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The doctor I went to said he wanted to see two negative tests. I got one at three months the other at four, both were negative. The tests after that were just for my personal peace of mind. I realize that after nine years the chances of recanalization are essentially nil and I am being a bit paranoid but it gives me comfort as well as a valuable set of evidence to deter a paternity suit. I imagine seeing nine years of lab tests from a licensed reputable lab being sent to the lawyer of a woman cl…
/r/MensRights24/03/24 12:53 AM
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I go to the practice that did my vasectomy. The first five years it was covered by insurance, the last four it cost about $50 for the test. Just produce a sample and they check it while you wait. It’s mainly just examining it under a powerful microscope. Any urology office that does does vasectomies can check a sperm count.
/r/MensRights23/03/24 07:24 PM
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In years past definitely. Now I think it’s almost even.
/r/MensRights16/10/23 02:06 PM
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Best thing I ever did was a vasectomy. Make sure to get your sperm count checked yearly to make sure your vas deferens have not recanalized. You never have to tell anybody. It’s definitely a weight off your mind.
/r/MensRights05/10/23 10:11 PM
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Even the original £500,000 is small compensation for such a devastating loss.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 12:41 PM
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Psych consult definitely. What a whack job! Best line "I am louder", cop responds "I'll agree with that". If the air raid siren break get her to scream, people will seek shelter.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/09/23 07:57 PM
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False public statements is slander if they harm your ability to earn money. You mentioned it’s a small town if you have a business and she is causing people not to buy from you or hire you. I really think if the child was yours she would sue for child support but I think deep down if there’s a chance the kid is yours you would want to know.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 07:27 AM
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It would be wise to get a vasectomy, get sperm count checked yearly to make sure it didn't reverse. Best insurance against paternity or paternity fraud.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 05:40 AM
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Consult a family law attorney. I believe since she makes public statements that claim you are the father you could take he into court and demand she consent to a paternity test or stop making false statements. A cease and desist letter from an attorney might have the same result.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 05:36 AM
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Thanks, I will read the links. I was misinformed. I guess I could classify myself as MGTOW.
/r/MensRights29/10/22 11:03 PM
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I did not realize there were different definitions of MGTOW. I thought it was self imposed celibacy.
/r/MensRights29/10/22 08:41 PM
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I agree I could never go MGTOW. I just enjoy company and having sex without long term entanglements.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 04:35 AM
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No vasectomy is the way to go. Just never tell anyone unless paternity is questioned. Plus get checked every couple of years to make sure there was no recanalization.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 02:12 AM
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I am pro-choice. There should be recognition of male control over his procreation and financial responsibility for unwanted offspring. The recent Dobbs decision is a total step in the wrong direction. Woman have now lost the right to choose in many states even in cases of rape, incest, and the life of the mother. Those states are going to enforce a strict regime of forced breeding for both sexes. The best option is vasectomy for men and tubal ligation for women. Choice for both genders is not co…
/r/MensRights25/09/22 12:17 AM
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It is a good idea. You never have to deal with the other parents. Biology being what it is men don't have this option.
/r/MensRights19/08/22 03:29 AM
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Cut all contact and ignore her. You have no time for high school bullshit.
/r/askTRP30/04/22 04:06 PM
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She should come to you or meet you halfway. Unless you have another reason to drive four hours it's a game she is playing. If she lives in a place that's fun like the beach or a city with fun stuff to do next her.
/r/askTRP30/04/22 04:01 PM
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I am a high earning man with advanced degrees in STEM. Even though I’m 61 I get attention from women decades younger than me. I never married I live well below my income but I own multiple properties and enjoy social events and sex. Women even in their early 30s see me as a potential mate. Some of the women are interesting and sexy but I want at best a partner to enjoy travel and sex. Many of my peers who married 30 year ago are miserable and divorce wrecks their lives. I can see why younger guy…
/r/MensRights26/09/21 04:28 AM
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Technically each OF member is a subscriber the website does report income because they take a cut for hosting and web services but they probably don't do withholding they just put the income in the subscribers account. The IRS gets reports on income but if the person stays under $10K per transaction it doesn't ring an alarm bell. The responsibility to pay the taxes is the subscribers, OF only has to report. This post is potentially true, the IRS often does not know taxes have not been paid. They…
/r/PussyPassDenied08/08/21 06:17 AM
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I am old school stay away from steroids and just own being bald.
/r/askTRP07/08/21 08:26 PM
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Not at all, it's the smart move. Depending on where you live you may have trouble getting a surgeon to perform on someone so young. The best referral if you're having trouble is planned parenthood. I advise getting a surgeon who's specialty is vasectomies. You want a guy who has done hundreds.
/r/askTRP07/08/21 08:25 PM
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I think privacy becomes important. I admit that may be me. I shared a room with my little brother until I was 15, I hated it. We moved to a bigger apartment and I got my own room. I like my own space but to each his own.
/r/askTRP25/07/21 03:50 AM
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You can make your own independent life. Make sure you maximize your income. Living with friends is good from a financial perspective. It's important to have your own room though. Work towards saving the downpayment for a house of your own. Right now it's a sellers market. I would wait, real estate is cyclical. When you get enough money and can afford a place that would be comfortable for you then buy. Pay off your mortgage early. You then have little danger of homelessness.
/r/askTRP25/06/21 03:00 AM
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Possibly the shorter after the vasectomy the more likelihood of success.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 11:58 PM
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Always wear a condom! You are in charge of your birth control. Best option is a vasectomy. If she decides to keep it you could be on the hook for child support. Consult a lawyer, a paternity test is always a good idea.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 11:55 PM
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I agree with this comment. The guy is obviously not all there. Plus he sounds like he is abusing someone. Call the police say you think someone is engaged in domestic abuse. Believe me if the guy is as unbalanced as he seems he will flip out in front of the cops and your problem is solved. It's foolish to engage in physical confrontation unless it's unavoidable. I'm old now, 61, but even when I was younger I avoided trouble. I'm bigger than you and wouldn't fight unless I had no other choice.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 12:22 AM
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That low calling out a disabled person trying to just exist.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/05/21 11:15 PM
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You have a valid point. It's definitely like that for porn in general. However I think onlyfans avoids some of the exploitation issues that traditional porn did. The people are more in charge of their own content and who they have sex with.
/r/MGTOW02/02/21 07:45 PM
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It seems like about 25% of those who got into porn spend the money as fast as they get it and often it's drug problems. But some are wise enough to invest properly and if done right you could live the rest of your life on money like that.
/r/MGTOW02/02/21 01:03 AM
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I'm 60 had it done six years ago best decision ever. No pain or complications. Make sure to go back to check for zero sperm count. I go every year to double check there was no recanalization. By now if that happened it's not going to. There is freedom and I do not tell women. If I was going to get serious with a woman who wanted children I would reveal it, that's only fair.
/r/MGTOW225/01/21 03:54 AM
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I agree with the above two commenters. New York can be done less expensively. Especially if one is in their 20s it makes total sense. Apologies from the 60 year old not remembering his youth and roommates and the fun.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 06:22 PM
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If you have the money to live and work in Manhattan it's paradise. Women outnumber men and it's possible to sleep with a different woman every night. The outer boroughs and Hoboken and Jersey City have good spots too with a little less for rent. But Manhattan is the best. You'll never need a car, there's tons of great restaurants bars and clubs and every cultural diversion from museums to sports. One caveat, COVID has made almost every city hell. New York is better than the spring when it was te…
/r/askTRP19/01/21 12:27 AM
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Getting married is the fatal error. In some ways this guy is lucky. He finds out he's a beta bux before the ceremony. If it's after breaking up will involves courts, lawyers, and lots of money. He needs to walk away. If someone really really wants an LTR never get legally married. As long as you're not in a common law state at least you get out with your assets. One positive recent development is some states like New Jersey for example have stipulated that there is no palimony unless there's a w…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/20 02:47 AM
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Turning an ex into a friend with benefits only works if you've had time apart dated other and while you can enjoy their company sex is just for the pleasure not romantic interest. Sex after the breakup often leads UK getting back together which is always a bad idea.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 07:57 PM
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I'd make it a felony and the victim can claim financial claims if it happens.
/r/MensRights20/10/20 12:32 AM
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This goes against American jurisprudence. Flowing out if common law is the concept the accused is innocent until proven guilty. One of the problem is people do not have obey the concept unless they are part of the judicial system. I'm not sure of the percentage of false charges but it's substantial but not a majority.
/r/MensRights20/10/20 12:29 AM
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Work on your house. I painted every room in the spring. In the summer I landscaped and fixed the roof. I've watched movies I bought but didn't get the chance to see. I've read several books. This winter I'm going to work out and get back into shape.
/r/MGTOW13/10/20 12:27 AM
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That is one of the best descriptions of bachelor life. I'm 60 that's been me for decades. If you want company you can have it. But solitude and your own bed and space are key.
/r/MGTOW13/10/20 12:12 AM
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It's awkward. I think someone should not share too much. But I sympathize, I had started dating a girl and I found out my friend had died of a heart attack. I'll admit I sent a couple of awkward texts. She was cool and empathetic. Texting just lends itself to interactions like this.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 03:06 AM
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That is a valid point. I think we are drawn to beauty and imbibe it with positive attributes. I do not truly know exactly why this friendship worked out as well as it has. I think it helps we are both well off financially and have altruistic personalities. I like to think of myself as a kind person. Some may call me a sucker but if I am walking in a store and someone needs something on a high shelf I gladly give it to them. If I see an elderly person struggling I help them, I'm not far from elde…
/r/askTRP20/09/20 08:11 PM
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Fair question. She is still quite attractive even in her 50s. The cancer did rob her of some beauty but that’s much different than hitting the wall. We never thought of getting married we though it ruin our friendship. Neither of us married no children. We are both wealthy. I think she is sort of a female red pill. We have not had sex in over a decade. I sleep around with younger women she rarely has romances since the cancer. It is a very unusual friendship and situation, there’s weeks we don’t…
/r/askTRP20/09/20 05:49 PM
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This is an excellent analysis. Good people do exist and are worth being friends with. It's a two way street. I have a friend who I dated 30 years ago just did not work out. But over the years we just stayed close. She would help me when I needed it and vice versa. The real value in the friendship came when my mother got sick and died. It was hard. I promised Mom of keep her in her home and my friend helped me with that. She cared for my mom watched her when I was out of town and helped mom with …
/r/askTRP20/09/20 03:49 AM
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Own your hair thinning. All the medicines have side effects. Shave your head or very short buzzcut. The way you carry yourself is what gets you noticed not hair. Short hair is also super easy to take care of.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 03:58 AM
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This is good advice here. Your value will depend on a good education and good paying job. Take STEM degrees. Enjoy the college experience and parties but do not fall into the party animal using booze and drugs who fails out or ruins your health. Meet and have sex as much as possible. Try to get an off campus apartment with a friend or friends with self discipline like you.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 07:51 PM
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It's over now, so there is no use crying over spilt milk. You're not wrong to not want her to lose her looks. But not all weight gain is bad. It's just out of control unhealthy gain. You want to stay fit yourself. I personally love somewhat bigger curvy girls. But that is my preference you have yours. Go for someone new.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 07:46 PM
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Kegels and yes they improve performance.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 09:21 AM
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Maybe they'll get a job as a royal. Lol
/r/askTRP29/08/20 09:20 AM
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You are doing it right then. Don't be a simp and give her control.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 09:13 AM
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Is limit hookups a bit. COVID is no shit and even young people have died.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 09:11 AM
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It's rare but it does happen. I have one former FWB who was actually not flaky, not demanding, and had a heart. She helped me when my mom died, I helped her when she got cancer. We never helped each other financially. We both have high incomes and assets. A 25 year history with her made me realize she is now a trusted friend. I'm older over 60. Being older you realize you need a couple of true blue friends if you have not married or had children. This woman and a male friend are my proxies for h…
/r/askTRP29/08/20 09:08 AM
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I notice I need 8-9 hours sleep and feel my best when I get it. I can function decent on 7, below that I feel tired and not sharp. Sleeping too much is bad too I get lethargic. If I sleep over 9 hours except if exhausted or sick I am not good either.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 08:36 AM
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Better to focus on self improvement. COVID makes everything so difficult too.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 05:47 PM
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Archery, since COVID I tried to find some activities that were outdoors and interesting. I have tried it before but I bought a target compound bow and started just practicing. I was so surprised how much I liked it and how fun it is. I have gotten quite good, I always liked target practice with pistols and rifles but it's hard to get slots at ranges due to so ism distancing hours etc. archery I can do in my backyard. I have a large yard and privacy and I checked it's not against the law. I just …
/r/askTRP23/08/20 05:46 PM
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I had the same reaction. This was confusing and there's a lot of weird shit that makes no sense.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/20 08:25 AM
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Vasectomy, the way to be truly protected. Just make sure to get follow up sperm tests every year to make sure it did not reverse.
/r/MensRights15/08/20 10:42 PM
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Buzz it shorter, a two is a good look and very easy upkeep.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 03:00 AM
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I'm way older than you, I'm 60. Pick ups are going back to what they were when I was your age. Get out and exercise, running and biking are good cardio and just start talking to girls without worrying whether each one will lead to asking her out, you need confidence. The internet has made things different now but it was like this 40 years ago. Just talk and be natural, if you overthink you'll act weird.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 02:59 AM
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Vasily says it best! Jeez man didn't you even remotely think about what could happen?
/r/askTRP12/08/20 02:53 AM
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No, it's actually optimal. If a relationship is based on both paying a fair share while not being crazy about it you won't get taken for a sucker. This is especially good when it's a FWB or fuck buddy dynamic.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 02:50 AM
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It's not a bad idea to get checked out by a doctor. Find a good urologist or endocrinologist. You may have low T or even cardiac problems. Never hurts to check. Don't masturbate too much either. Try not doing it for a month.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 02:48 AM
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Fucking around with someone you work with is ALWAYS a bad idea! A bad breakup or hurt feeling can screw up your livelihood. There's plenty of women outside of your workplace.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 02:45 AM
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Unfortunately you friend is already far down a very sad and depressing road. I'd stop hanging with him. He's going to either come to the realization he's got to confront his addictions and get help or wallow in them. I'm way older than you and saw friend find their way out and others who died of an OD or deteriorated to cripples with massive health, emotional, and financial problems by their 30s. Chart your own path.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 06:31 AM
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You're young, take a thousand and buy something you really want. Take the other two grand and open a Roth IRA, put the money in and just forget it. In 40 years you'll have a nice sum and probably be able to buy a great car.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 06:26 AM
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COVID is making everybody live differently than they want. I'm 60 and last year I could have sex any time I wanted and had different FWBs. Now I've got one FWB who I can meet maybe once a month. It's just how it is. You want to be careful, I already lost two friends to COVID and those that dismiss it are being very foolish. If rather do my own thing for a year or so. I work remotely get most groceries delivered and am quite safe. I am wealthy enough to isolate so I am. I live in the New York met…
/r/askTRP29/07/20 06:22 AM
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Stay away from prostitution. It's an ugly business and too dangerous for STDs. I think short term relationships and ONS. Longer term is ok if not married.
/r/MGTOW224/07/20 07:53 AM
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I do see some men becoming mysogentistic in this community. I can understand if a man had been hurt he could blame all women. Bigotry and stereotyping benefit no one. I think we have to think more on how society socializes people. True equality is beneficial. If men and women are able to deal on an even plane everyone will benefit.
/r/MGTOW223/07/20 10:13 AM
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I had seen this before. It is a very interesting experiment. My personal take is as the narrator mentioned, you cannot totally apply a mice society to humans. But there are unexpected problems. If I did not know the result I would have assumed the colony would grow near capacity and then if allowed to reach a scarcity of resources level off or self destruct. I think one of the lessons is if the mice do not have to strive for space or resources they self destruct. In humans I think of the observa…
/r/MGTOW223/07/20 09:57 AM
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Living in a one party recording state I do keep any conversations online and texts. Making sure you do not coerce or threaten and be careful what you write and say. I do not engage in sex if the woman is intoxicated. Being discreet and not making her feel regret are better than a contract.
/r/MGTOW223/07/20 09:29 AM
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I fit your description. I'm 60, lived mostly on my own for 35 years. I work in a scientific field. I live frugally and own three houses. One is my prime residence. I own two outright and one has a mortgage. I rent out the other homes. I usually have sex once to twice a month on my terms. I will admit in COVID world I'm working from home and only meet up with a couple of women I know are isolating too. I love travel, sports, nature. I have a cat, I love dogs too but they need more attention and a…
/r/MGTOW223/07/20 09:24 AM
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Books, working with your hands, nature, sports, cars are great. The internet can be good other than porn, reddit for example. Also there are great websites on any interest you have. I love baseball, there are great websites on that I like.
/r/MGTOW223/07/20 09:12 AM
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I would not become involved seriously but a widowed woman can be like any other.
/r/MGTOW223/07/20 09:08 AM
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Money is security. I do not agree with being cheap. Generosity to the right people is a good thing. COVID has been hard. I am lucky I am wealthy and can stay safe. I helped true friends because they were there for me. Money can corrupt people if they don't do wise things with it. But wealth can make you secure, pay for emergencies, enable one to travel and enjoy life.
/r/MGTOW223/07/20 09:05 AM
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Leaving the UK was a big mistake. Even if she divorces him he would probably get joint custody and due to being a royal still had huge wealth and prestige. In North America he's away from home. I doubt he will starve but he will have a worse time of it.
/r/MGTOW23/07/20 08:57 AM
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Signing a marriage license is like signing your own death warrant. You can be in an LTR if you want, don't have children or legally marry. That makes you vulnerable to the law.
/r/MGTOW12/07/20 05:44 AM
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I'm going to wait until 70. I work in a scientific field make good money the work is challenging but fun and I want to save as much as possible. At 70 I can collect maximum social security, at 70.5 I have to take out payments from my IRA and I'd be bored.
/r/MGTOW07/07/20 07:22 AM
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We all age. Working out will make you look your best. The way you carry yourself is most important.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 03:28 AM
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I miss my gym too. I'm lucky I have a good home gym but I don't have all the machines a regular gym does. I am leery of returning right away when the do open. I'm 60 and have been isolating. I hope to avoid testing my immune system with COVID. I lost two friends already.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 03:16 AM
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I know you're right. I am very handy with tools and have done many projects on my properties to save costs but I'm getting older, I'm 60 now. During COVID even small jobs like snaking a drain, or replacing small things like outlets I've paid professionals now. Not worth the risk right now. When I buy I'll examine potential properties, I look for general structural soundness, good electrical and plumbing, and a roof that will last at least three more years. One fear I do have is how deep the rece…
/r/askTRP10/06/20 01:34 AM
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That is a good point. I have a mortgage on one of my properties and I am paying it with rent. I also contemplate a multi family dwelling that will cost more.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 01:02 AM
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I believe you're right. I own three houses one I live in and two rentals. I would like to buy another. I would love to but outright but even a mortgage would be reasonable I'm seeing less than 4% on 15 year mortgages.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 05:13 PM
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I was supposed to cruise this summer, with COVID I'll cancel and wait until a vaccine. Not work the risk and getting stuck on a ship unable to dock sounds like hell. I have debated buying a cabin on Vermont for years. With the economy depressed and having money to buy cash I may do that this summer, I've seen insane deals.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 03:04 PM
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COVID is real, I have already lost two friends, one was 54 and the other 60. The protests in some areas have had everyone wearing masks and the areas where they weren't wearing masks like Georgia, Minnesota, and Florida have already seen spikes. I am 60 and a scientist, I plan on living to 61 and will not try to prove a political point and die over it. I work from home have groceries delivered and do not mind sheltering in place until there is a vaccine. My house is big enough I am able to have …
/r/askTRP09/06/20 03:00 PM
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No it's not over but it is on hold. COVID is serious and not worth catching just to get laid. Eventually there will be a vaccine. I remember hearing similar worries when AIDS emerged. Enjoy solitude for now.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 04:41 AM
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100% agree. I'm wealthy and red pill. I'm also frugal. Tremendous control comes from not having to answer to anyone. In the COVID world I'm able to isolate and work online. Alpha does not mean being miserly. I'll help select friends. Plus as you get older I'm 60 I do not want to end up in a nursing home. Money means I can eventually afford home nursing care. Plus I travel a lot, it's fun. Over been close to home with COVID but eventually there will be a vaccine.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 04:38 AM
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I shave or wear my hair really short, #1 guide buzz cut. I do it because it's ultra easy upkeep. Even in COVID I own barber grade clippers. I can cut my own hair. I have slightly thinning hair at 60 years old. I get mostly positive feedback. It also makes me look much younger.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 04:32 AM
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Great work! If I was you and you are planning on living in the same area for the next five years I'd buy I house in a good neighborhood. Your credit is obviously golden and you could do a 25% down payment and interest rates are insanely low right now. You'll build equity and if you do keep a house long term you pay off a 15 year mortgage and you essentially live only paying the taxes and utilities which would be around what an apartment will be and you'll only be 43 years old. A mortgage is to m…
/r/MGTOW04/06/20 01:45 PM
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Right now depending on your risk factors meeting up can be risky. I'm 60 and other than two plates who I also know are quarantining I'm not looking. I'm in the New York area and I've know people who died so i say enjoy hobbies and wait until the pandemic passes. Eventually I'll try to get an antibody test.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 05:08 AM
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If you don't want to drink don't. Booze can lead to problems for some. Let your dates drink that's their business. Drink beverages you like. I get culturally having wine for guests is French so have a bottle if someone comes over but drink what you like. I'm not a big drinker myself. Occasional beer and scotch, I'm an American and it's multicultural here so people like different things. Never explain why you don't drink wine just state you like whatever you drink. No body can make you do what yo…
/r/askTRP03/06/20 04:57 AM
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I know people are going to thinking kidding but bookstores and libraries. I love to read and have had good luck meeting in there. Just be knowledgable and confident. Coffee at a bookstore can tricks more fun than pick up bars in my opinion. Especially in New York. But right now with COVID just stay cool and enjoy solitude. It his this area real bad and I had a friend die.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 04:47 AM
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You've got to be kidding. A meth head will make your life a living hell. She will steal and do anything for her next fix. It is not worth a ONS or anything. Stay away!
/r/askTRP03/06/20 04:41 AM
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I do get the bad connotations for younger people. Some unsavory groups use it as a style. But head shaving is pretty mainstream nowadays. I think going shorter and shorter then trying shaving is a good way to go. When I shave my head I may go a while keeping up with it every day or every other day but in COVID I'll shave it let it grow two weeks then shave it again. Because I'm mostly working from home it's easier and it's been fun to experiment a bit with beards too.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 04:34 AM
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Bald is great. I'm 60 and have most if my hair. I alternate shaving and very short buzz cuts. In COVID it's the easiest. You'll look good. Own it and be confident.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 01:26 PM
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You have to approach getting better methodically. Make sure you work with your doctor. You have serious medical conditions that require monitoring. Take medicines as prescribed. You seem to be doing that. Next start off slow exercise cardio first. Don't focus on weight as much as resting heart rate. Hypertension is a killer. Yo yo dieting is not healthy either. Ask your doctor for a good reasonable diet think things like clean bros meals. You'll make progress incrementally. You can do it!
/r/askTRP02/06/20 01:22 PM
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Good list I've read many of these.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 01:11 PM
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Is there an event that stressed you? I had a rough year after my mother died. Something like that just takes time.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 02:45 AM
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Accept yourself and fuck anyone who cannot deal with it. Hearing loss is difficult. Most people will not be assholes about it.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 02:40 AM
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The world is in a rough place right now. Patience if important. Keep healthy, exercise, use the time to develop hobbies and skills, help others. Get out in the fresh air. COVID is a marathon. I think we are stuck until the end of the year.. Hopefully a vaccine or effective treatment emerges and we can open up fully.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 02:37 AM
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The people who became millionaires already had some wealth and invested at the low point. The problem for game is many younger guys who would not usually lose jobs in a recession will lose then now. Student loan debt is a time bomb. Game will be having resources that can last through the depression.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 04:35 AM
2

I think he's right. I got the feeling last year that the stock market was getting too high. I sold out and am in safe havens, treasuries and FDIC accounts. My job is safe. I have zero debt. That's the way to survive. I know the market rebounded but trust me it is called the "dead cat bounce", eventually there will be a sell off again. I believe the event that will cause the depression isn't the shutdown alone. There's a push to let states go bankrupt. That's really shortsighted. All 50 states ar…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 04:29 AM
3

Use the time to work out. Learn skills, enjoy hobbies. I'm living working at home. Stay safe, COVID is no shit I've lost friends to it. I'm 60 so I'm not pushing it.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 04:09 AM
1

Exercise helps but you need therapy too. Sometimes you get overwhelmed. I got PTSD after age 50, I was from the strong silent generation. Finding the right therapist helped me.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 04:04 AM
1

I do. I have a 2005 Honda Civic. It's a good car and is reliable. Have a newer Honda Pilot. I do not buy new cars. Investing in a 401(k) and IRA as well as buying a nice house and two investment houses has made me wealthy and comfortable. Live within your means. Right now in the COVID ravaged economy I'm set.
/r/MGTOW223/05/20 08:17 AM
1

She truly looks about 50. She just looks ridiculous.
/r/MGTOW21/05/20 03:43 AM
1

There's lying realistically about your age, maybe she could have made a sap believe she put 39, but 28! Then what the hell happened to her, did she live near Chernobyl?
/r/MGTOW21/05/20 02:38 AM
1

Good luck man!
/r/askTRP16/05/20 08:38 PM
1

Sorry man, losing a close friend is traumatizing. Don't feel guilty for being sad you're not a machine. Drugs are bad news and I've lost friends to them in my long life. Looks for signs in future friends. Drugs are escapism and they hurt you physically and mentally. Booze cab kill too.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 04:11 AM
1

I think COVID is freaking a lot if people out. The quarantine is necessary but sucks. However it will end.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 04:07 AM
1

Being big and in shape helps but it's also confidence and charisma. I'm 6'3" weigh 260 lbs. I do not end up having to fight anyone. I have friends much smaller than me who are dominant too and bigger friends who are weak. I know one guy he's 6'5" 250 lbs who cannot talk to women and is victim to passive aggressive bullshit. You will almost never have a fist fight, that's risky legally and physically. Past 18 fights are pathetic.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 03:58 AM
1

I'm 60 so I'm higher risk. I'm enjoying quarantine. I work from home, save money, I do have two women who likewise are in lockdown so rush is minimal meeting them. I've fixed a lot in my house and enjoyed hobbies. I am looking forward to getting things open but I could do this into next year without going nuts.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 03:52 AM
1

You're playing with fire. A girl could lie about birth control, it's not 100% effective. A woman does not have to get and abortion they get to decide and then you're stuck child support. Best course is vasectomy and get a sperm count check every year. You'll feel much more secure.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 03:46 AM
1

If you join the service you get a very short buzz cut almost bald. When you get it it feels weird at first but it's very cool and your morning is shit, shower, and shave. Fast once you get the hang if it.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 03:39 AM
2

I reiterate what the two above members said. Just own it. Buzzcuts and shaving can be done by you even during COVID. Barber quality clippers are around $150. A bald head is so easy and nice in hotter weather.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 03:33 AM
1

I admit this is an unprecedented time. I've taken time off from meeting new women just have two plates I know are working from home. It's going to be months before things are normal again.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 03:30 AM
2

Don't be too hard on yourself. Look at the world around us. It's scary and fucked up right now. It's ok to acknowledge the stress of the world. I'm taking a hiatus from trying to be total red pill. I've asked for help and given help. I've had friends die, that sobering. I'm successful and not in financial danger. I'm helping true friends who are. I've gotten help with shopping, I'm 60 and while I'm in excellent health I'm at higher risk. Give yourself permission to disengage.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 03:24 AM
1

I'll admit I'm straight arrow on recreational drugs. I don't judge others but I've seen too many people develop a real problem. Even alcohol and pot can lead to bad problems. It's weak to be dependent on drugs. Exercise and sex are far better and less self destructive.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 03:07 AM
1

Sometimes you have to play the social game to get into bed. Ifs she's hot it's worth it. But make sure your not slipping into friend zone.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 03:01 AM
2

I know what you mean workouts are restricted by isolation. I've got a treadmill for cardio, weights for strength. Don't focus only on weight build muscle mass. Be careful of outdoor workouts. Some people are reckless on personal space and masks.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 02:58 AM
2

Move to NYC trust me. Best place to get laid on earth. But watch getting to expensive a place. You won't need a car. There's so much to do in New York. One side note though, don't judge NYC by right now. COVID hit the city hard. There's sometimes it seems like a weird movie. Moving at the end if the year is better and COVID will have hopefully waned and rent will be cheaper. Normal New York has great restaurants, bars, fun stuff to do and so many hot women.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 02:54 AM
1

She's not worth one bit of your emotions or time, fuck her. Sorry about your dad man. COVID is horrible. Concentrate on your needs completely cut her out. Take care of your mom and grieve your Dad. Seek out real friends. Good luck!
/r/askTRP14/05/20 02:45 AM
2

I am not a fan of lying. Lying seems to work for a while but there's always a cost. One of the traits we in the red pill sphere hate is women lying to us. Honor and honesty are red pill values. I work in a scientific field. Lying can not be tolerated because basically how can new experiments and technology be built on a foundation of falsehood. I think of one of the best examples is Andrew Wakefield who falsified a link between the MMR vaccine and autism. He has caused heartache pain and death. …
/r/askTRP11/05/20 02:33 AM
1

He's got more than the usual problems in these times. After she is resident for one month she's a tenant. He has to give her notice to quit after a period of 30 days. Then he can have a court order a sheriff's eviction. But with COVID evictions are on hold. His best bet is consulting a lawyer. Her actions with guest and such could be in violation of quarantine. He should have access to his own home. This is why you never let a woman move in. He will eventually be able to get rid of her but it mi…
/r/MGTOW06/05/20 04:41 PM
2

I read the woman's article. It's the most self centered tripe ever. I can see why she's alone. As long as family courts cut fathers out men are going to increasingly opt out. She should just go to a sperm bank. I'm 60 never married, no kids. I'm very happy with my life. I have had LTRs and do like children, but I do not want the risk of divorce and child support. Most of my friends have been married and have kids. Some are happy and good for them. I'm glad they did well. But many of my friends a…
/r/MGTOW06/05/20 02:51 AM
1

I am definitely a tit man. I have a fetish for floppy hanging tits. I am not into silicone at all.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:18 AM
1

After every woman. I have a maid, she come twice a week. I do keep extra sheets and will do laundry if i have too, I always want a clean bed. Right now though with COVID I'm paying my maid because I am fair, she is a good worker but I told her not to come over, I'm doing my own stuff now. I want to stay away from getting sick.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:15 AM
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I think it's going to be wild when there's a vaccine. Right now, I am being careful. I'm nearly 60 and even though I am in great shape and health COVID is no shit. I have a couple of plates I can meet who I know are on total lock-down too but I'm not meeting anyone new for now. I live in the New York area. It's a little crazy here. I actually have lost two friends both younger than me and had other friends lose parents or grandparents. I have a nice big house plenty of stuff to keep me busy. I'm…
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:11 AM
1

It's you head and hair. I alternate shaving and a short buzz cut. It works for me. I'm older, I have thinner hair on top but actually could grow it out to a decent look. I just like the low maintenance of shaving and buzzing. I do it myself. It's been a godsend with the lockdown. Own your hairstyle. The only person you have to impress is yourself. You have to look presentable for business and socializing but shaving is very neat and easy. If you show her you are going to do it your way she will …
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:00 AM
1

I was 19-20. I started having sex at 17. I had LTRs but started more enjoying variety and sex for fun. I was good looking but not pretty boy. I'm 6'3", I weighed 200 then, I was an athlete. But I was a good student in STEM classes. I did not always go after the 10s. My sweet spot was cute girls who sometimes were chubby or tall. I am turned on by curves and am a boob man. I could date women up to six feet tall because even in heels they don't tower over me. I also found that those women are very…
/r/askTRP30/04/20 05:08 AM
1

No upside. Marriage is a trap legally. So are children. You can be in an LTR just watch it if you are in one of the few common law marriage states.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 09:06 AM
1

It's not weak to be human. Believe me as you get older you might need help more often. It sounds like she's being nice, of course if she get sick you return the favor. This COVID stuff has made me realize that as much as we value independence and not being tied down we are human and can need help. I'm lucky to be well off and am easily working from home. I have rental properties and told tenants not to be afraid to tell me if they are short rent. I could be played for a sucker but I've had peopl…
/r/askTRP15/04/20 09:03 AM
1

59
/r/askTRP15/04/20 08:54 AM
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That's true I'm much older than you. When I was younger, I lived with roommates, but the last 35 years I live alone except for occasional cohabiting. I will admit I think about when I really get older. I've saved enough to have in house nursing care if needed. I made sure my healthcare power of attorney is someone trusted with as much money as me and I have their's too. It's sort of an old guy pact to keep out of a nursing home. Build your wealth, it's not just to live lavishly it's the power to…
/r/askTRP08/04/20 10:35 PM
1

Buzz cute, looks sharp and you can even cute your own hair. I look good this way but some people don't. It's helps make thinning and grew hair look good.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 04:03 AM
1

I do believe so. There are some religions where being celibate is required while I'm sues most clergy don't obey it there are a few who do. Some people are asexual. I think Sir Isaac Newton was celibate for his entire 80+ year life same with Nicola Tesla. I guess it's up to the individual.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 03:56 AM
2

It's much harder for me. I'm older late 50s and most of my game is in person. I am even leery of plates or ONS now. Corona is risky. I'm older so I worry, I'm in excellent health but being near 60 gives me pause. I am lucky I'm a but of a prepper. I keep a months supply of food all the time. I can easily work online. I just figure I'll ride this out at home. I have pets for company and I'm working on the house. I do miss sex though.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 03:50 AM
1

I get you about wanting the money. But with money comes having a say. I own three houses, I rent two of them so I really have my bills paid already. I'm also lucky to be older and have resources. I do not have a woman living here right now, and that's good because I love my privacy and being locked down is not that bad. Video chatting is not as good as the real thing though. I am missing sex but I'll deal with that to be safe. COVID is pretty bad around here. I even told my tenants to tell me if…
/r/askTRP07/04/20 09:19 PM
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If you own the house outright and pay all bills nothing in her name cohabitation is tolerable. The secret is always making sure you control everything. If you break up you can ask her to leave with a 30 day notice to quit since she is a non rent paying tenant according to the law. It can be nice to have someone to help in the house.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 03:16 AM
1

Thanks man. I am making sure I take care of his kids and his elderly mother. Luckily his mom lives on her own. I told the kids not to visit her and I arranged for weekly food deliveries. I call her every day. My friend talked to me on the phone so far supplemental oxygen but he's getting antibiotics to try to keep the pneumonia at bay. He's relieved I took his worry over his mom away. I told his kids if money got tight just call me.
/r/MGTOW29/03/20 04:45 PM
1

Lots of home will be available. I purchased a few properties in the 2008 crash and sold most for a profit after renting them. Best places are good suburbs in metro areas. New Jersey, Long Island in my area, the Valley in LA (note: I do not live there and don't really know that area's real estate).
/r/MGTOW229/03/20 02:51 AM
1

I found out today a friend has it. He is 57, a smoker, lost a kidney and prostate to cancer. He was admitted to the hospital, he had symptoms for two days then trouble breathing. No one can visit him. No even his kids. I have a bad feeling about him.
/r/MGTOW29/03/20 01:06 AM
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I am wealthy and in my main house I have taken the time to prepare for disasters. I'm not a young man, I'm nearly 60 so I will not deny this virus is a bit scary. I have a few friends of both sexes who needed some supplies and because they have always been true blue I accommodated them. I have rental properties and stocked some supplies for tenants and even told them not to worry about rent if they can prove no income, a couple have kids and I'm no scrooge. But I've sequestered myself with a mon…
/r/MGTOW27/03/20 10:25 PM
2

Thanks for the link. I apologize for my comment that is actually a hilarious sketch. Guess I'm old, i do not see all the new stuff.
/r/MensRights01/03/20 05:57 PM
1

Thanks for telling me it's a sketch. I'm not familiar with wkuk, could you explain that to me?
/r/MensRights01/03/20 07:35 AM
1

You've got to be a troll or an idiot. There's no bones in breasts (beast?). Bones are not required for cancerous cells to be present. You've got the whole internet there... Why not read a quality science based site on anatomy and cancer.
/r/MensRights01/03/20 12:55 AM
1

That's so sexist. I have seen breast cancer groups that are very supportive of male breast cancer victims, but this group is so ridiculous.
/r/MensRights01/03/20 12:52 AM
1

I think it looks good, keep it.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 01:55 AM
1

You speak the truth. It's a hard truth. Many are not ready to hear it. To be fair there are occasional stressors that can take down the best of us. Things like serious health issues, cancer, heart disease, crippling injuries. Those men may not be able to pursue some goals but can at least pursue some. Getting out of the house and investing in bettering yourself are essential. Having goals is a crucial ingredient.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/20 01:01 AM
1

Steak has more saturated fat than chicken.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 03:34 PM
1

I love steak but chicken is better if you eat meat often. Try gelling using BBQ. Steak is fine a couple of times a week but go for small lean cuts like filets not giant porterhouses.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 04:57 PM
1

You got a lawyer follow their advice. My guess is nothing comes of it.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 04:54 PM
5

Beautiful cabin!
/r/MGTOW09/02/20 07:29 PM
1

Well said sir!
/r/askTRP07/02/20 01:18 AM
1

Even people our age get overwhelmed. Offer your support. Even the toughest of men are human and have a breaking point. Knowing someone has our back makes a big difference. Even just offering to take him out for dinner is a good idea.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 06:38 PM
2

I love dogs and cats but cats are less demanding of your time. Cats also are very intelligent and can be fun to play with. My cat is OK with me being gone for days, I get her a pet sitter who feeds her and takes care of litter etc. When I'm home she is a very sweet and loving companion, she sleeps with me, is very affectionate and entertaining. But you do have to take your pet seriously. Take them to the vet never neglect them and since they give you unconditional love they deserve the same.
/r/MGTOW25/01/20 05:33 AM
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You definitely need a lawyer. Get recommendations on lawyers who handle sexual crimes and accusation, possibly a female lawyer, if you know local lawyers ask for recommendations. Do not talk to police without a lawyer. Keep any texts, messages, emails, correspondence, etc. do not destroy anything even if it is evidence that does not make you look good, far too many people end up with obstruction charges that way. Good luck!
/r/MGTOW19/01/20 04:53 AM
1

Recover first. Your health is everything. Follow doctor's orders. When you're better work extra hard. If you're older remember it takes longer to get better.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 08:38 PM
2

The vasectomy is worth it. It's total piece of mind as long as you get your sperm count checked every year just to check if there recanalization. $1,000 out of pocket or 18-22 years of child support payments.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 12:52 AM
3

This is great advice. I have gotten some sage advice and great life stories from older friends even in their 80s.
/r/MGTOW29/12/19 10:45 PM
8

Clint is nearly 90 and still not in horrible shape. Most of his peers are in the cemetery already. The wall gets everybody men and women but Clint is going down fighting.
/r/MGTOW29/12/19 10:14 PM
1

Good luck let us know how it goes.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 05:58 AM
1

Yes, I did have a few LTRs mostly in my 30s. But I missed being free to sleep with new women. As I've gotten much older in do think about what happens if I really need help. I'm well off but there are times having someone to take care of you comes in handy.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 06:41 PM
1

I agree with this approach, it's a form if harassment and believe me when the guy get the letter he's going to wonder if he's on the record somewhere and could be liable for damages. If it's real serious a lawyer can help you sue him. In today's digital world I'm sure evidence can be found. He's fucking with your livelihood that's unacceptable.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 05:39 PM
1

It sucks to be unemployed but kudos for being financially prepared. You're to young to retire. Do you have a network from your job at the college. You'd be surprised how if people know you're looking they can help you find a new job.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 05:35 PM
1

Woodworking, making my own beer, environmental action, reading, I wish I could play a musical instrument but haven't learned that yet.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 05:32 PM
1

Does this happen to you a lot? I haven't had anyone call me that. I've gotten the "what are you looking at". Usual response "not much".
/r/askTRP04/11/19 05:29 PM
2

I'm way older than most on here, in my late 50s. Supermarkets were awesome 20+ years ago, places where a conservation could be started over a food item easily. It's less fun now, everyone has their face in their phone. But at my age you can meet more than younger guys because I don't have my face in my phone. I aim towards 30 somethings. They have less guard up than in bars and sometimes an activity just going for coffee or a drink can lead to sex.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 05:14 PM
1

I think meeting for drinks is fine. It's social but not a huge planned "date". Plus sometimes it's nice to get out of the house.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 05:10 PM
1

You may grow another inch or two but do not obsess about height. Confidence is what matters.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 05:08 PM
1

For most of my life I avoided LTRs for this reason. I don't want to live a lie. If I am in an LTR I am faithful, for the most part it's been reciprocal. There's noting wrong with wanting variety. Just spin plates unless you can be faithful.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 02:51 PM
1

She's not a virgin.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 02:46 PM
1

In some situations it's expected and harmless, wedding etc. but I would then ask another girl to dance if I was you.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 02:45 PM
1

I'm not a fan of drugs. If they help you fine but addiction is always a risk. Plus there's the risk of legal trouble.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 02:42 PM
2

The main thing that will save the day depending on the state they lived in is did he legally marry her by getting a license. If he did not they were not together long enough for common law marriage if he lives in one of those. Another important factor is his will if he had one. A person who dies without a will is intestate. An unmarried girlfriend has no standing to an intestate inheritance. Most states it's wife, then children especially minor children, then parents, then siblings, they gradual…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 02:34 AM
1

Don't do it. Especially if this job has a good paycheck and you have a future. You can always get laid, you can't always get a good job.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 08:26 PM
1

Most likely cheating. That being said vasectomies have to be checked. At least two post surgery and one every three years to make sure no recanalization. I know it sounds like bullshit but I checked some medical textbooks and while exceedingly rare it actually does happen.
/r/MGTOW22/09/19 06:24 AM
1

No legal marriage and a vasectomy. Only then can you have an LTR. She keeps her finances separate. It's not male or female centered. Both people can enjoy life but are responsible for their finances.
/r/MGTOW22/09/19 06:20 AM
2

Thank you. I am fortunate. A life like mine is attainable by most men but require a long term dedication to be effective. My life is by no means perfect. I have ups and downs like anyone. But other than good health having stable wealth gives me freedoms I could not have imagined when I was younger.
/r/MGTOW14/09/19 06:14 PM
3

I love this. It's the story of my life. I worked hard and made quite a good salary for the past 35 years. I acted like I made 25% less than I did and religiously invested my money. I also bought a nice 3BR home in a good neighborhood, I paid off the mortgage early. I drove used cars and still do. I did indulge some extravagances like travel and nice stuff for my home. But I did not live like I earned a six figure salary. Today I am nearly 60 and own two properties other than my home. I have a $3…
/r/MGTOW14/09/19 05:26 PM
1

You need to see a doctor, get a recommendation for a urologist. Might be nothing but could be nerve damage, MS, etc. can't be too careful.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 10:32 PM
-1

The guy has a few screws loose. Who goes off like that in public? If he's angry he's short, take it up with God. I'm thinking the main reason he's not a "great date" isn't his height it's his personality. Challenging guys to fight you because they don't want to hear you bitch and moan is likely to lead to what happened. The other guy seemed a little too ready to fight too. Ignoring him is best, attacking him is just going to lead to court.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 06:34 AM
0

Yes!!!! This is like sex 101! Wrap it up! Otherwise you're playing with fire.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 01:15 AM
1

Hormones are in control, be careful, condoms are essential. If you have decided against children I suggest a vasectomy.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 11:48 PM
2

Should not matter if you are comfortable in being who you are. That being said I never dated a woman taller than me but I did date a 6' woman who was only 3" shorter than me in high heels she was my height, I owned it.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 11:39 PM
0

Don't be a fool, even if she's really on birth control you should worry about STDs. Just because a woman does not become pregnant in two months doesn't mean she won't...
/r/askTRP30/06/19 11:36 PM
2

Just on the fact of having sex with 100 men that's fine, she should not be judged. But she should not judge men who like sex either. I'm much older so my count is far higher. I do not like being judged for having sex with women who are younger than me. I never go with women younger than 21.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 11:33 PM
1

Private room, worth the cost who needs annoying roommates. Go hostels when you're not planning on getting laid, they are cheap and fun, meet lots of people of different cultures. 40 years ago I got laid in the hostels, it was great but some guys were jealous and led to awkward encounters.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 11:10 PM
1

Vasectomy, solves this problem. Still use a condom for STDs. Make sure to get a sperm check every couple of year to check for recanalization. It's my badybincontrolmit and it's my private business.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 01:35 AM
2

I'm in physics research. Very interesting and I get to see new discoveries being applied to technology.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 01:22 AM
2

LOL I wish we were. Believe it or not while we have discovered more about aging than we did before, being able to "fix" it is another thing. Most organisms are designed to live a certain life span then die. This fuels evolution. Mutations that cause an organism not to reach reproduction age do not get passed on but after reproduction the mutation matter less. Aging makes sense to keep a population healthy. The problem is as sentient being humans are fully aware we age and die, that sucks LOL.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 01:20 AM
1

Aging is not bad I'm 59, never married, no children. I make a great living in a scientific field. It keeps my mind sharp and the work is interesting. I date women much younger than myself. I am not sorry I did not settle down. My life is my own. There are mostly positives. I would be remiss if I did not mention the potential downsides. As I get older I realize I need some people I can trust. My parents have passed. I gave my financial power of attorney to a friend I've known for 40 years. He is …
/r/askTRP29/05/19 01:58 AM
1

I wonder what the reactions would be if he had a vasectomy?
/r/MGTOW27/05/19 12:46 AM
2

Wow, I did not know that!!!!! I was very happy that my state of New Jersey passed a law last year that stipulated palimony is only possible if there is a written contractual agreement between the two parties.
/r/MGTOW21/05/19 09:42 PM
3

Next her she's a game player.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 12:47 AM
1

Eight states and DC.
/r/MGTOW13/04/19 06:25 AM
1

Don't marry or cohabitate, you can act married just don't ever ever get the license. Common Law is only recognized in a few states now and states like New Jersey made palimony contingent on a written contract. The big wildcard in protecting your financial freedom is kids. Get a vasectomy.
/r/MGTOW13/04/19 06:24 AM
0

Just saying no collusion doesn't make it reality. Trump and the GOP are hiding Mueller's report. Until the entire unedited report and the last 10 years of Trump's taxes are made public he can never get from under the perception that he is Putin's puppet. He said"hey Russia if you're listening get find her missing emails" he asked a foreign power to alter an American election. The next day Russian hackers broke into the Democrats servers and emails. That alone is proof of his treason. Forever Tru…
/r/MGTOW02/04/19 07:51 PM
2

This is great post. He's brilliant. She can have commitment, a non legally binding private marriage. If she loved him she would go for it. She's already planing the divorce. Her biological clock is ticking, I'm betting this guy has a vasectomy too, she will really mess up and try the pregnancy card. My bet is she won't just leave and try to find a guy who will marry, he's wealthy so she will try to wear him down, in a short time he will find a new girl she will be out and say how he was a user. …
/r/MGTOW02/04/19 07:00 PM
2

Vasectomy-the get out of jail free card of life. Plus having sex without a condom just for STDs is just wise too.
/r/MGTOW02/04/19 06:38 PM
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Any tax benefits are put off by the rusk of financial ruin in divorce. You can enter an LTR and not ever get the marriage license so you're not legally bound. Children of course are always a legal responsibility. Keep all finances separate and maintain separate residences, you'll be happier.
/r/MGTOW02/04/19 02:26 PM
2

Might be an April Fools joke. But I could see a smart old guy getting a much younger woman then ghosting. Considering his digital footprint would be nil he pulled it off. Lol
/r/MGTOW02/04/19 02:17 PM
2

I get that. Biden is creepy but Trump is a psychopath. I still worry about how controlled by Putin he is.
/r/MGTOW02/04/19 02:14 PM
1

I am much older than you. My number of partners is in the several hundreds. I think sex today is a different proposition than when I was in my teens and 20s. I came of age before AIDS and herpes and at the end of the sexual revolution. I say don't try to just have sex to raise your number, you have sex because it's wonderful and it feels good. If you look at sex as a conquest that's going to blow up in your face. Just enjoy sex for it's own sake. You'll be surprised but many women feel the same …
/r/askTRP30/03/19 02:39 AM
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Business is an good major too. I did take economics courses and have friends in finance so I know there's great money there. Just pick your jobs well and even when you're making a killing put away as much as possible. There's no greater freedom than know you do not need a job at some point and can live at the level you've been accustomed to.
/r/MGTOW03/03/19 09:27 PM
2

I get that. The reason I still like company is I can go home to my own house where I am king! Except pets LOL.
/r/MGTOW03/03/19 06:06 PM
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I will reiterate that all this was possible because I never got married. I have peers who have been divorced, it ruined them financially. I know a guy who makes well into six figures and lives in one of my apartments, his ex lives in his former five bedroom house. He pays his three kids college tuition (I get wanting his kids to do well though). But it's all court ordered, his ex has it made and he's the banker.
/r/MGTOW03/03/19 06:01 PM
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LOL, My minimum is 21. I tend to stay under 35. I do live alone and like what you said about having enough of people. But I grew up way before the internet so some personal interaction still matters for me.
/r/MGTOW03/03/19 05:40 PM
2

You're welcome, play the long game.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 05:51 AM
1

I am in my late 50s. Pursuing financial freedom is the most important thing you can do! I started doing this before there was America Online let alone a Reddit. If you're young it doe not take much. If at 18 you take $3 a day and invest it in large cap stocks by the time you are 70 you'll have over $2 million. That one thing will take care of long term. Shorter term find a career that interests and stimulates you but also have a 40+ year future and a good income, at least averaging $75K+. Do not…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 05:49 AM
1

Being a sap who is used which is the definition of "nice guy" on here is unacceptable. But being able to have friends who are women who there is a two way street is not always bad. I have one good friend who I dated years ago, she is four years younger than me. Our relationship never worked out and she has been a very occasional fuck buddy over the years. But a real friendship developed. One good thing is she is very successful so she does not want money from me. Over the 35 years I have known h…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 05:31 AM
1

Just bail man. Tell her you do not want to be married. My guess is you'll be calling her bluff.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 05:14 AM
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Just think about how much grief your ex caused you. I am older late 50s, I have many exes. Most have been married divorced and their ex husbands paying through the nose. I am happy independent, wealthy, and enjoy life. One ex whose history with me I'll share is one whom I dated of and on, even got oneitis for a short time for but at the end had a FWB relationship with. She got engaged, but was still fucking me until a month before the wedding. The guy she married was successful but they got divo…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 04:53 AM
2

I'm only 6'3", I do make over $250G but the reason I'm so successful is never getting married.
/r/MGTOW03/03/19 04:18 AM
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Haha, I'm 59, I rarely date anyone over 35. I prefer 21-25. Old enough to be good company young enough to not ask "where is this going?" ​
/r/MGTOW03/03/19 04:15 AM
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Vasectomy is the key gentlemen. Nothing will make you sleep better.
/r/MGTOW03/03/19 04:00 AM
1

I would never want to be married due to this type of stuff. I admit you handled it pretty well. Even when I have had LTRs the woman had to love giving BJs and swallowing. In your case I think you need to look elsewhere. I'm sure you can find a woman who will give you oral at whim. My bet is as soon as your wife finds out she will be desperate to "win" you back. The problem with marriage is if she gets a hissy fit she can divorce you and take half the house etc. If you have kids that's a whole ot…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/19 02:26 AM
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Great story! You dodged a big bullet and she actually did you a favor. As you go forward you'll only get better, wealthier, more desirable. She will ago worse and hit the wall. You won't fall so easily next time. Don't ever get legally married or have children, there's the trap. You can have an LTR but not be bound so you always have escape. Within a short time she will come back after getting used and abused, just say you've moved on. In 10 years she will look at you as "the one that got away".…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 09:36 PM
1

You are worthwhile. Don't give up. In fact you show remarkable strength in coping with events that would crush many men. I think you need to get comfortable with yourself. Make sure you have your own place if you can swing it. Build hobbies, enjoy alone time. Seek help from a doctor to make sure of your health. Don't let anyone belittle you. Slowly develop avenues to socialize. Watch internet time that's not real. Good luck.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 03:10 AM
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Leave her charger in the mailbox and tell her not to disturb you. If she quibbles tell her you put her charger in the mail and she will get it in a day or two. Your house is your castle she cannot "drop by".
/r/askTRP13/01/19 05:29 PM
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Break up with her like Vasily said. Then enjoy like, just have fun, go out with any woman you want. Take a trip you put off. Enjoy hobbies. You're free.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 05:19 PM
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Vasily always gives great advice.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 05:12 PM
1

Who gives a shit what other guys think. If you're attracted to a woman she sexy. I myself like bigger curvy women too. Don't let others opinion to make you change your preferences.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 12:14 AM
2

Good advice. Just make sure she's not nuts, you don't need a crazy stalker in your life.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 12:44 AM
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Just keep her blocked get on with your life when she no longer gets the attentions she will pick a new victim.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 12:42 AM
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It was a great time to get laid, AIDS and HIV were worries but I was in my late 20 and early 30s in that time period. I was unmarried and mostly unattached. I lived in the New York metro area. From 1985-1995 I'd say I had sex with around 125-150 women. PIV I usually used condoms. But that was much more for contraception than avoidance of STDs. I will admit I was quite promiscuous. Oral sex was a particular favorite.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 12:34 AM
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If you find the girl sexy enough to fuck just fuck her. There's nothing wrong with that. Dating is another thing though.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 06:21 AM
1

Talk to buddies, I will let friends use my rental house if one of the apartments is empty.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 07:14 AM
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I am betting it's psychological, you realize cock in pussy can mean pregnancy. Your dick is almost trying to protect you. Make sure you wear a condom and consider a vasectomy. After mine I feel freer than I did before.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 08:05 AM
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Sorry to hear of your grandma. In public be strong especially for your parent. You don't want to appear weak but someone who finds fault with crying at your grandmothers funeral is an asshole.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 06:34 AM
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It's 2018 buddy, stupid bigotry just makes you bitter and weak.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 06:31 AM
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You're reaching your prime years. Don't get married! Your 30s should be sex with a different woman every week. You may have felt you wasted your 20s but you will earn well. Save buy your own house, have fun. Bring a girl home to your mom sometimes so she's happy but you're the boss.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 06:28 AM
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I am probably one of the older guys on here late 50s. I have never married or had kids. I came close a couple of times. Each time I was close I thought about what I'd give up and what I'd be risking. It was never worth it. I am fortunate in that I attained a good career and wealth. I love my life, I have freedom and control. I have seen friends get married and more than half were ruined by divorce and child support. There are some who had success at marriage and good for them. I will admit there…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 01:39 AM
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Do what you like, if it makes you happy that's all that matters.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 12:45 AM
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When I was in college this was one of the best pickup places. You could even bang in the stacks before all the security cameras thy have now.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 12:44 AM
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Depends on where you live. In New York City, I wouldn't bat an eye, areas where there's no mass transit, I'd ask how does she go to work, store, etc?
/r/askTRP14/06/18 12:41 AM
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I know my state, New Jersey, amended laws on palimony to state someone only gets it if there is a written contract. Palimony is one area where rational laws are being made. Child support would always be up to the court I don't believe that can be covered in a prenup or ant type of contract it's best interest of the child. I think vasectomy no marriage license is the only way to have an LTR.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 02:39 PM
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Good advice is being given here. Avoid fights when possible. Ignoring those clown would have made then look even more stupid. Believe me if they go around yelling abusive things eventually they are going to piss of a guy with anger problems who knows how to fight or is armed and it will end badly for all involved.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 12:24 AM
1

Agreed, being there for a friend is good but if they become a whiny pain time to leave.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 02:29 PM
1

Some if the responses here are racist bullshit. Who cares what race, religion, height, or sexuality you are. TRP is about self improvement not bigotry.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 02:27 PM
1

A 401k is not BS! As another contributor to this thread said you get 100% matching for a portion of your money. You put it in before taxes, any money you put in is always yours and the employer matching usually vests after 5 years. If you leave a job roll your 401k over into an IRA. I have put away 25% of my salary in a 401k or IRA since the late 1980s, I now have a seven figure IRA at almost 58 years of age I can retire comfortably on at 67, I could actually retire in a couple of years at 59 an…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 02:24 PM
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You should put 90 percent away. I know I sound like a killjoy but that money will mean way more in a few years. I would spend the 10% on a good reliable car not flashy. Don't let on that you have money. If you get the right degree and graduate without debt you'll be light years ahead of your peers. You can then possibly put a down payment on a house, owning your own home is not just an ego boost it's smart economics. I have three properties owned clear. One I live in the other two I rent. Knowin…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 01:52 PM
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It's the best way to improve your body, looks, and attitude. Of course if someone is disabled that's different.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 02:21 AM
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I have to read Dave Ramsey. I do have long term care insurance. I don't like to play house either. I have three houses and have allowed LTRs to live in one for minimal rent for assistance with things. I think I may use that model in old age.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 08:58 PM
1

I'm in my late 50s. I see my life as better than my married peers. I tend to date women over 20 years younger than me. Some younger women don't want to be with an older man but many like that I'm not a game player and do things that younger guys don't. I know my financial success is part if the package but there are rich younger guys too. I do see my 60s being when I will slow down, at some point I'll have to plan for what happens if I get sick. But wealth makes that easier. I plan on living on …
/r/askTRP14/05/18 02:06 AM
1

Don't take testosterone unless a doctor proscribes it! Best thing is lifting, exercise, competitive sports, and sex. Testosterone production is variable. Make sure you're sleeping, eating well, and have a positive attitude.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 01:17 AM
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The guy sounds like a sociopath. I would just never talk or socialize with this clown. Chances are he's headed to a dark future. Find new friends and just ignore his remarks. You'll be in college next year and something tells me this guy is looking at basement dwelling for the foreseeable future.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 04:30 PM
1

Maybe I'm old (late 50s) but this seems ridiculous to me. I would never be ok with watching a woman I'm with getting banged by another guy.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 04:40 PM
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Barring true emergencies like illness death in the family etc being flaked on is a good bye next.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 04:24 PM
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The degrees that have great earning potential are sciences, medicine, and finance. Make sure you get good grades so you can get into grad school.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 04:22 PM
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If they ghost it's probably fear of being labeled a slut or they didn't like you. Be patient often they will call again. I have girls that contact me randomly every month or so just to bang. I'm older have my own place and they don't fear me blabbing to they'd friends or social group. Social media and constant texting make women reluctant to be overt. If they know you can keep your mouth shut you'll get ONS or FWBs more.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 04:16 PM
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Letting girls get into the experimenting first is better. I've found if I had a plate help recruit a third girl it was better than just me trying it alone.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 04:07 PM
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Drugs are a hard limit for me. They are bad psychologically and physically. I have dated girls who occasionally smoked pot but never around me. I see nothing but problems coming from drugs.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 04:05 PM
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You should have dropped her at the first sign of cheating. Going forward get a family law attorney and detail your problem to him/her. You're not going to want it be put on the birth certificate as father. The lawyer can guide you in how to prevent paternity fraud. Keep all messages she sent. Don't be stupid next time.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 02:48 AM
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Vasily, I enjoy your posts and viewpoints.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 10:44 PM
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I am in my late 50s and can agree with this. Being older does have disadvantages, slower reflexes, less endurance, and taking longer to heal from injury. But I was fortunate to never get married and have built a life that is mine to control. I tend to date women that are well over 20 years younger than myself. Most see that many younger men are a mess. I was shocked to see how many still live with their parents. I've loved on my own since I was 18. I am not naive and get my fair share of gold di…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 10:40 PM
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It's perfectly normal don't worry.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 10:08 PM
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I think be upfront. Don't let anyone make you feel bad, if you are confident it will show.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 10:07 PM
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I'm in my late 50s, I do not want to get married but after four decades of sex and fun I still enjoy meaningless sex but also want someone who is fun and enjoys intellectual pursuits. I am wealthy and could afford nurses in my home in the future. I'm still very healthy the luck of genetics and staying in shape. I would like a woman who is capable herself and help each other when needed.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 02:25 PM
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Getting a vasectomy at your age is hard, doctors worry you'll regret it. If you can definitely go for it. Getting married even with a prenup is playing with fire. Prenups get tossed all the time. If I was you I'd play the field until your 30s then get married without a marriage license, no risk financially and you can live old fashioned. Just watch if your state is a common law marriage state.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 02:22 AM
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Sounds like either he read some self help bullshit bad is trying ideas badly or he's socially inept. I think if he's annoying many people it's time to ignore him or tell HR.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 02:15 AM
1

When I was younger almost all if my investments were equities (stocks) I've moved more to treasuries bad bonds as I've aged. When investing in the market do not try to pick the next Microsoft or Amazon, stick to index funds especially tied to the S&P 500. Right now I see the market as overvalued there will be a major correction or even bear market in the next year or two. But even if you see a loss in the short term on your retirement money just keep putting it in every paycheck like clockwork. …
/r/askTRP27/04/18 01:52 PM
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Wouldn't work, if the prenup is considered unconscionable it can be thrown out. Best course of action is a non legal marriage, have a ceremony, she can even change her name but you're not legally married. Never mingle assets and keep accounts separate. Wild card is kids, I have a vasectomy because there's no way of avoiding child support, that can't be covered in a prenup or by not being married.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 03:00 AM
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I was fortunate to be a good student in school and attended college and grad school on scholarships. I'm in a science field and made a great salary almost right out of college. I put a quarter of my salary before taxes into an IRA. I took another 10 percent and kept investing. I saw ups and down, I always bought into crashes and sold near peaks. The big killing I made was in early 2009 I put a million I had into the market I sold out last summer. I'll live off that and the IRA eventually my sala…
/r/askTRP27/04/18 02:54 AM
1

I feel confidence and content because I'm in full control of my life. I don't need to work because I saved enough but do because I like it. I get laid whenever I want. I have some trusted friends I know I can rely on. I own homes one of which is my fortress of solitude, no other people are allowed there except my maid and workmen when needed. I entertain at one house that's nice for social stuff and rent the other. I answer to no one. I lift and train, I'm not young (50s) so I need to stay activ…
/r/askTRP26/04/18 01:18 AM
1

Well written and very great insight. I'm so glad I never had this happen to me. I hope your child is healthy and goes up well. I advise condoms, condoms, condoms, but if you really do not want to risk it get a vasectomy. I did and sleep better knowing it. I still use condoms to prevent STDs. I also like the part about DNA testing. Did you have a DNA test performed, you did not mention that? Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 04:38 PM
1

Wow, you sound like an advertisement for racism. I think you must have issues with Asian people. There are desirable alpha masculine Asian men and beta weak white guys. As has been observed on this post the Chinese are the most successful ethnic group genetically, one of five people on this planet is Chinese. Worry about bettering your own SMV before going on a racist idiotic rant.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 01:19 AM
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Anyone guy or girl who betrays a confidence given in a moment if vulnerability is a piece of shit.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 02:58 PM
1

When you're renting it is a good idea to go for better rent. Just make sure it's safe for your stuff, get a good lock. Better to save up and buy, owning is a better long range choice.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 01:42 AM
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It's fine it shows you're a human being.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 01:38 AM
1

When you get older it's not a good look.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 06:57 AM
1

Getting married is too risky you become tied legally and financially to the woman. I'm in my 50s I've had quite a few LTRs and broke off if marriage was insisted. I have close friends including women who I can depend on and can depend on me, no man is an island. I am lucky in that I have financial means and can handle life's emergencies. I do admit true old age is a bit scary but what isn't, I'm lucky in that my health is excellent and longevity runs in my family. Complete freedom is a wonderful…
/r/askTRP28/03/18 04:11 AM
1

I think when you're just dating and having sex it's none of her business. If you get serious I'd wait until the subject of children comes up then say you've got a vasectomy but saved sperm if you decide you want children. I got mine when I was already in my 50s, I had thought about it for a while, I didn't want kids. I found out an LTR was planning an accident and got the vasectomy. I didn't freeze any sperm, I broke up with the LTR immediately. I've told a total of two woman since and they were…
/r/askTRP28/03/18 03:57 AM
1

I'm no prude but there's a big line at incest. Damn man you don't live in the Ozarks, get another girl.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 11:37 PM
1

I can appreciate how losing your mom can fuck with your mind. I am not married but became weaker and less in control for a couple of months after my mom got very sick and died. I let girls pull things I never would have. Vasily is right. I will admit one girl did earn my respect she liked my mom and would help either her and even help my mom with the bathroom when I needed her to. She did that without mind games, she is still close, more than a plate less than an LTR.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 11:34 PM
1

You're trying too hard and your friend's life actually sounds like shit. Life is a marathon not a sprint. In a couple of more years you'll have you pick of chicks and as a 30-something living in cat vomit with 5 other guys you friend will find it hard to bang chicks.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 11:27 PM
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You didn't lose much. I have lived with women and it's such a pain, you have to give up too much control over your life. It's gotten better as I got older and own a house. I have let a woman live in my spare room, they don't think it's that they get a say in the house. The right woman can be ok to live with if you have a big enough house.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 11:20 PM
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This is the best response, sort of ignoring the racist asshole but showing you're not taking it lying down. My bet is the racist will slink away. You as his friend can help him by quietly filming and posting the video with only the racist in the frame. Believe me unless this guy lives under a rock being outed as a screaming racist is death, no jobs, no contacts, no women, no one want to associate with a racist asshole.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 03:36 PM
1

I was 54. I did consider saving soldiers (great term lol). But I thought even if I have a kid now I'm almost 58, I'd be 80 when they graduated college.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 02:42 PM
1

I can appreciate how great raw feels. I'll confess when I was young and dumb I fucked raw quite a few times. As I aged I wised up, one big pregnancy scare finally made me see the light. I'm glad this was before I really go a girl pregnant. I got religious with condom use. I accumulated wealth and started to see the traps come out. A couple of years ago I caught an LTR trying to get pregnancy so I got a vasectomy. I sleep so soundly knowing I'm safe I still wear condoms for STD protection. I'm ve…
/r/askTRP21/03/18 02:01 PM
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If you like it do it. Don't give a shit what people think. I like Legos myself and I'm 57.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 02:03 AM
1

It becomes about you if you obsess about it. You fucked her multiple times successfully. Act like nothing different happened next time. If it's back the one time was just her being out of sorts, sick, preoccupied. If it's a pattern dump her.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 03:32 AM
1

I think betafication started with agriculture and civilization, 8000 years ago while this seems so long ago it's only 4% of modern human existence. Add to that hominid existence of almost a millions years and the alpha fux beta bux is a new twist. You can't undo evolution in a heartbeat.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 03:23 AM
1

She's out of line considering you worked hard to have the leisure you do. It is ok for her yo politely say she can't fix breakfast because she's running late. I'd apply dread.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 05:06 PM
1

You let her handle it. Only intervene if a guy is getting grabby and your girl cannot get him to stop. Drunk guys can be a pain.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 05:04 PM
1

If you care what they say about your emotion that's not red pill. If you don't bring stoic is good. But people are not machines, we have emotions just don't go around ruled by them.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 05:01 PM
1

This is a childish game shes playing. If you want yo play hardball I would say to her "don't flatter yourself, you're not that hot" and then don't call or text even if she does for a day. If it's just banter on her part you could say "all my girls are hot". I personally would ignore her and change the subject.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 03:31 AM
2

You did the right thing. I hate drunk assholes. Occasionally a fight with them cannot be avoided but usually redirection does the trick. A guy like that will eventually piss off a psycho type guy and something terrible will happen. My uncle told me about a guy who started like this when he was young, one time a guy punched him and threw him out and he came back in and stabbed the guy. Of course he faced murder charges because the guy died. It happened in 1958, I remember my uncle pointing out hi…
/r/askTRP27/02/18 02:21 AM
1

Get back out on your own as soon as you can. Roommates are ok if that's waft it takes.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 02:45 AM
1

It's not easy at first if you're shy but talk to a girl with no other objective than conversation like you would a guy. After a while it will become second nature. College is great for this, you'll always be in groups for projects make use of that.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 01:18 AM
1

Learn from TRP but get comfortable around women. When I was in college (admittedly quite a long time ago) classes, the library, coffee shops were great for this. I know texting and apps like Tinder are useful now but face to face still counts. A girl is only going to bang a guy she feels chemistry with. Being a bit aloof and confident works well, being able to tease and be teased is good. You're actually lucky that girl would have ruined your college experience.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 09:48 PM
1

You're being played. Dump her and pursue other girls. You are 19 you should be playing the field.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 03:06 PM
1

Just go to the damned doctor and if it's bad you'll get a tonsillectomy. In the interim the doc will give you antibiotics. Keep lifting but ask the doc.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 02:41 AM
1

This sounds like the best first step. It's a plan that if it doesn't work allows alternatives.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 06:02 PM
2

Sounds like a great opportunity but be careful. I live in the NYC area. New York is a great city. I know you're short on funds, it's super expensive, even if your plate is paying you'll want to have some spending money. Don't dismiss others advice here to have the resources to get home if something crazy happens.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 05:50 PM
1

It sounds like low T, don't get a diagnosis here go to a reputable endocrinologist or urologist. Ask for references from trustworthy docs in your area. It's not normal for a 19yo.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 03:12 AM
2

Great advice, I'd recommend a STEM field too.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 01:32 AM
1

Being called "cute" is not a put down if it's not said in a way that is meant to dismiss you as unworthy. It can be endearing if you are alpha. I remember jogging in the park one day coming across this girl who had a puppy. I love dogs and started playing with the puppy and it loved the attention. The girl said "you're so cute with Jasper" (the puppy) I get to talking to her about dogs and later that night I'm getting an awesome blowjob while Jasper watches.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 06:52 PM
1

Smart girls are still girls. Unless you let yourself be intimidated. The best fucks I've had were smarter girls. They often have good jobs so you're not just dollar signs. They are more fun to hang out with. It is painfully boring to go out with a chick who cannot talk about anything substantive.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 06:44 PM
2

You're only 17 and are destroying your health. Give up smoking and drugs immediately. They will not only mess up erections they'll eventually start destroying the rest of your body. Start lifting and cardio. If you are not addicted to alcohol having the occasional drink is OK otherwise give that up too. Since you can get hard to masturbate at least some of the softness is nerves. But I've seen guys get to their 20s and have health problems of guys in their 60s from the stuff you're doing now.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 06:38 PM
1

What type of job is it? I know you can't give details but it would help to know the environment. If it's a career look out for yourself. Get along with your peers but make sure upper management knows you're pulling your weight and actually excelling. It sounds like this is just a paycheck. In that case work slower but always finish. Know how to tell the lameasses off. Ally with people who are also good at the job make the people who want you to cover that you're not their servant. Look for a job…
/r/askTRP06/02/18 11:19 PM
1

It really helps prevent drama. Plus some women appreciate there's less danger of an accident. Plus I still wear condoms for STD protection.
/r/MGTOW06/02/18 04:45 PM
1

I wonder why the guys self esteem is so low? Being dependent on one woman is crazy, especially in your 20s. He has to kick her to the curb and never talk to her again. He also has to enjoy husband freedom, be with lots of women. LTRs have their place as you get older but a guy has to be in control. I would advise him to get checked for STDs.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 05:09 PM
2

Definitely, these girls will agree with the psycho ex to her face but will find ways to run into him and say things like "she didn't know how lucky done was to be with a handsome sexy man like you".
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 06:49 AM
1

I just tell them what I do. Why wouldn't i?
/r/askTRP25/01/18 05:45 PM
1

Your father is right. You want the best job skills you can get. Think of your career as lasting 50+ years. Wanting out is a good sign in you, too many guys live at home because it's easy and then you never gain freedom. But your dad has it right, build your skills and earning potential.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 07:03 PM
1

Depending on how much money you have you want it preserve your wealth. Buy a nice house in a good neighborhood, having your own place means you control your living space. Keep working but pursue a career you like that might not pay huge. Invest you money, right one I think the stock market is overvalued, I'd buy t-bills. Then jump into the market after the next big downturn. Don't let women know you're well off. Don't buy flashy cars etc. good for you.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 03:26 AM
1

Perhaps she missed civics class and does not realize that the Articles of Confederation became null and void with the ratification of the United States Constitution in the late 1780s. This sovereign citizen bullshit is hilarious. No one can simply declare they are not bound by the laws of the US while in it's jurisdiction. Plus that article only stated free movement and due process in the US, state laws still applied in each state.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/01/18 03:00 AM
1

As an adult you don't really deal with these situations. But I know the type of joker you're talking about. I grew up in a rough city neighborhood and when in high school my family moved to a suburb. I went to the local high school and made friends, but there was one asshole like you described. In my old neighborhood people like him learned not to fuck with people, this guy was wealthy and mainly mad I had dated his ex and was basically a big jerkoff, the first couple of stunts I left go like sp…
/r/askTRP10/01/18 04:05 AM
1

You don't act like you're incapable of interacting with women. You flirt, you appear like you have an abundance mentality. If she wants sex and you find her attractive fuck her, if she plays hard to get or tries to friend zone you walk away and go for another. Making a woman doubt her ability to attract you will make her actually chase you. You gave to remain in control.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 03:41 AM
2

I would advise not getting married, it's too much of a risk. But definitely do not let anyone even a wife alter your beliefs.
/r/askTRP07/01/18 01:45 AM
1

This is an interesting question. I would think the maxim of avoiding marriage should still apply gay or straight. Once any person enters into the marriage contract they risk their hard earned assets. I do however believe in marriage equality. Any consenting adult who wants to be married should be able to, whether it's going to work out well is their business. I think if I was gay I would avoid marriage just like I'm doing as a straight man.
/r/askTRP07/01/18 01:27 AM
1

The goal of "getting rich" should be security. I like the term financial independence myself. Gaudy displays of wealth are foolish, it only makes you a target for gold diggers. Wealth gives you options, wealth makes you able to indulge interests and travel. But having a secure existence enables one to handle the unexpected. I have luck in wealth attainment. I have a nest-egg of about $2 million, own several properties, and have a six figure job in science. My main residence that is my public fac…
/r/askTRP07/01/18 01:16 AM
2

Smoking is just plain stupid. It damages your health costs you money and you smell bad.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 03:07 AM
2

I think it is good you realize that you have a problem with alcohol. It's not going to be easy but you have to stay away from it. AA can help. Go to a local meeting you'll find support there. It will be a long road but you will regain your confidence and become a chad again. Good luck to you.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 01:57 AM
1

Too late now. You have to hit while the iron is hot without seeming over eager or desperate. Learn from this you'll get the BJ next time.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 03:24 AM
3

Kid, you need to go out and get laid, now!
/r/askTRP30/12/17 09:53 PM
10

I would definitely look into DNA testing just to be certain. I can see her coming for child support, or the state coming after you if she goes on welfare. Protect yourself. Perhaps if the child is yours ask for custody.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 06:02 AM
1

Stationary bike for cardio. Make sure you work out gradually after the cast comes off follow the lead of your physical therapist. It takes some time to recover after a broken bone. On another front read and learn new skills. I'm speaking from experience. I've broken arms, legs, ribs. Good luck!
/r/askTRP29/12/17 05:39 AM
1

A physical activity. I think indoor rock climbing.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 05:00 AM
1

It took about three months. I went to counseling about once a week. I felt better but continued for six months. I considered it a success.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 03:37 AM
1

It is sometimes a good idea. I didn't for most if my life then my mother died and it really helped.
/r/askTRP28/12/17 06:58 PM
1

Even in almost 2018 there is societal pressure to be married produce kids be a drone. I also think you might be getting cultural pressure. When I was your age most of my friends married and had kids. I did get some pressure and was considered immature. As years went by I'm more seen as a sage. I'm wealthy, in good health, and own several properties. Some of the friends from my younger years are happy in their marriages but a few are divorced, broke, and bitter. More than once I've heard someone …
/r/askTRP27/12/17 05:57 PM
2

This is such a well written and thoughtful answer. I myself am generous, I don't see it as a weakness either. I never feel obligated to give them but it feels good.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 05:19 PM
1

Don't stoop to being racist like that guy. Unfortunately racism is on the rise in our current climate. I think if you let it get to you you invite more. Racist people are scum, the thing they don't realize is they look the like insecure losers they are because their only power comes from being able to "push" down another person in another ethnic group.
/r/askTRP21/12/17 02:13 AM
1

I think social status is interrelated with the other two qualities, wealth and physique. The one ingredient also part of status is power. Being in charge and having power over others is status in it's raw form. Think of natural leadership traits. Calmness under pressure, being decisive, being articulate, and charisma.
/r/askTRP21/12/17 02:07 AM
2

I am 57 now. I do think about surrogates. I have the financial resources to pay for it. But at my age my child wouldn't finish college until I was 80.
/r/askTRP21/12/17 02:02 AM
2

Home Depot and Lowes have good free workshops. Ask your friends I am handy myself and never mind showing friends they can be a help and I teach.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 04:57 PM
1

The laws on child support really suck. The main reason I did not do become a father and eventually got a vasectomy was the risk of paying money and never seeing my child. I do sometimes feel it is the only thing I missed out on in life. I do like kids.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 04:53 PM
2

It does not really matter to most guys. I'm 6'3" I have only once dated a taller girl (6'4") and it was not weird.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 04:45 PM
1

Just flirt a few time then when you see her and she's not too busy ask for a number.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 04:41 PM
1

As long as you never get married, have a vasectomy to prevent children and child support you are in control. You can enjoy being relaxed in an LTR. If something goes wrong you can always disconnect and go your own way. There is nothing wrong with having a partner, there is nothing to guard against. As long as you have control you are fine.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 01:18 AM
1

I would still get a DNA test before you sign on for 18 years of child support. They have non-invasive tests they can do now. My bet is she flips out and refuses. But you can get a court order.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 12:37 AM
1

Just shave it. You want to do it. Plus beards get annoying. Don't worry about being a pushover beta for your mother. Never let your parents run your life but don't act like a dick to your mom to appear in control. Never be a mommas boy but it's no weakness to have a soft spot for your mother.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 06:49 PM
2

You can't force someone to perform oral if they hate it. But I would drop her. Oral is my favorite sex act and if I met a woman who didn't like it I'd drop her fast.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 06:40 PM
1

NEVER do steroids! The potential for health problems is far too high. It offers an easier way to being ripped but is that worth heart damage, liver damage, testicular atrophy, or a myriad of other maladies. I have seen a few people truly screw themselves. This is my humble opinion.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 06:36 PM
2

Prenups are theoretically great but not foolproof especially if you are wealthy. Add in the fact that no prenup can stipulate child support, that is left to a family court after a divorce.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 02:10 AM
1

I think you have to upfront. Your wife wanted sex outside your marriage you deserve it you. I have never married, I could not deal with a open marriage but I have seen it work fir others if they know what is allowed and are honest.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 05:22 PM
0

I would consider it an insult if a woman spit out my cum. I would never tell a woman I wasn't going to go down on her and let her cum. That being said look at your diet, pineapple juice is a great idea, watch string spicy foods too.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 03:59 AM
1

Definitely downsize to be roommate free. After college may a year or tell after that roommates are just a pain even great ones. You want to be the boss of your own house. Even if it's a studio.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 12:07 AM
1

Condoms religiously for sex. Make sure you dispose of them yourself. Think about a vasectomy.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 09:23 PM
3

In my experience yes. Most do. They like to brag much like guys do. But of course some are more private people.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 07:56 PM
2

Always a fear. I have a vasectomy. Every six months I get my sperm count rechecked. It has stayed zero. Recanalization is most common the first year and declines after that. I wear a condom anyway, STDs are not stopped by a vasectomy.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 02:45 AM
1

Yes definitely!!! Best schools for STEM are places like MIT, caltech, etc.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 03:30 PM
3

You don't "need" college to be successful. That being said make sure your career is in a growing field with future good prospects for 50 years. Your parents are not trying to hurt you by wanting you to be a doctor, medical doctor is definitely a career that will be around in 50 years and pay well. Certain trades like electrician I see being good for the foreseeable future. College is more expensive than when I went and I see it being different but when I compare myself to childhood friends that …
/r/askTRP07/12/17 03:21 PM
1

I can on,y imagine how brutal that was for her. Unless you totally love her realize what your getting into. Ask people who are vets and saw combat especially longer tours. You never forget.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 01:57 AM
1

Sometimes I wish smart phone weren't invented. It's so asinine to text a girl rather than brother talking on the phone or meeting up. But it is the current way things are done. I think you get to being brief as possible on texting but with banter. Game is so much better in person. I will admit I'm an old guy (50s). I tend to go with women 27-39. They are not as into texting as younger girls but expect it some. A couple have liked that I do not text as one told me "you're a real adult and don't p…
/r/askTRP06/12/17 01:52 AM
1

Dorm, you need to experience living away from home. The social opportunities are great. Just be sure to study, you want good grades to stay in school and be eligible for grad school. Friends I made in my freshman dorm well over 30 years ago are still close. Don't let your phone be an umbilical cord to home, of course talk to you family that's great go home once a month. But you'll have the time of your life.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 01:45 AM
1

Please call a suicide hotline immediately. There is one called Samaritans that is totally Confidential. You are stuck right now but you have skills and a future, if you get help you'll see things differently. You are worthy of happiness. Please tell us you sought help.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 01:40 AM
1

I get that. Depending on the company even after your sister is 18 HR will not tolerate harassment. She has to learn how to shut these guys down, an older female friend might be helpful.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 10:08 PM
1

It's not beta to eat pussy. I love doing it and getting a girl off with it and a g-spot massage is heaven. Of course you remain in control. I would never do it if the girl wasn't very into sucking me off and swallowing. Oral can be better than intercourse and no risk of pregnancy. A problem is if you do it and don't like it because she makes you.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 03:05 AM
1

Assaulting this guy is only going to get you in trouble and you have it teach your sister to handle this. I guarantee it happens when your not there. I think you sister politely reminding the guy she is a minor should do the trick. The minute a guy hears "you do realize I'm underage don't you?" Unless he's an idiot he will beat a hasty retreat.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 02:56 AM
2

There is nothing masculine about being an unfeeling prick. Holding frame and not being a patsy does not mean lacking emotion and empathy. I have helped friends male and female in times of need and have been lucky to be on the receiving end of kindness too. I had a what would now be called a plate who was diagnosed with cancer. Her parents had died in an accident a couple of years before. She had some more distant family and other good friends. She broke down with me when telling me she had a bra…
/r/askTRP01/12/17 02:29 AM
2

Never speak with someone you're in charge of that you're having trouble with behind closed doors. I think recording it was a good idea but I would consult as to legal ramifications, is your state a two party state where both have to consent to recording. Ultimately if she makes a ridiculous accusation it could be valuable. The adobe some have given about stepping back and looking at the situation unemotionally is excellent.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 04:01 AM
3

Never see this girl ever, you'll look weak and pathetic. Being stood up is a shit test. Only possible exceptions are true emergencies, like a car accident, family member sick etc.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 03:48 AM
2

Make sure you build a career with your education. You'll only be able to play soccer for so long. Just take some Duran time and recharge. You need to get plates and just enjoy meaningless sex.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 02:39 AM
1

I'm not against the idea of a live in girlfriend. I do get Tomassi's logic though. I have lived with LTRs. In every cause I kept control, I let them move in with me. I had the apartment in my name or later owned the house. I never let the woman pay one house bill, it's my place she's under my rules. But sometimes that lead to them using me, I was a free meal ticket. Those girls got kicked out fast. Other girls were actually good, they bought the groceries, cleaned up, did laundry, and were actua…
/r/askTRP27/11/17 02:35 AM
1

Move into your own new place. Break clean and no contact with her.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 02:26 AM
3

Finish med school and don't get distracted. Jerking off beats messing up and failing because a girl makes you crazy. Do make sure to fuck a woman every month so you don't become rusty.
/r/askTRP25/11/17 03:35 AM
1

Of course. I am in my 50s since I lost my virginity at 17 I have had a few dry spells the longest was 6 months. That was after the breakup of an LTR. Eventually I made myself just get out there. I think today there are too many online outlets that might make someone prolong a dry spell.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 12:56 AM
1

All the time. Hot girls intimidate most guys. The best way to approach is being confident. If you act like you don't want to fuck her you can get to fuck her.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 02:52 AM
2

I'm nearly 6'3" so I only dated one woman taller than me. She was 6'4", I have to admit it was weird. If she did not wear heels most was fine but if she wore heels it felt super weird kissing or even holding hands.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 08:24 PM
1

Go to a reputable doctor to have your T-levels checked. Most men are fine. There is fluctuation from day to day. As you age it drops too. Getting medicine you don't need can be dangerous not only baldness and testicle shrinkage but prostate cancer. Many prostate cancers are driven by T-levels and it's certainly not worth risking a life threatening disease on pseudoscience, go to a reputable endocrinologist or urologist.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 06:00 AM
1

I think college is a good idea. Statistically the pay is better if you have a degree. That is not to say there are not good paying non college jobs but those usually require a skill. I am in a science field so advanced degrees are necessary. I would go if you can but save an pay as you go, I did and had no debt. I do realize it was far easier to afford back in my time. Get a degree in a field that has growth and earning potential.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 05:51 AM
2

Turning exes into plates is workable. I have had a few exes who I just had mostly sexual relationships with when we were together. After a breakup getting back with them can be satisfying. One I remember in particular. I had one woman, I took her virginity, I was 23 she was 19. When she was in her mid 20s I was almost 30. She was looking for the "one" essentially a betabux. I always seemed to have a week or two of crazy three times a day sex every year or so with her. She used to call me and sta…
/r/askTRP10/11/17 05:05 AM
1

I think you need to stop the LTR. If she was a plate having other women would be fine you can too. She might be seeing your reaction to test the waters for poly or a threesome.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 04:35 PM
2

That's not normal. Go to the doctor. Tell him everything. Could be low T or something neurological. Get to the doctor!
/r/askTRP06/11/17 09:55 PM
1

Pictures are memories. Never start just looking at them and imagining getting back with her. But as you age it's nice to have pictures to look at. I have pictures of girls I dated or had sex with 35+ years ago. Once in a great while it's nice to see them, some are great memories or of trips or fun events. The one really funny feeling was looking at this girl I used to hook up with in the early 80s, I even have one nude Polaroid. I ran into her last month with her grandchildren in tow, that was a…
/r/askTRP06/11/17 09:47 PM
3

Do not get married. Theoretically the house is yours but if you have kids she can claim the need for a home for the kids. Even if you don't get married watch common law statues in the United States. There's only a handful of states that still recognize them but you could live in one of those.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 09:28 PM
1

The best advice I heard here is lawyer up ASAP!! You said you consulted. Try to get around town and get free consults from all the attorneys specializing in divorce it means they can't take her on as a client since it's conflict of interest. Follow the lawyers advice scrupulously. One fact in your favor is she unilaterally moved out, that will be of some help in keeping the house. Not being married long or having kids is another plus. If she left any wacky messages, voicemails, texts, etc. keep …
/r/askTRP06/11/17 09:03 PM
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I can see the allure of this. I have had LTRs and had this wonderful dynamic. But be careful living together has booby traps. If something goes wrong you're stuck in a place with her. If you move into her place and keep your own this can be great. I am older (50s) and like quiet times with a LTR myself. I am lucky that I am well off and have multiple properties. I keep one house completely to myself, a woman is not even allowed there.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 08:36 PM
1

I know I'm as old as dirt. There was no electronic way to get girls,when I was in college and grad school. I was lucky in that I am not shy, looked good, and took opportunities when I found them. One of the best places I found in college wasn't the bar (of course you could score there a lot) it was classes, campus buses, or even the library. Just being confident to talk to a hot girl worked then. If it was class, you could bullshit about homework and actually do the assignment then get laid. The…
/r/askTRP26/10/17 06:42 PM
1

It's actually worth driving across the border ASAP to get tested here. Watch sticking your cock in crazy, it doesn't end well. Always wear a condom too!
/r/askTRP26/10/17 05:50 PM
1

Get rid of her ASAP. Only exception is if you did something really bad to her and she didn't deserve it, then give her a week if she still pays silent dump her.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 05:46 PM
2

You're playing with dynamite here! The most obvious risk is pregnancy. You want to ALWAYS wear a condom with non LTRs and most of the time with LTRs. Even if a girl isn't trying to get pregnant, biology 101, sperm finds egg, congrats you're a dad! Then there are STDs. Just because you've been lucky so far doesn't mean it's going to last. I have a vasectomy and will go without in an LTR if we both get checked out medically she knows about the vasectomy. Of course it feels better but 18-22 years o…
/r/askTRP26/10/17 05:40 PM
1

I see both men and women addicted to social media. So,ex are worse than others. I'm far older than most in her 50s M. I do use social media for some business bad it has uses with women. But it's like being out of your body online. It's a necessary evil in the 2-zest century.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 04:22 AM
1

Guy is just a dick, no guy should talk like that it's just rude. But you should not think long term. She's just your current girlfriend, you'll have others in the future. If he's enough of a shithead and keeps doing it to you just say to him "I think you are the guy she calls speedy, I can see why you ask about her, don't worry I'll keep your secret".
/r/askTRP14/10/17 01:28 PM
1

Unless he is starts bothering you or affecting your life, I say ignore the guy. I have seen many leeches and freeloaders in my life. I remember one guy I lived with in college. He mostly paid his bills, when he was late on them I would get on him. Otherwise he paid one third of the apartment so I loved cheaper. After I graduated I got my own apartment. This guy lived as a roommate for years, even got disability, I think it was a scam. But a couple of years ago I heard about him. He lives in a re…
/r/askTRP13/10/17 07:01 PM
3

Get far away and fast. There is no way this ends well. Husband could go after you, she could go after you for child support if marriage breaks up bad you have money. Just don't do it.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 01:37 AM
1

Marriage is a trap for men. I'm in my 50s I've never been married, I've contemplated it a couple of times but I realize I'd just be making myself vulnerable, I'm very successful and earned my wealth. I can have sex with many difference women any time I want. I have had LTRs. I do not want children and eventually got a vasectomy so I wouldn't have to worry about an accident. I do worry about old age a little but my wealth protects me to a certain extent. I have seem my peers get married, many hav…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 02:04 AM
1

I LOVE hairy pussies, they need to make a comeback.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 12:48 AM
1

I like this question. I am social and extroverted but on my terms. I need alone time too. In fact I made sure I bought a quiet isolated house I can completely retreat to. I have one room I will entertain in and a bedroom I will have sex in but I prefer away games. My job demands a sharp mind so I have a home gym and good kitchen for food. I have a housekeeper who keeps my place clean. My favorite socializing is away from home. Then I can come back and just be myself and live in my bear cave.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 12:46 AM
1

I think you have to have experience before ever even thinking of settling down. Don't put women on a pedestal. You have to get out there and just enjoy sex with many different women, build your career and wealth. I personally never got tied down and have no children. I'm in my 50s and I'm happier than the vast majority of friends my age. Many have divorces and kids that drive them crazy. I have had LTRs but no marriage, it's a license to lose your life savings. I am in complete control of my who…
/r/askTRP05/10/17 12:40 AM
0

Take put your phone and start recording them. FaceTime with a friend and drop lines like "these men are recording me without my consent, I realize it's in public but I want a record of them in case they are planning criminal behavior". I have had it happen, I'm not as fit as you but big and somewhat intimidating. I usually ask them politely to stop, and it works. The one time it didn't, I was with a girl who started filming the two guys using the lines I suggested, it freaked them out. She state…
/r/askTRP02/10/17 01:32 AM
1

"I would never have went out with you. You're not my type, then or now"
/r/askTRP02/10/17 01:23 AM
1

Go to the doctor get meds against inflammation. You're going it have to rest it. I know that sucks. When I was younger I ran a lot and if I tried to power through some injuries I regretted invariably you injure it worse and are sidelined even longer.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 04:49 PM
2

As long as you're not getting deeper in than you want this is harmless. I'm in my 50s most of the woman I'm with at 20+ years younger than me, actually young enough to be my daughter so I get called daddy sometimes, if it's not to manipulate me I'm ok with it.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 03:57 PM
1

The doctor will ask you if you have noticed any changes. You would mention less desire for sex. Among the tests would be the ordinary physical vital signs, BP, heart rate, temperature, and reflexes. I will not lie they will examine your genitals. Looking for abnormalities such as lumps etc. I do believe a digital rectal exam might be on the list, I don't like them either but they can save your life. I think blood work will be taken. A followup visit will be when they give you results. It's worth…
/r/askTRP24/09/17 05:00 AM
2

I would go to the doctor just for a checkup. You want to make sure you're healthy. If you get a clean bill of health it's your life and live it as you see fit.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 03:04 PM
1

I see the homophobic trolls have been busy. Just keep doing the right thing. Ignore the assholes.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 12:25 AM
1

Kudos for taking your brother in. I cannot believe that in 2017 people still have a problem with sexuality. If I had a child and he/she told me they were gay, I would say, be who you are, be proud, don't let anyone ever bully you.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 09:12 PM
2

I think Vasily put it best. I'm in my mid 50s. I'm successful and I am in complete control of my wealth and life. The risks of divorce are way too high to chance it. I do not want children. I am master of my life and it feels awesome. Sex with different women younger than myself is perhaps the best thing in life. I travel to so many places. In some ways it is a dream life. Recently I gave thought about the one potential downside. The thing I sometimes worry about is aging. Longevity runs in my f…
/r/askTRP19/09/17 05:06 PM
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Hopefully she us not ready to be a parent and will either get an abortion or go for adoption. Make sure she jones you're not financially well off and she and the child would have little help. But don't be naive she could seek child support, if she does definitely get a lawyer who specializes in paternity and make her have a DNA test. Good luck!
/r/askTRP19/09/17 01:33 AM
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The advice given is sound. Possibly taking extra courses in the subject area and making sure you ace them is critical.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 01:27 AM
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I had a vasectomy 3 years ago. Best thing I ever did. Surgery was uncomfortable but not painful. I don't want children and being in my 50s convinced me it was time to do it, also an I caught an LTR planning an "accident". Sex feels exactly the same, orgasms and ejaculations exactly the same. Women never realize anything is different, my cum looks, smells, and tastes the same. I get a sperm count every year to assure there is no recanalization. I have piece if mind that I can never be tricked int…
/r/askTRP19/09/17 01:21 AM
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Interesting angle. I would say a physiological need like food, water, shelter. In a pinch themed can be satisfied by masturbation, not as good as women just like if needed one could eat protein bars to stay alive but prefer a steak.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 01:13 AM
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My advice is break up. I would never stay in a long term relationship if sex was used as a tool to manipulate. Personally oral, both giving and receiving, is essential. I realize in an LTR there's some drama but only stay in if your needs are met.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 01:09 AM
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Obviously work towards independence and being your own man. But realize quality family time is important. You'll have your own life but keep good contact with the folks. There will come a time when they will be gone and believe me you'll miss them.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 01:51 AM
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Being older means I didn't start using texting for game until I was old, like in my 40s old. I hated it at first and women did not seem to mind that I hated it, I'd like meeting in real life or talking on the phone. As smart phones came in I got to see some value in texts. I will never have a "text relationship" where the woman and I constantly text but I use it sparingly to set up a meet up. It amazes me how many times I discover a girl has a husband or significant other, texting is a great way…
/r/askTRP15/09/17 09:07 PM
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You make a good point. I have seen other girls with daddy issues. Since I'm older and date women 20+ years younger I know I'm at risk of that type of dynamic.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 05:07 PM
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I believe a woman can have a father who is estranged and not affect them. I remember an LTR whose father was a complete asshole. She tried to be a good daughter but this guy was a jerk. Her mom died young. My LTR was sweet and tried. One time we were visiting him to help him, he was partially disabled, he was abusive to her bad then me. I calmly told him neither of us would ever help you again if you act like that. Sometimes people have shitty parents male or female.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 04:18 PM
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If you have any debt especially credit cards pay them off.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 05:44 AM
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I am sure it was not new to her. She was very comfortable with sex. I like a woman who knows how to have fun.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 12:43 AM
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Just embrace it. I get a #1 buzzcut at the barbers, I have no ridiculous prep time every morning. I own my look and don't give a shit if a woman cares. I have never heard a woman say they wished I had long locks.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 03:21 AM
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Blowjob with swallowing watching tv on our first date. Wanted to try new things like anal, BDSM, role playing. Grabbing my cock everywhere.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 07:25 AM
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I never would marry with a license, too much risk. I'm ok if in a private non binding marriage they kept their name. One girl I had an LTR with started using my last name.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 07:17 AM
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Only happened to me a couple. Complete cutoff of contact. No anger. Usually the women are desperate to get back with me. I have slept with one of their friends, that makes them crazy jealous.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 07:13 AM
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You have to stand up for yourself without being crazy. Learn the game better. Tell off someone who says you suck. I grew up in a rough neighborhood, if someone was a victim their life was hell. I was picked on a couple of times and fought back hard even the fights I lost earned me respect. I was fortunate that by high school I was pretty big and people rarely fucked with me. But don't become a bully yourself, I have found bullies to be insecure and in adulthood total losers. The meanest bully fr…
/r/askTRP27/08/17 07:07 AM
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In my experience no. I have been with flirty girls who were not wild in bed. Conversely the wildest girl I ever fucked was shy and timid, looked like a librarian.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 06:58 AM
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I would seek out a professional speech therapist. They are trained to assist and will help you gain confidence. Good luck.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 05:12 AM
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No that does not happen. Don't believe all the bullshit. Labia shapes and sizes are not affected by sex any more than a man's penis size is by having sex. I actually cannot believe information line this is even debated.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 05:14 AM
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I say tell the truth or at least don't lie. You could just say you don't want to get involved in someone else's marriage. I am betting this guy knows what going on and does not want to face it.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 06:16 PM
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I find exes are great for NSA sex. You know what makes each other hot. You already know that you are not going to slide into a new relationship. Just meet bang and have fun.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 07:29 AM
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I admire you for wanting to pay your own bills. Your mom sounds like she is afraid to give up control. I can understand in today's world getting out on your own is harder than it was when I was younger but after you get your degree get out. I am sure your mom is just trying to be a good parent but I know many people who are in their 30s and still living with their parents. Living on your own even in a shitty studio apartment helps you become more focused. You feel a sense of power and independen…
/r/askTRP27/07/17 08:46 AM
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The only real male protection except celibacy is a vasectomy. Going every year to get your sperm count checked after the vasectomy just to make sure there has not been a recanalization is important. Never get married. I still think condoms are a good idea for STD protection. I believe in being up front with women. But I could see the friend in this story having an interesting tables are turned scenario if he can say to the girl "I am so happy for you having a baby, who is the father since I am s…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 07:49 AM
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Break off all contact with this woman. Your first time has to be with the right woman. Find a girl that is shy and inexperienced as well it will go better fir you. Good luck!
/r/askTRP14/07/17 04:32 AM
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I think the option of having her help you on the plane is a good one. I'm a scientist and have dated many geeky girls. If you are genuine and fun I bet she will be fun. Doing something that's technical is appealing to geeks like us. Maybe you play it cool but watch body language. I think a second date at your place will be a slam dunk. Good luck!
/r/askTRP14/07/17 03:25 AM
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Being cool is being comfortable with yourself and not giving a damn what people think. If you like something, be proud. Personally cool to me has changed over the years but I like sports, science, museums, travel, and working with my hands. I don't give a crap what a woman or another man for that matter thinks of my interests.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 05:48 AM
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I think she is playing you. Best thing is to consult a lawyer who specializes in this field. Keep all contact evidence, texts, emails, etc. You want to be ahead of any attempt to get child support. Vasectomy was the best decision I ever made.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 05:36 AM
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The market is the single best long term method to accumulate wealth. Of course it crashes and booms. But let's take a 40-50 year horizon. The best strategy is if you have a 401k at the job max it out, not getting the matching money is like giving up a 50% increase in your investment. Buy index funds and just keep in in the market, you'll gain and lose, gain and lose but over 40 years you'll see a 8-10% annualized yield. When your in your mid to late 50s like I am start moving some of your money …
/r/askTRP21/06/17 01:30 AM
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I would consult with a lawyer to be safe.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 02:05 PM
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I am glad to hear someone wants to hear from us older guys. I am in my 50s, have been successful due to some luck and a lot of hard work. I never got married but have had LTRs. I have experienced drama but luckily escaped any real harm. I am fortunate to have so many experiences especially with women. I did have the luck of the draw in some ways, I grew up working class in a rough neighborhood, but in my teens got to model, the money was very good, I saved it then used it to go to college and th…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 02:40 AM
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I think vasectomy is the way to go. Bank sperm when young and healthy in case you may want children. Keep getting sperm tests every year to make sure there was no recanalization. If hit with a paternity suit attack it proactively. Much easier to argue that you're not the father before birth with a valid zero sperm report. Keep a lawyer on file who specializes in this field. I believe if a woman knows before birth there is no chance a child is able to be attributed to a particular man, there will…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 02:52 AM
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That's an amazing statistic! I never knew that. Was there a reputable research study?
/r/askTRP31/05/17 12:17 AM
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Please seek help if you truly feel suicidal. That's serious. Go to the ER if needed. Get out of your house, exercise, have fun, enjoy life. Do you have a father or father figure, turn to him. Good luck and be safe. You are worthy of happiness.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 02:13 AM
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Unfortunately you are a betabux. You are obviously successful and that is very commendable. Your girlfriend is way out of line, you cannot let her run your life. I would advise never getting married. I do get the heir aspect though. I'm a bit older than you, I never had children, in fact I got a vasectomy. I am in good health and longevity runs in my family. But I would like to leave a legacy behind. I grew up poor and I know my dad was very pleased I was successful and mom was too. I think abou…
/r/askTRP25/05/17 02:03 AM
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Education is important. I know there are the stories of people who made it after dropping out but statistically the highest income goes to the best educated. Patience is the key, I have read of some younger guys who have achieved success and kudos to them. But my success took some time. I grew up working class in a rough neighborhood. I was lucky though, I was good at school, I was an athlete but had a knack for math and science. I put myself through college, no loans just scholarships and jobs.…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 02:38 AM
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Amen, life is sweet after 55 if you are successful and did not let anyone run your life.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 06:05 PM
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Technology cannot replace real sex, I could never in a million years find this better than a flesh and blood woman. Maybe I'm just old lol.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 04:05 PM
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Go for the vasectomy. I heard about vasagel over 10 years ago, I have a feeling it will get here eventually but it will take even more time. Freezing some sperm is a good idea, you're young and could change your mind. But I would not mention freezing to a doctor because they are going to reticent to give you a vasectomy to begin with and saving sperm indicates hesitation. I would try planned parenthood for the vasectomy they can hr find a doctor for a younger guy. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 03:58 PM
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You're wise for not doing it. You never know how it plays out with an extended family. It would be a huge pain to have every Thanksgiving and Christmas be drama. There are always more girls.
/r/askTRP15/05/17 04:06 PM
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Watch too much distilled water. It can throw off your electrolyte balance and deny you needed minerals. Small amounts when supplemented by spring water are ok but large amounts could be dangerous.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 01:12 AM
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jagerlion, you sound level headed and not likely to make rash decisions you may eventually regret. Work towards success, I do not like money for money's sake. I actually live modestly for my means. I see wealth as giving me even more freedom. I do not answer to any woman and will retire early and not answer to any boss after that. It is important to have people you can trust and whom you care about and they care about you. No man is an island. But if you are master of your life you'll be happier…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 02:41 AM
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Dookiestain_LaFlair, I believe you are probably a troll. So this is my last response to you. FDR was a great president, not perfect but helped end a depression and win a world war. My grandfather who died in 1943 would attest to that. If you think Hitler winning the war would have been positive you are a deluded pathetic mad man. Looking at your posts I see now you are a tiny little loser who probably lives in his parents basement. I am sure you never served. I am seeing what my friends my age t…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 10:38 PM
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I feel compelled to reply to you. Your views are reprehensible, bigoted, and racist. I have only been on reddit for around one year. I am in my 50s, I remember the 60s as a child, terrible times, horrible events, Birmingham, JFK, MLK, and RFK assassinated. I will NEVER see another human being as inferior, never be party to what you represent. Your "race realism" sounds a hell of a lot like Nazism... I may be many things, self absorbed, privileged, or even an old fool. I served my country honorab…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 10:08 PM
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I hate racism. I do not see it as a red pill or blue pill problem. People who evaluate another simply by their race, ethnic group, or religion are wrong. Male or female. I am willing to concede I may not have the most clear, informed, or unbiased view of this. I am (50sM), WASP, upper middle/lower upper class (I grew up working class). My partners have spanned the entire possible spectrum of race, ethnicity, faith, and socio-economic level. I am also from the NYC area, perhaps the most diverse p…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 09:26 PM
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Being older I only started looking reading reddit last year. I think I have a different perspective than some on here just because I think I am older than most on here, (50sM). I now know I'm pretty much a red pill, but obviously I cannot agree with everything TRP espouses. I am quite successful, I work hard, invested wisely, and earned multiple degrees. I own three houses, using two as investments. I have never been married but have had exclusive relationships. I never decided to get married be…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 12:21 AM
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Tits and face. I LOVE tits, I have a fetish for natural saggy pendulous boobs. I love watching them sway. I love a pretty face, especially the mouth for sucking my cock. Age: 50s Ethnicity: WASP Location: NYC Pill (Not very versed in the pill debate) SES: Upper Middle, Lower Upper (grew up working class)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 05:52 AM
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I do not believe in a double standard. I have no problem with a woman who was promiscuous previously and would never judge or slut shame her. I just want her to be faithful to me when we are together. I have been incredibly promiscuous when single but I am proud to say that when I'm in a relationship I'm monogamous. I have only been cheated on twice but I never cheated. I am however very against marriage. I believe in monogamy but would never risk my substantial hard earned assets in any way. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 05:11 AM
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I totally agree with you. I found out a significant other was planning an "accident" and went and got snipped ASAP. I did not tell her and if she ever tries to give me the "I'm late, we need to get married" speech I'm kicking her out and showing her my negative sperm count report. I get checked periodically to be sure there was no recanalization but I would feel confident in my lack of paternity. BTW I still wear condoms religiously.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 11:30 PM
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I am new to the concept of incel, if I'm not mistaken it means involuntarily celibate? Can I ask have you ever had sex? You don't want to have your first be this girl.
/r/askTRP
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Don't be an idiot and open condom boxes with a pin! It's like lighting a match to check how much gas is in a can.
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