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| 78 | Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truth | CMV | Reversegiraffe1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 09:58 PM |
| 38 | Why the man or bear thing is actually a blessing in disguise | General | Reversegiraffe1 | /r/MensRights | 08/05/24 01:57 AM |
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| – | I feel that a lot more people would accept red pill ideas if they were framed differently.Agreed on the each side says things but are framed differently part but I'll tell ya, not even Neil Tyson Degrasse or Mr. Rogers could get away with saying anything remotely negative about women without getting cancelled and labeled a misogynist lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 01:41 AM |
| 3 | Women are the ones red pilling menExactly. If I made some theory about how the planet was actually banana-shaped and we've been lied to, it would be dismissed as non-sense (rightfully so). If redpill had no truth to it, it would have dead on arrival and no one would have heard if it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 06:56 PM |
| 0 | Is there a way to make dating fair for men ethically - without reducing the rights of women, or challenging the autonomy of others?Shocker this is also how the free market works in economics. Women though can't stop complaining and trying to bring socialism into it. Hiring quotas, same pay despite less output, women-only scholarhips, women-only housing assistance. For dating they say bootstraps, step it up, try harder and for pay and housing it's "HALP!". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 05:10 AM |
| -4 | Is there a way to make dating fair for men ethically - without reducing the rights of women, or challenging the autonomy of others?Have you been oppresed or forced into marriage? If not, what actual opression have you dealt with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 02:10 AM |
| 0 | Is there a way to make dating fair for men ethically - without reducing the rights of women, or challenging the autonomy of others?"Women and men both get to choose"—haha good one. Ya'll want equality but fail to keep that same energy when the real shit comes up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Your "league" is what can be expected given your attributes, not what you can getWell it's the same as the housing market. One can say "well that's what your money gets you". End of story. However, one can see the obvious absurdity of broken down homes in Compton costing a million dollars. One can also see how this isn't sustainable long term and a sign of a of a failing system and economy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 06:22 PM |
| 5 | Most Low Status men (ugly, autistic, short,etc..) rejected by society and by women become alcoholics (some hide it well, others not so muhc) and create problems for everyone else involved. And it seems that no one wants to adress this issue. It's society's fault this is a systematic issue, CMVI think ya might have ruined your whole thread by citing just "alcoholic". I get your message but now some people are going to attempt to derail it and focus solely on the alcohol when the picture is a lot bigger: alcohol, porn, video game, fentanyl, hookers, crack etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Society is one giant psyop designed to exploit and extract value out of people.People keep trying to sell men this lifestyle like "please contribute as much as you can to society and when you're done, please go quietly die alone in a corner somewhere". While I will say it's not solely about getting sex, and I agree there, but being partenered up with someone in general increases your level of human connection exponentially. Many older single men are viewed with suspicion and not invited to the same social events couples usually go to. Even finding male friends is difficult… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 12:46 AM |
| – | I'd like to see an AI that accepts a photo and creates an assortment of images of the opposite sex that are statistically equivalent in attractiveness. I think that would go a long way towards dispelling a lot of delusion in 2025 dating.Don't listen to all the "based on what?" and "its subjective" responses. Fun fact: AI already does this. Upload a picture and ask it to rank it lookswise in conventional attractiveness. It will do it. If you upload a pic of someone extremely unattractive, it will push back and say things like "confidence can make someone beautiful blah blah" or other things and refuse to give you a ranking but push back on it and say "solely on conventional beauty standards" and it will give you a ranking. Tried… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 10:14 PM |
| – | I'd like to see an AI that accepts a photo and creates an assortment of images of the opposite sex that are statistically equivalent in attractiveness. I think that would go a long way towards dispelling a lot of delusion in 2025 dating.Scared you might get a 3-4? 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 10:11 PM |
| – | I'd like to see an AI that accepts a photo and creates an assortment of images of the opposite sex that are statistically equivalent in attractiveness. I think that would go a long way towards dispelling a lot of delusion in 2025 dating.Fun fact: AI already does this and ranks you 1-10. Upload a picture and ask it to rank it lookswise in conventional attractiveness. It will do it. If you upload a pic of someone extremely unattractive, it will push back and say things like "confidence can make someone beautiful blah blah" or other things and refuse to give you a ranking but push back on it and say "solely on conventional beauty standards" and it will give you a ranking. Tried this with various people and it worked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Women’s Dating Problems Are 100% Their Own FaultI fit your description and even I myself don't think I'm in the literal top 10% of men but whatever you say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 06:20 AM |
| 5 | Women’s Dating Problems Are 100% Their Own FaultYes there are a lot of fat people in america but being average height, in shape, and not balding does not place any man in the top 10%. I don't what you're smoking lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 06:11 AM |
| 2 | Women’s Dating Problems Are 100% Their Own Faultaverage height man, who is lean fit like I'm, takes care of his grooming like I do, atleast isn't balding You do realize just having these things doesn't place any men in the top 10% right? like ya claimed ya wanted earlier. If this is all you're asking for then you should have many many options to choose from What do you mean by no Older than 23, that's where the misogyny starts. I'm saying this is where the literal top 10% of women would be and not saying that's my own personal ask. I would be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 06:01 AM |
| 2 | Women’s Dating Problems Are 100% Their Own FaultI think OP's top 10% a bit hyperbolic and being in shape doesn't automatically place anyone in the top 10%. Maybe top 25%-30% which aligns with actual obesity rates. But what if a guy is in shape but just short, let's say 5'3? I'm sure to win the debate here you might tell me you'd be all over him if he had a good personality but take a moment and be honest with yourself. Since the studies definitely don't support this. Edit: Correction, to be in the top 10% for women you would probably need to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 05:39 AM |
| 7 | Women’s Dating Problems Are 100% Their Own FaultYes, women could go for the ugly, short, awkward guys, but most women arent attracted to that, and they didn't choose what they are attracted to. you mean like 80% of the male population they classify as this? You can't tell me that's a problem on the male side lmao. It can be difficult for women to figure out which guys actually like them and want commitment, because many men will say anything to get laid, Also, do women have a 6th sense for closet misogynists and men that treat women poorly or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Women’s Dating Problems Are 100% Their Own FaultI just came here to see a "bOtH sIdEs" counterargument or something along the lines of "people choose poorly and it isn't exclusively a female thing" counterargument. Basically their go-to when all else fails. Even though women are the ones with choices. There are a ton of ways you can discern and choose better and a bottomless pit of knowledge in psychology and human behavior one can learn to choose better. Many men are already out of the game by being < 5'7 and have an exponentially harder tim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 04:35 AM |
| 1 | The bluepill is by far the nastiest dating ideologyWell, I think as a man, you're an asshole by default. If you actually are an asshole—well, you're an asshole. Self-explanatory. If you are nice, you're just a low-key, sex-seeking asshole. Makes men think, 'What the hell difference does it make anyway?' The red pill just teaches you to get results, whereas the blue pill just gaslights you telling you to be nicer. If you follow blue pill teachings and say you're struggling (you will if you aren't attractive), you'll just be met with being called … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 09:59 PM |
| 1 | I’ve been reading here about men’s struggles with vulnerability, manipulation, etc. Curious to hear more real perspectives.Been looking at some of your responses and you actually strike me as pretty levelheaded and not a raging feminist. So let me ask you the following. Do you honestly think there are things one gender does more than another? Also, if one gender is reporting something en masse that affects their physical or mental health, does there need to be a formalized study before any action can be taken? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 08:56 PM |
| 1 | I’ve been reading here about men’s struggles with vulnerability, manipulation, etc. Curious to hear more real perspectives.Hyperbole is a thing. Without trying to offend, I'm legit curious if you suffer from some form of neurodivergence that makes it difficult to pick up on these queues? No one is saying literally everyone. If you want to keep interpreting it that way, that's on you. There is no proof men use women only for sex. Unless the man explicitly said "I was only here for sex", you have no way of knowing for sure and could have been a million other reasons for leaving. Why is that a topic that deserves any m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 10:10 PM |
| 1 | I’ve been reading here about men’s struggles with vulnerability, manipulation, etc. Curious to hear more real perspectives.None of this is universal. People all act differently Duh 🙄. This isn't the mind blowing wisdom that you think it is. When women say there are men that treat women like sex objects we know it's now all men. When men say women divorce them and steal all their assets we know it's not all women. There are behaviors that are far more prevalent on one side. So if you think every conversation or debate topic on this sub can be dismissed with "not all x gender! It' not universal!" then we are avoiding … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 09:19 PM |
| 3 | I’ve been reading here about men’s struggles with vulnerability, manipulation, etc. Curious to hear more real perspectives.Many men will also be dismissive of or criticize their partner for crying. I seriously don't know what planet you are living in. Never have I seen a man telling a woman to "man up" or critizice her for crying based on grievance. Yes if someone is crying cause they don't have chicken nuggets and throwing a tantrum then yes they deserve to be told they are being dramatic but not with legit grievances. And some will leave or cheat if the woman is depressed. Or this. I think this is more code for a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 06:54 PM |
| 3 | I’ve been reading here about men’s struggles with vulnerability, manipulation, etc. Curious to hear more real perspectives.Some guys definitely leave women for being too emotional or "dramatic Having emotional outburst is something entirely different. That's not crying or being sad about something. If a woman cries cause her cat died or job loss, the man won't think anything of it. Most men would comfort her while she sobs out. Now watch a man do the exact same thing and she's now in "I'm just not feeling it" or "I don't feel the spark" land. An emotional outburst is being bitchy or an asshole and not anything to do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 05:26 PM |
| 4 | I’ve been reading here about men’s struggles with vulnerability, manipulation, etc. Curious to hear more real perspectives.most You be smoking that good good. Never have I seen a single instance in my life of a man leaving a woman cause she's sad, not assertive enough, cries etc. That's another way women deflect and scream "bOtH sIDeS". While it's technicaly true both sides do a lot of things as there are also female rapists and men that make false sexual accusations. It's disingenious to say one side doesn't do certain things far more than another. You are dismissing female nature and it's impact | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 04:32 PM |
| 1 | The new Tea app kinda proves hypergamyLMAO. This. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 06:12 AM |
| 5 | I’ve been reading here about men’s struggles with vulnerability, manipulation, etc. Curious to hear more real perspectives.This. So tired of the useless response women and male feminsits use to dodge female accountability "yOu dOdGeD a bULlEt 🥴" and trying to frame it like it's some miniscule fringe minority of women when it's definelty MOST OF THEM. Then it goes "why would you want to date someone that doesn't care about your feelings? Ah ha checkmate". No. The problem is the overwhelming MAJORITY of women will be disgusted when you show weakness or vulnerabiltiy in front of them. I remember they did a study and so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 11:00 PM |
| 2 | "Women are not a monolith" but the Tea App is #1 at the Apple storeThere is also the possibility the ones that leaked the pictures on 4chan specifically picked out the ugliest ones for mockery. This is why is seems skewed. Women around my neck of the woods def don't look like that on average. Was just at a carnival this weekend with my family and the women most definetly didn't look like those on that list. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 09:45 PM |
| 1 | "Women are not a monolith" but the Tea App is #1 at the Apple storeThese aren't average women though. This is like a female incel app. Why would women that are perfectly happy in a commited relationship be on there? Those women are all taken and don't have any reason to be bitter and hang out on the app i.e 60% of women that are in a commited relationship. I would say it's probably the overall bottom 30% of women that are on there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 07:30 PM |
| – | All measures to fight bad men unfortunately end up hurting normal menIt serves as absolute, undeniable, uncontestable proof that women have the same powers as ICE to have innocent men kidnapped and locked away without their Constitutional Rights. Women ETHERED lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Tea App Megathread*Cough* 4chan/pol/ *cough* | /r/MensRights | 27/07/25 02:18 AM |
| 90 | How Can the Testimony of Just One Woman Take 43 Years of Your Life!This is exactly why the Tea app is so dangerous. Women's plights are accepted without question. I have no doubt if someone said I or any one of my friends or family members that are male were to be called rapists, it would be believed without question. | /r/MensRights | 27/07/25 02:06 AM |
| 37 | Uber’s “Women Only” ride feature is inclusive in the funniest way possibleNo, silly wabbit—Bigotrix is for women! *chuckles* | /r/MensRights | 26/07/25 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Tea App will 100% cause more harm then good.Exactly it's a literal public safety risk. If this keeps up someone is going to get hurt—man or woman. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/25 12:41 AM |
| 4 | Tea App will 100% cause more harm then good.Class action lawsuit from all the men posted | /r/MensRights | 26/07/25 12:33 AM |
| 5 | I've noticed we get a lot of misandrist lurkers here. Can someone tell me if the feminist subreddits experience such problems with misogynist lurkers?Exactly. That's why all their points look right to an outsider looking in because they are never challenged. Or should I say never allowed to be challenged. If they speak nothing but the truth, they shouldn't have to worry. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/25 12:24 AM |
| 7 | I've noticed we get a lot of misandrist lurkers here. Can someone tell me if the feminist subreddits experience such problems with misogynist lurkers?Same. I got a lifetime ban for saying I agreed with a woman's empowering "NO" as I myself have been sexually harassed a few times (by a woman). Instant lifetime ban. As much as I don't like echo chambers, we have let a lot of trolls run amuck here for too long and there needs to be at least some moderation. I'm talking multiple accounts I've seen with -100 karma that obviously just come to troll | /r/MensRights | 25/07/25 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Tea has been compromisedIt's a public bucket. Teaapp DOXXED IT'S OWN USERS 😂😂😂. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/25 06:41 PM |
| 14 | Tea has been compromised👏👏👏 not all heroes wear capes | /r/MensRights | 25/07/25 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Sold my Uber stockI've done exactly this, plenty of times, on other accounts Yeah sure lmao. "Why is it I create an account with a history of only disregarding one gender's issues I'm assumed to be on the other side? What an enigma" | /r/MensRights | 23/07/25 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Sold my Uber stockYou came here to be some turbo libertarian in response to men's discrimination issues. I don't see a shred of you doing the same in response to female ones like the equal pay they complain so much about. You're completely quiet on that. Why don't you go to the sub twoxchromosomes and tell the women the creepy men staring at them are just exercising their right to avert their gaze where they want? Since you're all about freedom. But no you won't and you'll just stay here. | /r/MensRights | 23/07/25 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Sold my Uber stockIt's not about being repealed numbnuts or should I say numbovaries. You can't simultaneously extract a bill's benefits and then say it's shit. If you things it's wretched, it would have never happened and we'd be on a completely differrent timeline than what are now. It's like someone saying "It's ok when I get welfare but not other people" and doesn't hold a shred of logical consitency. | /r/MensRights | 23/07/25 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Sold my Uber stockJust saw your post history and see you think its one of the most wretched pieces of legislation in history. Ok so want you to go back in time and burn it. We would be back to the 1950s where women weren't even allowed in many fields. Let alone own homes or have any shred of independence. That's your point of view from what it looks like | /r/MensRights | 23/07/25 08:10 PM |
| 7 | Sold my Uber stockNobody should be forced to transact with someone they wish not to. Not the guy you are talking to but you do realize that goes against the civil rights rights act of 1964 right? So are you saying it's not something we should lean on? | /r/MensRights | 23/07/25 07:46 PM |
| 12 | A noticeable amount of women care more about hating men than they do about helping womenExactly. See /r/TwoXChromosomes. At least 80% on any given day, dare I say 90%, is about demonizing, complaining about, and shitting on men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 06:51 PM |
| 61 | Obama Criticizes Progressives For Abadoning MenPfft they didn't just abandon us. They went out of their way to call us stupid, worthless, and shame us for simply existing and breathing air. | /r/MensRights | 22/07/25 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Passport bros don’t take advantage of third world women, it’s actually the other way aroundThis is what I've been saying the entire time. A woman can stab a man in the neck with scissors and the conversation will turn into why she is the victim somehow. Even though outside of self-defense, murder is illegal in any other instance. It's always "he is/must have been a horrible person". Same concept here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Women of reddit. What is your honest reaction to hearing constantly on social media the dating woes of men?How is complaining going to fix anything? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 03:10 AM |
| – | Women of reddit. What is your honest reaction to hearing constantly on social media the dating woes of men?Men and women can both be rude. You're best off ignoring those people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 08:26 PM |
| 8 | Men are discouraged from approaching women they don’t know as well as discouraged from asking out women they do know.If these men say "fine, we'll leave these women alone" and go to foreign countries to find women they are also shamed. Funny how "two consenting adults" only applies to LGBTQ issues and not straight men's dating choices i.e other consenting adults. It's almost like the only desired path these women have for these men is to stop existing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 07:35 PM |
| 4 | The market depicts your value, not youReported a user with at least 4-5 instances of uncivilized behavior and name calling in the same thread. Diddly was done. Check my reports mods. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Like where are young people meant to meet & find dates offline nowadays, in a respectful manner?<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 08:28 AM |
| 8 | It’s hard being a man, it’s almost a curseyou put yourself in a victim role This is you | /r/MensRights | 09/07/25 12:43 AM |
| 3 | I don’t think men are “intimidated” by strong independent womenWomen are intimidated by men like this and can't handle their level of extreme intellect. They don't have the level of brains required to handle such a unit. Imagine if men tried to shame women like this too lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Being creeped on by this woman (staff) at a cafe. Wrote to their corporate office expressing concern for my safety and I was threatened with legal consequences for recording/documenting my encountersI think you're missing the point. Yes he can stop but the point is he shouldn't have to deal with this. Reverse the genders and everyone is up in torches and pitchforks against this creepy janitor. | /r/MensRights | 05/07/25 11:25 PM |
| 0 | Society is unintentionally creating more and more angsty single menYou must be the happiest person on earth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 03:40 AM |
| 3 | Society is unintentionally creating more and more angsty single menShame all the women you want I'm sure the overwhelming majority of women would not agree with this statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 01:12 AM |
| 11 | Society is unintentionally creating more and more angsty single menWomen on negative societal perceptions of women: stop saying we're all goldiggers! no more slut shaming! stop body and weight shaming! 😭😭😭 Women on negative societal perceptions of men: Stop giving a fuck what society thinks 😏 LMAO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 12:49 AM |
| 3 | The Overabundance of Male Validation Has Made Us DisposableOnline they can and absolutely do. That's the point. Back in the day none of these men in a 1,000 years would have the courage to even get within 50ft talking distance of some of these women. Now it's just a message away and the worst that can happen is no response as opposed to getting mocked in front of everyone, being seen as creepy, or getting ktfo'd if you approached the wrong woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 02:44 AM |
| 5 | The Overabundance of Male Validation Has Made Us DisposableYes, American alive during those times. When I went out to bars/clubs with the homies, a guy who was exceptionally confident and also exceptionally horny would ask for maybe 5-6 women's numbers that night. Now every basement dweller can hit on 20-30 women in one night online from the comfort of his basement. The worst that will happen is she won't respond. Back in the day though, a woman would make stinkface and tell the guy to fuck off, walk away, or the woman's man would be ready to rearrange … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 02:17 AM |
| 4 | The Overabundance of Male Validation Has Made Us DisposableI don't even know what you're trying to say with your garbled non-sense. You have no experience beyond the third grade level in grammar and sentence structure and complete lack of self awareness. I'd be picking on the handicapped lmao. Have a good one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 07:51 PM |
| 6 | The Overabundance of Male Validation Has Made Us DisposableDude, ya want some dressing for that word salad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 07:20 PM |
| 14 | The Overabundance of Male Validation Has Made Us DisposableBack in the day before the internet if a man wanted to express interest in a woman he had to do it in person. He had to risk rejection, looking like a fool, and men would do it far less frequently compared to modern day standards. With the advent of the internet. One thirsty guy can bother 50+ 100+ women a day with "hey" "u up?" "hi beautiful 😍" and hoping on out of those 100 women will want to touch his pp. Since it's in the internet and there are no consequences for the most part, his ceiling … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Who makes for better partners, men or women?You just described the kind of man women get bored with easy cause they don't "have that spark" i.e drama, and emotional rollercoasters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 01:19 AM |
| 3 | Can white men finally stop complainingThis is stupidity of the highest magnitude. Where was the articles that stated "can minorities and women stop complaining now that the liberals are in charge??". Just confirming their still present and obvious bias. And I say this as a POC. Racism is wrong. Period. Get it through your thick skull, leftists. Also the obvious sexism which they claim to hate so much when people are judged by the gender they were born. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/25 07:51 PM |
| 6 | Men understand the concept of aggression significantly better than women.Exactly. Look at this example. https://www.facebook.com/share/v/15k76rddy8/ Wonderwoman gets up in this massive dude's face the whole time going "what? What?". As soon as a guy gets near he gets knocked into the shadow realm. This is female privelege. I bet this woman think she's such a BAMF but doesn't realize she can only do that because she's a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Men understand the concept of aggression significantly better than women.This. It's so cringe watching michael myers or some other slasher pick up men with one hand, snapping their neck like a twig, and then watching some middle aged lady hold her own against him in a brawl 🙄. I don't care if she's amanda nunes. Hell even Jon jones wouldn't do shit to michael meyers as evidenced by 12 gauge shotgun blasts not keeping him down. They need to be in at least 1 fight in their life against an equal opponent to see all the hype they've been feeding themselves and understand… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 04:47 AM |
| 5 | Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry areCause I have literally never heard a woman tell another woman to just ignore andrew and these other influencers. Everytime he's talked about in female spaces, not one comment saying to just ignore him and move on. That's why. I'm sure since you say you do this, you wouldn't have trouble showing me a post where you have..or you just gonna leave a salty downvote and storm off? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 07:23 AM |
| – | As a Woman, If You Want a Man to Commit, Maybe Commit to Cooking and CleaningIf that's the case, then why do women still demand that men make more money than them? They need to drop this as well of they wanted to make things equal, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for womenWhy do ugly men insist that they have the better personalities anyway. No one is saying this. What I'm saying is you don't mind being pumped and dumped as long it's by attractive men. If these average men with contemptible personalitie wanting to use you just for sex were more attractive, you wouldn't care. Which proves their crime isn't their contemptible personality but being unattractive. Yeah women aren't a monolith. So you admit you don't think like this and only go for looks? Well hell at … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 07:19 PM |
| 9 | Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry arethe few efforts that have been made to actually support young men are not motivated by altruism, but more like better do something before they become terrorists and start killing us. Felt that one in my soul bro—oof | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 07:20 AM |
| – | Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for womenSo you'd rather be with a man who only uses you for le vagina, which with his behavior it's implied he doesn't respect women, as long as as he's attractive? Only if he's average does it give you the ick. Gotta love how women claim to place such a high value on men's personalites lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 05:01 AM |
| 2 | Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry areSorry I don't watch YouTube and TikTok. The "pressure" is self inflicted if you drink from the fire hose So having no accountability on people spreading hate towards certain groups. It's essentially the attacked demographic group's fault for watching. Makes sense. So when there are groups and channels that make fun of fat women you can't tell me the majority of women would be ok with ignoring and leaving those up. Historically they absolutely haven't. That has nothing to do with autonomy. Hell f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry arenot comparable to the sexual violence glorified by people like Tate and those in the military. Basically andrew is alleged to believe that women belong in the home, can't drive, and are a man's property but how is that any different than the view saying men have no use in society at all i.e useless as shown here? https://youtu.be/F7dxUka_apo?si=94BUuwC1ifpXR9Xc Beauty standards were an issue between women. No they weren't. Women demanded that the media companies primarily ran by men to make chan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry areI'm talking about the misandrists. The ones that blare out and push the mainstream media narrative to young boys that they are worthless, stupid, and inferior to women. The way this narrative is allowed to persist in our schools and a female teacher can be sexist towards little boys and not get fired. The same way this continues into adulthood and undoubtebtly contributes to the male suicide rate. Remember when women did all that bitching about "unrealistic beauty standards" and it's contributio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 08:33 PM |
| 11 | Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry areYou should try giving that advice to other women too. You don't like Andrew Tate, easy—don't follow him. Same with Nick Fuentes, Joe Rogan etc. Of course you won't and women will continue to complain when they have the option to not watch also. Basically when it's men being shat on "take the high road, ignore it, peace and love, change starts with you" but when anyone says anything negaitive about women "AHHH IT'S ANDREW TATE!! HALP!! NATIONAL GUARD!! OFF WITH HIS BALLS!! 😭😭😭". Never once heard … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for womenAnd average women share the same top 10% of men for eternity and raise those men's children by themsleves while never getting any commitment—what a win for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 05:39 AM |
| 4 | Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for womenExactly. "B-b-but I see women with average men all the time 🥴" is what you'll hear but it doesn't tell the whole story. These average men are often the dancing monkey and some even get cucked and pretend not to notice as long as their SO doesn't leave them. If you are looking for a relationship where things are truly egalitarian, most men are SOL in western countries. If you think your dignitiy and every drop of self-respect you have is worth not being alone, then you're in the right place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 10:19 PM |
| 5 | A reminder that conservatives are also gynocentric, just In their own way.That's the only issue though. I literally guessed what your link was going to say before I opened. Still by far the lesser of the evils when it comes to misandry. Saying they are entirely gynocentric is a huge stretch, sorry. Edit: Also, this mostly comes from a place of wanting to keep traditional gender roles as opposed to wanting to send men off to war. A woman can't fullfill the traditional role if being sent off to fight overseas. However, now with the way women have refused to go into thei… | /r/MensRights | 09/12/24 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Why does therapy fail men on a large scale and what alternatives are there?This times a trillion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/24 10:45 PM |
| 1 | "Confidence of a mediocre white man" merch and pro-beheading shirts get labelled as "ironic" feminist gifts. Etsy is being used as an automated misandry radicalization vectorand people wonder why Trump won | /r/MensRights | 18/11/24 07:43 AM |
| 13 | This is the "Who We Serve" page on the Democratic Party's official website. Notice anyone missing?demonstrating that most women are comfortable with sexism and racism when its men being victimised. This is most democrats. Men or women. This is why I left the party. They 110% endorse hate, prejudice, and bigotry as long as it's towards the correct people: i.e christian, white, and men. And I say this as a man of color who is agnostic. . | /r/MensRights | 22/10/24 05:35 AM |
| 1 | The expectation for men to be completely self-actualized before even entering the dating market is absolutely ridiculous.how obsessed most men are over women. They’re getting leg lengthening surgery to make themselves taller, they spend thousands of dollars on PUA camps, they spend thousands of dollars on dating apps and get no matches, they go into debt to buy things they can’t afford to make themselves look more impressive Most men don't do these things. Literally what are you smoking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 12:57 AM |
| 3 | What advice would you give to a young guy who formed the belief that women find bad men exciting to prevent him from swallowing the redpill?Yeah as others have been saying, you definitely don't sound bluepill as being confident and being unashamed of your masculinity is probably the biggest teaching of the redpill. Here is the bluepill responses that attempt to obscure the truth, deflect, and try to cleverly shut men up that start questioning what they've been taught: "those women are crazy and not worth your time" "you dodged a bullet" "Those women have issues" Basically acting like this is a very small fringe minority of women. Wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 04:32 AM |
| 6 | What do all of the "lonely men" actually want people to do as a solution?sometimes you need to acknowledge that people will naturally want to be involved romantically and sexually with other people This. Or trying to push that male loneliness and what we experience must be some type of spiritual void as if thousands of years of evolution didn't exist where we've been hardwired to procreate and pursue relationships and companionship with the opposite sex. Volunteering will never make that go away and is just another way to say keep providing value, but this time do it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/24 12:06 AM |
| 7 | Blue pillers just don't want "unworthy" people to date or have relationships.I'm a bit surprised you as a bluepill man can openly say this. But that's exactly what it is. Every guy that is struggling with dating must be some obese, basement dwelling, neurodivergent incel that doesn't shower. While it can't just be some 5'2 indian man who maintains a healthy weight, looks ok, makes decent money, has a decent amount of friends but women keep overlooking him. He did the best he could with the hand dealt to him but most women, unless he's a millionaire, are going to overlook… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/24 09:50 PM |
| 5 | Men are not obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted, but it does seem that women are more likely to stop and ask the hurt person if they're okay, offer comfort, and provide help/call for help.Yep https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women-are-wonderful_effect They're eerily quiet in this particular part of the thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Men are not obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted, but it does seem that women are more likely to stop and ask the hurt person if they're okay, offer comfort, and provide help/call for help.The thing is he will never punch you so it's not brave or does it make women tough. I've see countless examples of women saying some guy is creepin one of their friends and men stood by and did nothing while they turned around and yelled and confronted them acting like it makes them tough. For example, I once saw a fifth grade girl bullying and beating up a third grade boy and those girls the same size and from the same grade stood by and did nothing. Had the roles been reveresed and a huge guy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 04:39 PM |
| 3 | Men are not obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted, but it does seem that women are more likely to stop and ask the hurt person if they're okay, offer comfort, and provide help/call for help.Women like to feel like big women yellling at dudes hittin on their friends at the bar but as soon as it comes to yelling at other women they slink away. It's easy to yell at dudes cause it will never get physical no matter how large and intimidating the dude is which doesn't make you tough. Go yell at another woman being a bitch or bulllying someone needlesly -oh yeah you won't and you'll be too scared cause you might have to actually back up your words with physical action. This is what us men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 03:53 PM |
| 4 | Men are not obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted, but it does seem that women are more likely to stop and ask the hurt person if they're okay, offer comfort, and provide help/call for help.1 out 10. You're being really generous here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 02:57 PM |
| – | CMV: (long) You'd see less guys flocking to the ''manosphere'' if people were honest about the unfairness of dating.When women hear these plights it's always "iT wOnT cHaNgE aNyThInG!" when men complain but when women on TWO X complain "You're right girl! men are trash!". Unless you go in there and tell women the same thing or women in general that it won't change anything, then your hipocrisy is obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Fairness/equality if the dating landscape could only exist if the vast majority of women’s life’s were worse if single.What are you even on about? Where did I even use the number 40 in any part of this conversation? you're literally making shit up now LMAO. You are on crack. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Fairness/equality if the dating landscape could only exist if the vast majority of women’s life’s were worse if single.No counterargument. Noted. It's obvious you didn't read anything I said. Begging ya to work on your reading comprehension bruhster | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 11:48 PM |
| 0 | Fairness/equality if the dating landscape could only exist if the vast majority of women’s life’s were worse if single.do some community service This is a common suggestion. And I say it's also ludicrous to believe men who feel like they are seen as a cog in the machine with their value tied solely to their ability to produce and not seen as people will feel better by doing more unpaid labor. This is what I meant to say I don't owe society any more than my ability to not be a problem and pay my taxes. Just “is it really that bad” to be single? Which you kinda described yourself as “not really” It does suck but t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 06:03 AM |
| 0 | Fairness/equality if the dating landscape could only exist if the vast majority of women’s life’s were worse if single.Your last suggestion was basically "become an alchoholic bro! That will make you feel better bro" Ummm no lol. I already do hobbies and go to the gym. Plus renovations. This will never be a replacement for a relationship. I get that society doesn't owe me one. That's fair enough. But I don't owe anything to society either besides ability to sustain myself without being a drain and basic courtesy. I'll be damned before I go out and do shit for free on top of my already stressful job and high tax … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Fairness/equality if the dating landscape could only exist if the vast majority of women’s life’s were worse if single.Hang out with friends, do some really fun hobbies. You and your bros go out and party somewhere, road trip, bar hop, hell: hit a strip club or something. They're all married gigabro of broness. Plus I'm not getting shitfaced when I have to get up early for work and a mortgage to pay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 03:32 AM |
| 6 | Some research or survey came out saying 45% of men aged 18-25 have never approached a women.which renders their original advice meaningless because why suggest the hobby as a way to get women in the first place? This. This right here. It encompasses so much worthless advice peddled to men in the realm of dating. "You don't get women cause you need to be nicer!". If he is nicer, then it goes "you shouldn't be nice to just to get women!". Then why suggest that as a method to get women in the first place? lol. Also "you should try getting in really good shape to get women!". Then a man ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 11:56 PM |
| 8 | CMV: women aren't empathetic caring individualsMen are human beings who are just as capable of being terrible people as women. Duh. The thing is that's already universally understood and always has. There's still a current bias in found in psychological and sociological research which suggests that people associate more positive attributes with women when compared to men. This is the actual problem. Many still not believing women are capable of being just as terrible. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women-are-wonderful_effect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 12:49 AM |
| 3 | Women are not entitled to anything from menYep. The only argument they have is "well it's a man so it's your job to police your own and keep them in line!". I ask, how many women have stood up to other women who have divorced raped men or ruined a man's life by false accusations? Did women bother to at least shame those other women?? Didn't think so. Some even going "you go girl!" for divorce raping men. Done literally 0 to police their own. Therefore, it's not my responsibility at all to police other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Many women who complain that men only ever want one thing don't seem to offer much elseExactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Women are not entitled to anything from menExaclty. You can't get any more entitled than demanding that a complete stranger risk life and limb for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 08:33 PM |
| 0 | Women saying that men would be more attractive if they were more confident is a double-bind.I think one needs to hit a certain bar before confidence can really help you. If overall counting face and height you're a 6 or 7, confidence can help an otherwise shy and introverted man. However if you're a 3 or a 4, you are going to get some very bad reactions hitting on women that are 7s or 8s. No matter how confident you are. They may even be offended and you can get the cops or security of the venue called. A man in that situation should instead focus on not being a 3 or 4 instead of devel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 07:48 PM |
| 4 | Many women who complain that men only ever want one thing don't seem to offer much elseNever said you were illiterate. I said you need to work on your reading comprehension. Which you do. It looks like you're clearly still struggling. Saying things that don't align with reality is a symptom of psychosis. Telling you things that are factually correct is not a tantrum. It's a legitimate urge for you to seek help with the above mentioned. Addressing a post about one side's manipulation in specific instances with pointing out the other side's instances of the equivalent form is 100% f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Many women who complain that men only ever want one thing don't seem to offer much elseSo you accuse people of saying things they never actually said and when they factually point this out to you, they are just throwing a temper tantrum and whining? Ok. Very funny to accuse someone of being mentally ill when your whole point boils down to ‘but imagine if there was someone who was secretly bad!’ okay, that’s cool to imagine. What now? Yeah a woman acting differently around a more conventionally attractive man. I wonder why that could be? Sometimes it's obvious social cues. So did e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 08:49 PM |
| 3 | Many women who complain that men only ever want one thing don't seem to offer much elsein some instances Do you not see where I said this? Begging ya to work on reading comprehension. Thanks for the singular anecdote I have also experienced this myself. Had a woman who dated me sometime later after dating my friend and the difference was like night and day. Long story but I can tell you. this gripping story about how a woman was more attracted to one of your friends than the other is applicable to literally every woman on earth You're the one making these generalizations though, n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 07:17 PM |
| 11 | Many women who complain that men only ever want one thing don't seem to offer much elseHow are women scumbags for being boring on dates? Ffs work on your reading comprehension. I never said that. It's not the being boring part that makes them scumbags. It's the using men part. The being boring is just the telltale sign that it's happening in some instances. I've literally seen it a bit of times. One example is in my friend group when I was younger. One guy who was 5'6 average trying to get with another girl and she dating him but he told me how he felt he was putting in all the ef… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 06:47 PM |
| 14 | Many women who complain that men only ever want one thing don't seem to offer much elseOn the other side of the coin, some of these women that are supposedly "boring" and are just not that interested and just looking for the ego validation, for men to do all the work, be their jester, and buy them shit. If it was Chad, they would be lighting up, smiling, giggling the entire time and actually making a sincere effort to keep the conversation going. These women are scumbags too for stringing men along they aren't really interested in. Inb4 the man should know better as they are no di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Women often confuse drama for passion and that's why they get bored of stabilityYou don't have a stable romantic connection, you have apathy. You no longer care or are truly invested in a romantic way in those women. You are roomies with a pretense. You are not romancing or passionate, you're just objects at rest together. Who are you even talking about here? me? the woman? When did I even say I got bored of any relationship? No offense but you're not making alot of sense here. Men think they have a stable romantic connection. They don't. The fact the woman dumps you becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Women often confuse drama for passion and that's why they get bored of stabilityNot just women. But no, this isn't a female specific trait I'm pretty sure I did. Basically saying that both sides do this in which I am challenging that take. Men crave stability and are happier with it far more than women. It's women that get bored far more when there is not enough drama in the relationship. I feel your post attempts to deflect real observations by saying everyone does this when one side does it exponentially more. If that's not what you meant then what was it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 07:45 PM |
| 3 | Women often confuse drama for passion and that's why they get bored of stabilityAh basically using the old "n-no u" saying that men do this too. I have never once seen in my life seen a man friendzone a woman that is attractive, a good home maker, and mother because she didn't have enough attitude or cause enough trouble in the relationship. Basically give a man a woman that is attractive, and good wife material and you will never see him going "I don't feel that spark" or "I like you b-but as a friend". A man who is decently attractive, has a career, a home and money can b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Women often confuse drama for passion and that's why they get bored of stabilityNot saying it doesn't exist but responding to OP's post with what basically amounts to "oh those crazy women that grew up in chaotic household" is dismissive of his observation when this is all they have to add to his post. A lot of men can relate that this happens frequently enough where it can't all be blamed on unstable households. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 07:19 PM |
| 1 | A female misandrist's handbook on how to destroy a man's life via false acussationsSave that as a download. There should be a download option on the bottom right to save as PDF. Yoink! will be saving this and reading their strategies to defend myself against. | /r/MensRights | 08/08/24 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Women often confuse drama for passion and that's why they get bored of stabilityThis basically sounds like another "there is trivial amount of women like this and they are all crazy". Just another midwit take and more denial. Sure sure lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 02:39 AM |
| – | Men also label women who they find unattractive " creeps"LMAO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 06:34 PM |
| – | Men also label women who they find unattractive " creeps"This. What a woman would have to do to be called creepy would be things that would get men labeled a giga creep and starring in a netflix series about creeps and stalkers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 07:29 AM |
| 3 | 1000s of women rally to stop a documentary showcasing systematic discrimination against black men.Women: "We know you men have problems but we aren't going to address your issues. Your feelings and struggles are not our problem. You men need to do that yourselves." Men: *do it themselves* Women: "NOOOOOO!! YOU WEREN'T SUPPOSED TO ACTUALLY DO IT! That was just to shut you up at the time about your struggles. But you weren't supposed to actually do it! Take this down! hate crimes!" | /r/MensRights | 29/07/24 01:30 AM |
| 1 | As a woman I feel really bad for orbiters. I admit there are certain types of unscrupulous women who won't hesitate to maintain plausible deniability as long as she can and use him for funds/networks/emotional validationWell not always. When someone points out female privelege, double standards, and lack of accountability, there is also a toxic feminist enforcement wing consisting mosltly of clueless overcompensating TRP guys come out of the woodworks and try to silence everyone discussing it. It's ironic how polar opposite they are to the bluepill white knights but both do the exact same thing. Tell everyone to stfu and enforcing accountability for men only. At least the blupiller is aware of his allegiance to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 12:30 AM |
| 2 | As a woman I feel really bad for orbiters. I admit there are certain types of unscrupulous women who won't hesitate to maintain plausible deniability as long as she can and use him for funds/networks/emotional validationExactly. They're both scumbags. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 04:07 PM |
| 8 | As a woman I feel really bad for orbiters. I admit there are certain types of unscrupulous women who won't hesitate to maintain plausible deniability as long as she can and use him for funds/networks/emotional validationAh accountability applies to the male gender only, gotcha. I'm sure society will run uber smoothly when half the population is held to almost no degree of accountability. Noted. I bet you're another one of those guys that tries to act like he's redpill, proud to be male, beating his chest; while being so obvlivious to the absolute tool he is for the toxic feminists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 05:08 AM |
| 14 | As a woman I feel really bad for orbiters. I admit there are certain types of unscrupulous women who won't hesitate to maintain plausible deniability as long as she can and use him for funds/networks/emotional validationOf course it's always the man's fault. Always. When chad uses a woman for sex and fuckzones them, it's his fault and he's immediately labeled a scumbag. Or even if I do that. Accountability never falls on the woman for putting up with bullshit or as a rite of womanhood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 03:35 AM |
| 4 | Vent cuz I’ve got insomnia and it’s 1:41a.m. For meIt's crazy how feminists enforcment wing consists of heavily of other men. You know those that try to keep other men from pointing out women's privelege and hatred of society towards men. They come in different flavors. 1) Then the "stfu pussy! life is hard. No one cares" acting like they are trying to help you. Though I don't despise this type as much if they also act like this towards entitled women. A lot of the time though they are just like that towards other men while never holding women a… | /r/MensRights | 18/07/24 06:53 AM |
| – | Is there a presumption that posters/commenters here are neurodivergent?Is there a presumption that everyone in this sub is somehow not a "normie"? And then rehashed again on the post. If that's not your question, what are you asking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 08:24 PM |
| – | Is there a presumption that posters/commenters here are neurodivergent?Is there a presumption that posters/commenters here are neurodivergent? and Is there a presumption that everyone in this sub is somehow not a "normie"? I told you who makes those presumptions. It's "inappropriate" by your standards probably cause you don't like to hear the truth. If that's not what you're asking, what in the actual hell are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Is there a presumption that posters/commenters here are neurodivergent?Are you implying men call women this as well with anywhere in the same ballpark level of frequency? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Is there a presumption that posters/commenters here are neurodivergent?"Neurodivergent" is the new "incel". Just a generic buzzword that's losing all meaning. It's become the new all-purpose feminist go-to when a valid counterargument cannot be formed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Have any of you seen the Barbie Movie?According to feminists, the only emotion you are allowed to show as a man is anger when it's being used to defend a woman. Cause that's what Real Men ™ do. Cause if you are angry for other reasons you are a loose cannon that needs to be watched closely and if you're sad then you're a pussy and a crybaby whiner. | /r/MensRights | 07/07/24 09:33 PM |
| 4 | African woman here, why do men stay silent in the west?As a POC who grew up always voting blue because I hated the right's racism, I'm slowly starting to see the left's sexism starting to overtake the right's racism. It's not quite there yet but it's getting there. I don't like either but I never thought I'd see the day where I would even consider voting for trump. Again the lesser of the evils. | /r/MensRights | 07/07/24 07:15 PM |
| 2 | A Woman with ''No Kids and Not Fat'' is actually a high standard compared to the average manThe thing is it shouldn't be a high standard. This is basic life managing and responsibility. I'm not fat and don't have kids either so it's not unreasonable for me to ask for the same. This just further reinforces that the "bar is on the floor" actually applies to women far far more. Imagine being able to have the same sex appeal that runway models did compared to their peers in the 70s by simply putting the fork down and not popping out kids. Imagine if us men had a life hack that easy to be i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Men who are trying to "woo" a woman (by working out, getting hobbies, dressing better, being charismatic/funny, getting rich, etc.) need to ask themselves if a girl would ever do that to get him.That isn't the gotcha that you think it is. It's like telling Americans "ok so you don't like who's running the country right now....what has changed? gotcha lelel" that's basically what you sound like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Question for women - why do women shame men for having standards? What is the actual reason for this?go to bed and wake up tomorrow to a thread here from men complaining about how they're so cool and obese land whale whores There is no such thread where the topic of discussion is about how a man is so cool and there are obese land whale whores (only for quoting what you said.) That is off topic and also counts as uncivilized discussion which againt the rules of the sub. And then you say: It's a debate forum, silly bear. We're here to judge. If you want the dickless rainbow feelings affirmation … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 07:16 AM |
| 11 | Question for women - why do women shame men for having standards? What is the actual reason for this?most guys on this sub No I call out that sort of assholery when I see it. I'm willing to bet you've never called any woman out when doing the same. If so, you don't actually hate "assholery" but "assholery when done by men". Go to Two x and FDS and see plenty of women talking bad about men and doing this assholery thing you speak of but I'm sure you're eerily silent there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 04:17 AM |
| 3 | Question for women - why do women shame men for having standards? What is the actual reason for this?because she's not likely to say that as cruel First that and now I have no real problem with cruelty deployed in friendly bantering situations. Ok, very well, so let's say you're ok with cruelty behind closed doors. Are we not behind closed doors here on an anonymous forum like reddit? If so, why do you judge the way men talk on an anonymous forum like in your next statement: go to bed and wake up tomorrow to a thread here from men complaining about how they're so cool and obese land whale whore… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 03:34 AM |
| 6 | Question for women - why do women shame men for having standards? What is the actual reason for this?What ideology or podcast revolves solely around hating certain types women? If you're talking about things like redpill saying how women are no longer traditional like they used to, I will say 1) that's not the sole talking point and 2) how many times have we heard women in public saying "where have all the real men gone?" and how tall they have to be. What makes a real man and what doesn't. Shoving us into our own gender role.That's so completely mainstream and acceptable that you don't even ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 02:57 AM |
| 3 | Question for women - why do women shame men for having standards? What is the actual reason for this?You can't tell me you've never heard a woman in your life say she didn't want some short midget, or ugly fat or old guy in a cruel way. If you've never called a single one of these women out, you need to do some introspection and see your obvious bias. For example, I would receive a ton of backlash for saying the female equivalent of your earlier statement: some fat old horn dog bemoaning If I said "some fat old whore" it would be taken as cruel when it's the same thing you are saying about men.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 02:03 AM |
| 5 | Question for women - why do women shame men for having standards? What is the actual reason for this?Yes they do I have literally never seen this. If I'm having a casual convo with my boys at work that we need to know our worth and only date fit women, she can go to HR and label me a misogynist and I will have a talk. If a woman is talking with her girls about only dating tall fit guys, no one will bat an eye. I ask which gender is the "whiny little bitch" here? The one that cries and has meltdowns trying to get someone cancelled cause of his preferences or the other? Lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Question for women - why do women shame men for having standards? What is the actual reason for this?I think any backlash is rooted in the same mentality that makes men get angry about women wanting men who are 6 ft tall and successful. Except men don't label a woman who wants an in-shape 6ft tall guy as a misandrist the same way women label men mysoginist for wanting a woman that's in shape and low body count. It sounds like a "men do this too" but it's nowhere close for comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 12:46 AM |
| 3 | Question for women - why do women shame men for having standards? What is the actual reason for this?The problem comes when you have some fat old horn dog bemoaning that he can't find any young skirt to hop on his dick and be his wife because they're all too fat. Ok so I assume you also shame 5'3 obese women with 3 kids that ask for a 6ft+ foot chad that's in shape? 🤔. If you're a woman I'm willing to assume that's highly unlikely and you only shame men. Edit: My response was before you edited and added everything after "because they are all too fat.." sentence. Same point stands though. If you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 12:08 AM |
| 7 | 95% of bad Dating decisions by man (single moms, girls with several trauma which cheat on you) happen because those dudes have no options, the argument "they just love them" is manipulation and our society needs to stop with this. Be real."Low value" can often just mean anyone below 5'7 even if he has the rest of his shit together. So it looks like "why would one of these men that has his shit together dating one of these women?". Cause he has only those options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 05:47 PM |
| 6 | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenWomen on PPD's response to every study with evidence be like "tHaT dOeSn'T aCcOuNt fOr... 🥴": "B-b-but that doesn't account for all the axe murderers" "That doesn't account for guys in Zimbabwe" "That doesn't account for extraterestial lifeforms that may one day make potential suitors" Just keep going to infinity instead of admiting there may be a problem. Example study: Germany received higher test scores on SATs than Americans "That doesn't account for all the Americans that weren't able to ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 02:21 AM |
| 4 | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenLmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 08:33 PM |
| 8 | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenIdgaf personally. I'd be totally fine with it if it was to prove the current state and challenges of the dating market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 07:31 PM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to deal with successive rejections?This. Had women literally touch my shoulder smiling and looking happy only to say no when I asking them out. Some literally get off on doing this to random men. So le read the room doesn't always work. At least I along with most men don't go around smiling and touching unattractive and obese women and acting like we're interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 09:54 PM |
| 5 | "men arent *allowed* to..."How about this: Women are allowed to use BOTH the woman's weapons and the man's tools of old. See social experiments where if a man is beating a woman in public, someone will step in or do something; however, when a woman is punching or physically assaulting a man, no one will do or say anything and some will even think it's funny. Same with male victim of dv. Men are at an extreme disadvantage in western society due to this and some women still have the audacity to say they are le opressed gend… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 02:48 AM |
| – | Manipulative, charming, uncaring, lying men get laid the mostFalse equivalence. A lot of douchebags women date are known douchebags with a history of cheating, sleeping around, getting fights etc. A foodie woman on a dating app can much more easily mask her intentions. I guarantee you if the man knew she had a history of doing this, he would think twice while the reverse is not true for women. For women it's "oh I know he's a douchebag but I can change him. He's just misunderstood 😍". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Ranking your own SMV/RMVOh for sure. But the only ones that get an overall 10 are like celebrities. Definetely not your local chad but more like dwayne johnson, 50 cent etc. So they're the ones that set the bar. Knowing that, it's not too bad to use. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/24 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Ranking your own SMV/RMVhttps://smvcalculator.com/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/24 03:47 PM |
| – | Autistic men should accept that autism is a serious condition and people have the right to not want to date an autistic manWhile I agree with what you're saying, I will also say: Autistic men Obese women should accept that autism obesity is a serious condition and people have the right to not want to date an an autistic man obese woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 11:19 PM |
| 1 | The great "checklist" bait-and-switch (why most dating advice is useless)Don't forget the guy who doesn't approach women being told "Dude, just talk to them! Be straightforward with them. Grow a pair!" and when he does "Dude you're coming accross as desperate! No woman likes that. Tone it down!" Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 05:13 AM |
| – | Case study: A top 10% man who has it all. Why aren’t women interested in him?They used to be a lot better. This is how my sister and some of my closest friends found their SO still going strong. My sister got a divorce last year but was married for about 8 years. About 2008-2015 was the golden age of OLD. It's from here that they realized everytime it worked as intended they lost two customers. So now they make it difficult to match on anything besides looks and swiping. You used to actually be able to look up people by interests and hobbies and other stuff. Now it's fil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/24 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Men should stop prioritizing decency when it comes to dating as it's something irrelevant to modern women's' attractionI sure wouldn't but there are countless examples where women have for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/24 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Men should stop prioritizing decency when it comes to dating as it's something irrelevant to modern women's' attractionI noticed on a lot of paragraphs I write, you're only addressing the first one or two sentences I say and you are not reading the rest because that would involve you actually having to think of a valid counterargument. You're not in any way shape of form debating in good faith. If you want people to listen to you, then you need to do just that. Which I know you won't. This is why you bluepillers are losing ground more and more each day. You are not the good guys and you resort to amateur gasligh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/24 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Men should stop prioritizing decency when it comes to dating as it's something irrelevant to modern women's' attractionHere and there! Sometimes I friendzone them, sometimes they friendzone me, sometimes we date for a while and it doesn't work out for one reason or another. Having friends isn't exactly a bad thing. If this has happened to you several times, maybe it might be time to take a cue and see why this keeps happening. On you though. It's lying if they said they want nice guys and then they turned around and said "lol jk." Or if the advice is useless in practice. It's like saying politicians haven't lied… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Men should stop prioritizing decency when it comes to dating as it's something irrelevant to modern women's' attractionOr they might do that! In which case, great! You’ve got a friend with whom you can be vulnerable. I’ve had that happen as well and have stayed good friends with a woman like that. Seems like a win win to me. Sounds like this happens to you quite often. I'm not suprised lmao. No. I’m saying unless the specific women you spoke to said you shouldn’t have taken it literally than you haven’t been lied to. Yes the advice was worthless and false. That means lying. Stop applying things generally. It’s n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Men should stop prioritizing decency when it comes to dating as it's something irrelevant to modern women's' attractionIf you want to just fuck, then yeah all you really need is to be attractive and rich. If you want to be attractive, as in have a place where women not just want to fuck you but also spend time with you, being nice and respectful carries a lot of weight, in my experience. Or they'll friendzone you when you become too vulnerable. You say that "life" tells you that women are lying, but unless the specific women you're talking to have told you that they weren't being serious, So you're saying unless… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Women harp endlessly about entitlement and men feeling “owed” but in reality most people expect to be able get someone similar to them in all areas and framing this as “entitlement” is a deflection from the real issueI think you're both right here. The market you are in does indeed determine your value. However, we can compare the current market to other markets and the way our own market has been in the past. For an analogy, if someone is asking for 925,000 for a 1500 squarefoot home with fire damage in Los angeles, anyone from 20 years ago would go "what in the actual hell??lmao" but today someone may actually pay that price regardless. It would seem outrageous to those who remember the market in the past … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/24 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Men should stop prioritizing decency when it comes to dating as it's something irrelevant to modern women's' attractionI mean I can tell you that I’m often described as “nice sweet and sensitive” and it seems that’s why women like me/women recommend me to their friends to date. Sure pal. The "women recommend me to their friends", I believe. The "why women like me" lmao sure. I don’t know who is trying to tell you that you shouldn’t take that sort of comment seriously, Life. but it seems to certainly be an issue of “I read this general advice” and it’s not applying in that exact way you thought it would. Read my … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/24 05:27 PM |
| 7 | Men should stop prioritizing decency when it comes to dating as it's something irrelevant to modern women's' attractionGrowing up in the 80s, 90s, and even early 00s when ya asked a woman what kinda man she was looking for, it was always some variation of "I want a nice, sweet, sensitive guy". When you asked your mom, sister, aunt, female friends, your friend's sisters, literally anything with a vagina, you got that response. Now the bluepillers attempt to gaslight us saying that was never said when a metric fuckton of men can vouch that it's exactly that they heard as well. It's becoming an old trope now with t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/24 03:44 AM |
| 7 | Men should stop prioritizing decency when it comes to dating as it's something irrelevant to modern women's' attractionThe analogy is to highlight the silliness of "I said I wanted something, sure - but did you take that literally??" and refusal to take any accountability. Showing how stupid and impractical it is applied to anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/24 03:31 AM |
| 29 | Men should stop prioritizing decency when it comes to dating as it's something irrelevant to modern women's' attractionExactly. Women are now attempting to deny the nice guy thing with things like "when we said we liked nice guys all those years, did you take that literally!? Shouldn't it be obvious what we want!?" If I go to a dealership and say I want to buy a prius and the salesperson shows up with one, imagine me actually going "you thought I actually wanted a prius?? It's obvious I wanted the big f-150 truck! Isn't it obvious by looking at me!?". I think men have finally shamed women enough that the nice gu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 10:05 PM |
| 12 | It has never been easier to approach womenLook at her lmao. As if she should have any reason to be shocked or upset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Men, why won't you commit?Exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Men, why won't you commit?Well not so fast. Money and status can can enhance those already existsing feelings. But they have to already be there to begin with. If you are a balding 5'3 indian guy, even if you're a millionaire, you will be unlikely to give her those tingles. Also being confident won't likely do any good here either if you're that 5'3 indian guy. So you do have to have at least some level of physical attractiveness. Acting like a complete wuss though even if you have a good career, house, etc will still to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Men, why won't you commit?This is one of the truest and most honest things written by a woman on here. Women are 100% capable of being good, attentive, and even acting somewhat like a trad wife - for the right man. Read that again - the right man. Not even money will do that. Only that "tingle" feeling can. I can 100% tell when I gave women the tingle in past relationships and how they acted towards me compared to when I didn't. If you attract a woman rationally i.e have a good career, house, good credit etc you will sti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 05:58 AM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Telling you that you suffer from intellectual disability alongside a point isnt an ad hominem. If I tell you suffer from autism and intellectuall disabity a hundred times while i prove to you that 2+2=4 there is no ad hominem because telling you those things does not replace the argument. My argument is still consistent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 03:33 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.You don't know people's perceptions so that's a dumb premise from the start This is a commonly held social perception that even feminists rarely argue. If you're too autistic or socially stunted to understand though, here's actual studies that show the bias in perception for women vs men https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women-are-wonderful_effect On top of that I also think you suffer from intellectual disability as you are not able to see the conversation with the other user I was having where s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 03:48 AM |
| 3 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.It has everything to do with it since my argument is the negative perception that people have of men when relationships end. It shows that when it's only two women coupled, they have higher divorce rates and domestic violence as opposed to only two men coupled. Showing where the problem actually resides. If you can't handle the truth and facts, then go cry in corner somewhere lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 10:25 PM |
| 2 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.This just shows that men have a higher likelihood of attempting a second marriage overall. Doesn't incorporate if they immediately remarried again, if there was infidelity from one side or the other or any of the circumatances surrounding it. Not sure what kinda "gotcha" this is supposed to be. Again, this doesn't disprove there is still a more negative perception of men when it comes to who's fault it was that a relationship or marriage ended. Fun fact: Lesbian relationships have the highest le… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 10:01 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.The word "celebrating" is not represetative of my argument. If a woman leaves a man for another whether it was cheating or she just shortly got with him after, she is more likely to have been justified and the blame placed on the man and his shortcomings. When a man does the same, he was a horny bastard that couldn't contain himself and not that the ex was toxic abusive etc. Blame allocation is not the same as celebrating. You can see it as an unfortunate event but who the blame goes to is the m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 09:49 PM |
| 2 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Yes I along with most men can | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 09:25 PM |
| 2 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Yes, if you set the bar low enough most men can do this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 09:12 PM |
| 2 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Are you asking this rhetorically? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 09:05 PM |
| 2 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.The term "monkeybranching" came along and was coined almost entirely in reference to female behavior and not male. Men who aren't in the top 20% will do anything they can to keep a female of any decent quality in today's dating market because they have far less options. Women just reply to one of their DMs and it's of to the cheating races. So you saying average men do this more than average women when we have about one tenth of the options makes little sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 08:19 PM |
| 2 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.you're still pretty shitty Does this not imply some degree of accountability if you think this is the correct perception for a man that engages in this? As long as you think women that know they aren't going to actually commit seriously to a man and use him for entertainment, money, food, etc are also shitty then we agree. That's mostly what I'm arguing. A man that does this is a scumbag but when a woman that does this, it's the man's fault and he should have known better. One is held in contemp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 08:01 PM |
| 3 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Fair enough. So are you saying though if I punch down and date women lower in attractiveness/overweight and just have hookups and casual relationships, it's their fault if they fall for my tricks and the accountability falls solely on them and not me? 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 07:33 PM |
| 8 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.The only thing I'm arguing here is that if a woman finds a better man, society's perception is that the previous guy was probably a lazy asshole and had it coming. When a man finds a better woman, he was disloyal and behaved immorally. You can't tell me there aren't women that do this too and yet society's perception is still skewed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 06:50 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.So if you are saying men are 100% accountable for their results, would you say this is true of women as well when chasing Chad? That it's up to her to keep him interested lest he find better options as well? Would you say all the women that thought they could keep Chad and felt like they were being used as a placeholder instead should be the ones solely to blame? If not, and you believe accountability doesn't apply to 50% of the population, then you can't tell me you're expecting me to take your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 06:34 PM |
| 13 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Getting complacent and allowing the relationship to become stale is probably the number 1 thing that will end in pain for you. Especially/ usually for men in particular. It’s always going to be some level of effort if you want a quality relationship And sometime you as the man are the one making 70%-80% of the effort and that woman is just keeping you around to boost her ego till a better option comes along. This is especially true with more attractive women who have a plethora of options. Of co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 03:59 PM |
| 12 | Is there a hill that you would die on when it comes to standards for a relationship?This 1000 fold. Just ended a relationship with someone due this. At 36 now this is ridiculous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 08:47 PM |
| 3 | What are men allowed to complain about today?The worst thing about this is men are still gaslight to believe none of this is real and any man that points it out is an incel, crazy, etc. When is society finally gonna shift and make any meaningful change on these matters? We're not even asking to have sex here, jesus fuck. We just don't want to be wandering alone in solitude for the next 30-40 years or whatever time we have left on this earth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 02:55 AM |
| 3 | Women created & perpetuate "toxic masculinity"About time we started deleting their comments the same way they delete any opinion that's different on Two-X no matter how respectfully it's communicated. They literally come here to troll and talk shit and we used to leave their comments up to take the high road no matter how rude, off-topic, or vitriolic it was to men. Great job mods. About time. | /r/MensRights | 01/03/24 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Relationships are not 50/50the sheer tone of your comment Are you...reading my words with imagined tone, and emotions behind them? You listed things than you did and things that she didn't do, to begin with. This is quite a disingenuous move, which puts you in a positive light and her in the negative light from the get go. But if a woman was complaining about a man and only telling her side of the story which is what is shown on Two-X dozens of times daily it's not disingenous right?Literally go there right now and see ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 07:17 AM |
| -6 | Relationships are not 50/50Well let's see with my ex. I made 40k more. Listened to her problems all day. Just non-stop complaining. Pampered and massaged her. She was also a workaholic who only brought me food occasionally, went to bed, and gave the occasional lazy sex. It's what the average guy has to do these days to keep a woman that's at least a 6/10. Made almost twice as much as her while also tending to her needs around the clock. "50/50" my ass. Realized my masseuse and unpaid therapist side gig were way too exhaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel like a lot of redpill or jaded men have undiagnosed neuro conditions?Just another gaslight by bluepill and feminists. So basically bluepillers can blatantly lie about things and when faced with overwhelming evidence and proven they have always lied they fall back to "ok maybe I did say those things but did you take that literally? You have a mental condition" instead of admiting they obviously lied. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 11:34 PM |
| – | Why do high SMV men tend to ruthlessly banter other men in a new social setting?Yeah was part of two friend groups like this and telling someone that something they are doing is bothering you usually leads to more jokes and ribbing. It takes a good right cross to the jaw or eye to make them go "oh wait, you're serious?" Lol. Would just be easier if they listened. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 08:42 PM |
| – | Why do high SMV men tend to ruthlessly banter other men in a new social setting?This is so true and really well written. A lot of men have a hard time switching off the "light/funny" way of communicating. This especially true amongst the bro or jock type. Everything has to be a joke, diss, or banter 24/7. Nothing is ever communicated due to this weird phobia of ever having serious heart to heart talks cause it "might be gay". Usually has to get phyiscal to see that you're not playing around anymore. This way of talking eventually causes two individuals to reach a boiling po… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 08:29 PM |
| – | Why do high SMV men tend to ruthlessly banter other men in a new social setting?Or when there’s an understanding in that group that there’s one guy who likes a certain girl, then another guy from the group (usually the one with the higher SMV) hooks up with her anyway. And if someone calls him out, he’s just going to claim he had no idea because no one explicitly said “X has a crush on Y”, even though everyone knew This isn't always true though. I had a friend that ended up hating me cause the girls he would bring endep up crushing on me. I literally didn't even do anything… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 07:00 PM |
| 24 | Most men are struggling to find their equivalent, which is why TRP has not only spilled over into the mainstream but become common sense>women underrate themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 08:05 PM |
| 3 | Men and women can never truly be equal because women get their rights from men.It's always been painted throughout history as if men were always living the high life when in reality we weren't. Most men lived like this picture. Not all of us were monarchs, emperors, or kings. The vast majority of men were built with the purpose of fullfilling jobs (sometimes dangerous ones), hunting, and cannon fodder in wars. If feminism thinks we need to keep focusing on past transgressions, then us men can also need to pull up our own list of our receipts. Why don't we have the first al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 08:31 PM |
| 4 | when nice guys complain about their situation is not because being nice didnt get them a girlfriend, but because they can see guys who are far from nice doing way better, but women manipulatively twist this narrative to bully them.LMAO are you serious right now?? See OLD and Tinder 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 07:14 PM |
| 3 | when nice guys complain about their situation is not because being nice didnt get them a girlfriend, but because they can see guys who are far from nice doing way better, but women manipulatively twist this narrative to bully them.You're missing the point though. If a woman has a choice between a 5'2 indian guy that works at a gas station, is nice to everyone, and volunteers at a soup kitchen and a 6'2, white chiseled rich guy, who is a douche, she is most likely going to choose the ladder. The real bare minimum has nothing to do with niceness in the realm of dating and seduction. If it did, douchebag wouldn't ever get laid cause he doesn't meet "the bare minimum". This is what I'm disputing. The real "bare minimum" has n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 07:03 PM |
| 5 | when nice guys complain about their situation is not because being nice didnt get them a girlfriend, but because they can see guys who are far from nice doing way better, but women manipulatively twist this narrative to bully them.That doesn't refute that "being nice is the bare minimum" is still a blatant lie. The real "bare minimum" is being a certain height, looking a certain way, and making a certain amount of money cause if you do, you have much more leeway to be an asshole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 04:15 PM |
| 3 | Women safe places on reddit are fucking bullshit and only cause a bigger divide between men and women.Womens and they seemed to be mostly women discussing like...lady shit? Is this saracasm?? Women's issues? 🤣🤣🤣. See the front page on Two x right NOW. 16 out of 26 have a mention of men and things they are bitching about them. And that's just the ones I can pick staright out. All the vague ones like "I'm so mad right now..." are more than likely involving men also. Just a typical day there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 11:59 PM |
| 3 | Women safe places on reddit are fucking bullshit and only cause a bigger divide between men and women.perpetually angry over things you see online Lmao since TWO-X does nothing of the sort 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Women safe places on reddit are fucking bullshit and only cause a bigger divide between men and women.why do you care or spend so much time there? I ask the same of women that are on male only spaces and are on a eternal quest to get them shut down. Tell them to go somewhere else if it upsets them so much what strangers say and to go meet men in real life 🤷♂️. Women will flock en masse to get a place shut down if it dunks in any way on females. Why don't you be quiet and look the other way instead also? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible for people to lower their standards through therapy?No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Men erroneously confuse being confident with being an asshole with the whole nice guy/asshole dichotomy and womenAnd if men with their lower emotional intelligence can spot this, so can women. Exactly. Yet they have a habit of calling all men they disagree with some type of variation of social retard/neurodivergent when it's so DAMN OBVIOUS. It doesn't matter how attractive he is or how much money he has if he's beat and cheat on the last 3 women he was with, what do you think is gonna happen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Does the Destiny situation prove that redpill is right?HAHHAHHAHAHAHAHHHAHAH!! 😂😂😂😂 *inhales and catches breath* HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHH!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 01:38 AM |
| 2 | If someone is content being single, then their standards can be as high as they wantMasculinity is achievable through will. Tell that to the 5'3 guy lmao. Sure, he can be masculine -- but not in a sexually attractive way. This is what we're talking about in this post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Do women understand that not all misogynists are incels and not all incels are misogynists?Regardless of your personal feelings towards him, it doesn't do anything to disprove what I said. He is a guy who is literally known almost entirely for his mysogyny and he is most definitely not an incel. Which proves mysogyny doesn't always align with inceldom. Women will state the problem with some of those blackpill guys is their mysogyny when the actual problem is mostly that they are undesirable. If they were like andrew with his height and money, their celibacy problem would most likely d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Do women understand that not all misogynists are incels and not all incels are misogynists?Because of course every man who disagrees with anything said by 3rd wave femnists must be an incel. Espcially the parts that drone on about how stupid and worthless we are. Meanwhile I'm sure guys like [this](https://cdn.vox-cdn.com/thumbor/0osmYp59tmrryfsY-nZWz5wZB4A=/0x0:3264x2176/1200x0/filters:focal(0x0:3264x2176):no_upscale()/cdn.vox-cdn.com/uploads/chorus_asset/file/7849127/Steve_Saporito_and_Spencer_Edwards.JPG) are most certainly swimming in the poontang | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 10:44 PM |
| 6 | Do women understand that not all misogynists are incels and not all incels are misogynists?If you're attractive and or have enough money, misogyny is a non-issue. See andrew tate here confidently expressing his views in the presence of several women. If he were a broke 5'2 indian guy, women wouldn't go anywhere near him and he would be rejected not only by women but society as a whole and called creepy. Yet andrew believes women are property and yet has no problems getting laid on the regular. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 03:54 AM |
| 22 | CMV, women have a low tolerance for male vulnerability which perpetuates men not expressing their thoughts and feelingsThis why I think sometimes men end up using women for sex without getting into an LTR. Keeping her around in an LTR requires one to be upbeat, stoic, and confident every second of every day. When one start acting like an actual human with real problems, fears, and disappointments, they immediately run for the door. This has been proven countless times by their own experience as well as those of their fellow men. This is not a frame that can realistically be expected for a man to keep 24/7/365. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truthYeah sorry about the sarcasm and sharp tounge. I feel like you're one of those posters that actually listens. I can see why my post came across as generic and why you might have interprted it the way you did. When ya said "saying you were lied to by society as a whole and had no idea at all that women liked confident men" I guess "it's more complicated than that" is the answer. I wanted to cast wider net for audiences. Me saying "has anyone else been raised by a feminist sister, mother, while yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truthMy examples just need to exist for my point to stand. I understand but there also my examples the emphasize my point that a woman values a man's altruism and feelings above all else . I mean it's like saying we shouldn't fall into a consumerist lifestyle where we work all day and our posessions own us because the movie "fight club" exists. Yet this is the propaganda the overwhelming majorty of americans subscribe to in this capitalist system. That movie actually has a very fitting quote in all o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 01:09 AM |
| – | Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truthI have the same ability to flip the argument though for media on you saying can you not see the obvious cues in the examples I provided. May I ask what makes you a foremost expert over everyone else in this regard? What makes your examples any more valid than mine? You can just throw things like "poor media literacy" but not an actual argument on why your message and interpretation is any better. But clearly, we watched the same TV shows/movies/ etc and the stereotype of confident men What makes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truthBelle chasing beast is seen as a subversion by the people around her. Not sure how this is supposed to make a difference as the overall outcome is the same. I’ve seen a ton of women on here saying ‘just be confident’ (to the point most rp guys clown on you for saying that). Those aren't RP, those are straight blackpilled guys. They believe it doesn't make a difference what you do if you don't pass the looks threshold. I'm somewhere in between red and black but but mostly red that's whole other t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 01:02 AM |
| 1 | It's not your fault, you were just born in the wrong timeEven 20 years ago it wasn't this hard. Hit the nail on the head. Even the early to mid 2000s wasn't bad. Remember myspace? Lmao. As on older millenial, I dated around this time and holy shit was it so much easier. This is why no matter how bad the bluepillers try to gaslight me it will never work cause I have a point of reference from before where I know the problem isn't completely me. I actually dated some pretty attractive women during this time that would never look my way today. Young early… | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/11/23 07:39 AM |
| 3 | “Woman” defines incelLmao | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/11/23 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truthI gave examples of why that was not the case and those types of men are everywhere in media. Now you have changed the goal post from ‘successful with women’ to ‘happily married’. I gave examples too. Usually in instances where the evil guy is portrayed as getting women doesn't always mean the overall message of the movie is to aspire to be like him. The evil guy almost always ends up getting his comeuppance regardless of his charisma in the beginning. In this instance, this woman passes up a lit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menFair enough. Lying though in my book is "I have a lamborgini, a PHD, and I'm a celebrity in *insert country here*" compared to not going on a long monologue about your anime obesession, telling her you've never touched a boob, or that you were rejected the last 8 times ya tried to talk to a woman. You do you though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menI'm surprised that you have given validity to anyone who says that attractiveness doesn't matter Him saying average dudes are lying to get laid =/= looks are irrelevant or don't matter. At least cool enough to use it In a non-ironic way to answer something about why people might prefer to look for a partner who is sexually compatible with them. This isn't even grammatically correct and have no idea wtf you're saying. The dowvote is for believing that something as painfully obvious as knowing tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menAh no. It is normal for someone who cares about her sexual pleasure not to want to risk her enjoyment by going with someone inexperienced. Duh. That's the whole point of OPs post. If he tells the truth she will obviously pass him up. She won't value his honesty and integrity over her own sexual desires. But I thought women liked and were turned on by men that were nice, honest, and had integrity above all things though? Lmao Besides, it's dodging a bullet if someone who rejects you for something… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 04:13 AM |
| 0 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menThe common bluepiller gaslights for this always go: "Who ya foolin? She didn't like you too much to begin with" "Ya dodged a bullet" "Why do you care? Move on bro" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truthYeah scooby doo crew finding clues and solving mysteries. It also has a tone of sarcasm if you couldn't tell. I'm aware if what ya said but this isn't about approaching women. Read the OP my dude. The main counter argument is if women say something and if it's taken literally, then a man is too stupid or ASD. In which I ask, if a man tells a fat woman below his league he wants commitment but doesn't actually mean it, should she not have been able to see that? That men don't like calling fat wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 03:30 PM |
| 0 | Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truthWhat about the examples I cited? Are you gonna just pretend you didn't see those? Most of those bad boys you cited aren't presented as guy that will be married and live happy with the woman. If you want to find "true love" you have to be a nice guy. Overall though, what adults and authority figures say in real life trumps what kids see on tv in fictional shows. So every woman Chad tells said he wants an LTR with but doesn't actually mean it, also suffer from ASD? should she not have been able to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 08:34 PM |
| – | Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truthWhat parent or grandparent doesn’t encourage the young men in their family to be successful economically? When I say successful, I don't just mean just economically. The advise of making more money means jack shit on your formative years when you are going to school, not able to have an income, and still learning about the world. The substitute for this is "get good grades and be a good boy". Being socially successful is far more important to getting with women during these formative years when … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truthI love this realization of truth meme. I think a better answer is to say y'all finally engage your brains and empathy centers for the first time and notice the bleeding obvious. Yes it's obvious at this age. A developing 12-16 year old doesn't have the life experience or critical thinking skills that a guy in his mid 20s or 30s has. At a young age, you mostly go based off what authority figures tell you all the time which is mostly that worthless advice. This post is mostly to highlight self awa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truthSo can men also dodge responsibility and tell women to show them their tits on dating apps and if they get offended, say "I didn't mean that literally dear, read between the lines I'm actually a gentleman" You still haven't said anything in response to this. If I call you a retard or other insult, how are you going to take that? If you get mad about it, can I say you shouldn't be taking things so literally. By your same logic I should be able to do that lmao. An alternative to this is: if a man … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 07:51 AM |
| 2 | Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truthI also forgot pacifc islander, native american, middle eastern, east indian, albino, etc. Am I forgeting someone? So you're saying I'm racist cause I didn't add literally every single race in long winded response? Do you know how an etc works right? This is just sad. Y'all need better counterarguments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 05:32 AM |
| 3 | Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truthIf so many mothers told you all to be nice, which I do not believe, why are so many of you assholes? Cause you keep breeding with these guys and getting hot and heavy for them passing on their genetic content? Any guys that would have otherwsie been nice don't get to pass on their genetic content as often. Not all guys are assholes but if the numbers keep climbing in future generations, don't act suprised. Other guys eventually see the truth also and do what it takes which isn't always being an … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truthI even made a post asking women if they had ever given advice that supposedly women give all the time such as "just be nice," and nobody has ever given it. This is literally what you said and how the whole debate even started between us. Where is this post I asked you three times now? Or you are you going to keep acting deliberatily obtuse? Are you ready to admit you lied? But you're changing what will make them "look best." No I told you from the beginning it is contingent on the contents of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 02:21 AM |
| 2 | Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truthBut, according to you, the truth will get them criticized. So why wouldn't they just acknowledge that's the advice they give? What post or in what form is this being asked? This is the third time I ask and you still haven't answered my question. Where is this post you referencing? They will say the thing that will make them look the best at the moment. Sure, but it clearly demonstrates the average response for men is much harsher compared to women. When I said in general I'm not talking about re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 02:05 AM |
| – | Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truthSee how this doesn't make any sense? Cause they know it's useless advice. It makes perfect sense. It depends on what the post is and how the question is asked. What post are you referencing exactly where you asked this? If you said "what do women want?" then you're going to get the nice response mostly but if you said "how many of you provided this worthless advice?", you're going to get a lot of "Not I", "Not I either" responses The number of women killed for rejecting men vs. the reverse would… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 01:42 AM |
| 10 | Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truthWho is out here telling people that being nice gets you anything other than people generally being nice back to you. Not sure if this is a question but I will answer. If asked, this is what a woman will say. They know deep down it isn't true but people would call her shallow, a goldigger, heightist etc if they said the truth. Therefore, they just go for a lazy canned response that will allow them to go about their day. They will say they value a man's altruism and feelings above all else and mov… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 01:06 AM |
| 5 | Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truthCause people would call her shallow, a goldigger, heightist etc if they said the truth. Therefore she just says the response that will lead people to believe she actually values a mans altruism and feelings above all else. This will let her move on with her day. No, that's a complete strawman argument. There is no ill intent or conspiracy behind it. They just want to answer the question and move about their day. Edit: I will add that us men have a thicker skin and will say what we actually want.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 12:19 AM |
| -1 | Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truthCause they know deep down it isn't true and just went for a canned response to create the least amount of conflict. When you post a question like "have you ever told a guy just to be nice?", they know they are getting called out and are obviously going to say they did no such thing. The alternative is "yeah I said that" and get downvoted to oblivion, roasted, and have people have a much less favorable view of women. Why would they do the latter? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truthCause who owns up to anything?. This is human nature across the board. How often do you see people going "I spent a lot of my life telling people things to people that were untrue"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 12:00 AM |
| 10 | Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truthI even made a post asking women if they had ever given advice that supposedly women give all the time such as "just be nice," and nobody has ever given it Obviously no woman is actually going to own up to that. I can point you to several interviews where they interview women asking what they like and none ever say a tall, confident, rich guy. It's always some variation of nice. Being nice is the baseline of belonging to polite society. It does not and never has guaranteed success with women Agre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truthSse the remake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truthI anxiously await your top-notch content though sir | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 11:30 PM |
| -1 | Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truthWell aren’t you just a bundle of insight and joy, I can’t imagine how YOU could be unsuccessful with women Aren't you just a bundle of wisdom, reasoning and sound logic? Who even says I'm not sexually active? I'm just expressing the lies that were told to me and want to make others know. If capturing normal social cues & inferring basic knowledge of the people around you is something you constitute as basically having to be “psychic” I think we have established the problem. But earlier you said.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 11:13 PM |
| 8 | Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truthSorry but how can you as a boy/man miss the obvious messaging in basically every form of media that women like attractive & confident men. I don't think so Tim. The media is far from being on our side on this. Had Aladdin been real, Jamsin would have been on Jafar's knob and not even talked to Alladin and labeled him as creepy. Spiderman peter parker would have been the betabux. The list goes on. Cite me a story where the story ends with the woman actually ending up with the rich evil guy. Paren… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truthThere is a lot of people that still don't believe this. Basically your response is just a longer way to say STFU telling me I should have better things to be doing. You do realize where you are right? A debate sub. It's like going to a bar and wondering everyone is drinking there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truthIt's no shit sherlock to me now but it sure still isn't to a lot of men as evidenced by Nice Guys ™ and other groups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 10:05 PM |
| 8 | Being a good person has nothing to do with how much a man is able to attract womenTed bundy openly got love letters in prison even when women knew he was a serial killer. Here is andrew tate a guy who's entire personality revolves mostly around being a mysoginist comfortably expressing his views in the presence of 10 women. Here is how many people find him attractive on Twitter. According to your logic these men don't meet the bare minimum and yet here they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 07:59 PM |
| 2 | Being a good person has nothing to do with how much a man is able to attract womenThis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Being a good person has nothing to do with how much a man is able to attract womenCriminals tend to attract women who are either criminals themselves, or who have severe mental health issues or substance abuse problems. No they don't. Nobody is buying this gaslight anymore in 2023. I know a ton of bad boys with criminal records that attracted well mannered, attractive, and empathetic women trying "to change them". Women with degrees and successful careers Most men don't have a woman's earning potential at the top of their criteria list. I've seen even some of these women date… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 07:02 PM |
| 11 | The negative reactions to this man having the mildest, basic standards is proof that women is proof that men are not supposed to have standards at all and should just be happy to have any woman interested in them.Woman on internet behaviors Women do bad behavior or try to shame men on the internet: "It's just the internet. Why are you making such a big deal?" "If you care what people on Twitter think, you have bigger things to worry about" "Tiktokers are so goofy and immature it's just a silly joke guys! 🤪" Men do bad behaviors and try to shame women on the internet: "OMG look at these asshole guys tearing into that poor girl!" "This is the perfect example of toxic masculinity!" "They made fun of that wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 06:49 PM |
| 2 | There is no such thing as "settling". You never settled.There is a woman I was friends with that ignored me all through our 20s as I saw her get railed by tall chadly dudes. She gave everyone a chance and always passed me up. She eventually was left by chad not surprisngly, got into drugs, and became homeless. During this whole time I was working on myself. Now she's always posting on how her car doesn't work and life just generally sucks. We started talking again to catch up as friends and she knows I have a nice home, a good job, and also in shape.… | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/11/23 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Daily reminderTo all the white knights crying on this thread, you all do this to us on your own subs /r/TwoXChromosomes/ will permaban you for saying anything contrarian. When ya write to the mods with a well written argument they will respond with "didn't read - banned! lolol" so don't act for moment like you all take the high road. This goes for other places like FB and other social media. Even subs that are supposed to be neutral without an agenda like /r/rant does this. All websites in US are your echo ch… | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/11/23 07:03 PM |
| 1 | "The internet isn't real life" is an extremely outdated line of thinkingExactly, I love how bluepiller's common argument is something like "it's internet and not real life" "touch grass". Women that scream to trap neuter and release cis men is just on the internet and not real life. Yeah they wouldn't actually try in real life (at the moment) with real men cause they know exactly what would happen. But I guarantee you if all these women that liked that post gained enough power legislatively or gathered enough of a simp army to do their dirty work, they absolutely wo… | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/11/23 04:00 AM |
| 1 | "Grindset" is the biggest cope. Do NOT focus on yourself. (unhinged rant + genuine advice)The "I don't care what anyone thinks about me" is the biggest loser mantra of all time. I have literally never heard a single successful person say they attribute their succes to this. The ones who say this in my experience have each and every time been losers that are obese, have hygiene problems, and live with their parents. You can say you don't care what certain groups think like your parents, teachers, liberals, etc but saying you don't care about anybody's opinion is because you know you'r… | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/11/23 03:52 AM |
| 5 | I’m the type that blackpillers claim would never get laid, but I’ve had casual sex with multiple women that are super hot through dating appsIt's a new account too with like 4 points karma. It's almost for sure one of the trolls who posts here using an alternate account. | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/11/23 08:36 PM |
| 9 | Geomaxxing triggers western cucks and feminzis so hardExactly I don't see them volunteering to go help them. They would be completely indifferent to them and thier poverty if men weren't going over them to court them. | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/11/23 04:08 PM |
| 4 | I’m the type that blackpillers claim would never get laid, but I’ve had casual sex with multiple women that are super hot through dating appsThis is one of the few types of internet story I doubt by default. Whaaaat??you really think someone would do that? | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/11/23 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Never show weakness in front of women:No I understand and accept your concession. | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/11/23 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Never show weakness in front of women:Mistaken Glad you acknowledge you were ;) | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/11/23 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Never show weakness in front of women:Your response doesn't in anyway refute: "The men who were high in Dark Triad traits were rated as being significantly more attractive than the men who were low on them—and it was a fairly sizeable difference (more than a full point on the scale)." Even if they interpreted their inflated self-views as confidence, they still still chose them regardless. I.E were selected. | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/11/23 04:54 AM |
| 8 | Never show weakness in front of women:https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-myths-sex/202203/the-sexual-appeal-dark-personalities "The men who were high in Dark Triad traits were rated as being significantly more attractive than the men who were low on them—and it was a fairly sizeable difference (more than a full point on the scale)." FFS dude this is common knowledge. Learn to use google. | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/11/23 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on this ? Who was wrong? White knight definitely had it coming thoughDude, hippie non-violence dalai lama of not hitting back said they have no problem escalating to a bullet though if need be. Exposed their entire hypocrisy and shut them right up. https://old.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/17kn93w/thoughts_on_this_who_was_wrong_white_knight/k7bii60/ | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/11/23 03:28 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on this ? Who was wrong? White knight definitely had it coming thoughYeah that user is racist and called all the black people "apes" several times but turns into liberal defending vulnerable groups when women are involved. You can't make this up. | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/11/23 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Have you noticed these Blue Pill freaks all talk exactly the same, like replicants - “unironically” “terminally online” “touch grass” “nuanced” “tell me you’re ___ without telling me”Such as? | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/11/23 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on this ? Who was wrong? White knight definitely had it coming thoughAll those involved that were not on that woman's side are black and you've called them "apes" several times. Even said he deserves a knee on his back from a cop. You're not fooling anyone you racist piece of shit. But you think you have the right to shoot them and don't think that's escalating. You legit have brain damage. I sincerely hope you're pretending to be retarded cause if you are, you desreve an oscar. If you're not though, may god help us all. | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/11/23 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on this ? Who was wrong? White knight definitely had it coming thoughYou called this man of african american descent an "ape" several times in this thread you racist dumbass. You can't be an SJW and talk like this about black people. I'm not for violenece. Violence means you attack somebody without provocation. You have the right to defend yourself against anyone attacking you. You just completely side stepped my CCW response too escalating to a bullet and acting like you're some non-violence hippy | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/11/23 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on this ? Who was wrong? White knight definitely had it coming thoughhttps://old.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/17kn93w/thoughts_on_this_who_was_wrong_white_knight/k7bii60/ You sound like a racist. Also, you wouldn't hit someone back but you'd escalate to a bullet. Calm down your holiness. Such compassion, peace, and enlightment I see. | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/11/23 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on this ? Who was wrong? White knight definitely had it coming thoughI was at a bar once and this dude grabbed this woman's ass. Out came her boyfriend about 6'3 250+ dude and haymakered this smaller guy. Dude looked like he got his jaw broken and possibly got brain damage. Of course the women in his group never screamed about size disparity or excessive force. This is what would happen in any similar incident if a man couldn't keep his hands to himself. She could stab him, her boyfriend could body slam him, and no one would shed a tear for him. Tell me how this … | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/11/23 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on this ? Who was wrong? White knight definitely had it coming thoughYou shouldn't hit ANYBODY even if they hit you first. So if a man hits a woman, she shouldn't be allowed to hit him back in self defense either Mr. Non-Violence? I'm dying to hear your non-biased and logically consistent argument. Or maybe you can just quit pretending to be retarded and say you believe women can assault men without any consequences. | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/11/23 02:22 AM |
| 8 | A lot of men are jealous of women. it comes off as feminine and is one of the reasons men have issues finding partnersYeah a lot of women drone on about "muh equal wages" (debunked btw) but immediately go to "stfu incel" when a man points out the advantages women have. It's not like we go "stfu bulldyke" or somethin like that when they want to bring up a point for debate. It's this kind of attitude that a lot of men are getting tired of. Also a lot of the reason that men don't date or commit to militant feminists either. So OP's point and advice goes both ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 09:21 PM |
| 12 | There’s a sudden surge of openly anti-male content on tiktok/twitter/threads, etc. What does this mean for the future of gender relations?As a latino and POC I'm absolutely sick of this shit. Hate is hate period. You cannot hate someone because of the color of their skin and yes that includes white. If you do this, you are not following MLK's beliefs and teachings "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character".If you hate someone for their gender like men, you are sexist. Period. A white person getting beat u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 03:34 AM |
| 1 | What would you have done differently in life if you had learned about the blackpill earlier?The thing is things weren't alway like this. Not sure if you're a zoomer and this is all you've experienced. I'm an older millenial and had no problem getting women just as attractive or even *gasp* more so during my junior high and high school years. I'm sure some gen x ers and older millenials remember these days here. Things went down the shitter the last 10-15 years or so. Had I know this was going to happen, I would have tried to make finding a woman a top priority in my early 20s but inste… | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/10/23 12:50 AM |
| 7 | No matter Real life or Social media there are some dudes who just spawn out of nowhere to play knight role💀If someone is getting physically assaulted, I may do something depending on the severity and the situation. That's man or woman. If a man and a woman are yelling at each other though, I would treat it the same way as two dudes arguing and it would be none of my business. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/10/23 12:18 AM |
| 1 | No matter Real life or Social media there are some dudes who just spawn out of nowhere to play knight role💀Exactly this. I remember being at a bar once and this pro-mma fighter was yelling at this woman screaming fuck you and no one at her table did anything (two guys were there) | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/10/23 12:06 AM |
| 3 | Women can only ever insult men based on the physical which proves that is all they care aboutHonestly I really can't remember the last time I was called this by a woman really. It's either always "incel" or "awww poor you" in response to pointing out when women are being needlessly mean to men. Like we're supposed to somehow lead first with a NSFW picture of us having sex with our gf or other woman beforehand for our opinion to matter. Reminds me of those slurs from the 70s they used to tell women that attempted to speak up even if they were correct like "bulldyke". Just a pointless big… | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/10/23 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Former member of incel community threatened to shoot up “Chads and Stacies” at the University of Arizona in a “Day of Retribution”Point out exactly where I said he was hideous. You do realize you're debating with a different person right?? Smh. Re-read my messages, you've been scored on like 3 times and now you're literally making zero sense. If this was like a game of soccer you'd have be been scored on 3-0 and now you are going out of bounds dribbling the ball on the bleachers outside the field. You think you've won not cause of the score but cause you're the last one left dribbling the ball despite how much non-sense ya… | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/10/23 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Former member of incel community threatened to shoot up “Chads and Stacies” at the University of Arizona in a “Day of Retribution”Autistic shut ins with no social skills Herein lies E.R's actual problem. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/10/23 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Former member of incel community threatened to shoot up “Chads and Stacies” at the University of Arizona in a “Day of Retribution”You really think it was just those 10 women are into him??. The point I'm making is that misogynistic, abusive, or murderous traits isn't something: 1) Women can immediately "smell from a mile away" or have a sixth sense. See: Ted Bundy. 2) Even if they do, it's not a definitive dealbreaker if a man has other things that women desire such as status, height,looks, and money. See: Andrew Tate. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/10/23 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Former member of incel community threatened to shoot up “Chads and Stacies” at the University of Arizona in a “Day of Retribution”Sure here ya go. Article title: Women that love Andrew tate. Updated 09/20/2023. You've changed the goalpost twice and keep getting proven wrong. It's like ya think ya win arguments by being the last one to reply even though ya keep racking up the Ls. You're just embarassing yourself at this point. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/10/23 01:44 AM |
| 3 | Former member of incel community threatened to shoot up “Chads and Stacies” at the University of Arizona in a “Day of Retribution”Literally google "andrew tate with women". Lmao. Here is him literally and comfortably expressing his views in the presence of 10 women. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/10/23 01:29 AM |
| 3 | Former member of incel community threatened to shoot up “Chads and Stacies” at the University of Arizona in a “Day of Retribution”They sure dated: 1) Ted bundy 2) Chris brown 3) Andrew tate If women can spot these abusive or murderous traits "from a mile away" or have sixth sense, then why did so many get killed or abused by these men? The funniest part is, these men eventually became open and unapolagetic about it and yet they continued to receive admirers. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/10/23 01:19 AM |
| 17 | Women can only ever insult men based on the physical which proves that is all they care aboutNo, I can't remember the last time a woman actually called me any of these things tbh. She knows she can't call me an idiot because she is unable to point the logical flaws in my argument. She can't call me an asshole cause I'm presenting it in a non-offensive manner so she resorts to incel or some variation. | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/10/23 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Nice meeting you allBye Felicio | /r/MensRights | 28/10/23 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Leave women aloneDon't understand why you're being downvoted. No lies detected on what you said. The violence and bullying is not only from your enemies and people that dislike you but often from your own circle of friends that are supposed to be there for you. Times this exponentially if you grow up as a low income minority where the culture of machismo and homophobia permeate. Had a friend in college who was a pro MMA fighter put me into a guillotine just cause he was bored. Then the other guys liked hurting m… | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/10/23 12:33 AM |
| 3 | There's no reason to participate in society as a manIn Reality Most men are Winners in the Patriarchy World. When one is used to being so on top of the world Sure pal | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/10/23 09:25 PM |
| 1 | What are some problems men face that isn’t caused by women?get over it So if we are allowed to enforce patriarchial gender norms for men, the reverse should be true? Can I tell a woman to make me a sandwich again? Or are you too much of a self-hating mangina feminist to see the hypocrisy of this?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 08:41 PM |
| 1 | JDBF (Just Don’t Be Fat)The body positivity movement aims to change societal and individual perceptions of weight Societal, meaning other people. How can that be interpreted any other way? Also, are we changing the goalpost now? are we admiting it is other people but beautiful =/= sexually attractive? It's all so disingenious when we can all see the obvious. Edit: If you're reading this, here was my response before you ragequit and blocked me preventing a response to your last post lmao "What am I changing? Your counte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 07:58 PM |
| 1 | JDBF (Just Don’t Be Fat)The body positivity movement is defined thusly from wikipedia: "The body positivity movement aims to change societal and individual perceptions of weight, size, and appearance to be more accepting of all bodies regardless of their diverse characteristics" I.E other people and not just themselves. To make other people see them as beautiful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 07:24 PM |
| -2 | JDBF (Just Don’t Be Fat)One of their biggest mantras is "all bodies are beautiful". Unless they're all lesbians, I'm not sure who they are trying to spread this message to mostly 🤔. If they are mostly going for the message of not needing a man's validation then they shouldn't be surprised when a man has no sexual/romantic interest in them either. If they have chosen the route of trying not to appeal to them. Basically saying "I don't need no man to tell me I'm beautiful" and "why aren't men romantically interested in m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 06:18 PM |
| 0 | JDBF (Just Don’t Be Fat)Well the body positivity movement says things like confidence and masters degrees can make men forget about a woman's obesity in which the overwhelming majority of cases it won't. Aside from fat fetishists in which these women would resent being treated as a fetish object anyway. A guy isn't going to go "oh she's 300lbs but mmmm that masters degree turns me on." it does a disservice to both men and women to spread untruths like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 06:01 PM |
| 3 | JDBF (Just Don’t Be Fat)This | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 07:14 AM |
| 3 | JDBF (Just Don’t Be Fat)But not being fat removes a very large barrier to men seeing you as attractive. Yes, exactly. Now spread this message to the other ladies. The body positivity movement tells women if they're confident and get master's degrees, men will be sexually attracted to them. No. They won't. At least you're saying the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 07:11 AM |
| 4 | What are some problems men face that isn’t caused by women?Then that means you don't actually believe it's because of ""physical disparity"" but you think it's ok for women to sexualy assault people but not men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 11:53 PM |
| 3 | What are some problems men face that isn’t caused by women?Dude, so if a guy that's built like mclovin grabs a female bodybuilder or mma fighter'a ass, she should just laugh it off cause of the physical disparity?? I guarantee you that woman would beat his ass to a pulp. If you think physical disparity alone makes it ok then I guess ronda rousey and iris kyle's ass is fair game for any weak pimply faced incel to grab without reprecussions 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Men are shamed far more for being single for life than womenWell sometimes I get asked politely if I'm seeing anyone and other times it's really bad teasing. Like they look at me and think I have no excuse to fail and shame me even more. Some of cousins have straight up asked me if I was gay and that it'a perfectly normal and acceptable now and that I need to just come out. My other cousin gets to just enjoy his time at the reunion gaming and enjoying himself while they spend time roasting me and giving me shit. But I mean I can see how your situation co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 06:25 AM |
| 10 | CMV: women’s high standards are pushing men into homosexual behaviorThey can just go on Grindr, get a dude to suck and ride them, and close their eyes imagining he’s a girl. This just reminds me of that part in Beavis and Butthead do America when Butthead's like "You want us to do a dude? Nooo way" and Beavis is like "I don't know Butthead that is a lot of money. What if we close our eyes and pretend he's a chick?" and Butthead slaps him. That's all I a had to add to this thread lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Men are shamed far more for being single for life than womenI think this is a double edged sword. I consider myself a 7/10 and also in shape and get asked far more often if I'm seeing anyone and why I'm still single at family reunions or friends gatherings than my cousin who is obese and a 4/10. It's like it sparks a curiousity and people start wondering and formulating things in their head. None of which are good. Does he really suck that bad with women? Is he gay? Is he a serial killer? My cousin though is happily left alone. I'd rather just be called … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 11:04 PM |
| – | So many people try to make women give honest feedback to men, but it's just rude and unsafeI get the Sam Colt argument but at the same time I would say that men have been taught the use and handling of firearms far more in these last generations and women have mostly shied away from them. These new generation of feminist gen z women might start making more use of them leading to different results. Who knows. One of the reasons I think women are less likely to lash out, though not justified, is because they have more options if a guy rejects them. They just check their inbox and there … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 10:41 PM |
| 0 | Let's be real it's the women in the 5.5-7.5 range causing most of the dating/relationships problemYou'll see this topic discussed ad nasueum. Can you provide just one example where one of us says we want a 9 or 10 to take us seriously? I mean not trying to make you look dumb or anything. Just maybe ya might not have the right perception. We all make mistakes I'm not going to deny short kings have it harder. My husband is 5'6. People are fucking disrespectful assholes to him for no reason. Short dudes are the equivalent to chubby women. It's okay to not be attracted to someone. What isn't oka… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 08:12 AM |
| 4 | So many people try to make women give honest feedback to men, but it's just rude and unsafeIt's all good and appreciate it. Feels rare to get any kind of empathy as a man. Like a drop in an oasis desert. As you can see this didn't involve anyone having sex with me. It seems like a lot of people think all our woes revolve around not getting sex when really all we want is for someone to understand and care for what we go through sometimes. Yes there are men that don't take rejection gracefully either. Not denying that. Those guys need to get it together too. Good that you can see that b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 07:49 AM |
| 8 | So many people try to make women give honest feedback to men, but it's just rude and unsafeDated a woman almost 20 years older than me I was 26 and she was 45 and she also had a meltdown. When we broke up, she said I was full of shit the entire time and that I was a closet homo. On the all women part, yes, it's a little hyperbolic. I think it's balls achingly obvious that I didn't mean literally every single woman lol. If you need clarification though I will say that yes not all women. Had some that just got sad or didn't care with no meltdowns or hits set out for me reputationwise. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 06:55 AM |
| 7 | So many people try to make women give honest feedback to men, but it's just rude and unsafeWomen can be pretty crazy too when rejected. I had a girl in junior high who was in the popular crowd but unattractive who turned all her friends against me when I rejected her. She got all her friends to yell "you're ugly!" And "she's too good for you" across the lunchroom for weeks. I kinda just had a "umad?" disposition but some more sensitive types could have taken it more to heart and the kind of thing that can lead some to suicide. Had a woman at a party who were were drunk and I had whisk… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 06:16 AM |
| 2 | Let's be real it's the women in the 5.5-7.5 range causing most of the dating/relationships problemIt's every other thread I see dudes whining they can't get hot girls to take them seriously. Not the 5s, or the 6s, or the 7.5s. Proof? Show 1 thread atm where men are specifically complaining about hot girls not taking them seriously. Who cares if a 4 won't date anyone but a 9? Move along to the next one Sure Get over yourself and maybe someone would actually be willing to get under you. No, this will do diddly. What he really needs to do is get taller, make more money, be more ripped, be more … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 06:14 PM |
| 8 | Statistics on lesbian relationships prove that women are the problem more often than we'd like to admitThere is no way around the fact that either A) women make poorer choices on who they partner with (the way straight women partner with Chad when they well know they will be pumped and dumped) B) have poorer conflict resolution skills Or a combination of both. The lower rate of DV also proves that within gay marriages they are less likely to scuffle physically. I.e a huge marker of less trouble in paradise. Keep huffin that "C" with the opium though lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 08:36 PM |
| 14 | Statistics on lesbian relationships prove that women are the problem more often than we'd like to admitdoing what makes them happy as opposed to staying in an unhappy relationship This is the absolute pinnacle of that word that starts with "C" and rhymes with "hope" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 08:05 PM |
| – | Statistics on lesbian relationships prove that women are the problem more often than we'd like to admitGotem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Women have zero tolerance policy for even slightly socially awkward menDon't forget men that open themselves up emotionally too. Anything that says you're not ultraconfident and stoic 110% of the time leads to "I'm just not feeling it". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 05:25 AM |
| 2 | What Men Think of as a Nice Guy/Asshole is Very Different From WomenExcept for the kids growing up with abusive and or absent fathers 🤷♂️. Edit: And passing the genes of these psychopaths on to create more criminals and douchebags. Also reinforcing to other boys and men that these traits are desirable and making more of them emulate these types. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 10:48 PM |
| 6 | What Men Think of as a Nice Guy/Asshole is Very Different From WomenOk well those men that abuse women and use women for sex are also just mentally ill and unstable. Due to this, women need to stop making them a focal talking point on here and two x. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 07:24 PM |
| 0 | What Men Think of as a Nice Guy/Asshole is Very Different From Womensomeone who is overly confident, makes flirty or teasing comments, is occasionally vulgar, is assertive, etc would be considered an "asshole". No. This isn't it at all in my definition. It's the guy who goes around bullying other men with his crew. The guy who does scummy behavior like stealing from others. It's the guy you overhear talking about women referring to them as "his bitches" with his homies. He knows where to draw the line though and doesn't bully women, the mentally disabled, etc. N… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 06:58 PM |
| 2 | GrannyfishSame. We have zero bargaining power. I told my ex if she didn't stop her toxic behavior, I was going to walk. Zero fucks were given, was replaced within a week. This is why they are allowed to be picky, toxic, and literally do whatever they want. Maybe AI will save us with taking some of the simps off the dating pool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t want men to have success in datingIn the same way that women IRL go for the taller, richer, more attractive guy every time but try to push a false narrative that a man's entire sexual value revolves around "just being nice". The difference is we men don't do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 03:49 AM |
| 8 | Women don’t want men to have success in datingNo. Here's the real problem. They don't want to give the advice that would actually work and give tangible results which is: Be tall, have money, be ripped, be confident, be socially successful. Doing so would force them to admit that they *gasp* are just as shallow or moreso than men. This goes against their "women are morally superior and can do no wrong" narrative so they resort to canned and disingenous responses like "be nicer". If they admitted they were shallow, it would cause all those m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 11:15 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of the very common idea of "any woman who rejects you because of your height is a shallow woman who is not worth it anyway"?Us guys need to start using the "yOu dOdGeD a bUlLETT" trope more often. All those women complaining about "unrealistic beauty standards" should be told their whole movement is worthless cause they ultimately "dodged a bullet" if a guy refuses to date them cause their weight or age. They should use their weight, age, and other undesirable features to filter out bad suitors. When you start filtering out 85%-90% of the population as is the case for men >5'6 then your bullet dodging trope starts to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 07:23 PM |
| 10 | You can't say you we're lied to.>doesn’t matter what a man looks like or how tall or how big his dick is, if he is a genuine and good person, women will be attracted to him, sexually and emotionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Can't even blame em.Nah that's true. I was gonna add it on a second edit that men shouldn't misrepresent their intentions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 07:18 AM |
| 2 | Can't even blame em.Yep this really is the truth. Read it and weep. On the other hand, almost all these men just want sex. So the women are also dumb for actually believing all these men want a serious commited partnership with them. It's only when they rack an astronomical body count that the jig is up and they realize what's really happening. Then their standards go back down to earth and their looksmatch can now have them at a discounted price after incurring the crazy high mileage. If the horny guys weren't the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 06:47 AM |
| 2 | A feminist assaulted me for using this subreddit.I did a variation of a using their own tactics involving the use of pepper spray. It begs the question why would a rapist or mugger use pepper spray on a woman? If he wanted to rape her, he now has to do it with her covered in pepper spray which he himself will likely get covered in now. If he wanted to assault her he would have just used his fists. He wouldn't do it unless likely he himself was being assaulted. | /r/MensRights | 11/10/23 04:52 AM |
| 1 | A feminist assaulted me for using this subreddit.Carry pepper spray my dude. I lift and have trained MMA but I know I'm at a disadvantage in self-defense against women. Not on a physical level mind you but on a "white knights might swarm me if they only see the part where I defended myself". Pepper spray still has an emotional and subconscious association of being used for the purpose of defending against aggressors. This will have less of a chance of making you look like the aggressor than using any physical force. To those saying that pepper… | /r/MensRights | 11/10/23 04:14 AM |
| 4 | Blue Pillers/the mainstream seem to blame every relationship problem on the man and they have a hard time admitting that women are even slightly responsible for anythinghas special entitlement to act in discriminatory ways against their so-called oppressors (namely white, cis men). And the second these non-marginalized people complain, they are told to stfu or called bigots or some other crap. This. I've a actually been a liberal most of life and the main reason was because I didn't like seeing any group marginalized and not have a voice and believed in true equality. Read it again: equality. Now I see the same oppressors I rallied against in my youth but they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Blue Pillers/the mainstream seem to blame every relationship problem on the man and they have a hard time admitting that women are even slightly responsible for anythingPfffft you mean that small manosphere ghetto compared to: The mainstream media. All social media IRL interactions Google and all tech companies AI and GPT (yes I can show you solid proof) That's like a grain of sand compared to everything I just mentioned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 02:34 AM |
| 1 | What can guys do to not come off as overconfident, if they cannot back up their confidence?If you look good Probably 6½ - 7 on the looks scale make money 6 figures tall Not really. 5'7 Be strong Moderately. Can bench 225. can fight Moderately. Casual Muay Thai practitioner and wrestled in high school. Based off this, what level of confidence can I guy like this display? lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 07:00 AM |
| 1 | It seems like American women under 30 are increasingly splitting into two major categories (with some outliers, of course)Ya'll try this argument every time and lose. These studies are largely based on BMI which means height to weight ratio. There are far more men that are "overweight" through muscle mass than there are women. Far more. Dwayne Johnson is considered "obese" based off his BMI. Yes obese. Of course anyone who's seen him know he's not some ball of lard. Other examples include atheletes like powerlifters, bodybuilders, football players. Linemen in football have some fat to go along with muscle but are a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 05:33 AM |
| 1 | No one is telling women to have sex with anyone they don't want to have sex with.In 1950, the average woman weighed 120 pounds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Serious question. What will you do with your lives if you don't find anyone?you don’t have to work yourself to death My job isn't in any way more lax on me because I'm single. On the contrary, I've been hit with a far higher volume of work because so and so has his kid's baseball game, so and so has to take their kid to the dentist and all sorts of excuses. Almost as if my employer thought I chose to stay single for the sheer love and passion I have for dealing with whiny and entitled customers. Employeers crushing your soul and squeezing every last drop of what they ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 02:26 AM |
| 3 | Serious question. What will you do with your lives if you don't find anyone?You're missing the point or you're being deliberately obtuse. It's not just about females or pussy. Think about it, his life will likely get reduced to working to the bone non-stop for a corporation or the government just to be another expendable cog for the big machine. You can say that men have always been in this position historically but you know what's always made it worth it for so many centuries?? Coming home to a wife that loves you. Kids that are excited to see you. Making and building … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 12:24 AM |
| 5 | Serious question. What will you do with your lives if you don't find anyone?No, it's not because he isn't in a relationship at the moment, it's because the assesment that he may never actually partner up with someone like the rest of the world and die alone is actually a pretty realsitic one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 09:44 PM |
| 26 | Serious question. What will you do with your lives if you don't find anyone?Sounds like you’ve got the pussy on a pedestal, actually a mountaintop. No, him begging for a woman, emptying his wallet, and worshiping her is this you described. Him being sad about the possibility of being forced to endure a life of solitude while the rest of the world partners up is not the same thing. He's a person with normal human instincts. Stop with the gaslighting. I'm not saying he can't find other things to live for but =/= "putting pussy on a pedestal" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 08:04 PM |
| 1 | How are men expected to meet women in today’s world?Not sure what you're point is. Are you saying dick shower guy and guy that lashes out are completely different people? Even if that is the case, they both scare women away. Even if dick shower is not an incel, not everyone is gonna fancy him. For every one woman that likes it, he probably disgusted like 9 or 10. I don't think a woman should make a big deal if the guy is not attractive as long as he's being respectful. However, there is no excuse for not taking rejection gracefully. Like do you t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Why are so many men not willing to properly move on from women? (Serious question)The difference is it's easier for you to move on because all the things you would historically get from the individual man you chose to partner up with are now being provided by the system at large. Men used to be the ones to keep women safe and provide some semblance of stability in the midst all the danger and chaos. Men now work as a collective group to keep you fed, safe, pampered, and accommodated. If you need to get to work, men have paved nice roads for you to get to work to. If the power… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 07:54 AM |
| 1 | How are men expected to meet women in today’s world?It's funny how ya'll think this poster is a man but it's acually a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 05:32 AM |
| 0 | How are men expected to meet women in today’s world?I know this is typically a feminist type stance but I can't believe I'm actually finding myself agreeing with this: Holy shit yes. These types of guys have already ruined online dating and I'll be damned if they ruin IRL ones. Since I know I shower, practice basic hygiene, and don't say "wAnA sEe mY dICk" to every woman within a 100 mile radius I would have nothing to fear in this case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Women are actively repelled by genuinely kind men no matter how attractive they are, and rather consistently go for toxic men who mistreat them. This entire issue has been hijacked and obfuscated by them fabricating this bullshit “nice guy” narrative.Yeah anytime a man says he has trouble with women he's told "maybe if you weren't such a bitter woman hating incel and were nicer to women, they'd like you" when this doesn't do damn thing. What he really needs to do is get ripped, dress stylish, make lots more money, and be high on the social hierachy and then the douchebagery and misogynysm will largely get ignored. Being nice is kinda optional at that point if it makes ya feel good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Discussion : Am I wrong in saying I’m noticing more attractive men settling for less attractive women these days?Ah so gay is the new incel. I.e I can't think of an actualy counterargument so I throw generic insults and call it a day. If he was talking about dudes and going into the specific details about their sex lives then I would agree. However, making an observation that men are dating down doesn't really make sense. I've heard a lot of women on here going "I see a ton of attractive women with short and ugly guys touch grass reeee!" So by that same logic they're lesbians. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 06:04 AM |
| 1 | I asked the women at my work what they think of the rise of AI girlfriends and they’re all supportive of itThe dude in groups that's obsessed with dicks and having his friends talk about their sexual encounters usually turns out to be gay or bisexual down the line. Well I had a cousin that did this and would not stop asking me "How's yer sex life?" "Dude tell me about times ya had sex". He did turn out to be gay. I thought it was just an isolated example though. I had another friend that did this as also and holy shit I'm starting to connect the dots. I think he really was. First off, he said if his … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 06:58 PM |
| 1 | The body-shaming of short men on social media has reached epidemic proportions, yet there seems to be no mainstream discourse about it. Why?Body shaming is terrible and men have absolutely been left out of the body posi movement The thing is men all disagree with each other on how this should be handled. We aren't a cohesive group in the same way women are and it's near impossible to put forth a singular and conherent ask on this. For example, I actually liked the term "short kings" and never saw anything wrong with it but found most other short men absolutely hate it. Other men will grill me just for suggesting it's a good idea to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 05:08 AM |
| 11 | I asked the women at my work what they think of the rise of AI girlfriends and they’re all supportive of itI agree with this in a way. Even though I'm a guy I remember a lot of guys never shutting the fuck up and wanting to know about what other guys did with their dicks. "Dude did you get some?how was it?", "when did you last get some bro?" "Tell me about it". Always came across as really gay to me and never understood it. Like talking about other men's penises 24/7 was somehow supposed to be the manly thing to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 04:08 AM |
| 1 | The body-shaming of short men on social media has reached epidemic proportions, yet there seems to be no mainstream discourse about it. Why?Well as long as you agree that women as a group and social entity are also hysterical and incessant whiners for every grievance they have, no matter how small (real or invented), then we are in agreement. Absolutely. Men shouldn’t do that either. For sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 02:57 AM |
| 1 | The body-shaming of short men on social media has reached epidemic proportions, yet there seems to be no mainstream discourse about it. Why?Its merely “social stigma” keeping these women from fucking these men 😂 Not saying all of them by any stretch. If it's just 10-15% of them, that's 10%-15% more than we had before. Like do ya actually envision a scenario where this will be counterproductive and make them want us less?? No, because they are biologically more valuable This hasn't always been the case and defintely still isn't in many countries. See: China and Middle Dast. Chinese girl babies get dumped like garbage in random areas.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 11:38 PM |
| – | The body-shaming of short men on social media has reached epidemic proportions, yet there seems to be no mainstream discourse about it. Why?Society and least of all women don’t respect men who need to exist in a world of pretty lies and patronizing fake compliments, and women sure as hell don’t fuck them. There's actually a lot women that would date short men and find them attractive but don't do it out of fear of getting shit from their girlfriends. Women respond to whatever "is in" trendwise and this has a massive influence on their dating choices. Why have women shaped all of society to be entirely gynocentric serving all their n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 09:11 PM |
| – | The body-shaming of short men on social media has reached epidemic proportions, yet there seems to be no mainstream discourse about it. Why?I think the best chance we have is taking this term and running with it. Did fat women push for "treat us like every other woman and don't distinguish us from anyone else?" No. They pushed for "our body is beautiful in it's own way". Things like thick, curvy, voluptous are all used to describe fat women but being framed in a more positive light. We will never be treated like every other guy in the same way those women won't be treated like any other woman. This strategy has helped them gain more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 08:21 PM |
| 3 | The body-shaming of short men on social media has reached epidemic proportions, yet there seems to be no mainstream discourse about it. Why?“Short king” is an offensive and condescending term. Most short men would agree. Personally idgaf but I respect your opinion and that everyone is different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 12:02 AM |
| 6 | The body-shaming of short men on social media has reached epidemic proportions, yet there seems to be no mainstream discourse about it. Why?Why don’t overweight women, trans folks, feminists, etc Cause it's not body positivity. It's body positivity for women, duh. Edit: Or transfolk and anyone else that's part of the same far-left umbrella | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 11:45 PM |
| 1 | The fact that blue pillers never have genuine counterpoints or refutation to the countless valid TRP grievances, and only seem to be able to respond with insults and ad hominem attacks, is a strong credit to the legitimacy of TRP.no going through post history is needed Well she totally did and that's why her comments all got deleted. Knowing context of who you are speaking to is often very important helps you have a better grasp on who you are speaking to and the views they hold. I disagree with this. Should we all just go through each other's post history here instead of actually debating? If I see a woman here who has 50+ threads submitted with nothing but cats and absolutely no sembelance of a social or dating life. S… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 11:30 PM |
| 1 | The fact that blue pillers never have genuine counterpoints or refutation to the countless valid TRP grievances, and only seem to be able to respond with insults and ad hominem attacks, is a strong credit to the legitimacy of TRP.It isn't at anytime on this sub. Basically what you're saying is ya can't think of an actual counterargument to the OP so ya gotta try to dig up dirt on them. Can you imagine if we all just went through each other's post history instead of actually debating? "You don't get women cause you have huge collection of star wars figures lelel" or "you have 10+ cats! See! you really are a crazy cat woman and your argument is invalid" . Every discussion would get derailed to off-topic non-sense. Think th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 06:43 PM |
| 2 | The fact that blue pillers never have genuine counterpoints or refutation to the countless valid TRP grievances, and only seem to be able to respond with insults and ad hominem attacks, is a strong credit to the legitimacy of TRP.Then your comments got deleted 😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 12:46 PM |
| 4 | The fact that blue pillers never have genuine counterpoints or refutation to the countless valid TRP grievances, and only seem to be able to respond with insults and ad hominem attacks, is a strong credit to the legitimacy of TRP.Attemping to derail threads with "yOuR pOsT hIsToRy rEeEeeE". That's a paddlin. Against the rules. Debate the point listed on the OP or get out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 12:38 PM |
| 3 | 45% of men age 18-25 have never approached a woman in personIf they want to keep doing it, they can to be fair. Just don't complain things are the way they are and men aren't approaching. You strike me as "a women can do toxic behavior and it's fine but men always need to watch what they do". So what do you say to the women that don't like getting cat called or harassed? Is it: men love fuckin around. Don't take life too seriously. Men need to (placeholder) is invalid, change starts with you 🤔? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 12:26 AM |
| 5 | 45% of men age 18-25 have never approached a woman in personHere's the thing that women really need to stop doing and it's just one thing: don't give a guy the impression like you're interested when you're not. This does not apply in the service industry and men should know better here. Other than though, I've seen countless times when I grew up of a woman teasing a man and pretending to be interested. She will smile, laugh at everything and even touch his shoulder acting super flirtatious. As soon as the guy goes the next step and asks for a number, she… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Today a London schoolgirl was murdered for refusing to go out with her classmateTook you long enough. After it sat here stinkin up the sub the entire day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Today a London schoolgirl was murdered for refusing to go out with her classmateThis woman here stabbed this man to death over what she believes was a missing 10 dollars. Yes REPEATEDLY, oh the humanity! Ahhhh! All women bad! This is what you sound like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 06:22 PM |
| 3 | Today a London schoolgirl was murdered for refusing to go out with her classmateHow is this even upvoted.. Low IQ people. There's your answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 06:18 PM |
| 3 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin icebecause women have to work like men WHILE still doing everything else. No, you choose to do that #bossbabe. I make 6 figures and almost all women I've dated wanted to work full time when we had more than enough to cover expenses, travel, etc. Y'all want to try to be competetive and act like men and then cry and moan when you're stressed out. In these instances I got tired of coming home to no support and me having to do all the emotional labor on top of my already stressful job. Realized the ext… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 08:49 PM |
| 5 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin iceIf you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin ice. I.e the story of almost every average guy that ended up with an average woman. She will always long for Chad. She thinks just cause Chad pumped and dumped her during her best years, she was always in the same league as Chad all along but the world for some reason has been unfair to her and now she's gotta settle for this sap/dweeb (in her eyes anyway). This is where the trope of "I see average guys… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 07:33 PM |
| 4 | How come "nice girls finish last" isn't as popular of a saying?That or they somehow think their "confidence" is gonna make up for it. They will try teasing, flirting, posing provocatively and using the same tactics far more attractive women use. Protip: This only works if you're not 300lbs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 04:22 AM |
| 1 | The guys who have "game" do not talk to women as "regular people"Fair enough. Do whatever works for you. Just sharing my perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 05:23 PM |
| 2 | The guys who have "game" do not talk to women as "regular people"CCW for the win here bro. Get it in your state if it's legal along with pepper spray. Say something to the effect of "excuse me sir, can you please be careful with the interior of my truck" in a respectful tone. If he wants to "keep it real" and assault you, know that he will be the one who will be on the losing legal end. If he wants to bring weapons or his homies, you're in your right to use to self-defense. The pepper spray is for beligerents by themsleves that want to attack you. The moment … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Having a handsome face will help you a lot if you’re shorter than averageShort but good face here. Yes and no. I will get dates and they often say I'm cute but I'm often just used as a placeholder till a taller guy comes around. In the same way an overweight woman is used for a passtime till something better comes along. We will date for awhile and have fun but as soon as tall guy comes around it's bye bye for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Male suicide is something that society doesn't care at allThanks man, I appreciate it. Much love 🙏❤️ | /r/MensRights | 05/08/23 08:34 PM |
| 3 | Male suicide is something that society doesn't care at allI've literally heard feminists and LGBT laughing about men committing suicide. I grew up democrat my whole life but this is why I've dounced them in recent years and can no longer call myself a liberal. They are just as cold hearted as any republican but their hate is just directed towards different groups. Consider myself mostly a centrist now but yeah seriously it's ridiculous. | /r/MensRights | 04/08/23 11:41 PM |
| 3 | Male suicide is something that society doesn't care at allTrue story: During the pandemic I was thinking about killing myself. I told my mother I was thiking of doing it and she said "do it! put a bullet in your head! I dare you". I called my best friend and he said "bro, quit talking about suicide. I'm gonna hang up". Had to call the suicide hotline and talk to someone that gets paid to give shit. I obviously didn't do it but it woke me up to this. I'm doing much better these days but I asked my mother later why she would say something like that and s… | /r/MensRights | 04/08/23 10:40 PM |
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