09:19 PM
1	50/50 should be the norm, anyone who think otherwise is entitled. Drizzle drizzle "awmygawd I totally missed that teehee lol I'm such a hoot!"	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/24 03:21 PM
1	50/50 should be the norm, anyone who think otherwise is entitled. Drizzle drizzle I guess "one day" is not gonna be today then	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/24 01:58 PM
-1	50/50 should be the norm, anyone who think otherwise is entitled. Drizzle drizzle No worries, you're not the only one struggling with self reflection. You'll get there one day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/24 01:13 PM
2	50/50 should be the norm, anyone who think otherwise is entitled. Drizzle drizzle No worries, you're not the only one struggling with self reflection. You'll get there one day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/24 01:12 PM
4	50/50 should be the norm, anyone who think otherwise is entitled. Drizzle drizzle So, I am a bit conflicted on this. I've followed the drizzle drizzle thing and on one hand I am completely in agreement with it, until I put my own views onto it and then suddenly it stops. I agree with the 50/50 but not across the board, but more so in effort. I make good money. I've worked hard for that. I also want a family and children and everything. I am not looking for a woman that makes the same as I do so that we can both work and both look after the kids. I'd rather have my woman spend…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/24 01:01 PM
4	50/50 should be the norm, anyone who think otherwise is entitled. Drizzle drizzle Must be comfy in that bubble of moral superiority.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/24 12:50 PM
2	Red Pillers of Reddit, how often do you think a man should say 'I love you' to his girlfriend/wife, and how often should he say romantic things to her? I'm of the school of thought where feeling like you need to say it is your brain giving you a clue that it's a good time to show it instead. I barely say it, but I try to align myself with her goals, invest my time in helping her grow, and try to understand her needs without her having to speak them out loud. If she doesn't feel loved then saying the words won't make it happen either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 09:37 PM
1	Is it really easier to find romantic relationships as a straight woman? Oh I'm not denying it's true, and I am very for directly telling men this so they can face themselves and understand that they owe themselves to strive past mediocrity. So it's hardly hurting if I can absolutely agree on it. It's the part where the way you expressed it clearly shows some underdeveloped personality traits. You're in a position of privilege here. You're right, those men don't gatekeep shit. Aren't you the mighty queen with all the control? If you were a bit more confident you woul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/24 10:58 PM
0	Is it really easier to find romantic relationships as a straight woman? Aren't you the gracious type	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/24 08:43 PM
2	Accountability is redpill's kryptonite as it's mostly there to seethe 😂😂😂 Hahaha you too boo. Give hubby a hummer for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/24 12:22 AM
2	Accountability is redpill's kryptonite as it's mostly there to seethe Yeah that seems to be the common fear, but I have no clue what kind of men you date. I don't know a single person who would do something so outrageous. Also, if it was more common, it wouldn't be so impact full. Also I thought yall ladies had emancipation and some shit? 😂 Square up. Give the man a good hook and he's cold.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/24 12:02 AM
2	Accountability is redpill's kryptonite as it's mostly there to seethe Truth be told I do think there would be less whining if women would just be honest instead of trying to spare a man's ego. "I'm sorry but you're boring as fuck, go be more interesting" is a lot more helpful than "don't worry! You'll find the one!"	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 11:55 PM
3	Most things in dating that men complain about are caused by men themselves Hey! Stop victim blaming!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 11:48 PM
2	Is it really easier to find romantic relationships as a straight woman? Women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of commitment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 11:46 PM
1	Accountability is redpill's kryptonite as it's mostly there to seethe Afraid it has always been that way. That's what is called the "red pill rage". Young, often misguided men find TRP, which explains a lot to them. Sadly, this newfound knowledge is then used as fuel for their unwavering ego to say "see? I'm not the problem!" You're a woman. You could not give a flying fuck about boys complaining about never getting laid. You have no trouble finding interesting, mysterious, hot, or even passionate men to get laid with. If these sad men want to spend their lives co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 11:41 PM
1	Accountability is redpill's kryptonite as it's mostly there to seethe You're describing exactly what blue pill men are like when they have recently discovered redpill. Redpill is about full accountability. It's about recognizing "what is" and finding your way through it. Men that discover how it really is through redpill are often still bluepill and use these facts to externalize their problems, happily skipping over the parts where it tell you to find accountability in yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 08:11 PM
1	CMV: A man who has done extensive research on women and relationships but has not really been involved with them knows FAR MORE than a man who has lots experience with women without looking at studies and research. A man who only thinks, has nothing to think about but thoughts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/24 01:02 AM
2	There are a lot more certain attractive qualities a man must have compared to a woman in order to have a healthy and fulfilling relationship. People really be pulling ideas out of their ass and presenting them as facts these days.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 02:44 PM
2	There are a lot more certain attractive qualities a man must have compared to a woman in order to have a healthy and fulfilling relationship. I wouldn't say "value" is the right choice of words here. Men can commit to every woman that has sex with them. Women can have sex with any man that approaches them. Naturally both sides value hat they have less access to more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/24 02:03 AM
11	There are a lot more certain attractive qualities a man must have compared to a woman in order to have a healthy and fulfilling relationship. Or... Men are less selective. Far too often do I see men end up with women who aren't good to them, don't respect them, use or abuse them, and end up in never ending cycles of chasing horrible women. Scarcity is not an excuse for your underdeveloped ideals and vetting skills. Hold. Them. Accountable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/24 01:32 AM
4	Direct Approach: “can I sit down here?” You conquer her chair by slowly sliding past her back until your body forces her off it. Then, when you've established dominance you bow over her, squirming over the ground, and say "you may have a seat".	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/24 01:30 AM
2	Post-Wall women who date previously looked over men will never be able to prove they love these men. Let me... No	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 08:42 PM
2	There is honestly no need to have kids, enter a long term relationship or become married anymore as a man Bit biased if you specifically use term "need", and then leave put the desire for men to reproduce. I'd consider my child's existence and well-being as part of my needs. Spinning plates however is not really my thing. I've enjoyed it a bit in the past but once red pill taught be to accept women for who they are I've managed to be more selective and found someone that shares my values with whom I'm now building a pretty awesome life with. I see self proclaimed redpillers often come down from cons…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 08:34 PM
2	Post-Wall women who date previously looked over men will never be able to prove they love these men. Wait, are you actually implying women can only be people, not things? I can express anything as an object of desire, except women? I'd refer to a man in that context in the same way. I'm a non native speaker that is perfectly comfortable with his level of English. What's what I am. What I also am is severely under impressed with the way you spend your time. If this is the height of your online discourse imma opt out✌️	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 08:28 PM
0	Post-Wall women who date previously looked over men will never be able to prove they love these men. "what they are" spans beyond their personality, And the ad hominem makes you come across very insecure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 06:04 PM
2	Post-Wall women who date previously looked over men will never be able to prove they love these men. Interesting. So then I have 2 questions for you. How do you suppose young men work on their own value during their younger years if they are distracted by trying to seek partnership in a time where they are deemed less attractive? Wouldnt this diminish their chances to be of higher value later? While women are more attractive in their younger years, would you say they have plenty of opportunities to find suitable partnership? Doesn't a post-wall woman signal that she she either: a. Is troubled b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 03:45 PM
0	Post-Wall women who date previously looked over men will never be able to prove they love these men. Yes.. I fail to see your point. I agree with it younger women seeking older men. I also agree with older men seeking younger women. It's blue pill men that whine about that 😂 Younger men are lonely? Good. Women in that stage of your life are a distraction. You're supposed to be a provider yet you want to spend all those years on women instead of making yourself successful and desirable? Nah. Younger men should be lonely to work on themselves Younger women and older men being together is fine Old…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 01:23 PM
2	Post-Wall women who date previously looked over men will never be able to prove they love these men. "younger" is part of who they are..	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 11:22 AM
1	People are way too obsessed with finding happiness and it's one of the reasons why relationships are in such a poor place. I wouldn't say it's stoicism. I don't think there's anything wrong with expressing excitement. Do you know what a sine-wave is? You could represent our highs and lows throughout life as a sine wave. Giving in to the highs of excitement and the lows of hardships are 2 sides of the same coin. It makes for a very volatile life and that comes at the cost of mental and emotional stability, which in turn wrecks havoc on finding peace and balance. I guess perhaps it has some elements of stoicism, as yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/24 06:10 PM
6	People are way too obsessed with finding happiness and it's one of the reasons why relationships are in such a poor place. OK so, let me give you my take on this after a heavy life of rather big ups and downs. What I've noticed is that happiness is misunderstood. People confuse happiness with excitement often, and this confusion is found in people that are "chasing" it. People find it in materialism, seeking approval, control, a lot of things. I am happy. Ofcourse I still enjoy materialism a bit (who wouldn't be excited for a new car? Or some gadgets) but I don't see it as the source of my happiness. My happiness ac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/24 02:05 PM
1	If promiscuous women are so low value, why would you still want to have sex with them? Because we want to commit to women that we think highly of. Having sex with them has little to do with that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/24 08:15 PM
3	Do women find game development attractive? Being passionate about something unapologetically is a marker for attraction though. But agreed. If you're a fat, unwashed neckbeard with a passion it's not going to save you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/24 03:07 AM
1	Are older single women truly the happiest? A 35 year old woman is not post wall for a 40 year old man. Ehhh agree to disagree. Even men in their 40s have less trouble finding partners in their late 20s/early 30s than 35 year old women. There are great disparities to be found amongst the preferable ages of people across age ranges. I'm not saying this is a bad thing. Younger men tend to be as lonely as older women. Would you disagree that, considering the perspective of the opposite sex, women are in their prime in their early 20s, and me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 10:08 PM
1	Are older single women truly the happiest? Man I must've really hurt your feelings lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 09:59 PM
1	Are older single women truly the happiest? Why is that my responsibility?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 07:44 PM
1	Are older single women truly the happiest? Damn, the length you go not having to admit you misread me is wild. You do you boo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 07:34 PM
1	Are older single women truly the happiest? Yes, I said that. I didn't claim it was proof for women being less happy. This is why people are having a hard time arguing with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 07:23 PM
0	Are older single women truly the happiest? Sorry, I understand the confusion... With "older", I mean "post-wall"	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 07:22 PM
-1	Are older single women truly the happiest? you are saying that the proof that women are unhappy is that they post about how unhappy they are. Maybe we can have a healthy discussion about the subject, but I'd rather engage in that with you after you've proven that you can read, because nowhere did I claim that. I'd rather not play chess with pigeons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 06:44 PM
-1	Are older single women truly the happiest? I think neither are a win. Who's trying to turn this into a "win"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 06:41 PM
-2	Are older single women truly the happiest? I don't get your point. You're saying older couples don't do that? Older women, both with or without companion, travel the world and have brunches and whatever. I don't see how this connect with the subject.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 05:21 PM
0	Are older single women truly the happiest? No I was actually referencing to the plethora of women that have pursued a career and are wondering at age 35 why they can't settle. I haven't seen many trad-cons complain, most videos I see of them is about "the home life" and hoe they take car of their household. They don't look unhappy tbf.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 05:14 PM
4	Are older single women truly the happiest? I don't know what that sentiment is based on. What I can say though is that single older women complain the most on social media (i.e. "where did all the good men go"). Men are treated harsher in today's society. We are told to suck it up and confronted with our own failures more often. I think that being confronted with your own failures is a good thing regardless of gender, but where for women it's acceptable to give and seek comfort in hardships, this same act is stigmatized for men. As a res…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 04:41 PM
–	Why are women so aggressively worried about being murdered by men? Results that confirm taken measures are literally the source of confidence. How did you miss that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 04:34 PM
1	As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts? So, purely out of curiosity, you dont see any value in being social? Would you consider yourself more anti social then? And what about status? You don't see a benefit in being seen as a contributor to society, or an expert in your personal field of choice? I can definitely accept how you don't see personal benefits to being wealthy, even though it seems a bit unfathomable to me. I have people that I love and that I want to take care of and provide for, and being wealthy helps me do that in a sub…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 03:14 PM
1	As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts? I think what my post implies that they have overlap, which yeah I stand behind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 01:45 AM
2	As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts? That's the point I'm trying to make. You don't improve for the sake of others. If you're doing all those things without it bettering your life you're obviously not doing it for your own good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 11:21 AM
-2	All men are predators? Or irrational fear? You will not be able to make someone understand something if their pay check is dependent on them not understanding.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 12:47 AM
6	As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts? What everyone seems to be missing is that you don't improve yourself for others. You become more fit to be more fit. You develop interesting hobbies because you want to enjoy things. You become more socially skilled to start enjoying social encounters. You become the best version of yourself because it's enjoyable to be that version, and then if you end up finding someone who likes you the that's great. The idea that you "lose yourself" my improving yourself is a bit childish. What is meant with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 12:45 AM
0	A woman pushing for commitment can leave a man feeling the same way a man pushing for sex makes a woman feel I can appreciate this. You don't owe anyone anything and if you're not just looking for sex then being upfront about your expectations is the best way. Maybe a little tangent here, but one could argue that "yeah but women have options so if they choose the hottest guys then no one else gets laid" and yeah I guess that might be perceived as a problem by blue pill men. That privilege of selection belongs to the first gatekeepers. That being said, men don't have to deal with the type that promises …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/24 08:18 PM
1	Why are women so aggressively worried about being murdered by men? What in the cognitive dissonance is this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/24 08:03 PM
1	Some redpill beliefs are more delusional than the average person. Right, because implication just simply doesn't exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/24 08:59 AM
-2	Why are women so aggressively worried about being murdered by men? Victims of murder are overwhelmingly male Victims of robbery are overwhelmingly male Victims of aggravated assault are overwhelmingly male The question is why women feel so "endangered" when they have the least chance of being harmed?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/24 12:12 AM
0	Do single dads ever request or desire for a woman to "step up"? 😁	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/24 12:07 PM
0	Do single dads ever request or desire for a woman to "step up"? blue pill woman Figured	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/24 11:29 AM
-2	Men are not blindsided by breakups/divorce as much as they think The elevated vocabulary, opinion-structured attack, and seemingly ambivalent moral kick in the groin makes it look like youve become a pro at stroking your ego with feelings of superiority. This is your character, isn't it? Going out there with an arsenal of years-spent-crafting snaps and responses, and then whatever response a man has, attack his masculinity because of however they responded to you. Sorry boo. That's called narcicism. Check in with your psychiatrist. Leave me out of your scheme…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 09:54 PM
-5	Men are not blindsided by breakups/divorce as much as they think She stayed after the first time.. That's the vetting... That's the promise of commitment she never delivered on	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 09:50 PM
1	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? Just take the hit	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 09:49 PM
0	Men are not blindsided by breakups/divorce as much as they think Holy fuck. We've come full circle. Look at the first comment on this thread.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 08:04 PM
-1	Men are not blindsided by breakups/divorce as much as they think Like women with high body counts? Or women with children? Agreed	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 07:53 PM
1	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? I dare you to let your ego just take the hit	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 07:52 PM
1	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? Hmm yes, tell me more of this narrative of yours. Show me the ways in which you're trying to hurt me. Feels good, right? Right? Pathetic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 06:34 PM
–	Men are not blindsided by breakups/divorce as much as they think I’m transactional for considering my fiancé who’s kind and mature an “upgrade”. That’s hilarious. Strawman You're transactional for trading flawed men like baseball cards. I bet that if I asked your ex he would have considered you emotionally abusive. Hurt isn't the same for everyone. Sometimes all it takes is someone looking past your flaws to help you achieve becoming a better version of yourself. If love isn't enough foe you to show that trait, then you will never contribute to a man what a m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 06:32 PM
1	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? My entertainment? Can anyone really?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 06:28 PM
1	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? Stop desperately trying to find a position in which you're superior. Your insecurities are leaking. It's embarrassing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 06:24 PM
0	Do single dads ever request or desire for a woman to "step up"? Imagine how tonedeaf you must be if you look at this sub and think it's skewed towards men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 06:23 PM
1	Do single dads ever request or desire for a woman to "step up"? Dip like you always do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 06:21 PM
-2	Men are not blindsided by breakups/divorce as much as they think upgrade Proving my point. Women's love is transactional. I didn’t owe it to him to allow myself to be verbally abused and threatened. There's never a perspective but your own, right? I stopped giving a fuck about his growth after that point. Bet mother Mary never got herself in situations like that. Your character assessment may have been entirely right, but if you, the love of his life didn't even bother to contribute to his mental problems, why the fuck would anyone else?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 06:20 PM
2	Do single dads ever request or desire for a woman to "step up"? Where he used an example of a woman's behavior that you used to justify bashing men, retreating like a coward from the conversation when brought back to the original example of women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 05:55 PM
-8	Do single dads ever request or desire for a woman to "step up"? Can you read the first sentence?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 05:52 PM
-3	Men are not blindsided by breakups/divorce as much as they think Your personal example actually highlights your flawed way of thinking. The man you loved obviously has issues with regulating his emotions, but instead of giving him the chance to work on it helping him realize the errors in his ways, you drew a line in the sand which you knew he was stepping over, and then judged him for not performing in a way he was never taught. I think you might be taking the opportunities you've had to deal with emotions in life for granted. Men are not given things like u…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 05:52 PM
-6	Do single dads ever request or desire for a woman to "step up"? I think that sums it up nicely. You're all to eager to discuss the flaws of men, but when women portray these flaws in even greater numbers your willingness to discuss ends. Like a junkie finding for a needle, you're an addict for comfort.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 05:46 PM
1	Some redpill beliefs are more delusional than the average person. Well, according to your own words you have done the same thing. You've traded your prison for a prison of rejection where everything can be considered a selling point for X, or bullshit juice for Y. I agree that seeking an absolute behind the theory is a blue pill danger, but clichés are clichés for a reason. Your basis of rejection is also just a technique to elevate yourself so that you can consider yourself enlightened. Recognizing ones own flaws and wanting to improve on them is the natural …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 05:41 PM
1	Some redpill beliefs are more delusional than the average person. Men age like wine. You are perceiving external beauty as much of a dominant factor in women as it is in men. This is false. Desire for women is less superficial than that of men, and intelligence, mannerisms, and attributes linked to the role of a provider matter much more in women than it does in men. This is why you can see absolutely ugly men sometimes pull the hottest girls. It's also one of the underlying reasons why smut books are almost exclusively read by women Spinning plates This is ac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 04:23 PM
1	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? How tonedeaf must you be if it's 2024 and you still not realize the specific ways that make you seem like an absolute donut online. But to be fair I don't think that's it. I think it has to do with impulse control. This overzealous mannerism of seeing something incorrect and just not being able to help yourself typing in your cognitive excrements into reddit. It's a neurotic tendency that is commonly found in autistic people. It's the exact reason what kept you replying. It's the exact reason yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 03:57 PM
3	Do single dads ever request or desire for a woman to "step up"? The opposite is even past meme status. Women trying to find another baby daddy to stack on top of the existing ones, and then still claim they are "high value women"	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 02:23 PM
1	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? Well, I'm not the one trying to feel some shred of superiority by being an annoying grammar nazi 😂 If you're trying to provoke a pissing contest you better make sure your bladder is full.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 02:18 PM
1	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? Ofcourse, and it was visible from the link, and still you went and checked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 08:50 AM
1	do you guys people who can fight? Well hello there Good Job Detective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 02:13 PM
1	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? Made you look	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 02:02 PM
1	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? Are you sure? Google says anekdotal https://www.google.com/search?q=anekdotal&oq=anekdotal&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUyBggAEEUYOTIJCAEQABgKGIAEMgkIAhAAGAoYgAQyCQgDEAAYChiABDIJCAQQABgKGIAEMgkIBRAAGAoYgAQyCQgGEAAYChiABDIHCAcQABiABDIJCAgQABgKGIAEMgkICRAAGAoYgAQyCQgKEAAYChiABDIJCAsQABgKGIAEMgkIDBAAGAoYgAQyCQgNEAAYChiABDIJCA4QABgKGIAE0gEIMTgzOGowajmoAgCwAgA&client=tablet-android-samsung-ss&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8&chrome_dse_attribution=1	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 12:08 PM
0	do you guys people who can fight? You slow	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 05:23 AM
1	do you guys people who can fight? Yo are you slow?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 05:19 AM
1	Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris” I ain't reading all that. You way too needy	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 09:23 PM
1	do you guys people who can fight? Leave it to a woman to be absolutely incapable of getting past the fact that it wasn't about them. 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 08:54 PM
2	do you guys people who can fight? That's the point. Neither did the title, so I responded in the same way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 07:00 PM
1	If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women? Bouyakasha	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 05:47 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread I cna imagine the tiktok guy "guywiththelist" swiping his screen and writing down Don't play fortnite	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 01:51 PM
1	do you guys people who can fight? I don't guys often people that can fight. Mostly fight can people when they have options. Being in options makes fight not a guy, except when fights do. Only when guys fight can, can people guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 01:47 PM
1	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? You can't help it can you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 01:34 PM
1	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? By now this has mostly become a game of seeing how far your cognitive dissonance goes. I pity your man. Maybe he should benefit a bit from some red pill theory.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 01:34 PM
1	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? I sense a subconscious urge to open your mouth for me. Perhaps we should save that for the second date. I'm not a whore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 12:03 PM
1	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? This woman dancing around self reflection like a vampire. Impressive how you've turned cognitive dissonance into an art form. You've been an amazing source of entertainment, and a prime example of the pitfalls of attempting healthy discourse with women. Best of luck, lady!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 12:02 PM
2	Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris” So instead of something came up, you would have preferred. This date sucks, we don’t really like each other, I’m going to go. Opposite extremes. No, truthfully, I would love to hear "hey, this date is not turning out the way I have hoped it would. I don't think we are a match but I'd wish you best of luck in your search for companionship." And optionally perhaps even a reason why, or what made them lose interest. I'd consider this both graceful and direct. Do you disagree?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 11:56 AM
1	How would you describe “lady game”? And you by no chance are willing to attribute this to the fact that women have certain desires, and men have been failing to understand these desires for a long time? I think for anyone who would be able to truthfully say they love women, would have to inadvertently also love women for what they are. If these complained-about patterns are so prevalent, can you really say you love women if you reject these?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 11:52 AM
1	Do most people get married just to get married? Well, yeah, I think that's the whole point of self actualization. You focus on yourself to find out what your values, morals, and principles. When you have a clear imagine of who you want to be the actualization part starts. I don't think I'd like to make the case that traditional values are for everyone. That being said, I think there is so much misunderstanding around the concept of traditional values. People who consider themselves traditional can cherry pick the values in their benefit, and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 11:47 AM
2	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? It's not what I meant. But I'm willing to admit I misspoke. Doesn't change the fact that you're still delusional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 11:05 AM
1	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? Ah, gotcha. No I agree, they put a lot of effort into "feeling good", but that's imho where in the problem lies, and something that TRP definitely can't be found guilty of.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 03:38 AM
1	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? Just shut up and kiss me already	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 03:34 AM
2	Do most people get married just to get married? No, i consider men who have spent at least 2 years extra on improving themselves in a better position to lead. I'm sorry, are my saggy balls blocking your hearing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 03:32 AM
1	Do most people get married just to get married? Oh no it's all good, I just don't think the oversimplificstion honors the values. Trsditionsl values, to me, means a household where the man carries out the role of the provider, and the woman acts as head of the household. Both roles are equally valued but equality is given up on. Mom is free to pick up a drill from the garage but it is expected that dad knows how it works and can teach. Emotional development is a subject that the mother has authority in, while ambitious development rests on th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 03:31 AM
2	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? Lady... "your" was in the plural sense. English is my 3rd language so excuse me if I'm not entertaining attacks on my form of speech. Your argument against unfair advantage was... Drumroll... College admissions And then you followed up with an anekdote, revealing you're part of the generation that fucked it all up for the rest, being blatantly unaware that even "double income no kids" families are struggling, and ignoring the implications that such a career focused family has on the bonding and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 03:23 AM
2	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? So... Let's see. Your comment starts by moving the goalpost. Then you miss the point of forming unity by implying it can be approached through individualism. You follow it up with the plan you have when splitting up, admitting that in relationships you're planning for failure. Then you make assumptions on my personal behavior by discriminating my views. A classic ad hominem. Then you miss the entire point again by implying I wouldn't be OK with a division of assets if she has dedicated her life …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 03:14 AM
1	How would you describe “lady game”? I get what you're saying but therein lies my dispute. I don't think hard to get is "being disinterested", it's "feigning disinterest" and the difference between those two is where the dance happens and the fun begins.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 03:02 AM
2	Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris” Right... I'm making word salad.. And ofcourse, compared to an argument about mustard in tuna salad. All because it is absolutely not understandable that the guy would have preferred directness, and that it's a decent thing to give someone the respect to be direct with them. Coming up with an excuse implies his ego is too fragile to handle rejection.. But that's... Coocoo. No that's completely unreasonable. I agree. I can not make my argument simpler than this. It feels like I've dumbed it down a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 03:00 AM
1	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? Holy shit... Yeah that can definitely be a very creative way to interpret that. Feminism gave women what they desired, and that's all that it has ever been about. There are no global movements that could be considered "self-centered" the way that feminism can. Feminism was never about self reflection. It's pure focus was to acquire more for women. More rights, more freedom, more comfort. Now before you out in your suit of armor and try to hang me for saying that, I'm not questioning the merit of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 02:51 AM
2	Do most people get married just to get married? Woman... That is exactly what I said. Perhaps if you could stop hyper fixating your attention on my "saggy balls" you could have actually understood that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 02:44 AM
1	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? That "if I don't have the last word my self esteem will drop". Pathetic 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 02:42 AM
1	Do most people get married just to get married? I don't think those are traditional values, and to present them like how you did is highly disrespectful. My wife staying at home raising our kids as the head of the household is the sole reason I work 50 hours a week to make sure they have all they need. Equally-valued roles. Equally weighed opinions. Authority in your role and advisor in eachother's.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 02:40 AM
2	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? Articles, and anekdotal evidence. Emotionally loaded opinions. Yeah miss I'm sorry but I can't take this serious. Cry to someone else about some college admissions 😂. Cuck husband couldn't handle his own shit so he sent his wife out to make his money. Pathetic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 02:37 AM
1	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? Lmao what. So if it's ours, it's not mine? But you want to develop a career to secure YOUR financial future? Your cognitive dissonance is leaking. Yes. Half your shit. But not just that, also custody, and in the worst cases you don't even get half, you get a weekend every 2 weeks. Divorce is heavily skewed towards women. Checked your source... 1. The same source claims that according to studies, married women with kids are happier than women that have chosen to follow a career path instead. 😂 2.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 02:29 AM
1	Do most people get married just to get married? Woman learn how to read before embarrassing yourself. 1. Nowhere did I state that age gaps had to be wider 2. The thought that women prefer same-age men over older men (even if the difference is as little as 2 years) is simply not backed by the data and and preposterous thought for anyone with eyes. 3. Men do not value financial contribution over homemaker qualities. Men generally are OK with their provider role. You came in here acting sassy and made a complete fool out of yourself. Save yourse…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 02:10 AM
1	Do most people get married just to get married? I think the aim would be to normalize it. We would have way less problems in society if we did. Rape for instance would be seen as the desperate, weak, and dishonorable act that it is more. Men being angry about women would more naturally find pushbaxk from developed men. Women complaining about "where are all the good men" would be confronted with traditional values and happy couples. The thing is that people who are happy don't have to feel "heard". Why would they? They are happy. The fuck do …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 01:13 AM
2	How would you describe “lady game”? What will it take for you to become convinced the reason why hard to get is desirable to women, is why high value man desire it too? I'm sorry mate but if I approach a girl and she preemptively lays on her back for me and starts opening her blouse it's kinda done for me. Where is the hunt? Where is the game we play to best eachother sensually? Where is the verbal, physical, and emotional dance that lasts us through the evening, where every step can be the difference between stepping outside or i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 01:08 AM
0	How would you describe “lady game”? Agreed. The men that complain are the men that are intimidated by the "hard to get"-routine, but you ladies do have to admit that 1. You're not making the boundaries between "no is no" and "oh my god stop it you're so bad!" any clearer, and 2. The only resource that teaches men how to deal with this are red pill resources. So either accept men becoming more red pill or accept that the social skills of men will decline over time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 01:03 AM
1	Do people often set their standards to high as a defense mechanism? It's mostly an effect of the comfort bubble women find themselves in. Average women to their friends: I want a tall, slim, successful man that can provide for me. Friends: Yess totally you deserve that Average men to their friends: I want a big booty girl that can cook and wants to fuck and have my children. Friends: the fuck you think you are, Ryan gosling?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 12:57 AM
3	Do most people get married just to get married? Yes. The current state of personal development all across the board is tragic. The fear of being alone trumps the desire to improve on oneself. Comfort over conflict. And this is exactly the reason why TRP is still a controversial subject. That's the cycle. Men are afraid to be alone. They become compliant. They lose the interest of their women and get left behind. They become bitter. They seek comfort but realize they are chasing temporary relief. They find TRP. They learn to accept that their …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 12:53 AM
2	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? Oh my god. Did you just call me delusional? I'm. Sorry but the condescending comment worked. So sorry. I need a tissue	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 12:41 AM
1	Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris” Holy shit, this is some A-grade delusion. So what you're suggesting is that physically weaker people can not harm stronger people? I used to go to a gym for Thai boxing lessons. My instructor was a an Indonesian guy, 5 foot 7, and I have often found myself in the ring with him. Mind you I am 6 foot 5, not a scrawny guy either. On practically a monthly basis this man would wipe the absolute floor with me. Expressing the conviction that physically weaker women can not harm men is an absolute indic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/24 12:36 AM
0	Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris” The potential risks of directness aren't gendered. The risk comes from stepping on the toes of a possibly mentally unstable person, and this person, regardless of gender, can have an ego that's fragile enough to respond with violence, vindictive social actions, or otherwise harmful retaliation. It's perception however is gendered. Men are taught to "deal with it" and women are sheltered to the point where loss of comfort suddenly no longer becomes an opportunity for growth but an inflated reason…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 11:32 PM
1	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? Yeah nah boo, I'm not falling for that victim complex 😂 I'd lose my respect for a man if they would coward out of a debate by dragging their personal feelings into it. I've walked long enough on this earth to expect no less from women, so I accept it, but if there is no desire to understand then I lose my desire to be understood. You can go ahead and keep cognitively circling around your own convictions and then wonder why you can't seem to come to solutions. Sounds too tiresome for me. Have a n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 11:25 PM
1	Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris” You're not a purple pill man. You're a blue pill man, because even the slightest hint of redpill would have taught you that men and women simply do not think they same. Where you appreciate directness, she appreciates gracefulness. Accept women for what they are or be forever bitter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 09:20 PM
2	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? How ironic. Accusing me of strawmanning while your entire argument is based on the idea that I diminish the effort women bring to the table in a stable relationship. If you read my post a few more times you'd see that I am making the argument that for every sacrifice a woman makes, there is an equal or greater sacrifice a man makes, and then you come and turn it into a pissing contest of who's the most deprived of freedom. Another perfect example of your own strawmanning is this statement: But b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 09:14 PM
1	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? This man transcends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 09:00 PM
3	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? Yeah, agreed, but being led by that conviction kinda defeats the purpose of entering the debate. Kind of makes you want to give up instantly and that's something that doesn't promote healthy discourse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 07:52 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Oh, and additionally, the values often align with redpill. I'm surprised you grabbed the redpill flair and didn't know about this. For example, stoicism talks again and again about how uncontrolled desire is a dangerous thing, and red pill theory teaches us that as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 07:50 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread You're not aware? Stoic men are perceived as more desirable than expressive men. They are viewed as people that are thought-through, are more mysterious (women think "what is he thinking" more often), and seem more balanced jn general.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 07:45 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread 😂 Two wrongs don't make a right mate. It's always better to come to a solutions together, especially if there is no arbiter to rule the outcome.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 07:21 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I think you're saying "mind games", but in reality you just mean social development. Knowing how to act aloof, practicing stoicism, and playing with mystery are hardly mind games. If you actually mean negging, pick-up artist tactics, and manipulation, then I think you might be mispercieving (and perhaps even idolizing) douchebaggery	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 07:13 PM
2	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? OK so, I can respect that you view it differently right, but I am definitely trying to look at both sides. In your response you are only viewing it from the woman's side. But every argument you make can be countered with an argument from the opposite side, and if you then just stick to your guns and say "that's the way I see it" were not going to get anywhere. Let me give you some examples... But the reality is that nothing in this world is free. Exactly... So in a traditional household,who is t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 06:55 PM
1	If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women? I honestly need to stop responding to delusional women. I bet you're also still baffled how Hitler got all that power if he was such a bad man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 03:46 PM
1	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? What does this comment contribute? Are you just psyched about showing off your "kicking in open doors"-skills? Ofcourse TRP didn't invent "dating multiple people" you nutmeg. But that's not the point. The point is that is promoted by TRP as a beneficial dating strategy. Red pill theory doesn't invent anything. It's just a collection of interpretations and observations of commonly found gender disparity paradigms.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 03:44 PM
1	If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women? "have a go" 😂 that victim complex must be providing you so much comfort. Anything to not have to accept you've made a faux pas, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 03:41 PM
1	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? I don't get what the problem is with a dependency. It's such a typical "the grass is always greener.." thing. All men at work would trade in their job to be able to spend all their time with their family, and women who are homemakers have the same thoughts of how life would be if they had careers instead. The same way that traditional women depend on their husband to provide, the man depends on the woman to be able to come home to a house of love. But you are saying that women advancing their ca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 03:38 PM
1	If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women? The fuck do I care?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 02:07 PM
1	If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women? But she was still attracted to guys, right? Shows how much of female attraction has little to do with looks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 10:11 AM
4	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? "that's no true Scotsman, I AM A TRUE SCOTSMAN"	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 10:08 AM
1	If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women? Lmao, if redpill content is literally giving credit and not claiming the principal as an invention, wtf are you in about then? 😂 you have literally argued yourself into a loop.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 10:04 AM
1	Redpill is very difficult for vast majority of women, it's heartless and cruel Miss, I'm just going to break it to you, but you're delusional. What you've described is absolutely not what redpill is about. If you're going to sit here and claim that that's redpill, then show me the authorative texts that promote that way of thinking, because without it you have just thrown away all your credibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 10:02 AM
1	Redpill is very difficult for vast majority of women, it's heartless and cruel Did you actually just ask me if you are entitled to mistreat someone for some arbitrary reason? That's sickening.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 03:01 AM
1	Female Attraction Standards Lmao are you implying I haven't had to break through that fear? Man it was horrible trying to talk to a girl and hearing her friends snicker from behind her. Or getting laughed at by guys saying "hey guys look who's trying to flirt". And then I realized that they were the same people that complained about not being able to find a partner. And that didn't surprise me, considering they were the type of people that would shame someone for trying to socialize and have fun meeting new people. In hind…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 02:45 AM
1	Female Attraction Standards Well, what exactly is it of this audience that you fear? Their disapproval? Their judgment?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 02:37 AM
1	Female Attraction Standards Nahh that's PUA bullshit. Don't turn it into a numbers game. The real art lies in truly understanding the dynamics. But a little psycho analysis goes a long way, so let me know if I'm wrong, OK? You feel like approaching takes more courage (which you admit on lacking?) in the area where you live. This implies that you perceive approaching someone as something stigmatized. That stigma most often comes from the perceived notion that it makes you seem like you are chasing your sexual desires in the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 02:33 AM
6	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? Actually, the ironic part is, that they could just literally follow TRP... Except for gender specific things, they would have to reformulate the theories around men. But for instance, one of the TRP theories is to not be boring. Find a passion and be unapologetic about it. But would you love to see a woman be passionate about a hobby as well? Don't you love seeing women take care of their body? Or getting smarter/well read/well spoken? Where's a man needs to learn masculine seduction, wouldnt yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 02:11 AM
12	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? If you consider women the prize, then no... But the journey I've had (and still have) improving myself has been loaded with bountiful treasures. I've learned things I couldnt do, speak in ways I haven't spoken, and am generally proud of who I am since I started improving. And tomorrow I will learn something new again. Who wouldn't be excited over that? Who gives a fuck what the women on the sidelines do? 😂I'm living.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 02:04 AM
13	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? Hey, if you can show me some examples of feminism that plainly explain to women that "being nice" isn't good enough, I'd love to be proven wrong... The primary problem with incels is that they are uncomfortable with the truth so they complain in the hope that they can bend the world around their desires, instead of seeking out the opportunities for self improvement. The primary problem with feminism is that they are uncomfortable with the truth so they complain in the hope that they can bend the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 01:54 AM
2	If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women? Why would I feel embarrassed while you seem so engaged? I feel like we're already a couple having an argument. What are we naming our first child, darling? Would you be opposed to spending Christmas with my family?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 01:34 AM
28	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? That's insulting. Feminism doesn't even come close to how hard TRP rips every man a new asshole if they aren't actively working on bettering themselves. Feminism revolves around accepting bad qualities and seeking/providing comfort.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 01:21 AM
2	If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women? My apologies, I now realize that my response may have been too complicated for you. Would you like me to rephrase it in simpler terms for you? 😏	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 01:11 AM
1	If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women? I wanted to respond with a sassy "guess why you're still lonely then..." but it seems that you're almost there. And even admitting the flaw of losing your temper sometimes (even if it's to strangers online) is a step in the right direction. Understand yourself. You don't have to change overnight, but it's a good idea to reflect on your behavior and ask yourself "why am I doing that?" More often than not the answer had something to do with the desire for comfort. And comfort breeds weakness. All …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 01:08 AM
5	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? Amen	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 01:00 AM
1	Female Attraction Standards You're a red pill man. You should know that if you're not ugly, you're fucking it up in some other way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 12:39 AM
62	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? Hahahha fuck, that comment is actually red pill theory to the core, called "spinning plates" and it's for the same exact reason that person said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 12:36 AM
3	If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women? The whole point is that incels should stop looking for someone to blame but themselves. They are simply not competing on the level of men that women are attracted to, and most of the reason why they aren't are related to their own personal development. I also love how you told me I'm wrong on the maturity thing, and then didn't provide an argument to why I was wrong. No sources, no original thought.. Just "I disagree with you". Then disagree. The fuck do I care about convincing someone that does…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 12:33 AM
1	If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women? That's right. The betterment happened when you were lonely, not when you started getting laid. Are you a better man than before you were lonely?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 12:27 AM
2	Would you give an attractive ex-pornstar a shot if she quit porn and was aggressively pursuing you? You're strategically leaving out the part where I'm comparing her personality to that of someone who does that. For a second I thought I made a faux pas but I'm relieved to read the problem lies in your cognitive abilities. Have a great day, love.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 12:22 AM
3	Would you give an attractive ex-pornstar a shot if she quit porn and was aggressively pursuing you? Can you quote me on that? The exact words where I did that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 11:45 PM
3	Would you give an attractive ex-pornstar a shot if she quit porn and was aggressively pursuing you? Can you quote me on that? The exact words where I did that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 11:45 PM
1	If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women? My man, you sound like a sound, sober, self reflecting individual, and I am willing to bet that your hardships have contributed in that greatly. So wear it as a badge of honor. Luctor et emergo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 11:43 PM
2	Would you give an attractive ex-pornstar a shot if she quit porn and was aggressively pursuing you? Would you say there is a similarity between the person who has raped someone, and someone who has planned to but hasn't yet? Those are, in my opinion, two comparable personalities, due to the intrinsic fact that they both have already decided to be OK with ignoring someone else's boundaries. And that is the comparison I made. I didn't say she was a physical rapist. I said that her personality could most aptly be compared with someone that rapes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 11:18 PM
3	Would you give an attractive ex-pornstar a shot if she quit porn and was aggressively pursuing you? Would you say there is a similarity between the person who has raped someone, and someone who has planned to but hasn't yet? Those are, in my opinion, two comparable personalities, due to the intrinsic fact that they both have already decided to be OK with ignoring someone else's boundaries. And that is the comparison I made. I didn't say she was a physical rapist. I said that her personality could most aptly compared with someone that rapes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 11:18 PM
1	If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women? I think that traditional values is just a buzzword these days. What is meant with "traditional values" is actually a set of values that can differ from person to person. Two men claiming to uphold traditional values can still disagree on specific issues like whether a woman should be both having a job as take care of the children and the household. But in terms of education, values are rarely discussed anymore. Philosophy introduces conflict, and modern society is so scared of conflict (or rathe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 11:13 PM
2	If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women? Lol at you misunderstanding the pareto princple "oh.. My.. Gawd.. It's like.. Totally the same numbers.. How dare they think.. Like.. Oh my god.."	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 11:06 PM
1	If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women? Are you actually suggesting men and women have equal sex drives? Yes That women want to fuck just to fuck without attachment... Occasionally, but no, generally they have sex because they see a future between themselves and the person they desire fuck without attachment or live the way men do? No Or think about sex as often as men do? Ridiculous. No, i thought I explained pretty clearly that they don't. You're wrongfully implying causality between frequency of desire and the enjoyment of fulfillm…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 10:47 PM
1	If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women? Look who shut up after you brought the receipts 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 10:34 PM
2	If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women? Au contraire, the loneliness young men experiences is a kickstart for the self reflection they need to acquire to become better men, whereas that opportunity has passed for older women, as for them it's just... Done. The comfort that partnership brings is just that....comfort. It doesn't nurture growth, it only makes someone feel better. Now look at all the times you've grown as a person in your life and tell me with a straight face that it wasn't through hardships...	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 10:33 PM
2	If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women? For those reading this woman's comments in the future, she just admitted to draw conclusions from oversimplified answers rather than to try to understand the actual problem, accepting it might not be a superficial issue. Young men feeling lonely is not a problem, their inability to cope with and understand it is. The age groups of single people literally insinuate that the age groups of people that are not single might have a reason to be correlated. The actual reasons for older men and younger …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 10:31 PM
1	If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women? Here we go again... Dead bedrooms are more often than not the result of the different ways men and women perceive desire and experience attraction. The desire of men in a sexual sense falls mostly on physical attraction ("I find her hot so I'd like to have sex with her") , whereas women are more attracted through psychological attributes ("he sweeps me off my feet and makes me feel special"). Due to this, predictiveness hardly affects men, but severely affects women in maintaining desire. This i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 10:25 PM
6	Would you give an attractive ex-pornstar a shot if she quit porn and was aggressively pursuing you? You're delusional. The woman is blatantly ignoring his rejection multiple times. If you would have switched the genders the guy would be lynched.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 10:11 PM
2	If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women? Exactly. And this is the main problem that society has. Self centredness is not taught about and superficial behaviors are supported. Men are not taught to look beyond their superficial needs or bodily urges. But all these men seem to desire is not to be lonely. They want traditional values but not learn to be man enough to lead. And if I were a woman I'd fucking laugh at losers like that too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 08:06 PM
-2	If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women? Oh boy... Where do I begin. Women love sex as much if not more than men. But that unlevel playing field is not just limited to dating apps. It exists in real life too. And let me shock your world even more... It isn't even that unfair... It is just an inherent property of their role as the gatekeepers to sexual intimacy. There will never be a shortage of male desperation. Women will always have options and be able to choose between suitors, and they do. That is their role. We men are the gatekee…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 07:59 PM
3	If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women? Happy to hear that man! And yeah, you are dead on about the self reflection thing. I have turned that process into the following thought "at the end of the day, before you lay your head to rest, your subconscious asks itself whether you have been the best version of yourself today, and that verdict you will carry with you from the moment you wake up again" I started seeing the improvements from the moment I could honestly say that I've been trying to better who I was. And that self love has only…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 07:48 PM
1	If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women? Women don't have to go on any dating site. They are the gatekeepers of sex. Women can go to a random bar and find suitors without looking for it. Dating app statistics add no value to this conversation whatsoever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 07:41 PM
3	If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women? It's not just one cause. And on top of that, the premise of considering young men feeling lonely being wrong is a false assumption in the first place. I was one of those lonely young men. I found redpill, and realised that I had to work on myself and learn to love myself first. I've gone from an absolute overweight loser to someone that I can truly respect, and when I finally had all my own affairs in order I started looking for a companion, which is indeed a woman that is 8 years younger than m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 07:16 PM
2	If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women? This is such a gross oversimplified way of thinking. But I think that if you're the type of person that is so strongly convicted of baseless arguments you're not coming to reddit to discuss, but to vent. So I'll not bother you with thought on how wrong you are if you don't want to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 07:03 PM
7	If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women? This is such a gross oversimplified way of thinking. But I think that if you're the type of person that is so strongly convicted of baseless arguments you're not coming to reddit to discuss, but to vent. So I'll not bother you with thought on how wrong you are if you don't want to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 07:03 PM
6	If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women? That depends entirely on how you define a relationship I guess. And the 80/20 rule is also just one factor that influences it. Anither factor for instance is the theory behind a person's "prime". For women this is around the age of 22/23, where the woman has matured fully, has the least chance of complications in childbearing, still has all her beauty, has had less romantic partners, and so on. You will notice these traits resolve mostly around intimacy and homemaking, and aligns with men's desi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 06:48 PM
35	If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women? This is actually a well discussed topic within redpill theory called 80/20 rule. 80% of women flock towards the top 20% of males. Preselection/prevalidation is the thought that describes how women feel more attraction towards a man that has the attraction of other women. You could counter-argument this by saying "ofcourse, women desire hot men" but it goes further than the standards of handsomeness etc. According to the theory, there are a number of strategies that a man can indulge in in order …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 06:30 PM
17	Would you give an attractive ex-pornstar a shot if she quit porn and was aggressively pursuing you? That's a life decision mate. Some people would enjoy the chaos, but it doesn't align with my values, and I believe I can find happiness without betraying my morals and principles. But outside of my personal choice, I'm getting mayor predatorial vibes from her. She isn't respecting his rejection and even though men can play that hard to get role as well, this is obviously not that. She's ignoring rejection and clear signals to disengage, but she feels like she is entitled to that behavior. Her ch…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 04:32 PM
5	Redpill is very difficult for vast majority of women, it's heartless and cruel Since when is that relevant? If you have trouble finding women to sleep with you either have A. Really shite genes to the point where you're horrible to look at B. Not worked on yourself enough to raise your SMV That has nothing to do with this so called "bargaining chip" you say we seem to have lost.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 01:34 AM
5	Q4M - Why do some men look down upon women who are single and child-free? Holy fuck the delusion in this one...	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 12:54 AM
2	Redpill is very difficult for vast majority of women, it's heartless and cruel Mate, that's universal. 99% of people don't give a fuck about IT. But I've been working on my storytelling a bit, and my favorite stories to tell are IT related. Anything can be made interesting. That's the point I'm trying to make. No one gives a fuck about your work, the story about your work is interesting because it provides entertainment if it's entertaining. You wouldn't want to hear some fisher dude go on for hours about quotas, but you'd be hanging on his lips if he told you about that 8…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 12:46 AM
1	"Nice Guy" vs "Fukboi" or "Player." Which is better and why? Ah, gotcha... Might wanna change your flair to blue pill man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 11:02 PM
1	"Nice Guy" vs "Fukboi" or "Player." Which is better and why? My son.... just grow some balls and admit to your mistake and realize your cognitive error. Stop being so apologetic about being wrong. No one falls for your backtracking nonsense. There is no reputation to uphold here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 11:00 PM
2	"Nice Guy" vs "Fukboi" or "Player." Which is better and why? The book of Pook is the old stuff... It stems from 2002. Know your classics youngster.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 10:52 PM
1	"Nice Guy" vs "Fukboi" or "Player." Which is better and why? That's my point. This is a guy with the false understanding that he only has 3 choices. It's a self-imposed limitation he should free himself from. Playing along with him just keeps him further from his goals. There is no "formulated plan between the 3 friends". The only decision to make is to cut free from these societal archetypes and find out who he is so he can love himself outside of the context he is providing. What you're saying is to play along with his blackjack rules even though we're …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 10:48 PM
1	"Nice Guy" vs "Fukboi" or "Player." Which is better and why? If you need entertainment, a guy's quest for advice might be a cruel place to look.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 10:37 PM
1	"Nice Guy" vs "Fukboi" or "Player." Which is better and why? Boy get you ass off replying to dumb cunts that fall into your false premise trap and read the book of Pook.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 10:28 PM
1	"Nice Guy" vs "Fukboi" or "Player." Which is better and why? You're not understanding what I'm saying. The person in question should detach from isolating labels like that and find out who they are, learn to love themselves, and should stop trying to fit into some box in the hopes of getting laid. Pick up a hobby that you're passionate about. Be unapologetically yourself. Don't let anyone walk over you. Stop letting women intimidate you and have fun in every social interaction you have. Rid yourself of fears and doubts. Live, goddamnit. My man, skip whate…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 10:24 PM
8	A thought experiment Honestly this thread here is a must read for men. Women have options. If they are deprived of those options they will just abstain. Women enjoy sex. If you're not the kind of person women want to sleep with, then that means that they can all agree to some extent on your undesirability. That should be enough of a cue to a man to take some time to reflect on theirselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 10:10 PM
6	"Nice Guy" vs "Fukboi" or "Player." Which is better and why? being himselves hasn't worked out so far There you have it I guess? If your only redeeming quality is that you're "nice", then you have some work to do on yourself. That's it. Case closed. Edit: oh, and another thing, you throw these words around like "nice guy" and I'm sorry but it makes me not want to take you serious. All of the archetypes that you're presenting have their issues, and understanding the premise of those issues is what allows you to reflect on yourself to better who you are. Yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 10:00 PM
5	Redpill is very difficult for vast majority of women, it's heartless and cruel You are literally only capable of strawmanning other people just so you can feel a hint of moral superiority. It's pathetic to see someone invalidate themselves like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 09:58 PM
2	Redpill is very difficult for vast majority of women, it's heartless and cruel Field reports are just others users projecting what they think they have learned onto their personal experiences. The fact that redpill contains some bitter men is undisputed, but that doesn't invalidate the teachings. It's like saying a karate teacher is wrong about his techniques because his students decide to beat people up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 09:56 PM
-1	Redpill is very difficult for vast majority of women, it's heartless and cruel Anything a man is unapologetically passionate about makes a man desirable. It could even be fucking Pokémon cards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 09:54 PM
4	Redpill is very difficult for vast majority of women, it's heartless and cruel It can be explained. It's an entry point for RP. I think it's natural that you will find underdevelopment in places centered on development.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 07:26 PM
1	Redpill is very difficult for vast majority of women, it's heartless and cruel I understand your thought process but you're missing something. The latter only upholds the former in a superficial sense, especially when a man is not in touch with their honor, morality, and self reflection. If you value yourself, you should value your principles too, and I doubt anyone would consider selfishness as a virtue. Even in the "badboy with a heart of gold" picture you paint, lies a Robin Hood archetype.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 07:19 PM
5	Redpill is very difficult for vast majority of women, it's heartless and cruel Yeah, I agree with you. I can't justify it either, but I cant justify it on both ends. I dislike those "strategies" as much as I dislike the "get that bag, girl"-mentality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 07:11 PM
5	Redpill is very difficult for vast majority of women, it's heartless and cruel Funny how red pill actually teaches us that what you truly mean is that something is calculated and, to your eyes, unromantic. But then where is your compassion for all the men that are strung along, with the misconception that "all it takes" is to "be nice"? Studies have shown us that women are attracted to dark personality traits. Women desire morally gray men. Think about it. Red pill is nothing but a manifestation brought forth by the understanding of women. And now, after understanding wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 07:09 PM
16	Redpill is very difficult for vast majority of women, it's heartless and cruel I can respect that. I've had my phase but have never been less than honest with women. Now that I'm in a LTR I find that TRP has taught me a lot on how to reflect better and understand my role to lead better. I've also noticed that TRP comments were always filled with angry incels. Sadly, those type of men were drawn to TRP the most, but if hatred rules your heart the every word of wisdom becomes a weapon of accusation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 06:44 PM
2	Redpill is very difficult for vast majority of women, it's heartless and cruel I normally don't engage in debate with uninformed people (bees don't waste time explaining to flies that honey tastes better than shit), but with such a provocative view I am very curious to how you connect TRP to less integrity?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 06:36 PM
4	Redpill is very difficult for vast majority of women, it's heartless and cruel Huh? Am I misunderstanding you or at you making moot points? computerization took away men's bargaining chips Meanwhile, IT is one of the highest paying fields out there, and primarily occupied by male professionals. What bargaining chip did we lose there?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 06:32 PM
1	Redpill is very difficult for vast majority of women, it's heartless and cruel Yeah, I wouldn't defend it's use in a relationship setting, but for casual encounters pick-up artists have evolved on the basis of what works and what doesn't. To call it manipulative to "neg" a woman would imply that the opposite of stringing a man along for a motional support without providing honesty on any possible romance would be manipulative as well. In reality these are just behaviors that have been evolved from acquiring one's needs both ways. Furthermore, if it works, since when is it …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 05:16 PM
21	Redpill is very difficult for vast majority of women, it's heartless and cruel Since when did red pill become about using women? You clearly need to reread some of the theory and stop projecting your hateful bias onto it. Redpill is about valuing yourself above all others, something that everyone should do. This does not mean use and abuse others for your own benefits, it means to find your own values and honor and adapt your behavior to reflect it more. Don't betray yourself over some physical needs. Don't undervalue yourself through social dogma's. Honestly successful or…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 04:47 PM
2	In dating, as a man, it's demanded that you be confident and socially skilled. Meanwhile, women are allowed to be as neurotic and anti-social as they please Well... Yeah... The primary red pill thought behind this is thy women are gatekeepers of sex, and men are the gatekeepers of commitment. Women having governance over relationship entry points is not arbitrary. It basically works like market control. Take housing for instance. If you've been deprived of housing long enough, options that would previously seem unfit become more attractive, because the need grows as time goes on. It works the same way in relationships. Men feeling lonely will drop m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 03:13 PM